1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:07,799 Speaker 1: I made a de song, Oh face sunny sound. I 2 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:17,399 had a vision. Why it's nice. What's up everybody? Hi, 3 00:00:17,679 --> 00:00:20,879 Hi Stephanie. How are you? I'm good? Thank you? How 4 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,839 are you? I'm good? Happy Friday? You too? Thank you? 5 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,079 So's uh, what's happened? 6 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:32,039 Speaker 2: Well? On Monday when we were recording for our Tuesday episode, 7 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,240 you were going to tell me a story. 8 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:38,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, well okay, you were sort of like, should this 9 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:39,240 be Patreon? 10 00:00:39,719 --> 00:00:43,039 Speaker 2: And I was like, listen, bitch, I told basically something 11 00:00:43,039 --> 00:00:46,039 that should have been Patreon and spent the whole episode 12 00:00:46,079 --> 00:00:46,719 talking about it. 13 00:00:46,759 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 1: So you can write, okay, okay, air your dirty laundry. Well, 14 00:00:50,359 --> 00:00:54,200 everybody keep it. That does eat? Okay, don't turn me 15 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,679 in or say anything because I think the mom's like 16 00:00:56,759 --> 00:01:00,759 active on Facebook now listen. I don't get me wrong. 17 00:01:01,679 --> 00:01:05,640 I love this mom and I've known her since kindergarten 18 00:01:05,799 --> 00:01:09,079 because it's Jensen's mom, and I love the family. I 19 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,480 love her husband. I know you do. Yeah, great people, 20 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,439 and she's she's been like a very good friend of 21 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,439 mine for a long time. But I don't know. No, 22 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:24,840 I don't like to get involved in the little dramas 23 00:01:24,879 --> 00:01:27,920 that happen, and I'm grateful that she has a son 24 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:32,560 and not a daughter. Otherwise I'd be getting dinged constantly. Right, 25 00:01:32,719 --> 00:01:35,640 The drama with the girls are a lot different. But 26 00:01:36,519 --> 00:01:39,560 you know, like the one time I went up to 27 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,319 they do the school parent at the student parent lunch 28 00:01:43,359 --> 00:01:46,239 and when you bring it right, I walked on to 29 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,760 the campus, I got like one foot onto the campus 30 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:52,040 and got like attacked by her and another mom going, hey, 31 00:01:52,079 --> 00:01:54,000 did you hear about the drama with the boys. Do 32 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:57,560 you hear what's going on? Like Sonny said shut up 33 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,200 or get out of here or something, or or said 34 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,239 you were on the bank. You're joining the jump on 35 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,959 the bandwagoners on the basketball courts, and I was like, 36 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:10,680 uh what. And also it's like have you met Sonny. Yeah, 37 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,560 I'm gonna immediately assume I know. And that's what she said. 38 00:02:14,599 --> 00:02:18,199 And she's like, that's furious motives right to like somebody's kid, right, 39 00:02:18,599 --> 00:02:20,319 And that's what I said. I go, well, God, that 40 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,719 doesn't sound like Sonny, but probably. I mean, look, they're 41 00:02:23,759 --> 00:02:27,479 getting older, they're on the basketball courts every day, they're competitive, 42 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,800 and they're with each other every day. They're gonna have 43 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,400 some drama. It's gonna happen. And she's just like, well, 44 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,840 I just don't want, you know, everybody's feelings to get hurt. 45 00:02:36,879 --> 00:02:40,400 And it really wasn't nothing. It was a no nothing, 46 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:44,919 and I just was like okay, and then I had 47 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,439 to go find like Natalia's friends, a moms or whatever, right, 48 00:02:49,039 --> 00:02:52,680 but okay, and then that was that. Then then the 49 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:57,680 other day, I was during the week and I don't know, yeah, 50 00:02:57,680 --> 00:02:58,919 it was during the week, and I was having a 51 00:02:59,039 --> 00:03:01,039 nice evening with at him and the kids and we 52 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,840 were laughing or whatever, and then I got a long text. 53 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,680 And usually that's when I put my phone away and 54 00:03:07,759 --> 00:03:09,960 I don't check it, and then I come back and 55 00:03:10,039 --> 00:03:11,599 then I look at it and then there's a bunch 56 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:12,000 of texts. 57 00:03:12,599 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 2: That's when I'm that's always when I'm like, look that 58 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,319 I had something that I really need to tell you. 59 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,400 And then it's like eighteen texts later and you're like, oh, yees, 60 00:03:21,479 --> 00:03:24,120 four days later you're like, oh, shoot, no, I'm just 61 00:03:24,199 --> 00:03:24,639 looking at this. 62 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 1: I know. I yeah. But so I get the one 63 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,479 from the mom and it's long, and it's like, hey, 64 00:03:32,719 --> 00:03:37,719 you know, because okay, so here's the setup. So for 65 00:03:37,879 --> 00:03:41,599 some reason, during like one week two weeks ago, it 66 00:03:41,719 --> 00:03:44,360 was it was a coincidence, like Sonny had something going 67 00:03:44,439 --> 00:03:46,759 after school with his dad. I can't remember. I think 68 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,599 he was going to work with dad or he's doing 69 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:54,560 something I can't remember. Uh. Anyway, so uh, Jensen wanted 70 00:03:54,599 --> 00:03:57,319 to play dight after school he couldn't. Then there was 71 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:00,560 another day where Sonny was like exhausted and came home 72 00:04:00,719 --> 00:04:03,479 and which is unlike Sonny usually is full of energy, 73 00:04:03,759 --> 00:04:05,520 and he was exhausted and he came home and he 74 00:04:05,639 --> 00:04:07,319 was all in the same week that it was the 75 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,520 same day he was like, Jensen was calling and calling 76 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,439 and calling and calling, and and then I get the 77 00:04:12,479 --> 00:04:14,960 text from the text goes to me and to Olga, 78 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,759 like from the mom like, hey, Jens wants to know 79 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:21,600 Sonny's around. And I said to Olga, Sonny, do you 80 00:04:21,639 --> 00:04:24,120 want to play with Gens? And he's like, I'm so exhausted, Mom, 81 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,800 I'm totaled. I'm too tired. So I like text back 82 00:04:26,879 --> 00:04:27,560 like sorry. 83 00:04:27,639 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: You know, by the way, he's so only a couple 84 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,480 of months out of his head injury, that's true. 85 00:04:31,759 --> 00:04:32,759 Speaker 1: I don't even think about that. 86 00:04:32,959 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 2: Sometimes he's going to be tired and he should know 87 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,519 his own body. Sorry to like jump right, in and pretend. Yeah, 88 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,319 but he should know his limits and when he needs rest, 89 00:04:41,399 --> 00:04:43,839 he should take it. Yeah, I forgot about that. I 90 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:48,759 actually forgot about his head injury. So yeah, and then 91 00:04:48,959 --> 00:04:51,480 I said and I said, Sonny. Oh, and then I 92 00:04:51,519 --> 00:04:53,800 had to take Sonny to a practice that night, so 93 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:54,800 I took him to practice. 94 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:56,959 Speaker 1: I said, did you did? Because then he rested up 95 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,360 for his practice is like six thirty to seven thirty, 96 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,959 so by then he had energy. And I said, did 97 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,120 you call back Jensen yet? No, I'll talk to him tomorrow. 98 00:05:06,199 --> 00:05:09,199 I go. But he's like, Adam, it's fine, he's fine, 99 00:05:09,319 --> 00:05:11,560 I'll talk to him tomorrow. I go. But Jensen is 100 00:05:11,639 --> 00:05:15,160 like Natalia. They are a lot alike. And Jensen's sensitive 101 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,759 and he's a go getter and Italian's a go getter 102 00:05:17,959 --> 00:05:20,480 and they're like, you know, and Sonny's a no getter 103 00:05:20,759 --> 00:05:23,519 and it's like, you know, he's like me, like soe 104 00:05:23,639 --> 00:05:27,839 Xander right see total yeah, like it's someone's. 105 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 2: Bought bugging him to make plans, right, yeah, it's like 106 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,920 and Sadie's more of the go because she's always like, 107 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:35,759 who are we playing with? 108 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 1: What? Can you call this person? Can you call that person? 