Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, walk into pink shade. It's Tuesday. It's DLC Tuesday. Yes,
who's back, back, back again, Jimmy's back. Tell your friends, Hey, Kimberly,
I'm happy to have you back.
Speaker 2: Hello. Don't ever call me Kimmy.
Speaker 1: The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.
Speaker 2: No, No, I don't like it. Kimmy Gibbler on Full House.
I sometimes as a kid, and I didn't not like it.
Speaker 1: I get it, I get it. I wouldn't like that either.
I hear you, now, I hear you. I respect you.
Listen my office. I'm at my house now in Virginia,
and I haven't been here in a month, So I
don't know if anybody's opened the door to my office
in a month, because I walked in here and I
was like, oh, so no air has been flowing through
this room.
Speaker 2: So can it smell?
Speaker 1: No, it just smells a little like nobody's opened the
door for a month, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the respector's face, So I guess, or the day.
Speaker 1: I don't want the dogs to come in here to
eat all my Poshmark stuff. So I've got a candle
lit and I go a little fan going, and so we'll
see what's happening. But you're back and people were asking
where you were? Would you want asked?
Speaker 2: You had great guest people, and no one cared.
Speaker 1: I had great guests. But that doesn't mean people didn't
want to know where you were.
Speaker 2: Oh well that's night. They're just more really curious.
Speaker 1: Well yes, always so tell the people where you were.
Speaker 2: I had a medical thing happened. I almost died. It
was just as exciting as Mary Payne's almost dead. Yeah, no,
it wasn't, damn it.
Speaker 1: It was pretty serious.
Speaker 2: It was pretty serious, but not like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you would have given it another week,
who knows.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, And I almost did, just for the story,
just so I could get some merry pain sympathy for
she almost died. Yeah. I had a bad liver number
like twenty five times higher than it's supposed to be
and very dangerous to be that high, like unheard of
to be that high, crazy, No one had ever heard
of a number that high.
Speaker 1: And so literally any medical professional you spoke to was like, well,
that can't be right, that's not possible. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I got some like a abdomen cte MRI thing,
and I had bile duct stone obstructions which can get
cause like infection and sepsis and stuff if they're not
treated right away. Yeah, So that was in the hospital
for four days. They took out the obstructions and they
took out my gallbladder the next day and they cut
my cara. So thank you for talking about my karra
on the show A friend that I was the friend
with the butthole that was cut because they need to
get out these bile ductstones. So but I'm doing so
much better, and thank you. I My insides were like
how Shay's outsides look. But now look at me. I'm
thriving and I just have a bunch of incisions that
are still healing and stuff, and.
Speaker 1: Here you are.
Speaker 2: But I'm so excited to be back. Yeah, what's Shaye's excuse?
Because look at that man who looks like death and
I my liver was in bad shape. And look at me.
I look, I look great, I'm glowing, and this man
looks like he's dying of dysentery.
Speaker 1: He does, but you don't drink, and he does, and
that's yeah.
Speaker 2: And my river was failing and I don't drink. That's
what's crazy. This man is eighty years old, drinking out
of a beer funnel. No, I'm so excited. Thank you
for covering for me. You had some amazing guests. I
listened to all the episodes, loved them. Bring me in
these people full time.
Speaker 1: You should kick me off because they're great. That's that's
always your concern. And I don't know. I don't know
where that comes from. It's some sort of deep rooted
fear of rejection. I don't know, but like you're literally
in the hospital saying things like, please don't replace me.
Speaker 2: Please. Matt already has a show.
Speaker 1: So does Chris Fira, so does so does Kim.
Speaker 2: They can't do another show. I mean, I have another show,
but true, it's fine. But anyway, thank you for your concern.
I am. I'm so excited to be back and I'm
ra going to go with these people.
Speaker 1: All right, But you feel better, like because you were
not feeling good, like the week before that. It might
be two weeks you were not feeling well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was not feeling well and I'm still feeling
a little sore, but I'm feeling much better. My numbers
are still quite high, like five times higher than what
they should be, but they're coming down slowly.
Speaker 1: Okay, good, good, because everything probably has to kind of
get back regulated.
Speaker 2: Yes, and my body has to learn how to not
have a gallbledder and things like that.
Speaker 1: So welcome to the club. Welcome to the no gallbladder club.
We welcome off.
Speaker 2: No one needs one. If you have one, you're a loser.
Gobbletters are so nineties.
Speaker 1: Do you have an appendix?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: I do too. I'm still hanging on to my appendix
that hasn't gone out. I mean, yeah, but I'm sure
it's next. Well, we're very glad to see you, and
I'm very glad that you're back, and I'm glad that
you're doing okay, and I you are. You are a
famously very private person. So I just said you had
a medical issue that you were dealing with, and I
thought she has to tell it. She could tell it,
or I'll just stick with that. I don't know. I
don't know.
Speaker 2: Just say you have a friend with a Kara issue.
Speaker 1: Right, I mean, it could be anybody. It could have
been my friend Mary, it could have been my friend Whitney.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Lots of people have Carara issues, by the way,
Yeah they do, right that we do that that she
does not deserve that, this sort of shaming that we
call a body.
Speaker 1: Part, but you knew what it was right away.
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.
Speaker 1: So we have a new ad, not this week, but
it's coming up for to SPA Days And I was like,
what a perfect sponsor, right, Like, what a perfect sponsor
for this show in particularly because people are so obsessed
with their bidets. They are, and they're going to send
me a T shirt because they asked a T shirts
eyes that says, ask me about my butthole. Stop, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I send it to Kara.
Speaker 1: No, she doesn't need anybody to ask.
Speaker 2: Are they going to send you a bidet? Yeah? Stop,
I'm excited for you. Yeah, I've never used one. I
I'm very curious. High praise.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: The days are in fashion largely because of the show.
I feel like in this country.
Speaker 1: I think so too.
Speaker 2: The Learning Channel.
Speaker 1: The learning Channel, by the way, somebody sent me something
and I think I'm going to read it when we
get to Katie and Josh. But did somebody else send
me something else that was learning? And every time they
send it things to me, I go, oh my god,
thank you TLC Learning.
Speaker 2: I do feel like I learn.
Speaker 1: Oh, you learn a lot because you watch all the shows.
Speaker 2: I do, and I feel like like I sometimes I'll
just know a country and then I don't know geography.
But I'm like, I know that because of a ninety Day,
or I know that because thank you a lot.
Speaker 1: I told you when we did Bingo at the Beach.
There were some things that I knew because of the ninety
Day about countries. Now, did I know the flag that
has a shipwreck on it? No, but now I know
it's Bermuda. I We'll get that same question again. So
all right, let's let me pull up my notes here
because I had to quickly change computers because of just
technical issues with that other one. Because it's the big
expensive computer, so of course it's the one that's decided
maybe it doesn't want to work. But I've got the
little one, my baby Mac, and she's she's home and along.
So ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, episode ten, I'm questioning everything.
I mean, that should just be this hole in her show.
Speaker 2: That should be the name of the show is ninety
Fiance colon. I'm questioning everything.
Speaker 1: Yes, not to bring up a bad subject about the colon,
but yes, by the way, your car is okay though.
Speaker 2: Right, oh, yeah, it's fine, Okas, I don't even feel
that part of it. Okay, she's part of the procedure
to get out the obstructions. I guess they don't fit naturally,
Like how big were they?
Speaker 1: I don't know it normally. I don't know.
Speaker 2: That can't be right.
Speaker 1: When I told Ingrid that you had a bio duct obstruction,
she was like, oh my god, that's so serious. I
was like, wait what, and then I got panicked. I
go Then I started looking it up and I was like, okay,
I got to stop. Okay, Yeah, Katie and Josh is
who we're going to start with. But let me read
you really quickly what a listener sent me. Her name
is Ray and like the girl that sings, I would
like a ringing yes, like it spelled like that. So hi, MP,
I'm watching the latest ninety day episode. I'm sure you've
gotten a ton of messages from fellow listeners, but I
wanted to offer a perspective on Katie. I. By the way,
Ray gave me her permission. I asked her, I am
diagnosed with OCD and I'm so disappointed that she's simultaneously
misrepresenting what OCD is and using it as justification for
her impulsive behavior. OCD is so misunderstood. It's traditionally been
seen as the cleaning disease, and while contamination type OCD
is real, I have somebody in my family that has that.
That's like obsessed with clean. Is so much more complex
than that. It's also ego dystonic. Ego dystonic, meaning the
intrusive thoughts someone has are actually the opposite of what
their core values are. So people with OCD are terrified
of accidentally or impulsively acting on their thoughts. I see,
I didn't know that. That's interesting. I don't want to
totally invalidate her experience. She's been in treatment, but I
highly suspect there are other diagnoses here at play here,
and or an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. You think sorry,
I wrote a novel, just wanted to share my experience
of what it's like to have OCD and watch this season.
Thank you, Ray. I think that this is super interesting
that she says, your intrusive thoughts are opposite of what
your values are, So I think that's really really interesting.
I didn't know that.
Speaker 2: I think that's part of it, but we'll get to it.
But I also think she is very conflicted Katie because
she does not want to settle down yea, and so
she is self sabotaging a lot of this.
Speaker 1: Yea.
Speaker 2: She does not want to marry him, so part of her,
I think does want to live and drink and make
out and do that. But then when she tries to
buckle down and say I'm not going to do this,
her thoughts patterns go in a cycle and make her
want to do it even more. It's like if you
have a fear of heights and you stand on like
a balcony your skin that your body just might jump,
Like I think that's it's and it's very scary, and
you don't want to jump. You're scared of heights. Yeah,
you feel like your body might just do it and
you can't stop it, and you're scared that happens.
Speaker 1: That's interesting because I am scared of heights and that's
how I feel. I feel like, well, this one is
gonna crack and I'm gonna fall through, you know, mm
hmm yeah.
