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<v Speaker 1>Spider Man with a big bounce at the box office.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what he weaves is unbelievable. And it's only the

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<v Speaker 1>first weekend. Meanwhile, we got Major League Baseball and trades.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some of the big ones. We're gonna talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it in the man Cave. I'm Kate Delany. But

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<v Speaker 1>right at the top we swing into the rundown. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so here we go on at n the story that

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people are talking about because it's so sad,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's one of those Oh man, you gotta be kidding,

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<v Speaker 1>because I take my family and we go and get

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<v Speaker 1>a burger over the weekend or tacos or whatever. We

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<v Speaker 1>go too fast food, and the kids want this and

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<v Speaker 1>they want that. Well. In and Out was highly anticipated

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<v Speaker 1>in Twin Falls, Idaho, and it only open a week

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<v Speaker 1>before it turned into another ugly, ugly, ugly scene of

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunately gun violence.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So, it was a shooting that happened on Saturday at

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<v Speaker 1>two point thirty in the afternoon, and among the victims

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<v Speaker 1>killed was an In and Out employee. Company owner and

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<v Speaker 1>president Lindsey Snyder announced that in a statement and said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just she was so sad and her heart

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<v Speaker 1>was broken for anybody involved in that whatsoever. The nine

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<v Speaker 1>to one one dispatchers could hear screaming in the background

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<v Speaker 1>as they were fielding calls from people reporting gunshots just

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<v Speaker 1>before that two thirty time, I said on Saturday, and

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<v Speaker 1>the area was a commercial area that's super busy, lots

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<v Speaker 1>and lots of tourists, lots of locals. And you see

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<v Speaker 1>the video of it. You see video that was captured

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<v Speaker 1>from cars and other SUVs and whatnot that were driving by,

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<v Speaker 1>and you see you see that there is a suspect.

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<v Speaker 1>There's someone shooting a gun outside the restaurant, and then

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<v Speaker 1>there's somebody going after him. And the good news there

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<v Speaker 1>is that was a person who now they're calling a

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<v Speaker 1>hero because he saved a lot of people by being

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<v Speaker 1>able to pull his gun out and pursue him. Ultimately,

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<v Speaker 1>the shooter took his own life. But boy, oh boy,

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<v Speaker 1>did that end up with people fleeing in all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of directions. There's a lot of question marks as to

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<v Speaker 1>what was the deal with twenty four year old Chad Williams,

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<v Speaker 1>who died of this self inflicted gunshot wound. But there's

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<v Speaker 1>three people that were killed, seven others were injured in

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<v Speaker 1>that melee that he caused. And here's how one person

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<v Speaker 1>described what he saw.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would say he definitely distracted the shooter from

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<v Speaker 3>shooting more people. The shooter was solely focused on him

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<v Speaker 3>and allowed us to get out.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the car director ahead of me was getting shot.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So the scene at this brand new in and out

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<v Speaker 1>in Twin Falls, you know, was like any other where

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<v Speaker 1>you would see, Oh there's new you know, there's balloons,

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<v Speaker 1>there's new things, and it's customers then end up screaming

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<v Speaker 1>and diving from their seats and barricading themselves into the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you get it. You know, I'm giving you

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<v Speaker 1>the description here. You understand what I'm saying. But just

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<v Speaker 1>a terrible thing that happened, for sure. Meanwhile, you had

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<v Speaker 1>other people that were fleeing fires in lots of different

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<v Speaker 1>parts of the country, but Washington State is being talked

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<v Speaker 1>about a lot now because it is a definite state

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<v Speaker 1>of emergency where you have hundreds of structures that have

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<v Speaker 1>just been destroyed flatten, and you have at least sixty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand people evacuated. You have three major wildfires in Spokane.

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<v Speaker 1>No injuries or deaths have been confirmed, so that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>They haven't fully assessed everything. Not even five percent contain

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<v Speaker 1>more than seven thousand acres now totally burned. Communities are

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<v Speaker 1>just devastated, right they You got some people that have

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<v Speaker 1>been able to return to burned out areas and they're

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<v Speaker 1>you know, people are anxious because they want to go

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<v Speaker 1>back into their neighborhoods to see what's left and hoping

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<v Speaker 1>upon hope that there is something there. Fifteen major fires

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<v Speaker 1>have burned more than two hundred and fifty thousand acres

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<v Speaker 1>across Washington. The Pacific Northwest is facing its worst fire

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<v Speaker 1>season in more than thirty years. Thirty years. You got

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<v Speaker 1>firefighters from all overcoming to help so far, like four

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<v Speaker 1>thousand firefighters. Wow, wow, all right, fire of a different sort,

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<v Speaker 1>the war with Iran. Will that be put out anytime soon?

