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<v Speaker 1>Hi, baby Booze, Welcome back to Vanity. Farah. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Chris Farah and I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Still on the road. However, I am bringing you ninety

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<v Speaker 2>Day Fiance. This is season twelve, episode fourteen on Borrowed Time,

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<v Speaker 2>which is exactly what's happening for me right now.

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<v Speaker 1>This will be a one.

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<v Speaker 2>Part episode as I am going to breeze through a

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<v Speaker 2>lot get this done. And just because I am in

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<v Speaker 2>New York and I have a very packed schedule, however,

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<v Speaker 2>I have had a lot of fun. If you guys know,

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<v Speaker 2>I went to New Orleans last week, I will tell

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<v Speaker 2>you right now that just so happens. When I was

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<v Speaker 2>in New Orleans, I thought maybe I would see Medo

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<v Speaker 2>and Debbie. Now, however, the ninety Day Universe does give,

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<v Speaker 2>and what they gave was at the same time I

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<v Speaker 2>was there, they're filming the Florida Couple spin off all

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<v Speaker 2>the people that live in Florida, like they're having their

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<v Speaker 2>own show.

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<v Speaker 1>Now as you know. So it's like Elise is there.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like Lauren.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's like, you know, y'are like all the

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<v Speaker 2>Florida peeps. So, having said that, while I was there,

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<v Speaker 2>I went vintage shopping and I'm in like a vintage

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<v Speaker 2>boutique off of Royale and I fully see Andrea and Lauren.

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<v Speaker 2>They walk right by me, and Lauren was like in

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<v Speaker 2>a heaven kind of situation because there's a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>like Chanel and Lanvon there, so she's like looking at

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<v Speaker 2>all of that, and she looks up at me like

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<v Speaker 2>smiling because she's looking at the jewelry, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, that's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>And when he looked at me, there's a moment where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, do people know who I am?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't talk about Laurena and Andre a lot on

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<v Speaker 2>this on this podcast. There are people are people, and

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<v Speaker 2>no one's completely evil and no one's completely great, but

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<v Speaker 2>they're just not for me for a variety of reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I wonder, though, if all of the ninety day universe,

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<v Speaker 2>people that want to be in the world, like know

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<v Speaker 2>the podcasters, like, do.

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<v Speaker 1>They know my face?

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<v Speaker 2>Because there was a moment where I'm like, I think

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<v Speaker 2>he knows who I am. However, maybe he doesn't. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>he was just like this girl's shopping. However, having said that,

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<v Speaker 2>I did have that moment, so I didn't say hi,

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<v Speaker 2>to them because I didn't want to, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Just it didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not for me, like I have to be in

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<v Speaker 2>a certain situation to a want to talk to someone

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<v Speaker 2>who doesn't I don't know very well, like my own socialness,

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<v Speaker 2>and also be I want to be able to I

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk to you, and that wasn't what was

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<v Speaker 2>happening there. However, I'm in now in New York, and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I'll see someone here too, wouldn't it be great? Maybe,

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<v Speaker 2>like every time I go somewhere I see like a

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<v Speaker 2>Nine Day cast member, I will talk to someone if.

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<v Speaker 1>I see them in New York, I've decided. But New

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<v Speaker 1>Orleans was fun. New York is great.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw my friend Brian's softie show. If you are

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast listener, if you ever listen to a podcast

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<v Speaker 2>called Growing Shade and now it's called Attitudes. Brian hosts

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<v Speaker 2>that with my friend Aaron Well, Aaron Gibson, and they're great.

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<v Speaker 2>They're very funny. They have that podcast. Ye also I

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<v Speaker 2>think co hosts Ask Corona. So in the podcast space

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<v Speaker 2>you might know Brian. He has a show off Broadway.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're listening to this, there's one week more. Definitely

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<v Speaker 2>go see it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great.

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<v Speaker 2>So all right, here we are, honeys, let's talk about

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<v Speaker 2>on borrow time.

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<v Speaker 1>We aren't we all are? I mean, who's not?

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<v Speaker 2>Just because I wish that time wasn't borrowed, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>like we definitely don't have control over it. Okay, Marissa

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<v Speaker 2>and Edward, So I am happy about the scene. She

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<v Speaker 2>is taking him to a bar class. She loves that bar, honey,

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<v Speaker 2>and he is in fact always sort of having to

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<v Speaker 2>infiltrate her like highly fem spaces like going to Kleinfeld's,

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<v Speaker 2>going to this bar class, like going you know, power

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<v Speaker 2>walking around in the neighborhood. She's always sort of like

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<v Speaker 2>making him, you know, forcefully enter her world. And I

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<v Speaker 2>would love to see her do something for him, like

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<v Speaker 2>enter his world or space or have to like allow

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<v Speaker 2>him to lead in an experience that he knows and

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<v Speaker 2>she's a visitor of, if that makes sense, Because I

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<v Speaker 2>think that there's something so interesting about seeing both people

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<v Speaker 2>of different cultures experience the otherness that they feel in

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<v Speaker 2>a space that the that their beloved beholds, if that

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<v Speaker 2>makes sense. So instance, right, she's teaching this bar class,

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<v Speaker 2>so obviously Edward's a fish out of water, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>so he's there and she's like, we get to see

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of what she's already done, controlling training, telling

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<v Speaker 2>him what to do, telling what to do. Don't use

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<v Speaker 2>these weights, don't use those weights. Oh you want to

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<v Speaker 2>use those weights. Those are stupid. You're making a stupid decision.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know. Listen to me. Which here and now

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<v Speaker 1>we can say if you've ever taken a plates or

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<v Speaker 1>bar class, that she's right. Of course, you know, there

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<v Speaker 1>is longer reps and it is very hard. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I love I miss bar classes. I love polates. Matt

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<v Speaker 2>really loved that kind of thing. It's funny because bar

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<v Speaker 2>classes were such a hot commodity with all of the

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<v Speaker 2>like cardio barn, the bar method and everything, and then

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<v Speaker 2>it's felt like it stopped. But we're sort of at

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<v Speaker 2>the tail end of the boutique fitness craze. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it feels like there's still a lot of people doing

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<v Speaker 2>heated classes. Like now that's the thing, like a heated class,

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<v Speaker 2>heated pilates, heated bar honey, heated yoga. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>as someone who like soul cycled her way into like

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<v Speaker 2>the mid auts, it is a different space.

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<v Speaker 1>So she thinks that everything is going well for them.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously they had a hard week last week and now

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<v Speaker 2>everything is going swimming late. That is like, what kind

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<v Speaker 2>of what's happening for a lot of couples. A lot

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<v Speaker 2>of the drama that we've been seeing suddenly, like the

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<v Speaker 2>past two weeks have been just great.

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<v Speaker 1>So they've been living their lives. Honey. She's like, we

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<v Speaker 1>even got a dog. I'm thinking that.

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<v Speaker 2>The dog will help improve the relationship. I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, that never works. What is that a baby?

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<v Speaker 1>Honey? Is that a band aid baby? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>that dog is? A band aid baby?

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<v Speaker 2>When people say stuff like that and you hear it,

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<v Speaker 2>aren't you just like, did you hear that too? You

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<v Speaker 2>think that this you think this animal is gonna improve

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<v Speaker 2>your relationship because like, what your relationship needs is this animal,

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<v Speaker 2>and the magic in love with this animal is not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna rub off and I'm sorry, it's not gonna run

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<v Speaker 2>out and you're just going to be stuck with the.

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<v Speaker 1>Person you don't already like.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, he gets a long hug from her,

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<v Speaker 2>so he's excited. He does his class. She's been teaching

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<v Speaker 2>for like twelve years.

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<v Speaker 1>Honey.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just a lot of white ladies, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>like middle aged ladies, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying. And he's just you know, at home.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's move on to Katie and Josh.

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<v Speaker 2>So, I mean, I'm gonna say about that bar class

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<v Speaker 2>he you know, it's hard for him.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, you're I told you'd be hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Dustly ends, okay, So because it's kind of like what else,

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<v Speaker 2>Like what's interesting that happens other than that? Is like

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<v Speaker 2>he was like I was gonna leave, and then they

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<v Speaker 2>have like a horrible date and then she gets mad

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<v Speaker 2>at the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's why.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh, she's just like I'll be annoying on

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<v Speaker 2>this date, like, don't bring up bad things, and he

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<v Speaker 2>just wants to talk about his feelings and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I told you have to do something. And then then

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<v Speaker 2>she gets patty because he didn't believe he didn't do

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<v Speaker 2>what she wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, I'm like all over the place. It's just that

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<v Speaker 1>she can't just enjoy her life.

