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Speaker 4: Well, hello, beard lovers and lad lovers, Billy got.
Speaker 5: A beer, Welcome to the pod. Thanks for getting it on.
Thanks for telling a friend. That's how we spread the
word about the bird shift. So it is me and
you tonight.
Speaker 2: What's going on.
Speaker 4: Before the show? Yeah, you and I were talking about
your beard and said he said Jesus would like your beard. Yeah,
so there's this woman like okay, So now there's there's
thousands of people who as soon as you believe you've
died and gone to heaven and met Jesus, yeah, you
have to do a video about what Jesus looks like
and what he said to you. So there's thousands of
these and thousand of different stories. This is when black
woman tells her son they're doing a podcast. So when
I saw Jesus, he had like a chin strap beard,
like one of those, you know, those really thin rail beards,
and he had this big nose, and he had this
like like dirty blond hair and it was long. And
I'm like, so Jesus was like, you know, shaven, apparently
in heaven, like he probably like I'm gonna get I'm
gonna do a pencil thin beard right here.
Speaker 1: I thought they recreated what Jesus would look like. And
he walked with a limp, and he was ugly.
Speaker 4: The Bible says he was not he he was not
calmly or anything or something like that. He was just
he didn't look like anybody special. He wasn't like rapping,
he wasn't good looking or anything like that, like a
weed out of the out of the ground.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I have no idea.
Speaker 4: A lot of people think Jesus had long hair.
Speaker 2: That's not true. No, Nazareth cut it or something.
Speaker 4: No, his section of Judaism, his sect of Judaism, they
didn't believe in long hair. He was a Shemel like
Jewish person. They didn't have long hair. I think you'd
like your beard.
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. Well, so I have not
shaved right, and so today you have.
Speaker 4: That fully shaped. It looks like you've added some definition
to your long I did.
Speaker 1: I did, and I told you yesterday I went too
high on the sides and I don't really like it.
Speaker 2: So I'm just letting things go.
Speaker 4: Randscaped.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And so today I popped into a place.
Speaker 1: And uh, there there's a bunch of women that worked there,
and I don't really know them. I just and then
they said, hey, letting that grow and I said, yeah,
I am. And then one woman from the reluctant.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I just said, yeah I am.
Speaker 2: I don't know what to say.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I fucking child. Yeah yeah, I got the beard.
And some people like make a big deal about it, like, yeah,
well that'she I'm going I made a decision.
Speaker 2: No, yeah I didn't. I don't know what he's.
Speaker 4: Supposed to say.
Speaker 2: Exactly what are you supposed to right?
Speaker 4: So you can't just say yeah, I guess I.
Speaker 2: Women go through this all the time, right, change your
nail polish color. Did you huh h.
Speaker 4: Look at those whatever curling today?
Speaker 1: So I got the you're letting grow on a little
bit and I said yeah, and they said, uh from.
Speaker 2: The back, this one goes looks good. Makes your eyes pop.
Speaker 4: I was like, god damn, yeah, I know. Hello, I
wouldn't use that term, but yeah, it's good. It does
make your eyes pop. I don't know if it has
more definition, like when I grew like a soul patch
had soul petro what people said it brought out my eyes?
Speaker 2: Did they?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: It's weird? Are they really? And most of these.
Speaker 2: Guys were men, Oh hey, hey fellaw.
Speaker 4: But this one woman go gets your face more definition,
like thank you. I want to start you in jocks
er side cleft in my chink. You look like you
look like Danny I do a budgie doboy.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so I would be the Mark Hillman.
Speaker 2: I've had an odd day. I went to the way.
Speaker 4: What happened your head en?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I know, but this is kind of no. Yeah, I
guess that's fair. I don't know.
Speaker 4: I went I if you didn't have enough, I'm.
Speaker 1: Trying to get myself like back, I feel like I
I'll be brutally, rawly honest as much as I can be,
because you know, there's stuff. But I feel like probably
the last two years or so have been a struggle.
But but for I haven't really embraced things the right way.
And uh, I don't know. I guess I could say
the line of delineation, I'm not really sure what would
be the death of my day. And from there I went, Okay,
you know I would refer to him as my great protector.
Your great protector's gone. You got to got to get
shipped together. You got a kid living with you, You get this,
and and not that anything is like drastically bad.
