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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on, Thanks
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the spice on there. Cajun ranch. Oh man, that really
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I'm sure. Oh it's different. Yeah, Oh I like this.
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ranch really good.
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don't be there tomorrow. The soldier is here as well.
Welcome back. Thank you. I know I feel bad because
I don't know how to talk about it with everybody here,
but I figured I kind of have to. My dad
passed away last Friday. So from the end of June
to the beginning of July I had gone up there
to help move him to a higher level of care.
He was calling everybody saying I'm dying tomorrow or I'm
dying in the next two days, which I poked fun at,
and I think maybe he did know. I don't know,
but then he fell and it was a gosh, just
a couple of days. I think my brother had just
dropped his kids off, so I think my brother and
sister in law were looking forward to two weeks no
kids because they were going to sleep away camp for
two weeks straight, and I think they were like, you
know what I mean, Dad settled that my brother has
been amazing in all this and really throughout my dad's life,
it was kind of the guy who tried to help
him and save him from time to time, and so
I thought they were probably he is static to have
the two weeks. And then my dad falls breaks his
hip badly and his femur, and we were saying, well,
maybe we don't do surgery, and they're like, he'll never
even sit up again, so you gotta do surgery. So
they did the surgery, and then he got aspiration aneumonia
where you kind of asperate your own spitting stuff into
your lungs, your own fluids, and then he he had
a UTI, which was kind of fox up your brain, right, Yeah,
So from there they were gonna put him in ICU,
and I think he was ripping stuff out. My brother
said to me, he goes, I've never walked into a
hospital and just seeing someone laying completely naked on the
bed with nothing on them. You're like, no, no, no sheet,
no anything. And I think the morphine was making him
hot and he's picking that stuff. So then they're like,
they call my sister in law one morning and said,
we're pretty sure he's dying. You better get o over here.
So my sister in law did. My brother calls me
and goes, you may want to get up here. So
I made arrangements to fly out and my sister again,
everybody's dropping him and we had just been there, you
know what I mean. So now so now you're there
and you go up and and by this point they said,
we're going to move him to hospice and all we're
going to do is make him comfortable. So that means
no food, no water. Okay, so this is Friday, and
he lasted to the following Friday, full week with no food,
no water, just morphine and a little oxygen tube tubes
in his in his No, it's just the tiniest little
thing that was prying. So no, he was unconscious the
entire time. And so you get up there. Hospice care
is amazing, but there's still more shit to be done,
you know what I'm saying. Now, All the stuff that
we moved in before we got to get the fuck
out of there, all his clothes, all his everything, and there's
you know, trying to figure out his bank accounts and
what's happening there, and he, my brother was pissed because
he's the power of attorney and kept saying, Dad, we've
got to get to the bank physically because of elder scams.
You gotta have someone with you. Yep, right, I can't.
So he never did that. So everything would go to
pro It'll all work out, it's no big deal. But
so we went up there. Well, I guess the last
gift my dad gave us was the three of us together, me,
my brother, and sister. No kids around, right. My brother's
kids are gone just to sleep way Camp. My sister's
kids are down in the DC ERA. One's out of
sleep away camp once with her father, and I sent
Jamison to his mom in Alabama, And so there was
no worry about any of that shit. Your home farm
is saying. There was a night where we sat up
till three in the morning on the dock, just drinking
and laughing our asses off, laughing so much so that
I'm not proud of this. But the next day we
were going to hospice and there's a little one of those,
a brewery right right near them, and it also has food,
really good food. So we went in there for lunch
and lady goes, what do you want a drink? I go,
I really can't. I can't have not a thing, so
I don't. My sister then drives us to hospice and
we get up to the entrance of the hospice, which
is in a neighborhood. It's like you wouldn't even know
it's step down. That's beautiful, right, it's all come, I got,
I gotta, I go out, and I freaking ruffed all
that eyway over hospice and then I'm going if anybody
says anything to me, gonna be like, I am so
upset about my dad.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, I'm so sad about that. I puked like under trees.
And my sister's doing like another circle. She goes, got you, okay, go,
I'll meet you in there. It's gone. Man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's heavy drinking right now.
Speaker 1: Oh it was. I probably had it could have had
eighteen beers twenty beers by the time it was done.
But it was just steady, just steady.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no shots, no anything, and just beer. But that's
heavy after a while, you know what I mean. Yeah,
And it wasn't Guinness, no, it was it was something
from the West coast, and then I think we went
to cancer that and then like a summer there. Now
they're making these summer beers which are lighter right to
compete with probably cores light whateverbody else would go to naturally,
And so that's all. It might have been summer days.