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<v Speaker 2>She can't just like I would love an episode where

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<v Speaker 2>they like knowingly get her super stoned, like I need

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<v Speaker 2>to see this person fucking let go, Like what is

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<v Speaker 2>this person like when she isn't hyper controlling or isn't

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<v Speaker 2>trying to like make everyone do what she wants them

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<v Speaker 2>to do at all times. Can we get this person

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<v Speaker 2>like a Xanax bar for an episode and see what

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<v Speaker 2>it's like talk about xanx. Oh my god, guys, sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>this is ADHD ready for this in the ninety day world,

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna bring this up. Well, okay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>bring Okay, I know what I'll do. I'll bring this

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<v Speaker 2>up in transition. So there are two guys in the

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<v Speaker 2>ninety day universe that are going on TikTok lives and

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<v Speaker 2>they are ruining whatever faith we had in them. What

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<v Speaker 2>am I talking talking about? I'll tell you so. Rashid,

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<v Speaker 2>who we have grown to love, who we think is hilarious, great, fun, interesting, sweet, nice,

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<v Speaker 2>cannot get off. TikTok cannot do it. Is on honey

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok all day long. And he is like vulgar ref

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<v Speaker 2>He loves like mimicking moral sex or talking about pussy,

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<v Speaker 2>which God bless, I mean, so do I. But come on,

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<v Speaker 2>you know I'm saying like a lot. He's always like listening.

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<v Speaker 2>He's just he's not the person that we thought he was.

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<v Speaker 2>On the show, and he's been slipping in to people's dms.

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<v Speaker 2>What kind of people, female people? What is he doing

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<v Speaker 2>asking for pictures? So that's one thing where it's like

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<v Speaker 2>and the reason why I actually had brought this up,

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<v Speaker 2>and I should have brought up this moment first and

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<v Speaker 2>then moved on to Rashid. But you know, God Bless

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<v Speaker 2>is that Andrea of Libyan Andrea has also been on

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok Live basically begging for money. And what he looks

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<v Speaker 2>like is someone who has definitely done all the.

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<v Speaker 1>Xanax bars in Florida. Like he looks.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely zoned out, zonkeed out. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, give Marissa some of that. So that's what

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna transition is that he needs to take Xanax.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, she needs to take Xanax.

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<v Speaker 2>Andre has some Andre has been like weird on TikTok

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<v Speaker 2>and they are obviously grifter losers who just want to

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<v Speaker 2>ask for money, and you are just relying on for.

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<v Speaker 1>Some reason enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Online fans to give them like three dollars to like

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<v Speaker 2>a mass enough money for the month, which is God Bless.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to guess I guess. I guess I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to do the same thing, ha ha ha, but in

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<v Speaker 2>a different way. So and then of course Rash being

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<v Speaker 2>gross online. So those are the two dudes ruining our lives. However,

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<v Speaker 2>let's move on to you know, to our peeps. Did

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<v Speaker 2>Mal write rash sheet? We are they on this episode?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, they weren't. That's why I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>transition to them. They're not on this episode. Okay, sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>my loves. However, you know who is Katie and Josh.

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<v Speaker 2>So we start with the GoPro of them bicycle riding.

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<v Speaker 1>She looks cute.

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<v Speaker 2>She's wearing like a black leather jacket and like a

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<v Speaker 2>straight laid, straight leg jean, which you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know is in and I wish I could also run.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like it's so hard for me to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Jean shopping, Like, is there anything worse than having to

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<v Speaker 1>For some reason?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is like that so much harder than a dress

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<v Speaker 2>experience in store which almost never happens in twenty twenty six,

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<v Speaker 2>to really get something done with a lot of patience

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<v Speaker 2>and a lot of compassion for myself, and really do

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<v Speaker 2>I have that?

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<v Speaker 1>I need jeans?

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<v Speaker 2>However, you know Katie, I want to give her a

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<v Speaker 1>She looks cute. They set up a picnic, so this

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<v Speaker 1>is adorable, a Portland picnic.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, we know what she wants to do.

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<v Speaker 2>She wants to come in hot with her want of

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<v Speaker 2>the day, and that is to be in an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's proud of herself and she feels like she

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<v Speaker 2>can ask for this because she has had one night,

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<v Speaker 2>one good moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Where she has.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's like, guess what for my bachelorette party that

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<v Speaker 1>which was a funeral.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't make out with anyone. I didn't even ask to.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get black out drunk, so anyway I would.

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<v Speaker 2>And he actually did get drunk, and he got drunk

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<v Speaker 2>because he was watching the news and then sort of

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure time when this was happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm assuming it's the height of ice and

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<v Speaker 2>all that stuff, which is still happening, But you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying, when there was, I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 2>started to internalize a lot of like anxiety and fear,

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<v Speaker 2>which I understand as an immigrant and not knowing if

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<v Speaker 2>he's welcome or wanted here in America. And she listens

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<v Speaker 2>to this with what feels like the empathy of a shoehorn.

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<v Speaker 2>None of this is what she wants to hear because

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<v Speaker 1>She wants him to.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulate her on her excellent behavior so she can come

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<v Speaker 2>and strong with what she wants to do. But instead

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<v Speaker 2>she sets up this picnic and he's like, wah, wah,

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<v Speaker 2>America hates me. And so she knows it's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be like, uh oh, well, unrelated. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>be like always fucking.

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<v Speaker 1>Just you, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So she really has a lot of awkward, like fun

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<v Speaker 2>face moments where she listens to him and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry you feel that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Because she doesn't want to have to. It doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>She is a selfish person. She's she's in her mind

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<v Speaker 2>in such a way that she's focused on herself. It's

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<v Speaker 2>very difficult for her to feel empathy or put herself

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<v Speaker 2>in another person's shoes. So for her to really sit

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<v Speaker 2>in Josh's like pain is not something that I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like she's probably ever done. It feels like she just

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<v Speaker 2>acknowledges it, sees it from her like vantage point, and

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<v Speaker 2>then like makes whatever kind of awkward you know, methodical comment.

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<v Speaker 2>She can say that like bridges her understanding of her

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<v Speaker 2>experience with whatever he said, and then move on so

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<v Speaker 2>that she doesn't have to like enjoy the awkwardness much longer,

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<v Speaker 2>if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>And again she's on cloud nine, just like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>fun night, She's like, I had such a blast writing

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<v Speaker 2>around a limma with my girls, and he's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I literally thought that you were gonna call

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<v Speaker 2>me and say, HOPI fell on someone's face.

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<v Speaker 1>He does like an impression of.

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<v Speaker 2>Her, which is always like my favorite thing to hear

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<v Speaker 2>someone who has an accent, specifically do an impression of

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<v Speaker 2>someone else. Always so great, right anytime, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>love accents, but if I find someone with an accent

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<v Speaker 2>that I feel like I have some sort of camaraderie with,

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<v Speaker 2>at some point I'll be like, can you do me?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I can do you or not, but like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>specifically with a British person or whatever. I'll just be like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is what you sound like, and I'll do whatever

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<v Speaker 2>best I can be like, now you do me. It's

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<v Speaker 2>so fun. It's so fun to hear someone with an

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<v Speaker 2>in this case, and I'm American, right, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh okay, and it was almost like a brief moment

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<v Speaker 2>of humor from him.

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<v Speaker 1>Made me happy.

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<v Speaker 2>He feels like trust has been rebuilt because of her

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<v Speaker 2>one night, and I think that's why. She's like, great,

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<v Speaker 2>that sounds great, she says. When he talks about his

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<v Speaker 2>like sort of feelings about what's happening in America, she says,

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<v Speaker 2>what can I do to make you feel more welcome?

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<v Speaker 2>And then he says, thank you so much, thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for asking, And I love that I can be vulnerable

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<v Speaker 2>around you.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, oh, yeah, that's great. Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is? Though? I wish I could be vulnerable

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<v Speaker 1>around you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that you feel like the way around me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I love that I've made that.

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<v Speaker 1>Space really comfortable and open for you.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'll tell you what, I don't feel that from

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<v Speaker 2>you because I want to be able to tell you

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<v Speaker 2>something and I don't want you.

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<v Speaker 1>To get upset. He's like, oh no, he's literally in

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<v Speaker 1>a land minefield.

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<v Speaker 2>He realizes that he thought he was sitting down for

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<v Speaker 2>a picnic, but he stepped upon a motherfucking landmine. He's like, Ah,

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<v Speaker 2>what the fuck is or something you want to say

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<v Speaker 2>to me that you feel awkward or uncomfortable about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Somehow it's my fault about is that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry? So I picking up?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you're saying you need to express something

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<v Speaker 2>that you don't want to talk about. That is somehow

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<v Speaker 2>my fault for making you feel bad about what is?

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<v Speaker 1>It? Can't wait? So she like lays it out.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, you know how we're getting married and you

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<v Speaker 2>know how that thing where it's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>because I can't imagine limiting my experiences in life.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like what. She's like, you know, it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get married to you. Love you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just that in the future, I can't imagine always

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<v Speaker 2>saying no to like every pair of lips that crosses

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<v Speaker 2>my way.