Speaker 2: I don't want to say that, but I just know
me and I know how I was. And I'll tell
you this.
Speaker 1: Somebody on the podcast said to me, I feel like
you've lost your edge and meaning like your your killer
instinct this you know, win at all costs, which you know.
Speaker 2: All right, oh yeah right?
Speaker 4: And I and I go watching the Cowboys documentary. You're
Jimmy Johnson at this point, well you were Jimmy Johnson. Yeah,
And I do you become Barry Switter?
Speaker 1: I will say that I don't I don't know that
that was a healthy way to be. So I want
to do the things I need to do to set
myself up to win and not get pissed off if
things don't go there's a certain way. Yeah, you see
what I'm saying. But but I took that and I
went that person's not wrong. That's what I said to myself.
That person's not wrong. And so I want to kind
of get my ship together. So I've been trying to
why keep looking over Yeah, but I don't think it
was bad.
Speaker 4: I didn't think it was bad. All right, we don't
think it's bad.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well why why?
Speaker 4: I could picture him saying.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right, all right, leave it,
go ahead, go ahead.
Speaker 4: No nothing. You want to mimic it?
Speaker 2: I know you do, right there.
Speaker 4: I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't impersonate that person, I said. So I've been
going to take work after the breath.
Speaker 2: So I've been.
Speaker 1: Going to take exercise classes two days a week, and
I've been walking a bunch, trying to run, but I
really can't. And I went on a I went on
a walk a walk date with my friend and I couldn't.
Speaker 2: I couldn't keep up. Remember I told you it was
all sweaty and all that. Right. Yeah, I walked in.
Speaker 4: You had a sweatshirt but no undershirt. Yeah, that was Sunday.
Speaker 2: That was a Sunday. We went for a walk.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean she was cooking. So I'm like, fuck, man,
I gotta get my ass in gear here. I used
to run, Like I hear times that kids are running
and I'm like, yeah, somebody goes to me. Uh yeah,
my kid had to to make the team. They had
to run a seven minute mile. I'm like, I was
twelve running a six minute mile. Yeah, I don't know
what that means.
Speaker 4: Roger.
Speaker 1: Let me just tell you something to this. Let me
just explain something. I couldn't run a six minute mile today.
I couldn't run a seven minute so I went. So
I went to the y and I don't have all
my keys on one thing. And the reason I don't
have keys on one thing is I have another person
in the house who I found out likes to take
a car once in a while, and they can't. So
I keep all the keys, but they're fobs and I
haven't put the house whatever.
Speaker 2: It's fucked up. So I have two key rings. So
I leave this class.
Speaker 1: I grabbed the keys to the car, my phone, and
I walk out. I'm driving back and I'm going it's
a good distance back in the Fairport. I have an
appointment at eleven. It's now ten ten.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna jump in the SHOWERNA.
Speaker 1: Go and I go, shit, I don't have the keys
to get in, Like, wonder if I drop them now
I'm panicked, so I'm looking through the car.
Speaker 2: I'm looking through others.
Speaker 1: Not panicked. This is my point. I don't know what's happening.
I'm not panicked. I'm like, oh, they're probably at the Why,
and I should be like, God, damn.
Speaker 6: It fucking ruin my whole day. I'm sweaty. I want
to get out of these clothes I can't get and
I'm like, all right, I get back in the car.
I drive out to the Why. I go back to
the locker I had there are my keys and grab
them out other thing.
Speaker 2: I go up. This Why has a smoothie station. I
get a smoothie. I have a cup of coffee.
Speaker 1: I call my kids, who are in New York City together,
and then I drive out to my eleven o'clock point
and I.
Speaker 2: Go, well, this is and I'm like, why this is
where I go.
Speaker 1: Maybe I've lost my edge, I don't know, or maybe
it's the beard idea, could be it's just make I
just feel like everything's just like there. I'm doing what
I need to do and I don't care about the result. Okay, good,
you know what I mean. Yeah, I'm hoping. I'm expecting
the best.
Speaker 4: But losing your edge, well, or your edge could change,
your target could change, you could pivot right. Because the
guy that I worked that had an edge, that edge
was a double edged sol you what yeah, no, yeah,
come on, you think what are you talking about?
Speaker 7: Think?
Speaker 2: What do you say?
