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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka colored a podcast from the Mac

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of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor

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Chrysler Dods Jupe Ram. It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you for getting their pod on,

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and thank you for telling a friend about Billified, supporting

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those that support us like a Victor christ of Dodge

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Jeep Ram, which you heard there from Harry Legg, Harry

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leg and his big pipes. And I'm very excited because

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I a friend of mine called me today and said

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who's on the pod, And I said, it's just going

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to be me and Laura, And they said, I love

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when Laura's on. This is yeah a woman. I love

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when Laura's on. It's refreshing, refreshing, a refreshing thing. Yeah,

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that's right.

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Speaker 3: Sports talk.

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Speaker 2: No, there are times, especially this time of year, that

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it kind of takes over everything, and I need to

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do a better job of trying to control that, and

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I haven't exactly done that. I was listening to. Sometimes

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I'll go back and listen to old episodes just to

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hear how things are. And there's a lot of things.

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I made some notes, but that's about it. So Laura

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was telling me about our holidays. It sounds like you,

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I don't know how you survived it because I thought

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it was going to be tough picking up my mom

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and then driving down and picking up my dad in

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the same car, and then taking them and my son

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to my sisters. It was smooth and fine. Every got along,

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no problem. Yeah, you know they're they're aging, so there's

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some things for that. But other than that, it was nothing.

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I hear Laura comes in and goes well, I was like, oh.

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Speaker 3: My god, it was not relaxing.

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Speaker 2: No, how to be Really, you're sick? Can you say yeah?

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Are you comfortable saying no?

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Speaker 3: It was just no, it's fine. It I guess I

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would say it started even like I worked up until

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Christmas Eve with one of my moving clients, you know,

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and then like till five o'clock Christmas Eve. Then I

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went straight to my family's Christmas Eve party, saw my sister,

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we were talking. I left, and then Christmas morning was great.

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I show up at my mom's at ten am. That's

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always the plan. Get to my mom's and.

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Speaker 2: My mother early.

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Speaker 3: Huh yeah, I mean my kids were up at five thirty. Yeah,

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like you know, nine and seven. We were done opening

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gifts by seven thirty. So then I took a nap

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before I went over to my mom's. And I walk

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into my mom's and she looks at me and she's like,

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so slight hiccup. I was like, what's up? She goes,

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your sister's in the hospital about to have surgery. So

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I was with my older sister.

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Speaker 2: Okay, when you hear that and you don't know why yet, right,

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did you know why at this point? Okay? What what

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did you think happened?

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Speaker 3: I had? I had no idea. I was terrified. I

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was the night before and she was totally fine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Would you think that there was a car accident? Was?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Because I think I think if it was anything life threatening, yeah,

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I would have gotten a call, you know, yeah Christmas.

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Speaker 2: So I'm thinking, like some people will go, son of

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a bitch. I knew that guy was going to lose

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his mind at some point. You put its terrible, he's

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so loud in that, but I'd just say it like

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I'm curious as to what you read and what was it?

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Speaker 3: So it was appendicitis? Yeah, and she started I left

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the Famili's party at eight forty five, and at nine

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o'clock her stomach started in pain. By midnight, her husband

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took her to the hospital. She got admitted with appendicitis,

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had surgery around ten thirty, and right as she was

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getting ready to be wheeled into the surgery room, herdick scruptured.

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She started vomiting all over herself. Fever spikes, and yeah,

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it was a mass.

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Speaker 2: So is this because that's quick with appendicitis? Yeah, because

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sometimes I thought there was you get it, You had

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not that a lot of time, but you would have pain.

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And I've heard people walking around with pain for days

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and feeling bloated and all this. Did she have any

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of that? No, none of that. This is just bambay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and she thought, I guess why she was getting

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a stomachache? Is she ate too many cookies at the

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Christmas party?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: And no, it was just so sudden. And yes, she

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ended up being able. So the thing is, my sister

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hosts Christmas like, oh the actual We go to my

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mom's in the morning and then we go to my

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sisters from about four pm until midnight. It's a big party,

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lots of drinking, food and everything, And so she told

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her husband as she was awaiting surgery, I don't care,

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like Christmas goes on like main notes, and he had

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to go home and like set it up. He had

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to go back from the hospital at five am and

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finish wrapping their kids gifts.

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, wow.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it was pretty pretty horrible for her on Christmas.

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Speaker 2: I mean, well, I would think, like they only do

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emergency surgeries, as you were saying on Christmas Day, and

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I got to think, whoever's on call, you're hoping nothing happens.

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Oh yeah, right, And then I go, do they get

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I mean, doctors get a big salary, surgeons especially right, Okay,

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and we need them to I'm okay with that. Yeah,

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but do they get like a time and a half

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for being that call at Christmas? Or is it just

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part of your thing? Like, hey man, it's you. You

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drew the short straw this year. You're on call, and

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you're on call. You got to stay close by, but

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usually you're you're okay, you know.

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Speaker 3: Just as Yeah. But then she didn't have to await

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really anything. It was quick from when she did get

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admitted because it was emergency. But so then we were

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comparing scars on our stomachs today or that night and.

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Speaker 2: Her husband, I mean that night she came home already,

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she came home.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they like where do they groscopically? So she had

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three incisions lapping dectomy. Yes. And then even my brother

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in law had emergency gollbladder surgery in the spring. So

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all three of us all now have matching scars, all

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had like emergency surgery this summer.

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Speaker 2: Sexy photo, happy holidays, Like, yeah, how did heat? What

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what happens with your gallbladder?

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Speaker 3: And he was keeled over in pain, and Cheryl rushed

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him into the hospital and he had surgery geese, but

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he was in for a couple of days. Yeah, I

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know us women in and out.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean that's yeah, it's usually that way.

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Speaker 3: But now I'm like telling my sister, like how to recover.

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I went over there afterwards for a couple of days,

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help out because she's got four kids, so she can't

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just like lie around and not do anything.

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Speaker 2: Well, how old are the kids.

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Speaker 3: The oldest is eighteen, the youngest is nine.

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Speaker 2: Oh, they could take care of themselves for a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I can, but still, like, I don't know, she didn't

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want to be lonely.

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Speaker 2: And so okay, yeah, all falls home, And then of.

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Speaker 3: Course I go over and she's like, can we organize

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my closet?

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Speaker 2: How many people have decided New Year knew them and

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they're going to organize things?

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Speaker 5: Tons, Tons, Do you have a waiting list now?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Right now, I'm actually like not even taking on new

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jobs because I have a lot of moving jobs and

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I don't like to book that far out surprise.

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Speaker 2: Moving this time of year, it happens a lot, I guess.

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Speaker 3: Huh and everyone a lot of them were supposed to

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move in November and they are like two months overdue

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because building homes, contractor everything. I have two clients right now,

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one's not moving until March. They're both a half million

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dollar over a budget on their new homes that they're building.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a half a million dollars. Come on, Laura,

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I know all this is money, baby, you know. I

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mean that the pursuit of money. Sometimes I always think

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that I live in a voodoo world, I guess in

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my head, but I always think that you're better off

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trying to go for whatever you want. The money will come,

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and it's just money. It all does is give you

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the freedom to build the house you want, or the

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freedom to travel wherever you want or whatever. But if

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you don't have it, it becomes very stressful. Al And

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I think that that's where you block it and you

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keep it away from you a little bit. But it's

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it's all there. They're never going to run out.

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Speaker 3: It's fun to make it when you enjoy what you

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do to make it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, like, well, that makes it easier to make it too. Yeah,

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it's when you don't enjoy it that that that becomes

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the tough spot. And then now in California, they're putting

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you out of business. What do you mean, what do

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you mean? Just all these fires? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Oh god, yes, oh my god, moving, it's over.

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Speaker 2: I'm watching this today and I have friends in LA

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that I checked up on, and everybody seems to be okay.

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But there was like TMZ had a thing and with

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Ashton Kutcher and a fire hose and or excuse me,

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a garden hose trying to protect somebody's property. And it

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wasn't his. I think it was a friend of his.

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In nineteen seventy three, my uncle was a pilot for

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what was then Western Airlines, and I think they were

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based out of la and he lived along one of

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the canyons and we went out there. I was two,

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and my father will tell me the story about my

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mother took me to Disney. I think it's land out there,

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and he stayed with my uncle and went down into

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the can and just wetted everything down and the fires stopped.

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They got them under controls. They were coming down the canyon,

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but this went up the Palisades. I mean, my buddy

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told me, it's a mess out there.

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Speaker 3: And it just started yesterday.

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Speaker 2: It just started quickly. It's like ten six hundred acres

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have burned. People's homes have just gone. The fire department

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I'm watching had I just put on. I don't like

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to watch the news. I know, I know it sounds weird.

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I'd rather read it because then I could go out.

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I want to finish this tragedy story, right or so.

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But I'm watching and they're saying that once the fire

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departments are watching the attics the roofs of homes, because

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what will happen is, you know, they had one hundred

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mile an hour winds, so that was fanning all the

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flames of everything, and then it would if an ember

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landed on another house. You would start to see can

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we get that out or is it too late? And look,

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my parents had a home completely burned to the ground.

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We were all grown and out of the house. They

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were living there. And you lose things that you can't replace.

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You can't replace them. I would say. The only benefit,

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some cases you got a little warning so you could

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take your medication, you could grab a few things and

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maybe leave. But there's like no pictures from like my parents.

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Everything's just I mean, I remember going back to the

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house and it was just the foundation right in the basement.

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Everything had just collapsed down. And I'm going with this,

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it's the same thing. I mean, I can say it

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makes it a little easier, but think about the holidays

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that just happened and you look through and you go, oh, man,

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I remember this, or your kids made something or whatever.

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It all gone, all gone forever now though you're not replaceable,

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so I'm glad you know you survive that. And it's

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just things for the most part, but it's not. In

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some instances, there's the sentimental things that you can't really replace,

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and that's got to be really tough, and I can't

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imagine what people are going through. And I don't even

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know where you go right your house burns to the ground,

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where do you go?

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Speaker 3: I follow a couple actually.

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Speaker 2: When everybody else's house.

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Speaker 3: Podcasters that are based in LA and they were both

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posting like this is where you can seek shelter in everything.

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some hotel was like offering up free real and everything.

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Speaker 2: It's nice to see because the problem is, though, like

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you're not building a home tomorrow, you know, buying a

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new home tomorrow. Could you in this in a month?

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where do you go when when you're not the only

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one at least in my parents' case, it was just them.

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They found like a townhouse that they can rent and

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then they made their decisions from there and then they

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rebuilt a home on the same property.

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Speaker 3: Communities, That's what.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, is like everybody around you and you know,

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and some people who have decided to stay like you know,

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it's it's unfortunate. But the fire departments out there are

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trying to determine who can they save and who can't

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they save? And by that it's like, hey, this, there's

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no brush in front of this house. There's nothing here.

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We're just gonna wet down this lawn and you watch

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the fire almost skips it and goes to the next one,

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which I shouldn't laugh at, but it's kind of weird, right,

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if they can rip up some plant, you know, some

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of the brush and get it out of the way,

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but if you brush close to your house there they're going,

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we can't no luck. Right.

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Speaker 3: It's also like those hurricanes, tsunamis, things like that.

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Speaker 2: Like it makes Rochester a little more natural.

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Speaker 3: Weather disasters are insane.

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Speaker 2: Well they are insane, and you and I don't know. Now,

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you hear all kinds of different things about you know,

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the they cut the fire department by seventeen point six

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million dollars. There's a seventeen point six million dollars in

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a budget for the size of a city like La

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or New York. I don't know, Oh what that really does?

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What is that?

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Speaker 3: I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: I don't either.

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Speaker 3: Is it one?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's that's my point. And so we hear these

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astronomical numbers and my head will always go Okay, but

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what does that mean? Directly? It means less fire people.

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I got that, but I don't even know what are

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we losing? Like one firehouse? You know, you're still gonna

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have to call in backups for forever. So I'm I'm

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not even I'm just not sure. Like you see that

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and there's a lot of finger pointing and it becomes political.

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But people's lives two people died. Yeah, people's lives have

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been altered forever in this case. So I don't think

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seventeen point six million dollars is worth my it?

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Speaker 3: God? Was it? Was it a year ago or a

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year and a half ago in August? The Hawaii wildfower?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: That it was a year and a half ago. Yeah, yeah,

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I mean.

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Speaker 2: Well the wildfire. See, these are all the things like

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I had a job interview years agoing now and I

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got it, but they were going to be like low

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balling you on the price, and then I was like,

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I can't do this for that and they're like, hey,

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you're in La, go.

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Speaker 3: Tell jokes, you know, and you see, like the few

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things that I did see is, you know, Adam Brody

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lost his six point five million dollar home, and you

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do you feel horrible, But it's like, yeah, he can

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afford to relocate. It's everyday people that the every day

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where the businesses.

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Speaker 2: That are gone? Yeah right, you lost all that stuff?

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And what is insurance going to cover? And what are

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they not? What are they going to fight out fight

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you on everything? Right? And and the cost how long

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have you lived there? And the cost of whatever you're replacing.

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They maybe they give you eighty cents on the dollar. Yeah,

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you know what I mean. So all that stuff is

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just like, oh god, damn it just it looks absolutely horrible.

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But grab your medsin.

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Speaker 3: Do you have one thing that you would save if

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your house was on fire? And they say, like, not

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a person or an animal?

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Speaker 2: Not a person or an animal my pocket. I had

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to say that just because it's there. I don't know

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because I need to really organize, ironically, because I don't

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even know what I have a lot of it's in

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boxes and then tubs and the thing because when we split,

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the house got packed up and I have things and

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and that's it. So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: So you have, Benzi, we haven't looked through in five years.

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Speaker 2: I have no I have I have moved through, I

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have sifted through these bins multiple times a year. Yeah, yeah,

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multiple times a year, sifted, not really gone through. So

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maybe maybe that's a week. Maybe that's a week attempt.

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It's a weak attempt to tell me. I don't know

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what's that. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Was that a yoga instructor? I think I know him?

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Walk by the studio?

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Speaker 2: It might be there's a there's a yoga place here?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, interesting?

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Speaker 2: All right, what did I want to say to you?

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Speaker 3: There was something not wildfire?

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Speaker 2: No, no, not wildfire related, not any of that stuff. Uh.

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We are going to have Peter Montamerno on remotely to

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talk to us about the bills. So we'll get what

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we will come.

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Speaker 3: We will get. Hey, at least I'll be talking about

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the bills because, like I said, when with our Monday

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text chain and the guys are spurting about every other team,

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I'm like, guys, I know bills knowledge, Like, let's not

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make me act like I know sports more than I

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actually do.

