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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, walk into pink shade. It's Tuesday. It's DLC Tuesday. Yes,

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who's back, back, back again, Jimmy's back. Tell your friends, Hey, Kimberly,

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I'm happy to have you back.

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Speaker 2: Hello. Don't ever call me Kimmy.

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Speaker 1: The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I don't like it. Kimmy Gibbler on Full House.

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I sometimes as a kid, and I didn't not like it.

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Speaker 1: I get it, I get it. I wouldn't like that either.

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I hear you, now, I hear you. I respect you.

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Listen my office. I'm at my house now in Virginia,

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and I haven't been here in a month, So I

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don't know if anybody's opened the door to my office

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in a month, because I walked in here and I

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was like, oh, so no air has been flowing through

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this room.

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Speaker 2: So can it smell?

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Speaker 1: No, it just smells a little like nobody's opened the

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door for a month, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the respector's face, So I guess, or the day.

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Speaker 1: I don't want the dogs to come in here to

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eat all my Poshmark stuff. So I've got a candle

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lit and I go a little fan going, and so we'll

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see what's happening. But you're back and people were asking

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where you were? Would you want asked?

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Speaker 2: You had great guest people, and no one cared.

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Speaker 1: I had great guests. But that doesn't mean people didn't

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want to know where you were.

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Speaker 2: Oh well that's night. They're just more really curious.

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Speaker 1: Well yes, always so tell the people where you were.

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Speaker 2: I had a medical thing happened. I almost died. It

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was just as exciting as Mary Payne's almost dead. Yeah, no,

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it wasn't, damn it.

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Speaker 1: It was pretty serious.

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Speaker 2: It was pretty serious, but not like that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you would have given it another week,

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who knows.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, And I almost did, just for the story,

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just so I could get some merry pain sympathy for

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she almost died. Yeah. I had a bad liver number

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like twenty five times higher than it's supposed to be

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and very dangerous to be that high, like unheard of

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to be that high, crazy, No one had ever heard

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of a number that high.

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Speaker 1: And so literally any medical professional you spoke to was like, well,

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that can't be right, that's not possible. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I got some like a abdomen cte MRI thing,

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and I had bile duct stone obstructions which can get

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cause like infection and sepsis and stuff if they're not

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treated right away. Yeah, So that was in the hospital

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for four days. They took out the obstructions and they

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took out my gallbladder the next day and they cut

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my cara. So thank you for talking about my karra

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on the show A friend that I was the friend

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with the butthole that was cut because they need to

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get out these bile ductstones. So but I'm doing so

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much better, and thank you. I My insides were like

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how Shay's outsides look. But now look at me. I'm

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thriving and I just have a bunch of incisions that

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are still healing and stuff, and.

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Speaker 1: Here you are.

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Speaker 2: But I'm so excited to be back. Yeah, what's Shaye's excuse?

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Because look at that man who looks like death and

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I my liver was in bad shape. And look at me.

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I look, I look great, I'm glowing, and this man

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looks like he's dying of dysentery.

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Speaker 1: He does, but you don't drink, and he does, and

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that's yeah.

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Speaker 2: And my river was failing and I don't drink. That's

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what's crazy. This man is eighty years old, drinking out

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of a beer funnel. No, I'm so excited. Thank you

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for covering for me. You had some amazing guests. I

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listened to all the episodes, loved them. Bring me in

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these people full time.

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Speaker 1: You should kick me off because they're great. That's that's

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always your concern. And I don't know. I don't know

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where that comes from. It's some sort of deep rooted

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fear of rejection. I don't know, but like you're literally

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in the hospital saying things like, please don't replace me.

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Speaker 2: Please. Matt already has a show.

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Speaker 1: So does Chris Fira, so does so does Kim.

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Speaker 2: They can't do another show. I mean, I have another show,

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but true, it's fine. But anyway, thank you for your concern.

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I am. I'm so excited to be back and I'm

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Speaker 1: All right, But you feel better, like because you were

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not feeling good, like the week before that. It might

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was not feeling well and I'm still feeling

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a little sore, but I'm feeling much better. My numbers

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Speaker 1: Okay, good, good, because everything probably has to kind of

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get back regulated.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and my body has to learn how to not

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have a gallbledder and things like that.

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Speaker 1: So welcome to the club. Welcome to the no gallbladder club.

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Speaker 2: No one needs one. If you have one, you're a loser.

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Gobbletters are so nineties.

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Speaker 1: Do you have an appendix?

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Speaker 1: I do too. I'm still hanging on to my appendix

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that hasn't gone out. I mean, yeah, but I'm sure

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it's next. Well, we're very glad to see you, and

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I'm very glad that you're back, and I'm glad that

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you're doing okay, and I you are. You are a

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famously very private person. So I just said you had

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a medical issue that you were dealing with, and I

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thought she has to tell it. She could tell it,

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or I'll just stick with that. I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: Just say you have a friend with a Kara issue.

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Speaker 1: Right, I mean, it could be anybody. It could have

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been my friend Mary, it could have been my friend Whitney.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Lots of people have Carara issues, by the way,

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does not deserve that, this sort of shaming that we

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call a body.

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Speaker 1: Part, but you knew what it was right away.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 1: So we have a new ad, not this week, but

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it's coming up for to SPA Days And I was like,

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what a perfect sponsor, right, Like, what a perfect sponsor

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for this show in particularly because people are so obsessed

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with their bidets. They are, and they're going to send

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me a T shirt because they asked a T shirts

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eyes that says, ask me about my butthole. Stop, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I send it to Kara.

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Speaker 1: No, she doesn't need anybody to ask.

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Speaker 2: Are they going to send you a bidet? Yeah? Stop,

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I'm excited for you. Yeah, I've never used one. I

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I'm very curious. High praise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The days are in fashion largely because of the show.

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I feel like in this country.

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Speaker 1: I think so too.

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Speaker 2: The Learning Channel.

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Speaker 1: The learning Channel, by the way, somebody sent me something

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and I think I'm going to read it when we

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get to Katie and Josh. But did somebody else send

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me something else that was learning? And every time they

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send it things to me, I go, oh my god,

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thank you TLC Learning.

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Speaker 2: I do feel like I learn.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you learn a lot because you watch all the shows.

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just know a country and then I don't know geography.

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or I know that because thank you a lot.

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Speaker 1: I told you when we did Bingo at the Beach.

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has a shipwreck on it? No, but now I know

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it's Bermuda. I We'll get that same question again. So

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because I had to quickly change computers because of just

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maybe it doesn't want to work. But I've got the

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little one, my baby Mac, and she's she's home and along.

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is Ray and like the girl that sings, I would

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gotten a ton of messages from fellow listeners, but I

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wanted to offer a perspective on Katie. I. By the way,

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diagnosed with OCD and I'm so disappointed that she's simultaneously

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misrepresenting what OCD is and using it as justification for

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her impulsive behavior. OCD is so misunderstood. It's traditionally been

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seen as the cleaning disease, and while contamination type OCD

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than that. It's also ego dystonic. Ego dystonic, meaning the

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intrusive thoughts someone has are actually the opposite of what

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I didn't know that. That's interesting. I don't want to

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totally invalidate her experience. She's been in treatment, but I

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that she says, your intrusive thoughts are opposite of what

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she does not want to settle down yea, and so

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she is self sabotaging a lot of this.

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Speaker 2: She does not want to marry him, so part of her,

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her thoughts patterns go in a cycle and make her

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want to do it even more. It's like if you

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you feel like your body might just do it and

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you can't stop it, and you're scared that happens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Shay's are mostly physical. God bless.

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slash pink Shade. Okay, so let's talk about Katie and Josh.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, we're starting with these, Yeah, we're starting with them.

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Yeah yeah, yeah, oh god. Okay, let me get my

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notes because I just don't like talking about them. So oh,

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I was like kind of hoping they would be off

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the show. I didn't really have anything wrong with me.

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I was just hiding out. I was just trying to

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wait out their time on the show.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I did like what Kim from Craig Kray said

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about Katie not having enough shame. I thought that was

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so spot on and she and I because I say

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it all the time about society, like people in society

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now because of social media, because of reality shows, like

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and people on the Internet just trying to become famous,

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like no one has enough shame, Like like people would

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rather be the villain of a reality show than not

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be on a reality show, like oh they get the

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villain edit because they're on TV or I'm on social media.

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I went viral because I blew off my left testicle

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doing fireworks. But at least I went viral even though

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I was, even though my parents lie and say they

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don't have any children because they're so embarrassed of me.

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Speaker 1: That's a great point. I forgot Kim made that point,

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but you're right. You're completely right on that. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: There's a woman on last season of Below Deck, which

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is now like love Island on a boat. It's just

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like trashy hookups all the time now, and it used

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to be about people working at their job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: She on the first night out with her new coworkers said, oh,

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on my last charter, I left the boat with three

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STDs and she was laughing and bragging about it. Ew

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because that's what her online persona was going to be,

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like the party girl.

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Speaker 1: At the party grade STDs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ragging about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's cute, now, mother, My mother would

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be horrif exactly.

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Speaker 2: So, Katie is going on a run with her friend Ryan,

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and she is just shockingly inflexible and has no balance

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for someone who claims to be a runner and is

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in their twenties. She couldn't even touch her knees bending

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over it.

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Speaker 1: She's so can you. I don't understand people to get

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so hungover and then decide to exercise.

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Speaker 2: No, I think that's a weird cycle that has to

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do with the drinking cycle, and maybe some body issues too,

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an exercise compulsion that's like a punishment after you drink

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or overeat. I think there might be some of that

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in play too, because this woman looks horrible like her face.

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It looks like what SHA's insides and mine were recently,

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like like if the liver disease, going to jail, losing

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your job, breaking up your marriage, all of those negative

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side effects of drinking. Don't turn you off. Katie's face

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should and shase you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Kimberly's back and at date dateline is where you can

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DM or any comments.

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Speaker 2: She has no color, No, she has bags under her eyes.

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She looks like death, and she's like, let's go on

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a run. So also, Shae is Katie's future. If she

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keeps up that look in the mirror, Katie, you are

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going to turn into Shae. It's gonna be one of

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those that you look in the mirror and a different

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reflection comes back at you and it's Shae and Anna

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Bell's behind him, like, stop drinking, Katie, Katie, you don't

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want to look like my man. So she says, I'm

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worried that Josh is reaching his breaking point and won't

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want to be with me if I keep acting like

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I'm acting. Yeah, I think that's why she's acting like that.

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I think because she does not want to marry him.

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Speaker 1: I think sabotage.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I think it's or just.

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Speaker 1: Sabotage, because it's just not even self sabotaged to sabotage.

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She's trying to sabotage it because she's doing that instead

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of taking any accountability, she's just going to sabotage it

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to be like, well, yeah, I'm a fuck up. So

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that's why he left me. But that's what she wanted

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instead of like saying to him, I don't want to

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do this.

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Speaker 2: And she did say last week or a few weeks ago,

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I didn't want to do this. K one Right now,

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I know, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Whether why they're still there, I don't know. He's just

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constantly posting on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: So she explains, I tell myself to make out, to

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not make out with people, and then I tell myself

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stop obsessing over these thoughts. Then I sort of relax,

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and then I make out with people. So it's a

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weird vicious cycle. And she says, I need to control

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my drinking. Finally, finally it's brought up. Finally ten Yeah.

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So and then Ryan says, I'm worried about your relationship

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with alcohol, and she goes, why why.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't feel good? She can't. Her synapses are not

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going together in her brain. It's not it's it's terrible.

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She looks terrible, she feels terrible.

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Speaker 2: Oh girl, Okay, and again, and we do think there

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are multiple things. There are multiple isms going on. One

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might be I suspect autism or aspergers, and one is alcoholism.

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So there are so many isms going on right now,

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and at least one of them is finally being addressed.

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So he says, you know, you can be very fun

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and chill, but drunk Katie does things that sober Katie regrets,

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and all of your friends regret because you physically assault them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's all last week where two of her

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friends had their hands just fully on her face, fully,

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two different guys putting their whole hand directly on her face.

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Speaker 2: And again, if the roles were reversed, and this was

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a man trying to do this to a woman.

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Speaker 1: He would be kicked off the TV.

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Speaker 2: I mean, well not this show, not this show, but

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other shows.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So he says, you know a lot of the drama

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in your life comes from alcohol, and you keep doing it.

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So Ryan tells us he's concerned that Katie is self

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destructing her happiness. Yes, Katie says, well, you know, Josh

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told me this morning that he was disappointed in me,

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and it made me feel very sad and bad and bad.

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And she's worried that she's going to ruin her life.

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And he says, do you think Josh will actually leave you?

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And she's like, I think I'm pushing the limit. And

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he says, why do you think Josh keeps forgiving you?

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Because no one else would with it.

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Speaker 1: America is not just so much more wonderful than England

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that he's like trying to get here. He could visit

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at any time. We have an open door policy with England.

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Speaker 2: You know, some people on Reddit suggested he has a kink,

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like a shame kink, you know, like likes to be humiliated.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and now I know if you heard of that, Yeah,

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but that's a no.

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Speaker 2: But that's when people are like, is he just really

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actually into this because he feels like he's not worthy

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of it. So he likes being humiliated in public and

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being cuckolded constantly. No, I don't think that's what that's happening,

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So she says, I think he thinks I'll be a

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good partner long term? Does he?

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Speaker 1: Does he want?

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Speaker 2: But he's overlooking my past behavior and your current behavior.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday's behavior as well. Yes, and probably tonight's probably tonight

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if luck comes her way, probably tonight. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And that actually I did some you were talking with

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somebody about how she's not that great when she drinks,

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and she's also not that great when she's sober, and

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because she's kind of mean to him, like about the

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money spending. Yeah, I think she's constantly in a state

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of being hungover, which makes you angry. She's like a

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and if she goes one day without drinking, I think

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she's like a dried drunk, like that sort of anger.

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That is, you have all the you're not drunk, but

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you have all the you.

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Speaker 1: Know, behaviors of a drunk. Yes, I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So she's never just one hundred percent clear headed

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without either being drunk or being reacting from being without alcohol.

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Speaker 1: I get all that is correct.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So she's worried that Josh will stop and he

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won't have he'll have had enough and he'll leave her.

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And because of her OCD, the fear is torturing her

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instead of taking steps to fix it. So it's that

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just kind of an ADHD thing too, Like it's the

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task of fixing it is so overwhelming, So she just

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sits and stews in the fear of him leaving her.

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So you do not right, Yeah, So she says it

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would break her heart if he leaves her, and she

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loves him, she doesn't want to mess it up. Okay,

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she doesn't treat him like she loves him. But Ryan says,

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I know you're on the clock to get married the

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ninety days, but maybe you shouldn't be. And she says,

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I agree. Realistically we should not be getting married right now,

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but we have to if we're doing this. And she

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says she's torn between settling down and being young and

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having fun and one second she'll she'll in one second

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she'll flip between wanting to marry him and then thinking,

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if we get married, will be miserable.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting that Kim Cray when she was on.

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She pointed out that everybody gets married on the OG

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ninety days. She's like, they almost always get me all

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the time. My dad she's like, I'm sure they get married.

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I was like, it's crazy that we're twelve seasons in

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and I'm still like, do you think they're going to

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get married? She was right also.