Speaker 4: I mean, you had a competitive streak. But man, sometimes
Bobby Knight or Mike Ditko or uh oh, Jimmy Johnson
can come out.
Speaker 1: When when we were together, it was I had this
survival thing and I wanted to prove that I that
I was as good as.
Speaker 2: I believed I was.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know the feeling and still doing it.
Speaker 1: So I figured I'm gonna I'm gonna make this work.
I'm going to figure out a way to make this work.
And by this I mean you had brother Weez Yes,
who was was an icon in Rochester radio, in the
national Radio Hall of Fame. The guy super talented, and
I worked with him and had a pleasure of doing that.
He but he didn't really business side of things. He
didn't protect himself with the people that were really great
for him, and he's gone through many iterations of a
show since he left CMF and the people that were there,
And so then it was down to like me and Tommy,
and I knew that I made more than producers, and
I had three kids and one that was on the
spectrum that I needed.
Speaker 2: Did that.
Speaker 1: I got all this in my ear and I went, Okay,
so I just go, I'm gonna fucking make this work
at all costs. And you're walking around a building where
they had a big notepad, big giant sticky notepad on
an easel talking about all the strengths of the afternoon
guy who was on one of their stations, clearly trying.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: It was like sending a message, and I'm like, I,
I go, I don't have an ally here, right, I
don't have an ally. I don't have a Stan Maine
in my life. Stan Maine hired me. Stan doesn't remember,
but Stan hired me and I and was so fucking
cool to me and loved my audition tape and just
said to me, we do five hours of funny radio day,
can you do something straight? And I said yes, And
then within like two weeks he.
Speaker 2: Was like yeah, whatever.
Speaker 1: So uh, but I didn't have an ally there, so
it was like I gotta fucking work my ass off
and get down and focus. And you were screening phone calls.
But even to just get.
Speaker 2: A phone screening room.
Speaker 1: Was like a pulling teeth with these guys because they
didn't want they didn't they weren't going to do anything.
This new company that was buying the station, and I
had got over there and we's came for a minute
and then he left, and so now you're in this
odd space of whatever and you're trying to It was
just the probably the strangest time in my work life
that I had ever experienced. And I look back now
and I go, how fucking awesome was that? I mean,
it is it is awesome, Like there's a lot of
things that are going to come out of that. For me,
I think down the line that it was awesome. But
when when push came to shove, there was like I tried,
I knew I could I see things developing. I can
see it. It's like a storm front, like you know,
and I can see things building. And I would go
to management and go hey, and one of them was
a certain person was going to come back and be
the GM across the street. And I told them that.
I told them, I said, this is what's going to happen.
This person's been taking me to lunch for a couple
months now, A really good friend was in my wedding.
But it's going to come back, and it's going to
jack that thing up, and we're going to have a
problem because he's gonna save what was.
Speaker 2: The sinking ship.
Speaker 1: We's was around people who he didn't trust, and it
was all new, and so he's sort of.
Speaker 2: Scrambling.
Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't that, it wasn't it wasn't management stuff.
It was the people in the room with him. And
I'll say, like Jamie Listle, it's not that Jamie wasn't talented.
Jamie's fucking hilarious dude. But they didn't have the years
of rapport that he had with Tommy. So therefore you
weren't going to get that instantly. And I think and
so there was no one there, and I will say
this there was no one on the management side that
could coach that talent that could come into that room,
like Stanley could come in and you go, hey, baby,
what's happening, and you know, we just go and they
would have a conversation and we's would leave feeling comfortable.
It was somebody who had his back. He was sort
of alone in his own thing too. And but the
whole point was like, so the ratings come out, they
don't do as good as they think they they're gonna do.
Speaker 2: Uh, And I.
Speaker 1: Think everybody was like a little wobbly about that, and
we're working our ass off and the whole thing that's
getting back to me as well, there's confusion in the market,
and that may be because people write things down right,
So I go, well, fuck this, I'm we're gonna win.
And so that was my thing. I was, fuck this,
we're gonna win. I am gonna find a way through anything.
And you know it would be right, I'm gonna fucking win.
I will find a way. I'm a smart guy, I
know how to talk. I'm gonna fucking figure this out
and that and that's when I would fight everybody because
anybody who got my way.
Speaker 2: It was an obstacle. You're either with me or you're
against me. That was it.
