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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on, Thanks

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for telling a friend, Thanks for spreading the word. Thanks

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to Laura for coming in today, Matt for coming in

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from BTV bringing the pickle pizza, which we love. What's

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the spice on there. Cajun ranch. Oh man, that really

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is so I don't remember that in the last one.

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I'm sure. Oh it's different. Yeah, Oh I like this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Yeah, we had the bacon and the Cajun

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ranch really good.

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Speaker 4: I may have to try by the vet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a piece.

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Speaker 3: Boy, you got my salad.

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Speaker 1: You'll eat like half of that. Bring it home. It

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don't be there tomorrow. The soldier is here as well.

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Welcome back. Thank you. I know I feel bad because

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I don't know how to talk about it with everybody here,

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but I figured I kind of have to. My dad

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passed away last Friday. So from the end of June

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to the beginning of July I had gone up there

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to help move him to a higher level of care.

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He was calling everybody saying I'm dying tomorrow or I'm

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dying in the next two days, which I poked fun at,

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and I think maybe he did know. I don't know,

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but then he fell and it was a gosh, just

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a couple of days. I think my brother had just

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dropped his kids off, so I think my brother and

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sister in law were looking forward to two weeks no

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kids because they were going to sleep away camp for

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two weeks straight, and I think they were like, you

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know what I mean, Dad settled that my brother has

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been amazing in all this and really throughout my dad's life,

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it was kind of the guy who tried to help

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him and save him from time to time, and so

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I thought they were probably he is static to have

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the two weeks. And then my dad falls breaks his

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hip badly and his femur, and we were saying, well,

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maybe we don't do surgery, and they're like, he'll never

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even sit up again, so you gotta do surgery. So

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they did the surgery, and then he got aspiration aneumonia

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where you kind of asperate your own spitting stuff into

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your lungs, your own fluids, and then he he had

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a UTI, which was kind of fox up your brain, right, Yeah,

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So from there they were gonna put him in ICU,

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and I think he was ripping stuff out. My brother

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said to me, he goes, I've never walked into a

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hospital and just seeing someone laying completely naked on the

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bed with nothing on them. You're like, no, no, no sheet,

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no anything. And I think the morphine was making him

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hot and he's picking that stuff. So then they're like,

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they call my sister in law one morning and said,

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we're pretty sure he's dying. You better get o over here.

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So my sister in law did. My brother calls me

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and goes, you may want to get up here. So

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I made arrangements to fly out and my sister again,

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everybody's dropping him and we had just been there, you

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know what I mean. So now so now you're there

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and you go up and and by this point they said,

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we're going to move him to hospice and all we're

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going to do is make him comfortable. So that means

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no food, no water. Okay, so this is Friday, and

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he lasted to the following Friday, full week with no food,

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no water, just morphine and a little oxygen tube tubes

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in his in his No, it's just the tiniest little

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thing that was prying. So no, he was unconscious the

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entire time. And so you get up there. Hospice care

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is amazing, but there's still more shit to be done,

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you know what I'm saying. Now, All the stuff that

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we moved in before we got to get the fuck

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out of there, all his clothes, all his everything, and there's

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you know, trying to figure out his bank accounts and

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what's happening there, and he, my brother was pissed because

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he's the power of attorney and kept saying, Dad, we've

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got to get to the bank physically because of elder scams.

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You gotta have someone with you. Yep, right, I can't.

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So he never did that. So everything would go to

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pro It'll all work out, it's no big deal. But

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so we went up there. Well, I guess the last

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gift my dad gave us was the three of us together, me,

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my brother, and sister. No kids around, right. My brother's

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kids are gone just to sleep way Camp. My sister's

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kids are down in the DC ERA. One's out of

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sleep away camp once with her father, and I sent

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Jamison to his mom in Alabama, And so there was

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no worry about any of that shit. Your home farm

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is saying. There was a night where we sat up

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till three in the morning on the dock, just drinking

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and laughing our asses off, laughing so much so that

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I'm not proud of this. But the next day we

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were going to hospice and there's a little one of those,

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a brewery right right near them, and it also has food,

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really good food. So we went in there for lunch

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and lady goes, what do you want a drink? I go,

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I really can't. I can't have not a thing, so

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I don't. My sister then drives us to hospice and

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we get up to the entrance of the hospice, which

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is in a neighborhood. It's like you wouldn't even know

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it's step down. That's beautiful, right, it's all come, I got,

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I gotta, I go out, and I freaking ruffed all

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that eyway over hospice and then I'm going if anybody

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says anything to me, gonna be like, I am so

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upset about my dad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm so sad about that. I puked like under trees.

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And my sister's doing like another circle. She goes, got you, okay, go,

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I'll meet you in there. It's gone. Man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's heavy drinking right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh it was. I probably had it could have had

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eighteen beers twenty beers by the time it was done.

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But it was just steady, just steady.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no shots, no anything, and just beer. But that's

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heavy after a while, you know what I mean. Yeah,

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from the West coast, and then I think we went

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to cancer that and then like a summer there. Now

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they're making these summer beers which are lighter right to

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compete with probably cores light whateverbody else would go to naturally,

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And so that's all. It might have been summer days.

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I don't even know. I just know that I was

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drinking and at one point I went, oh boy, I

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think I got this. I think I gotta stop, because

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it was just sitting right about here. You know, I

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just sat there. So I did. I wind up? I

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wind up puking. But all I can say about this

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whole experience, and I and I will get into a

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little bit of detail with it, it it was. And

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as my sister said, there are things in life that

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are the most ordinary and extraordinary. And by that, she's like,

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everybody has children, it's ordinary, She's like, but when you

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have the kid, it's extraordinary to be in there to

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watch that happen. And the same thing. Everybody's gonna die,

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everybody has lost somebody you're not. This isn't new, and

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it's you know, you know what I mean. It's like, yeah,

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everybody's gone through it, but it was extraordinary in your

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own way. So we weren't sure what to do. We

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thought that he would pass by Tuesday or Wednesday. So

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the plan was the three of us would be there,

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my mom would probably come up, maybe some a few friends,

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and we would have my dad wanted a church service,

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and he wanted a big party, so that the church

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service we were gonna do. He had a priest up

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there that he had become friendly with. He wanted to

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have that guy. I think, I think it's episcopalia. So

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the guy's married, but they still refer to him as

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a priest or whatever it is. And he had met

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with my dad. My dad had gone to his church

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when he lived up there before he met with him.