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<v Speaker 1>The President called off what he said was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be one of the biggest strikes of this whole effort

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<v Speaker 1>because he was going to move in a diplomatic a

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<v Speaker 1>diplomatic state instead after talking to the Crown Prince Ben Solomon,

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<v Speaker 1>who pushed for de escalation. No strikes were reported from

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<v Speaker 1>either group Iran or from the US overnight, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>into Sunday and Sunday into to Monday. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we've seen the economic collapse of the initial US Iran ceasefire,

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<v Speaker 1>and now what are we going to see with these

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<v Speaker 1>negotiations that are resuming. The Iran state media gave no

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<v Speaker 1>indication that Tehran asked for the attack to be called

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<v Speaker 1>off or has changed its stands on the waterway, which

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<v Speaker 1>of course is the Strait of Hormus. It was part

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<v Speaker 1>of the Sunday SWIRLD. That's what I call the talking

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<v Speaker 1>heads that are on cable and on networks to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about apolos of the day, usually people on the hill.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's Republican Congressman from Ohio, Mike Turner on Iran.

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<v Speaker 6>Iran is in a position where they're going to have

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<v Speaker 6>to come to a table, whether it's economics, where it's

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<v Speaker 6>energy production, whether it's the loss of critical infrastructure, military infrastructure,

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<v Speaker 6>the loss of their military capabilities. All metrics would show

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<v Speaker 6>a declining capability to continue. They're going to have to

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<v Speaker 6>be in a position where ultimately they're going to have

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<v Speaker 6>to concede to the opening of the straits and returning

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<v Speaker 6>to commerce.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So in the meantime, echoing kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing, but saying, you know, don't lift any sanctions.

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<v Speaker 1>Louisiana Republican Senator John Kerry says this needs to happen

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<v Speaker 1>with Iran.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm always willing to give piece a chance. Respectfully, I

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<v Speaker 7>would remind President Trump of three things. Number One, the

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<v Speaker 7>only reason they're ron is coming to the table, if

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<v Speaker 7>indeed they are, is because Israel and the United States

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<v Speaker 7>of America have have torn them a new ashtray. Number Two,

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<v Speaker 7>no deal is just fine, not preferred, but not preferable,

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<v Speaker 7>but it's fine. A bad deal isn't. Number Three, he

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<v Speaker 7>has to remember that the Iranian government learned to lie

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<v Speaker 7>before they learn to talk, and they're more than mildly insane.

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<v Speaker 7>Dealing with them is like dealing with Son of Sam

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<v Speaker 7>or Charles Manson. Whatever he does, do not release the

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<v Speaker 7>sanctions stopping their sale of oil or remove the blockade

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<v Speaker 7>until we see Ron take firm actions to open the strike.

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<v Speaker 1>Spider Man brand New Day has its second biggest opening

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<v Speaker 7>Going to the man cave, going to the cave, going

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, yes, we are in the man Cave. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of conversation last minute Major league you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Baseball trades that are happening. You got all this trading

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<v Speaker 1>deadline that's in the face of everybody. So some of

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<v Speaker 1>the big moves that happened, and some of the big winners.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course the Dodgers, I mean, yeah, they won the

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty six trade deadline. I think most people would

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<v Speaker 1>say that a blockbuster trade with the Tigers for ace

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<v Speaker 1>left hander in two time defending American League Cy Young

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<v Speaker 1>winner Trek Scuball. You know, that's he, no doubt is

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<v Speaker 1>the top talent that moved leading up to the August

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<v Speaker 1>their deadline. I mean, talk about a talented roster that

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<v Speaker 1>they haven't in the Dodgers, and now there he is.

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<v Speaker 1>And and of course the Tigers with a disappointing season,

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<v Speaker 1>but they still could maybe make the postseason. Anyway, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a four player trade. And now you think about

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<v Speaker 1>that and just again, how much this pitching way in

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<v Speaker 1>And of course the the answer is heavily, heavily right.

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<v Speaker 1>And and people are cynical about the Dodgers and or

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<v Speaker 1>as did so many other teams. But they did acquire

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<v Speaker 1>let's get you some Major League Baseball action. How about

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<v Speaker 1>some scores, Like for the people listening exactly in Saint

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<v Speaker 1>The Cardinals pull off a nice big one. It's on

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<v Speaker 1>the road, though, but who cares. You're watching at home, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And here's how they helped to bury toront So even more.