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Speaker 2: Because we fall for it every My dad was like,

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they're not going to get married. They're not going to

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get married. I was like, if we did the stats,

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ninety nine percent of the people get married. They might

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get divorced later, but we we see a wedding, which

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makes you think these issues are fabricated for this show. Yes,

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people really want to come to America or willing to

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overlook horrible things in their relationships. Yeah, a meto.

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Speaker 1: I mean when I was watching them this week, I

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was like, I can't wait to this reunion. I hope

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everybody just rips them a new one.

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Speaker 2: I know. I hope he wears leggings to the reunion.

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Speaker 1: And a tank top. I hope everybody listened to my

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interview with Mallory so cute.

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Speaker 2: She's so how fun is she?

471
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Speaker 1: She's so fun? I could have talked to her all day.

472
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Speaker 2: I know you guys felt like like you're just Southern

473
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gals having.

474
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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's really really cute. She really loves her a

475
00:25:47,319 --> 00:25:50,400
medical coding career, which I liked that. She was like,

476
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,880
she's very into it. And you know, the dogs were

477
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,160
just you could hear the little nails like all.

478
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Speaker 2: Over the floor.

479
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Speaker 1: I was like, how many dogs do you have in there?

480
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Like twelve? She was like it feels like it. Yeah,

481
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:07,240
So okay, let's move on to Asha and Maxwell. All Right,

482
00:26:08,519 --> 00:26:10,119
this is a great episode because I get to speak

483
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in tongue, So everybody to get ready for that. Asia's mom, Juliette.

484
00:26:15,279 --> 00:26:17,240
I don't know what I have. Every time she comes out.

485
00:26:17,319 --> 00:26:19,920
She doesn't look like a Juliette to me. No, so

486
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,839
I'll just keep writing it down. So yeah, Asia's mom Juliette,

487
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and Maxwell's family Maria Clement and Blaze. Well Blaze is Adariot,

488
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,000
but their shit talking about Asia's age. Right, That's where

489
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we come in because Maria Blaze has just come in

490
00:26:37,839 --> 00:26:40,920
and Maria says to Blaze, do you know something that

491
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:46,240
mama just told me? What did you know? Asha is

492
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one hundred and forty.

493
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Speaker 2: Six years old.

494
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Speaker 1: And Blaize goes what she says, yes, thirty eight, and

495
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she goes, what huh? She says, well, she's way older than.

496
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Speaker 2: They're like, where where is her wheelchair?

497
00:27:03,799 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: She can't?

498
00:27:04,279 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 2: Where are those dentures? My god? She doesn't even smell

499
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,599
like hard candy and mouthfalls.

500
00:27:08,799 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: She needs to get her her testrascerone pellette in her

501
00:27:12,519 --> 00:27:16,319
ass right away.

502
00:27:14,839 --> 00:27:19,079
Speaker 2: Asting like I wish when they When she walks in later, Asia,

503
00:27:19,319 --> 00:27:23,519
they had gotten up and like guided her to seat here,

504
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:24,400
let me help.

505
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:28,839
Speaker 1: You now, Juliet Asia's mom is sitting there just drinking

506
00:27:28,839 --> 00:27:31,240
her wine, like, well she's old, all right, thirty eight?

507
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: Whoa and did all this?

508
00:27:33,079 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: It's so funny. She started the whole thing. She didn't care,

509
00:27:36,039 --> 00:27:39,839
so the talking had. Blaze uses a Rachel Zoe line

510
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,880
from Real House as the Beverly Hills. She goes, is Maxwell, okay,

511
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:48,319
that's hilarious. She goes that age difference is too much.

512
00:27:48,559 --> 00:27:51,559
I thought I thought they were joking. Surely she's not

513
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thirty eight. So then Asia and Maxwell come in and

514
00:27:58,799 --> 00:28:01,839
a She's like, okay, everybody, I brought the snacks and

515
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,039
she tells us, Okay, we're gonna have these snacks we're

516
00:28:04,039 --> 00:28:05,680
gonna have these drinks and we're going to tell them

517
00:28:05,759 --> 00:28:10,599
about our decision to get married. So Maxwell says, all right, everybody,

518
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,599
we want to let you know that while Asia is

519
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,640
in Nigeria, there's gonna be a little wedding. We're going

520
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,599
to get the documents and go ahead and apply for

521
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:23,559
the spouse of visa. And Juliet says to Maria, Mama.

522
00:28:23,759 --> 00:28:25,759
They call each other mom and mama is so funny.

523
00:28:25,839 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 2: I love it.

524
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:31,079
Speaker 1: She goes, Mama, are you disappointed? And Maria goes, I'm

525
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:34,880
just surprised, and Blay says, I am bothered. I have

526
00:28:35,039 --> 00:28:40,279
just found out she is way older than you, ten years.

527
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:45,039
The difference is too large. And Maxwell says, where are

528
00:28:45,079 --> 00:28:48,559
you talking about this? And how did you know? Juliet

529
00:28:48,599 --> 00:28:51,119
put their glass of wines like I said it. I

530
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,319
said it. And Maxwell says, okay, this is how the

531
00:28:55,319 --> 00:28:59,359
mommy knows because the other mommy told so when you're talking,

532
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,519
head Asious says, I deliberately did not tell these people

533
00:29:02,799 --> 00:29:06,680
my age. My mom spilled the beans and to me,

534
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,160
it's between me and Maxwell and they don't need to

535
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,759
have any opinion on it. And with that, I agree.

536
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,559
I agree. Yeah, so Blaze says.

537
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 2: Did she tell her mom not to say anything though

538
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:18,960
these people?

539
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,039
Speaker 1: She did? I think she did, and I think mom

540
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,559
got you know, she's not eating much and they get

541
00:29:23,559 --> 00:29:29,039
out red wine. She's just like whoa. Blaze says, Look,

542
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:31,960
I love you as it's a compliment, sandwich. Here we go.

543
00:29:32,759 --> 00:29:35,039
I love you as a person, and I think you

544
00:29:35,079 --> 00:29:38,319
have a good character and personality. But I'm not supporting

545
00:29:38,359 --> 00:29:41,920
the age difference. God sets the rules of marriage, because

546
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,680
Maxwell goes who says you have to be a certain

547
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,079
age to get married, and she says, God sets the

548
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,519
rules on marriage. Ninety eight percent of marriage is the

549
00:29:49,559 --> 00:29:53,480
man is older than the wife. Otherwise it is hard

550
00:29:53,519 --> 00:29:56,680
to submit to the husband because you will always remember

551
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,240
that you're older than him. So I cannot approve. And

552
00:29:59,279 --> 00:30:03,839
this is too much. Asia says, So if you love

553
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,559
me as a person, just judge me as a person,

554
00:30:06,599 --> 00:30:09,799
not based on a statistic. And this is why you

555
00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:13,359
gotta remember Ashia does have a doctorate. She is a smart,

556
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,400
smart person. Even though she kind of seems a little airheady,

557
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,759
she is smart. And then the dad, Clement says to Maxwell,

558
00:30:20,839 --> 00:30:23,000
this is not what I've expected from you, and I

559
00:30:23,039 --> 00:30:29,000
don't like this. So Asia says that you're talking to it.

560
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,240
All they need to worry about is that we are

561
00:30:31,279 --> 00:30:33,519
walking down the all and there is nothing they can

562
00:30:33,559 --> 00:30:37,279
do about it. It is God ordained period.

563
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,359
Speaker 2: I really don't think you need to stop saying that

564
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:46,480
because God had your visa denied, so that's true. Perhaps

565
00:30:46,799 --> 00:30:49,720
there's a some static on the line with God.

566
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 1: I think God, God really wants them to get married

567
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:59,240
in Nigeria. Okay, So Blaise says, right, but all of

568
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,640
these things will take time. And then how long after

569
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,640
he comes to your country will you birth kids? And

570
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,200
she says, I don't know, like a year. He has

571
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,920
to get a job, he has to get settled. We're

572
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,960
not going to do it right away. And then a

573
00:31:12,079 --> 00:31:13,880
she goes, why are you so worried about this? Who

574
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,720
created time? God? And God put us together in a

575
00:31:17,759 --> 00:31:21,920
certain time, So we will trust God's timing, right, sweetie.

576
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,200
And then she goes, and also, in America, we have options.

577
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,720
We can freeze eggs, we can have zergas, blah blah blah.

578
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, Angela coutote it for me.

579
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,319
Speaker 1: I appreciate they have those options in Nigeria as well.

580
00:31:35,559 --> 00:31:40,079
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, probably. I love this blaming God for everything.

581
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,000
It's like, yeah, I murdered someone, but it was God

582
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,799
ordained because it happening. And God is the plants and

583
00:31:46,839 --> 00:31:48,839
the trees and the everything, So.

584
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,599
Speaker 1: Get on board God. So I'm talking to her. She says,

585
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:57,400
fertility is really personal, and we're also faith based people,

586
00:31:57,559 --> 00:32:00,920
so why don't they have faith? Let's get biblical, Okay.

587
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,960
In the Bible, Sarah was ninety years old when she

588
00:32:04,039 --> 00:32:06,640
had her first child, So if God wants it to happen,

589
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:11,279
it will happen. Now listen, I'm not a biblical scholar,

590
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,720
nor did I read this particular part of the Bible,

591
00:32:16,079 --> 00:32:18,640
but I'm highly doubting this. Somebody gave birth at ninety

592
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:19,119
years old?

593
00:32:19,799 --> 00:32:22,839
Speaker 2: How dare you? Mary Payne, I'm just saying that happened.

594
00:32:23,079 --> 00:32:26,960
The arc happened, It all happened. It's right there in

595
00:32:27,039 --> 00:32:27,559
the Bible.

596
00:32:28,359 --> 00:32:30,319
Speaker 1: I would be willing to bet that a man built

597
00:32:30,359 --> 00:32:32,559
an arc and put two of every animal on it

598
00:32:32,799 --> 00:32:35,240
before I would believe that a ninety year old woman

599
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:36,000
gave birth.

600
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Speaker 2: It's true.

601
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:39,519
Speaker 1: It's true.

602
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,279
Speaker 2: Also, I feel like they need to look into how

603
00:32:42,319 --> 00:32:45,319
a lot of religion. I'm not going to say anything okay.

604
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: Then Blay says, okay, so that didn't work about the age, okay,

605
00:32:53,559 --> 00:32:57,839
so all right, I got another thing. I worried about

606
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:02,000
her treating him bad in the future. And Juliette says,

607
00:33:02,279 --> 00:33:06,400
he's a grown she's still swilling. He's a grown man, Maxwell,

608
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,039
Are you gonna let her mistreat you? And he goes,

609
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,039
she won't even try it, except for at the restaurant

610
00:33:12,079 --> 00:33:15,200
earlier and then before when we were upstairs, But after that,

611
00:33:15,519 --> 00:33:18,279
she won't even try it, even when she talked about

612
00:33:18,279 --> 00:33:21,720
my eyeballs, in my hairline and my skin. Besides that,

613
00:33:21,839 --> 00:33:25,200
she won't even try it. She respects me one hundred percent.

614
00:33:26,599 --> 00:33:28,839
And he goes, but you all keep talking about submission.

615
00:33:28,839 --> 00:33:30,960
But in the Bible it says a man and a

616
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:34,160
woman sub submit to each other. It's not just the

617
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,079
woman submits to the man. And I have always told

618
00:33:37,119 --> 00:33:39,559
you I am not looking for a wife. I am

619
00:33:39,559 --> 00:33:42,319
looking for a partner, and with Asia, I have found

620
00:33:42,359 --> 00:33:46,480
a partner and I like that. Yeah, now I believe

621
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:46,960
in their love.

622
00:33:47,759 --> 00:33:49,079
Speaker 2: Oh stop, okay, I do.

623
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: I believed in it before, but now I really believe

624
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:56,759
in it. So Blai says, well, your mom says you

625
00:33:56,799 --> 00:34:00,920
won't mistreat him, so I'll believe her. And then she

626
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:04,000
and then she finishes off her compliment sandwich with I

627
00:34:04,039 --> 00:34:07,759
don't hate you, yep, I love you. I love you.

628
00:34:07,839 --> 00:34:10,559
I just have fears. When somebody says I don't hate you,

629
00:34:11,159 --> 00:34:11,840
they hate.

630
00:34:11,639 --> 00:34:14,280
Speaker 2: You, they hate you. Why else would that you say that?

631
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: Why else would you say? I would never just go

632
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,840
up to my friend and be like, hey, are you doing.

633
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,400
I'm glad to check on you. And also I don't

634
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,199
hate you. Yeah, it's a weird thing to say. She says,

635
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:27,159
she just has fears, and Asa said, Asha says, the

636
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:30,239
number one thing here is the Kingdom of God, and

637
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:34,519
Clement says, okay, yes, and I have decided age is

638
00:34:34,559 --> 00:34:37,079
not Age is just a number and it doesn't matter.

639
00:34:38,599 --> 00:34:41,119
Speaker 2: God told me just now, five.

640
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 1: Minutes ago, you said I don't want this for you,

641
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,119
my son. This is you're making a bad decision. But

642
00:34:45,199 --> 00:34:49,519
now he heard about Sarah and the ninety and then

643
00:34:49,599 --> 00:34:52,960
Mom says, you know what, You're right. God blessed Sarah

644
00:34:53,039 --> 00:34:57,000
and she was old. So at least Asha has not

645
00:34:57,159 --> 00:34:59,000
reached Sarah's age.

646
00:34:59,079 --> 00:35:02,039
Speaker 2: I mean five or six. Here she will because that's

647
00:35:02,039 --> 00:35:02,840
how they're acting.

648
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: But ninety yeahinety so Dad says, okay, so God can

649
00:35:09,519 --> 00:35:13,280
still bless Asia and Maxwell with children, yes, and A

650
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,599
she goes, okay, so now that we've all agreed on that,

651
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,920
let's join hands in pray. And she says, our father

652
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,639
who are in heaven. I was like, she's gonna do

653
00:35:21,679 --> 00:35:24,800
the Lord's prayer, but she starts with our father who

654
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,599
are in heaven, you know, bless everybody whose hands are

655
00:35:27,639 --> 00:35:28,639
touching here today, and a.

656
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: La la la la la la la la lah blah

657
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:32,719
blah blah.

658
00:35:33,079 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 1: Amen, nobody bass and I nobody laughs. Nobody goes, what

659
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:39,400
the fuck just happened?

660
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,519
Speaker 2: No, she did that the first time she was there.

661
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,000
They probably laugh about it. She's gonna come. Do you

662
00:35:45,039 --> 00:35:48,639
think she's gonna do the tongues. Yeah, she's probably gonna tongues.

663
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, Maxwell are You're gonna have to learn that language?

664
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:58,119
Good luck? Maxwell. So I don't want to, okay, I

665
00:35:58,119 --> 00:35:59,800
don't want to start the pregnant thing again like we

666
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:05,000
did Viva, because we were wrong, but everybody was wrong

667
00:36:05,079 --> 00:36:08,360
to not just us. Yeah. I do think Asha in

668
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,320
one of these dresses does appear to have a baby bump.

669
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: Oh interesting that she.

670
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,199
Speaker 1: Seems to be masking with a wild pattern.

671
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 2: We were right with Anna Lynn, so we were fifty

672
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:25,039
fifty last season and they put them both in baby

673
00:36:25,079 --> 00:36:25,800
Dell dresses.

674
00:36:26,519 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: Yes, and this dress she's got on has got kind

675
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:30,920
of the right under the boob thing.