Speaker 2: Or like you get in your head like I'm in
if you're in like church or temple, and you are like,
what if I just yelled out something right now? I
shouldn't do it. Oh my god, what if I do it?
What if my body just does it like that?
Speaker 1: I've never had that thought.
Speaker 2: That's thought that I've had. So yeah, I think, But
I think there's a plethora, a constellation of ailments going on,
like with Shae, also with Katee. But up here in
the noggin.
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Speaker 2: Oh god, we're starting with these, Yeah, we're starting with them.
Yeah yeah, yeah, oh god. Okay, let me get my
notes because I just don't like talking about them. So oh,
I was like kind of hoping they would be off
the show. I didn't really have anything wrong with me.
I was just hiding out. I was just trying to
wait out their time on the show.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So I did like what Kim from Craig Kray said
about Katie not having enough shame. I thought that was
so spot on and she and I because I say
it all the time about society, like people in society
now because of social media, because of reality shows, like
and people on the Internet just trying to become famous,
like no one has enough shame, Like like people would
rather be the villain of a reality show than not
be on a reality show, like oh they get the
villain edit because they're on TV or I'm on social media.
I went viral because I blew off my left testicle
doing fireworks. But at least I went viral even though
I was, even though my parents lie and say they
don't have any children because they're so embarrassed of me.
Speaker 1: That's a great point. I forgot Kim made that point,
but you're right. You're completely right on that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: There's a woman on last season of Below Deck, which
is now like love Island on a boat. It's just
like trashy hookups all the time now, and it used
to be about people working at their job.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: She on the first night out with her new coworkers said, oh,
on my last charter, I left the boat with three
STDs and she was laughing and bragging about it. Ew
because that's what her online persona was going to be,
like the party girl.
Speaker 1: At the party grade STDs.
Speaker 2: Yeah, ragging about it.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's cute, now, mother, My mother would
be horrif exactly.
Speaker 2: So, Katie is going on a run with her friend Ryan,
and she is just shockingly inflexible and has no balance
for someone who claims to be a runner and is
in their twenties. She couldn't even touch her knees bending
over it.
Speaker 1: She's so can you. I don't understand people to get
so hungover and then decide to exercise.
Speaker 2: No, I think that's a weird cycle that has to
do with the drinking cycle, and maybe some body issues too,
an exercise compulsion that's like a punishment after you drink
or overeat. I think there might be some of that
in play too, because this woman looks horrible like her face.
It looks like what SHA's insides and mine were recently,
like like if the liver disease, going to jail, losing
your job, breaking up your marriage, all of those negative
side effects of drinking. Don't turn you off. Katie's face
should and shase you, guys.
Speaker 1: Kimberly's back and at date dateline is where you can
DM or any comments.
Speaker 2: She has no color, No, she has bags under her eyes.
She looks like death, and she's like, let's go on
a run. So also, Shae is Katie's future. If she
keeps up that look in the mirror, Katie, you are
going to turn into Shae. It's gonna be one of
those that you look in the mirror and a different
reflection comes back at you and it's Shae and Anna
Bell's behind him, like, stop drinking, Katie, Katie, you don't
want to look like my man. So she says, I'm
worried that Josh is reaching his breaking point and won't
want to be with me if I keep acting like
I'm acting. Yeah, I think that's why she's acting like that.
I think because she does not want to marry him.
Speaker 1: I think sabotage.
Speaker 2: Yes, I think it's or just.
Speaker 1: Sabotage, because it's just not even self sabotaged to sabotage.
She's trying to sabotage it because she's doing that instead
of taking any accountability, she's just going to sabotage it
to be like, well, yeah, I'm a fuck up. So
that's why he left me. But that's what she wanted
instead of like saying to him, I don't want to
do this.
Speaker 2: And she did say last week or a few weeks ago,
I didn't want to do this. K one Right now,
I know, I mean.
Speaker 1: Whether why they're still there, I don't know. He's just
constantly posting on Instagram.
Speaker 2: So she explains, I tell myself to make out, to
not make out with people, and then I tell myself
stop obsessing over these thoughts. Then I sort of relax,
and then I make out with people. So it's a
weird vicious cycle. And she says, I need to control
my drinking. Finally, finally it's brought up. Finally ten Yeah.
So and then Ryan says, I'm worried about your relationship
with alcohol, and she goes, why why.
Speaker 1: She doesn't feel good? She can't. Her synapses are not
going together in her brain. It's not it's it's terrible.
She looks terrible, she feels terrible.
Speaker 2: Oh girl, Okay, and again, and we do think there
are multiple things. There are multiple isms going on. One
might be I suspect autism or aspergers, and one is alcoholism.
So there are so many isms going on right now,
and at least one of them is finally being addressed.
So he says, you know, you can be very fun
and chill, but drunk Katie does things that sober Katie regrets,
and all of your friends regret because you physically assault them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's all last week where two of her
friends had their hands just fully on her face, fully,
two different guys putting their whole hand directly on her face.
Speaker 2: And again, if the roles were reversed, and this was
a man trying to do this to a woman.
Speaker 1: He would be kicked off the TV.
Speaker 2: I mean, well not this show, not this show, but
other shows.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So he says, you know a lot of the drama
in your life comes from alcohol, and you keep doing it.
So Ryan tells us he's concerned that Katie is self
destructing her happiness. Yes, Katie says, well, you know, Josh
told me this morning that he was disappointed in me,
and it made me feel very sad and bad and bad.
And she's worried that she's going to ruin her life.
And he says, do you think Josh will actually leave you?
And she's like, I think I'm pushing the limit. And
he says, why do you think Josh keeps forgiving you?
Because no one else would with it.
Speaker 1: America is not just so much more wonderful than England
that he's like trying to get here. He could visit
at any time. We have an open door policy with England.
Speaker 2: You know, some people on Reddit suggested he has a kink,
like a shame kink, you know, like likes to be humiliated.
Speaker 1: Okay, and now I know if you heard of that, Yeah,
but that's a no.
Speaker 2: But that's when people are like, is he just really
actually into this because he feels like he's not worthy
of it. So he likes being humiliated in public and
being cuckolded constantly. No, I don't think that's what that's happening,
So she says, I think he thinks I'll be a
good partner long term? Does he?
Speaker 1: Does he want?
Speaker 2: But he's overlooking my past behavior and your current behavior.
Speaker 1: Yesterday's behavior as well. Yes, and probably tonight's probably tonight
if luck comes her way, probably tonight. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And that actually I did some you were talking with
somebody about how she's not that great when she drinks,
and she's also not that great when she's sober, and
because she's kind of mean to him, like about the
money spending. Yeah, I think she's constantly in a state
of being hungover, which makes you angry. She's like a
and if she goes one day without drinking, I think
she's like a dried drunk, like that sort of anger.
That is, you have all the you're not drunk, but
you have all the you.
Speaker 1: Know, behaviors of a drunk. Yes, I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So she's never just one hundred percent clear headed
without either being drunk or being reacting from being without alcohol.
Speaker 1: I get all that is correct.
Speaker 2: Yes, So she's worried that Josh will stop and he
won't have he'll have had enough and he'll leave her.
And because of her OCD, the fear is torturing her
instead of taking steps to fix it. So it's that
just kind of an ADHD thing too, Like it's the
task of fixing it is so overwhelming, So she just
sits and stews in the fear of him leaving her.
So you do not right, Yeah, So she says it
would break her heart if he leaves her, and she
loves him, she doesn't want to mess it up. Okay,
she doesn't treat him like she loves him. But Ryan says,
I know you're on the clock to get married the
ninety days, but maybe you shouldn't be. And she says,
I agree. Realistically we should not be getting married right now,
but we have to if we're doing this. And she
says she's torn between settling down and being young and
having fun and one second she'll she'll in one second
she'll flip between wanting to marry him and then thinking,
if we get married, will be miserable.
Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting that Kim Cray when she was on.
She pointed out that everybody gets married on the OG
ninety days. She's like, they almost always get me all
the time. My dad she's like, I'm sure they get married.
I was like, it's crazy that we're twelve seasons in
and I'm still like, do you think they're going to
get married? She was right also.
Speaker 2: Because we fall for it every My dad was like,
they're not going to get married. They're not going to
get married. I was like, if we did the stats,
ninety nine percent of the people get married. They might
get divorced later, but we we see a wedding, which
makes you think these issues are fabricated for this show. Yes,
people really want to come to America or willing to
overlook horrible things in their relationships. Yeah, a meto.
Speaker 1: I mean when I was watching them this week, I
was like, I can't wait to this reunion. I hope
everybody just rips them a new one.
Speaker 2: I know. I hope he wears leggings to the reunion.
Speaker 1: And a tank top. I hope everybody listened to my
interview with Mallory so cute.
Speaker 2: She's so how fun is she?
Speaker 1: She's so fun? I could have talked to her all day.
Speaker 2: I know you guys felt like like you're just Southern
gals having.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's really really cute. She really loves her a
medical coding career, which I liked that. She was like,
she's very into it. And you know, the dogs were
just you could hear the little nails like all.
Speaker 2: Over the floor.
Speaker 1: I was like, how many dogs do you have in there?
Like twelve? She was like it feels like it. Yeah,
So okay, let's move on to Asha and Maxwell. All Right,
this is a great episode because I get to speak
in tongue, So everybody to get ready for that. Asia's mom, Juliette.
I don't know what I have. Every time she comes out.
She doesn't look like a Juliette to me. No, so
I'll just keep writing it down. So yeah, Asia's mom Juliette,
and Maxwell's family Maria Clement and Blaze. Well Blaze is Adariot,
but their shit talking about Asia's age. Right, That's where
we come in because Maria Blaze has just come in
and Maria says to Blaze, do you know something that
mama just told me? What did you know? Asha is
one hundred and forty.
Speaker 2: Six years old.
