Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question why you don't ever
Speaker 1: play with my nipples? I got nipples too. It's my
Speaker 1: turn to get tied up knocking handcufs though I got PTSD.
Speaker 2: Welcome the hardest soft where men speak. So hopefully somebody
Speaker 2: will understand.
Speaker 1: When you say freaky, What's what's freaky? What what do
Speaker 1: you mean by freaky? If I do this, You're not
Speaker 1: gonna tell your friends right.
Speaker 2: On all of it.
Speaker 1: Oh man, it's been a while since I've been sitting
Speaker 1: in this chair. For those of y'all that know, one
Speaker 1: episode a couple of weeks ago, things went dark for
Speaker 1: me and I just been kind of chilling, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I missed, y'all. I wanted to
Speaker 1: record Loon and Courtney recorded yesterday with brah Man from
Speaker 1: the Fifth Floor. That was a funny ass episode and
Speaker 1: they gave y'all a Patreon episode, so go check that out.
Speaker 1: But the day I recorded, I was in the studio
Speaker 1: and I had Gladdie here with us from the green
Speaker 1: Room podcast, and he he was here.
Speaker 2: That happened right kind of. It kind of got dark
Speaker 2: real quick, and it was wild.
Speaker 3: We were having a great time and then you know,
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, it was like yo, you know,
Speaker 3: you walked off and then you came back with the news.
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, Like you know, yeah, that's tough.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And apparently you were getting the information while you
Speaker 3: were shooting, So I mean it also goes to you
Speaker 3: being a professional and just holding it down for that time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like wild but you're trying to sit there quiet,
Speaker 1: and then you start thinking about all the things that's
Speaker 1: going on and this just starts hitting you. And I
Speaker 1: think dealing with that situation, it's funny because I don't
Speaker 1: think that I was personally sad at first. It's when
Speaker 1: you start soaking up everybody else's sadness, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You start seeing your moms and your cousin
Speaker 1: and your aunts and all of that, and shit just
Speaker 1: start hitting you. Like this ship is real as fuck.
Speaker 1: Oh shit, this is a final. Like it's a final.
Speaker 2: But either way, I wanted to record something. I miss y'all.
Speaker 2: I miss talking to y'all. So here we are back
Speaker 2: at the show.
Speaker 1: I am here with Gladdie and Fuss from the green
Speaker 1: Room podcast.
Speaker 3: Now I know what, thank you for having us, man,
Speaker 3: We really appreciate it.
Speaker 2: So I'm hearing. I'm hearing y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all, y'all talk about sex on y'all show, Like, y'all,
Speaker 1: this is what y'all do.
Speaker 2: They're just out here talking about sex.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we talk about you know, sex, mental health,
Speaker 3: and relationships and how all of them work together, you know,
Speaker 3: and we try to basically, we try to try to
Speaker 3: bridge the gap between the single man and single women
Speaker 3: because of what's happening right now. And I feel like
Speaker 3: those three things, mental health, sex and relationships, Like, I
Speaker 3: feel like those are the points that we need to
Speaker 3: hit and understand better for one another, to kind of
Speaker 3: like pudge that guy.
Speaker 1: And it's funny to me because it's like there's a
Speaker 1: lot of talking and a lot of people not listening.
Speaker 1: Everybody trying to prove their pacts, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It's like I'm talking about sex. Though.
Speaker 4: You got to get to it. You got to get
Speaker 4: to it. Ain't nothing to it but to do it, man,
Speaker 4: Like come on, man, all right, well.
Speaker 2: I do want to talk about man.
Speaker 1: You know, I wanted to have an episode when I
Speaker 1: was thinking about when I was on my hiatus, I
Speaker 1: really was thinking about purpose, and I was thinking about
Speaker 1: what this show means to me and the effect that
Speaker 1: it has on the world.
Speaker 2: And I'm glad that you're talking from a positive stance.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of there's a lot of noise out there, right,
Speaker 1: And I was like, yo, I don't want my show
Speaker 1: to contribute to the noise, right, I want to.
Speaker 2: Do good things. But first before we get into that. Now,
Speaker 2: Tiana's here.
Speaker 1: She came and she brought us a whole outline. So
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get into some things. Okay, just one here
Speaker 1: is she don't play. Want to go outside your outline
Speaker 1: for one second. I go outside your outline for one second.
Speaker 1: I did see on the internet a question h that
Speaker 1: I wanted to I wanted to bring to y'all. I
Speaker 1: want to know what y'all think.
Speaker 2: Sure. The question starts with, ladies, which do you prefer?
Speaker 2: Number One?
Speaker 1: A fun first date night You meet for dinner. He's
Speaker 1: a gentleman, pays for everything, and before the night is over,
Speaker 1: he shares with you that he would like to take
Speaker 1: you home after with him.
Speaker 2: All right, that's number one, let's get to it.
Speaker 1: Number two A fun day date full of events. He's
Speaker 1: a gentleman. You really get to know each other. He
Speaker 1: walks you home and calls you the next day to
Speaker 1: set another date. That's number two, right, Okay, which one
Speaker 1: do you think ladies prefer?
Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm gonna go with I think ladies prefer one
Speaker 3: for some reason.
Speaker 2: You think that they'd like to go home. I think so.
Speaker 3: And I say that because if the date is going
Speaker 3: that well, you're kind of thinking of that already. You know, like,
Speaker 3: I feel like women somewhat think like men, but they're
Speaker 3: not as vocal as men are when it comes to
Speaker 3: that kind of stuff, and I feel like they have
Speaker 3: those feelings.
Speaker 2: So the date is perfect, you know that first night
Speaker 2: can actually happen.
Speaker 3: But I'm a number two kind of guy, though, But
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let fun as answer.
Speaker 2: No. I want to hear that. What do you mean
Speaker 2: you're a number two? I'm a number two kind of guy.
Speaker 3: I want to I want to have a lit ass
Speaker 3: date and I'm gonna walk her to the crib. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna be the perfect gentleman, and then I'm gonna go
Speaker 3: home and I'll reach out to her in the next
Speaker 3: day or two. And you know, basically, I want to
Speaker 3: leave it with something to think about. You know what
Speaker 3: I'm saying, like.
Speaker 2: One and more one the more fuzz What did you
Speaker 2: think about this? One or two?
Speaker 4: In reality, twenty twenty five is one, it's one, there's one.
Speaker 2: Why do you say, why do you mention the year?
Speaker 4: Because because back nowadays you know too much. People's living
Speaker 4: off the moments. So, like you said, it was such
Speaker 4: a great date we went now, everything was so good.
Speaker 4: They just want that moment to continue. We're going home
Speaker 4: don't always mean you having sex. Going home. This mean
Speaker 4: y'all continue in these moments. Now, if it leads to sex,
Speaker 4: that's some mother shit.
Speaker 5: Bro.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, how many times you took
Speaker 1: a take home at the first day y'all ain't pop?
Speaker 2: Like, come on, we're being.
Speaker 1: Real here, No, no, no, no, I'm just saying, how many
Speaker 1: times after a good date?
Speaker 2: That means y'all been drinking y'all? She ate, she ates. Now.
Speaker 2: You know, if we're going pop skins, we know we're
Speaker 2: going pop skins. It's not even a.
Speaker 4: Real mission, a mission like you know some niggas like
Speaker 4: trying to figure out how they gonna get it.
Speaker 2: There's not a mission at that point. I'm not saying that.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying people like the moments, so they're gonna
Speaker 4: keep the moments going.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: But when in reality is really about the woman. So
Speaker 4: as the day going, I don't really care how fun
Speaker 4: and nice it is. You could actually judge the temperature
Speaker 4: and see I can slap these tonight or nah, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna make sure the I'm just.
Speaker 2: Guts. Yeah, I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1: One of the craziest things a woman ever said to me,
Speaker 1: bro I must have took on like two days. I
Speaker 1: wasn't pressed. She sent me a text and she was like, Yo,
Speaker 1: when are you gonna clap these cheeks?
Speaker 2: Facts? I said, what the see? I even know you
Speaker 2: talk like that, but.
Speaker 3: But listen, I'm hearing the top two freakiers professions are
Speaker 3: teachers and nurses.
Speaker 2: I'm hearing. I love it. I'm hearing. I'm hearing legend.
Speaker 2: I do I want to ask you something for us?
Speaker 2: You said nowadays?
Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty twenty five, HOLI I'm forty five, forty five.
Speaker 1: Do you date in your age?
Speaker 2: RM? Yes.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's a difference in dating at our
Speaker 1: age as you get older than it was when you
Speaker 1: were saying in your twenties early thirties.
Speaker 4: Of course it's spooky. I want to stay. I want
Speaker 4: to stay with my girl. I'm in a relationship, but
Speaker 4: I want to stay in the range. THEMB young Chicks
Speaker 4: is spooky. Man having dudes at the g building like
Speaker 4: after a while, crashing out like real like spooky.
Speaker 2: Yeah. The behavior, there's the behavior. The behavior.
Speaker 4: Yeah, some brothers don't really know how to understand that.
Speaker 4: They don't know how to well.
Speaker 1: What I meant was in this, I think that as
Speaker 1: women get older, they lose.
Speaker 2: Elasticity bags go to the gym. I'll keep it tight.
Speaker 2: What I was.
Speaker 1: Going to say is that they stay not scared of
Speaker 1: judgment anymore. They're not following social like, oh, you're supposed
Speaker 1: to be like this, We're they're supposed to be like that.
Speaker 1: They know what they want. They actually go for what
Speaker 1: they want. They don't even let you set the tone
Speaker 1: a lot to them, none of that shit. They be like,
Speaker 1: br I'm gonna fuck you. You ain't got the lie
Speaker 1: to me. Matter of fact, I'll pay for you. I'll
Speaker 1: send you home.
Speaker 2: It over. You know what I'm saying. I ain't come
Speaker 2: for the bullshit. Make sure that you got you need
Speaker 2: a red bull.
Speaker 1: You need something to need because I need you to
Speaker 1: have energy for what we got going on tonight.
Speaker 2: When when you're younger, the women want you to set
Speaker 2: the tone. They might want it, but they don't really
Speaker 2: offer it in that way. So often they're not that upfront.
Speaker 1: They got to try to check and make sure that
Speaker 1: they're in certain bounds before that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And so I think that when it comes to being older, yeah,
Speaker 1: that could change the way dating is. So it could
Speaker 1: change the answer from two to one. I personally think
Speaker 1: as you're younger, you show up on a date one too.
Speaker 1: You show up on a date wanting a guy to be.
Speaker 2: Nice facts, yeah for the next time, and.
Speaker 1: Take me home, walk me to my door, all that.
Speaker 1: But I think that so let me there's two things
Speaker 1: that I want to say with that. Not only as
Speaker 1: you get older you show up. Like, first of all,
Speaker 1: if you've been dating before the first day, you're on
Speaker 1: the phone, you sit in Texas, you're asking how you
Speaker 1: dare you get to know each other. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of wooing going on. The energy is building, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And I think that that's dope. Don't
Speaker 1: always as a guy, I used to just want to
Speaker 1: see you. I want to see you, especially dating batties.
Speaker 1: You want to see short you know you don't like
Speaker 1: you to scroll through the Instagram and all.
Speaker 2: That you like. N it's crazy, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying, Yo, she looks good. I can't
Speaker 1: see I can't wait to see you. So you're doing
Speaker 1: a lot of that. But you're dating a lot before
Speaker 1: the first date. By the time you get to the
Speaker 1: first day, if you know how to date, if you're
Speaker 1: not coming off thirsty, right, if you actually want to
Speaker 1: get to know this person. She's sitting there, both hands
Speaker 1: on her pussy under the table, like, Yo, I can't wait, Yo,
Speaker 1: can't wait.
Speaker 2: You're looking at you like her mind. She's like, sorry, sorry,
Speaker 2: my bad, Yes, my bad, But in her mind she
Speaker 2: already knows, like I want to see what it was.
Speaker 2: I was devastrating that. All right, we don't know that
Speaker 2: far agree, We're good? You good, I'm good. I was
Speaker 2: jinking the one I realized I gotta put this down.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I didn't even know, all right,
Speaker 1: so boom, So my thing is that So I think
Speaker 1: that you show up with with two, and then as
Speaker 1: the day goes forward, especially if you've been dating before
Speaker 1: the first day, it can change one. Like nah, you
Speaker 1: know in theory two fact if this shit is popping
Speaker 1: though one.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, And I think that makes sense.
Speaker 3: You go in with the mindset of two and hope
Speaker 3: for one. You shoe for the moment.
Speaker 2: But I always feel like that's something that you allow
Speaker 2: the woman.
Speaker 1: So I think that's a lot of young boys or
Speaker 1: a lot of guys that are not good at dating.
Speaker 1: They go in with one, right, they trying to fuck
Speaker 1: and you could you could smell it, like in their like, oh,
Speaker 1: this nigga is horny, Like you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like he's everything he's saying is leading in the wrong direction.
Speaker 2: He's not letting me.
Speaker 1: Let my god, I don't feel safe with it, Like
Speaker 1: it's too much, you know what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: got to give him another chance, wait till two three
Speaker 1: to get to know.
Speaker 2: As you get better at dating and as.
Speaker 1: You, like you said, intentional when you actually want to
Speaker 1: you're there, You're watching her eyes, you're listening to what
Speaker 1: she's saying, You're present in the moment.
Speaker 2: You're not like picking up your phone and whatever. Whatever.
Speaker 2: You're not talking about your baby mother.
Speaker 1: Don't ever bring up your baby mother on a date, fellas,
Speaker 1: come look at me.
Speaker 2: Don't bring up your baby. If she asks, you say no,
Speaker 2: we could co parent. Was great. I love my kids.
Speaker 2: Everything is straight. Move on, Move on, move on. I
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck what she did. I don't give
Speaker 2: a fuck. She just texts you she want a thousand
Speaker 2: dollars right now, move on. Don't bring up your baby
Speaker 2: mother joining the date. So y'aready man? Right? Do it?
Speaker 2: That's the first five minutes of the conversation. Go on date.
Speaker 2: You don't really want to be there? Could you want
Speaker 2: to be with baby mama.
Speaker 3: The longer you talk about your axe, your baby daddy,
Speaker 3: or your baby mom, the more of an opportunity for
Speaker 3: something bad to come up exactly or trigger her right
Speaker 3: the trigger because she might.
Speaker 2: Have a baby dad.
Speaker 3: And it's almost like going on a job interview for
Speaker 3: a new job and you start talking about your last job,
Speaker 3: but you speak too long and then they start hearing
Speaker 3: ship that you might have fucked up that or you
Speaker 3: start talking shit about the last job, and it's like
Speaker 3: you're gonna talk shit about the last job, but you're
Speaker 3: gonna do it whatever.
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly, and this is your new voice, so you
Speaker 1: can talk about exactly.
Speaker 2: But again, so I said, there's two things.
Speaker 1: But as you get older, I think that older women
Speaker 1: they don't have time for no bullshit. They kids they had,
Speaker 1: they don't have babysitters like that. The kids is with
Speaker 1: the babysitter. They don't waited long enough to come out. Bro,
Speaker 1: when you're gonna clasp these cheeks, boy, when you gonna
Speaker 1: clap these cheeks, I gotta pick these kids up at eleven.
Speaker 2: I ain't got time for all this. You got what
Speaker 2: we're gonna do, figure it out what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think as you get older, and most
Speaker 1: of us are older here, right, I think that was
Speaker 1: again using that word intentional for us to have a
Speaker 1: conversation about older men and their realization and sexuality and
Speaker 1: dating and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: So welcome, Gladdie, and for us, thank you. We appreciate
Speaker 2: one of the questions.
Speaker 1: The first questions I want to ask, let's go, because
Speaker 1: I'm not really used to black men being comfortable talking
Speaker 1: about sex. Right when I started this show years ago,
Speaker 1: I was probably one of the first people to start
Speaker 1: doing that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I was glad.
