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Speaker 4: Well, hello, beard lovers and lad lovers, Billy got.

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Speaker 5: A beer, Welcome to the pod. Thanks for getting it on.

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Thanks for telling a friend. That's how we spread the

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word about the bird shift. So it is me and

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you tonight.

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Speaker 2: What's going on.

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Speaker 4: Before the show? Yeah, you and I were talking about

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your beard and said he said Jesus would like your beard. Yeah,

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so there's this woman like okay, So now there's there's

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thousands of people who as soon as you believe you've

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died and gone to heaven and met Jesus, yeah, you

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have to do a video about what Jesus looks like

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and what he said to you. So there's thousands of

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these and thousand of different stories. This is when black

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woman tells her son they're doing a podcast. So when

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I saw Jesus, he had like a chin strap beard,

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like one of those, you know, those really thin rail beards,

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and he had this big nose, and he had this

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like like dirty blond hair and it was long. And

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I'm like, so Jesus was like, you know, shaven, apparently

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in heaven, like he probably like I'm gonna get I'm

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gonna do a pencil thin beard right here.

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Speaker 1: I thought they recreated what Jesus would look like. And

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he walked with a limp, and he was ugly.

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Speaker 4: The Bible says he was not he he was not

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calmly or anything or something like that. He was just

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he didn't look like anybody special. He wasn't like rapping,

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he wasn't good looking or anything like that, like a

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weed out of the out of the ground.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I have no idea.

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Speaker 4: A lot of people think Jesus had long hair.

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Speaker 2: That's not true. No, Nazareth cut it or something.

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Speaker 4: No, his section of Judaism, his sect of Judaism, they

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didn't believe in long hair. He was a Shemel like

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Jewish person. They didn't have long hair. I think you'd

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like your beard.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. Well, so I have not

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shaved right, and so today you have.

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Speaker 4: That fully shaped. It looks like you've added some definition

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to your long I did.

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Speaker 1: I did, and I told you yesterday I went too

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high on the sides and I don't really like it.

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Speaker 2: So I'm just letting things go.

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Speaker 4: Randscaped.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And so today I popped into a place.

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Speaker 1: And uh, there there's a bunch of women that worked there,

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and I don't really know them. I just and then

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they said, hey, letting that grow and I said, yeah,

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I am. And then one woman from the reluctant.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I just said, yeah I am.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I fucking child. Yeah yeah, I got the beard.

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And some people like make a big deal about it, like, yeah,

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well that'she I'm going I made a decision.

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Speaker 2: No, yeah I didn't. I don't know what he's.

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Speaker 4: Supposed to say.

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Speaker 2: Exactly what are you supposed to right?

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Speaker 4: So you can't just say yeah, I guess I.

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Speaker 2: Women go through this all the time, right, change your

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nail polish color. Did you huh h.

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Speaker 4: Look at those whatever curling today?

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Speaker 1: So I got the you're letting grow on a little

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bit and I said yeah, and they said, uh from.

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Speaker 2: The back, this one goes looks good. Makes your eyes pop.

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Speaker 4: I was like, god damn, yeah, I know. Hello, I

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wouldn't use that term, but yeah, it's good. It does

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make your eyes pop. I don't know if it has

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more definition, like when I grew like a soul patch

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had soul petro what people said it brought out my eyes?

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Speaker 2: Did they?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It's weird? Are they really? And most of these.

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Speaker 2: Guys were men, Oh hey, hey fellaw.

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Speaker 4: But this one woman go gets your face more definition,

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like thank you. I want to start you in jocks

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er side cleft in my chink. You look like you

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look like Danny I do a budgie doboy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so I would be the Mark Hillman.

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Speaker 2: I've had an odd day. I went to the way.

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Speaker 4: What happened your head en?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I know, but this is kind of no. Yeah, I

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guess that's fair. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I went I if you didn't have enough, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Trying to get myself like back, I feel like I

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I'll be brutally, rawly honest as much as I can be,

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because you know, there's stuff. But I feel like probably

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the last two years or so have been a struggle.

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But but for I haven't really embraced things the right way.

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the line of delineation, I'm not really sure what would

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be the death of my day. And from there I went, Okay,

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you know I would refer to him as my great protector.

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Your great protector's gone. You got to got to get

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shipped together. You got a kid living with you, You get this,

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and and not that anything is like drastically bad.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say that, but I just know

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me and I know how I was. And I'll tell

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you this.

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Speaker 1: Somebody on the podcast said to me, I feel like

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you've lost your edge and meaning like your your killer

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instinct this you know, win at all costs, which you know.

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Speaker 2: All right, oh yeah right?

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Speaker 4: And I and I go watching the Cowboys documentary. You're

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Jimmy Johnson at this point, well you were Jimmy Johnson. Yeah,

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And I do you become Barry Switter?

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Speaker 1: I will say that I don't I don't know that

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that was a healthy way to be. So I want

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to do the things I need to do to set

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myself up to win and not get pissed off if

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things don't go there's a certain way. Yeah, you see

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what I'm saying. But but I took that and I

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went that person's not wrong. That's what I said to myself.

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That person's not wrong. And so I want to kind

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of get my ship together. So I've been trying to

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why keep looking over Yeah, but I don't think it

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was bad.