Speaker 1: Well, that's not how life works. Edged Sword, Yeah, you
know it's not. That's not how life works. And if
you live that way, you're gonna have a harder time either.
There you can line up with stuff and try to
talk to people and be kind and get there maybe
quicker than if you go fuck you, it's I'm doing
it this way. You can grind it out as much
as you want. You'll get there. You'll get there. You'll
be miserable. And I was often hired were crumpy, right,
but you know.
Speaker 2: So it's it was an interesting time.
Speaker 1: Though in radio Holy fuck, I I look back and
go that that that was probably the most stressful time
that for me because in the new building you had
all these people. Then they're talking about putting Ted NuGen
on as a morning show and this and that, and
I'm like no, and then somebody listened and when I
think you got something in here, and I was like, okay, good,
and then that person became a great ally.
Speaker 2: But but I had to prove that there was.
Speaker 4: Something there and we need to find a champion.
Speaker 1: And I did, and I fucking and then that champion left, yes,
and then that was another battle well, and I wish
I had handled that differently because I don't know that
that new guy was bad. I sat in meetings with
him over and over and over. I was gonna do
anything I could to maintain and try to appear like
I was a good player, because don't forget, I had
gone into like.
Speaker 2: You think of this.
Speaker 1: You have a boss, right, everybody's got a boss, and
you walk into your boss's office and you know they're
gonna tell you, hey, man, this is the thing, and
you got it. The boss should be respected. I did
not have a lot of respect for this boss. This
boss no longer, by the way, is employed.
Speaker 2: In that capacity.
Speaker 1: Uh this, So I I went into this person and
they said something to me, and I went, I'm basically
the CEO.
Speaker 2: That was the direct quote. I'm basically the CEO of
the show.
Speaker 1: They that got around too, I'm sure it did. I
said it, and I didn't care. I was like, I
don't give a fuck. There's nothing that happens on the
air in this show that I'm one hundred percent aware of.
There is nothing. And the fact that you have your
head in the sand about things. Fuck you, I know
what we're up against. And that person I was talking
about came back and they had something in radio called trends. Okay,
and then they take the trends and out of that
they give you your ratings. You didn't get your ratings
for three months in a market like this, but the trends,
the trends come out, and I think we pulled a
zero in one of the trends.
Speaker 4: Yeah we did.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's impossible. It's it's impossible. There's some weird thing.
But whoever out the diaries, we got nothing. So they
took that across the street and they fucking ran with it.
And they're young, and it's a fucking trend. If anybody
knows anything about radio, it means nothing, means fucking nothing.
But that pissed me off, and I was all I needed.
And it was one of those things like you know,
I guess you talk about Michael.
Speaker 2: Jordan and that was a personal what do you say?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I took it fucking personally and I just go, fuck
you went. I am going to fight a way I
am going to win.
Speaker 1: Not only am I gonna win, I am gonna fucking
ship down your neck and win and I and we did.
Speaker 2: We did.
Speaker 1: In the end, we did. I don't give a fuck
when anybody says we did. We won and and but
but at what cost? At what costs? Mike Rabel, head
coach of the New England Patriots, Mike very very Rabel,
excuse me? The team released wide receiver Kendrick Bourne and
safety Marcus Epps. Not really familiar with these guys, but
they were let go and one of the reporters said
they're very upset or they're happy to be leaving or
something like that. So the newspapers were like, ah, Mike
Rabel went on a rambling thing, comparing it to a girlfriend.
And I did not think it was rambling. I thought
it was actually spot on. We'll let you listen to
Mike Rabel talking about two players who were released from
the team, and then he's and the way he couches
is they're basically going, well, good, that team sucks anyway,
is what they're saying.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's sort of a childish response.
Speaker 8: Yeah, this news to me, And.
Speaker 9: I mean, you know what I mean.
Speaker 8: I think that we just again try to put the
roster together, mate, I guess when it when it doesn't work, out.
You know you you know, you break up with somebody,
your girlfriend doesn't want to be with you, and then
you say, well I don't want to be with you either.
I'm not going to get into.
Speaker 4: All that, right, Yeah, so was that.
Speaker 8: I just said, I'm not gonna get into it. It
was just like, you know what I mean, We're not
going to go back and forth here, we're trying to
build a roster. You got to move on from some guys.