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Speaker 2: Is this a gift for me that you want to

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open on the air?

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Speaker 3: So I don't have any No, I I have gotten

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you this, but I haven't been in in forever. Even

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I had someone text me like, what's going on with

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the podcasts. I'm like, it has been I'm insane right.

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Speaker 2: Now and that's a good thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, right, No, No, it's great that I'm busy

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but can't get nervous and you were. No, I mean,

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I I love this. I feel like it's a gift

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to myself as.

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Speaker 2: Much this is a gift to you.

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Speaker 3: No, it's a gift to you. I was so happy

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when it when it came. Yeah, and it came the

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day after when I was on in December. Oh, I know,

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I was pissed, like, come on, let me see.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to oh wait, oh okay, I thought

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there was tape over. It's Oh my god, it's the

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mug when I fell asleep on Kevin's couch in his

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garage looking like a fat, homeless guy. That is awesome.

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That is absolutely awesome.

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Speaker 3: It made me laugh.

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Speaker 2: That is great. Look, thank you very much. Sweet of you?

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Speaker 3: How sweet of me?

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Speaker 7: I think.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's funny.

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Speaker 3: I don't I love personalize coffee.

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Speaker 2: Monks, Like that's really funny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it was great. Really, I don't know

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whether to leave that idea for you. And then I

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was like, no, I'm going to do this, and I'm

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just going to zoom in on you asleep on the couch.

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Speaker 2: I don't know whether to leave that here at the

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studio or actually bring it home where I would use

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it all the time, but people would see me here

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with it, you know what I mean. That's that's what's

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so funny.

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Speaker 3: It could be like your pen cup in the middle

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of here.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I gotta drink coffee out of that, bad boy,

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I might have to have another cup of I was

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dying today.

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Speaker 3: As soon as I walked in, I was like, yeah, Phil,

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I was like, oh, well, coffee smells so good.

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Speaker 2: I went and it just sounds strange, and there's no

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endorsement or anything. But I was looking through coffee and

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normally I get like the Wegman's Kpat or Ca cups,

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Bold Rite, whatever their bold coffee is. And I decided

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all of a sudden, I saw this coasta Rican rain

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or something, and I go, oh, you know, and I

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got that. And then I never put anything in my

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coffee and normally drink it black. And I went and

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I got creamy oat milk.

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Speaker 3: Oh, look at you.

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Speaker 2: I can take creamy oat milk.

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Speaker 3: Milk is good.

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Speaker 2: It's really well I don't know why I didn't almond.

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Sometimes I eat a lot of almonds, and sometimes if

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I eat too many, my stomach is in pain. Yeah,

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so I just went oat because milk doesn't milk anywhore.

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All right, Well, take a moment I have I want

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to run something by you because I'll ask this as

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sort of a tease and you can think about it

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while we take a moment. What would you like guys

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to know when they're dating. I have to rephrase that

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there's a maturity level we don't know how to. I

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think guys are not as intellectually intelligent as women. I'm

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not intellectually intelligent, emotionally intelligent, intellectually put it, I meant

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emotional Please forgive me, but I think everybody's been pretty

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equal there. But emotional intelligence, I think for most guys,

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especially younger guys, just isn't there. And you're never really

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taught that as guys. You know, at least my father

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didn't really talk to me about these things, and you

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know not I don't know anybody's father, so I'm not

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I'm not trying to blend, but I I came across

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something in my with Jamison living with me, now that

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I will run by you and I think I'm not

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I'm not sure. I'll always say this. I don't know

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how to parent, but I'll do the absolute best I can.

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I should probably read a book somewhere along noition, so

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I usually do. So we will get to that and

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a new site for ladies to find out if they're

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dating the same guy or any red flags about their guy.

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Speaker 3: Not are we dating the same guy?

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Speaker 2: Not? Are we dating the same guy? This is different.

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Speaker 3: I have lots of thoughts on that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, awesome. We'll get to all that right after this.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why. I've never really heard it during

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Speaker 3: The States yet. Okay, fantastic. Although he is doing his

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little festival in Boston in mid March. Beautiful, that's what

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I plan to go to tell them with.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I think that's great. What's his own

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little festival? I don't understand what that means.

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Speaker 3: It's he's doing the two day festival with like all

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Irish singers songwriters, Yeah, in Boston on March eighteenth, and nineteenth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah beautiful, well yeah, yellow, Yeah, you might

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as well.

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Speaker 3: And it's his only I didn't see him. He didn't

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tour last year in twenty twenty four, and this is

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the only thing he's doing at twenty five.

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Speaker 2: So Jrmick Kennedy. Yeah, and this is without Fear, which

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is your tattoo? Did this song inspire the tattoo?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know that. I laugh at people have these

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things written on their body, and then I act, yeah,

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well because but I've obviously done the whole conversation. But

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I'm starting to think, you know, maybe it's not a

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bad reminder, because I'll put things as reminders, I just

471
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don't put them on my body. So being a bit

472
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,279
of a hypocrite. Ye, And even the just Breathe was

473
00:24:55,279 --> 00:24:58,319
always my favorite because one kid had it like where

474
00:24:58,319 --> 00:25:01,440
you couldn't see it even I'm like, wait, I know

475
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,200
it's running sowar. What am I supposed to do? But

476
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:10,000
sometimes you have to remind yourself to just breathe. I mean,

477
00:25:10,319 --> 00:25:13,079
I'm a big weird oh I'm I do all that

478
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:17,039
kind of stuff, And sometimes it's hard. You get you

479
00:25:17,079 --> 00:25:19,039
get so caught up in the emotion of the moment

480
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,200
that you lose your center.

481
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:26,839
Speaker 3: Whenever when I get scared about like taking that next

482
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:31,599
leap with business, with anything personal and everything, it is

483
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,279
it's like a great, like little reminder and just like right,

484
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,279
you know you want no risk, no war.

485
00:25:38,519 --> 00:25:40,759
Speaker 2: I take back my shitty comments. I like them though,

486
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,640
because I think it could be a pretty funny joke

487
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,240
on stage, but I take it back because I the

488
00:25:46,279 --> 00:25:49,319
way you're saying it, and I don't know why sometimes

489
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:53,680
I have I'm getting fucking strange and soft in my

490
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,119
old age because I'm like, actually, I get it, I

491
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,720
totally get it, and with what you're saying, it's yeah, yeah,

492
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,200
I'm like at that same moment of like, you know,

493
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,839
almost fear in a way, because I always say that

494
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,440
there's only two things in this world. There's fear and

495
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,279
there's love and people, Wow, go to the bottom of

496
00:26:13,319 --> 00:26:16,039
whatever it is that you're not doing. Why fear.

497
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 3: One of my favorite quotes is when you lose your

498
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,759
sense of fear, you're free. Yeah that's John Lewis.

499
00:26:22,839 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and I always thought like I was

500
00:26:28,279 --> 00:26:31,000
mistakenly so, but like sure, I'll jump in a car,

501
00:26:31,039 --> 00:26:33,319
I would surf on the roof of a car like

502
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:37,079
I had no fear of anything, you know, happening like that.

503
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,640
But my that's not the fear. The fear is what

504
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,119
are you afraid of doing that's preventing you from making

505
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,039
the next move, the move that you really want to do.

506
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,000
That If you can conquer that, I think life gets better.

507
00:26:50,039 --> 00:26:53,000
And it's funny because that's a great thing with what's

508
00:26:53,039 --> 00:26:57,440
happening in my house. You know, Jamison very was very

509
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,559
nervous about the basketball stuff right and then and didn't

510
00:27:00,599 --> 00:27:02,880
exactly make the team, but kind of made the team.

511
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,599
And I said to him, You've got to go to

512
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,720
those practices. You've got to learn those plays. You've got

513
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,519
to do this, because what they're telling you is more

514
00:27:10,599 --> 00:27:13,799
you're it is not that you're not a good player.

515
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,240
You're not familiar with their system. And every other kid

516
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,480
has been to the they're all wearing like the camps

517
00:27:20,799 --> 00:27:23,759
right the camp they went to, and they've all played together.

518
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,000
You're the odd guy out. You're not accepting you were going.

519
00:27:27,319 --> 00:27:31,039
They don't like me this, So I kept saying to him,

520
00:27:31,039 --> 00:27:33,119
you've got to show up and go to the practices.

521
00:27:33,319 --> 00:27:35,359
I don't feel like going today. Ah, those kids hate me.

522
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:40,240
And it's tough, and I thought at some point, I

523
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:44,200
just thought, it's not my life, right, which is something

524
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,839
my brother told me about one of my other kids.

525
00:27:45,839 --> 00:27:48,559
And I laid off and I just said to him, listen,

526
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,680
I'm just going to say this to you, and you

527
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,839
decide what to do with this information. But I will

528
00:27:52,839 --> 00:27:57,319
tell you that they're always evaluating you, and when you

529
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:01,200
don't show up, it sends a strong message. And when

530
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,920
you do show up, it sends a strong message. So

531
00:28:04,319 --> 00:28:06,759
you decide what kind of strong message you want to send.

532
00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:09,960
One is more positive, one is going to be more negative.

533
00:28:10,559 --> 00:28:14,359
And that was it. That's all I said. So today

534
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,599
he jumps in, he comes back, gets in the car, goes, well,

535
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,440
I'm on the team, and I said, I go you, Well,

536
00:28:21,519 --> 00:28:24,039
you weren't right the whole time. The whole time, you

537
00:28:24,039 --> 00:28:27,599
weren't right. I said, dude, I told you show up

538
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,880
because once you get loose, you're going to be great.

539
00:28:31,319 --> 00:28:34,359
You're a very good basketball player. You were I watched

540
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,440
some of the games. I know that it sounds like

541
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,799
a bias because it's my kid, but he's better than

542
00:28:38,839 --> 00:28:40,559
some of the kids on the team. But he doesn't

543
00:28:40,559 --> 00:28:42,839
know the system, and he was being pigheaded about it.

544
00:28:43,119 --> 00:28:45,279
So once that kind of went away. Now he's like,

545
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,359
and today, just before I left, he goes, this is

546
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,319
the best day ever. And I was right exactly. But fear,

547
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,680
fear was the thing with him. Freddy wasn't going to

548
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,880
make the team, couldn't sleep, couldn't do this. And as

549
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,480
I said to him, sometimes things aren't as bad as

550
00:29:00,519 --> 00:29:03,000
you expect them to be if you just kind of

551
00:29:03,039 --> 00:29:06,279
show up and not necessarily confront it in a in

552
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,400
a fighting way or a conflict way, but do it softer.

553
00:29:11,599 --> 00:29:16,599
And so there's been there's been another thing that I'm

554
00:29:16,599 --> 00:29:24,240
trying to navigate, right, and that is Jamison and girls. Okay,

555
00:29:24,519 --> 00:29:27,680
So there was a girlfriend, oh yeah, and they were

556
00:29:27,799 --> 00:29:31,079
on talking all the time and he would.

557
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 3: He went, was this the girl he wrote to be

558
00:29:32,759 --> 00:29:33,680
to be the one night?

559
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 7: No?

560
00:29:36,759 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 2: No, that was one of her friends though, but it

561
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,640
didn't come with him. Came I think with that other guy.

562
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,440
So they they were doing. Uh, that's funny thing to

563
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:49,559
say that. So there's a girl and then a lot

564
00:29:49,599 --> 00:29:52,359
of talk and he would always like he'd be he

565
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,160
was on FaceTime all the time, like to the point

566
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,319
where they would go to sleep on face time so

567
00:29:59,359 --> 00:30:02,000
they could and wake up and talk to each other.

568
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 3: I don't like anyone that much.

569
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,519
Speaker 2: It's just weird, right, We're all weird. But it's like

570
00:30:06,559 --> 00:30:08,880
the old Waukie talkies in a way. I guess. I

571
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:09,279
don't know.

572
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,559
Speaker 3: I thought that everything was just snapped.

573
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:16,119
Speaker 2: Now like no, no, this is like and I get

574
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,279
a lot of shit because I'll say, eleven o'clock, you

575
00:30:18,279 --> 00:30:19,519
got to give me the phone because we got to

576
00:30:19,519 --> 00:30:21,759
get up at five thirty. The next day, six o'clock,

577
00:30:21,839 --> 00:30:24,839
we got to you know, I'm not dealing with so.

578
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:25,559
Speaker 7: Uh.

579
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,519
Speaker 2: One day comes home and says to me, I think

580
00:30:28,519 --> 00:30:30,039
so and so is going to break up with me,

581
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,119
or so and so broke up with me. And I said,

582
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,839
I'm sorry, how you feeling? And he's like, eh, I

583
00:30:35,839 --> 00:30:39,559
don't know. And I could tell bothered him. Yeah, almost

584
00:30:39,599 --> 00:30:45,559
immediately there's another girl like almost immediately yeah, and they're

585
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,559
face timing and it's this and he's I mean throughout

586
00:30:48,559 --> 00:30:53,000
the holidays all the time, and really sweet kid and

587
00:30:53,039 --> 00:30:55,720
all this then is saying to me because he went

588
00:30:55,759 --> 00:30:59,240
to see his mom and then came back here not

589
00:30:59,559 --> 00:31:03,839
even hey dad, ken you whatever, it was, Hey Friday,

590
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,440
can you leave me some money because I want to

591
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,160
go over her house. You always say, don't show up

592
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,759
to someone's house empty handed. I said, that's true. So

593
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,079
he kept saying, I got I gotta do. I like

594
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,839
every conversation I had when we weren't under the same

595
00:31:17,039 --> 00:31:21,480
roof was about reminding me. It was like the top

596
00:31:21,519 --> 00:31:23,880
thing on his head, going to this girl's house. She

597
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,440
invited them over, you know, blah blah blah, the whole thing.

598
00:31:26,559 --> 00:31:28,799
Speaker 3: Did he want to bring her gift or the parents

599
00:31:28,799 --> 00:31:29,119
a guest?

600
00:31:29,559 --> 00:31:33,519
Speaker 2: I told him he needed to bring flowers for her mother. Yeah,

601
00:31:33,519 --> 00:31:35,640
and he could bring whatever he wanted for her. So

602
00:31:35,799 --> 00:31:38,119
he brought like chips and things because they were going

603
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,359
to watch a movie, chips and like sour patch kids.

604
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,200
And then he brought flowers for the mom.

605
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 3: Okay, I think that's really really respectable.

606
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have that, And but then I think even

607
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,480
was like, you know, I don't have that much money.

608
00:31:51,519 --> 00:31:53,400
I think I'm gonna just get the four dollars flowers.