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Speaker 4: I didn't think it was bad. All right, we don't

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think it's bad.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well why why?

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Speaker 4: I could picture him saying.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right, all right, leave it,

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go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 4: No nothing. You want to mimic it?

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Speaker 2: I know you do, right there.

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Speaker 4: I can't.

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Speaker 1: I can't impersonate that person, I said. So I've been

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going to take work after the breath.

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Speaker 2: So I've been.

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Speaker 1: Going to take exercise classes two days a week, and

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I've been walking a bunch, trying to run, but I

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really can't. And I went on a I went on

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a walk a walk date with my friend and I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't keep up. Remember I told you it was

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all sweaty and all that. Right. Yeah, I walked in.

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Speaker 4: You had a sweatshirt but no undershirt. Yeah, that was Sunday.

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Speaker 2: That was a Sunday. We went for a walk.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean she was cooking. So I'm like, fuck, man,

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I gotta get my ass in gear here. I used

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to run, Like I hear times that kids are running

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and I'm like, yeah, somebody goes to me. Uh yeah,

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my kid had to to make the team. They had

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to run a seven minute mile. I'm like, I was

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twelve running a six minute mile. Yeah, I don't know

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what that means.

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Speaker 4: Roger.

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Speaker 1: Let me just tell you something to this. Let me

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just explain something. I couldn't run a six minute mile today.

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I couldn't run a seven minute so I went. So

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I went to the y and I don't have all

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my keys on one thing. And the reason I don't

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have keys on one thing is I have another person

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in the house who I found out likes to take

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a car once in a while, and they can't. So

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I keep all the keys, but they're fobs and I

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haven't put the house whatever.

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Speaker 2: It's fucked up. So I have two key rings. So

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I leave this class.

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Speaker 1: I grabbed the keys to the car, my phone, and

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I walk out. I'm driving back and I'm going it's

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a good distance back in the Fairport. I have an

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appointment at eleven. It's now ten ten.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna jump in the SHOWERNA.

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Speaker 1: Go and I go, shit, I don't have the keys

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to get in, Like, wonder if I drop them now

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I'm panicked, so I'm looking through the car.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking through others.

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Speaker 1: Not panicked. This is my point. I don't know what's happening.

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I'm not panicked. I'm like, oh, they're probably at the Why,

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and I should be like, God, damn.

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Speaker 6: It fucking ruin my whole day. I'm sweaty. I want

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to get out of these clothes I can't get and

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I'm like, all right, I get back in the car.

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I drive out to the Why. I go back to

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the locker I had there are my keys and grab

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them out other thing.

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Speaker 2: I go up. This Why has a smoothie station. I

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get a smoothie. I have a cup of coffee.

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Speaker 1: I call my kids, who are in New York City together,

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and then I drive out to my eleven o'clock point

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and I.

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Speaker 2: Go, well, this is and I'm like, why this is

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where I go.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I've lost my edge, I don't know, or maybe

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it's the beard idea, could be it's just make I

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just feel like everything's just like there. I'm doing what

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I need to do and I don't care about the result. Okay, good,

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you know what I mean. Yeah, I'm hoping. I'm expecting

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the best.

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Speaker 4: But losing your edge, well, or your edge could change,

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your target could change, you could pivot right. Because the

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guy that I worked that had an edge, that edge

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was a double edged sol you what yeah, no, yeah,

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come on, you think what are you talking about?

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Speaker 7: Think?

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Speaker 2: What do you say?

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Speaker 4: I mean, you had a competitive streak. But man, sometimes

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Bobby Knight or Mike Ditko or uh oh, Jimmy Johnson

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can come out.

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Speaker 1: When when we were together, it was I had this

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survival thing and I wanted to prove that I that

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I was as good as.

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Speaker 2: I believed I was.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know the feeling and still doing it.

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Speaker 1: So I figured I'm gonna I'm gonna make this work.

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I'm going to figure out a way to make this work.

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And by this I mean you had brother Weez Yes,

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who was was an icon in Rochester radio, in the

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national Radio Hall of Fame. The guy super talented, and

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I worked with him and had a pleasure of doing that.

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He but he didn't really business side of things. He

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didn't protect himself with the people that were really great

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for him, and he's gone through many iterations of a

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show since he left CMF and the people that were there,

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And so then it was down to like me and Tommy,

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and I knew that I made more than producers, and

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I had three kids and one that was on the

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spectrum that I needed.

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Speaker 2: Did that.

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Speaker 1: I got all this in my ear and I went, Okay,

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so I just go, I'm gonna fucking make this work

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at all costs. And you're walking around a building where

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they had a big notepad, big giant sticky notepad on

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an easel talking about all the strengths of the afternoon

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guy who was on one of their stations, clearly trying.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: It was like sending a message, and I'm like, I,

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I go, I don't have an ally here, right, I

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don't have an ally. I don't have a Stan Maine

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in my life. Stan Maine hired me. Stan doesn't remember,

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but Stan hired me and I and was so fucking

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cool to me and loved my audition tape and just

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said to me, we do five hours of funny radio day,

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can you do something straight? And I said yes, And

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then within like two weeks he.

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Speaker 2: Was like yeah, whatever.