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to see him before the surgery when he first fell,

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came and spent some time with him in the hospital.

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the plan was we would have him, not embomb him.

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church service. We'd have people there and that would happen. Well,

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he had to be embombed, and now all the grandkids

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are home from camp, so everybody's going to try to descend.

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I'm not even sure if my sister can actually make

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it back, but that doesn't mean anything. But you wonder,

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like what are they hanging on to and can they

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hear you? And can you do all this? And we

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went in there and we were you know, throughout the

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week in hospice. They were wonderful. But we would talk

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to him, Hey, Dad, I'm here, I love you. Hey,

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remember this. We would tell stories, Remember when he did this,

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Remember when I did this? But we actually sang silly songs.

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He would sing to us at kids one day, right,

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and then we're wondering what's going on. So we tried,

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were trying to convince and not that he needed to

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be convinced, but he's eighty one years old himself, my

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uncle who lives in Park City to come. And my

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uncle was I think a little bit hesitant in that

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he thought, oh, if I get there and it's already happy,

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I can't see it, you know. So I think there

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was that he did come. He and his wife came.

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They spend time with him, talking to him and all

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this this whole thing, by the way, this whole experience,

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I want to do like a serious podcast about youth

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in Asia because I think at some point it's it's like,

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you know, because my uncle, Yeah, my uncle's going this

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is this is nice? Yeah, right, it's just morphine and

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air for right, and they keep going, Well, your dad

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had to be one strong guy. Yeah, he had a

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he was a runner for eight years ago and then

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he had some here's a little bat blue period and

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then came out of that and never drank again and

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was riding his bike and do so. We always exercised,

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So he had a strong heart. But I don't know,

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I don't know if he was hanging on for his brother.

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He hardly made any real noises. And when my uncle

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Joe came in, he's like, all of a sudden, he's like,

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and my Uncle's like, I don't think his wife had

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been a nurse, And I'm like, I'm not sure. We

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haven't seen that the entire time. They were gonna leave

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on Friday. Of course, again we get to have nice

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dinners together and hanging out, you know, in the pond

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doing drinking, going over to where my brother runs the hotel,

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which is absolutely gorgeous, the Cliffhouse, and and then my

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uncle sends the thing saying, you know, we're heading out.

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looks okay, and we're all looking at each other, going

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we can't go much longer. They're like, what the fuck

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are we going to do? So at this point, my

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sister and my sister in law, because I don't really

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do anything, looked online and saw that, you know, maybe

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remove the oxygen and that hospice would be willing to

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do that. It's not cruel and it's not bad, it's

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just you know, and then maybe things were still down.

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So we had to move all the furniture out because

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here's something that's weird. If you have a loved one

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who's in an assisted living center and you want to

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donate through furniture, there are companies that'll come pick it up,

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but they can't go win the room. So yeah, so

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we had to get it all out to the atrium

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or in front of the place and off to the side.

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Don't forget they still have people, a lot of walkers

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coming through you know what I mean this and that,

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Like at one point, this time again I ran into

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a gurney. The first time it was a funeral home,

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come and pick up a body, same piece of fucking furniture, Matt.

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This time it's a guy on a gurney waiting to

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be taken to an ambulance.

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Speaker 3: What the waiting a minute for your ambulance is not

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gonna get my shit out of here?

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Speaker 4: Who were like in the door, it's like the facility

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that he had been living in. They want to take

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it as a donation.

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Speaker 1: I mean they know they haven't even his books and stuff.

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They're like, like, our library is full. And he had

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weird He had weird books. He had a lot of

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a lot of dictionaries and Dictionary of the probably dictionaries

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he didn't even know existed. And I don't mean that

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in any snobby, intellectually weaponizing way, but who has ever

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heard of the Oxford Regional Dictionary of Slang?

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Speaker 4: You should have brought up to.

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Speaker 1: Like who would? I wouldn't? He had it and he

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used to tell us give us words like the pizza

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cross with the delicious Pizza from BTV, the crust if

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you left it there is called an ort o r

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T and my father used always go, you guys gonna

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eat your orts like it just you sounded nuts, but

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that that was my dad. So we get everything out.

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I had stopped for lunch, so I'm one beer in

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for the day, and then my brother's gonna meet us

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at their house after work, and you know we're gonna change.

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We have a couple more beers. We pack up the

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cooler and we go up the hospice and on the

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way we're all saying, we're all good to take the

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oxygen down. Ever, do you agree? Everybody says yes, get

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in there, and the nurse comes walking in behind us

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and she says, we're gonna flip them, so if you

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want to step out, meaning that they kind of wash

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them down. What they do is they rotator, right, so

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they're gonna rotate them. And that's part of the reason

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he had pins and rods put in and serve him

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anything other than but he would have been in. I

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don't think they could have done that right, to just

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move them. So they say that, and then she comes back.

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She goes, oh, we're all set, Do you have any questions?

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And my brother and I look at my sister and

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she goes, oh great, like none of us wanted those.

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So she said, what do you think and the nurse said, oh, well, yeah,

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my brother goes not not the question you were expecting,

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And she said no, she said, it can be a

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rapid decline if we take it out. And again, it's

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just two little things. It's not a mask, it's not

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it's not a ventilator. It's just and she said, the

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medicine he's on, it's helping him breathe, it's opening up

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his lungs a little bit, and the morphine is helping

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with pain. So yes, so I guess there was a

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couple of medications within five minutes. He was kinde yeah.

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Speaker 3: So you were all there though, all three of.

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Speaker 1: Us and my sister in law stood there. Well, he

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got quite emotional, as you can imagine, and we uh,

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and then it got kind of quiet, and you're just

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staring at him and you're watching like you're just watching

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this and this is the extraordinary part, ordinary happiness everything.