609
00:31:54,119 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 3: So what it's that ass? That's fine, you show up

610
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,160
with four dollars flowers at my house. I am smile

611
00:32:00,559 --> 00:32:01,279
to ear, all right.

612
00:32:01,359 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 2: So here's here's the navigation part. And this is where

613
00:32:05,799 --> 00:32:10,680
I would love a woman's perspective, your perspective on what

614
00:32:10,799 --> 00:32:14,839
would you like to see young men being taught to

615
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,119
how to handle this? Because what he said to me was,

616
00:32:18,799 --> 00:32:21,319
I'm really good. I don't want to go back because

617
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,799
I'm hearing that that girl is saying a lot of

618
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:28,039
the other girl. He said to me, I go, I

619
00:32:28,079 --> 00:32:29,839
thought she broke up with you, he goes, I thought

620
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:30,799
so too. I guess not.

621
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,839
Speaker 3: Oh shit. So he was like two girls at one.

622
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 2: Well not I mean two girls. No, he had ended

623
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,720
it like and this started up with this other girl,

624
00:32:43,759 --> 00:32:46,920
and that girl found out, and so he said, I

625
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,079
thought it was done with her. I didn't know the

626
00:32:49,119 --> 00:32:51,839
way he said, So I guess I kind of broke

627
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,920
up with her, you know, like I got it.

628
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:55,319
Speaker 3: There was no clarifying moment.

629
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,359
Speaker 2: There was no clarifying moment. And and he's like, now

630
00:32:59,039 --> 00:33:01,640
people are starting to blow me up on Snapchat saying, hey,

631
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,119
she's really mad, and she's saying to people, at least

632
00:33:04,119 --> 00:33:06,559
she got the friends. I go, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.

633
00:33:06,599 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 3: You're fteen.

634
00:33:08,359 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, I go slow here, just slow down here.

635
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 7: Yeah.

636
00:33:18,559 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 5: So he's like, I said, okay, I got the friends

637
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:29,519
by the way, shocking, Actually, oh, I got.

638
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 2: I'm not surprised at all. So I said to him,

639
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:38,799
I said, listen, no matter what is said, no matter

640
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:43,599
what happens, do not react, don't do anything. And if

641
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:47,279
you see that girl in the hallway, say hello. You

642
00:33:47,319 --> 00:33:49,680
don't have to make conversations. You have to, I said,

643
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,839
but ignoring her, avoiding her, I go, because it's there's

644
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,759
going to be that awkward moment when you come around

645
00:33:55,839 --> 00:33:58,680
the corner and there she's standing there, and you know

646
00:33:58,759 --> 00:34:01,119
you're you got to be able to handle these things.

647
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:05,319
And I said, sometimes a better way instead of making

648
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,679
you liked this person. You liked her, and then you

649
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,400
liked her on Friday, and then by Monday.

650
00:34:11,679 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 3: You like someone else.

651
00:34:13,119 --> 00:34:15,079
Speaker 2: Well, maybe you like somebody else more. But I can't

652
00:34:15,119 --> 00:34:17,800
believe you don't like this person's now. It's like they

653
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,280
hate each other, you know what I'm saying, And all

654
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,639
the crap the kids say, and I go, I feel

655
00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:27,000
like guys do a lot of that too. We'll shit

656
00:34:27,119 --> 00:34:30,519
talk or whatever. But in those young moments, I'm like,

657
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:36,480
in those young relationships, right, basically, you're junior Navy freshman

658
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,320
in high school.

659
00:34:37,039 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 3: And the teenager relationships.

660
00:34:38,519 --> 00:34:42,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think they're some way to learn to communicate.

661
00:34:43,599 --> 00:34:47,039
One is hey, even to have the balls to go hey.

662
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,360
Some people are saying that maybe this isn't working out,

663
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,519
and if you're not happy, you just let me know

664
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,159
what something something. I don't know what the right thing

665
00:34:55,199 --> 00:34:58,920
to say is. Look, I'm the fucking worst, and I'm

666
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,039
starting now to see that, like ghosting is the most

667
00:35:02,079 --> 00:35:03,800
immature thing you can do to somebody.

668
00:35:04,599 --> 00:35:07,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that that can happen out like

669
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,440
the teenage. No, I'm not nowadays.

670
00:35:10,079 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 2: My point is you're not going to be a teenager forever. No,

671
00:35:13,559 --> 00:35:17,280
so what would what should we be teaching young guys communication? Yeah?

672
00:35:17,559 --> 00:35:21,199
Speaker 3: I think just not playing the game, not running people

673
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,239
around in circles, going up to say the first girl's

674
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:27,679
name was Melissa and this new girl is Nancy. I

675
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,280
don't know why I chose old people's names like hey, Melissa.

676
00:35:31,119 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 2: Neither not even close to either one of their names,

677
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:33,519
which is great.

678
00:35:33,639 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 3: I liked you, yes, I thought we ended. I respect you,

679
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:38,760
but I like Nancy Moore.

680
00:35:39,039 --> 00:35:42,639
Speaker 2: Like that's a way too mature conversation. But something like

681
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,920
I'm telling him, you gotta hold your head high yes,

682
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:50,639
and be polite, to always be a hundred gentleman at

683
00:35:50,679 --> 00:35:53,119
all costs. I don't care. They're never going to get

684
00:35:53,119 --> 00:35:55,719
a bad rap for being a gentleman. And I'm not

685
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,239
even saying be a nice guy, but a hello, a

686
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:02,840
polite social comfortable to make eye contact with the person.

687
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:06,159
Do not you know, and don't exactly. Don't yell at

688
00:36:06,159 --> 00:36:09,000
a girl, and don't try and do never talk shit

689
00:36:09,159 --> 00:36:11,239
about a woman behind her back. I don't care what

690
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,000
your buddies are saying, don't do that, because a lot

691
00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:17,679
of times it doesn't that gets around you don't want.

692
00:36:17,519 --> 00:36:20,079
Speaker 3: To, don't be and I've said this before, don't be cocky,

693
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:23,760
don't be like my Risa because that's a Jordan or

694
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:24,519
that's a Jamison.

695
00:36:24,639 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 2: That's well, Jameson likes to do this. He thinks he's

696
00:36:27,519 --> 00:36:29,920
very funny. He's even saying to me today goes you

697
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,800
know a lot of the girls on the girls basketball

698
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:34,880
team to notice me.

699
00:36:35,079 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well, last time when I was here

700
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,440
and he's showing me his clothing line.

701
00:36:39,519 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: Yes, like.

702
00:36:42,559 --> 00:36:45,199
Speaker 3: Play a de mirror little Yeah.

703
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:52,159
Speaker 2: Well, sometimes I'll say this for guys, it's better to

704
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,000
let someone peel back the layers of the onion and

705
00:36:55,079 --> 00:36:58,320
learn things about you without you coming out and putting

706
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,679
it all out there. Yes, because when you put it

707
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,599
all out there once, you are that cocky person. And

708
00:37:04,119 --> 00:37:07,760
that's a real sign of insecurity. And I would tell anybody,

709
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,400
especially like if you went through a divorce or something,

710
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,679
I think the number one biggest mistake that many many

711
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,880
people do. And I think more men than women, but

712
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,480
I would say there's some women probably too. You're so

713
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,480
used to being in a relationship, You're so used to

714
00:37:22,559 --> 00:37:26,039
having somebody it doesn't matter who it is. In a way,

715
00:37:26,159 --> 00:37:28,800
you just somebody who's there that you jump right back

716
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,440
in with both feet instead of figure out what the

717
00:37:33,199 --> 00:37:35,320
This is a two way street. Yeah right, it was

718
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,880
two people you got to work on. You get to

719
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,519
know you figure out what you like, what makes you happy.

720
00:37:40,639 --> 00:37:44,159
And I would also say to both teenage girls and boys,

721
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:50,199
don't be pressured by guilted or feeling feelings. I don't

722
00:37:50,199 --> 00:37:53,840
want to hurt their feelings. Nobody wants to be a dick. No,

723
00:37:54,079 --> 00:37:57,280
but you also want to be honest. You want to

724
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,199
be honest and you want to and you need to

725
00:37:59,199 --> 00:38:01,280
make yourself happy. Yeah right, You need to do what's

726
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,320
right for you. If this person is somebody who's taking

727
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,079
you down a path and you don't, you go, man,

728
00:38:06,119 --> 00:38:09,440
I'm not comfortable with this, Get the fuck out of it.

729
00:38:08,519 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 3: I also think that if you're trying to teach him

730
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,400
a lifelong lesson, any man could use this lesson that

731
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,400
when you go and you're putting yourself out there on

732
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,400
if you're on a dating website or if you're just

733
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:26,239
on the first thing, like hold some things back, like

734
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:30,320
you're saying healing the onion, because you don't want to

735
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,599
act like your God's gift to the world and then

736
00:38:32,639 --> 00:38:36,039
show up less than Like, you know, if some guy

737
00:38:36,079 --> 00:38:38,599
puts in my mind that he's like a ten out

738
00:38:38,639 --> 00:38:41,159
of ten and then I actually were to meet him

739
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,719
and he's a eight out of ten, I'm going to

740
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:47,320
be disappointed. If a guy acts like he's a six

741
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,360
out of ten and then I meet him and I

742
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,280
think he had at seven out of ten, all right,

743
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:53,920
then that's like more impressive.

744
00:38:54,039 --> 00:38:58,519
Speaker 2: Like just continually give me the female scale.

745
00:39:00,159 --> 00:39:00,679
Speaker 3: Hotness.

746
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 2: I don't know, well, like because guys will go, you know,

747
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,679
you'll hear the terminal she's a Rochester not.

748
00:39:07,039 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 3: I said that the other day when you guys were

749
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,760
taking one day or when Matt sent me the one picture,

750
00:39:12,079 --> 00:39:14,639
but that Yeah he's good looking, he'd be a Rochester nine,

751
00:39:14,679 --> 00:39:16,400
But to me he's an NFL six.

752
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 2: Oh yes, yes, yes, I remember who it was now.

753
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,960
But in that like do women? Is it all physical?

754
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:26,679
Speaker 3: No?

755
00:39:27,079 --> 00:39:30,639
Speaker 2: Because for guy. For for guys, it's mostly physical.

756
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:36,559
Speaker 3: Obviously physical, but it's how you can carry yourself like

757
00:39:37,199 --> 00:39:42,440
I do, like that masculine energy that like protectiveness, you know,

758
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:47,119
but intelligence is so important and so is humor. Yeah,

759
00:39:47,159 --> 00:39:50,360
like I could if I were on a date with

760
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,559
a gorgeous man who was stupid, I would not be

761
00:39:53,559 --> 00:39:57,119
able to handle it. Like if I were on a

762
00:39:57,199 --> 00:40:00,199
date with a good looking guy who was really funny

763
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:06,000
and like quick quitted, that guy's gonna win, dropper. Yeah yeah,

764
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,039
like uh huh.

765
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 2: Now here's the site because I think, and I don't know,

766
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:16,519
I've never done a dating site, okay at all. I

767
00:40:16,559 --> 00:40:16,760
don't know.

768
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 3: If you ever did, I would pop on for like

769
00:40:19,519 --> 00:40:21,320
two days at a time when I would be bored

770
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:27,880
and lonely, okay, and then I get off.

771
00:40:28,039 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah all right, Like that seems like a good use

772
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,800
of it, honestly, right, I mean I found cast your

773
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,079
net see what fish come back.

774
00:40:35,159 --> 00:40:41,280
Speaker 3: I found my my profile like a while ago, and

775
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,840
I like found the screenshot of it, and what I

776
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,119
had wrote was like, I'm not looking for anything serious.

777
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,880
I had put that out there, like I'm looking for

778
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,880
somebody to go a hike, a brewery and maybe snuggles with.

779
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,760
That is what it said. And I was very honest

780
00:40:58,159 --> 00:41:00,599
putting that out there. But that's why I like when

781
00:41:00,599 --> 00:41:02,679
I would meet somebody and I would hang out with

782
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,480
them for a couple of weeks and they'd be like, oh,

783
00:41:04,519 --> 00:41:08,199
I want to be exclusive. That's literally I put in

784
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,920
my profile. I don't want that. I'm not looking for

785
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:16,559
a relationship. So well, if you were mister right, maybe

786
00:41:17,159 --> 00:41:20,760
I guess so, because that's what happened, is Joe, I'm

787
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:22,360
not looking for a relationship.

788
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 2: But but if you're on these dating sites and you

789
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,920
have something like that, and if a guy writes that,

790
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,719
then you have to respect it. Do people actually read it?

791
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:37,119
Speaker 3: And actually I wouldn't just swipe on anyone with their looks.

792
00:41:37,159 --> 00:41:39,480
I would read their profile. It had to be funny,

793
00:41:39,519 --> 00:41:42,920
it had to be it wasn't just like sexy, like

794
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,000
I wanted someone who I really could go sit at

795
00:41:45,039 --> 00:41:48,519
a brewery with and left and have a conversation like right,

796
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:50,400
So yeah.

797
00:41:50,199 --> 00:41:52,639
Speaker 2: All right, but but listen to this because this is

798
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,480
we all know about the Facebook page? Are we dating

799
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,840
the same guy? Right? And what problems that has caused

800
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,760
for some people? Some people we know this is a

801
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,159
new site. This is real and it got sent to

802
00:42:04,199 --> 00:42:04,719
me today.

803
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,039
Speaker 7: So instead of using that Facebook group, are we dating

804
00:42:08,039 --> 00:42:08,639
the same guy?

805
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:09,079
Speaker 3: Instead?

806
00:42:09,119 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 7: What girls are doing now because it's so much easier,

807
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,599
is they're downloading tea and then you can literally just

808
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,599
type in the name of the guy that you're talking to,

809
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,719
and if other girls have reported him or posted about

810
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,440
him or said we're dating this guy, will literally pull

811
00:42:21,519 --> 00:42:24,000
up his profile. We'll have all the comments as well

812
00:42:24,039 --> 00:42:26,480
as red flag ratings. So like this one guy that

813
00:42:26,559 --> 00:42:29,199
this girl looked up right found him in the app,

814
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,639
he literally had nine red flags by his name.

815
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 3: Boy bye.

816
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 7: So much easier and faster than that Facebook group.

817
00:42:35,599 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 2: Boy Bye, And I go, what are you paranoid? Like

818
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,760
to me? That is that's a red flag that you're

819
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,760
even jumping on there because you have no trust? What

820
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,400
are you looking for? It's a dating? Why you agree

821
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:48,559
with this?