I don't even know. I just know that I was
drinking and at one point I went, oh boy, I
think I got this. I think I gotta stop, because
it was just sitting right about here. You know, I
just sat there. So I did. I wind up? I
wind up puking. But all I can say about this
whole experience, and I and I will get into a
little bit of detail with it, it it was. And
as my sister said, there are things in life that
are the most ordinary and extraordinary. And by that, she's like,
everybody has children, it's ordinary, She's like, but when you
have the kid, it's extraordinary to be in there to
watch that happen. And the same thing. Everybody's gonna die,
everybody has lost somebody you're not. This isn't new, and
it's you know, you know what I mean. It's like, yeah,
everybody's gone through it, but it was extraordinary in your
own way. So we weren't sure what to do. We
thought that he would pass by Tuesday or Wednesday. So
the plan was the three of us would be there,
my mom would probably come up, maybe some a few friends,
and we would have my dad wanted a church service,
and he wanted a big party, so that the church
service we were gonna do. He had a priest up
there that he had become friendly with. He wanted to
have that guy. I think, I think it's episcopalia. So
the guy's married, but they still refer to him as
a priest or whatever it is. And he had met
with my dad. My dad had gone to his church
when he lived up there before he met with him.
When we were there, originally made all his plans, came
to see him before the surgery when he first fell,
came and spent some time with him in the hospital.
He was still kind of loose it then, and so
the plan was we would have him, not embomb him.
He wants to be cremated, but we would have the
church service. We'd have people there and that would happen. Well,
Now he goes till Friday. The priest goes on vacation.
So now we're all going back because it's Saturday, and
he had to be embombed, and now all the grandkids
are home from camp, so everybody's going to try to descend.
I'm not even sure if my sister can actually make
it back, but that doesn't mean anything. But you wonder,
like what are they hanging on to and can they
hear you? And can you do all this? And we
went in there and we were you know, throughout the
week in hospice. They were wonderful. But we would talk
to him, Hey, Dad, I'm here, I love you. Hey,
remember this. We would tell stories, Remember when he did this,
Remember when I did this? But we actually sang silly songs.
He would sing to us at kids one day, right,
and then we're wondering what's going on. So we tried,
were trying to convince and not that he needed to
be convinced, but he's eighty one years old himself, my
uncle who lives in Park City to come. And my
uncle was I think a little bit hesitant in that
he thought, oh, if I get there and it's already happy,
I can't see it, you know. So I think there
was that he did come. He and his wife came.
They spend time with him, talking to him and all
this this whole thing, by the way, this whole experience,
I want to do like a serious podcast about youth
in Asia because I think at some point it's it's like,
you know, because my uncle, Yeah, my uncle's going this
is this is nice? Yeah, right, it's just morphine and
air for right, and they keep going, Well, your dad
had to be one strong guy. Yeah, he had a
he was a runner for eight years ago and then
he had some here's a little bat blue period and
then came out of that and never drank again and
was riding his bike and do so. We always exercised,
So he had a strong heart. But I don't know,
I don't know if he was hanging on for his brother.
He hardly made any real noises. And when my uncle
Joe came in, he's like, all of a sudden, he's like,
and my Uncle's like, I don't think his wife had
been a nurse, And I'm like, I'm not sure. We
haven't seen that the entire time. They were gonna leave
on Friday. Of course, again we get to have nice
dinners together and hanging out, you know, in the pond
doing drinking, going over to where my brother runs the hotel,
which is absolutely gorgeous, the Cliffhouse, and and then my
uncle sends the thing saying, you know, we're heading out.
We stopped to see your dad at hospice and he
looks okay, and we're all looking at each other, going
we can't go much longer. They're like, what the fuck
are we going to do? So at this point, my
sister and my sister in law, because I don't really
do anything, looked online and saw that, you know, maybe
remove the oxygen and that hospice would be willing to
do that. It's not cruel and it's not bad, it's
just you know, and then maybe things were still down.
So we had to move all the furniture out because
here's something that's weird. If you have a loved one
who's in an assisted living center and you want to
donate through furniture, there are companies that'll come pick it up,
but they can't go win the room. So yeah, so
we had to get it all out to the atrium
or in front of the place and off to the side.
Don't forget they still have people, a lot of walkers
coming through you know what I mean this and that,
Like at one point, this time again I ran into
a gurney. The first time it was a funeral home,
come and pick up a body, same piece of fucking furniture, Matt.
This time it's a guy on a gurney waiting to
be taken to an ambulance.
Speaker 3: What the waiting a minute for your ambulance is not
gonna get my shit out of here?
