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Speaker 2: When your old career gives you lemons, throwing some ice

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Chrysler Dods. Gee rahm, it's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Well,

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hello and welcome.

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Speaker 1: Thank you forgetting your pot on. Thanks for telling a friend.

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That's how we spread the word about the pirate ship.

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Go to make sure everything's kind of working all right

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here because there was a lot of technical there's other

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things happening in this space, and it's great, it's fucking awesome,

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but people are touching things and it's not working right.

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Fresh in the house.

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Speaker 3: Who wait for that, buddy?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm well. Doug came in with some

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deviled eggs. I looked at him and burst out laughing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why did you burnt laughing?

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Speaker 1: It was like, it's like an offering. It was like

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Speaker 3: Uh, we're not in church, not a what do you

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call those things? Wafers?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I tell you what.

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Speaker 3: If priests gave out deviled eggs instead of wafers, there'd

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Speaker 1: Do you think so? I know? So? How do you know?

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and you just lined up and the priest gave me

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a wafer and I just walked away, and guy ran

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after me. He goes, son, let me have that, and

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they're like okay. Because I didn't immediately put in my.

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and go. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: He just came up to me, and I never forgot

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there were some reason.

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Speaker 1: It was really weird.

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Scout meetings were. So but no, never Catholic.

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had philosophical disagreements and wrote a letter of resignation to

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Speaker 3: He got a fight with a priest right or he

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was in the seminary and he got basically asked to

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leave because he put a Litz cigarette in the Virgin Mary's.

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Speaker 3: And he would like whenever you get a little buzz out.

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seminary to be a priest. Oh yes, so, oh he

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was studying me a priest. Yeah, I believe so. And

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so he learned to write. But then he was working

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then you're just gonna stay here. And he's like, you

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Rochester and they drove up the following weekend with the

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Saint John Fisher and absolutely loved it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And so when I was looking at colleges, I

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one shot of my dime. So I didn't go right away.

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I come up to Fisher and I found a party

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on camp and I blew off the kid I was

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staying with and I found these girls and stuff and

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the admissions and they go, well, we'd like to accept you.

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think college work at any level is all that difficult.

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If you do the work right, and even if you

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don't get something, go find the help. It's all there

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for you. So I don't want to diminish that. But

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just easy. And I said, they said, we'd like to

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offer you admission, and I said do I have to

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write an essay? And they go no. I go done.

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I went to the caverns awhere because I just went done.

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I'm in I can't wait. That was it. But the

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Devil's eggs I didn't learn how to do that in college.

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Speaker 3: Many people ask me for that ingredent recipe, the secret recipe. Yeah,

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really that much to it?

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Speaker 1: White vinegar, no mannaise.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got to tell you something about tell me somebody.

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Speaker 1: Because you are uber excellent Uber driver. I have used

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you to drive me to the airport, yes, in Buffalo.

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Wow is it expensive? I could have gotten oh to

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uber a Southwest flight for less and I'm not kidding.

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Then it cost me to go to Damien's new pub

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on the west Side over Degrease. Really there was about

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I think Southwest keeps sending me these things get away

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fifty nine dollars get away and I don't fly Southwest

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all that often. But and I'm like, wow, So this

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was Wednesday, Wednesday, what time I taped a podcast, went home,

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had audio issues. I left around eight o'clock, came back

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at like one o'clock.

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Speaker 3: Sixty bucks each way, yeah, average, yeah, average? Now did

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you just look at it?

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and save me. And that was the sixty like the

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Speaker 3: So what you want to do is refresh your square

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screen and keep refreshing.

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Speaker 1: You know. But when I did that once they went up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it happens too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So whatever I mean, I'll tell you this, like

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at all, I'm half kidding when I say that. Who

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gives a shit? I don't want to d W I no,

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and I and I know that you know, they're looking.

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it hadn't opened yet. It officially opens today, so you

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may have been able to get away with it. But

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I'm like, I don't want to fuck it. I don't

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want to fuck it around. I don't I don't.