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I just never seen anybody like literally leave. So we're

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sitting there and you can see kind of the pulse

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in his neck, and my sister said, we should do something,

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we should sing something, and she started singing amazing grace,

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and my brother and I joined in. And then my

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brother goes, I don't know the second verse. I don't

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know the words. I don't know the second verse. So

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we sang it and then I swear to God. By

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the time we were done, it was gone. And I said, there,

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I go, he's gone. And we stood there for a second.

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I waited like what I thought was approbably amount of time,

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and I go, I'll go get the nurse. And my

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brother goes, let's give it a couple of minutes. What's

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that everything? And it was amazing to watch as the

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color like your lips are no longer read. The color

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is gone, like it's just gone. And then slowly I go,

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oh my god, that happens so fat. It was like

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somebody just turned you off. It was really strange. And

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uh so we went and got the nurse and she said, okay,

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give us a minute. We're going to put him on

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his back. And then and and kind of problem. They

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had to declare him dead. Right they can't because I

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can come away he's dead, maybe not, And then they

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call the funeral home. Funeral home is going to be

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forty minutes to come out to get him. So and

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then of course they're going to do one more time

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with the body, and we're looking like no a week

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with it, And we all talked and we went over

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even then and you know, kind of gave him a

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kiss and said and then they kind of put him

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in the bag and come out, and then the funeral.

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This poor girl, she's on call on a Friday night,

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you know. And my dad wasn't a small he was

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not overweight at all or anything at this point. It

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hasn't been for probably the last fifteen years. But he's

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taller than me by an end. She's six two, and

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he's about one hundred and ninety five pounds one hundred

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and ninety one hundred ninety five. It's a lot of

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dead weight, you know what I mean. And it's not

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evenly distributed. So I was wondering how, and she's this

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little girl. So then she comes and she says, because

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my brother is in Maine, he's the contact, and he

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gets like this plastic rose and we're so sorry for

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your loss. It's like this rose and this other thing.

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So meanwhile, while we were waiting for them, it was

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while we're waiting for them whatever real one bin better.

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You think I have no idea. I just think nothing,

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like what am I gonna know? Nothing? But it was

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I guess that's what they I don't know. So we're

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sitting there and they called. We had called my mother

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and my mother without trying to reveal too much. I

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was a ten pound baby. She had an episiotomy ovulating

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and things would call problems and be painful. So it

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was five years till my sister and then my brother

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came after that. And my mother said, my biggest fear

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was that my poor I think she texted on my

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poor Billy would be the this you would have nobody

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by the deathbed. I'm so glad you were all there.

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So my brother puts the rose in his mouth, steps

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his self, he goes. Billy wasn't alone, and I got

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the rose. So there was still a sense of humor.

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It was still nice. Problem is that you know now

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we were all going back. It just it's almost like

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my father used to make this joke. I would never

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want to be a pain to my family or whatever.

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I'm getting the phrase wrong, But so that that was it.

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I don't know. I don't know that it's really hit

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me necessarily. I think that I know Matt has lost

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a parent. I know that you've lost both your parents,

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and like I said, I mean, I don't know what

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it's like.

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Speaker 5: Well to me, like I was telling you when I

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came in, it was kind of like a you're said,

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but there's a relief to it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, you know what I mean. Well, they're never

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going to be able to like that was the thing

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where I'm going at this point. You wish you could

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almost be the doctor to up the morphine a little

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bit and just let them go and in the answer

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your thing.

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Speaker 5: When my mother passed, I was an old I was

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an old forge with Matt, and so she waited until

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I got She died probably a few hours later after

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I got home.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, agree that.

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Speaker 3: They do that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's true.

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Speaker 4: I know someone who's a death doula. Actually, yeah, and

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I've talked to her because I she's in the Women's

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Business Owner group with me. But I haven't lost a parent.

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But I lost my stepdad last year. And yeah, he

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had gotten approved for in home hospice that day. My

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mom had been his caretaker. My mom was leaving that night.

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She was just going to go out with her friends

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to go see a show at like RBTL, and my

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stepsister was staying with her, And as soon as she

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walked out the front door, my stepdad passed and they

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were like he did not want to die in front

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of my mom, like he had like loved her too much,

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too much dignity to pass in front of my mom

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that as soon as she left he passed away.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it was there was something somewhat alk. Not

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all death is the same. I think Malcolm's wall worn

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or drowned? Was that how he died in Costa Rica.

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I think he got caught up in a rip current

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or something. And I don't know, Uh sad, beautiful spot

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to go, but but uh so that that sounds horrible.

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This was like almost beautiful, you know, I forgive me,

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but it was like almost beautiful that we were all

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the three kids were there. Yeah, you know you got

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to hug.

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Speaker 4: Each other and that's yeah, you do get to like

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like when my mom called that my papa had passed,

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like the whole family showed up. We all had a

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drink like in his honor. My stepbrother poured a Captain

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and coke and put it in Papa's hands and like

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because he's he passed sitting in his spot and everything

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and it was just it was nice, so all sit there.

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I mean it was It's strange when you're.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your person.

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Speaker 4: Like a dead body. It was a Saturday night that

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he passed. Took them hours to get them.

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Speaker 1: Irish used to prop you up in the corner next

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to the keg and that was the wake. I think,

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maybe I want to be I've never heard that before,

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many many many years ago. I think there were pictures

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that I saw and they and they were Irelanders and

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what they would do. Yeah, I don't that's yeah, you could, I.

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Speaker 5: Guess, but you know, just look after losing people at

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start at a young age.

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Speaker 1: When my mom went to pass, it wasn't is devastating,

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is you know, because she's supposed to do. Yes, she's

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supposed to do. That's what I mean. Like, that's where

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this is. It's ordinary like nothings. Nothing's out of alignment here.

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It's not a child dying before a parent. It's it's

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the order of life that I want to happen. But yeah,

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that's the order of life. And uh, you were young

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when your dad passed.

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Speaker 5: No, I was it was two thousand and nine, so.

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Speaker 1: I was in my thirties, okay, and how about you?

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Speaker 3: I was twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. See, it's like, here's what I'm waiting for. Oh god,

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I gotta tell dad that, and then realizing that he's

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not there, that that's what I'm that's the worst. That's

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what I'm waiting for. And I think it'll happen.

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Speaker 4: And I think it's hard when you get the ashes too.