822
00:42:49,519 --> 00:42:57,159
Speaker 3: I have had friends who have been sexually assaulted. And

823
00:42:57,199 --> 00:43:00,639
I went on a date one time with somebody at

824
00:43:00,679 --> 00:43:03,159
b side who told me that they would never find

825
00:43:03,159 --> 00:43:06,800
my body in the canal. What yeah, and followed me

826
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,360
out to my car. I called Renee, and I like

827
00:43:09,519 --> 00:43:12,320
sprinted out of there. The guy grabbed me by the neck, like.

828
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 2: Wait, you've never told us or did you?

829
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:15,599
Speaker 4: No?

830
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 3: I don't think so, because it was like it was

831
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,079
one day. His name was Luke, Like I remember that

832
00:43:20,159 --> 00:43:26,440
he was a FedEx driver and yeah, and then I

833
00:43:26,559 --> 00:43:29,719
found him he like had been posted and his ex

834
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,639
wife was like, do not go on a date with him?

835
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:37,480
Like and everything. And I've never commented, but I have read.

836
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,920
I have another friend who like had a guy be

837
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,920
super controlling, and I've seen that there are guys who

838
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,280
I have actually gone on dates with. The other day,

839
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,440
we were laughing because two guys that I went on

840
00:43:49,519 --> 00:43:51,679
dates with were posted in the same morning. I'm like, Joe,

841
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:56,119
look at this posted on and are we dating the

842
00:43:56,159 --> 00:43:56,920
same guy.

843
00:43:57,199 --> 00:43:58,119
Speaker 2: As a bad thing?

844
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 3: No, it's like tea, like because people put like red

845
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:05,719
flags or tea. And I didn't have a bad experience

846
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,480
with either of them, but like, I went on one

847
00:44:09,559 --> 00:44:13,280
date with one and the other one. I don't remember

848
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:14,960
if I went on a couple of dates. But I

849
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,800
was like, I don't think I even did more than

850
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:21,400
kiss either of them. But yeah, it's just funny.

851
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 2: I was like, no, well, I didn't think of the

852
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:28,199
the idea that only because it's not in my head

853
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:32,679
that I but the danger then we put themselves.

854
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 3: That's what a lot of it.

855
00:44:33,519 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't think is I didn't know that because

856
00:44:35,639 --> 00:44:38,599
I'm going, if you're so paranoid about this guy and

857
00:44:39,199 --> 00:44:42,320
you think he's dating other people, then have a conversation.

858
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,880
Don't go stalking out on this website. But I didn't

859
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:47,159
even I never.

860
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 3: Think they'll be like he's married, yeah yeah, or people

861
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,599
will be like, I'm pregnant with this kid got arrested

862
00:44:53,599 --> 00:44:56,960
for cocaine. Like it it gets sometimes I just like

863
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,840
scroll through my tack.

864
00:45:01,679 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 2: That's a reality show there. That's fucking amazing. I mean,

865
00:45:06,039 --> 00:45:10,559
somebody needs to do like a docuseries on I don't

866
00:45:10,599 --> 00:45:13,679
have time, but I would love to do see.

867
00:45:13,119 --> 00:45:15,039
Speaker 3: But then, like you know, I did I think when

868
00:45:15,039 --> 00:45:17,960
I met Joe, I like tried to google his nantasy

869
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,360
if anyone had posted him. Nobody had, But the I

870
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,639
told you the Fairport teacher that I dated for like

871
00:45:23,679 --> 00:45:26,760
a month. He got posted on there and then he

872
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:31,639
ended up getting arrested for texting students and dwis and everything.

873
00:45:31,679 --> 00:45:35,599
I'm like, holy shit, I did some skeazy ass people

874
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:36,639
for those years.

875
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, you gotta go, you know, gotta kiss a

876
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,960
few frogs. I guess, yeah, not really, I'm not really sure.

877
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 3: So I actually loved this idea. I love like an app.

878
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,199
Speaker 2: It's called Tea. I don't know much about it. I

879
00:45:52,199 --> 00:45:55,960
would assume it's either tea by itself. It doesn't tell

880
00:45:56,039 --> 00:45:59,760
you in that snapchat or excuse me that it's a

881
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,239
tick top clip and uh.

882
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 3: Well, because like so if you go to the are

883
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:07,800
we dating the same guy? Let's give the name Bill say,

884
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,039
I'm trying to you may have been posted. I was,

885
00:46:11,119 --> 00:46:13,639
but then there's like you've got to go through so much.

886
00:46:13,679 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 2: Nobody nobody wrote anything because I don't date anybody, nobody

887
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:16,960
could say anything.

888
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:20,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I used to listen to He's renewed

889
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:25,920
his virginity. But yeah, but then or people will post

890
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,920
something and then it'll get taken down and everything. Yeah,

891
00:46:30,199 --> 00:46:33,320
so I don't know. I actually am a fan of it,

892
00:46:34,039 --> 00:46:36,480
but Yeah, there's definitely been people that I've been like, oh,

893
00:46:36,639 --> 00:46:38,360
we're on a date with that guy. I went on

894
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,000
a date with that guy.

895
00:46:40,159 --> 00:46:43,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, well okay, I just I think from a safety perspective,

896
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,599
I never thought of that, Yeah, which is pretty naive

897
00:46:46,639 --> 00:46:50,920
of me. But yeah, okay, so tea, we'll take a moment.

898
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,880
I should have added this into what I was going

899
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,400
to say, because you and I have a mutual friend

900
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:03,119
that I will that I have a lot of questions about,

901
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,639
not about but like do most women do this? And

902
00:47:05,679 --> 00:47:07,599
I have to say what this is because I go,

903
00:47:08,119 --> 00:47:11,199
this is part of the problem you and you would

904
00:47:11,199 --> 00:47:14,559
be on tea trying to find out this shit that

905
00:47:14,639 --> 00:47:18,519
this person's sort of doing. If I think we'll get

906
00:47:18,519 --> 00:47:20,440
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Speaker 9: Sunday Afternoon.

941
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 6: We started me too soon, lazily watch she again.

942
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 9: After the doorbell can enter in a little.

943
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 2: Way, and they say, I'm always to blame, But.

944
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:47,679
Speaker 9: I got a philosophy. Nobody's listening. It's something I'm still

945
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:48,880
going to say.

946
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 4: Don't Monday old news?

947
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,639
Speaker 2: Right? How many people had the Sunday Scaries and all

948
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:03,440
that song? Yeah, Chris Trapper, don't let your Monday on

949
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:06,360
your Sunday.

950
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 3: I hate Sunday night.

951
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 2: Why still it's just like that, Yeah.

952
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 3: Getting back to the routine in the morning, and I

953
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:15,320
don't know.

954
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying. Do you do anything for New Year?

955
00:50:20,199 --> 00:50:26,239
New you? No but do you do anything? Thats version

956
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:31,039
of me. Ever, boy, you're gonna get yourself in trouble.

957
00:50:31,039 --> 00:50:34,840
You can talk like that, but do you do any?

958
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:36,559
What do you what do you look for in the

959
00:50:36,559 --> 00:50:38,159
new year? Goal?

960
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,280
Speaker 3: I try to make like a different I don't like

961
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,159
the resolution I tried to make like a different Like, Okay,

962
00:50:44,159 --> 00:50:47,719
this year, I really want to focus on something specific,

963
00:50:48,039 --> 00:50:50,800
and this year is actually I want to focus more

964
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:57,039
on like understanding finances and getting back to like getting

965
00:50:57,079 --> 00:50:59,960
investing and everything. Because my ex was the one who

966
00:51:00,079 --> 00:51:02,760
care of everything I had. No I didn't even know

967
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:08,239
the passwords to my bank accounts. But he's a financial advisor,

968
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:14,360
so he so it's like now I I don't invest anything,

969
00:51:14,599 --> 00:51:17,079
and so it's just like in my bank account. But

970
00:51:17,199 --> 00:51:19,360
I'm like, all right, I want to get to sort

971
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:22,840
of planning and yeah, getting more knowledgeable about money is

972
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:23,679
my goal this era.

973
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 2: Well, there's all kinds of stuff that you can I mean,

974
00:51:26,559 --> 00:51:29,800
there's the free I think Apple has Apple University with

975
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:31,880
all kinds of stuff and it's free. Yeah, you can

976
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:35,639
go on there and listen to podcasts about money and

977
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,559
all kinds of stuff. Yeah, we're living at a time

978
00:51:38,559 --> 00:51:40,639
where it's a little easier to do that. I think

979
00:51:40,639 --> 00:51:44,039
I try to start anything I really want to change

980
00:51:44,079 --> 00:51:47,760
for the upcoming year around October because I always feel

981
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,760
like I need a momentum, right, and so I can't

982
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,519
just start day one. If I'm really going to try something,

983
00:51:54,559 --> 00:51:56,920
I have to. And maybe it's just in my head,

984
00:51:57,079 --> 00:51:58,920
just the thoughts over and over what am I going

985
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,360
to do, how am I going to do it, Where's it?

986
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:01,920
What does it look like, what does it feel like?

987
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,000
And that that sort of stuff, and then I can

988
00:52:04,079 --> 00:52:07,119
kind of get going. And to your point, like, I

989
00:52:07,159 --> 00:52:10,719
feel like I never want to like turn it off

990
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,599
enough on the weekend that I start dreading Monday.

991
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 3: Yeah.

992
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,320
Speaker 2: I think that I'm always working and working on different things,

993
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:18,320
and I think you are too.

994
00:52:18,639 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 3: Like this. This past weekend I worked Saturday and Sunday

995
00:52:22,159 --> 00:52:24,840
and everything, and like I didn't even watch the game

996
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,400
really because I knew it was the game. I had

997
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:32,119
things to do. But no matter what, Monday morning sucks,

998
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,960
like I just I feel like it sucks. It's just

999
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,159
you know, I'm always like at the gym, I'm like, oh,

1000
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:42,079
it's such a Monday like but yeah.

1001
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,280
Speaker 2: But I mean it's like, O, we're conditioned. I know

1002
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:45,840
that's not that's not real.

1003
00:52:46,119 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 3: I know.

1004
00:52:46,599 --> 00:52:49,119
Speaker 2: But since we were talking about dating stuff and there's

1005
00:52:49,679 --> 00:52:52,519
a friend of yours who I know as well, and

1006
00:52:52,599 --> 00:52:57,360
this person did a whole asked me, said to me,

1007
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:02,280
have you seen my profile pick? And I said no?

1008
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:07,000
And I said you didn't and I said no, And

1009
00:53:07,039 --> 00:53:09,280
they said, do you think I post too much on Facebook?

1010
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:10,119
I have no idea?

1011
00:53:10,159 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 3: Oh on Facebook? I thought profile picture? No, no, no, no

1012
00:53:13,199 --> 00:53:13,599
no no no.

1013
00:53:13,679 --> 00:53:18,119
Speaker 2: No no no no no on Facebook? Do I post

1014
00:53:18,159 --> 00:53:21,599
too much on Facebook? And I'm like, and then she's

1015
00:53:21,599 --> 00:53:23,400
going through and showing me things. I go, oh, I

1016
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:24,920
did see that one. I didn't see that when I

1017
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,000
saw that one, oh wow. And then she's like, is

1018
00:53:28,039 --> 00:53:30,599
this a cute picture? You're a guy, you have a penis?

1019
00:53:30,679 --> 00:53:33,079
If you saw this? Is this cute? And I'm like,

1020
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:37,599
what do you say? First of all, there's no right

1021
00:53:37,679 --> 00:53:39,840
answer to that. You can't ask, you know, cause I

1022
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,840
go go, you know you know what I'm saying, like, whoa,

1023
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,679
what were you fucking thinking? I got damn, You're an idiot.

1024
00:53:45,679 --> 00:53:48,239
Don't put that out there. But the point of it was,

1025
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:52,719
if I meet somebody and then they're gonna look me up. Yeah,

1026
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,280
which is something I don't know that most guys think

1027
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:57,440
that way. Maybe I'm just the only one.

1028
00:53:57,599 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 3: You don't think people like deep dive Joe told me

1029
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,079
the night he met me, he scrolled through my entire

1030
00:54:03,119 --> 00:54:03,800
Facebook feed.

1031
00:54:06,519 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 2: I must be a weirdo. I don't know that I would.

1032
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 3: I think, Yeah, I would say, I.

1033
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 2: I think people do I think that I don't maybe

1034
00:54:15,599 --> 00:54:19,800
like I think I don't know somebody maybe once side,

1035
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:20,239
I don't.

1036
00:54:20,599 --> 00:54:25,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely will look. I think I look at

1037
00:54:25,079 --> 00:54:27,280
their I would look at their Facebook, more so to

1038
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,400
see if we had friends in common and to see

1039
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:30,239
their actual pictures.

1040
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,920
Speaker 2: All right, well, this person was doing all kinds of

1041
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:39,559
stuff and then admitted that they staged a picture, like

1042
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:44,159
completely made it up, doing an activity that they never did.

1043
00:54:44,599 --> 00:54:48,199
Like they were at a place they had the equipment. Okay,

1044
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,039
you're hearing me. They had the place, they ad the equipment.

1045
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:55,199
Speaker 3: If you're posing in a race car, but I fucking.

1046
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:59,639
Speaker 2: Raced, I race I Okay, I got you. I did.

1047
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 3: But then if somebody questions about it, I didn't let.

1048
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 2: Me rephrase it. I didn't. I did not race somebody

1049
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,719
down the drag strip, but I did drive down the

1050
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,559
dragstrip at one hundred and forty miles an hour or

1051
00:55:12,599 --> 00:55:16,239
whatever in that So, yeah, so those were but I no,

1052
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:18,880
I did not. I did not race to that level.

1053
00:55:19,159 --> 00:55:21,440
But at least I got in the fucking car and

1054
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:23,400
went down the strip. Do you understand what I'm saying?

1055
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:24,880
Like I got over one hundred, I did it a

1056
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,800
couple times to go down the hill and then stand

1057
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:31,639
there and go hey and like your ski money. No, no, no,

1058
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:33,119
the cat's out of the bag.

1059
00:55:33,199 --> 00:55:34,159
Speaker 3: And they love your friend.

1060
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 2: What if the guys, what if the guy who looked

1061
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:41,519
at this goes, oh, she skis, Hey, first day, I'll

1062
00:55:41,519 --> 00:55:42,719
take you to blah blah blah.

1063
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 3: You could say you're a newbie. I've been skiing one

1064
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,760
time and I fucking loved it, and I wanted to

1065
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,119
go back last year, and the two times I was

1066
00:55:53,119 --> 00:55:55,679
supposed to go it was bad weather. But if somebody

1067
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:57,599
was like, hey, do you ski, I'd be like, I

1068
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,639
want to like to make me skiing?