Speaker 3: You know, I've been I've been watching for a while.
Speaker 3: And again, like I said in the last episode, this
Speaker 3: is like a full circle moment for me, because like
Speaker 3: when I was looking for an outlet to actually express
Speaker 3: myself in this way, like your podcast was recommended to
Speaker 3: me and I wasn't watching podcasts at all that time,
Speaker 3: I was like, oh shit.
Speaker 2: This is it, this is how you do it. Thank you,
Speaker 2: and like it was, it was wild. I think you
Speaker 2: had a belt around you.
Speaker 6: I'm not going to go It was like, oh, come.
Speaker 2: On, man, all right, but go go back, go to
Speaker 2: the archives of this podcast and you'll see some ship
Speaker 2: and again, it takes a lot of bravery to actually
Speaker 2: go that route. And I think that's what I was.
Speaker 2: That's what I was struggling with.
Speaker 3: I couldn't find a space to or feel safe enough
Speaker 3: to have those conversations with the people that I was
Speaker 3: with at the time. Why not, I don't know, because
Speaker 3: you know, it's that stigma of you know, us not
Speaker 3: really being comfortable in our sexuality enough to actually, you know,
Speaker 3: express some the things that you might be into because
Speaker 3: what you look at as kinks might just be weird
Speaker 3: to somebody else, to.
Speaker 2: Most people, right, So that's what made it hard.
Speaker 3: But when you get into a certain age, you start
Speaker 3: building this I don't give a fuck factor, and I
Speaker 3: finally earned that I don't give a fuck factor, and
Speaker 3: I'll talk about it the way I want.
Speaker 2: That's wow.
Speaker 4: That's wow, man, because you know you still nah, I
Speaker 4: don't give a fuck. But you know, some people was
Speaker 4: less fortunate. Some people are you know, sometimes fortunate to
Speaker 4: have experience more experience than others. And you know, Emma
Speaker 4: walks through life that freaky all of them is freaky
Speaker 4: to me.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Some people say like, oh it was wag just nah,
Speaker 4: it should be like a movie, like for real.
Speaker 2: So I'm all for it. You're talking about freaky, y'all
Speaker 2: love some freaky ship? What is freaky to you? Like it? It
Speaker 2: was zero the ten? First of all? Where you at
Speaker 2: on the freak scale?
Speaker 1: I'm none none all right now no point non point nine.
Speaker 4: Were about to be the ten. I'm not doing no
Speaker 4: freaking ship like the own sex but with female. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have fun.
Speaker 2: So what is freaky to you? Define? One of your
Speaker 2: freakiest moments. Come on, let's go. We got here. We
Speaker 2: got one of your freakiest moments. Like to some ship,
Speaker 2: running trains a little bitches? What you want to really? Nothing,
Speaker 2: that depends depends on how sorry with women on I'm
Speaker 2: sorry they women ring the bell right here?
Speaker 7: Ring?
Speaker 2: Just you know that's the rules. Just technically a freak.
Speaker 2: That's so you're saying running trains like some that's not.
Speaker 1: Really freaking to me. Okay, you ever been to a
Speaker 1: play party? What party? A play party?
Speaker 2: What's that? We got him?
Speaker 1: We got every time I asked him question, I want
Speaker 1: you to lower his number by one?
Speaker 2: He said, nine point nine.
Speaker 4: I already got hit number as like a four already. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 4: I guess I'm.
Speaker 2: Too then, alight, So would you would you use this? No?
Speaker 2: Hold it up? Hold that up? Passed me my clonel?
Speaker 2: WILLI please listen? Listen? No, y'all already know I got
Speaker 2: the clonel willies. What's wrong? You an't touch it? I
Speaker 2: never use it. That's for the females. It's a toy.
Speaker 2: Some females love toys. You use toys on them? Yes, on,
Speaker 2: you know what number we are right now?
Speaker 4: He said like a too. Yes, got to worry about it.
Speaker 4: Worry about it.
Speaker 1: So the clone of Willie is so that you can
Speaker 1: clone your own joint and then she can use it
Speaker 1: on herself. So you can might could even double penetrated
Speaker 1: chick with you your actual person and a clone of
Speaker 1: your actual person. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So that's what you know what I mean? Would you
Speaker 2: do that? Yeah? You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So look, let's yeah, now a play party. We're actually
Speaker 1: throwing a birthday play party for me tomorrow. I don't
Speaker 1: know if y'all fellas want to come, I'll let y'all
Speaker 1: come free charge.
Speaker 2: Just pull up. But this is where it's a party.
Speaker 2: It's a party right with people.
Speaker 1: Who are in the lifestyle and they are willing and
Speaker 1: they want to have fun. We have Saint Andrew's crosses around.
Speaker 1: When you get tied up, everybody's just down, super down,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: And it's action all over the spot. You do B
Speaker 2: D S M. There you play. There is.
Speaker 1: Multiple action on the same bed type thing. It's it's
Speaker 1: a it's it's kind of a movie, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So it's me and yesterday, our Engineers birthday party,
Speaker 1: play party? Would you feel comfortable in the atmosphere?
Speaker 2: I got a wife for that.
Speaker 4: Bring I like that, I would bring yeah if she
Speaker 4: if she down that, I would love to pull up.
Speaker 2: You're trying to pull up? What time are you talking?
Speaker 2: Because they shoot we shoot tomorrow eight.
Speaker 1: It's from nine to four in the morning, four in
Speaker 1: the morning. It's from where you think. I mean from
Speaker 1: nine to you know what I mean? And we need
Speaker 1: more black men in the room. We need black men
Speaker 1: in the room that are safe.
Speaker 2: Freaky. It is updated too, by the way, where's it's?
Speaker 2: Where's it? What you freaking? Where? Where would you be at?
Speaker 2: From zero the time?
Speaker 3: I would say, I'm like a solid six seven seven?
Speaker 2: What's freaky to you?
Speaker 3: Like you mentioned the double penetration ship, Like I I've
Speaker 3: done that with a dildo in a in a woman before,
Speaker 3: and that ship was like amazing, amazing, Right, I'm not
Speaker 3: gonna say why it was amazing, but why not pot
Speaker 3: It got a lot of allright, So so I kind
Speaker 3: of see why people do double penetration because like the
Speaker 3: dildo that I was using had a lot of ridges,
Speaker 3: Like you know, it was very vain feel it and
Speaker 3: I could feel it. Yeah, And like as I was
Speaker 3: going in and out, like I was feeling like the
Speaker 3: light bulb went off.
Speaker 2: I was like, ah, this is why got him going going.
Speaker 2: I would say, is just words, it doesn't mean.
Speaker 6: Anything, just words, but got you go. He was like, hey, yes,
Speaker 6: but what.
Speaker 2: Is what it is? It is? But see that's the
Speaker 2: problem that I have.
Speaker 1: You got to be really secure if you like, what
Speaker 1: if it's two guys with double petration, because now it's
Speaker 1: an actual guy and he's making you.
Speaker 3: You feel yourself in it. And this is why I'm
Speaker 3: at a six and a half seven. I don't know
Speaker 3: if I can go that far up, but I'm more
Speaker 3: I'm more of the bondage type though, Like I got
Speaker 3: I gotta make sure Saint Andrews St. Andrew's cross on
Speaker 3: my bed that it's always there, so it's always like
Speaker 3: ready to go type ship. How you So basically you
Speaker 3: could buy the straps that go across the top of
Speaker 3: your mattress and in the bottom and then it has
Speaker 3: the cuffs on it and you can use the custom
Speaker 3: you have just bond tied down like that. That's a
Speaker 3: ton of toys to just go off that up.
Speaker 1: So have you ever messed somebody else freaking in you
Speaker 1: fus of course in what way?
Speaker 2: Like you know, I don't know, I don't like you said,
Speaker 2: I don't even know your freaky is Like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody asked me that on Twitter today, what's yours
Speaker 1: zero to ten?
Speaker 2: And I was like, girl, you don't even have enough.
Speaker 1: The number that I'm on is not even on your
Speaker 1: scale like you, It's I'm.
Speaker 2: Way past that. Like this question for me, talk to
Speaker 2: play with something safe.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying about this outside of the
Speaker 3: play party. What's the freakest thing you've ever done?
Speaker 2: What's the freakiest thing freaky freaky? Whether it's double penetration
Speaker 2: with a fuck machine? See that's my dream man.
Speaker 1: So I got the fuck machine in there and I
Speaker 1: had us, so I angled myself and then I controlling it,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, and I've.
Speaker 2: Got the vibrator on us. So she's going nuts. You
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Well, that's going off scenes, huh yeah, yo,
Speaker 2: I gonna be leiave it a certain way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm it's disgusting that it's discussed fire, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean?
Speaker 2: I would do that.
Speaker 1: Using my own sex toys on myself like say, I
Speaker 1: found this, I was never really good. Look look his face,
Speaker 1: He's like, understand I didn't use the for myself, right, good, Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just well I found I heard that they actually
Speaker 1: have sleeves that you can put on it that will
Speaker 1: jerk you off on. So I've heard that they have
Speaker 1: attachments that will do that. So I would That's why
Speaker 1: I said yet, because if I find that motherfucker.
Speaker 3: Like, remember there was a time on social media where
Speaker 3: they had this ship it was like spinning and.
Speaker 2: That ship is trash. It's trash.
Speaker 3: That ship only gets like this. I was so hype
Speaker 3: over male toys. I thought we were actually making a comeback.
Speaker 3: Well we never had it, so a come up, I
Speaker 3: would say, And it was trash. The only like I
Speaker 3: had one sex toy that was fire. It was a
Speaker 3: double cock ring right vibrating, and it had this part
Speaker 3: that goes back and like it sits right on your
Speaker 3: goot and all that ship is vibrating while you're fucking
Speaker 3: that ships fire and it has a little a little
Speaker 3: thing that goes on top of your ship and it
Speaker 3: stimulates the woman's spot at the same time, all that
Speaker 3: ship is going on talking about the.
Speaker 2: Fire Google.
Speaker 3: I call that ship violence. That's what I called it.
Speaker 3: It's violence. That's his name.
Speaker 2: Violence.
Speaker 1: I need, I need some violence in my life. So
Speaker 1: we all sit here about ship like it's regular.
Speaker 4: This is not regular, Oh but it is when you're comfortable,
Speaker 4: and you know, y'all you'll be well, when.
Speaker 2: Did you get comfortable? Because where we grew up, how
Speaker 2: we grew up. I would think that y'all go from
Speaker 2: New York.
Speaker 1: It's saying it's heavily homophobic out here.
Speaker 2: It would be too freaking you fuck.
Speaker 1: You can fuck a lot, but you can't be out
Speaker 1: here going crazy with freak ship.
Speaker 2: Because then they looking at you like, yo, what's going on.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say it's freak ship, but like it used to,
Speaker 4: Like your parents go to work, you'll cut school. Everybody
Speaker 4: got that, shorty. It's only but so much rooms you
Speaker 4: could go into. You only go in his room, in
Speaker 4: the living room. Three niggas in the living room, three
Speaker 4: in the bedroom. Everybody getting popping. There's nothing like you're
Speaker 4: not thinking gay because y'all, you fuck, you're that's true
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, get your head. Boo boo boom boom
Speaker 4: boo boom tomorrow with that shit.
Speaker 2: It was never freaking It was just who gonna make it?
Speaker 2: Mown hard up? Yeah, what are you going over there? Oldest?
Speaker 2: Oh then it's over. We're fifteen thirteen.
Speaker 1: But we didn't know no better, we didn't choose that,
Speaker 1: and as we got older, we stopped.
Speaker 2: Moving that way.
Speaker 1: Of course, So what makes you now say, you know what,
Speaker 1: I want to go back to moving that way?
Speaker 2: Because now when.
Speaker 1: You're younger, you do it because none of y'all have
Speaker 1: access to sex like that or to places like that,
Speaker 1: so it's kind of a need to do that.
Speaker 2: But and then you get.
Speaker 1: Older and it's like, oh, that's not cool or that
Speaker 1: it's not a thing once you're twenty three twenty four
Speaker 1: to take all your girls go back and crib unless
Speaker 1: you like hang around Drake or some shit like that.
Speaker 3: Like you said, it's a matter of access, right if
Speaker 3: your mom is going to work or your parents are
Speaker 3: going to work or whatever, and you know you have
Speaker 3: this finite amount of time to actually get that done,
Speaker 3: it becomes like a must, right. But today you know,
Speaker 3: as grown men, like we could turn shit down because
Speaker 3: it's like, yo, it's my crib, I live here, I
Speaker 3: pay the bills here so I can get somebody over
Speaker 3: here when I want. Yes, it's somebody when I can, right,
Speaker 3: So it's it kind of changes. And I also feel
Speaker 3: like the whole freaky thing it changed over time. Like
Speaker 3: when we were kids, you know, we couldn't say, oh,
Speaker 3: you know, I was eating pussy, I was eating ass
Speaker 3: and all that. We couldn't say that, right, But kids
Speaker 3: nowadays today that were the same age where we couldn't
Speaker 3: say that, they could say that now, you know, and
Speaker 3: they're not even being judged.
Speaker 2: That's part.
Speaker 1: I was asked the first time I had six pussy
Speaker 1: the first time, I.
Speaker 2: I didn't know. I was so amazed that I was there.
Speaker 2: I could. I didn't do it because I don't think
Speaker 2: I did it because I was freaking. I was just
Speaker 2: like amazed, I can't believe it. Over one night, were
Speaker 2: down there like what is this everything? But it was
Speaker 2: eating pussy wasn't the thing. I remember, I was born
Speaker 2: in seventy were and ship the fuck up.
Speaker 1: Yesterday, motherfucker, right before my birthday. You did ask different,
Speaker 1: So all right in any case, Yeah, so.
Speaker 2: When did it become like yo for y'all right?
Speaker 1: You mentioned you got to a point where you didn't
Speaker 1: care no more what happened.
Speaker 3: So basically I started to find sex extremely boring and mundane, right,
Speaker 3: And you know, I actually spoke to my therapist about
Speaker 3: it and she was like, yo, you need you need
Speaker 3: an outlet to kind of express this stuff in my head.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm here, like with therapy, I'm trying to express.
Speaker 3: I'm talking to you like you have more of an
Speaker 3: outlet so you can get a better understanding as to
Speaker 3: what people may want, because they might be thinking the
Speaker 3: same thing you're thinking. So I started in my close friends,
Speaker 3: you know, and I would just throw random questions out there.
Speaker 2: Weren't really around them.
Speaker 3: I was thinking of him, but I would throw them
Speaker 3: out there and see what people were thinking, like the
Speaker 3: test of vibe, and I realized that ninety of people
Speaker 3: and my close friends were with it, you know. And
Speaker 3: then actually it became somewhat of an advice column, and
Speaker 3: then you know, people would start saying, you need to
Speaker 3: do a podcast about this stuff because a lot of
Speaker 3: people are afraid to talk about sex and stuff like that.
Speaker 3: I was like, all right, cool, I didn't want to
Speaker 3: do it, but then I was like, you know what,
Speaker 3: I have to do it.
Speaker 1: But had you actualized these thoughts yet or were they just.
Speaker 3: There were thoughts that were actually happening that they were
Speaker 3: actually actualizing as I was having the conversations, you know.
Speaker 3: So like the more I would have the conversations, the
Speaker 3: more comfortable I would get, you know. And then I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what, I'm gonna start start dropping
Speaker 3: information about me, you know, and things that I like,
Speaker 3: and I would admit that it was me now, and
Speaker 3: then as I was admitted that it was me, my
Speaker 3: dms were going crazy, right, So it's like, wow, you know,
Speaker 3: this is not quite the attention that I wanted as much,
Speaker 3: but just knowing that me as a person, I'm able
Speaker 3: to say I would like to have these experiences and
Speaker 3: a ton of women just saying yeah, I'll.