109 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,480 Can I have a sleepover? Can they sleep over here? 110 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 2: Can they? 111 00:05:41,319 --> 00:05:44,879 Speaker 1: That's what I get from Italians. In between. Elvi's kind 112 00:05:44,879 --> 00:05:47,480 of mellow. Yeah, she's a little more of a no getter. 113 00:05:48,079 --> 00:05:50,759 Sometimes she's got it in her and sometimes she does. Yeah, 114 00:05:50,959 --> 00:05:53,560 that's good, that's good. It's a good balance. Yeah. So 115 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:56,519 you know, and and he's sensitive and I know that, 116 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,519 and I said, well, you should probably text him. He's 117 00:05:58,519 --> 00:06:00,920 been calling you and calling you, and even Natalia was like, 118 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,720 Sonny called Jensen back and he's like, I'm just tired 119 00:06:04,759 --> 00:06:06,639 and I just want to go to practice. And you know, 120 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,879 was there anything else behind it? Do you think? 121 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,399 Speaker 2: That's what I asked him. And we've been kind of 122 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,199 Was he at all like a little bit underwhelmed by 123 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:15,319 hanging out with Jens? 124 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: No, I asked him. I said, something happened? What's going on? 125 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,480 And he's like, no, Mom, it's just a coincidence this week, okay, 126 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,800 you know, and I because he would tell me, yeah, 127 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,439 So I said, okay, all right, and then and then 128 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,199 like a couple of days later, like I brought it up, 129 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,199 everything going good with the boys, and then he's like, 130 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,959 why is everybody asking me about how me and the 131 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,560 boys are doing. Everything's fine, Like Olga asked me, why 132 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,399 don't I want to play that? Played it? Oh so? 133 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:45,319 So then the next week he uh, okay. Then it's like, 134 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,279 can'da bitch be tired? I know, leave me the fuck. 135 00:06:48,759 --> 00:06:52,240 So the next week he has this trampoline and he 136 00:06:52,319 --> 00:06:56,240 got he finally got the the the basketball hoop put 137 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,720 up for his that's his Christmas present and he really hasn't. 138 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,959 He really wanted that basketball hoop and it got put 139 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:03,639 up and he was all excited. So Monday, were you 140 00:07:03,639 --> 00:07:05,040 going to school? And I said, so, what are you 141 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,560 guys doing after school today? And I said, Sony, why 142 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,160 don't you He's like, I'm getting on that trampoline. And 143 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,120 I said, why don't you invite Jensen over? And you 144 00:07:12,199 --> 00:07:13,600 guys go on the trail and he goes, I would, 145 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,360 but Olga doesn't let anybody come over after school because 146 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,920 Olga picks them up and I'm like, what do you 147 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,480 and she's like, he goes no, He's like, we're not 148 00:07:21,519 --> 00:07:23,800 allowed to have playdates after school and to tell he's like, yeah, 149 00:07:23,879 --> 00:07:26,040 she doesn't let us. And I noticed that they haven't 150 00:07:26,079 --> 00:07:28,800 had any playdates and it's good because they need to 151 00:07:28,839 --> 00:07:31,399 focus they need to get you know, on track with 152 00:07:31,439 --> 00:07:33,639 their homework, and they've gotten so much better, their grades 153 00:07:33,639 --> 00:07:38,160 have gotten better, and so I said, well, I think 154 00:07:38,199 --> 00:07:40,279 we can make an exception one day. I think Jensen 155 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,079 really wants to see you, and he was like okay. 156 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:47,720 So then that day he comes home, no Jensen, and oh, 157 00:07:47,759 --> 00:07:49,600 And I text Olga and I said, I think you 158 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:53,560 know this, you know this, you should probably have Oh. 159 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,959 This was after I got the text from the mom. 160 00:07:56,079 --> 00:07:57,600 So then at the end of the week, I got 161 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,879 a text, long text, and it was like I was 162 00:08:00,959 --> 00:08:05,319 talking to Jensen before bed tonight and he is feeling 163 00:08:05,399 --> 00:08:07,759 really bad because he thinks said he did something because 164 00:08:07,759 --> 00:08:10,120 he feels like Sonny never wants to do anything with him. 165 00:08:10,639 --> 00:08:13,399 And Sonny's answer is always like if I say you 166 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,279 want to go do this, he'll say no, it's okay. 167 00:08:16,519 --> 00:08:18,560 He'll say no, it's okay. That's his answer, like no, 168 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:22,279 I don't want to do it, and I just don't know, like, 169 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,240 and you know, I call him and he doesn't call 170 00:08:24,319 --> 00:08:27,199 me back, and he's always you know, busy after school 171 00:08:27,279 --> 00:08:30,040 and so you know, and so she's telling me all 172 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,440 this in the text, and now I'm like, oh, Jesus 173 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:37,039 crime Andy what And then so I text back and 174 00:08:37,159 --> 00:08:39,879 I said, this, you know, breaks my heart. I'm sorry 175 00:08:39,919 --> 00:08:42,519 because I rarely get this text and this is kind 176 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,080 of like the first time right from her, right, She's 177 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,960 not dramatic, right, So I was like, oh, this breaks 178 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,200 my heart. I said, it's just been such a cool 179 00:08:50,399 --> 00:08:52,480 I said, you know, Olga and I were talking the 180 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,639 other day, like, Sonny hasn't asked for any any to 181 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,679 play with anybody, you know, because it's not Olga's not 182 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:02,639 like every day, you know, no play dates, but once 183 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,720 in a while they can, you know, go do something. 184 00:09:04,879 --> 00:09:07,159 And he hasn't like usually some like at least once 185 00:09:07,279 --> 00:09:08,960 or twice a week he wants to go do something. 186 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,960 And so I said, you know, it's weird. You know, 187 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,720 Olda and I were talking that he hasn't asked for anybody. 188 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:20,200 I really, Jens shouldn't take it seriously seriously. This was 189 00:09:20,279 --> 00:09:22,600 coming off of a day, this is what happened. This 190 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,279 was coming off of a day where she planned a 191 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,519 day for them, and she said, I'm going to take 192 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:31,759 Jensen to this skate park where Jensen has a scooter 193 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,159 and his little brother has a scooter, and Sonny can 194 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:38,360 use his little brother's scooter. And we have helmets. I 195 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,759 got sunny, he's got his helmet, and I want to 196 00:09:40,799 --> 00:09:44,200 take them to the park. Can Sonny go? And I said, 197 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,600 oh my god, he would love that. Sure. So she 198 00:09:46,759 --> 00:09:48,320 picked them up and it was a nice day and 199 00:09:48,399 --> 00:09:50,240 I had he had a great time. And now I 200 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:51,720 came home and he's like, I got my where's my 201 00:09:51,799 --> 00:09:54,799 Amazon gift certificate from Christmas? He's like, I'm buying. I'm 202 00:09:54,799 --> 00:09:56,480 going to go on Amazon buy a scooter. I want 203 00:09:56,519 --> 00:09:59,120 a scooter and got like for like sixty bucks. And 204 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:01,240 I was like, a I get a scooter. And then 205 00:10:02,639 --> 00:10:05,320 after that day, it was a nice day. And then 206 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,480 she was putting him to bed and he was saying this, 207 00:10:08,799 --> 00:10:11,000 and I was like, but so you're like, well they 208 00:10:11,159 --> 00:10:14,000 just hung out. That's what I said. I said, Sonny 209 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,240 had a great day. And he's like, all, you know, 210 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,360 inspired to go get in scooter now. And he was 211 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,320 actually saying like Jensen was showing him how to do everything. 