WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.520 --> 00:00:04.360 Can I ask you a question why you don't ever 2 00:00:04.360 --> 00:00:07.200 play with my nipples? I got nipples too. It's my 3 00:00:07.280 --> 00:00:10.519 turn to get tied up knocking handcufs though I got PTSD. 4 00:00:11.560 --> 00:00:16.239 Welcome the hardest soft where men speak. So hopefully somebody 5 00:00:16.239 --> 00:00:17.559 will understand. 6 00:00:17.600 --> 00:00:20.199 When you say freaky, What's what's freaky? What what do 7 00:00:20.239 --> 00:00:22.800 you mean by freaky? If I do this, You're not 8 00:00:22.800 --> 00:00:24.079 gonna tell your friends right. 9 00:00:48.920 --> 00:00:49.479 On all of it. 10 00:00:50.439 --> 00:00:54.920 Oh man, it's been a while since I've been sitting 11 00:00:54.960 --> 00:00:58.719 in this chair. For those of y'all that know, one 12 00:00:58.799 --> 00:01:01.079 episode a couple of weeks ago, things went dark for 13 00:01:01.159 --> 00:01:03.000 me and I just been kind of chilling, you know 14 00:01:03.039 --> 00:01:05.519 what I'm saying. But I missed, y'all. I wanted to 15 00:01:05.560 --> 00:01:09.879 record Loon and Courtney recorded yesterday with brah Man from 16 00:01:09.879 --> 00:01:12.079 the Fifth Floor. That was a funny ass episode and 17 00:01:12.120 --> 00:01:15.280 they gave y'all a Patreon episode, so go check that out. 18 00:01:15.400 --> 00:01:19.200 But the day I recorded, I was in the studio 19 00:01:19.439 --> 00:01:24.280 and I had Gladdie here with us from the green 20 00:01:24.560 --> 00:01:28.079 Room podcast, and he he was here. 21 00:01:28.640 --> 00:01:31.120 That happened right kind of. It kind of got dark 22 00:01:31.159 --> 00:01:32.480 real quick, and it was wild. 23 00:01:32.519 --> 00:01:34.640 We were having a great time and then you know, 24 00:01:34.680 --> 00:01:36.239 all of a sudden, it was like yo, you know, 25 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:37.920 you walked off and then you came back with the news. 26 00:01:37.959 --> 00:01:40.840 I was like, damn, Like you know, yeah, that's tough. 27 00:01:40.920 --> 00:01:44.519 Yeah, And apparently you were getting the information while you 28 00:01:44.560 --> 00:01:47.200 were shooting, So I mean it also goes to you 29 00:01:47.239 --> 00:01:49.680 being a professional and just holding it down for that time. 30 00:01:49.760 --> 00:01:52.319 Yeah, like wild but you're trying to sit there quiet, 31 00:01:52.359 --> 00:01:54.200 and then you start thinking about all the things that's 32 00:01:54.200 --> 00:01:56.040 going on and this just starts hitting you. And I 33 00:01:56.040 --> 00:02:00.879 think dealing with that situation, it's funny because I don't 34 00:02:00.879 --> 00:02:04.680 think that I was personally sad at first. It's when 35 00:02:04.719 --> 00:02:07.719 you start soaking up everybody else's sadness, you know what 36 00:02:07.719 --> 00:02:10.159 I'm saying. You start seeing your moms and your cousin 37 00:02:10.280 --> 00:02:12.560 and your aunts and all of that, and shit just 38 00:02:12.560 --> 00:02:15.479 start hitting you. Like this ship is real as fuck. 39 00:02:15.599 --> 00:02:17.879 Oh shit, this is a final. Like it's a final. 40 00:02:18.159 --> 00:02:22.439 But either way, I wanted to record something. I miss y'all. 41 00:02:22.479 --> 00:02:26.639 I miss talking to y'all. So here we are back 42 00:02:26.719 --> 00:02:27.560 at the show. 43 00:02:28.080 --> 00:02:31.919 I am here with Gladdie and Fuss from the green 44 00:02:32.400 --> 00:02:33.680 Room podcast. 45 00:02:33.759 --> 00:02:37.400 Now I know what, thank you for having us, man, 46 00:02:37.479 --> 00:02:38.439 We really appreciate it. 47 00:02:38.479 --> 00:02:40.240 So I'm hearing. I'm hearing y'all. 48 00:02:40.319 --> 00:02:42.680 Y'all, y'all talk about sex on y'all show, Like, y'all, 49 00:02:42.759 --> 00:02:43.599 this is what y'all do. 50 00:02:43.800 --> 00:02:45.240 They're just out here talking about sex. 51 00:02:45.520 --> 00:02:49.639 Yeah, I mean we talk about you know, sex, mental health, 52 00:02:49.719 --> 00:02:53.599 and relationships and how all of them work together, you know, 53 00:02:53.759 --> 00:02:56.240 and we try to basically, we try to try to 54 00:02:56.560 --> 00:02:59.400 bridge the gap between the single man and single women 55 00:02:59.439 --> 00:03:02.159 because of what's happening right now. And I feel like 56 00:03:02.199 --> 00:03:05.560 those three things, mental health, sex and relationships, Like, I 57 00:03:05.560 --> 00:03:07.360 feel like those are the points that we need to 58 00:03:07.400 --> 00:03:09.719 hit and understand better for one another, to kind of 59 00:03:09.759 --> 00:03:10.479 like pudge that guy. 60 00:03:10.560 --> 00:03:14.800 And it's funny to me because it's like there's a 61 00:03:14.800 --> 00:03:16.879 lot of talking and a lot of people not listening. 62 00:03:17.080 --> 00:03:19.639 Everybody trying to prove their pacts, you know what I'm saying. 63 00:03:19.800 --> 00:03:21.800 It's like I'm talking about sex. Though. 64 00:03:24.520 --> 00:03:27.240 You got to get to it. You got to get 65 00:03:27.240 --> 00:03:29.039 to it. Ain't nothing to it but to do it, man, 66 00:03:29.280 --> 00:03:31.159 Like come on, man, all right, well. 67 00:03:31.599 --> 00:03:33.879 I do want to talk about man. 68 00:03:34.240 --> 00:03:35.919 You know, I wanted to have an episode when I 69 00:03:35.960 --> 00:03:39.240 was thinking about when I was on my hiatus, I 70 00:03:39.280 --> 00:03:42.639 really was thinking about purpose, and I was thinking about 71 00:03:43.400 --> 00:03:46.080 what this show means to me and the effect that 72 00:03:46.120 --> 00:03:47.800 it has on the world. 73 00:03:48.000 --> 00:03:50.400 And I'm glad that you're talking from a positive stance. 74 00:03:50.400 --> 00:03:52.800 There's a lot of there's a lot of noise out there, right, 75 00:03:52.840 --> 00:03:56.080 And I was like, yo, I don't want my show 76 00:03:56.199 --> 00:03:58.439 to contribute to the noise, right, I want to. 77 00:03:58.400 --> 00:04:03.400 Do good things. But first before we get into that. Now, 78 00:04:03.439 --> 00:04:04.080 Tiana's here. 79 00:04:04.159 --> 00:04:06.759 She came and she brought us a whole outline. So 80 00:04:06.919 --> 00:04:09.719 I'm gonna get into some things. Okay, just one here 81 00:04:09.800 --> 00:04:12.520 is she don't play. Want to go outside your outline 82 00:04:12.560 --> 00:04:14.560 for one second. I go outside your outline for one second. 83 00:04:14.840 --> 00:04:18.839 I did see on the internet a question h that 84 00:04:18.920 --> 00:04:21.639 I wanted to I wanted to bring to y'all. I 85 00:04:21.639 --> 00:04:22.480 want to know what y'all think. 86 00:04:22.800 --> 00:04:27.839 Sure. The question starts with, ladies, which do you prefer? 87 00:04:28.879 --> 00:04:29.399 Number One? 88 00:04:30.600 --> 00:04:34.480 A fun first date night You meet for dinner. He's 89 00:04:34.519 --> 00:04:37.920 a gentleman, pays for everything, and before the night is over, 90 00:04:38.040 --> 00:04:40.480 he shares with you that he would like to take 91 00:04:40.519 --> 00:04:42.720 you home after with him. 92 00:04:43.439 --> 00:04:45.600 All right, that's number one, let's get to it. 93 00:04:45.759 --> 00:04:50.519 Number two A fun day date full of events. He's 94 00:04:50.560 --> 00:04:53.319 a gentleman. You really get to know each other. He 95 00:04:53.360 --> 00:04:55.879 walks you home and calls you the next day to 96 00:04:56.000 --> 00:05:00.759 set another date. That's number two, right, Okay, which one 97 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:02.240 do you think ladies prefer? 98 00:05:03.759 --> 00:05:08.560 Honestly, I'm gonna go with I think ladies prefer one 99 00:05:08.920 --> 00:05:09.920 for some reason. 100 00:05:09.959 --> 00:05:13.519 You think that they'd like to go home. I think so. 101 00:05:14.079 --> 00:05:16.839 And I say that because if the date is going 102 00:05:17.000 --> 00:05:20.199 that well, you're kind of thinking of that already. You know, like, 103 00:05:20.240 --> 00:05:23.600 I feel like women somewhat think like men, but they're 104 00:05:23.639 --> 00:05:25.680 not as vocal as men are when it comes to 105 00:05:25.759 --> 00:05:27.600 that kind of stuff, and I feel like they have 106 00:05:27.720 --> 00:05:28.439 those feelings. 107 00:05:28.439 --> 00:05:31.560 So the date is perfect, you know that first night 108 00:05:31.600 --> 00:05:32.439 can actually happen. 109 00:05:33.000 --> 00:05:36.519 But I'm a number two kind of guy, though, But 110 00:05:36.560 --> 00:05:37.600 I'm gonna let fun as answer. 111 00:05:37.839 --> 00:05:39.000 No. I want to hear that. What do you mean 112 00:05:39.000 --> 00:05:40.759 you're a number two? I'm a number two kind of guy. 113 00:05:40.800 --> 00:05:42.240 I want to I want to have a lit ass 114 00:05:42.319 --> 00:05:46.480 date and I'm gonna walk her to the crib. I'm 115 00:05:46.519 --> 00:05:48.800 gonna be the perfect gentleman, and then I'm gonna go 116 00:05:48.839 --> 00:05:50.639 home and I'll reach out to her in the next 117 00:05:50.720 --> 00:05:53.480 day or two. And you know, basically, I want to 118 00:05:53.519 --> 00:05:55.439 leave it with something to think about. You know what 119 00:05:55.439 --> 00:05:56.279 I'm saying, like. 120 00:05:57.839 --> 00:06:00.600 One and more one the more fuzz What did you 121 00:06:00.639 --> 00:06:02.040 think about this? One or two? 122 00:06:03.439 --> 00:06:09.439 In reality, twenty twenty five is one, it's one, there's one. 123 00:06:09.879 --> 00:06:11.240 Why do you say, why do you mention the year? 124 00:06:11.959 --> 00:06:16.399 Because because back nowadays you know too much. People's living 125 00:06:16.399 --> 00:06:18.800 off the moments. So, like you said, it was such 126 00:06:18.839 --> 00:06:21.720 a great date we went now, everything was so good. 127 00:06:21.959 --> 00:06:24.879 They just want that moment to continue. We're going home 128 00:06:24.959 --> 00:06:27.959 don't always mean you having sex. Going home. This mean 129 00:06:28.000 --> 00:06:31.079 y'all continue in these moments. Now, if it leads to sex, 130 00:06:31.120 --> 00:06:31.839 that's some mother shit. 131 00:06:32.199 --> 00:06:32.319 Bro. 132 00:06:32.519 --> 00:06:33.759 You know what I'm saying, how many times you took 133 00:06:33.759 --> 00:06:36.720 a take home at the first day y'all ain't pop? 134 00:06:36.839 --> 00:06:38.040 Like, come on, we're being. 135 00:06:37.920 --> 00:06:41.680 Real here, No, no, no, no, I'm just saying, how many 136 00:06:41.720 --> 00:06:42.920 times after a good date? 137 00:06:42.959 --> 00:06:45.360 That means y'all been drinking y'all? She ate, she ates. Now. 138 00:06:45.399 --> 00:06:47.079 You know, if we're going pop skins, we know we're 139 00:06:47.079 --> 00:06:48.519 going pop skins. It's not even a. 140 00:06:48.480 --> 00:06:51.920 Real mission, a mission like you know some niggas like 141 00:06:52.079 --> 00:06:53.879 trying to figure out how they gonna get it. 142 00:06:53.879 --> 00:06:56.199 There's not a mission at that point. I'm not saying that. 143 00:06:56.240 --> 00:06:59.040 I'm just saying people like the moments, so they're gonna 144 00:06:59.079 --> 00:06:59.959 keep the moments going. 145 00:07:00.079 --> 00:07:00.680 You know what I'm saying. 146 00:07:01.079 --> 00:07:05.079 But when in reality is really about the woman. So 147 00:07:05.959 --> 00:07:08.439 as the day going, I don't really care how fun 148 00:07:08.439 --> 00:07:11.279 and nice it is. You could actually judge the temperature 149 00:07:11.399 --> 00:07:16.480 and see I can slap these tonight or nah, Yeah, 150 00:07:16.519 --> 00:07:18.439 I'm gonna make sure the I'm just. 151 00:07:21.000 --> 00:07:24.800 Guts. Yeah, I ain't gonna lie. 152 00:07:25.279 --> 00:07:27.319 One of the craziest things a woman ever said to me, 153 00:07:27.360 --> 00:07:29.720 bro I must have took on like two days. I 154 00:07:29.800 --> 00:07:33.120 wasn't pressed. She sent me a text and she was like, Yo, 155 00:07:33.120 --> 00:07:34.720 when are you gonna clap these cheeks? 156 00:07:35.600 --> 00:07:40.000 Facts? I said, what the see? I even know you 157 00:07:40.040 --> 00:07:44.000 talk like that, but. 158 00:07:44.160 --> 00:07:48.839 But listen, I'm hearing the top two freakiers professions are 159 00:07:48.920 --> 00:07:49.959 teachers and nurses. 160 00:07:50.040 --> 00:07:54.639 I'm hearing. I love it. I'm hearing. I'm hearing legend. 161 00:07:56.199 --> 00:07:57.759 I do I want to ask you something for us? 162 00:07:58.279 --> 00:07:59.240 You said nowadays? 163 00:07:59.480 --> 00:08:02.839 Yeah, twenty twenty five, HOLI I'm forty five, forty five. 164 00:08:03.600 --> 00:08:04.560 Do you date in your age? 165 00:08:04.600 --> 00:08:05.600 RM? Yes. 166 00:08:07.879 --> 00:08:10.360 Do you think there's a difference in dating at our 167 00:08:10.480 --> 00:08:13.639 age as you get older than it was when you 168 00:08:13.680 --> 00:08:16.079 were saying in your twenties early thirties. 169 00:08:15.600 --> 00:08:18.240 Of course it's spooky. I want to stay. I want 170 00:08:18.279 --> 00:08:20.399 to stay with my girl. I'm in a relationship, but 171 00:08:20.480 --> 00:08:24.839 I want to stay in the range. THEMB young Chicks 172 00:08:24.920 --> 00:08:29.560 is spooky. Man having dudes at the g building like 173 00:08:29.680 --> 00:08:32.960 after a while, crashing out like real like spooky. 174 00:08:33.000 --> 00:08:35.200 Yeah. The behavior, there's the behavior. The behavior. 175 00:08:35.759 --> 00:08:38.159 Yeah, some brothers don't really know how to understand that. 176 00:08:38.159 --> 00:08:40.039 They don't know how to well. 177 00:08:40.200 --> 00:08:43.159 What I meant was in this, I think that as 178 00:08:43.200 --> 00:08:45.720 women get older, they lose. 179 00:08:47.320 --> 00:08:56.559 Elasticity bags go to the gym. I'll keep it tight. 180 00:08:56.919 --> 00:08:57.519 What I was. 181 00:08:57.519 --> 00:09:00.399 Going to say is that they stay not scared of 182 00:09:00.480 --> 00:09:05.759 judgment anymore. They're not following social like, oh, you're supposed 183 00:09:05.799 --> 00:09:07.840 to be like this, We're they're supposed to be like that. 184 00:09:08.320 --> 00:09:11.320 They know what they want. They actually go for what 185 00:09:11.360 --> 00:09:13.519 they want. They don't even let you set the tone 186 00:09:13.519 --> 00:09:15.279 a lot to them, none of that shit. They be like, 187 00:09:15.279 --> 00:09:18.720 br I'm gonna fuck you. You ain't got the lie 188 00:09:18.720 --> 00:09:21.080 to me. Matter of fact, I'll pay for you. I'll 189 00:09:21.120 --> 00:09:21.679 send you home. 190 00:09:21.759 --> 00:09:24.799 It over. You know what I'm saying. I ain't come 191 00:09:24.879 --> 00:09:27.240 for the bullshit. Make sure that you got you need 192 00:09:27.240 --> 00:09:27.720 a red bull. 193 00:09:28.279 --> 00:09:30.519 You need something to need because I need you to 194 00:09:30.559 --> 00:09:32.480 have energy for what we got going on tonight. 195 00:09:33.080 --> 00:09:35.360 When when you're younger, the women want you to set 196 00:09:35.360 --> 00:09:37.600 the tone. They might want it, but they don't really 197 00:09:38.480 --> 00:09:41.679 offer it in that way. So often they're not that upfront. 198 00:09:41.720 --> 00:09:43.159 They got to try to check and make sure that 199 00:09:43.159 --> 00:09:45.879 they're in certain bounds before that, you know what I mean. 200 00:09:46.399 --> 00:09:49.720 And so I think that when it comes to being older, yeah, 201 00:09:50.600 --> 00:09:54.000 that could change the way dating is. So it could 202 00:09:54.080 --> 00:09:57.159 change the answer from two to one. I personally think 203 00:09:57.360 --> 00:10:00.159 as you're younger, you show up on a date one too. 204 00:10:00.799 --> 00:10:02.879 You show up on a date wanting a guy to be. 205 00:10:02.919 --> 00:10:06.159 Nice facts, yeah for the next time, and. 206 00:10:06.480 --> 00:10:09.559 Take me home, walk me to my door, all that. 207 00:10:12.360 --> 00:10:15.320 But I think that so let me there's two things 208 00:10:15.320 --> 00:10:17.879 that I want to say with that. Not only as 209 00:10:17.919 --> 00:10:19.919 you get older you show up. Like, first of all, 210 00:10:19.960 --> 00:10:22.559 if you've been dating before the first day, you're on 211 00:10:22.600 --> 00:10:24.600 the phone, you sit in Texas, you're asking how you 212 00:10:24.720 --> 00:10:26.360 dare you get to know each other. There's a lot 213 00:10:26.360 --> 00:10:29.039 of wooing going on. The energy is building, you know 214 00:10:29.080 --> 00:10:30.799 what I'm saying. And I think that that's dope. Don't 215 00:10:30.799 --> 00:10:32.600 always as a guy, I used to just want to 216 00:10:32.600 --> 00:10:34.360 see you. I want to see you, especially dating batties. 217 00:10:34.399 --> 00:10:36.360 You want to see short you know you don't like 218 00:10:36.399 --> 00:10:38.200 you to scroll through the Instagram and all. 219 00:10:38.120 --> 00:10:42.960 That you like. N it's crazy, you. 220 00:10:42.960 --> 00:10:45.559 Know what I'm saying, Yo, she looks good. I can't 221 00:10:45.559 --> 00:10:47.519 see I can't wait to see you. So you're doing 222 00:10:47.559 --> 00:10:50.000 a lot of that. But you're dating a lot before 223 00:10:50.039 --> 00:10:52.559 the first date. By the time you get to the 224 00:10:52.559 --> 00:10:55.360 first day, if you know how to date, if you're 225 00:10:55.360 --> 00:10:59.960 not coming off thirsty, right, if you actually want to 226 00:11:00.080 --> 00:11:03.399 get to know this person. She's sitting there, both hands 227 00:11:03.440 --> 00:11:06.759 on her pussy under the table, like, Yo, I can't wait, Yo, 228 00:11:07.240 --> 00:11:07.679 can't wait. 229 00:11:13.639 --> 00:11:20.279 You're looking at you like her mind. She's like, sorry, sorry, 230 00:11:20.279 --> 00:11:22.960 my bad, Yes, my bad, But in her mind she 231 00:11:23.080 --> 00:11:25.960 already knows, like I want to see what it was. 232 00:11:26.279 --> 00:11:32.679 I was devastrating that. All right, we don't know that 233 00:11:32.720 --> 00:11:38.679 far agree, We're good? You good, I'm good. I was 234 00:11:38.759 --> 00:11:42.600 jinking the one I realized I gotta put this down. 235 00:11:42.720 --> 00:11:44.559 You know what I'm saying, I didn't even know, all right, 236 00:11:44.600 --> 00:11:50.840 so boom, So my thing is that So I think 237 00:11:50.919 --> 00:11:55.360 that you show up with with two, and then as 238 00:11:55.440 --> 00:11:57.799 the day goes forward, especially if you've been dating before 239 00:11:57.799 --> 00:12:02.320 the first day, it can change one. Like nah, you 240 00:12:02.360 --> 00:12:07.000 know in theory two fact if this shit is popping 241 00:12:07.080 --> 00:12:08.399 though one. 242 00:12:08.840 --> 00:12:10.879 You know what I'm saying, And I think that makes sense. 243 00:12:10.919 --> 00:12:13.320 You go in with the mindset of two and hope 244 00:12:13.360 --> 00:12:15.480 for one. You shoe for the moment. 245 00:12:15.840 --> 00:12:18.120 But I always feel like that's something that you allow 246 00:12:18.759 --> 00:12:19.279 the woman. 247 00:12:19.440 --> 00:12:21.240 So I think that's a lot of young boys or 248 00:12:21.240 --> 00:12:22.960 a lot of guys that are not good at dating. 249 00:12:24.679 --> 00:12:28.480 They go in with one, right, they trying to fuck 250 00:12:28.559 --> 00:12:31.519 and you could you could smell it, like in their like, oh, 251 00:12:31.519 --> 00:12:34.159 this nigga is horny, Like you know what I'm saying, 252 00:12:34.240 --> 00:12:36.919 Like he's everything he's saying is leading in the wrong direction. 253 00:12:36.960 --> 00:12:37.679 He's not letting me. 254 00:12:37.759 --> 00:12:39.519 Let my god, I don't feel safe with it, Like 255 00:12:39.799 --> 00:12:41.840 it's too much, you know what I'm saying. So I 256 00:12:41.840 --> 00:12:43.720 got to give him another chance, wait till two three 257 00:12:43.720 --> 00:12:44.360 to get to know. 258 00:12:44.639 --> 00:12:46.600 As you get better at dating and as. 259 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:48.720 You, like you said, intentional when you actually want to 260 00:12:49.080 --> 00:12:51.000 you're there, You're watching her eyes, you're listening to what 261 00:12:51.000 --> 00:12:53.879 she's saying, You're present in the moment. 262 00:12:54.080 --> 00:12:56.039 You're not like picking up your phone and whatever. Whatever. 263 00:12:56.080 --> 00:12:57.240 You're not talking about your baby mother. 264 00:12:57.279 --> 00:13:01.480 Don't ever bring up your baby mother on a date, fellas, 265 00:13:01.519 --> 00:13:02.080 come look at me. 266 00:13:02.919 --> 00:13:05.639 Don't bring up your baby. If she asks, you say no, 267 00:13:05.720 --> 00:13:07.840 we could co parent. Was great. I love my kids. 268 00:13:08.080 --> 00:13:10.919 Everything is straight. Move on, Move on, move on. I 269 00:13:10.919 --> 00:13:12.519 don't give a fuck what she did. I don't give 270 00:13:12.519 --> 00:13:14.480 a fuck. She just texts you she want a thousand 271 00:13:14.519 --> 00:13:17.240 dollars right now, move on. Don't bring up your baby 272 00:13:17.240 --> 00:13:20.399 mother joining the date. So y'aready man? Right? Do it? 273 00:13:20.559 --> 00:13:25.879 That's the first five minutes of the conversation. Go on date. 274 00:13:26.240 --> 00:13:28.120 You don't really want to be there? Could you want 275 00:13:28.120 --> 00:13:29.039 to be with baby mama. 276 00:13:29.120 --> 00:13:32.039 The longer you talk about your axe, your baby daddy, 277 00:13:32.120 --> 00:13:34.840 or your baby mom, the more of an opportunity for 278 00:13:34.919 --> 00:13:37.399 something bad to come up exactly or trigger her right 279 00:13:37.399 --> 00:13:38.440 the trigger because she might. 280 00:13:38.320 --> 00:13:38.919 Have a baby dad. 281 00:13:39.279 --> 00:13:41.240 And it's almost like going on a job interview for 282 00:13:41.320 --> 00:13:43.600 a new job and you start talking about your last job, 283 00:13:43.639 --> 00:13:45.559 but you speak too long and then they start hearing 284 00:13:45.559 --> 00:13:48.639 ship that you might have fucked up that or you 285 00:13:48.679 --> 00:13:50.799 start talking shit about the last job, and it's like 286 00:13:50.840 --> 00:13:52.360 you're gonna talk shit about the last job, but you're 287 00:13:52.360 --> 00:13:53.159 gonna do it whatever. 288 00:13:53.200 --> 00:13:56.759 Exactly exactly, and this is your new voice, so you 289 00:13:56.759 --> 00:13:57.879 can talk about exactly. 290 00:13:59.679 --> 00:14:01.600 But again, so I said, there's two things. 291 00:14:01.960 --> 00:14:04.559 But as you get older, I think that older women 292 00:14:05.440 --> 00:14:09.039 they don't have time for no bullshit. They kids they had, 293 00:14:09.120 --> 00:14:11.240 they don't have babysitters like that. The kids is with 294 00:14:11.279 --> 00:14:14.720 the babysitter. They don't waited long enough to come out. Bro, 295 00:14:15.240 --> 00:14:20.799 when you're gonna clasp these cheeks, boy, when you gonna 296 00:14:20.840 --> 00:14:24.200 clap these cheeks, I gotta pick these kids up at eleven. 297 00:14:26.120 --> 00:14:29.679 I ain't got time for all this. You got what 298 00:14:29.720 --> 00:14:31.559 we're gonna do, figure it out what we're gonna do. 299 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:36.600 So yeah, I think as you get older, and most 300 00:14:36.600 --> 00:14:38.799 of us are older here, right, I think that was 301 00:14:39.159 --> 00:14:41.480 again using that word intentional for us to have a 302 00:14:41.600 --> 00:14:46.440 conversation about older men and their realization and sexuality and 303 00:14:46.519 --> 00:14:47.919 dating and stuff like that. 304 00:14:48.080 --> 00:14:52.200 So welcome, Gladdie, and for us, thank you. We appreciate 305 00:14:52.320 --> 00:14:52.919 one of the questions. 