1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,439 Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for a little second date update action? 2 00:00:02,799 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 2: Absolutely? 3 00:00:03,839 --> 00:00:06,839 Speaker 1: Oh my god, maybe we can make a little love connection. 4 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 3: Nicole is on the line in Hartford, went on a 5 00:00:09,359 --> 00:00:11,960 great first date. She's getting ghosted and wants to know why. 6 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: Good morning, Nicole, good morning. 7 00:00:15,439 --> 00:00:17,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just can't figure it out. 8 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:18,839 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's. 9 00:00:18,679 --> 00:00:21,199 Speaker 3: What we do, and we do it really well. We're 10 00:00:21,199 --> 00:00:23,879 going to get you some answers. So the producer says, 11 00:00:23,879 --> 00:00:25,440 you went on a great first date with a guy 12 00:00:25,519 --> 00:00:26,079 named Ben. 13 00:00:26,199 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: Tell me about this date. 14 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it was. It was awesome. We went to dinner. 15 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:38,479 We had a really great time. I mean, she's really 16 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:44,320 everything that I have been looking for. Oh, super smart, successful, 17 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:50,079 good looking, I had an amazing personality. Like I just 18 00:00:50,119 --> 00:00:53,560 really thought we had made a connection. But after reaching 19 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,320 out to him, so thank him for a great date. 20 00:00:57,399 --> 00:01:00,479 Tell him I had such a good time. I just 21 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,079 haven't heard anything and I don't know why. 22 00:01:02,439 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 3: Hmmm, that is weird. So you felt a connection, do you? 23 00:01:07,239 --> 00:01:09,000 Was it like when you were on your date. Did 24 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,159 you feel like there was flirting back and forth between 25 00:01:11,159 --> 00:01:11,640 the two of you. 26 00:01:12,359 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, there were vibes for sure. 27 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 3: Okay, so there was flirting vibes, great conversation. 28 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,599 Speaker 1: Did Walmart Jeff, Jeff just fell asleep? 29 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:24,159 Speaker 5: Ye? 30 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 2: Nothing, I was thinking about like football, because I mean 31 00:01:27,159 --> 00:01:28,840 there's a lot of stuff going on right now that 32 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,319 occupies a guy's mind. And like, honestly, like if you 33 00:01:32,439 --> 00:01:34,400 texted him, No, if you texted him on like a 34 00:01:34,439 --> 00:01:37,959 Saturday afternoon or a Sunday afternoon, he probably saw it, 35 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,000 put the phone down and then just forgot about it. 36 00:01:40,079 --> 00:01:42,719 Speaker 1: Oh I do that all the time. Yeah, all right, 37 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:43,359 that makes sense. 38 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,719 Speaker 3: So maybe maybe that's it Jeff, because Jeff is in 39 00:01:45,799 --> 00:01:48,560 some sort of weird sports mode right now too. He's 40 00:01:48,599 --> 00:01:51,319 not even paying attention to Oustenacole. Nope, that could be it. 41 00:01:52,079 --> 00:01:54,400 Did you drink too much on the date, Because sometimes 42 00:01:54,439 --> 00:01:56,439 we've come across that where the guy's like, well she 43 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:58,200 was wasted and I had to like drive her home. 44 00:01:58,239 --> 00:01:58,799 Speaker 1: It's true. 45 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:03,159 Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm like a one glass of wine kind 46 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,439 of gal. So that can't be either. 47 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,799 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's just call him up. What do 48 00:02:07,799 --> 00:02:09,520 you guys say, we're gonna call up. We're gonna call 49 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:09,800 it Ben. 50 00:02:09,879 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 3: You're gonna be listening in at any point if you 51 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,719 want to talk to Ben, feel free. You're gonna be 52 00:02:13,759 --> 00:02:15,120 on hold listening in the whole time. 53 00:02:15,159 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay. She sounds like a sweetie. 54 00:02:18,879 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 6: I know she's It sounds like it was a good date. 55 00:02:20,879 --> 00:02:22,120 She seems like a good girl. 56 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,599 Speaker 3: Like, let's see what happened, all right, let's see what 57 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:27,080 Ben is all about. 58 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 1: If you could stay awake, Jeff, Yeah, yeah, sorry. Inconvenience you. 59 00:02:34,439 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 2: Sometimes the women in all the chatter, it's like, oh. 60 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,599 Speaker 1: God, hell, hi is Ben there? 61 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 7: This is him? 62 00:02:41,319 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: Hey Ben, it's Courtney, Ben, It's Walmart chef. Hey Ben, 63 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:45,240 it's Savana. 64 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 3: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on 65 00:02:47,439 --> 00:02:48,759 the radio this morning, Ben. 66 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:50,439 Speaker 7: Oh hey, good morning. 67 00:02:50,599 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 2: Hey. 68 00:02:53,199 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 3: We're calling because you're on something called second date update. 69 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,080 That's when somebody goes on a fantastic first date, but 70 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,199 they get ghosted after that and they want answers. 71 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: And I'm just going to be. 72 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:04,479 Speaker 3: Honest with you, and we want you to be honest 73 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,520 with us. Nicole called us and said, you guys went 74 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,520 on a great first date. 75 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 7: We did. 76 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:11,159 Speaker 2: Yes. 77 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: She said, you're. 78 00:03:13,599 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 3: Checking off all the boxes. She said, you guys have 79 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,039 a lot in common. She said you're really good looking, 80 00:03:20,159 --> 00:03:22,400 and she felt a connection. She said she was reached 81 00:03:22,439 --> 00:03:24,560 out to you, but you're ghosting her and she wants 82 00:03:24,599 --> 00:03:25,280 some answers. 