676
00:36:31,679 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

677
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 1: So and you know they film all these talking heads

678
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,639
like at all different times, so it could be when

679
00:36:36,639 --> 00:36:40,320
they filmed you know anyway. Yep, just saying And then

680
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,079
I said, how long ago did she say she saw

681
00:36:43,199 --> 00:36:45,119
him before this? Because it was a few months.

682
00:36:45,639 --> 00:36:47,079
Speaker 2: I thought it was eight months though.

683
00:36:47,119 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: See I thought I was practically a year because they

684
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,639
thought the visa was coming. Yeah, so she definitely is

685
00:36:52,679 --> 00:36:54,719
only there like three weeks.

686
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 2: So she was frount enough time.

687
00:36:57,119 --> 00:36:58,079
Speaker 1: But it could be.

688
00:36:58,679 --> 00:37:02,199
Speaker 2: But next week in the preview it was a fake

689
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:03,000
out pregnancy.

690
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:03,599
Speaker 1: I know.

691
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,559
Speaker 2: So now you're not the only one.

692
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: So what if right when she got there, she was

693
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:15,000
ovulating and got pregnant and she is like club yes

694
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,960
right away, And then what if like when they're filming

695
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:22,239
these talking heads, like four months later, she's alone, she's

696
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,880
in Alabama and she looks pregnant exactly, or what if

697
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:32,000
it's just an illfitting dress exactly? Speaking of ill fitting, clothes.

698
00:37:32,159 --> 00:37:37,679
Let's talk about Marissa and Edward. Oh yeah, not everybody

699
00:37:37,679 --> 00:37:42,920
should wear leggings, guys, not everybody. Medo for example. Mito

700
00:37:43,039 --> 00:37:45,679
is a great example. And yes it might be another example.

701
00:37:46,159 --> 00:37:48,280
There we go in my opinion, guess who else should

702
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:49,599
wear leggings this gal.

703
00:37:50,199 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not saying we should.

704
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no, no.

705
00:37:54,320 --> 00:38:00,119
Speaker 2: Marissa and long suffering Edward. So she comes in, Hey,

706
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,960
I need to talk to you. I just had to

707
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:07,079
redo all the trash. I told you to take the

708
00:38:07,079 --> 00:38:09,519
trash out to the curb? Did you understand me when

709
00:38:09,559 --> 00:38:13,039
I said that? And he's like, curve the curve. He

710
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,719
didn't understand curb. And she's like okay, and he's like,

711
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,079
but I did I tick out the trash And she says,

712
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,519
you need to make it neat. You can't just throw

713
00:38:21,599 --> 00:38:24,239
everything out there. And it's looking like a total disaster.

714
00:38:25,159 --> 00:38:29,280
My neighbors are gonna think we're pavos. So he's like,

715
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,400
I don't it's trash. But he didn't do it right.

716
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,599
And she's like, I'm not gonna get aggravated if you

717
00:38:35,639 --> 00:38:37,559
don't know a word, but I need you to like

718
00:38:38,039 --> 00:38:43,400
understand what I'm saying. It's a lot on my shoulders

719
00:38:43,559 --> 00:38:46,519
for me to teach you every little thing. So I

720
00:38:46,639 --> 00:38:50,719
just need you to listen and comprehend what I'm saying.

721
00:38:52,039 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: What's wrong with her?

722
00:38:55,159 --> 00:38:56,559
Speaker 2: She's what?

723
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about the trash. Do you think he

724
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,039
he just took some trash bags and put them on

725
00:39:03,079 --> 00:39:04,880
the curb. But maybe he was supposed to go in

726
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,719
the garage and get the can and roll it out

727
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,440
to the curb, but he didn't know there was a

728
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,480
big can in the garage that you roll out, like

729
00:39:10,519 --> 00:39:12,480
he thought, Oh, I just take these bags from the kitchen.

730
00:39:13,079 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 2: I think he brought the cans out and they were

731
00:39:15,599 --> 00:39:20,360
askew from how they should be. Really, I think it

732
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,199
was that little of a thing. And she's because everything

733
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:30,199
this is a disaster. Oh if it's not perfectly her way, okay.

734
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,320
And maybe one of the bags was like sitting next

735
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,400
to it or on top of the bin because the

736
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:36,559
bin was overflowing.

737
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:37,199
Speaker 1: Yeah.

738
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,639
Speaker 2: Like, although we did see what that fence looked like,

739
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:42,920
I mean, she.

740
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 1: Is she posted this week that the fence is still

741
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,360
like that and she needs like anybody local they can

742
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:48,159
help me with the fence.

743
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 2: Okay, it's been months. If you really cared about the fence.

744
00:39:51,199 --> 00:39:53,159
You could have had someone else fix the fence. You

745
00:39:53,159 --> 00:39:55,599
could pay someone to fix the fence.

746
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: I think it's a hilarious talking point to be like,

747
00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:59,199
look at my cartoon fence.

748
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 2: If people are driving by taking pictures, is that the

749
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,880
fence from the Learning Channel, I saw it a ninety

750
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,719
day fiance. That's the famous fence.

751
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: Last week we talked when you Weren't here about Marissa's

752
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:18,199
mom had posted on somewhere. Yes, I saw it about

753
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,119
the whole thing about what makes Marissa's special, and she

754
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,559
was saying it like my daughter's a loser. It was

755
00:40:23,599 --> 00:40:26,599
because he said he had been married to an American before,

756
00:40:26,639 --> 00:40:29,199
and the American moved to the dr and he never

757
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:31,079
wanted to move to the United States. Do you find

758
00:40:31,119 --> 00:40:32,000
I found that shocking.

759
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:35,639
Speaker 2: I am never shocked by what they leave out on

760
00:40:35,679 --> 00:40:40,079
this show. It's crazy, like remember Lauren had children, Lauren

761
00:40:40,119 --> 00:40:44,199
with the seafood in the bathroom? Yeah no, I yeah,

762
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:49,800
that is very interesting her, the mom and Marissa are

763
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,360
just so defensive online about how they're being portrayed, and

764
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,880
it is making them even more unlikable.

765
00:40:56,039 --> 00:40:58,599
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I can't wait to the renew when the mom

766
00:40:58,639 --> 00:41:01,559
comes on and then maybe Sean Robinson or Ross Matthews

767
00:41:01,599 --> 00:41:04,559
will say, who did your face? What is incredible?

768
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, So Marissa tells us it's been tough. It's

769
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:13,920
taking him longer to integrate into the culture, and I

770
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,159
should have I should be more patient, but I was

771
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,880
under a different impression of how things would go.

772
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 1: What who What was the impression?

773
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 2: How did you get that impression? It's making me second

774
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,920
guess if this is the right thing for me. It's

775
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:34,800
always for me, it's never once for him. So she

776
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,800
goes to meet her gorgeous mother. God, that would suck

777
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,400
constantly being compared to your mom, and that neck skin

778
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,800
is just staring in the face all the time.

779
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: Perfect, just like perfect.

780
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 2: So she bitches to her mom that Edward has been

781
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:51,920
trying to help out, but he's messing everything up and

782
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,159
I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt

783
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:58,199
that he's not an idiot. She says that.

784
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 1: To give him the benefit of the doubt that he's

785
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:03,719
not an idiot.

786
00:42:04,079 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 2: This is a great way to get your mom to

787
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:09,360
approve of him. But to complain and say you're giving

788
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:11,760
him the benefit of the doubt that he's not an idiot.

789
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:16,119
So mom says, well, he doesn't know the area, the culture.

790
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,760
That gets old after a while, and she talks like

791
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:25,679
old money, and Marisa says, he's so warm and so

792
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,280
great and I'm always criticizing him and it's not nice.

793
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,199
And then we see a montage of her yelling at him.

794
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,159
He's like, bro, and she's like, don't call me bro.

795
00:42:37,079 --> 00:42:39,400
Can I taste this? Don't taste it with your fingers.

796
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:45,559
That's disgusted, just constantly him sitting in the back seat

797
00:42:45,599 --> 00:42:48,480
of the car because for some reason her child gets

798
00:42:48,519 --> 00:42:52,920
to sit in the front seat and mom defends her

799
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:55,159
and he's like, you can't be nice all the time.

800
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,880
He's too nice. That's not good. He needs to stand

801
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:02,599
up for himself or he'll start to resent you. And

802
00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:05,079
Marisa says, yeah, he does need to stand up to me.

803
00:43:05,119 --> 00:43:08,239
He needs to be a man. God, I hate that

804
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,639
this is the Paula Russ thing on Last Resort.

805
00:43:13,079 --> 00:43:17,760
Speaker 1: Well that's justified because he's.

806
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:22,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, a doormat. So Marisa says, I've been upfront and

807
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:25,280
honest about how I'm feeling, and he just says we'll

808
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,320
figure it out, like no big deal. And that's not

809
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:34,239
appropriate when I say I have doubts and which my

810
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,400
favorite last line of a movie ever.

811
00:43:37,519 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: Yes, doubt, I have doubts.

812
00:43:41,559 --> 00:43:45,079
Speaker 2: So she tells her mom that she has doubts and

813
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,920
she loves him, but you know he is going to

814
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,039
contribute and he has to get up to speed or

815
00:43:52,079 --> 00:43:55,360
I'm gonna lose it. It's always like speed with her, like

816
00:43:55,639 --> 00:43:56,280
just relax.

817
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't understand how she expects him to

818
00:43:59,519 --> 00:44:02,800
just again, No, the morning routine, No, the nighttime routine.

819
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,599
Know when people need to be picked up? No, what exactly?

820
00:44:07,079 --> 00:44:09,239
The recycling goes on the left of the trash goes

821
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,760
all the right, Like, how is he supposed to know? No?

822
00:44:12,639 --> 00:44:15,199
Speaker 2: And Mom says, well, he's a nice guy, but you

823
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,920
can't teach someone to have fire in their belt in

824
00:44:19,119 --> 00:44:23,079
ninety days if you don't see ambition, it's not there.

825
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,920
And Mom says, you know, keep your head on straight,

826
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,840
and she's like, but in her talking head, she's like,

827
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,559
I'm thrilled that Marissa has doubts. Basically, that's it. She's like,

828
00:44:35,599 --> 00:44:38,400
did you hear that she's starting to have doubts? And

829
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:43,880
she doesn't think Edward fulfills every part of her perfect, charming, smart,

830
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:48,760
gorgeous daughters on life on every level and that's what

831
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,400
she deserves. So then she takes Marisa takes Edward to

832
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,840
the park to talk, and finally she says, how are

833
00:44:55,880 --> 00:45:01,480
you feeling about things? First time? Yeah, she says, I

834
00:45:01,519 --> 00:45:04,159
feel like I've been very rude and snippy to him,

835
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,920
and I feel badly about it, but I can't help it.

836
00:45:07,599 --> 00:45:08,719
He's just so dumb.

837
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:16,679
Speaker 1: I mean, bangan every single night is not enough. I'm

838
00:45:16,679 --> 00:45:18,719
gonna need it a day to be nicer. Yeah.

839
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, So he says, you know, I've been a little aggravated,

840
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,320
and I know I can't communicate it perfectly in English,

841
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,800
but I'm new in your country and it's taking me

842
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,199
time to learn things. And you know, he says, yes,

843
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,559
it's been hard for you. You talk about it every

844
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:39,079
fucking day, but it's been hard for me as well.

845
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,960
I'm the one who left my entire life to move

846
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:46,079
to a new country. He says, I feel so much

847
00:45:46,079 --> 00:45:48,679
pressure to be perfect, and if I speak up, there's

848
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,119
a problem, but if I stay quiet, there's a problem.

849
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,440
So I feel stuck and I feel like I can't

850
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,039
do anything right. And he says, she's very impatient with me,

851
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,400
and she gives me attitude and then she's never with

852
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:04,440
anything I do. And so she says to him straight up,

853
00:46:04,639 --> 00:46:07,679
I've been a bitch and I'm embarrassed by my behavior.

854
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:08,119
Speaker 1: Good.

855
00:46:08,679 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 2: She's on an apology tour this week, and she says,

856
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,199
I've been feeling fears that have clouded my behavior. My

857
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:20,880
fears because of your dumbness have made me be a bitch.

858
00:46:21,119 --> 00:46:24,239
So it's really your fault that I've been a bitch. Correct, yes,

859
00:46:25,039 --> 00:46:29,280
So she tells him she's having serious doubts about the relationship.

860
00:46:29,639 --> 00:46:33,679
And she says, have you had doubts And he says no,

861
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,760
and she says, well, you always think the best of

862
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,039
every situation, and I think the worst. And he says,

863
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:42,440
in my life, I haven't had a choice to just

864
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,039
stop and cry. I just have to make things work.

865
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,719
And so she says, well, I'm sorry, I don't have

866
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,880
the same conviction that you do. I need you to

867
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,119
understand why I'm not sure. And he gets upset and

868
00:46:55,159 --> 00:46:58,000
he gets up and walks away for a minute, and

869
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,920
he tells us, you know, if she wants to walk away,

870
00:47:02,119 --> 00:47:04,440
she can walk away. I know my value and I'm

871
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,000
not going to drag myself on the floor for anyone.

872
00:47:07,119 --> 00:47:10,400
I don't have to endure this shit from anyone. And

873
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,199
I was like, good for you, Edward and your newly

874
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:17,000
circumcised penis has found their balls finally.

875
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 1: Oh and I loved it all. They were showing the

876
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,400
shot of her sitting on the grass, but like the

877
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,599
shot was behind her over to where he was talking

878
00:47:26,639 --> 00:47:29,519
to production. Yes, and she's like, I wonder what they're

879
00:47:29,559 --> 00:47:31,559
talking about over there. I was like, wow, they really

880
00:47:31,599 --> 00:47:33,280
don't take them very far to talk to him.

881
00:47:33,559 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 2: The sound doesn't carry I guess in that field that

882
00:47:37,559 --> 00:47:41,199
they were in. So he goes back and she's like,

883
00:47:41,199 --> 00:47:43,039
you know, this is part of the how you feel

884
00:47:43,079 --> 00:47:46,920
in buddy, how you doing? Like she says, you know,

885
00:47:47,039 --> 00:47:49,400
this is part of the process. We have to stay.

886
00:47:49,639 --> 00:47:52,679
We have to have these hard conversations to make our

887
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,639
bond stronger, to make sure that when it comes to

888
00:47:55,679 --> 00:47:58,039
our wedding, we are good to go because we've had

889
00:47:58,079 --> 00:48:00,840
all these hard conversations. And it doesn't mean I don't

890
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:04,039
love you. I don't hate you, and I hate you

891
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,679
brought you here if I didn't love you. But you

892
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:12,239
need to be able to manage through these hard conversations

893
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,199
and difficult moments. And he says, my life has been difficult.

894
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,519
I know how to be in difficult things. And she's like,

895
00:48:17,559 --> 00:48:19,719
then why do you just walk away? And he says,

896
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,239
because I don't like to show weak weakness. I don't

897
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,320
want people to see me like a crying like a

898
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:28,599
little girl. And she says, it's okay to show emotions

899
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,719
and if you don't, then I'm always the crazy one

900
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:35,280
that's showing emotions. And I feel better after letting these

901
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:38,719
emotions come out, and you deserve to feel better too,

902
00:48:39,199 --> 00:48:41,480
And I need you to show emotions or we're not

903
00:48:41,519 --> 00:48:44,679
going to make it. So fix your emotions too, and

904
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:48,039
the way you take out the trash, and she says,

905
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,239
I need him to put me in check and be

906
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:55,400
a man. And maybe when he just says I love you,

907
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,400
I love you, everything's fine, I love you, It's going

908
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:01,400
to work out. Isn't actually real. It's making me think

909
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:04,400
like he doesn't really feel like that. He's just putting

910
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,280
on a facade and he's just using me to get

911
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:10,639
to America and doesn't really love me. That's why that's

912
00:49:10,679 --> 00:49:14,920
where I'm spiraling, because he never shows negative emotions, so

913
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:16,639
that can't be real.