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Speaker 3: Want to one o'clock in the morning, I was sleeping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I know. I wasn't gonna burden anybody else

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I were going and so how was it?

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Speaker 3: How does it look looks great? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Our friend Mac of all Trades with uh, the Mac

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Who at our studio did their place? And it looks fantastic.

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in a lot hotter than normal, and I can't figure

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out why. And these are the things that are happening.

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Like as things move forward with the podcast in this studio,

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I'm allowing some things to happen. You don't build equity

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in something if you have to be there all the time.

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Understand that you're like, you just can't. It's not scalable.

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Speaker 3: I'm here for you body.

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Speaker 1: Connors and Ferris handles workers comp social security, disability and

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personal injury cases. Listen, I get it. Workers comp claims

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can be a real pain. But Connors and Ferris are

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here to fight for you and get you the compensation

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you deserve. Whether you threw out your back on the job,

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slipped when you should a grip, or your boss thinks

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overtime mean free labor. Spoiler it doesn't. They've got your

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back At Connors and Ferris, with offices in New York City, Syracuse, Rochester,

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and Buffalo. They're the go to team for getting the

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compensation you deserve. No gimmicks, no nonsense, just real results.

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Call Connors and Ferris two six to two comp that's

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two six to two comp for Connors and Ferris. All right,

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all is well, My bad. Sorry, just wanted to double

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check that stuff and make sure things were good. You

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got it. But life is good for Dougie Fresh Oh yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: Working hard, driving hard, New Year, and try to get

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some resolutions in and resolutions in. Yeah, I'm one of

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those guys that makes resolutions.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the year, all right, I'll try to start the

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year off on the right foot. Do you tell people

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your resolutionsy do you keep them to yourself? Myself? Love

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you for that. Yeah, And I'm not kidding because sometimes

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you tell me I'm gonna lose weight to yoga. You

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try that exactly right. Everybody says these things and it

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kind of gets in your head. I really think it

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affects your thinking.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you should jinx it, and I should

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let somebody like losing weight. Let lose the weight and

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have somebody else toot your horn instead of twoting it yourself.

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Speaker 1: Ah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I'm gonna lose weight. I'm gonna lose weight.

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if you do lose weight, and in five months he says,

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Doug you lose weight feels a lot.

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Speaker 1: Better sometimes see it yep, And sometimes things are better

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done in silence. Yeah, I always go go forth and

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tell no one right, don't say anything, whatever idea you

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have about doing things like I haven't talked about a

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lot of things with the podcast because I just don't

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need people to be like and I'm like, no, not doing.

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I'm a little superstitious. Yeah, yeah, do you have what

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other weird things that you don't look at the mirror

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before wrestling match?

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Speaker 1: Okay that was an old one. Yeah, yeah, when you

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when you were wrestling, yeah, all the way through. You

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did that for what eight years?

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then yeah, a bunch of years in wrestling tournaments even

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after old timer tournaments or master's tournaments as they say, yeah,

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under forty over fifty, did you do it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? How did you win? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well eleven years ago was my list. Wow, that's that's

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forty four.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I only had two matches. I mean that time.

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parents and actually grandparents guys that are wrestling with their

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sons and grandsons, so they're a little more in shape.

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And one time I was at two No. One, seventy one,

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seventy five, and I was right in between the one

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hundred and sixty five pound weight class and heavyweights, so

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I had to wrestled the heavyweights.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I still came in third, okay, just with

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leg trips and then just ride them out or you know,

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hopefully they get a little more winded than that I do,

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and those things. It's more over fifty a couple of

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takedowns and that's it. The periods are one with a

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thirty second break, one thirty second break. When you're out

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of college in your you know, twenty five, twenty six,

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guys are still in shape. So there's some names around

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that still just want to wrestle because they love it.

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So yeah, sometimes you'll get some good.

