Speaker 1: Cancel, Higg, cancelge it not sorry?
Speaker 2: Andy? What's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing today?
Speaker 2: If you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to
Speaker 2: be here? So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast.
Speaker 2: Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry,
Speaker 2: but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered
Speaker 2: positive bitch self that is babe in true connection with
Speaker 2: herself or human self. On this podcast, we unbecome who
Speaker 2: we are not so we can fully step into exactly
Speaker 2: who we came here to be. I've had a influx
Speaker 2: of men reaching out to me, and I'm not going
Speaker 2: to change the intro of this podcast. I honor that
Speaker 2: you're here, but I'm not changing the intro. What is
Speaker 2: a positive bitch, a babe and true connection with herself,
Speaker 2: himself or human self. I don't care about your gender.
Speaker 2: I don't have enough time to care about that. I
Speaker 2: care that you are unbecoming who you are not and
Speaker 2: you are fully stepping into your power. Okay, everyone has
Speaker 2: an inner positive bitch. Everyone can tap into their inner
Speaker 2: positive bitch. So just know that men, thank you for
Speaker 2: being here, Women, thank you for being here. Anyone who
Speaker 2: is here welcome. Okay, you're all positive bitches in my eyes.
Speaker 2: This week, I was sitting at the dinner table and
Speaker 2: I said, next year, around this time of year, I
Speaker 2: just have a feeling I'm going to be in love.
Speaker 2: And then my great great great father said, oh, with
Speaker 2: someone else besides yourself. And you know what, I love
Speaker 2: my dad so much. He's one of my besties. He's
Speaker 2: one of my greatest teachers. But something flipped off in
Speaker 2: side of me where I had a fire ignited, and
Speaker 2: I said, you know what, I get to love myself.
Speaker 2: I get to do that. You know why, because I
Speaker 2: work on myself. I work on myself. I've been working
Speaker 2: on myself. I don't just go out. I don't live unconsciously.
Speaker 2: I read, I learn. I take time to become self
Speaker 2: aware of my past programs, and then I take it
Speaker 2: up a notch and I interrupt those programs, and then
Speaker 2: I take it up another notch, and then I rewire
Speaker 2: and integrate programs I actually want to live within. So
Speaker 2: many people have left my life. That's fine, because I
Speaker 2: know it's not rejection to tree direction, but all those
Speaker 2: people cannot see my value and my worth. So yeah,
Speaker 2: I get to I get to love myself. And the
Speaker 2: most revolutionary thing you can do on this plane that
Speaker 2: continuously tries to convince you to hate yourself is to
Speaker 2: love yourself, is to build yourself up. I've created me
Speaker 2: in union with God, obviously, but I have unbecome so
Speaker 2: much of myself. I get to love what I've built.
Speaker 2: I get to love this creation. And I paid for
Speaker 2: this level of love for myself because I've removed the
Speaker 2: people who were disrespecting me. I've allowed people to also
Speaker 2: leave when they wanted to. I've done the isolation, and
Speaker 2: I know I'll have more of it to come. I've
Speaker 2: done the prayer, I've done the gaining the knowledge, and
Speaker 2: there's always going to be more to do. That's just
Speaker 2: the nature of being a human being. But I get
Speaker 2: to love myself. And this conversation really inspired this episode
Speaker 2: how to protect our own energy, how to avoid energy vampires.
Speaker 2: That they don't want you to love yourself, they don't
Speaker 2: want you to respect yourself. The people who need you
Speaker 2: to have no boundaries are the people who consistently cross them.
Speaker 2: The best protection you can have against energy vampires, against haters,
Speaker 2: against anyone who's sending you negative energy is to love
Speaker 2: yourself so much that you don't allow them to take
Speaker 2: you down. It's to love yourself so much that you
Speaker 2: don't allow their negativity to infiltrate your brain and allow
Speaker 2: you to think that you're less than who you are.
Speaker 2: Today's episode, we are going to talk about how people
Speaker 2: will try to take your energy to harvest it and
Speaker 2: how you can protect yourself against this. It's imperative that
Speaker 2: you understand the energetic laws because baby, you live within them.
Speaker 2: And if you don't understand the energetic law, then you're
Speaker 2: going to unconsciously create circumstance that you do not like.
Speaker 2: The law will use you unless you learn how to
Speaker 2: to use the law, and when man obeys the law,
Speaker 2: the law will obey the man. You have so many
Speaker 2: options while being on this planet. You have the option
Speaker 2: of living unconsciously a feeling depleted every day because you
Speaker 2: allow people to take your energy from you, or you
Speaker 2: have the option to learn how to stand in your power,
Speaker 2: to learn how to protect your energy to not allow
Speaker 2: people to harvest your energy and use it against you.