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<v Speaker 1>For the rest of my life. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, yeah, I mean, I know what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like we're getting married. It's like, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to get married because I want to settle

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<v Speaker 2>down and have them kids, have a family, have a home,

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<v Speaker 2>do the things that, like, you know, what will make

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<v Speaker 2>me feel quote unquote normal or part of the world,

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<v Speaker 2>or feel like I did it. I feel a little

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<v Speaker 2>less than humankind. Sometimes my name is Josh, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I allow things that I feel like, you know, other

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<v Speaker 2>people wouldn't. But it's because I'm trying to get to

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<v Speaker 2>the end. And the end is like some sort of

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<v Speaker 2>life where I have a wife and a house and

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<v Speaker 2>a child, and so I've done it, Like that's what

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<v Speaker 2>makes me feel like a winner.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Josh. And she's like, you know what makes me

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a winner.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Katie, like making out with whoever I want to

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<v Speaker 2>make out life And he's like, those feel incongruent. But

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<v Speaker 2>he met her doing the thing that she wanted to do,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't remember hearing from her lips ever, anything

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<v Speaker 2>about can't like wanting to settle, why to have a home,

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<v Speaker 2>why to have kids. It's like, yeah, he just he

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<v Speaker 2>put on her all the things that he wants. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't feel like she wants it, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>he knows she doesn't want it, which makes me feel

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<v Speaker 2>weird about that he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Not picking up those cues.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny because every time he's in a confessional, Josh

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<v Speaker 2>will like be very direct. He'll be like, Katie starts

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<v Speaker 2>telling me that she wants to be in an open

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<v Speaker 2>relationship and that's never what it's been like, and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>never be in an open relationship. That's crazy. And then

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<v Speaker 2>we get a shot of Josh, like at the picnic

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<v Speaker 2>with her being like, so, what you're saying is you

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if you want to commit monogamously. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>this was monogamous and she's like, well, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's Katie blinking like that. It's like he

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<v Speaker 2>he can have the propensity to be direct. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if it's just the twenty twenty hindsight after he

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<v Speaker 2>processes what happens in the moment and he realizes that

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<v Speaker 2>his point of view is valid to him enough that

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<v Speaker 2>he feels like he can put ten toes down, but

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<v Speaker 2>in the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't know if he's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it's such an interesting change from the Josh And again,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not that he's like super demanding in the confessionals,

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<v Speaker 2>but there's a marketed change in how direct and assertive

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<v Speaker 2>he is for him boundaries in the confessional afterward than

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<v Speaker 2>when we ever see him talk to Katie. Right, I

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<v Speaker 2>just wonder to give you guys pick up on that too. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Meto and Debbie, I am so said. I didn't run

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<v Speaker 2>into Meto and Debbie Honey and New Orleans. And at

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<v Speaker 2>the same time, I do feel like I walked by

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<v Speaker 2>this cooking class school. So that's what's happening. Their fun

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<v Speaker 2>thing is now we're supposed to believe, Honey that they're

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<v Speaker 2>also doing great. Don't worry, they're great.

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<v Speaker 1>They're going to this cooking class.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's like, we're gonna make Marcone and I have

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<v Speaker 2>For a moment, I'm like, oh my god. She's like

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<v Speaker 2>marcroo and pasta spaghetti, and so I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, they're going to an.

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<v Speaker 1>Egyptian cooking class in New Orleans, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, how interesting, because that is the

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<v Speaker 2>thing that I kind of want sometimes for ninety day

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<v Speaker 2>fiancee to do, which is also involved the American in

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<v Speaker 2>doing something that's culturally representative of the of the foreigner,

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<v Speaker 2>so that we see both sides of the fish out

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<v Speaker 2>of water. That's kind of what I was saying with

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<v Speaker 2>Edward and Marissa, right, like, we have an experience Marissa

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<v Speaker 2>in an Edward space, and obviously you know you have

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<v Speaker 2>to find one and whatever means that is now. For

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<v Speaker 2>a moment, I was like, oh, yeah, they.

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<v Speaker 1>Found an Egyptian space where they're going to make Egyptian food.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not the case.

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<v Speaker 2>So once I realize that, I'm like, oh, she just

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<v Speaker 2>said that there is an Egyptian dish called Marconi bechamel

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<v Speaker 2>or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's literally pasta.

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<v Speaker 2>It's elbow macaroni and like lentils and like a tomato sauce.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes Arabs do like a version of Arab kind of

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<v Speaker 2>Mediterranean kind of pasta e or like pizza e food.

424
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<v Speaker 2>It's always the pizzas are different, but lapasta is always

425
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<v Speaker 2>kind of interesting. I'm not a big fan of like

426
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<v Speaker 2>levinine or Arab pasta dishes.

427
00:20:40.519 --> 00:20:46.240
<v Speaker 1>That's just me anyway. So he is doing him. You know,

428
00:20:46.279 --> 00:20:48.839
<v Speaker 1>one thing that Meto loves to do is like his

429
00:20:49.079 --> 00:20:53.359
<v Speaker 1>very like hard fast, dismissive Arab hand gestures.

430
00:20:53.599 --> 00:20:57.480
<v Speaker 2>It usually is like a hand that is palm out

431
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<v Speaker 2>straight and then it has this beat where the hits

432
00:21:00.920 --> 00:21:03.640
<v Speaker 2>a bottom and then comes back up like a little

433
00:21:04.240 --> 00:21:07.000
<v Speaker 2>trampoline jump. If that makes sense. I'm doing it right now.

434
00:21:07.000 --> 00:21:09.359
<v Speaker 2>If you're watching on YouTube, and he does it a lot,

435
00:21:09.440 --> 00:21:11.839
<v Speaker 2>he tries to make his point almost it's like a

436
00:21:11.880 --> 00:21:16.400
<v Speaker 2>hand gabble and it feels yeat, like I've said what

437
00:21:16.480 --> 00:21:17.720
<v Speaker 2>I said, this is what it is.

438
00:21:17.960 --> 00:21:21.119
<v Speaker 1>It feels dismissive in his weight. It's not just Mito.

439
00:21:21.279 --> 00:21:25.680
<v Speaker 2>It feels like this very specific hand gesture that a

440
00:21:25.720 --> 00:21:26.640
<v Speaker 2>lot of Arabs do.

441
00:21:27.799 --> 00:21:32.680
<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, hullous. I would call it the Hullis hand gesture.

442
00:21:32.759 --> 00:21:34.920
<v Speaker 2>But you know you do you So he's doing that

443
00:21:35.079 --> 00:21:37.319
<v Speaker 2>talking about you know, her being you know, whatever cook

444
00:21:37.400 --> 00:21:39.440
<v Speaker 2>she is and him doing whatever he is.

445
00:21:40.279 --> 00:21:42.799
<v Speaker 1>She wants him to cook more because she comes home

446
00:21:42.799 --> 00:21:43.559
<v Speaker 1>at five thirty.

447
00:21:43.799 --> 00:21:45.680
<v Speaker 2>So she's breaking into this class being like we'll both

448
00:21:45.759 --> 00:21:47.640
<v Speaker 2>learn how to cook, but also you pull your weight.

449
00:21:47.799 --> 00:21:51.759
<v Speaker 2>I work till five thirty. He's like, okay, so they

450
00:21:51.799 --> 00:21:54.359
<v Speaker 2>have to like get in there and first things. First

451
00:21:54.480 --> 00:21:56.880
<v Speaker 2>is like butcher the shit out of some shrimp and

452
00:21:56.920 --> 00:21:59.319
<v Speaker 2>it grosses her out. It grosses me out, but I

453
00:21:59.359 --> 00:22:04.119
<v Speaker 2>know that kind of stuff. It is always interesting. We

454
00:22:04.200 --> 00:22:07.559
<v Speaker 2>don't watch hands work with meat, any kind of meat.

455
00:22:08.599 --> 00:22:11.799
<v Speaker 2>It's not fun for me to like really butcher or

456
00:22:11.799 --> 00:22:14.960
<v Speaker 2>get into animal protein of any kind.

457
00:22:15.440 --> 00:22:17.119
<v Speaker 1>It's underneath those nails, honey.

458
00:22:17.519 --> 00:22:23.559
<v Speaker 2>I mean, nothing's worse than like food just underneath nails,

459
00:22:24.000 --> 00:22:27.759
<v Speaker 2>embedded in nail bed because your hand has just been in.

460
00:22:30.000 --> 00:22:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Carnage. So she's like, you know, I make things. He's like,

461
00:22:35.440 --> 00:22:38.119
<v Speaker 1>what do you make? She's like, I make my specialties

462
00:22:38.160 --> 00:22:44.240
<v Speaker 1>tuna with eggs. I'm sorry, what what do you mean?