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Speaker 1: So uh, but I didn't have an ally there, so

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it was like I gotta fucking work my ass off

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and get down and focus. And you were screening phone calls.

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But even to just get.

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Speaker 2: A phone screening room.

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Speaker 1: Was like a pulling teeth with these guys because they

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didn't want they didn't they weren't going to do anything.

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This new company that was buying the station, and I

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had got over there and we's came for a minute

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and then he left, and so now you're in this

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odd space of whatever and you're trying to It was

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just the probably the strangest time in my work life

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that I had ever experienced. And I look back now

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and I go, how fucking awesome was that? I mean,

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it is it is awesome, Like there's a lot of

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things that are going to come out of that. For me,

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I think down the line that it was awesome. But

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when when push came to shove, there was like I tried,

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I knew I could I see things developing. I can

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see it. It's like a storm front, like you know,

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and I can see things building. And I would go

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to management and go hey, and one of them was

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a certain person was going to come back and be

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the GM across the street. And I told them that.

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I told them, I said, this is what's going to happen.

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This person's been taking me to lunch for a couple

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months now, A really good friend was in my wedding.

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But it's going to come back, and it's going to

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jack that thing up, and we're going to have a

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problem because he's gonna save what was.

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Speaker 2: The sinking ship.

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Speaker 1: We's was around people who he didn't trust, and it

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was all new, and so he's sort of.

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Speaker 2: Scrambling.

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Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't that, it wasn't it wasn't management stuff.

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It was the people in the room with him. And

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I'll say, like Jamie Listle, it's not that Jamie wasn't talented.

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Jamie's fucking hilarious dude. But they didn't have the years

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of rapport that he had with Tommy. So therefore you

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weren't going to get that instantly. And I think and

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so there was no one there, and I will say

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this there was no one on the management side that

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could coach that talent that could come into that room,

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like Stanley could come in and you go, hey, baby,

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what's happening, and you know, we just go and they

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would have a conversation and we's would leave feeling comfortable.

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of alone in his own thing too. And but the

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whole point was like, so the ratings come out, they

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don't do as good as they think they they're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: Uh, And I.

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Speaker 1: Think everybody was like a little wobbly about that, and

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we're working our ass off and the whole thing that's

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getting back to me as well, there's confusion in the market,

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and that may be because people write things down right,

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So I go, well, fuck this, I'm we're gonna win.

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And so that was my thing. I was, fuck this,

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we're gonna win. I am gonna find a way through anything.

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And you know it would be right, I'm gonna fucking win.

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I will find a way. I'm a smart guy, I

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know how to talk. I'm gonna fucking figure this out

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and that and that's when I would fight everybody because

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anybody who got my way.

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Speaker 2: It was an obstacle. You're either with me or you're

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against me. That was it.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's not how life works. Edged Sword, Yeah, you

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know it's not. That's not how life works. And if

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you live that way, you're gonna have a harder time either.

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There you can line up with stuff and try to

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talk to people and be kind and get there maybe

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quicker than if you go fuck you, it's I'm doing

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it this way. You can grind it out as much

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as you want. You'll get there. You'll get there. You'll

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be miserable. And I was often hired were crumpy, right,

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but you know.

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Speaker 2: So it's it was an interesting time.

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Speaker 1: Though in radio Holy fuck, I I look back and

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go that that that was probably the most stressful time

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that for me because in the new building you had

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all these people. Then they're talking about putting Ted NuGen

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on as a morning show and this and that, and

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I'm like no, and then somebody listened and when I

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think you got something in here, and I was like, okay, good,

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and then that person became a great ally.

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Speaker 2: But but I had to prove that there was.

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Speaker 4: Something there and we need to find a champion.

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Speaker 1: And I did, and I fucking and then that champion left, yes,

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and then that was another battle well, and I wish

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I had handled that differently because I don't know that

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that new guy was bad. I sat in meetings with

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him over and over and over. I was gonna do

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anything I could to maintain and try to appear like

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I was a good player, because don't forget, I had

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gone into like.

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Speaker 2: You think of this.

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Speaker 1: You have a boss, right, everybody's got a boss, and

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you walk into your boss's office and you know they're

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gonna tell you, hey, man, this is the thing, and

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you got it. The boss should be respected. I did

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not have a lot of respect for this boss. This

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boss no longer, by the way, is employed.

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Speaker 2: In that capacity.

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Speaker 1: Uh this, So I I went into this person and

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they said something to me, and I went, I'm basically

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the CEO.

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Speaker 2: That was the direct quote. I'm basically the CEO of

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the show.

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Speaker 1: They that got around too, I'm sure it did. I

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said it, and I didn't care. I was like, I

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don't give a fuck. There's nothing that happens on the

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air in this show that I'm one hundred percent aware of.

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There is nothing. And the fact that you have your

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head in the sand about things. Fuck you, I know

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what we're up against. And that person I was talking

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about came back and they had something in radio called trends. Okay,

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and then they take the trends and out of that

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they give you your ratings. You didn't get your ratings

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for three months in a market like this, but the trends,

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the trends come out, and I think we pulled a

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zero in one of the trends.

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Speaker 4: Yeah we did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's impossible. It's it's impossible. There's some weird thing.