306 00:14:52.960 --> 00:14:57.919 The first questions I want to ask, let's go, because 307 00:14:57.960 --> 00:15:02.360 I'm not really used to black men being comfortable talking 308 00:15:02.360 --> 00:15:05.720 about sex. Right when I started this show years ago, 309 00:15:05.799 --> 00:15:07.480 I was probably one of the first people to start 310 00:15:07.519 --> 00:15:09.000 doing that, you know what I'm saying. 311 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:09.679 I was glad. 312 00:15:09.759 --> 00:15:12.519 You know, I've been I've been watching for a while. 313 00:15:12.840 --> 00:15:15.279 And again, like I said in the last episode, this 314 00:15:15.360 --> 00:15:18.080 is like a full circle moment for me, because like 315 00:15:18.200 --> 00:15:21.120 when I was looking for an outlet to actually express 316 00:15:21.159 --> 00:15:25.279 myself in this way, like your podcast was recommended to 317 00:15:25.279 --> 00:15:27.399 me and I wasn't watching podcasts at all that time, 318 00:15:27.840 --> 00:15:29.000 I was like, oh shit. 319 00:15:29.799 --> 00:15:31.480 This is it, this is how you do it. Thank you, 320 00:15:31.559 --> 00:15:34.879 and like it was, it was wild. I think you 321 00:15:34.960 --> 00:15:36.480 had a belt around you. 322 00:15:36.720 --> 00:15:40.679 I'm not going to go It was like, oh, come. 323 00:15:40.559 --> 00:15:44.440 On, man, all right, but go go back, go to 324 00:15:44.480 --> 00:15:47.559 the archives of this podcast and you'll see some ship 325 00:15:48.480 --> 00:15:50.840 and again, it takes a lot of bravery to actually 326 00:15:50.879 --> 00:15:52.679 go that route. And I think that's what I was. 327 00:15:52.759 --> 00:15:53.840 That's what I was struggling with. 328 00:15:53.960 --> 00:15:57.360 I couldn't find a space to or feel safe enough 329 00:15:57.399 --> 00:15:59.000 to have those conversations with the people that I was 330 00:15:59.039 --> 00:16:01.720 with at the time. Why not, I don't know, because 331 00:16:01.879 --> 00:16:04.039 you know, it's that stigma of you know, us not 332 00:16:04.159 --> 00:16:07.840 really being comfortable in our sexuality enough to actually, you know, 333 00:16:07.960 --> 00:16:10.919 express some the things that you might be into because 334 00:16:11.200 --> 00:16:13.240 what you look at as kinks might just be weird 335 00:16:13.279 --> 00:16:14.360 to somebody else, to. 336 00:16:14.320 --> 00:16:16.480 Most people, right, So that's what made it hard. 337 00:16:16.480 --> 00:16:18.639 But when you get into a certain age, you start 338 00:16:18.679 --> 00:16:22.440 building this I don't give a fuck factor, and I 339 00:16:22.519 --> 00:16:24.600 finally earned that I don't give a fuck factor, and 340 00:16:24.600 --> 00:16:25.759 I'll talk about it the way I want. 341 00:16:26.240 --> 00:16:26.679 That's wow. 342 00:16:28.960 --> 00:16:33.200 That's wow, man, because you know you still nah, I 343 00:16:33.200 --> 00:16:35.759 don't give a fuck. But you know, some people was 344 00:16:35.840 --> 00:16:40.279 less fortunate. Some people are you know, sometimes fortunate to 345 00:16:40.360 --> 00:16:44.159 have experience more experience than others. And you know, Emma 346 00:16:44.399 --> 00:16:49.240 walks through life that freaky all of them is freaky 347 00:16:49.279 --> 00:16:49.480 to me. 348 00:16:49.600 --> 00:16:50.080 I don't know. 349 00:16:50.559 --> 00:16:53.879 Some people say like, oh it was wag just nah, 350 00:16:54.159 --> 00:16:56.759 it should be like a movie, like for real. 351 00:16:56.840 --> 00:17:00.879 So I'm all for it. You're talking about freaky, y'all 352 00:17:00.960 --> 00:17:04.119 love some freaky ship? What is freaky to you? Like it? It 353 00:17:04.200 --> 00:17:06.160 was zero the ten? First of all? Where you at 354 00:17:06.160 --> 00:17:07.720 on the freak scale? 355 00:17:08.400 --> 00:17:13.759 I'm none none all right now no point non point nine. 356 00:17:15.839 --> 00:17:17.640 Were about to be the ten. I'm not doing no 357 00:17:17.720 --> 00:17:20.519 freaking ship like the own sex but with female. Yeah, 358 00:17:21.319 --> 00:17:22.079 I'm gonna have fun. 359 00:17:22.559 --> 00:17:24.839 So what is freaky to you? Define? One of your 360 00:17:24.839 --> 00:17:28.039 freakiest moments. Come on, let's go. We got here. We 361 00:17:28.920 --> 00:17:32.880 got one of your freakiest moments. Like to some ship, 362 00:17:33.000 --> 00:17:35.839 running trains a little bitches? What you want to really? Nothing, 363 00:17:36.119 --> 00:17:41.319 that depends depends on how sorry with women on I'm 364 00:17:41.319 --> 00:17:43.400 sorry they women ring the bell right here? 365 00:17:44.279 --> 00:17:44.400 Ring? 366 00:17:46.240 --> 00:17:48.400 Just you know that's the rules. Just technically a freak. 367 00:17:50.480 --> 00:17:54.160 That's so you're saying running trains like some that's not. 368 00:17:54.119 --> 00:17:57.319 Really freaking to me. Okay, you ever been to a 369 00:17:57.319 --> 00:18:01.440 play party? What party? A play party? 370 00:18:01.480 --> 00:18:05.240 What's that? We got him? 371 00:18:06.319 --> 00:18:09.200 We got every time I asked him question, I want 372 00:18:09.240 --> 00:18:10.759 you to lower his number by one? 373 00:18:10.960 --> 00:18:11.960 He said, nine point nine. 374 00:18:13.160 --> 00:18:17.440 I already got hit number as like a four already. Yeah, okay, 375 00:18:17.880 --> 00:18:18.680 I guess I'm. 376 00:18:18.599 --> 00:18:22.240 Too then, alight, So would you would you use this? No? 377 00:18:27.119 --> 00:18:37.240 Hold it up? Hold that up? Passed me my clonel? 378 00:18:37.240 --> 00:18:45.240 WILLI please listen? Listen? No, y'all already know I got 379 00:18:45.240 --> 00:18:49.400 the clonel willies. What's wrong? You an't touch it? I 380 00:18:49.480 --> 00:18:54.480 never use it. That's for the females. It's a toy. 381 00:18:56.839 --> 00:19:01.079 Some females love toys. You use toys on them? Yes, on, 382 00:19:01.119 --> 00:19:03.240 you know what number we are right now? 383 00:19:04.279 --> 00:19:08.599 He said like a too. Yes, got to worry about it. 384 00:19:11.920 --> 00:19:13.960 Worry about it. 385 00:19:15.079 --> 00:19:16.839 So the clone of Willie is so that you can 386 00:19:16.920 --> 00:19:19.799 clone your own joint and then she can use it 387 00:19:19.880 --> 00:19:22.880 on herself. So you can might could even double penetrated 388 00:19:22.960 --> 00:19:26.440 chick with you your actual person and a clone of 389 00:19:26.480 --> 00:19:28.319 your actual person. You know what I'm saying. 390 00:19:28.359 --> 00:19:30.680 So that's what you know what I mean? Would you 391 00:19:30.720 --> 00:19:33.160 do that? Yeah? You know what I mean. 392 00:19:33.200 --> 00:19:38.279 So look, let's yeah, now a play party. We're actually 393 00:19:38.319 --> 00:19:40.480 throwing a birthday play party for me tomorrow. I don't 394 00:19:40.480 --> 00:19:42.400 know if y'all fellas want to come, I'll let y'all 395 00:19:42.400 --> 00:19:43.200 come free charge. 396 00:19:43.440 --> 00:19:45.920 Just pull up. But this is where it's a party. 397 00:19:46.599 --> 00:19:50.119 It's a party right with people. 398 00:19:49.839 --> 00:19:53.359 Who are in the lifestyle and they are willing and 399 00:19:53.519 --> 00:19:57.440 they want to have fun. We have Saint Andrew's crosses around. 400 00:19:57.440 --> 00:20:03.039 When you get tied up, everybody's just down, super down, 401 00:20:03.480 --> 00:20:04.160 you know what I mean. 402 00:20:04.599 --> 00:20:07.279 And it's action all over the spot. You do B 403 00:20:07.400 --> 00:20:09.480 D S M. There you play. There is. 404 00:20:11.200 --> 00:20:13.880 Multiple action on the same bed type thing. It's it's 405 00:20:13.920 --> 00:20:16.680 a it's it's kind of a movie, you know what 406 00:20:16.680 --> 00:20:20.880 I'm saying. So it's me and yesterday, our Engineers birthday party, 407 00:20:20.920 --> 00:20:23.640 play party? Would you feel comfortable in the atmosphere? 408 00:20:24.200 --> 00:20:25.440 I got a wife for that. 409 00:20:26.799 --> 00:20:29.799 Bring I like that, I would bring yeah if she 410 00:20:29.880 --> 00:20:33.240 if she down that, I would love to pull up. 411 00:20:33.880 --> 00:20:35.240 You're trying to pull up? What time are you talking? 412 00:20:35.319 --> 00:20:36.880 Because they shoot we shoot tomorrow eight. 413 00:20:37.240 --> 00:20:39.640 It's from nine to four in the morning, four in 414 00:20:39.680 --> 00:20:41.960 the morning. It's from where you think. I mean from 415 00:20:42.039 --> 00:20:45.079 nine to you know what I mean? And we need 416 00:20:45.079 --> 00:20:47.359 more black men in the room. We need black men 417 00:20:47.359 --> 00:20:49.759 in the room that are safe. 418 00:20:51.880 --> 00:20:55.559 Freaky. It is updated too, by the way, where's it's? 419 00:20:55.640 --> 00:20:57.759 Where's it? What you freaking? Where? Where would you be at? 420 00:20:57.759 --> 00:20:58.559 From zero the time? 421 00:20:59.839 --> 00:21:04.160 I would say, I'm like a solid six seven seven? 422 00:21:04.440 --> 00:21:05.319 What's freaky to you? 423 00:21:06.279 --> 00:21:10.640 Like you mentioned the double penetration ship, Like I I've 424 00:21:10.640 --> 00:21:13.960 done that with a dildo in a in a woman before, 425 00:21:14.440 --> 00:21:18.599 and that ship was like amazing, amazing, Right, I'm not 426 00:21:18.640 --> 00:21:24.799 gonna say why it was amazing, but why not pot 427 00:21:24.839 --> 00:21:29.599 It got a lot of allright, So so I kind 428 00:21:29.599 --> 00:21:34.880 of see why people do double penetration because like the 429 00:21:35.000 --> 00:21:37.559 dildo that I was using had a lot of ridges, 430 00:21:37.960 --> 00:21:40.480 Like you know, it was very vain feel it and 431 00:21:40.519 --> 00:21:43.599 I could feel it. Yeah, And like as I was 432 00:21:43.599 --> 00:21:46.359 going in and out, like I was feeling like the 433 00:21:46.440 --> 00:21:47.279 light bulb went off. 434 00:21:47.359 --> 00:21:52.000 I was like, ah, this is why got him going going. 435 00:21:52.519 --> 00:21:57.680 I would say, is just words, it doesn't mean. 436 00:21:57.599 --> 00:22:06.799 Anything, just words, but got you go. He was like, hey, yes, 437 00:22:07.640 --> 00:22:10.759 but what. 438 00:22:11.480 --> 00:22:13.920 Is what it is? It is? But see that's the 439 00:22:13.960 --> 00:22:14.720 problem that I have. 440 00:22:15.519 --> 00:22:17.519 You got to be really secure if you like, what 441 00:22:17.559 --> 00:22:20.920 if it's two guys with double petration, because now it's 442 00:22:20.920 --> 00:22:22.920 an actual guy and he's making you. 443 00:22:22.920 --> 00:22:25.759 You feel yourself in it. And this is why I'm 444 00:22:25.880 --> 00:22:28.640 at a six and a half seven. I don't know 445 00:22:28.640 --> 00:22:31.240 if I can go that far up, but I'm more 446 00:22:30.960 --> 00:22:33.279 I'm more of the bondage type though, Like I got 447 00:22:33.279 --> 00:22:36.559 I gotta make sure Saint Andrews St. Andrew's cross on 448 00:22:36.680 --> 00:22:39.839 my bed that it's always there, so it's always like 449 00:22:39.880 --> 00:22:43.240 ready to go type ship. How you So basically you 450 00:22:43.599 --> 00:22:45.880 could buy the straps that go across the top of 451 00:22:45.920 --> 00:22:48.240 your mattress and in the bottom and then it has 452 00:22:48.279 --> 00:22:50.119 the cuffs on it and you can use the custom 453 00:22:50.160 --> 00:22:53.799 you have just bond tied down like that. That's a 454 00:22:53.799 --> 00:22:57.319 ton of toys to just go off that up. 455 00:23:01.599 --> 00:23:04.079 So have you ever messed somebody else freaking in you 456 00:23:04.160 --> 00:23:07.519 fus of course in what way? 457 00:23:08.400 --> 00:23:14.200 Like you know, I don't know, I don't like you said, 458 00:23:14.240 --> 00:23:16.000 I don't even know your freaky is Like. 459 00:23:17.519 --> 00:23:21.559 Yeah, somebody asked me that on Twitter today, what's yours 460 00:23:21.680 --> 00:23:22.240 zero to ten? 461 00:23:22.279 --> 00:23:25.079 And I was like, girl, you don't even have enough. 462 00:23:25.480 --> 00:23:27.759 The number that I'm on is not even on your 463 00:23:27.839 --> 00:23:29.440 scale like you, It's I'm. 464 00:23:29.359 --> 00:23:32.359 Way past that. Like this question for me, talk to 465 00:23:32.440 --> 00:23:33.359 play with something safe. 466 00:23:34.319 --> 00:23:36.119 You know what I'm saying about this outside of the 467 00:23:36.119 --> 00:23:38.640 play party. What's the freakest thing you've ever done? 468 00:23:39.640 --> 00:23:49.880 What's the freakiest thing freaky freaky? Whether it's double penetration 469 00:23:50.200 --> 00:23:54.440 with a fuck machine? See that's my dream man. 470 00:23:54.880 --> 00:23:56.599 So I got the fuck machine in there and I 471 00:23:56.640 --> 00:23:59.480 had us, so I angled myself and then I controlling it, 472 00:23:59.799 --> 00:24:01.000 you know, I mean, and I've. 473 00:24:00.839 --> 00:24:03.960 Got the vibrator on us. So she's going nuts. You 474 00:24:04.039 --> 00:24:09.240 know what I'm saying, Well, that's going off scenes, huh yeah, yo, 475 00:24:09.440 --> 00:24:11.279 I gonna be leiave it a certain way. 476 00:24:11.480 --> 00:24:16.839 Yeah, I'm it's disgusting that it's discussed fire, you know 477 00:24:16.880 --> 00:24:17.160 what I mean? 478 00:24:17.200 --> 00:24:17.920 I would do that. 479 00:24:19.519 --> 00:24:22.920 Using my own sex toys on myself like say, I 480 00:24:22.960 --> 00:24:25.799 found this, I was never really good. Look look his face, 481 00:24:26.200 --> 00:24:37.720 He's like, understand I didn't use the for myself, right, good, Yeah, okay, 482 00:24:38.279 --> 00:24:40.480 I'm just well I found I heard that they actually 483 00:24:40.559 --> 00:24:43.880 have sleeves that you can put on it that will 484 00:24:44.599 --> 00:24:49.000 jerk you off on. So I've heard that they have 485 00:24:49.039 --> 00:24:51.279 attachments that will do that. So I would That's why 486 00:24:51.319 --> 00:24:52.960 I said yet, because if I find that motherfucker. 487 00:24:53.920 --> 00:24:58.039 Like, remember there was a time on social media where 488 00:24:58.240 --> 00:25:02.640 they had this ship it was like spinning and. 489 00:25:01.680 --> 00:25:03.480 That ship is trash. It's trash. 490 00:25:03.720 --> 00:25:10.000 That ship only gets like this. I was so hype 491 00:25:10.079 --> 00:25:13.000 over male toys. I thought we were actually making a comeback. 492 00:25:13.240 --> 00:25:15.359 Well we never had it, so a come up, I 493 00:25:15.400 --> 00:25:18.200 would say, And it was trash. The only like I 494 00:25:18.240 --> 00:25:21.640 had one sex toy that was fire. It was a 495 00:25:21.720 --> 00:25:28.079 double cock ring right vibrating, and it had this part 496 00:25:28.160 --> 00:25:30.559 that goes back and like it sits right on your 497 00:25:30.559 --> 00:25:33.799 goot and all that ship is vibrating while you're fucking 498 00:25:33.839 --> 00:25:36.200 that ships fire and it has a little a little 499 00:25:36.240 --> 00:25:39.200 thing that goes on top of your ship and it 500 00:25:39.759 --> 00:25:43.440 stimulates the woman's spot at the same time, all that 501 00:25:43.519 --> 00:25:46.039 ship is going on talking about the. 502 00:25:47.839 --> 00:25:49.559 Fire Google. 503 00:25:49.680 --> 00:25:51.920 I call that ship violence. That's what I called it. 504 00:25:51.920 --> 00:25:53.079 It's violence. That's his name. 505 00:25:53.400 --> 00:25:53.839 Violence. 506 00:25:54.559 --> 00:25:58.680 I need, I need some violence in my life. So 507 00:25:58.720 --> 00:26:01.039 we all sit here about ship like it's regular. 508 00:26:01.799 --> 00:26:05.279 This is not regular, Oh but it is when you're comfortable, 509 00:26:05.319 --> 00:26:07.519 and you know, y'all you'll be well, when. 510 00:26:07.319 --> 00:26:10.720 Did you get comfortable? Because where we grew up, how 511 00:26:10.759 --> 00:26:13.400 we grew up. I would think that y'all go from 512 00:26:13.400 --> 00:26:13.759 New York. 513 00:26:14.799 --> 00:26:18.920 It's saying it's heavily homophobic out here. 514 00:26:19.319 --> 00:26:20.880 It would be too freaking you fuck. 515 00:26:21.359 --> 00:26:23.759 You can fuck a lot, but you can't be out 516 00:26:23.799 --> 00:26:25.440 here going crazy with freak ship. 517 00:26:25.240 --> 00:26:27.079 Because then they looking at you like, yo, what's going on. 518 00:26:27.559 --> 00:26:30.519 I wouldn't say it's freak ship, but like it used to, 519 00:26:30.640 --> 00:26:35.119 Like your parents go to work, you'll cut school. Everybody 520 00:26:35.119 --> 00:26:37.960 got that, shorty. It's only but so much rooms you 521 00:26:37.960 --> 00:26:40.839 could go into. You only go in his room, in 522 00:26:40.880 --> 00:26:43.400 the living room. Three niggas in the living room, three 523 00:26:43.400 --> 00:26:46.759 in the bedroom. Everybody getting popping. There's nothing like you're 524 00:26:46.799 --> 00:26:49.839 not thinking gay because y'all, you fuck, you're that's true 525 00:26:49.839 --> 00:26:51.720 what I'm saying, get your head. Boo boo boom boom 526 00:26:51.720 --> 00:26:54.599 boo boom tomorrow with that shit. 527 00:26:55.759 --> 00:26:58.000 It was never freaking It was just who gonna make it? 528 00:26:58.119 --> 00:27:02.039 Mown hard up? Yeah, what are you going over there? Oldest? 529 00:27:02.440 --> 00:27:07.079 Oh then it's over. We're fifteen thirteen. 530 00:27:07.640 --> 00:27:09.759 But we didn't know no better, we didn't choose that, 531 00:27:10.160 --> 00:27:12.440 and as we got older, we stopped. 532 00:27:12.160 --> 00:27:12.799 Moving that way. 533 00:27:13.079 --> 00:27:16.079 Of course, So what makes you now say, you know what, 534 00:27:16.200 --> 00:27:17.759 I want to go back to moving that way? 535 00:27:18.039 --> 00:27:19.160 Because now when. 536 00:27:19.000 --> 00:27:22.039 You're younger, you do it because none of y'all have 537 00:27:22.079 --> 00:27:24.599 access to sex like that or to places like that, 538 00:27:24.680 --> 00:27:26.759 so it's kind of a need to do that. 539 00:27:27.640 --> 00:27:28.880 But and then you get. 540 00:27:28.680 --> 00:27:30.759 Older and it's like, oh, that's not cool or that 541 00:27:31.079 --> 00:27:33.319 it's not a thing once you're twenty three twenty four 542 00:27:33.640 --> 00:27:36.039 to take all your girls go back and crib unless 543 00:27:36.039 --> 00:27:37.400 you like hang around Drake or some shit like that. 544 00:27:39.519 --> 00:27:42.000 Like you said, it's a matter of access, right if 545 00:27:42.240 --> 00:27:44.319 your mom is going to work or your parents are 546 00:27:44.319 --> 00:27:45.960 going to work or whatever, and you know you have 547 00:27:46.039 --> 00:27:47.960 this finite amount of time to actually get that done, 548 00:27:48.000 --> 00:27:51.200 it becomes like a must, right. But today you know, 549 00:27:51.279 --> 00:27:54.799 as grown men, like we could turn shit down because 550 00:27:54.839 --> 00:27:57.519 it's like, yo, it's my crib, I live here, I 551 00:27:57.559 --> 00:27:59.359 pay the bills here so I can get somebody over 552 00:27:59.400 --> 00:28:03.319 here when I want. Yes, it's somebody when I can, right, 553 00:28:03.799 --> 00:28:06.440 So it's it kind of changes. And I also feel 554 00:28:06.480 --> 00:28:08.799 like the whole freaky thing it changed over time. Like 555 00:28:08.799 --> 00:28:11.480 when we were kids, you know, we couldn't say, oh, 556 00:28:11.680 --> 00:28:13.359 you know, I was eating pussy, I was eating ass 557 00:28:13.359 --> 00:28:16.160 and all that. We couldn't say that, right, But kids 558 00:28:16.160 --> 00:28:19.440 nowadays today that were the same age where we couldn't 559 00:28:19.440 --> 00:28:22.359 say that, they could say that now, you know, and 560 00:28:22.359 --> 00:28:23.720 they're not even being judged. 561 00:28:24.680 --> 00:28:25.119 That's part. 562 00:28:25.559 --> 00:28:28.799 I was asked the first time I had six pussy 563 00:28:28.799 --> 00:28:32.799 the first time, I. 564 00:28:31.000 --> 00:28:33.480 I didn't know. I was so amazed that I was there. 565 00:28:34.000 --> 00:28:35.519 I could. I didn't do it because I don't think 566 00:28:35.519 --> 00:28:36.720 I did it because I was freaking. I was just 567 00:28:36.720 --> 00:28:43.200 like amazed, I can't believe it. Over one night, were 568 00:28:43.279 --> 00:28:46.960 down there like what is this everything? But it was 569 00:28:46.960 --> 00:28:48.640 eating pussy wasn't the thing. I remember, I was born 570 00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:52.039 in seventy were and ship the fuck up. 571 00:28:52.000 --> 00:29:02.480 Yesterday, motherfucker, right before my birthday. You did ask different, 572 00:29:03.680 --> 00:29:06.359 So all right in any case, Yeah, so. 573 00:29:09.160 --> 00:29:12.599 When did it become like yo for y'all right? 574 00:29:14.319 --> 00:29:16.480 You mentioned you got to a point where you didn't 575 00:29:16.519 --> 00:29:18.839 care no more what happened. 576 00:29:19.440 --> 00:29:26.519 So basically I started to find sex extremely boring and mundane, right, 577 00:29:26.640 --> 00:29:29.839 And you know, I actually spoke to my therapist about 578 00:29:29.839 --> 00:29:31.079 it and she was like, yo, you need you need 579 00:29:31.079 --> 00:29:33.720 an outlet to kind of express this stuff in my head. 580 00:29:33.720 --> 00:29:36.200 I'm like, I'm here, like with therapy, I'm trying to express. 581 00:29:36.240 --> 00:29:37.480 I'm talking to you like you have more of an 582 00:29:37.480 --> 00:29:39.359 outlet so you can get a better understanding as to 583 00:29:39.400 --> 00:29:41.559 what people may want, because they might be thinking the 584 00:29:41.599 --> 00:29:46.359 same thing you're thinking. So I started in my close friends, 585 00:29:46.880 --> 00:29:48.920 you know, and I would just throw random questions out there. 586 00:29:48.960 --> 00:29:49.640 Weren't really around them. 587 00:29:49.720 --> 00:29:51.000 I was thinking of him, but I would throw them 588 00:29:51.000 --> 00:29:53.440 out there and see what people were thinking, like the 589 00:29:53.559 --> 00:29:56.680 test of vibe, and I realized that ninety of people 590 00:29:56.720 --> 00:29:59.160 and my close friends were with it, you know. And 591 00:29:59.200 --> 00:30:03.519 then actually it became somewhat of an advice column, and 592 00:30:03.559 --> 00:30:07.160 then you know, people would start saying, you need to 593 00:30:07.200 --> 00:30:08.559 do a podcast about this stuff because a lot of 594 00:30:08.599 --> 00:30:11.079 people are afraid to talk about sex and stuff like that. 595 00:30:11.079 --> 00:30:13.000 I was like, all right, cool, I didn't want to 596 00:30:13.039 --> 00:30:14.440 do it, but then I was like, you know what, 597 00:30:14.480 --> 00:30:15.240 I have to do it. 598 00:30:15.319 --> 00:30:19.200 But had you actualized these thoughts yet or were they just. 599 00:30:19.519 --> 00:30:24.599 There were thoughts that were actually happening that they were 600 00:30:24.599 --> 00:30:27.799 actually actualizing as I was having the conversations, you know. 601 00:30:27.920 --> 00:30:30.880 So like the more I would have the conversations, the 602 00:30:30.960 --> 00:30:33.000 more comfortable I would get, you know. And then I 603 00:30:33.039 --> 00:30:36.960 was like, you know what, I'm gonna start start dropping 604 00:30:37.000 --> 00:30:39.559 information about me, you know, and things that I like, 605 00:30:40.160 --> 00:30:42.400 and I would admit that it was me now, and 606 00:30:42.440 --> 00:30:44.799 then as I was admitted that it was me, my 607 00:30:44.960 --> 00:30:48.680 dms were going crazy, right, So it's like, wow, you know, 608 00:30:48.799 --> 00:30:52.160 this is not quite the attention that I wanted as much, 609 00:30:52.880 --> 00:30:57.160 but just knowing that me as a person, I'm able 610 00:30:57.160 --> 00:31:00.119 to say I would like to have these experiences and 611 00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:02.559 a ton of women just saying yeah, I'll. 612 00:31:02.359 --> 00:31:05.079 Do that with you. Yeah, very affirment, very affirming. 