212 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,639 And he never, you know, he never says anything's going 213 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:28,399 on or anything. I think it's just he hasn't been 214 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:32,360 wanting to do play dates or whatever. And so here's 215 00:10:32,399 --> 00:10:34,600 where they so then I sent her a long, thoughtful 216 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:38,840 out text and I never she never text me back, 217 00:10:39,639 --> 00:10:44,360 really no answer. And then I was on a group 218 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,480 text with somebody by a bunch of their moms about 219 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:50,519 something else and I answered she but she never. She 220 00:10:50,639 --> 00:10:53,960 never answered me. She never said anything, and I thought 221 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:57,679 it was really strange. I don't like, did I say 222 00:10:57,759 --> 00:11:01,879 something in the text like that sad did not genuine? 223 00:11:01,919 --> 00:11:05,279 I don't know, but I just said, like, Sonny's fine, 224 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:08,360 he doesn't have any beefs because I know, you know, 225 00:11:08,399 --> 00:11:11,639 I've asked him, so I don't know. And then and 226 00:11:11,799 --> 00:11:14,000 then she's like, please keep this quiet because I don't want, 227 00:11:14,159 --> 00:11:16,600 you know, him to feel like you know, and here 228 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:20,639 I am talking about it on the podcast. Well, so 229 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:24,519 but I did ask him, and he's like, why is 230 00:11:24,519 --> 00:11:27,480 everybody asking me about you know? And I said, just 231 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:29,200 I don't know. I said, he's been wanting to play 232 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,399 date have play dates with you. So anyway, it's just 233 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,480 that it's just the whole not texting me back and 234 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,720 the mom you know, I'm just not used to that 235 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:43,960 is and I'm I don't like when I get it's 236 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,039 a nothing kind of you know, but nothing like why 237 00:11:47,279 --> 00:11:50,279 do I get this like long text about you know, 238 00:11:50,639 --> 00:11:54,519 it broke her heart, and he's like upset coming off 239 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,919 of a great day. I don't know, it's just that's 240 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,559 interesting that it was coming off of a great day. Yeah, 241 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,360 I said you had a good time. Yeah, okay, you 242 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:06,120 never didn't say anything. I was talking to him when 243 00:12:06,159 --> 00:12:08,360 I was putting them to bed. Nothing, you know, And 244 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,159 so I don't know, it's weird. 245 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:16,279 Speaker 2: I have an opposite perspective you too, well, just I 246 00:12:16,399 --> 00:12:19,360 had a situation. I don't know if I ever talk 247 00:12:19,399 --> 00:12:21,559 to you about it on the podcast. Maybe I tried 248 00:12:21,639 --> 00:12:25,120 not to in case they listened. But Sadie had a 249 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,879 thing with one of her friends that they were like 250 00:12:29,039 --> 00:12:30,159 bff's all summer. 251 00:12:30,399 --> 00:12:32,519 Speaker 1: Did I tell you about that? No? I don't. 252 00:12:32,519 --> 00:12:36,799 Speaker 2: It was like her absolute BF. They hung out all 253 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,600 the time in the summer. I sometimes they slept over 254 00:12:40,639 --> 00:12:43,440 at her house. They slept over at my house. We 255 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:46,519 had long days together, went to trips to Magic Mountain. 256 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:53,360 And then school started, and the suddenly Sadie was asking 257 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,679 for some playdates with the girl on the weekend and 258 00:12:55,799 --> 00:13:01,320 the week and then always busy, and then every time 259 00:13:01,399 --> 00:13:07,240 I asked, they said no, sorry, she can't and it 260 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:08,960 was like it was weird to me because we'd gone 261 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,720 from spending so much time with her. And then Sadie 262 00:13:11,759 --> 00:13:13,440 said that the girl wasn't being nice to her at 263 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:17,159 school and was being like kind of icing, that s different. Yeah, 264 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:22,240 And then so then I eventually did write a similar 265 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,240 maybe a little bit of a Gensen mom type. 266 00:13:25,399 --> 00:13:29,279 Speaker 1: Text, and I was like, hey, I oh. 267 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 2: I tried to keep it light at first, and I 268 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,039 was like, hey, I hate to keep asking, but you know, 269 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:39,720 Sadie really wants to have a playdate. But if it's 270 00:13:39,919 --> 00:13:42,600 if something's going on and she doesn't want to, just 271 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,679 tell me, so I can stop asking because I starting 272 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:50,159 the mom Ever, like, then she wrote back. So then 273 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,600 there was a long pause and she didn't answer. Then 274 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,480 she wrote back and she was like, no, we're just 275 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:55,399 really busy. 276 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: On the weekends. We just have a lot of activities. Sorry. 277 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,440 So then I was like, but see that doesn't match 278 00:14:01,519 --> 00:14:05,039 up with the behavior at school, right, And I get 279 00:14:05,159 --> 00:14:07,759 that now this is a difference. This is a different scenario. 280 00:14:07,879 --> 00:14:09,519 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I've been on the other side of 281 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:13,159 it where I've been like not want like going, not 282 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:13,879 trying to make. 283 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: A big deal, but like what's going on? But then 284 00:14:17,039 --> 00:14:17,399 I did. 285 00:14:17,519 --> 00:14:20,039 Speaker 2: I say it's something going on and she was like nope, 286 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:24,759 But then yeah, But then Sadie was like, she doesn't talk. 287 00:14:24,639 --> 00:14:25,159 Speaker 1: To me anymore. 288 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 2: She'd but BFS with this other girl now and she's 289 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,720 completely not acting like my friend. And there was this 290 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,360 part of me that really wanted to go Can we 291 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,320 talk about this to the mom? 292 00:14:36,559 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: Right? 293 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 2: But I didn't because I reeled it in because I 294 00:14:41,759 --> 00:14:44,039 didn't want to. And this is a different scenario. I 295 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:45,720 know it's different, but I'm saying I reeled it in 296 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:48,360 and I didn't say anything. Months and months went by 297 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:51,279 because we're talking. These two kids have not had a 298 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:54,399 play date since the summer and it's now January, right, 299 00:14:55,039 --> 00:14:57,960 But I didn't say anything because Sadie asked me not. 300 00:14:58,039 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: To also because she was like, it's not to help. 301 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,559 She's not going to play with me at school because you. 302 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:04,519 Speaker 2: Told her mom, like she's not being nice to me 303 00:15:04,559 --> 00:15:07,600 at school, and you know, so I didn't And then 304 00:15:07,759 --> 00:15:11,799 all of a sudden this weekend, Sadie's like, can I 305 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:15,840 have a playdate with this person? And I said, uh, 306 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,919 I mean, if you want to talk to her, if 307 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:22,320 you want to FaceTime her, or whatever, text her and see, 308 00:15:22,519 --> 00:15:24,399 I'm not reaching out to don again. 309 00:15:24,919 --> 00:15:26,919 Speaker 1: Not again. I did, I had. I can't tell you 310 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,919 how many times I asked and was told no, is 311 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,480 this the same family that doesn't do sleepovers. 312 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 2: No, that's a different one. That's who she ended up 313 00:15:37,039 --> 00:15:39,159 becoming friends with. And then I had to work on 314 00:15:39,279 --> 00:15:42,960 those people and warm them up nice. And they've spend time, 315 00:15:43,279 --> 00:15:45,639 they spend lots of time together and they're really good friends. 