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But whoever out the diaries, we got nothing. So they

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took that across the street and they fucking ran with it.

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And they're young, and it's a fucking trend. If anybody

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knows anything about radio, it means nothing, means fucking nothing.

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But that pissed me off, and I was all I needed.

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And it was one of those things like you know,

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I guess you talk about Michael.

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Speaker 2: Jordan and that was a personal what do you say?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I took it fucking personally and I just go, fuck

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you went. I am going to fight a way I

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am going to win.

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Speaker 1: Not only am I gonna win, I am gonna fucking

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ship down your neck and win and I and we did.

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Speaker 2: We did.

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Speaker 1: In the end, we did. I don't give a fuck

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when anybody says we did. We won and and but

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but at what cost? At what costs? Mike Rabel, head

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coach of the New England Patriots, Mike very very Rabel,

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excuse me? The team released wide receiver Kendrick Bourne and

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safety Marcus Epps. Not really familiar with these guys, but

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they were let go and one of the reporters said

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they're very upset or they're happy to be leaving or

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something like that. So the newspapers were like, ah, Mike

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Rabel went on a rambling thing, comparing it to a girlfriend.

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And I did not think it was rambling. I thought

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it was actually spot on. We'll let you listen to

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Mike Rabel talking about two players who were released from

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the team, and then he's and the way he couches

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is they're basically going, well, good, that team sucks anyway,

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is what they're saying.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's sort of a childish response.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, this news to me, And.

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Speaker 9: I mean, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 8: I think that we just again try to put the

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roster together, mate, I guess when it when it doesn't work, out.

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You know you you know, you break up with somebody,

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your girlfriend doesn't want to be with you, and then

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you say, well I don't want to be with you either.

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I'm not going to get into.

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Speaker 4: All that, right, Yeah, so was that.

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Speaker 8: I just said, I'm not gonna get into it. It

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was just like, you know what I mean, We're not

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going to go back and forth here, we're trying to

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build a roster. You got to move on from some guys.

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Make connections with guys, you coach them. They are opportunities,

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they get more opportunities, they take advantage of them, and

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that's kind of how these things go.

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Speaker 1: There.

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Speaker 4: You go, you want to talk about a guy who's

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trying to be one hundred percent signal Mike Vrabel may

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be the guy in the NFL trying to be one.

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I'm he's dead. You know what he's saying. Guys leave,

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they have sour gress.

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Speaker 2: That's what it is.

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Speaker 4: How do the media screw that up?

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Speaker 1: No, it's well they just said rambling thing about girlfriends

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and I go, no, no is every guy gets stumped

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and he goes, yeah, she was.

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Speaker 2: At new bitch.

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Speaker 1: Sorry sorry for the sea words, but the uh, she

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was a bitch anyway, you know what she smells like,

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there would be.

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Speaker 2: Something childish like that.

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Speaker 4: And seven years I know, I got used to it.

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Speaker 1: You know, when you walk around sometimes you just forget

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that right.

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Speaker 2: It's like.

474
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Speaker 1: The guys are dumb. They did say dumb stuff because

475
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you're hurt.

476
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Speaker 4: Yes, you're hurt. We say a lot of things.

477
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Speaker 2: You're hurt, and you get caught from a team and

478
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you're hurt.

479
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Speaker 4: By the way, Stefan Diggs, as I predicted, is still

480
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on the team. Want to pro point that out for

481
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the media, who's Oh, he can't survive this, Oh he

482
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can't survive Just listen to me. Go on, Billy, want

483
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to talk about sal grapes? Go ahead, there, it is

484
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all right.

485
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Speaker 1: I don't know how to say this guy's name, and

486
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they only refer to him as defender.

487
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Speaker 4: Okay.

488
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Speaker 1: Kansas City Chiefs have released a veteran okay named Mike

489
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is it panel?

490
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Speaker 2: Could be E N N E L.

491
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never heard of him.

492
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Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm like, what exactly the defender means? I

493
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don't know what that is. I don't know he's been

494
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around the league.

495
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Speaker 2: I think he played for the Jets. I think he

496
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played for the Bears.

497
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Speaker 4: Story real quick.

498
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, but he got released from the team and

499
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then posted this on his Instagram. I'm gonna play the audio.

500
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It's the Joker. It's uh, what's his name playing? Keith

501
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,559
is the Joker, dangerous Joker talking about like burning it

502
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all down and then we'll see how loyal hungry dog's.

503
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Speaker 4: Everything burns.

504
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

505
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Speaker 1: So a weird thing for a guy to post. But

506
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it almost sounds like he's coming for the team. He's

507
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pissed off, He's gonna burn it down, doesn't it. That

508
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,519
sounded like that to me. I'm like, what's wrong with this?

509
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Speaker 4: He's have had a history of stupid stuff like that,

510
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So going back beyond Andy Reid, so you might want

511
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to beave up your security this week. So weird by

512
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the way he fled, you know, he modeled himself after

513
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to play the Joker. I think you're a fan of

514
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this guy, Tom Waits. Oh yeah, I did enough after

515
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Tom Waits to play the Joker.

516
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Speaker 2: Well, Tom Waits is a little I am a fan.

517
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Speaker 4: He's ecentric.