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If he's getting cremated.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna get cremated, but.

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Speaker 4: The ashes, like, yeah, that's sort of just that's a

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gut punch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And he said to us, I want a big party,

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but give everybody time to really mourn me. Really really.

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He was going to be eighty in October, so we

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think we're going to do young. That's still it is

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by today's standards. And you're not the only I was

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out to like a I don't know, tequiling snacks. I

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guess we'll call it uh over on winting or merchants.

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Everybody been over tavos. Everybody been there? Yeah, get there.

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00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,119
Yeah it's pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, how did I know it?

472
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:57,920
It must have been something that was sitting here, but

473
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,160
a person who it was a funeral director was there

474
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,000
and said, you know, that's still pretty young. Yeah, And

475
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,920
I went, good, maybe maybe I'm gonna last more than

476
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:08,359
twenty four.

477
00:25:10,599 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 5: Want it is only six years older than you know.

478
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I know what you're not saying anything.

479
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:21,599
Speaker 1: I'm not sayingthing wrong.

480
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 5: I'm just saying I don't think the eighty is an

481
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:24,759
older age.

482
00:25:24,799 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 3: I guess, well, we know you don't think it's old.

483
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: I guess that's what I'm trying to say. You're still

484
00:25:30,519 --> 00:25:31,160
on the app.

485
00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 4: Was amazing.

486
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 3: I didn't think Mark would be the one to bring

487
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,119
up the age of anybody.

488
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 4: I do feel like though, it can put a lot

489
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,440
of life into perspective, like since my stepdad passed, I'm

490
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,640
trying to do more with my mom, like I invited

491
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,160
her on a summer vacation in a couple of weeks

492
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:55,759
with us, you know, because it can happen unexpectedly too.

493
00:25:56,559 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: I think that that's I agree. I agree. I think

494
00:26:00,599 --> 00:26:02,480
I don't know if you live this way, Map, but

495
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,759
all the things you and Natalie do together, the places

496
00:26:06,799 --> 00:26:08,799
you go, it looks like you have fun. Why you

497
00:26:08,839 --> 00:26:10,759
can I've learned that.

498
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really believe now from losing a wife that

499
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,559
was twenty seven, but also losing so many classmates over

500
00:26:16,559 --> 00:26:19,000
the last twenty years. Yeah, yeah, I think we lost

501
00:26:19,079 --> 00:26:21,440
one of our client well, one got killed in school,

502
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,440
you know, you get hit by a car. But we've

503
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,160
had a couple from cancer in the thirties, and so

504
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,680
it was just like, you know what, I'm obviously gonna

505
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,200
say for tomorrow, but you're also gonna enjoy it today.

506
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,799
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, right, because you can't take it with you.

507
00:26:33,039 --> 00:26:35,680
Because that's when my dad died. The only thing on

508
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,880
was a hospital gown. That was it, Like there was

509
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,559
nothing else there. The big leather chair don't mean shit,

510
00:26:41,799 --> 00:26:44,160
you know what I mean? Well, all the the books,

511
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,400
the memories of this, I mean, you know, and my

512
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,559
poor brother's got a lot of stuff in his garage.

513
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 4: Still should hire an organizer, travel all the time like

514
00:26:57,759 --> 00:27:00,759
I'm in the assessed living. That's why I'm asking because

515
00:27:00,759 --> 00:27:03,519
a lot of the places around here, when someone passes

516
00:27:03,559 --> 00:27:07,119
their moves to a higher level of care, they will

517
00:27:08,279 --> 00:27:12,880
use their bookshelves, desks, beds for the next resident.

518
00:27:13,079 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, so I don't know. I think everybody

519
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,359
here was bringing their ome, but I'm not. I don't

520
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,319
know how it works. Yeah, you know that's the thing,

521
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,640
all right, B T B Wood Fire Pizza and grill.

522
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:24,960
I will say, no.

523
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 3: Kill you.

524
00:27:31,759 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: You can cater your after funeral party, right, which which

525
00:27:35,599 --> 00:27:37,200
which we have? Yes, we've done that.

526
00:27:37,759 --> 00:27:38,759
Speaker 3: We're doing one tomorrow.

527
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: You're doing are you?

528
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 3: We have one of these at the party.

529
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that and really good just to

530
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:48,960
die for.

531
00:27:51,279 --> 00:27:51,799
Speaker 3: Celebrated.

532
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,319
Speaker 1: But the uh but that back room is perfect. We've

533
00:27:56,319 --> 00:27:57,359
done a lot of those things.

534
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, And unfortunately a couple of my friends have had

535
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,440
their moms and we've done those there too. So that's

536
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,599
always nice because you give back to somebody. Yeah, but

537
00:28:05,039 --> 00:28:07,720
it's nice. It's it's tough. It's the toughest time in

538
00:28:07,759 --> 00:28:10,240
somebody's life, I feel like for the most part. And

539
00:28:10,279 --> 00:28:13,119
if you can give them a little comfort, a little happiness, ye,

540
00:28:13,279 --> 00:28:13,440
you know.

541
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,079
Speaker 1: Well, you're you're very good at doing that. I the

542
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:22,000
pickle pizza has been upgraded. It is so good. It

543
00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:23,960
was really good before, but I bit into it this

544
00:28:24,039 --> 00:28:26,240
time and I go man Cajun rants just enough kick

545
00:28:26,559 --> 00:28:27,960
Cajun rant, little bacon.

546
00:28:28,079 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 3: One of the best dressings we make too, is on

547
00:28:30,559 --> 00:28:32,400
the Southwest Side. It's so freaking good.

548
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 1: What made your son? It was your son who goes ahead,

549
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:35,480
let me try this.

550
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 3: He comes up all kinds of ship there before we

551
00:28:38,279 --> 00:28:40,519
went away. He came up and he can figure out

552
00:28:40,519 --> 00:28:42,119
how to do stuff for bread, which is kind of

553
00:28:42,119 --> 00:28:43,720
cool in a wood fired oven.

554
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: Wow.

555
00:28:44,359 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, just from just from playing around. Kid's pretty talented.

556
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:48,720
I think you realized that.

557
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:50,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, keep them?