914
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,519
Speaker 1: But I mean, I feel like she's known him for

915
00:49:20,559 --> 00:49:22,400
a long time, and if this is the way he's

916
00:49:22,599 --> 00:49:25,840
always been, then this is the way he is, you know.

917
00:49:26,079 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 2: A positive person who is like, I'm going to make

918
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:30,920
the best of the situation no matter what.

919
00:49:31,119 --> 00:49:33,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, And she's like, I'm just gonna be as mean

920
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:37,400
as possible to get him to be mean back to me.

921
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,400
So he shows emotion, but if he's not that kind

922
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:40,639
of person, he's not going.

923
00:49:40,639 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 2: To do it totally. Yeah.

924
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: Oh this glady, Okay. I mean, maybe she's going to

925
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:51,000
have some sort of a fantastic redemption arc, but I

926
00:49:51,039 --> 00:49:51,440
hope so.

927
00:49:52,079 --> 00:49:55,679
Speaker 2: I don't know, because she's really one of the most

928
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,800
unlikable people we've She's it's been rough, unfortunately.

929
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: Shae and Annabelle, all right, well, oh god, we opened

930
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:10,400
with a lot of wooo woo woo Shay baby, Shay baby,

931
00:50:10,519 --> 00:50:13,719
what woo? And Shae, a fifty five year old man

932
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,159
is doing a beer funnel with a bunch of twenty

933
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:16,920
year olds.

934
00:50:17,639 --> 00:50:20,280
Speaker 2: No one this close to death from scurvy should be

935
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:21,599
drinking out of a beer funnel.

936
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: He later says to her, that's how you drink alcohol faster, baby.

937
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:30,760
Speaker 2: You don't need to drink it faster. You just set

938
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,119
up an IV and get it right into your veins.

939
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,760
Is that how badly you need to drink? I mean,

940
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:36,679
what is wrong with you?

941
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:40,760
Speaker 1: It's awful. So he walks up to Annabel, who's sitting

942
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,679
in a chair, and he goes, hey, you doing my

943
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:47,440
pretty little Filippine almost sit by you, and she's like uh.

944
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,880
She turns around and he tries to kiss her, and

945
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,000
she kind of does like okay and pushes him away,

946
00:50:52,039 --> 00:50:54,159
and he goes, give me that tongue. Let me see

947
00:50:54,199 --> 00:50:57,760
that tongue. If somebody said that to me, I just

948
00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,760
stood up and said, that's it.

949
00:51:00,519 --> 00:51:02,199
Speaker 2: I just threw up into my mouth a little.

950
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: All these people are leaving. You're never allowed to see

951
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,480
any of them again. You're no longer drinking. Sell this

952
00:51:07,559 --> 00:51:11,079
lake house. Let's go like that. If that is what

953
00:51:11,119 --> 00:51:14,840
you think is cute or funny, that's discussing.

954
00:51:15,039 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 2: Especially coming out of his mouth with his teeth, the

955
00:51:18,599 --> 00:51:21,400
smells that must come from that mouth.

956
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:28,280
Speaker 1: And her face is like oola. So here's something that

957
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:30,599
I've noticed here that I've noticed a couple of times

958
00:51:30,639 --> 00:51:34,960
on this show they mention more than once, and this

959
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,440
happens with other couples that these two are married, and

960
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:43,039
they don't edit that out I know. So it's either

961
00:51:43,079 --> 00:51:46,800
sloppy production or they are married, or it's just a

962
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:51,360
drunk girl saying it. Nobody corrects her, but nobody says

963
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:52,480
they're not married.

964
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 2: So it's very weird. Perhaps they did get married one

965
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,800
of the times that he visited her. Yeah, yeah, and

966
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,199
this is a spousal visa.

967
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:06,039
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I don't Yeah, okay.

968
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,519
Speaker 2: But we still don't know the timeline of him being

969
00:52:08,559 --> 00:52:10,960
with her and being with what's her face and having

970
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:14,199
a baby and having good Right, this whole thing is murky,

971
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:15,800
as murky as his teeth.

972
00:52:16,159 --> 00:52:22,639
Speaker 1: It's worthy. It's murky, like Forrest and Sheena like our

973
00:52:22,679 --> 00:52:24,800
first I ever seeing each other. But then we see

974
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:29,039
pictures from twenty nineteenth together. Yeah, yep, so this girl

975
00:52:29,119 --> 00:52:32,280
Aspen is talking to his daughter Alison saying, you know,

976
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:35,039
it's wild to see Annabela in person, Like I didn't

977
00:52:35,039 --> 00:52:37,800
even know he was married, and I was like, wow,

978
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:42,599
he's had a wife this whole summer, and Allison goes, yeah,

979
00:52:42,639 --> 00:52:46,400
he's not single, he's married or like about to be married.

980
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I gotta get my lines right.

981
00:52:50,519 --> 00:52:52,559
Speaker 1: So if it's true, and this is all sort of

982
00:52:52,599 --> 00:52:55,679
how they've messed up the timeline here, the production didn't cut.

983
00:52:55,679 --> 00:52:57,559
This is weird, Yeah it is.

984
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 2: That makes me think they're just drunk and saying wife

985
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:01,400
when they mean fiance.

986
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: Right, It's like Dia on Love after lock up, Who's like, well,

987
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,840
I was in a twenty year marriage, yeah, and then

988
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,519
I was this this guy for two years and now

989
00:53:08,519 --> 00:53:10,039
I've been with this guy for one year. I was like,

990
00:53:10,039 --> 00:53:12,760
you're only thirty, so you got married when you were ten.

991
00:53:14,199 --> 00:53:16,679
Speaker 2: Also the fact that this can we just talk about

992
00:53:16,679 --> 00:53:19,320
this party? I know you already talked about with Kim

993
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,039
the like people. Yeah, the band.

994
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: It's like it's just a guy, but.

995
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: They have like fake music playing over it. But like

996
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,039
because they don't have rights to I don't know. But

997
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,679
like no one's even raising their voice like they're at

998
00:53:33,679 --> 00:53:37,679
a party. It's just because there's it is like there's

999
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:41,760
like eight people there, right, It's it's like a parody

1000
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,400
of Malory's White Trash Party, except that party actually looked

1001
00:53:45,519 --> 00:53:49,559
fun and this party looks so lame. It's like people

1002
00:53:49,599 --> 00:53:52,599
just standing around like at an eighth grade dance or something. Yeah,

1003
00:53:52,639 --> 00:53:54,280
it's so stupid.

1004
00:53:55,199 --> 00:53:57,519
Speaker 1: See bring your own share, Like, yeah, it was it

1005
00:53:57,599 --> 00:53:59,039
was like a like going to a kid's soccer game,

1006
00:53:59,039 --> 00:53:59,800
bring your own chair in.

1007
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it literally it just didn't even look fun. Like

1008
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,400
drunk people are supposed to be a tiny bit fun

1009
00:54:05,639 --> 00:54:08,559
so you can put up with their dumb antics. These

1010
00:54:08,599 --> 00:54:10,559
people are not even being fun.

1011
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: And I kind of wonder if this was in the fall,

1012
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,280
right when the time changed, so it probably did get

1013
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,960
dark like at six, But they told everybody to come

1014
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,599
like at four thirty, and you're only going to film

1015
00:54:21,639 --> 00:54:24,719
into like ten thirty, and then that's when the real

1016
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:25,960
fun's going to start, but we're not going.

1017
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 2: To get to see it. That's totally possible. I disagree

1018
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,679
with Kim that these people are going to bed by ten.

1019
00:54:32,119 --> 00:54:35,039
I think, oh yeah, no, no, no, because half of

1020
00:54:35,119 --> 00:54:38,079
them are twenty year olds for some reason are partying

1021
00:54:38,119 --> 00:54:39,559
with sixty year olds.

1022
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 1: I don't understand this at all. I don't understand this dynamic.

1023
00:54:45,199 --> 00:54:49,039
Speaker 2: So I think these girls hang out with Shade because

1024
00:54:49,079 --> 00:54:53,840
he's buying them alcohol. Yeah, and they're friends with his daughter, yes,

1025
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:58,519
and maybe one might sleep with him if she was

1026
00:54:58,559 --> 00:55:01,320
really drunk and she thought she could marry him without

1027
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,039
a prenap because he looks like he might die soon,

1028
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:06,239
so you might not have to be with him for

1029
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:07,280
that long, right.

1030
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,599
Speaker 1: I don't think one of these girls has any thought

1031
00:55:10,639 --> 00:55:12,559
of sleeping with him. I think they just like flirt

1032
00:55:12,599 --> 00:55:14,480
with him, like he's the gross old drunk dad at

1033
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:18,280
the party and he'll buy us free stuff. Yeah. So

1034
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:21,239
we get this new girl group. It's Chandler, Aspen, and

1035
00:55:21,559 --> 00:55:26,599
Hallie dressed in the exact same outfit and they're maximum

1036
00:55:26,599 --> 00:55:30,760
thirty years old, maximum and they're all dressed alike. And

1037
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:34,199
Aspen says, you know, Shay, he's such a big flirt

1038
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,760
and he told me he would buy me an island,

1039
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:38,920
and you know, he's asked me to stay the night

1040
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,920
here and stuff, and it's all I have to say

1041
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,719
about that. She's the one that said she didn't know

1042
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,320
he was married, so yeah.

1043
00:55:46,199 --> 00:55:51,199
Speaker 2: Right, she's the one who might I feel like maybe

1044
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:56,000
is looking for a rich husband that she could be

1045
00:55:56,079 --> 00:55:58,320
on easy Street for until he dies.

1046
00:55:58,599 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I guess Shaye considered rich and Paduca.

1047
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:02,039
I just can't tell.

1048
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 2: He said island. Also, let's stop talking about islands. We

1049
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,880
don't need to take Epstein's island has made islands bad.

1050
00:56:09,079 --> 00:56:11,000
Let's stop talking about buying people islands.

1051
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,679
Speaker 1: You don't have island kind of money. Shit you don't

1052
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:14,320
even have like.

1053
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 2: You again, like Mary Payne said, you have three trailers

1054
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:18,639
to your name.

1055
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:22,280
Speaker 1: So really, yeah, yes, uh don't and don't forget that

1056
00:56:22,559 --> 00:56:24,320
Nichole's shit. He has that too.

1057
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:25,079
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1058
00:56:25,639 --> 00:56:28,199
Speaker 1: So now the band is playing. It's a guy with

1059
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:32,000
a guitar, and that's when he says, like she comes

1060
00:56:32,039 --> 00:56:34,679
up and he's doing like a funnel, you know, a

1061
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:36,320
beer bong and she comes up and she goes like,

1062
00:56:36,519 --> 00:56:38,519
what are you doing? And he goes, wait's funny. Let

1063
00:56:38,519 --> 00:56:41,639
you drink a faster, baby, and she says I could

1064
00:56:41,679 --> 00:56:44,280
tell you're drunk. He goes, harmy beers? You think I hired?

1065
00:56:45,199 --> 00:56:48,519
She goes like twenty. He goes, no, baby, I had

1066
00:56:48,679 --> 00:56:51,599
like six. You had six and that beer funnel? What

1067
00:56:51,599 --> 00:56:55,679
are you talking about? And then he goes, no, maybe

1068
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,679
I had had that many. And he looks over at

1069
00:56:57,679 --> 00:57:00,519
that other lady that was there earlier, like can you

1070
00:57:00,679 --> 00:57:04,800
believe this? Get a little and she goes, you know what,

1071
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,599
I have a headache. I'm going to bed. He goes, nah, nah,

1072
00:57:07,639 --> 00:57:10,119
don't start. We got friends here. They're all here to

1073
00:57:10,159 --> 00:57:15,719
say you babe, and Nicole says Annabel, this is a

1074
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:20,079
Lake party. That makes a difference.

1075
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 2: So they talk about these like this is the met Gala,

1076
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,239
like we should all know what this is. Yes, this

1077
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:29,760
is legendary across the world. So how have you not

1078
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:35,159
heard of lake parties? This is the Lake party because

1079
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:36,119
she's birthday.

1080
00:57:36,599 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 1: So she goes, Okay, I'm gonna go inside and put

1081
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:41,920
you to bed because I'm going back. I'm going back

1082
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:43,880
to the party. These people are here. It's kind of

1083
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:47,400
embarrassing from me, babe, it's kind of embarrassing. And she goes,

1084
00:57:47,519 --> 00:57:49,639
you're drunk and you're flirting with people, and I don't

1085
00:57:49,639 --> 00:57:51,159
want to be around you. And he goes, come on,

1086
00:57:51,519 --> 00:57:53,920
let's go back to the party. Let's go have fun.

1087
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,559
Come on, and you're talking to it. She says, these

1088
00:57:56,599 --> 00:57:58,760
people are drunk and I want to go to bed.

1089
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:02,199
I do not want to deal with us. So he

1090
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:05,000
goes back out to the party and he's like, you know,

1091
00:58:05,079 --> 00:58:06,519
white man over white dancing.

1092
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:07,239
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

1093
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: And the talking head Alison pulls a chakana and says,

1094
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,199
I don't like that she's bossing him around. And this

1095
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:21,679
is tame Shay Babey for sure, Like maybe they aren't

1096
00:58:21,719 --> 00:58:24,440
meant for each other. If she can't hang with this crowd,

1097
00:58:24,679 --> 00:58:27,199
and maybe she should go home, like go back to

1098
00:58:27,239 --> 00:58:32,000
your family, go girl.

1099
00:58:33,559 --> 00:58:36,079
Speaker 2: We were waiting for it though. We did hear that

1100
00:58:36,159 --> 00:58:39,719
people thought she was a mail order bride, so we

1101
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:43,079
were waiting for go back to your country, Alison.

1102
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,519
Speaker 1: You know, we had kind of been on her side

1103
00:58:45,559 --> 00:58:48,119
at this point, but now, well, I like that.

1104
00:58:48,119 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 2: She was at least fainting that it was for Annabelle,

1105
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:55,039
that she was showing interest in being a saboteur. Like

1106
00:58:55,119 --> 00:58:58,039
she would be like, I'm doing this for Annabelle because

1107
00:58:58,079 --> 00:59:01,719
I care about her, right her dearly. I don't hate her.

1108
00:59:02,079 --> 00:59:05,599
But now she's she's drunk, so she's like, yeah, just

1109
00:59:05,639 --> 00:59:08,039
go back. She said, if you can't hang with these

1110
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:13,559
lake people, right, get out of here. What again? These

1111
00:59:13,559 --> 00:59:15,880
people are so lame.