518
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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a little crazy.

519
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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's crazy hair, he things.

520
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Speaker 2: Weird on a downtown Yeah, I love Downtown.

521
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Speaker 4: Trained by him. I like Rod Stewart's version.

522
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Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people do. It's nicer, but yeah,

523
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it's a little more tolerable. I like, I like, I

524
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like the different. I don't know, it's different to me.

525
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Speaker 4: Yeah that is a little strange that Mike Pennell or whatever.

526
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so okay, So I didn't I thought it down, especially.

527
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Speaker 4: Right after what happened yesterday. Weird taste well in the

528
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shooting and everything.

529
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I forgot about that already. That's

530
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how fast heard me too. I just haven't spent a

531
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lot of time thinking. I haven't forgotten about it. I

532
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thought about it a little bit, but not much. We

533
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did mention the Patriots. The Bills have new uniforms that

534
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they're playing against the Patriots. I think they're called the Rivalries.

535
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Speaker 4: Jersey levelry uniforms.

536
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Speaker 2: I fucking love them, and people are making like, somebody

537
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goes to me, how.

538
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Speaker 4: To fuck you love this? Most people love them.

539
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Speaker 2: I thought they look great.

540
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541
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I seriously have no opinion on it.

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one reason.

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way they did it is presented is cold, which is

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overall down, but for people in their fifties is what

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they say. I'm going to go late forties to fifties. Uh,

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it seems to be on the rise. And the reason

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is they're calling it the meno divorce, meaning menopause is

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causing the divorce. I have this piece from Good Morning America.

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We can listen to it a little bit and hear

619
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what they have to You know, well, whether we agree disagree, certainly,

620
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I think you come from more of a I think

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you would even have seen your first marriage through if

622
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there wasn't something.

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Speaker 2: That had happened.

624
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Speaker 10: Yes, I was gonna say something terrible, menopause.

625
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Speaker 4: So say what you're gonna say. No, we're friends. See

626
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what you're gonna say, is something hit what we're on

627
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our way out? No matter what.

628
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Speaker 2: It's just because they had another penis go.

629
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Speaker 1: Interrupted by yeah, sleeplessness.

630
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Speaker 11: But divorce, I think men of divorce is this idea

631
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that a lot of divorces are happening because of menopause.

632
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Speaker 10: Melissa McClure was with her husband for fourteen years.

633
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Speaker 12: I was so angry. I felt like I wanted to

634
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burn the world down. I didn't recognize myself anymore, and

635
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therefore my husband didn't know how to handle me as well.

636
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Speaker 10: They've been separated for a year now.

637
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Speaker 1: Now why are we not talking to him? I want

638
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to hear his side of it, right.

639
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Speaker 2: Holy fuck?

640
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Speaker 4: I want responsible journalism. Yeah you get one side.

641
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Speaker 1: I want both sides. I want to hear how bad

642
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:59,160
it was, yes, right, yeah, yeah, But I've.

643
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Speaker 2: Heard that it's terrible.

644
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:02,839
Speaker 4: Like menopause.

645
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:07,079
Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, like hot flashes and can't get comfortable

646
00:32:07,759 --> 00:32:10,920
and irritable and it sounds like you're not getting laid

647
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during that time, fellas, But if you love the person

648
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you know, you make it work.

649
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,799
Speaker 2: You try to anyway, but both people have.

650
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Speaker 12: To try having more clarity now impopause that I am

651
00:32:23,599 --> 00:32:26,000
no longer willing to be a people pleaser. I'm no

652
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longer willing to be a nurturer.

653
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Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa?

654
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 2: What What did she say?

655
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Speaker 12: Really gave me that clarity.

656
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,039
Speaker 4: I'm no longer willing to be a people pleaser. Okay,

657
00:32:38,079 --> 00:32:40,799
that part I could see. I'm no longer willing to

658
00:32:40,799 --> 00:32:47,000
be a nurturer. Okay, but that's your role in life.

659
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Speaker 1: One of you, guys, one of your I'm always surprised

660
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because there's a term that people will use and it's

661
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partner or partners. And I think if you're going to

662
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be a partner, you got to be pulling your weight. Yes,

663
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And there are sometimes with guys and maybe I don't know,

664
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but they don't or maybe they do. And the wife

665
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it's never.

666
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Speaker 2: I guess it's never going to be completely equal.

667
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Speaker 1: But when you've got kids, and I will say this,

668
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if you have a job and you're the primary cooker

669
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in your family, or you gotta get home, you gotta

670
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get dinner going, you gotta like there's a lot of

671
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shit that seems to fall at least old school.

672
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Speaker 2: Thinking right to the woman, like where's the dinner? Woman?

673
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You know what I mean? A woman wear's my dinner

674
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every working all day.

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Speaker 1: I want to know, but I I just so I

676
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can't say. I wish I could back this up to

677
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hear what she said. I think sometimes though, when it

678
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comes to nurturing, there are women who it's like having

679
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,680
another child in the house. I used to get mad

680
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at the commercial that mom got got a cold and

681
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dad I had. I used to get so fucking pissed

682
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of this because it made every guy look like a dumb,

683
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fucking dope. Because when I was married, not that my

684
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wife couldn't, she just didn't like to do the ironing,

685
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and I ironed everything. I would iron my fucking jeans.