316 00:15:45,759 --> 00:15:48,360 Good but this other girl was a real heartbreaker for 317 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,080 Sadie because that was like who she thought of as 318 00:15:51,159 --> 00:15:54,639 her closest friend, her first like closed BF. 319 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: And John was even really bummed about it. 320 00:15:56,919 --> 00:15:59,759 Speaker 2: He's like, it's so disappointing because it was Sadie's first 321 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:05,279 life person she really liked and was fun and sparkly personality. Anyway, 322 00:16:06,399 --> 00:16:10,639 the mom, I was like, I'm not I'm not texting her, right, 323 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,120 I'm not, so if you want to work it out. 324 00:16:13,159 --> 00:16:14,960 So then Sadie worked it out with the girl and 325 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:16,600 she was like, yeah, she wants to and her mom 326 00:16:16,679 --> 00:16:19,000 said yes. So I texted the mom and I was like, 327 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,720 apparently the girls want to get together, You're welcome to 328 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,360 bring her over. And she was like sure, I'm going 329 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:26,960 to bring her over at such and such a time. 330 00:16:27,559 --> 00:16:30,240 I wasn't home because I honestly didn't even want to 331 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:35,039 be there, and like I was just like, yeah, it's 332 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:36,960 been like six or seven months. 333 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:41,279 Speaker 1: You know, that's weird. But John said, but she came over. 334 00:16:41,559 --> 00:16:43,679 Speaker 2: I was with the other I was shopping with Xander 335 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,120 and taking Elbie and her friends somewhere. I have too 336 00:16:47,159 --> 00:16:51,480 many kids. But apparently they had a great time, and 337 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,000 I was glad that I didn't make a bigger drama 338 00:16:54,039 --> 00:16:55,600 out of it, right, do you know what I mean? 339 00:16:55,679 --> 00:16:58,639 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, yeah, because there's still the real did is 340 00:16:58,879 --> 00:16:59,039 I know? 341 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,559 Speaker 2: So I'm saying I'm kind of coming in on your 342 00:17:02,679 --> 00:17:06,000 side too, where it's like it doesn't always necessarily. 343 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,279 Speaker 1: Have to be right, the parents working it out and 344 00:17:08,279 --> 00:17:11,640 getting envited. It's like you can't. Yeah, and on Stadie's right, 345 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:13,559 it's not going to change her and like she's not 346 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,599 gonna go because your mom said we should be friends. 347 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:20,880 That the icing out and so why do the girls 348 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,079 do like girls do that? And I don't get it, 349 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,559 Like it's I know that Natalia's has she's seen it, 350 00:17:26,839 --> 00:17:29,480 and Natalia is sort of kind of doing it to 351 00:17:29,599 --> 00:17:31,920 one of her friends now and I don't like it, 352 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:36,000 and and she's like, she's like, you know, because I 353 00:17:36,079 --> 00:17:38,319 took her and Olivia to dinner and we kind of 354 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,200 talked about their friends and they have another friend and 355 00:17:41,599 --> 00:17:43,920 that they were close with, and she's like, I don't know. 356 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:45,920 I just we ask her if she wants to come 357 00:17:46,039 --> 00:17:48,519 and do stuff with us, and she doesn't. She just 358 00:17:48,599 --> 00:17:50,880 wants to, like, you know, be with her other friend. 359 00:17:51,519 --> 00:17:53,839 And I don't know. It just breaks my heart because 360 00:17:53,839 --> 00:17:54,680 they were like so good. 361 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,599 Speaker 2: I don't know, the dynamics in this at this age 362 00:17:58,839 --> 00:18:05,000 are so crazy, like they really do. LB and her 363 00:18:05,279 --> 00:18:08,799 was in a little group and one of the girls 364 00:18:08,839 --> 00:18:10,599 in their group was like, I don't want to be. 365 00:18:10,599 --> 00:18:12,079 Speaker 1: Friends with you guys anymore. You're boring. 366 00:18:12,599 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah bye right bye bitches. And now she's friends with 367 00:18:15,519 --> 00:18:17,359 this other girl, and they're all like, what happened? 368 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:18,039 Speaker 1: What happened? 369 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:20,799 Speaker 2: She doesn't neat lunch with us anymore. She has like 370 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,599 totally new friends. See the other girl and they're like, 371 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,720 we didn't, we didn't, we don't know what happened. The 372 00:18:26,839 --> 00:18:28,119 same the same exact. 373 00:18:29,599 --> 00:18:32,319 Speaker 1: Natalia has a sister that goes that went to middle 374 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,200 school and she's in seventh grade, and there was a 375 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,799 little close she was close with like four of them 376 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,960 and they were very close. And then one of them, 377 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:42,680 as soon as they started middle school, one of them 378 00:18:42,799 --> 00:18:47,640 had a birthday party sleepover and invited everybody but one 379 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:53,279 of the other girls like yeah, and that it was horrible, and. 380 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 2: That girl is I feel like the mom should have 381 00:18:55,559 --> 00:19:00,480 insisted that I the girl of the mom. I little 382 00:19:00,519 --> 00:19:01,599 controversy with the mom. 383 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,799 Speaker 1: She doesn't get along with another mom who I really 384 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:08,440 like and respect, and I don't know that mom very well, 385 00:19:08,559 --> 00:19:11,200 so I trust what the mom I do know, and 386 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:15,480 she's like she's a batch right right, and she's had 387 00:19:15,559 --> 00:19:17,559 some run ins with her, and so I get it. 388 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,279 But the girl I took her once to Disneyland with 389 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:27,000 me because she's friends with the big sister anyway, and 390 00:19:27,319 --> 00:19:29,799 she's really sweet. She's a really sweet girl. And all 391 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:31,720 of the girls are really sweet. The one that got 392 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:34,920 iced out is super sweet and was on like Natalia's 393 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:36,960 basketball team. And that's what I'm saying. 394 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,799 Speaker 2: Even if the moms don't get along, don't you just 395 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,839 go like you can't just suddenly eliminate like like thee. 396 00:19:42,559 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 1: Doesn't give it, like she doesn't look at it that way. 397 00:19:44,599 --> 00:19:46,839 I think she's just like, well, let them make their 398 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,319 own decisions. If that's their decision, that's their decision. So 399 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:50,880 I don't like that. I don't like it either. 400 00:19:52,519 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 2: I don't like that you don't know, making your own 401 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:58,759 decisions at zero eleven, the rest of don exclude one 402 00:19:58,839 --> 00:19:59,960 girl when they didn't even. 403 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 1: Do if you know, I know, isn't that? So from 404 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,319 what I understand, the rest of the other girls are 405 00:20:06,799 --> 00:20:08,839 closer with that girl that got iced out and they 406 00:20:09,079 --> 00:20:12,799 iced out the oh the icy ier. Yeah, the ier 407 00:20:13,079 --> 00:20:15,920 they iced out the iicer. The icer became the icy right, 408 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,759 so she's the icya. Now she got banished, Oh, she 409 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:22,960 got sent to the course. It didn't work out. Yeah, 410 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,200 it didn't work out for her. So now she's kind 411 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,480 of I don't know, but but I've also heard that 412 00:20:27,559 --> 00:20:30,880 she's gone off with other like the popular kids, you know, 413 00:20:31,079 --> 00:20:33,880 because there's new kids. They all meet new kids at 414 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:38,000 the middle school and then they go off and start 415 00:20:38,039 --> 00:20:41,680 their own relationships. And it's like, I worry like that, 416 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:43,759 you know this is going to happen. 