WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.320 --> 00:00:01.600 Show Time is here. 2 00:00:02.480 --> 00:00:03.480 No time to fear. 3 00:00:03.879 --> 00:00:07.519 Corilla is so near because show time is here. So 4 00:00:07.839 --> 00:00:10.679 on with the show. Let's give it a go. 5 00:00:11.279 --> 00:00:14.160 Carrilla is the one that you need to know. 6 00:00:16.120 --> 00:00:20.960 Now is show time all right? 7 00:00:21.079 --> 00:00:25.039 In just sixty seconds? The most fabulous I mean he's 8 00:00:25.120 --> 00:00:29.399 really something the best, most fabulous host will be here. 9 00:00:29.879 --> 00:00:32.880 He just tells the truth all the time, Bigley, And 10 00:00:32.920 --> 00:00:36.399 he's funny, this guy. Have you heard him? Yeah, he's 11 00:00:36.479 --> 00:00:41.520 funny and smart, smart and funny, not like those nasty 12 00:00:41.520 --> 00:00:44.920 people on lamestream media. So don't go anywhere. 13 00:00:45.200 --> 00:00:46.119 He's almost here. 14 00:00:46.640 --> 00:00:48.960 I know he doesn't speak well of me, and that's 15 00:00:49.000 --> 00:00:59.520 okay because I mean, he's really quite fabulous. 16 00:01:00.079 --> 00:01:06.040 I was so sad, alrighty, When it gets to be 17 00:01:06.120 --> 00:01:08.640 too much, where do you go? Where do you retreat 18 00:01:08.640 --> 00:01:12.359 when you are overwhelmed? We're gonna talk mental health today. Also, 19 00:01:12.640 --> 00:01:15.400 is Didy a freak or just kind of human? And 20 00:01:15.840 --> 00:01:17.760 we're going to talk about the weekend that's coming up 21 00:01:17.959 --> 00:01:20.239 and what we're going to be doing all of that today. 22 00:01:20.959 --> 00:01:25.159 Uncensored, unfiltered, un hinged. 23 00:01:25.599 --> 00:01:27.040 It's the corell Cast. 24 00:01:27.400 --> 00:01:29.640 Listen daily on your favorite streaming service. 25 00:01:35.439 --> 00:01:38.359 It is the crell Cast. I am Carrel, so very 26 00:01:38.400 --> 00:01:41.760 glad you are joining me. Have to get in position here, 27 00:01:41.840 --> 00:01:44.359 didn't have time to do a run through. We are 28 00:01:44.439 --> 00:01:47.519 live on YouTube a YouTube dot com forward slash, really Carrell. 29 00:01:47.599 --> 00:01:50.519 We are live on TikTok really carel. We are live 30 00:01:50.560 --> 00:01:53.519 on Instagram. We are live, baby, we are here. We 31 00:01:53.599 --> 00:01:56.480 are live. So glad you are joining us on my Friday, 32 00:01:56.519 --> 00:02:00.159 your Thursday. It's Thursday, May fifteenth, halfway through May. This 33 00:02:00.239 --> 00:02:01.879 year is flying by. You might as well get the 34 00:02:01.959 --> 00:02:04.640 Christmas ornaments out. Summer is going to be here in 35 00:02:04.840 --> 00:02:06.760 just a quick second. In Vegas. It's going to be 36 00:02:06.799 --> 00:02:11.439 one hundred next week. So there's a climate crisis convention 37 00:02:11.599 --> 00:02:14.000 going on here in Vegas, and I wanted to go 38 00:02:14.319 --> 00:02:16.360 and go over to it and just tell them they're 39 00:02:16.360 --> 00:02:20.080 all screwed. You know, they really are not. Today's show 40 00:02:20.159 --> 00:02:21.439 is going to be a little all over the place, 41 00:02:21.599 --> 00:02:26.000 and it's going to be not so much news driven. 42 00:02:26.120 --> 00:02:28.639 But I will say when I saw about the climate 43 00:02:28.719 --> 00:02:32.639 crisis or convention, I said, we're screwed because governments of 44 00:02:32.680 --> 00:02:34.960 the world are not going to do what they need 45 00:02:35.000 --> 00:02:38.520 to do because their people would scream. Because humans are 46 00:02:38.520 --> 00:02:41.039 a bunch of whiny little witches. You know, I would 47 00:02:41.120 --> 00:02:43.280 say the B word, but TikTok would ban me again. 48 00:02:44.080 --> 00:02:48.159 But truly, that's most humans are whiny, little yin ye. 49 00:02:49.280 --> 00:02:51.719 I don't want to give up my car, I need 50 00:02:51.800 --> 00:02:54.800 fossil fuel. I don't want to come post at home. 51 00:02:54.919 --> 00:02:56.319 I don't want to be a vegan. 