Speaker 4: Who were like in the door, it's like the facility
that he had been living in. They want to take
it as a donation.
Speaker 1: I mean they know they haven't even his books and stuff.
They're like, like, our library is full. And he had
weird He had weird books. He had a lot of
a lot of dictionaries and Dictionary of the probably dictionaries
he didn't even know existed. And I don't mean that
in any snobby, intellectually weaponizing way, but who has ever
heard of the Oxford Regional Dictionary of Slang?
Speaker 4: You should have brought up to.
Speaker 1: Like who would? I wouldn't? He had it and he
used to tell us give us words like the pizza
cross with the delicious Pizza from BTV, the crust if
you left it there is called an ort o r
T and my father used always go, you guys gonna
eat your orts like it just you sounded nuts, but
that that was my dad. So we get everything out.
I had stopped for lunch, so I'm one beer in
for the day, and then my brother's gonna meet us
at their house after work, and you know we're gonna change.
We have a couple more beers. We pack up the
cooler and we go up the hospice and on the
way we're all saying, we're all good to take the
oxygen down. Ever, do you agree? Everybody says yes, get
in there, and the nurse comes walking in behind us
and she says, we're gonna flip them, so if you
want to step out, meaning that they kind of wash
them down. What they do is they rotator, right, so
they're gonna rotate them. And that's part of the reason
he had pins and rods put in and serve him
anything other than but he would have been in. I
don't think they could have done that right, to just
move them. So they say that, and then she comes back.
She goes, oh, we're all set, Do you have any questions?
And my brother and I look at my sister and
she goes, oh great, like none of us wanted those.
So she said, what do you think and the nurse said, oh, well, yeah,
my brother goes not not the question you were expecting,
And she said no, she said, it can be a
rapid decline if we take it out. And again, it's
just two little things. It's not a mask, it's not
it's not a ventilator. It's just and she said, the
medicine he's on, it's helping him breathe, it's opening up
his lungs a little bit, and the morphine is helping
with pain. So yes, so I guess there was a
couple of medications within five minutes. He was kinde yeah.
Speaker 3: So you were all there though, all three of.
Speaker 1: Us and my sister in law stood there. Well, he
got quite emotional, as you can imagine, and we uh,
and then it got kind of quiet, and you're just
staring at him and you're watching like you're just watching
this and this is the extraordinary part, ordinary happiness everything.
I just never seen anybody like literally leave. So we're
sitting there and you can see kind of the pulse
in his neck, and my sister said, we should do something,
we should sing something, and she started singing amazing grace,
and my brother and I joined in. And then my
brother goes, I don't know the second verse. I don't
know the words. I don't know the second verse. So
we sang it and then I swear to God. By
the time we were done, it was gone. And I said, there,
I go, he's gone. And we stood there for a second.
I waited like what I thought was approbably amount of time,
and I go, I'll go get the nurse. And my
brother goes, let's give it a couple of minutes. What's
that everything? And it was amazing to watch as the
color like your lips are no longer read. The color
is gone, like it's just gone. And then slowly I go,
oh my god, that happens so fat. It was like
somebody just turned you off. It was really strange. And
uh so we went and got the nurse and she said, okay,
give us a minute. We're going to put him on
his back. And then and and kind of problem. They
had to declare him dead. Right they can't because I
can come away he's dead, maybe not, And then they
call the funeral home. Funeral home is going to be
forty minutes to come out to get him. So and
then of course they're going to do one more time
with the body, and we're looking like no a week
with it, And we all talked and we went over
even then and you know, kind of gave him a
kiss and said and then they kind of put him
in the bag and come out, and then the funeral.
This poor girl, she's on call on a Friday night,
you know. And my dad wasn't a small he was
not overweight at all or anything at this point. It
hasn't been for probably the last fifteen years. But he's
taller than me by an end. She's six two, and
he's about one hundred and ninety five pounds one hundred
and ninety one hundred ninety five. It's a lot of
dead weight, you know what I mean. And it's not
evenly distributed. So I was wondering how, and she's this
little girl. So then she comes and she says, because
my brother is in Maine, he's the contact, and he
gets like this plastic rose and we're so sorry for
your loss. It's like this rose and this other thing.
So meanwhile, while we were waiting for them, it was
while we're waiting for them whatever real one bin better.
You think I have no idea. I just think nothing,
like what am I gonna know? Nothing? But it was
I guess that's what they I don't know. So we're
sitting there and they called. We had called my mother
and my mother without trying to reveal too much. I
was a ten pound baby. She had an episiotomy ovulating
and things would call problems and be painful. So it
was five years till my sister and then my brother
came after that. And my mother said, my biggest fear
was that my poor I think she texted on my
poor Billy would be the this you would have nobody
by the deathbed. I'm so glad you were all there.