1112
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 1: It's so lame. I mean it is like Shay and

1113
00:59:19,519 --> 00:59:22,599
people his age, beer funneling, and then you got a

1114
00:59:22,639 --> 00:59:25,559
bunch of thirty year olds who maybe they're just swinging

1115
00:59:25,599 --> 00:59:27,199
by the lake party and then they're going out to

1116
00:59:27,239 --> 00:59:30,159
the bars. They're like getting fret drinks first. Hopefully they're

1117
00:59:30,159 --> 00:59:31,000
all taking an uber.

1118
00:59:32,519 --> 00:59:33,079
Speaker 2: I doubt it.

1119
00:59:33,599 --> 00:59:36,239
Speaker 1: Okay, lets see we're gonna move on to Debbie and Meadow.

1120
00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:40,519
My god, oh god, I really I to think that

1121
00:59:40,559 --> 00:59:43,360
they actually got married. I need that proofs that they

1122
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:46,760
actually got married, not that they file a marriage certificate. Right,

1123
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:49,880
but there's a wedding date, because there is not any

1124
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,280
way in the world that she should marry this guy,

1125
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:57,440
like it is so apparently clear to anybody with eyes.

1126
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 2: And that this is. At some point in this season,

1127
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:04,239
we always stopped feeling bad for some of these people,

1128
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:07,760
and I think this was the episode for me that

1129
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:11,119
I just stopped feeling bad for Debbie because she's being

1130
01:00:11,199 --> 01:00:17,679
so blindy blind, blindly ignorant to the situation.

1131
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 1: Willfully ignorant. Sometime.

1132
01:00:19,599 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 2: Thank you. So I almost died, Mary Payne words right.

1133
01:00:28,239 --> 01:00:30,679
Speaker 1: And you almost add on the anniversary when I almost died.

1134
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:35,159
I know, Keisha, watch out for next year.

1135
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 2: No, because I was. I was not dying on my birthday.

1136
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:41,639
I was out of the hospital. I was almost dying.

1137
01:00:42,199 --> 01:00:44,480
Taylor Swift's wedding and fourth of July.

1138
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:49,639
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well seven seven on July seventh is when

1139
01:00:49,679 --> 01:00:50,280
I almost died.

1140
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:54,119
Speaker 2: I know, my birthday, so good things and bad things,

1141
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:56,000
full circle of life.

1142
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: Well, I wish your happy birthday and you didn't like it,

1143
01:00:59,480 --> 01:00:59,960
but too bad.

1144
01:01:00,159 --> 01:01:01,599
Speaker 2: That's what I do think you.

1145
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:07,159
Speaker 1: Okay, Debbie Amato fifty five days to wed dn'ta do.

1146
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,599
So we're talking head, she says, since the blow up,

1147
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:16,239
Mito has flat out ignored me, and I'm really trying

1148
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,960
to process this in my head and in my heart.

1149
01:01:19,599 --> 01:01:23,079
I love him, but he is showing me who he

1150
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,519
is and it's a big reveal and we can't linger

1151
01:01:26,599 --> 01:01:28,679
in this no talking like, I don't know if there's

1152
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:31,079
anything I can do to make it better. But he's

1153
01:01:31,079 --> 01:01:33,639
emotionally immature and hard to communicate with.

1154
01:01:34,559 --> 01:01:38,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, he goes silent. You can't deal with silent treatment.

1155
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: Why does she feel that there's something she used to fix?

1156
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:46,039
What is it that she did because.

1157
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:48,639
Speaker 2: She did absolutely nothing. But he is somehow convinced that

1158
01:01:48,679 --> 01:01:51,599
he still has the upper hand in this relationship. After

1159
01:01:51,679 --> 01:01:56,000
he screamed at her friends and her at the Haunted House.

1160
01:01:56,079 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 1: It was so rude to her and her friend in

1161
01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:00,280
the car so rude.

1162
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:03,559
Speaker 2: It's all on him, but somehow she's taking part of

1163
01:02:03,599 --> 01:02:04,400
the blame for this.

1164
01:02:06,199 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: So she's vacuuming, and she says, she's like the cameras

1165
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:11,360
are here, so we're gonna talk about what happened the

1166
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:11,840
other day.

1167
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 2: And he goes, why is she vacuuming? And he's sitting

1168
01:02:14,519 --> 01:02:15,159
on his ass.

1169
01:02:15,599 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 1: She's you constantly see her. She's emptying the dishwasher, she's dusty,

1170
01:02:19,079 --> 01:02:22,320
she's vacuuming. He just sits stares at his own headshot.

1171
01:02:24,159 --> 01:02:25,679
So she goes, why don't we go to the lake.

1172
01:02:25,719 --> 01:02:27,280
Let's get out of here. So the drift of the

1173
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:28,719
lake and there in the car and she goes like,

1174
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:30,400
this is kind of weird to be in a car together.

1175
01:02:30,639 --> 01:02:36,320
He's like dead silent. So they sit at the lake

1176
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:39,000
and he says, do you think what happened with me

1177
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:43,960
was right? And she goes, no, it was bad behavior

1178
01:02:44,119 --> 01:02:48,440
across the board, meeting everyone, And he goes, well, no,

1179
01:02:48,599 --> 01:02:51,159
I don't. I don't like to remember it. So it's

1180
01:02:51,199 --> 01:02:54,719
okay because she indicated that he had done something wrong,

1181
01:02:55,119 --> 01:02:57,840
he doesn't want to remember it. Yeah, And she goes, well,

1182
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:00,719
it's not okay. You're very closed off off and I

1183
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:02,760
know this is a conversation you don't want to have,

1184
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:04,679
but we do have to deal with it. We have

1185
01:03:04,719 --> 01:03:09,199
to talk about things. And then he just forlorn forlornly,

1186
01:03:09,519 --> 01:03:13,119
forlornly stares to the lake, and she says, I get

1187
01:03:13,159 --> 01:03:16,280
the feeling. Not the lake, Not the lake, oh no,

1188
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:19,079
the river of the lake. Lake.

1189
01:03:19,719 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 2: Can you imagine Mito at the lake party?

1190
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:25,119
Speaker 1: What if she just went? But his was like, Hi, Hi,

1191
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,280
I didn't know y'all come to the lake.

1192
01:03:29,239 --> 01:03:30,320
Speaker 2: I got a beer funnel.

1193
01:03:31,039 --> 01:03:37,079
Speaker 1: It's shay by bye. So he looks at the lake

1194
01:03:37,119 --> 01:03:40,519
and she says, I get the feeling. You're not happy.

1195
01:03:40,199 --> 01:03:46,760
What was your clue? And he says, he says, I

1196
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:51,360
love my country, my world. To be in your world,

1197
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,159
and I think I deserve a good heart and a

1198
01:03:54,199 --> 01:03:55,519
good person to be with.

1199
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,519
Speaker 2: Then go back home. Were you looking at flights the

1200
01:03:59,559 --> 01:04:02,320
other night? He's weird that you have. I guess all

1201
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:05,039
the airports were shut down. That's every airport able to

1202
01:04:05,119 --> 01:04:07,480
go back. Okay, I didn't hear about it on the news.

1203
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:11,159
Speaker 1: But she says, she says, right, we both deserve that,

1204
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:15,599
and I love you. And then he closes his eyes

1205
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:18,159
as if she has said I'm going to stick a

1206
01:04:18,199 --> 01:04:21,960
hot poker up your cara. Like he closes his eyes

1207
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:26,480
and goes like like she has just stabbed him. When

1208
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:29,559
she says, I love you, and he goes, oh traumatic.

1209
01:04:29,199 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 2: Clid Duckstone obstructions.

1210
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 1: Yes exactly, and he says, you know, I don't like

1211
01:04:35,559 --> 01:04:37,719
for you to tell me that all the time, like

1212
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:40,159
I don't need to talk all the time. I love you,

1213
01:04:40,239 --> 01:04:44,880
I need you. No, no, no, and she goes, I

1214
01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:50,559
know you love me, you wouldn't. This man just flinched

1215
01:04:50,599 --> 01:04:53,039
as if you were tied stones to his ankles and

1216
01:04:53,119 --> 01:04:54,960
about to throw him in that lake and make him

1217
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:58,119
do a beer pong with a shade, like like.

1218
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 2: You don't have to say it your face. He says

1219
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:01,559
it all I know you love me.

1220
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 1: As he's like, oh, she says, I know you love me.

1221
01:05:08,039 --> 01:05:09,800
You wouldn't have done all you did if you didn't.

1222
01:05:10,199 --> 01:05:15,239
You don't say it, but I know it, and he goes, okay, excellent,

1223
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:18,559
very good, and she goes what he goes, you know

1224
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:23,599
you know you say it? Okay, excellent, good, Okay, So

1225
01:05:23,719 --> 01:05:26,840
you're talking head. He's so pissed. He goes, you know,

1226
01:05:27,079 --> 01:05:29,079
if you love someone, you don't say it all the time.

1227
01:05:29,119 --> 01:05:33,920
You should just do something. Just be kindness, be supportive,

1228
01:05:34,239 --> 01:05:37,719
defend me. She doesn't show me that. She shows me

1229
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:40,320
the life, not just no, she shows me the life,

1230
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:44,599
not just love. This woman enrolled you in acting school,

1231
01:05:44,639 --> 01:05:48,039
has taken you in, has flown you across the world,

1232
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:53,000
got a bigger apartment for you. What what do you mean?

1233
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 2: She contradicted you in front of people, and that's bad.

1234
01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:01,920
That's it. That negates all the other stuffy. Also, she's

1235
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,320
not asking you to say it over and over again.

1236
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:08,119
She wants you to say it once before she marries you.

1237
01:06:08,679 --> 01:06:11,320
She wants you to say I love you once once.

1238
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:15,440
Speaker 1: So she says, well, you know, and he says you know.

1239
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:20,079
He says very good, very good, excellent good, I'm glad

1240
01:06:20,119 --> 01:06:23,599
you know it great, and she goes, okay, so you

1241
01:06:23,599 --> 01:06:26,239
know what happened. I don't know what to do to

1242
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:29,679
make sure that doesn't happen again again. It's not up

1243
01:06:29,719 --> 01:06:31,679
to her. It's up to him to control his emotions.

1244
01:06:31,679 --> 01:06:35,280
It's not up to her to constantly be like Danny

1245
01:06:35,559 --> 01:06:38,199
and Nia or Nia is always on the valley trying

1246
01:06:38,239 --> 01:06:40,280
to like, okay, let me just make sure it's okay

1247
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:44,519
so he doesn't blow up. And he goes, I don't

1248
01:06:44,519 --> 01:06:46,719
have a plan, and she's where your plans should be.

1249
01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:49,519
To stay here? Why why do you want him to

1250
01:06:49,519 --> 01:06:49,960
stay there?

1251
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:54,159
Speaker 2: Have you had any fun at all? He's been there,

1252
01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:57,360
not a moment since the sight seeing with the legkings

1253
01:06:57,400 --> 01:07:00,519
and the tank top and the posing on the street.

1254
01:07:00,639 --> 01:07:01,360
Have you had fun?

1255
01:07:01,639 --> 01:07:04,079
Speaker 1: And even then it went to shit because when they

1256
01:07:04,119 --> 01:07:05,679
went to return the thing, then they had a fight.

1257
01:07:06,199 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 2: Yep.

1258
01:07:07,679 --> 01:07:09,679
Speaker 1: She says, well, your plan should be to stay here,

1259
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:12,079
and he goes, it depends on you. You have to

1260
01:07:12,079 --> 01:07:15,119
fix it, and she goes, no, it's not just a

1261
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:17,760
me fixed No no, no, no, no, no, you You're

1262
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:20,800
gonna have to get honest with yourself and with me.

1263
01:07:22,519 --> 01:07:25,360
Talking head, She says, Mino has turned this whole thing

1264
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:29,159
around on me. He won't take accountability on his side.

1265
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:32,000
Ever since he's been here, it's been all about him.

1266
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:35,719
Relationships are about compromise, and he's been single for a

1267
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:37,559
long time and I'm starting to see why.

1268
01:07:38,239 --> 01:07:41,079
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, Debbie, thank you.

1269
01:07:42,559 --> 01:07:46,519
Speaker 1: So get him out of here. So then they go

1270
01:07:46,599 --> 01:07:50,119
back to the apartment and he's looking forlornly out of

1271
01:07:50,199 --> 01:07:54,280
the window and he sadly kicks the socker ball against

1272
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:55,400
the wall, like poor me.

1273
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 2: It's like a teenage boy who has been grounded by

1274
01:07:59,000 --> 01:07:59,400
his mom.

1275
01:07:59,559 --> 01:08:04,519
Speaker 1: One h So the talking head they're sitting together, and

1276
01:08:04,559 --> 01:08:06,480
I didn't realize they were sitting together. They showed her.

1277
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:09,800
I was like, she's in this shot. He says, I

1278
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:13,400
will forgive her, but not forget, and then they pull

1279
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:18,000
her into the shot and she's like like Debbie Downer, Oh.

1280
01:08:18,199 --> 01:08:20,359
Speaker 2: Give her for what or something?

1281
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:24,319
Speaker 1: For what? And he says, it is hard to forget

1282
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:29,159
something like this, but I will continue with her to

1283
01:08:29,199 --> 01:08:30,319
see what's next.

1284
01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:34,520
Speaker 2: And if it accused him of having sex before marriage too,

1285
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:35,800
with that other woman.

1286
01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she said, you can fuck that horror, but

1287
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:39,720
you can't give me compassion.

1288
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 2: That pissed him off too, because he's pretending he's a virgin, right.

1289
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 1: He's well, I think he might be. He might be

1290
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:51,199
a virgin with women, right, if the kara doesn't count,

1291
01:08:51,239 --> 01:08:51,720
he's good.

1292
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 2: Yep.

1293
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:56,199
Speaker 1: So he says, you know, if she does, if it

1294
01:08:56,199 --> 01:08:58,640
continues like this, if it's bad, I will book a

1295
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:01,800
fly back to my country. And so she says, well,

1296
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:04,159
I think it would be foolish to throw away six years.

1297
01:09:04,399 --> 01:09:07,199
And he says love is not enough and sometimes the

1298
01:09:07,239 --> 01:09:12,560
heart changes and people change. But we will see. He's

1299
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:15,600
a manipulative, gaslighting monster. He is.

1300
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 2: See. I think he's a narcissist and a manipulator.

1301
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:22,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, because somehow now she's like, why would we throw

1302
01:09:22,399 --> 01:09:24,960
away the six years when she just said, and her

1303
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:27,039
talking to head like he's pitting the blame on me.

1304
01:09:27,119 --> 01:09:29,840
He's taking no accountability, he's making somehow he's turns it

1305
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:31,199
around like I did something wrong.

1306
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 2: M So her daughter perfect victim to this sort of behavior.

1307
01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:42,039
Speaker 1: Yes, her daughter whose name I cannot remember and I

1308
01:09:42,039 --> 01:09:45,600
didn't write down. She walks in and goes, hey, uh,

1309
01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:48,279
what's going on? You're crazy? Kids? Feels pretty tense in here.

1310
01:09:48,359 --> 01:09:52,199
What's what's going on? And Mito is sitting on the

1311
01:09:52,239 --> 01:09:56,399
couch admiring his own headshots one by one and looks

1312
01:09:56,399 --> 01:09:58,960
at the daughter and goes, look, I don't need I

1313
01:09:59,000 --> 01:09:59,920
just need quiet and rest.