Speaker 2: Do that with you. Yeah, very affirment, very affirming.
Speaker 3: What's crazy is like the things that I didn't want
Speaker 3: done on what they were pushing more on me.
Speaker 2: I don't want my ass you.
Speaker 1: Never had, but that's don't want women like, oh, that's
Speaker 1: where the freak starts.
Speaker 2: So that's what you you know what I mean, The
Speaker 2: minute you start talking freak, actually.
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, It's like, yo, that's what
Speaker 3: I'm not leaving that. I'm not giving up that control.
Speaker 3: Maybe you're not gonna have me squealing with my legs
Speaker 3: up Lamborghini stuff.
Speaker 2: Why I don't know. I hear niggas we squealing that.
Speaker 2: I never squealed, taking it like a chance you had
Speaker 2: to have at least one in you only on the nut.
Speaker 2: But I squill anyway when I nut. Okay, that might
Speaker 2: be too much for you. Make noise when I nuts
Speaker 2: talking about get this ship. You never made that. You
Speaker 2: never made a squeal that you ain't wasn't really proud
Speaker 2: of I made a sound. I wasn't.
Speaker 3: I've never made I made a sound that I wasn't
Speaker 3: proud of it at the moment. But that was like
Speaker 3: I thought, you cock when like I was nothing you
Speaker 3: Oh damn, she actually watches this podcast. You gotta know
Speaker 3: who it is.
Speaker 2: Like even it wasn't even nothing, I thought it like
Speaker 2: two three times during the whole process. It was you.
Speaker 3: Here's the thing, right when I start, when I start
Speaker 3: seeing someone for the first time, first couple of times,
Speaker 3: like I really don't be farting around them and ship
Speaker 3: I'll be I'll be holding and be subconscious to like
Speaker 3: even in my sleep. I wake up with my stomach
Speaker 3: killing me because I was holding my thoughts in my sleep,
Speaker 3: so like I'm holding my ships the whole time. And
Speaker 3: then we start to get intimate and you know, we
Speaker 3: fucking and like it.
Speaker 2: Was feeling so good. I kind of forgot that I
Speaker 2: was cinching my ass since you're coming out here in there,
Speaker 2: and you know, she was a good support about it.
Speaker 2: She was laughing. I was laughing.
Speaker 3: It wasn't one of those silent, smelly farts. It was
Speaker 3: the loud ones that don't really smell like nothing, the ones,
Speaker 3: the ones you could laugh away.
Speaker 2: The ones you could laugh away. And we ended up
Speaker 2: laughing a few times. Do that though.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's any when you hit it, and that's tough. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's tough fart. It's like, yo, what happened? When did
Speaker 1: we get this comfortable?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Bring back real women. That'd be fun. Now. I
Speaker 2: remember my whole first thirty years was playing it women
Speaker 2: in the far. Yeah, they get older and they just
Speaker 2: be like, listen, let's do it, let it go, let
Speaker 2: it go. Fus. What's up? Have you always been open
Speaker 2: talking about sex? Yeah? Always?
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I want the person i'm with you know,
Speaker 4: I need I need my female to be comfortable also
Speaker 4: like you. It's like the brother Gladdy said, you know,
Speaker 4: once she felt comfortable enough and or it, you know,
Speaker 4: and balking on his quest of letting people know his
Speaker 4: freaky side, his you know. The responss was like, damn,
Speaker 4: I didn't know you. That's the thing you have. Teachers, doctors,
Speaker 4: they do think. Yes, your brain opens up, like I said,
Speaker 4: some people is not. Fortunately I was young, older women,
Speaker 4: so them things like, you know, just part.
Speaker 2: Of your life.
Speaker 1: Have you ever faced pushback from being on the pod
Speaker 1: talking about certain things or being open, like do you
Speaker 1: ever feel like.
Speaker 2: Society pushes back? Like? Oh, facts, just what are y'all doing?
Speaker 1: We're the real man? Ad Now, y'all been a little
Speaker 1: too freaky. These guys got a little zesty. He calls
Speaker 1: me zesty all the time. I'm like, bro, that's the fact. Nah,
Speaker 1: Like I'm comfortable with my skin man.
Speaker 2: So you never gotten that pushback or you just never
Speaker 2: cared about it? Now I don't care about that ship.
Speaker 2: So have you seen real nigga? Have you seen the pushback? Nah?
Speaker 2: Because I believe everybody got a free getting them Gladdy,
Speaker 2: have you seen it? Oh? That's a fact.
Speaker 3: Before I even started a podcast, I would go on
Speaker 3: live all the time and I would talk about some
Speaker 3: of the things that I would do, like I like
Speaker 3: show them in handcuffs, writers, crops, tasseholes and the clear
Speaker 3: dial though that would bring out and they were like, oh,
Speaker 3: this Nigga's gay. I'm like, br Like that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 3: Like I'm literally telling you that this is what I
Speaker 3: do with women, you know. Like I remember there was
Speaker 3: a Halloween I put on a whole gimsuit with a
Speaker 3: strap on dil though, and I was in a Halloween
Speaker 3: party like that, you know, And it's like like, how.
Speaker 2: Like you know, so I went to a play party
Speaker 2: like that one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like nigga, listen, at the end of the day,
Speaker 3: when you become secure enough in your sexuality, there's a
Speaker 3: lot of things that will definitely not phase you sexually, right.
Speaker 3: And I feel like there's a certain level of homophobia
Speaker 3: that actually makes certain people suspect. It's like, you know,
Speaker 3: what if you if you are really so against it,
Speaker 3: what are you really hiding? You know, I'm literally saying
Speaker 3: I'm doing this stuff with women.
Speaker 2: You know. There's certain things I won't do. Obviously, I
Speaker 2: don't do.
Speaker 3: Anal play or ass play and ship like that. I
Speaker 3: don't like my gooch lick like, I don't like none
Speaker 3: of that. I don't do any of that because I
Speaker 3: do not because not because I think it's it's it's
Speaker 3: gay or anything. It's more like like, why would I open.
Speaker 2: That door to allow anyone to have that kind of
Speaker 2: over me? Open? I can't do it. I'm a dominant man.
Speaker 2: Open the door. I can't do it. I'm dominant. Women
Speaker 2: get my ass, like I'm saying it, dominantly open the door.
Speaker 2: I'm dominantly getting my ass. What what take off the class?
Speaker 2: But like it's again, it's you could dominant.
Speaker 1: Look if you got her between your legs and you're
Speaker 1: holding a like this and you talking to her, you
Speaker 1: lift her mouth up, you spill him out, eat the ad.
Speaker 2: That's not dominant.
Speaker 8: How could she because she's on her knees between your
Speaker 8: legs and you got her like this and she going crazy.
Speaker 8: See that's my other problems, trying to break her nose
Speaker 8: getting in that thing?
Speaker 2: What get in there? Dominantly?
Speaker 3: It's far from me to find a position to get
Speaker 3: my as ate that. Like I don't know, fly right, right.
Speaker 2: He said, somebody can walk between your legs. She don't
Speaker 2: even got.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I mean, I seen I've
Speaker 1: seen on Lineaday a young lady flew herself out to
Speaker 1: go visit a guy out of town. Right, she tells
Speaker 1: the guy, I bought throat numb and spread.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Now the situation ain't me?
Speaker 1: You go, wow, Yeah, I'm like, we're ship respecfully, I'm
Speaker 1: not not me, not for me, baby, not for me.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know what I mean. One a podcast,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you bought that's thoughtful, that's extremely thoughtful.
Speaker 2: They're internet tear ass up?
Speaker 1: Oh y'all channeling, y'all going through TSA with throat numb
Speaker 1: and spray.
Speaker 2: What happened with? What is this society coming to? I'm like, Yo,
Speaker 2: this is a real woman right here. This is what
Speaker 2: we were supposed to do. This is what everybody's supposed
Speaker 2: to do.
Speaker 3: If you are not getting married before you have sex
Speaker 3: the first time, shut the fuck up and enjoy sex.
Speaker 3: Like you just need to stop being so like some
Speaker 3: women just need to stop being prudes. At the end
Speaker 3: of the day, sex is happening, whether you like it
Speaker 3: or not. You're having sex without being married, you're having
Speaker 3: sex out of wedlock, like you are literally doing the
Speaker 3: ultimate sin. Because it's happening behind closed doors doesn't change
Speaker 3: the fact that there should be some shame there right
Speaker 3: well in your eyes. I don't think there should be
Speaker 3: any shame. But if someone is actually going on the
Speaker 3: trip and they want that trip to be lit and
Speaker 3: they want to give hand without gagging, let them. Let
Speaker 3: them have their fucking spray and and and a dick
Speaker 3: sucking marathon. For women like that ship will hurt their
Speaker 3: throat after a while, just she's being considered to you
Speaker 3: and to her throat.
Speaker 1: And I'm trying to understand what the damn Oh, real
Speaker 1: women don't need their real real real eaters don't need.
Speaker 2: Fuck y'all, Kobe. All of a sudden, y'all turn it
Speaker 2: into thurst measurers like Yo. This is a throat competition,
Speaker 2: like Yo.
Speaker 1: Let her get her ship off because the fact that
Speaker 1: she's using it for doue men are stimulated by visual ship,
Speaker 1: by the fucking willingness of her to do certain ship.
Speaker 2: Like Yo, that's just fire. Where she used to put
Speaker 2: the pop rocks in her mouth or the ice in
Speaker 2: the mouth or whatever.
Speaker 1: I never really did much for me, but the fact
Speaker 1: that she wanted to do it made her a fucking
Speaker 1: wind to me.
Speaker 2: Remember when they did the orange on the joint bad.
Speaker 2: It's a good brother, I did it my bad. Now
Speaker 2: you're good. You're good. But it's the visual and the
Speaker 2: fact that she wants to do ship like that.
Speaker 3: It's the visual and like they say, the thought is
Speaker 3: the thought that counts as well as like just knowing.
Speaker 3: Like imagine, imagine somebody is coming to take a flight,
Speaker 3: going to take a flight to come see you, and
Speaker 3: she sends you.
Speaker 2: A photo of that spray like or whatever it is.
Speaker 3: It's a spray, right, yeah, you know, they take a
Speaker 3: photo spray and they send it to you Like that.
Speaker 3: Ship ups everything everything. Just knowing that she is getting
Speaker 3: prepared for you.
Speaker 2: It's fire.
Speaker 3: So my advice to the ladies is basically, I don't
Speaker 3: care about what the women are saying. You're doing it
Speaker 3: for the men in facts. At the end of the day,
Speaker 3: I think this is the issue that we're having, Like
Speaker 3: we're worried about what the same sex is thinking about
Speaker 3: what we're going to do with the opposite sex.
Speaker 1: I say the same thing, say the same thing about
Speaker 1: men about worried about First of all, y'all worried about homophobic.
Speaker 2: Y'all worried about being gay. Ye're not worried about the woman, But.
Speaker 1: Y'all worried about what other niggas think about what you're
Speaker 1: doing with your woman.
Speaker 2: That's crazy. That don't sound crazy to you.
Speaker 3: There is literally a definition, a definition in the dictionary
Speaker 3: as to what gay is or homosexuality is. Literally ninety
Speaker 3: eight percent of the ship that you guys think is gay,
Speaker 3: it is not. It's not it's literally being attracted to
Speaker 3: the same sex.
Speaker 2: That's it. That's literally all it is.
Speaker 9: That.
Speaker 2: That is a fact. It's good for y'all that all.
Speaker 2: So I think that.
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask y'all when y'all got comfortable with
Speaker 1: this and then we're going to move on to other stuff. Right,
Speaker 1: But you said you've always been comfortable. Yeah, I'm chilling, man,
Speaker 1: I'm personally me.
Speaker 2: I wasn't always comfortable.
Speaker 1: I was worried about what society thought. I definitely was
Speaker 1: worried about you know, I was. I was homophobic as hell, right,
Speaker 1: I think most of us was the East flat, you
Speaker 1: a street, or you was just in the hood. Everybody's homophobic,
Speaker 1: and I think that once I came to terms with, oh, ship,
Speaker 1: you actually gotta like niggas to be gay, right, all
Speaker 1: this ship that we're talking about. Pause, and it's not gay.
Speaker 1: None of this is gay, none of and who cares?
Speaker 1: Why are we so worried about gay that ship? Once
Speaker 1: I stepped through that door of realizing like I'm bugging
Speaker 1: on the gay ship, I was able to step out
Speaker 1: and just really just enjoy my life because I wasn't
Speaker 1: really worried about what people was thinking about this, that
Speaker 1: and the other.
Speaker 2: And once you stop being.
Speaker 1: Once you realize that being homophobic is whack as fuck
Speaker 1: and you realize that, And I say that just because
Speaker 1: that's my realization. Black men especially are so scared of
Speaker 1: being gay.
Speaker 2: It's gay?
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, no, no, but what what just works perfectly?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 3: And I said that because it's like, you want to
Speaker 3: be so homophobic, Like it's like, what are you really
Speaker 3: afraid of? It's so it's crazy, yeah, like you got
Speaker 3: them skeletons and it's it's crazy.
Speaker 2: You got to be the toughest nigga, and it's like, yo,
Speaker 2: this you're act.
Speaker 1: So because I don't want to confuse gay with a
Speaker 1: negative thought. But what I'm saying is, bro what you're
Speaker 1: doing is just not masculine or it's just something there
Speaker 1: that's just very weak.
Speaker 2: It's just not what you think it is.
Speaker 1: Step out and and I've been using this term a
Speaker 1: lot lately, Like yo, real men break rules, right, the
Speaker 1: people that take it and go as far as they can,
Speaker 1: they don't listen to what other people talking about. They
Speaker 1: even the men that we celebrate in the hood, the
Speaker 1: ghetto stars or whoever, they broke all the fucking rules.
Speaker 2: That's why they was able to get where they went. Fact.
Speaker 1: But y'all following whatever you other niggas telling you it's
Speaker 1: cool to do it, what not, it's cool to do it,
Speaker 1: and men, I agree.
Speaker 2: Get them niggas off your back and go look, go.
Speaker 3: Live your life like I like that for real men
Speaker 3: break rules, Real men break stereotypes, real men break stigmas.
Speaker 3: That's what that's what they do there. You can only
Speaker 3: break ground when you do those things. And I feel like,
Speaker 3: you know, those people that want to be in the
Speaker 3: hood and stay stuck in the hood and don't want
Speaker 3: to broaden their horizons. And I'm not even talking about sexually,
Speaker 3: just broaden your eyes and put yourself around other people.
Speaker 3: You're starting to realize that those people that are living
Speaker 3: in that community are literally just like you, you know,
Speaker 3: like and you know it's what it's just what they
Speaker 3: do behind closed doors, that's what makes them different.
Speaker 1: So on this podcast with two old heads, three old heads, three.
Speaker 2: I said, I'm on here with two Oh, okay, I get.
Speaker 2: I don't really get O G. But I get.
Speaker 3: I think it's because it changed from OG to unk. Right,
Speaker 3: So it was OG for a little while that it
Speaker 3: was a big bro and then now now it's because I.
Speaker 2: Was big bro first, Yeah, that was big bro. Then
Speaker 2: I was Grandpa. I don't know how that's snuck in
Speaker 2: there before I become grandpa before. I haven't gotten grandpa yet.
Speaker 2: O G. That she is, like, Yo, I'm with I
Speaker 2: get this.
Speaker 1: Shut up, sir, shout out to my cousin.
Speaker 2: Yesterday, yesterday, yesterday, had last.
Speaker 1: You're still sucking the same way I was when I
Speaker 1: was younger. Facts, same way, facts even better now, way
Speaker 1: better now. It can't be it can't it can't be both.
Speaker 1: It's not the same.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, you're trying to sell dick on here.