463
00:22:46.279 --> 00:22:48.079
<v Speaker 1>All right? This is where I'm gonna be honest with you.

464
00:22:48.200 --> 00:22:51.440
<v Speaker 2>I obviously I don't like fish, so I don't know

465
00:22:51.480 --> 00:22:54.519
<v Speaker 2>what's real and what's not real in my life though,

466
00:22:56.000 --> 00:22:58.799
<v Speaker 2>And is this a California thing? I have never heard

467
00:22:58.880 --> 00:23:02.960
<v Speaker 2>of tuna with eggs never. I've heard of blocks on

468
00:23:03.000 --> 00:23:03.440
<v Speaker 2>a bagel.

469
00:23:04.440 --> 00:23:06.400
<v Speaker 1>I has just never heard of tuna in the morning,

470
00:23:08.000 --> 00:23:13.279
<v Speaker 1>never tuna and eggs like, is it a scramble?

471
00:23:15.319 --> 00:23:16.839
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. When she said that, I was like,

472
00:23:16.920 --> 00:23:19.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm on his side. She's like, he's like, that's not cooking.

473
00:23:19.839 --> 00:23:23.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, it's travesty. It's a tragedy. It's a nightmare

474
00:23:23.920 --> 00:23:24.359
<v Speaker 2>if it is.

475
00:23:26.839 --> 00:23:32.160
<v Speaker 1>So, yeah, he just has to listen to her.

476
00:23:32.200 --> 00:23:34.079
<v Speaker 2>And the funniest thing he does the whole season, and

477
00:23:34.119 --> 00:23:36.720
<v Speaker 2>I think this is true, is that she says, you know, like, yes,

478
00:23:36.759 --> 00:23:40.000
<v Speaker 2>it's cooking, and he takes a beat, looks at her

479
00:23:40.039 --> 00:23:45.880
<v Speaker 2>and just very dryly is like, no, it was.

480
00:23:45.839 --> 00:23:48.480
<v Speaker 1>His best work to me all season.

481
00:23:49.119 --> 00:23:51.839
<v Speaker 2>So then the chef that's like, you know, forced to

482
00:23:51.880 --> 00:23:54.559
<v Speaker 2>be here on camera and hopefully getting some appearance fees,

483
00:23:55.359 --> 00:23:56.920
<v Speaker 2>has to sit there while she's like, let me tell

484
00:23:56.920 --> 00:23:58.079
<v Speaker 2>you what o' sor ry, let me get it.

485
00:23:58.119 --> 00:23:59.680
<v Speaker 1>She's like, she's like, let me tell you the fun

486
00:23:59.680 --> 00:24:00.640
<v Speaker 1>thing that he did.

487
00:24:01.079 --> 00:24:03.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when he proposed to me, he actually pretended he

488
00:24:03.519 --> 00:24:05.799
<v Speaker 2>was going to leave me and go back to his country.

489
00:24:06.079 --> 00:24:09.799
<v Speaker 1>So funny, it's not funny.

490
00:24:10.599 --> 00:24:13.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I know, I know.

491
00:24:13.799 --> 00:24:16.759
<v Speaker 1>I loved it. I'll tell you he's such a.

492
00:24:18.039 --> 00:24:20.359
<v Speaker 2>That's who I'm married, you know, Like the chef has

493
00:24:20.400 --> 00:24:25.440
<v Speaker 2>to be like it's wow, what a romantic story. I

494
00:24:25.519 --> 00:24:29.400
<v Speaker 2>really think you're going to like work. She's like, yeah,

495
00:24:29.480 --> 00:24:32.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, he shows love differently than American men.

496
00:24:34.720 --> 00:24:38.880
<v Speaker 1>And I'll be honest in that when I'm.

497
00:24:38.839 --> 00:24:41.079
<v Speaker 2>Dated Arab men, that's true, but not in the way

498
00:24:41.079 --> 00:24:42.240
<v Speaker 2>in which he's showing it.

499
00:24:44.400 --> 00:24:44.839
<v Speaker 1>Anyway.

500
00:24:45.559 --> 00:24:49.400
<v Speaker 2>They do sit down to eat. It's been there since

501
00:24:49.440 --> 00:24:52.680
<v Speaker 2>their first date, since they got engaged. He says that

502
00:24:52.680 --> 00:24:54.839
<v Speaker 2>he's happy, and she says, I love you, and he

503
00:24:55.119 --> 00:24:57.079
<v Speaker 2>takes a beat and then says I love you too

504
00:24:57.119 --> 00:24:58.759
<v Speaker 2>and kisses her hand. She's like, that was the first

505
00:24:58.759 --> 00:25:03.279
<v Speaker 2>time he's ever resented. Next day, they're making juice. He's

506
00:25:03.319 --> 00:25:04.839
<v Speaker 2>making juice in a Hamilton Beach.

507
00:25:05.200 --> 00:25:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you know. I don't know if

508
00:25:06.640 --> 00:25:09.079
<v Speaker 1>you care about brand names like I do.

509
00:25:09.599 --> 00:25:11.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't mean to do that, but Hamilton Beach is

510
00:25:11.160 --> 00:25:14.319
<v Speaker 2>such an interesting brand because I swear to God, at

511
00:25:14.400 --> 00:25:18.359
<v Speaker 2>least ninety two percent of Hamilton Beach products just don't work.

512
00:25:18.680 --> 00:25:21.240
<v Speaker 2>Some of the Hamilton Beach products that I have are

513
00:25:21.319 --> 00:25:24.000
<v Speaker 2>like weird ones that I've won at like a David Busters.

514
00:25:24.240 --> 00:25:26.559
<v Speaker 2>One time, my friend want one one of those Hamilton

515
00:25:26.599 --> 00:25:29.480
<v Speaker 2>Beach like breakfast sandwich makers. Remember that where like it

516
00:25:29.480 --> 00:25:31.319
<v Speaker 2>didn't actually toast the bread or whatever. It was a

517
00:25:31.319 --> 00:25:33.440
<v Speaker 2>weird thing where I'd just spin around at like, yeah,

518
00:25:33.440 --> 00:25:35.680
<v Speaker 2>a David Busters And I was like, Hamilton Beach, what

519
00:25:36.200 --> 00:25:37.920
<v Speaker 2>so he's making a juice? And I looked at this

520
00:25:38.000 --> 00:25:40.880
<v Speaker 2>juicer and I'm like, that can't possibly be like a

521
00:25:40.920 --> 00:25:42.039
<v Speaker 2>good quality juicer.

522
00:25:42.079 --> 00:25:42.759
<v Speaker 1>And then I see the.

523
00:25:42.799 --> 00:25:48.119
<v Speaker 2>Juice he makes and it's a fucking smoothie, like the

524
00:25:48.200 --> 00:25:50.279
<v Speaker 2>kind of juicers where you push something down with a

525
00:25:50.359 --> 00:25:53.279
<v Speaker 2>black lever, isn't gonna like come out creamy white like

526
00:25:53.319 --> 00:25:56.759
<v Speaker 2>that look like fucking Annabelle was in the corner with

527
00:25:56.839 --> 00:25:57.839
<v Speaker 2>the nutribule.

528
00:25:57.440 --> 00:25:59.759
<v Speaker 1>At being like sh I made him a smoothie I

529
00:25:59.759 --> 00:26:03.000
<v Speaker 1>put in the glass. He doesn't know. I was like

530
00:26:03.000 --> 00:26:06.839
<v Speaker 1>that what you just are you juicing strawberries? Like are

531
00:26:06.960 --> 00:26:09.200
<v Speaker 1>what are you pretending this is? It was so confusing

532
00:26:09.279 --> 00:26:12.319
<v Speaker 1>was this coconut? So anyway, he's like I cooked this

533
00:26:13.160 --> 00:26:15.000
<v Speaker 1>and find out because.

534
00:26:14.799 --> 00:26:17.279
<v Speaker 2>She's like are you ready that tomorrow is the wedding

535
00:26:17.359 --> 00:26:19.279
<v Speaker 2>day and she hasn't picked.

536
00:26:19.000 --> 00:26:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Out her dress or gotten the flowers.

537
00:26:25.640 --> 00:26:28.079
<v Speaker 2>And then suddenly she's also like yeah, and guess what,

538
00:26:28.799 --> 00:26:31.559
<v Speaker 2>it's really only my son Kayden, and you know my daughter.