558
00:28:52,839 --> 00:28:53,519
Speaker 3: What about? Uh?

559
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: And then Wednesday the concerts coming up.

560
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 3: The sixteenth, August sixteenth, Okay, so we.

561
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,039
Speaker 1: Got just a couple of weeks and it's the Zach

562
00:29:01,119 --> 00:29:05,480
Bryan tribute band, and then that is gonna be It's.

563
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 3: Gonna be huge, enormous. As the weather holds up, I

564
00:29:08,759 --> 00:29:12,559
think it will should fairly. Yeah, that means it will

565
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:15,440
definitely ring. That way sold your boat, so yeah it

566
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:15,920
should be good.

567
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: Right, you did sell it. If you've noticed, it has

568
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,359
not rained.

569
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 3: So I should buy a Snowbill would never snowy. You know,

570
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,039
two years ago, I purposely my my buddy wanted me

571
00:29:28,079 --> 00:29:30,079
to go out with Snowvale and he goes, you'll love it.

572
00:29:30,119 --> 00:29:31,880
I said, I hate the cold. I'll hate it. I

573
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:36,000
bought the snowball, the boots, everything, gloves, didn't never buy

574
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,200
the helmet. Never got out once. There was never enough snow.

575
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,640
Friend about once you sell your stuff, you're never.

576
00:29:45,839 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: That's funny. That's very funny. All right, we'll take a

577
00:29:48,279 --> 00:29:52,400
moment only because it was everywhere and I have some

578
00:29:52,519 --> 00:29:53,640
connection to the story.

579
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,319
Speaker 3: But I know what you're talking about.

580
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 4: Inst it is my personnellity cam.

581
00:30:01,279 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, the kiss cam. Oh, we'll get you. Yeah, that happened.

582
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,640
That happened to me once in Buffalo. Well, we'll hear

583
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,759
all about it right after this. Oh, I see you

584
00:30:10,799 --> 00:30:14,799
have random, rusty, ridiculous scrap metal all throughout your garage.

585
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,559
I know that scene holding on to that extra siding

586
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,000
from two thousand and eight. Come on, pack up that

587
00:30:21,119 --> 00:30:24,720
garage mess and roll it down to Premiere Metal, Rochester's

588
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If it's shiny, bendy and mysteriously dented, they want it

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at Premiere Metal. You know that metal shelf that attacked

591
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592
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metal magician and turn that metal into cash with Premiere Medal.

602
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,519
But while I'm up there, all of a sudden it explodes,

603
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,640
with the CEO of Astronomer being caught on the kisscam

604
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,039
and the cold Play show. I believe it's a Leette stadium,

605
00:31:26,119 --> 00:31:28,200
pretty sure. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it was in Boston.

606
00:31:29,119 --> 00:31:33,359
And then I find out that they spend their summers

607
00:31:34,039 --> 00:31:43,039
in Kennymunk. And then I find out someone who dropped

608
00:31:43,079 --> 00:31:48,240
off blueberry cheesecake to the house This woman had golfed with.

609
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:54,759
That guy's the CEO's wife earlier. The kids are camp

610
00:31:54,880 --> 00:32:00,240
counselors at some day camp up on the beach. Oh right,

611
00:32:00,319 --> 00:32:03,720
so they are like entrenched in there. And I was

612
00:32:03,799 --> 00:32:07,720
like I thought, that's the ripple effect. If I saw

613
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,359
my dad's my buddy's dad with his arms wrapped around you,

614
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,200
I couldn't not say anything. I would feel bad. Yeah,

615
00:32:16,039 --> 00:32:18,960
but that would last five minutes and then then you

616
00:32:19,039 --> 00:32:23,160
gotta start going, Amen, hey, where's your dad? And put

617
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,359
my mom my mom in the basement, you know what

618
00:32:26,359 --> 00:32:30,039
I meaning? Like that, I don't know. And somebody else

619
00:32:30,599 --> 00:32:35,440
in Rochester said they know someone who he banged before

620
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,480
that worked for the company. Really.

621
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, so here's my question, Like, a verified source told

622
00:32:42,039 --> 00:32:42,240
you this.

623
00:32:42,519 --> 00:32:45,799
Speaker 1: Okay, a verified source told me that there was another woman.

624
00:32:46,599 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 4: That he was the man who sleep around. I bet

625
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:58,119
the wife knows and just turn there, you war, there's.

626
00:32:58,039 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: No way this brought this woman didn't know.

627
00:33:00,519 --> 00:33:02,279
Speaker 4: She had to know that he was I bet she

628
00:33:02,359 --> 00:33:04,519
posted family photos on Facebook a lot too.

629
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 1: Oh maybe probably it was sort of like to cover

630
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,039
up to like overcompensate.

631
00:33:12,359 --> 00:33:12,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

632
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: Well, look, it's a nice life. When you're making half

633
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,000
a million dollars a year, that's a nice lifestyle. And

634
00:33:17,079 --> 00:33:20,200
I'm sure that she probably you know, worked or something too.

635
00:33:20,359 --> 00:33:21,640
She I don't know what she did.

636
00:33:21,759 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 3: I forgot, Oh she had a decent job.

637
00:33:23,279 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, So there could be that could be a house

638
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:30,680
that made seven hundred to a million dollars a year. Now,

639
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:35,160
all of a sudden, I don't And Matt pointed this out.

640
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,680
It was the greatest observation I thought as I thought

641
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:42,279
of it too. But later on he didn't need to

642
00:33:42,279 --> 00:33:45,680
do anything. Yeah, he just needed to stay cool.

643
00:33:45,759 --> 00:33:47,559
Speaker 3: Calmon, collect don't act like it's a big deal.

644
00:33:47,839 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: Hide in plain sight, right, hide and plain sight.

645
00:33:51,119 --> 00:33:53,279
Speaker 3: And there's a chance that one of your wife's friends

646
00:33:53,279 --> 00:33:56,279
are going to see you, or you know, vice versa

647
00:33:56,559 --> 00:33:58,359
her you know, her husband's friend.

648
00:33:58,839 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: But to do that, you just went viral. He threw

649
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:02,799
his arms off of her.

650
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,799
Speaker 3: They turned around and hid. He ducked down, He ducked.