So my brother puts the rose in his mouth, steps
his self, he goes. Billy wasn't alone, and I got
the rose. So there was still a sense of humor.
It was still nice. Problem is that you know now
we were all going back. It just it's almost like
my father used to make this joke. I would never
want to be a pain to my family or whatever.
I'm getting the phrase wrong, But so that that was it.
I don't know. I don't know that it's really hit
me necessarily. I think that I know Matt has lost
a parent. I know that you've lost both your parents,
and like I said, I mean, I don't know what
it's like.
Speaker 5: Well to me, like I was telling you when I
came in, it was kind of like a you're said,
but there's a relief to it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, you know what I mean. Well, they're never
going to be able to like that was the thing
where I'm going at this point. You wish you could
almost be the doctor to up the morphine a little
bit and just let them go and in the answer
your thing.
Speaker 5: When my mother passed, I was an old I was
an old forge with Matt, and so she waited until
I got She died probably a few hours later after
I got home.
Speaker 1: So, yeah, agree that.
Speaker 3: They do that.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's true.
Speaker 4: I know someone who's a death doula. Actually, yeah, and
I've talked to her because I she's in the Women's
Business Owner group with me. But I haven't lost a parent.
But I lost my stepdad last year. And yeah, he
had gotten approved for in home hospice that day. My
mom had been his caretaker. My mom was leaving that night.
She was just going to go out with her friends
to go see a show at like RBTL, and my
stepsister was staying with her, And as soon as she
walked out the front door, my stepdad passed and they
were like he did not want to die in front
of my mom, like he had like loved her too much,
too much dignity to pass in front of my mom
that as soon as she left he passed away.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was there was something somewhat alk. Not
all death is the same. I think Malcolm's wall worn
or drowned? Was that how he died in Costa Rica.
I think he got caught up in a rip current
or something. And I don't know, Uh sad, beautiful spot
to go, but but uh so that that sounds horrible.
This was like almost beautiful, you know, I forgive me,
but it was like almost beautiful that we were all
the three kids were there. Yeah, you know you got
to hug.
Speaker 4: Each other and that's yeah, you do get to like
like when my mom called that my papa had passed,
like the whole family showed up. We all had a
drink like in his honor. My stepbrother poured a Captain
and coke and put it in Papa's hands and like
because he's he passed sitting in his spot and everything
and it was just it was nice, so all sit there.
I mean it was It's strange when you're.
Speaker 1: Yeah, your person.
Speaker 4: Like a dead body. It was a Saturday night that
he passed. Took them hours to get them.
Speaker 1: Irish used to prop you up in the corner next
to the keg and that was the wake. I think,
maybe I want to be I've never heard that before,
many many many years ago. I think there were pictures
that I saw and they and they were Irelanders and
what they would do. Yeah, I don't that's yeah, you could, I.
Speaker 5: Guess, but you know, just look after losing people at
start at a young age.
Speaker 1: When my mom went to pass, it wasn't is devastating,
is you know, because she's supposed to do. Yes, she's
supposed to do. That's what I mean. Like, that's where
this is. It's ordinary like nothings. Nothing's out of alignment here.
It's not a child dying before a parent. It's it's
the order of life that I want to happen. But yeah,
that's the order of life. And uh, you were young
when your dad passed.
Speaker 5: No, I was it was two thousand and nine, so.
Speaker 1: I was in my thirties, okay, and how about you?
Speaker 3: I was twenty four.
Speaker 1: Yeah. See, it's like, here's what I'm waiting for. Oh god,
I gotta tell dad that, and then realizing that he's
not there, that that's what I'm that's the worst. That's
what I'm waiting for. And I think it'll happen.
Speaker 4: And I think it's hard when you get the ashes too.
If he's getting cremated.
Speaker 1: He's gonna get cremated, but.
Speaker 4: The ashes, like, yeah, that's sort of just that's a
gut punch.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And he said to us, I want a big party,
but give everybody time to really mourn me. Really really.
He was going to be eighty in October, so we
think we're going to do young. That's still it is
by today's standards. And you're not the only I was
out to like a I don't know, tequiling snacks. I
guess we'll call it uh over on winting or merchants.
Everybody been over tavos. Everybody been there? Yeah, get there.
Yeah it's pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, how did I know it?
