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Speaker 1: It is time for second Date Update. We're in New

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Britain this morning. Colton is on the line. Hey Colton, Hello, Hey,

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welcome to the show. I know you want to be

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on second Date Update because you're getting ghosted after a

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first date. So tell me about this first date with

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a girl. Name is it Jesse?

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, that's correct, Jesse.

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Speaker 3: Tell us about the date.

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Speaker 2: So the date actually went really great and we have

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a ton in common and I really want to see

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her again. Okay, but I'm not sure it's happening.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: We were like flirting on the date, you know, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, did you go to dinner? Did you have drinks?

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You like, what did you do on your date?

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Speaker 2: We did the whole thing. We did dinner, drinks, and

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a movie.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, old the traditional dates. So it's not even like

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it was a weird date where you could be like, oh.

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Speaker 1: I don't get it, okay, and you thought that there

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was flirting, like you felt like there was a connection

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and you were flirting definitively.

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Speaker 2: There was chemistry, okay, Like I was like, oh, this

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is going somewhere.

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Speaker 3: Hey.

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Speaker 2: It was easy.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Colin, let me ask you a question. You didn't

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send her a picture of your junk afterwards? Did you?

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Because this happened a few weeks ago on second date.

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Speaker 2: Up date, that was date situation.

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Speaker 3: Okay, see at least he waits till the third date.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha, And that's also not a good idea, Colton, So.

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Speaker 2: Did you the chemistry is there?

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Speaker 3: Oh? My god? Okay? Did you reach out to her

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after the date?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: Did you text her? Call?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I texted her and I was like, so are

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we thinking another date? And then she texted me a

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literal thinking emoji? Okay, and then went dark. That's it?

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Speaker 6: Wait, the one that's like like fingers on the chin,

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like looking up suspiciously.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, Like hmmm, so she was kind of like,

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let me think about it, and then she never responded

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after that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I've been ghosted.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well we're gonna call her, but we're

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gonna find out why, because it sounds like a nice date.

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I don't know why she wouldn't have followed up with

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like I thought about it, ha ha ha.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get together. I guess we're gonna find out.

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Speaker 2: Awesome. Yeah, Hi, thank you, this is what we do.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be on hold, we're gonna call up Jesse.

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We're gonna ask her about the date. You're gonna be

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listening in. At any point, you can jump in and

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talk to her if you want.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, that sounds awesome.

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Speaker 3: Something's going on. Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 6: I feel like girls just don't sound like the think

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thinky emoji and then just like leave it there because

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I feel like that's either flirty or it's like maybe not.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hi, is Jesse there? Yes, Hi, Hey Jesse, it's Courtney Jesse.

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Speaker 4: It's Walmart Cheff.

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Speaker 1: Hey Jesse, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety

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five to seven.

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Speaker 3: I have to let you know you're on the radio

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this morning.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, okay, so you're.

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Speaker 3: On second Date Update. Hopefully you're familiar with the show.

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Speaker 1: And that's when somebody calls us if they've gone on

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a first date that was great, and then they get

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ghosted and they want answers, and.

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Speaker 3: That's why we're calling.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: So Colton called us. He said he went on a

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great first date with you. He said it was like

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a dinner, drinks, a movie. There was obvious flirting, obvious chemistry,

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and this is the part. He said he sent you

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a text suggesting you get together again, and you sent

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him the thinking emoji and then you went dark. Did

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you mean to like, did you want to follow up

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that thinking emoji was like yes, let's get together? Or

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did you like ghost.

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Speaker 3: Him for a reason?

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Speaker 5: So listen. The date was great, okay. However, a couple

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of days later, I was talking with my girlfriend Emma okay,

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and Emma told me she knew him okay, and that

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he was a total pig and like, Emma told me that.

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Two days before our date, she was out with some

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of her friends and he came up to her and

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he was like, you've great ass, and then like walked away,

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like I don't know that. Just I heard that, And

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I was like, hmm no.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I mean I've told Courtney her ass looks

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good and Geene something not what? No, sometimes do you

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want to I would love it if you did it? Yeah,

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Oh I wouldn't be offended. Okay, Yeah he's lying.

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Speaker 3: I was about to stand up and let him say

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it now.

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Speaker 4: But so, I mean maybe he's like me where he's

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just honest, like he kind of calls it as he

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sees it.

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Speaker 1: If you go up to a stranger in a bar

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and you say that, I think. I think you're probably right,

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Jesse is kind appropriate.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, No, it's gross, like like you come up to someone, Hey,

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my name is Hey, I thought you you're beautiful girl? Whatever,

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Hey nice ass babe, Like, get out of here.

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Speaker 3: I mean I would like it, but I'm different. Can

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we just bring Colton on? Colton?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 3: All right, listen, Jesse's on the line.

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Speaker 1: She thought the date was great until she talked to

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her girlfriend Emma.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you want to say anything to him? Jesse?

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Speaker 2: H yeah, I didn't know that you knew Emma. I

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didn't know that you two knew each there.

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Speaker 6: So wait, wait, wait, So we're addressing the fact that

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you don't know they knew each other, not the fact

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that you walked up to her friend and said, hey,

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nice ass, right.

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Speaker 2: Because I didn't do anything wrong, because Emma does have

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a great ass.

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Speaker 5: I just it just doesn't matter who it is. I think, like.

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Speaker 2: I hear.

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Speaker 5: To do it, not for me.

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Speaker 1: I think it's the fact that you walked up to

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a stranger, you don't even know her girlfriend, and you

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told shit a nice ass at a bar. It's just

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the type of guy that Jesse doesn't want to date.

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Speaker 3: Am I correct? Jesse?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but if.

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Speaker 2: You saw the ass, you would agree with me, and

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it would be weird not to say something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well Jesse, I know I know why

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you're ghosting of Jesse. You don't have to explain anything

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more to.

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Speaker 5: Me, Okay, I figured.

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Speaker 3: Just not not.

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Speaker 1: This is not like I usually offered to pay for

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a second date if you guys got to work, want

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to work through things. But I'm guessing this probably is

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that a no for you, Jesse?

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Speaker 5: Or yeah, that's a no for me?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, all right, No, listen, don't be sorry.

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Speaker 2: I mean I thought we hit it off. You know,

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I think I think you have a great ass too.

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Speaker 1: But em enough, I don't want this, Okay, I'm not

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going to put you any through, you through any more torture, Jesse.

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Thank you so much for being honest with us, cold

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and good luck. I hope you can find somebody that

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can put up with you being you like your rude behavior.

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I will, I'm sure, I'm sure you will, and it's

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not gonna be Jesse.

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Speaker 2: So all right, that's thinks, but this helps a lot.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you got your answers, good luck to

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both of you, and again, Jesse, thank you so much

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for being honest with us.

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Speaker 5: You're welcome