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<v Speaker 5>And the basin is going to give the Cardinals two

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<v Speaker 1>so they avoid the sweep. So that's nice. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>that's big. Saint Louis won for the fifth time in

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen games since the All Star breaks. You needed that news,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's so that's good, especially because the Blue Jays

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<v Speaker 1>move on from that because the Cardinals now move on

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<v Speaker 1>to the Yankees. And speaking of the Yankees, the Yankees

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<v Speaker 1>and the this was a very tight game. But take

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<v Speaker 13>And that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>the Cubs to one, right, so with a trio of

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<v Speaker 1>Yankees beat the Cubs. So now they move on, of course.

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<v Speaker 1>But Cabylero, he added a single, he ended an eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>just heard, four hundred and eight foot drive against the

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<v Speaker 1>that two jolt. All right, Other baseball scores that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>They were shut out the Angels three zip in Anaheim. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>the pitching was just too much, you know, sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>the Brewers number. And so now the the Brewers will

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<v Speaker 1>Brewers are not out of this thing. The Brewers are

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<v Speaker 1>on the season, they've had some really good series. Tigers

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<v Speaker 1>shut down the A's eleven nothing, the Red Sox and

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<v Speaker 1>the Dodgers. Speaking of the Dodgers, eight four was the

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<v Speaker 1>And what happened there is Rafaelo homeward for the third

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<v Speaker 1>just giving it to them, and the Red Sox now

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<v Speaker 1>Gots rifle through some more scores. This is a to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I've said this before dog days. Uh to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not the dog Days to this is you got

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<v Speaker 1>to pick these updates. And then you got a fisher

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<v Speaker 1>cut bait because of the trading deadline. We know, the

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<v Speaker 1>padresknock off the Giants five to four. The Rockies and

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<v Speaker 1>the Royals in this one at course Field. The Rockies

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<v Speaker 1>to cheer about. Neither of the Royals really. Eight one

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<v Speaker 1>Pirates two. Astros knockoff the Rangers seven three. The Diamondbacks

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<v Speaker 1>So Cleveland wins that one, five zip. And again you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Gavin Williams allowed one hit in five and two third innings,

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<v Speaker 1>in Arizona right good, it's a warm time to see

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<v Speaker 1>a ball game. But hydrate, hydrate beforehand. Phillies shut out

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<v Speaker 1>Yards eight nothing, and the Braves bettered the Nationals, picking

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<v Speaker 1>to date with the scores heading into a Monday. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>rookie players that sometimes can find themselves in that situation

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<v Speaker 7>That they know.

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<v Speaker 1>him since the twenty twenty five seasons. He's gonna miss

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<v Speaker 1>six to twelve months. He got that injury and a

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<v Speaker 1>loss to the Jags in week four of the twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five season. He missed like all our parts of ten

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<v Speaker 1>games last year. He's got to be disappointed, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang with us, meet you on the flip.

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<v Speaker 13>On the show. Off the corner, she asked, still.

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<v Speaker 1>This time on author's corner. This book to me is

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<v Speaker 1>revolutionary in a sense and so important. And the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the book is called Behind This Smile Healing from Abuse,

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<v Speaker 1>Trauma and Betrayal, and it's written by John Sternfells, who

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<v Speaker 1>is you know, a guy who's a therapist who's worked

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<v Speaker 1>with so many people in his career, and having these

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<v Speaker 1>off air conversation with him, I realize just what he

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<v Speaker 1>did with and for this this woman, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa Roberts. Will call her and she tells just the

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<v Speaker 1>unvarnished truth of her story, the things that happened to her.

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<v Speaker 1>So John, we're thrilled to have you here on author's

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<v Speaker 1>Corner with me Kate Delaney on America Tonight. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>sharing this story.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, no, I appreciate Kate that you invited me.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about, you know, Melissa when she first came

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<v Speaker 1>to you, and the things that she had gone through,

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<v Speaker 1>starting from her family life, which she starts with obviously

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning, with the alcoholic father and all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of craziness that happened in that dysfunctional household.

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<v Speaker 15>Sure, so you know, when somebody comes in, they're nervous

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<v Speaker 15>and they don't know if they should go into the

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<v Speaker 15>whole story or not. And so over time, when the

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<v Speaker 15>client is able to feel comfortable and safe, they start

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<v Speaker 15>to unpeel all the history that they've been going through.