539
00:26:31.599 --> 00:26:33.799
<v Speaker 2>You've met her, Devin, that's the only people that are

540
00:26:33.799 --> 00:26:35.680
<v Speaker 2>going to be there, And we're like, your friends are

541
00:26:35.720 --> 00:26:37.799
<v Speaker 2>going to be there, and she's like, now the ones

542
00:26:37.839 --> 00:26:40.799
<v Speaker 2>that you've been including this whole season. Also, has Kayden

543
00:26:40.880 --> 00:26:45.559
<v Speaker 2>met Meado? Is Kayden like in New Orleans? Just hasn't

544
00:26:45.599 --> 00:26:49.839
<v Speaker 2>met Medo? You haven't hung out with him once. I

545
00:26:49.880 --> 00:26:53.319
<v Speaker 2>have a situation in my life where, you know, I

546
00:26:53.359 --> 00:26:55.200
<v Speaker 2>have a weird relationship with one of my parents who

547
00:26:55.200 --> 00:26:57.039
<v Speaker 2>got married once. Uh, and I didn't really know the

548
00:26:57.039 --> 00:26:59.599
<v Speaker 2>person that she was marrying ha ha. It's my mom.

549
00:27:00.240 --> 00:27:02.920
<v Speaker 2>And so I have a certain like PTSD for people

550
00:27:03.000 --> 00:27:07.880
<v Speaker 2>that are like, I'm so close to my child, I'm

551
00:27:07.880 --> 00:27:09.640
<v Speaker 2>going to get married to someone that my child does

552
00:27:09.680 --> 00:27:12.759
<v Speaker 2>not know and I certainly don't care about them having

553
00:27:12.759 --> 00:27:16.119
<v Speaker 2>any sort of relationship. So every time I say that,

554
00:27:16.119 --> 00:27:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, hih clockett and you know what, my mom's

555
00:27:19.400 --> 00:27:22.240
<v Speaker 2>that marriage didn't last anyway, nor did my relationship with

556
00:27:22.279 --> 00:27:23.279
<v Speaker 2>her ha ha ha anyway.

557
00:27:23.319 --> 00:27:25.119
<v Speaker 1>So just saying so.

558
00:27:25.039 --> 00:27:27.160
<v Speaker 2>She meets up with her friends, this is unrealistic. It's

559
00:27:27.200 --> 00:27:29.400
<v Speaker 2>not realistic that she wouldn't find her dress. Yet, it's

560
00:27:29.400 --> 00:27:31.720
<v Speaker 2>not realistic that she is going to suddenly be like,

561
00:27:31.720 --> 00:27:33.720
<v Speaker 2>I care so much about my son Kayden. There's so

562
00:27:33.799 --> 00:27:35.799
<v Speaker 2>much about Kayden that I care about. We haven't even

563
00:27:35.920 --> 00:27:39.599
<v Speaker 2>seen him meet me. Know truly, she doesn't have for flowers.

564
00:27:39.599 --> 00:27:41.440
<v Speaker 2>None of that makes sense. And also this doesn't make sense.

565
00:27:41.599 --> 00:27:44.519
<v Speaker 2>Now she's gonna meet up with her friends and think

566
00:27:44.559 --> 00:27:48.039
<v Speaker 2>about this. She's like, hey, come meet me for lunch

567
00:27:48.240 --> 00:27:51.200
<v Speaker 2>at the flower shop in town.

568
00:27:51.240 --> 00:27:52.079
<v Speaker 1>They're like, that's weird.

569
00:27:52.039 --> 00:27:55.039
<v Speaker 2>Why why wouldn't we go to a restaurant. She's like, no,

570
00:27:55.119 --> 00:27:56.920
<v Speaker 2>I'll meet you there and then I'll tell you why.

571
00:27:57.000 --> 00:27:59.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean, think about what has to happen. So then

572
00:27:59.200 --> 00:28:02.440
<v Speaker 2>her friends come, has had a full hair makeover. Now

573
00:28:02.440 --> 00:28:04.519
<v Speaker 2>it's purple, now it's straight. You're like, where'd you go?

574
00:28:04.720 --> 00:28:05.400
<v Speaker 1>It looks good.

575
00:28:06.839 --> 00:28:10.000
<v Speaker 2>And she's like, hi, guys, clock the ring. He did it,

576
00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:11.960
<v Speaker 2>he proposed and now we're getting married tomorrow.

577
00:28:12.000 --> 00:28:14.359
<v Speaker 1>They're like what. She's like yeah. They're like, does he

578
00:28:14.400 --> 00:28:14.960
<v Speaker 1>treat you right?

579
00:28:15.000 --> 00:28:19.319
<v Speaker 2>She's like mm. And then they're like okay, so why

580
00:28:19.359 --> 00:28:20.720
<v Speaker 2>are we here. She's like, well, I'll tell you why

581
00:28:20.720 --> 00:28:22.920
<v Speaker 2>you're here. You're not invited to the wedding. I don't

582
00:28:22.920 --> 00:28:23.240
<v Speaker 2>want it to.

583
00:28:23.240 --> 00:28:26.799
<v Speaker 1>Deal with your hope law. They're like, what did you

584
00:28:26.839 --> 00:28:27.200
<v Speaker 1>to say?

585
00:28:27.279 --> 00:28:29.960
<v Speaker 2>She's like, I don't want to have to deal with

586
00:28:30.039 --> 00:28:32.400
<v Speaker 2>all the hope law that might come if you guys

587
00:28:32.400 --> 00:28:34.680
<v Speaker 2>come to the wedding. They're like, did you say hope law?

588
00:28:35.720 --> 00:28:38.599
<v Speaker 2>Did you to say hope law? She did, But they

589
00:28:38.640 --> 00:28:41.000
<v Speaker 2>can't really give her so much time with that because

590
00:28:41.000 --> 00:28:42.680
<v Speaker 2>they have to deal with the fact that she, you know,

591
00:28:42.799 --> 00:28:46.160
<v Speaker 2>is gonna marry me too. Now they're instead of being like,

592
00:28:47.440 --> 00:28:51.400
<v Speaker 2>that's fucking crazy, Debbie, You're lost.

593
00:28:52.160 --> 00:28:53.680
<v Speaker 1>We don't want it to deal with you. We have

594
00:28:53.759 --> 00:28:54.880
<v Speaker 1>time and energy that we're going.

595
00:28:54.880 --> 00:28:57.559
<v Speaker 2>To take back for our lives because you don't have

596
00:28:57.640 --> 00:29:00.200
<v Speaker 2>like any semblance of reality and you don't care about yourself,

597
00:29:00.240 --> 00:29:02.960
<v Speaker 2>so why are we going to care about you? Instead

598
00:29:02.960 --> 00:29:04.640
<v Speaker 2>of doing that, they're like, Okay, well, we'll go into

599
00:29:04.640 --> 00:29:07.599
<v Speaker 2>this flower shop and just look at you weird, which

600
00:29:07.680 --> 00:29:11.519
<v Speaker 2>is what happens. They go in the flower shop. This

601
00:29:11.599 --> 00:29:14.200
<v Speaker 2>flower shop is like, oh, you have a wedding tomorrow, Okay,

602
00:29:14.200 --> 00:29:16.119
<v Speaker 2>don't worry, we'll do it all for you, which is

603
00:29:17.240 --> 00:29:21.400
<v Speaker 2>do you know how expensive that would be? Is she

604
00:29:21.480 --> 00:29:23.440
<v Speaker 2>gonna like sell that Louie to put on this last

605
00:29:23.440 --> 00:29:24.039
<v Speaker 2>minute wedding?

606
00:29:30.079 --> 00:29:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I just like it doesn't make sense.

607
00:29:32.319 --> 00:29:35.160
<v Speaker 2>So then she's like, yeah, so even though you guys

608
00:29:35.200 --> 00:29:37.599
<v Speaker 2>aren't coming, it's really important that Cayden, my son's coming.

609
00:29:37.640 --> 00:29:39.440
<v Speaker 1>So he's coming. I'm so happy. I can't get married

610
00:29:39.480 --> 00:29:41.400
<v Speaker 1>without Kyden. I get a text. Guess what.

611
00:29:41.519 --> 00:29:44.240
<v Speaker 2>It's a text from Cayden who's like, hey, Mom, they

612
00:29:44.279 --> 00:29:45.440
<v Speaker 2>want me to work tomorrow.

613
00:29:47.160 --> 00:29:48.559
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I can come to your wedding.

614
00:29:48.960 --> 00:29:51.920
<v Speaker 2>No, my god, Kayden might have to work. Astra's like,

615
00:29:52.440 --> 00:29:57.079
<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry. Can he what's the word call out?

616
00:29:57.400 --> 00:30:02.559
<v Speaker 1>Say? No, it's a college job. What is he doing?

617
00:30:02.680 --> 00:30:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Is he a barista? A baristo because he's a guy.

618
00:30:06.519 --> 00:30:08.319
<v Speaker 1>They never say that. How come we always say the

619
00:30:08.359 --> 00:30:09.119
<v Speaker 1>word barista?