52 00:02:56.439 --> 00:02:57.400 I like meat. 53 00:02:58.080 --> 00:03:03.080 Whiney, whiney little witches are what humans are. Really. That's 54 00:03:03.319 --> 00:03:06.719 we are the whiniest species, and we refuse to do 55 00:03:07.199 --> 00:03:11.080 what we need to do to save ourselves. We are 56 00:03:11.199 --> 00:03:14.159 literally the frog in the pot. The water is starting 57 00:03:14.159 --> 00:03:17.280 to boil, and we are not jumping out. Why because 58 00:03:17.319 --> 00:03:21.479 we're whiny little witches. Maga is the whiniest group of 59 00:03:21.520 --> 00:03:24.879 people I've ever heard in my life. Oh my God, 60 00:03:25.719 --> 00:03:30.479 talk about little wallflowers. Oh, the evil pedophiles, the evil 61 00:03:30.560 --> 00:03:33.080 drag queens, the blah blah blah of Oh dear God, 62 00:03:33.280 --> 00:03:38.199 spare me, calm down. Wine wine, wine, wine, wine, wine wine, 63 00:03:38.240 --> 00:03:41.960 all people do wine wine, wine, wine wine. Oh, TikTok, 64 00:03:42.000 --> 00:03:46.400 you don't have any volume, do you. Sorry, TikTok, You'll 65 00:03:46.400 --> 00:03:49.400 have it now, there you go, TikTok. Oh good, you 66 00:03:49.400 --> 00:03:53.879 didn't hear my negative quotes about MAGA. 67 00:03:51.319 --> 00:03:51.360 Ha. 68 00:03:54.680 --> 00:03:58.400 Anyway, So humans are whiny. Hi, babetta, Hi everyone at 69 00:03:58.439 --> 00:04:01.599 YouTube dot com for it's ash really corel. But humans 70 00:04:01.639 --> 00:04:05.039 are whiny. The governments of the world won't do what 71 00:04:05.120 --> 00:04:08.599 we need to do in order to help us with 72 00:04:08.680 --> 00:04:15.439 climate change because the people will revolt because humans are whiny. Oh, 73 00:04:15.560 --> 00:04:18.079 I don't want to give up my car. I don't 74 00:04:18.120 --> 00:04:22.160 want to take public transportation. You don't understand my life. 75 00:04:22.279 --> 00:04:25.120 I don't want to compost at home. I don't want 76 00:04:25.120 --> 00:04:27.439 to have to walk places. I don't want to have 77 00:04:27.519 --> 00:04:29.879 to be a vegan. I don't want to have oh 78 00:04:29.920 --> 00:04:34.839 blah blah. So then die, you know, stop having these 79 00:04:34.839 --> 00:04:39.319 climate hearings and just accept that we're done as a species. 80 00:04:39.360 --> 00:04:43.759 We're toast, happy Thursday. We're done. We won't stop wars. 81 00:04:43.879 --> 00:04:47.560 Whiny little oh. Putin said this, Zelenski said this, Trump 82 00:04:47.600 --> 00:04:50.720 said this. Blah blah blah blah blah. Stop the friggin war. 83 00:04:52.920 --> 00:04:54.959 You know, I watched The Long Way Home, and we're 84 00:04:54.959 --> 00:04:58.160 gonna be talking about that today and on Apple TV Plus. 85 00:04:58.199 --> 00:05:00.639 And they go to Poland, which is right next to Ukraine, 86 00:05:01.000 --> 00:05:05.160 which took three and a half million refugees in from Ukraine, 87 00:05:05.800 --> 00:05:08.600 and they talk to these Ukrainians Ewan McGregor and his 88 00:05:08.639 --> 00:05:11.720 friend Charlie Borman. And it rips your freakin heart out 89 00:05:12.879 --> 00:05:15.279 because while we hear about this in the headline, there 90 00:05:15.279 --> 00:05:19.399 are people whose homes are gone, just gone, whose towns 91 00:05:19.560 --> 00:05:24.199 are gone. Why because some white guy in Russia has 92 00:05:24.279 --> 00:05:28.399 decided to play god and no one will stop him. 93 00:05:29.160 --> 00:05:33.079 Why Because to stop him might actually take some effort. 94 00:05:34.199 --> 00:05:37.920 We might have to actually do something other than just 95 00:05:38.000 --> 00:05:41.040 supply money, because that's how the United States handles stuff. 