Speaker 2: I make sure that I protect my energy by only
Speaker 2: putting the highest of vibration of food and nutrients and
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Speaker 2: The holiday season is here. Gift yourself something that's going
Speaker 2: to allow you to step into alignment. Speaking of stepping
Speaker 2: into alignment, if you want to work on your mind, body,
Speaker 2: and spirit and past programs, then you can join one
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Speaker 2: If you want to understand how to unlock hidden talent,
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Speaker 2: your demons into your light, how to stop attracting the
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Speaker 2: I also recently have released an Angel Numbers one oh
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Speaker 2: and how to decode the divine. This is a newer workbook,
Speaker 2: so you definitely don't have it yet. Be sure to
Speaker 2: check this out in the show notes. If you're not
Speaker 2: yet following me on Instagram, I've been doing Chattel messages
Speaker 2: basically every day so far this week. Be sure to
Speaker 2: follow there to see those. I realize if you're watching
Speaker 2: on YouTube, it does look like Heaven is outside my window,
Speaker 2: and that is because it is so enjoy the view.
Speaker 2: The other day I woke up and in my dream,
Speaker 2: something was telling me that we put their power within
Speaker 2: them because we knew that was the last place that
Speaker 2: they were going to look. We are so thirsty to
Speaker 2: find our power validation in other people and objects, in
Speaker 2: things outside of ourselves. We are so seduced by our
Speaker 2: three D senses that we rarely think to look within.
Speaker 2: But lo and behold, that is where our treasure lies.
Speaker 2: The internal world holds the key to your external reality.
Speaker 2: We put their power within them because we knew it
Speaker 2: was the last place that they were going to look.
Speaker 2: I believe we are so easily influenced to give our
Speaker 2: power away because we don't realize how powerful we are.
Speaker 2: But you, the listener, you are a living, walking, breathing spell.
Speaker 2: Your dominant thoughts and emotions are what cast your reality,
Speaker 2: your attention, your perception. That quite literally is your power
Speaker 2: because no one else has the same awareness, perception, reception
Speaker 2: that you have. In ancient times, men, emperors, kings would
Speaker 2: hire these high priestesses for guidance, insight, to understand what
Speaker 2: they should do next, what was going to be best
Speaker 2: for them, how to protect themselves. Every single one of
Speaker 2: us has this high priestess within ourselves where we can
Speaker 2: tap into the Acaciak record, we can tap into the ether.
Speaker 2: But instead we are giving our awareness away for free.
Speaker 2: We're giving our perception away for free. We're giving away
Speaker 2: our energy for free, and we're walking around like ghosts
Speaker 2: of Christmas past. That is what we are walking around like.
Speaker 2: I had to get to this point where I felt
Speaker 2: so depleted that I had to change. Too many people
Speaker 2: were seeing what I was creating and then trying to
Speaker 2: subconsciously take some of that life force energy from me,
Speaker 2: especially on the dating apps. I'm coming in with this information,
Speaker 2: this energy, this sort of bubbliness that I have, and
Speaker 2: I would give so much to a given conversation because
Speaker 2: I'm a yapper. And then after the conversation, I would
Speaker 2: feel terrible. And you know what these men would say
Speaker 2: to me, I feel invigorated, I feel so good, I
Speaker 2: feel so elevated. They were literally telling me how amazing
Speaker 2: they would feel after a FaceTime after a date, and
Speaker 2: I remember and I don't want to sound pick meisha.
Speaker 2: I have to take this off because I'm starting to sweat.
Speaker 2: I don't want to sound pick mesha. Okay, but I
Speaker 2: would have this effect on people. I know why. I
Speaker 2: was just depleting myself of all my resources and energy.
Speaker 2: And I remember literally falling into my mom's arms. This
Speaker 2: was like a couple of months ago, and I started
Speaker 2: crying because I was telling her, I don't understand. All
Speaker 2: these people are like, you're my wife, You're this, You're that.
Speaker 2: I feel so energized, and I hate them all. Okay,
Speaker 2: hate this is such a strong word. I don't hate anybody,
Speaker 2: do I know? I don't hate anybody. But I told
Speaker 2: her there's something wrong that I'm never liking anyone, and
Speaker 2: they're all patostolen me. You know what's happening. And I
Speaker 2: realized through that process that I was giving all of
Speaker 2: my energy away. They were not. They were harvesting my energy.