620
00:30:09.680 --> 00:30:12.680
<v Speaker 2>And it's because you know, I'm just wondering if you're

621
00:30:12.680 --> 00:30:16.960
<v Speaker 2>supposed to, for a gentleman call him a baristo, or

622
00:30:17.039 --> 00:30:20.519
<v Speaker 2>is every person a barista? Is it not like a

623
00:30:20.559 --> 00:30:22.839
<v Speaker 2>gender thing. I don't mean to put a gender on it.

624
00:30:22.880 --> 00:30:27.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, you know, like in Italian, is that

625
00:30:27.400 --> 00:30:31.799
<v Speaker 2>what barista is? Coffee maker in Italian? But arista? But

626
00:30:31.920 --> 00:30:35.640
<v Speaker 2>a usta that sounds right, right, especially if I give

627
00:30:35.640 --> 00:30:37.400
<v Speaker 2>it that accent flair that sounds right. But no one

628
00:30:37.400 --> 00:30:41.599
<v Speaker 2>ever says like, I got coffee met from my barristo. Anyway,

629
00:30:42.400 --> 00:30:45.119
<v Speaker 2>please tell me if I'm right, or just tell me

630
00:30:45.160 --> 00:30:48.039
<v Speaker 2>I'm right. So they're like, that sounds crazy that he

631
00:30:48.039 --> 00:30:50.279
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't just be like, uh no, I can't work.

632
00:30:50.319 --> 00:30:55.759
<v Speaker 1>It's my mother's wedding and it is.

633
00:30:56.079 --> 00:30:58.039
<v Speaker 2>And then they're like, it seems like if he didn't

634
00:30:58.039 --> 00:30:59.880
<v Speaker 2>want to do that, there's a reason why, and he

635
00:31:00.000 --> 00:31:01.519
<v Speaker 2>maybe he just doesn't want to go to this wedding,

636
00:31:02.160 --> 00:31:03.000
<v Speaker 2>and that is one.

637
00:31:03.079 --> 00:31:04.720
<v Speaker 1>Debbie's like, well, I can't get married with Adam.

638
00:31:05.000 --> 00:31:06.319
<v Speaker 2>And then it's like, well, if that's true, then you

639
00:31:06.319 --> 00:31:09.000
<v Speaker 2>would have absolutely made sure that he likes Mito and

640
00:31:09.119 --> 00:31:10.880
<v Speaker 2>is like hanging out this whole time.

641
00:31:11.839 --> 00:31:18.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, absolute lazy Halloween happened. It's not. I mean, Debbie,

642
00:31:18.319 --> 00:31:19.319
<v Speaker 1>you don't give a shit about that.

643
00:31:22.359 --> 00:31:27.119
<v Speaker 2>So basically we're like, Debbie's a horrible mom who is like,

644
00:31:27.240 --> 00:31:33.079
<v Speaker 2>you know, sad and insecure and doesn't care about anything

645
00:31:33.119 --> 00:31:37.440
<v Speaker 2>but like her sort of like emotionally immature moment to

646
00:31:37.480 --> 00:31:42.720
<v Speaker 2>moment feelings and is cringey like that.

647
00:31:42.799 --> 00:31:44.359
<v Speaker 1>All of that is true.

648
00:31:44.480 --> 00:31:47.640
<v Speaker 2>Therefore she makes her like really a perfect ninety day

649
00:31:47.640 --> 00:31:51.200
<v Speaker 2>fiance lady and whatever her mental situations are they're not

650
00:31:51.680 --> 00:31:54.599
<v Speaker 2>so crazy or toxic enough where it's like a leasa

651
00:31:54.640 --> 00:31:58.880
<v Speaker 2>thing that it almost is like overwhelming. She is the

652
00:31:58.960 --> 00:32:02.599
<v Speaker 2>straight man to him being the crazy one. It's nice

653
00:32:02.640 --> 00:32:06.480
<v Speaker 2>of her. Okay, So Pala and Thomas, so you know,

654
00:32:06.519 --> 00:32:09.559
<v Speaker 2>they're fighting over the apartment space, as we know, and

655
00:32:09.720 --> 00:32:12.279
<v Speaker 2>she calls him selfish and he wants her parents to

656
00:32:12.319 --> 00:32:14.319
<v Speaker 2>sleep like in some sort of chair.

657
00:32:14.480 --> 00:32:16.799
<v Speaker 1>This is before they get there, and she's upset. She

658
00:32:16.960 --> 00:32:19.960
<v Speaker 1>like that sounds crazy, and he then is like, don't worry.

659
00:32:20.000 --> 00:32:23.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm also gonna turn my gaming office table into the

660
00:32:23.839 --> 00:32:28.359
<v Speaker 2>dining room table with the magic of a you know, tablecloth.

661
00:32:28.440 --> 00:32:32.880
<v Speaker 2>She's like mad at him all the time over this

662
00:32:32.960 --> 00:32:36.119
<v Speaker 2>situation with the apartment and we don't understand why, like

663
00:32:37.480 --> 00:32:42.599
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't try and remedy it, and through some other means.

664
00:32:45.039 --> 00:32:48.720
<v Speaker 2>He is stubborn about his space. He's like, oh, yeah,

665
00:32:48.759 --> 00:32:49.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, that's where I do yoga.

666
00:32:49.720 --> 00:32:50.920
<v Speaker 1>So that's where the yoga space is.

667
00:32:51.279 --> 00:32:53.759
<v Speaker 2>And it is hard when you move in with someone

668
00:32:53.839 --> 00:32:57.119
<v Speaker 2>who inhabits a smaller space, or just inhabits a space

669
00:32:57.599 --> 00:33:00.240
<v Speaker 2>that they have for a long time, or everything in

670
00:33:00.279 --> 00:33:02.839
<v Speaker 2>their mind is already set up a certain way and

671
00:33:02.880 --> 00:33:05.200
<v Speaker 2>it's hard to like change that that space could be

672
00:33:05.359 --> 00:33:08.160
<v Speaker 2>used for something else, because you have to acquiesce and

673
00:33:08.200 --> 00:33:11.640
<v Speaker 2>compromise space for someone else's wants and needs. It's much

674
00:33:11.680 --> 00:33:14.400
<v Speaker 2>easier to go into a space that's brand new with

675
00:33:14.440 --> 00:33:17.200
<v Speaker 2>someone and then be like, Okay, together, we inhabit this

676
00:33:17.240 --> 00:33:19.319
<v Speaker 2>space and that's yours, that's you know, like you do

677
00:33:19.359 --> 00:33:21.880
<v Speaker 2>this here, you do this there, And so that part

678
00:33:22.000 --> 00:33:27.759
<v Speaker 2>I find, you know, like, uh, I have compassion for him.

679
00:33:27.920 --> 00:33:31.920
<v Speaker 1>I just yeah, Like there's just a like I don't

680
00:33:31.960 --> 00:33:32.680
<v Speaker 1>want to I don't know.

681
00:33:32.720 --> 00:33:36.880
<v Speaker 2>I just he seems to kind of do the Katie

682
00:33:36.960 --> 00:33:41.160
<v Speaker 2>thing where it's like their lives are chaotic and messy

683
00:33:41.319 --> 00:33:46.599
<v Speaker 2>and like not enviable or aspirational, but they are ten

684
00:33:46.680 --> 00:33:47.759
<v Speaker 2>toes down on.

685
00:33:47.839 --> 00:33:50.119
<v Speaker 1>Why they won't change any of it.

686
00:33:52.839 --> 00:33:58.640
<v Speaker 2>For someone else's comfort that they should care about.

687
00:33:59.640 --> 00:34:03.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what I want to say.

688
00:34:03.920 --> 00:34:07.400
<v Speaker 2>I like, I am constantly surprised that Katie, knowing that

689
00:34:07.480 --> 00:34:11.719
<v Speaker 2>her way and mythology of life isn't sustainable across the board,

690
00:34:11.719 --> 00:34:15.119
<v Speaker 2>that there are some issues there, wouldn't try and like

691
00:34:15.400 --> 00:34:19.519
<v Speaker 2>change the way she does things to make someone else

692
00:34:19.559 --> 00:34:24.000
<v Speaker 2>who she should care about happy. And the same thing

693
00:34:24.000 --> 00:34:28.639
<v Speaker 2>with him, It's like he is really hard fast in

694
00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:31.599
<v Speaker 2>his ways, and from the smell to everything, he really

695
00:34:31.599 --> 00:34:35.639
<v Speaker 2>feels like the world should change around him for his benefit.

696
00:34:39.599 --> 00:34:41.119
<v Speaker 1>And I, yeah, that's crazy to me.

697
00:34:43.920 --> 00:34:48.039
<v Speaker 2>So her family comes though, and really happy to see

698
00:34:48.079 --> 00:34:49.760
<v Speaker 2>that he's playing with the switchblade.

699
00:34:49.760 --> 00:34:51.159
<v Speaker 1>Before we're like where that's coming from.