613 00:31:05.599 --> 00:31:09.400 What's crazy is like the things that I didn't want 614 00:31:09.480 --> 00:31:11.799 done on what they were pushing more on me. 615 00:31:12.960 --> 00:31:13.839 I don't want my ass you. 616 00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:16.440 Never had, but that's don't want women like, oh, that's 617 00:31:16.480 --> 00:31:17.480 where the freak starts. 618 00:31:17.880 --> 00:31:19.920 So that's what you you know what I mean, The 619 00:31:19.960 --> 00:31:22.039 minute you start talking freak, actually. 620 00:31:22.119 --> 00:31:23.279 You know what I mean, It's like, yo, that's what 621 00:31:24.160 --> 00:31:26.480 I'm not leaving that. I'm not giving up that control. 622 00:31:26.640 --> 00:31:29.039 Maybe you're not gonna have me squealing with my legs 623 00:31:29.079 --> 00:31:30.160 up Lamborghini stuff. 624 00:31:30.359 --> 00:31:32.839 Why I don't know. I hear niggas we squealing that. 625 00:31:33.079 --> 00:31:39.039 I never squealed, taking it like a chance you had 626 00:31:39.079 --> 00:31:42.720 to have at least one in you only on the nut. 627 00:31:43.000 --> 00:31:45.720 But I squill anyway when I nut. Okay, that might 628 00:31:45.720 --> 00:31:49.240 be too much for you. Make noise when I nuts 629 00:31:50.799 --> 00:31:56.240 talking about get this ship. You never made that. You 630 00:31:56.319 --> 00:31:58.359 never made a squeal that you ain't wasn't really proud 631 00:31:58.400 --> 00:32:01.920 of I made a sound. I wasn't. 632 00:32:03.640 --> 00:32:05.839 I've never made I made a sound that I wasn't 633 00:32:05.880 --> 00:32:08.279 proud of it at the moment. But that was like 634 00:32:08.319 --> 00:32:11.440 I thought, you cock when like I was nothing you 635 00:32:12.920 --> 00:32:17.039 Oh damn, she actually watches this podcast. You gotta know 636 00:32:17.039 --> 00:32:17.559 who it is. 637 00:32:18.119 --> 00:32:21.359 Like even it wasn't even nothing, I thought it like 638 00:32:21.400 --> 00:32:27.519 two three times during the whole process. It was you. 639 00:32:28.119 --> 00:32:31.039 Here's the thing, right when I start, when I start 640 00:32:31.079 --> 00:32:33.519 seeing someone for the first time, first couple of times, 641 00:32:33.880 --> 00:32:35.880 like I really don't be farting around them and ship 642 00:32:36.319 --> 00:32:39.559 I'll be I'll be holding and be subconscious to like 643 00:32:39.599 --> 00:32:41.599 even in my sleep. I wake up with my stomach 644 00:32:41.720 --> 00:32:44.160 killing me because I was holding my thoughts in my sleep, 645 00:32:45.119 --> 00:32:48.279 so like I'm holding my ships the whole time. And 646 00:32:48.279 --> 00:32:51.279 then we start to get intimate and you know, we 647 00:32:51.440 --> 00:32:54.640 fucking and like it. 648 00:32:54.680 --> 00:32:56.480 Was feeling so good. I kind of forgot that I 649 00:32:56.519 --> 00:33:00.400 was cinching my ass since you're coming out here in there, 650 00:33:00.440 --> 00:33:02.200 and you know, she was a good support about it. 651 00:33:02.279 --> 00:33:03.559 She was laughing. I was laughing. 652 00:33:03.599 --> 00:33:06.160 It wasn't one of those silent, smelly farts. It was 653 00:33:06.400 --> 00:33:09.400 the loud ones that don't really smell like nothing, the ones, 654 00:33:09.559 --> 00:33:10.880 the ones you could laugh away. 655 00:33:10.720 --> 00:33:12.319 The ones you could laugh away. And we ended up 656 00:33:12.359 --> 00:33:14.079 laughing a few times. Do that though. 657 00:33:14.200 --> 00:33:18.160 Yeah that's any when you hit it, and that's tough. Yeah, 658 00:33:18.519 --> 00:33:22.000 that's tough fart. It's like, yo, what happened? When did 659 00:33:22.000 --> 00:33:22.839 we get this comfortable? 660 00:33:22.880 --> 00:33:27.000 Yeah? Bring back real women. That'd be fun. Now. I 661 00:33:27.000 --> 00:33:30.160 remember my whole first thirty years was playing it women 662 00:33:30.160 --> 00:33:32.559 in the far. Yeah, they get older and they just 663 00:33:32.559 --> 00:33:38.519 be like, listen, let's do it, let it go, let 664 00:33:38.519 --> 00:33:43.799 it go. Fus. What's up? Have you always been open 665 00:33:43.839 --> 00:33:46.559 talking about sex? Yeah? Always? 666 00:33:46.920 --> 00:33:51.279 Yeah, because I want the person i'm with you know, 667 00:33:51.480 --> 00:33:54.200 I need I need my female to be comfortable also 668 00:33:54.720 --> 00:33:57.200 like you. It's like the brother Gladdy said, you know, 669 00:33:57.559 --> 00:34:00.759 once she felt comfortable enough and or it, you know, 670 00:34:01.359 --> 00:34:05.559 and balking on his quest of letting people know his 671 00:34:05.640 --> 00:34:09.840 freaky side, his you know. The responss was like, damn, 672 00:34:10.199 --> 00:34:14.519 I didn't know you. That's the thing you have. Teachers, doctors, 673 00:34:14.559 --> 00:34:19.960 they do think. Yes, your brain opens up, like I said, 674 00:34:20.039 --> 00:34:22.880 some people is not. Fortunately I was young, older women, 675 00:34:23.000 --> 00:34:26.840 so them things like, you know, just part. 676 00:34:26.639 --> 00:34:27.280 Of your life. 677 00:34:27.639 --> 00:34:31.519 Have you ever faced pushback from being on the pod 678 00:34:31.599 --> 00:34:33.559 talking about certain things or being open, like do you 679 00:34:33.599 --> 00:34:34.400 ever feel like. 680 00:34:34.599 --> 00:34:37.960 Society pushes back? Like? Oh, facts, just what are y'all doing? 681 00:34:38.239 --> 00:34:40.000 We're the real man? Ad Now, y'all been a little 682 00:34:40.000 --> 00:34:42.199 too freaky. These guys got a little zesty. He calls 683 00:34:42.199 --> 00:34:47.000 me zesty all the time. I'm like, bro, that's the fact. Nah, 684 00:34:47.159 --> 00:34:48.679 Like I'm comfortable with my skin man. 685 00:34:49.159 --> 00:34:51.800 So you never gotten that pushback or you just never 686 00:34:51.920 --> 00:34:54.039 cared about it? Now I don't care about that ship. 687 00:34:54.440 --> 00:34:58.480 So have you seen real nigga? Have you seen the pushback? Nah? 688 00:34:58.679 --> 00:35:01.079 Because I believe everybody got a free getting them Gladdy, 689 00:35:01.119 --> 00:35:02.440 have you seen it? Oh? That's a fact. 690 00:35:02.679 --> 00:35:04.320 Before I even started a podcast, I would go on 691 00:35:04.400 --> 00:35:07.800 live all the time and I would talk about some 692 00:35:07.840 --> 00:35:09.760 of the things that I would do, like I like 693 00:35:09.800 --> 00:35:16.639 show them in handcuffs, writers, crops, tasseholes and the clear 694 00:35:16.719 --> 00:35:19.719 dial though that would bring out and they were like, oh, 695 00:35:19.719 --> 00:35:22.880 this Nigga's gay. I'm like, br Like that doesn't make sense. 696 00:35:23.000 --> 00:35:25.159 Like I'm literally telling you that this is what I 697 00:35:25.239 --> 00:35:29.159 do with women, you know. Like I remember there was 698 00:35:29.199 --> 00:35:32.599 a Halloween I put on a whole gimsuit with a 699 00:35:32.920 --> 00:35:34.719 strap on dil though, and I was in a Halloween 700 00:35:34.760 --> 00:35:39.000 party like that, you know, And it's like like, how. 701 00:35:38.920 --> 00:35:41.079 Like you know, so I went to a play party 702 00:35:41.119 --> 00:35:41.519 like that one. 703 00:35:41.719 --> 00:35:44.079 Yeah, Like nigga, listen, at the end of the day, 704 00:35:44.079 --> 00:35:47.360 when you become secure enough in your sexuality, there's a 705 00:35:47.400 --> 00:35:52.199 lot of things that will definitely not phase you sexually, right. 706 00:35:52.800 --> 00:35:58.079 And I feel like there's a certain level of homophobia 707 00:35:58.360 --> 00:36:01.639 that actually makes certain people suspect. It's like, you know, 708 00:36:01.719 --> 00:36:04.639 what if you if you are really so against it, 709 00:36:04.679 --> 00:36:07.639 what are you really hiding? You know, I'm literally saying 710 00:36:07.719 --> 00:36:09.679 I'm doing this stuff with women. 711 00:36:10.280 --> 00:36:12.679 You know. There's certain things I won't do. Obviously, I 712 00:36:12.719 --> 00:36:13.199 don't do. 713 00:36:14.480 --> 00:36:16.760 Anal play or ass play and ship like that. I 714 00:36:16.840 --> 00:36:18.760 don't like my gooch lick like, I don't like none 715 00:36:18.800 --> 00:36:20.239 of that. I don't do any of that because I 716 00:36:20.239 --> 00:36:23.679 do not because not because I think it's it's it's 717 00:36:23.760 --> 00:36:27.519 gay or anything. It's more like like, why would I open. 718 00:36:27.360 --> 00:36:32.119 That door to allow anyone to have that kind of 719 00:36:32.440 --> 00:36:36.880 over me? Open? I can't do it. I'm a dominant man. 720 00:36:37.000 --> 00:36:39.559 Open the door. I can't do it. I'm dominant. Women 721 00:36:39.599 --> 00:36:43.400 get my ass, like I'm saying it, dominantly open the door. 722 00:36:46.880 --> 00:36:52.519 I'm dominantly getting my ass. What what take off the class? 723 00:36:53.440 --> 00:36:56.440 But like it's again, it's you could dominant. 724 00:36:56.480 --> 00:36:59.239 Look if you got her between your legs and you're 725 00:36:59.280 --> 00:37:01.559 holding a like this and you talking to her, you 726 00:37:01.599 --> 00:37:04.199 lift her mouth up, you spill him out, eat the ad. 727 00:37:04.239 --> 00:37:05.119 That's not dominant. 728 00:37:05.280 --> 00:37:08.599 How could she because she's on her knees between your 729 00:37:08.679 --> 00:37:11.840 legs and you got her like this and she going crazy. 730 00:37:12.239 --> 00:37:17.559 See that's my other problems, trying to break her nose 731 00:37:17.599 --> 00:37:18.400 getting in that thing? 732 00:37:18.519 --> 00:37:21.880 What get in there? Dominantly? 733 00:37:23.880 --> 00:37:27.119 It's far from me to find a position to get 734 00:37:27.119 --> 00:37:31.280 my as ate that. Like I don't know, fly right, right. 735 00:37:31.599 --> 00:37:33.760 He said, somebody can walk between your legs. She don't 736 00:37:33.760 --> 00:37:34.159 even got. 737 00:37:37.800 --> 00:37:43.519 You know what I mean? I mean, I seen I've 738 00:37:43.519 --> 00:37:47.199 seen on Lineaday a young lady flew herself out to 739 00:37:47.239 --> 00:37:50.480 go visit a guy out of town. Right, she tells 740 00:37:50.480 --> 00:37:53.000 the guy, I bought throat numb and spread. 741 00:37:53.519 --> 00:37:56.480 Mm hmm. Now the situation ain't me? 742 00:37:56.639 --> 00:38:00.800 You go, wow, Yeah, I'm like, we're ship respecfully, I'm 743 00:38:00.880 --> 00:38:03.519 not not me, not for me, baby, not for me. 744 00:38:03.719 --> 00:38:05.639 I'm just saying, you know what I mean. One a podcast, 745 00:38:06.360 --> 00:38:11.079 I'm just saying, you bought that's thoughtful, that's extremely thoughtful. 746 00:38:11.199 --> 00:38:13.199 They're internet tear ass up? 747 00:38:14.920 --> 00:38:18.519 Oh y'all channeling, y'all going through TSA with throat numb 748 00:38:18.599 --> 00:38:19.119 and spray. 749 00:38:19.760 --> 00:38:23.280 What happened with? What is this society coming to? I'm like, Yo, 750 00:38:24.119 --> 00:38:26.880 this is a real woman right here. This is what 751 00:38:26.960 --> 00:38:29.480 we were supposed to do. This is what everybody's supposed 752 00:38:29.519 --> 00:38:29.719 to do. 753 00:38:31.199 --> 00:38:34.679 If you are not getting married before you have sex 754 00:38:34.679 --> 00:38:37.800 the first time, shut the fuck up and enjoy sex. 755 00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:41.679 Like you just need to stop being so like some 756 00:38:41.760 --> 00:38:43.559 women just need to stop being prudes. At the end 757 00:38:43.559 --> 00:38:46.079 of the day, sex is happening, whether you like it 758 00:38:46.199 --> 00:38:48.840 or not. You're having sex without being married, you're having 759 00:38:48.840 --> 00:38:51.480 sex out of wedlock, like you are literally doing the 760 00:38:51.559 --> 00:38:55.920 ultimate sin. Because it's happening behind closed doors doesn't change 761 00:38:55.960 --> 00:38:58.559 the fact that there should be some shame there right 762 00:38:58.760 --> 00:39:00.400 well in your eyes. I don't think there should be 763 00:39:00.400 --> 00:39:03.079 any shame. But if someone is actually going on the 764 00:39:03.119 --> 00:39:06.000 trip and they want that trip to be lit and 765 00:39:06.000 --> 00:39:08.880 they want to give hand without gagging, let them. Let 766 00:39:08.880 --> 00:39:12.519 them have their fucking spray and and and a dick 767 00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:14.840 sucking marathon. For women like that ship will hurt their 768 00:39:14.880 --> 00:39:17.239 throat after a while, just she's being considered to you 769 00:39:17.519 --> 00:39:18.719 and to her throat. 770 00:39:18.719 --> 00:39:21.639 And I'm trying to understand what the damn Oh, real 771 00:39:21.679 --> 00:39:25.559 women don't need their real real real eaters don't need. 772 00:39:27.920 --> 00:39:31.519 Fuck y'all, Kobe. All of a sudden, y'all turn it 773 00:39:31.519 --> 00:39:35.039 into thurst measurers like Yo. This is a throat competition, 774 00:39:35.199 --> 00:39:35.480 like Yo. 775 00:39:35.599 --> 00:39:37.840 Let her get her ship off because the fact that 776 00:39:37.880 --> 00:39:41.719 she's using it for doue men are stimulated by visual ship, 777 00:39:42.079 --> 00:39:45.000 by the fucking willingness of her to do certain ship. 778 00:39:45.239 --> 00:39:48.639 Like Yo, that's just fire. Where she used to put 779 00:39:48.639 --> 00:39:50.960 the pop rocks in her mouth or the ice in 780 00:39:51.000 --> 00:39:51.719 the mouth or whatever. 781 00:39:51.840 --> 00:39:54.440 I never really did much for me, but the fact 782 00:39:54.440 --> 00:39:57.519 that she wanted to do it made her a fucking 783 00:39:57.559 --> 00:39:58.079 wind to me. 784 00:39:58.599 --> 00:40:03.199 Remember when they did the orange on the joint bad. 785 00:40:03.400 --> 00:40:06.239 It's a good brother, I did it my bad. Now 786 00:40:06.320 --> 00:40:09.480 you're good. You're good. But it's the visual and the 787 00:40:09.519 --> 00:40:11.280 fact that she wants to do ship like that. 788 00:40:11.320 --> 00:40:13.079 It's the visual and like they say, the thought is 789 00:40:13.079 --> 00:40:15.119 the thought that counts as well as like just knowing. 790 00:40:15.480 --> 00:40:18.320 Like imagine, imagine somebody is coming to take a flight, 791 00:40:18.840 --> 00:40:21.000 going to take a flight to come see you, and 792 00:40:21.079 --> 00:40:21.719 she sends you. 793 00:40:21.679 --> 00:40:25.199 A photo of that spray like or whatever it is. 794 00:40:25.320 --> 00:40:27.920 It's a spray, right, yeah, you know, they take a 795 00:40:27.960 --> 00:40:29.760 photo spray and they send it to you Like that. 796 00:40:29.800 --> 00:40:33.920 Ship ups everything everything. Just knowing that she is getting 797 00:40:33.920 --> 00:40:35.320 prepared for you. 798 00:40:35.679 --> 00:40:36.239 It's fire. 799 00:40:36.559 --> 00:40:41.800 So my advice to the ladies is basically, I don't 800 00:40:41.840 --> 00:40:43.679 care about what the women are saying. You're doing it 801 00:40:43.679 --> 00:40:45.960 for the men in facts. At the end of the day, 802 00:40:45.960 --> 00:40:47.960 I think this is the issue that we're having, Like 803 00:40:48.119 --> 00:40:51.079 we're worried about what the same sex is thinking about 804 00:40:51.079 --> 00:40:52.679 what we're going to do with the opposite sex. 805 00:40:52.800 --> 00:40:55.079 I say the same thing, say the same thing about 806 00:40:55.079 --> 00:41:00.760 men about worried about First of all, y'all worried about homophobic. 807 00:41:00.880 --> 00:41:03.840 Y'all worried about being gay. Ye're not worried about the woman, But. 808 00:41:03.840 --> 00:41:06.840 Y'all worried about what other niggas think about what you're 809 00:41:06.880 --> 00:41:07.960 doing with your woman. 810 00:41:08.239 --> 00:41:11.039 That's crazy. That don't sound crazy to you. 811 00:41:11.440 --> 00:41:14.719 There is literally a definition, a definition in the dictionary 812 00:41:14.719 --> 00:41:19.679 as to what gay is or homosexuality is. Literally ninety 813 00:41:19.760 --> 00:41:22.400 eight percent of the ship that you guys think is gay, 814 00:41:22.519 --> 00:41:27.360 it is not. It's not it's literally being attracted to 815 00:41:27.440 --> 00:41:28.599 the same sex. 816 00:41:28.679 --> 00:41:30.239 That's it. That's literally all it is. 817 00:41:31.280 --> 00:41:31.320 That. 818 00:41:31.960 --> 00:41:35.519 That is a fact. It's good for y'all that all. 819 00:41:36.239 --> 00:41:37.559 So I think that. 820 00:41:38.960 --> 00:41:41.400 I wanted to ask y'all when y'all got comfortable with 821 00:41:41.440 --> 00:41:43.760 this and then we're going to move on to other stuff. Right, 822 00:41:43.800 --> 00:41:46.480 But you said you've always been comfortable. Yeah, I'm chilling, man, 823 00:41:46.880 --> 00:41:47.559 I'm personally me. 824 00:41:47.880 --> 00:41:49.159 I wasn't always comfortable. 825 00:41:49.920 --> 00:41:54.480 I was worried about what society thought. I definitely was 826 00:41:54.519 --> 00:41:57.760 worried about you know, I was. I was homophobic as hell, right, 827 00:41:58.000 --> 00:42:00.800 I think most of us was the East flat, you 828 00:42:00.920 --> 00:42:03.960 a street, or you was just in the hood. Everybody's homophobic, 829 00:42:04.119 --> 00:42:07.760 and I think that once I came to terms with, oh, ship, 830 00:42:08.280 --> 00:42:12.159 you actually gotta like niggas to be gay, right, all 831 00:42:12.199 --> 00:42:14.760 this ship that we're talking about. Pause, and it's not gay. 832 00:42:15.119 --> 00:42:18.800 None of this is gay, none of and who cares? 833 00:42:19.400 --> 00:42:22.440 Why are we so worried about gay that ship? Once 834 00:42:22.480 --> 00:42:25.320 I stepped through that door of realizing like I'm bugging 835 00:42:25.360 --> 00:42:27.880 on the gay ship, I was able to step out 836 00:42:27.920 --> 00:42:30.519 and just really just enjoy my life because I wasn't 837 00:42:30.559 --> 00:42:33.039 really worried about what people was thinking about this, that 838 00:42:33.079 --> 00:42:33.519 and the other. 839 00:42:33.800 --> 00:42:35.719 And once you stop being. 840 00:42:37.800 --> 00:42:41.480 Once you realize that being homophobic is whack as fuck 841 00:42:42.280 --> 00:42:45.360 and you realize that, And I say that just because 842 00:42:45.360 --> 00:42:50.280 that's my realization. Black men especially are so scared of 843 00:42:50.320 --> 00:42:50.920 being gay. 844 00:42:51.440 --> 00:42:51.920 It's gay? 845 00:42:52.880 --> 00:42:58.360 Yeah, sorry, no, no, but what what just works perfectly? 846 00:42:58.519 --> 00:42:58.719 Right? 847 00:42:59.119 --> 00:43:01.960 And I said that because it's like, you want to 848 00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:05.079 be so homophobic, Like it's like, what are you really 849 00:43:05.119 --> 00:43:09.239 afraid of? It's so it's crazy, yeah, like you got 850 00:43:09.280 --> 00:43:11.800 them skeletons and it's it's crazy. 851 00:43:12.400 --> 00:43:16.159 You got to be the toughest nigga, and it's like, yo, 852 00:43:16.440 --> 00:43:19.519 this you're act. 853 00:43:18.679 --> 00:43:21.119 So because I don't want to confuse gay with a 854 00:43:21.199 --> 00:43:24.519 negative thought. But what I'm saying is, bro what you're 855 00:43:24.559 --> 00:43:30.360 doing is just not masculine or it's just something there 856 00:43:30.400 --> 00:43:31.840 that's just very weak. 857 00:43:32.519 --> 00:43:34.440 It's just not what you think it is. 858 00:43:35.079 --> 00:43:37.880 Step out and and I've been using this term a 859 00:43:37.960 --> 00:43:42.880 lot lately, Like yo, real men break rules, right, the 860 00:43:42.920 --> 00:43:46.159 people that take it and go as far as they can, 861 00:43:46.400 --> 00:43:49.559 they don't listen to what other people talking about. They 862 00:43:50.519 --> 00:43:53.480 even the men that we celebrate in the hood, the 863 00:43:53.480 --> 00:43:58.039 ghetto stars or whoever, they broke all the fucking rules. 864 00:43:58.079 --> 00:43:59.920 That's why they was able to get where they went. Fact. 865 00:44:00.199 --> 00:44:03.000 But y'all following whatever you other niggas telling you it's 866 00:44:03.000 --> 00:44:04.840 cool to do it, what not, it's cool to do it, 867 00:44:04.920 --> 00:44:06.800 and men, I agree. 868 00:44:06.639 --> 00:44:10.480 Get them niggas off your back and go look, go. 869 00:44:10.559 --> 00:44:12.719 Live your life like I like that for real men 870 00:44:12.760 --> 00:44:15.880 break rules, Real men break stereotypes, real men break stigmas. 871 00:44:16.119 --> 00:44:18.199 That's what that's what they do there. You can only 872 00:44:18.239 --> 00:44:21.039 break ground when you do those things. And I feel like, 873 00:44:21.159 --> 00:44:22.480 you know, those people that want to be in the 874 00:44:22.480 --> 00:44:24.679 hood and stay stuck in the hood and don't want 875 00:44:24.679 --> 00:44:27.119 to broaden their horizons. And I'm not even talking about sexually, 876 00:44:27.280 --> 00:44:30.119 just broaden your eyes and put yourself around other people. 877 00:44:30.159 --> 00:44:33.320 You're starting to realize that those people that are living 878 00:44:33.360 --> 00:44:36.239 in that community are literally just like you, you know, 879 00:44:36.480 --> 00:44:39.400 like and you know it's what it's just what they 880 00:44:39.440 --> 00:44:41.320 do behind closed doors, that's what makes them different. 881 00:44:42.480 --> 00:44:50.679 So on this podcast with two old heads, three old heads, three. 882 00:44:50.599 --> 00:44:57.440 I said, I'm on here with two Oh, okay, I get. 883 00:44:57.920 --> 00:45:00.960 I don't really get O G. But I get. 884 00:45:01.039 --> 00:45:04.639 I think it's because it changed from OG to unk. Right, 885 00:45:05.159 --> 00:45:08.039 So it was OG for a little while that it 886 00:45:08.079 --> 00:45:11.519 was a big bro and then now now it's because I. 887 00:45:11.480 --> 00:45:16.320 Was big bro first, Yeah, that was big bro. Then 888 00:45:16.360 --> 00:45:20.199 I was Grandpa. I don't know how that's snuck in 889 00:45:20.239 --> 00:45:24.360 there before I become grandpa before. I haven't gotten grandpa yet. 890 00:45:24.800 --> 00:45:27.199 O G. That she is, like, Yo, I'm with I 891 00:45:27.320 --> 00:45:27.519 get this. 892 00:45:27.599 --> 00:45:32.079 Shut up, sir, shout out to my cousin. 893 00:45:32.159 --> 00:45:36.559 Yesterday, yesterday, yesterday, had last. 894 00:45:36.599 --> 00:45:38.159 You're still sucking the same way I was when I 895 00:45:38.159 --> 00:45:41.320 was younger. Facts, same way, facts even better now, way 896 00:45:41.360 --> 00:45:44.119 better now. It can't be it can't it can't be both. 897 00:45:44.960 --> 00:45:45.519 It's not the same. 898 00:45:45.679 --> 00:45:47.199 No, no, no, no, you're trying to sell dick on here. 899 00:45:47.559 --> 00:45:53.760 We're non point not you got hold on, we got them? 900 00:45:53.920 --> 00:45:56.280 Is it the same or is it not? All right? 