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Speaker 1: Matchups against the man and the single Yeah, right, like

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not in those shorts and a T shirt? Is it

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just shorts? Yeah? Oh so it's like backyard Yeah, that's like, yeah,

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it comes Bob representing bud Light. Here's Doug from wind

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Jammers with this wind Jammers T shirt on.

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Speaker 3: The Jenny Light gentleman, the Jenny Like gentleman.

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Speaker 1: That's even better. That's even better. No fear of like

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getting hurt at that's the other guys.

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Speaker 3: That's the other guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean fair enough.

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Speaker 3: If you think you're gonna get hurt, don't you don't

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do it.

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Speaker 1: Don't do it because you will. You're already, it's already

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in your hand, it's already in your head.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to be careful. That's so so okay,

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let's just okay, no hard takedown.

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Speaker 1: No, Yeah, you're out there though. Yeah. It's funny because

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it's just amazing when I look at things, how fear

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controls so many of our decisions and things. And I

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don't think fear is necessarily a bad thing. It's almost

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like a survival instinct at times. But I can see

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where it plays into all of our lives. And you

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sent me video and there's a lot I'm sure online.

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I haven't looked a whole lot of chatter about what

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happened in Minnesota a little over a week ago, I think,

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and I think there's so many people who go I

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would have handled it differently, And when I look at this,

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I go, I don't know that you would. I don't

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think anybody would, because I will tell you in that moment,

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the biggest thing I see is fear on both sides, truly.

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And I want to play the audio that you sent

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me because it's kind of interesting. I don't necessarily agree

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with everything the guy's saying, but it's an interesting discussion.

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And he's a fun he's got a fun delivery of it.

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It's uh, happened in Minnesota. Here he is right here,

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now this woman who is now I can pause.

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Speaker 3: He So this gentleman, we were talking about this last week. Yeah,

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my buddy had found this. This guy has been arrested

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over two hundred times, has been a more than three

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hundred protests, I think.

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Speaker 1: And he holds up pictures of him in handcuffs and

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things over the years, thirty five years. He says, yeah,

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but he'll explain that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, your buddy's gonna remember it.

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Speaker 1: That's okay. Here we go.

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Speaker 4: Sadly, she leaves a child and a wife and it

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shouldn't have happened. I have a right to comment on this,

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more than ninety nine point nine percent of all of you.

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So listen to what I'm fucking saying here. Why because

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I am the protester. You understand this the thirty five years,

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this is what I've been doing, thousands of protests, dozens

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upon dozens of arrests, And the reason I am still here, Oh,

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I don't have stitches from a fucking billy club or

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I don't have marks from a taser is right here

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in this image. Every single time that I haven't arrested,

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you will notice my hands I placed behind my back.

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As I am told when I get arrested, I do

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not resist, I do not spit, I do not curse,

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I do not struggle. I do not fight or be

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aggressive towards the authorities or there to arrest me. Because

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when we protest, we step over a line, a line

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that is there, and that line happens to be called

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the fucking law. And thank god, in this country, we

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can step over that line sometimes, but we have to

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understand that we are now in a different zone. Because

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that cop over there, I think his kids got leukemia.

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That cop over there, I know was in a bank

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robbery last night with the thugs and he got shot

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at and he's back out in the street. But he's

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all high tension. And that guy over there, that cop,

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I know his wife is fucking the mail man. So

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I'm in a high tension area and these fuckers have guns,

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but tons and pases.

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Speaker 1: Now I just want to pause he here for just

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a second. And I wasn't planning to do that, but

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I think you know, I'm sure somebody goes, oh, how

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does he know? He doesn't, But he's basically pointing out

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there are other things going on in their lives. They're

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a human being, They're a human right, They're a human

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being that has gone through something and it may influence

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the moment. How many of us are taking out it's

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displaced anger, right, displace anger, and we've all done it.

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You continue with this guy.