686
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I ironed everything. I didn't want to wrinkle in anything.

687
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Speaker 2: I was weird.

688
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Speaker 1: And this guy comes in and he's got an iron

689
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burn in the back of his shirt, and the kid's

690
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clothes are all pink because he washed the fucking lunger.

691
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I go, Okay, maybe that's true in some instance, but

692
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not every fucking guy's a morn like that, right, you know,

693
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it's it's twenty whatever it was at the time that

694
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this commercial was.

695
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Speaker 4: This was in the nineties. I remember this commercial.

696
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Speaker 2: I thought they reran it.

697
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Speaker 4: Maybe they did it was in the nineties.

698
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Speaker 2: It bothered me. It bothered me. I remember I was

699
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:51,440
married when I saw.

700
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Speaker 1: It too, so I was I think it may have

701
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been a day quill commercial, so I can say, like,

702
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I get it, if you're if the guy's not pulling

703
00:34:57,679 --> 00:35:00,320
his weight and shit like that, and then who want to.

704
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 2: Deal with a cranky person? I don't give a fuck

705
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,639
what gender they are. I don't care. You're an asshole.

706
00:35:06,199 --> 00:35:07,719
No one wants to deal with you how many times?

707
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 1: Like you know, your wife just wants to kick you

708
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,480
out to the fucking garage because you're just being a dick.

709
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:16,039
And then vice versa. Right, you know, give me your

710
00:35:16,159 --> 00:35:19,800
fucking mano pause. I'll give you a meno pause.

711
00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:25,559
Speaker 4: You know it's it's never the menopause, manopause, whatever it is.

712
00:35:25,639 --> 00:35:28,440
That's that's that's the final straw. I think it starts

713
00:35:28,559 --> 00:35:29,320
way before that.

714
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:34,079
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. I have no idea. Some point, somebody.

715
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 4: Puts the kids in front of the husband or wife.

716
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:42,239
That's the first step towards a disaster. I've I was

717
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,199
listening to a pastor talk about this. He goes, I'm

718
00:35:45,199 --> 00:35:48,320
at the receiving line at the end of church. He said,

719
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,000
and the couples will come up with their kids and

720
00:35:52,039 --> 00:35:53,599
all of a sudden, one of the kids need something

721
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,440
and the wife will look to me. And this happened

722
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,480
more than one time. My husband knows his place and

723
00:35:59,519 --> 00:36:02,000
he goes, no, no, no, no, no no. Your husband

724
00:36:02,039 --> 00:36:04,599
needs to come first, and you need to come first

725
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,920
after Jesus in his life, or it's never gonna work

726
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:10,840
if the kids all of a sudden, Now the kids

727
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,679
are growing up and you got nothing in comic is

728
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:14,079
what happened? You put all your time to the kids

729
00:36:14,119 --> 00:36:18,079
and not into each other. That happens. No, the menopause

730
00:36:18,119 --> 00:36:20,000
part is just like the final art.

731
00:36:20,079 --> 00:36:20,679
Speaker 2: This is why.

732
00:36:21,119 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 4: No, it is the It is the final straw. Because

733
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,159
all the idiosyncrasies over the past ten, fifteen, twenty years

734
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:28,880
are now adding up. And now when you start acting

735
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,280
cranky for no reason, and it could be either person,

736
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:32,679
that's usually like.

737
00:36:32,639 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 2: Well, that is it. That's a fair point.

738
00:36:34,599 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 12: I can't say I turned my whole life down and

739
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,599
I started again, and then I just like, I'm so

740
00:36:40,679 --> 00:36:42,960
much happier now, well for.

741
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,559
Speaker 4: Now, well maybe she is happy.

742
00:36:44,559 --> 00:36:45,119
Speaker 2: Maybe she is.

743
00:36:45,199 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 4: I know a woman who basically left her kids and

744
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,800
her husband just was like, you know, all right, I'm

745
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,760
gonna serve myself. And she was great for the first

746
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:56,880
five six years. Now she's miserable and those kids ain't

747
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:57,440
coming back.

748
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,599
Speaker 2: How do you know, Because I know them.

749
00:36:59,599 --> 00:37:01,119
Speaker 4: I'm gonna to them.

750
00:37:03,079 --> 00:37:07,159
Speaker 10: Straights overall are dropping, Divorce among adults fifty and older

751
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,840
are on the rise and account for almost one in

752
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:10,960
three breakups.

753
00:37:11,159 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 11: What can happen early on in marriages is seen as

754
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,920
maybe a ruffle, and after the shift in hormones, it

755
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:19,360
now becomes an avalanche.

756
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, in other words, your fault, the final straw, it's

757
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,840
your fault, beach, final straw, hormones.

758
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 4: I think there was a lead up.

759
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: I think it's tough. I think I think it's very tough,

760
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,599
and I think you're right. I think you have to

761
00:37:32,679 --> 00:37:34,760
keep the communication. I want to get to this one

762
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:35,840
point a part.