96 00:05:41.079 --> 00:05:43.560 We just throw money at the problem instead of actually 97 00:05:43.600 --> 00:05:48.639 solving the problem. Biden should have told putin a long 98 00:05:48.680 --> 00:05:51.680 time ago, stop it, or we go to war with you. 99 00:05:52.439 --> 00:05:55.160 Someone should sit down with Net and Yahoo and say 100 00:05:55.480 --> 00:06:01.399 stop the genocide, or we're gonna bomb Televiv. Oh no, 101 00:06:01.519 --> 00:06:04.879 we would never, because we're whining. We'd rather complain about 102 00:06:04.920 --> 00:06:11.079 the war, complain about Ukraine, complain about Israel. We'd rather 103 00:06:11.160 --> 00:06:16.160 complain about the climate. Complain, complain, complain, And Maga, you're 104 00:06:16.160 --> 00:06:19.639 the worst. You complained about everything, and then the guy 105 00:06:19.680 --> 00:06:23.879 you wilect goes in and doesn't do anything that you 106 00:06:24.000 --> 00:06:28.240 complained about, and you still support him, so you can 107 00:06:28.319 --> 00:06:30.759 just bitch and whine some more. The guy's taking a 108 00:06:30.879 --> 00:06:34.720 bribe from cutter. He is taking a plane from an 109 00:06:34.800 --> 00:06:38.040 Arab nation that is not our friend, mister pro American, 110 00:06:38.639 --> 00:06:44.439 And you're fine with that cause you're whiners ying ying. Yeah, 111 00:06:44.680 --> 00:06:48.399 the gaze, the gaze, the women with the abortions, blah 112 00:06:48.519 --> 00:06:52.839 blah blah blah blah blah blah. Yeah, you nauseate me. 113 00:06:54.040 --> 00:06:57.439 Stop your whining. Being a human isn't easy. 114 00:06:58.720 --> 00:06:58.920 You know. 115 00:06:59.040 --> 00:07:03.360 We're meant to do hard things, but our governments won't 116 00:07:03.399 --> 00:07:06.079 make us do hard things because a lot of us 117 00:07:06.120 --> 00:07:12.639 have to be made. Oh, audio went out again. Hello Hello, Oh, well, 118 00:07:12.759 --> 00:07:15.639 no TikTok today. I don't know what the problem is, 119 00:07:15.720 --> 00:07:18.319 but there's no TikTok today. Sorry about that. Or I 120 00:07:18.360 --> 00:07:22.120 could go here, hold on, hold on TikTok. There there's 121 00:07:22.120 --> 00:07:25.519 some audio for you. Who knows what's going on with 122 00:07:25.560 --> 00:07:28.519 the audio on TikTok. I'm not gonna whine about it. 123 00:07:28.560 --> 00:07:32.000 After I've just told everybody they're whiners. Why wine wine 124 00:07:32.040 --> 00:07:38.439 mind whine? Uh? Oh god, I agree. You know. So 125 00:07:38.519 --> 00:07:40.519 someone said they're going to a freak off this weekend. 126 00:07:40.519 --> 00:07:42.920 We're gonna be talking about Diddy because this morning we 127 00:07:43.000 --> 00:07:46.000 found out he likes to rub certain substances on his nipples, 128 00:07:46.040 --> 00:07:48.720 and I thought, do I need to know that? It's like, 129 00:07:49.480 --> 00:07:52.879 do I really want that image in my head? And 130 00:07:52.920 --> 00:07:55.000 I've rubbed it on my face before. It's a great, 131 00:07:55.120 --> 00:07:57.959 great face cream. But anyway, we'll talk about him in 132 00:07:58.000 --> 00:08:00.920 the third segment. Okay, So yeah, I didn't mean to 133 00:08:00.920 --> 00:08:03.480 start with a rant. But human you know, governments won't 134 00:08:03.519 --> 00:08:06.279 do the right thing because humans are too whiny. Just 135 00:08:06.360 --> 00:08:08.000 wine wine wine wenging. 136 00:08:08.160 --> 00:08:10.040 Yeah, when when? Where? 137 00:08:11.759 --> 00:08:14.720 And God, we get so bitchy, like I don't want, 138 00:08:15.000 --> 00:08:18.000 Like when I mentioned being a vegan, y'all vilify the 139 00:08:18.040 --> 00:08:21.879 one thing that you should be doing. Every bit of 140 00:08:22.000 --> 00:08:24.720 science says it's better for your body and better for 141 00:08:24.759 --> 00:08:28.079 the planet if we all became plant based eaters. Oh, 142 00:08:28.120 --> 00:08:30.920 but you just can't. Oh, I don't want to give 143 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:32.799 up cheese. I don't want to give up me. You're 144 00:08:32.799 --> 00:08:37.000 not giving up anything. You're giving up toxins and poisons 145 00:08:37.240 --> 00:08:41.200 and replacing them with really good, nutritious, healthful, wonderful food. 146 00:08:42.120 --> 00:08:44.799 You just have been so indoctrinated by the meat and 147 00:08:44.840 --> 00:08:48.600 dairy industry that you think you're giving up something incredible. 