Speaker 2: We're non point not you got hold on, we got them?
Speaker 2: Is it the same or is it not? All right?
Speaker 2: So it is not the same.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying is I'm saying my propensity for sex
Speaker 3: is still the same, but my uh, my acumen is different,
Speaker 3: meaning like the skill set has definitely gotten a lot better. Right, So,
Speaker 3: Like I think as you get older, you start paying
Speaker 3: attention to different things like body language, the way the
Speaker 3: stomach is like going up and down when you when
Speaker 3: you're eating, or or or you know, whether they're arching
Speaker 3: their back because they want more pleasure, they're kind of
Speaker 3: like arching their back, or they're arching the back because
Speaker 3: you're doing too much. You're applying too much pressure, you know,
Speaker 3: and knowing how to gauge that and maneuver based on that.
Speaker 3: So these are things that come with time, right, and
Speaker 3: and and multiple women. So you know, if you have
Speaker 3: one woman in your whole life, you know, it's kind
Speaker 3: of hard to become great at sex. You can become
Speaker 3: great at having sex with her, but as you grow
Speaker 3: older and you have a multiple partners, you kind of
Speaker 3: got to get got to get the base level of
Speaker 3: what women tend to what so and you can augment
Speaker 3: it as you go. So these are things that you
Speaker 3: get as you get older.
Speaker 4: That bad touch got the back even with that me
Speaker 4: is a space where a lot of men have never
Speaker 4: gone before.
Speaker 2: They can't reach. You gotta have equipment to get back there.
Speaker 2: You hit that things in my stomach. That's what it is. Good.
Speaker 4: It's called the spot. Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, because you.
Speaker 2: Wall to the wall type of guy.
Speaker 4: Not every pomp poom is that like that, though. Some
Speaker 4: some you need to go all the way in some
Speaker 4: you could day back is like right there, that's the
Speaker 4: deep ship about the anal with the hose.
Speaker 2: You get to that right in the back of it.
Speaker 4: So a lot of bitch like put in my ass,
Speaker 4: all right, pop, Then they pussy get dripping and come
Speaker 4: in and it's different.
Speaker 2: You've had.
Speaker 1: Just you bro, I'm good, I'm good, But you had
Speaker 1: somebody yell put it in my ass.
Speaker 2: Ye, put in my ass, not yelled it. But they
Speaker 2: say they yeah, well.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm, yeah, I had to do the she have
Speaker 4: toys put out the draw Oh so not you.
Speaker 2: The thing is, no, they don't got the whole. They't
Speaker 2: have that. They just had a thing to get to
Speaker 2: the back of the ship. Put it in my just
Speaker 2: feel like antal plugs and like that can that be
Speaker 2: the title? Yeah? That was like, yo, put it in
Speaker 2: my ass, like what you for real? Ship? I have?
Speaker 2: That happened to me drawing sex.
Speaker 4: Like they not take it out, nigga, put it in
Speaker 4: Like yeah, they put your ship in there.
Speaker 2: I think that's what that's That's how they God knowing
Speaker 2: something about.
Speaker 9: That moment when they take you out and they do
Speaker 9: the thing and the and then son, they do this
Speaker 9: little thing and they.
Speaker 3: That's the only way to make sure you verify that
Speaker 3: it's not going in the wrong home when they just
Speaker 3: put it in there.
Speaker 2: But then you gotta go check with your hand. You
Speaker 2: go check. You have to at all times because he's
Speaker 2: empty old ship at all times around while you're in there.
Speaker 2: Touch the pussy ship. I'm dead at her butt.
Speaker 4: Oh nuts be in their own pussy Oh yeah yeah the.
Speaker 2: Old ship.
Speaker 4: Yeah fun yeah, yeah. You know, j'making parties standing there
Speaker 4: and Dan he's going crazy, like.
Speaker 1: Have y'all had any So I'm gonna be the first
Speaker 1: to say that as I got older, I realized that
Speaker 1: when I I was younger, because I seemed like y'all
Speaker 1: just these are stallions over here the green room stallions.
Speaker 2: I'm a young old nigga man.
Speaker 1: As I got older, I realized that I wasn't able.
Speaker 1: I didn't fuck the same I used to be on something.
Speaker 2: Oh no, you got it, Damn you got it. Damn.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Pam on time, I was bugging bro because I didn't understand.
Speaker 2: Yeah, pussy like that. I didn't understand.
Speaker 1: And I think that I was going into sex just
Speaker 1: to get my shirt off and to fuck something, especially
Speaker 1: because I'm into big butts.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I might have a little sadism thing with me. I
Speaker 1: like seeing women I don't want to say in pain,
Speaker 1: but like react to me. I want to see that reaction,
Speaker 1: which is also why when I was younger, they eat
Speaker 1: pussy a lot, because I wasn't really good at eating pussy.
Speaker 1: So if she's just laying there like while you're trying
Speaker 1: to goll it up, and then I'm watching, I'm doing.
Speaker 2: The ship trying to eat your box.
Speaker 1: Because I'm saying in the point you have a spin
Speaker 1: on somebody puss in there, look at you like, no, no, no, don't,
Speaker 1: don't don't do that.
Speaker 2: No, I haven't had a look back at it. But
Speaker 2: I do, like I do a little bit of that
Speaker 2: because I'm here with you now.
Speaker 3: Because sometimes you know, they they're coming a lot and
Speaker 3: you know I'm consuming this, I'm consuming and sometimes spit
Speaker 3: it back out just you know, just wouldn't effect get
Speaker 3: back or whatever.
Speaker 2: Spit it right on there? Is that? Right? Yeah? Good look, ladies.
Speaker 1: Glad he said he's coming to the play party.
Speaker 2: But by the time this comes out, the party would
Speaker 2: have already been. But so, yeah, I wasn't really good
Speaker 2: at eating box.
Speaker 1: And what I was saying is that's probably why I
Speaker 1: didn't eat by a lot, because I wasn't getting that
Speaker 1: reaction that satisfied me from that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So once you know you could drive somebody crazy with
Speaker 1: your mouth, you'll do it more.
Speaker 2: Exactly, you know what I'm saying. But if you're not
Speaker 2: getting that, here's the thing. How much y'all think ego
Speaker 2: is attached to y'all sex game. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: In the beginning of my like I would say in
Speaker 3: my twenties and whatever, it was like out of ten
Speaker 3: now it's probably at a zero. I don't really care
Speaker 3: enough about what's going wrong. But I like to focus
Speaker 3: on what's going right in those moments, and I feel
Speaker 3: like if I didn't get it right in this moment,
Speaker 3: like with you, for especially for the first couple of times,
Speaker 3: I'm like, I just don't know your body yet, and
Speaker 3: I want to learn your body. That's fine, you know
Speaker 3: so because I actually removed ego that allowed me the
Speaker 3: opportunity to do those things and have those conversations. If
Speaker 3: I fall short sexually with the young lady, I like
Speaker 3: to have the conversation afterwards, and if that conversation goes
Speaker 3: correctly where we're giving each other active feedback or feedback
Speaker 3: based on the the opportunity that I had with her,
Speaker 3: you know, we can move on to having better sex
Speaker 3: next time. You know what, I think that's important. If
Speaker 3: you take your ego out of it, that's the only
Speaker 3: way you're going to get better with that person. If
Speaker 3: your ego's in there, you just fucked that up.
Speaker 2: You are fucking yo.
Speaker 1: So for a long time I thought he was just
Speaker 1: selling this, but the fact that he can admit yo,
Speaker 1: sometimes it don't go the way I play. So now
Speaker 1: I got to learn you more and I gotta have
Speaker 1: open conversation with you and we can figure it out
Speaker 1: because somebody I was in the phone. I was on
Speaker 1: the in my discord, and I love for you to
Speaker 1: join the discord if you want to.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, I'll send you the link.
Speaker 1: But I was in the discord with one of my
Speaker 1: administrators and she was saying, Yo, if he don't eat
Speaker 1: the box, I'm gonna pull him to the side. Like afterwards, like, Yo,
Speaker 1: we got to talk. And I was like, man, you
Speaker 1: don't tell him, Man, we gotta talk. That's automatically gonna
Speaker 1: give me anxiety, Like what we got to talk about?
Speaker 2: What I do? Now? You know what I'm saying, I
Speaker 2: don't like that.
Speaker 1: What is the way that you would tell a person?
Speaker 1: And for us, I'm gonna come back to you with
Speaker 1: the other question. But what is what is the way
Speaker 1: that you would tell a person is something that how
Speaker 1: would you have that conversation that what they're doing isn't
Speaker 1: satisfying to you?
Speaker 3: So basically, you want to make sure you position the
Speaker 3: conversation first, make sure that they're in the capacity to
Speaker 3: have the conversation or have the uh, the bandwidth for
Speaker 3: the conversation. And you also let them know, look, there's
Speaker 3: nothing too serious, right, because nobody wants that text message,
Speaker 3: Hey we got to talk. Oh god, you know what
Speaker 3: I'm saying. But you make sure they have the bandwidth
Speaker 3: for the conversations, you know. You know, while we were
Speaker 3: being intimate the other night, I just wanted to know,
Speaker 3: you know, how I can better, you know, serve you
Speaker 3: in that way. And I also want to let you
Speaker 3: know how you could better serve me. And then you
Speaker 3: just go from there. And once you get those out
Speaker 3: the way, you make her feel comfortable. You're comfortable because
Speaker 3: you bringing it up. Obviously, of course it's an exact
Speaker 3: so you ask them first. Yeah, you asked them first,
Speaker 3: what's what you could do better?
Speaker 2: But because after they say nothing and you come with something,
Speaker 2: then it could be that that could make it a
Speaker 2: little awkward.
Speaker 3: But I guarantee you, once you start giving feedback, there'll
Speaker 3: be some feedback come. You'll come back to it, of course,
Speaker 3: of course, because now like with feedback, it could come
Speaker 3: off as something that could be extremely direct or it
Speaker 3: could be like nitpicking.
Speaker 2: I'd rather I don't mind nick picking, because if it's
Speaker 2: the nippicking, that means.
Speaker 3: Overall you're doing a good job. And these there's these
Speaker 3: little things that will make it perfect from.
Speaker 2: Going from nine point nine to nine to ten. You
Speaker 2: know what I mean?
Speaker 1: What was the question that I asked you? Initially? I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask for us. I forgot did.
Speaker 2: Damn it? I lost it? Okay, fust what's up? Brother?
Speaker 2: I lost fucking question. I hate when I do that.
Speaker 2: That's the age thing.
Speaker 5: Huh, just move on, edited movie magic? What the fuck
Speaker 5: was I talking? I just answered it and I don't remember.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it was such a good answer that it
Speaker 1: took me to another question.
Speaker 2: Ego, ego, ego and that nigga caught it. That nigga
Speaker 2: caught it. Yeah, did y'all write down the tomestap on
Speaker 2: that so that we could take it out? Because how
Speaker 2: much is ego attaching sex when it comes to you?
Speaker 2: Fifty six?
Speaker 4: I I I got say this some truthful shit, like
Speaker 4: I said, I I almost I won't even know if
Speaker 4: that's fortunately. I probably got took an advantage as a child,
Speaker 4: but a tend in of mine asked for sugar. She
Speaker 4: was a older woman, and she showed me a lot
Speaker 4: of things about a woman's body from a young age age.
Speaker 4: So when I started younger, Yeah, I'm like nine eight, No, ten. Yeah,
Speaker 4: so I ain't even my dick g ain't coming. It's
Speaker 4: just I'm just in the act. She's like, no, like this,
Speaker 4: do it like that. Stop, just how you do it?
Speaker 4: Put it all the way in? No put it uh
Speaker 4: huh yeah, there you go. There you need to be
Speaker 4: under this. She she was learning, she was teaching me,
Speaker 4: I should say, so when I actually got around. We
Speaker 4: had an ORG in my elementary school behind the auditorium
Speaker 4: one day and with some fellas, and we had some
Speaker 4: females and they ain't know.
Speaker 2: What to do. They don't even know the whole.
Speaker 4: So I'm like, nah, this is how you do it. This,
Speaker 4: this is your gramm, show you something. So I got
Speaker 4: to penetrate all to them because we're young and dumb,
Speaker 4: but I got the show up mans how to do it.
Speaker 4: Then we went through the female I was with, and then
Speaker 4: I had the boy. But at that being learned, I
Speaker 4: know that, uh it's sexist. It's not just uh.
Speaker 2: Your body that's crazy to do it, you know, just
Speaker 2: trying to catch it.
Speaker 4: Like I learned that from from the elder woman that
Speaker 4: was showing me ship like she was basically making sure
Speaker 4: she was good.
Speaker 2: Jesus know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So when I dealt with some women like my shorty shorties, yeah,
Speaker 4: I made sure they was good good. But ladies and theomen,
Speaker 4: I'm literally laughing at the body count, not at the
Speaker 4: fact that an older woman.
Speaker 1: When did you realize I'm sure you realized that you
Speaker 1: were abused as a child.
Speaker 4: I just realized that in these words and ship they're
Speaker 4: using now, you know what did you think it was
Speaker 4: back then? But I mean a female was just showing me,
Speaker 4: you know, how to have sex. I ain't look at
Speaker 4: it as now.
Speaker 2: How much older do you wish you she was having
Speaker 2: sex with her age? She was in like high school. Okay,
Speaker 2: so she was you were nine and she was.
Speaker 4: Leaving elementary, late elementary, she already in high school. Busted joint,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean? I guess because a man
Speaker 4: wasn't available. This is before cell phones and all of
Speaker 4: that day. I was just the closest the.
Speaker 2: Boy still bad, I think it is. That's terrible. I
Speaker 2: think it is just imagine if you were to leave
Speaker 2: your child.
Speaker 1: Sorry, and I hate that we always got to imagine
Speaker 1: these hours, but imagine it like I could recall being
Speaker 1: a boy and there was an older person older a
Speaker 1: friend's daughter that was a neighbor. And I called my
Speaker 1: mother and was like, yo, she's here. And my mother
Speaker 1: came running down the block. But by the time she came,
Speaker 1: surely already had my dick out. We didn't do anything
Speaker 1: because I heard my mother stomping. My mother ran from
Speaker 1: where she was at because I didn't know, I didn't
Speaker 1: know she knew he was on you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: She ran, and by the time she got here, I
Speaker 2: got my first like super wet kiss from.
Speaker 1: This stick light skin chick, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And she already had my shit out and here come
Speaker 1: my mother run up the stick.
Speaker 2: I can't get my name, but let me just say.
Speaker 3: And put my shit away. And I was just like, so,
Speaker 3: it's just it's I mean, it is it. Don't get
Speaker 3: me wrong, Like what I was saying, like, it's not
Speaker 3: as terrible. It's because you know, when I think of
Speaker 3: a sixteen year old versus someone that's like over twenty one,
Speaker 3: twenty three, two twenty five, when you when you when
Speaker 3: your mind actually gets to the point where it's fully
Speaker 3: developed at twenty five and you're still doing something that
Speaker 3: heinous is crazy. But yeah, sixteen year old to uh,
Speaker 3: somebody in single digit is still bad.
Speaker 4: You know, you live in the building and you know
Speaker 4: the neighbor cute neighbors? Did she older than you? You know,
Speaker 4: I don't know the words. Now you give you a
Speaker 4: title of I just.
Speaker 2: Looked at Do you feel comfortable telling this story? Dude?
Speaker 1: Like I can I get when you when you tell
Speaker 1: a story. It seemed as if it kind of you
Speaker 1: was like I gotta be.
Speaker 4: You know, because people people watch to try to identify you,
Speaker 4: try to like learn you, and but.
Speaker 2: Even even do this, you gin't gonn know me? If
Speaker 2: that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Do you realize that as that men can be sexually abused?