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Speaker 4: We have a system in this country. It's called a court,

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a fucking law. And whether I'm wrong or right in

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this situation, opp I didn't do anything right. Put your

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hands behind your back, yes, sir, and I will take

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that up with the judge and prove my innocence. I

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do not bring the court. I'm right there at that

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high tension fucking moment. Do you get what I'm saying?

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Speaker 1: People?

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Speaker 4: So this woman would still be alive I don't think

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she was the kind of woman that would have done

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what she did, which was resist and be aggressive towards

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the authorities as you see in the video. And you're

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gonna fight about that, but let's get to the base here.

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The base is the wipe is probably looking to suit

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Trump or the police, so the ice. So it is

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the time she needs to look at the Democrat, liberal politicians,

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community activists, and the fucking douchebag, mother fucking self loathing,

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divisive cocksuckers in the liberal fucking media that tell her

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and those like her to resist arrest and.

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Speaker 1: Be Okay, I don't know why he stopped there, but

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he's basically at the end. Let me see, maybe cut

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off grab at all, but you get the thing, and

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that was basically his end there, I think. So, you know,

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there's so many things here. But I was trying to

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really think about this, and I watched this video a

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couple of times. I don't know about the liberal media.

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I can't really comment on that only because I haven't

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seen them say get out there and be resisting arrests.

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I haven't seen that. I'm not saying it hasn't happened.

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It's just not something I can really comment on fairly

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because I don't know. I don't watch a lot of news.

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I don't have CNN not buy for any protest. I

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just I got rid of sling, and I now everything's

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sort of a la carte. I think I watched ESPN

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more than anything, you know what I mean, I really do.

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And then I'll catch some of the over the air

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channels and stuff Paramount picks up our local CBS and whatever.

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So I haven't seen it, so I really can't say

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I would be surprised if someone said that, because it

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never works. What's that in some kind of like resisting

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arrests or putting up a it never works? Yeah, I

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mean the thing is they.

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Speaker 3: Want to protest, like he says, Yeah, you know, if

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you want to stand there, okay, it's time to go, right.

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Speaker 1: But and I know that there are times they've done

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crowd control things and they've shot people with pepper balls

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and that kind of thing, and they think somebody in

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town took one to the forehead or something. At one

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point that was all over media. And Okay, I'm not

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saying that it's it's always gonna be go piece calmly

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or peacefully, but whatever. But I think in this moment,

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the one thing that really jumped out to me is

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because I watched and I told you I saw video

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from the BBC side of things. Yes, but it was

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somebody on the sidewalk from behind, so they were behind

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her car and her wife was out of the car.

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So this is why I think there was fear. So

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we've all seen the video where it falls. I've seen

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a lot of videos where the guy falls. The guy

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who fell, wasn't the guy with the gun. The guy

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who fell, And you'll see him get out of a

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car and he slips. I don't know how, but he

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slips as she like, it's Minnesota, it's cold, it's a road.

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It looks like a side road, so who knows how

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well they're plowed or whatever. But from the video I

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saw that the so he got out filming, she backs

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up the car. Who knows what he did. And so,

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but that's the video we were seeing, and I think

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a lot of people thought, oh, that's the guy with

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the gun. She hit him. That guy never fell, He

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never fell. Like she puts it in reverse. They forcefully

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yell at her to get out. She puts it in reverse.

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You can see the video that officer was pulling out

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his gun as she's in reversed. She cranks the wheel

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to the right. It looks like she would have missed him.

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We don't know.

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Speaker 3: And this is now one video I saw that she

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does hit him.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 3: One video I saw she does hit him on the

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side of his body and actually pushes him away.

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Speaker 1: I didn't save it. Yeah, I didn't see that. The

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one from the is all from behind, and that was

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the one like she was a He never fell, he

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never the guy. There is a guy who falls. That

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guy wasn't really close to the car. He was coming

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up from the officer screaming, get the fuck out of

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the car, get the fuck out of the car. Down.