It must have been something that was sitting here, but
a person who it was a funeral director was there
and said, you know, that's still pretty young. Yeah, And
I went, good, maybe maybe I'm gonna last more than
twenty four.
Speaker 5: Want it is only six years older than you know.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I know what you're not saying anything.
Speaker 1: I'm not sayingthing wrong.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying I don't think the eighty is an
older age.
Speaker 3: I guess, well, we know you don't think it's old.
Speaker 1: I guess that's what I'm trying to say. You're still
on the app.
Speaker 4: Was amazing.
Speaker 3: I didn't think Mark would be the one to bring
up the age of anybody.
Speaker 4: I do feel like though, it can put a lot
of life into perspective, like since my stepdad passed, I'm
trying to do more with my mom, like I invited
her on a summer vacation in a couple of weeks
with us, you know, because it can happen unexpectedly too.
Speaker 1: I think that that's I agree. I agree. I think
I don't know if you live this way, Map, but
all the things you and Natalie do together, the places
you go, it looks like you have fun. Why you
can I've learned that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really believe now from losing a wife that
was twenty seven, but also losing so many classmates over
the last twenty years. Yeah, yeah, I think we lost
one of our client well, one got killed in school,
you know, you get hit by a car. But we've
had a couple from cancer in the thirties, and so
it was just like, you know what, I'm obviously gonna
say for tomorrow, but you're also gonna enjoy it today.
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, right, because you can't take it with you.
Because that's when my dad died. The only thing on
was a hospital gown. That was it, Like there was
nothing else there. The big leather chair don't mean shit,
you know what I mean? Well, all the the books,
the memories of this, I mean, you know, and my
poor brother's got a lot of stuff in his garage.
Speaker 4: Still should hire an organizer, travel all the time like
I'm in the assessed living. That's why I'm asking because
a lot of the places around here, when someone passes
their moves to a higher level of care, they will
use their bookshelves, desks, beds for the next resident.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, so I don't know. I think everybody
here was bringing their ome, but I'm not. I don't
know how it works. Yeah, you know that's the thing,
all right, B T B Wood Fire Pizza and grill.
I will say, no.
Speaker 3: Kill you.
Speaker 1: You can cater your after funeral party, right, which which
which we have? Yes, we've done that.
Speaker 3: We're doing one tomorrow.
Speaker 1: You're doing are you?
Speaker 3: We have one of these at the party.
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that and really good just to
die for.
Speaker 3: Celebrated.
Speaker 1: But the uh but that back room is perfect. We've
done a lot of those things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And unfortunately a couple of my friends have had
their moms and we've done those there too. So that's
always nice because you give back to somebody. Yeah, but
it's nice. It's it's tough. It's the toughest time in
somebody's life, I feel like for the most part. And
if you can give them a little comfort, a little happiness, ye,
you know.
Speaker 1: Well, you're you're very good at doing that. I the
pickle pizza has been upgraded. It is so good. It
was really good before, but I bit into it this
time and I go man Cajun rants just enough kick
Cajun rant, little bacon.
Speaker 3: One of the best dressings we make too, is on
the Southwest Side. It's so freaking good.
Speaker 1: What made your son? It was your son who goes ahead,
let me try this.
Speaker 3: He comes up all kinds of ship there before we
went away. He came up and he can figure out
how to do stuff for bread, which is kind of
cool in a wood fired oven.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just from just from playing around. Kid's pretty talented.
I think you realized that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, keep them?
Speaker 3: What about? Uh?
Speaker 1: And then Wednesday the concerts coming up.
Speaker 3: The sixteenth, August sixteenth, Okay, so we.
Speaker 1: Got just a couple of weeks and it's the Zach
Bryan tribute band, and then that is gonna be It's.
Speaker 3: Gonna be huge, enormous. As the weather holds up, I
think it will should fairly. Yeah, that means it will
definitely ring. That way sold your boat, so yeah it
should be good.
Speaker 1: Right, you did sell it. If you've noticed, it has
not rained.
Speaker 3: So I should buy a Snowbill would never snowy. You know,
two years ago, I purposely my my buddy wanted me
to go out with Snowvale and he goes, you'll love it.
I said, I hate the cold. I'll hate it. I
bought the snowball, the boots, everything, gloves, didn't never buy
the helmet. Never got out once. There was never enough snow.
Friend about once you sell your stuff, you're never.
Speaker 1: That's funny. That's very funny. All right, we'll take a
moment only because it was everywhere and I have some
connection to the story.
Speaker 3: But I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4: Inst it is my personnellity cam.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the kiss cam. Oh, we'll get you. Yeah, that happened.