763
00:37:35,639 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 9: In the story that's probably one of the biggest things

764
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,880
that I hear about is the irritation they may feel

765
00:37:42,159 --> 00:37:44,079
with the person that they've been with for the longest

766
00:37:44,079 --> 00:37:46,880
period of time. Sometimes it's the way they chew or

767
00:37:47,039 --> 00:37:48,440
you know, it's.

768
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:52,159
Speaker 1: Funny as that is idiosyncrasies. Yeah, started, like everything starts

769
00:37:52,159 --> 00:37:54,280
to bother you. Yes, the other person, right, It can

770
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,360
really really get that way. That's why you need to

771
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:58,199
keep it fresh.

772
00:37:58,519 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 2: Fellas.

773
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 1: And I mean got a fall a little bit on you.

774
00:38:02,079 --> 00:38:04,199
I'm gonna give you a tip, a tip that I

775
00:38:04,199 --> 00:38:10,719
think works. Listen, really listen to what's being said, because

776
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:15,199
in those conversations, little hints are dropped about things, maybe

777
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,599
not intentionally but like I'm not not planning to see

778
00:38:18,639 --> 00:38:21,519
but so that way, all of a sudden you can

779
00:38:21,599 --> 00:38:25,559
surprise the person with you know, like let's say this,

780
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,559
UH was telling you, Oh God, I talked to uh,

781
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,480
talk to Lisa today. Oh how's Lisa doing?

782
00:38:32,679 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 4: That's great?

783
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:33,559
Speaker 11: Gee?

784
00:38:33,639 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: You know, I was so happy and she found that

785
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,360
they went to this restaurant and they loved it. It was

786
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,280
blah blah blah restaurant and this and that sounds so

787
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,559
great and the and the kids come storming, and then

788
00:38:43,679 --> 00:38:48,039
the conversation goes, go fucking make reservations at that restaurant

789
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,079
a month later. Don't do it tomorrow, because then then

790
00:38:52,079 --> 00:38:54,119
they'll be like, yeah, give it, give it a give

791
00:38:54,159 --> 00:38:56,480
it a little breathing room, give it a breathing room,

792
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,440
and then do that. And I'm telling you that kind

793
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,760
of ship I think I think works. Take it from

794
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,960
a guy who failed several me too. Several times.

795
00:39:07,159 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 2: Here we go a little more.

796
00:39:08,199 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 9: The way they, you know, look at them in certain ways.

797
00:39:11,039 --> 00:39:14,159
Speaker 10: Something that was true for Pennsylvania. Wife and mom done

798
00:39:14,199 --> 00:39:16,159
a hoffmeister, just little.

799
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 2: Things what said Hoffmeister at me.

800
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:22,639
Speaker 7: Often I'd be in a bad mood and respond poorly.

801
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:26,320
They weren't doing anything majorly wrong, I know, they were.

802
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,119
Speaker 2: Just it's her.

803
00:39:27,599 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: He's's got two sons and a husband. It's all dudes,

804
00:39:30,599 --> 00:39:33,400
all dudes, it's all dudes. They weren't doing anything majorly wrong.

805
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,360
But there was probably a puddle on the floor and

806
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,360
he stepped in it in the bathroom and you.

807
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 4: Don't press state was acting up at two o'clock in

808
00:39:40,039 --> 00:39:41,880
the morning. Maybe they didn't want to, like turn the

809
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,239
light on. They went to take a leak they missed.

810
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, it's like anything.

811
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 7: Just didn't have the tolerance to put up with any

812
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:51,159
of their crap.

813
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,519
Speaker 1: So I don't know what that crap is, but we

814
00:39:54,559 --> 00:39:57,559
all do things like you get you know, let's say

815
00:39:57,599 --> 00:39:59,480
it's the kids come home and they just throw their

816
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:03,159
shit around, or the pile shit in the sink, and

817
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:08,119
those things can can become the little irritance about somebody

818
00:40:08,159 --> 00:40:09,760
that could break things up.

819
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 10: She found help from an obg y N who got

820
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:13,199
her on hormone therapy.

821
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:13,519
Speaker 3: Man.

822
00:40:13,559 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 10: Donna says her husband worked hard to understand.

823
00:40:17,079 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 7: He's one that he just starts to do and take

824
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,239
care of things because he's trying to lighten my load.

825
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 10: That's how he responded, just swallow his what the pair

826
00:40:26,079 --> 00:40:28,960
working on their communication and still together.

827
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 7: I'm one of the lucky ones. He definitely just even

828
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,239
talking about I started to well up a little bit.

829
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:34,320
I've got a good one.

830
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 9: We can give you the hormones, the HRT, but we

831
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,360
can't do a husband replacement therapy, right, That's something you

832
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:41,320
might have to do on your O.

833
00:40:43,079 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 4: I thought that was cute. I thought it was She.

834
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 13: Chuckled husband replacement therapy out for some.

835
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,599
Speaker 2: Some guys are going fuck yeah.

836
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: Bobby Slaton used to do a whole bit about how

837
00:40:58,039 --> 00:40:59,280
jealousy was of gay guys.

838
00:41:01,119 --> 00:41:03,079
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll hear this.

839
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,599
Speaker 2: No, the bit was I'm gonna do it wrong, but

840
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,880
I'll just talking. Bobby wou My wife tried to me plugging.