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<v Speaker 15>And it just blew me away as she was explaining

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<v Speaker 15>more and more of her childhood life, how traumatic and

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<v Speaker 15>how abusive, neglected, and it's just unbelievable. And so what

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<v Speaker 15>brought her in initially was because there was disturbance in

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<v Speaker 15>her marriage and it turned out to be a sexual

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<v Speaker 15>addiction that the husband had. But then we started peeling back,

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<v Speaker 15>going to her childhood trauma and oh my gosh, it

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<v Speaker 15>is crazy, and so I thought might be good is

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<v Speaker 15>to kind of for the listeners to get a little

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<v Speaker 15>handle on the background of childhood abuse neglect. There are

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<v Speaker 15>approximately three million cases of child abuse and neglect in

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<v Speaker 15>our country, and that's just what's being reported. Estimates show

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<v Speaker 15>that there's two more for everyone being reported that's not

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<v Speaker 15>being reported. That's about a sixty seven percent increase. And

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<v Speaker 15>out of the ones that are being reported, seventy four

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<v Speaker 15>percent are victims of neglect. These are children, seventeen percent

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<v Speaker 15>are physically abused, eleven percent are sexually abused, and seven

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<v Speaker 15>percent are psychologically mistreated. An astounding seventy percent of the

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<v Speaker 15>abusers are parents. What was really interesting one of the

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<v Speaker 15>editors that I hired independently, she read the book and

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<v Speaker 15>she called me up and she is crying. She goes,

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<v Speaker 15>I got to meet Melissa. I can so relate to this.

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<v Speaker 15>In course, my heart's sunk, because, oh my gosh, this

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<v Speaker 15>is just someone you know out there doing the editing,

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<v Speaker 15>and it touched her life right exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And when it took six years, you worked with her

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<v Speaker 1>for six years. When you would unpack all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>did you say to yourself, I wonder if she's going

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<v Speaker 15>That is a valid point and a concern is because

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<v Speaker 15>you've got to be careful of how you navigate all

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<v Speaker 15>this trauma that someone's been experiencing, because it could be

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<v Speaker 15>way too much to handle. So you just have to

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<v Speaker 15>learn that the needle and thread, where you can go

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<v Speaker 15>and where you can't go. It all depends on where

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<v Speaker 15>the client's allowing you to go. So it's really about

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<v Speaker 15>at their pace. And yet as working with trauma is

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<v Speaker 15>helping them to overcome the resistance or the fear of

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<v Speaker 15>addressing the issues because it's much safer just to ignore

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<v Speaker 15>it and try to move on with life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and in telling the stories, talking about the needle

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<v Speaker 1>and thread and what you were doing there and the

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<v Speaker 1>affected somebody in a way that who would have thought that?

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<v Speaker 1>And is this why you wanted it out there because

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<v Speaker 1>you knew that her story was not at least parts

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<v Speaker 1>of it certainly were not unique.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, that's good to ask. And so in working with Melissa,

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<v Speaker 15>it became very apparent that this story needs to get

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<v Speaker 15>out there to the public. A lot of people are

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<v Speaker 15>living in shame, embarrassment, or just simply hopelessness. And so

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<v Speaker 15>the book was really written out of a desire to

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<v Speaker 15>bring awareness and understanding, healing and hope to the population.

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<v Speaker 15>There's a lot of pain and abuse in the trauma.

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<v Speaker 15>And so again sitting across from whether it be women

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<v Speaker 15>or men, different walks of life, everyone's been affected by

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<v Speaker 15>some sort or type of trauma and they hide in

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<v Speaker 15>the anguish Behind the smile.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that's the perfect name for the book, Behind

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<v Speaker 1>the Smile, because people don't know what when you're encountering people,

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<v Speaker 1>what their past is, right, and so to even get

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<v Speaker 1>to your door, it takes a serious, big step in

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<v Speaker 1>people's lives, and certainly in this woman's life.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah. What I found, and this is just a broad

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<v Speaker 15>brush approach to it, is that there are pain points,

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<v Speaker 15>and sometimes people's pain points become so severe their last

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<v Speaker 15>resort is to come in to get help versus their

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<v Speaker 15>first resort. I'm in pain, I don't want to live

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<v Speaker 15>with this, I want to heal, and so you know,

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<v Speaker 15>welcoming those that come in right away, but we also

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<v Speaker 15>know there's a great population that are just living in

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<v Speaker 15>that anguish, and that's a resolve of that's what life

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<v Speaker 15>is to be for them, but that's not true, doesn't

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<v Speaker 15>have to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, tell us more about the book Behind the Smile.

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<v Speaker 15>Behind the Smile is really a live account of Melissa's

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<v Speaker 15>childhood from the very beginning, chronologically going through the different

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<v Speaker 15>ages and development stages of her life, and it really

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<v Speaker 15>is a raw view of things that she experienced to abuse, neglect,

452
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<v Speaker 15>and trauma, And so for the reader's Melissa's opening up

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<v Speaker 15>her life very transparently, nothing held back, and you're seeing

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<v Speaker 15>a journey from a little girl that was a bed

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<v Speaker 15>wedding as a result of trauma and no one paying attention,

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<v Speaker 15>growing up being abused, get into her adult life relationships

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<v Speaker 15>even with a pastor being abused, and then her healing

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<v Speaker 15>journey of breaking free of all that and having a freedom.