That happened to me once in Buffalo. Well, we'll hear
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But while I'm up there, all of a sudden it explodes,
with the CEO of Astronomer being caught on the kisscam
and the cold Play show. I believe it's a Leette stadium,
pretty sure. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it was in Boston.
And then I find out that they spend their summers
in Kennymunk. And then I find out someone who dropped
off blueberry cheesecake to the house This woman had golfed with.
That guy's the CEO's wife earlier. The kids are camp
counselors at some day camp up on the beach. Oh right,
so they are like entrenched in there. And I was
like I thought, that's the ripple effect. If I saw
my dad's my buddy's dad with his arms wrapped around you,
I couldn't not say anything. I would feel bad. Yeah,
but that would last five minutes and then then you
gotta start going, Amen, hey, where's your dad? And put
my mom my mom in the basement, you know what
I meaning? Like that, I don't know. And somebody else
in Rochester said they know someone who he banged before
that worked for the company. Really.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so here's my question, Like, a verified source told
you this.
Speaker 1: Okay, a verified source told me that there was another woman.
Speaker 4: That he was the man who sleep around. I bet
the wife knows and just turn there, you war, there's.
Speaker 1: No way this brought this woman didn't know.
Speaker 4: She had to know that he was I bet she
posted family photos on Facebook a lot too.
Speaker 1: Oh maybe probably it was sort of like to cover
up to like overcompensate.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, look, it's a nice life. When you're making half
a million dollars a year, that's a nice lifestyle. And
I'm sure that she probably you know, worked or something too.
She I don't know what she did.
Speaker 3: I forgot, Oh she had a decent job.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So there could be that could be a house
that made seven hundred to a million dollars a year. Now,
all of a sudden, I don't And Matt pointed this out.
It was the greatest observation I thought as I thought
of it too. But later on he didn't need to
do anything. Yeah, he just needed to stay cool.
Speaker 3: Calmon, collect don't act like it's a big deal.
Speaker 1: Hide in plain sight, right, hide and plain sight.
Speaker 3: And there's a chance that one of your wife's friends
are going to see you, or you know, vice versa
her you know, her husband's friend.
Speaker 1: But to do that, you just went viral. He threw
his arms off of her.
Speaker 3: They turned around and hid. He ducked down, He ducked.
Speaker 4: I mean, he was like like a grenade fucking came
at him.
Speaker 1: It did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, imagine amunt lawyers have called her I can.
Speaker 1: I mean, this went everywhere to the point where the
Philly fanatic Oh yeah, I did was great.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, leave it to fucking Philadelphia. Probably the
best thing they've ever done.
Speaker 1: But because.
Speaker 4: I thought that's really I mean, celebrities are talking about it, like,
the memes have been amazing. It is what me and
my sister, some of my friends. All we're doing all
day is sending the memes about it back and forth.
My sister senting this one that I thought was the best.
It was like lego, it was like my first affair
and it was like Patrick.
Speaker 3: For Holmes in the referee one, Oh yeah, oh did
they do it with AI or something?
Speaker 1: And they must, oh that's amazing. I got I know,
I haven't seen that. I haven't seeing that. But if
that guy stay calm. That's the thing is like your
knee jerk reaction to anything in life. Fucking way to beat,
just way to beat.
Speaker 4: And they could have just waved.
Speaker 3: They could have They did not have to do anything.
The camera would not if you're boring, the camera goes
off of you.
Speaker 1: She didn't even move. It was him that was like yeah,
and then she's like oh god.
Speaker 3: Then she just turned around. Her face was great though,
you know, her jaw drop, But what did you think
it was a possibility of happening?
Speaker 4: Well, and then his statement but they said that right
before Coldplay did say like all right, we're gonna do
the kiss cam now you know oh they did? Yeah,
So like he's like saying, you see the private moment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but no there's no private moment in account, not sure,
not in social media.
Speaker 1: That's stand.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 1: I mean it's there's something like I feel bad for
the kids, the wife. It's embarrassing that how this all
came out, especially for the kids to find out that
your parents had an affair that way.
Speaker 3: It's gonna suck for the kids because they're gonna get
so much fun made of them. I think the oldest
one is only like.
Speaker 1: Eight, right. Oh no, I think ones in college and
one yeah, there were two boys, and I think there
at college about her younger or probably younger. His kids
are college, so they should be okay, okay, yeah, I
think or ones like my dad's a slut. Yeah, hey man,
dad pull yeah true. Can I talk to you about
what goes on with the CEO? Because I just you know,
it sounds great. I want to enter. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I also asked my friend who's head of HR at
her company. I was like, how many memes have you gotten?