417 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:47,519 Speaker 2: It's so different now, like than when we were I 418 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:54,160 can't even imagine my mom like getting involved I know 419 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:58,160 my mom could not have given a shit less Yes, 420 00:20:58,839 --> 00:20:59,920 I know my mom. 421 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: Gon you speak English. My mom gave zero fox about 422 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,240 my social life. Yeah, my mom. Like my mom didn't 423 00:21:06,279 --> 00:21:08,720 like most of my friends. She only liked the pretty ones. 424 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,599 Isn't that horrible right? The overweight ones were lazy? Don't 425 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,599 to hang out with that of Pama. She's a lazy. 426 00:21:16,599 --> 00:21:18,640 She's a lazy. She doesn't like the work that. She 427 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,599 doesn't like her to do anything. She gets a bad 428 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,720 a grades that. Don't hang out with her. You don't 429 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:27,160 need to hang out with her. Oh, Tina, you're pretty, 430 00:21:28,519 --> 00:21:32,599 hang out with a Tina. Where's the Tina? Where's Tina? Josephine? 431 00:21:33,279 --> 00:21:35,960 She always calls my friends by the wrong names too. 432 00:21:36,319 --> 00:21:38,480 I like that she gives them all Italian names. Yes, 433 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,759 she'd be like, why don't you hang out with Maria? 434 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:45,279 She did that. Josephine was one name. You're like, her 435 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:49,240 name's Dola. I know, Dahlia. You with all of your friends, 436 00:21:49,519 --> 00:21:53,960 Jefe and Maria and the Santa Margarita. You don't need 437 00:21:54,039 --> 00:21:56,119 to hang out with those people. I'm like, who are 438 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,759 those people? I don't you're making up names? Mom? 439 00:21:59,839 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 2: She listen Jesus, where's the Tony? Just every all guys 440 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,359 are Tony and all girls are Maria murryeh oh. 441 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: And then my boyfriend Mike Gerstein came over like She's like, 442 00:22:11,559 --> 00:22:15,400 I don't not like him. Why daddy likes him? He's 443 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:19,240 a nice Jewish boy. I don't like him. I don't 444 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,319 trust him because in the end, he's going to win 445 00:22:22,559 --> 00:22:25,000 and you were going to lose. That was her line, 446 00:22:25,319 --> 00:22:29,079 Like like what when? What what? I don't know what 447 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,759 you're talking about? When what she's she would have Oh god, 448 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,680 was she talking about your virginity? I think that's what 449 00:22:35,839 --> 00:22:39,240 she was talking about. Like, don't to hang out with him. 450 00:22:39,319 --> 00:22:42,480 He's a brick layer. That's that's another thing. Everybody was 451 00:22:42,519 --> 00:22:45,440 a brick layer. Anybody that was lazy and no good 452 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,559 for me and not a good boyfriend was a brick layer. 453 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,400 But I don't understand that even that is that like 454 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,599 as a job, Yeah, he's a brick because that sounds hard. 455 00:22:53,759 --> 00:22:56,119 That's like manual labor. Yeah, that means like they're not 456 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,319 making any money. Oh, there's no good they're not making 457 00:22:59,319 --> 00:23:04,119 any money. What if it's union because Mike worked for 458 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,039 the cable company. Oh, it would come over and he's 459 00:23:07,079 --> 00:23:09,880 a cable layer, yes, and he would like rig our cable. 460 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,359 So we got free cable. I wouldn't go out every 461 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,359 couple of months though, like Mike, you got to come 462 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,319 back over. And she enjoyed the free cable, which was 463 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,880 fine for her because she got to watch Jakala Lane 464 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,839 in the morning and work out in the morning with 465 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:29,200 a Jacque Lane. She loved Jacqueline. Oh my god, my god. 466 00:23:29,599 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 2: We had we had stolen cable when I was everybody 467 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,440 every late twenties, I feel like living in Santa Monica. 468 00:23:37,559 --> 00:23:42,039 So we got somebody back. But the cable person would 469 00:23:42,079 --> 00:23:44,039 sometimes you could pay them off. You give them like 470 00:23:44,079 --> 00:23:47,799 fifty bucks and they'd hook through your apartment building, right, 471 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,759 they'd just let they would have the cable come through 472 00:23:51,839 --> 00:23:56,319 your into your unit, into your unit, passed through, right, 473 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,119 and then they would just put it out a connector 474 00:23:58,559 --> 00:24:02,759 so you'd get cable, connect it off of everyone else's cable, right, fifty. 475 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:06,319 Speaker 1: Bucks and you'd just have cable. But then how much 476 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,720 was cable by you think about my dad had a 477 00:24:08,799 --> 00:24:11,880 nice job. I mean, we weren't spit poor, but we 478 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,480 were middle class. Like, why can't you pay like I 479 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,400 don't know. Wasn't it like twelve ninety nine a month 480 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,920 or something like we don't need a cable. I don't know. 481 00:24:19,079 --> 00:24:22,119 I mean I think it was expensive. Yeah, maybe it was. 482 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 2: But I remember then there was a big scare because 483 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,519 the cable companies were going around checking everybody's. 484 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,599 Speaker 1: Units to see if you were stealing cable. Yes. 485 00:24:31,279 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And then I believe, because this was a long 486 00:24:35,039 --> 00:24:38,319 time ago, but I believe that they did come through 487 00:24:38,519 --> 00:24:40,400 because you know, we didn't own our unit. 488 00:24:40,519 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 1: We rented and then one day we came and there 489 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,759 was no more cable. Yeah, that happened to us. It 490 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,880 was a sad day really, because Mike was like, I 491 00:24:50,039 --> 00:24:52,640 can't I'm sorry, I can't go. I can't do it. 492 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,599 I'm gonna get in trouble. And I'm like, really, it 493 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,759 was horrible. You're like, isn't it just a little connector? 494 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,160 I know? And we had the old TV, Like the 495 00:25:02,599 --> 00:25:05,400 TV was horrible. Well, I grew up with the TV 496 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:09,039 where you got changed physically changed the channel. Yeah, remember those. 497 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:10,839 Speaker 2: That's no joke that we go Like when I was 498 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,519 a kid, you had to get up. There were no 499 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:19,279 remote controls. Three channels, four channels, right, you had CBS, NBC, ABC, 500 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,039 and then Fox even came a little later, right, but 501 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,680 we had we had Channel five, Channel five and Channel 502 00:25:25,759 --> 00:25:28,799 fifty two, that one that you really needed the antenna 503 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,960 to get Channel fifty two so I could watch Kimba 504 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:31,559 the White Lion. 505 00:25:31,799 --> 00:25:34,839 Speaker 1: Right. I remember going to my friend's house. She was 506 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,720 a rich one who lived in the hills, and and 507 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,640 she had cable and she had on TV and Select TV, 508 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,960 and there there was a Channel X, right, yeah, I 509 00:25:45,039 --> 00:25:49,759 think so, I don't. I just remember that you could 510 00:25:49,799 --> 00:25:54,440 get movies, yes, And there was the movie Through the 511 00:25:54,519 --> 00:25:57,920 Green Door or through the Green Glass, okay, and behind 512 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,240 the Green Door, Behind the Green Door, yeah, the last 513 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,599 Maryland Chambers. Yeah, porn, but it was it wasn't like 514 00:26:05,039 --> 00:26:07,279 I think she didn't she couldn't have it or something. 515 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,119 It kind of was like, you know, staticky, and I 516 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,759 remember watching it going what the fuck is going on? 517 00:26:13,079 --> 00:26:14,759 Like that's the first time I saw porn. I was like, 518 00:26:15,039 --> 00:26:17,200 holy shit, I must have been eleven. I must have 519 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,319 been the kid's age. Yeah, no, weird. 520 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to remember how old I was when 521 00:26:25,279 --> 00:26:27,519 I saw something dirty, like something. 