Make connections with guys, you coach them. They are opportunities,
they get more opportunities, they take advantage of them, and
that's kind of how these things go.
Speaker 1: There.
Speaker 4: You go, you want to talk about a guy who's
trying to be one hundred percent signal Mike Vrabel may
be the guy in the NFL trying to be one.
I'm he's dead. You know what he's saying. Guys leave,
they have sour gress.
Speaker 2: That's what it is.
Speaker 4: How do the media screw that up?
Speaker 1: No, it's well they just said rambling thing about girlfriends
and I go, no, no is every guy gets stumped
and he goes, yeah, she was.
Speaker 2: At new bitch.
Speaker 1: Sorry sorry for the sea words, but the uh, she
was a bitch anyway, you know what she smells like,
there would be.
Speaker 2: Something childish like that.
Speaker 4: And seven years I know, I got used to it.
Speaker 1: You know, when you walk around sometimes you just forget
that right.
Speaker 2: It's like.
Speaker 1: The guys are dumb. They did say dumb stuff because
you're hurt.
Speaker 4: Yes, you're hurt. We say a lot of things.
Speaker 2: You're hurt, and you get caught from a team and
you're hurt.
Speaker 4: By the way, Stefan Diggs, as I predicted, is still
on the team. Want to pro point that out for
the media, who's Oh, he can't survive this, Oh he
can't survive Just listen to me. Go on, Billy, want
to talk about sal grapes? Go ahead, there, it is
all right.
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say this guy's name, and
they only refer to him as defender.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: Kansas City Chiefs have released a veteran okay named Mike
is it panel?
Speaker 2: Could be E N N E L.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never heard of him.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm like, what exactly the defender means? I
don't know what that is. I don't know he's been
around the league.
Speaker 2: I think he played for the Jets. I think he
played for the Bears.
Speaker 4: Story real quick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so, but he got released from the team and
then posted this on his Instagram. I'm gonna play the audio.
It's the Joker. It's uh, what's his name playing? Keith
is the Joker, dangerous Joker talking about like burning it
all down and then we'll see how loyal hungry dog's.
Speaker 4: Everything burns.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So a weird thing for a guy to post. But
it almost sounds like he's coming for the team. He's
pissed off, He's gonna burn it down, doesn't it. That
sounded like that to me. I'm like, what's wrong with this?
Speaker 4: He's have had a history of stupid stuff like that,
So going back beyond Andy Reid, so you might want
to beave up your security this week. So weird by
the way he fled, you know, he modeled himself after
to play the Joker. I think you're a fan of
this guy, Tom Waits. Oh yeah, I did enough after
Tom Waits to play the Joker.
Speaker 2: Well, Tom Waits is a little I am a fan.
Speaker 4: He's ecentric.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a little crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's crazy hair, he things.
Speaker 2: Weird on a downtown Yeah, I love Downtown.
Speaker 4: Trained by him. I like Rod Stewart's version.
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people do. It's nicer, but yeah,
it's a little more tolerable. I like, I like, I
like the different. I don't know, it's different to me.
Speaker 4: Yeah that is a little strange that Mike Pennell or whatever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so okay, So I didn't I thought it down, especially.
Speaker 4: Right after what happened yesterday. Weird taste well in the
shooting and everything.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I forgot about that already. That's
how fast heard me too. I just haven't spent a
lot of time thinking. I haven't forgotten about it. I
thought about it a little bit, but not much. We
did mention the Patriots. The Bills have new uniforms that
they're playing against the Patriots. I think they're called the Rivalries.
Speaker 4: Jersey levelry uniforms.
Speaker 2: I fucking love them, and people are making like, somebody
goes to me, how.
Speaker 4: To fuck you love this? Most people love them.
Speaker 2: I thought they look great.
Speaker 4: Most people love them. I have no opinion, they say,
I seriously have no opinion on it.
Speaker 1: The team says it's more than a look. The city's
DNA stitched into the fabric. This team will also be
so they're giving away helmets. They only do this for
one reason.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they want to sell jerseys September tenth.
Speaker 1: Yes, but it looks cold, it looks cool, and the
way they did it is presented is cold, which is
way cracking.
Speaker 4: They're playing October, right, that's not going to be at
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overall down, but for people in their fifties is what
they say. I'm going to go late forties to fifties. Uh,
it seems to be on the rise. And the reason
is they're calling it the meno divorce, meaning menopause is
causing the divorce. I have this piece from Good Morning America.