651
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,199
Speaker 4: I mean, he was like like a grenade fucking came

652
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:09,719
at him.

653
00:34:10,199 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: It did.

654
00:34:12,079 --> 00:34:15,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, imagine amunt lawyers have called her I can.

655
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: I mean, this went everywhere to the point where the

656
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,440
Philly fanatic Oh yeah, I did was great.

657
00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:26,039
Speaker 3: Oh my god, leave it to fucking Philadelphia. Probably the

658
00:34:26,039 --> 00:34:26,920
best thing they've ever done.

659
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,519
Speaker 1: But because.

660
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,079
Speaker 4: I thought that's really I mean, celebrities are talking about it, like,

661
00:34:34,639 --> 00:34:37,800
the memes have been amazing. It is what me and

662
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,719
my sister, some of my friends. All we're doing all

663
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,039
day is sending the memes about it back and forth.

664
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,599
My sister senting this one that I thought was the best.

665
00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:48,159
It was like lego, it was like my first affair

666
00:34:48,519 --> 00:34:51,000
and it was like Patrick.

667
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:55,039
Speaker 3: For Holmes in the referee one, Oh yeah, oh did

668
00:34:55,079 --> 00:34:56,360
they do it with AI or something?

669
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 1: And they must, oh that's amazing. I got I know,

670
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,159
I haven't seen that. I haven't seeing that. But if

671
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,880
that guy stay calm. That's the thing is like your

672
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,159
knee jerk reaction to anything in life. Fucking way to beat,

673
00:35:08,639 --> 00:35:09,320
just way to beat.

674
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 4: And they could have just waved.

675
00:35:11,079 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 3: They could have They did not have to do anything.

676
00:35:12,519 --> 00:35:14,360
The camera would not if you're boring, the camera goes

677
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:14,719
off of you.

678
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,639
Speaker 1: She didn't even move. It was him that was like yeah,

679
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:18,679
and then she's like oh god.

680
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,599
Speaker 3: Then she just turned around. Her face was great though,

681
00:35:21,679 --> 00:35:24,000
you know, her jaw drop, But what did you think

682
00:35:24,199 --> 00:35:25,639
it was a possibility of happening?

683
00:35:26,559 --> 00:35:29,079
Speaker 4: Well, and then his statement but they said that right

684
00:35:29,159 --> 00:35:31,840
before Coldplay did say like all right, we're gonna do

685
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,800
the kiss cam now you know oh they did? Yeah,

686
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:39,119
So like he's like saying, you see the private moment.

687
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but no there's no private moment in account, not sure,

688
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,199
not in social media.

689
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:46,079
Speaker 1: That's stand.

690
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:48,159
Speaker 2: Man.

691
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:53,039
Speaker 1: I mean it's there's something like I feel bad for

692
00:35:53,159 --> 00:35:56,960
the kids, the wife. It's embarrassing that how this all

693
00:35:57,039 --> 00:35:59,480
came out, especially for the kids to find out that

694
00:35:59,559 --> 00:36:01,920
your parents had an affair that way.

695
00:36:02,559 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 3: It's gonna suck for the kids because they're gonna get

696
00:36:04,559 --> 00:36:06,840
so much fun made of them. I think the oldest

697
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:07,480
one is only like.

698
00:36:07,519 --> 00:36:11,639
Speaker 1: Eight, right. Oh no, I think ones in college and

699
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,960
one yeah, there were two boys, and I think there

700
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,440
at college about her younger or probably younger. His kids

701
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,559
are college, so they should be okay, okay, yeah, I

702
00:36:21,639 --> 00:36:25,679
think or ones like my dad's a slut. Yeah, hey man,

703
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:31,280
dad pull yeah true. Can I talk to you about

704
00:36:31,519 --> 00:36:33,760
what goes on with the CEO? Because I just you know,

705
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,599
it sounds great. I want to enter. Yeah.

706
00:36:39,639 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 4: I also asked my friend who's head of HR at

707
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,679
her company. I was like, how many memes have you gotten?

708
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,199
She's like, oh, the HR memes are great.

709
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that woman was HR. Yep.

710
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:50,199
Speaker 2: Yeah.

711
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,199
Speaker 1: Man, when HR is doing that, you got to anything

712
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,679
in that company? That's amazing. But has anybody ever found

713
00:36:57,679 --> 00:37:01,000
out because I do know someone who who found out

714
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:06,280
that their parent was having an affair by being over

715
00:37:06,639 --> 00:37:09,360
at a like a high school party, walking into the

716
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,320
bedroom and there's a frame picture of her mom. The

717
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,840
dad was divorced, but her mom was still married. And

718
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:20,679
that's slowly Yeah. Wait, I'm confused. So I know somebody

719
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:25,039
whose mother was having an affair married with a divorced man.

720
00:37:25,639 --> 00:37:29,880
The divorced man had a frame picture. The party was

721
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,960
at his his kid was throwing the party because he

722
00:37:32,039 --> 00:37:35,039
was out of town, and there was a frame picture.

723
00:37:35,199 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 3: So he was divorced during a during an affair, though.

724
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: I heard my home entire Oh he's still married. But

725
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,159
here's the freme, he's not. He's divorced. He was single.

726
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:49,719
He's single, and he's living.

727
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 5: She was Why would you have a picture of somebody

728
00:37:52,679 --> 00:37:53,719
I don't still married?

729
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: It was in his bedroom probably just like looking at it.

730
00:37:57,079 --> 00:38:01,760
I don't know, you know what I'm saying, Like you

731
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,199
would think no one's going to see this, and then

732
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,199
she saw it and shouldn't exist. I think the kid knew,

733
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,920
but they never said anything. And then it kind of

734
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,159
came out and the mother, you know, father split. But

735
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,440
I just what a way to find out? Right, you'd want.

736
00:38:18,159 --> 00:38:20,639
I guess the best thing to do is to admit

737
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,360
it if you're call I don't know, I don't know

738
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:23,480
what the best thing to do is.

739
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:29,159
Speaker 3: No, no, no, some guy was just powndering from behind.