Speaker 1: And Blaize goes what she says, yes, thirty eight, and
she goes, what huh? She says, well, she's way older than.
Speaker 2: They're like, where where is her wheelchair?
Speaker 1: She can't?
Speaker 2: Where are those dentures? My god? She doesn't even smell
like hard candy and mouthfalls.
Speaker 1: She needs to get her her testrascerone pellette in her
ass right away.
Speaker 2: Asting like I wish when they When she walks in later, Asia,
they had gotten up and like guided her to seat here,
let me help.
Speaker 1: You now, Juliet Asia's mom is sitting there just drinking
her wine, like, well she's old, all right, thirty eight?
Speaker 2: Whoa and did all this?
Speaker 1: It's so funny. She started the whole thing. She didn't care,
so the talking had. Blaze uses a Rachel Zoe line
from Real House as the Beverly Hills. She goes, is Maxwell, okay,
that's hilarious. She goes that age difference is too much.
I thought I thought they were joking. Surely she's not
thirty eight. So then Asia and Maxwell come in and
a She's like, okay, everybody, I brought the snacks and
she tells us, Okay, we're gonna have these snacks we're
gonna have these drinks and we're going to tell them
about our decision to get married. So Maxwell says, all right, everybody,
we want to let you know that while Asia is
in Nigeria, there's gonna be a little wedding. We're going
to get the documents and go ahead and apply for
the spouse of visa. And Juliet says to Maria, Mama.
They call each other mom and mama is so funny.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 1: She goes, Mama, are you disappointed? And Maria goes, I'm
just surprised, and Blay says, I am bothered. I have
just found out she is way older than you, ten years.
The difference is too large. And Maxwell says, where are
you talking about this? And how did you know? Juliet
put their glass of wines like I said it. I
said it. And Maxwell says, okay, this is how the
mommy knows because the other mommy told so when you're talking,
head Asious says, I deliberately did not tell these people
my age. My mom spilled the beans and to me,
it's between me and Maxwell and they don't need to
have any opinion on it. And with that, I agree.
I agree. Yeah, so Blaze says.
Speaker 2: Did she tell her mom not to say anything though
these people?
Speaker 1: She did? I think she did, and I think mom
got you know, she's not eating much and they get
out red wine. She's just like whoa. Blaze says, Look,
I love you as it's a compliment, sandwich. Here we go.
I love you as a person, and I think you
have a good character and personality. But I'm not supporting
the age difference. God sets the rules of marriage, because
Maxwell goes who says you have to be a certain
age to get married, and she says, God sets the
rules on marriage. Ninety eight percent of marriage is the
man is older than the wife. Otherwise it is hard
to submit to the husband because you will always remember
that you're older than him. So I cannot approve. And
this is too much. Asia says, So if you love
me as a person, just judge me as a person,
not based on a statistic. And this is why you
gotta remember Ashia does have a doctorate. She is a smart,
smart person. Even though she kind of seems a little airheady,
she is smart. And then the dad, Clement says to Maxwell,
this is not what I've expected from you, and I
don't like this. So Asia says that you're talking to it.
All they need to worry about is that we are
walking down the all and there is nothing they can
do about it. It is God ordained period.
Speaker 2: I really don't think you need to stop saying that
because God had your visa denied, so that's true. Perhaps
there's a some static on the line with God.
Speaker 1: I think God, God really wants them to get married
in Nigeria. Okay, So Blaise says, right, but all of
these things will take time. And then how long after
he comes to your country will you birth kids? And
she says, I don't know, like a year. He has
to get a job, he has to get settled. We're
not going to do it right away. And then a
she goes, why are you so worried about this? Who
created time? God? And God put us together in a
certain time, So we will trust God's timing, right, sweetie.
And then she goes, and also, in America, we have options.
We can freeze eggs, we can have zergas, blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, Angela coutote it for me.
Speaker 1: I appreciate they have those options in Nigeria as well.
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, probably. I love this blaming God for everything.
It's like, yeah, I murdered someone, but it was God
ordained because it happening. And God is the plants and
the trees and the everything, So.
Speaker 1: Get on board God. So I'm talking to her. She says,
fertility is really personal, and we're also faith based people,
so why don't they have faith? Let's get biblical, Okay.
In the Bible, Sarah was ninety years old when she
had her first child, So if God wants it to happen,
it will happen. Now listen, I'm not a biblical scholar,
nor did I read this particular part of the Bible,
but I'm highly doubting this. Somebody gave birth at ninety
years old?
Speaker 2: How dare you? Mary Payne, I'm just saying that happened.
The arc happened, It all happened. It's right there in
the Bible.
Speaker 1: I would be willing to bet that a man built
an arc and put two of every animal on it
before I would believe that a ninety year old woman
gave birth.
Speaker 2: It's true.
Speaker 1: It's true.
Speaker 2: Also, I feel like they need to look into how
a lot of religion. I'm not going to say anything okay.
Speaker 1: Then Blay says, okay, so that didn't work about the age, okay,
so all right, I got another thing. I worried about
her treating him bad in the future. And Juliette says,
he's a grown she's still swilling. He's a grown man, Maxwell,
Are you gonna let her mistreat you? And he goes,
she won't even try it, except for at the restaurant
earlier and then before when we were upstairs, But after that,
she won't even try it, even when she talked about
my eyeballs, in my hairline and my skin. Besides that,
she won't even try it. She respects me one hundred percent.
And he goes, but you all keep talking about submission.
But in the Bible it says a man and a
woman sub submit to each other. It's not just the
woman submits to the man. And I have always told
you I am not looking for a wife. I am
looking for a partner, and with Asia, I have found
a partner and I like that. Yeah, now I believe
in their love.
Speaker 2: Oh stop, okay, I do.
Speaker 1: I believed in it before, but now I really believe
in it. So Blai says, well, your mom says you
won't mistreat him, so I'll believe her. And then she
and then she finishes off her compliment sandwich with I
don't hate you, yep, I love you. I love you.
I just have fears. When somebody says I don't hate you,
they hate.
Speaker 2: You, they hate you. Why else would that you say that?
Speaker 1: Why else would you say? I would never just go
up to my friend and be like, hey, are you doing.
I'm glad to check on you. And also I don't
hate you. Yeah, it's a weird thing to say. She says,
she just has fears, and Asa said, Asha says, the
number one thing here is the Kingdom of God, and
Clement says, okay, yes, and I have decided age is
not Age is just a number and it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: God told me just now, five.
Speaker 1: Minutes ago, you said I don't want this for you,
my son. This is you're making a bad decision. But
now he heard about Sarah and the ninety and then
Mom says, you know what, You're right. God blessed Sarah
and she was old. So at least Asha has not
reached Sarah's age.
Speaker 2: I mean five or six. Here she will because that's
how they're acting.
Speaker 1: But ninety yeahinety so Dad says, okay, so God can
still bless Asia and Maxwell with children, yes, and A
she goes, okay, so now that we've all agreed on that,
let's join hands in pray. And she says, our father
who are in heaven. I was like, she's gonna do
the Lord's prayer, but she starts with our father who
are in heaven, you know, bless everybody whose hands are
touching here today, and a.
Speaker 2: La la la la la la la la lah blah
blah blah.
Speaker 1: Amen, nobody bass and I nobody laughs. Nobody goes, what
the fuck just happened?
Speaker 2: No, she did that the first time she was there.
They probably laugh about it. She's gonna come. Do you
think she's gonna do the tongues. Yeah, she's probably gonna tongues.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Maxwell are You're gonna have to learn that language?
Good luck? Maxwell. So I don't want to, okay, I
don't want to start the pregnant thing again like we
did Viva, because we were wrong, but everybody was wrong
to not just us. Yeah. I do think Asha in
one of these dresses does appear to have a baby bump.
Speaker 2: Oh interesting that she.
Speaker 1: Seems to be masking with a wild pattern.
Speaker 2: We were right with Anna Lynn, so we were fifty
fifty last season and they put them both in baby
Dell dresses.
Speaker 1: Yes, and this dress she's got on has got kind
of the right under the boob thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So and you know they film all these talking heads
like at all different times, so it could be when
they filmed you know anyway. Yep, just saying And then
I said, how long ago did she say she saw
him before this? Because it was a few months.
Speaker 2: I thought it was eight months though.
Speaker 1: See I thought I was practically a year because they
thought the visa was coming. Yeah, so she definitely is
only there like three weeks.
Speaker 2: So she was frount enough time.
Speaker 1: But it could be.
Speaker 2: But next week in the preview it was a fake
out pregnancy.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: So now you're not the only one.
Speaker 1: So what if right when she got there, she was
ovulating and got pregnant and she is like club yes
right away, And then what if like when they're filming
these talking heads, like four months later, she's alone, she's
in Alabama and she looks pregnant exactly, or what if
it's just an illfitting dress exactly? Speaking of ill fitting, clothes.
Let's talk about Marissa and Edward. Oh yeah, not everybody
should wear leggings, guys, not everybody. Medo for example. Mito
is a great example. And yes it might be another example.
There we go in my opinion, guess who else should
wear leggings this gal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not saying we should.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 2: Marissa and long suffering Edward. So she comes in, Hey,
I need to talk to you. I just had to
redo all the trash. I told you to take the
trash out to the curb? Did you understand me when
I said that? And he's like, curve the curve. He
didn't understand curb. And she's like okay, and he's like,
but I did I tick out the trash And she says,
you need to make it neat. You can't just throw
everything out there. And it's looking like a total disaster.
My neighbors are gonna think we're pavos. So he's like,
I don't it's trash. But he didn't do it right.
And she's like, I'm not gonna get aggravated if you
don't know a word, but I need you to like
understand what I'm saying. It's a lot on my shoulders
for me to teach you every little thing. So I
just need you to listen and comprehend what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: What's wrong with her?
Speaker 2: She's what?