Speaker 2: I was giving away my energy and they were harvesting it,
Speaker 2: so they felt great. I did not. And as a woman,
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to be the harvester. I'm supposed to be
Speaker 2: the gatherer, not the giver of all my energy. The
Speaker 2: men in tribal times would hunt, they would go get
Speaker 2: the whatever and bring it back, and we as women,
Speaker 2: would harvest, we would gather. I was doing the exact opposite,
Speaker 2: which is in my nature, and that is why I
Speaker 2: was walking around like an empty shell. The feminine energy
Speaker 2: is the creative energy, so people naturally want to hook
Speaker 2: onto someone who's embodying their divine feminine energy. You will
Speaker 2: attract narcissistic people, people who are low on energy, people
Speaker 2: who don't have their own connection to the divine, and
Speaker 2: they're gonna see you and they're going to want to
Speaker 2: harness your connection to the divine, your feminine energy, your
Speaker 2: creative process. I would attract a lot of people who
Speaker 2: were either in the similar fields as me or wanted
Speaker 2: to be, and I could just feel and they were
Speaker 2: great people, but I could just feel them wanting to
Speaker 2: take something from me, not actually wanting to be in
Speaker 2: a relationship with me or give to me. They wanted
Speaker 2: to take from me my connection with the divine. They
Speaker 2: wanted to take from me my feminine energy. And now,
Speaker 2: in a normal relationship, that's actually not a bad thing.
Speaker 2: So if this person was equally giving their masculine energy
Speaker 2: to me, this would not be a problem because in
Speaker 2: relationship that's what you do. The feminine energy shows up,
Speaker 2: she nurtures, she gives. The masculine energy also gives, but
Speaker 2: in a different way. However, these relationships were unbalanced, and
Speaker 2: that's why it felt so depleting to me. People will
Speaker 2: try to harvest your feminine energy, your creative energy, and
Speaker 2: your connection to God. They're gonna see that light within
Speaker 2: you and they're gonna want to take it from you,
Speaker 2: not because they're evil, but subconsciously, everyone wants to feel fulfilled.
Speaker 2: Everyone wants to feel satisfied. Everyone also wants to have
Speaker 2: that connection to the divine. They all want to feel
Speaker 2: God even though they have no idea that's what they're
Speaker 2: actually striving for. The divine feminine is so special, and
Speaker 2: so many men, especially the people that I was dating,
Speaker 2: I'm telling you based on my own experience, they would
Speaker 2: literally say I just want comfort because they don't really
Speaker 2: have that with each other when they have conversations. They're
Speaker 2: not venting, they're not psychoanalyzing women's behavior. We know as women,
Speaker 2: we will go to our friends, they did this, and
Speaker 2: they did this, and they did this. Why do you think?
Speaker 2: Why do you think? And we will sit down for
Speaker 2: hours and make a diagram of why we think someone
Speaker 2: did what they did. Men don't do that. They lack comfort.
Speaker 2: They lack the divine feminine energy, so they're craving it.
Speaker 2: They want it. But when you just give it away
Speaker 2: for free, you deplete yourself. They don't give an equal
Speaker 2: energetic exchange, and then you're walking around feeling terrible. Every
Speaker 2: single human being on the planet is both divine feminine
Speaker 2: and divine masculine. We have these energies within us. Every
Speaker 2: single one of us has both. We tap into our
Speaker 2: divine feminine energy when we're creative, tapping into intuition when
Speaker 2: we're allowing ourselves to feel. When we're nurturing someone or
Speaker 2: something like a plant, or we can tap into our
Speaker 2: divine masculine energy. That's when we're being goal oriented, when
Speaker 2: we're completing tasks, when we are focusing on creating structure.
Speaker 2: All of us have both of these energies. Most women
Speaker 2: lead with their divine feminine. Most men lead with their
Speaker 2: divine masculine. The way that people harvest your divine feminine energy,
Speaker 2: the way they take it from you. And I know
Speaker 2: everyone wants to fight me on this. I don't know
Speaker 2: what to tell you. Society loves to lie to you.
Speaker 2: They don't actually care about you. Follow the money trail,
Speaker 2: and then you'll start to figure it out. Stop sleeping
Speaker 2: with everyone and their father. Stop doing it, stop it,
Speaker 2: stop it, stop it. It's not good for you. Something happens,
Speaker 2: and it's called energetic transferens. I didn't make this up.
Speaker 2: I wasn't born and said, you know what I want
Speaker 2: to do, make everyone stop sleeping with each other. That's
Speaker 2: not my goal in life. My goal in life is
Speaker 2: to help you under stand how energy works. Energy transference
Speaker 2: is real. That's why when you talk to someone and
Speaker 2: a trauma dump on you, you walk away feeling terrible.