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He went to reach for the handle. She hits reverse.

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There's a guy behind him. That guy falls. The guy

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with the gun does not fall. Doesn't mean anything because

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you're in a split second moment. And this is where

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I go. I don't know. But she didn't stop to

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say to her partner get in the car. She was afraid,

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so she wanted she was just gonna get out of there.

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And she goes to crank ittt and the other guy

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who she.

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Speaker 3: Was leaven leave well, the.

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Speaker 1: Woman wasn't there. Yeah, her partner was not, you know,

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because you saw the partner on the other side of

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the car in some videos and kind of saying some

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antagonistic things, right, and but she doesn't stop to say

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get in the car. That's why I'm going it has

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to be fear based. At this moment, I'm fucking scared

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of my mind. I'm gonna get the fuck out of here.

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I don't want these guys putting their hands on me.

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That's when the other guy reaches for his gun. He

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pulls it out. He had been hit by someone in

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that situation in the past, according to reports.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I got tix months ago. I believe he was

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hit and dragged.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so those so that's not happening again. And

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he doesn't know. And it's a split fucking second, and

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it's unfortunate and it's sad and it's awful, but it

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was a split second, and I go, if we're being

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really honest on both sides, to do what they were

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doing takes bravery, if you're gonna actually take a stand

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and put your money where your mouth is and go,

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I think this is completely wrong, and I'm going to

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block the road from guys with weapons. It's kind of ballsy.

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And she was nice in all the videos, so she

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was nice. She said hi. You know, like in one

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video high officers, he's walking around the car. No, that

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was the other woman. That was the other woman. The

473
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,240
woman in the car was nice. She doesn't really say anything.

474
00:24:02,279 --> 00:24:05,359
The other woman goes, we don't change our plates. You'll

475
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,640
be able to come see us later and find us.

476
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:08,640
You guys change.

477
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 3: I'm just talking to my dad the other day. I'm

478
00:24:10,039 --> 00:24:13,880
just like, why some people that they hate on police officers.

479
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,759
Where it's come from all of a sudden. It seems

480
00:24:15,799 --> 00:24:18,440
to me because I remember cops coming to grammar school

481
00:24:18,519 --> 00:24:21,319
and asking questions and nine to one one if you're

482
00:24:21,319 --> 00:24:23,640
in any kind of trouble. But like this, you just

483
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,640
want to aggontize them. I mean, they're not going out

484
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,240
in the community. Just okay, everybody, pick a number. We'll

485
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,079
go to that house and grab everybody and take them.

486
00:24:31,079 --> 00:24:37,880
They're trying to get undocumented illegal aliens that have committed crimes.

487
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,079
Speaker 1: Well, I think yeah.

488
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:46,079
Speaker 3: And forcefully unfortunately, but they've come in the you know,

489
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,160
especially drug dealers or the mules as they call them.

490
00:24:49,319 --> 00:24:52,960
You know, I mean, worried about there's more drug overdos as,

491
00:24:53,039 --> 00:24:55,079
heroin and other things coming in to the country, and

492
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,519
you know you got to stop us some time.

493
00:24:59,559 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, you know, fear only cares about survival

494
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,319
in the next three seconds. I mean, if we're really

495
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,519
going to say that's where I go, you know people

496
00:25:08,519 --> 00:25:10,480
will go. You got to get over your fear. In

497
00:25:10,519 --> 00:25:13,319
a lot of situations, that's probably really good advice from somebody.

498
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:17,000
In this situation, I think it's just instinctual. And I

499
00:25:17,039 --> 00:25:19,519
don't know that I agree with you on the pushback

500
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,839
with police officers at the at any level anymore. I

501
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,359
have a feeling and I've talked to officers, are just

502
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:31,480
with the the sheriff of our county last night, and.