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about the trash. Do you think he
he just took some trash bags and put them on
the curb. But maybe he was supposed to go in
the garage and get the can and roll it out
to the curb, but he didn't know there was a
big can in the garage that you roll out, like
he thought, Oh, I just take these bags from the kitchen.
Speaker 2: I think he brought the cans out and they were
askew from how they should be. Really, I think it
was that little of a thing. And she's because everything
this is a disaster. Oh if it's not perfectly her way, okay.
And maybe one of the bags was like sitting next
to it or on top of the bin because the
bin was overflowing.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Like, although we did see what that fence looked like,
I mean, she.
Speaker 1: Is she posted this week that the fence is still
like that and she needs like anybody local they can
help me with the fence.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's been months. If you really cared about the fence.
You could have had someone else fix the fence. You
could pay someone to fix the fence.
Speaker 1: I think it's a hilarious talking point to be like,
look at my cartoon fence.
Speaker 2: If people are driving by taking pictures, is that the
fence from the Learning Channel, I saw it a ninety
day fiance. That's the famous fence.
Speaker 1: Last week we talked when you Weren't here about Marissa's
mom had posted on somewhere. Yes, I saw it about
the whole thing about what makes Marissa's special, and she
was saying it like my daughter's a loser. It was
because he said he had been married to an American before,
and the American moved to the dr and he never
wanted to move to the United States. Do you find
I found that shocking.
Speaker 2: I am never shocked by what they leave out on
this show. It's crazy, like remember Lauren had children, Lauren
with the seafood in the bathroom? Yeah no, I yeah,
that is very interesting her, the mom and Marissa are
just so defensive online about how they're being portrayed, and
it is making them even more unlikable.
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I can't wait to the renew when the mom
comes on and then maybe Sean Robinson or Ross Matthews
will say, who did your face? What is incredible?
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, So Marissa tells us it's been tough. It's
taking him longer to integrate into the culture, and I
should have I should be more patient, but I was
under a different impression of how things would go.
Speaker 1: What who What was the impression?
Speaker 2: How did you get that impression? It's making me second
guess if this is the right thing for me. It's
always for me, it's never once for him. So she
goes to meet her gorgeous mother. God, that would suck
constantly being compared to your mom, and that neck skin
is just staring in the face all the time.
Speaker 1: Perfect, just like perfect.
Speaker 2: So she bitches to her mom that Edward has been
trying to help out, but he's messing everything up and
I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt
that he's not an idiot. She says that.
Speaker 1: To give him the benefit of the doubt that he's
not an idiot.
Speaker 2: This is a great way to get your mom to
approve of him. But to complain and say you're giving
him the benefit of the doubt that he's not an idiot.
So mom says, well, he doesn't know the area, the culture.
That gets old after a while, and she talks like
old money, and Marisa says, he's so warm and so
great and I'm always criticizing him and it's not nice.
And then we see a montage of her yelling at him.
He's like, bro, and she's like, don't call me bro.
Can I taste this? Don't taste it with your fingers.
That's disgusted, just constantly him sitting in the back seat
of the car because for some reason her child gets
to sit in the front seat and mom defends her
and he's like, you can't be nice all the time.
He's too nice. That's not good. He needs to stand
up for himself or he'll start to resent you. And
Marisa says, yeah, he does need to stand up to me.
He needs to be a man. God, I hate that
this is the Paula Russ thing on Last Resort.
Speaker 1: Well that's justified because he's.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a doormat. So Marisa says, I've been upfront and
honest about how I'm feeling, and he just says we'll
figure it out, like no big deal. And that's not
appropriate when I say I have doubts and which my
favorite last line of a movie ever.
Speaker 1: Yes, doubt, I have doubts.
Speaker 2: So she tells her mom that she has doubts and
she loves him, but you know he is going to
contribute and he has to get up to speed or
I'm gonna lose it. It's always like speed with her, like
just relax.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't understand how she expects him to
just again, No, the morning routine, No, the nighttime routine.
Know when people need to be picked up? No, what exactly?
The recycling goes on the left of the trash goes
all the right, Like, how is he supposed to know? No?
Speaker 2: And Mom says, well, he's a nice guy, but you
can't teach someone to have fire in their belt in
ninety days if you don't see ambition, it's not there.
And Mom says, you know, keep your head on straight,
and she's like, but in her talking head, she's like,
I'm thrilled that Marissa has doubts. Basically, that's it. She's like,
did you hear that she's starting to have doubts? And
she doesn't think Edward fulfills every part of her perfect, charming, smart,
gorgeous daughters on life on every level and that's what
she deserves. So then she takes Marisa takes Edward to
the park to talk, and finally she says, how are
you feeling about things? First time? Yeah, she says, I
feel like I've been very rude and snippy to him,
and I feel badly about it, but I can't help it.
He's just so dumb.
Speaker 1: I mean, bangan every single night is not enough. I'm
gonna need it a day to be nicer. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So he says, you know, I've been a little aggravated,
and I know I can't communicate it perfectly in English,
but I'm new in your country and it's taking me
time to learn things. And you know, he says, yes,
it's been hard for you. You talk about it every
fucking day, but it's been hard for me as well.
I'm the one who left my entire life to move
to a new country. He says, I feel so much
pressure to be perfect, and if I speak up, there's
a problem, but if I stay quiet, there's a problem.
So I feel stuck and I feel like I can't
do anything right. And he says, she's very impatient with me,
and she gives me attitude and then she's never with
anything I do. And so she says to him straight up,
I've been a bitch and I'm embarrassed by my behavior.
Speaker 1: Good.
Speaker 2: She's on an apology tour this week, and she says,
I've been feeling fears that have clouded my behavior. My
fears because of your dumbness have made me be a bitch.
So it's really your fault that I've been a bitch. Correct, yes,
So she tells him she's having serious doubts about the relationship.
And she says, have you had doubts And he says no,
and she says, well, you always think the best of
every situation, and I think the worst. And he says,
in my life, I haven't had a choice to just
stop and cry. I just have to make things work.
And so she says, well, I'm sorry, I don't have
the same conviction that you do. I need you to
understand why I'm not sure. And he gets upset and
he gets up and walks away for a minute, and
he tells us, you know, if she wants to walk away,
she can walk away. I know my value and I'm
not going to drag myself on the floor for anyone.
I don't have to endure this shit from anyone. And
I was like, good for you, Edward and your newly
circumcised penis has found their balls finally.
Speaker 1: Oh and I loved it all. They were showing the
shot of her sitting on the grass, but like the
shot was behind her over to where he was talking
to production. Yes, and she's like, I wonder what they're
talking about over there. I was like, wow, they really
don't take them very far to talk to him.
Speaker 2: The sound doesn't carry I guess in that field that
they were in. So he goes back and she's like,
you know, this is part of the how you feel
in buddy, how you doing? Like she says, you know,
this is part of the process. We have to stay.
We have to have these hard conversations to make our
bond stronger, to make sure that when it comes to
our wedding, we are good to go because we've had
all these hard conversations. And it doesn't mean I don't
love you. I don't hate you, and I hate you
brought you here if I didn't love you. But you
need to be able to manage through these hard conversations
and difficult moments. And he says, my life has been difficult.
I know how to be in difficult things. And she's like,
then why do you just walk away? And he says,
because I don't like to show weak weakness. I don't
want people to see me like a crying like a
little girl. And she says, it's okay to show emotions
and if you don't, then I'm always the crazy one
that's showing emotions. And I feel better after letting these
emotions come out, and you deserve to feel better too,
And I need you to show emotions or we're not
going to make it. So fix your emotions too, and
the way you take out the trash, and she says,
I need him to put me in check and be
a man. And maybe when he just says I love you,
I love you, everything's fine, I love you, It's going
to work out. Isn't actually real. It's making me think
like he doesn't really feel like that. He's just putting
on a facade and he's just using me to get
to America and doesn't really love me. That's why that's
where I'm spiraling, because he never shows negative emotions, so
that can't be real.
Speaker 1: But I mean, I feel like she's known him for
a long time, and if this is the way he's
always been, then this is the way he is, you know.
Speaker 2: A positive person who is like, I'm going to make
the best of the situation no matter what.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And she's like, I'm just gonna be as mean
as possible to get him to be mean back to me.
So he shows emotion, but if he's not that kind
of person, he's not going.
Speaker 2: To do it totally. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh this glady, Okay. I mean, maybe she's going to
have some sort of a fantastic redemption arc, but I
hope so.
Speaker 2: I don't know, because she's really one of the most
unlikable people we've She's it's been rough, unfortunately.
Speaker 1: Shae and Annabelle, all right, well, oh god, we opened
with a lot of wooo woo woo Shay baby, Shay baby,
what woo? And Shae, a fifty five year old man
is doing a beer funnel with a bunch of twenty
year olds.
Speaker 2: No one this close to death from scurvy should be
drinking out of a beer funnel.
Speaker 1: He later says to her, that's how you drink alcohol faster, baby.
Speaker 2: You don't need to drink it faster. You just set
up an IV and get it right into your veins.
Is that how badly you need to drink? I mean,
what is wrong with you?
Speaker 1: It's awful. So he walks up to Annabel, who's sitting
in a chair, and he goes, hey, you doing my
pretty little Filippine almost sit by you, and she's like uh.
She turns around and he tries to kiss her, and
she kind of does like okay and pushes him away,
and he goes, give me that tongue. Let me see
that tongue. If somebody said that to me, I just
stood up and said, that's it.
Speaker 2: I just threw up into my mouth a little.
Speaker 1: All these people are leaving. You're never allowed to see
any of them again. You're no longer drinking. Sell this
lake house. Let's go like that. If that is what
you think is cute or funny, that's discussing.
Speaker 2: Especially coming out of his mouth with his teeth, the
smells that must come from that mouth.