83 00:03:25,759 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 7: So do we Yeah, yeah we did. We had a 84 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,919 great date. She's really cool and I thought that, like, 85 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,400 we really hit it off. There's some things that were 86 00:03:38,479 --> 00:03:41,039 said that I just make me a little questionable about. 87 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:41,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 88 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 7: Sure, if she's ready, if. 89 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:47,479 Speaker 3: She's ready for a relationship. Yeah, okay, what was said? 90 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:48,639 What do you mean what was said? 91 00:03:49,599 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 7: I just there she said some things that make me 92 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:53,599 think she's not over her ex. 93 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 3: Oh all right, well that's that's legit. Can you tell 94 00:03:57,919 --> 00:03:58,560 us what was said? 95 00:04:00,199 --> 00:04:02,639 Speaker 7: She just I don't know. We were out and she 96 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:07,439 had mentioned her ex, Josh several times I think, And 97 00:04:08,199 --> 00:04:11,439 she told me that he still spends time with her parents, 98 00:04:11,919 --> 00:04:14,319 and I just, you know, seemed a little like a 99 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:14,919 red flag. 100 00:04:15,039 --> 00:04:18,399 Speaker 2: So yeah, definitely for you to remember the ex's name, 101 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:23,160 she mentioned him more than a few times, exactly right. 102 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, and hanging out with the family still all right, 103 00:04:25,879 --> 00:04:26,560 Oh yeah. 104 00:04:26,519 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 3: That makes total sense, Ben, But I want to bring 105 00:04:29,319 --> 00:04:30,839 Nicole on because she's been listening in. 106 00:04:30,959 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: Sorry I didn't tell you that, Nicole. Do you hear 107 00:04:33,079 --> 00:04:35,800 what he's saying? Are you over? Are you still? 108 00:04:35,879 --> 00:04:35,959 Speaker 4: Like? 109 00:04:36,879 --> 00:04:38,199 Speaker 1: Are you over your ax or not. 110 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:43,639 Speaker 4: Well, of course, I'm so over my ex. I'm so 111 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:50,319 sorry I did that. I'm really really over Josh. I'm 112 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:54,920 looking for deeper love. I oh man, I've really got 113 00:04:54,959 --> 00:04:59,199 to stop mentioning him. I mean, he's just you know, 114 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,040 my parents and just like him, and so he's still 115 00:05:02,079 --> 00:05:07,519 around some and I'm but I am. I promise it is. 116 00:05:07,639 --> 00:05:12,120 He is just like a friend at this point, I guess, 117 00:05:12,199 --> 00:05:16,680 and I'm looking for the real thing. And like I promise, 118 00:05:17,519 --> 00:05:18,560 I'm so sorry that. 119 00:05:18,519 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: I did that. I don't know. I got to be 120 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,600 straight with you, Nicole. If I was like. 121 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,199 Speaker 6: Dating a guy and his ex girlfriend was still around, 122 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,319 and it's if if it's if it's like an ex wife, 123 00:05:27,319 --> 00:05:29,480 you guys have kids together like that, I can understand. 124 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:31,959 But if you have like an axxious kind of hanging 125 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:32,600 around like. 126 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,639 Speaker 1: I would with the family, yeah I would. I would 127 00:05:34,639 --> 00:05:36,560 feel really weird about that. That's just me. 128 00:05:37,399 --> 00:05:40,519 Speaker 4: I get that. You know, we have a dog. That 129 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:45,000 doesn't help, Okay, but like I promise that, I'm over it. 130 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:49,759 It's just this dog that's like addicting us still for 131 00:05:49,759 --> 00:05:55,199 for now, Okay, I'd be really interested, really interested in 132 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,920 having another date then I really would. I had such 133 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,000 a good time with you. 134 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,199 Speaker 7: I mean yeah, I really liked you too. It was 135 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:07,319 just a little alarming and I didn't really know what 136 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:08,759 the situation was there. 137 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 4: Well, I promise to uh not mention you know, he 138 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,120 who must not be named Voldemort ever again. 139 00:06:21,199 --> 00:06:21,959 Speaker 1: I'm screaming. 140 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:31,319 Speaker 4: If we give it one more try, maybe. 141 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 7: Uh yeah, yeah, I'm gonna jump. 142 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 3: In because this is what I'm gonna do. I absolutely 143 00:06:33,079 --> 00:06:35,319 think you need. You guys need to go on another date. 144 00:06:35,439 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: I get it. 145 00:06:36,199 --> 00:06:38,959 Speaker 3: You know that you were upset Ben that she was 146 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,600 mentioning the ax. Let's try another date. Let's not mention 147 00:06:41,639 --> 00:06:43,639 the ax. Let's not mention the dog. Let's just you 148 00:06:43,639 --> 00:06:47,680 guys together, you know, without that. I'm going to pick 149 00:06:47,759 --> 00:06:49,399 up the tab though. We're gonna pay for the second. 150 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:53,759 Speaker 5: Date, all right, Okay, yeah, well go do go, do 151 00:06:53,879 --> 00:06:58,040 anything you want, have fun, don't mention the ax, and 152 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,319 definitely keep us posted in call. 153 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 4: Okay, I will thank you. I'm excited then, Yeah, me too.