901 00:45:56.400 --> 00:45:57.920 So it is not the same. 902 00:45:58.920 --> 00:46:02.599 What I'm saying is I'm saying my propensity for sex 903 00:46:02.880 --> 00:46:08.559 is still the same, but my uh, my acumen is different, 904 00:46:08.679 --> 00:46:14.880 meaning like the skill set has definitely gotten a lot better. Right, So, 905 00:46:15.320 --> 00:46:17.400 Like I think as you get older, you start paying 906 00:46:17.400 --> 00:46:20.880 attention to different things like body language, the way the 907 00:46:20.920 --> 00:46:23.079 stomach is like going up and down when you when 908 00:46:23.079 --> 00:46:26.880 you're eating, or or or you know, whether they're arching 909 00:46:26.920 --> 00:46:29.800 their back because they want more pleasure, they're kind of 910 00:46:29.840 --> 00:46:33.320 like arching their back, or they're arching the back because 911 00:46:33.320 --> 00:46:35.960 you're doing too much. You're applying too much pressure, you know, 912 00:46:36.079 --> 00:46:39.639 and knowing how to gauge that and maneuver based on that. 913 00:46:39.840 --> 00:46:41.920 So these are things that come with time, right, and 914 00:46:41.920 --> 00:46:44.480 and and multiple women. So you know, if you have 915 00:46:44.480 --> 00:46:46.159 one woman in your whole life, you know, it's kind 916 00:46:46.159 --> 00:46:49.719 of hard to become great at sex. You can become 917 00:46:49.760 --> 00:46:52.960 great at having sex with her, but as you grow 918 00:46:53.000 --> 00:46:55.320 older and you have a multiple partners, you kind of 919 00:46:55.320 --> 00:46:58.679 got to get got to get the base level of 920 00:46:58.800 --> 00:47:02.599 what women tend to what so and you can augment 921 00:47:02.639 --> 00:47:04.480 it as you go. So these are things that you 922 00:47:04.480 --> 00:47:05.440 get as you get older. 923 00:47:06.280 --> 00:47:10.800 That bad touch got the back even with that me 924 00:47:11.800 --> 00:47:13.800 is a space where a lot of men have never 925 00:47:13.880 --> 00:47:14.440 gone before. 926 00:47:16.400 --> 00:47:19.920 They can't reach. You gotta have equipment to get back there. 927 00:47:20.280 --> 00:47:23.719 You hit that things in my stomach. That's what it is. Good. 928 00:47:23.800 --> 00:47:28.880 It's called the spot. Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, because you. 929 00:47:29.039 --> 00:47:30.840 Wall to the wall type of guy. 930 00:47:32.079 --> 00:47:34.880 Not every pomp poom is that like that, though. Some 931 00:47:34.880 --> 00:47:37.360 some you need to go all the way in some 932 00:47:37.519 --> 00:47:41.239 you could day back is like right there, that's the 933 00:47:41.280 --> 00:47:43.039 deep ship about the anal with the hose. 934 00:47:44.360 --> 00:47:46.960 You get to that right in the back of it. 935 00:47:47.000 --> 00:47:48.840 So a lot of bitch like put in my ass, 936 00:47:49.119 --> 00:47:52.760 all right, pop, Then they pussy get dripping and come 937 00:47:52.840 --> 00:47:53.920 in and it's different. 938 00:47:54.440 --> 00:47:55.039 You've had. 939 00:47:57.199 --> 00:48:02.880 Just you bro, I'm good, I'm good, But you had 940 00:48:02.880 --> 00:48:04.320 somebody yell put it in my ass. 941 00:48:07.400 --> 00:48:10.599 Ye, put in my ass, not yelled it. But they 942 00:48:10.679 --> 00:48:15.119 say they yeah, well. 943 00:48:16.559 --> 00:48:20.480 Mm hmm, yeah, I had to do the she have 944 00:48:20.639 --> 00:48:24.880 toys put out the draw Oh so not you. 945 00:48:25.679 --> 00:48:28.840 The thing is, no, they don't got the whole. They't 946 00:48:28.920 --> 00:48:31.239 have that. They just had a thing to get to 947 00:48:31.280 --> 00:48:35.679 the back of the ship. Put it in my just 948 00:48:35.719 --> 00:48:38.199 feel like antal plugs and like that can that be 949 00:48:38.239 --> 00:48:45.239 the title? Yeah? That was like, yo, put it in 950 00:48:45.280 --> 00:48:49.199 my ass, like what you for real? Ship? I have? 951 00:48:49.320 --> 00:48:50.760 That happened to me drawing sex. 952 00:48:51.280 --> 00:48:53.119 Like they not take it out, nigga, put it in 953 00:48:53.480 --> 00:48:56.199 Like yeah, they put your ship in there. 954 00:48:57.480 --> 00:49:00.760 I think that's what that's That's how they God knowing 955 00:49:00.920 --> 00:49:01.719 something about. 956 00:49:01.480 --> 00:49:05.960 That moment when they take you out and they do 957 00:49:06.000 --> 00:49:09.239 the thing and the and then son, they do this 958 00:49:09.280 --> 00:49:14.199 little thing and they. 959 00:49:16.199 --> 00:49:17.960 That's the only way to make sure you verify that 960 00:49:18.000 --> 00:49:19.880 it's not going in the wrong home when they just 961 00:49:19.880 --> 00:49:20.440 put it in there. 962 00:49:20.960 --> 00:49:22.760 But then you gotta go check with your hand. You 963 00:49:22.760 --> 00:49:26.400 go check. You have to at all times because he's 964 00:49:26.400 --> 00:49:30.280 empty old ship at all times around while you're in there. 965 00:49:30.599 --> 00:49:32.679 Touch the pussy ship. I'm dead at her butt. 966 00:49:32.760 --> 00:49:38.199 Oh nuts be in their own pussy Oh yeah yeah the. 967 00:49:41.239 --> 00:49:41.679 Old ship. 968 00:49:42.360 --> 00:49:46.280 Yeah fun yeah, yeah. You know, j'making parties standing there 969 00:49:46.320 --> 00:49:50.159 and Dan he's going crazy, like. 970 00:49:52.440 --> 00:49:55.400 Have y'all had any So I'm gonna be the first 971 00:49:55.400 --> 00:49:59.039 to say that as I got older, I realized that 972 00:49:59.760 --> 00:50:02.519 when I I was younger, because I seemed like y'all 973 00:50:02.599 --> 00:50:07.079 just these are stallions over here the green room stallions. 974 00:50:07.920 --> 00:50:09.159 I'm a young old nigga man. 975 00:50:09.840 --> 00:50:12.440 As I got older, I realized that I wasn't able. 976 00:50:12.519 --> 00:50:15.000 I didn't fuck the same I used to be on something. 977 00:50:15.360 --> 00:50:17.639 Oh no, you got it, Damn you got it. Damn. 978 00:50:17.800 --> 00:50:19.840 You know what I'm saying. 979 00:50:20.159 --> 00:50:34.239 Pam on time, I was bugging bro because I didn't understand. 980 00:50:36.159 --> 00:50:39.639 Yeah, pussy like that. I didn't understand. 981 00:50:39.719 --> 00:50:42.920 And I think that I was going into sex just 982 00:50:42.960 --> 00:50:45.920 to get my shirt off and to fuck something, especially 983 00:50:45.920 --> 00:50:47.239 because I'm into big butts. 984 00:50:48.159 --> 00:50:48.840 You know what I'm saying. 985 00:50:48.920 --> 00:50:51.639 I might have a little sadism thing with me. I 986 00:50:51.719 --> 00:50:54.760 like seeing women I don't want to say in pain, 987 00:50:54.960 --> 00:50:57.880 but like react to me. I want to see that reaction, 988 00:50:57.960 --> 00:51:00.280 which is also why when I was younger, they eat 989 00:51:00.280 --> 00:51:03.079 pussy a lot, because I wasn't really good at eating pussy. 990 00:51:03.559 --> 00:51:07.079 So if she's just laying there like while you're trying 991 00:51:07.079 --> 00:51:10.119 to goll it up, and then I'm watching, I'm doing. 992 00:51:09.960 --> 00:51:11.880 The ship trying to eat your box. 993 00:51:12.039 --> 00:51:14.400 Because I'm saying in the point you have a spin 994 00:51:14.480 --> 00:51:16.480 on somebody puss in there, look at you like, no, no, no, don't, 995 00:51:16.559 --> 00:51:17.239 don't don't do that. 996 00:51:17.400 --> 00:51:18.760 No, I haven't had a look back at it. But 997 00:51:18.880 --> 00:51:20.960 I do, like I do a little bit of that 998 00:51:21.039 --> 00:51:25.719 because I'm here with you now. 999 00:51:25.800 --> 00:51:28.400 Because sometimes you know, they they're coming a lot and 1000 00:51:28.639 --> 00:51:33.760 you know I'm consuming this, I'm consuming and sometimes spit 1001 00:51:33.800 --> 00:51:35.840 it back out just you know, just wouldn't effect get 1002 00:51:35.880 --> 00:51:36.519 back or whatever. 1003 00:51:37.639 --> 00:51:43.119 Spit it right on there? Is that? Right? Yeah? Good look, ladies. 1004 00:51:43.440 --> 00:51:46.280 Glad he said he's coming to the play party. 1005 00:51:47.159 --> 00:51:50.559 But by the time this comes out, the party would 1006 00:51:50.559 --> 00:51:52.960 have already been. But so, yeah, I wasn't really good 1007 00:51:54.599 --> 00:51:55.480 at eating box. 1008 00:51:56.599 --> 00:51:59.360 And what I was saying is that's probably why I 1009 00:51:59.360 --> 00:52:01.960 didn't eat by a lot, because I wasn't getting that 1010 00:52:02.000 --> 00:52:06.199 reaction that satisfied me from that, you know what I'm saying. 1011 00:52:06.239 --> 00:52:08.320 So once you know you could drive somebody crazy with 1012 00:52:08.360 --> 00:52:09.719 your mouth, you'll do it more. 1013 00:52:09.679 --> 00:52:12.400 Exactly, you know what I'm saying. But if you're not 1014 00:52:12.480 --> 00:52:16.119 getting that, here's the thing. How much y'all think ego 1015 00:52:16.199 --> 00:52:20.400 is attached to y'all sex game. I'm not gonna lie. 1016 00:52:20.800 --> 00:52:23.480 In the beginning of my like I would say in 1017 00:52:23.480 --> 00:52:25.239 my twenties and whatever, it was like out of ten 1018 00:52:26.119 --> 00:52:29.039 now it's probably at a zero. I don't really care 1019 00:52:29.519 --> 00:52:34.679 enough about what's going wrong. But I like to focus 1020 00:52:34.679 --> 00:52:37.599 on what's going right in those moments, and I feel 1021 00:52:37.679 --> 00:52:39.800 like if I didn't get it right in this moment, 1022 00:52:39.920 --> 00:52:42.039 like with you, for especially for the first couple of times, 1023 00:52:42.079 --> 00:52:44.639 I'm like, I just don't know your body yet, and 1024 00:52:45.360 --> 00:52:47.880 I want to learn your body. That's fine, you know 1025 00:52:47.960 --> 00:52:52.199 so because I actually removed ego that allowed me the 1026 00:52:52.199 --> 00:52:55.079 opportunity to do those things and have those conversations. If 1027 00:52:55.119 --> 00:52:58.079 I fall short sexually with the young lady, I like 1028 00:52:58.119 --> 00:53:01.480 to have the conversation afterwards, and if that conversation goes 1029 00:53:01.960 --> 00:53:05.000 correctly where we're giving each other active feedback or feedback 1030 00:53:05.000 --> 00:53:08.719 based on the the opportunity that I had with her, 1031 00:53:09.079 --> 00:53:11.480 you know, we can move on to having better sex 1032 00:53:11.639 --> 00:53:13.639 next time. You know what, I think that's important. If 1033 00:53:13.679 --> 00:53:15.559 you take your ego out of it, that's the only 1034 00:53:15.559 --> 00:53:17.480 way you're going to get better with that person. If 1035 00:53:17.480 --> 00:53:20.280 your ego's in there, you just fucked that up. 1036 00:53:20.360 --> 00:53:21.760 You are fucking yo. 1037 00:53:21.920 --> 00:53:24.199 So for a long time I thought he was just 1038 00:53:24.239 --> 00:53:28.280 selling this, but the fact that he can admit yo, 1039 00:53:28.400 --> 00:53:30.920 sometimes it don't go the way I play. So now 1040 00:53:30.920 --> 00:53:32.559 I got to learn you more and I gotta have 1041 00:53:32.679 --> 00:53:35.000 open conversation with you and we can figure it out 1042 00:53:35.000 --> 00:53:37.199 because somebody I was in the phone. I was on 1043 00:53:37.239 --> 00:53:40.320 the in my discord, and I love for you to 1044 00:53:40.400 --> 00:53:41.840 join the discord if you want to. 1045 00:53:41.920 --> 00:53:43.320 You know what I mean, I'll send you the link. 1046 00:53:43.360 --> 00:53:46.760 But I was in the discord with one of my 1047 00:53:47.159 --> 00:53:50.480 administrators and she was saying, Yo, if he don't eat 1048 00:53:50.519 --> 00:53:54.320 the box, I'm gonna pull him to the side. Like afterwards, like, Yo, 1049 00:53:54.360 --> 00:53:55.960 we got to talk. And I was like, man, you 1050 00:53:56.000 --> 00:53:59.239 don't tell him, Man, we gotta talk. That's automatically gonna 1051 00:53:59.280 --> 00:54:03.000 give me anxiety, Like what we got to talk about? 1052 00:54:03.320 --> 00:54:05.760 What I do? Now? You know what I'm saying, I 1053 00:54:05.760 --> 00:54:06.280 don't like that. 1054 00:54:07.239 --> 00:54:09.719 What is the way that you would tell a person? 1055 00:54:09.880 --> 00:54:11.159 And for us, I'm gonna come back to you with 1056 00:54:11.519 --> 00:54:14.599 the other question. But what is what is the way 1057 00:54:14.599 --> 00:54:16.360 that you would tell a person is something that how 1058 00:54:16.400 --> 00:54:21.000 would you have that conversation that what they're doing isn't 1059 00:54:21.039 --> 00:54:22.000 satisfying to you? 1060 00:54:22.119 --> 00:54:24.599 So basically, you want to make sure you position the 1061 00:54:24.639 --> 00:54:27.239 conversation first, make sure that they're in the capacity to 1062 00:54:27.360 --> 00:54:30.440 have the conversation or have the uh, the bandwidth for 1063 00:54:30.480 --> 00:54:33.400 the conversation. And you also let them know, look, there's 1064 00:54:33.440 --> 00:54:36.760 nothing too serious, right, because nobody wants that text message, 1065 00:54:36.800 --> 00:54:38.119 Hey we got to talk. Oh god, you know what 1066 00:54:38.119 --> 00:54:40.719 I'm saying. But you make sure they have the bandwidth 1067 00:54:40.760 --> 00:54:43.039 for the conversations, you know. You know, while we were 1068 00:54:43.039 --> 00:54:45.039 being intimate the other night, I just wanted to know, 1069 00:54:45.400 --> 00:54:48.599 you know, how I can better, you know, serve you 1070 00:54:48.719 --> 00:54:50.440 in that way. And I also want to let you 1071 00:54:50.440 --> 00:54:52.159 know how you could better serve me. And then you 1072 00:54:52.239 --> 00:54:54.639 just go from there. And once you get those out 1073 00:54:54.639 --> 00:54:56.920 the way, you make her feel comfortable. You're comfortable because 1074 00:54:56.920 --> 00:54:59.960 you bringing it up. Obviously, of course it's an exact 1075 00:55:00.159 --> 00:55:02.239 so you ask them first. Yeah, you asked them first, 1076 00:55:02.360 --> 00:55:03.639 what's what you could do better? 1077 00:55:04.079 --> 00:55:08.679 But because after they say nothing and you come with something, 1078 00:55:08.760 --> 00:55:11.559 then it could be that that could make it a 1079 00:55:11.599 --> 00:55:12.280 little awkward. 1080 00:55:12.599 --> 00:55:15.599 But I guarantee you, once you start giving feedback, there'll 1081 00:55:15.639 --> 00:55:17.719 be some feedback come. You'll come back to it, of course, 1082 00:55:18.239 --> 00:55:22.000 of course, because now like with feedback, it could come 1083 00:55:22.039 --> 00:55:25.559 off as something that could be extremely direct or it 1084 00:55:25.559 --> 00:55:26.519 could be like nitpicking. 1085 00:55:27.000 --> 00:55:29.159 I'd rather I don't mind nick picking, because if it's 1086 00:55:29.159 --> 00:55:30.280 the nippicking, that means. 1087 00:55:30.039 --> 00:55:32.800 Overall you're doing a good job. And these there's these 1088 00:55:32.800 --> 00:55:34.400 little things that will make it perfect from. 1089 00:55:34.280 --> 00:55:36.880 Going from nine point nine to nine to ten. You 1090 00:55:36.920 --> 00:55:37.280 know what I mean? 1091 00:55:42.679 --> 00:55:45.880 What was the question that I asked you? Initially? I 1092 00:55:45.920 --> 00:55:49.559 wanted to ask for us. I forgot did. 1093 00:55:51.159 --> 00:55:57.039 Damn it? I lost it? Okay, fust what's up? Brother? 1094 00:55:59.559 --> 00:56:01.679 I lost fucking question. I hate when I do that. 1095 00:56:01.679 --> 00:56:02.480 That's the age thing. 1096 00:56:03.519 --> 00:56:11.800 Huh, just move on, edited movie magic? What the fuck 1097 00:56:11.920 --> 00:56:13.880 was I talking? I just answered it and I don't remember. 1098 00:56:14.039 --> 00:56:17.360 Yeah, because it was such a good answer that it 1099 00:56:17.400 --> 00:56:18.440 took me to another question. 1100 00:56:21.280 --> 00:56:26.280 Ego, ego, ego and that nigga caught it. That nigga 1101 00:56:26.280 --> 00:56:28.199 caught it. Yeah, did y'all write down the tomestap on 1102 00:56:28.239 --> 00:56:32.239 that so that we could take it out? Because how 1103 00:56:32.320 --> 00:56:34.760 much is ego attaching sex when it comes to you? 1104 00:56:35.400 --> 00:56:36.039 Fifty six? 1105 00:56:38.960 --> 00:56:43.360 I I I got say this some truthful shit, like 1106 00:56:43.400 --> 00:56:45.800 I said, I I almost I won't even know if 1107 00:56:45.800 --> 00:56:49.239 that's fortunately. I probably got took an advantage as a child, 1108 00:56:49.400 --> 00:56:52.840 but a tend in of mine asked for sugar. She 1109 00:56:53.039 --> 00:56:56.920 was a older woman, and she showed me a lot 1110 00:56:56.920 --> 00:57:00.239 of things about a woman's body from a young age age. 1111 00:57:00.320 --> 00:57:08.599 So when I started younger, Yeah, I'm like nine eight, No, ten. Yeah, 1112 00:57:08.639 --> 00:57:11.719 so I ain't even my dick g ain't coming. It's 1113 00:57:11.760 --> 00:57:16.119 just I'm just in the act. She's like, no, like this, 1114 00:57:16.280 --> 00:57:18.119 do it like that. Stop, just how you do it? 1115 00:57:18.280 --> 00:57:20.360 Put it all the way in? No put it uh 1116 00:57:20.440 --> 00:57:22.760 huh yeah, there you go. There you need to be 1117 00:57:22.880 --> 00:57:25.320 under this. She she was learning, she was teaching me, 1118 00:57:25.360 --> 00:57:31.239 I should say, so when I actually got around. We 1119 00:57:31.320 --> 00:57:34.320 had an ORG in my elementary school behind the auditorium 1120 00:57:34.360 --> 00:57:37.480 one day and with some fellas, and we had some 1121 00:57:37.599 --> 00:57:39.559 females and they ain't know. 1122 00:57:39.519 --> 00:57:41.119 What to do. They don't even know the whole. 1123 00:57:42.480 --> 00:57:46.159 So I'm like, nah, this is how you do it. This, 1124 00:57:46.159 --> 00:57:48.239 this is your gramm, show you something. So I got 1125 00:57:48.239 --> 00:57:51.920 to penetrate all to them because we're young and dumb, 1126 00:57:52.360 --> 00:57:55.800 but I got the show up mans how to do it. 1127 00:57:56.519 --> 00:57:58.280 Then we went through the female I was with, and then 1128 00:57:58.320 --> 00:58:04.519 I had the boy. But at that being learned, I 1129 00:58:05.039 --> 00:58:08.199 know that, uh it's sexist. It's not just uh. 1130 00:58:10.159 --> 00:58:14.880 Your body that's crazy to do it, you know, just 1131 00:58:14.880 --> 00:58:15.559 trying to catch it. 1132 00:58:16.000 --> 00:58:18.639 Like I learned that from from the elder woman that 1133 00:58:18.840 --> 00:58:21.960 was showing me ship like she was basically making sure 1134 00:58:22.039 --> 00:58:22.639 she was good. 1135 00:58:22.800 --> 00:58:24.239 Jesus know what I'm saying. 1136 00:58:24.320 --> 00:58:31.079 So when I dealt with some women like my shorty shorties, yeah, 1137 00:58:31.360 --> 00:58:34.480 I made sure they was good good. But ladies and theomen, 1138 00:58:34.599 --> 00:58:37.360 I'm literally laughing at the body count, not at the 1139 00:58:37.400 --> 00:58:38.880 fact that an older woman. 1140 00:58:38.920 --> 00:58:41.280 When did you realize I'm sure you realized that you 1141 00:58:41.519 --> 00:58:43.159 were abused as a child. 1142 00:58:43.360 --> 00:58:45.320 I just realized that in these words and ship they're 1143 00:58:45.360 --> 00:58:48.400 using now, you know what did you think it was 1144 00:58:48.440 --> 00:58:52.039 back then? But I mean a female was just showing me, 1145 00:58:52.800 --> 00:58:56.519 you know, how to have sex. I ain't look at 1146 00:58:56.559 --> 00:58:57.519 it as now. 1147 00:58:57.280 --> 00:59:00.639 How much older do you wish you she was having 1148 00:59:00.679 --> 00:59:04.280 sex with her age? She was in like high school. Okay, 1149 00:59:04.320 --> 00:59:06.239 so she was you were nine and she was. 1150 00:59:06.400 --> 00:59:10.239 Leaving elementary, late elementary, she already in high school. Busted joint, 1151 00:59:10.360 --> 00:59:12.199 you know what I mean? I guess because a man 1152 00:59:12.280 --> 00:59:14.719 wasn't available. This is before cell phones and all of 1153 00:59:14.719 --> 00:59:17.880 that day. I was just the closest the. 1154 00:59:17.960 --> 00:59:22.440 Boy still bad, I think it is. That's terrible. I 1155 00:59:22.440 --> 00:59:24.000 think it is just imagine if you were to leave 1156 00:59:24.000 --> 00:59:25.039 your child. 1157 00:59:26.719 --> 00:59:29.519 Sorry, and I hate that we always got to imagine 1158 00:59:29.559 --> 00:59:32.599 these hours, but imagine it like I could recall being 1159 00:59:33.280 --> 00:59:37.400 a boy and there was an older person older a 1160 00:59:37.519 --> 00:59:43.079 friend's daughter that was a neighbor. And I called my 1161 00:59:43.079 --> 00:59:45.920 mother and was like, yo, she's here. And my mother 1162 00:59:46.000 --> 00:59:48.280 came running down the block. But by the time she came, 1163 00:59:48.360 --> 00:59:52.480 surely already had my dick out. We didn't do anything 1164 00:59:52.719 --> 00:59:55.400 because I heard my mother stomping. My mother ran from 1165 00:59:55.440 --> 00:59:58.719 where she was at because I didn't know, I didn't 1166 00:59:58.719 --> 01:00:00.559 know she knew he was on you know what I'm saying. 1167 01:00:00.880 --> 01:00:03.360 She ran, and by the time she got here, I 1168 01:00:03.400 --> 01:00:06.159 got my first like super wet kiss from. 1169 01:00:06.000 --> 01:00:08.199 This stick light skin chick, you know what I mean. 1170 01:00:08.440 --> 01:00:10.039 And she already had my shit out and here come 1171 01:00:10.079 --> 01:00:11.039 my mother run up the stick. 1172 01:00:12.840 --> 01:00:14.599 I can't get my name, but let me just say. 1173 01:00:17.119 --> 01:00:19.880 And put my shit away. And I was just like, so, 1174 01:00:20.559 --> 01:00:23.280 it's just it's I mean, it is it. Don't get 1175 01:00:23.280 --> 01:00:25.239 me wrong, Like what I was saying, like, it's not 1176 01:00:25.440 --> 01:00:27.440 as terrible. It's because you know, when I think of 1177 01:00:27.480 --> 01:00:30.079 a sixteen year old versus someone that's like over twenty one, 1178 01:00:30.119 --> 01:00:33.679 twenty three, two twenty five, when you when you when 1179 01:00:33.679 --> 01:00:35.559 your mind actually gets to the point where it's fully 1180 01:00:35.559 --> 01:00:38.599 developed at twenty five and you're still doing something that 1181 01:00:38.639 --> 01:00:43.320 heinous is crazy. But yeah, sixteen year old to uh, 1182 01:00:43.320 --> 01:00:44.920 somebody in single digit is still bad. 1183 01:00:45.159 --> 01:00:46.760 You know, you live in the building and you know 1184 01:00:47.239 --> 01:00:51.400 the neighbor cute neighbors? Did she older than you? You know, 1185 01:00:52.920 --> 01:00:55.320 I don't know the words. Now you give you a 1186 01:00:55.360 --> 01:00:57.320 title of I just. 1187 01:00:57.280 --> 01:00:59.320 Looked at Do you feel comfortable telling this story? Dude? 1188 01:00:59.400 --> 01:01:01.119 Like I can I get when you when you tell 1189 01:01:01.119 --> 01:01:04.079 a story. It seemed as if it kind of you 1190 01:01:04.199 --> 01:01:05.760 was like I gotta be. 1191 01:01:06.480 --> 01:01:09.119 You know, because people people watch to try to identify you, 1192 01:01:09.159 --> 01:01:11.400 try to like learn you, and but. 1193 01:01:11.320 --> 01:01:14.159 Even even do this, you gin't gonn know me? If 1194 01:01:14.199 --> 01:01:14.840 that makes sense. 1195 01:01:15.159 --> 01:01:18.559 Do you realize that as that men can be sexually abused? 1196 01:01:20.000 --> 01:01:22.639 I realized that now, Like I said, I just looked 1197 01:01:22.679 --> 01:01:23.599 at as a regular thing. 