Speaker 1: And her face is like oola. So here's something that
I've noticed here that I've noticed a couple of times
on this show they mention more than once, and this
happens with other couples that these two are married, and
they don't edit that out I know. So it's either
sloppy production or they are married, or it's just a
drunk girl saying it. Nobody corrects her, but nobody says
they're not married.
Speaker 2: So it's very weird. Perhaps they did get married one
of the times that he visited her. Yeah, yeah, and
this is a spousal visa.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I don't Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: But we still don't know the timeline of him being
with her and being with what's her face and having
a baby and having good Right, this whole thing is murky,
as murky as his teeth.
Speaker 1: It's worthy. It's murky, like Forrest and Sheena like our
first I ever seeing each other. But then we see
pictures from twenty nineteenth together. Yeah, yep, so this girl
Aspen is talking to his daughter Alison saying, you know,
it's wild to see Annabela in person, Like I didn't
even know he was married, and I was like, wow,
he's had a wife this whole summer, and Allison goes, yeah,
he's not single, he's married or like about to be married.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I gotta get my lines right.
Speaker 1: So if it's true, and this is all sort of
how they've messed up the timeline here, the production didn't cut.
This is weird, Yeah it is.
Speaker 2: That makes me think they're just drunk and saying wife
when they mean fiance.
Speaker 1: Right, It's like Dia on Love after lock up, Who's like, well,
I was in a twenty year marriage, yeah, and then
I was this this guy for two years and now
I've been with this guy for one year. I was like,
you're only thirty, so you got married when you were ten.
Speaker 2: Also the fact that this can we just talk about
this party? I know you already talked about with Kim
the like people. Yeah, the band.
Speaker 1: It's like it's just a guy, but.
Speaker 2: They have like fake music playing over it. But like
because they don't have rights to I don't know. But
like no one's even raising their voice like they're at
a party. It's just because there's it is like there's
like eight people there, right, It's it's like a parody
of Malory's White Trash Party, except that party actually looked
fun and this party looks so lame. It's like people
just standing around like at an eighth grade dance or something. Yeah,
it's so stupid.
Speaker 1: See bring your own share, Like, yeah, it was it
was like a like going to a kid's soccer game,
bring your own chair in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it literally it just didn't even look fun. Like
drunk people are supposed to be a tiny bit fun
so you can put up with their dumb antics. These
people are not even being fun.
Speaker 1: And I kind of wonder if this was in the fall,
right when the time changed, so it probably did get
dark like at six, But they told everybody to come
like at four thirty, and you're only going to film
into like ten thirty, and then that's when the real
fun's going to start, but we're not going.
Speaker 2: To get to see it. That's totally possible. I disagree
with Kim that these people are going to bed by ten.
I think, oh yeah, no, no, no, because half of
them are twenty year olds for some reason are partying
with sixty year olds.
Speaker 1: I don't understand this at all. I don't understand this dynamic.
Speaker 2: So I think these girls hang out with Shade because
he's buying them alcohol. Yeah, and they're friends with his daughter, yes,
and maybe one might sleep with him if she was
really drunk and she thought she could marry him without
a prenap because he looks like he might die soon,
so you might not have to be with him for
that long, right.
Speaker 1: I don't think one of these girls has any thought
of sleeping with him. I think they just like flirt
with him, like he's the gross old drunk dad at
the party and he'll buy us free stuff. Yeah. So
we get this new girl group. It's Chandler, Aspen, and
Hallie dressed in the exact same outfit and they're maximum
thirty years old, maximum and they're all dressed alike. And
Aspen says, you know, Shay, he's such a big flirt
and he told me he would buy me an island,
and you know, he's asked me to stay the night
here and stuff, and it's all I have to say
about that. She's the one that said she didn't know
he was married, so yeah.
Speaker 2: Right, she's the one who might I feel like maybe
is looking for a rich husband that she could be
on easy Street for until he dies.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I guess Shaye considered rich and Paduca.
I just can't tell.
Speaker 2: He said island. Also, let's stop talking about islands. We
don't need to take Epstein's island has made islands bad.
Let's stop talking about buying people islands.
Speaker 1: You don't have island kind of money. Shit you don't
even have like.
Speaker 2: You again, like Mary Payne said, you have three trailers
to your name.
Speaker 1: So really, yeah, yes, uh don't and don't forget that
Nichole's shit. He has that too.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So now the band is playing. It's a guy with
a guitar, and that's when he says, like she comes
up and he's doing like a funnel, you know, a
beer bong and she comes up and she goes like,
what are you doing? And he goes, wait's funny. Let
you drink a faster, baby, and she says I could
tell you're drunk. He goes, harmy beers? You think I hired?
She goes like twenty. He goes, no, baby, I had
like six. You had six and that beer funnel? What
are you talking about? And then he goes, no, maybe
I had had that many. And he looks over at
that other lady that was there earlier, like can you
believe this? Get a little and she goes, you know what,
I have a headache. I'm going to bed. He goes, nah, nah,
don't start. We got friends here. They're all here to
say you babe, and Nicole says Annabel, this is a
Lake party. That makes a difference.
Speaker 2: So they talk about these like this is the met Gala,
like we should all know what this is. Yes, this
is legendary across the world. So how have you not
heard of lake parties? This is the Lake party because
she's birthday.
Speaker 1: So she goes, Okay, I'm gonna go inside and put
you to bed because I'm going back. I'm going back
to the party. These people are here. It's kind of
embarrassing from me, babe, it's kind of embarrassing. And she goes,
you're drunk and you're flirting with people, and I don't
want to be around you. And he goes, come on,
let's go back to the party. Let's go have fun.
Come on, and you're talking to it. She says, these
people are drunk and I want to go to bed.
I do not want to deal with us. So he
goes back out to the party and he's like, you know,
white man over white dancing.
Speaker 2: Uh huh.
Speaker 1: And the talking head Alison pulls a chakana and says,
I don't like that she's bossing him around. And this
is tame Shay Babey for sure, Like maybe they aren't
meant for each other. If she can't hang with this crowd,
and maybe she should go home, like go back to
your family, go girl.
Speaker 2: We were waiting for it though. We did hear that
people thought she was a mail order bride, so we
were waiting for go back to your country, Alison.
Speaker 1: You know, we had kind of been on her side
at this point, but now, well, I like that.
Speaker 2: She was at least fainting that it was for Annabelle,
that she was showing interest in being a saboteur. Like
she would be like, I'm doing this for Annabelle because
I care about her, right her dearly. I don't hate her.
But now she's she's drunk, so she's like, yeah, just
go back. She said, if you can't hang with these
lake people, right, get out of here. What again? These
people are so lame.
Speaker 1: It's so lame. I mean it is like Shay and
people his age, beer funneling, and then you got a
bunch of thirty year olds who maybe they're just swinging
by the lake party and then they're going out to
the bars. They're like getting fret drinks first. Hopefully they're
all taking an uber.
Speaker 2: I doubt it.
Speaker 1: Okay, lets see we're gonna move on to Debbie and Meadow.
My god, oh god, I really I to think that
they actually got married. I need that proofs that they
actually got married, not that they file a marriage certificate. Right,
but there's a wedding date, because there is not any
way in the world that she should marry this guy,
like it is so apparently clear to anybody with eyes.
Speaker 2: And that this is. At some point in this season,
we always stopped feeling bad for some of these people,
and I think this was the episode for me that
I just stopped feeling bad for Debbie because she's being
so blindy blind, blindly ignorant to the situation.
Speaker 1: Willfully ignorant. Sometime.
Speaker 2: Thank you. So I almost died, Mary Payne words right.
Speaker 1: And you almost add on the anniversary when I almost died.
I know, Keisha, watch out for next year.
Speaker 2: No, because I was. I was not dying on my birthday.
I was out of the hospital. I was almost dying.
Taylor Swift's wedding and fourth of July.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well seven seven on July seventh is when
I almost died.
Speaker 2: I know, my birthday, so good things and bad things,
full circle of life.
Speaker 1: Well, I wish your happy birthday and you didn't like it,
but too bad.
Speaker 2: That's what I do think you.
Speaker 1: Okay, Debbie Amato fifty five days to wed dn'ta do.
So we're talking head, she says, since the blow up,
Mito has flat out ignored me, and I'm really trying
to process this in my head and in my heart.
I love him, but he is showing me who he
is and it's a big reveal and we can't linger
in this no talking like, I don't know if there's
anything I can do to make it better. But he's
emotionally immature and hard to communicate with.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he goes silent. You can't deal with silent treatment.
Speaker 1: Why does she feel that there's something she used to fix?
What is it that she did because.
Speaker 2: She did absolutely nothing. But he is somehow convinced that
he still has the upper hand in this relationship. After
he screamed at her friends and her at the Haunted House.
Speaker 1: It was so rude to her and her friend in
the car so rude.
Speaker 2: It's all on him, but somehow she's taking part of
the blame for this.
Speaker 1: So she's vacuuming, and she says, she's like the cameras
are here, so we're gonna talk about what happened the
other day.
Speaker 2: And he goes, why is she vacuuming? And he's sitting
on his ass.
Speaker 1: She's you constantly see her. She's emptying the dishwasher, she's dusty,
she's vacuuming. He just sits stares at his own headshot.
So she goes, why don't we go to the lake.
Let's get out of here. So the drift of the
lake and there in the car and she goes like,
this is kind of weird to be in a car together.
He's like dead silent. So they sit at the lake
and he says, do you think what happened with me
was right? And she goes, no, it was bad behavior
across the board, meeting everyone, And he goes, well, no,
I don't. I don't like to remember it. So it's
okay because she indicated that he had done something wrong,
he doesn't want to remember it. Yeah, And she goes, well,
it's not okay. You're very closed off off and I
know this is a conversation you don't want to have,
but we do have to deal with it. We have
to talk about things. And then he just forlorn forlornly,
forlornly stares to the lake, and she says, I get
the feeling. Not the lake, Not the lake, oh no,
the river of the lake. Lake.