740
00:38:29,199 --> 00:38:31,199
Now since she looks up and there's her mom sure

741
00:38:31,199 --> 00:38:34,760
with the guy, and what the fuck this can't happen.

742
00:38:35,639 --> 00:38:38,599
Speaker 1: I don't know that that was exactly like that. I

743
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,559
think that it was one of these, Yeah, you wound

744
00:38:40,639 --> 00:38:42,400
up in the bedroom. Maybe we're going to the bathroom

745
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,639
off there. I'm not sure. But you know what does

746
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,559
racial questions, It does racio questions.

747
00:38:49,639 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 3: But you're doing in that bedroom. That's that means it

748
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:52,559
was the father's bedroom as well.

749
00:38:52,599 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 1: It was the father's bedroom.

750
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 4: Yes, I mean, I'm sure that people have been people

751
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,800
get caught in public events, but I just think it's

752
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,000
the whole jumbo tron, you know, that's making that's the

753
00:39:05,079 --> 00:39:06,119
whole media circus.

754
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I knew people who would go out

755
00:39:10,679 --> 00:39:14,159
of town, like when I say out of town Buffaloe

756
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,840
instead of hanging around here for restaurants and things like that.

757
00:39:17,559 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 3: But maybe that's what they did. Maybe they were out

758
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,119
of town sort of at least like that.

759
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: Maybe it wasn't like, well, his wife said, Kenny Bunk,

760
00:39:24,679 --> 00:39:28,840
that's a good I think two hours from Boston, and

761
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,800
so he and I think they were a Boston based company,

762
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:32,719
a Boston company.

763
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:33,119
Speaker 4: I know that.

764
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: His wife and I.

765
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 4: Had a couple of friends who went to cold Play

766
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:41,599
up in Toronto, and I asked one of them the

767
00:39:41,639 --> 00:39:43,519
other day. I was like, did you wish that that

768
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,920
whole scenario happened at the concert that you were at?

769
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,280
Speaker 1: She was like, yes, did he reference it at all?

770
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,679
Speaker 4: Because he's killed before Toronto.

771
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,639
Speaker 3: Was before the next one.

772
00:39:55,519 --> 00:39:56,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to know.

773
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,599
Speaker 3: My son is in Nashville right now because his buddy

774
00:40:00,679 --> 00:40:03,559
the cold Play, So they're going show. I don't know

775
00:40:03,559 --> 00:40:05,519
if it's telling or not, but I wanna I'm gonna ask.

776
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: Him, yeah, final if they make any reference to him.

777
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 4: They tweeted like there's going to be a camera free

778
00:40:13,079 --> 00:40:15,000
section for all those of their sip.

779
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 3: Luke Bryan sat down the air night before he played

780
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,039
a slow song and he says, hey, before you think

781
00:40:21,079 --> 00:40:23,880
about it, there's gonna be cameras and videos and the

782
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,360
kiss cam's gonna show. So if you got your side

783
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,880
piece here, make sure you separate yourselves right now before

784
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,079
you get caught. It's not my fault if you do.

785
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800
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807
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POLITICAL thing i want, To, SAY uh cbs is Ending

808
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:08,719
The Stephen. Colbert show this has nothing nothing to do

809
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,159
with fascism and it has nothing to do with. The

810
00:42:11,199 --> 00:42:14,119
government it just doesn't because they wouldn't let him Stay

811
00:42:14,119 --> 00:42:16,079
on may if that were. The case he's Staying in

812
00:42:16,159 --> 00:42:18,559
may to finish out. The contract they just don't. Do

813
00:42:18,679 --> 00:42:21,519
That And late night is not making the money it used,

814
00:42:21,559 --> 00:42:25,159
to period because so many people watch the clips online

815
00:42:25,599 --> 00:42:28,159
that they're not getting. The revenue and you may see

816
00:42:28,199 --> 00:42:30,000
that more. And more and as, YOU know i have

817
00:42:30,039 --> 00:42:33,000
a little insight to some not, a lot but there's

818
00:42:33,039 --> 00:42:35,360
been some fear, of that and SO when i see all,

819
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,000
this stuff it had nothing to do. With, that unfortunate,

820
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,079
YOU know i think it would be a, great story

821
00:42:40,119 --> 00:42:42,079
but it has nothing to do. WITH that i will tell.

822
00:42:42,119 --> 00:42:47,880
YOU this i think we're taping This. On monday they

823
00:42:48,039 --> 00:42:52,880
Brought Back john stewart On The. DAILY show i think

824
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,920
he does it once a week now and they have

825
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,760
different hosts throughout the Week Since trevor, noah left and

826
00:43:00,559 --> 00:43:06,119
it's his company that Owns The. Late Show It's.

827
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 4: John, stewart, yeah okay.

828
00:43:08,159 --> 00:43:13,280
Speaker 1: SO and Cbs owns viacom or they're the same Which Owns.

829
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,880
Comedy central the ONLY reason i bring this up is

830
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,000
maybe he'll quit. On air he's got, enough money. He's

831
00:43:19,079 --> 00:43:21,280
rich maybe he'll stand up for his boy and go

832
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,519
this is bullshit or whatever and quit. On air it might.

833
00:43:23,559 --> 00:43:27,239
Be compelling the Last Time late night had some drama

834
00:43:27,679 --> 00:43:31,400
Was When david letterman admitted to having an affair, And

835
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,840
said i'm getting out of front. Of this so you

836
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,840
can't basically bend me over and do all this shit

837
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:42,119
and look no politics aside in Terms of colbert. Or

838
00:43:42,159 --> 00:43:45,599
whatever it just that's not. The case we're. Not there

839
00:43:46,199 --> 00:43:49,199
we're not there in. THIS country i know people, get

840
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,920
worried but we're. Not THERE and i just, FEEL like

841
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,679
i don't know why it was hanging on. My head,

842
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,400
I'M like i FEEL like i got to say this

843
00:43:56,199 --> 00:43:59,159
because there's So, many no We're not It's not it

844
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,679
has come down. To revenue by, the way what what?

845
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,519
Did YOU and i don't mean this is you in?

846
00:44:03,559 --> 00:44:07,639
The room? You anybody what have you? Watched last probably

847
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,519
something on the, streaming service not something on. A network

848
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:12,440
and that's part of the reason this is.