522 00:26:27,319 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 1: On TV or mm hmm. I remember like this guy, 523 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,640 this kid at my school, Mike Stone, and he brought 524 00:26:36,759 --> 00:26:40,440 Playboy and everybody was looking at it, and I remember 525 00:26:40,519 --> 00:26:42,880 seeing it going, oh my god. Then I wanted to 526 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,839 see it. What's going on on the magazine? Let me see? 527 00:26:46,799 --> 00:26:49,960 Let me see? I mean, I but I think I 528 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:54,160 was like in seventh grade. I think I'm pretty sure 529 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,559 because I picturing the school and it was middle school. 530 00:26:57,799 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what else, Like, I don't know 531 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,799 what LBC. And I don't want to be like a 532 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,599 total no getter parent, but it's not really a no getter. 533 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,640 It's more like a no wanna know get her. 534 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,440 Speaker 1: Yah. I don't want to know. I want to know getter, 535 00:27:09,799 --> 00:27:12,039 Like I don't want to know what she knows. I 536 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:12,680 know what I mean. 537 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,759 Speaker 2: I like to think of her as innocent, although I 538 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:21,599 know she does know stuff. It's interesting. I remember, I 539 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,759 wonder if I ever told you this before. I remember 540 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,400 getting a hold of a copy of my parents The 541 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,920 Joy of Sex pretty young age, and so I knew 542 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,160 kind of you know. But it was like these drawings 543 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:38,200 of the positions. But in one of the pages, the 544 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,920 woman had this what looked to me to be a 545 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:44,400 knife and was holding it up against the guy's penis, 546 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,720 and I always was so completely freaked out by that, like, 547 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,359 oh my god, like why is she cutting off his penis? 548 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,319 Like why is she have a knife? And it was 549 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,799 a very scary image to me for many years. But 550 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,000 I didn't want my parents to know that I've been 551 00:27:59,039 --> 00:28:05,119 looking at right joy of sex. Years later, I somehow 552 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,039 it came up. I don't know about the joy of sex, 553 00:28:07,079 --> 00:28:09,640 and I had I don't know if it was to 554 00:28:09,759 --> 00:28:13,759 my mom later. You'd think this would be seared in 555 00:28:13,839 --> 00:28:15,519 my memory if it was a conversation I had with 556 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,640 my mom. But it literally I was like older at this, 557 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,079 like over eighteen when I was like this picture always 558 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,839 freaked me out. And whoever it was, either my mom 559 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,359 or someone else, was like, that's a vibrator. And I 560 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,960 was like, oh my god, thank god. 561 00:28:32,839 --> 00:28:36,640 Speaker 1: John Wayne Bobbit, Oh my god, do. 562 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 2: You even know what I'm talking now? Okay, it looked 563 00:28:39,559 --> 00:28:42,160 like a knife. It looked like she's holding a night 564 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,880 It was some sexual drawing. Yeah, it was a sex toy. 565 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: Well obviously a knife. To me, artists did know how 566 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,319 to draw a vibrator. They did not, and they freaked 567 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:56,839 you out. I had the encyclopedias, and then I knew 568 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,960 like like one of them, like I don't know the trial, 569 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:07,759 you know, like the African tribal whatever people, and I 570 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,039 just remember seeing like the boobs, the women like with 571 00:29:10,119 --> 00:29:11,960 the holding the thing on their heads, with their rights. 572 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,359 I'm like going, oh, they have to walk around naked 573 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,160 like that. Oh my god, that's horrible. I remember seeing that. 574 00:29:18,799 --> 00:29:22,559 And then I remember seeing some other like the boobs 575 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,559 in another encyclopedia, and I would just like, you know, 576 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,000 I was a pervert. I would like look at that, 577 00:29:29,119 --> 00:29:30,640 and then I would I would want to talk to 578 00:29:30,759 --> 00:29:33,319 my parents about it, but I was like too shy, 579 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,200 like all right, go what's going on here. I don't 580 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,359 remember what that other image was, but but I remember 581 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:43,200 the women carrying the pots on their head and then 582 00:29:43,319 --> 00:29:46,359 like their babies around, you know, on their stomach, and going, 583 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,599 oh my god, can't they cover up? Can they get 584 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,640 some leaves or something? They felt bad so they may 585 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:57,640 get some leaves? Holy shit? Yeah, yeah, I was a pervert. 586 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,359 And in the end he's going to win. You are 587 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,960 going to lose, and you're like, well I kind of 588 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:10,640 wanted to. I did win, by the way, when he 589 00:30:10,759 --> 00:30:14,559 went to rehab and he did construction. He was a 590 00:30:14,599 --> 00:30:17,119 bricklayer the rest of his life. I love Mike though 591 00:30:17,519 --> 00:30:21,400 I'm friends with him. Yeah you are. Yeah, it's fine, 592 00:30:21,759 --> 00:30:29,319 I'm fine, I'm one anyway. What else is going on? Well, 593 00:30:29,839 --> 00:30:33,319 we were talking about moms. Yeah, the yeah, so you 594 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,880 had so that situation is not really is there some tension? Then? 595 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,839 Still no? Then I saw her at the game over 596 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:44,480 the weekend and that was fine. And then I did say, oh, 597 00:30:44,519 --> 00:30:46,839 you know, Olga does tell them like no playdates, and 598 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,759 she goes, oh, that's good to know. She's like that. 599 00:30:49,039 --> 00:30:51,519 That's going to help Jensen because he just didn't know 600 00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:53,960 if he did something or what was going on. And 601 00:30:54,039 --> 00:30:55,880 I love the fact that he loves Sonny so much. 602 00:30:56,519 --> 00:30:59,680 I think it's really sweet. Yeah, I know, I feel bad. 603 00:31:00,279 --> 00:31:04,319 I felt bad, But just the no answering me was weird. Yeah. 604 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,720 And it went on for like a week, right, and 605 00:31:07,039 --> 00:31:10,039 she was like she was available, she was answering other 606 00:31:10,119 --> 00:31:12,759 texts and stuff group text but she never said anything. 607 00:31:12,839 --> 00:31:16,559 I don't know. The whole thing is weird. And I 608 00:31:16,759 --> 00:31:19,799 told Adam he's got to talk to Sonny about sex. 609 00:31:20,559 --> 00:31:23,160 Oh good, he doesn't know about it yet. Well, they 610 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,960 had the film at school, but I don't think, you know, 611 00:31:26,079 --> 00:31:29,240 I think they need to be told what's going on. Yeah, 612 00:31:29,519 --> 00:31:31,960 because I'm sure I'm like you, I don't know. I 613 00:31:32,039 --> 00:31:34,359 don't know what he's I check it sometimes and. 614 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,119 Speaker 2: Well, I know my kids know that to make a baby, 615 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,200 a penis has to go into the vagina. And I 616 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,119 know they were like, oh yeah, and I was like, 617 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:49,119 exactly right, it's gross, but they they have we haven't really, 618 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,319 we didn't really, there's not a lot of follow up, right, 619 00:31:51,359 --> 00:31:54,480 it happened, right, Yeah, I've never talked to them about 620 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,160 that because they don't want I bring, like, you guys 621 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,799 know the mechanics, you're good everything else you need to know. 622 00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:04,359 Speaker 1: You can hear about it on the playground, right, Jensen 623 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:08,440 will explain it to you. And Matthew, oh my god. 624 00:32:08,519 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 2: Well Alby has all those like American Girl books, but 625 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,880 I don't know if they really get into the actual 626 00:32:14,599 --> 00:32:17,000 So I should get Elbie's some kind of book about sex. 627 00:32:17,119 --> 00:32:21,039 Speaker 1: Well, I learned sex through Judy Bloom. Yes, that's really 628 00:32:21,759 --> 00:32:26,119 honestly reading how what happens like when a guy approaches 629 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,160 a girl and they start kissing, and the girl gets 630 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,599 excited and then he touches her boob and then he 631 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,799 puts her hand, his hand down her pants, like, h okay, 632 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,680 that's how it goes, right, That's how I think I learned. 