700
00:34:51.239 --> 00:34:53.960
<v Speaker 2>She's wearing like one of those like ninety outfit ninety

701
00:34:54.000 --> 00:34:54.599
<v Speaker 2>style outfits.

702
00:34:54.639 --> 00:34:55.119
<v Speaker 1>I really like it.

703
00:34:55.039 --> 00:34:57.559
<v Speaker 2>It feels very tie from Clueless, which is this like

704
00:34:58.000 --> 00:35:00.679
<v Speaker 2>number in the gym scene, like when they're and pe

705
00:35:00.840 --> 00:35:04.119
<v Speaker 2>where it's like a white kind of like short sleeve

706
00:35:04.239 --> 00:35:08.400
<v Speaker 2>shirt underneath a black strappie either dress or jumpsuit.

707
00:35:08.440 --> 00:35:10.480
<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh my god, that is so specifically nineties.

708
00:35:11.199 --> 00:35:12.679
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if they've talked about this before, but

709
00:35:12.679 --> 00:35:15.559
<v Speaker 2>it makes me happy that he speaks fluent Portuguese or

710
00:35:15.639 --> 00:35:18.599
<v Speaker 2>seemingly pretty good. When her family comes, he's all over

711
00:35:18.639 --> 00:35:23.000
<v Speaker 2>her nieces and it's cute. Now he very quickly is like,

712
00:35:23.039 --> 00:35:26.360
<v Speaker 2>I need to lay down the law of the land. I,

713
00:35:26.639 --> 00:35:30.800
<v Speaker 2>Sir Thomas, bequeathed that none of you people living in

714
00:35:30.800 --> 00:35:31.880
<v Speaker 2>this small apartment.

715
00:35:31.559 --> 00:35:32.679
<v Speaker 1>Shall wear shoes.

716
00:35:34.000 --> 00:35:38.199
<v Speaker 2>Or use smells smells like in soaps or smells and deodorant.

717
00:35:38.239 --> 00:35:41.159
<v Speaker 2>Smells and smells like smells and perfumes, and the mom's like,

718
00:35:41.199 --> 00:35:43.440
<v Speaker 2>that's crazy, and someone else was like, I got baby soap?

719
00:35:43.480 --> 00:35:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Is that okay? He's like, yeah, baby soap is usually okay.

720
00:35:46.719 --> 00:35:50.239
<v Speaker 2>So Powell's brother is like, you know what, I was

721
00:35:50.239 --> 00:35:52.119
<v Speaker 2>friends with this guy, but I'm starting to like be

722
00:35:52.199 --> 00:35:53.960
<v Speaker 2>a little sus of his quirks.

723
00:35:54.760 --> 00:35:56.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, he's a little eccentric.

724
00:35:59.119 --> 00:36:02.000
<v Speaker 2>And that comes when he, like Thomas doesn't have a

725
00:36:02.039 --> 00:36:05.519
<v Speaker 2>TV and it's interesting, I don't care.

726
00:36:05.440 --> 00:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Like not having a.

727
00:36:07.440 --> 00:36:10.679
<v Speaker 2>TV isn't a big deal to some people, and then

728
00:36:10.719 --> 00:36:11.920
<v Speaker 2>some people find it crazy.

729
00:36:12.440 --> 00:36:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a microwave. Actually I do. It's like

730
00:36:15.880 --> 00:36:17.679
<v Speaker 1>my landlord's microwave, but I don't use it. Like I

731
00:36:17.719 --> 00:36:20.280
<v Speaker 1>don't like microwaves, think they ruin the foods.

732
00:36:20.280 --> 00:36:21.719
<v Speaker 2>And I also feel like with toaster rep and they

733
00:36:21.760 --> 00:36:24.360
<v Speaker 2>get they get things get hot. So it's not a

734
00:36:24.360 --> 00:36:27.199
<v Speaker 2>big deal. But like, yeah, with screens and everything, the

735
00:36:27.239 --> 00:36:29.840
<v Speaker 2>man doesn't have a fucking TV, but he has three

736
00:36:30.159 --> 00:36:33.719
<v Speaker 2>huge ass screens that are usually on the dining room

737
00:36:33.760 --> 00:36:36.159
<v Speaker 2>table in his corner that he games on. So it's like,

738
00:36:36.199 --> 00:36:38.840
<v Speaker 2>what's a monitor or screen? What's the big difference? So

739
00:36:39.239 --> 00:36:42.079
<v Speaker 2>that's why I thought that's interesting, Like there's he has

740
00:36:42.119 --> 00:36:44.559
<v Speaker 2>those huge Jess screens. He does watches TV on his screens.

741
00:36:44.559 --> 00:36:46.199
<v Speaker 2>We be talking about he doesn't walk TV. He plays

742
00:36:46.280 --> 00:36:50.840
<v Speaker 2>video games. So we also get an interesting moment they

743
00:36:50.840 --> 00:36:53.280
<v Speaker 2>start to all the family goes out and tours long beaches,

744
00:36:53.280 --> 00:36:54.280
<v Speaker 2>see the Queen Mary.

745
00:36:54.599 --> 00:36:56.719
<v Speaker 1>Bro's talking with the Cysts, and she's like, you.

746
00:36:56.679 --> 00:37:00.400
<v Speaker 2>Know, I just have always fantasized and loved American culture.

747
00:37:00.400 --> 00:37:02.239
<v Speaker 2>I love speaking English. I'm so happy to be here.

748
00:37:02.239 --> 00:37:03.920
<v Speaker 2>It's been always in my dream for all you guys

749
00:37:03.960 --> 00:37:06.079
<v Speaker 2>to be here with me. And so we start to

750
00:37:06.079 --> 00:37:08.679
<v Speaker 2>be like, yeah, there's something about Pala that's like, I

751
00:37:08.800 --> 00:37:09.400
<v Speaker 2>have an end.

752
00:37:09.639 --> 00:37:11.000
<v Speaker 1>The end is to be in America.

753
00:37:11.159 --> 00:37:13.800
<v Speaker 2>Thomas is the Weans, and so I'm allowing or having

754
00:37:13.800 --> 00:37:16.000
<v Speaker 2>to deal with him whatever I need to do to

755
00:37:16.000 --> 00:37:19.159
<v Speaker 2>get to the end. Like she doesn't feel like she

756
00:37:19.280 --> 00:37:22.079
<v Speaker 2>necessary is in love with him. I feel like she's

757
00:37:22.119 --> 00:37:24.480
<v Speaker 2>like he's nice enough, and we get along and I

758
00:37:24.639 --> 00:37:26.360
<v Speaker 2>like that weird cuddle thing we do when we.

759
00:37:26.320 --> 00:37:27.519
<v Speaker 1>Put our legs around each other.

760
00:37:27.960 --> 00:37:31.079
<v Speaker 2>But he's not like super hot, and he's kind of

761
00:37:31.119 --> 00:37:35.599
<v Speaker 2>just like boring and a little weird. But I do

762
00:37:35.679 --> 00:37:37.920
<v Speaker 2>want to live in America and he is, I guess

763
00:37:37.960 --> 00:37:38.760
<v Speaker 2>a gringo.

764
00:37:38.920 --> 00:37:43.039
<v Speaker 1>So he checks the boxes. But Thomas isn't my whole universe.

765
00:37:44.320 --> 00:37:45.199
<v Speaker 1>Miniatures are.

766
00:37:47.440 --> 00:37:56.199
<v Speaker 2>Manifestation through miniatures, for the universe is my universe. He

767
00:37:56.239 --> 00:37:59.599
<v Speaker 2>doesn't even believe in God. He doesn't like the universe.

768
00:37:59.599 --> 00:38:02.119
<v Speaker 2>So how is someone who doesn't even like the universe

769
00:38:02.519 --> 00:38:09.440
<v Speaker 2>my universe? Anyway, So let's move on Asha and Malcolm. Honey,

770
00:38:09.559 --> 00:38:11.320
<v Speaker 2>she wants to look fit for that wedding, so they

771
00:38:11.320 --> 00:38:15.000
<v Speaker 2>go fabric shopping shop shopping with his sister Blaze. Now

772
00:38:15.119 --> 00:38:18.119
<v Speaker 2>she both of them are like designer esque people like

773
00:38:18.280 --> 00:38:20.280
<v Speaker 2>we get Asia being like I actually wanted to be

774
00:38:20.320 --> 00:38:23.159
<v Speaker 2>a designer. That was like, honestly my first calling besides

775
00:38:23.159 --> 00:38:25.719
<v Speaker 2>being a prophet. God was like, don't be a designer,

776
00:38:25.960 --> 00:38:28.360
<v Speaker 2>be a prophet. And that's when I was like, okay, God.

777
00:38:28.760 --> 00:38:31.519
<v Speaker 2>But also Blaze is a designer, Sir, I helmet at

778
00:38:31.519 --> 00:38:31.880
<v Speaker 2>a prophet.