Speaker 2: Imagine sleeping with that person. You're taking on all their
Speaker 2: negative energy, all their trauma, all their demons. Now, if
Speaker 2: you love them and you guys have an equal energetic exchange,
Speaker 2: and maybe they're going through a difficulties, and that's one thing.
Speaker 2: But if you're sleeping with random people you don't know,
Speaker 2: have fun attracting random demons into your life. And I
Speaker 2: don't say this to scare you. I say this to
Speaker 2: you so you can understand what you're doing to yourself.
Speaker 2: You're choosing self destruction when you're going around sleeping with
Speaker 2: random people. You're giving them your divine feminine energy. It's
Speaker 2: not even working out for you. If I had to guess,
Speaker 2: I don't even have a crystal ball in front of
Speaker 2: me right now, But if I had a guess, you
Speaker 2: sleeping with all these people, they're not committing to you.
Speaker 2: They're not giving you what you're really wanting. They're not
Speaker 2: satisfying you emotional fulfillment. Yeah, okay, okay, yeah, that's definitely
Speaker 2: not happening. What they are doing is taking your energy.
Speaker 2: And then once they get your divine feminine energy, they're like, Okay,
Speaker 2: got what I needed. They don't even know what they're doing.
Speaker 2: They're so unconscious, they have no idea what they're doing.
Speaker 2: You have to choose to use your energy, your mind,
Speaker 2: your attention, and your body in better ways. You want
Speaker 2: to use your body, go do a workout for yourself
Speaker 2: that will elevate you. You are connected to source, and
Speaker 2: other people know this, and then they're gonna want to
Speaker 2: take the source that flows through you because they don't
Speaker 2: have their own connection. They don't know how to do it.
Speaker 2: The Bible literally says when a man finds a wife,
Speaker 2: he finds a good thing. You know why, because he
Speaker 2: then has this connection to source that is unlike his connection.
Speaker 2: Women have this vessel, this portal between their legs, and
Speaker 2: we have a divine connection to God. We do we do?
Speaker 2: Or intuition just hits different. Are their intuitive men out
Speaker 2: so freaking lutely, But overall women more so have this connection.
Speaker 2: You'll see so many times that when a man gets married,
Speaker 2: he ends up doing better in his business. My dad,
Speaker 2: he's a mathematical brain, very business oriented, but he credits
Speaker 2: my mom, who's the exact opposite of him, very intuitive, creative,
Speaker 2: making gingerbread houses. He credits her for being a huge
Speaker 2: part of his success because he would talk to her
Speaker 2: and she would have insight, and he would tell me,
Speaker 2: I have no idea how your mother even knew to
Speaker 2: say this, because she knows nothing about what I'm talking about,
Speaker 2: and she was always right. He's like, I would take
Speaker 2: my problems to her because intuitively she would just know
Speaker 2: what to do, even though she had no idea anything
Speaker 2: about the business. Women are tapped in, tuned in, and
Speaker 2: we have an ability to see beyond the veil in
Speaker 2: ways that are different than the masculine. That's why when
Speaker 2: we come together we make such a great team. Because
Speaker 2: the masculine has strength that the divine feminine doesn't, and
Speaker 2: the divine feminine has strength that the masculine doesn't. And
Speaker 2: when you come together, you create a beautiful union where
Speaker 2: you both can use your strength, put them together and
Speaker 2: make one another stronger. A man who finds a wife
Speaker 2: finds a good thing because he now is going to
Speaker 2: gain access to higher dimensions, to higher knowledge and wisdom.
Speaker 2: There is this story about Jesus, a well and a woman,
Speaker 2: and we're gonna talk about it. It sheds light on
Speaker 2: this episode. Jesus offers this woman he sees at the
Speaker 2: well living water, saying, those who drink it will never
Speaker 2: thirst again. He says, if you knew the gift of
Speaker 2: God and who it is that asks you for a drink,
Speaker 2: you would have asked him and he would have given
Speaker 2: you a living water. Sir, the woman said, you have
Speaker 2: nothing to draw with, and the well is deep. Where
Speaker 2: can you get this living water? Are you greater than
Speaker 2: our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drink
Speaker 2: from it himself, as he did also his sons and
Speaker 2: his livestock. Jesus answered, everyone who drinks this water will
Speaker 2: be thirsty again. But whoever drinks the water I give
Speaker 2: them never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will
Speaker 2: become in them a spring of water welling up to
Speaker 2: eternal life. Jesus is explaining that the living water he
Speaker 2: offers will lead you to eternal life, contrasting it with
Speaker 2: the physical water that temporarily quenches thirst. Come on the
Speaker 2: journey with me, Okay. When you keep giving your energy,
Speaker 2: your divine fem energy to random's, When you keep giving
Speaker 2: them your body, your time, your attention, your awareness, what
Speaker 2: you're doing is looking for something to temporarily quench your thirst.