1198 01:01:24.880 --> 01:01:27.639 I ain't look at it. No different ways to come, 1199 01:01:27.679 --> 01:01:30.920 ask for butter and sugar. Word of my mother, like damn, 1200 01:01:30.960 --> 01:01:33.800 she asked for butter today? But so were you active 1201 01:01:33.840 --> 01:01:38.320 sexually before that? I did probably know exactly what I 1202 01:01:38.400 --> 01:01:42.679 was doing, Probably was mimicking like dry humping and spending 1203 01:01:42.920 --> 01:01:45.639 five years old. Like I said, you're doing like corny 1204 01:01:45.639 --> 01:01:48.519 ship spending a bottle tongue kiss and the shorty finger popping. 1205 01:01:48.639 --> 01:01:50.599 Uh, you're not even really you know. 1206 01:01:51.199 --> 01:01:55.679 And from that, from that experience, you wind up going 1207 01:01:57.639 --> 01:02:00.639 and kind of blossoming into whatever that. So do you 1208 01:02:01.079 --> 01:02:05.239 not to say not to say nothing. I wasn't attracted 1209 01:02:05.280 --> 01:02:10.559 to women my age yet that time. Anymore, I know 1210 01:02:10.679 --> 01:02:13.559 you you couldn't satisfy me. I know you ain't know 1211 01:02:13.599 --> 01:02:16.199 what you're doing either, if that makes sense, Like we 1212 01:02:16.400 --> 01:02:18.400 both can't be saying here nothing, what the hell we're doing? 1213 01:02:19.199 --> 01:02:21.599 I needed you know, So after that, I was just 1214 01:02:22.239 --> 01:02:23.960 so you can't see how that kind of kind of 1215 01:02:23.960 --> 01:02:27.119 sets you along a certain path. Yeah, I see how 1216 01:02:27.400 --> 01:02:29.760 how it affected now. 1217 01:02:30.119 --> 01:02:36.199 Yeah, I mean, you know, I especially black, we don't 1218 01:02:36.280 --> 01:02:39.639 look at things like that as a certain way, right 1219 01:02:39.840 --> 01:02:42.800 because yo, we're tough, or we don't, you know, I 1220 01:02:42.840 --> 01:02:47.360 was talking in the chat today when an older man, 1221 01:02:47.599 --> 01:02:50.159 when an older man tries to talk to a younger woman, 1222 01:02:51.159 --> 01:02:55.079 they automatically creepy. Right, we already know it's creepy. When 1223 01:02:55.079 --> 01:02:57.000 a older woman tries to talk to a younger man. 1224 01:02:57.199 --> 01:03:01.639 She's a cougar or she's a milth. It's automatically sexualized. 1225 01:03:01.679 --> 01:03:05.079 It's automatic, it's okay, right, and we don't realize that 1226 01:03:05.199 --> 01:03:11.199 we are susceptible to the certain type of damage from 1227 01:03:11.239 --> 01:03:14.039 being taken advantage of, just because we look at it 1228 01:03:14.119 --> 01:03:15.880 as a come up, because society says it's. 1229 01:03:15.719 --> 01:03:18.639 A come up. I just looked at experience, like, as we. 1230 01:03:18.760 --> 01:03:21.239 Just said, that kind of set you on a certain 1231 01:03:21.280 --> 01:03:23.559 path that you might not even realize. 1232 01:03:23.119 --> 01:03:26.440 Then it had set you on. I realized that titties 1233 01:03:26.440 --> 01:03:27.079 had a feeling. 1234 01:03:27.320 --> 01:03:30.559 Admit something. You realize the neck means something. Boom, boom, 1235 01:03:30.679 --> 01:03:34.320 the click the lips. She literally was like, yo, this this, 1236 01:03:34.400 --> 01:03:36.719 do this, look web this, watch this, get wet, look 1237 01:03:36.760 --> 01:03:38.480 at this. Look boom, hit this with your finger. 1238 01:03:38.559 --> 01:03:39.280 Boom. You know what I mean? 1239 01:03:39.320 --> 01:03:42.800 She literally was, I know you'll know what you're doing, right, 1240 01:03:43.039 --> 01:03:46.320 you know what I mean? And like I said, the 1241 01:03:46.440 --> 01:03:48.039 chicks used like they was like, what the hell? 1242 01:03:48.280 --> 01:03:50.119 Yeah, because the brothers. 1243 01:03:50.320 --> 01:03:53.440 That they hit rabbit humping in the closet, they didn't 1244 01:03:53.440 --> 01:03:56.239 realize that you had been come give sucking on a 1245 01:03:56.320 --> 01:03:58.239 titty and they ship wet and class. They don't know 1246 01:03:58.280 --> 01:04:00.880 what they do. You know, it was different. 1247 01:04:01.880 --> 01:04:02.840 I see you want to say something. 1248 01:04:03.000 --> 01:04:06.880 You was thinking, No, No, I'm just saying like, although 1249 01:04:06.880 --> 01:04:09.239 I lost my virgines at a young age, it was 1250 01:04:09.239 --> 01:04:11.280 with somebody that was just a year older than me, 1251 01:04:11.800 --> 01:04:14.320 and and probably what wasn't even a whole year. It's 1252 01:04:14.360 --> 01:04:17.760 just that hurt number was higher than mine by one. 1253 01:04:17.960 --> 01:04:20.280 We were in the same class or whatever. 1254 01:04:21.440 --> 01:04:26.199 Age. Yeah, the age you was, I was twelve, okay, 1255 01:04:26.239 --> 01:04:27.199 so you was busting them. 1256 01:04:27.480 --> 01:04:27.679 Yeah. 1257 01:04:27.760 --> 01:04:33.320 So losing it that early though, like as you get older, 1258 01:04:33.480 --> 01:04:35.400 as you get older and you kind of have these 1259 01:04:35.400 --> 01:04:37.519 conversations where you talk about, hey, I lost it here, 1260 01:04:37.559 --> 01:04:39.440 I lost it there. You know, a lot of people 1261 01:04:39.480 --> 01:04:43.559 don't lose it in that that early, you know, so 1262 01:04:43.920 --> 01:04:46.440 it's always a foreign conversation. And then you have the 1263 01:04:46.480 --> 01:04:48.519 people that always, you know that say oh, yeah, I've 1264 01:04:48.519 --> 01:04:51.000 done it. I've done it too, and they haven't. And 1265 01:04:51.039 --> 01:04:53.559 you could tell based on what you've been through and 1266 01:04:53.679 --> 01:04:55.679 the conversations that they're having with you, you kind of 1267 01:04:56.039 --> 01:04:58.280 you don't relate or they don't relate to what you've 1268 01:04:58.320 --> 01:05:00.400 actually experienced. So it's kind of like you, I don't know, 1269 01:05:01.800 --> 01:05:06.159 but yeah, it's it's it's it's it's crazy. And like 1270 01:05:06.199 --> 01:05:09.320 you said, when you think about it happening to your 1271 01:05:09.400 --> 01:05:12.039 kids or kids, you know, it kind of changed the 1272 01:05:12.079 --> 01:05:15.800 perspective a little bit. And we grew up in a 1273 01:05:15.800 --> 01:05:19.320 society where it's okay for a boy to lose his virginity. 1274 01:05:19.360 --> 01:05:21.360 In that age, it's more like a notch in the 1275 01:05:21.360 --> 01:05:23.800 belt for us versus for a woman. It's more like 1276 01:05:23.840 --> 01:05:25.440 a like a hit, you know. 1277 01:05:25.599 --> 01:05:30.280 So, yeah, but I wasn't busting some considered, as I said, 1278 01:05:30.320 --> 01:05:35.480 like as r more understanding of myself. I ain't come 1279 01:05:36.320 --> 01:05:38.039 just called. 1280 01:05:38.320 --> 01:05:40.280 But it's still it's still it's still sex in the 1281 01:05:40.519 --> 01:05:43.960 in the essence of the actual sexual act, right, And 1282 01:05:43.960 --> 01:05:47.079 that's that always goes back to like the delusion that 1283 01:05:47.159 --> 01:05:49.239 some women have thinking, oh I didn't not so it 1284 01:05:49.239 --> 01:05:49.920 didn't count. 1285 01:05:49.719 --> 01:05:50.360 As a body. 1286 01:05:50.719 --> 01:05:52.920 It's a body as soon as they walk in there, 1287 01:05:52.960 --> 01:05:54.880 as soon as they get in there, it's a body. 1288 01:05:56.000 --> 01:06:00.400 It's somebody that penetrated your walls, right, and it's any thing. 1289 01:06:11.239 --> 01:06:14.840 Support you. 1290 01:06:15.360 --> 01:06:18.800 I'm just saying, you know, you know, as soon as 1291 01:06:18.840 --> 01:06:21.800 you penetrate or get penetrated, it's a body, man. And 1292 01:06:23.039 --> 01:06:27.159 you know, listen, I count every single time I penetrate. 1293 01:06:27.280 --> 01:06:29.199 Like if I penetrated and somebody knocked and had to 1294 01:06:29.239 --> 01:06:33.519 get out, it's a body. It's another notch. 1295 01:06:33.639 --> 01:06:38.480 I was in there, and regardless of anything, just because 1296 01:06:40.039 --> 01:06:43.360 this sexual gratification didn't happen. Didn't mean the experience wasn't 1297 01:06:43.400 --> 01:06:46.360 there for you, because mentally it's still there. 1298 01:06:46.440 --> 01:06:48.000 It happened, and it kind of set you on a 1299 01:06:48.039 --> 01:06:49.840 certain path. So it did happen. 1300 01:06:50.079 --> 01:06:53.079 You goun to say what I'm saying, I get and 1301 01:06:53.440 --> 01:06:56.599 to his point, just to be funny about it, Yeah, Yo, 1302 01:06:56.760 --> 01:06:59.360 I was fucking alloted for a long time. I didn't 1303 01:06:59.360 --> 01:07:01.719 know how to make chicks nut. That's the body on 1304 01:07:01.800 --> 01:07:04.400 my You can't. You don't got to count. I'm counting. 1305 01:07:04.480 --> 01:07:06.480 I knocked that down. I'm like, so it is what 1306 01:07:06.599 --> 01:07:07.440 it is. You know what I mean. 1307 01:07:10.119 --> 01:07:14.880 Now that we're older, we are able to see changes 1308 01:07:15.440 --> 01:07:17.039 in the way we viewed sex, in the way we 1309 01:07:17.199 --> 01:07:20.559 view things facts. What I was going to say earlier 1310 01:07:20.719 --> 01:07:24.960 is that physically, I've gone through certain changes. I've gone 1311 01:07:24.960 --> 01:07:28.880 through moments where my ship wouldn't get hard, where I've 1312 01:07:28.960 --> 01:07:32.480 lost an erection. You know what I'm saying. And you're 1313 01:07:32.480 --> 01:07:34.360 sitting there like, yo, I don't. I don't know what 1314 01:07:34.519 --> 01:07:36.480 just happened. Has has that happened to yas y'all got older? 1315 01:07:36.679 --> 01:07:40.039 Of course, Yeah, I've had I've had a case of 1316 01:07:40.599 --> 01:07:42.480 I was I was I think it's more so performance 1317 01:07:42.480 --> 01:07:45.639 anxiety with this person because it only happened with her, 1318 01:07:46.599 --> 01:07:50.840 and like that actually put me in my head a 1319 01:07:50.880 --> 01:07:52.960 lot because it happened as soon as I like turned forty. 1320 01:07:53.039 --> 01:07:54.480 I was like, oh shit, this is losing. 1321 01:07:59.199 --> 01:08:02.679 So you're you're in You're in that space and you're 1322 01:08:02.760 --> 01:08:05.280 you're not quite understanding why it's happening because it's the 1323 01:08:05.320 --> 01:08:08.199 first time, and you kind of fall into the space 1324 01:08:08.199 --> 01:08:09.719 where you don't know what to say, you don't know 1325 01:08:09.760 --> 01:08:13.480 how to like, I guess coach her through that experience 1326 01:08:13.519 --> 01:08:16.840 that you're having. But yeah, that's happened to me before, 1327 01:08:17.159 --> 01:08:22.239 and I've lost I've lost in direction before. I remember, Uh, 1328 01:08:22.600 --> 01:08:27.319 this young lady that I'm saying, like she always jokes 1329 01:08:27.359 --> 01:08:32.680 about getting baby goats, what the hell right, baby goat, 1330 01:08:32.760 --> 01:08:37.680 like the actual baby goat, And we're fucking and you know, 1331 01:08:37.840 --> 01:08:39.560 when you're having sex, you kind of lose a little 1332 01:08:39.560 --> 01:08:41.439 bit of your deservant and you might say some things 1333 01:08:41.520 --> 01:08:44.399 that you don't really mean. And she says we're gonna 1334 01:08:44.399 --> 01:08:46.399 get a baby goat. I was like, we ain't getting 1335 01:08:46.439 --> 01:08:49.079 no fucking goat. Then we both started laughing and I 1336 01:08:49.159 --> 01:08:49.760 lost my direction. 1337 01:08:50.560 --> 01:08:53.760 So like that, like if like again, I call it 1338 01:08:53.840 --> 01:08:54.920 a baby goat. 1339 01:08:55.199 --> 01:08:58.079 No, it's actually she wants an actual baby goat. She 1340 01:08:58.920 --> 01:09:02.600 wanted to she wants goats. Yeah, that's a pet. That's pets. 1341 01:09:04.119 --> 01:09:06.359 Of cute, to be honest, baby. 1342 01:09:07.840 --> 01:09:10.520 Goats and ship like that, like yoga they do yoga 1343 01:09:10.680 --> 01:09:13.159 jump on your back, Yeah, yoga that. 1344 01:09:13.840 --> 01:09:18.159 Like, yeah, you haven't seen that. Your goats is hil 1345 01:09:19.119 --> 01:09:21.199 I like when they played that, they just they just 1346 01:09:21.279 --> 01:09:24.359 dropped when they get scared. Yeah, that's that was that's 1347 01:09:24.359 --> 01:09:26.319 pretty much by instead of that though, to be honest, 1348 01:09:26.399 --> 01:09:28.199 has that ever happened to you? For us? Yeah, I've been. 1349 01:09:28.399 --> 01:09:28.720 I've been. 1350 01:09:28.960 --> 01:09:34.000 I've been too excited, anxious, you know, and then true words, 1351 01:09:34.760 --> 01:09:37.279 I'm gonnat my short you know, well, I'm on this ship, 1352 01:09:37.319 --> 01:09:42.359 but like a couple of weeks ago, my fucking my 1353 01:09:42.560 --> 01:09:46.840 back was sore. Shorty wanted to fuck so my ship 1354 01:09:46.960 --> 01:09:49.039 got there. As soon as I put it in there, 1355 01:09:49.119 --> 01:09:51.039 that ship boom poom pushed me out. 1356 01:09:51.079 --> 01:09:55.239 God damn. I looked at her. She said, you ti 1357 01:09:55.319 --> 01:09:58.439 you nigga laid down. I said yeah yo, And I 1358 01:09:58.560 --> 01:10:01.039 laid down And in the morning I was like you, 1359 01:10:02.039 --> 01:10:06.479 good morning. I got my get back. I thought you 1360 01:10:06.680 --> 01:10:08.880 was that I said, Nah, bitch, my back was really hurting. 1361 01:10:09.399 --> 01:10:11.239 My joint was hurting, hurt, and I was like, damn, 1362 01:10:11.359 --> 01:10:15.239 that's old man ship. That's really old man ship. But 1363 01:10:15.600 --> 01:10:16.720 I did find this on. 1364 01:10:17.239 --> 01:10:19.439 The in the game for us, I've been too anxious 1365 01:10:19.520 --> 01:10:22.399 to where like I really wanted to Shorty and I 1366 01:10:22.479 --> 01:10:25.399 got her now right, the whole time we in the 1367 01:10:25.479 --> 01:10:26.520 call my joint. 1368 01:10:26.880 --> 01:10:31.880 Rock Greg, watch the crib grig God getting the crib 1369 01:10:35.279 --> 01:10:38.680 m I'm punching them. Yo yo, yo yo, What are 1370 01:10:38.720 --> 01:10:42.119 you doing right now? The back of cold water is 1371 01:10:42.199 --> 01:10:45.039 like numb, Like I don't feel water nothing. I'm like, 1372 01:10:45.279 --> 01:10:47.359 what the hell happened? Like all the blood left me? 1373 01:10:47.520 --> 01:10:50.720 But he did, but he's not there. I'm like, all 1374 01:10:50.920 --> 01:10:51.880 suck it. It's not helping. 1375 01:10:52.960 --> 01:10:55.520 Here's nothing with that same young lady that I had 1376 01:10:55.560 --> 01:10:59.239 the issue with, right, I had a spank bank a 1377 01:10:59.680 --> 01:11:00.960 video and me fucking and. 1378 01:11:01.199 --> 01:11:03.920 And you know, you try to go in the bathroom 1379 01:11:03.960 --> 01:11:04.800 and get hard. I did that. 1380 01:11:05.760 --> 01:11:08.199 I didn't even go to like at this point we 1381 01:11:08.319 --> 01:11:09.800 were done and she was she was laying and she 1382 01:11:09.920 --> 01:11:12.560 was sleeping, and I started started scrolling through all that 1383 01:11:12.640 --> 01:11:14.359 ship and I just leaned over. 1384 01:11:15.560 --> 01:11:17.680 I put it on a porno myself, and I'm like, 1385 01:11:20.600 --> 01:11:25.479 come on, you ready come back? Yeah? I didn't because 1386 01:11:25.479 --> 01:11:28.319 I wanted that body. I was thinking, you can't let 1387 01:11:28.319 --> 01:11:29.680 it out. I was thinking young. 1388 01:11:29.720 --> 01:11:31.800 I wasn't thinking I ain't even calm down and get 1389 01:11:32.199 --> 01:11:35.159 the ego. Yeah, because there's some real ship and sex. 1390 01:11:35.239 --> 01:11:37.399 If you sit down and calm down and be comfortable, 1391 01:11:37.920 --> 01:11:41.119 you fuck all night. Is when you tooper hype you 1392 01:11:41.319 --> 01:11:45.000 super crazy, like yo, come in let me sometimes you gotta. 1393 01:11:44.840 --> 01:11:47.479 Just is there a way to get past anxiety without 1394 01:11:47.520 --> 01:11:49.520 it being spank bank or something like that? 1395 01:11:49.680 --> 01:11:52.319 Conversation literally conversations. 1396 01:11:52.359 --> 01:11:55.680 So the young lady that I had that issue with, 1397 01:11:56.239 --> 01:11:59.640 she came back again, issue happened, came back again. If 1398 01:11:59.680 --> 01:12:03.119 you happen and right. But when she came back that 1399 01:12:03.279 --> 01:12:05.880 fourth time and the issue happened again, we just literally 1400 01:12:05.960 --> 01:12:10.439 sat there and spoke and talked, and like out of nowhere, 1401 01:12:10.560 --> 01:12:12.039 Dick got hard. I don't know it. 1402 01:12:12.079 --> 01:12:13.600 We weren't even talking about sex. 1403 01:12:13.640 --> 01:12:15.520 We we got past it talking about it and not 1404 01:12:16.039 --> 01:12:18.600 not not rising to the occasion in that moment, But 1405 01:12:18.640 --> 01:12:22.319 then we just started talking about anything else, and all 1406 01:12:22.359 --> 01:12:25.039 of a sudden, Dick was hard as hell and we 1407 01:12:25.560 --> 01:12:28.359 actually got to do what we came what we came 1408 01:12:28.439 --> 01:12:32.880 to do, and it went well, so it I think. 1409 01:12:33.000 --> 01:12:35.960 I think just having a conversation, getting out of your 1410 01:12:36.039 --> 01:12:39.079 head is the most important thing because literally it's happening 1411 01:12:39.119 --> 01:12:42.159 because you're in your head. That's what performance anxiety is. 1412 01:12:42.680 --> 01:12:45.119 You know, you're literally in your head way too much 1413 01:12:45.520 --> 01:12:46.920 and you just need to get out of it a 1414 01:12:46.960 --> 01:12:49.680 little bit. And once you get there, goodn't money And 1415 01:12:50.159 --> 01:12:52.359 another thing too, that really helps with performance anxiety. 1416 01:12:52.920 --> 01:12:55.239 Go to the gym, but hold on. But then you 1417 01:12:55.359 --> 01:12:58.600 got anxiousness too, So now you're dick hard, you in 1418 01:12:58.680 --> 01:13:02.119 the pomp poom you pump oh ship damn about to 1419 01:13:02.159 --> 01:13:02.439 come up? 1420 01:13:02.439 --> 01:13:02.680 Ready? 1421 01:13:03.800 --> 01:13:07.640 That too, that happens too, and that that that happens 1422 01:13:07.920 --> 01:13:11.199 happens to me too. But that's that's typically because like 1423 01:13:12.119 --> 01:13:14.960 again I'll be super excited and I didn't follow my 1424 01:13:15.039 --> 01:13:17.039 own rules and just you know, beat one off like 1425 01:13:17.079 --> 01:13:19.000 a couple of hours before she gets there. 1426 01:13:19.520 --> 01:13:19.840 You do that. 1427 01:13:20.399 --> 01:13:22.479 I'm doing that before, I pregame before that game before. 1428 01:13:22.520 --> 01:13:25.279 It's really helpful. But I don't now, I don't, I don't. 1429 01:13:25.600 --> 01:13:28.479 I stopped masturbating the middle of last year. I was like, 1430 01:13:28.560 --> 01:13:29.479 I'm gonna stay away from it. 1431 01:13:30.159 --> 01:13:32.319 Yeah, just do that. 1432 01:13:32.560 --> 01:13:36.439 No, you just I think I think I just started 1433 01:13:36.479 --> 01:13:39.840 to have more more options than women around to like 1434 01:13:40.079 --> 01:13:42.800 be like, you know what, I'll just wait, you know, 1435 01:13:43.039 --> 01:13:45.199 And when you get into that situation where you just 1436 01:13:45.239 --> 01:13:47.079 get your mindset out of that and you'll just wait, 1437 01:13:47.520 --> 01:13:50.399 it's a lot harder for performance anxiety to happen because 1438 01:13:50.399 --> 01:13:52.479 you're super excited to have sex. 1439 01:13:52.760 --> 01:13:54.920 But then that other thing happens where you come fat 1440 01:13:55.000 --> 01:13:55.520 too fast? 1441 01:13:55.640 --> 01:13:58.359 Right, but then you know, typically when when I deal 1442 01:13:58.439 --> 01:14:00.640 with women, the women I deal with because I like 1443 01:14:00.680 --> 01:14:02.119 to have sex with one woman at a time. 1444 01:14:02.520 --> 01:14:05.399 I don't do multiple women like like one Wednesday and 1445 01:14:05.439 --> 01:14:06.079 one Thursday or. 1446 01:14:06.159 --> 01:14:08.399 Yeah, I don't do that, so it's no just one 1447 01:14:08.600 --> 01:14:12.039 in general, Like like basically, if I catch something, I 1448 01:14:12.119 --> 01:14:13.560 want to know where because I don't use condoms. 1449 01:14:13.880 --> 01:14:17.920 I hate them. Raw is law with me, raw doggy, right, 1450 01:14:18.079 --> 01:14:21.119 So that'll get my dicks off too. Yeah, the condom 1451 01:14:21.239 --> 01:14:23.399 forget the kind of smelling that ship, the smell of 1452 01:14:23.479 --> 01:14:30.840 that ship like those so well, yeah, that's that's good. 1453 01:14:32.439 --> 01:14:33.640 That's what I ain't gonna lie. 1454 01:14:33.840 --> 01:14:35.319 That was another reason I wanted to stay in a 1455 01:14:35.319 --> 01:14:37.119 relationship because I have condom sex. 1456 01:14:37.800 --> 01:14:41.520 Yeah, that ship is the worst you. I'm assuming y'all 1457 01:14:41.640 --> 01:14:43.359 do your whole exchanging and tests and all. 1458 01:14:43.399 --> 01:14:45.640 My yeah, my chart is always up to date. Like 1459 01:14:45.760 --> 01:14:48.439 I make sure that my charge is up to date. Also, 1460 01:14:48.960 --> 01:14:50.800 I have this whole thirty day thing as well too, 1461 01:14:50.840 --> 01:14:54.119 where we just literally talk for thirty days. No sex, 1462 01:14:54.199 --> 01:14:56.680 no spending money, no dating, no nothing. So you kind 1463 01:14:56.720 --> 01:14:58.920 of getting the idea is who this person is? You know, 1464 01:14:59.239 --> 01:15:00.800 get a better idea so you can make a better 1465 01:15:00.880 --> 01:15:03.399 decision as to whether or not you want to cross that. 1466 01:15:04.039 --> 01:15:05.479 How do you know that they want to do the 1467 01:15:05.520 --> 01:15:09.439 thirty eight things? I tell them. I'm very transparent, very transplated, like, yo, look, 1468 01:15:10.000 --> 01:15:13.239 we're just going to talk, like look after they want 1469 01:15:13.600 --> 01:15:17.359 he wants to Boston. Yeah, he wants to see I see, 1470 01:15:18.439 --> 01:15:20.399 I see what he's doing by the time that thirty 1471 01:15:20.479 --> 01:15:23.359 days up. They want the dick here. 1472 01:15:23.439 --> 01:15:29.720 Professional table here professional Yeah, this niggas you professional professional. 1473 01:15:30.199 --> 01:15:31.079 Minute between women? 1474 01:15:31.119 --> 01:15:33.760 You take at least a thirty minute a thirty day 1475 01:15:33.840 --> 01:15:34.920 break between each. 1476 01:15:34.800 --> 01:15:37.199 At least at least because like if I let's say, 1477 01:15:37.199 --> 01:15:41.439 if I clip a situation now, who know tpic I see, 1478 01:15:41.600 --> 01:15:44.840 that's that's the thing, right you don't like clip to 1479 01:15:45.159 --> 01:15:49.199 just find you. Kind of you kind of I wouldn't 1480 01:15:49.199 --> 01:15:51.840 say have conversations with women all the time, but you 1481 01:15:51.960 --> 01:15:54.600 kind of you kind of know like women that are 1482 01:15:54.720 --> 01:15:57.159 kind of like open to having it right you kind 1483 01:15:57.159 --> 01:15:59.319 of you're kind of like crowd source a little bit. 1484 01:16:00.840 --> 01:16:04.399 So you typically don't go that long, you know, So 1485 01:16:05.079 --> 01:16:07.239 basically it's at least thirty days. It's at least thirty 1486 01:16:07.279 --> 01:16:09.199 days where you're kind of like and you got all 1487 01:16:09.239 --> 01:16:12.399 of them different thirty days. So some people time is 1488 01:16:12.479 --> 01:16:13.880 running out sooner than later. 1489 01:16:14.039 --> 01:16:17.119 And that's the other thing too. I'm just I'm sorry 1490 01:16:18.119 --> 01:16:22.199 it was crowdsauce. It was for me, it was crowds 1491 01:16:22.399 --> 01:16:25.199 I'll listen out there, but it was crowdsaurce for me. 1492 01:16:25.760 --> 01:16:27.359 What do you mean crowdsource? 