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<v Speaker 15>No but he would ever expect that would happen, and

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<v Speaker 15>she's remarried today. Personally, we are friends and we hang together,

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<v Speaker 15>do life together, we do Bible study together. And it's

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<v Speaker 15>just remarkable because if you just met her for the

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<v Speaker 15>first time, she would just be normal with a smile, right,

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<v Speaker 15>But knowing the background of her and seeing who she

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<v Speaker 15>is today is remarkable. Who would have thunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, who would have thunk? For you as a therapist,

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<v Speaker 1>it has to be so rewarding that first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>you could put this together, you were able to work

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<v Speaker 1>together through that, and then you've got it out there

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<v Speaker 1>in the world. But it has to be also rewarding

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<v Speaker 1>when you know you got another one through with that

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<v Speaker 1>needle and thread.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, you know the paycheck. The paycheck is really seeing

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<v Speaker 15>a person's life change and you go to bed, you

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<v Speaker 15>wake up and someone's life has changed.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. Does this give you hope that maybe, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I think putting it out there, people

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<v Speaker 1>who are afraid maybe to get help will take that

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<v Speaker 1>step and get some help.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, it's very inspirational and also it's effective that in

481
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<v Speaker 15>reading somebody else's stories, some type of connection can bring

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<v Speaker 15>someone into therapy and get help. And so it's an influence.

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<v Speaker 15>They're not alone out there, they don't have to hide,

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<v Speaker 15>and just reading that story, maybe it's a loved one

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<v Speaker 15>that someone knows and can help them come in to

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<v Speaker 15>get therapy, just to inspire and to know whoever's suffering,

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<v Speaker 15>they're not alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. When you started as a therapist, did you think

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<v Speaker 1>your journey would lead you to what you're doing now,

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<v Speaker 1>not even close.

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<v Speaker 15>I started as a marital therapist, and it became apparent

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<v Speaker 15>that there's other issues within the marriage that I was

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<v Speaker 15>not trained or experienced in discovering and helping. And I

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<v Speaker 15>just felt a strong sense that I needed to understand

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<v Speaker 15>what else is going on. And to make a longer

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<v Speaker 15>story short is, I got introduced to this area called

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<v Speaker 15>sexual addiction porn addiction, and that led me a direction

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<v Speaker 15>to work with addicts in the marriage and to help

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<v Speaker 15>the marriage heal. And then that led me into, well,

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<v Speaker 15>there's two people in a marriage, and so we have

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<v Speaker 15>the partner, the wife in this case, not gender specific,

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<v Speaker 15>but she needed help, and so I searched for organizations

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<v Speaker 15>that specialized in partner trauma care. And so that just

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<v Speaker 15>led in the whole different trajectory. And so now working

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<v Speaker 15>with the husband who has sexual problems, working with a

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<v Speaker 15>wife who's been traumatized by his sexual problems, and then

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<v Speaker 15>utilizing a marital therapy that can help both of them

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<v Speaker 15>with the bigger dynamics that's at place. And so it

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<v Speaker 15>just evolved nothing that I did, I think first as

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<v Speaker 15>a Christian therapist, I just think God just led me

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<v Speaker 15>in that direction.

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<v Speaker 1>And again the name of the book is Healing from Abuse,

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<v Speaker 1>Trauma and Betrayaled Behind the Smile, John Sternfelds with Melissa Roberts,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've already said this, but what do you hope

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<v Speaker 1>people take away from our conversation? And then ultimately I

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<v Speaker 1>hope getting your book, which they can get on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 1>And of course you have a website too.

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<v Speaker 15>Sure yeah, Johnsternfels dot com. But any major book store

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<v Speaker 15>retailer you can pick up the book. It's available in

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<v Speaker 15>all formats, even audio. What we want the book to

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<v Speaker 15>be able to produce is someone reading it, getting hope,

522
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<v Speaker 15>being encouraged. Don't give up. It is hard work, but nonetheless,

523
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<v Speaker 15>healing can take place. And Melissa's story is a testament

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<v Speaker 15>even at the worst of worst or the hardest of all,

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<v Speaker 15>Melissa came through it. And if she can do it,

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<v Speaker 15>I know anybody else can.