1069
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:01,119
Speaker 2: All right?

1070
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,679
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's it is. Also it's a little bit

1071
00:56:04,679 --> 00:56:07,159
of a false pretense and false pretense.

1072
00:56:08,119 --> 00:56:12,039
Speaker 2: What are you doing? What are you doing? You're this

1073
00:56:12,119 --> 00:56:14,719
is exactly what the tea shit should come out. Oh

1074
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,920
you know what I'm saying, Like if some guy says, look,

1075
00:56:18,079 --> 00:56:22,480
I I have known people. I've known women who would

1076
00:56:22,519 --> 00:56:25,519
scratch your head. You'll hear stories sometimes and you go,

1077
00:56:26,159 --> 00:56:29,679
how did you not know? And some of them are

1078
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:33,719
because you're older, you will have a big career if

1079
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:38,039
you didn't marry young and you're your right right. And

1080
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,960
I've known people who were told by somebody that they

1081
00:56:41,039 --> 00:56:45,280
had a specific job that they didn't, that they didn't.

1082
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,880
Oh yeah, but they didn't. Really why you've had this happens?

1083
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,199
Speaker 3: Oh my god. The people who lie about jobs. Like

1084
00:56:50,559 --> 00:56:54,559
my my ex husband lied about his high school job.

1085
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:57,679
He told me that when he lived in Pittsburgh he

1086
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:02,920
worked at Kenny, which is the local amusement park. Really

1087
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:07,800
he was a grocer, like beggar. I was like, what

1088
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:10,119
the fuck, that's just the stupidest lie about your high

1089
00:57:10,159 --> 00:57:10,800
school job.

1090
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah that was a high school job.

1091
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 3: It was a high school job.

1092
00:57:15,079 --> 00:57:17,599
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, But I've known this. I know somebody who

1093
00:57:17,679 --> 00:57:20,320
was told that the person was an O R surgeon

1094
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,000
turned out that they were really an O R nurse,

1095
00:57:23,519 --> 00:57:26,800
but the person died while they were together.

1096
00:57:28,159 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1097
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 2: And then find out that the person had an entire family,

1098
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,559
wasn't divorced, was it anything? And like but and it

1099
00:57:35,639 --> 00:57:37,920
sounds like you go, how how could that possibly be?

1100
00:57:38,119 --> 00:57:41,119
And when when the story's laid out, you could totally

1101
00:57:41,159 --> 00:57:44,199
see where. You're traveling a lot, You've got a big career.

1102
00:57:44,519 --> 00:57:46,559
You see this person like you know, you're back in

1103
00:57:46,639 --> 00:57:50,000
town Thursday through Sunday, You're hanging out every day, and

1104
00:57:50,039 --> 00:57:53,400
then you're gone again, and you know, or I can't

1105
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:54,519
this weekend, I'm on call.

1106
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 3: My client today told me that she was in a

1107
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,519
three year relationship with this guy who was a doctor,

1108
00:58:00,159 --> 00:58:02,719
and then she found out that he was actually married

1109
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:06,159
but his wife lived in another country.

1110
00:58:06,159 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's the that's the ten million mile rule.

1111
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:12,559
Didn't you know about that? Rong?

1112
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 3: No, it was with them for three years. I didn't know, No,

1113
00:58:16,639 --> 00:58:19,440
didn't know until the wife moved to the States.

1114
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:26,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. Surprised. Yeah, okay, I mean that that would be

1115
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:30,440
somewhat devastating if that happened, but that Yeah, these are

1116
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:34,199
the things that that people do, but that you can't

1117
00:58:34,239 --> 00:58:37,639
believe everything you're seeing, like your point of your dating site.

1118
00:58:37,519 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 3: I would say, like also even when I had my

1119
00:58:41,199 --> 00:58:45,480
like little dating websites or what I've said to even Joe.

1120
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:48,760
It's funny. I have always been like, do you hike

1121
00:58:49,079 --> 00:58:51,119
like to a guy like I love to go hiking

1122
00:58:51,159 --> 00:58:54,559
as much as I can, And I don't think Joe.

1123
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:56,519
Joe was like, yeah, I hike. I don't think we've

1124
00:58:56,519 --> 00:59:02,119
gone on a hike to But he walks his dog.

1125
00:59:02,239 --> 00:59:04,159
I don't think he doesn't do like the hiking that

1126
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:04,599
I do.

1127
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:08,159
Speaker 2: But well, so you got to change that. I'm trying.

1128
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:12,280
You're saying that, okay, but see, that's not total manipulation.

1129
00:59:12,719 --> 00:59:15,960
Total manipulation is posing one of equipment that you've never

1130
00:59:16,159 --> 00:59:18,679
used before, that isn't yours in a spot that you're

1131
00:59:18,719 --> 00:59:20,880
never going to go back to. Do you understand what

1132
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:24,880
I'm saying? Like that is completely to me, that's insane.

1133
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:27,960
That's insanity. That's somebody you need to run from. And

1134
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,960
then you want to talk about red flags. Yeah, okay,

1135
00:59:31,119 --> 00:59:34,679
she took down the entire gait of at the lodge,

1136
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,920
just the whole thing. That's a red flag. But I'm

1137
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,679
I'm I know somebody. I know people who were married

1138
00:59:40,719 --> 00:59:42,880
and then found out that the spouse one or the

1139
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,920
other had a significant drug dependency.

1140
00:59:46,199 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 3: But that also happened to one of my friends.

1141
00:59:48,039 --> 00:59:50,719
Speaker 2: Sure, because you're wrapped up with your kids, you're working,

1142
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:52,840
you got a job, you do this, and there's a

1143
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,559
busy point in your life where sometimes you're you're seeing

1144
00:59:56,679 --> 00:59:58,800
you're basically kissing each other good night and going to

1145
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:00,760
sleep because you're busy. You're so busy.

1146
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:03,119
Speaker 3: One of my closest friends was in the hospital giving

1147
01:00:03,159 --> 01:00:07,079
birth to her oldest son and her at that point

1148
01:00:07,199 --> 01:00:11,039
husband left the hospital, and she was like, what the fuck?

1149
01:00:11,119 --> 01:00:13,000
Didn't find out until she had had the baby that

1150
01:00:13,079 --> 01:00:15,880
her husband was a drug addict. Yeah, like up and

1151
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:18,119
left with the baby when he was six months old.

1152
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:22,519
Speaker 2: Wow, that's terrible. But these things happen and you go,

1153
01:00:22,599 --> 01:00:25,920
how is that possible? Well, that's how it's possible. And

1154
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:29,000
people are skied well, and you just need to start.

1155
01:00:29,199 --> 01:00:32,280
It starts with posing with equipment in a place you're

1156
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,320
never gonna go back. Just tease it.

1157
01:00:35,559 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 3: Well, maybe you'll get some good comments out of it.

1158
01:00:38,079 --> 01:00:40,400
I have known, maybe somebody will give her.

1159
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 2: I will say this. I found it extremely amusing that

1160
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:49,400
you would think that deeply that because I go, either

1161
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:52,719
I live on a completely different planet or I'm so

1162
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:56,639
fucking old. I just I don't know. I usually think

1163
01:00:56,679 --> 01:00:58,239
what I see is what I get, and that's it.

1164
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,000
If I get out of a weird vibe from somebody.

1165
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:04,639
Speaker 3: Well, and she also, she's beautiful, she's covered up in

1166
01:01:04,639 --> 01:01:08,119
that photo, like, so is it? Just do you want

1167
01:01:08,119 --> 01:01:08,480
to act?

1168
01:01:10,239 --> 01:01:12,719
Speaker 2: It just made me laugh. That's a lot of work.

1169
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:14,159
It's a lot of work.

1170
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 3: I know exactly what I'm thinking. I'm just being cautious

1171
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:17,360
right now.

1172
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Speaker 2: All right, we're gonna take them moment Peter Montmorrow is

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01:01:19,719 --> 01:01:23,559
on deck. We will talk about the Buffalo Bill's upcoming

1174
01:01:23,639 --> 01:01:26,920
playoff game in Buffalo against a team that could be

1175
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:30,320
pretty tough. But Greg Connor says something earlier this week.

1176
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,760
I'll run it by Peter to see if he agrees,

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01:01:33,119 --> 01:01:35,280
and he thoughts, you have on the Bills, what you

1178
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:38,000
would like to see, what you're worried about in the playoffs?

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You go in there, you can get chicken palm. All

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you have to do is heat it up right. Everybody's

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Speaker 4: Hm mm hmm, mother, mother, Ross.

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01:03:27,159 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 2: Want to you know who this is? Okay, good, I'm awead.

1208
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:39,239
I wanted to say you was Zuras three feet you see.

1209
01:03:42,679 --> 01:03:43,559
Speaker 9: You see it?

1210
01:03:45,039 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 3: I like his voice.

1211
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:54,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, watch man Road switched and sees esteem.

1212
01:03:56,199 --> 01:03:57,559
Speaker 9: In your billy.

1213
01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:01,199
Speaker 4: You the treasure you have it.

1214
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:04,719
Speaker 9: Most of them dreams.

1215
01:04:05,119 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 2: Wait, there's a specific line. I'm waiting for it, and

1216
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:08,960
I'll tell you this.

1217
01:04:12,599 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 3: Yes, I am a bar Jimmy Buffett to.

1218
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 9: Hug years too late.

1219
01:04:20,519 --> 01:04:22,159
Speaker 3: The cannons don't thunder.

1220
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:25,119
Speaker 4: There's nothing to plunder over.

1221
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 2: Forty victim of feet driving to me, driving to me.

1222
01:04:35,519 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 3: Tell it with like the Calypso I've done.

1223
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 2: A smuggler, I've run the shell of grass. I made

1224
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:49,320
enough money to buy Miami, but I pissed it away

1225
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:55,679
so fast. There you go, a the late great Jimmy Buffett.

1226
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:57,880
I never saw Jimmy Buffet constant. I'm always mom that

1227
01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:02,599
I didn't. But yeah, in summer night to Marville summer

1228
01:05:02,599 --> 01:05:05,840
in ninety three. I lived on a houseboat briefly for

1229
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,599
two weeks. At All we did was listen to Jimmy

1230
01:05:08,599 --> 01:05:10,519
Buffett on Lake Powell and Utah.

1231
01:05:10,559 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 3: That's amazing.

1232
01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:11,639
Speaker 2: Oh.

1233
01:05:11,719 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 3: Lake Powell is beautiful.

1234
01:05:14,239 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gorgeous.

1235
01:05:15,039 --> 01:05:16,079
Speaker 3: I went jet skiing through there.

1236
01:05:16,199 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. I went wild water skiing every day. Yeah, every

1237
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,519
day on Lake Powell. It's gorgeous. It was like glass.

1238
01:05:21,599 --> 01:05:23,920
Yeah right, and he got all the like the red

1239
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:25,679
rocks around it and then mountains.

1240
01:05:25,719 --> 01:05:30,079
Speaker 3: The water has gone down so much though, Yeah, because

1241
01:05:30,119 --> 01:05:32,400
when I was there in twenty twenty one, we couldn't

1242
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:35,960
do any cliff jumping because they said the water has

1243
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:36,800
gone down so much.

1244
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,119
Speaker 2: Oh wow, because I went on to cliff jump.

1245
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:40,559
Speaker 3: Wow, how far.

1246
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 2: Down are you going to go? I don't know. It's

1247
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,239
better safe than sorry. Yeah, with all that we bring in,

1248
01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:51,159
Peter Montemerno, Sorry, Peter, evergo cliff jumping in uh in

1249
01:05:51,239 --> 01:05:56,159
Lake Powell in Utah? Wait wait wait wait, wait, something bigger.

1250
01:05:56,199 --> 01:05:58,599
Speaker 6: The other day of people jumping off clifts and jumping

1251
01:05:58,599 --> 01:06:01,639
in bungees, and I think I would rather do the

1252
01:06:01,679 --> 01:06:03,880
bungeee than jump free off the cliffs.

1253
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 2: Never done much jumping is great, You've never done bungee jumping? No, no, okay,

1254
01:06:10,039 --> 01:06:11,239
I would, yes.

1255
01:06:11,199 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 9: I would do that before I did. You know base

1256
01:06:14,079 --> 01:06:14,960
jumping if.

1257
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 2: You will, well, the base jumping stuff where they parachute off.

1258
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,960
I know somebody who died doing that, so that, yeah,

1259
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:23,400
that was enough for me. That was all I did.

1260
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:28,119
It was, yeah, just one does. Yeah. It's not one

1261
01:06:28,119 --> 01:06:30,239
of those things like if I knew somebody who died

1262
01:06:30,239 --> 01:06:32,519
in a plane accident, like well, right, we know of

1263
01:06:32,559 --> 01:06:36,320
celebrities and something. But I uh, I'd still fly because

1264
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:38,800
I would say that's it. But with the base jumping,

1265
01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:41,119
I'm like just one big gust of wind and me

1266
01:06:41,199 --> 01:06:44,199
in some bird suit splat.

1267
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:47,079
Speaker 3: Yeah, not into base jumping, but cliff jumping into waters.

1268
01:06:47,119 --> 01:06:50,000
Pretty I did it in Jamaica. That was really fun.

1269
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:54,039
Speaker 2: Okay, before we go to further Peter, I want you

1270
01:06:54,039 --> 01:06:55,880
to know that Danny is sick.

1271
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:58,039
Speaker 9: Yeah, heard about that.

1272
01:06:58,239 --> 01:07:00,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't know what about that. I

1273
01:07:00,079 --> 01:07:01,599
don't know what kind of sick. But he just said

1274
01:07:01,599 --> 01:07:05,119
to me, I don't I don't want That's all that

1275
01:07:05,199 --> 01:07:06,480
was all I said. He said, I'm not feeling I

1276
01:07:06,519 --> 01:07:07,960
don't want to get you sick, is what he said.

1277
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:11,000
So I said, I greatly appreciate that, but for you,

1278
01:07:11,239 --> 01:07:14,480
this is a kind of an exciting playoff time because

1279
01:07:14,519 --> 01:07:18,719
your AFC team is seated number two and your NFC

1280
01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:23,519
team is seated number one, the Lions. You know, I

1281
01:07:23,599 --> 01:07:26,480
really thought Minnesota would win that game. I don't know why.