841
00:41:10,079 --> 00:41:11,800
Let me tell you what I look at gay guys

842
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,559
like get jealous. You know what they get to do, Uh,

843
00:41:13,639 --> 00:41:18,199
they have Section one and they watch the game. I

844
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,960
gotta cuddle. There's no cuddling to these gay guys in Hey,

845
00:41:22,039 --> 00:41:22,679
what a beer.

846
00:41:23,079 --> 00:41:26,599
Speaker 1: Let's watch the game. I don't think that's exactly true,

847
00:41:26,679 --> 00:41:28,679
but yeah, who was it?

848
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,519
Speaker 4: Maybe with somebody at this show or somewhere. I heard

849
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:32,880
like a friend of mine said, like, what's the highest

850
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,079
divorce rate? Lesbian? It's why it's two women. They'll never

851
00:41:35,079 --> 00:41:38,079
get along. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know if that's either.

852
00:41:38,119 --> 00:41:41,039
Speaker 13: The couples had a good run and then they're clear

853
00:41:41,079 --> 00:41:43,199
it's time to call it quits. But for those who

854
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,960
want to stay in their relationships, these folks all had

855
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:50,199
some good advice. First, recognize the mood disrupting impacts of perimenopause.

856
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 10: Try and get in front of that. Seek help, be

857
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,480
it from an obg y.

858
00:41:54,559 --> 00:41:58,199
Speaker 13: N Well, I'll tell you this, this is counselor this

859
00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:58,719
is stuff.

860
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: And I mean, in all seriousness, I need to just

861
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,440
let the hang for a second because they're so right.

862
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,639
There's so many sexist jokes you can me but I

863
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:13,079
think it's so im important that these things get talked

864
00:42:13,079 --> 00:42:16,880
about because I don't think they were when my mom

865
00:42:17,079 --> 00:42:20,519
was going through this, which would have been probably in

866
00:42:20,559 --> 00:42:24,679
the early nineties, and I certainly wasn't talked about when

867
00:42:24,679 --> 00:42:27,199
my grandmother went through it, you know what I mean.

868
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:31,719
And so you were just labeled a bitch or whatever,

869
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,679
or here we go again. It's her being her, and

870
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,679
maybe she had some legitimate gripes. It just had, you know,

871
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,760
with everything else, and there was no appreciation for it.

872
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 2: There was no.

873
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 1: Explanation behind it. It was just irrational behavior and not treated.

874
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,880
And I think that when you talk about these things,

875
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,760
like I was saying to somebody today, something came up

876
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,159
and I go, yeah, well, you know, being molested. I

877
00:42:55,159 --> 00:42:59,159
think talking about that helps other people, makes them not

878
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,079
feel alone. I'm sure there's a woman somewhere.

879
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,519
Speaker 2: Who goes, I don't know why I'm such a fucking

880
00:43:03,559 --> 00:43:04,239
reaching bitch.

881
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:05,039
Speaker 4: You know.

882
00:43:05,199 --> 00:43:08,119
Speaker 1: You get a moment of clarity and I'm treating him

883
00:43:08,119 --> 00:43:10,000
like shit and he's getting mad at me, and all

884
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,079
we do is fight anymore, and I feel like it's

885
00:43:12,119 --> 00:43:15,920
my fault, but I can't figure Yeah, well, good these

886
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,360
this is this is from Good Morning America.

887
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 2: I think it's a great piece.

888
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:24,599
Speaker 1: At the end, there's no reason really play it they

889
00:43:24,639 --> 00:43:27,320
go back to the studio. Stephanopoulos is there. He's not

890
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:33,239
saying shit. Okay, But Sam Champion, who's the weather guy,

891
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:34,840
and I think is gay.

892
00:43:35,159 --> 00:43:37,599
Speaker 4: There were rumors about him and a certain baseball player.

893
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,199
Now nobody could prove it.

894
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean Sam Champions a handsome guy. Yeah yeah,

895
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:43,320
so Sam?

896
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 1: Uh.

897
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,599
Speaker 10: And then some specific ideas for guys.

898
00:43:46,639 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 13: They suggested, try not to take things personally, be willing

899
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:52,239
to change, acknowledge your.

900
00:43:52,119 --> 00:43:54,599
Speaker 2: Own pick your fucking socks up off the floor.

901
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:57,199
Speaker 10: Maybe good advice for.

902
00:43:59,039 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 4: When the I is a little easier said than done.

903
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,800
Speaker 2: Agree, And it made me sad.

904
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 4: That made me sad.

905
00:44:08,519 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 9: Come on, folks, try a little harder. That's your best

906
00:44:10,519 --> 00:44:12,480
friend in your life part Yeah I.

907
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: Was Sam, that's your best friend, your life partner. And

908
00:44:14,519 --> 00:44:17,119
it made me sad. And I can understand that because

909
00:44:17,119 --> 00:44:19,280
at some point it was good. When did it? When

910
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:20,079
did it go bad?

911
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 2: All right?

912
00:44:22,039 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: Now for Dan Burrella on Bill Moran, have a wonderful

913
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,199
holiday weekend.

914
00:44:29,079 --> 00:44:43,159
Speaker 2: We will see you on Tuesday. Come in cold to you.

915
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 10: Didn't know what to do.

916
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