Speaker 2: Can you imagine Mito at the lake party?
Speaker 1: What if she just went? But his was like, Hi, Hi,
I didn't know y'all come to the lake.
Speaker 2: I got a beer funnel.
Speaker 1: It's shay by bye. So he looks at the lake
and she says, I get the feeling. You're not happy.
What was your clue? And he says, he says, I
love my country, my world. To be in your world,
and I think I deserve a good heart and a
good person to be with.
Speaker 2: Then go back home. Were you looking at flights the
other night? He's weird that you have. I guess all
the airports were shut down. That's every airport able to
go back. Okay, I didn't hear about it on the news.
Speaker 1: But she says, she says, right, we both deserve that,
and I love you. And then he closes his eyes
as if she has said I'm going to stick a
hot poker up your cara. Like he closes his eyes
and goes like like she has just stabbed him. When
she says, I love you, and he goes, oh traumatic.
Speaker 2: Clid Duckstone obstructions.
Speaker 1: Yes exactly, and he says, you know, I don't like
for you to tell me that all the time, like
I don't need to talk all the time. I love you,
I need you. No, no, no, and she goes, I
know you love me, you wouldn't. This man just flinched
as if you were tied stones to his ankles and
about to throw him in that lake and make him
do a beer pong with a shade, like like.
Speaker 2: You don't have to say it your face. He says
it all I know you love me.
Speaker 1: As he's like, oh, she says, I know you love me.
You wouldn't have done all you did if you didn't.
You don't say it, but I know it, and he goes, okay, excellent,
very good, and she goes what he goes, you know
you know you say it? Okay, excellent, good, Okay, So
you're talking head. He's so pissed. He goes, you know,
if you love someone, you don't say it all the time.
You should just do something. Just be kindness, be supportive,
defend me. She doesn't show me that. She shows me
the life, not just no, she shows me the life,
not just love. This woman enrolled you in acting school,
has taken you in, has flown you across the world,
got a bigger apartment for you. What what do you mean?
Speaker 2: She contradicted you in front of people, and that's bad.
That's it. That negates all the other stuffy. Also, she's
not asking you to say it over and over again.
She wants you to say it once before she marries you.
She wants you to say I love you once once.
Speaker 1: So she says, well, you know, and he says you know.
He says very good, very good, excellent good, I'm glad
you know it great, and she goes, okay, so you
know what happened. I don't know what to do to
make sure that doesn't happen again again. It's not up
to her. It's up to him to control his emotions.
It's not up to her to constantly be like Danny
and Nia or Nia is always on the valley trying
to like, okay, let me just make sure it's okay
so he doesn't blow up. And he goes, I don't
have a plan, and she's where your plans should be.
To stay here? Why why do you want him to
stay there?
Speaker 2: Have you had any fun at all? He's been there,
not a moment since the sight seeing with the legkings
and the tank top and the posing on the street.
Have you had fun?
Speaker 1: And even then it went to shit because when they
went to return the thing, then they had a fight.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: She says, well, your plan should be to stay here,
and he goes, it depends on you. You have to
fix it, and she goes, no, it's not just a
me fixed No no, no, no, no, no, you You're
gonna have to get honest with yourself and with me.
Talking head, She says, Mino has turned this whole thing
around on me. He won't take accountability on his side.
Ever since he's been here, it's been all about him.
Relationships are about compromise, and he's been single for a
long time and I'm starting to see why.
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, Debbie, thank you.
Speaker 1: So get him out of here. So then they go
back to the apartment and he's looking forlornly out of
the window and he sadly kicks the socker ball against
the wall, like poor me.
Speaker 2: It's like a teenage boy who has been grounded by
his mom.
Speaker 1: One h So the talking head they're sitting together, and
I didn't realize they were sitting together. They showed her.
I was like, she's in this shot. He says, I
will forgive her, but not forget, and then they pull
her into the shot and she's like like Debbie Downer, Oh.
Speaker 2: Give her for what or something?
Speaker 1: For what? And he says, it is hard to forget
something like this, but I will continue with her to
see what's next.
Speaker 2: And if it accused him of having sex before marriage too,
with that other woman.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she said, you can fuck that horror, but
you can't give me compassion.
Speaker 2: That pissed him off too, because he's pretending he's a virgin, right.
Speaker 1: He's well, I think he might be. He might be
a virgin with women, right, if the kara doesn't count,
he's good.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: So he says, you know, if she does, if it
continues like this, if it's bad, I will book a
fly back to my country. And so she says, well,
I think it would be foolish to throw away six years.
And he says love is not enough and sometimes the
heart changes and people change. But we will see. He's
a manipulative, gaslighting monster. He is.
Speaker 2: See. I think he's a narcissist and a manipulator.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because somehow now she's like, why would we throw
away the six years when she just said, and her
talking to head like he's pitting the blame on me.
He's taking no accountability, he's making somehow he's turns it
around like I did something wrong.
Speaker 2: M So her daughter perfect victim to this sort of behavior.
Speaker 1: Yes, her daughter whose name I cannot remember and I
didn't write down. She walks in and goes, hey, uh,
what's going on? You're crazy? Kids? Feels pretty tense in here.
What's what's going on? And Mito is sitting on the
couch admiring his own headshots one by one and looks
at the daughter and goes, look, I don't need I
just need quiet and rest.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: And she's like, fuck off, you don't pay rent near
I mean, you know, she's like, she goes okay, So
she walks out. So I guess she texts her mom
like you want to get a petticure and get rid
of this loser. Now they go to the most ridiculous
petticure place I've ever seen in my life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it did not look comfortable or leisurely.
Speaker 1: This place is ridiculous. They have port swings hanging from
the ceiling as the petticure chairs.
Speaker 2: No, that's not comfortable.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the country signs and where you look for
your colors? Above it it said Farmer's market. What are
we doing?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: What? Okay? So the daughter goes, yeah, this is not
great with me though. He just sits on the couch
staring at his own headshots. And she goes, yeah, I
don't know. I'm just waiting for like the right moment
to have an aha moment of what to do. And
the daughter goes, you have mounting evidence from the couple
of my he's been here, Like, who cares if you've
been dating him six years? The clock is ticking. You
need to make a hard choice and quick. And she says,
what if what happens if you go through with this?
You're legally bound and now it's just going to get worse.
Now what are you going to do? And don't forget
now you're responsible for him for ten years financially yep,
And Debbie goes, I don't know. I just I just
need a couple of things from him. I need a
formal proposal, and I need him to say I love you,
and the daughter goes, what, And she says, the truth
always has a way of rising to the surface, and
I need time. I need time. I'm just not ready
to get up, give up the.
Speaker 2: Fact that he hasn't done those two very simple things
that are just lip service. Yeah, to go with this
charade of loving her and wanting when he really just
wants to get to America. Like every other man on
this show that is scamming. A woman does says I
love Like, remember, how what's this Daniel talk to Lisa?
It was like, I love you, my beauty, my queen.
These people are willing to put in the lip surface
of the scamming. He's not even willing to do that. No,
that's how little he cares about you.
Speaker 1: He thinks that he's such a cat. She should just
be hashtag blessed that he's even wanting to be in
the same apartment with her. So she says, he's never
said I love you, and the daughter goes, yeah, he's
here now, and this is the reality. It's not a
fairy tale. I hope that you're actually seeing the truth now.
Speaker 2: She's not.
Speaker 1: I'm talking to Debbie goes. It hasn't quite reached the
point yet where I'm willing to call it. I need
to see some forward motion from Mito, because I'm really
not sure if he loves me.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he doesn't.
Speaker 1: He doesn't.
Speaker 2: That he doesn't, he doesn't. She needs to learn about
sunk cost fallacy, Like, just do a quick Google search,
just read the AI you know, blurb about it. It's
textbook what you're doing.
Speaker 1: Yes, totally. She's like, well, I just give them three
more days.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've already put in six years. I don't want
to lose that.
Speaker 1: She could get on Tender in New Orleans or Silver
Singles or whatever and find somebody in a heartbeat.
Speaker 2: She's pretty, she's Cute's got a job, good job, she.
Speaker 1: Has a cute dog. This apartment, got a Mercedes. Come on, okay,
let's go on to Thomas and Paula.
Speaker 2: Oh god, okay. So she has brought the stepmom gifts
at the farm with a tiny suitcase and a note
that says, we are waiting for you at our wedding and.
Speaker 1: I'm looking for something in here that I could have tiny,
you know what I mean? Like, do you have something tiny?
Speaker 2: I have? Like a little this is just it it's
like a fidget thing.
Speaker 1: That looks like a tiny roots cube.
Speaker 2: Look, here's here's a tiny remote control for my lights.
Speaker 1: Okay, my hold on, I've got this. Sorry, that's my
right in the camera.
Speaker 2: Yeah, join on video.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: I also have a tiny nail.
Speaker 1: File like I have Tiny New York City. Adorable look animated,
it's so cute. I have Tiny New York City. I'm
manifesting it. What am I manifesting? Going there for Librofest?
If you didn't get your tickets, it's sold out.
Speaker 2: Sorry go ahead, Sorry, so we warned you. So. Also,
they have a new American gothic farm hero shot that
hilarious and he's smiling, and I was like, how are
you on this farm with your allergies? Sir? I thought
your allergies were deadly?
Speaker 1: You know. That's a great point. That's a great point. Now,
don't listen. Don't come at us perfume allergy people.
Speaker 2: I'm sure there are differences, but I know there's a lot.
I have seasonal and like environmental allergies, and a farm
for me is just horrible.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So well, his is just perfume, Okay.
Speaker 2: Hers is his just perfume, not super glue. So Thomas said,
tells us, we are going to invite them to the wedding,
but we're also going to tell him that my mom
is going to be there and they might freak out.
So they're having a picnic outside. They make her of
a vegan burger. Paula. Paula is wearing a dress for
some reason, and she's changed like five times and they've
been there twenty.