1282
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:33,079
Speaker 6: That defensive game plan and execution by the players was

1283
01:07:34,039 --> 01:07:38,039
nothing short of phenomenal. It' stunned everybody, holding the Vikings

1284
01:07:38,039 --> 01:07:43,320
to no touchdowns, yeah, and making Sam Darnold look confused

1285
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:44,719
from playing one right.

1286
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 2: It was like you've seen ghosts, see, Yeah.

1287
01:07:49,639 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 6: With a dilapidated defense, with all your you know, most

1288
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,880
of your players are second string, third string.

1289
01:07:57,639 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 9: Guys not playing a lot all the time.

1290
01:07:59,639 --> 01:08:02,039
Speaker 6: You know, obviously you're second string for I don't want

1291
01:08:02,039 --> 01:08:04,039
to say a reason, but there's a reason why.

1292
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 2: You're not right exactly. Yeah.

1293
01:08:06,039 --> 01:08:11,039
Speaker 6: Well, hey, it's that's just the recipe that that team

1294
01:08:11,159 --> 01:08:13,920
has created under the leadership with Dan Campbell, next man up.

1295
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:16,880
He believes in you, believes in your ability to do things,

1296
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,319
and the guy buy in. All of them buy in.

1297
01:08:19,399 --> 01:08:22,439
They're a dangerous football team that I built that I

1298
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:25,319
was sitting here watching that Bill's game versus Detroit. My

1299
01:08:25,359 --> 01:08:28,159
wife walks in the room and she says, what's wrong?

1300
01:08:28,199 --> 01:08:29,479
And I guess the look on my face.

1301
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 9: I couldn't. I couldn't root for anybody. I was numb.

1302
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:34,239
I couldn't.

1303
01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:37,079
Speaker 2: Could you not root? You grew up a Bill's fan,

1304
01:08:37,159 --> 01:08:38,399
that's you, I know.

1305
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,119
Speaker 6: I know, And that was really I told my wife,

1306
01:08:41,159 --> 01:08:44,079
I said, if the Bill's on the line to the

1307
01:08:44,079 --> 01:08:45,159
super Bowl, I'm not going to be in.

1308
01:08:46,319 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1309
01:08:47,239 --> 01:08:49,920
Speaker 6: That's how much I've grown to love this Lion's team.

1310
01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:53,319
And you know, I followed Dan Campbell on a regular

1311
01:08:53,359 --> 01:08:55,119
band and everything he says. He told me to run

1312
01:08:55,159 --> 01:08:56,479
through a brick wall, if he told me to light

1313
01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:59,920
myself on fire, okay, when I will do.

1314
01:09:00,239 --> 01:09:02,439
Speaker 9: Yeah. So I couldn't.

1315
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:05,760
Speaker 6: I couldn't sit there and like get excited either side.

1316
01:09:06,239 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 9: It's very strange phenomenon.

1317
01:09:07,720 --> 01:09:11,079
Speaker 2: That is very strange phenomenon. I mean that seems weird

1318
01:09:11,119 --> 01:09:15,279
to me. All right, So before we get to playoffs,

1319
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:19,039
let's just pause for a moment and talk a MVP

1320
01:09:20,239 --> 01:09:25,439
is in your opinion, Josh Allen? The look, we could

1321
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,039
make arguments for Lamar, and you can make arguments for

1322
01:09:28,119 --> 01:09:30,199
Saquon if you wanted to. You could probably make an

1323
01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:34,079
argument for Joe Burrow, even though the team didn't make

1324
01:09:34,079 --> 01:09:36,840
the playoffs. So I think that that's completely mute at

1325
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:41,079
this point. But Josh Allen, in your opinion, m VP

1326
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,560
of the twenty twenty four NFL season.

1327
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 9: Yeah, I've often.

1328
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:52,239
Speaker 6: Thought about the definition, and everybody has their own definition, right, most.

1329
01:09:52,159 --> 01:09:53,159
Speaker 9: Valuable players should be.

1330
01:09:53,199 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 6: But if you put Josh Allen on every single football

1331
01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:02,119
team in the NFL, he's the most valuable player on

1332
01:10:02,159 --> 01:10:05,199
each team in my opinion. Okay, that makes him a

1333
01:10:05,279 --> 01:10:08,640
clear MVP of the Weekue. Yeah, that's how I would

1334
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:12,880
look at Obviously, every system is different, but Josh Allen

1335
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:14,880
is beyond the system his abilities.

1336
01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:17,039
Speaker 9: It's one of the best football players I've ever seen.

1337
01:10:18,039 --> 01:10:20,680
Speaker 2: It is, right, it is, and it's one of the

1338
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:28,159
ones that I think was had a chance of completely missing. Yes, right,

1339
01:10:28,239 --> 01:10:30,399
I mean completely missing. How many times do we hear

1340
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:33,359
now teams looking for the next Josh Allen. I hear

1341
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:36,000
bo Nick's got a lot of Josh Allen in him, right,

1342
01:10:36,399 --> 01:10:40,279
This was a guy that was it playing in Wyoming. Yes,

1343
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:42,479
like none of the teams on the West Coast that

1344
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:45,000
were close enough to see those games and go to

1345
01:10:45,039 --> 01:10:48,600
the ever. I think Seattle might have had interest.

1346
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:51,239
Speaker 3: Imagine in ten years all the kids who are playing,

1347
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:54,560
when they start going up to college and they're saying

1348
01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:57,600
that their idol is josh Allen mean exactly. My nine

1349
01:10:57,640 --> 01:10:59,680
year old is obsessed with him.

1350
01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:02,199
Speaker 2: You see when that guy if you go to training

1351
01:11:02,199 --> 01:11:05,000
camp and you watch him walk off the field, the

1352
01:11:05,239 --> 01:11:07,800
roar that comes out of the crowd, and then and

1353
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:11,439
the time he spends. He's a great ambassador for that

1354
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:15,159
team and this game yep uh and comes from really humble,

1355
01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:20,479
really humble background. I say that only because I know

1356
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,479
his mother was offered a chunky soup commercial and turned

1357
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:27,119
it down, like they don't want to be seen as

1358
01:11:27,279 --> 01:11:29,479
I guess grifting off josh in some way. And I

1359
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:34,600
certainly don't mean anything with you know missus Kelsey and

1360
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:38,119
you know the Kelsey brothers. That's two sons in the NFL.

1361
01:11:38,199 --> 01:11:41,960
And that's a cute story. And she plays perfectly well

1362
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:44,720
with that. There's nothing obnoxious about that woman at all.

1363
01:11:45,119 --> 01:11:45,880
She's just there.

1364
01:11:46,239 --> 01:11:48,600
Speaker 3: I told you, I told you that Joshua's parents were

1365
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:52,720
at the tailgate party I went to in Seattle. They were, Yeah,

1366
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:56,760
they were there. Was like the billsbackers tailgate. I didn't

1367
01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:59,920
try and go meet them. I'm like, that's yeah, it

1368
01:12:00,199 --> 01:12:03,680
doesn't excite me, but I thought I was like cool, Yeah,

1369
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:04,319
like that's great.

1370
01:12:04,399 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're they're there. I think for them, it's like

1371
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:09,399
supporting him if he was on Pop Warner and you know,

1372
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:10,720
it's the same thing he would do.

1373
01:12:11,159 --> 01:12:13,800
Speaker 6: And I think that's from where he came from, the

1374
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:15,760
type of person he is. He had to pursue an

1375
01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:19,199
opportunity in Division one football. He had to do a

1376
01:12:19,239 --> 01:12:20,680
lot of work. There are guys that don't have to

1377
01:12:20,720 --> 01:12:22,880
do We're near the amount of work he had to

1378
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,840
do to get recognized. You know, the talent level may

1379
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:28,439
not have been seen or wasn't there. He didn't mature

1380
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:33,399
physically at that point, but that just just kept him grounded. Yeah,

1381
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:36,800
and it's it's he has changed his game and he's

1382
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:40,640
playing with them incredible amount of confidence, the most that

1383
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:41,479
I've ever seen.

1384
01:12:42,680 --> 01:12:44,359
Speaker 9: And without him, the Bills are not.

1385
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:50,640
Speaker 2: Right now. The first round of the playoffs, they don't

1386
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:53,199
get to buy. Kansas City does get to buy. Some

1387
01:12:53,239 --> 01:12:57,640
people worry that Russ can set in maybe, but they

1388
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:01,840
have Denver and I would think that strength is, and

1389
01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:05,479
this is something Greg Connor said, is their defense and

1390
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:09,760
Buffalo's strength is the offense. So let's have our strengths matchup.

1391
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:13,520
At least it's not their strength against our weakness more

1392
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:14,159
or less.

1393
01:13:15,119 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, something's got to give because when you

1394
01:13:18,039 --> 01:13:21,159
look at the Broncos defenses third in the NFL and

1395
01:13:21,279 --> 01:13:24,600
points per game eighteen or so points, and the Bills

1396
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:26,239
are number one in the league or second in the

1397
01:13:26,279 --> 01:13:29,399
league in offense at thirty points. So something's got to give.

1398
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:32,840
Now the defense of Denver, they're also number one in

1399
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:36,479
the league in sacks, like sixty four sixty five sacks,

1400
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:41,079
but Buffalo is only given up eight. Yeah, something's got

1401
01:13:41,079 --> 01:13:45,359
to give there. So what if I was the defensive

1402
01:13:45,359 --> 01:13:50,560
coordinator for Denver? I want I'm gonna want to let

1403
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:55,159
the receivers beat me. I'm gonna load the box. I

1404
01:13:55,159 --> 01:13:58,319
don't want Josh, I don't want Cook to have anything. Okay,

1405
01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:00,119
So I'm gonna load the box. I'm gonna play and

1406
01:14:00,159 --> 01:14:03,800
the man behind, because you gotta certain there's a great

1407
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:08,880
cornerback play man the man. I don't think there's enough skill,

1408
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:11,319
Like in the unit. They're great, but I don't think

1409
01:14:11,319 --> 01:14:15,319
there's enough skill at the Bills receiver level where the

1410
01:14:15,359 --> 01:14:18,800
Broncos have to worry about brackening coverage double coverage. I

1411
01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:20,640
don't think they're worried about that. They do such a

1412
01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:23,640
good job in man coverage. Now you're going to start

1413
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,399
to see a lot of pressure, a lot of different

1414
01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:29,520
blitz schemes. That's what I would do if I was

1415
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:32,680
Denver's DC. Put pressure on Allen. But you've got to

1416
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:35,560
keep him in the pocket. If you let him get

1417
01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:36,760
outside the pocket.

1418
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:38,119
Speaker 9: You're dead.

1419
01:14:38,359 --> 01:14:40,359
Speaker 2: I don't like to hear this, but this is exactly

1420
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:44,720
what somebody else said, But you have it, just like

1421
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,560
Peter laid out, maybe the best football player in the

1422
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:50,239
league and one of the most athletic guys. And have

1423
01:14:50,359 --> 01:14:53,439
we not seen him do some Houdini move all of

1424
01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:53,800
a sudden.

1425
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:57,560
Speaker 3: He's I think it's that's why he's MVP. It's beyond that.

1426
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:00,680
He's just skilled in getting wins. Like his plays are

1427
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:04,079
just they're exciting. He's thrilling to watch, and I think

1428
01:15:04,399 --> 01:15:07,880
it's gotten more people into it. But like what you said,

1429
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:12,439
like Cooper and Coleman, they drop sometimes, especially Coleman. I

1430
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:16,520
would say James Cook has been amazing for the bells.

1431
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:21,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna let the receivers beat me, not Josh Allen,

1432
01:15:22,079 --> 01:15:24,760
not Cook, the receivers. And I don't think if they

1433
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:27,359
if they step into the game thinking okay, the only

1434
01:15:27,399 --> 01:15:30,039
way the Bills are gonna win if the receivers get off,

1435
01:15:31,199 --> 01:15:33,680
they have a chance. They have a chance. You're going

1436
01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:36,479
to see a lot of different things from from Denver,

1437
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:38,479
and they're gonna say, listen, we're playing with house money.

1438
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:40,279
I don't think they're talented enough to get to the

1439
01:15:40,279 --> 01:15:42,479
super Bowl. But you know they had a good coach.

1440
01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:44,800
Coaches won a super Bowl before something a good coach.

1441
01:15:45,159 --> 01:15:47,159
You know, they've won this Denver game last year.

1442
01:15:47,199 --> 01:15:51,720
Speaker 2: Bill, you were there, I was, well, I know, but

1443
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:54,800
that was like that was just a comedy of errors

1444
01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:59,720
and it was a regular season and yea they have

1445
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:02,840
won that game because the field goal was missed and

1446
01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:05,039
then there was a penalty for the apment on the field.

1447
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:09,000
Yeah it was over. And then and they eked I

1448
01:16:09,039 --> 01:16:11,520
will say squeaked away, but a W is a W.

1449
01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:15,760
And then we find out that tomorrow hamm right, but

1450
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:19,279
I yelled to the ref he's dead. It's not it's

1451
01:16:19,319 --> 01:16:22,000
just a ghost. It's not real. It's a ghost. It's

1452
01:16:22,039 --> 01:16:23,520
a ghost. He's dead.

1453
01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:26,039
Speaker 3: It's like eleven and a half then, yes.

1454
01:16:26,079 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe maybe maybe a quarter I don't know.

1455
01:16:29,239 --> 01:16:33,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, well you know, and uh we'll see.

1456
01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 9: I think the nine and a half points for it

1457
01:16:36,039 --> 01:16:36,520
is too big.

1458
01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:39,600
Speaker 6: It's in my in my opinion, I think you're looking

1459
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:45,119
at a five to six point game, not nine and

1460
01:16:45,119 --> 01:16:48,880
a half half too much. I really do. I like

1461
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:52,520
them squirm Bill, But yeah, it does mean I'm not

1462
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:55,439
a prognosticator. I'm just if I was a betting man

1463
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,560
on a regular basis, I would bet the I would

1464
01:16:57,600 --> 01:16:59,319
bet the Broncos and points on this one.

1465
01:16:59,600 --> 01:17:02,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, then.

1466
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:05,600
Speaker 9: The Bills should win, but yes, not by that much

1467
01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:06,159
of a margin.

1468
01:17:06,199 --> 01:17:09,560
Speaker 3: All right, Well, do I feel field advantage is huge?

1469
01:17:11,159 --> 01:17:12,359
Speaker 9: Yeah? No, no question.

1470
01:17:12,359 --> 01:17:14,760
Speaker 6: I haven't lost at home, you know, and it's you

1471
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:16,880
feel like it's the old school Bills eight and no

1472
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:19,479
at home going into the playoffs, unbeatable.