Speaker 2: It's not working. If you want to actually quench your thirst,
Speaker 2: you need to date yourself. You have to date the divine.
Speaker 2: You need to give yourself your energy. What's going to
Speaker 2: give you the greatest return on investment? Is it talking
Speaker 2: to the random chads and brads of the world who
Speaker 2: give you nothing but the bare minimum? Or could it
Speaker 2: be giving your own energy to yourself. If they're not
Speaker 2: gonna give you energy, don't you think that maybe you
Speaker 2: should give yourself energy. Don't you think that would manifest
Speaker 2: better results for yourself and out there. You're looking to
Speaker 2: quench your thirst, but you're doing it by getting these
Speaker 2: two ounce cups, and it's never going to work. Continuously
Speaker 2: sleeping with the brads and chads who give you nothing
Speaker 2: is not going to quench what you're looking for. Continuously
Speaker 2: allowing the bare minimum into your life is not going
Speaker 2: to quench what you're looking for. Continuously allowing people to
Speaker 2: ghosts you come back, ghosts you come back is not
Speaker 2: going to quench what you're looking for. You want the
Speaker 2: living water ascension is not upwards, it's inward. Look with
Speaker 2: in date yourself. Read a damn book Show Up as
Speaker 2: Her for example, great book to read I know the
Speaker 2: author quite well. Jesus then tells her to go call
Speaker 2: on her husband, and I don't know why, but I
Speaker 2: feel like Jesus throws shade at this woman. This part's
Speaker 2: so I have to read it. She says she doesn't
Speaker 2: have a husband. So then Jesus says, you are right
Speaker 2: when you say you have no husband. The fact is
Speaker 2: you have had five husbands and the man you have
Speaker 2: now is not your husband. What you have just said
Speaker 2: is quite true. Why does that come off as shade?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Is Jesus shading this woman right now? I mean period?
Speaker 2: Some people interpret her having five husbands as symbolic of
Speaker 2: spiritual searching. Many of us are collecting not five husbands,
Speaker 2: but perhaps bodies because you're sleeping with them and then
Speaker 2: you're taking on their demons. So you're just collecting their demons.
Speaker 2: What I collect, crystals, not demons. No, no, no, thank
Speaker 2: you not thank you? Uh yeah hmm. Interesting. Stop collecting
Speaker 2: what's depleting you thinking it's going to quench your thirst,
Speaker 2: no matter how much attention you get from men who
Speaker 2: just like you when you post a pretty picture, no
Speaker 2: matter how many men randomly buy you a drink at
Speaker 2: the bar or try to sleep with you. Also, it's
Speaker 2: not really a compliment that someone finds you attractive, awesome, cool,
Speaker 2: I don't okay, great, that doesn't mean anything. Attention is
Speaker 2: not enough. Attraction is not even enough. You have to
Speaker 2: have morals of values and a commitment to grow with someone. Hello.
Speaker 2: That is what's going to quench your thirst, more so
Speaker 2: than someone just liking your photo on Instagram. Ugh, gross, gross, disgusting.
Speaker 2: The fact she's living with a man who is not
Speaker 2: her husband might represent her continued longing for fulfillment, but
Speaker 2: she has not yet found exactly. You're not going to
Speaker 2: find your fulfillment in fleeting relationships, and you know it.
Speaker 2: I'm not telling you anything that's newsworthy. If anything, I'm
Speaker 2: confirming that little voice inside of your head that's been
Speaker 2: telling you to get away from this person for months
Speaker 2: if they're not treating you correctly. So the five husbands
Speaker 2: could also represent our five senses. A lot of us
Speaker 2: get seduced by our five senses and we let our
Speaker 2: ego lead us. Well, he has this car or she
Speaker 2: has this job, and he's doing this or she's doing that,
Speaker 2: and that makes them so cool. They have cool friends.
Speaker 2: I don't know something like that, and we allow our
Speaker 2: senses to choose our partner for us rather than our intuition. Hello. No,
Speaker 2: if you want to avoid burnout, consult the divine. Follow
Speaker 2: your intuition, not just what the chemical cocktail in your
Speaker 2: body's saying. Because chemistry is a tricky little thing, now,
Speaker 2: isn't it. Chemistry is your body picking up on a
Speaker 2: similar dynamic you have with the caregiver you create love
Speaker 2: from the most. It doesn't mean this person's actually good
Speaker 2: for you. If your father was absent, you're probably going
Speaker 2: to love the alcoholic or the workaholic someone who's also
Speaker 2: going to be absent in your life. Watch out for
Speaker 2: that one. Don't look for a chemical cocktail. Look for
Speaker 2: a cosmic connection. Someone who feels like safety, someone who
Speaker 2: feels grounded, someone who communicates, someone who's consistent. Consistent. You
Speaker 2: must ask the divine for I to see, ears to hear,
Speaker 2: and a heart full of discernment, so you can clearly
Speaker 2: see the right person for you, so you can clearly
Speaker 2: see when your divine partner is in front of you.