148 00:08:48.840 --> 00:08:54.200 You're not. You're giving up dead carcass, dead rotting carcass 149 00:08:54.480 --> 00:08:58.519 that was tortured prior to its death. So you're giving 150 00:08:58.600 --> 00:09:06.039 up tortured, dead rotting cadaver, or the souring milk of 151 00:09:06.080 --> 00:09:11.840 a species not your own, the souring milk of a 152 00:09:12.039 --> 00:09:15.279 cow meant to give a baby cow, to turn the 153 00:09:15.279 --> 00:09:18.200 baby cow into a big cow. And then it's turned 154 00:09:18.240 --> 00:09:20.879 you all into big cows. And you don't want to 155 00:09:20.919 --> 00:09:23.759 diet and exercise. You want the shot. I don't want 156 00:09:23.799 --> 00:09:30.080 to eat right and exercise. Give me the wagovy humans, 157 00:09:30.279 --> 00:09:34.240 What a lot we are? I mean that, what a lot? 158 00:09:35.480 --> 00:09:45.000 A cry baby, cry baby cry. Okay, So I had 159 00:09:45.039 --> 00:09:48.159 an entertaining show for today. I wanted to talk all entertainment, 160 00:09:49.120 --> 00:09:51.240 and so when we come back, one of the things 161 00:09:51.240 --> 00:09:52.879 I want to talk to you about is where do 162 00:09:53.000 --> 00:09:56.279 you go to retreat? You know, yesterday the world kind 163 00:09:56.279 --> 00:10:00.960 of got me down. I need sixteen thousand to promote 164 00:10:00.960 --> 00:10:03.840 the record, twelve thousand for a publicist, four thousand for 165 00:10:03.960 --> 00:10:07.919 video promotion. That's what it costs if I want this 166 00:10:08.039 --> 00:10:10.440 to blow up big, you know, and then there's no 167 00:10:10.480 --> 00:10:13.360 guarantee it will. But I don't have that. So I 168 00:10:13.399 --> 00:10:20.799 got into prak and I retreat it. Where do you retreat? Books, movies, music. 169 00:10:21.120 --> 00:10:23.039 We're going to talk about that when we come back. 170 00:10:23.360 --> 00:10:27.440 Don't go anyways, all right, because they're only gonslts thirty seconds, 171 00:10:27.559 --> 00:10:31.200 so dang got lost. Don't go anywhere. We'll be right 172 00:10:31.279 --> 00:10:34.000 back to talk about where do you retreat when it's 173 00:10:34.039 --> 00:10:36.679 your turn. Want to support the Corell cast, then like 174 00:10:36.759 --> 00:10:39.960 and subscribe the YouTube videos at the really Correl channel. 175 00:10:40.480 --> 00:10:43.399 Just go to YouTube dot com forward slash really Correll, 176 00:10:43.559 --> 00:10:47.600 that's Kril, and subscribe to the most exciting YouTube stream 177 00:10:47.679 --> 00:10:48.759 available today. 178 00:10:49.360 --> 00:10:53.399 If you're not visiting really coreill dot com daily, you're 179 00:10:53.519 --> 00:10:57.039 missing out. Get the podcast videos and the blug including 180 00:10:57.120 --> 00:10:59.000 recipes at reallycorrell dot com. 181 00:11:13.480 --> 00:11:16.159 All right, So yesterday I got real whiny. I got 182 00:11:16.240 --> 00:11:18.159 real like, oh, I don't have the money to promote 183 00:11:18.200 --> 00:11:20.720 the record, and the business has changed, and why do 184 00:11:20.840 --> 00:11:22.360 I even do it? And why I even do the 185 00:11:22.440 --> 00:11:25.399 podcast anymore? And you know you're not making any money 186 00:11:25.440 --> 00:11:27.120 at it, and you know, why do you just do it? 187 00:11:27.279 --> 00:11:29.440 Just scrape by and blah blah blah. Oh I got 188 00:11:29.480 --> 00:11:32.480 so whiny. So to get out of that mind frame, 189 00:11:32.559 --> 00:11:36.240 I retreat it. And since a kid, since a little kid, 190 00:11:36.919 --> 00:11:40.440 I have two main places that I retreat, but now 191 00:11:40.480 --> 00:11:43.080 I've got like four, and I want to talk about 192 