1314
01:10:00,920 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1315
01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:04,680
Speaker 1: And she's like, fuck off, you don't pay rent near

1316
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,920
I mean, you know, she's like, she goes okay, So

1317
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,439
she walks out. So I guess she texts her mom

1318
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:11,800
like you want to get a petticure and get rid

1319
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:16,720
of this loser. Now they go to the most ridiculous

1320
01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:18,279
petticure place I've ever seen in my life.

1321
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:22,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, it did not look comfortable or leisurely.

1322
01:10:23,319 --> 01:10:26,520
Speaker 1: This place is ridiculous. They have port swings hanging from

1323
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:28,039
the ceiling as the petticure chairs.

1324
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 2: No, that's not comfortable.

1325
01:10:30,079 --> 01:10:32,520
Speaker 1: Welcome to the country signs and where you look for

1326
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:36,800
your colors? Above it it said Farmer's market. What are

1327
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:37,159
we doing?

1328
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 2: What?

1329
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:44,399
Speaker 1: What? Okay? So the daughter goes, yeah, this is not

1330
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:46,680
great with me though. He just sits on the couch

1331
01:10:47,079 --> 01:10:50,479
staring at his own headshots. And she goes, yeah, I

1332
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:53,199
don't know. I'm just waiting for like the right moment

1333
01:10:53,319 --> 01:10:55,760
to have an aha moment of what to do. And

1334
01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:59,640
the daughter goes, you have mounting evidence from the couple

1335
01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:03,039
of my he's been here, Like, who cares if you've

1336
01:11:03,039 --> 01:11:05,840
been dating him six years? The clock is ticking. You

1337
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:10,039
need to make a hard choice and quick. And she says,

1338
01:11:10,279 --> 01:11:12,560
what if what happens if you go through with this?

1339
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:15,720
You're legally bound and now it's just going to get worse.

1340
01:11:16,039 --> 01:11:18,279
Now what are you going to do? And don't forget

1341
01:11:18,359 --> 01:11:22,359
now you're responsible for him for ten years financially yep,

1342
01:11:23,159 --> 01:11:26,520
And Debbie goes, I don't know. I just I just

1343
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:28,640
need a couple of things from him. I need a

1344
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,920
formal proposal, and I need him to say I love you,

1345
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:37,239
and the daughter goes, what, And she says, the truth

1346
01:11:37,359 --> 01:11:39,560
always has a way of rising to the surface, and

1347
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,119
I need time. I need time. I'm just not ready

1348
01:11:42,159 --> 01:11:44,159
to get up, give up the.

1349
01:11:44,119 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 2: Fact that he hasn't done those two very simple things

1350
01:11:47,039 --> 01:11:50,680
that are just lip service. Yeah, to go with this

1351
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,800
charade of loving her and wanting when he really just

1352
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:56,960
wants to get to America. Like every other man on

1353
01:11:57,000 --> 01:12:00,560
this show that is scamming. A woman does says I

1354
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:04,199
love Like, remember, how what's this Daniel talk to Lisa?

1355
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,560
It was like, I love you, my beauty, my queen.

1356
01:12:07,199 --> 01:12:10,720
These people are willing to put in the lip surface

1357
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:14,000
of the scamming. He's not even willing to do that. No,

1358
01:12:14,199 --> 01:12:15,880
that's how little he cares about you.

1359
01:12:16,119 --> 01:12:18,319
Speaker 1: He thinks that he's such a cat. She should just

1360
01:12:18,359 --> 01:12:21,319
be hashtag blessed that he's even wanting to be in

1361
01:12:21,359 --> 01:12:24,880
the same apartment with her. So she says, he's never

1362
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:27,720
said I love you, and the daughter goes, yeah, he's

1363
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:30,399
here now, and this is the reality. It's not a

1364
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,439
fairy tale. I hope that you're actually seeing the truth now.

1365
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:35,039
Speaker 2: She's not.

1366
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: I'm talking to Debbie goes. It hasn't quite reached the

1367
01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:40,800
point yet where I'm willing to call it. I need

1368
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:44,119
to see some forward motion from Mito, because I'm really

1369
01:12:44,159 --> 01:12:45,039
not sure if he loves me.

1370
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he doesn't.

1371
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:47,600
Speaker 1: He doesn't.

1372
01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:53,279
Speaker 2: That he doesn't, he doesn't. She needs to learn about

1373
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:57,920
sunk cost fallacy, Like, just do a quick Google search,

1374
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:02,399
just read the AI you know, blurb about it. It's

1375
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:04,000
textbook what you're doing.

1376
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:07,520
Speaker 1: Yes, totally. She's like, well, I just give them three

1377
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:08,199
more days.

1378
01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:11,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've already put in six years. I don't want

1379
01:13:11,079 --> 01:13:11,560
to lose that.

1380
01:13:14,079 --> 01:13:17,319
Speaker 1: She could get on Tender in New Orleans or Silver

1381
01:13:17,399 --> 01:13:19,920
Singles or whatever and find somebody in a heartbeat.

1382
01:13:20,359 --> 01:13:24,640
Speaker 2: She's pretty, she's Cute's got a job, good job, she.

1383
01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 1: Has a cute dog. This apartment, got a Mercedes. Come on, okay,

1384
01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:35,319
let's go on to Thomas and Paula.

1385
01:13:36,199 --> 01:13:39,479
Speaker 2: Oh god, okay. So she has brought the stepmom gifts

1386
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:42,920
at the farm with a tiny suitcase and a note

1387
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:46,560
that says, we are waiting for you at our wedding and.

1388
01:13:46,359 --> 01:13:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm looking for something in here that I could have tiny,

1389
01:13:49,399 --> 01:13:51,520
you know what I mean? Like, do you have something tiny?

1390
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 2: I have? Like a little this is just it it's

1391
01:13:57,079 --> 01:13:58,760
like a fidget thing.

1392
01:13:58,479 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 1: That looks like a tiny roots cube.

1393
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:03,359
Speaker 2: Look, here's here's a tiny remote control for my lights.

1394
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:07,159
Speaker 1: Okay, my hold on, I've got this. Sorry, that's my

1395
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:08,279
right in the camera.

1396
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:12,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, join on video.

1397
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:12,840
Speaker 1: Oh.

1398
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 2: I also have a tiny nail.

1399
01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:20,159
Speaker 1: File like I have Tiny New York City. Adorable look animated,

1400
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:24,960
it's so cute. I have Tiny New York City. I'm

1401
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:28,760
manifesting it. What am I manifesting? Going there for Librofest?

1402
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:30,680
If you didn't get your tickets, it's sold out.

1403
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 2: Sorry go ahead, Sorry, so we warned you. So. Also,

1404
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:39,680
they have a new American gothic farm hero shot that

1405
01:14:40,319 --> 01:14:44,720
hilarious and he's smiling, and I was like, how are

1406
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,800
you on this farm with your allergies? Sir? I thought

1407
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:49,520
your allergies were deadly?

1408
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:52,560
Speaker 1: You know. That's a great point. That's a great point. Now,

1409
01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:55,239
don't listen. Don't come at us perfume allergy people.

1410
01:14:56,079 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 2: I'm sure there are differences, but I know there's a lot.

1411
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:03,359
I have seasonal and like environmental allergies, and a farm

1412
01:15:03,399 --> 01:15:05,640
for me is just horrible.

1413
01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:09,279
Speaker 1: Yeah. So well, his is just perfume, Okay.

1414
01:15:09,039 --> 01:15:13,840
Speaker 2: Hers is his just perfume, not super glue. So Thomas said,

1415
01:15:14,399 --> 01:15:16,880
tells us, we are going to invite them to the wedding,

1416
01:15:17,199 --> 01:15:19,159
but we're also going to tell him that my mom

1417
01:15:19,279 --> 01:15:21,000
is going to be there and they might freak out.

1418
01:15:21,399 --> 01:15:23,479
So they're having a picnic outside. They make her of

1419
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:27,439
a vegan burger. Paula. Paula is wearing a dress for

1420
01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:32,359
some reason, and she's changed like five times and they've

1421
01:15:32,399 --> 01:15:33,600
been there twenty.

1422
01:15:33,319 --> 01:15:35,600
Speaker 1: Minute into all the plaid, and she wants.

1423
01:15:35,399 --> 01:15:42,439
Speaker 2: To get how many dresses for the wedding, like two? Yeah? Also,

1424
01:15:43,319 --> 01:15:48,399
Queen Mary Katie worked at the ghost Haunted House thing

1425
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:51,600
for Halloween one year and she played a ghost. I

1426
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:53,880
can't remember which one, but like a big one and

1427
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:56,880
she won like Ghost of the Week or something. I

1428
01:15:56,880 --> 01:16:01,119
got a certificate because she worked on the Queen as Yeah,

1429
01:16:01,319 --> 01:16:04,399
for one of their Haunted House Halloween things one year.

1430
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:06,159
Speaker 1: So does she know all the ghost stories because I'd

1431
01:16:06,199 --> 01:16:06,640
like to hear her.

1432
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:13,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, mm hmm, okay, yeah, but she'll tell us exactly.

1433
01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:16,920
So they're talking about the wedding and Paula is trying

1434
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:19,600
to manifest her family coming to the wedding, so she's

1435
01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:23,520
bought a lot of miniature people to be like wedding guests,

1436
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:27,520
and she gives it's cute. She gives them the mini

1437
01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:30,520
suitcase with the miniature things in it. The stepmom loves it.

1438
01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,680
She's like, loves the little suitcase. She's like, I love

1439
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:37,760
miniature things, and she's like a tiny pig. I love it.

1440
01:16:38,319 --> 01:16:41,000
And so they asked more about the wedding. It's all

1441
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:42,840
going great. They're like, it's going to be in Long

1442
01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:46,399
Beach and we really want you there. And the dad's like,

1443
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:50,079
who's coming, and Thomas is like, oh, so and so,

1444
01:16:50,079 --> 01:16:53,199
so and so so I did invite mom and stepdad.

1445
01:16:55,039 --> 01:16:58,880
And then things get very tense and the dad tells

1446
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:03,079
us that Thomas and sister were kids when they got divorced,

1447
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:05,840
and we see a photo of Thomas as a kid

1448
01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:08,560
with maybe a pad of butter on his head.

1449
01:17:10,119 --> 01:17:12,399
Speaker 1: Did you see that? I didn't notice that.

1450
01:17:13,399 --> 01:17:16,279
Speaker 2: It was very funny. I didn't understand what was happening.

1451
01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:20,439
I'll try to text it to you, and the mom

1452
01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:24,000
said the mom, it seems we don't get all the details.

1453
01:17:24,119 --> 01:17:30,119
The mom left and has no contact for a long time. Yeah,

1454
01:17:30,159 --> 01:17:32,479
for the rest of their childhood, it seems like, and

1455
01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:34,079
the dad raised the kids.

1456
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:36,720
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I had to assume. I had to

1457
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:40,079
assume when the step mom was so pissed. It was like,

1458
01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:43,039
how dare you know she comes back in their life

1459
01:17:43,039 --> 01:17:45,079
when they're older and I get no credit.

1460
01:17:45,159 --> 01:17:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I texted you the photo. So the dad

1461
01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:53,600
is like, this was so hard raising the kids on

1462
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:55,600
my own. Even the women do it every day. But

1463
01:17:56,119 --> 01:17:58,720
he was is he said it was horrible, and he's

1464
01:17:58,840 --> 01:18:02,000
very he's still very up, and he says to them,

1465
01:18:02,119 --> 01:18:04,159
we'll try to come, but I'm not sure if we're

1466
01:18:04,199 --> 01:18:06,319
gonna be able to make it. And then the stepmom

1467
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,199
is like, yeah, I have a farm hand that would

1468
01:18:09,279 --> 01:18:11,680
need to take over the animals, and I don't know

1469
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:14,239
if I'll be able to come. And Thomas is like

1470
01:18:14,319 --> 01:18:17,520
it wouldn't be complete without you there, and they're like, world,

1471
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:21,680
try Now. Paula is very confused because in her world,

1472
01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:23,840
she's like, this is our wedding. They should of course

1473
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:26,359
come and not worry about the animals. So she's like,

1474
01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:29,920
please come, I will say a prayer and manifest good

1475
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:32,119
things for the pig and the cow and the donkey.

1476
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:36,600
Please come, and the dad tells us. Paula thinks she

1477
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:39,720
knows what should happen, but she might not understand the

1478
01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:44,119
full situation and I will never speak to Thomas's mother

1479
01:18:44,279 --> 01:18:45,079
ever again.

1480
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:49,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be bad with both parents there. It

1481
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:52,960
could kind of ruin the whole thing because Thomas will

1482
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:56,119
be so worried about you know, low up.

1483
01:18:56,359 --> 01:18:59,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the dad is like, well, it's your wedding

1484
01:18:59,479 --> 01:19:01,720
and you two are the most important people that need

1485
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:04,239
to be there, so basically, don't worry about us if

1486
01:19:04,239 --> 01:19:04,840
we're not there.

1487
01:19:05,880 --> 01:19:08,079
Speaker 1: So, I mean, I'm glad that he invited his mom

1488
01:19:08,079 --> 01:19:11,279
and I'm glad for whatever the situation is that they're

1489
01:19:11,319 --> 01:19:14,279
able to have a relationship. Now. Yeah, but that has

1490
01:19:14,359 --> 01:19:16,760
to be hard, as you know, we don't know how

1491
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:19,159
long the stepmom's been the stepmom. And if she feels

1492
01:19:19,159 --> 01:19:22,359
like I completely raise these kids, this woman made my

1493
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:25,600
husband's life hell, then totally, then you can see why

1494
01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:28,079
she's so bitter about it. And while she got so

1495
01:19:28,199 --> 01:19:31,479
pissed with Paula posted all those pictures. But Paula didn't

1496
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:36,000
know that it's not Paula's past a bear. You know. Okay,

1497
01:19:36,119 --> 01:19:41,560
you sent me this picture, let me look at it. No,

1498
01:19:41,800 --> 01:19:44,760
I don't think that's a pat of butter on his hair. Ahead.

1499
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:47,760
I think that. Let me okay, I think it is

1500
01:19:49,079 --> 01:19:51,199
his cowboy hat. It's got like a feather or something.

1501
01:19:52,119 --> 01:19:54,079
I think, oh, okay, I think it's part of the hat.

1502
01:19:54,279 --> 01:19:55,720
But it's funny that you thought it was a pat

1503
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:57,680
of butter. I didn't.

1504
01:19:58,319 --> 01:20:00,199
Speaker 2: Maybe because I can't have butter right now.

1505
01:20:00,239 --> 01:20:05,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe because you're hungry. Okay. Let's sten with Mallory

1506
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:09,439
and rash Sheet and well, when I talked to her,

1507
01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:10,439
she did call him rash it.

1508
01:20:11,640 --> 01:20:15,159
Speaker 2: She did interesting, and I was like, just what you.

1509
01:20:15,079 --> 01:20:16,880
Speaker 1: Guys used to rush Now you're saying rash it and

1510
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:17,920
I was calling him rash sheet.

1511
01:20:18,079 --> 01:20:21,319
Speaker 2: Damn, it's not rush it. Though it's definitely rash sheet.

1512
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:25,119
I don't think that rash it is the way it's pronounced.