1493 01:16:27.479 --> 01:16:30.199 Crowdsources like kind of like you you you're out there 1494 01:16:30.319 --> 01:16:35.000 as this person, right and people actually reach out to you, 1495 01:16:35.079 --> 01:16:37.479 they jump in your DMS or whatever, or you meet 1496 01:16:37.520 --> 01:16:39.520 them when you're out and about and you just gather 1497 01:16:39.680 --> 01:16:43.199 information survey, you know, and you get to the extent 1498 01:16:43.279 --> 01:16:46.279 where you're having conversations with multiple people. You're getting to 1499 01:16:46.319 --> 01:16:48.399 know where they're at. So sometimes you don't even have 1500 01:16:48.520 --> 01:16:51.920 to deal with thirty days because you already deal You've 1501 01:16:51.960 --> 01:16:54.880 already had those conversations, you started those conversations. So like, 1502 01:16:55.000 --> 01:16:57.359 like Fluss says, it doesn't always have to be thirty days, 1503 01:16:57.399 --> 01:17:00.119 but I liked I like to have that that that 1504 01:17:00.199 --> 01:17:03.560 period of thirty days. I'm not having sex in between people. 1505 01:17:04.039 --> 01:17:06.279 I want to make sure that this person that I'm 1506 01:17:06.319 --> 01:17:08.560 going to go into it with is ready on that 1507 01:17:08.680 --> 01:17:12.720 level because we're not speaking to the extent where I'm like, 1508 01:17:12.760 --> 01:17:14.880 you know, I could expect you to stay for thirty days, 1509 01:17:16.039 --> 01:17:18.600 you know, because I'm not going to talk sexual with someone. 1510 01:17:18.800 --> 01:17:20.359 It's kind of like pulling a gun and not shooting. 1511 01:17:20.680 --> 01:17:22.520 I'm not gonna talk sexual with someone unless I'm trying 1512 01:17:22.560 --> 01:17:24.199 to fuck fact, you know what I'm saying. 1513 01:17:24.279 --> 01:17:26.840 So, yeah, I don't. I don't either. I don't really 1514 01:17:26.880 --> 01:17:29.439 like Yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not. 1515 01:17:29.600 --> 01:17:31.039 I want you to think I was on the phone. 1516 01:17:31.119 --> 01:17:35.119 Yeah baby, Look, I don't want I want you. I 1517 01:17:35.279 --> 01:17:38.640 want you to be first of all, surprised at what 1518 01:17:38.720 --> 01:17:41.079 I'm bringing to the table. It's hard for me to 1519 01:17:41.119 --> 01:17:43.479 do that now obviously because of this. They everybody think 1520 01:17:43.520 --> 01:17:45.520 I'm just gonna, you know, back out a fucking machine. 1521 01:17:45.560 --> 01:17:45.960 First time. 1522 01:17:46.079 --> 01:17:48.319 They want to say, like, I know he's got change 1523 01:17:48.319 --> 01:17:51.760 hanging from his talking ship. Yeah, I know, but I 1524 01:17:51.880 --> 01:17:53.960 told to you as a regular I'm a regular person, right, 1525 01:17:54.399 --> 01:17:55.640 I just I want to know you know what I mean, 1526 01:17:55.720 --> 01:17:57.000 who you are, what you're about. 1527 01:17:57.159 --> 01:17:57.319 You know. 1528 01:17:57.640 --> 01:18:00.800 I think that was a part of me hesitating to 1529 01:18:01.000 --> 01:18:04.159 actually get into this space because of what people actually 1530 01:18:04.800 --> 01:18:08.039 think of you while you're speaking this way. But again 1531 01:18:08.640 --> 01:18:11.199 as you go, as you go, you realize that so 1532 01:18:11.319 --> 01:18:15.239 much people are into this shit or whatever, and there's 1533 01:18:15.239 --> 01:18:17.800 always a demographic for you when it comes to sex, 1534 01:18:18.000 --> 01:18:20.359 Like if you are the quiet guy that doesn't talk 1535 01:18:20.399 --> 01:18:23.399 about sex, it's a demographic for you, Like there's demographic 1536 01:18:23.720 --> 01:18:25.920 for people like us that actually are open about talking 1537 01:18:25.960 --> 01:18:28.359 about sex. Although I feel like that demographic is a 1538 01:18:28.439 --> 01:18:31.199 lot bigger than we think, you know. 1539 01:18:31.399 --> 01:18:35.520 But I like it here. I love it here. What 1540 01:18:35.640 --> 01:18:36.079 was I gonna say? 1541 01:18:36.119 --> 01:18:38.960 Oh, so before we go into further and I know 1542 01:18:39.039 --> 01:18:43.079 tones like, motherfucker, do you run it too long? 1543 01:18:43.239 --> 01:18:47.520 I want to edit this shit forever. I did want to. 1544 01:18:51.319 --> 01:18:53.520 Bring up this post that I've seen on Instagram, and 1545 01:18:53.560 --> 01:18:55.760 I'm not sure how true it is. You find shit 1546 01:18:56.439 --> 01:18:58.960 and whatever people be saying shit, you take it for 1547 01:18:59.039 --> 01:19:02.279 what it's worth. Why do I get soft during sex? 1548 01:19:02.560 --> 01:19:06.439 Is the question that that is here, and it says myth. 1549 01:19:07.920 --> 01:19:10.560 It says myth, a healthy penis gets hard when it's 1550 01:19:10.560 --> 01:19:14.840 aroused and stays hard until ejaculation. I don't know why 1551 01:19:14.920 --> 01:19:18.039 that's a myth, right, But it goes on to say 1552 01:19:18.119 --> 01:19:21.720 the reality is a healthy penis goes through a natural 1553 01:19:21.880 --> 01:19:26.640 cycle of soft, semi hard, soft, and then hard during 1554 01:19:26.800 --> 01:19:28.039 a sexual experience. 1555 01:19:29.039 --> 01:19:33.920 And I've done research on that as well. It tends 1556 01:19:34.000 --> 01:19:38.039 to be normal. It's really the norm. So again, when 1557 01:19:38.079 --> 01:19:40.119 I was going through that issue with the young lady, 1558 01:19:40.760 --> 01:19:44.079 I've experienced all of that and I've done I can't 1559 01:19:44.079 --> 01:19:46.359 imaginemp into a rabbit hole and come to find out 1560 01:19:46.399 --> 01:19:50.520 that it is actually a thing. But here's the thing, right, 1561 01:19:50.680 --> 01:19:53.319 some people go they go through those periods, but some 1562 01:19:53.439 --> 01:19:56.680 people like that hard period is a lot longer than 1563 01:19:56.720 --> 01:19:57.800 some people's hard period. 1564 01:19:57.960 --> 01:20:00.319 But you still go through those cycles right about the 1565 01:20:00.359 --> 01:20:03.199 soft period. Same thing. Sometimes the soft pair can go 1566 01:20:03.439 --> 01:20:03.840 very long. 1567 01:20:03.920 --> 01:20:06.039 Like you go into the bathroom, like you said, you 1568 01:20:06.119 --> 01:20:07.439 go to the bath and watch your own porn, it 1569 01:20:07.520 --> 01:20:10.159 still won't get up. It's because you're in that molde 1570 01:20:10.479 --> 01:20:12.319 in that buble, and your body is just saying, hey, 1571 01:20:12.359 --> 01:20:14.479 you need to be like this right now. And then 1572 01:20:14.800 --> 01:20:17.079 at some point your body said, stop saying you need 1573 01:20:17.119 --> 01:20:19.199 to be like this, and then you can fudge yourself. 1574 01:20:19.199 --> 01:20:20.239 You ever taking honey packs? 1575 01:20:20.239 --> 01:20:22.199 And she's like, yeah, no, no, I tell you. I'm 1576 01:20:22.199 --> 01:20:25.479 a young old nigga. Alright, I worked out, I do 1577 01:20:25.640 --> 01:20:30.479 sets of pushups out fucking around. Man, them niggas be 1578 01:20:30.560 --> 01:20:34.439 going to corner store. It's still because I'm a little 1579 01:20:34.479 --> 01:20:36.319 older than the doubt that young brother's in my hood. 1580 01:20:36.399 --> 01:20:38.000 So one day I seen a young brother in my 1581 01:20:38.079 --> 01:20:40.079 hood going to corner store and he was buying some 1582 01:20:40.279 --> 01:20:41.560 like street fire packs. 1583 01:20:41.680 --> 01:20:46.279 Like what's that. 1584 01:20:46.760 --> 01:20:48.920 I'm not I'm about to go to a girl to night. 1585 01:20:49.000 --> 01:20:52.319 I'm like, you're taking ship from the corner store. Yeah, 1586 01:20:53.279 --> 01:20:55.359 gas station, take your ship from the corner store. You're 1587 01:20:55.399 --> 01:20:58.399 taking ship in your youth. That's the bug part. 1588 01:20:58.520 --> 01:21:01.920 Yeah, like in your like you're younger than right. 1589 01:21:02.119 --> 01:21:07.159 So now, even even if the actual pills don't take 1590 01:21:07.279 --> 01:21:09.520 to the effect to where you're addicted to it and 1591 01:21:09.720 --> 01:21:12.640 have to use it, something in your head is saying that, oh, 1592 01:21:12.840 --> 01:21:14.199 I need to get these pills. 1593 01:21:14.199 --> 01:21:15.159 Because I'm about to do it. 1594 01:21:15.279 --> 01:21:18.039 So then now it's kind of like a placebo effect 1595 01:21:18.039 --> 01:21:20.079 in the sense like if you don't have access to 1596 01:21:20.159 --> 01:21:21.359 these pills, you don't be sucked up. 1597 01:21:21.800 --> 01:21:25.920 Yo. I used to so I make some sexual enhancements. 1598 01:21:26.840 --> 01:21:31.000 And the reason I stopped taking them as often you 1599 01:21:31.039 --> 01:21:35.039 said you made something, make them, you make them, Okay, 1600 01:21:35.520 --> 01:21:37.720 you made healthy. 1601 01:21:39.199 --> 01:21:42.319 But the thing is is that I realized you got 1602 01:21:42.479 --> 01:21:45.840 to be a healthy person period because once you start 1603 01:21:45.920 --> 01:21:49.119 depending on ship, your body's looking for that right and 1604 01:21:49.239 --> 01:21:55.239 you don't ever want to create a deprediction dependency dependency 1605 01:21:55.680 --> 01:21:56.239 on the ship. 1606 01:21:56.600 --> 01:22:02.159 So natural remedies actually work. Working out is number one 1607 01:22:02.319 --> 01:22:02.760 number one. 1608 01:22:03.039 --> 01:22:05.119 That's why when I'm working, so a lot of y'all 1609 01:22:05.159 --> 01:22:08.279 know I work sanitation, nigga, they'd be like, Yo, why 1610 01:22:08.399 --> 01:22:09.359 you move so fast? 1611 01:22:09.960 --> 01:22:13.119 Because this is my exercise. I need my blood to 1612 01:22:13.199 --> 01:22:15.279 be running. You see white people jogging up and down 1613 01:22:15.319 --> 01:22:17.840 the block, and y'all be standing there with running. 1614 01:22:17.840 --> 01:22:21.039 You gotta run under a maule. We'll be a testosterone. 1615 01:22:21.119 --> 01:22:24.960 Yeah over mal, you're actually weakening your ship. Yeah, I 1616 01:22:25.079 --> 01:22:27.680 wreath the workout. There's a man that under you actually 1617 01:22:27.680 --> 01:22:31.399 strengthen you. A testosterone in so if I'm on a 1618 01:22:31.439 --> 01:22:33.079 bikeers at the same thing. Because if I'm. 1619 01:22:33.359 --> 01:22:36.359 Running running, because I don't run running, I can't run 1620 01:22:36.520 --> 01:22:39.600 my number. I'm too old. I cannot run. Nigga, my 1621 01:22:39.720 --> 01:22:43.920 knees is going. Why you running? You had I was, 1622 01:22:44.439 --> 01:22:50.239 that's if you noticed mad racist hates and I took 1623 01:22:50.279 --> 01:22:51.159 a little jog to you. 1624 01:22:51.239 --> 01:22:54.239 I like running Gladness. He was running to the song 1625 01:22:54.319 --> 01:22:58.640 Gladys running in his work boots and working. I'm sorry, 1626 01:23:00.640 --> 01:23:04.800 trying to get up. I'm sorry, I'm babies, I'm sorry. 1627 01:23:05.159 --> 01:23:05.800 My apology. 1628 01:23:08.239 --> 01:23:12.359 In the Pimp there's a is new. It's paradigm. That's 1629 01:23:12.399 --> 01:23:15.479 the word, right, paradigm is The post goes on to 1630 01:23:15.560 --> 01:23:19.560 say new paradigm for couples get intimate with a limp penis, 1631 01:23:19.800 --> 01:23:23.039 touch it for relaxation and pleasure, not just sex. 1632 01:23:24.479 --> 01:23:26.319 Guys. Sorry, I'm about to say this. Let it grow 1633 01:23:26.439 --> 01:23:28.840 in your hand or mouth. It was hard for me 1634 01:23:28.880 --> 01:23:31.159 to say that. I'm sorry. I don't see nothing wrong 1635 01:23:31.199 --> 01:23:35.199 with that. Yeah, I don't know, that's right, That's all 1636 01:23:35.239 --> 01:23:35.479 it is. 1637 01:23:35.760 --> 01:23:35.800 Like. 1638 01:23:36.479 --> 01:23:40.119 Sometimes a woman isn't quite ready, and what do we 1639 01:23:40.199 --> 01:23:41.720 have to do. We have to get it right right. 1640 01:23:42.760 --> 01:23:45.119 Sometimes sometimes we need a little warm up too. Sometimes 1641 01:23:45.279 --> 01:23:47.720 ready just like women. Just like women, women are ready 1642 01:23:47.760 --> 01:23:49.560 to go a lot of times. Sometimes we're ready to 1643 01:23:49.600 --> 01:23:50.960 go to a lot of times we're ready to go to. 1644 01:23:51.880 --> 01:23:56.319 Sometimes we're not rev up the engine for us. Sometimes 1645 01:23:56.359 --> 01:23:59.760 you know you don't yo baby, baby, yo baby? Really 1646 01:23:59.800 --> 01:24:04.159 have even? I like that too. 1647 01:24:04.439 --> 01:24:11.720 If female sex was based on the glitterists getting hard, 1648 01:24:13.520 --> 01:24:16.520 then the conversation will be less of a of a 1649 01:24:17.159 --> 01:24:17.880 double standard. 1650 01:24:18.000 --> 01:24:20.760 Did you know that it is? Though? What female sex 1651 01:24:20.960 --> 01:24:22.560 is based female pleasure? It is. 1652 01:24:22.640 --> 01:24:26.119 It's based on the clitaricists, right, so now so should 1653 01:24:26.119 --> 01:24:31.520 be the pleasure is the pleasure is, But sex isn't 1654 01:24:32.159 --> 01:24:39.359 right because we go inside. Right if the conversation was okay, 1655 01:24:39.840 --> 01:24:42.960 if she can't get wet, the pussy doesn't open up, 1656 01:24:43.039 --> 01:24:47.199 so you can't get in right And if you're hard, 1657 01:24:47.920 --> 01:24:49.920 like you could work on something's lou There's so many 1658 01:24:49.960 --> 01:24:52.319 things that you can do to make that happen. I 1659 01:24:52.399 --> 01:24:55.439 think the stigma on men with their dicks not getting 1660 01:24:55.479 --> 01:24:58.840 hard in certain situations it just it's it's just there's 1661 01:24:58.920 --> 01:25:00.520 just so much behind it. Oh, you're not a man, 1662 01:25:00.560 --> 01:25:02.600 you're not manly enough, Like, there's so much behind it. 1663 01:25:02.680 --> 01:25:06.199 The hyper masculinity behind having an erection, whereas people really 1664 01:25:06.239 --> 01:25:11.199 don't understand the anatomy. It's crazy, like not shitting on women, 1665 01:25:11.279 --> 01:25:13.199 but a lot of women don't know how their anatomy works. 1666 01:25:13.199 --> 01:25:14.279 A lot of people, a lot of women think that 1667 01:25:14.279 --> 01:25:16.560 the clinicist is just right there, whereas it's something that 1668 01:25:16.600 --> 01:25:19.720 goes in and straddles around the volva that that actually 1669 01:25:19.800 --> 01:25:22.399 calls an erection. And that's why women like girth. Women 1670 01:25:22.479 --> 01:25:25.479 like girth because the clinicals all wraps around the whole thing. 1671 01:25:26.880 --> 01:25:27.000 Right. 1672 01:25:27.119 --> 01:25:31.079 So it's like we have to get a better understanding 1673 01:25:31.359 --> 01:25:33.760 as to how the anatomy works for men and women 1674 01:25:33.840 --> 01:25:37.439 so that sex is not such a thing where you 1675 01:25:37.560 --> 01:25:39.880 can be put down in like, there's a lot of 1676 01:25:41.039 --> 01:25:44.279 bullshit behind sex, and it's only because men and women 1677 01:25:44.399 --> 01:25:47.119 both don't understand the anatomy of themselves or. 1678 01:25:47.359 --> 01:25:48.000 The other person. 1679 01:25:48.319 --> 01:25:52.439 Now, you said that women be having sex without hard clits. 1680 01:25:53.560 --> 01:25:57.319 I ain't know that every chick I met they had 1681 01:25:57.359 --> 01:26:01.199 a hot clit. Oh you did, yeah, with a soft click. 1682 01:26:02.039 --> 01:26:02.239 I know. 1683 01:26:02.479 --> 01:26:06.760 I put my semi hard or soft piece in the 1684 01:26:07.159 --> 01:26:10.119 womb and it's grown and some women like it more 1685 01:26:10.239 --> 01:26:10.439 like that. 1686 01:26:11.319 --> 01:26:13.880 It's like I sucked your dick like that ship like 1687 01:26:13.960 --> 01:26:16.399 a pickfoot. But the end of the day, it's like. 1688 01:26:18.920 --> 01:26:23.359 No, like you know, the strength, the strength, no weakness, 1689 01:26:23.439 --> 01:26:28.600 it's like it's it's there, it's not it's you could 1690 01:26:28.680 --> 01:26:28.920 if you. 1691 01:26:30.800 --> 01:26:33.960 Jump off and the ship Green Room podcast, folks Green. 1692 01:26:36.560 --> 01:26:39.000 I'm just making sure that they know what to because 1693 01:26:39.079 --> 01:26:42.039 pigfoot is crazy, and make sure that they get these adjectives. 1694 01:26:42.119 --> 01:26:44.439 No, no, not just it's just the Southern slane. It's 1695 01:26:44.560 --> 01:26:46.720 just it's just the strength. Never had hard like a 1696 01:26:46.760 --> 01:26:49.399 pick before strength. Man, how do you what do you 1697 01:26:49.439 --> 01:26:54.880 do to get a woman's clip hard? There's different things conversation. 1698 01:26:55.319 --> 01:26:59.680 Some is touched, some is tongue, some is suck. That's 1699 01:26:59.720 --> 01:27:03.119 why I when you it's not eating the pussy, it's 1700 01:27:03.199 --> 01:27:04.239 not licking the pussy. 1701 01:27:05.399 --> 01:27:11.319 Is massage, know what you call it. But some women 1702 01:27:11.640 --> 01:27:14.000 you need to do different things down there for the 1703 01:27:14.319 --> 01:27:17.880 for their engine to get right. We'll talk some chicks. 1704 01:27:17.880 --> 01:27:21.159 Once you touch it, it's ready, right, So yeah, because 1705 01:27:21.239 --> 01:27:25.119 four play lasts so long before that. Yeah, the brain 1706 01:27:25.159 --> 01:27:29.399 when they ship on that problem and you touch it 1707 01:27:29.880 --> 01:27:34.840 is already like yeah, yeah, it's drooling. You gotta do. 1708 01:27:40.039 --> 01:27:43.079 I'm I'm just gonna go into the fighting part here 1709 01:27:43.479 --> 01:27:45.159 just because we've been here for so long. First of all, 1710 01:27:45.199 --> 01:27:48.039 you guys are great. Conversationalist. Is one of the best 1711 01:27:48.079 --> 01:27:50.760 episodes I've done a long time. I really when I 1712 01:27:50.800 --> 01:27:53.880 said that I wanted to do these new episodes with 1713 01:27:54.079 --> 01:27:56.039 me before we get back and figure out what I'm 1714 01:27:56.039 --> 01:27:59.199 going with the show with purpose. This is the kind 1715 01:27:59.199 --> 01:28:01.800 of conversation I want that I appreciate. I want people 1716 01:28:01.840 --> 01:28:04.840 to be able to take something home from these conversations, Like, Yo, 1717 01:28:05.000 --> 01:28:07.760 that was fucking dope. Black men talking about this, men 1718 01:28:07.920 --> 01:28:10.840 talking about sex in a productive. 1719 01:28:10.319 --> 01:28:12.840 Way, in a way that I can learn some ship from. 1720 01:28:13.199 --> 01:28:15.039 And you guys came and brought that ship and I 1721 01:28:15.039 --> 01:28:16.640 didn't even know y'all was going to do it, Like 1722 01:28:16.720 --> 01:28:18.239 we sit here playing games last. 1723 01:28:18.079 --> 01:28:19.680 Week or the last time he was here the day 1724 01:28:19.720 --> 01:28:26.359 that you shot shot shut up. Yes, that was a 1725 01:28:26.399 --> 01:28:32.680 good episode. We're probably gonna release that on Patreon either way. 1726 01:28:33.079 --> 01:28:36.640 You guys came with I was about to say it 1727 01:28:36.680 --> 01:28:41.399 came with the thunder, but that's just bigfoot y'all going crazy. 1728 01:28:43.560 --> 01:28:47.640 That's bad. We've all lived a certain life. We've all 1729 01:28:47.720 --> 01:28:48.600 lived life in here. 1730 01:28:48.720 --> 01:28:53.319 Now me personally, mm hmm, I've been in prison before. 1731 01:28:54.880 --> 01:28:56.239 Have you guys ever been in prison before? 1732 01:28:56.880 --> 01:28:58.000 I've been in the jail. 1733 01:28:58.800 --> 01:29:01.640 Okay, so like right, locked up for a while on 1734 01:29:01.760 --> 01:29:06.079 Rikers Rikers all right, yeah, oh wow, like like lessen 1735 01:29:06.079 --> 01:29:08.680 the Yeah, okay, so you did listen. 1736 01:29:08.520 --> 01:29:12.920 To year with nine months about eight? Damn you using 1737 01:29:13.000 --> 01:29:16.239 jail for eight fucking months on the island. That's hard time. 1738 01:29:17.560 --> 01:29:18.319 That's hard time. 1739 01:29:18.399 --> 01:29:21.680 It's only hard when you think about it. That's how 1740 01:29:21.720 --> 01:29:23.960 it goes. I think for me, sorry, we talked about 1741 01:29:23.960 --> 01:29:30.000 two different things. Facts. Yes, you ain't even catching that's crazy. 1742 01:29:30.720 --> 01:29:37.000 But for me, I think, I think, I think like 1743 01:29:37.119 --> 01:29:41.399 every other human, you just acclimate to ship, you know, 1744 01:29:41.600 --> 01:29:44.800 and once you once you, once you acclimate, it becomes 1745 01:29:45.079 --> 01:29:47.399 an easy situation when you on, when you're on the island, 1746 01:29:47.439 --> 01:29:49.479 it's like most people on there a short time the 1747 01:29:49.520 --> 01:29:50.159 most you can do on this. 1748 01:29:50.399 --> 01:29:51.600 Just to let you know, for us, i've seen that 1749 01:29:51.960 --> 01:29:55.119 I do dumb ship so good though, Bro, he's trying 1750 01:29:55.119 --> 01:29:56.279 to pull one with the top on it. 1751 01:29:57.520 --> 01:29:58.680 I can't really see. 1752 01:30:00.680 --> 01:30:00.720 You. 1753 01:30:01.840 --> 01:30:04.720 You you acclimate right and again with right, because you 1754 01:30:04.800 --> 01:30:06.880 do a short time, you don't do more than two 1755 01:30:06.960 --> 01:30:10.159 years or right, you go there, so it's more than 1756 01:30:10.199 --> 01:30:11.199 two years now, you can't. 1757 01:30:11.239 --> 01:30:12.479 I don't. I don't think you could do more than 1758 01:30:12.560 --> 01:30:13.880 more than once you're sentenced. 1759 01:30:13.880 --> 01:30:16.520 You can't do more than a year on right, once 1760 01:30:16.560 --> 01:30:19.039 you give in the year. Right, But Rikers and you 1761 01:30:19.159 --> 01:30:21.960 sentenced wrong with you be out of there well or 1762 01:30:22.000 --> 01:30:22.560 you're telling. 1763 01:30:22.399 --> 01:30:24.079 You basically you can't you can't do more than that. 1764 01:30:24.720 --> 01:30:27.439 But either way, either way, it's like people are not 1765 01:30:27.560 --> 01:30:30.000 really on there like that, unless it's the adolescents. The 1766 01:30:30.039 --> 01:30:32.239 adolescents were the ones that are really wildent, but the 1767 01:30:32.319 --> 01:30:37.279 adults they're wild too. But it wasn't niggas was just trying. 1768 01:30:37.119 --> 01:30:38.600 To go home, you know. 1769 01:30:38.680 --> 01:30:40.239 For the most part, you was, you was in a 1770 01:30:40.279 --> 01:30:44.399 good building then Yeah it was CE seventy six. It 1771 01:30:44.479 --> 01:30:50.720 said six building six field. Yeah, okay, what about you 1772 01:30:51.800 --> 01:30:52.800 ever been in prison time? 1773 01:30:53.279 --> 01:30:56.840 Nah? No, good, good good. I'm glad. I'm glad that 1774 01:30:56.920 --> 01:30:57.640 you say that. 1775 01:30:57.720 --> 01:31:03.520 All being places, yeah, but not no up north napping 1776 01:31:03.560 --> 01:31:05.520 that sing singing, all that ship. I know, niggas who 1777 01:31:05.560 --> 01:31:08.319 did that walk and all that? It's horrible and shout 1778 01:31:08.359 --> 01:31:10.079 out tell your body behind the g wall and all 1779 01:31:10.119 --> 01:31:14.359 that shit. But I don't want to like this. Nobody 1780 01:31:14.680 --> 01:31:19.159 but being caught. Getting caught is not always a good thing. 1781 01:31:19.960 --> 01:31:22.880 If you're a real criminal, it's not ever a good thing. 1782 01:31:23.840 --> 01:31:24.399 Glorified. 1783 01:31:24.520 --> 01:31:28.279 The ship is to get away, succeed or for what 1784 01:31:28.399 --> 01:31:31.680 you're doing. It's not a successful robbery if you go 1785 01:31:31.800 --> 01:31:35.359 in jail later for it. Success is you actually getting away, 1786 01:31:35.880 --> 01:31:38.479 spending the money and everything smooth. 