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<v Speaker 1>I was. I use this app called Marco Polo, and

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<v Speaker 1>Marco Polo is basically it is a video messaging app

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<v Speaker 1>where it's one way at a time. It's not like FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 1>I send you a video message and then you send

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<v Speaker 1>me a video message and back and forth. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>really cool. It's free. It's called Marco Polo. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Marco Polo with a couple of friends through the week

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<v Speaker 1>and a friend of mine yesterday, she's a teacher. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>I woke up in a terrible mood. Oh, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she went to school and she had a terrible day

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<v Speaker 1>at school, and and so I think I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about waking up in a terrible moody. I never

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<v Speaker 1>wake up in a terrible mood. And I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>because I have happy dreams and I can't remember them specifically.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have pretty happy dreams. And I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it's like I'm seeing like old friends or family

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<v Speaker 1>or what it is. But do you wake up in

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<v Speaker 1>a good mood? Do you have happy dreams? Jenny? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember your dreams?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I do remember a lot of dreams, but usually I

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<v Speaker 4>don't usually have very happy dreams. Oh no, really, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a pretty anxious person, so sleeping's not my friend

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of times.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Usually I get through like the first handful of hours

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<v Speaker 4>where if I am dreaming, I don't remember it, but

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<v Speaker 4>the later hours where it's like starting to approach me

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<v Speaker 4>waking up, those usually turn into like more nightmares for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Odd really yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Especially if I if I wake up on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll wake up at like six a lot of times

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<v Speaker 4>in the weekend, and then maybe I'll fall back asleep

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<v Speaker 4>for like an hour or two sometimes, and those times

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<v Speaker 4>I always have crazy dreams because my body's like, just

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<v Speaker 4>get up at six, yeah, and I don't, And so

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<v Speaker 4>then I go back to sleep and it's kind of

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<v Speaker 4>like punishing me for not getting up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well that sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but what about you, Bailey.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really dream a lot, so I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>remember my dreams. But I can wake up in a bad,

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<v Speaker 2>bad mood only because it's hard for me to get up.

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<v Speaker 2>But once I am up, I'm fine, But like just

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<v Speaker 2>the getting out of bed is hard, and I'll be like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned over the years not to lay in bed

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<v Speaker 1>and languish about how it sucks to get out of bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I maybe lay there for thirty seconds, then I stretch

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit and then I'm up because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for people, yeah, I guess. So. I mean, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>getting up out of bed early for forty one years.

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<v Speaker 1>And was talking to another friend and she is around

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<v Speaker 1>my age, and she's like, I can't wait to retire

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't have to get up. She's like, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been getting up early for forty years, and I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sucks. And one day you I guess, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you look forward to the day you don't have to.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but then you are bored anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then I look at somebody like fallen or cold,

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't have to get up early. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Falin's got a kid, not that young of a kid.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she also does the Jason shows.

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<v Speaker 1>Well she does. She's not up at four thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh not that, but I mean she's still up, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But probably realistically, like what wouldn't it be great to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep until six thirty? Hell yeah, I mean that would

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<v Speaker 1>be great if I could sleep until six thirty. That's

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping late on a weekday. People are like, I got

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<v Speaker 1>up early. I got up at six thirty. Yeah, that's early,

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<v Speaker 1>but not compared to like four thirty is when I

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<v Speaker 1>get out of bed.

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<v Speaker 4>I think anytime before six am is too early. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I think six am is kind of the cut off

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<v Speaker 4>for me where I'm like, Okay, I could do this

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<v Speaker 4>regularly and not hate it, But before six am, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>fuck this when my alarm's going home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And the dream that I have, and I usually

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<v Speaker 1>have very happy dreams, and they usually consist of about

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. I'm trying to go somewhere, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not packed, and I got to get packed, and I

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<v Speaker 1>got to get all my stuff together, and some of

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<v Speaker 1>it's over here and some's down the street. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>not a stressful dream. That's a happy dream, I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>So No, And they never make sense because I'm back

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<v Speaker 1>at my mom and dad's house in the yard. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've got to go get like the chickens and

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<v Speaker 1>put them in the truck and we'ich is stupid shit

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make any sense. But one that I have consistently,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's radio people call it the dream. But I'll

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<v Speaker 1>bet a lot of people have this in your career too,

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<v Speaker 1>And that is the dream where you're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't have anything ready, long is running out,

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<v Speaker 1>there's dead air, you don't have anything to play. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>you try to play doesn't work, or it's two seconds long,

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<v Speaker 1>or it's a song like that you shouldn't play on KATIEWB.