Speaker 2: I realized that now, Like I said, I just looked
Speaker 2: at as a regular thing.
Speaker 4: I ain't look at it. No different ways to come,
Speaker 4: ask for butter and sugar. Word of my mother, like damn,
Speaker 4: she asked for butter today? But so were you active
Speaker 4: sexually before that? I did probably know exactly what I
Speaker 4: was doing, Probably was mimicking like dry humping and spending
Speaker 4: five years old. Like I said, you're doing like corny
Speaker 4: ship spending a bottle tongue kiss and the shorty finger popping.
Speaker 2: Uh, you're not even really you know.
Speaker 1: And from that, from that experience, you wind up going
Speaker 1: and kind of blossoming into whatever that. So do you
Speaker 1: not to say not to say nothing. I wasn't attracted
Speaker 1: to women my age yet that time. Anymore, I know
Speaker 1: you you couldn't satisfy me. I know you ain't know
Speaker 1: what you're doing either, if that makes sense, Like we
Speaker 1: both can't be saying here nothing, what the hell we're doing?
Speaker 2: I needed you know, So after that, I was just
Speaker 2: so you can't see how that kind of kind of
Speaker 2: sets you along a certain path. Yeah, I see how
Speaker 2: how it affected now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you know, I especially black, we don't
Speaker 1: look at things like that as a certain way, right
Speaker 1: because yo, we're tough, or we don't, you know, I
Speaker 1: was talking in the chat today when an older man,
Speaker 1: when an older man tries to talk to a younger woman,
Speaker 1: they automatically creepy. Right, we already know it's creepy. When
Speaker 1: a older woman tries to talk to a younger man.
Speaker 1: She's a cougar or she's a milth. It's automatically sexualized.
Speaker 1: It's automatic, it's okay, right, and we don't realize that
Speaker 1: we are susceptible to the certain type of damage from
Speaker 1: being taken advantage of, just because we look at it
Speaker 1: as a come up, because society says it's.
Speaker 2: A come up. I just looked at experience, like, as we.
Speaker 1: Just said, that kind of set you on a certain
Speaker 1: path that you might not even realize.
Speaker 2: Then it had set you on. I realized that titties
Speaker 2: had a feeling.
Speaker 4: Admit something. You realize the neck means something. Boom, boom,
Speaker 4: the click the lips. She literally was like, yo, this this,
Speaker 4: do this, look web this, watch this, get wet, look
Speaker 4: at this. Look boom, hit this with your finger.
Speaker 2: Boom. You know what I mean?
Speaker 4: She literally was, I know you'll know what you're doing, right,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean? And like I said, the
Speaker 4: chicks used like they was like, what the hell?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the brothers.
Speaker 4: That they hit rabbit humping in the closet, they didn't
Speaker 4: realize that you had been come give sucking on a
Speaker 4: titty and they ship wet and class. They don't know
Speaker 4: what they do. You know, it was different.
Speaker 2: I see you want to say something.
Speaker 3: You was thinking, No, No, I'm just saying like, although
Speaker 3: I lost my virgines at a young age, it was
Speaker 3: with somebody that was just a year older than me,
Speaker 3: and and probably what wasn't even a whole year. It's
Speaker 3: just that hurt number was higher than mine by one.
Speaker 3: We were in the same class or whatever.
Speaker 4: Age. Yeah, the age you was, I was twelve, okay,
Speaker 4: so you was busting them.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So losing it that early though, like as you get older,
Speaker 3: as you get older and you kind of have these
Speaker 3: conversations where you talk about, hey, I lost it here,
Speaker 3: I lost it there. You know, a lot of people
Speaker 3: don't lose it in that that early, you know, so
Speaker 3: it's always a foreign conversation. And then you have the
Speaker 3: people that always, you know that say oh, yeah, I've
Speaker 3: done it. I've done it too, and they haven't. And
Speaker 3: you could tell based on what you've been through and
Speaker 3: the conversations that they're having with you, you kind of
Speaker 3: you don't relate or they don't relate to what you've
Speaker 3: actually experienced. So it's kind of like you, I don't know,
Speaker 3: but yeah, it's it's it's it's it's crazy. And like
Speaker 3: you said, when you think about it happening to your
Speaker 3: kids or kids, you know, it kind of changed the
Speaker 3: perspective a little bit. And we grew up in a
Speaker 3: society where it's okay for a boy to lose his virginity.
Speaker 3: In that age, it's more like a notch in the
Speaker 3: belt for us versus for a woman. It's more like
Speaker 3: a like a hit, you know.
Speaker 4: So, yeah, but I wasn't busting some considered, as I said,
Speaker 4: like as r more understanding of myself. I ain't come
Speaker 4: just called.
Speaker 3: But it's still it's still it's still sex in the
Speaker 3: in the essence of the actual sexual act, right, And
Speaker 3: that's that always goes back to like the delusion that
Speaker 3: some women have thinking, oh I didn't not so it
Speaker 3: didn't count.
Speaker 2: As a body.
Speaker 3: It's a body as soon as they walk in there,
Speaker 3: as soon as they get in there, it's a body.
Speaker 3: It's somebody that penetrated your walls, right, and it's any thing.
Speaker 2: Support you.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, you know, you know, as soon as
Speaker 3: you penetrate or get penetrated, it's a body, man. And
Speaker 3: you know, listen, I count every single time I penetrate.
Speaker 3: Like if I penetrated and somebody knocked and had to
Speaker 3: get out, it's a body. It's another notch.
Speaker 1: I was in there, and regardless of anything, just because
Speaker 1: this sexual gratification didn't happen. Didn't mean the experience wasn't
Speaker 1: there for you, because mentally it's still there.
Speaker 2: It happened, and it kind of set you on a
Speaker 2: certain path. So it did happen.
Speaker 1: You goun to say what I'm saying, I get and
Speaker 1: to his point, just to be funny about it, Yeah, Yo,
Speaker 1: I was fucking alloted for a long time. I didn't
Speaker 1: know how to make chicks nut. That's the body on
Speaker 1: my You can't. You don't got to count. I'm counting.
Speaker 2: I knocked that down. I'm like, so it is what
Speaker 2: it is. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Now that we're older, we are able to see changes
Speaker 1: in the way we viewed sex, in the way we
Speaker 1: view things facts. What I was going to say earlier
Speaker 1: is that physically, I've gone through certain changes. I've gone
Speaker 1: through moments where my ship wouldn't get hard, where I've
Speaker 1: lost an erection. You know what I'm saying. And you're
Speaker 1: sitting there like, yo, I don't. I don't know what
Speaker 1: just happened. Has has that happened to yas y'all got older?
Speaker 3: Of course, Yeah, I've had I've had a case of
Speaker 3: I was I was I think it's more so performance
Speaker 3: anxiety with this person because it only happened with her,
Speaker 3: and like that actually put me in my head a
Speaker 3: lot because it happened as soon as I like turned forty.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, this is losing.
Speaker 3: So you're you're in You're in that space and you're
Speaker 3: you're not quite understanding why it's happening because it's the
Speaker 3: first time, and you kind of fall into the space
Speaker 3: where you don't know what to say, you don't know
Speaker 3: how to like, I guess coach her through that experience
Speaker 3: that you're having. But yeah, that's happened to me before,
Speaker 3: and I've lost I've lost in direction before. I remember, Uh,
Speaker 3: this young lady that I'm saying, like she always jokes
Speaker 3: about getting baby goats, what the hell right, baby goat,
Speaker 3: like the actual baby goat, And we're fucking and you know,
Speaker 3: when you're having sex, you kind of lose a little
Speaker 3: bit of your deservant and you might say some things
Speaker 3: that you don't really mean. And she says we're gonna
Speaker 3: get a baby goat. I was like, we ain't getting
Speaker 3: no fucking goat. Then we both started laughing and I
Speaker 3: lost my direction.
Speaker 2: So like that, like if like again, I call it
Speaker 2: a baby goat.
Speaker 3: No, it's actually she wants an actual baby goat. She
Speaker 3: wanted to she wants goats. Yeah, that's a pet. That's pets.
Speaker 2: Of cute, to be honest, baby.
Speaker 4: Goats and ship like that, like yoga they do yoga
Speaker 4: jump on your back, Yeah, yoga that.
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you haven't seen that. Your goats is hil
Speaker 2: I like when they played that, they just they just
Speaker 2: dropped when they get scared. Yeah, that's that was that's
Speaker 2: pretty much by instead of that though, to be honest,
Speaker 2: has that ever happened to you? For us? Yeah, I've been.
Speaker 2: I've been.
Speaker 4: I've been too excited, anxious, you know, and then true words,
Speaker 4: I'm gonnat my short you know, well, I'm on this ship,
Speaker 4: but like a couple of weeks ago, my fucking my
Speaker 4: back was sore. Shorty wanted to fuck so my ship
Speaker 4: got there. As soon as I put it in there,
Speaker 4: that ship boom poom pushed me out.
Speaker 2: God damn. I looked at her. She said, you ti
Speaker 2: you nigga laid down. I said yeah yo, And I
Speaker 2: laid down And in the morning I was like you,
Speaker 2: good morning. I got my get back. I thought you
Speaker 2: was that I said, Nah, bitch, my back was really hurting.
Speaker 1: My joint was hurting, hurt, and I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: that's old man ship. That's really old man ship. But
Speaker 1: I did find this on.
Speaker 4: The in the game for us, I've been too anxious
Speaker 4: to where like I really wanted to Shorty and I
Speaker 4: got her now right, the whole time we in the
Speaker 4: call my joint.
Speaker 2: Rock Greg, watch the crib grig God getting the crib
Speaker 2: m I'm punching them. Yo yo, yo yo, What are
Speaker 2: you doing right now? The back of cold water is
Speaker 2: like numb, Like I don't feel water nothing. I'm like,
Speaker 2: what the hell happened? Like all the blood left me?
Speaker 2: But he did, but he's not there. I'm like, all
Speaker 2: suck it. It's not helping.
Speaker 3: Here's nothing with that same young lady that I had
Speaker 3: the issue with, right, I had a spank bank a
Speaker 3: video and me fucking and.
Speaker 2: And you know, you try to go in the bathroom
Speaker 2: and get hard. I did that.
Speaker 3: I didn't even go to like at this point we
Speaker 3: were done and she was she was laying and she
Speaker 3: was sleeping, and I started started scrolling through all that
Speaker 3: ship and I just leaned over.
Speaker 2: I put it on a porno myself, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: come on, you ready come back? Yeah? I didn't because
Speaker 2: I wanted that body. I was thinking, you can't let
Speaker 2: it out. I was thinking young.
Speaker 4: I wasn't thinking I ain't even calm down and get
Speaker 4: the ego. Yeah, because there's some real ship and sex.
Speaker 4: If you sit down and calm down and be comfortable,
Speaker 4: you fuck all night. Is when you tooper hype you
Speaker 4: super crazy, like yo, come in let me sometimes you gotta.
Speaker 1: Just is there a way to get past anxiety without
Speaker 1: it being spank bank or something like that?
Speaker 2: Conversation literally conversations.
Speaker 3: So the young lady that I had that issue with,
Speaker 3: she came back again, issue happened, came back again. If
Speaker 3: you happen and right. But when she came back that
Speaker 3: fourth time and the issue happened again, we just literally
Speaker 3: sat there and spoke and talked, and like out of nowhere,
Speaker 3: Dick got hard. I don't know it.
Speaker 2: We weren't even talking about sex.
Speaker 3: We we got past it talking about it and not
Speaker 3: not not rising to the occasion in that moment, But
Speaker 3: then we just started talking about anything else, and all
Speaker 3: of a sudden, Dick was hard as hell and we
Speaker 3: actually got to do what we came what we came
Speaker 3: to do, and it went well, so it I think.
Speaker 3: I think just having a conversation, getting out of your
Speaker 3: head is the most important thing because literally it's happening
Speaker 3: because you're in your head. That's what performance anxiety is.
Speaker 3: You know, you're literally in your head way too much
Speaker 3: and you just need to get out of it a
Speaker 3: little bit. And once you get there, goodn't money And
Speaker 3: another thing too, that really helps with performance anxiety.
Speaker 4: Go to the gym, but hold on. But then you
Speaker 4: got anxiousness too, So now you're dick hard, you in
Speaker 4: the pomp poom you pump oh ship damn about to
Speaker 4: come up?
Speaker 2: Ready?
Speaker 3: That too, that happens too, and that that that happens
Speaker 3: happens to me too. But that's that's typically because like
Speaker 3: again I'll be super excited and I didn't follow my
Speaker 3: own rules and just you know, beat one off like
Speaker 3: a couple of hours before she gets there.
Speaker 2: You do that.
Speaker 3: I'm doing that before, I pregame before that game before.
Speaker 3: It's really helpful. But I don't now, I don't, I don't.
Speaker 3: I stopped masturbating the middle of last year. I was like,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna stay away from it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just do that.
Speaker 3: No, you just I think I think I just started
Speaker 3: to have more more options than women around to like
Speaker 3: be like, you know what, I'll just wait, you know,
Speaker 3: And when you get into that situation where you just
Speaker 3: get your mindset out of that and you'll just wait,
Speaker 3: it's a lot harder for performance anxiety to happen because
Speaker 3: you're super excited to have sex.
Speaker 2: But then that other thing happens where you come fat
Speaker 2: too fast?
Speaker 3: Right, but then you know, typically when when I deal
Speaker 3: with women, the women I deal with because I like
Speaker 3: to have sex with one woman at a time.
Speaker 2: I don't do multiple women like like one Wednesday and
Speaker 2: one Thursday or.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't do that, so it's no just one
Speaker 3: in general, Like like basically, if I catch something, I
Speaker 3: want to know where because I don't use condoms.
Speaker 2: I hate them. Raw is law with me, raw doggy, right,
Speaker 2: So that'll get my dicks off too. Yeah, the condom
Speaker 2: forget the kind of smelling that ship, the smell of
Speaker 2: that ship like those so well, yeah, that's that's good.
Speaker 2: That's what I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1: That was another reason I wanted to stay in a
Speaker 1: relationship because I have condom sex.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that ship is the worst you. I'm assuming y'all
Speaker 2: do your whole exchanging and tests and all.
Speaker 3: My yeah, my chart is always up to date. Like
Speaker 3: I make sure that my charge is up to date. Also,
Speaker 3: I have this whole thirty day thing as well too,
Speaker 3: where we just literally talk for thirty days. No sex,
Speaker 3: no spending money, no dating, no nothing. So you kind
Speaker 3: of getting the idea is who this person is? You know,
Speaker 3: get a better idea so you can make a better
Speaker 3: decision as to whether or not you want to cross that.
Speaker 2: How do you know that they want to do the
Speaker 2: thirty eight things? I tell them. I'm very transparent, very transplated, like, yo, look,
Speaker 2: we're just going to talk, like look after they want
Speaker 2: he wants to Boston. Yeah, he wants to see I see,
Speaker 2: I see what he's doing by the time that thirty
Speaker 2: days up. They want the dick here.
Speaker 3: Professional table here professional Yeah, this niggas you professional professional.
Speaker 2: Minute between women?
Speaker 1: You take at least a thirty minute a thirty day
Speaker 1: break between each.
Speaker 3: At least at least because like if I let's say,
Speaker 3: if I clip a situation now, who know tpic I see,
Speaker 3: that's that's the thing, right you don't like clip to
Speaker 3: just find you. Kind of you kind of I wouldn't
Speaker 3: say have conversations with women all the time, but you
Speaker 3: kind of you kind of know like women that are
Speaker 3: kind of like open to having it right you kind
Speaker 3: of you're kind of like crowd source a little bit.
Speaker 3: So you typically don't go that long, you know, So
Speaker 3: basically it's at least thirty days. It's at least thirty
Speaker 3: days where you're kind of like and you got all
Speaker 3: of them different thirty days. So some people time is
Speaker 3: running out sooner than later.