00:11:43.120 --> 00:11:46.240 that because mental health in our country is at a 193 00:11:46.279 --> 00:11:49.840 tipping point. We have more depressed young people than at 194 00:11:49.919 --> 00:11:53.240 any other time in our history, and we have more 195 00:11:53.320 --> 00:11:56.879 depressed old people because fifty two percent of the population 196 00:11:57.080 --> 00:11:59.679 is now over the age of fifty. And once you 197 00:11:59.759 --> 00:12:03.159 get to be fifty or sixty, like me, you realize 198 00:12:04.279 --> 00:12:07.919 it's depressing. You know, you hurt a lot, you have 199 00:12:08.120 --> 00:12:10.720 more behind you than in front of you. You feel 200 00:12:10.799 --> 00:12:14.399 like your options are limited, you feel irrelevant. People don't 201 00:12:14.440 --> 00:12:17.120 want Like I'm sixty two doing dance music and people 202 00:12:17.159 --> 00:12:19.559 are like, oh you should just you know, sing ballads, 203 00:12:19.600 --> 00:12:22.039 and it's like, you know, what are you doing dance music? 204 00:12:22.480 --> 00:12:24.960 So you know, yesterday I got into that one of 205 00:12:25.000 --> 00:12:27.399 those spaces. So I said, I need to regroup. I 206 00:12:27.519 --> 00:12:31.279 need my head to just get right. So I watched 207 00:12:31.320 --> 00:12:33.039 the rest of The Long Way Home with you and 208 00:12:33.120 --> 00:12:36.559 McGregor and Charlie Borman, and it really reminded me that 209 00:12:36.679 --> 00:12:40.759 one of my escapes has been for the last ten years, 210 00:12:41.120 --> 00:12:45.080 fifteen years. Who for the last fifteen years, I've been 211 00:12:45.080 --> 00:12:49.039 a motorcyclist and many times I would just run and 212 00:12:49.080 --> 00:12:51.279 get on the bike and go for an adventure, just 213 00:12:51.360 --> 00:12:53.039 go for a ride, and it would clear my head. 214 00:12:53.080 --> 00:12:55.240 It would it would, you know, it would get me 215 00:12:55.360 --> 00:13:00.679 out of my head. But so does television and music especially, 216 00:13:01.799 --> 00:13:04.679 and it got me thinking. And I'd like to see 217 00:13:04.720 --> 00:13:10.519 your comments down below. What was the first song, the 218 00:13:10.840 --> 00:13:14.519 very first song, if you remember, what was the very 219 00:13:14.799 --> 00:13:20.879 first song that took you there where you just wanted 220 00:13:20.960 --> 00:13:24.919 to sing it at the top of your lungs. I 221 00:13:25.039 --> 00:13:27.639 don't mean the first artist you liked, or the first 222 00:13:27.799 --> 00:13:31.360 album you bought or any of that, because the first 223 00:13:31.399 --> 00:13:34.000 albums I ever really got one was the nineteen ten 224 00:13:34.159 --> 00:13:39.799 Fruit Gum Company, and it was Honey, Honey, Yummy, Yummy Yummy. 225 00:13:39.919 --> 00:13:43.200 I got Love and My Tummy and the Bay City Rollers. 226 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:45.559 I got that at the same time satur S a 227 00:13:45.879 --> 00:13:49.639 tu Are Day Night. So those are two of my 228 00:13:49.799 --> 00:13:53.559 first albums. And then the two first big albums I 229 00:13:53.639 --> 00:13:58.200 remember getting were Carol King Tapestry, which I still have 230 00:13:58.639 --> 00:14:03.480 on CD and now digital, and Janice Joplin Pearl. But 231 00:14:03.600 --> 00:14:06.360 those I loved those albums and I loved all that music, 232 00:14:06.440 --> 00:14:12.320 but it wasn't the first song that sent me that like, so, 233 00:14:12.799 --> 00:14:15.080 I'd liked for you to put in the comments down below. 234 00:14:15.639 --> 00:14:19.320 What is the first song that made you want to 235 00:14:19.559 --> 00:14:23.519 dance uncontrollably or sing at the top of your lungs 236 00:14:24.120 --> 00:14:28.720 or just took you there. I'll never forget it. It 237 00:14:29.120 --> 00:14:34.639 was nineteen seventy six, the bi centennial year. I was fourteen. 