1787 01:31:38.600 --> 01:31:40.640 Ship. Success is not having to do that shit no more. 1788 01:31:40.680 --> 01:31:41.800 To be honest, no, I. 1789 01:31:41.840 --> 01:31:43.960 Mean when you're young, sometimes, like you say, you do 1790 01:31:44.039 --> 01:31:46.960 stupid shit. I mean, as you grow, you realize you 1791 01:31:47.039 --> 01:31:48.880 could waste a lot of time doing stupid shit. 1792 01:31:49.840 --> 01:31:51.039 You know. I seen. 1793 01:31:51.119 --> 01:31:52.920 I remember when I got up North. The dude that 1794 01:31:53.159 --> 01:31:56.760 was in the cell that they put me in, and 1795 01:31:56.960 --> 01:31:58.560 be clear, the cell that they put me in when 1796 01:31:58.600 --> 01:32:00.840 I got up north. He I was thirty one years old. 1797 01:32:00.920 --> 01:32:02.479 He had been in jail for thirty two years. 1798 01:32:03.760 --> 01:32:07.760 I was thirty one's wild when I got there. 1799 01:32:08.079 --> 01:32:12.199 He had already done thirty two years and he wasn't 1800 01:32:12.279 --> 01:32:16.159 nowhere near coming home. He was comfortable. Yeah see, and 1801 01:32:16.239 --> 01:32:19.479 that's up North. The motherfucker that I've seen on Rikers 1802 01:32:20.640 --> 01:32:22.279 when I got to Rikers. And I'm going to tell 1803 01:32:22.279 --> 01:32:24.960 you the reason I said, that's a hard bid because 1804 01:32:25.439 --> 01:32:27.239 them motherfuckers is all trying to prove each other. 1805 01:32:27.279 --> 01:32:30.039 Where I was at r they all trying to that 1806 01:32:30.159 --> 01:32:32.479 was happening, that happened, That was happening different. Yeah, that 1807 01:32:32.520 --> 01:32:33.119 was happening too. 1808 01:32:33.239 --> 01:32:36.399 But again, you go in there with the mindset that, like, 1809 01:32:37.560 --> 01:32:39.439 you just don't want to be too cool with anybody, 1810 01:32:39.600 --> 01:32:41.600 and you also don't want to be like on a 1811 01:32:41.640 --> 01:32:45.720 situation where you just seem like you're soul removed from 1812 01:32:45.760 --> 01:32:49.359 the situation that it makes you a target in that way. 1813 01:32:49.439 --> 01:32:51.840 So you kind of once you find that balance of 1814 01:32:52.279 --> 01:32:55.680 who you are in that space, I think altipatet that 1815 01:32:55.720 --> 01:32:59.000 you be fine. You understand that you're start to understand 1816 01:32:59.039 --> 01:33:01.279 the politics and what's going on. You understand who's because 1817 01:33:01.279 --> 01:33:02.560 I was in I was in the dorms for the 1818 01:33:02.640 --> 01:33:07.520 most part, you understand who is holding down the dorm like, 1819 01:33:07.800 --> 01:33:09.600 and you just you just deal with the politics in 1820 01:33:09.640 --> 01:33:12.199 that way. And I was always kind of inquisitive and 1821 01:33:12.479 --> 01:33:16.479 smart at the same time, so like I wouldn't inquire 1822 01:33:16.520 --> 01:33:19.520 about ship too much to the point where maybe you 1823 01:33:19.560 --> 01:33:22.520 got pressed. Yeah, I got pressed the first day. They 1824 01:33:22.560 --> 01:33:25.399 wanted they wanted my sneakers ship, they wanted my sneakers. 1825 01:33:25.439 --> 01:33:27.319 First day, did you give me a sneaker? I know, 1826 01:33:27.359 --> 01:33:28.239 I left with my ships. 1827 01:33:29.079 --> 01:33:30.239 How did you get away? How did you get away 1828 01:33:30.239 --> 01:33:33.439 with your sniggers? I told him, I told him, take 1829 01:33:33.479 --> 01:33:35.680 him if you want him. But it's the same guy 1830 01:33:36.079 --> 01:33:36.760 the next day. 1831 01:33:37.039 --> 01:33:38.760 The next day he got fucked up because he was 1832 01:33:38.800 --> 01:33:43.199 he was he was he was crip right, But most 1833 01:33:43.239 --> 01:33:45.439 people know that rikers. 1834 01:33:45.479 --> 01:33:52.319 There's a lot of bloods, right, and I wasn't. No, 1835 01:33:52.399 --> 01:33:54.079 I was in the bloodhouse, but he was just it 1836 01:33:54.199 --> 01:33:58.159 was just one crip there. It was. It was a bloodhouse. Bro. 1837 01:33:58.560 --> 01:34:01.079 That's crazy. I think that's crazy. 1838 01:34:01.319 --> 01:34:03.920 Said but you know, you know, you gotta when you 1839 01:34:04.079 --> 01:34:06.319 when you get intake, you gotta kind of say that 1840 01:34:06.359 --> 01:34:08.640 ship so you don't end up in the wrong house. 1841 01:34:09.560 --> 01:34:12.720 Ready. They probably didn't say nothing, you know, but at 1842 01:34:12.760 --> 01:34:15.199 the end of the day, left with my sneakers. Right. 1843 01:34:15.800 --> 01:34:17.600 The reason I left my with my sneakers because when 1844 01:34:17.600 --> 01:34:20.760 you when you're giving up your clothing, like you're literally 1845 01:34:20.840 --> 01:34:23.439 handing him over to an inmate. So in my head, 1846 01:34:23.439 --> 01:34:24.840 I'm like, yo, I'm probably not gonna get this ship 1847 01:34:24.880 --> 01:34:26.399 because I came in. I came in some flash because 1848 01:34:26.399 --> 01:34:28.039 I didn't know I was gonna get remanded, you know. 1849 01:34:28.159 --> 01:34:29.600 So I came in in some fly ship because I 1850 01:34:29.680 --> 01:34:31.600 had We went to a boat ride the night before 1851 01:34:32.319 --> 01:34:34.840 and I knew I had the court date. I woke up, 1852 01:34:34.880 --> 01:34:36.800 put on the same ship and then went to court. 1853 01:34:37.520 --> 01:34:37.760 Dang. 1854 01:34:38.039 --> 01:34:40.920 So I had this when Sean was wearing more fucking 1855 01:34:41.239 --> 01:34:44.199 some ship. So I can imagine what he walked. 1856 01:34:44.000 --> 01:34:45.800 In the rightkers with. I know, I know you thought 1857 01:34:45.840 --> 01:34:47.199 about it, like, y'all ain't gonna put this in the 1858 01:34:47.279 --> 01:34:50.640 locker or something. Bro. I had to hand the ship 1859 01:34:50.680 --> 01:34:51.119 to the inmates. 1860 01:34:51.119 --> 01:34:53.159 They may put it in the bag, and I was like, 1861 01:34:53.199 --> 01:34:54.760 you know, I'm not putting I'm not I'm not giving 1862 01:34:54.840 --> 01:34:56.880 up my sneakers and I'm not wearing no air patackis 1863 01:34:57.399 --> 01:34:57.880 you feel me? 1864 01:34:57.960 --> 01:35:04.199 So yeah, that's that. That's pretty much how dinkins man. 1865 01:35:04.239 --> 01:35:06.720 I'm gonna what he's saying. 1866 01:35:06.880 --> 01:35:11.359 I didn't do when I went into jail. I went 1867 01:35:11.520 --> 01:35:13.800 right in the front of the motherfucking down right. So 1868 01:35:14.159 --> 01:35:15.920 once they put you in the cell, they send you 1869 01:35:15.960 --> 01:35:17.760 to doing with your classification. Drops to put you in 1870 01:35:17.840 --> 01:35:18.119 the door. 1871 01:35:18.840 --> 01:35:24.159 Push ups immediately, push ups immediately back to the wall, waiting. 1872 01:35:24.760 --> 01:35:29.279 I'm waiting. She was waiting for whatever something's gonna happen. 1873 01:35:29.319 --> 01:35:31.600 I'm waiting for the pot because I was just figured 1874 01:35:31.640 --> 01:35:35.079 that the first person to try it, it's just got 1875 01:35:35.199 --> 01:35:35.600 to happen. 1876 01:35:36.680 --> 01:35:39.479 I know I'm going up north, so I'm let's. 1877 01:35:39.359 --> 01:35:41.520 Just get this over with because I don't see these 1878 01:35:41.600 --> 01:35:43.640 niggas getting shaken left and right. 1879 01:35:44.079 --> 01:35:46.000 So I'm like, y'all, niggas don't know me, like that 1880 01:35:46.159 --> 01:35:47.680 happened to be a couple niggas didn't know me. But 1881 01:35:48.119 --> 01:35:50.359 I don't know what time they on. They might be 1882 01:35:50.439 --> 01:35:53.960 on one time outside and it is difference. I don't 1883 01:35:54.119 --> 01:35:57.119 and I'm not. I'm not gonna be in nobody else's name, 1884 01:35:58.079 --> 01:35:58.920 create my own name. 1885 01:36:00.159 --> 01:36:03.680 Push ups all day till my body was you know, 1886 01:36:03.760 --> 01:36:05.720 you gotta gain the weight because I was on trial, 1887 01:36:05.840 --> 01:36:08.239 so it took for everybody that's in here. 1888 01:36:08.319 --> 01:36:09.880 This is going somewhere, so give me some. I was 1889 01:36:09.920 --> 01:36:11.439 on trial, so I lost weight because I was so 1890 01:36:11.560 --> 01:36:14.439 scared of the trials on murder stress, you know what 1891 01:36:14.479 --> 01:36:18.600 I mean. So I go on the phone one day 1892 01:36:20.000 --> 01:36:22.680 and this dude, I don't know. 1893 01:36:22.880 --> 01:36:24.880 You know how they used to make the jerk off 1894 01:36:25.640 --> 01:36:29.079 rooms in the shower in the bathroom, they put up. 1895 01:36:29.039 --> 01:36:31.680 Your they put the sheet up around the thing. 1896 01:36:32.359 --> 01:36:37.439 The Big Blood goes in the bathroom, puts his sheet up. 1897 01:36:38.520 --> 01:36:42.479 I'm on the phone talking to my short Mexican dude 1898 01:36:42.560 --> 01:36:44.920 comes in there, goes into the. 1899 01:36:48.000 --> 01:36:51.359 I'm talking about the big Blood, the muscle. 1900 01:36:51.199 --> 01:36:55.239 Bound nigga with his head big as his legs like 1901 01:36:55.960 --> 01:36:58.199 this neck biggest his head like you can tell there's 1902 01:36:58.239 --> 01:37:03.800 no weakness. This nigga comes flying first of the Mexican 1903 01:37:03.880 --> 01:37:06.880 comes flying out the joint on some I'm sorry, I'm sorry, 1904 01:37:06.880 --> 01:37:09.880 I'm sorry. He tries to walk off. Big Blood comes out, 1905 01:37:09.960 --> 01:37:12.880 but ass naked, dig hard. 1906 01:37:15.479 --> 01:37:15.800 Nigga. 1907 01:37:15.840 --> 01:37:17.880 When I tell you, I ain't never seen somebody get 1908 01:37:17.920 --> 01:37:21.000 their asso by a naked nigga. 1909 01:37:22.920 --> 01:37:27.840 Before we beat the ship out this Mexican son, the 1910 01:37:28.359 --> 01:37:30.880 Mexican must not have understood what the sheet meant. 1911 01:37:32.359 --> 01:37:35.359 Beat them all into the shower, pounded them into the tiles, 1912 01:37:35.760 --> 01:37:40.039 dig hard, that's crazy, and then just walk his nigked 1913 01:37:40.119 --> 01:37:44.319 ass back through the down. He walked back to it 1914 01:37:44.399 --> 01:37:45.840 because he wanted everybody to see. He knew he was 1915 01:37:45.840 --> 01:37:47.720 going to shoot everybody. 1916 01:37:47.840 --> 01:37:48.119 See me. 1917 01:37:48.239 --> 01:37:51.760 Now, what's up? I'm sitting there like yo, I can't believe. 1918 01:37:51.800 --> 01:37:54.880 I gotta go up north to this. I cannot believe. 1919 01:37:55.000 --> 01:37:56.720 I gotta go up north to this. Did you see 1920 01:37:56.720 --> 01:37:57.800 any crazy stories? 1921 01:37:58.479 --> 01:38:01.520 But he was just the one guy guy that you 1922 01:38:01.600 --> 01:38:03.560 know how one of your feet stinking jail, like your 1923 01:38:03.600 --> 01:38:04.199 feet on fire. 1924 01:38:04.319 --> 01:38:05.239 They put it so. 1925 01:38:05.960 --> 01:38:08.880 For some reason, the guy didn't wake up. So the 1926 01:38:09.000 --> 01:38:11.159 nigga ended up having most of his leg burned. I 1927 01:38:11.199 --> 01:38:12.920 think his diabetes. He can feel it. 1928 01:38:13.640 --> 01:38:16.439 So his ship got burnt up to like almost the kneecap. 1929 01:38:16.560 --> 01:38:22.479 She was crazy. He was smelling crazy in there. Shake 1930 01:38:22.560 --> 01:38:24.359 them off ship. 1931 01:38:24.399 --> 01:38:26.800 I'm like yo, and everybody's making noise like wi, this 1932 01:38:26.920 --> 01:38:30.800 nigga not getting up like because you know. Also you know, 1933 01:38:31.479 --> 01:38:33.960 it's like it's almost like his feet was out, but 1934 01:38:34.079 --> 01:38:36.279 he had the sheets on like he was covered. So 1935 01:38:36.399 --> 01:38:38.479 I guess it cut on the sheets and had a 1936 01:38:38.560 --> 01:38:41.600 ship like fucked up, fucked. 1937 01:38:41.359 --> 01:38:44.000 Up well being that you was just on Rikers right. 1938 01:38:44.119 --> 01:38:48.359 But respectfully, Ryks was a harder bid, especially for me. 1939 01:38:49.439 --> 01:38:52.239 Once I got nor if it got real comfortable, everybody's chilling. 1940 01:38:52.319 --> 01:38:54.960 We know we're here for a long time. Nobody's trying 1941 01:38:54.960 --> 01:38:56.560 to prove this something. Everybody just trying to get me 1942 01:38:56.600 --> 01:39:00.239 out living right Rikers in and out, So we just 1943 01:39:00.279 --> 01:39:02.319 don't want to be, you know, tested. Once you get 1944 01:39:02.399 --> 01:39:03.039 up north, it's cool. 1945 01:39:04.000 --> 01:39:06.600 The one thing that I will say about up North 1946 01:39:08.560 --> 01:39:13.000 is I saw a guy be a girl. 1947 01:39:14.920 --> 01:39:20.199 And then when he went to so I only had 1948 01:39:20.279 --> 01:39:21.800 one and a half. I had a one and a 1949 01:39:21.800 --> 01:39:25.399 half to three years or something like that. One to three, right, 1950 01:39:25.640 --> 01:39:29.279 So I went to Cayuga. I was there for a month, 1951 01:39:29.399 --> 01:39:32.079 two months. My classication drop. They shipped me right to 1952 01:39:32.159 --> 01:39:34.479 a minimum. You're going, you're getting going to Butler. You 1953 01:39:34.560 --> 01:39:36.279 out of here, you know what I'm saying. So I 1954 01:39:36.479 --> 01:39:41.880 was there in Cayuga. He walking around with his shirt tied. 1955 01:39:43.560 --> 01:39:48.800 He got lipstick somehow. It's cool, right, couldn't remember. I 1956 01:39:48.840 --> 01:39:51.039 wasn't there for long, so I never you know, And 1957 01:39:51.319 --> 01:39:53.960 he got a girl for he got a boyfriend, he 1958 01:39:54.039 --> 01:39:54.960 got a whole boyfriend. 1959 01:39:55.600 --> 01:39:59.319 I'm north. And he walked and talked like a girl. 1960 01:39:59.399 --> 01:40:01.880 So I'm b cause it's girls in there, but you know, 1961 01:40:02.000 --> 01:40:04.359 you know it's a guy. But I wasn't really, he 1962 01:40:04.479 --> 01:40:07.279 wasn't clear with sexuality and all that back then. This 1963 01:40:07.479 --> 01:40:10.840 is twenty years ago. This is this is actually twenty 1964 01:40:10.920 --> 01:40:17.479 years ago. So we've come so far in the world 1965 01:40:17.600 --> 01:40:19.560 now where a lot of things is more normal. You 1966 01:40:19.720 --> 01:40:21.560 see it more, you know what I mean. Like I 1967 01:40:21.600 --> 01:40:23.359 didn't know there was a gay parade back then, Like 1968 01:40:23.399 --> 01:40:29.239 I didn't know nothing about that. Like back then when 1969 01:40:29.279 --> 01:40:32.760 I said, I'm like, what is that? You know what 1970 01:40:32.800 --> 01:40:35.039 I mean? Like I didn't see it before. 1971 01:40:35.199 --> 01:40:39.479 But fine, he was what they called him whatever. When 1972 01:40:39.520 --> 01:40:43.560 I went to Butler, I was there for maybe six 1973 01:40:43.720 --> 01:40:47.640 seven months, and he comes down. 1974 01:40:47.520 --> 01:40:48.479 And he's a guy. 1975 01:40:50.920 --> 01:40:55.880 Walking around thoug doubt no lipstick, his shirt ain't got 1976 01:40:55.920 --> 01:40:57.239 the knot in the front no more. 1977 01:40:58.239 --> 01:41:03.399 And I'm looking at him like he ready to go home. 1978 01:41:03.479 --> 01:41:06.199 That's the same nigga b his girl. 1979 01:41:06.119 --> 01:41:10.000 Coming to visit him on the floor. He got a wife, whatever, 1980 01:41:10.159 --> 01:41:13.439 girl whatever, she's coming to visit him. And I'm like, 1981 01:41:14.279 --> 01:41:16.800 and so the chatter came around, Yeah, nah, he was 1982 01:41:16.840 --> 01:41:19.479 a girl up north. He going home, you know, he 1983 01:41:19.560 --> 01:41:22.359 got a family going back. And I'm just like, Yo's 1984 01:41:22.600 --> 01:41:25.560 I had never seen anything like that before. It was 1985 01:41:25.640 --> 01:41:28.600 one of the wildest things I saw fights, I saw 1986 01:41:28.720 --> 01:41:29.319 types of shit. 1987 01:41:29.640 --> 01:41:30.399 I saw a dude. 1988 01:41:31.479 --> 01:41:34.319 I saw a CEO Mason a dude, and the dude 1989 01:41:34.399 --> 01:41:37.199 got the ben with his clothes. He caught the mace 1990 01:41:37.319 --> 01:41:40.439 with the ben and put the CEO with it in 1991 01:41:40.560 --> 01:41:43.399 the midst of him him hitting them. He's beating them 1992 01:41:43.479 --> 01:41:45.479 up in the midst of the CEO trying to Mason, 1993 01:41:45.880 --> 01:41:48.640 he's catching the mace in the bin and hitting the 1994 01:41:48.720 --> 01:41:50.800 CEO with the ship and beating them with the fucking 1995 01:41:50.920 --> 01:41:53.479 ben I'm like, yo, where do you find how do 1996 01:41:53.520 --> 01:41:54.600 you figure. 1997 01:41:54.279 --> 01:41:57.560 Out how to do that? So I saw all types 1998 01:41:57.600 --> 01:42:01.000 of shit, but that was one of the craziest things. Yeah, 1999 01:42:01.520 --> 01:42:01.880 I mean that. 2000 01:42:02.119 --> 01:42:04.119 I mean, I know it doesn't happen much on records 2001 01:42:04.119 --> 01:42:06.920 because again it's a short time, but I definitely seen 2002 01:42:06.960 --> 01:42:08.960 that on records too, Like again the lipstick with the 2003 01:42:09.159 --> 01:42:11.039 with the with the kool aid, and then they will 2004 01:42:11.079 --> 01:42:12.960 get the mops and they'll die the mops with the 2005 01:42:13.000 --> 01:42:14.960 same kool aid and wear the mops on their head. 2006 01:42:15.000 --> 01:42:18.479 Let's hair nuts instead, ass like it is wild man, 2007 01:42:18.680 --> 01:42:22.279 I watch. That's a mental ship. 2008 01:42:23.279 --> 01:42:25.560 It's it's it's a mental ship and a survival ship. 2009 01:42:25.880 --> 01:42:28.399 Like some people, some people like get into that space 2010 01:42:28.439 --> 01:42:30.680 and they just to survive, Like for instance, the gentleman 2011 01:42:30.720 --> 01:42:35.159 that you talk about, like he had to survive some way, 2012 01:42:35.279 --> 01:42:37.880 some way, somehow, So he became a chick in there, 2013 01:42:38.359 --> 01:42:40.840 right that was his thing. And when he's going to 2014 01:42:40.880 --> 01:42:43.239 see his actually girl, actual girl, he's looking like any 2015 01:42:43.279 --> 01:42:45.279 one of us on this couch, you know what I'm saying. 2016 01:42:45.319 --> 01:42:47.560 So it's like I think it's a matter of survival 2017 01:42:47.640 --> 01:42:50.039 for them, like and it is mental as well, because 2018 01:42:50.319 --> 01:42:52.560 I ain't gonna hold you. I'd rather get my ass 2019 01:42:52.640 --> 01:42:55.479 beat pause every day, like fighting wise, than to have 2020 01:42:55.600 --> 01:42:57.359 to deal with that kind of ship. 2021 01:42:57.439 --> 01:43:01.760 Imagine at that thirty two, that dude that was in 2022 01:43:01.800 --> 01:43:04.119 there for thirty two years. I seen her. I seen 2023 01:43:04.159 --> 01:43:07.319 a I seen a video of this old dude. He 2024 01:43:07.520 --> 01:43:09.960 was like, Yo, they put me in a cell. And 2025 01:43:10.079 --> 01:43:14.800 this dude was like, Yo, I gotta fuck something. The 2026 01:43:14.960 --> 01:43:16.880 dude that he was in the cell, it was like, Yo, 2027 01:43:17.920 --> 01:43:20.800 I'm tired of fucking around. I gotta funck something. 2028 01:43:21.239 --> 01:43:23.399 Oh yeah, And the dude was sitting there just he 2029 01:43:23.560 --> 01:43:24.840 was looking like a crack and two he was just 2030 01:43:24.920 --> 01:43:26.520 looking like what you mean. 2031 01:43:31.319 --> 01:43:33.680 Yo. You could tell he had a hard time in there. Man. 2032 01:43:33.720 --> 01:43:35.359 He said he cut the dude up or whatever. But 2033 01:43:35.479 --> 01:43:38.399 I was like, yeah, I don't know if that's I 2034 01:43:38.439 --> 01:43:40.439 don't know about that. I don't know about that. 2035 01:43:43.239 --> 01:43:49.000 Then you're in there and these dudes be built of stone. 2036 01:43:49.800 --> 01:43:52.920 They've been doing nothing but push ups for thirty years. 2037 01:43:54.000 --> 01:43:56.479 What are you gonna do with this nigga? What are 2038 01:43:56.479 --> 01:44:05.520 you gonna do? Calisthetics some sneakers. Listen, listen, take myself. 2039 01:44:05.800 --> 01:44:08.199 Let me clear this ship up right now. I'm ready. 2040 01:44:09.279 --> 01:44:12.840 If I felt tonight, if I felt if I felt 2041 01:44:12.960 --> 01:44:15.560 like I could not fight the nigga that was asked 2042 01:44:15.600 --> 01:44:17.239 me for my sniggers, I did give up the sneakers. 2043 01:44:17.279 --> 01:44:18.359 I ain't gonna hold you. I'm not. 2044 01:44:18.720 --> 01:44:23.119 I'm not one of those stupid niggas, right, So if 2045 01:44:23.159 --> 01:44:25.319 it was multiple niggas, I'm like, yo, look it's not 2046 01:44:25.760 --> 01:44:27.439 it's here. I want to do my time and get 2047 01:44:27.479 --> 01:44:27.960 the funk out. 2048 01:44:28.079 --> 01:44:28.680 No, no, no, no, no no. 2049 01:44:30.479 --> 01:44:32.640 It's like it's like the conversation you have with women 2050 01:44:33.119 --> 01:44:35.359 you gotta leave with empathy. Don't ever just give up 2051 01:44:35.399 --> 01:44:39.520 your sneakers. Nah that so you know you're not gonna win, 2052 01:44:40.039 --> 01:44:43.760 but make it look like you kind of took it, 2053 01:44:44.199 --> 01:44:46.600 that you just gave it. No, I get what you're saying, 2054 01:44:46.640 --> 01:44:48.479 like you're gonna work for it, but I'm not gonna. 2055 01:44:48.720 --> 01:44:51.159 I'm not going tooth and nail for these ships. 2056 01:44:51.239 --> 01:44:54.039 Like I'm not just sneakersh I'm not you give up 2057 01:44:54.039 --> 01:44:56.680 the sneakers your booty next Nah that right there, that 2058 01:44:56.800 --> 01:44:58.000 right there, I'm gonna die on. 2059 01:44:58.159 --> 01:45:00.960 I'm gonna die on that. You're not You're not that 2060 01:45:01.159 --> 01:45:03.479 you're not doing to me like I won't let women 2061 01:45:03.880 --> 01:45:04.600 eat my ass. 2062 01:45:05.600 --> 01:45:09.319 Women they're not strong to you, well bigger than you. 2063 01:45:11.119 --> 01:45:16.600 But either way, either way, no, bro, that ship, that 2064 01:45:16.640 --> 01:45:22.319 ship can't happen. That can't happen like I That's what 2065 01:45:22.319 --> 01:45:29.159 I'm saying. I'm good with. They been like six of 2066 01:45:29.279 --> 01:45:30.600 them dead. 2067 01:45:30.960 --> 01:45:35.399 They once you fool you nothing you could do the 2068 01:45:35.560 --> 01:45:38.359 way a nigga is gonna fuck me as if he's 2069 01:45:38.479 --> 01:45:39.640 into necrophilia. 2070 01:45:40.000 --> 01:45:42.560 I have to be dead. I have to be dead. 2071 01:45:42.680 --> 01:45:45.439 They're gonna be sucking a corpse. I have to be dead. 2072 01:45:46.319 --> 01:45:49.680 There's no way. Did you did you have any did 2073 01:45:49.760 --> 01:45:52.159 you like get magazines and stuff like that? Was no, 2074 01:45:52.439 --> 01:45:54.840 Actually I didn't. I didn't. I didn't even I didn't 2075 01:45:54.840 --> 01:45:56.920 even jernk Off nothing, none of that was I did 2076 01:45:57.039 --> 01:46:01.560 none of that. I just why nigga. 2077 01:46:02.000 --> 01:46:04.439 I first of all, I didn't know they had buttman 2078 01:46:04.560 --> 01:46:06.640 magazines and like that. You see the butt Man magazine. 2079 01:46:06.760 --> 01:46:10.079 Never heard of that. Oh, man, b U T T 2080 01:46:10.359 --> 01:46:11.439 M A N google it. 2081 01:46:13.000 --> 01:46:18.479 They let those magazines into the joint penthouse. They might 2082 01:46:18.600 --> 01:46:21.319 rip out the naked pictures, but the stories is there. 2083 01:46:22.359 --> 01:46:25.239 I started reading the stories. Put up my sheet. 2084 01:46:26.239 --> 01:46:29.359 I'm in there, Bro, what imagine crazy? 