She's like, oh, the HR memes are great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that woman was HR. Yep.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Man, when HR is doing that, you got to anything
in that company? That's amazing. But has anybody ever found
out because I do know someone who who found out
that their parent was having an affair by being over
at a like a high school party, walking into the
bedroom and there's a frame picture of her mom. The
dad was divorced, but her mom was still married. And
that's slowly Yeah. Wait, I'm confused. So I know somebody
whose mother was having an affair married with a divorced man.
The divorced man had a frame picture. The party was
at his his kid was throwing the party because he
was out of town, and there was a frame picture.
Speaker 3: So he was divorced during a during an affair, though.
Speaker 1: I heard my home entire Oh he's still married. But
here's the freme, he's not. He's divorced. He was single.
He's single, and he's living.
Speaker 5: She was Why would you have a picture of somebody
I don't still married?
Speaker 1: It was in his bedroom probably just like looking at it.
I don't know, you know what I'm saying, Like you
would think no one's going to see this, and then
she saw it and shouldn't exist. I think the kid knew,
but they never said anything. And then it kind of
came out and the mother, you know, father split. But
I just what a way to find out? Right, you'd want.
I guess the best thing to do is to admit
it if you're call I don't know, I don't know
what the best thing to do is.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, some guy was just powndering from behind.
Now since she looks up and there's her mom sure
with the guy, and what the fuck this can't happen.
Speaker 1: I don't know that that was exactly like that. I
think that it was one of these, Yeah, you wound
up in the bedroom. Maybe we're going to the bathroom
off there. I'm not sure. But you know what does
racial questions, It does racio questions.
Speaker 3: But you're doing in that bedroom. That's that means it
was the father's bedroom as well.
Speaker 1: It was the father's bedroom.
Speaker 4: Yes, I mean, I'm sure that people have been people
get caught in public events, but I just think it's
the whole jumbo tron, you know, that's making that's the
whole media circus.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I knew people who would go out
of town, like when I say out of town Buffaloe
instead of hanging around here for restaurants and things like that.
Speaker 3: But maybe that's what they did. Maybe they were out
of town sort of at least like that.
Speaker 1: Maybe it wasn't like, well, his wife said, Kenny Bunk,
that's a good I think two hours from Boston, and
so he and I think they were a Boston based company,
a Boston company.
Speaker 4: I know that.
Speaker 1: His wife and I.
Speaker 4: Had a couple of friends who went to cold Play
up in Toronto, and I asked one of them the
other day. I was like, did you wish that that
whole scenario happened at the concert that you were at?
Speaker 1: She was like, yes, did he reference it at all?
Speaker 4: Because he's killed before Toronto.
Speaker 3: Was before the next one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to know.
Speaker 3: My son is in Nashville right now because his buddy
the cold Play, So they're going show. I don't know
if it's telling or not, but I wanna I'm gonna ask.
Speaker 1: Him, yeah, final if they make any reference to him.
Speaker 4: They tweeted like there's going to be a camera free
section for all those of their sip.
Speaker 3: Luke Bryan sat down the air night before he played
a slow song and he says, hey, before you think
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kiss cam's gonna show. So if you got your side
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POLITICAL thing i want, To, SAY uh cbs is Ending
The Stephen. Colbert show this has nothing nothing to do
with fascism and it has nothing to do with. The
government it just doesn't because they wouldn't let him Stay
on may if that were. The case he's Staying in
may to finish out. The contract they just don't. Do
That And late night is not making the money it used,
to period because so many people watch the clips online
that they're not getting. The revenue and you may see
that more. And more and as, YOU know i have
a little insight to some not, a lot but there's
been some fear, of that and SO when i see all,
this stuff it had nothing to do. With, that unfortunate,
YOU know i think it would be a, great story
but it has nothing to do. WITH that i will tell.
YOU this i think we're taping This. On monday they
Brought Back john stewart On The. DAILY show i think
he does it once a week now and they have
different hosts throughout the Week Since trevor, noah left and
it's his company that Owns The. Late Show It's.
Speaker 4: John, stewart, yeah okay.
Speaker 1: SO and Cbs owns viacom or they're the same Which Owns.
Comedy central the ONLY reason i bring this up is
maybe he'll quit. On air he's got, enough money. He's
rich maybe he'll stand up for his boy and go
this is bullshit or whatever and quit. On air it might.