238 00:14:35.480 --> 00:14:38.679 I was at Franklin Junior High School. I was the 239 00:14:38.919 --> 00:14:42.879 MC of the Talent show. Of course, in seventh grade, 240 00:14:43.039 --> 00:14:46.279 I was the MC sixth, seventh, and eighth, right, No, 241 00:14:46.360 --> 00:14:49.519 we did seventh, eighth, and ninth. Yeah, and so it 242 00:14:49.639 --> 00:14:52.679 was seventh grade and I was the M. No, it 243 00:14:52.799 --> 00:14:54.919 was sixth grade. We did six, seven and eight, and 244 00:14:55.000 --> 00:14:57.720 then Polly was nine, ten, eleven, twelve. Yeah, that's right, 245 00:14:58.840 --> 00:15:02.080 And so I'll never forget it. I was the EMPTY 246 00:15:02.159 --> 00:15:05.279 of the talent show. And there was this what thirteen 247 00:15:05.440 --> 00:15:09.519 fourteen year old girl named Ranata Ranata Hicks I believe 248 00:15:09.639 --> 00:15:12.399 was her name, and she was singing a song that 249 00:15:12.519 --> 00:15:15.600 this little white fourteen year old who loved arn B 250 00:15:15.679 --> 00:15:19.440 and everything that I'd never heard before. And when I 251 00:15:19.559 --> 00:15:22.759 heard her sing this song, I went down to Tower 252 00:15:22.879 --> 00:15:29.120 Records and found the album and went home and learned 253 00:15:29.159 --> 00:15:32.600 that song and suddenly every time she was out there 254 00:15:32.639 --> 00:15:35.639 on stage belting it, I was back in the wings 255 00:15:35.679 --> 00:15:40.320 belting it. I'll never forget it. The artist was Natalie Cole, 256 00:15:40.600 --> 00:15:43.320 who I love and Adora She's gone now. And the 257 00:15:43.480 --> 00:15:47.759 song was Inseparable. It's from the same album as This 258 00:15:47.960 --> 00:15:50.399 Will Be, and a lot of you remember this will be, 259 00:15:50.720 --> 00:15:54.039 This will be an everlast in love. You remember the 260 00:15:54.080 --> 00:15:56.879 middle hugging and squeezing and kissing and grieving together forever, 261 00:15:57.000 --> 00:16:01.279 no matter whatever. So that was the big single. But 262 00:16:01.440 --> 00:16:05.600 the album's called Inseparable, and Inseparable's only like a three 263 00:16:05.720 --> 00:16:10.799 minute song. It's very short, but oh my god, it 264 00:16:11.240 --> 00:16:15.480 took me there, and to this day, I just listened 265 00:16:15.480 --> 00:16:18.720 to it this morning. Ember was howling because she howls 266 00:16:18.720 --> 00:16:21.639 when I sing, Oh my god the middle of the song. 267 00:16:22.240 --> 00:16:25.720 I remember being like fourteen, thirteen years old, and when 268 00:16:25.799 --> 00:16:28.120 Natalie got to the whole, we're like a. 269 00:16:28.279 --> 00:16:36.759 Flow to the tree, like ws to melody of love. 270 00:16:42.480 --> 00:16:47.919 There's no word we can break up, no word that 271 00:16:48.080 --> 00:16:48.840 could make. 272 00:16:48.840 --> 00:16:59.399 Us blow offing wir Inseparable. 273 00:17:00.399 --> 00:17:05.279 Oh oh god, Still it takes me right there. I'm 274 00:17:05.440 --> 00:17:09.680 fourteen all over again, and I'm there. So what was 275 00:17:09.759 --> 00:17:12.200 the first song that did what just happened to me? 276 00:17:12.640 --> 00:17:16.240 To you? And do you remember it? And do you 277 00:17:16.319 --> 00:17:19.519 still listen to it? And is it one of your 278 00:17:19.640 --> 00:17:27.480 safe spaces? Because music, television, film, reading, books, literature. One 279 00:17:27.559 --> 00:17:31.759 of the power of the arts is that it's a 280 00:17:31.880 --> 00:17:37.799 safe space. It can heal you, it can motivate you, 281 00:17:38.839 --> 00:17:42.680 it can let you cry it out, it can distract you. 282 00:17:44.000 --> 00:17:49.039 The arts are some of the most important things, and 283 00:17:49.240 --> 00:17:52.440 they're the place that I retreat. Some of you retreat 284 00:17:52.519 --> 00:17:56.119 outside when you're feeling overwhelmed, when the world is just 285 00:17:56.200 --> 00:17:59.119 too much. You go somewhere. You go for a walk, 286 00:17:59.200 --> 00:18:02.240 you go for a high, you go