503
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,319
Speaker 3: Well when I see people throwing shit at officers and

504
00:25:34,559 --> 00:25:36,920
pushing them back, and yeah, I haven't not even if

505
00:25:37,279 --> 00:25:39,440
maybe it's not the numbers I think, but just that

506
00:25:39,559 --> 00:25:41,079
alone watching NTV is just.

507
00:25:41,279 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that, like even locally. And I just

508
00:25:45,279 --> 00:25:48,720
think the attitude in general has gotten better. I almost

509
00:25:48,759 --> 00:25:53,839
feel like the defund the police idea worked in reverse

510
00:25:54,519 --> 00:25:58,680
because I think most people realized you can't, you can't

511
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,480
and you're not gonna have they still trying to do that. No? No,

512
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,240
So I think it was a phrase, right and and

513
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,440
and what I thought they meant was, can we can

514
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,480
we move money around and allocate it to do better

515
00:26:09,519 --> 00:26:12,559
things in the community, community outreach, community work, talk to people,

516
00:26:12,559 --> 00:26:15,160
get kids off the street. Basketball programs. They used to

517
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,200
have them where the kids would play basketball against the officers.

518
00:26:18,279 --> 00:26:21,519
That's there's just not money for that anymore. So why

519
00:26:21,559 --> 00:26:24,119
not if you're talking about I'm not saying defund, but

520
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,359
put that back. If you want to take some dollars away, so.

521
00:26:26,319 --> 00:26:28,799
Speaker 3: No money to play basketball against the officers, I guess

522
00:26:28,839 --> 00:26:29,920
I'll buy the basketball.

523
00:26:30,079 --> 00:26:34,279
Speaker 1: It's not the basket, it's renting the gym, finding the time,

524
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,000
doing the stuff on our schools.

525
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 3: They're paying for that already.

526
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: I can't. I have no idea.

527
00:26:39,599 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 3: Have the janitor throw on the lights and I look,

528
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,720
it's a couple of parents watching things. It sounds great,

529
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,400
it does, but I'm just telling you what I know.

530
00:26:47,559 --> 00:26:51,319
Speaker 1: So that's where I go. Maybe that's what you meant.

531
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,319
Then find a better way to say that, because defund

532
00:26:54,319 --> 00:26:57,319
the police now sounds relliant. Let's just get rid of them,

533
00:26:58,279 --> 00:27:01,519
and it's not and it doesn't fucking and like in

534
00:27:01,559 --> 00:27:05,799
this situation, a lot of these guys aren't officers. This

535
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,200
won't happen to me, but some of the guys are not.

536
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,640
They're like, you get a fifty thousand dollars bonus, and

537
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,480
they're signing up different people because they just need body trained.

538
00:27:15,799 --> 00:27:19,519
From what I understand, the training is because I talked

539
00:27:19,559 --> 00:27:21,400
to my son who did some research on this, and

540
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,640
he goes, it's not great training, and he goes and

541
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,200
not everybody's coming. But the guy who shot was like

542
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,519
part of his swat team at home or whatever. So

543
00:27:28,759 --> 00:27:31,359
you're getting some of those, but that doesn't mean everybody.

544
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,799
And I'm sure some of these guys are like on

545
00:27:34,039 --> 00:27:38,119
loan from a police force, right because all the police forces. Yeah,

546
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,839
you know what I mean, Well, Doug's out for the

547
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,720
next three weeks because he's doing ice. We need people

548
00:27:41,759 --> 00:27:45,200
to cover those shifts. That's what I'm saying. So you know,

549
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:49,359
the whole thing is like crazy. I think with the ice,

550
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,160
they're feeling like there is it's not done in a

551
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,440
humane way. I look, I always say that the percentage

552
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,960
and I don't know then the percentage of people who

553
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,839
are coming in here illegally, that are doing bad stuff.