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<v Speaker 1>Perfect place to end this, John, thank you so much,

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<v Speaker 1>my pleasure go to Johnsternfells dot com. You can get

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<v Speaker 1>a Partner's Guide to Truth and Healing. You can get

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<v Speaker 1>download for Parents, Sex, Social Media and Secrets, Sex, secular, Relativism,

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<v Speaker 1>Culture Biblical. That's another book, Sex Across the perspectives again

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<v Speaker 1>Johnsternfells dot com plus the book we just talked about

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<v Speaker 1>Behind the Smile Healing from Abuse, Trauma and Betrayal, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's got a podcast too as well. The podcast is

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<v Speaker 1>so good and so relatable North Point Counseling Perspectives Podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>You can find the links there. Thanks for listening, everybody.

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<v Speaker 16>On the show off this coloner see asked about the

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<v Speaker 16>books they owe.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're speaking with Reverend Pat Baranski, and again the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the book is The Simplicity of Faith. Part

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<v Speaker 1>one Detroit, Michigan, Michigan to Watertown and Reverend you and

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<v Speaker 1>I talked about this off the air. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>your growing up and the lessons you learned from your father.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he said, Uh, I'm going to have sessions with

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<v Speaker 2>you on Saturdays, and uh, if you want a good life,

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<v Speaker 2>you listen to what I tell you and uh find

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<v Speaker 2>out what people need. So I did, and I ended

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<v Speaker 2>up having my own business. I sold bait, I caught

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<v Speaker 2>bait and I sold it, and I cut lawns and

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<v Speaker 2>I picked up pears and uh whatever I could help

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<v Speaker 2>neighbors with and they'd pay me and tell me to

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<v Speaker 2>come back, and uh so I did and saved money

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<v Speaker 2>and used it wisely. And I wasn't like the other

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<v Speaker 2>people that were so prejudiced that would stop me from

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<v Speaker 2>coming because I didn't happen to be German, and so

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<v Speaker 2>the people on the next block were uh, British and European.

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<v Speaker 18>And I got along good with him, and I found out.

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<v Speaker 2>Things in the community that I could do to help people,

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<v Speaker 2>and they liked the way I did it, and they'd

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<v Speaker 2>pay me.

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<v Speaker 1>And your dad had a nickname for you, he called him.

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<v Speaker 1>He called you my little entrepreneur, didn't he? Yep, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that just because he That's exactly what he

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<v Speaker 1>instilled in you. And then the fact that also you

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<v Speaker 1>could deal with so many people, which makes sense when

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about your book, The Simplicity of Faith, Part one, Detroit,

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<v Speaker 1>Michigan to Watertown is how did that journey start for you?

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<v Speaker 1>The rev becoming a reverend?

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<v Speaker 18>Well, I.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was in high school for what about three semesters,

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<v Speaker 2>this girl ended up sitting in front of me because

632
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<v Speaker 2>they would set the kids up alphabetically or something like that,

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<v Speaker 2>and she had beautiful hair, and she was always inviting

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<v Speaker 2>me to church. And I think I mentioned it in

635
00:40:42.119 --> 00:40:50.559
<v Speaker 2>the book. But anyway, the church that I came to,

636
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<v Speaker 2>Christ said back then you could put your side as

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<v Speaker 2>close as you could get it to the road, and

638
00:40:58.440 --> 00:41:00.719
<v Speaker 2>they'd put it on both sides. So I'd see it

639
00:41:00.880 --> 00:41:04.719
<v Speaker 2>twice a day. I saw it six times. There's one

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00:41:04.880 --> 00:41:09.519
<v Speaker 2>mediator between God and man, the man Christ Jesus. So

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<v Speaker 2>I told my wife about it. I said, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to check this church out.

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<v Speaker 18>So I went.

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<v Speaker 2>After seeing that for a week, I went to the

645
00:41:19.599 --> 00:41:24.199
<v Speaker 2>church and he gave an altar call to come and

646
00:41:24.280 --> 00:41:28.400
<v Speaker 2>accept Christ. I stood up and I looked across the

647
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<v Speaker 2>aisle and there was this girl that kept telling me

648
00:41:31.559 --> 00:41:33.840
<v Speaker 2>when I was in high school. She was praying for me.