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<v Speaker 1>Last night, I had a dream that I kept playing

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<v Speaker 1>the same song over and over while I was looking

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<v Speaker 1>for something else to do, and I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>edit something. So it's the dream where nothing is going right.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the actor's dream where you find out that you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to go on stage but you don't have your

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<v Speaker 2>lines memorized because they're telling you last second, like you're

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<v Speaker 2>going on for Juliet and you're on in twenty minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like, ooh, so that's I think funny because

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<v Speaker 2>that's the actors the dream.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that O great?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, every industry has that because there's server nightmares too,

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<v Speaker 4>where you literally can't get to your table on time

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<v Speaker 4>to greet them. They're waiting for thirty minutes, and then

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<v Speaker 4>somebody needs a ranch and for some reason you can't

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<v Speaker 4>get to the kitchen to get the ranch for them yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>every industry I think has some form of a dreamage.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll bet it's true, and I'll bet most people. And

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<v Speaker 1>we've brought up this several times on the show. Where

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<v Speaker 1>it's a few days before graduation. You haven't gone to

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<v Speaker 1>class in months, you don't know where your locker is,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know what your combination is, you're not sure

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<v Speaker 1>what your schedule is. But you need to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the front office to find your schedule and get your

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<v Speaker 1>locker combination. And you've only got three days until you graduate,

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<v Speaker 1>and you haven't been to school since last October.

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<v Speaker 2>You were like, I was enrolled in that class. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even remember I was enrolled in that class.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, gosh. Yeah. The funny thing is my dad lived

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<v Speaker 1>into his eighties and he said he had that dream

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<v Speaker 1>still in his eighties.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, Like wow, most of your life?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, school? All right, email, Here we go with some

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<v Speaker 1>of the emails on the Minnesota Goodbye. Let's start off

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<v Speaker 1>with this one. I listened to the I'm Still Fun podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard Jenny talking about her breakup, Jenny talking about

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<v Speaker 1>being friends with different life stages now that she is.

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<v Speaker 1>Then Jenny spoke about her friends being at different life

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<v Speaker 1>stages than she is now with her recent breakup. I

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<v Speaker 1>got divorced at twenty nine years old. Everybody else was

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<v Speaker 1>settling down or having a ton of fun in their twenties,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt like this old man because I was

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<v Speaker 1>divorced and young. Now I'm in my mid thirties, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still single, and I can relate to Ginny when she

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<v Speaker 1>spoke about feeling like a burden to people who are

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<v Speaker 1>settled down, tell me more about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like, you know, the last time I

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<v Speaker 4>was single, people were still out doing a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>fun things and whatever, and now everyone's partnered up and

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<v Speaker 4>I am obviously not going through like a great phase

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<v Speaker 4>of my life. So I feel like I need support

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<v Speaker 4>from people. I can't just sit at home by myself

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm honestly not super happy right now. So I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like I'm a burden asking friends to hang out

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<v Speaker 4>who have a full life. They're married and they have kids,

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<v Speaker 4>and they have a full schedule, whereas, like my schedule

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<v Speaker 4>just completely changed to be wide open. I have no

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<v Speaker 4>one to talk to and hang out with every day anymore. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so I feel like a burden when I reach out

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<v Speaker 4>to my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, Okay, well, they go on to talk about this.

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<v Speaker 1>They said, I can relate to that. It sucks. Your

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<v Speaker 1>life is so different than everybody else is around you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you never planned on it being like this. The

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<v Speaker 1>one mistake I made throughout the years when I felt

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<v Speaker 1>lonely was to sit by myself. As you transition into

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<v Speaker 1>this phase, realize you are not a burden and don't

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<v Speaker 1>sit alone. I don't have a ton of advice to

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<v Speaker 1>give because you got to do what's best for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything will be good and you will adjust.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks. Yes, okay, I'm working on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Another one. Let's see there was somebody who had a

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<v Speaker 1>big list of piece of advice for you. Okay, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Uh, Jenny, I know you've probably had numerous

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<v Speaker 1>people reach out since you made a public that you

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<v Speaker 1>are single again. I am another voice in the sea

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<v Speaker 1>of people who've experienced immense heartbreak. Many of these messages

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<v Speaker 1>will say you're not alone, But I understand that none

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<v Speaker 1>of these messages mine included, will take away from the

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<v Speaker 1>emptiness of losing your best friend. The cold spot in

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<v Speaker 1>bed will not be replaced by any of our words.

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<v Speaker 1>Believe me when I'd say I've been there and just there,

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<v Speaker 1>just there is exactly how I felt numb to the

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<v Speaker 1>world around me. I analyze beyond comprehension. I search for

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<v Speaker 1>answers among security and countless other things that could not

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<v Speaker 1>be found. I wish I could say I navigated the

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<v Speaker 1>journey of losing my very soon to be husband like

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<v Speaker 1>a pro. I wish I could say that I completely

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<v Speaker 1>recovered and give you promises of a fabulous future you deserve.

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<v Speaker 1>The truth is I can't and nobody can. What I

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<v Speaker 1>can say is the whole in my heart has become

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<v Speaker 1>smaller over the years, and while the scars remain, I

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<v Speaker 1>learned how to love myself more. Still a work in process,

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<v Speaker 1>and even as a fellow anxiety beneficiary, I like that

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<v Speaker 1>I found a peace and contentment that never existed before. Life,

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<v Speaker 1>for better or worse, it's full of twists and turns,

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<v Speaker 1>and all we can do is try our best to

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<v Speaker 1>roll with the punches without letting it drag us down.