633 00:32:36,839 --> 00:32:42,559 He's gonna win and you are gonna lose, I know, 634 00:32:43,519 --> 00:32:45,920 And I'm with you. I don't. I'm a no want 635 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,680 to get her because I don't want to know what 636 00:32:47,759 --> 00:32:49,519 they're looking at. I mean, I have to and I 637 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,359 check it, but I'm scared. And luckily like she doesn't. 638 00:32:53,599 --> 00:32:55,759 She did like that one time a long time ago 639 00:32:55,799 --> 00:33:00,720 when she saw somebody like she googled like pretty boobs. 640 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,400 But yeah, Katy Perry, Yes, oh yeah, Katy Perry. And 641 00:33:04,559 --> 00:33:07,720 then you know, got hooked onto a website that she 642 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,240 shouldn't have been on, right, and uh, and I talked 643 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,359 to her about that. Sonny, he's just he does. He 644 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,759 did look at some boobs, I think I did see, 645 00:33:17,079 --> 00:33:18,640 but I don't think he was searching for it. He 646 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:22,400 was searching for like funny videos and he was probably 647 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,160 more horrified. Yeah, and like titillated right. 648 00:33:26,279 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 2: Literally, I'm sure they'll learn everything they need to know 649 00:33:31,319 --> 00:33:32,559 from Snapchat. 650 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:38,519 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know, and Instagram what the hell? 651 00:33:39,759 --> 00:33:40,039 I know? 652 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:45,359 Speaker 2: Why I know Albe's forever showing me memes and like 653 00:33:45,559 --> 00:33:47,960 funny things. She's on all the and I'm always like, 654 00:33:48,119 --> 00:33:51,480 she's just like one click away seeing something that she 655 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,480 really shouldn't see. 656 00:33:52,519 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 1: I agree, but we got I got it, Like I 657 00:33:55,359 --> 00:33:58,680 have the restrictions, but I don't think it's real restrictions. 658 00:33:58,799 --> 00:34:01,200 I don't know how well it works. Like I'm trying 659 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:04,079 to figure out the YouTube restriction and I think I 660 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:08,719 got it, but I don't know. Even Like I posted 661 00:34:09,159 --> 00:34:14,079 that video of Natalia singing with Phil, and Facebook was like, no, 662 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,800 this is you can't post that. This has somebody else's 663 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,360 property in it. Oh really? Yeah, at Christmas time because 664 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,480 I love that video where she's singing maybe it's cold 665 00:34:23,519 --> 00:34:27,800 outside with Phil and uh, and she's singing it and 666 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,840 she it's the end of a movie and it's playing 667 00:34:31,199 --> 00:34:33,320 and it's the song, and so she's watching it in 668 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:37,039 her pgs and she's cuddling with Phil and that's being 669 00:34:37,119 --> 00:34:39,280 played on the TV. But I'm focusing on her and 670 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,960 Phil and she's like singing and then she makes Phil's 671 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,119 mouth move a little bit, you know, And YouTube wouldn't 672 00:34:45,119 --> 00:34:48,559 allow of that. No, not YouTube, Facebook. That's so weird 673 00:34:48,639 --> 00:34:52,480 to me. Yeah, they were like, na, this is intellectual property. 674 00:34:52,559 --> 00:34:56,360 Can't and they didn't post it. That's so interesting, I know. 675 00:34:56,639 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 2: I mean you see stuff all the time, that's right, 676 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,280 I know, but YouTube, you could probably get away with it. 677 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't really do YouTube. But they want 678 00:35:04,079 --> 00:35:05,599 to have a YouTube channel. And I don't know how 679 00:35:05,639 --> 00:35:07,599 I feel about that. I know, so do my kids. 680 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:08,840 They do well, they do. 681 00:35:10,159 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 2: I was gonna let them, but Sadie didn't really put 682 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,760 anything on it. But they have one, and then they 683 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,559 didn't they have to make actually make videos. I don't 684 00:35:18,559 --> 00:35:20,000 know a lot of their friends have it. I feel 685 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,519 like it could be probably kind of innocent. 686 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I kind of like, I mean, Sonny and 687 00:35:24,599 --> 00:35:29,880 cousin Sal's son Archie are doing like you know, their 688 00:35:30,599 --> 00:35:36,480 their commentary and oh and he showed video of the game. 689 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,400 They showed it, they edited and they showed videos of 690 00:35:39,519 --> 00:35:42,000 the game and then he said it wouldn't go through 691 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,719 when he tried to post it. Oh uh huh. 692 00:35:46,679 --> 00:35:48,599 Speaker 2: You know what I watched on YouTube last night for 693 00:35:48,639 --> 00:35:53,239 a really long time. Somebody eating rollercoaster accidents. Oh my god, 694 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:59,599 I know, I'm literally went. I watched so many videos 695 00:35:59,639 --> 00:36:03,199 that were like and I couldn't believe myself. I was like, man, 696 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:04,880 I'm really into this gory stuff. 697 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,920 Speaker 1: I was like, let me see. 698 00:36:07,559 --> 00:36:09,960 Speaker 2: Well, while we're at it, let's see some airplane crashes 699 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,039 I watched. 700 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,280 Speaker 1: But are you still okay with I'll be going to 701 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:18,159 Magic Mountain totally. Well, half the roller coaster. 702 00:36:18,679 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 2: You only have like a one in seven hundred and 703 00:36:20,519 --> 00:36:23,199 fifty million chance of dying on a roller coaster. 704 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,360 Speaker 1: So that's the most of them. Are those stupid carnivals 705 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:27,840 and stuff. 706 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 2: Yes, or really like from a long time ago, or 707 00:36:33,079 --> 00:36:37,880 like in Iran or something like get your safety up 708 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,400 to code, or it'll be like some new one like 709 00:36:42,559 --> 00:36:45,880 some it's the disco creates the first time they ever 710 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,400 tried this new thing, and then it's like it falls down. 711 00:36:50,079 --> 00:36:54,679 But also they're never that graphic. It's always like you're watching. 712 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:56,719 There's one that's I guess kind of famous because it 713 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,239 was on so many little compilations. This is how long 714 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,559 I was watching We're Woman. It's one of those swing 715 00:37:02,159 --> 00:37:06,039 you know those swings where the ride is just goes around, Yes, 716 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,079 and they're the swings and the swing really fast and 717 00:37:09,159 --> 00:37:10,599 then you get circle and you throw up. 718 00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:10,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 719 00:37:11,119 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 2: Well, oh it's you're watching it, watching it, and then 720 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:23,239 somebody flies off. I was like, Elbie, come here, of 721 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,880 course not they were long since in bed. 722 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I know I do that too. Sometimes 723 00:37:30,079 --> 00:37:32,079 I get sucked in because there's like I want to 724 00:37:32,119 --> 00:37:34,360 read an article that somebody posts on Twitter something, and 725 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,440 I'm reading it, and then uh, and then on the 726 00:37:37,559 --> 00:37:42,480 side there's like, you know, like something like I'm trying 727 00:37:42,519 --> 00:37:46,239 to think of a one that I've seen recently, Oh, 728 00:37:46,599 --> 00:37:51,599 celebrities without makeup, thirty five celebrities, And I'm sitting there, 729 00:37:51,599 --> 00:37:55,360 I'm clicking through all thirty five right right, and they 730 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,559 show with me, they side by side, you know, and 731 00:37:57,639 --> 00:37:59,159 some of them I'm like, what the fuck? They look 732 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:04,440 fine alone? Like Hillary Duff, She's fine here alone. And 733 00:38:04,519 --> 00:38:06,239 then you know, and then that takes you to like 734 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,199 the divorce between so and so and right, you know, 735 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,519 suddenly you're on a site where somebody through acid in 736 00:38:11,599 --> 00:38:14,119 somebody's face. Oh how did I get what? I know? 737 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,079 How I get here? And then you're like, well, let 738 00:38:16,119 --> 00:38:19,000 me see them before and after pictures, right. But I 739 00:38:19,119 --> 00:38:22,159 was just trying to just trying to read, like I 740 00:38:22,199 --> 00:38:26,239 don't know, like a technology article, and the next thing 741 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:31,000 I know, I'm looking at you know, or celebrities dimples 742 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,760 in their ass at the beach, right, look at these 743 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,320 look at these poor celebrities. I mean, leave them alone, 744 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,760 my god. But I'm going to be the first one 745 00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:40,840 to watch it. I'm gonna sit there while my kids 746 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:42,760 are going I'm hungry. I want to be there in 747 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:47,000 a second. Number seventeen and then I don't know where 748 00:38:47,039 --> 00:38:49,320 the one is that you got to swipe that this arrow. 