We can listen to it a little bit and hear
what they have to You know, well, whether we agree disagree, certainly,
I think you come from more of a I think
you would even have seen your first marriage through if
there wasn't something.
Speaker 2: That had happened.
Speaker 10: Yes, I was gonna say something terrible, menopause.
Speaker 4: So say what you're gonna say. No, we're friends. See
what you're gonna say, is something hit what we're on
our way out? No matter what.
Speaker 2: It's just because they had another penis go.
Speaker 1: Interrupted by yeah, sleeplessness.
Speaker 11: But divorce, I think men of divorce is this idea
that a lot of divorces are happening because of menopause.
Speaker 10: Melissa McClure was with her husband for fourteen years.
Speaker 12: I was so angry. I felt like I wanted to
burn the world down. I didn't recognize myself anymore, and
therefore my husband didn't know how to handle me as well.
Speaker 10: They've been separated for a year now.
Speaker 1: Now why are we not talking to him? I want
to hear his side of it, right.
Speaker 2: Holy fuck?
Speaker 4: I want responsible journalism. Yeah you get one side.
Speaker 1: I want both sides. I want to hear how bad
it was, yes, right, yeah, yeah, But I've.
Speaker 2: Heard that it's terrible.
Speaker 4: Like menopause.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, like hot flashes and can't get comfortable
and irritable and it sounds like you're not getting laid
during that time, fellas, But if you love the person
you know, you make it work.
Speaker 2: You try to anyway, but both people have.
Speaker 12: To try having more clarity now impopause that I am
no longer willing to be a people pleaser. I'm no
longer willing to be a nurturer.
Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 2: What What did she say?
Speaker 12: Really gave me that clarity.
Speaker 4: I'm no longer willing to be a people pleaser. Okay,
that part I could see. I'm no longer willing to
be a nurturer. Okay, but that's your role in life.
Speaker 1: One of you, guys, one of your I'm always surprised
because there's a term that people will use and it's
partner or partners. And I think if you're going to
be a partner, you got to be pulling your weight. Yes,
And there are sometimes with guys and maybe I don't know,
but they don't or maybe they do. And the wife
it's never.
Speaker 2: I guess it's never going to be completely equal.
Speaker 1: But when you've got kids, and I will say this,
if you have a job and you're the primary cooker
in your family, or you gotta get home, you gotta
get dinner going, you gotta like there's a lot of
shit that seems to fall at least old school.
Speaker 2: Thinking right to the woman, like where's the dinner? Woman?
You know what I mean? A woman wear's my dinner
every working all day.
Speaker 1: I want to know, but I I just so I
can't say. I wish I could back this up to
hear what she said. I think sometimes though, when it
comes to nurturing, there are women who it's like having
another child in the house. I used to get mad
at the commercial that mom got got a cold and
dad I had. I used to get so fucking pissed
of this because it made every guy look like a dumb,
fucking dope. Because when I was married, not that my
wife couldn't, she just didn't like to do the ironing,
and I ironed everything. I would iron my fucking jeans.
I ironed everything. I didn't want to wrinkle in anything.
Speaker 2: I was weird.
Speaker 1: And this guy comes in and he's got an iron
burn in the back of his shirt, and the kid's
clothes are all pink because he washed the fucking lunger.
I go, Okay, maybe that's true in some instance, but
not every fucking guy's a morn like that, right, you know,
it's it's twenty whatever it was at the time that
this commercial was.
Speaker 4: This was in the nineties. I remember this commercial.
Speaker 2: I thought they reran it.
Speaker 4: Maybe they did it was in the nineties.
Speaker 2: It bothered me. It bothered me. I remember I was
married when I saw.
Speaker 1: It too, so I was I think it may have
been a day quill commercial, so I can say, like,
I get it, if you're if the guy's not pulling
his weight and shit like that, and then who want to.
Speaker 2: Deal with a cranky person? I don't give a fuck
what gender they are. I don't care. You're an asshole.
No one wants to deal with you how many times?
Speaker 1: Like you know, your wife just wants to kick you
out to the fucking garage because you're just being a dick.
And then vice versa. Right, you know, give me your
fucking mano pause. I'll give you a meno pause.