1513
01:20:25,119 --> 01:20:27,960
Speaker 1: Well, I did like how she talked about him brading

1514
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:32,159
his mother's hair. I thought it was cute. So got

1515
01:20:32,199 --> 01:20:35,119
lots of nice comments on my interview with her. People

1516
01:20:35,159 --> 01:20:37,319
are some people in the comments going under it and

1517
01:20:37,359 --> 01:20:40,600
saying things like he's a loser, you should nump with

1518
01:20:40,640 --> 01:20:42,039
me on and wants your money. I was like, you know,

1519
01:20:42,199 --> 01:20:42,680
let's don't.

1520
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,560
Speaker 2: Let's just I don't think that's true. But I do

1521
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,960
think he's being an asshole and a lot of is

1522
01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:55,000
I'm always happy with him in this episode, yes, but

1523
01:20:55,560 --> 01:20:58,880
there's a lot of conflicting information on social media because,

1524
01:20:58,880 --> 01:21:01,279
like one person said, they did get married and they

1525
01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:04,520
like saw proof of it. But he's on social media

1526
01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:06,880
in Turkey saying he doesn't have a wife.

1527
01:21:07,479 --> 01:21:11,079
Speaker 1: So I think all that's fake and I think they

1528
01:21:11,079 --> 01:21:13,960
are married. I don't know that for I didn't ask.

1529
01:21:14,079 --> 01:21:15,720
I mean I had a TLC person on the thing

1530
01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:18,560
with me. I didn't ask. This is just my thought

1531
01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:20,479
because I believe in their love and I think that

1532
01:21:20,560 --> 01:21:23,479
they probably did get married. He could just be visiting. Yeah,

1533
01:21:24,279 --> 01:21:27,520
and once again, let's roll the tape when Ray Payne

1534
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:28,880
is wrong at the end of the season.

1535
01:21:29,119 --> 01:21:32,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so most people do get married, so it would

1536
01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:34,680
be truly shocking if they don't get married.

1537
01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:36,560
Speaker 1: It'd be truly shocking if it doesn't work out. As

1538
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:38,239
much as they love each other. But you know, when

1539
01:21:38,239 --> 01:21:41,399
I talked to her, they really only dated like four

1540
01:21:41,439 --> 01:21:43,399
months before they did the visa, and she'd only been

1541
01:21:43,439 --> 01:21:44,319
over there like twice.

1542
01:21:44,760 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1543
01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:48,439
Speaker 1: So it was a little crazy. She had there four

1544
01:21:48,479 --> 01:21:50,239
times total, and the fourth time was when they were

1545
01:21:50,239 --> 01:21:52,000
filming and she picked them up to bring him back.

1546
01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:52,960
Speaker 2: Wow.

1547
01:21:53,239 --> 01:21:56,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was only it was less than a

1548
01:21:56,039 --> 01:22:01,479
two year window, but you know, when you're young. Yeah. Okay,

1549
01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:03,960
So these two were going to a farm league type

1550
01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:06,520
of baseball game in Huntsville. The team was called the

1551
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:10,600
trash Pandas, which is hilarious because Huntsville does have like

1552
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:13,439
a full NASA thing. Like I told her on the interview,

1553
01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:16,720
my friend Juki used to work at like the space camp.

1554
01:22:17,239 --> 01:22:20,439
So it is funny that they would shoot. The town

1555
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:23,760
got to choose the name, and they chose trash Pandas

1556
01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:27,800
instead of rockets. That's funny, which is hilarious.

1557
01:22:28,239 --> 01:22:31,079
Speaker 2: So also I do think that White Trash Party was

1558
01:22:31,279 --> 01:22:35,479
quite tongue in cheek because oh, yeah, there are, like

1559
01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:38,399
you said, NASA, there's lots of really big companies. Yeah

1560
01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:40,960
that people work at that live in that town. So

1561
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:44,199
it's not Hicksville, US, No, it's not.

1562
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,359
Speaker 1: So the team is called trash Pannas and she goes,

1563
01:22:47,399 --> 01:22:49,239
you know, at baseball games when they do them, you know,

1564
01:22:49,319 --> 01:22:52,039
somebody throws out the first pitch, it's like ceremonial, and

1565
01:22:52,039 --> 01:22:53,279
she goes, you know, who's gonna do it?

1566
01:22:53,319 --> 01:22:57,640
Speaker 2: He goes, oh, like it's gonna be some Turkish celebrity

1567
01:22:57,680 --> 01:22:58,439
that he's heard.

1568
01:22:58,279 --> 01:23:02,159
Speaker 1: Of, Kevin Costner, and she goes you. He's like, no,

1569
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:06,600
what is so funny? And then they're talking Eddy. He's like,

1570
01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:10,319
I'm gonna throw it eleven miles. She was like, you're

1571
01:23:10,359 --> 01:23:12,760
gonna throw it? What? And then he keeps like holding

1572
01:23:12,840 --> 01:23:14,239
up his muscle and she's like, I don't know what

1573
01:23:14,279 --> 01:23:18,039
you're saying. So they meet up with Mikayla and her

1574
01:23:18,119 --> 01:23:24,079
husband Wren spelled Ryan Wren and and then Brandon is there,

1575
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:31,399
pan overdoor Brandy. Brandy's there, and the talking head Brandon says, uh,

1576
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:34,720
you know, with Rash, it's been nothing but straight disrespect

1577
01:23:36,039 --> 01:23:39,399
and why even invite me if all he's gonna do

1578
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:43,039
is throw shade my way, Like you know, uh, I'm

1579
01:23:43,039 --> 01:23:46,399
an ally, not an enemy, So I don't know what

1580
01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:48,359
to do about this guy. But if he keeps it up,

1581
01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:51,239
I will be the enemy and he don't want that.

1582
01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:54,920
M So Rash is so excited. He throws out the

1583
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:57,159
first pitch and he's there asking him where he learned

1584
01:23:57,199 --> 01:24:00,000
about baseball, and he says Twilight. So they play base

1585
01:24:00,239 --> 01:24:00,800
on Twilight.

1586
01:24:01,520 --> 01:24:04,680
Speaker 2: They have that slow motion game in the Field.

1587
01:24:05,239 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 1: No, I don't know. I never saw Twilight.

1588
01:24:07,640 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 2: It's funny just because they've aired, like on social media,

1589
01:24:11,119 --> 01:24:14,800
people have put the scene without music, without the dramatic music,

1590
01:24:15,119 --> 01:24:18,800
and it just looks ridiculous because they're just like jumping

1591
01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:22,159
in slow and slow motion and running really fast, but

1592
01:24:22,239 --> 01:24:25,319
it's all like slow. It's very dramatic, but there's no music,

1593
01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:27,279
and you see how stupid it is.

1594
01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:30,319
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I guess in Twilight they played baseball and

1595
01:24:30,319 --> 01:24:33,319
that's where he learned it. Yeah, So they all go

1596
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:37,520
to sit afterwards, and she's gonna sit next to Brandon

1597
01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:39,680
and he's like, no, you can't sit there. I will

1598
01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,520
sit there. She's like what, He goes, you can't sit

1599
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:46,279
by Randon. So she's like, oh god, all right. So

1600
01:24:46,359 --> 01:24:49,560
the national anthem is starting to play and Brandy goes,

1601
01:24:49,600 --> 01:24:53,920
get up. Now. I agree with Rash in this sense

1602
01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:55,720
that Brandon didn't have to say it like that, But

1603
01:24:55,800 --> 01:24:57,600
Rash's being such a dick to him. So what else

1604
01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:01,239
is he gonna Mallory? Was it saying to him stand up.

1605
01:25:01,800 --> 01:25:04,640
Speaker 2: Malloried and stand up either, By the way, I watched it,

1606
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:07,880
like three times she they say please rise for the

1607
01:25:07,960 --> 01:25:12,279
national anthem? She's still sitting. She's still sitting until Brandon

1608
01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:14,880
kicks them, and it's like, get up, get up. Why

1609
01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:16,880
didn't she say something like she.

1610
01:25:16,840 --> 01:25:19,359
Speaker 1: Should have said, oh, this in our culture, this is

1611
01:25:19,359 --> 01:25:21,000
where we stand up. You have to take your hat off,

1612
01:25:21,039 --> 01:25:24,640
you know. Yeah, so this makes it mad and he

1613
01:25:24,720 --> 01:25:27,439
says in Turkish culture. She says, well, I don't know

1614
01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:29,640
why you're mad. In Turkish culture, you guys are so

1615
01:25:30,079 --> 01:25:32,439
proud and you even take this stuff more seriously than

1616
01:25:32,479 --> 01:25:35,640
Americans do. He goes, in Turkish culture, I would have

1617
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,079
politely said, okay, this is a time where we stand

1618
01:25:38,119 --> 01:25:40,199
up and let me explain it to you. You're always

1619
01:25:40,239 --> 01:25:42,039
taking But she didn't do that.

1620
01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:45,880
Speaker 2: Then you haven't been politely talking to Brandon.

1621
01:25:46,079 --> 01:25:50,760
Speaker 1: Wow. And he goes, you're always on brandy side and

1622
01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:53,520
she goes, no, I'm not. He goes, it's breaking my

1623
01:25:53,600 --> 01:25:55,840
heart because you're always on Brandy's side. She's like, oh

1624
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:56,439
my god.

1625
01:25:56,640 --> 01:25:59,159
Speaker 2: He needs to stop saying that that's the new Like,

1626
01:25:59,279 --> 01:26:01,039
I'll go back to it. I go Russia.

1627
01:26:01,279 --> 01:26:05,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. So Mallory and Michaela go to get some beers

1628
01:26:05,399 --> 01:26:08,359
and the guys are all sitting together. So Rashid asked

1629
01:26:08,359 --> 01:26:11,760
the guy's questions about like the game, the game of baseball,

1630
01:26:12,159 --> 01:26:14,039
and Brandon starts to talk and he cuts him off.

1631
01:26:14,039 --> 01:26:16,319
He goes, no, I only want to listen to wren.

1632
01:26:17,359 --> 01:26:20,319
Speaker 2: This is that that he's being such a dick. He's

1633
01:26:20,319 --> 01:26:23,119
being a dick, and brand the fact that Brandon was

1634
01:26:23,159 --> 01:26:26,680
going to explain baseball to him, like was still trying.

1635
01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:31,880
Speaker 1: Still trying, after he'd been so rude. Yeah, So Brandon goes, well,

1636
01:26:31,880 --> 01:26:33,239
if you just want to listen to him, I go

1637
01:26:33,279 --> 01:26:35,159
get a beer. So he goes to get a beer

1638
01:26:35,359 --> 01:26:39,199
and Wrenn says, hey, listen, I've known Brandon a really

1639
01:26:39,239 --> 01:26:41,439
long time and he is my best friend in the

1640
01:26:41,479 --> 01:26:45,880
world and he is a good guy. And Russian goes, okay, okay,

1641
01:26:46,279 --> 01:26:48,239
and he goes, I just want to let him know

1642
01:26:48,520 --> 01:26:56,479
he has no intentions with your wife. Wife wife again again. Oop, Sorry,

1643
01:26:56,479 --> 01:26:58,760
I hit my microphone, and it says, just just give

1644
01:26:58,800 --> 01:27:01,720
him some time and get you'll see the good side

1645
01:27:01,720 --> 01:27:03,319
of him. You just have to give it some time.

1646
01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:07,000
And she says, no, I do not want him to

1647
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:11,279
be friends with me and my wife. This is my

1648
01:27:11,319 --> 01:27:15,199
culture and we don't do this. So Mallory comes and

1649
01:27:15,239 --> 01:27:17,199
she's just being so fun. She's like, here, look it's

1650
01:27:17,199 --> 01:27:19,439
funny because it's a beer and a baseball bat, Like.

1651
01:27:19,399 --> 01:27:25,520
Speaker 2: It's funny, disgusting, it's hot, flat beer. Yeah, in a

1652
01:27:26,159 --> 01:27:29,279
plastic bat with micro plastics.

1653
01:27:29,439 --> 01:27:31,000
Speaker 1: By the time you get to the bottom, it's going

1654
01:27:31,079 --> 01:27:35,399
to be real gross gross. And so she goes, look,

1655
01:27:35,439 --> 01:27:36,760
it's fun and she hits it to him and he.

1656
01:27:36,800 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 2: Goes, also, let's not add alcohol to this already Volatiley graduation.

1657
01:27:42,039 --> 01:27:44,800
Speaker 1: And he goes, I don't want and she goes, oh hell,

1658
01:27:45,359 --> 01:27:47,720
and then she goes, you know you're putting everybody here

1659
01:27:47,760 --> 01:27:51,960
in a difficult position. He goes, I don't care, and

1660
01:27:52,119 --> 01:27:54,279
she goes, okay, so you don't care about me, and

1661
01:27:54,319 --> 01:27:56,479
he goes, I do care about you, but I don't

1662
01:27:56,479 --> 01:28:00,319
want this, and she says, Mikayla and I play this

1663
01:28:00,479 --> 01:28:03,199
whole day, so y'all could squash this beef and hang out.

1664
01:28:03,760 --> 01:28:06,520
And Branda says, yeah, man, I thought, like after the party,

1665
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:10,600
we decided we would have mutual respect and rush. She says, no,

1666
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:13,800
after the party, I told you delete my number, delete

1667
01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:16,079
Mallory's number. I don't want to be friends with you,

1668
01:28:17,680 --> 01:28:20,199
and Brandy goes, well, that's not how it works. And

1669
01:28:20,239 --> 01:28:23,880
that's not your choice to make. And Mallory goes, yeah,

1670
01:28:23,920 --> 01:28:26,359
he's not going anywhere, he's going to be around and

1671
01:28:26,399 --> 01:28:28,960
you need to get over it. And right, she says,

1672
01:28:29,119 --> 01:28:32,319
this is not right in my culture, and so she goes, okay, well,

1673
01:28:32,359 --> 01:28:33,960
then put on your big boy pants and move the

1674
01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:37,880
fuck on. And he says, no, don't say anything else

1675
01:28:38,000 --> 01:28:40,520
because I don't want and I don't want to be

1676
01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:43,720
friends with him. So Brandon goes, I have been straight

1677
01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:46,640
up with you and you have shown me nothing but disrespect.

1678
01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:49,000
And right, she says, for the last time, I will

1679
01:28:49,039 --> 01:28:50,479
say it, I don't want to be friends with you.

1680
01:28:51,439 --> 01:28:54,520
And Brandon then throws his bag of popcorn on the

1681
01:28:54,520 --> 01:28:57,680
ground like towards his feet at him and he goes, oh,

1682
01:28:57,720 --> 01:28:59,800
this conversation is so I'm leaving, I'm dipping, I'm out

1683
01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:00,119
of here.

1684
01:29:00,119 --> 01:29:01,159
Speaker 2: And he leaves.

1685
01:29:02,279 --> 01:29:04,000
Speaker 1: So we're talking to head Rush. She goes, who does

1686
01:29:04,000 --> 01:29:06,520
he think he is? He just has the height and

1687
01:29:06,560 --> 01:29:09,560
that's it. He's trying to lecture me with his tiny brain.

1688
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:13,680
Fuck off. Okay, you Rash, You are being a complete

1689
01:29:13,760 --> 01:29:15,640
dick here and we like you and we think you're key,

1690
01:29:15,960 --> 01:29:22,079
which such an asshole. Yeah, so now right. Valerie looks

1691
01:29:22,079 --> 01:29:23,560
over and goes, are you eating the popcorn that he

1692
01:29:23,600 --> 01:29:25,479
threw at you? And he goes, yeah, it's good.