1473
01:17:20,359 --> 01:17:22,039
Speaker 9: I don't know the weather's supposed to be, like, I

1474
01:17:22,079 --> 01:17:22,920
haven't even checked that guy.

1475
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:27,199
Speaker 2: I think it's supposed to be like thirties, Uh, partly sunny,

1476
01:17:27,399 --> 01:17:30,239
like a mix of sun and clouds, not any real

1477
01:17:30,319 --> 01:17:33,720
discernible weather. No, no, precipitation, and no, I don't think.

1478
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:36,199
I don't think any significant wins.

1479
01:17:37,359 --> 01:17:39,760
Speaker 9: I do like the one o'clock start, I do too

1480
01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:43,039
so much. That's like the old school playoffs.

1481
01:17:43,399 --> 01:17:45,840
Speaker 2: I like it. Let's get it over with, let's go.

1482
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:47,680
I don't want to be waiting till Sunday night. I

1483
01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:48,399
don't want to be waiting.

1484
01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:49,720
Speaker 3: I was afraid it was gonna be Monday.

1485
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:53,199
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

1486
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:55,399
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm I'm surprised the number two seeds playing at

1487
01:17:55,399 --> 01:17:58,079
one o'clock. I thought you more of a prime time poll.

1488
01:17:58,479 --> 01:17:59,760
Speaker 2: Is it because it's Denver?

1489
01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:03,680
Speaker 6: I don't know. I I still don't know. My brother

1490
01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:06,239
works on the Monday night football crew, so he's going

1491
01:18:06,239 --> 01:18:06,680
out to l A.

1492
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:09,119
Speaker 9: I talked to him.

1493
01:18:09,159 --> 01:18:13,359
Speaker 6: He was here Monday night when he flew back from

1494
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:14,359
wherever he was.

1495
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:19,640
Speaker 9: He thinks it's he thinks it's because of the winner,

1496
01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:23,760
like playing a night game and Buffalo could get into

1497
01:18:23,800 --> 01:18:24,279
the teams.

1498
01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if that.

1499
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 6: Would be a disadvantaged to not gonna they're not going

1500
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:33,439
to play game with the opponent. But but it's it's

1501
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:36,359
all based on the other seeds and and the locations

1502
01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:39,239
and all that stuff. So there's a lot that goes

1503
01:18:39,239 --> 01:18:41,359
into it. It's far beyond me to try to.

1504
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:44,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, uh, well, a couple of years ago

1505
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:46,520
when they played New England in the first round. It

1506
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:50,039
was a night game, Yeah, wasn't it? Or four o'clock?

1507
01:18:50,159 --> 01:18:55,640
Speaker 3: Was it New England game? Yeah, it was, right, it was.

1508
01:18:57,439 --> 01:18:59,640
Speaker 2: I was at that game. Yes, yes, it was at

1509
01:18:59,640 --> 01:19:03,039
that game. Oh yeah, And I was in a sweet.

1510
01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:08,359
Speaker 3: And right you have to talk.

1511
01:19:08,560 --> 01:19:12,079
Speaker 2: I did not. I did not bitch about the window

1512
01:19:12,159 --> 01:19:14,079
being open. I just stood in the back where it

1513
01:19:14,079 --> 01:19:18,319
was a little warmer and the food and waves. Yeah yeah,

1514
01:19:18,119 --> 01:19:22,359
o god, ye right. And I'm watching these guys out

1515
01:19:22,359 --> 01:19:26,600
there with their shirts off at that game, was there? Yeah?

1516
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, the game that I just I went to the

1517
01:19:29,039 --> 01:19:31,000
game against the Jets when it was supposed to be

1518
01:19:31,079 --> 01:19:33,479
raining the whole time, and it ended up not raining

1519
01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:37,199
at all during the game, like fifty five degrees. So

1520
01:19:37,359 --> 01:19:39,640
many kids had their shirts off. My nine year old

1521
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:42,520
one to take his shirt off. I was like, no, like, you.

1522
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:46,119
Speaker 2: Got to be the cool mom just for a minute.

1523
01:19:47,159 --> 01:19:51,199
Speaker 3: So what he could get his little tiny like just

1524
01:19:51,399 --> 01:19:55,680
my kid is skinny as hell. I like feed him

1525
01:19:55,680 --> 01:19:56,119
a burger.

1526
01:19:56,640 --> 01:19:59,199
Speaker 2: Well, maybe would have gotten free food. Save me somewhere.

1527
01:19:59,359 --> 01:20:02,159
I don't know, what are you doing to this amaziating child.

1528
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:05,560
He's right, and then you get even colder and paler

1529
01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:09,079
and I got down your see through. He's transparent, amazing.

1530
01:20:09,159 --> 01:20:12,720
He sees heartbeat right there, yest, that's great. That's uh

1531
01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:16,399
all right, Peter. I don't want to. I hesitate to

1532
01:20:16,399 --> 01:20:19,119
look past the Denver game with you. I don't know

1533
01:20:19,159 --> 01:20:19,960
that we should do that.

1534
01:20:20,079 --> 01:20:22,279
Speaker 9: I'm not doing that. I'm definitely doing.

1535
01:20:22,119 --> 01:20:25,079
Speaker 2: Because I would say, like, you know, there's a lot

1536
01:20:25,119 --> 01:20:27,680
of talk like is this the Bills season? And I

1537
01:20:27,720 --> 01:20:31,720
would think, to me, this is a season that surpassed

1538
01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:34,880
the expectations I had supposed to.

1539
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:37,199
Speaker 9: Be rebuilding season. I'm rebuilding Jets.

1540
01:20:37,479 --> 01:20:37,640
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1541
01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:38,479
Speaker 2: I thought it was like.

1542
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:44,720
Speaker 6: Right defender, Yeah, not this year. So this was a

1543
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:45,560
little bit of a surprise.

1544
01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. I called it a dip year with my mind, like,

1545
01:20:49,079 --> 01:20:51,960
I you know, maybe they went but here, maybe they

1546
01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:53,800
got the AFC East. I didn't know what to do.

1547
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:56,199
I really and everybody still makes fun of me. I

1548
01:20:56,239 --> 01:20:59,159
thought the Jets would potentially be something.

1549
01:21:00,359 --> 01:21:01,239
Speaker 9: Yeah, everybody did.

1550
01:21:01,359 --> 01:21:04,279
Speaker 2: I really did. Well, not everybody, because every asshole who

1551
01:21:04,319 --> 01:21:06,279
sits behind the microphone of this table all goes. It's

1552
01:21:06,279 --> 01:21:09,000
the Jets. They're always the Jets. To the Jets. Danny

1553
01:21:09,039 --> 01:21:11,359
says it, Kevin says it every other and I'm like,

1554
01:21:13,039 --> 01:21:15,319
Aaron Rodgers still had a little guess in the day.

1555
01:21:15,319 --> 01:21:17,640
Even by the way, the second half of the season,

1556
01:21:17,720 --> 01:21:21,640
I thought Aaron Rodgers looked pretty good, not terrible, I

1557
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:22,600
mean terrible.

1558
01:21:22,800 --> 01:21:25,720
Speaker 6: Had like he showed, he showed his own as old

1559
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:30,880
Aaron Rodgers ways. But Woody Johnson completely sabotage that team

1560
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:34,319
when he fired Salah, you know that early in the season,

1561
01:21:34,359 --> 01:21:36,399
that that just completely lost the locker room.

1562
01:21:36,880 --> 01:21:39,800
Speaker 2: Let's talk about this real quick, just in that way.

1563
01:21:40,359 --> 01:21:42,600
The rumor that I'm hearing now and a New York

1564
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:45,199
Post reporter and I didn't see this at the time, Well,

1565
01:21:45,279 --> 01:21:50,279
Robert Sala gets fired, and they said this reporter said

1566
01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:56,800
that Bill Belichick reached out to the Jets as a

1567
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:59,039
mid that's what he's That's what they said, and that

1568
01:21:59,159 --> 01:22:02,159
it was a luke warm response by other teams, like

1569
01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:05,399
obviously the last time he had interviewed with Atlanta and

1570
01:22:05,479 --> 01:22:08,199
maybe one other team, I'm not even sure. And now

1571
01:22:08,239 --> 01:22:14,000
he's in North Carolina. Well apparently now now the rumor

1572
01:22:14,159 --> 01:22:18,960
is now The rumor is Tom Brady called Belichick and said,

1573
01:22:19,039 --> 01:22:21,479
what will it take to get you to be the

1574
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:26,039
Raiders head coach? Because they just fired Antonio Pierce, so

1575
01:22:26,399 --> 01:22:30,960
they're now without And according to the things I'm seeing,

1576
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:35,840
Bill Belichick has a ten million dollar buyout of his

1577
01:22:36,119 --> 01:22:40,279
UNC contract until June of this year, June of twenty

1578
01:22:40,319 --> 01:22:45,000
twenty five, and after that it's a million dollar buyout.

1579
01:22:46,039 --> 01:22:48,640
Isn't that weird? And that? And I'm and then I

1580
01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:51,920
keep reading different things that Brady is not going back

1581
01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:56,880
to the booth next year. And I guess maybe Fox,

1582
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:58,760
I don't know what happens with the contract. I guess

1583
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:01,600
you paid for the one year and it's not. But

1584
01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:03,479
it was a three hundred and seventy five million dollars

1585
01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:06,560
ten year deal, so over thirty million a year. And

1586
01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:12,119
he's supposedly getting more involved on the ownership side of

1587
01:23:12,159 --> 01:23:16,079
the Raiders, but he's a minority owner with Brady, Yeah,

1588
01:23:16,199 --> 01:23:16,880
of the Raiders.

1589
01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:19,279
Speaker 9: Of are you hearing that?

1590
01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:26,640
Speaker 6: The rumor is that, well Brady is pursuing Bill, is

1591
01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:31,319
he also potentially going to be an owner play that.

1592
01:23:31,359 --> 01:23:34,600
Speaker 2: I haven't heard, Okay, that I have not heard. Well, boy,

1593
01:23:34,640 --> 01:23:36,119
that would be that would that would.

1594
01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:37,359
Speaker 9: Be something that'll be sure.

1595
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:41,359
Speaker 2: I'm forty seven years old, for God's sake, now.

1596
01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:47,159
Speaker 6: I mean, you know, forget hey built Bill he obviously

1597
01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:51,920
I hope the honors is his promised to coach for UNC.

1598
01:23:52,079 --> 01:23:54,119
And I say hope, because you know you're a chilating

1599
01:23:54,159 --> 01:23:57,760
a staff, right, you're probably talking to recruits now, yes,

1600
01:23:58,439 --> 01:23:59,199
you've probably.

1601
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:00,800
Speaker 9: Got some people to transfer because of.

1602
01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:05,880
Speaker 6: So. I mean, it's all nice to talk and chatter,

1603
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:08,880
but I don't I don't know. I think I think

1604
01:24:08,880 --> 01:24:11,239
he looks at this as is an opportunity for him

1605
01:24:11,279 --> 01:24:16,439
to change the way college coaching and recruiting is going.

1606
01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:18,199
It's going to be a profession. He's gonna run that

1607
01:24:18,359 --> 01:24:20,760
organization like professional football team when you got all the

1608
01:24:20,840 --> 01:24:24,039
NILK contracts and you got all the portal transfers and

1609
01:24:24,119 --> 01:24:26,199
the money's the biggest thing. And these kids are different

1610
01:24:26,239 --> 01:24:29,000
than they were twenty years ago. I look at their

1611
01:24:29,039 --> 01:24:31,880
college career. I think he looks like this is an

1612
01:24:31,920 --> 01:24:33,279
opportunity to challenge.

1613
01:24:33,359 --> 01:24:36,239
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people talk because they like

1614
01:24:36,319 --> 01:24:40,199
to speculate rumors. This that prediction, it can't possibly be

1615
01:24:40,319 --> 01:24:44,399
this way, and nobody really knows what's up with Belichick. Right, No,

1616
01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:48,479
so I think in that regard, you just gotta I

1617
01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:52,920
wouldn't be surprised if Bill stays there and maybe maybe

1618
01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:55,640
after a year leaves and hands it off to his son,

1619
01:24:56,119 --> 01:24:58,600
which was just you know, but at that time too,

1620
01:24:58,600 --> 01:25:00,800
you're seventy three, seventy four year older, you want to

1621
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:01,640
keep doing this.

1622
01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 6: One thing that I thought odd was that him taking

1623
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:11,159
that role. I don't see him recruiting. I don't see

1624
01:25:11,239 --> 01:25:13,199
him traveling in the country and sitting in the living

1625
01:25:13,279 --> 01:25:15,039
room with mom and dad talking about there.

1626
01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:17,600
Speaker 9: That's not no, that's not it.

1627
01:25:17,920 --> 01:25:19,640
Speaker 2: No, So he's got to have.

1628
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:21,640
Speaker 6: A recruiting team that's going to be doing that, and

1629
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:24,319
then he'll be brought in for the big ticket it right.

1630
01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:29,760
Speaker 3: They could be afraid that he'd go after their teenage daughters. Now, wow,

1631
01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:30,720
look at Laura.

1632
01:25:31,399 --> 01:25:33,279
Speaker 9: Look at that for three shot?

1633
01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:35,920
Speaker 2: Whoa look at you?

1634
01:25:37,640 --> 01:25:40,000
Speaker 6: I know, how was it twenty seven year difference or

1635
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:40,920
is she twenty seven?

1636
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:43,439
Speaker 3: What's the he's like twenty four?

1637
01:25:44,039 --> 01:25:45,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she's twenty four.

1638
01:25:45,239 --> 01:25:47,039
Speaker 9: Yeah, she's an old soul, he said.

1639
01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:50,119
Speaker 2: But when I see them dressed up, right, that's her

1640
01:25:50,159 --> 01:25:55,560
tits that in other parts too, uh you he hear

1641
01:25:55,600 --> 01:26:00,680
what her assay is the thing that really, when I

1642
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:03,840
see them together and she's all done up, hair curled

1643
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:07,000
and all, it doesn't look that out of bounds to me.

1644
01:26:07,279 --> 01:26:10,359
I know, I know, but it doesn't I look at it.

1645
01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,560
And people are starting to say that's because I'm close

1646
01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:14,560
to Bill Belichick's age, and I want I want a

1647
01:26:14,600 --> 01:26:16,960
whole lot of that. I'm not that close to Bill

1648
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:21,279
Belichick's age, thank you. And secondly, I know she looks

1649
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:24,720
she just looks more mature. It's hard to pin an

1650
01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:27,600
age on a woman when you put makeup on, like seriously,

1651
01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:28,399
you could take and.

