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Speaker 1: We're going to Portland this morning, and we have got

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Allison on the line. She's having a problem with her

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husband Tom. She thinks he's cheating. She wants answers, and

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so it's were the Roses time.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it all right? Good morning Alison, Hi, good morning, Hey.

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Thanks thanks for reaching out to us.

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Speaker 1: I certainly hope that we can help you get some

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answers about your husband's behavior.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I hope so.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, tell us what's going on? Why do

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you want to be on more of the Roses.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think my husband is cheating on me. And

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the reason is because for the last several months, my

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husband has been leaving super early on Saturday mornings and

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then he doesn't come back until early evening. Okay, okay,

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And he says, oh, I was running errands.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But his excuse for being gone all day every

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Saturday is he's running errands.

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Speaker 3: Yes. So, not too long ago, I received a call

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from a man who wouldn't tell me his his name,

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but he's the ex husband of a woman named Wendy. Okay,

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and he told me that on Saturday I should drivee

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by Wendy's house and he gave me her address, and

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so I drove by Wendy's house last Saturday and my

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husband cars was in the driveway.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, okay, so what did you do?

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What did you do? I?

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Speaker 3: I rang the bell and there was no answer. So

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I came home that night and I asked my husband

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about it, and he told me that friend's sister needed

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her pipes to be fixed, and that's all what he

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was doing.

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Speaker 2: But he didn't he had a broken pipe, but he

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didn't answer.

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Speaker 3: The door because it was in the basement and he

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was fixing it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sure he was.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, I know the answer.

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Speaker 2: So can we just get to it.

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Speaker 1: I do have a bad feeling about it, but you

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never know. So do you know the drill for War

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of the Roses. We are just gonna call up Tom

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Allison and we're gonna, you know, off Hm Roses.

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Speaker 2: The florist is.

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Speaker 1: Going to try to get, if you know, get some

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information out of him if you can, and you're gonna

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be listening in at any point if you want to

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confront your husband, you can. If you don't feel comfortable,

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don't feel you have to, Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: Thanks, You're welcome. Hold on, I just feel sick about this.

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I like can't believe the whole setup, Like someone literally

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set her up to find out.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, Yes, I'm looking for a Tom.

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Speaker 2: Is Tom there?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: This is hi Tom.

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Speaker 4: This is Katie giving you a call from Flowers Express

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over in Portland.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing this morning?

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Speaker 5: Hey? Good? How are you good? Good?

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much for asking, just giving you a

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quick courtesy call this morning to let you know that

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you are the winner of our online weekly contest.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations.

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Speaker 5: Oh great, thanks, yeah, of course.

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Speaker 4: So if you are, if you aren't aware, you just

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want a dozen free roses courtesy of Flowers Express if

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you are willing to accept the prize. The only catch,

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I'll just be very upfront with you. We don't send

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them directly to you, but we will send them to

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someone on your behalf. So this way you look great.

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And then you know, the person gets the flowers and

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they're like, oh, these are beautiful flowers. Next time, I'll

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definitely use Flowers Express. And the next time you got

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to send flowers, you're gonna be like, oh, that person

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was really happy. I'm gonna use Flowers Express again. So

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just kind of.

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Speaker 2: Works for everybody.

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Speaker 5: You know, okay, okay, cool?

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Speaker 4: So are you down to accept them?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, awesome, fabulous.

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Speaker 4: Part of the prize is you do get a really

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pretty card. So I have a penrot here and I

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can take down a message for.

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Speaker 2: You if you would like.

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Speaker 5: Sure, Uh, just put on it. Let's lay low for

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a while.

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Speaker 2: Is that it is? Do you want to put anything

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else in the card?

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Speaker 5: To Wendy? Oh?

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Speaker 2: To Wendy. Ye okay, Wendy.

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Speaker 3: Uh really, Tom, Wendy, Wendy Blue Tom, I have to

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jump in.

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Speaker 2: This is Cordy from Kiss in the Morning. The florist

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is Savannah Walmer.

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Speaker 1: Jeff is here. You're on the radio. You're on War

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of the Roses, and that is your wife, Allison. Allison.

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Speaker 2: He sent the roses to Wendy.

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Speaker 5: Tom.

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Speaker 3: Why couldn't you tell me the freaking truth?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I asked you on Saturday. I went there, you were there.

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Speaker 1: I knew it.

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Speaker 5: I knew it. Why couldn't you tell me the truth?

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Speaker 2: Huh?

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Speaker 3: Because obviously you've been kidding on me every Saturday.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, because you couldn't handle what the truth is? Okay,

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because obviously, as you can tell from right now, you're fragile, okay,

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and you would not have been able to handle me

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going to someone's house to help them with their plumbing. Okay,

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that's all I was doing. Why can't you just tell

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the truth. Why can't you just tell the truth You've.

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Speaker 1: Been coming out?

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Speaker 5: Why can't you just tell me the truth?

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Speaker 2: I'm with you, Allison on this one time.

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Speaker 1: It makes absolutely no sense to write in the card, sorry,

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I have to lay low because you're fixing her plumbing.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he might have been fixing someone's fuming, but

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not in the sense that you know.

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Speaker 3: You can't even tell the truth when you're caught. Hu,

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who is this person? Who is Wendy?

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Speaker 5: Nothing personal? It's just a friend. It's something that a

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friend whilay low?

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Speaker 3: Why are you laying low?

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Speaker 2: Why are you sending her flowers?

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Speaker 5: Because I can tell you were getting close to me

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finding out ahead a friend and you can't handle that.

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You can't handle the fact that I have friends, and

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then I have female friends that that my needs as

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friends because you and I haven't been friends for a

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really long time. Well you can't handle that.

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Speaker 2: Well, what needs.

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Speaker 5: Companionship? Friendship? Doing? Doing helping somebody without you know, something

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nagging or bickering at you the entire time that you're

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not doing it.

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Speaker 2: White.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I don't even want to continue this anymore.

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I can tell how distraught you are, Alison. Tom, You're

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just gonna stick with your story that you're fixing her

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pipes or her plumbing and it's just a friend. But I, Alison,

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I think I think you've heard enough. I think we've

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heard enough. I'm going to just put leave you on

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hold for a second, Alison, because we do offer couples counseling,

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and we pay for it. So if it turns out

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that you want counseling or you guys want to go together,

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we're going to pay for it. But I think you

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have your I think you have enough answers, Allison.

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 5: I think that he needs to leave my house.

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Speaker 3: You need to get out of my house.

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Speaker 5: Tom, Okay, and you get.

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Speaker 3: Your stuff and you and you leave my house or

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I'm going to have your arrested. Okay, that's it. I

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need your stuff out by the lawn by noon, and

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that's it. I don't want anything to do with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm done, she's done.

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Speaker 1: I'm putting here I, Allison. I want you to hold

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on okay because I want to help you out. We'll

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talk off the air. Alison hold On