779
00:38:31.880 --> 00:38:33.519
<v Speaker 1>Blaze is like, no, I do this shit. I have

780
00:38:33.639 --> 00:38:34.360
<v Speaker 1>like a seamstress.

781
00:38:34.400 --> 00:38:36.679
<v Speaker 2>Whatever the seamstress I hire is going to do this

782
00:38:36.880 --> 00:38:38.880
<v Speaker 2>dress in twenty four hours. It's always like a twenty

783
00:38:38.920 --> 00:38:40.760
<v Speaker 2>four hour turnaround. I swear to God, I think it's

784
00:38:40.800 --> 00:38:43.639
<v Speaker 2>only for like stakes, and I'm like, I actually would

785
00:38:43.880 --> 00:38:46.559
<v Speaker 2>find it more interesting if you showed us wedding planning

786
00:38:46.559 --> 00:38:50.880
<v Speaker 2>and then showed us like organic disagreements between the couples,

787
00:38:50.960 --> 00:38:54.400
<v Speaker 2>like through that process. Okay, But I like what Asha's wearing.

788
00:38:54.440 --> 00:38:57.239
<v Speaker 2>It's like a crute, cute like white crochet, you know.

789
00:38:57.360 --> 00:38:57.880
<v Speaker 1>Situation.

790
00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:03.000
<v Speaker 2>We realize that they're wood in colors are coffee brown

791
00:39:03.079 --> 00:39:03.440
<v Speaker 2>and white.

792
00:39:04.960 --> 00:39:08.199
<v Speaker 1>They go to like a traditional place to buy like,

793
00:39:08.280 --> 00:39:09.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, gorgeous fabrics.

794
00:39:09.800 --> 00:39:11.920
<v Speaker 2>The fabrics are gorgeous, and I'm just like that's why

795
00:39:11.960 --> 00:39:14.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, coffee brown and white.

796
00:39:15.239 --> 00:39:19.920
<v Speaker 1>There's so many like beautiful pinks and reds now.

797
00:39:21.480 --> 00:39:23.920
<v Speaker 2>Blaze is like, I you know, I worry about my

798
00:39:24.760 --> 00:39:29.239
<v Speaker 2>brother and like you because you have a tendency to

799
00:39:29.840 --> 00:39:32.360
<v Speaker 2>put upon him things that you want and.

800
00:39:32.280 --> 00:39:35.159
<v Speaker 1>Then he says yes to that because he wants to

801
00:39:35.199 --> 00:39:35.760
<v Speaker 1>make you happy.

802
00:39:35.840 --> 00:39:38.440
<v Speaker 2>It's the opposite of Katie and the opposite of Thomas,

803
00:39:38.480 --> 00:39:41.159
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying. And She's like, don't you

804
00:39:41.599 --> 00:39:44.159
<v Speaker 2>realize that he's saying and doing things just to make

805
00:39:44.199 --> 00:39:44.679
<v Speaker 2>you happy?

806
00:39:45.480 --> 00:39:51.559
<v Speaker 1>And a'ss like, yeah, what's the problem.

807
00:39:52.360 --> 00:39:55.039
<v Speaker 2>You know what, Blaze remember that part in the Bible

808
00:39:55.960 --> 00:40:02.199
<v Speaker 2>where Jesus, represented in the story by me, has that

809
00:40:02.360 --> 00:40:09.679
<v Speaker 2>fucking conversation with Peter, and Peter's like, Jesus, don't don't

810
00:40:09.679 --> 00:40:12.719
<v Speaker 2>do the thing that you need to do, don't fulfill

811
00:40:12.760 --> 00:40:17.280
<v Speaker 2>your destiny, and Jesus is like, Peter, you're my block. Well, bitch,

812
00:40:17.360 --> 00:40:20.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm Jesus and you're my block fucking blaze. You're a

813
00:40:20.079 --> 00:40:24.840
<v Speaker 2>block blazon blocking up my life, and the devil's in

814
00:40:24.880 --> 00:40:32.920
<v Speaker 2>the blocks. Asia having to always use God in her

815
00:40:33.079 --> 00:40:38.880
<v Speaker 2>arguments is like actually kind of like redembdiculous, but also

816
00:40:40.880 --> 00:40:47.440
<v Speaker 2>unfortunately works for her in certain circles. I would love

817
00:40:47.480 --> 00:40:48.400
<v Speaker 2>to watch her try.

818
00:40:48.239 --> 00:40:49.760
<v Speaker 1>And use one of these in a circle where people

819
00:40:49.920 --> 00:40:55.800
<v Speaker 1>be like, no, bitch, you're not God, You're not Jesus. Okay.

820
00:40:57.920 --> 00:41:00.800
<v Speaker 2>So then she meets with Rod, who you know, is

821
00:41:00.840 --> 00:41:03.519
<v Speaker 2>like not into this situation at all.

822
00:41:03.840 --> 00:41:04.320
<v Speaker 1>And.

823
00:41:06.400 --> 00:41:08.880
<v Speaker 2>He's like, what are your plans You're She's like, well,

824
00:41:08.880 --> 00:41:10.519
<v Speaker 2>im gonna get married tomorrow, you're gonna be there, ha

825
00:41:10.519 --> 00:41:10.760
<v Speaker 2>ha ha.

826
00:41:11.239 --> 00:41:12.920
<v Speaker 1>And then you know, we're gonna come to America and

827
00:41:12.920 --> 00:41:14.840
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna work. He's like, well, how is he gonna work?

828
00:41:14.920 --> 00:41:15.679
<v Speaker 1>Just how?

829
00:41:15.840 --> 00:41:19.000
<v Speaker 2>Like how? And she's like, well, they're my connects. He's like,

830
00:41:19.079 --> 00:41:24.920
<v Speaker 2>you're connects. What are your connects? She's like, you, you're

831
00:41:24.920 --> 00:41:31.840
<v Speaker 2>gonna get him a job? And that's when Rod's like, no,

832
00:41:34.800 --> 00:41:36.199
<v Speaker 2>it's funny because.

833
00:41:39.760 --> 00:41:40.079
<v Speaker 1>It is.

834
00:41:40.199 --> 00:41:42.280
<v Speaker 2>It is fun to watch someone tell her no. Like

835
00:41:42.320 --> 00:41:43.679
<v Speaker 2>I just said, I wanted someone to tell her no,

836
00:41:43.800 --> 00:41:47.559
<v Speaker 2>and he does. He's like, no, I'm not. She seems

837
00:41:47.679 --> 00:41:54.039
<v Speaker 2>really demanding, and I wonder if, like how many times

838
00:41:54.119 --> 00:41:59.760
<v Speaker 2>she has been like shown a level of reality by someone.

839
00:42:02.840 --> 00:42:05.280
<v Speaker 2>He's like, what skills does she does he have? He's like,

840
00:42:05.320 --> 00:42:08.119
<v Speaker 2>She's like, well, I'm skills mills. It's about who you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know you, so anyway that's not going to

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<v Speaker 2>work out turns out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, it's hard. It's really hard out there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to get a job.

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<v Speaker 2>And you really do have to have, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>many different facets. You have to be able to pivot

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<v Speaker 2>all those things. And it doesn't really.

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<v Speaker 1>Truly feel like she is taking into account how difficult

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be.

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<v Speaker 2>But at the same time, she lives in a big

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<v Speaker 2>ass mansion, so she probably you know, I wonder if

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<v Speaker 2>her mind. And this is also interesting, is he going

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<v Speaker 2>to live in her parents' home with them?

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<v Speaker 1>Also, what is her da where.

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<v Speaker 2>Is her dad and how does her dad feel about this?

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<v Speaker 2>And is Juliet ever talk to her husband? What is

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<v Speaker 2>Juliet doing right now? I need like every I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like Juliette is so funny, like I love

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<v Speaker 2>her very much, I just like need to see more

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<v Speaker 2>of her, like she is she hanging out with that

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<v Speaker 2>young ass friend?

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<v Speaker 1>Now are they all drinking?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay my loves Believe it or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually went through the whole episode.

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<v Speaker 2>So that is the end of this one part only

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<v Speaker 2>one part recap of Nagade Fiance.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for listening. I really appreciate.

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<v Speaker 2>Your patience with me as I get through some of

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<v Speaker 2>this traveling and get back to my schedule. While I

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<v Speaker 2>will have more episodes for you, a lot of things

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<v Speaker 2>have been coming up, but a lot of fun things

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah lives are coming your way on YouTube and

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<v Speaker 2>will say the p word pussy, So do what those

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<v Speaker 2>Will be doing some fun lives coming up, and also

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<v Speaker 2>Let's breathe together, hands on hearts, two breaths. Alright, babes,

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<v Speaker 2>take care of yourselves and one another, stand up what

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