1693
01:29:26,239 --> 01:29:28,039
Speaker 2: I was fine with that. I was like, that popcorn

1694
01:29:28,079 --> 01:29:29,239
is probably eight dollars.

1695
01:29:29,439 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 1: Yes, so long as he didn't touch the ground, it's fine, delicious.

1696
01:29:33,239 --> 01:29:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1697
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:35,760
Speaker 1: She goes, well, I'm completely embarrassed and I want to go,

1698
01:29:36,119 --> 01:29:39,319
and he goes, all right, So I'm talking to her.

1699
01:29:39,359 --> 01:29:42,479
She goes, I'm annoyed, I'm angry, and I think he's

1700
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:46,239
just pushing Brandon to make Brandon look like the villain.

1701
01:29:47,399 --> 01:29:50,920
So in the car, she goes, I'm not happy with you. You're

1702
01:29:50,479 --> 01:29:53,439
just being a complete dick, Like, why can't you just

1703
01:29:53,479 --> 01:29:55,880
say hey and shake his hand? That's all it has

1704
01:29:55,920 --> 01:29:58,560
to be. What is the issue, and there doesn't have

1705
01:29:58,600 --> 01:30:00,680
to be an issue, And then she's starts it. I'm like,

1706
01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:03,680
I don't have any family here. My friends are my family.

1707
01:30:04,039 --> 01:30:06,760
And when I had the car accident, and he says, baby,

1708
01:30:07,319 --> 01:30:10,239
they are not your family. She says, I am talking,

1709
01:30:11,239 --> 01:30:14,199
she says, and she says, when that car accident happened,

1710
01:30:14,239 --> 01:30:16,520
I only had my friends, and one of my friends

1711
01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:19,920
who stepped a big time was Brandon and he goes, Okay,

1712
01:30:20,039 --> 01:30:22,119
that was then, but I'm here for you now. I'm

1713
01:30:22,119 --> 01:30:24,760
here for you now. She goes, I understand you couldn't

1714
01:30:24,800 --> 01:30:26,560
be here and that wasn't your fault. And she keeps

1715
01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:29,680
trying to talk and he goes he literally like makes

1716
01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:31,760
fun of her, and he goes, wait, are you like this,

1717
01:30:33,319 --> 01:30:36,680
and he goes, listen to me first. Listen to me first.

1718
01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:39,359
If I don't like your friends, you delete for me.

1719
01:30:39,840 --> 01:30:41,359
I deleted my family for you.

1720
01:30:42,279 --> 01:30:46,119
Speaker 2: Now, this is a huge warning. This is like a

1721
01:30:46,159 --> 01:30:49,039
woe man out there. If a man wants to isolate

1722
01:30:49,079 --> 01:30:55,479
you from your support group, bad red flag, red flags,

1723
01:30:55,680 --> 01:30:56,199
red flags.

1724
01:30:56,199 --> 01:30:59,359
Speaker 1: We're waving them. We're waving them. I'm so happy to

1725
01:30:59,399 --> 01:31:01,199
be back at home with my tiny red flag and

1726
01:31:01,199 --> 01:31:03,800
not the one I made out a duct tape. And

1727
01:31:04,840 --> 01:31:08,359
he doesn't quite understand this term because he's saying, you

1728
01:31:08,399 --> 01:31:10,640
can delete your friends for me, I deleted my family

1729
01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:13,439
for you, Like, no, you didn't know.

1730
01:31:13,479 --> 01:31:16,520
Speaker 2: You did leave your whole family for one hundred percent.

1731
01:31:16,800 --> 01:31:18,960
But that doesn't mean it should just be you and

1732
01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:22,279
herror against the world, right, Like her friends can become

1733
01:31:22,359 --> 01:31:24,600
your new friends and your new family.

1734
01:31:24,520 --> 01:31:26,760
Speaker 1: And you can also make other friends then you can

1735
01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:29,279
make other friends, and then they can become her friends,

1736
01:31:29,359 --> 01:31:31,920
you know, m hm. And she goes, okay, you didn't

1737
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:35,560
delete your family, and he goes, I'm here for you,

1738
01:31:35,640 --> 01:31:38,520
So what do you think I'm here for you? So

1739
01:31:38,720 --> 01:31:41,840
talking head Mallory goes, this is terrifying. We're supposed to

1740
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:43,880
get married in two months. This is not the man

1741
01:31:43,920 --> 01:31:46,079
I fell in love with. I did not sign up

1742
01:31:46,079 --> 01:31:49,359
for a man who was possessive and controlling. Maybe it

1743
01:31:49,439 --> 01:31:51,800
is a culture thing, and he did give up his

1744
01:31:51,960 --> 01:31:54,760
entire world to be with me. But on the other hand,

1745
01:31:54,840 --> 01:31:59,119
we're in America and I'm an American and I'm not

1746
01:31:59,159 --> 01:32:03,359
putting up with this. Yeah, So he goes, what do

1747
01:32:03,399 --> 01:32:05,199
you want? So what do you want? And she goes,

1748
01:32:05,239 --> 01:32:08,479
I want you to apologize to him. This is ridiculous

1749
01:32:08,560 --> 01:32:11,000
at this point. It doesn't matter what happened in the past.

1750
01:32:11,159 --> 01:32:16,039
You're just being a dick to him now. And he goes, really, really,

1751
01:32:16,039 --> 01:32:18,359
you're breaking my heart with this. And so then they

1752
01:32:18,399 --> 01:32:20,239
walk in the front door and she just like slams

1753
01:32:20,279 --> 01:32:23,119
the door like he goes, bye, slams the door in

1754
01:32:23,119 --> 01:32:27,640
his days. So I'm talking, Eddie says, she really broke

1755
01:32:27,680 --> 01:32:31,239
my heart first with this contract, the pre nap, and

1756
01:32:31,319 --> 01:32:35,119
now with Brandy and I am the husband. You have

1757
01:32:35,199 --> 01:32:39,319
to take my side. So obviously next week something else happened,

1758
01:32:39,319 --> 01:32:40,239
so it's gonna be okay.

1759
01:32:40,319 --> 01:32:42,560
Speaker 2: But next week looks very fun.

1760
01:32:42,760 --> 01:32:43,079
Speaker 1: It does.

1761
01:32:43,119 --> 01:32:45,319
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm excited next time.

1762
01:32:45,399 --> 01:32:49,359
Speaker 1: On Edward and Marissa are having drinks at someone's house

1763
01:32:49,600 --> 01:32:52,560
and he Edward says to the guys, okay, so what

1764
01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:53,920
do you do for a job, And the one guy

1765
01:32:53,920 --> 01:32:56,880
goes on, but You'm in finance, and the other one says,

1766
01:32:56,920 --> 01:33:00,119
I'm an insurance broker, and talking to Eddie goes, these

1767
01:33:00,159 --> 01:33:01,800
are the kind of people I would take care of

1768
01:33:01,840 --> 01:33:06,000
the hotel, and now I'm hanging out with them. It's crazy,

1769
01:33:06,439 --> 01:33:07,920
But I mean, she's the kind of person you would

1770
01:33:07,920 --> 01:33:10,039
take care of a hotel, and you did take care

1771
01:33:10,079 --> 01:33:12,960
of her at the hotel, and one you banged her

1772
01:33:13,000 --> 01:33:16,319
and then you banged her. So Marissa says to her friends,

1773
01:33:16,359 --> 01:33:18,560
I feel like I'm losing myself and what should I do?

1774
01:33:19,159 --> 01:33:21,520
And the one friend goes, this is the Marissa I know,

1775
01:33:23,000 --> 01:33:27,520
all right, Okay, Annabel goes to church and is real judgy.

1776
01:33:27,640 --> 01:33:30,359
She didn't like it. She's making fun of it. She's like, yeah,

1777
01:33:30,439 --> 01:33:32,159
we're gonna clap, We're gonna see what are we doing?

1778
01:33:32,279 --> 01:33:35,760
This is where we're standing. I hate this. And then

1779
01:33:35,800 --> 01:33:39,800
they're outside and Alison goes, well, I'm not changing churches

1780
01:33:39,880 --> 01:33:42,359
just because she wants to, and then Annabel tells Alison,

1781
01:33:42,640 --> 01:33:46,399
once again, you act like a spoiled brat. It's not

1782
01:33:46,439 --> 01:33:50,479
gonna go over well. Asha calls her brother cousin, the

1783
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:53,840
guy that we met before, huh, and she goes, well,

1784
01:33:53,880 --> 01:33:56,000
we decided we're gonna go ahead and get married. And

1785
01:33:56,000 --> 01:34:00,520
he says, bitch, you crazy, and she goes being very

1786
01:34:00,560 --> 01:34:02,920
disrespectful and he goes, bitch, are you crazy? Are you

1787
01:34:02,960 --> 01:34:07,520
pregnant or something or what? So then I think that's

1788
01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:08,920
a red hair match.

1789
01:34:08,760 --> 01:34:11,640
Speaker 2: Shirk take out. Yeah, I'm not sure, fake out, because

1790
01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:14,079
she gives a look like, oh no, he knows that

1791
01:34:14,119 --> 01:34:14,760
I'm pregnant.

1792
01:34:15,239 --> 01:34:18,800
Speaker 1: He could tell by my face. Now we see Mallory

1793
01:34:18,920 --> 01:34:23,399
and her friends altogether, same group. Brandon's there, and she says,

1794
01:34:23,399 --> 01:34:26,159
maybe y'all can help. Raw shen't understand I want a

1795
01:34:26,239 --> 01:34:30,119
prenup and Michaela goes, I'm the one who actually suggested it,

1796
01:34:30,760 --> 01:34:36,039
and Brandon said. Brandon says, did you ever take into consideration.

1797
01:34:36,119 --> 01:34:38,840
He packed up his whole life and moved here. And

1798
01:34:38,920 --> 01:34:41,720
Rynn says, he has put everything he has into you.

1799
01:34:41,920 --> 01:34:43,800
Why not do the same and put everything you have

1800
01:34:43,920 --> 01:34:46,039
into him?

1801
01:34:46,279 --> 01:34:48,760
Speaker 2: And Rash is like, hmmm, I.

1802
01:34:48,840 --> 01:34:50,399
Speaker 1: Just like maybe these guys are something.

1803
01:34:51,079 --> 01:34:55,039
Speaker 2: Brandy has my side interesting. Maybe I'll call him Brandon

1804
01:34:55,119 --> 01:34:55,720
from now on.

1805
01:34:56,039 --> 01:34:58,680
Speaker 1: And this man with the tiny breen seems to have

1806
01:34:58,760 --> 01:35:03,960
some been good thoughts. Mmmmm ah God. Then Devi tells

1807
01:35:03,960 --> 01:35:06,800
me too. She has a surprise for him. She takes

1808
01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:08,960
him to a little chapel and says, what do you

1809
01:35:09,039 --> 01:35:11,359
think it's a place where you can get married? Because

1810
01:35:11,359 --> 01:35:13,439
I think that I think they are coming down to

1811
01:35:13,600 --> 01:35:18,039
like the last ten days. Yeah, and he goes, I

1812
01:35:18,079 --> 01:35:20,119
think he looks tired.

1813
01:35:20,359 --> 01:35:21,760
Speaker 2: When he sees that it's a chapel.

1814
01:35:21,960 --> 01:35:25,479
Speaker 1: He goes like this, He goes, I think it is

1815
01:35:25,520 --> 01:35:29,399
time to go home to my country. And then she

1816
01:35:29,479 --> 01:35:32,920
goes outside and falls to her knees crying. Wow.

1817
01:35:33,319 --> 01:35:35,039
Speaker 2: I wonder if it was like a test, like I'm

1818
01:35:35,039 --> 01:35:37,119
going to take him to this chapel where really, this

1819
01:35:37,279 --> 01:35:39,520
is a time to prove it to me. Are you

1820
01:35:39,560 --> 01:35:41,359
here for me to get married or not?

1821
01:35:42,359 --> 01:35:44,279
Speaker 1: Or maybe She's like, I'm gonna take in this chapel

1822
01:35:44,319 --> 01:35:46,359
make him marry me because in the vows it says love,

1823
01:35:46,399 --> 01:35:50,159
and that'll be my chance exactly because she's already said

1824
01:35:50,399 --> 01:35:52,239
she wants a real proposal and a ring and he's

1825
01:35:52,279 --> 01:35:53,319
clearly not doing that.

1826
01:35:53,840 --> 01:36:00,119
Speaker 2: No, they're giving Danielle and Mohammed read.

1827
01:36:00,479 --> 01:36:03,279
Speaker 1: We were when he was like, yiss her because it's all.

1828
01:36:03,359 --> 01:36:06,319
Speaker 2: Better, and yeah, yeah he couldn't. It's rama, don I

1829
01:36:06,359 --> 01:36:06,960
can't kiss you.

1830
01:36:07,079 --> 01:36:11,159
Speaker 1: I can't kiss you, so so high to the marriage.

1831
01:36:11,319 --> 01:36:13,880
Speaker 2: Now during this ceremony in front of your friend.

1832
01:36:13,960 --> 01:36:16,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Now that's it. Now. I don't know

1833
01:36:17,039 --> 01:36:18,840
if you have a Kimberly's Corner because I don't know

1834
01:36:19,359 --> 01:36:20,079
if I don't.

1835
01:36:20,119 --> 01:36:22,239
Speaker 2: But I don't really have time. I have to run

1836
01:36:22,279 --> 01:36:24,399
to a doctor's appointment a follow up.

1837
01:36:25,119 --> 01:36:28,119
Speaker 1: Okay, well here's what I will tell you. Yeah, when

1838
01:36:28,199 --> 01:36:30,920
we record for Last Resort, which comes out on Friday's

1839
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:34,279
on the Prime Feed, guys, five dollars a month, four episodes,

1840
01:36:36,159 --> 01:36:38,199
there's going to be a surprise for you for Kimberly's Corner.

1841
01:36:38,760 --> 01:36:40,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so excited.

1842
01:36:40,079 --> 01:36:43,760
Speaker 1: Everybody tune in. Kimberly's Corner is going to have it's

1843
01:36:43,800 --> 01:36:45,920
going to be it's a it's a it's a surprise.

1844
01:36:45,960 --> 01:36:47,239
I'll just say that. I don't want to say anything.

1845
01:36:47,239 --> 01:36:51,159
I can only give it away everybody that's it. Kimberly

1846
01:36:51,199 --> 01:36:53,840
and Katie have a podcast it's called A Date with Dateline.

1847
01:36:53,960 --> 01:36:56,920
I watched whatever Dateline was on Friday about the bluegrass

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something something. Are you guys can bring that? Yes, he

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has a short one. It was only like an hour.

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Speaker 2: I know they're putting the summer ones on now, but.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I always watch so that I can listen, and

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then I like to listen to Talking Dateline as well.

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Speaker 2: And so we had an interview with Josh Mekoitz.

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Speaker 1: Listened and watched all the clips.

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Speaker 2: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 1: It was really good. So guys, go subscribe to Kimberly

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and Katie on YouTube A Date with Kay and Kay

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subscribe to me as well Pink Shade Pod. You can

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watch this episode there, and you can watch the interview

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with Josh ma Koitz. There was really good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, I forgot sailed it.

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Speaker 1: You nailed it. Make sure you're following us on social

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media at Date Dateline, at peak Shade Pod and we

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will see you this weekend to talk about last resorts. Okay,

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bye bye,