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<v Speaker 1>I could throw out countless cliches that we've all heard before,

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<v Speaker 1>but the truth is you will find your own way.

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<v Speaker 1>We all do. Having been an avid listener for many years,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel confident in knowing the strength you possess. It

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<v Speaker 1>shows whether you believe it or not. Take the time

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<v Speaker 1>to grieve, cry, search, engage, and heal your heart. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you need a good heartbreak playlist mainly country, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your Girl. Godspeed from Lisa.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks Lisa, I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's see if there's anything else there are. I

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<v Speaker 1>just had to go. I'm trying to go in certainly

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<v Speaker 1>different kinds of order here. Okay. Random thought. I realize

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<v Speaker 1>today that my life is completely mundane. When I tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this is a different one, it's a different one.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. I came to this realization driving down

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<v Speaker 1>the same boring roads I always do, and I've found

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<v Speaker 1>myself creating stories that I made up in my head

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<v Speaker 1>about people who live in the houses. For example, I

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<v Speaker 1>made this up. There are these two neighbors who hate

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<v Speaker 1>each other, probably hide fish heads in the air filter

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<v Speaker 1>of each other's cars. One puts up Christmas lights, the

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<v Speaker 1>other puts up a crazy Manger scene, and the other

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<v Speaker 1>steals Baby Jesus. Recently, one painted the outside of their house.

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<v Speaker 1>Two days later the other one did. The battle has

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<v Speaker 1>gotten so bad that they literally on the same day

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<v Speaker 1>both had for sale signs in their yard. Today, one

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<v Speaker 1>Indica hate soul. The other has the for sales sign removed,

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<v Speaker 1>then of course I zillowed that shit. Now, remember this

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<v Speaker 1>is all made up in her head. None of this

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<v Speaker 1>is real, needless to say, the only truth to this

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<v Speaker 1>is the sale of the home and the one removed.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to hear about other people's drama. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want it in my life directly. I can't be alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys make up random shit for your own entertainment?

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<v Speaker 1>That is from Shannon? I do not, but I admire

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<v Speaker 1>that you found something to make your life a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more fun and exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't go to that extreme, but I definitely look

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<v Speaker 2>inside of people's houses when I go on really long walks,

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<v Speaker 2>and you can see inside their houses, and I imagine.

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<v Speaker 3>A new Steve Latar, I believe almost.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sometimes those people, like if it's getting dark and

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<v Speaker 2>you're like at dusk and they have all the lights

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<v Speaker 2>on in their house, they want you to look in

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<v Speaker 2>their house, like so you can see their piano or something,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's always a fancy house.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think we have the lights on in our house,

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<v Speaker 1>you know sometimes at night, and I don't there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>that we're hiding so people want to look in Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it probably looks nice from the outside.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care if people look at single light like,

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, why you got all the lights on?

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<v Speaker 2>Second of all, yes, I'm going to make up what

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing with your life and what you do for

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<v Speaker 2>a living. Not to this extent, hey, I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>commend you to this extent. That sounds fun. I love

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<v Speaker 2>a day dream. I love that for you.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a neighbor in our neighborhood that their lights

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<v Speaker 1>around all the time, and they've lived there as long

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<v Speaker 1>as we have. We've lived there twenty years and their

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<v Speaker 1>lights and their kids are all grown now it's just

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<v Speaker 1>the two of them. Every light on every floor is

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<v Speaker 1>always on, and I wonder if it's not once in

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<v Speaker 1>a while, it's all the time, except probably in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of the night. And I just wonder, do they

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<v Speaker 1>have a fear of dark rooms or maybe he's got

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<v Speaker 1>an anxiety about walking into a dark room or something,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's not only it's expensive and it's not there's

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<v Speaker 1>no need for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Yeah, unless they're just like forgetful, they turn on

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<v Speaker 2>a light, walk out, forget that they had it on.

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<v Speaker 1>I got one more quickie. I'm catching up on a

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<v Speaker 1>previous PEP episode and listening to a conversation about which

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<v Speaker 1>job is the worst to do? Hungover, I got a story.

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<v Speaker 1>I was twenty one, got drunk to the point of

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<v Speaker 1>puking for the first time in my life. Next morning,

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<v Speaker 1>at church, I was scheduled to serve communion. I was

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<v Speaker 1>so hungover. I went up to the altar, hoping they'd

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<v Speaker 1>give me the plate of wafers, but instead they gave

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<v Speaker 1>me the platter of wine. Oh my gosh, so they

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<v Speaker 1>could smell the wine. It took everything in power not

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<v Speaker 1>to vomit all over in front of the church. I

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<v Speaker 1>was gagging in between saying Blood of Christ, Blood of Christ,

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<v Speaker 1>Blood of Christ. We still laugh about this a lot today.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a great day. Thanks for always brightening my day.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome, Sarah. Thank you for listening. Love to hear

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<v Speaker 1>your emails. Send them to a Ryan Show at KDWB

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<v Speaker 1>dot com for the Minnesota Goodbye.