1652
01:26:28,359 --> 01:26:31,479
Speaker 6: Then in that same photo, op, you look like the

1653
01:26:31,520 --> 01:26:33,880
penguin from the back movie in the in.

1654
01:26:33,840 --> 01:26:38,039
Speaker 2: The in the you're with the the tuxedo. He had

1655
01:26:38,039 --> 01:26:40,279
a tuxedo on that we're talking about the same photo.

1656
01:26:40,279 --> 01:26:45,199
We didn't even I should have it up. Yeah, okay,

1657
01:26:45,680 --> 01:26:48,119
I guess he did. I just thought they look like

1658
01:26:48,239 --> 01:26:51,199
you know, any I've seen a lot of rich guys

1659
01:26:51,199 --> 01:26:56,840
with young, younger women, accomplished women, right, yeah, you know,

1660
01:26:57,720 --> 01:27:01,039
I mean George Clooney eventually just went for rains and beauty.

1661
01:27:01,119 --> 01:27:05,920
Speaker 3: But you know, no, she definitely looks like his his

1662
01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:09,600
granddaughter at the Grammys or whatever, like.

1663
01:27:11,359 --> 01:27:15,359
Speaker 9: Another one. I guess, like a worse grin on the

1664
01:27:15,399 --> 01:27:18,880
that much bigger grin. It looked very forced and very

1665
01:27:19,119 --> 01:27:19,279
you know.

1666
01:27:21,319 --> 01:27:25,159
Speaker 2: In Batman, I always said, I always thought, what did

1667
01:27:25,239 --> 01:27:30,720
the hawk to a girl's father say? Right right? I

1668
01:27:32,319 --> 01:27:34,640
always thought, like, what what if if you're her dad?

1669
01:27:34,760 --> 01:27:37,199
You got to be the most embarrassed guy. I mean,

1670
01:27:37,439 --> 01:27:40,239
everybody's busting your balls when you get to work. There

1671
01:27:40,279 --> 01:27:44,119
is not a chance they're not. If they they couldn't possibly,

1672
01:27:44,800 --> 01:27:46,880
And I mean even if they do it like passive

1673
01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:48,880
aggressively in some way, you know, they walk by, go

1674
01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:55,000
oh sorry, man, But but what about her parents? Like

1675
01:27:55,279 --> 01:27:59,359
do you go wait a second, because there's no way

1676
01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:03,439
Bill is not older than her parents, right, he is

1677
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,479
definitely older than her father.

1678
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:10,560
Speaker 6: Imagine, imagine, imagine the old school away Bill Belichick. Maybe

1679
01:28:10,600 --> 01:28:12,640
he is. He has to go to her father, who

1680
01:28:15,239 --> 01:28:16,079
stand in marriage.

1681
01:28:17,720 --> 01:28:19,359
Speaker 3: Can we can we look at this is not a

1682
01:28:19,399 --> 01:28:22,640
good quality photo, but does it show up there?

1683
01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:23,560
Speaker 9: Yeah?

1684
01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:30,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like come on, yeah, it's the overweight grandpa

1685
01:28:30,640 --> 01:28:33,880
and like his college grand granddaughter that he's proud of,

1686
01:28:35,479 --> 01:28:39,000
I guess, and she's it's Bill Belichick.

1687
01:28:39,159 --> 01:28:43,279
Speaker 6: Imagine an argument in that house, like you know, the

1688
01:28:43,319 --> 01:28:46,520
way he is with the media, just stares again and mumbles.

1689
01:28:47,239 --> 01:28:51,840
Speaker 2: Not talking about it. M I'm moving on to moving

1690
01:28:51,840 --> 01:28:55,279
on to the next cocktail party, moving on to the kitchen.

1691
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:58,920
The best thing for Peter for me was over the

1692
01:28:58,960 --> 01:29:02,399
summer and they were up in Martha's vineyard or somewhere

1693
01:29:02,760 --> 01:29:06,199
and the ring doorbell camera. I got out of this

1694
01:29:06,560 --> 01:29:08,880
huh shirtless.

1695
01:29:08,319 --> 01:29:09,720
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, shirtless.

1696
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:12,479
Speaker 2: He talks about that here he looked like a bear

1697
01:29:12,760 --> 01:29:18,800
out in the woods. Yeah. I was like, what that

1698
01:29:18,920 --> 01:29:21,479
was interesting? And that was the first we started to

1699
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:24,800
hear of this young lady. And I don't know. I

1700
01:29:24,840 --> 01:29:27,319
wonder what his kids think because she's.

1701
01:29:27,159 --> 01:29:30,399
Speaker 3: Way younger than the disgusted by it and probably not.

1702
01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:34,920
But then I don't know, Dad like, if they pissed

1703
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:36,840
him off, then he's going to ride him out of

1704
01:29:36,880 --> 01:29:37,600
the wells.

1705
01:29:38,199 --> 01:29:40,920
Speaker 2: Well. I think his sons are like I think, as

1706
01:29:40,920 --> 01:29:43,439
his son, you'd be like, I don't know, I don't

1707
01:29:43,439 --> 01:29:44,760
know what. I don't know what's wrong with him, But

1708
01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:46,600
I go, if that's a daughter, don't you get a

1709
01:29:46,640 --> 01:29:51,199
little annoyed, which sounds I guess sexist and rude, because

1710
01:29:51,199 --> 01:29:52,760
I do I think most guys be like, I don't know,

1711
01:29:52,800 --> 01:29:54,720
I don't know where his heads are. His head is,

1712
01:29:54,760 --> 01:29:57,239
she seems lovely whatever, as long as my dad's happy.

1713
01:29:57,399 --> 01:29:59,319
Maybe maybe women would say that too, but I think

1714
01:29:59,319 --> 01:30:01,600
that would also be little bit like, hey, what is

1715
01:30:01,640 --> 01:30:04,399
your intentions here with my father? Or most guys are like,

1716
01:30:04,600 --> 01:30:10,840
I don't know. Dad's getting a little I don't know,

1717
01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:11,319
I don't know.

1718
01:30:11,479 --> 01:30:12,600
Speaker 9: He's just an awkward guy.

1719
01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:14,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

1720
01:30:14,600 --> 01:30:17,279
Speaker 6: Him except seeing him on a camera, but just watching

1721
01:30:17,319 --> 01:30:19,920
him in the NFL network and doing some really serious

1722
01:30:19,960 --> 01:30:23,079
things cutting breaking down film and talking football, and then

1723
01:30:23,079 --> 01:30:24,920
when they start to get all the guests to have

1724
01:30:25,079 --> 01:30:27,479
jokes between them, so he's like very awkward and very

1725
01:30:27,680 --> 01:30:29,600
just he's like out of place.

1726
01:30:29,840 --> 01:30:30,880
Speaker 9: She's very awkward.

1727
01:30:31,720 --> 01:30:33,560
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess she could be thinking like, this

1728
01:30:33,600 --> 01:30:38,319
guy's got fifteen years to live. In fifteen years, I

1729
01:30:38,359 --> 01:30:40,800
will be forty, and it would just be like my

1730
01:30:40,960 --> 01:30:41,840
first divorce.

1731
01:30:42,159 --> 01:30:45,119
Speaker 2: You know, I'm feeling good Fellas back on the market.

1732
01:30:45,359 --> 01:30:46,359
Yeah retread.

1733
01:30:46,720 --> 01:30:48,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, maybe she's doing it right.

1734
01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:53,159
Speaker 2: Maybe she is. Maybe she is the Brady who knows Peter.

1735
01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:56,840
Any other thoughts that we didn't hit upon as the

1736
01:30:56,880 --> 01:31:00,479
playoffs begin, and you think that the Bill will win

1737
01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:02,560
this one. I think most people do. You just don't

1738
01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:03,079
agree with this.

1739
01:31:03,199 --> 01:31:05,520
Speaker 6: Well, I don't think it's gonna be easy. I think

1740
01:31:05,520 --> 01:31:07,239
there is gonna be a little rust. I mean, Denver

1741
01:31:07,399 --> 01:31:09,560
is off. I mean, let's face it, they played the

1742
01:31:09,640 --> 01:31:11,479
Chiefs that were a JBT Chiefs team.

1743
01:31:11,479 --> 01:31:13,600
Speaker 2: They sat yeah, yeah.

1744
01:31:13,199 --> 01:31:15,680
Speaker 9: So yeah. But they gave both confidence right.

1745
01:31:17,079 --> 01:31:21,239
Speaker 6: Game, confidence coming in big game, super Bowl winning coach,

1746
01:31:23,000 --> 01:31:25,239
very good talent on the defense, very good talent on

1747
01:31:25,239 --> 01:31:27,119
the defense if they played discipline football.

1748
01:31:27,520 --> 01:31:30,399
Speaker 9: And that's the last point is that the Bills are.

1749
01:31:32,159 --> 01:31:36,920
Speaker 6: Was in the red zone. They're twentieth in the in

1750
01:31:37,000 --> 01:31:41,159
the on defensive, twentieth in the in the league six

1751
01:31:41,399 --> 01:31:44,479
eighteen or twentieth, and in the red zone offense for Denver,

1752
01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:47,880
they're like one of the top top separate in the league.

1753
01:31:47,880 --> 01:31:49,199
Speaker 9: So there's something to give there.

1754
01:31:49,239 --> 01:31:52,399
Speaker 6: There's a lot of pushing pole in this game. And

1755
01:31:53,119 --> 01:31:57,479
if the Bills don't force a turnover, it could be

1756
01:31:57,560 --> 01:31:59,800
a long day for them. They got to force a

1757
01:31:59,840 --> 01:32:04,960
turn open. I'm curious to know what you were saying

1758
01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:09,760
before you came back. Who said something about the playoffs?

1759
01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:11,359
Speaker 9: What's his name?

1760
01:32:11,960 --> 01:32:12,279
Speaker 2: Greg?

1761
01:32:13,239 --> 01:32:13,439
Speaker 9: Yes?

1762
01:32:13,800 --> 01:32:16,239
Speaker 2: Something he said, Oh, it was the same thing that

1763
01:32:16,880 --> 01:32:21,880
match there, our strength against their strength versus their strength

1764
01:32:21,880 --> 01:32:25,520
against our weakness, right, and that was the concern. And

1765
01:32:25,600 --> 01:32:28,720
I thought that was a really good insight because definitely

1766
01:32:28,800 --> 01:32:31,920
the offense is the strength. The defense has held their own.

1767
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:35,720
That bet not break has been okay. Uh. And I

1768
01:32:35,720 --> 01:32:38,159
think you get some players back this week that have

1769
01:32:38,319 --> 01:32:40,840
not been out there, which again could be a RUSS problem.

1770
01:32:40,880 --> 01:32:41,319
I don't know.

1771
01:32:41,520 --> 01:32:45,800
Speaker 3: I have to say I'm happier with the Broncos over Cincinnati.

1772
01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:47,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, So I was too.

1773
01:32:48,399 --> 01:32:51,399
Speaker 6: Yeah, the Bronx the Cincinnati is a tough matchup for

1774
01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:54,479
the else. Yeah, so watching them against Pittsburgh, I was

1775
01:32:54,520 --> 01:32:57,039
hoping that they wouldn't get anywhere.

1776
01:32:58,520 --> 01:33:00,640
Speaker 2: I was rooting for Pittsburgh so hard. I kept getting

1777
01:33:00,840 --> 01:33:04,760
so mad. Come ons, figure it out well, Peter, always

1778
01:33:04,760 --> 01:33:08,119
great insight. Nice to see your face and pleasure. I

1779
01:33:08,800 --> 01:33:11,359
hope the holidays were good and the New Year was good.

1780
01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:14,840
Speaker 9: Everything was great. We actually were sick through the entire

1781
01:33:15,319 --> 01:33:16,279
Christmas break.

1782
01:33:16,039 --> 01:33:18,640
Speaker 2: But fantastic, fantastic.

1783
01:33:19,159 --> 01:33:21,000
Speaker 6: The kids didn't even want I've got a three year

1784
01:33:21,039 --> 01:33:22,760
old and a one and a half year old.

1785
01:33:23,079 --> 01:33:25,560
Speaker 9: They didn't even want to open Christmas gifts, Christmas.

1786
01:33:25,279 --> 01:33:30,239
Speaker 2: Morning, poor babies. Yeah yeah, but you got to sleep

1787
01:33:30,239 --> 01:33:32,920
a little later. That'll be one of the last Christmases

1788
01:33:32,960 --> 01:33:35,960
to get to do that. So all right, enjoy Peter

1789
01:33:36,039 --> 01:33:36,640
and thank you.

1790
01:33:37,359 --> 01:33:38,159
Speaker 9: Enjoy the game, guys.

1791
01:33:38,520 --> 01:33:44,479
Speaker 2: By there he goes Peter Montemurnal good stuff. Uh yeah,

1792
01:33:44,520 --> 01:33:47,600
I think that. I think the Bills win this one. Yeah,

1793
01:33:47,640 --> 01:33:50,399
and I but see this is the exciting stuff, and

1794
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:53,279
you want them to beat the best, to be the best.

1795
01:33:53,359 --> 01:33:55,920
So that's what we're hoping for, right, that's the thing. Yeah,

1796
01:33:56,600 --> 01:33:59,199
all right, any other we covered a lot of ground

1797
01:33:59,479 --> 01:34:04,359
trash and we did lovingly, lovingly, I thought, lovingly. We

1798
01:34:04,399 --> 01:34:06,319
trashed a friend in a very nice way. No, did

1799
01:34:06,319 --> 01:34:06,520
we know?

1800
01:34:06,880 --> 01:34:07,880
Speaker 3: No, we love her?

1801
01:34:08,159 --> 01:34:10,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I mean she I'm just saying in a

1802
01:34:10,199 --> 01:34:13,319
nice way. Yeah, yeah, thank you for the mug again.

1803
01:34:13,399 --> 01:34:16,119
Let me show the mug. Or I got the picture

1804
01:34:16,199 --> 01:34:20,159
that Kevin posted. Kevin's gonna be there, gonna.

1805
01:34:19,920 --> 01:34:22,119
Speaker 3: Be jealous, Kevin's gonna want the bug.

1806
01:34:24,399 --> 01:34:30,960
Speaker 2: It's my funeral. We laid them out cheers before his cremation.

1807
01:34:33,359 --> 01:34:37,560
For Laura. For Peter, I'm Bill Moran. We'll see you tomorrow.

1808
01:34:38,840 --> 01:35:28,520
You see, they were looking borrow a candle with Tennessee

1809
01:35:28,800 --> 01:35:28,960
FO