Be compelling the Last Time late night had some drama
Was When david letterman admitted to having an affair, And
said i'm getting out of front. Of this so you
can't basically bend me over and do all this shit
and look no politics aside in Terms of colbert. Or
whatever it just that's not. The case we're. Not there
we're not there in. THIS country i know people, get
worried but we're. Not THERE and i just, FEEL like
i don't know why it was hanging on. My head,
I'M like i FEEL like i got to say this
because there's So, many no We're not It's not it
has come down. To revenue by, the way what what?
Did YOU and i don't mean this is you in?
The room? You anybody what have you? Watched last probably
something on the, streaming service not something on. A network
and that's part of the reason this is.
Speaker 4: All happened BUT reality tv.
Speaker 1: Takes, Over Yeah, JESUS christ I Watched love island. Two
episodes has Anybody Watched? LOVE island.
Speaker 3: I did two episodes that it's, the worst it's.
Speaker 1: So bad but have you watched any?
Speaker 2: Of?
Speaker 1: IT oh i would love to have you watched the
first episode when they have, to, like okay so it would,
Be Me. Matt mark we're, over here you and a
couple of your girlfriends and they get to go up.
And pick so we're standing on these, like, podiums platforms
and you get to pick two guys that you wouldn't mind,
being with and you get to kiss them both and
ye just, just madame.
Speaker 3: But not not two. Separate times you kiss one and
then the.
Speaker 1: Other one and then the other one. RIGHT away, i like,
the hell you're.
Speaker 3: Gonna kiss that guy and then come? Kiss me sorry not?
Speaker 1: Having, one dude gave, the cheek gave. The cheek but
some of, THESE people, i mean they went.
Speaker 4: All everyone gets to, choose everyone.
Speaker 1: So wait and then if you pick Let's, say, matt
right and then here comes. Another chicken she goes you,
know what that bitch and. Goes over she Can steal
matt and make Out with matt in front, of you Or.
KISS matt i think that's where somebody was sort of
a gentleman get you on. The SHOW but i, was,
like WOW and, i go it's not a. Streaming service
it's getting tons. Of talk what do you?
Speaker 4: Think happening people like going crazy. ABOUT it i even
saw PEOPLE at cemac. LAST week i forget. What concert
it Was Either brad Paisley or hosier that they were
watching the finale while the concert was.
Speaker 3: Going on you. Can, show, yeah yes IT'S like, i,
stop yeah you.
Speaker 4: Go here someone on RADIO that. I know i ran
into her in like one of the tents and she
like stayed under THE one vip tent and was watching
it while at.
Speaker 1: The concert at, The, show yeah and she like. Posted
it that's. FUCKING wild i greatly appreciate you.
Speaker 4: COMING out, i, was uh I'll do i'd be here
as soon as you.
Speaker 1: Called NO but i will ADMIT that I was i
was NERVOUS about i FELT like i had to say
something while we, went DARK and i had already mentioned
that this is, what's happening but what actually Concluded of and,
somebody's like you think, you'll Cry and, i'm, like no
it's kind of cold if. YOU don't. I go i
CRIED all i was going, to, say yeah you've had
a month.
Speaker 4: To cry this has been going out.
Speaker 1: On it, WELL yeah i mean quite a. FEW weeks
a few weeks. ARE crying i was just start making
funny and THAT'S what i would have. Liked, anyway hey
your big, Pussy, pussy yeah what happened to your?
Speaker 3: Dad side your dad tell you not to cry a.
Speaker 1: Little bit you're so disappointed. In you.
Speaker 3: You're letting your, dad down bringing up all childhood, trauma,
here yes all.
Speaker 1: That stuff don't you? Ask? For right? Come on? This contagious?
It does he did used to sing when he would
help me with. My homework you are so STUPID and
i am so SMART when i he did.
Speaker 3: Do that.
Speaker 1: It's just a fun Thing for Laura FROM Matt bTB
baby get. Out there august sixteenth is a. Big concert
it's gonna be a whole lot of fun with the,
m eights And The zach bryant that we are postponing
the brunch. Cast off oh thank You you hold on
one Second and i'll start. This over we are postponing
the brunch CAST because i do have to go Back
to mean for the Services, on SATURDAY and i would
be coming Back until. Sunday later good to know because
it was in.
Speaker 4: My calendar i'll probably still.
Speaker 1: Show up, no good still show up because there's always
a story when. You're around, and uh and we we will.
Do it we will do It, in august. FOR sure
i think it'd just sort of making a. Regular thing
i'm open. To. That uh And for mark who always
had an eye, for talent an eye, for, talent, Music
Everything I'm. Bill moran will see. YOU tomorrow i woke
up in, a hotel didn't know what. To do i'm
TURNING a tv rule.
Speaker 2: A letter to you
Speaker 1: Upon the Un inter state