camping, you get away. 287 00:18:03.640 --> 00:18:09.039 For me, my escape is music and television and to 288 00:18:09.160 --> 00:18:13.039 create music and television to not just listen to other 289 00:18:13.079 --> 00:18:16.359 people or watch other people's and writing. Writing is also 290 00:18:17.160 --> 00:18:20.000 I write, but that's not so much an escape because 291 00:18:20.000 --> 00:18:23.559 I write about, you know, the news. So what was 292 00:18:23.640 --> 00:18:27.920 the first song that did it for you? That just 293 00:18:29.200 --> 00:18:31.359 when you were a kid, it just made you dance, 294 00:18:31.440 --> 00:18:35.119 it made you sing, and to this day it just 295 00:18:35.240 --> 00:18:37.920 holds a special place in your heart. And where do 296 00:18:38.039 --> 00:18:41.519 you go to retreat for mental health? Often I'll find 297 00:18:41.559 --> 00:18:43.680 myself in the kitchen. That's a new retreat for me 298 00:18:43.799 --> 00:18:46.799 over the last like ten years, ever since Andrew's death, 299 00:18:47.359 --> 00:18:50.480 I'll fought, which is twenty four years. I'll find myself 300 00:18:50.559 --> 00:18:54.000 in the kitchen. I haven't really loved the kitchen, but 301 00:18:54.480 --> 00:18:57.359 for only about ten years I used to just like 302 00:18:57.519 --> 00:19:00.759 cooking and cook for necessity or whatever. I fell in 303 00:19:00.880 --> 00:19:05.079 love with cooking when I became a vegan, because you know, 304 00:19:05.400 --> 00:19:08.559 you gotta cook and it's fun. I really love it. 305 00:19:08.720 --> 00:19:11.640 I do, and I'll go in the kitchen and hours 306 00:19:11.720 --> 00:19:14.720 will pass, and suddenly I won't be thinking about Trump 307 00:19:14.799 --> 00:19:18.319 and his plane, or the economy, or is medicare going 308 00:19:18.400 --> 00:19:20.720 to get canceled? Or you know, am I gonna end 309 00:19:20.759 --> 00:19:23.519 up homeless one day? Or is my property value going 310 00:19:23.599 --> 00:19:26.119 to plummet? Or well, you know, it just takes it 311 00:19:26.160 --> 00:19:28.599 all away. I get in the kitchen and I cook. 312 00:19:30.119 --> 00:19:33.559 What do you do for mental health? How do you 313 00:19:34.279 --> 00:19:39.240 handle your retreat? Where do you retreat? To leave that 314 00:19:39.400 --> 00:19:43.400 down below? Also, do you remember the first song that 315 00:19:43.759 --> 00:19:46.759 did it to you? That served as your retreat? That 316 00:19:47.000 --> 00:19:49.839 Natalie Cole album. I could play it from beginning to end, 317 00:19:49.960 --> 00:19:52.400 and I didn't have a care in the world. It 318 00:19:52.519 --> 00:19:57.200 begins with Joey, Joey, where are you going? And it 319 00:19:57.319 --> 00:19:59.880 ends with if I can't say no, I can't say 320 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:03.559 hey no. Hold now that whole out. Just take me 321 00:20:03.759 --> 00:20:06.640 right back to grade school at the Talent Show and 322 00:20:07.880 --> 00:20:12.400 when we come back, it's idio free or would we 323 00:20:12.440 --> 00:20:15.039 all be free if the world heard me? Hey, duel here, 324 00:20:15.119 --> 00:20:16.880 And I'd like to take a moment to thank all 325 00:20:16.920 --> 00:20:20.240 the patrons of Patreon. Your support means the absolute world 326 00:20:20.319 --> 00:20:22.680 to me and the show. 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Really, So this morning we learned from the 347 00:21:41.880 --> 00:21:46.599 testimony and the Diddy trial that allegedly, uh, he likes 348 00:21:46.640 --> 00:21:49.720 to take a certain male product, the you know, product 349 00:21:49.799 --> 00:21:54.640 of orgasm h and rub it on his nipples, which 350 00:21:54.720 --> 00:21:59.359 I thought was a little odd. However, I have rubbed 351 00:21:59.400 --> 00:22:01.160 it on my face and that's the truth I have. 352 00:22:01.359 --> 00:22:04.400 It's great. It's there's a whole episode of Nip Tuk 353 00:22:04.440 --> 00:22:09.000 with Joan Rivers about how she gets teenage boys to 354 00:22:09.119 --> 00:22:12.559 give her you know, their you know what, and she 355 00:22:12.680 --> 00:22:15.160 puts it in a face cream because it really is. 356 00:22:15.440 --> 00:22:19.079 It's pure protein. It's it's great for your face, collagen, protein, 357 00:22:19.440 --> 00:22:22.400 all kinds of stuff, and it's fun to you know, 358 00:22:22.559 --> 00:22:24.920 to get it onto your face. Some of them are 359 00:22:24.920 --> 00:22:28.759 going ew ech el, oh no, it's great face cream. 