649
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<v Speaker 2>So I put my coat up so she couldn't see

650
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<v Speaker 2>my face as I walked forward to accept Christ, and

651
00:41:41.639 --> 00:41:47.440
<v Speaker 2>I did. I came back and I told my father

652
00:41:48.760 --> 00:41:54.719
<v Speaker 2>and he says, that's a good thing. And my mother

653
00:41:54.960 --> 00:41:59.239
<v Speaker 2>got hostile and blamed it on my wife. My wife

654
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<v Speaker 2>was on the lane ending at a stairway carrying one

655
00:42:02.480 --> 00:42:05.360
<v Speaker 2>of the kids, and she took her shoe off and

656
00:42:05.599 --> 00:42:08.039
<v Speaker 2>was going to hit my wife, and I grabbed her

657
00:42:08.280 --> 00:42:12.960
<v Speaker 2>arm so she couldn't hit ruby. And my dad looked

658
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<v Speaker 2>at my mother and said, you had that coming.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and for your family too. For the background, so

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<v Speaker 1>people know, I mean in your household, your mom was

662
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<v Speaker 1>Catholic and your father was Jewish, right, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And on the day that the priest was going to

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<v Speaker 2>confirm me, my father grabbed his arm and that didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go well with my mother.

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<v Speaker 18>But you know, that's just the way it was. I

667
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<v Speaker 18>was just a kid being there in the middle of

668
00:42:45.920 --> 00:42:49.599
<v Speaker 18>their squabble. Again, no, no, we got you.

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<v Speaker 1>And so again the reverend. It's so interesting to hear

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00:42:53.599 --> 00:42:57.719
<v Speaker 1>how that all happened. And what's interesting is some of

671
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<v Speaker 1>what happened in the journey along the way, like your

672
00:43:00.719 --> 00:43:02.960
<v Speaker 1>relationship with the Green Bay Packers. Tell us about that.

673
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<v Speaker 18>Oh well, that was after.

674
00:43:08.639 --> 00:43:13.159
<v Speaker 2>I had come to Christ and we moved to Wisconsin

675
00:43:14.400 --> 00:43:20.159
<v Speaker 2>and we lived on a farm there because I stood

676
00:43:20.239 --> 00:43:23.960
<v Speaker 2>for my faith and there was only one hundred and

677
00:43:24.000 --> 00:43:26.840
<v Speaker 2>thirty eight people in that little town, and they were

678
00:43:26.880 --> 00:43:29.960
<v Speaker 2>all Catholics, so they were kind of gostile towards me.

679
00:43:31.280 --> 00:43:36.480
<v Speaker 2>And I was a packer fan, and I went to

680
00:43:36.559 --> 00:43:41.599
<v Speaker 2>work at the canry. And when I was working at

681
00:43:41.639 --> 00:43:44.920
<v Speaker 2>the canry, I met some of the Green Bay Packers

682
00:43:45.360 --> 00:43:48.880
<v Speaker 2>and they invited me to their prayer meeting, and.

683
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<v Speaker 18>So I went from the.

684
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<v Speaker 2>Canry down to the college, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, And

685
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<v Speaker 2>I went to Central Seminary No Maranatha, Yeah, yeah, I

686
00:44:06.159 --> 00:44:09.639
<v Speaker 2>went to Maranatha Church and then after that I went

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<v Speaker 2>to Central Seminary.

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<v Speaker 18>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>So it has been an interesting life. And how you

690
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<v Speaker 1>were called and you knew and did you find your

691
00:44:21.159 --> 00:44:24.440
<v Speaker 1>way and just you know, get better and relate to

692
00:44:24.559 --> 00:44:27.199
<v Speaker 1>people as you went along, no matter where it was that.

693
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<v Speaker 18>You lived pretty much. Yeah, yeah, because well tell her

694
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<v Speaker 18>about your navy, your duty. Okay.

695
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<v Speaker 2>Well, when I tried to join the Navy, and I

696
00:44:41.719 --> 00:44:46.159
<v Speaker 2>fell asleep and didn't pass the test, so they told

697
00:44:46.239 --> 00:44:51.320
<v Speaker 2>me to uh, well, uh, I don't know, you can

698
00:44:51.400 --> 00:44:54.719
<v Speaker 2>come back try again. So what I did is I

699
00:44:55.719 --> 00:44:59.760
<v Speaker 2>joined the Guard Army National Guard, and I got sent

700
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<v Speaker 2>to Fort Knox, Kentucky, and they were filming Goldfinger when

701
00:45:04.239 --> 00:45:04.840
<v Speaker 2>I was there.

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<v Speaker 18>And I came back and let's see, I had joined

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<v Speaker 18>the Navy.

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<v Speaker 2>And I passed the test that time, and I had

705
00:45:23.280 --> 00:45:27.840
<v Speaker 2>two weeks of terminology training learning the difference between Army

706
00:45:27.880 --> 00:45:29.679
<v Speaker 2>and Navy, and then.

707
00:45:31.119 --> 00:45:34.119
<v Speaker 18>Six weeks of mail handling.