2085 01:46:29.680 --> 01:46:32.399 But that's good. You gotta imagination because you already know 2086 01:46:32.439 --> 01:46:34.479 where to feel like. Imagine some of the brothers who 2087 01:46:34.520 --> 01:46:35.039 went there, who. 2088 01:46:35.039 --> 01:46:39.399 Never had never never know what it feels like, never 2089 01:46:39.520 --> 01:46:41.359 had nothing. That means you don't know what you're missing. 2090 01:46:41.720 --> 01:46:46.079 God damn, you don't know what you're missing. Going crazy? 2091 01:46:46.359 --> 01:46:51.119 Oh the butt man, I can't see the thing. Put 2092 01:46:51.159 --> 01:46:54.319 it up there. Imagine getting that. You've been in jail 2093 01:46:54.359 --> 01:46:56.399 for three years. Bro. 2094 01:46:56.600 --> 01:46:59.920 It's people that had whole libraries of buttman magazines. 2095 01:47:00.279 --> 01:47:04.319 I was so horny. I was my mother. Got man's 2096 01:47:04.359 --> 01:47:07.600 up now, nigga. I want a butt man right now. 2097 01:47:07.680 --> 01:47:08.720 Somebody send me a butt man. 2098 01:47:09.079 --> 01:47:11.359 I want a butt man just for the culture. Send 2099 01:47:11.399 --> 01:47:14.479 the butt man to the green similar to the green 2100 01:47:14.560 --> 01:47:21.119 room too, y'all for real? Uh yo, just telling you purposes, 2101 01:47:22.680 --> 01:47:28.159 all right, BRO? I called my mother, man, how old 2102 01:47:28.199 --> 01:47:29.800 is she? She might have been fifty five or something 2103 01:47:29.880 --> 01:47:32.119 like that at the time. I need you to do 2104 01:47:32.239 --> 01:47:32.600 me a favor. 2105 01:47:32.640 --> 01:47:34.880 I need you to go to the magazine store on 2106 01:47:35.079 --> 01:47:40.319 Flatbush and Bergen get me butt man, episode seventy four. 2107 01:47:40.880 --> 01:47:45.319 It just came out. Sent my mom's to the store 2108 01:47:45.399 --> 01:47:47.800 to get yo. Can you yo? How horny you gotta 2109 01:47:47.840 --> 01:47:50.760 be to do that? Bro? You gotta be ultra horned? 2110 01:47:50.840 --> 01:47:51.680 How old you gotta be? 2111 01:47:51.760 --> 01:47:51.840 There? 2112 01:47:51.920 --> 01:47:56.199 I was a monster viagua. My mother is afrocentric. She 2113 01:47:56.319 --> 01:48:02.279 wears can take off and she's gonna get But then 2114 01:48:02.359 --> 01:48:07.079 you sing your mother to the magazine stop man, my 2115 01:48:07.760 --> 01:48:09.479 my thing? What that is? 2116 01:48:10.039 --> 01:48:12.600 I want to know what the journey was like for her, 2117 01:48:12.720 --> 01:48:14.239 like the mindset that she had to get in when 2118 01:48:14.279 --> 01:48:16.760 she was ready to go do it, walking in there 2119 01:48:17.840 --> 01:48:18.520 asking for it. 2120 01:48:18.680 --> 01:48:20.840 That's my baby, that's from my baby. Knew I was 2121 01:48:20.880 --> 01:48:22.680 fucked up. But my mother knows. She knows. 2122 01:48:22.760 --> 01:48:25.319 My mother has caught me eating pussy before when I 2123 01:48:25.399 --> 01:48:28.159 was a young child. She my mother actually had to 2124 01:48:28.239 --> 01:48:31.119 call me like, yo, I need you to tell her 2125 01:48:31.239 --> 01:48:37.720 not to make those kinds of screamings. 2126 01:48:37.840 --> 01:48:39.560 My mom watched me build a glory hole in the 2127 01:48:39.600 --> 01:48:45.359 front yard and yeah, to be to play. My mother 2128 01:48:45.479 --> 01:48:45.880 knows me. 2129 01:48:46.039 --> 01:48:47.760 My mom came in here and seen the dil though, 2130 01:48:47.880 --> 01:48:52.079 this big on the fucking counter once and I was 2131 01:48:52.159 --> 01:48:54.159 just like, so she said, hey, as long as y'all 2132 01:48:54.199 --> 01:48:54.680 having fun. 2133 01:48:55.279 --> 01:48:58.319 So she I love that, you know what I mean. 2134 01:48:58.479 --> 01:48:58.920 That's dope. 2135 01:49:00.039 --> 01:49:02.640 Shit started from when I was young, and you know, 2136 01:49:02.680 --> 01:49:04.119 you used to smoke in your room and try to 2137 01:49:04.159 --> 01:49:05.600 hide and you put the towels on the door. One 2138 01:49:05.680 --> 01:49:07.920 day she just forced her way in and give me 2139 01:49:08.000 --> 01:49:09.640 something m and I was like. 2140 01:49:11.119 --> 01:49:13.520 Yeah, one of those cool mobs you don't hell know. 2141 01:49:13.720 --> 01:49:18.199 But she she she's adaptive because she knew the streets 2142 01:49:18.319 --> 01:49:20.239 was right there, right, because you could have been doing 2143 01:49:20.279 --> 01:49:21.720 it out there, but you're doing it. She knew the 2144 01:49:21.720 --> 01:49:24.039 streets was right there, and the streets I'm no avenue, 2145 01:49:24.760 --> 01:49:27.279 this is real and they rock, you know what I mean. 2146 01:49:27.439 --> 01:49:30.319 So she was like, I'd rather you right here, go 2147 01:49:30.399 --> 01:49:36.039 ahead and do what you're doing. So boom I do. 2148 01:49:36.199 --> 01:49:40.039 I'm gonna ask you a question and harder sore fashion. Right. Uh, 2149 01:49:40.720 --> 01:49:43.279 this has been a great episode. I appreciate it. I've 2150 01:49:43.319 --> 01:49:46.079 already asked you once. So I want you to run 2151 01:49:46.239 --> 01:49:50.760 me through your hearts and your sauces before we leave, 2152 01:49:51.319 --> 01:49:52.960 all right, give you guys. 2153 01:49:52.760 --> 01:49:56.560 A couple of seconds to think things that make you 2154 01:49:56.680 --> 01:49:59.479 hard versus things that make you soft. We're gonna start 2155 01:49:59.520 --> 01:50:01.960 with the heart fuzzy, you got something something and hold 2156 01:50:01.960 --> 01:50:05.359 on fuzz What hard things that you like? 2157 01:50:05.479 --> 01:50:09.000 Oh? Thank the description big foot? 2158 01:50:10.399 --> 01:50:14.039 Things men like in the bedroom, something like earlier you said, 2159 01:50:14.079 --> 01:50:15.640 you know, I like chest kisses or something like that. 2160 01:50:15.760 --> 01:50:19.439 But make it more personal, right, because we've had everything. 2161 01:50:19.479 --> 01:50:21.159 I've been doing the show for two three years now. 2162 01:50:21.560 --> 01:50:25.800 We've had everything from riding to spit or whatever. Something 2163 01:50:25.880 --> 01:50:28.000 that's personal to you that somebody out. 2164 01:50:27.880 --> 01:50:31.680 There can say, Yo, I'm glad it's not just me. 2165 01:50:32.840 --> 01:50:36.840 I like that shit. You know what I'm saying. Things 2166 01:50:37.640 --> 01:50:42.239 men like in the bedroom, things that make you hard 2167 01:50:42.760 --> 01:50:44.239 far as you go first, glad of you. 2168 01:50:44.399 --> 01:50:49.640 Next, damn yeah, too much of them, but on a 2169 01:50:51.920 --> 01:50:57.720 when they're not too nasty, but calm shit. I like 2170 01:50:57.800 --> 01:51:01.520 spitting on, spitting in the bitch mouth, fucking like choker 2171 01:51:01.640 --> 01:51:05.039 spinning her mouth. Wow, hod I like swallow that ship. 2172 01:51:06.520 --> 01:51:09.079 Yeah you ever had a spit back at you? Yeah? 2173 01:51:09.399 --> 01:51:12.920 You cool? The bitch like that? Yet? Why nothing? So 2174 01:51:13.079 --> 01:51:20.159 you are you? Are you big on peeing on them? Peeing? Man? 2175 01:51:20.279 --> 01:51:22.079 But the bitch squirred on me enough time so that 2176 01:51:22.119 --> 01:51:24.399 I think that's pissed anyway you drink it. 2177 01:51:24.439 --> 01:51:27.359 Then when you drink, drink I opened my mouth twice 2178 01:51:27.439 --> 01:51:30.760 three times, never swallowed, been nasty with it. But when 2179 01:51:30.760 --> 01:51:33.279 you when you're drinking a little too much too like 2180 01:51:33.439 --> 01:51:37.319 after the second third night, it be this pisch too 2181 01:51:37.479 --> 01:51:41.359 on a load, piss on the whole. She like it 2182 01:51:41.439 --> 01:51:42.840 going to shallow come back and. 2183 01:51:42.920 --> 01:51:49.239 Said when he not not tist hit that pis. If 2184 01:51:49.279 --> 01:51:55.319 you drinking after the third night, you just come too drunk. 2185 01:51:55.439 --> 01:52:01.000 You have went through, just got it you in one 2186 01:52:01.079 --> 01:52:04.279 no more. You just if she's still with it, you're like, 2187 01:52:04.359 --> 01:52:06.039 oh you want to keep going? 2188 01:52:06.359 --> 01:52:14.000 Hold this hol that hold ya yo? Do they be 2189 01:52:14.079 --> 01:52:17.800 good with that? Some of them like it? What about 2190 01:52:17.800 --> 01:52:18.239 the other. 2191 01:52:20.039 --> 01:52:20.239 Man? 2192 01:52:20.319 --> 01:52:26.199 What about they be mad? But it is what the 2193 01:52:27.199 --> 01:52:30.399 I told her, I had too much liquor. Sorry, So yeah, 2194 01:52:30.479 --> 01:52:33.800 that's it. Oops my bad, Yeah, oops, that must be 2195 01:52:33.880 --> 01:52:34.439 it bad. 2196 01:52:34.520 --> 01:52:38.359 It's crazy, claanny, help me out, Help me out, you 2197 01:52:38.439 --> 01:52:41.359 asked the question. I don't know. 2198 01:52:41.399 --> 01:52:42.800 I never heard what he said. I didn't hear what 2199 01:52:42.880 --> 01:52:46.680 he said. Oh ship, things men like in the bedroom. 2200 01:52:47.119 --> 01:52:50.760 Things that make you hard, right, oh for me, things 2201 01:52:50.800 --> 01:52:54.239 that make me hard, definitely I like a bush. 2202 01:52:55.279 --> 01:52:55.560 Wow. 2203 01:52:55.840 --> 01:52:59.399 I like a bush because of the and the pheromones 2204 01:52:59.439 --> 01:53:01.880 that it hold and just the wafts of it coming 2205 01:53:01.960 --> 01:53:08.199 to me. That ship drives me insane, bro, No, insane, insane. 2206 01:53:07.920 --> 01:53:10.840 Big bush. Like, do you like the arm here too? 2207 01:53:11.119 --> 01:53:11.159 No? 2208 01:53:11.560 --> 01:53:14.119 Just I'm not eating on the armor eating pussy. So 2209 01:53:15.039 --> 01:53:20.279 like that ship right there, everything everything, especially like if 2210 01:53:20.359 --> 01:53:24.159 you kind of like bikini cut your ship, like and 2211 01:53:24.239 --> 01:53:26.279 it's just just the triangle. 2212 01:53:29.439 --> 01:53:34.119 Take it. God, bro, you know what, I ain't mad 2213 01:53:34.159 --> 01:53:39.000 at it. Bro. A nice twist here too, bitch, you 2214 01:53:39.079 --> 01:53:39.920 know you know what it is. 2215 01:53:40.560 --> 01:53:42.640 I mean, you know what it is like if I'm 2216 01:53:43.159 --> 01:53:46.239 if we're watching TV or whatever, even if we already 2217 01:53:46.319 --> 01:53:49.119 have sex already. Right, my hand is down there and 2218 01:53:49.239 --> 01:53:52.039 I'm like rubbing. I'm doing like this with the hands 2219 01:53:52.079 --> 01:53:55.359 in between that feeling and it has to be asked 2220 01:53:55.359 --> 01:53:57.159 to be black women for the most part, because they 2221 01:53:57.199 --> 01:54:01.479 have it's more coarse. That ship feels amazing between my fingers, man, 2222 01:54:01.560 --> 01:54:05.279 and again just knowing I could just pick my hand 2223 01:54:05.359 --> 01:54:06.239 up and do this real quirt. 2224 01:54:06.920 --> 01:54:15.840 Yeah, discing in the building. Oh my god, yeah, something 2225 01:54:15.880 --> 01:54:18.479 like that. I love It's perfect. I love that. That's 2226 01:54:18.640 --> 01:54:20.159 just that's that is that's. 2227 01:54:20.039 --> 01:54:23.600 A good questions like the screen man and also women, 2228 01:54:24.600 --> 01:54:28.199 you know, it's really good for vagina health when you 2229 01:54:28.319 --> 01:54:30.560 have the bush, believe it or not. When you're taking 2230 01:54:30.600 --> 01:54:33.840 the hair off, you're letting your you're letting in more 2231 01:54:33.920 --> 01:54:38.319 bacteria that's bad for your inside. The bush actually helps 2232 01:54:38.439 --> 01:54:39.079 keep it out. 2233 01:54:39.560 --> 01:54:41.840 So I just said that a fact. It's like a 2234 01:54:42.840 --> 01:54:46.760 screen door. I've heard different. I've heard that the bush 2235 01:54:46.920 --> 01:54:50.479 actually collects bacteria. I'm not sure, but where is it going? 2236 01:54:50.520 --> 01:54:52.800 It's staying in the bush. It's not going inside. Right. 2237 01:54:53.079 --> 01:54:55.159 The collect the collection of the bactery that is collecting 2238 01:54:55.359 --> 01:54:57.640 is keeping it from going in the pussy. You know 2239 01:54:57.720 --> 01:55:00.359 what I'm saying. Think about think about nose heres. Here 2240 01:55:00.479 --> 01:55:03.119 is your eyelashes. It's keeping things out. It's there for 2241 01:55:03.199 --> 01:55:06.359 a reason. Doctor G just saying, so what's the beer 2242 01:55:06.439 --> 01:55:10.359 there for the flavor saving? You know when you're actually 2243 01:55:10.439 --> 01:55:12.720 down there dripping, you know, they have. 2244 01:55:12.760 --> 01:55:21.079 A walk down the block and you oh that's up. 2245 01:55:24.520 --> 01:55:29.159 Now. Men don't really like to talk about things we 2246 01:55:29.199 --> 01:55:33.640 don't like. In my in my uh experience, I kind 2247 01:55:33.640 --> 01:55:35.560 of just deal with things I don't like. I just 2248 01:55:35.600 --> 01:55:37.479 be like, all right, it's got to deal with and 2249 01:55:37.640 --> 01:55:38.119 it's cold. 2250 01:55:38.439 --> 01:55:39.439 It's now. 2251 01:55:39.479 --> 01:55:41.920 They use all types of words for men having boundaries, 2252 01:55:42.600 --> 01:55:44.960 men having preferences. 2253 01:55:45.159 --> 01:55:50.439 The sassy it's the sassy Olympics. It's what they're saying. 2254 01:55:51.960 --> 01:55:53.479 Well, I'm gonna ask you about some things that you 2255 01:55:53.560 --> 01:55:58.000 might not like, all right, things men don't like in 2256 01:55:58.159 --> 01:56:03.560 the bedroom again, be specific, go to whatever I remember. 2257 01:56:03.680 --> 01:56:06.159 And I always used this example. I said, I didn't 2258 01:56:06.279 --> 01:56:10.239 like reverse colgirl. You turn around, you're looking that way. 2259 01:56:10.800 --> 01:56:14.239 You're just bouncing in my hands. I can't what am 2260 01:56:14.279 --> 01:56:16.359 I doing here. I'm just just the middle of nowhere, 2261 01:56:16.479 --> 01:56:19.640 just getting bounced on. I need me as a dominant. 2262 01:56:20.359 --> 01:56:23.119 I need to feel that i'm doing something. So just 2263 01:56:23.239 --> 01:56:25.199 having you sitting there and didn't really do it for 2264 01:56:25.319 --> 01:56:29.119 me at the time. Now my opinion that's changed. Shout 2265 01:56:29.159 --> 01:56:34.800 out to wife, she's you're a OK by me. But 2266 01:56:35.640 --> 01:56:37.199 that was one of my examples of things that I 2267 01:56:37.319 --> 01:56:40.079 didn't like about sex, things you know, that made me 2268 01:56:40.239 --> 01:56:46.199 soft fus, it's on you. Things men don't like in 2269 01:56:46.319 --> 01:56:48.039 the bedroom, things that. 2270 01:56:48.199 --> 01:56:48.520 Make you. 2271 01:56:50.000 --> 01:56:56.640 It's two things I say, two things. One don't bite 2272 01:56:56.760 --> 01:56:59.439 my ship to stop it from moving in your throat 2273 01:57:01.479 --> 01:57:04.479 like and the bitch bite on your ship because you're 2274 01:57:04.479 --> 01:57:06.399 too far in the back of their throat. Don't stop 2275 01:57:06.479 --> 01:57:09.359 doing that, just like put your hand up, don't use 2276 01:57:09.399 --> 01:57:12.760 your teeth, no teeth, no teeth, put your hand on 2277 01:57:12.880 --> 01:57:16.760 my stomach. Push you off, like stop going too far. 2278 01:57:16.920 --> 01:57:18.800 But when they do that, like try to block with 2279 01:57:19.439 --> 01:57:21.560 no stop that. You hang out with this guy and 2280 01:57:22.720 --> 01:57:24.720 I don't like I don't like the guy. I don't 2281 01:57:24.800 --> 01:57:29.319 like throw up bitches. I had to throw up a lot. 2282 01:57:29.760 --> 01:57:33.880 I don't like them. You give it, you give it 2283 01:57:33.960 --> 01:57:34.880 on context clues. 2284 01:57:35.920 --> 01:57:39.920 What if you're too far in there? So just they 2285 01:57:40.000 --> 01:57:42.119 got to push their hands is free? You ain't they 2286 01:57:42.119 --> 01:57:42.920 ain't even locked up. 2287 01:57:43.560 --> 01:57:46.239 Yeah, you be gunning throat down, you be gunning? What's up? 2288 01:57:48.439 --> 01:57:53.439 You be gunning throat? Bro just throat. 2289 01:57:53.960 --> 01:57:57.880 They gotta bite you. They throwing up that gets your 2290 01:57:58.000 --> 01:57:58.800 gunning throat. 2291 01:57:59.319 --> 01:58:01.439 No, it's part of that. That's what they do. 2292 01:58:02.880 --> 01:58:07.319 It's what they do. They want to I guess understanding. 2293 01:58:07.359 --> 01:58:13.000 They tolerance and ship. So you just you enjoying what's 2294 01:58:13.039 --> 01:58:15.199 going on. But end of the day, it's like, come on, 2295 01:58:15.399 --> 01:58:17.079 so don't start something. 2296 01:58:17.279 --> 01:58:23.039 Then you doing on ship, don't bike ship, don't start 2297 01:58:23.359 --> 01:58:27.039 And you're like, just if you really with it, just 2298 01:58:28.119 --> 01:58:31.159 be with it. That should be it. If you really 2299 01:58:31.199 --> 01:58:33.239 with it, be with it because that comes with all 2300 01:58:33.319 --> 01:58:43.159 kind of ship. Yeah, thats crazy in prison. I know 2301 01:58:43.279 --> 01:58:48.159 a crazy nigga when I see it, that's crazy. Fuss. 2302 01:58:48.399 --> 01:58:51.039 What's up? God? Thank you my brother. I appreciate it. Man, 2303 01:58:51.359 --> 01:58:52.399 it's all good. Nice to meet. 2304 01:58:52.439 --> 01:58:55.520 You can't sorry before we finished. You know, my condonuces 2305 01:58:55.600 --> 01:58:57.279 to the loss in your family and all of that ship. 2306 01:58:57.880 --> 01:58:59.880 You can't say that earlier. But it's wont that you 2307 01:59:00.039 --> 01:59:01.079 want to throw that in there too. 2308 01:59:01.399 --> 01:59:04.840 I really do appreciate that little. I really do appreciate that. 2309 01:59:05.000 --> 01:59:08.119 But you know what I'm saying, when you got somebody 2310 01:59:08.159 --> 01:59:13.800 in your life that matters, the memory is there. She's 2311 01:59:13.800 --> 01:59:15.600 gating me so many gems. I wouldn't be here doing 2312 01:59:15.640 --> 01:59:18.199 the show if it wasn't for us. That's a whole 2313 01:59:18.239 --> 01:59:19.239 different story, no problem. 2314 01:59:19.319 --> 01:59:20.119 But Gladdy. 2315 01:59:23.319 --> 01:59:28.479 Myself is definitely it's just crazy. It's definitely reverse cowgirl 2316 01:59:28.520 --> 01:59:31.199 for me, no way. Yeah, because I kind of like 2317 01:59:31.520 --> 01:59:35.960 I have an upward curve. So when that ship hurts 2318 01:59:36.079 --> 01:59:40.159 and be hard like this fucking might stand like that 2319 01:59:40.239 --> 01:59:42.880 ship hurts like a motherfucker because they like to lean 2320 01:59:42.960 --> 01:59:45.079 forward when they're doing it right now, when they lean 2321 01:59:45.239 --> 01:59:48.119 back and they're doing it, that's different. I like that, 2322 01:59:48.319 --> 01:59:50.079 but I also like to see the ass. So when 2323 01:59:50.119 --> 01:59:51.880 they lean forward, it looks good, but it just doesn't 2324 01:59:51.880 --> 01:59:52.319 feel great. 2325 01:59:52.680 --> 01:59:56.600 That always, because right here the joint, I don't like that. 2326 01:59:56.720 --> 02:00:00.439 I feel like I gotta get up. That's one thing. Man. 2327 02:00:00.960 --> 02:00:04.560 The straight guys, no curve. You could do that all day. 2328 02:00:04.560 --> 02:00:06.880 You do whatever you want. I ain't got no I 2329 02:00:06.880 --> 02:00:08.720 ain't got no no no, what do you call it? 2330 02:00:08.800 --> 02:00:11.800 No handicap, hooks, I ain't got no handicap. You ain't 2331 02:00:11.800 --> 02:00:14.279 got to go a certain way. Hey, baby, I'm right 2332 02:00:14.319 --> 02:00:15.159 here with you. Okay. 2333 02:00:15.319 --> 02:00:17.800 So all y'all curved monsters, all you people out there 2334 02:00:17.840 --> 02:00:20.840 that just carve curve, you're missing out, all right. 2335 02:00:20.960 --> 02:00:26.600 A straight guy's got something to say with straight guys, 2336 02:00:26.680 --> 02:00:30.479 got something to say? Yeah, I got was like, word, 2337 02:00:34.399 --> 02:00:34.960 what's up there? 2338 02:00:35.039 --> 02:00:35.119 Bro? 2339 02:00:44.479 --> 02:00:45.279 We actually have. 2340 02:00:46.880 --> 02:00:49.960 From our nut Navy, and we never took one before. 2341 02:00:49.960 --> 02:00:53.079 I don't think they never took a saw from the navy. 2342 02:00:53.760 --> 02:00:54.840 Glad you're closer to the screen. 2343 02:00:54.880 --> 02:00:57.880 Can you see it? She said, Please stop automatically pulling. 2344 02:00:58.159 --> 02:01:01.920 He said that, Oh wait. 2345 02:01:02.359 --> 02:01:04.159 His name is Bo Okay, all right, I'm gonna read 2346 02:01:04.199 --> 02:01:08.560 it anyways, Please stop automatically pulling the foreskin back. Suck 2347 02:01:08.640 --> 02:01:11.319 on the deck a little, ease it back, then naturally 2348 02:01:11.399 --> 02:01:13.880 let it roll back on its own. Oh that makes sense. 2349 02:01:13.960 --> 02:01:18.119 I mean I'm circumcised, but that sounds like it makes sense. Yeah, 2350 02:01:18.279 --> 02:01:21.119 to those who not circumcised, that's probably a good thing 2351 02:01:21.239 --> 02:01:21.439 for you. 2352 02:01:22.039 --> 02:01:25.560 Wait, that's a thing. Who's not circumcised, it's probably a 2353 02:01:25.640 --> 02:01:28.399 thing for you. I didn't know that was a thing. 2354 02:01:29.520 --> 02:01:31.880 I thought the women were supposed to pull the ship back, 2355 02:01:32.600 --> 02:01:35.800 so you you have to let it roll back on 2356 02:01:36.000 --> 02:01:36.560 its own. 2357 02:01:37.720 --> 02:01:39.800 Wait, we jump in can I be heard on this 2358 02:01:40.439 --> 02:01:42.720 jump in here? But like, are you saying, don't pull 2359 02:01:42.760 --> 02:01:45.479 it back too fast? Like like, suck on a little bit, 2360 02:01:45.520 --> 02:01:47.159 warm it up, and then slide it back. That's what 2361 02:01:47.239 --> 02:01:47.720 I'm getting. 2362 02:01:48.079 --> 02:01:52.399 He's saying. Bitch is just coming in pulling it back Like, yeah, 2363 02:01:52.479 --> 02:01:55.439 let it ease back, he said. If you don't, it 2364 02:01:55.560 --> 02:02:01.159 can tear. Oh have mercy ship And with that, indeed 2365 02:02:01.239 --> 02:02:02.000 on that bro. 2366 02:02:02.720 --> 02:02:06.880 I would like to again thank our guests from the 2367 02:02:07.000 --> 02:02:09.920 green Room podcast, Gladdie and Fuds. 2368 02:02:10.079 --> 02:02:11.439 Tell them we can find you, glad. 2369 02:02:11.279 --> 02:02:14.279 Oh, you can find us at the green Room. Uh so, 2370 02:02:14.439 --> 02:02:18.279 it's th h X g R xx N R O 2371 02:02:18.720 --> 02:02:21.079 M on Instagram, everywhere. It's actually everywhere. You find us 2372 02:02:21.119 --> 02:02:27.079 on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, basically all of social media, and. 2373 02:02:27.119 --> 02:02:29.279 Actually have a really great podcast. I've seen the eclips 2374 02:02:29.319 --> 02:02:30.640 before I even knew who you guys were. 2375 02:02:31.039 --> 02:02:33.680 I appreciate fun. 2376 02:02:34.399 --> 02:02:36.720 Shout out to everybody in Brooklyn. Shout out to everybody. 2377 02:02:36.720 --> 02:02:39.800 Shout out to this podcast, Yo, facts hard or so. 2378 02:02:39.840 --> 02:02:41.640 If that's the name, I won't mess it up. Shout 2379 02:02:41.680 --> 02:02:43.399 out to the green Room. What he said, you can 2380 02:02:43.520 --> 02:02:46.560 link us all there. Shout out to everybody you know, 2381 02:02:47.520 --> 02:02:50.000 and on the on the actual Instagram you'll find all 2382 02:02:50.039 --> 02:02:51.479 the hopes and follow the from there. 2383 02:02:51.479 --> 02:02:54.039 That's right, and I will put it all into the description. 2384 02:02:54.640 --> 02:02:56.960 We got to get out of there. Thank y'all for 2385 02:02:57.079 --> 02:03:00.880 being patient with me. I used to with the gunshots. 2386 02:03:02.920 --> 02:03:11.720 It's the show. M hmmmmmmmm