849
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,639
Speaker 4: All happened BUT reality tv.

850
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 1: Takes, Over Yeah, JESUS christ I Watched love island. Two

851
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,079
episodes has Anybody Watched? LOVE island.

852
00:44:25,079 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 3: I did two episodes that it's, the worst it's.

853
00:44:29,679 --> 00:44:32,760
Speaker 1: So bad but have you watched any?

854
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 2: Of?

855
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 1: IT oh i would love to have you watched the

856
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,239
first episode when they have, to, like okay so it would,

857
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,719
Be Me. Matt mark we're, over here you and a

858
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,360
couple of your girlfriends and they get to go up.

859
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,239
And pick so we're standing on these, like, podiums platforms

860
00:44:48,599 --> 00:44:51,920
and you get to pick two guys that you wouldn't mind,

861
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,239
being with and you get to kiss them both and

862
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,440
ye just, just madame.

863
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,119
Speaker 3: But not not two. Separate times you kiss one and

864
00:45:00,159 --> 00:45:00,480
then the.

865
00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:03,519
Speaker 1: Other one and then the other one. RIGHT away, i like,

866
00:45:03,599 --> 00:45:04,320
the hell you're.

867
00:45:04,199 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 3: Gonna kiss that guy and then come? Kiss me sorry not?

868
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:11,039
Speaker 1: Having, one dude gave, the cheek gave. The cheek but

869
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,000
some of, THESE people, i mean they went.

870
00:45:13,039 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 4: All everyone gets to, choose everyone.

871
00:45:15,119 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: So wait and then if you pick Let's, say, matt

872
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,920
right and then here comes. Another chicken she goes you,

873
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,679
know what that bitch and. Goes over she Can steal

874
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,239
matt and make Out with matt in front, of you Or.

875
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,599
KISS matt i think that's where somebody was sort of

876
00:45:29,639 --> 00:45:33,960
a gentleman get you on. The SHOW but i, was,

877
00:45:34,079 --> 00:45:37,760
like WOW and, i go it's not a. Streaming service

878
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,920
it's getting tons. Of talk what do you?

879
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 4: Think happening people like going crazy. ABOUT it i even

880
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,280
saw PEOPLE at cemac. LAST week i forget. What concert

881
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,920
it Was Either brad Paisley or hosier that they were

882
00:45:53,159 --> 00:45:56,840
watching the finale while the concert was.

883
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 3: Going on you. Can, show, yeah yes IT'S like, i,

884
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,119
stop yeah you.

885
00:46:03,159 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 4: Go here someone on RADIO that. I know i ran

886
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:12,559
into her in like one of the tents and she

887
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,880
like stayed under THE one vip tent and was watching

888
00:46:17,079 --> 00:46:18,559
it while at.

889
00:46:18,639 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: The concert at, The, show yeah and she like. Posted

890
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,639
it that's. FUCKING wild i greatly appreciate you.

891
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 4: COMING out, i, was uh I'll do i'd be here

892
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:29,000
as soon as you.

893
00:46:29,119 --> 00:46:32,119
Speaker 1: Called NO but i will ADMIT that I was i

894
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,360
was NERVOUS about i FELT like i had to say

895
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:39,400
something while we, went DARK and i had already mentioned

896
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:43,000
that this is, what's happening but what actually Concluded of and,

897
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,800
somebody's like you think, you'll Cry and, i'm, like no

898
00:46:46,679 --> 00:46:49,440
it's kind of cold if. YOU don't. I go i

899
00:46:49,599 --> 00:46:51,840
CRIED all i was going, to, say yeah you've had

900
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:52,239
a month.

901
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 4: To cry this has been going out.

902
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:57,519
Speaker 1: On it, WELL yeah i mean quite a. FEW weeks

903
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,400
a few weeks. ARE crying i was just start making

904
00:47:00,519 --> 00:47:03,400
funny and THAT'S what i would have. Liked, anyway hey

905
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,760
your big, Pussy, pussy yeah what happened to your?

906
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 3: Dad side your dad tell you not to cry a.

907
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: Little bit you're so disappointed. In you.

908
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,559
Speaker 3: You're letting your, dad down bringing up all childhood, trauma,

909
00:47:17,639 --> 00:47:18,800
here yes all.

910
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: That stuff don't you? Ask? For right? Come on? This contagious?

911
00:47:26,639 --> 00:47:30,079
It does he did used to sing when he would

912
00:47:30,079 --> 00:47:32,480
help me with. My homework you are so STUPID and

913
00:47:32,559 --> 00:47:35,119
i am so SMART when i he did.

914
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 3: Do that.

915
00:47:37,639 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 1: It's just a fun Thing for Laura FROM Matt bTB

916
00:47:41,599 --> 00:47:44,239
baby get. Out there august sixteenth is a. Big concert

917
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:45,800
it's gonna be a whole lot of fun with the,

918
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,880
m eights And The zach bryant that we are postponing

919
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,880
the brunch. Cast off oh thank You you hold on

920
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,400
one Second and i'll start. This over we are postponing

921
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,159
the brunch CAST because i do have to go Back

922
00:47:56,239 --> 00:48:00,000
to mean for the Services, on SATURDAY and i would

923
00:48:00,159 --> 00:48:03,199
be coming Back until. Sunday later good to know because

924
00:48:03,199 --> 00:48:03,480
it was in.

925
00:48:03,559 --> 00:48:05,199
Speaker 4: My calendar i'll probably still.

926
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 1: Show up, no good still show up because there's always

927
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:11,280
a story when. You're around, and uh and we we will.

928
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,840
Do it we will do It, in august. FOR sure

929
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,719
i think it'd just sort of making a. Regular thing

930
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,599
i'm open. To. That uh And for mark who always

931
00:48:23,679 --> 00:48:27,719
had an eye, for talent an eye, for, talent, Music

932
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:31,920
Everything I'm. Bill moran will see. YOU tomorrow i woke

933
00:48:32,039 --> 00:48:34,719
up in, a hotel didn't know what. To do i'm

934
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:36,280
TURNING a tv rule.

935
00:48:36,199 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 2: A letter to you

936
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: Upon the Un inter state