Speaker 2: And that's the other thing too. I'm just I'm sorry
Speaker 2: it was crowdsauce. It was for me, it was crowds
Speaker 2: I'll listen out there, but it was crowdsaurce for me.
Speaker 2: What do you mean crowdsource?
Speaker 3: Crowdsources like kind of like you you you're out there
Speaker 3: as this person, right and people actually reach out to you,
Speaker 3: they jump in your DMS or whatever, or you meet
Speaker 3: them when you're out and about and you just gather
Speaker 3: information survey, you know, and you get to the extent
Speaker 3: where you're having conversations with multiple people. You're getting to
Speaker 3: know where they're at. So sometimes you don't even have
Speaker 3: to deal with thirty days because you already deal You've
Speaker 3: already had those conversations, you started those conversations. So like,
Speaker 3: like Fluss says, it doesn't always have to be thirty days,
Speaker 3: but I liked I like to have that that that
Speaker 3: period of thirty days. I'm not having sex in between people.
Speaker 3: I want to make sure that this person that I'm
Speaker 3: going to go into it with is ready on that
Speaker 3: level because we're not speaking to the extent where I'm like,
Speaker 3: you know, I could expect you to stay for thirty days,
Speaker 3: you know, because I'm not going to talk sexual with someone.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like pulling a gun and not shooting.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna talk sexual with someone unless I'm trying
Speaker 3: to fuck fact, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So, yeah, I don't. I don't either. I don't really
Speaker 2: like Yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I want you to think I was on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah baby, Look, I don't want I want you. I
Speaker 1: want you to be first of all, surprised at what
Speaker 1: I'm bringing to the table. It's hard for me to
Speaker 1: do that now obviously because of this. They everybody think
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna, you know, back out a fucking machine.
Speaker 2: First time.
Speaker 1: They want to say, like, I know he's got change
Speaker 1: hanging from his talking ship. Yeah, I know, but I
Speaker 1: told to you as a regular I'm a regular person, right,
Speaker 1: I just I want to know you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: who you are, what you're about.
Speaker 7: You know.
Speaker 3: I think that was a part of me hesitating to
Speaker 3: actually get into this space because of what people actually
Speaker 3: think of you while you're speaking this way. But again
Speaker 3: as you go, as you go, you realize that so
Speaker 3: much people are into this shit or whatever, and there's
Speaker 3: always a demographic for you when it comes to sex,
Speaker 3: Like if you are the quiet guy that doesn't talk
Speaker 3: about sex, it's a demographic for you, Like there's demographic
Speaker 3: for people like us that actually are open about talking
Speaker 3: about sex. Although I feel like that demographic is a
Speaker 3: lot bigger than we think, you know.
Speaker 2: But I like it here. I love it here. What
Speaker 2: was I gonna say?
Speaker 1: Oh, so before we go into further and I know
Speaker 1: tones like, motherfucker, do you run it too long?
Speaker 2: I want to edit this shit forever. I did want to.
Speaker 1: Bring up this post that I've seen on Instagram, and
Speaker 1: I'm not sure how true it is. You find shit
Speaker 1: and whatever people be saying shit, you take it for
Speaker 1: what it's worth. Why do I get soft during sex?
Speaker 1: Is the question that that is here, and it says myth.
Speaker 1: It says myth, a healthy penis gets hard when it's
Speaker 1: aroused and stays hard until ejaculation. I don't know why
Speaker 1: that's a myth, right, But it goes on to say
Speaker 1: the reality is a healthy penis goes through a natural
Speaker 1: cycle of soft, semi hard, soft, and then hard during
Speaker 1: a sexual experience.
Speaker 3: And I've done research on that as well. It tends
Speaker 3: to be normal. It's really the norm. So again, when
Speaker 3: I was going through that issue with the young lady,
Speaker 3: I've experienced all of that and I've done I can't
Speaker 3: imaginemp into a rabbit hole and come to find out
Speaker 3: that it is actually a thing. But here's the thing, right,
Speaker 3: some people go they go through those periods, but some
Speaker 3: people like that hard period is a lot longer than
Speaker 3: some people's hard period.
Speaker 2: But you still go through those cycles right about the
Speaker 2: soft period. Same thing. Sometimes the soft pair can go
Speaker 2: very long.
Speaker 3: Like you go into the bathroom, like you said, you
Speaker 3: go to the bath and watch your own porn, it
Speaker 3: still won't get up. It's because you're in that molde
Speaker 3: in that buble, and your body is just saying, hey,
Speaker 3: you need to be like this right now. And then
Speaker 3: at some point your body said, stop saying you need
Speaker 3: to be like this, and then you can fudge yourself.
Speaker 2: You ever taking honey packs?
Speaker 4: And she's like, yeah, no, no, I tell you. I'm
Speaker 4: a young old nigga. Alright, I worked out, I do
Speaker 4: sets of pushups out fucking around. Man, them niggas be
Speaker 4: going to corner store. It's still because I'm a little
Speaker 4: older than the doubt that young brother's in my hood.
Speaker 4: So one day I seen a young brother in my
Speaker 4: hood going to corner store and he was buying some
Speaker 4: like street fire packs.
Speaker 2: Like what's that.
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm about to go to a girl to night.
Speaker 4: I'm like, you're taking ship from the corner store. Yeah,
Speaker 4: gas station, take your ship from the corner store. You're
Speaker 4: taking ship in your youth. That's the bug part.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like in your like you're younger than right.
Speaker 3: So now, even even if the actual pills don't take
Speaker 3: to the effect to where you're addicted to it and
Speaker 3: have to use it, something in your head is saying that, oh,
Speaker 3: I need to get these pills.
Speaker 2: Because I'm about to do it.
Speaker 3: So then now it's kind of like a placebo effect
Speaker 3: in the sense like if you don't have access to
Speaker 3: these pills, you don't be sucked up.
Speaker 2: Yo. I used to so I make some sexual enhancements.
Speaker 2: And the reason I stopped taking them as often you
Speaker 2: said you made something, make them, you make them, Okay,
Speaker 2: you made healthy.
Speaker 1: But the thing is is that I realized you got
Speaker 1: to be a healthy person period because once you start
Speaker 1: depending on ship, your body's looking for that right and
Speaker 1: you don't ever want to create a deprediction dependency dependency
Speaker 1: on the ship.
Speaker 2: So natural remedies actually work. Working out is number one
Speaker 2: number one.
Speaker 1: That's why when I'm working, so a lot of y'all
Speaker 1: know I work sanitation, nigga, they'd be like, Yo, why
Speaker 1: you move so fast?
Speaker 2: Because this is my exercise. I need my blood to
Speaker 2: be running. You see white people jogging up and down
Speaker 2: the block, and y'all be standing there with running.
Speaker 4: You gotta run under a maule. We'll be a testosterone.
Speaker 4: Yeah over mal, you're actually weakening your ship. Yeah, I
Speaker 4: wreath the workout. There's a man that under you actually
Speaker 4: strengthen you. A testosterone in so if I'm on a
Speaker 4: bikeers at the same thing. Because if I'm.
Speaker 2: Running running, because I don't run running, I can't run
Speaker 2: my number. I'm too old. I cannot run. Nigga, my
Speaker 2: knees is going. Why you running? You had I was,
Speaker 2: that's if you noticed mad racist hates and I took
Speaker 2: a little jog to you.
Speaker 3: I like running Gladness. He was running to the song
Speaker 3: Gladys running in his work boots and working. I'm sorry,
Speaker 3: trying to get up. I'm sorry, I'm babies, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: My apology.
Speaker 1: In the Pimp there's a is new. It's paradigm. That's
Speaker 1: the word, right, paradigm is The post goes on to
Speaker 1: say new paradigm for couples get intimate with a limp penis,
Speaker 1: touch it for relaxation and pleasure, not just sex.
Speaker 2: Guys. Sorry, I'm about to say this. Let it grow
Speaker 2: in your hand or mouth. It was hard for me
Speaker 2: to say that. I'm sorry. I don't see nothing wrong
Speaker 2: with that. Yeah, I don't know, that's right, That's all
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 9: Like.
Speaker 2: Sometimes a woman isn't quite ready, and what do we
Speaker 2: have to do. We have to get it right right.
Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes we need a little warm up too. Sometimes
Speaker 2: ready just like women. Just like women, women are ready
Speaker 2: to go a lot of times. Sometimes we're ready to
Speaker 2: go to a lot of times we're ready to go to.
Speaker 2: Sometimes we're not rev up the engine for us. Sometimes
Speaker 2: you know you don't yo baby, baby, yo baby? Really
Speaker 2: have even? I like that too.
Speaker 3: If female sex was based on the glitterists getting hard,
Speaker 3: then the conversation will be less of a of a
Speaker 3: double standard.
Speaker 2: Did you know that it is? Though? What female sex
Speaker 2: is based female pleasure? It is.
Speaker 3: It's based on the clitaricists, right, so now so should
Speaker 3: be the pleasure is the pleasure is, But sex isn't
Speaker 3: right because we go inside. Right if the conversation was okay,
Speaker 3: if she can't get wet, the pussy doesn't open up,
Speaker 3: so you can't get in right And if you're hard,
Speaker 3: like you could work on something's lou There's so many
Speaker 3: things that you can do to make that happen. I
Speaker 3: think the stigma on men with their dicks not getting
Speaker 3: hard in certain situations it just it's it's just there's
Speaker 3: just so much behind it. Oh, you're not a man,
Speaker 3: you're not manly enough, Like, there's so much behind it.
Speaker 3: The hyper masculinity behind having an erection, whereas people really
Speaker 3: don't understand the anatomy. It's crazy, like not shitting on women,
Speaker 3: but a lot of women don't know how their anatomy works.
Speaker 3: A lot of people, a lot of women think that
Speaker 3: the clinicist is just right there, whereas it's something that
Speaker 3: goes in and straddles around the volva that that actually
Speaker 3: calls an erection. And that's why women like girth. Women
Speaker 3: like girth because the clinicals all wraps around the whole thing.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 3: So it's like we have to get a better understanding
Speaker 3: as to how the anatomy works for men and women
Speaker 3: so that sex is not such a thing where you
Speaker 3: can be put down in like, there's a lot of
Speaker 3: bullshit behind sex, and it's only because men and women
Speaker 3: both don't understand the anatomy of themselves or.
Speaker 2: The other person.
Speaker 1: Now, you said that women be having sex without hard clits.
Speaker 1: I ain't know that every chick I met they had
Speaker 1: a hot clit. Oh you did, yeah, with a soft click.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 4: I put my semi hard or soft piece in the
Speaker 4: womb and it's grown and some women like it more
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 2: It's like I sucked your dick like that ship like
Speaker 2: a pickfoot. But the end of the day, it's like.
Speaker 4: No, like you know, the strength, the strength, no weakness,
Speaker 4: it's like it's it's there, it's not it's you could
Speaker 4: if you.
Speaker 2: Jump off and the ship Green Room podcast, folks Green.
Speaker 1: I'm just making sure that they know what to because
Speaker 1: pigfoot is crazy, and make sure that they get these adjectives.
Speaker 4: No, no, not just it's just the Southern slane. It's
Speaker 4: just it's just the strength. Never had hard like a
Speaker 4: pick before strength. Man, how do you what do you
Speaker 4: do to get a woman's clip hard? There's different things conversation.
Speaker 4: Some is touched, some is tongue, some is suck. That's
Speaker 4: why I when you it's not eating the pussy, it's
Speaker 4: not licking the pussy.
Speaker 2: Is massage, know what you call it. But some women
Speaker 2: you need to do different things down there for the
Speaker 2: for their engine to get right. We'll talk some chicks.
Speaker 2: Once you touch it, it's ready, right, So yeah, because
Speaker 2: four play lasts so long before that. Yeah, the brain
Speaker 2: when they ship on that problem and you touch it
Speaker 2: is already like yeah, yeah, it's drooling. You gotta do.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just gonna go into the fighting part here
Speaker 1: just because we've been here for so long. First of all,
Speaker 1: you guys are great. Conversationalist. Is one of the best
Speaker 1: episodes I've done a long time. I really when I
Speaker 1: said that I wanted to do these new episodes with
Speaker 1: me before we get back and figure out what I'm
Speaker 1: going with the show with purpose. This is the kind
Speaker 1: of conversation I want that I appreciate. I want people
Speaker 1: to be able to take something home from these conversations, Like, Yo,
Speaker 1: that was fucking dope. Black men talking about this, men
Speaker 1: talking about sex in a productive.
Speaker 2: Way, in a way that I can learn some ship from.
Speaker 1: And you guys came and brought that ship and I
Speaker 1: didn't even know y'all was going to do it, Like
Speaker 1: we sit here playing games last.
Speaker 2: Week or the last time he was here the day
Speaker 2: that you shot shot shut up. Yes, that was a
Speaker 2: good episode. We're probably gonna release that on Patreon either way.
Speaker 2: You guys came with I was about to say it
Speaker 2: came with the thunder, but that's just bigfoot y'all going crazy.
Speaker 2: That's bad. We've all lived a certain life. We've all
Speaker 2: lived life in here.
Speaker 1: Now me personally, mm hmm, I've been in prison before.
Speaker 1: Have you guys ever been in prison before?
Speaker 2: I've been in the jail.
Speaker 3: Okay, so like right, locked up for a while on
Speaker 3: Rikers Rikers all right, yeah, oh wow, like like lessen
Speaker 3: the Yeah, okay, so you did listen.
Speaker 1: To year with nine months about eight? Damn you using
Speaker 1: jail for eight fucking months on the island. That's hard time.
Speaker 1: That's hard time.
Speaker 2: It's only hard when you think about it. That's how
Speaker 2: it goes. I think for me, sorry, we talked about
Speaker 2: two different things. Facts. Yes, you ain't even catching that's crazy.
Speaker 3: But for me, I think, I think, I think like
Speaker 3: every other human, you just acclimate to ship, you know,
Speaker 3: and once you once you, once you acclimate, it becomes
Speaker 3: an easy situation when you on, when you're on the island,
Speaker 3: it's like most people on there a short time the
Speaker 3: most you can do on this.
Speaker 1: Just to let you know, for us, i've seen that
Speaker 1: I do dumb ship so good though, Bro, he's trying
Speaker 1: to pull one with the top on it.
Speaker 2: I can't really see.
Speaker 4: You.
Speaker 3: You you acclimate right and again with right, because you
Speaker 3: do a short time, you don't do more than two
Speaker 3: years or right, you go there, so it's more than
Speaker 3: two years now, you can't.
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think you could do more than
Speaker 2: more than once you're sentenced.
Speaker 1: You can't do more than a year on right, once
Speaker 1: you give in the year. Right, But Rikers and you
Speaker 1: sentenced wrong with you be out of there well or
Speaker 1: you're telling.
Speaker 2: You basically you can't you can't do more than that.
Speaker 3: But either way, either way, it's like people are not
Speaker 3: really on there like that, unless it's the adolescents. The
Speaker 3: adolescents were the ones that are really wildent, but the
Speaker 3: adults they're wild too. But it wasn't niggas was just trying.
Speaker 2: To go home, you know.
Speaker 3: For the most part, you was, you was in a
Speaker 3: good building then Yeah it was CE seventy six. It
Speaker 3: said six building six field. Yeah, okay, what about you
Speaker 3: ever been in prison time?
Speaker 2: Nah? No, good, good good. I'm glad. I'm glad that
Speaker 2: you say that.
Speaker 4: All being places, yeah, but not no up north napping
Speaker 4: that sing singing, all that ship. I know, niggas who
Speaker 4: did that walk and all that? It's horrible and shout
Speaker 4: out tell your body behind the g wall and all
Speaker 4: that shit. But I don't want to like this. Nobody
Speaker 4: but being caught. Getting caught is not always a good thing.
Speaker 4: If you're a real criminal, it's not ever a good thing.