Speaker 2: If you are repeatedly feeling like your thirst is never
Speaker 2: being quenched by the people you're surrounded with, your thirst
Speaker 2: is never being quenched by the reality that you've built.
Speaker 2: It's because you're using the wrong senses. You're being seduced
Speaker 2: by your three D reality, thinking it's going to give
Speaker 2: you an emotional end result, and it's not working. If
Speaker 2: you want to quench your thirst, you have to go
Speaker 2: inside of yourself meditation, prayer, dating, yourself reading. How am
Speaker 2: I satisfying my own energy? How am I quenching my
Speaker 2: own thirst? First of all, I call my power back
Speaker 2: to me every single day. And I don't just call
Speaker 2: my power back from the brads and chads of this timeline.
Speaker 2: I call my back from past timelines too. I have
Speaker 2: a very specific dealing within me that my past timelines
Speaker 2: are much harder than this one. I'm talking possibly burnt
Speaker 2: at the stake. I'm talking ancient times. I'm talking not
Speaker 2: much power to go around. I'm talking failed missions. So
Speaker 2: what I do is I say, I lovingly, peacefully call
Speaker 2: all my power back to me now from every timeline,
Speaker 2: every dimension, and every person. I'm not leaving my energy
Speaker 2: in any corner of any energetic universe. I need my
Speaker 2: energy to build my business. I need my energy to
Speaker 2: create my courses. I need my energy to write my books,
Speaker 2: don't I yes, So I can't just be giving it
Speaker 2: to him and him and him. I know what my
Speaker 2: energy can do because I've seen what it has done
Speaker 2: in my own life. I'm able to build up platforms.
Speaker 2: I'm able to write a book, I'm able to create courses.
Speaker 2: I'm able to have my own business. I know what
Speaker 2: my energy can do, and therefore I cannot just give
Speaker 2: it to anyone. I also will transmute any weirdo energy
Speaker 2: that is sent my way, whether I feel like it's
Speaker 2: men trying to steal my feminine energy just by looking
Speaker 2: at me and they're lusting after me, or if I
Speaker 2: feel like someone is looking at me and for whatever reason,
Speaker 2: they want to send negativity my way, I will say
Speaker 2: to myself, any negative energy sent my way, I transmute
Speaker 2: into abundance or higher vibrational energy. If I feel like
Speaker 2: someone's lusting after me, I'll say any energy that is
Speaker 2: lusting after me, I transmute into financial abundance. I think
Speaker 2: it's really important that in order to make sure that
Speaker 2: you're using your energy instead of giving it away and
Speaker 2: allowing other people to harvest it, that you check in
Speaker 2: with your intentions. I think a lot of us will
Speaker 2: wear makeup or dress a certain way because we want
Speaker 2: the attention from others, or maybe not attention but validation.
Speaker 2: Maybe not validation but acceptance. Maybe it's coming from insecurity.
Speaker 2: So I really myself and I make sure that whatever
Speaker 2: I'm doing, whether it's how I dress, or the makeup
Speaker 2: I wear, or how I do my hair my nails,
Speaker 2: I make sure I'm doing it for me. I make
Speaker 2: sure that I'm doing it to invigorate and fill myself
Speaker 2: up with energy. When I do my makeup my hair,
Speaker 2: to me, it's a sacred ritual. I'm saying positive affirmations
Speaker 2: to myself. I'm listening to an amazing podcast or playlist
Speaker 2: of music, and I'm really allowing myself to fill myself
Speaker 2: up with my own energy. By focusing on myself, I
Speaker 2: feel like my ancestors my past lives, I was never
Speaker 2: allowed to dress like this, I was never allowed to
Speaker 2: do my hair like this, I was never allowed to
Speaker 2: do my makeup like this. Now that I live in
Speaker 2: this century, I'm gonna do everything I want and more
Speaker 2: because it's my life. That's how I personally feel. So
Speaker 2: when I set an attention, I'm gonna do my makeup
Speaker 2: like this for me because it makes me feel good.
Speaker 2: It makes me feel really empowered that I'm even able
Speaker 2: to engage with this practice. Check on why you're doing
Speaker 2: what you're doing. Become the subject of your own life again.