Speaker 4: You know it's it's never the menopause, manopause, whatever it is.
That's that's that's the final straw. I think it starts
way before that.
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. I have no idea. Some point, somebody.
Speaker 4: Puts the kids in front of the husband or wife.
That's the first step towards a disaster. I've I was
listening to a pastor talk about this. He goes, I'm
at the receiving line at the end of church. He said,
and the couples will come up with their kids and
all of a sudden, one of the kids need something
and the wife will look to me. And this happened
more than one time. My husband knows his place and
he goes, no, no, no, no, no no. Your husband
needs to come first, and you need to come first
after Jesus in his life, or it's never gonna work
if the kids all of a sudden, Now the kids
are growing up and you got nothing in comic is
what happened? You put all your time to the kids
and not into each other. That happens. No, the menopause
part is just like the final art.
Speaker 2: This is why.
Speaker 4: No, it is the It is the final straw. Because
all the idiosyncrasies over the past ten, fifteen, twenty years
are now adding up. And now when you start acting
cranky for no reason, and it could be either person,
that's usually like.
Speaker 2: Well, that is it. That's a fair point.
Speaker 12: I can't say I turned my whole life down and
I started again, and then I just like, I'm so
much happier now, well for.
Speaker 4: Now, well maybe she is happy.
Speaker 2: Maybe she is.
Speaker 4: I know a woman who basically left her kids and
her husband just was like, you know, all right, I'm
gonna serve myself. And she was great for the first
five six years. Now she's miserable and those kids ain't
coming back.
Speaker 2: How do you know, Because I know them.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna to them.
Speaker 10: Straights overall are dropping, Divorce among adults fifty and older
are on the rise and account for almost one in
three breakups.
Speaker 11: What can happen early on in marriages is seen as
maybe a ruffle, and after the shift in hormones, it
now becomes an avalanche.
Speaker 1: Yeah, in other words, your fault, the final straw, it's
your fault, beach, final straw, hormones.
Speaker 4: I think there was a lead up.
Speaker 1: I think it's tough. I think I think it's very tough,
and I think you're right. I think you have to
keep the communication. I want to get to this one
point a part.
Speaker 9: In the story that's probably one of the biggest things
that I hear about is the irritation they may feel
with the person that they've been with for the longest
period of time. Sometimes it's the way they chew or
you know, it's.
Speaker 1: Funny as that is idiosyncrasies. Yeah, started, like everything starts
to bother you. Yes, the other person, right, It can
really really get that way. That's why you need to
keep it fresh.
Speaker 2: Fellas.
Speaker 1: And I mean got a fall a little bit on you.
I'm gonna give you a tip, a tip that I
think works. Listen, really listen to what's being said, because
in those conversations, little hints are dropped about things, maybe
not intentionally but like I'm not not planning to see
but so that way, all of a sudden you can
surprise the person with you know, like let's say this,
UH was telling you, Oh God, I talked to uh,
talk to Lisa today. Oh how's Lisa doing?
Speaker 4: That's great?
Speaker 11: Gee?
Speaker 1: You know, I was so happy and she found that
they went to this restaurant and they loved it. It was
blah blah blah restaurant and this and that sounds so
great and the and the kids come storming, and then
the conversation goes, go fucking make reservations at that restaurant
a month later. Don't do it tomorrow, because then then
they'll be like, yeah, give it, give it a give
it a little breathing room, give it a breathing room,
and then do that. And I'm telling you that kind
of ship I think I think works. Take it from
a guy who failed several me too. Several times.
Speaker 2: Here we go a little more.
Speaker 9: The way they, you know, look at them in certain ways.
Speaker 10: Something that was true for Pennsylvania. Wife and mom done
a hoffmeister, just little.
Speaker 2: Things what said Hoffmeister at me.
Speaker 7: Often I'd be in a bad mood and respond poorly.
They weren't doing anything majorly wrong, I know, they were.
Speaker 2: Just it's her.
Speaker 1: He's's got two sons and a husband. It's all dudes,
all dudes, it's all dudes. They weren't doing anything majorly wrong.
But there was probably a puddle on the floor and
he stepped in it in the bathroom and you.
Speaker 4: Don't press state was acting up at two o'clock in
the morning. Maybe they didn't want to, like turn the
light on. They went to take a leak they missed.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, it's like anything.