Speaker 2: Glorified.
Speaker 4: The ship is to get away, succeed or for what
Speaker 4: you're doing. It's not a successful robbery if you go
Speaker 4: in jail later for it. Success is you actually getting away,
Speaker 4: spending the money and everything smooth.
Speaker 2: Ship. Success is not having to do that shit no more.
Speaker 2: To be honest, no, I.
Speaker 4: Mean when you're young, sometimes, like you say, you do
Speaker 4: stupid shit. I mean, as you grow, you realize you
Speaker 4: could waste a lot of time doing stupid shit.
Speaker 2: You know. I seen.
Speaker 1: I remember when I got up North. The dude that
Speaker 1: was in the cell that they put me in, and
Speaker 1: be clear, the cell that they put me in when
Speaker 1: I got up north. He I was thirty one years old.
Speaker 1: He had been in jail for thirty two years.
Speaker 2: I was thirty one's wild when I got there.
Speaker 1: He had already done thirty two years and he wasn't
Speaker 1: nowhere near coming home. He was comfortable. Yeah see, and
Speaker 1: that's up North. The motherfucker that I've seen on Rikers
Speaker 1: when I got to Rikers. And I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: you the reason I said, that's a hard bid because
Speaker 1: them motherfuckers is all trying to prove each other.
Speaker 2: Where I was at r they all trying to that
Speaker 2: was happening, that happened, That was happening different. Yeah, that
Speaker 2: was happening too.
Speaker 3: But again, you go in there with the mindset that, like,
Speaker 3: you just don't want to be too cool with anybody,
Speaker 3: and you also don't want to be like on a
Speaker 3: situation where you just seem like you're soul removed from
Speaker 3: the situation that it makes you a target in that way.
Speaker 3: So you kind of once you find that balance of
Speaker 3: who you are in that space, I think altipatet that
Speaker 3: you be fine. You understand that you're start to understand
Speaker 3: the politics and what's going on. You understand who's because
Speaker 3: I was in I was in the dorms for the
Speaker 3: most part, you understand who is holding down the dorm like,
Speaker 3: and you just you just deal with the politics in
Speaker 3: that way. And I was always kind of inquisitive and
Speaker 3: smart at the same time, so like I wouldn't inquire
Speaker 3: about ship too much to the point where maybe you
Speaker 3: got pressed. Yeah, I got pressed the first day. They
Speaker 3: wanted they wanted my sneakers ship, they wanted my sneakers.
Speaker 3: First day, did you give me a sneaker? I know,
Speaker 3: I left with my ships.
Speaker 2: How did you get away? How did you get away
Speaker 2: with your sniggers? I told him, I told him, take
Speaker 2: him if you want him. But it's the same guy
Speaker 2: the next day.
Speaker 3: The next day he got fucked up because he was
Speaker 3: he was he was he was crip right, But most
Speaker 3: people know that rikers.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of bloods, right, and I wasn't. No,
Speaker 2: I was in the bloodhouse, but he was just it
Speaker 2: was just one crip there. It was. It was a bloodhouse. Bro.
Speaker 2: That's crazy. I think that's crazy.
Speaker 3: Said but you know, you know, you gotta when you
Speaker 3: when you get intake, you gotta kind of say that
Speaker 3: ship so you don't end up in the wrong house.
Speaker 2: Ready. They probably didn't say nothing, you know, but at
Speaker 2: the end of the day, left with my sneakers. Right.
Speaker 3: The reason I left my with my sneakers because when
Speaker 3: you when you're giving up your clothing, like you're literally
Speaker 3: handing him over to an inmate. So in my head,
Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, I'm probably not gonna get this ship
Speaker 3: because I came in. I came in some flash because
Speaker 3: I didn't know I was gonna get remanded, you know.
Speaker 3: So I came in in some fly ship because I
Speaker 3: had We went to a boat ride the night before
Speaker 3: and I knew I had the court date. I woke up,
Speaker 3: put on the same ship and then went to court.
Speaker 2: Dang.
Speaker 1: So I had this when Sean was wearing more fucking
Speaker 1: some ship. So I can imagine what he walked.
Speaker 2: In the rightkers with. I know, I know you thought
Speaker 2: about it, like, y'all ain't gonna put this in the
Speaker 2: locker or something. Bro. I had to hand the ship
Speaker 2: to the inmates.
Speaker 3: They may put it in the bag, and I was like,
Speaker 3: you know, I'm not putting I'm not I'm not giving
Speaker 3: up my sneakers and I'm not wearing no air patackis
Speaker 3: you feel me?
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's that. That's pretty much how dinkins man.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna what he's saying.
Speaker 1: I didn't do when I went into jail. I went
Speaker 1: right in the front of the motherfucking down right. So
Speaker 1: once they put you in the cell, they send you
Speaker 1: to doing with your classification. Drops to put you in
Speaker 1: the door.
Speaker 2: Push ups immediately, push ups immediately back to the wall, waiting.
Speaker 2: I'm waiting. She was waiting for whatever something's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for the pot because I was just figured
Speaker 1: that the first person to try it, it's just got
Speaker 1: to happen.
Speaker 2: I know I'm going up north, so I'm let's.
Speaker 1: Just get this over with because I don't see these
Speaker 1: niggas getting shaken left and right.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, y'all, niggas don't know me, like that
Speaker 2: happened to be a couple niggas didn't know me. But
Speaker 2: I don't know what time they on. They might be
Speaker 2: on one time outside and it is difference. I don't
Speaker 2: and I'm not. I'm not gonna be in nobody else's name,
Speaker 2: create my own name.
Speaker 1: Push ups all day till my body was you know,
Speaker 1: you gotta gain the weight because I was on trial,
Speaker 1: so it took for everybody that's in here.
Speaker 2: This is going somewhere, so give me some. I was
Speaker 2: on trial, so I lost weight because I was so
Speaker 2: scared of the trials on murder stress, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. So I go on the phone one day
Speaker 2: and this dude, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You know how they used to make the jerk off
Speaker 1: rooms in the shower in the bathroom, they put up.
Speaker 2: Your they put the sheet up around the thing.
Speaker 1: The Big Blood goes in the bathroom, puts his sheet up.
Speaker 1: I'm on the phone talking to my short Mexican dude
Speaker 1: comes in there, goes into the.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about the big Blood, the muscle.
Speaker 1: Bound nigga with his head big as his legs like
Speaker 1: this neck biggest his head like you can tell there's
Speaker 1: no weakness. This nigga comes flying first of the Mexican
Speaker 1: comes flying out the joint on some I'm sorry, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. He tries to walk off. Big Blood comes out,
Speaker 1: but ass naked, dig hard.
Speaker 2: Nigga.
Speaker 1: When I tell you, I ain't never seen somebody get
Speaker 1: their asso by a naked nigga.
Speaker 2: Before we beat the ship out this Mexican son, the
Speaker 2: Mexican must not have understood what the sheet meant.
Speaker 1: Beat them all into the shower, pounded them into the tiles,
Speaker 1: dig hard, that's crazy, and then just walk his nigked
Speaker 1: ass back through the down. He walked back to it
Speaker 1: because he wanted everybody to see. He knew he was
Speaker 1: going to shoot everybody.
Speaker 2: See me.
Speaker 1: Now, what's up? I'm sitting there like yo, I can't believe.
Speaker 1: I gotta go up north to this. I cannot believe.
Speaker 1: I gotta go up north to this. Did you see
Speaker 1: any crazy stories?
Speaker 3: But he was just the one guy guy that you
Speaker 3: know how one of your feet stinking jail, like your
Speaker 3: feet on fire.
Speaker 2: They put it so.
Speaker 3: For some reason, the guy didn't wake up. So the
Speaker 3: nigga ended up having most of his leg burned. I
Speaker 3: think his diabetes. He can feel it.
Speaker 2: So his ship got burnt up to like almost the kneecap.
Speaker 2: She was crazy. He was smelling crazy in there. Shake
Speaker 2: them off ship.
Speaker 3: I'm like yo, and everybody's making noise like wi, this
Speaker 3: nigga not getting up like because you know. Also you know,
Speaker 3: it's like it's almost like his feet was out, but
Speaker 3: he had the sheets on like he was covered. So
Speaker 3: I guess it cut on the sheets and had a
Speaker 3: ship like fucked up, fucked.
Speaker 2: Up well being that you was just on Rikers right.
Speaker 1: But respectfully, Ryks was a harder bid, especially for me.
Speaker 1: Once I got nor if it got real comfortable, everybody's chilling.
Speaker 1: We know we're here for a long time. Nobody's trying
Speaker 1: to prove this something. Everybody just trying to get me
Speaker 1: out living right Rikers in and out, So we just
Speaker 1: don't want to be, you know, tested. Once you get
Speaker 1: up north, it's cool.
Speaker 2: The one thing that I will say about up North
Speaker 2: is I saw a guy be a girl.
Speaker 1: And then when he went to so I only had
Speaker 1: one and a half. I had a one and a
Speaker 1: half to three years or something like that. One to three, right,
Speaker 1: So I went to Cayuga. I was there for a month,
Speaker 1: two months. My classication drop. They shipped me right to
Speaker 1: a minimum. You're going, you're getting going to Butler. You
Speaker 1: out of here, you know what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: was there in Cayuga. He walking around with his shirt tied.
Speaker 1: He got lipstick somehow. It's cool, right, couldn't remember. I
Speaker 1: wasn't there for long, so I never you know, And
Speaker 1: he got a girl for he got a boyfriend, he
Speaker 1: got a whole boyfriend.
Speaker 2: I'm north. And he walked and talked like a girl.
Speaker 2: So I'm b cause it's girls in there, but you know,
Speaker 2: you know it's a guy. But I wasn't really, he
Speaker 2: wasn't clear with sexuality and all that back then. This
Speaker 2: is twenty years ago. This is this is actually twenty
Speaker 2: years ago. So we've come so far in the world
Speaker 2: now where a lot of things is more normal. You
Speaker 2: see it more, you know what I mean. Like I
Speaker 2: didn't know there was a gay parade back then, Like
Speaker 2: I didn't know nothing about that. Like back then when
Speaker 2: I said, I'm like, what is that? You know what
Speaker 2: I mean? Like I didn't see it before.
Speaker 1: But fine, he was what they called him whatever. When
Speaker 1: I went to Butler, I was there for maybe six
Speaker 1: seven months, and he comes down.
Speaker 2: And he's a guy.
Speaker 1: Walking around thoug doubt no lipstick, his shirt ain't got
Speaker 1: the knot in the front no more.
Speaker 2: And I'm looking at him like he ready to go home.
Speaker 2: That's the same nigga b his girl.
Speaker 1: Coming to visit him on the floor. He got a wife, whatever,
Speaker 1: girl whatever, she's coming to visit him. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: and so the chatter came around, Yeah, nah, he was
Speaker 1: a girl up north. He going home, you know, he
Speaker 1: got a family going back. And I'm just like, Yo's
Speaker 1: I had never seen anything like that before. It was
Speaker 1: one of the wildest things I saw fights, I saw
Speaker 1: types of shit.
Speaker 2: I saw a dude.
Speaker 1: I saw a CEO Mason a dude, and the dude
Speaker 1: got the ben with his clothes. He caught the mace
Speaker 1: with the ben and put the CEO with it in
Speaker 1: the midst of him him hitting them. He's beating them
Speaker 1: up in the midst of the CEO trying to Mason,
Speaker 1: he's catching the mace in the bin and hitting the
Speaker 1: CEO with the ship and beating them with the fucking
Speaker 1: ben I'm like, yo, where do you find how do
Speaker 1: you figure.
Speaker 2: Out how to do that? So I saw all types
Speaker 2: of shit, but that was one of the craziest things. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean that.
Speaker 3: I mean, I know it doesn't happen much on records
Speaker 3: because again it's a short time, but I definitely seen
Speaker 3: that on records too, Like again the lipstick with the
Speaker 3: with the with the kool aid, and then they will
Speaker 3: get the mops and they'll die the mops with the
Speaker 3: same kool aid and wear the mops on their head.
Speaker 4: Let's hair nuts instead, ass like it is wild man,
Speaker 4: I watch. That's a mental ship.
Speaker 3: It's it's it's a mental ship and a survival ship.
Speaker 3: Like some people, some people like get into that space
Speaker 3: and they just to survive, Like for instance, the gentleman
Speaker 3: that you talk about, like he had to survive some way,
Speaker 3: some way, somehow, So he became a chick in there,
Speaker 3: right that was his thing. And when he's going to
Speaker 3: see his actually girl, actual girl, he's looking like any
Speaker 3: one of us on this couch, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So it's like I think it's a matter of survival
Speaker 3: for them, like and it is mental as well, because
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you. I'd rather get my ass
Speaker 3: beat pause every day, like fighting wise, than to have
Speaker 3: to deal with that kind of ship.
Speaker 2: Imagine at that thirty two, that dude that was in
Speaker 2: there for thirty two years. I seen her. I seen
Speaker 2: a I seen a video of this old dude. He
Speaker 2: was like, Yo, they put me in a cell. And
Speaker 2: this dude was like, Yo, I gotta fuck something. The
Speaker 2: dude that he was in the cell, it was like, Yo,
Speaker 2: I'm tired of fucking around. I gotta funck something.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And the dude was sitting there just he
Speaker 1: was looking like a crack and two he was just
Speaker 1: looking like what you mean.
Speaker 2: Yo. You could tell he had a hard time in there. Man.
Speaker 2: He said he cut the dude up or whatever. But
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I don't know if that's I
Speaker 2: don't know about that. I don't know about that.
Speaker 4: Then you're in there and these dudes be built of stone.
Speaker 2: They've been doing nothing but push ups for thirty years.
Speaker 2: What are you gonna do with this nigga? What are
Speaker 2: you gonna do? Calisthetics some sneakers. Listen, listen, take myself.
Speaker 2: Let me clear this ship up right now. I'm ready.
Speaker 3: If I felt tonight, if I felt if I felt
Speaker 3: like I could not fight the nigga that was asked
Speaker 3: me for my sniggers, I did give up the sneakers.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you. I'm not.
Speaker 3: I'm not one of those stupid niggas, right, So if
Speaker 3: it was multiple niggas, I'm like, yo, look it's not
Speaker 3: it's here. I want to do my time and get
Speaker 3: the funk out.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 4: It's like it's like the conversation you have with women
Speaker 4: you gotta leave with empathy. Don't ever just give up
Speaker 4: your sneakers. Nah that so you know you're not gonna win,
Speaker 4: but make it look like you kind of took it,
Speaker 4: that you just gave it. No, I get what you're saying,
Speaker 4: like you're gonna work for it, but I'm not gonna.
Speaker 4: I'm not going tooth and nail for these ships.
Speaker 1: Like I'm not just sneakersh I'm not you give up
Speaker 1: the sneakers your booty next Nah that right there, that
Speaker 1: right there, I'm gonna die on.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna die on that. You're not You're not that
Speaker 3: you're not doing to me like I won't let women
Speaker 3: eat my ass.
Speaker 2: Women they're not strong to you, well bigger than you.
Speaker 2: But either way, either way, no, bro, that ship, that
Speaker 2: ship can't happen. That can't happen like I That's what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm good with. They been like six of
Speaker 2: them dead.
Speaker 3: They once you fool you nothing you could do the
Speaker 3: way a nigga is gonna fuck me as if he's
Speaker 3: into necrophilia.
Speaker 2: I have to be dead. I have to be dead.
Speaker 2: They're gonna be sucking a corpse. I have to be dead.
Speaker 2: There's no way. Did you did you have any did
Speaker 2: you like get magazines and stuff like that? Was no,
Speaker 2: Actually I didn't. I didn't. I didn't even I didn't
Speaker 2: even jernk Off nothing, none of that was I did
Speaker 2: none of that. I just why nigga.