Speaker 1: Minute into all the plaid, and she wants.
Speaker 2: To get how many dresses for the wedding, like two? Yeah? Also,
Queen Mary Katie worked at the ghost Haunted House thing
for Halloween one year and she played a ghost. I
can't remember which one, but like a big one and
she won like Ghost of the Week or something. I
got a certificate because she worked on the Queen as Yeah,
for one of their Haunted House Halloween things one year.
Speaker 1: So does she know all the ghost stories because I'd
like to hear her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, mm hmm, okay, yeah, but she'll tell us exactly.
So they're talking about the wedding and Paula is trying
to manifest her family coming to the wedding, so she's
bought a lot of miniature people to be like wedding guests,
and she gives it's cute. She gives them the mini
suitcase with the miniature things in it. The stepmom loves it.
She's like, loves the little suitcase. She's like, I love
miniature things, and she's like a tiny pig. I love it.
And so they asked more about the wedding. It's all
going great. They're like, it's going to be in Long
Beach and we really want you there. And the dad's like,
who's coming, and Thomas is like, oh, so and so,
so and so so I did invite mom and stepdad.
And then things get very tense and the dad tells
us that Thomas and sister were kids when they got divorced,
and we see a photo of Thomas as a kid
with maybe a pad of butter on his head.
Speaker 1: Did you see that? I didn't notice that.
Speaker 2: It was very funny. I didn't understand what was happening.
I'll try to text it to you, and the mom
said the mom, it seems we don't get all the details.
The mom left and has no contact for a long time. Yeah,
for the rest of their childhood, it seems like, and
the dad raised the kids.
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I had to assume. I had to
assume when the step mom was so pissed. It was like,
how dare you know she comes back in their life
when they're older and I get no credit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I texted you the photo. So the dad
is like, this was so hard raising the kids on
my own. Even the women do it every day. But
he was is he said it was horrible, and he's
very he's still very up, and he says to them,
we'll try to come, but I'm not sure if we're
gonna be able to make it. And then the stepmom
is like, yeah, I have a farm hand that would
need to take over the animals, and I don't know
if I'll be able to come. And Thomas is like
it wouldn't be complete without you there, and they're like, world,
try Now. Paula is very confused because in her world,
she's like, this is our wedding. They should of course
come and not worry about the animals. So she's like,
please come, I will say a prayer and manifest good
things for the pig and the cow and the donkey.
Please come, and the dad tells us. Paula thinks she
knows what should happen, but she might not understand the
full situation and I will never speak to Thomas's mother
ever again.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be bad with both parents there. It
could kind of ruin the whole thing because Thomas will
be so worried about you know, low up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the dad is like, well, it's your wedding
and you two are the most important people that need
to be there, so basically, don't worry about us if
we're not there.
Speaker 1: So, I mean, I'm glad that he invited his mom
and I'm glad for whatever the situation is that they're
able to have a relationship. Now. Yeah, but that has
to be hard, as you know, we don't know how
long the stepmom's been the stepmom. And if she feels
like I completely raise these kids, this woman made my
husband's life hell, then totally, then you can see why
she's so bitter about it. And while she got so
pissed with Paula posted all those pictures. But Paula didn't
know that it's not Paula's past a bear. You know. Okay,
you sent me this picture, let me look at it. No,
I don't think that's a pat of butter on his hair. Ahead.
I think that. Let me okay, I think it is
his cowboy hat. It's got like a feather or something.
I think, oh, okay, I think it's part of the hat.
But it's funny that you thought it was a pat
of butter. I didn't.
Speaker 2: Maybe because I can't have butter right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe because you're hungry. Okay. Let's sten with Mallory
and rash Sheet and well, when I talked to her,
she did call him rash it.
Speaker 2: She did interesting, and I was like, just what you.
Speaker 1: Guys used to rush Now you're saying rash it and
I was calling him rash sheet.
Speaker 2: Damn, it's not rush it. Though it's definitely rash sheet.
I don't think that rash it is the way it's pronounced.
Speaker 1: Well, I did like how she talked about him brading
his mother's hair. I thought it was cute. So got
lots of nice comments on my interview with her. People
are some people in the comments going under it and
saying things like he's a loser, you should nump with
me on and wants your money. I was like, you know,
let's don't.
Speaker 2: Let's just I don't think that's true. But I do
think he's being an asshole and a lot of is
I'm always happy with him in this episode, yes, but
there's a lot of conflicting information on social media because,
like one person said, they did get married and they
like saw proof of it. But he's on social media
in Turkey saying he doesn't have a wife.
Speaker 1: So I think all that's fake and I think they
are married. I don't know that for I didn't ask.
I mean I had a TLC person on the thing
with me. I didn't ask. This is just my thought
because I believe in their love and I think that
they probably did get married. He could just be visiting. Yeah,
and once again, let's roll the tape when Ray Payne
is wrong at the end of the season.
Speaker 2: Okay, so most people do get married, so it would
be truly shocking if they don't get married.
Speaker 1: It'd be truly shocking if it doesn't work out. As
much as they love each other. But you know, when
I talked to her, they really only dated like four
months before they did the visa, and she'd only been
over there like twice.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 1: So it was a little crazy. She had there four
times total, and the fourth time was when they were
filming and she picked them up to bring him back.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was only it was less than a
two year window, but you know, when you're young. Yeah. Okay,
So these two were going to a farm league type
of baseball game in Huntsville. The team was called the
trash Pandas, which is hilarious because Huntsville does have like
a full NASA thing. Like I told her on the interview,
my friend Juki used to work at like the space camp.
So it is funny that they would shoot. The town
got to choose the name, and they chose trash Pandas
instead of rockets. That's funny, which is hilarious.
Speaker 2: So also I do think that White Trash Party was
quite tongue in cheek because oh, yeah, there are, like
you said, NASA, there's lots of really big companies. Yeah
that people work at that live in that town. So
it's not Hicksville, US, No, it's not.
Speaker 1: So the team is called trash Pannas and she goes,
you know, at baseball games when they do them, you know,
somebody throws out the first pitch, it's like ceremonial, and
she goes, you know, who's gonna do it?
Speaker 2: He goes, oh, like it's gonna be some Turkish celebrity
that he's heard.
Speaker 1: Of, Kevin Costner, and she goes you. He's like, no,
what is so funny? And then they're talking Eddy. He's like,
I'm gonna throw it eleven miles. She was like, you're
gonna throw it? What? And then he keeps like holding
up his muscle and she's like, I don't know what
you're saying. So they meet up with Mikayla and her
husband Wren spelled Ryan Wren and and then Brandon is there,
pan overdoor Brandy. Brandy's there, and the talking head Brandon says, uh,
you know, with Rash, it's been nothing but straight disrespect
and why even invite me if all he's gonna do
is throw shade my way, Like you know, uh, I'm
an ally, not an enemy, So I don't know what
to do about this guy. But if he keeps it up,
I will be the enemy and he don't want that.
M So Rash is so excited. He throws out the
first pitch and he's there asking him where he learned
about baseball, and he says Twilight. So they play base
on Twilight.
Speaker 2: They have that slow motion game in the Field.
Speaker 1: No, I don't know. I never saw Twilight.
Speaker 2: It's funny just because they've aired, like on social media,
people have put the scene without music, without the dramatic music,
and it just looks ridiculous because they're just like jumping
in slow and slow motion and running really fast, but
it's all like slow. It's very dramatic, but there's no music,
and you see how stupid it is.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I guess in Twilight they played baseball and
that's where he learned it. Yeah, So they all go
to sit afterwards, and she's gonna sit next to Brandon
and he's like, no, you can't sit there. I will
sit there. She's like what, He goes, you can't sit
by Randon. So she's like, oh god, all right. So
the national anthem is starting to play and Brandy goes,
get up. Now. I agree with Rash in this sense
that Brandon didn't have to say it like that, But
Rash's being such a dick to him. So what else
is he gonna Mallory? Was it saying to him stand up.
Speaker 2: Malloried and stand up either, By the way, I watched it,
like three times she they say please rise for the
national anthem? She's still sitting. She's still sitting until Brandon
kicks them, and it's like, get up, get up. Why
didn't she say something like she.
Speaker 1: Should have said, oh, this in our culture, this is
where we stand up. You have to take your hat off,
you know. Yeah, so this makes it mad and he
says in Turkish culture. She says, well, I don't know
why you're mad. In Turkish culture, you guys are so
proud and you even take this stuff more seriously than
Americans do. He goes, in Turkish culture, I would have
politely said, okay, this is a time where we stand
up and let me explain it to you. You're always
taking But she didn't do that.
Speaker 2: Then you haven't been politely talking to Brandon.
Speaker 1: Wow. And he goes, you're always on brandy side and
she goes, no, I'm not. He goes, it's breaking my
heart because you're always on Brandy's side. She's like, oh
my god.
Speaker 2: He needs to stop saying that that's the new Like,
I'll go back to it. I go Russia.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So Mallory and Michaela go to get some beers
and the guys are all sitting together. So Rashid asked
the guy's questions about like the game, the game of baseball,
and Brandon starts to talk and he cuts him off.
He goes, no, I only want to listen to wren.
Speaker 2: This is that that he's being such a dick. He's
being a dick, and brand the fact that Brandon was
going to explain baseball to him, like was still trying.
Speaker 1: Still trying, after he'd been so rude. Yeah, So Brandon goes, well,
if you just want to listen to him, I go
get a beer. So he goes to get a beer
and Wrenn says, hey, listen, I've known Brandon a really
long time and he is my best friend in the
world and he is a good guy. And Russian goes, okay, okay,
and he goes, I just want to let him know
he has no intentions with your wife. Wife wife again again. Oop, Sorry,
I hit my microphone, and it says, just just give
him some time and get you'll see the good side
of him. You just have to give it some time.