Speaker 7: Just didn't have the tolerance to put up with any
of their crap.
Speaker 1: So I don't know what that crap is, but we
all do things like you get you know, let's say
it's the kids come home and they just throw their
shit around, or the pile shit in the sink, and
those things can can become the little irritance about somebody
that could break things up.
Speaker 10: She found help from an obg y N who got
her on hormone therapy.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 10: Donna says her husband worked hard to understand.
Speaker 7: He's one that he just starts to do and take
care of things because he's trying to lighten my load.
Speaker 10: That's how he responded, just swallow his what the pair
working on their communication and still together.
Speaker 7: I'm one of the lucky ones. He definitely just even
talking about I started to well up a little bit.
I've got a good one.
Speaker 9: We can give you the hormones, the HRT, but we
can't do a husband replacement therapy, right, That's something you
might have to do on your O.
Speaker 4: I thought that was cute. I thought it was She.
Speaker 13: Chuckled husband replacement therapy out for some.
Speaker 2: Some guys are going fuck yeah.
Speaker 1: Bobby Slaton used to do a whole bit about how
jealousy was of gay guys.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll hear this.
Speaker 2: No, the bit was I'm gonna do it wrong, but
I'll just talking. Bobby wou My wife tried to me plugging.
Let me tell you what I look at gay guys
like get jealous. You know what they get to do, Uh,
they have Section one and they watch the game. I
gotta cuddle. There's no cuddling to these gay guys in Hey,
what a beer.
Speaker 1: Let's watch the game. I don't think that's exactly true,
but yeah, who was it?
Speaker 4: Maybe with somebody at this show or somewhere. I heard
like a friend of mine said, like, what's the highest
divorce rate? Lesbian? It's why it's two women. They'll never
get along. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know if that's either.
Speaker 13: The couples had a good run and then they're clear
it's time to call it quits. But for those who
want to stay in their relationships, these folks all had
some good advice. First, recognize the mood disrupting impacts of perimenopause.
Speaker 10: Try and get in front of that. Seek help, be
it from an obg y.
Speaker 13: N Well, I'll tell you this, this is counselor this
is stuff.
Speaker 1: And I mean, in all seriousness, I need to just
let the hang for a second because they're so right.
There's so many sexist jokes you can me but I
think it's so im important that these things get talked
about because I don't think they were when my mom
was going through this, which would have been probably in
the early nineties, and I certainly wasn't talked about when
my grandmother went through it, you know what I mean.
And so you were just labeled a bitch or whatever,
or here we go again. It's her being her, and
maybe she had some legitimate gripes. It just had, you know,
with everything else, and there was no appreciation for it.
Speaker 2: There was no.
Speaker 1: Explanation behind it. It was just irrational behavior and not treated.
And I think that when you talk about these things,
like I was saying to somebody today, something came up
and I go, yeah, well, you know, being molested. I
think talking about that helps other people, makes them not
feel alone. I'm sure there's a woman somewhere.
Speaker 2: Who goes, I don't know why I'm such a fucking
reaching bitch.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: You get a moment of clarity and I'm treating him
like shit and he's getting mad at me, and all
we do is fight anymore, and I feel like it's
my fault, but I can't figure Yeah, well, good these
this is this is from Good Morning America.
Speaker 2: I think it's a great piece.
Speaker 1: At the end, there's no reason really play it they
go back to the studio. Stephanopoulos is there. He's not
saying shit. Okay, But Sam Champion, who's the weather guy,
and I think is gay.
Speaker 4: There were rumors about him and a certain baseball player.
Now nobody could prove it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean Sam Champions a handsome guy. Yeah yeah,
so Sam?
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 10: And then some specific ideas for guys.
Speaker 13: They suggested, try not to take things personally, be willing
to change, acknowledge your.
Speaker 2: Own pick your fucking socks up off the floor.
Speaker 10: Maybe good advice for.
Speaker 4: When the I is a little easier said than done.
Speaker 2: Agree, And it made me sad.
Speaker 4: That made me sad.
Speaker 9: Come on, folks, try a little harder. That's your best
friend in your life part Yeah I.
Speaker 1: Was Sam, that's your best friend, your life partner. And
it made me sad. And I can understand that because
at some point it was good. When did it? When
did it go bad?
Speaker 2: All right?
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