Speaker 1: I first of all, I didn't know they had buttman
Speaker 1: magazines and like that. You see the butt Man magazine.
Speaker 2: Never heard of that. Oh, man, b U T T
Speaker 2: M A N google it.
Speaker 1: They let those magazines into the joint penthouse. They might
Speaker 1: rip out the naked pictures, but the stories is there.
Speaker 1: I started reading the stories. Put up my sheet.
Speaker 2: I'm in there, Bro, what imagine crazy?
Speaker 4: But that's good. You gotta imagination because you already know
Speaker 4: where to feel like. Imagine some of the brothers who
Speaker 4: went there, who.
Speaker 2: Never had never never know what it feels like, never
Speaker 2: had nothing. That means you don't know what you're missing.
Speaker 2: God damn, you don't know what you're missing. Going crazy?
Speaker 2: Oh the butt man, I can't see the thing. Put
Speaker 2: it up there. Imagine getting that. You've been in jail
Speaker 2: for three years. Bro.
Speaker 1: It's people that had whole libraries of buttman magazines.
Speaker 2: I was so horny. I was my mother. Got man's
Speaker 2: up now, nigga. I want a butt man right now.
Speaker 2: Somebody send me a butt man.
Speaker 4: I want a butt man just for the culture. Send
Speaker 4: the butt man to the green similar to the green
Speaker 4: room too, y'all for real? Uh yo, just telling you purposes,
Speaker 4: all right, BRO? I called my mother, man, how old
Speaker 4: is she? She might have been fifty five or something
Speaker 4: like that at the time. I need you to do
Speaker 4: me a favor.
Speaker 1: I need you to go to the magazine store on
Speaker 1: Flatbush and Bergen get me butt man, episode seventy four.
Speaker 2: It just came out. Sent my mom's to the store
Speaker 2: to get yo. Can you yo? How horny you gotta
Speaker 2: be to do that? Bro? You gotta be ultra horned?
Speaker 2: How old you gotta be?
Speaker 4: There?
Speaker 2: I was a monster viagua. My mother is afrocentric. She
Speaker 2: wears can take off and she's gonna get But then
Speaker 2: you sing your mother to the magazine stop man, my
Speaker 2: my thing? What that is?
Speaker 3: I want to know what the journey was like for her,
Speaker 3: like the mindset that she had to get in when
Speaker 3: she was ready to go do it, walking in there
Speaker 3: asking for it.
Speaker 2: That's my baby, that's from my baby. Knew I was
Speaker 2: fucked up. But my mother knows. She knows.
Speaker 1: My mother has caught me eating pussy before when I
Speaker 1: was a young child. She my mother actually had to
Speaker 1: call me like, yo, I need you to tell her
Speaker 1: not to make those kinds of screamings.
Speaker 2: My mom watched me build a glory hole in the
Speaker 2: front yard and yeah, to be to play. My mother
Speaker 2: knows me.
Speaker 1: My mom came in here and seen the dil though,
Speaker 1: this big on the fucking counter once and I was
Speaker 1: just like, so she said, hey, as long as y'all
Speaker 1: having fun.
Speaker 2: So she I love that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: That's dope.
Speaker 1: Shit started from when I was young, and you know,
Speaker 1: you used to smoke in your room and try to
Speaker 1: hide and you put the towels on the door. One
Speaker 1: day she just forced her way in and give me
Speaker 1: something m and I was like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, one of those cool mobs you don't hell know.
Speaker 1: But she she she's adaptive because she knew the streets
Speaker 1: was right there, right, because you could have been doing
Speaker 1: it out there, but you're doing it. She knew the
Speaker 1: streets was right there, and the streets I'm no avenue,
Speaker 1: this is real and they rock, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So she was like, I'd rather you right here, go
Speaker 2: ahead and do what you're doing. So boom I do.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask you a question and harder sore fashion. Right. Uh,
Speaker 2: this has been a great episode. I appreciate it. I've
Speaker 2: already asked you once. So I want you to run
Speaker 2: me through your hearts and your sauces before we leave,
Speaker 2: all right, give you guys.
Speaker 1: A couple of seconds to think things that make you
Speaker 1: hard versus things that make you soft. We're gonna start
Speaker 1: with the heart fuzzy, you got something something and hold
Speaker 1: on fuzz What hard things that you like?
Speaker 2: Oh? Thank the description big foot?
Speaker 1: Things men like in the bedroom, something like earlier you said,
Speaker 1: you know, I like chest kisses or something like that.
Speaker 1: But make it more personal, right, because we've had everything.
Speaker 1: I've been doing the show for two three years now.
Speaker 1: We've had everything from riding to spit or whatever. Something
Speaker 1: that's personal to you that somebody out.
Speaker 2: There can say, Yo, I'm glad it's not just me.
Speaker 2: I like that shit. You know what I'm saying. Things
Speaker 2: men like in the bedroom, things that make you hard
Speaker 2: far as you go first, glad of you.
Speaker 4: Next, damn yeah, too much of them, but on a
Speaker 4: when they're not too nasty, but calm shit. I like
Speaker 4: spitting on, spitting in the bitch mouth, fucking like choker
Speaker 4: spinning her mouth. Wow, hod I like swallow that ship.
Speaker 2: Yeah you ever had a spit back at you? Yeah?
Speaker 2: You cool? The bitch like that? Yet? Why nothing? So
Speaker 2: you are you? Are you big on peeing on them? Peeing? Man?
Speaker 2: But the bitch squirred on me enough time so that
Speaker 2: I think that's pissed anyway you drink it.
Speaker 4: Then when you drink, drink I opened my mouth twice
Speaker 4: three times, never swallowed, been nasty with it. But when
Speaker 4: you when you're drinking a little too much too like
Speaker 4: after the second third night, it be this pisch too
Speaker 4: on a load, piss on the whole. She like it
Speaker 4: going to shallow come back and.
Speaker 2: Said when he not not tist hit that pis. If
Speaker 2: you drinking after the third night, you just come too drunk.
Speaker 4: You have went through, just got it you in one
Speaker 4: no more. You just if she's still with it, you're like,
Speaker 4: oh you want to keep going?
Speaker 2: Hold this hol that hold ya yo? Do they be
Speaker 2: good with that? Some of them like it? What about
Speaker 2: the other.
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 10: What about they be mad? But it is what the
Speaker 10: I told her, I had too much liquor. Sorry, So yeah,
Speaker 10: that's it. Oops my bad, Yeah, oops, that must be
Speaker 10: it bad.
Speaker 2: It's crazy, claanny, help me out, Help me out, you
Speaker 2: asked the question. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I never heard what he said. I didn't hear what
Speaker 1: he said. Oh ship, things men like in the bedroom.
Speaker 3: Things that make you hard, right, oh for me, things
Speaker 3: that make me hard, definitely I like a bush.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: I like a bush because of the and the pheromones
Speaker 3: that it hold and just the wafts of it coming
Speaker 3: to me. That ship drives me insane, bro, No, insane, insane.
Speaker 2: Big bush. Like, do you like the arm here too?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 3: Just I'm not eating on the armor eating pussy. So
Speaker 3: like that ship right there, everything everything, especially like if
Speaker 3: you kind of like bikini cut your ship, like and
Speaker 3: it's just just the triangle.
Speaker 2: Take it. God, bro, you know what, I ain't mad
Speaker 2: at it. Bro. A nice twist here too, bitch, you
Speaker 2: know you know what it is.
Speaker 3: I mean, you know what it is like if I'm
Speaker 3: if we're watching TV or whatever, even if we already
Speaker 3: have sex already. Right, my hand is down there and
Speaker 3: I'm like rubbing. I'm doing like this with the hands
Speaker 3: in between that feeling and it has to be asked
Speaker 3: to be black women for the most part, because they
Speaker 3: have it's more coarse. That ship feels amazing between my fingers, man,
Speaker 3: and again just knowing I could just pick my hand
Speaker 3: up and do this real quirt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, discing in the building. Oh my god, yeah, something
Speaker 2: like that. I love It's perfect. I love that. That's
Speaker 2: just that's that is that's.
Speaker 3: A good questions like the screen man and also women,
Speaker 3: you know, it's really good for vagina health when you
Speaker 3: have the bush, believe it or not. When you're taking
Speaker 3: the hair off, you're letting your you're letting in more
Speaker 3: bacteria that's bad for your inside. The bush actually helps
Speaker 3: keep it out.
Speaker 2: So I just said that a fact. It's like a
Speaker 2: screen door. I've heard different. I've heard that the bush
Speaker 2: actually collects bacteria. I'm not sure, but where is it going?
Speaker 2: It's staying in the bush. It's not going inside. Right.
Speaker 3: The collect the collection of the bactery that is collecting
Speaker 3: is keeping it from going in the pussy. You know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Think about think about nose heres. Here
Speaker 3: is your eyelashes. It's keeping things out. It's there for
Speaker 3: a reason. Doctor G just saying, so what's the beer
Speaker 3: there for the flavor saving? You know when you're actually
Speaker 3: down there dripping, you know, they have.
Speaker 2: A walk down the block and you oh that's up.
Speaker 1: Now. Men don't really like to talk about things we
Speaker 1: don't like. In my in my uh experience, I kind
Speaker 1: of just deal with things I don't like. I just
Speaker 1: be like, all right, it's got to deal with and
Speaker 1: it's cold.
Speaker 2: It's now.
Speaker 1: They use all types of words for men having boundaries,
Speaker 1: men having preferences.
Speaker 2: The sassy it's the sassy Olympics. It's what they're saying.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna ask you about some things that you
Speaker 1: might not like, all right, things men don't like in
Speaker 1: the bedroom again, be specific, go to whatever I remember.
Speaker 1: And I always used this example. I said, I didn't
Speaker 1: like reverse colgirl. You turn around, you're looking that way.
Speaker 1: You're just bouncing in my hands. I can't what am
Speaker 1: I doing here. I'm just just the middle of nowhere,
Speaker 1: just getting bounced on. I need me as a dominant.
Speaker 1: I need to feel that i'm doing something. So just
Speaker 1: having you sitting there and didn't really do it for
Speaker 1: me at the time. Now my opinion that's changed. Shout
Speaker 1: out to wife, she's you're a OK by me. But
Speaker 1: that was one of my examples of things that I
Speaker 1: didn't like about sex, things you know, that made me
Speaker 1: soft fus, it's on you. Things men don't like in
Speaker 1: the bedroom, things that.
Speaker 2: Make you.
Speaker 4: It's two things I say, two things. One don't bite
Speaker 4: my ship to stop it from moving in your throat
Speaker 4: like and the bitch bite on your ship because you're
Speaker 4: too far in the back of their throat. Don't stop
Speaker 4: doing that, just like put your hand up, don't use
Speaker 4: your teeth, no teeth, no teeth, put your hand on
Speaker 4: my stomach. Push you off, like stop going too far.
Speaker 4: But when they do that, like try to block with
Speaker 4: no stop that. You hang out with this guy and
Speaker 4: I don't like I don't like the guy. I don't
Speaker 4: like throw up bitches. I had to throw up a lot.
Speaker 2: I don't like them. You give it, you give it
Speaker 2: on context clues.
Speaker 4: What if you're too far in there? So just they
Speaker 4: got to push their hands is free? You ain't they
Speaker 4: ain't even locked up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you be gunning throat down, you be gunning? What's up?
Speaker 2: You be gunning throat? Bro just throat.
Speaker 1: They gotta bite you. They throwing up that gets your
Speaker 1: gunning throat.
Speaker 2: No, it's part of that. That's what they do.
Speaker 4: It's what they do. They want to I guess understanding.
Speaker 4: They tolerance and ship. So you just you enjoying what's
Speaker 4: going on. But end of the day, it's like, come on,
Speaker 4: so don't start something.
Speaker 2: Then you doing on ship, don't bike ship, don't start
Speaker 2: And you're like, just if you really with it, just
Speaker 2: be with it. That should be it. If you really
Speaker 2: with it, be with it because that comes with all
Speaker 2: kind of ship. Yeah, thats crazy in prison. I know
Speaker 2: a crazy nigga when I see it, that's crazy. Fuss.
Speaker 2: What's up? God? Thank you my brother. I appreciate it. Man,
Speaker 2: it's all good. Nice to meet.
Speaker 4: You can't sorry before we finished. You know, my condonuces
Speaker 4: to the loss in your family and all of that ship.
Speaker 4: You can't say that earlier. But it's wont that you
Speaker 4: want to throw that in there too.
Speaker 2: I really do appreciate that little. I really do appreciate that.
Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, when you got somebody
Speaker 1: in your life that matters, the memory is there. She's
Speaker 1: gating me so many gems. I wouldn't be here doing
Speaker 1: the show if it wasn't for us. That's a whole
Speaker 1: different story, no problem.
Speaker 2: But Gladdy.
Speaker 3: Myself is definitely it's just crazy. It's definitely reverse cowgirl
Speaker 3: for me, no way. Yeah, because I kind of like
Speaker 3: I have an upward curve. So when that ship hurts
Speaker 3: and be hard like this fucking might stand like that
Speaker 3: ship hurts like a motherfucker because they like to lean
Speaker 3: forward when they're doing it right now, when they lean
Speaker 3: back and they're doing it, that's different. I like that,
Speaker 3: but I also like to see the ass. So when
Speaker 3: they lean forward, it looks good, but it just doesn't
Speaker 3: feel great.
Speaker 2: That always, because right here the joint, I don't like that.
Speaker 2: I feel like I gotta get up. That's one thing. Man.
Speaker 2: The straight guys, no curve. You could do that all day.
Speaker 2: You do whatever you want. I ain't got no I
Speaker 2: ain't got no no no, what do you call it?
Speaker 2: No handicap, hooks, I ain't got no handicap. You ain't
Speaker 2: got to go a certain way. Hey, baby, I'm right
Speaker 2: here with you. Okay.
Speaker 1: So all y'all curved monsters, all you people out there
Speaker 1: that just carve curve, you're missing out, all right.
Speaker 2: A straight guy's got something to say with straight guys,
Speaker 2: got something to say? Yeah, I got was like, word,
Speaker 2: what's up there?
Speaker 4: Bro?
Speaker 2: We actually have.
Speaker 1: From our nut Navy, and we never took one before.
Speaker 1: I don't think they never took a saw from the navy.
Speaker 1: Glad you're closer to the screen.
Speaker 2: Can you see it? She said, Please stop automatically pulling.
Speaker 2: He said that, Oh wait.
Speaker 3: His name is Bo Okay, all right, I'm gonna read
Speaker 3: it anyways, Please stop automatically pulling the foreskin back. Suck
Speaker 3: on the deck a little, ease it back, then naturally
Speaker 3: let it roll back on its own. Oh that makes sense.
Speaker 3: I mean I'm circumcised, but that sounds like it makes sense. Yeah,
Speaker 3: to those who not circumcised, that's probably a good thing
Speaker 3: for you.
Speaker 2: Wait, that's a thing. Who's not circumcised, it's probably a
Speaker 2: thing for you. I didn't know that was a thing.
Speaker 1: I thought the women were supposed to pull the ship back,
Speaker 1: so you you have to let it roll back on
Speaker 1: its own.
Speaker 7: Wait, we jump in can I be heard on this
Speaker 7: jump in here? But like, are you saying, don't pull
Speaker 7: it back too fast? Like like, suck on a little bit,
Speaker 7: warm it up, and then slide it back. That's what
Speaker 7: I'm getting.
Speaker 2: He's saying. Bitch is just coming in pulling it back Like, yeah,
Speaker 2: let it ease back, he said. If you don't, it
Speaker 2: can tear. Oh have mercy ship And with that, indeed
Speaker 2: on that bro.
Speaker 1: I would like to again thank our guests from the
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Speaker 2: We got to get out of there. Thank y'all for
Speaker 2: being patient with me. I used to with the gunshots.
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