Speaker 2: Ask yourself, what would my most magnetic self dress like?
Speaker 2: And let me do that? How would she think about this?
Speaker 2: And let me start to engage with that thought process?
Speaker 2: Instead of doing it to impress Brad, what would impress me?
Speaker 2: Instead of wearing make up a certain way to impress
Speaker 2: people over there? What would impress me? What would make
Speaker 2: me feel good? Start living for you? Because, by the way,
Speaker 2: it is your incarnation, you did choose to have it.
Speaker 2: Shouldn't you enjoy it while you're here. Another way I
Speaker 2: protect my energy so others can't harvest it is I'm
Speaker 2: not sleeping with people. I'm not in a relationship right now.
Speaker 2: Therefore I'm not sleeping with people. I have come to
Speaker 2: the realization that I don't even think and this is
Speaker 2: just my theory, but I don't even know. If men
Speaker 2: aren't necessarily struggling with lust, I think they're thirsting for
Speaker 2: the feminine energy. And one of the ways to derive
Speaker 2: the feminine energy from a woman is to sleep with her.
Speaker 2: If you sleep with a woman, you're taking her divine
Speaker 2: feminine energy from her. So I think a lot of
Speaker 2: men are starving for the divine feminine energy. They're not
Speaker 2: getting nurtured, and they don't know how to nurture themselves,
Speaker 2: so they think that they're lusting, and it looks like
Speaker 2: lust through our three D senses. But if I am
Speaker 2: to tune into my higher dimensional senses, to me, they're
Speaker 2: craving the divine feminine energy. I see men who are
Speaker 2: lustful as energetically sick. They're sick, they're depleted. To me,
Speaker 2: why would I want to give energy to someone who
Speaker 2: is energetically sick. I don't because then they're going to
Speaker 2: make me sick too. I will give to them and
Speaker 2: they will just be bottomless. I'm not doing that. A
Speaker 2: divine masculine needs to learn how to harvest his own
Speaker 2: energy before he starts taking all of yours. If you
Speaker 2: are to then give up your divine feminine energy, you're
Speaker 2: going to be giving to a bottomless cup. It's going
Speaker 2: to never entering to keep giving, give and give and giving,
Speaker 2: and he's going to rely on you to be his
Speaker 2: vessel his source instead of being reliant on himself. And
Speaker 2: that's a problem. You have to protect your vessel. You
Speaker 2: have to protect your divine feminine energy from people who
Speaker 2: are just trying to poke you, derive some energy from you,
Speaker 2: and then leave. How do you know someone actually wants
Speaker 2: to get to know you. It's kind of obvious. They
Speaker 2: are consistent, They repeatedly asked to see you in person.
Speaker 2: They're sewing into you, they are paying for the meal.
Speaker 2: They are actually trying to understand who you are as
Speaker 2: a person. And this goes on for weeks and then
Speaker 2: months and then years. You can tell you don't feel
Speaker 2: sick when they're around. You don't feel anxious all the time,
Speaker 2: your stomach isn't in knots. I just have never heard
Speaker 2: anyone say I regret taking my time, I regret getting
Speaker 2: to know them before sleeping with them. Have you ever
Speaker 2: heard that. I've not. And if you feel like you
Speaker 2: have to be intimate with someone in order to keep
Speaker 2: them around, that is the exact person who's using you
Speaker 2: for your divine feminine energy. Ding ding ding ding red flag.
Speaker 2: What is sex but a sacred energetic exchange? You're giving
Speaker 2: away your divine feminine energy, and God knows what you're
Speaker 2: taking on from them negative entities, lower vibrational energies and
Speaker 2: negative thought forms, demonic entities. I don't know because I
Speaker 2: don't know them, but if they are starving for the
Speaker 2: divine feminine energy, that means they have some dysfunction in
Speaker 2: their own system most likely. So if I were you,
Speaker 2: I would protect myself. But as always you a free
Speaker 2: will do what you want. Self care is an amazing
Speaker 2: way I personally love to fulfill my cup. There's something
Speaker 2: about doing a face mask, doing a hair mask, taking
Speaker 2: a bath, reading, hula hooping that makes me feel so good.
Speaker 2: And that's something is I'm focused on me, so my
Speaker 2: energy is going back into me rather than somebody else.