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<v Speaker 2>And somewhere along the line when I came back, I

709
00:45:38.840 --> 00:45:40.920
<v Speaker 2>went to the place where I used to There was

710
00:45:41.000 --> 00:45:44.599
<v Speaker 2>a dance hall on one end and a pool haul

711
00:45:44.719 --> 00:45:46.960
<v Speaker 2>the other. I used to go there to shoot pool

712
00:45:48.320 --> 00:45:52.119
<v Speaker 2>little town, and I went in there and I saw

713
00:45:52.239 --> 00:45:57.360
<v Speaker 2>this young lady that was sweeping the floor and I sat.

714
00:45:58.800 --> 00:46:04.480
<v Speaker 18>So I went over there and I asked her if

715
00:46:04.519 --> 00:46:08.119
<v Speaker 18>she wanted to dance with me. She put her.

716
00:46:08.079 --> 00:46:10.760
<v Speaker 2>Proof down and I went over and put a diamond

717
00:46:10.840 --> 00:46:16.719
<v Speaker 2>a jukebox and I hit an old popular song. Then

718
00:46:16.920 --> 00:46:20.880
<v Speaker 2>going to the chapel, and that's where I met my wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I love that story. That's how you met Ruby. Wow,

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00:46:25.519 --> 00:46:29.840
<v Speaker 1>that's a great story. When people read your book, The

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<v Speaker 1>Simplicity of Faith Part one Detroit, Michigan to Watertown, what

722
00:46:33.480 --> 00:46:35.400
<v Speaker 1>do you hope they take away.

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<v Speaker 2>The simplicity of faith, which is what all the writing

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<v Speaker 2>was about coming to Christ and how it changed my

725
00:46:44.360 --> 00:46:50.360
<v Speaker 2>life where I became closer to my father and my

726
00:46:50.519 --> 00:46:53.360
<v Speaker 2>mother became hostile, and.

727
00:46:56.519 --> 00:47:00.119
<v Speaker 18>I grew spiritually and to get.

728
00:47:01.639 --> 00:47:04.960
<v Speaker 2>And we prayed things through and everything we did so

729
00:47:05.159 --> 00:47:07.639
<v Speaker 2>we do the right thing at the right time and

730
00:47:07.800 --> 00:47:08.440
<v Speaker 2>the right way.

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<v Speaker 7>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wow, that's a perfect place to end this. Reverend Baranski,

733
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<v Speaker 1>get this book. It is powerful and this story, I mean,

734
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<v Speaker 1>the simplicity, the lines through it and just what we

735
00:47:21.679 --> 00:47:24.320
<v Speaker 1>talked about there, you'll get that real glimpse of it

736
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<v Speaker 1>for sure. Reverend thanks for coming on. Okay, Wow, the

737
00:47:29.119 --> 00:47:32.639
<v Speaker 1>story of the Reverend Pat Baranski's life and where it

738
00:47:32.760 --> 00:47:35.320
<v Speaker 1>led him as incredible. He's got the first book too.

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00:47:35.440 --> 00:47:38.360
<v Speaker 1>You can get that The Simplicity of Faith Part one Detroit,

740
00:47:38.480 --> 00:47:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Michigan to Watertown, Wisconsin. This story will just make you

741
00:47:42.599 --> 00:47:45.800
<v Speaker 1>tear up. But where it ended up incredible. Their daughter

742
00:47:45.920 --> 00:47:49.599
<v Speaker 1>Michelle nicknamed Nicky, paralyzed at eighteen years old. It was

743
00:47:49.719 --> 00:47:51.800
<v Speaker 1>just a year and a half ago she died. What

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00:47:52.000 --> 00:47:54.840
<v Speaker 1>do we feel for the Baranskis, But this book was powerful.

745
00:47:55.199 --> 00:47:59.679
<v Speaker 1>It led to them starting a company independence. Plus they

746
00:47:59.719 --> 00:48:03.079
<v Speaker 1>helped so many people. They have one hundred employees at

747
00:48:03.119 --> 00:48:07.000
<v Speaker 1>it in Minnesota, all over the place, and what a gem.

748
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<v Speaker 1>As they told me, their son in law David was

749
00:48:10.000 --> 00:48:14.000
<v Speaker 1>through everything and just absolutely loved their daughter Micky. But

750
00:48:14.519 --> 00:48:17.639
<v Speaker 1>Mickey was one of the reasons where they ended up

751
00:48:17.719 --> 00:48:21.039
<v Speaker 1>where they ended up in the Simplicity of Faith. So

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00:48:21.079 --> 00:48:23.960
<v Speaker 1>you can get both of those terrific books on Amazon

753
00:48:24.480 --> 00:48:27.480
<v Speaker 1>or wherever great books are sold. For a song, my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and we thank them for coming on.