And she says, no, I do not want him to
be friends with me and my wife. This is my
culture and we don't do this. So Mallory comes and
she's just being so fun. She's like, here, look it's
funny because it's a beer and a baseball bat, Like.
Speaker 2: It's funny, disgusting, it's hot, flat beer. Yeah, in a
plastic bat with micro plastics.
Speaker 1: By the time you get to the bottom, it's going
to be real gross gross. And so she goes, look,
it's fun and she hits it to him and he.
Speaker 2: Goes, also, let's not add alcohol to this already Volatiley graduation.
Speaker 1: And he goes, I don't want and she goes, oh hell,
and then she goes, you know you're putting everybody here
in a difficult position. He goes, I don't care, and
she goes, okay, so you don't care about me, and
he goes, I do care about you, but I don't
want this, and she says, Mikayla and I play this
whole day, so y'all could squash this beef and hang out.
And Branda says, yeah, man, I thought, like after the party,
we decided we would have mutual respect and rush. She says, no,
after the party, I told you delete my number, delete
Mallory's number. I don't want to be friends with you,
and Brandy goes, well, that's not how it works. And
that's not your choice to make. And Mallory goes, yeah,
he's not going anywhere, he's going to be around and
you need to get over it. And right, she says,
this is not right in my culture, and so she goes, okay, well,
then put on your big boy pants and move the
fuck on. And he says, no, don't say anything else
because I don't want and I don't want to be
friends with him. So Brandon goes, I have been straight
up with you and you have shown me nothing but disrespect.
And right, she says, for the last time, I will
say it, I don't want to be friends with you.
And Brandon then throws his bag of popcorn on the
ground like towards his feet at him and he goes, oh,
this conversation is so I'm leaving, I'm dipping, I'm out
of here.
Speaker 2: And he leaves.
Speaker 1: So we're talking to head Rush. She goes, who does
he think he is? He just has the height and
that's it. He's trying to lecture me with his tiny brain.
Fuck off. Okay, you Rash, You are being a complete
dick here and we like you and we think you're key,
which such an asshole. Yeah, so now right. Valerie looks
over and goes, are you eating the popcorn that he
threw at you? And he goes, yeah, it's good.
Speaker 2: I was fine with that. I was like, that popcorn
is probably eight dollars.
Speaker 1: Yes, so long as he didn't touch the ground, it's fine, delicious.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: She goes, well, I'm completely embarrassed and I want to go,
and he goes, all right, So I'm talking to her.
She goes, I'm annoyed, I'm angry, and I think he's
just pushing Brandon to make Brandon look like the villain.
So in the car, she goes, I'm not happy with you. You're
just being a complete dick, Like, why can't you just
say hey and shake his hand? That's all it has
to be. What is the issue, and there doesn't have
to be an issue, And then she's starts it. I'm like,
I don't have any family here. My friends are my family.
And when I had the car accident, and he says, baby,
they are not your family. She says, I am talking,
she says, and she says, when that car accident happened,
I only had my friends, and one of my friends
who stepped a big time was Brandon and he goes, Okay,
that was then, but I'm here for you now. I'm
here for you now. She goes, I understand you couldn't
be here and that wasn't your fault. And she keeps
trying to talk and he goes he literally like makes
fun of her, and he goes, wait, are you like this,
and he goes, listen to me first. Listen to me first.
If I don't like your friends, you delete for me.
I deleted my family for you.
Speaker 2: Now, this is a huge warning. This is like a
woe man out there. If a man wants to isolate
you from your support group, bad red flag, red flags,
red flags.
Speaker 1: We're waving them. We're waving them. I'm so happy to
be back at home with my tiny red flag and
not the one I made out a duct tape. And
he doesn't quite understand this term because he's saying, you
can delete your friends for me, I deleted my family
for you, Like, no, you didn't know.
Speaker 2: You did leave your whole family for one hundred percent.
But that doesn't mean it should just be you and
herror against the world, right, Like her friends can become
your new friends and your new family.
Speaker 1: And you can also make other friends then you can
make other friends, and then they can become her friends,
you know, m hm. And she goes, okay, you didn't
delete your family, and he goes, I'm here for you,
So what do you think I'm here for you? So
talking head Mallory goes, this is terrifying. We're supposed to
get married in two months. This is not the man
I fell in love with. I did not sign up
for a man who was possessive and controlling. Maybe it
is a culture thing, and he did give up his
entire world to be with me. But on the other hand,
we're in America and I'm an American and I'm not
putting up with this. Yeah, So he goes, what do
you want? So what do you want? And she goes,
I want you to apologize to him. This is ridiculous
at this point. It doesn't matter what happened in the past.
You're just being a dick to him now. And he goes, really, really,
you're breaking my heart with this. And so then they
walk in the front door and she just like slams
the door like he goes, bye, slams the door in
his days. So I'm talking, Eddie says, she really broke
my heart first with this contract, the pre nap, and
now with Brandy and I am the husband. You have
to take my side. So obviously next week something else happened,
so it's gonna be okay.
Speaker 2: But next week looks very fun.
Speaker 1: It does.
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm excited next time.
Speaker 1: On Edward and Marissa are having drinks at someone's house
and he Edward says to the guys, okay, so what
do you do for a job, And the one guy
goes on, but You'm in finance, and the other one says,
I'm an insurance broker, and talking to Eddie goes, these
are the kind of people I would take care of
the hotel, and now I'm hanging out with them. It's crazy,
But I mean, she's the kind of person you would
take care of a hotel, and you did take care
of her at the hotel, and one you banged her
and then you banged her. So Marissa says to her friends,
I feel like I'm losing myself and what should I do?
And the one friend goes, this is the Marissa I know,
all right, Okay, Annabel goes to church and is real judgy.
She didn't like it. She's making fun of it. She's like, yeah,
we're gonna clap, We're gonna see what are we doing?
This is where we're standing. I hate this. And then
they're outside and Alison goes, well, I'm not changing churches
just because she wants to, and then Annabel tells Alison,
once again, you act like a spoiled brat. It's not
gonna go over well. Asha calls her brother cousin, the
guy that we met before, huh, and she goes, well,
we decided we're gonna go ahead and get married. And
he says, bitch, you crazy, and she goes being very
disrespectful and he goes, bitch, are you crazy? Are you
pregnant or something or what? So then I think that's
a red hair match.
Speaker 2: Shirk take out. Yeah, I'm not sure, fake out, because
she gives a look like, oh no, he knows that
I'm pregnant.
Speaker 1: He could tell by my face. Now we see Mallory
and her friends altogether, same group. Brandon's there, and she says,
maybe y'all can help. Raw shen't understand I want a
prenup and Michaela goes, I'm the one who actually suggested it,
and Brandon said. Brandon says, did you ever take into consideration.
He packed up his whole life and moved here. And
Rynn says, he has put everything he has into you.
Why not do the same and put everything you have
into him?
Speaker 2: And Rash is like, hmmm, I.
Speaker 1: Just like maybe these guys are something.
Speaker 2: Brandy has my side interesting. Maybe I'll call him Brandon
from now on.
Speaker 1: And this man with the tiny breen seems to have
some been good thoughts. Mmmmm ah God. Then Devi tells
me too. She has a surprise for him. She takes
him to a little chapel and says, what do you
think it's a place where you can get married? Because
I think that I think they are coming down to
like the last ten days. Yeah, and he goes, I
think he looks tired.
Speaker 2: When he sees that it's a chapel.
Speaker 1: He goes like this, He goes, I think it is
time to go home to my country. And then she
goes outside and falls to her knees crying. Wow.
Speaker 2: I wonder if it was like a test, like I'm
going to take him to this chapel where really, this
is a time to prove it to me. Are you
here for me to get married or not?
Speaker 1: Or maybe She's like, I'm gonna take in this chapel
make him marry me because in the vows it says love,
and that'll be my chance exactly because she's already said
she wants a real proposal and a ring and he's
clearly not doing that.
Speaker 2: No, they're giving Danielle and Mohammed read.
Speaker 1: We were when he was like, yiss her because it's all.
Speaker 2: Better, and yeah, yeah he couldn't. It's rama, don I
can't kiss you.
Speaker 1: I can't kiss you, so so high to the marriage.
Speaker 2: Now during this ceremony in front of your friend.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Now that's it. Now. I don't know
if you have a Kimberly's Corner because I don't know
if I don't.
Speaker 2: But I don't really have time. I have to run
to a doctor's appointment a follow up.
Speaker 1: Okay, well here's what I will tell you. Yeah, when
we record for Last Resort, which comes out on Friday's
on the Prime Feed, guys, five dollars a month, four episodes,
there's going to be a surprise for you for Kimberly's Corner.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so excited.
Speaker 1: Everybody tune in. Kimberly's Corner is going to have it's
going to be it's a it's a it's a surprise.
I'll just say that. I don't want to say anything.
I can only give it away everybody that's it. Kimberly
and Katie have a podcast it's called A Date with Dateline.
I watched whatever Dateline was on Friday about the bluegrass
something something. Are you guys can bring that? Yes, he
has a short one. It was only like an hour.
Speaker 2: I know they're putting the summer ones on now, but.
Speaker 1: Anyway, I always watch so that I can listen, and
then I like to listen to Talking Dateline as well.
Speaker 2: And so we had an interview with Josh Mekoitz.
Speaker 1: Listened and watched all the clips.
Speaker 2: Oh thank you.
Speaker 1: It was really good. So guys, go subscribe to Kimberly
and Katie on YouTube A Date with Kay and Kay
subscribe to me as well Pink Shade Pod. You can
watch this episode there, and you can watch the interview
with Josh ma Koitz. There was really good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, I forgot sailed it.
Speaker 1: You nailed it. Make sure you're following us on social
media at Date Dateline, at peak Shade Pod and we
will see you this weekend to talk about last resorts. Okay,
bye bye,