Speaker 2: In Esther, which is in the Bible, do you know
Speaker 2: they put her through a twelve month pro of getting
Speaker 2: her prepared to meet the King. Before being presented to
Speaker 2: the King, Esther underwent twelve months of beauty treatments, six
Speaker 2: months with oil of mir this was likely used for purification,
Speaker 2: moisturizing and rejuvenating the skin, and six months with perfumes
Speaker 2: and cosmetics. These were likely luxurious treatments to enhance her
Speaker 2: appearance and scent. This preparation was not only about outward beauty,
Speaker 2: but also symbolized purification and readiness, reflecting the importance of
Speaker 2: intentional self investment. It's so important to make sure that
Speaker 2: you're doing soul care and self care. Soul care is
Speaker 2: the meditation, it's the prayer. Maybe it's gaining wisdom on
Speaker 2: how to protect your energy listening to something like this podcast.
Speaker 2: And then there's also self care, which is the face
Speaker 2: mass the hair mass, the bath. When you give yourself
Speaker 2: your focus, you give yourself your own energy. That's a
Speaker 2: beautiful return on investment. When you take care of you
Speaker 2: your body through doing the workout, taking the wall, getting
Speaker 2: the massage, doing the bath, just taking even a longer
Speaker 2: shower than usual, putting on the lotion. You're giving to
Speaker 2: yourself that raises your vibration. You're not abusing your body
Speaker 2: with food, with alcohol, with men. You're going to have
Speaker 2: a completely different frequency and then going to attract other
Speaker 2: people who also take care of themselves, are not starving
Speaker 2: for your divine feminine energy and therefore will sew into
Speaker 2: you rather than try to harvest your energy. I always
Speaker 2: say date yourself, date the divine, also date your dharma.
Speaker 2: When you move from your karma into your dharma, you
Speaker 2: move from this cycle of having to make amends, make
Speaker 2: things right. Maybe from a past life, maybe from when
Speaker 2: you were a child. You collected some negative karma, and
Speaker 2: so you have to even that out. But eventually you
Speaker 2: even out enough that you can move into your dharma,
Speaker 2: and that is moving into your purpose, aligning your actions
Speaker 2: with truth, justice, and the cosmic order. While karma deals
Speaker 2: with the results of your actions, dharma guides you onto
Speaker 2: the path to take right action and it creates even
Speaker 2: more good karma. To me, dharma is not just walking
Speaker 2: in alignment with the larger cosmic plan, but walking in
Speaker 2: alignment with your specific divine purpose, what you came onto
Speaker 2: this planet to do. I intuitively feel like the collective
Speaker 2: that listens to my content is moving from their karma
Speaker 2: into their dharma. You don't realize that you are sometimes
Speaker 2: collecting negative karma when you're interacting with random people and
Speaker 2: taking on their energy. Instead of them learning how to
Speaker 2: deal with their own demons, you take on their demons,
Speaker 2: and now you have to learn how to deal with
Speaker 2: those demons when you try to people please, when you
Speaker 2: are the martyr for everyone and their father. You take
Speaker 2: on their karma, and that's why you get so depleted.
Speaker 2: You're giving up your divine, feminine energy and you're taking
Speaker 2: on their problems trying to solve it for them. You
Speaker 2: are racking up negative karma instead of moving onto the
Speaker 2: path of your dharma yet focused on yourself ascension again
Speaker 2: not upwards, but it's in word. Moral of the story
Speaker 2: is you want to allow people who sow into you,
Speaker 2: not those who try to harvest your energy. You know
Speaker 2: they're sowing into you because you can feel an equal
Speaker 2: energetic exchange. You're not constantly depleted. You know they're sewing
Speaker 2: into you because they're paying for their date. You know
Speaker 2: they're sewing into you because they're being consistent. You know
Speaker 2: they're swing into you because they're texting, then they're calling,
Speaker 2: then they're planning another date where they're seeing you in person.
Speaker 2: You know they're sewing into you because you don't have
Speaker 2: constant anxiety over them. They have clear intentions, and their
Speaker 2: intentions and their actions are in alignment. You know they're
Speaker 2: sowing into you because they actually care about creating safety
Speaker 2: for you. You know they're sewing into you because they're
Speaker 2: taking care of their negative karma so they can show
Speaker 2: up as the best person for you, and I hope
Speaker 2: that you are doing the same. I hope this episode
Speaker 2: has helped you understand how to protect your own energy
Speaker 2: against the harvesters of this planet. I'm sending you so
Speaker 2: much love, and as always, the sparkle in me honors
Speaker 2: the sparkle in you. If you want to learn more
Speaker 2: about the divine feminine energy, you can get the Divine
Speaker 2: Feminine Healing work Book. You can also get my book
Speaker 2: Show Up as Her, where I dive into divine, masculine,
Speaker 2: divine feminine, the wounded energies, and so much more. And
Speaker 2: I will see you in the next one. No energy,
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