360 00:22:29.799 --> 00:22:32.720 But we learned today that Diddy likes to you know, 361 00:22:33.519 --> 00:22:38.599 spread it around, which okay, they didn't specify whether it 362 00:22:38.720 --> 00:22:42.680 was his or someone else' or whatever. But as I'm 363 00:22:42.759 --> 00:22:45.559 hearing this, I'm thinking, you know, there are some things 364 00:22:45.640 --> 00:22:49.759 we just don't need to know. Okay, sets trafficking, Yeah, okay, 365 00:22:49.920 --> 00:22:52.039 I mean, you know, that's a horrible thing, and I'm 366 00:22:52.200 --> 00:22:54.240 I think he did it, and I think he's going 367 00:22:54.279 --> 00:22:57.640 to be found guilty and probably should be. But that 368 00:22:57.839 --> 00:23:04.000 being said, how many of us would appear freaky if 369 00:23:04.119 --> 00:23:09.279 what we did sexually was told by people on the stand? 370 00:23:10.640 --> 00:23:13.759 You know, how many people or how much of what 371 00:23:14.000 --> 00:23:17.759 we do in bed would sound freaky to other people. 372 00:23:19.400 --> 00:23:22.839 Think about think about your love life. If someone had 373 00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:25.920 to go up on the stand and talk about your 374 00:23:27.240 --> 00:23:29.880 what you like, would you be a freak? 375 00:23:31.559 --> 00:23:31.720 You know? 376 00:23:31.839 --> 00:23:34.200 I think that people would think I was Andrew and 377 00:23:34.240 --> 00:23:36.039 I had three ways. There's a lot of people that 378 00:23:36.119 --> 00:23:40.160 think that's freaky. I wouldn't do them again. But because 379 00:23:40.200 --> 00:23:42.400 you know, there's a jealousy issue and all that. But 380 00:23:42.559 --> 00:23:44.799 he had HIV and he didn't want to cheat on me, 381 00:23:45.039 --> 00:23:47.119 and he didn't want to like only have slept with 382 00:23:47.160 --> 00:23:50.880 a certain number of people. When we got together, he'd 383 00:23:50.920 --> 00:23:54.799 only slept with five people, and he, you know, he 384 00:23:54.960 --> 00:23:57.400 was a late bloomer and he wanted to sleep with more, 385 00:23:58.400 --> 00:24:00.640 but he didn't want to leave me. So we and 386 00:24:00.720 --> 00:24:03.039 he didn't want to cheat, and we didn't. I was 387 00:24:03.119 --> 00:24:06.400 not for an open relationship, so the compromise that we 388 00:24:06.519 --> 00:24:09.200 reached were three ways. Now there are some that would 389 00:24:09.200 --> 00:24:11.680 look at those and say that's freaky. Oh that's weird. 390 00:24:11.880 --> 00:24:15.119 I could never do that. So as we hear this 391 00:24:15.200 --> 00:24:16.960 stuff come out of the Dinty trial, there's a lot 392 00:24:17.000 --> 00:24:18.920 of us saying, oh, he's a freak. He's a freak. 393 00:24:19.759 --> 00:24:23.759 But before you throw that freak stone, you know how 394 00:24:23.799 --> 00:24:26.480 many of you do things that if they were out 395 00:24:26.519 --> 00:24:31.200 on the stand, you know, you'd seem freaky. Some straight 396 00:24:31.279 --> 00:24:33.359 guys like to get pegged. If you don't know what 397 00:24:33.480 --> 00:24:37.240 that is, look it up. But that's a little freaky, 398 00:24:37.640 --> 00:24:40.480 you know. I mean not to me, but to some people. 399 00:24:41.319 --> 00:24:44.839 And my my gauge is probably different than yours because 400 00:24:44.839 --> 00:24:48.319 I'm gay. I have been to bathhouses and seen things 401 00:24:48.400 --> 00:24:52.359