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<v Speaker 1>The Second Date Update on kJ.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi Benjamin, Welcome to the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, got to get you.

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<v Speaker 2>Another date with Erica, which you guys met on an app?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we met on that matched right away. We clipped

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<v Speaker 3>in the messages and had, you know, a bunch of

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<v Speaker 3>the same interests. So I thought, okay, you know, this

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<v Speaker 3>could actually be really good. So we went out to

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<v Speaker 3>dinner one night. I thought she had a good time.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a good time. She even insisted on paying,

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<v Speaker 3>gave me a hug at the end of the date,

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<v Speaker 3>so I figured, okay, yeah, we'll probably go out again.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was normal first date. There were a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of awkward moments, nothing major, nothing this stood out

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<v Speaker 3>to me. But now she won't answer any of the

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<v Speaker 3>messages that I'm sending. I have no idea what happened,

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<v Speaker 3>even though I thought we had a pretty good connection.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she paid, there was a hug.

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<v Speaker 1>This all sounds great.

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<v Speaker 2>He was a hug goodbye. Maybe she paid so she

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<v Speaker 2>could wash her hands A yeah, I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>we will get her on the phone and we'll ask her.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, let's do it, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, we'll talk to her, right after the song. Second

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<v Speaker 2>Date Update kJ one, O three, TJ and Amanda in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning, Erica, welcome to the second Date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Benjamin said, you guys met on an app. You

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<v Speaker 2>went out. The date seemed really good.

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<v Speaker 1>All signs points Yes, Why are.

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<v Speaker 2>We not going out with him again?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Well, so Benjamin, he's a he's an interesting guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got a lot of opinions. Oh like yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I actually liked it. I like a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, has opinions and you can speak his

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<v Speaker 1>mind and things like that. What did he do? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I need to find some employees for the store that

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<v Speaker 1>I manage, and like, we were talking about how hard

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<v Speaker 1>it is to find good people with a good work

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<v Speaker 1>ethic and things of that nature, and he said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's because teachers are lazy. So so he said teachers

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<v Speaker 1>don't hold their students accountable. They don't teach them how

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<v Speaker 1>to work, and that's why kids graduate basically like without

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<v Speaker 1>knowing how to do math. And so he basically blamed

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<v Speaker 1>teachers for all of like the problems in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And no, my sister is a teacher. I totally disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>She works so hard, she loves his students. She's a

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<v Speaker 1>great role model for them. And I explained that to

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<v Speaker 1>him and he just doubled down on it, and it

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<v Speaker 1>really rubbed me the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Benjamin, right.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, Erica, I am sure your sister is

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<v Speaker 3>a great teacher. I told you that on the day

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<v Speaker 3>I am. I am talking about my own experience with teachers.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all, okay, But like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Said that, like teachers are lazy, Like you're blaming teachers

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<v Speaker 1>for society problems, because.

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<v Speaker 3>In my experience, that's that's honestly, like what what I've seen.

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<v Speaker 3>They work eight months a year, they complain about all

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<v Speaker 3>the kids every single school year, and they don't really

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<v Speaker 3>care if they learn or not. They just they just

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<v Speaker 3>go through the process and that's it. Wait, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, my best friend is a teacher. She's in terge

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<v Speaker 1>of hundreds of students.

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<v Speaker 2>Like lazy is the last thing she has.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a little bonkers to me. Like you seriously

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<v Speaker 3>really believe that I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, well this is definitely yeah. This is why

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't call you, and this is why like we're

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<v Speaker 1>never going out again.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me, honestly, you you don't think there are teachers

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<v Speaker 3>that just show up and collect a paycheck.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, maybe every now and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, I mean every occupation has that you're gonna coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Every single employee that you have is perfect, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>that a lazier, one of the most crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. I just think that there are more lazy teachers

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<v Speaker 3>than you want to admit. Okay, I'm not calling your

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<v Speaker 3>sister out. I'm just saying that, like, in general, that

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<v Speaker 3>is what I have experienced.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, it's awesome, and I think that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're talking about, so whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very polarizing topic. Yeah, I mean just say all

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<v Speaker 2>of anybody is it is? So Erica, just to get

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<v Speaker 2>us get it straight. You don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 2>with Benjamin.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, No, absolutely not. I'm good. I'm sorry. I'm too

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<v Speaker 1>lazy to like put effort into that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes you are, Erica. Thanks for coming on the second

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<v Speaker 2>date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Benjamin, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know, Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I just had some really bad teachers growing up.

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<v Speaker 3>But based on what I've experienced and with the kids

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<v Speaker 3>that I hire, uh, that's what I believe, Like that's

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<v Speaker 3>the common denominator like until someone shows me otherwise, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sticking with it, like, I don't know. I'm okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, at least you're consistent. I guess that's cool. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know on this, I don't know. Benjamin, thanks

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<v Speaker 2>for coming on the second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thank you, guys. Take care.

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<v Speaker 2>The messages are coming in. The phone's blowing up. Four seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's discuss this all right, kJ ONELE three, TJ and

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<v Speaker 2>Amanda in the morning.