749 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,000 Sometimes I get stuck. I hit an arrow and then 750 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,320 it takes me to an ad and I'm like, now, 751 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,480 fuck that, I don't want that to ad. Go back 752 00:38:54,559 --> 00:38:56,079 and I'm trying to like find it. You're like, I'm 753 00:38:56,119 --> 00:38:59,079 trying to lead John Goodman's fat again or not? Is 754 00:38:59,159 --> 00:39:02,840 he thinner fat? Right now? How much is this a 755 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,119 new picture at all? Wow? I know, trying to get 756 00:39:06,159 --> 00:39:10,719 its load. Come on, be right there. I'm only on fifteen. 757 00:39:11,199 --> 00:39:13,360 Speaker 2: I hate the ones that you have to go to 758 00:39:13,519 --> 00:39:16,360 like that have just to get to the picture or 759 00:39:16,639 --> 00:39:19,400 it takes like four clicks, yes, Like it's like then 760 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,480 they tell you another sentence of the story who you're 761 00:39:22,519 --> 00:39:23,320 going to find out. 762 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,280 Speaker 1: Like had a baby out of wedlock, and You're like, well, 763 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,800 get to the fucking point, and it's like, and then 764 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,079 she met this person. You're like, click again. 765 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,039 Speaker 2: Then you got to click, and then there's an AD 766 00:39:33,159 --> 00:39:35,159 and then you got to click again, and you're like, oh. 767 00:39:35,079 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 1: My god, I know. It's like when I was trying 768 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,480 to look at the and ze so I'm sorry whatever 769 00:39:41,039 --> 00:39:43,320 I mean when you go. The thing I hate is 770 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,400 that you click on it and it takes you to 771 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,320 the website and then you start reading it and then 772 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,320 all of a sudden it stops and it says you 773 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,119 would subscribe. Would you like to subscribe? No? And then 774 00:39:52,159 --> 00:39:54,599 I hit no, and then they go, okay, fine, don't subscribe. 775 00:39:54,639 --> 00:39:56,400 There's like one line now that says, okay, if you 776 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,800 don't want the free, if you don't want get twenty 777 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:03,079 percent off of cac ease next time when you buy them. Whatever, Fine, 778 00:40:03,119 --> 00:40:05,360 that's fine, and you click have you seen that? Yes, 779 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,280 of course, right, like okay, if you don't want the 780 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,000 twenty percent off, fine, yeah, And then I'm trying to 781 00:40:10,079 --> 00:40:12,480 read and then I'm like, are you so rich that 782 00:40:12,599 --> 00:40:15,519 you don't need twenty percent off? Fine? Khakis. I'm trying 783 00:40:15,559 --> 00:40:18,079 to fucking read about the divorce of so and so 784 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:22,320 or whatever, and and this all this the clicking and stuff, 785 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:26,119 it just keeps popping up. Or they make you have you. 786 00:40:26,119 --> 00:40:28,199 Speaker 2: Ever done the ones where they literally make you take 787 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,719 a survey to keep reading the article. They give you 788 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,679 like a few a paragraph and then they're like, you 789 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,519 want to keep reading, well, you're gonna tell us which 790 00:40:34,559 --> 00:40:38,199 sunscreen you right, And you're like, oh my god, I know, 791 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,760 and now which ad would you rather see if you 792 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,239 were Yeah, okay, fine, I guess email for tone. 793 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 1: Fine, and then they're like okay, and then Coppertone sends 794 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,599 you an email. A few days I got a fucking 795 00:40:48,639 --> 00:40:51,079 Coppertone email in your inbox, right, and then it just 796 00:40:51,119 --> 00:40:52,079 starts to pile up. 797 00:40:52,599 --> 00:40:54,760 Speaker 2: It's fucked up, right, and you're like, well, I don't 798 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,880 need it's the winter, I don't need sunscreen right now. 799 00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,800 And they're like, well, maybe you shouldn't have taken that 800 00:41:00,039 --> 00:41:01,559 want the teeth whitening treatment. 801 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:08,480 Speaker 1: No, I'm good, And God forbid, God forbid you're reading, 802 00:41:08,559 --> 00:41:12,519 you're scrolling, God forbid you accidentally touch something like in 803 00:41:12,599 --> 00:41:16,039 the article has lengths to something else like lung cancer, 804 00:41:16,199 --> 00:41:18,519 and it's like lit up and you know you click 805 00:41:18,599 --> 00:41:20,719 on it. Now it takes you to web md about 806 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:21,360 lung cancer. 807 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:26,239 Speaker 2: Suddenly you have a lawyer to get your mess of case. 808 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:32,840 You're like, what, like, I don't even I don't have 809 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,480 I don't even know what that is. I don't have 810 00:41:34,599 --> 00:41:36,199 a mesh insert in my bladder. 811 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know. Why do I need a lawyer 812 00:41:38,079 --> 00:41:41,800 for that? This morning, I was reading something uh on 813 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,400 the tech I get all the tech stuff I love. 814 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:46,880 I click on it and the next thing I know, 815 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,719 I'm reading about a model that lost both her legs 816 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,360 because she got toxic shock syndrome. No, did you see that? 817 00:41:52,639 --> 00:41:57,719 Of course I did. Now I'm bummed out. And I 818 00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,920 was trying to read it about the calls the first 819 00:42:00,039 --> 00:42:03,960 flag like a while ago. I know, I know, I 820 00:42:04,559 --> 00:42:06,920 was so scared. I didn't use a tampon it forever, 821 00:42:07,199 --> 00:42:11,280 not until like eighteen, maybe even twenty. And now I hated. 822 00:42:11,599 --> 00:42:13,679 I was scared of tampons, and I was like, I'm 823 00:42:13,679 --> 00:42:15,079 gonna get toxic shocks. 824 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,519 Speaker 2: And I use them right through that scare really yep, 825 00:42:18,119 --> 00:42:20,679 because it was a big deal and left tampon's in 826 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,719 for way too long. 827 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:26,760 Speaker 1: Oh shit, I forgot. Oh that's happened to me more. 828 00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,960 A week later, I'm like, what my god, Oh my god, 829 00:42:32,159 --> 00:42:37,039 that's happened. Yeah, okay, because you're no getters, I'm a 830 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,840 total no. This took a ghastly turn. 831 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:42,760 Speaker 2: You know what. 832 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:48,880 Speaker 1: We have to end this, yes podcast? All right, yeah, 833 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:50,760 all right, thank you guys, Thank you. 834 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:54,639 Speaker 2: Kaitlin, support our sponsors. You're a parent, now, don't f 835 00:42:54,800 --> 00:43:06,280 it up. Do you own a rent your home? Sure 836 00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,239 you do, and I bet it can be hard work. 837 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:12,280 But you know what's easy bundling policies with Geico. Geico 838 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,519 makes it easy to bundle your homeowners or renter's insurance 839 00:43:15,599 --> 00:43:18,239 along with your auto policy. 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