554
00:28:02,039 --> 00:28:06,119
There are some well there's proof, yeah, but I don't

555
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,480
know that they're large numbers. And I think some of

556
00:28:08,519 --> 00:28:11,160
the people, you know, you're it's ripping families apart. And

557
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,359
so people who have more of a bleeding heart see

558
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,240
that and go, is there some better way? You know?

559
00:28:16,319 --> 00:28:19,519
And since they're all these years, well they did deport Look,

560
00:28:19,559 --> 00:28:21,319
I mean you'll see people, well.

561
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 3: I see I like watching all the old videos of

562
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,759
all all the presidents trying to get elected. So and like, Okay,

563
00:28:26,759 --> 00:28:28,839
the first thing we're gonna do is deport anybody they're

564
00:28:28,839 --> 00:28:31,079
not shouldn't be here. We're just gonna get rid of them. Well,

565
00:28:31,079 --> 00:28:33,039
they never do it. They just want to They just

566
00:28:33,079 --> 00:28:34,720
want to say what everybody wants to here. Well, there

567
00:28:34,759 --> 00:28:37,960
was a lot of deportations under other presidents. There was

568
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,440
a lot under Obama, but it wasn't done like this.

569
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,119
They didn't come in kick and scream. They just didn't

570
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:44,839
do it this way.

571
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: I don't know how they did it, but it didn't

572
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,839
get or at least it didn't get this attention. I

573
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,000
don't remember them having ice going into you know what

574
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,119
I'm saying, Like, so now.

575
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 3: I don't remember him deporting anybody. Honestly, yeah, he did.

576
00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,319
Speaker 1: You can look it up, okay, And it was the

577
00:29:00,359 --> 00:29:03,400
same thing, because you can't have people coming in here. Look,

578
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,400
one of the worst things for all of us is

579
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:11,400
healthcare for everybody. Now, if I show up illegally and

580
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,680
I go to the emergency room, they have to see me,

581
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,839
and it's paid and it's paid for. But then where's

582
00:29:17,839 --> 00:29:20,319
the money coming from? So now the prices go up

583
00:29:20,799 --> 00:29:24,559
just that alone, right, it makes sense. I mean, I

584
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,920
get it. I don't know. I can tell you this.

585
00:29:27,119 --> 00:29:32,480
Like I was with someone who just said coming into

586
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:36,799
the United States legally was a really really long process.

587
00:29:36,839 --> 00:29:39,720
Guy from Toronto who got his American citizenship, and how

588
00:29:39,759 --> 00:29:42,359
complicated it was and how long it took, but he

589
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,839
did it. My former brother in law, I guess he's

590
00:29:46,839 --> 00:29:49,759
still my brother in law married a woman from the Philippines.

591
00:29:50,359 --> 00:29:55,240
It was an arduous process to get her here, Like

592
00:29:55,279 --> 00:29:58,680
it took almost two years to get her through legally,

593
00:29:58,759 --> 00:30:01,640
and he was on his way to be a colonel

594
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,599
in the army. So you would think there'd be something, right,

595
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:08,240
I mean, I served whatever, there's nothing. So I always think,

596
00:30:08,359 --> 00:30:10,799
is there a way to change those laws? Again? I don't.

597
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,480
I don't understand it, but I when I saw this,

598
00:30:13,599 --> 00:30:17,640
I just go it's fear on on both sides, and

599
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:23,880
I start thinking, like, how's fear controlled my life? I

600
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,000
was thinking back to the dumbest thing I ever did,

601
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,960
fear based. I had a photography class in college and

602
00:30:30,039 --> 00:30:32,599
I was trying and I needed an action shot.

603
00:30:32,799 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 3: So I had my went streaking and had a friend

604
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:35,519
take a picture.

605
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: You know, I have my little brother jumping off. This

606
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,000
is this is terrible. This is terrible because it's going

607
00:30:42,079 --> 00:30:45,640
to show you. So I'm probably like eighteen years old,

608
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,599
and I'm having my younger brother, who at the time

609
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:54,359
is twelve, jump off the top step of our front

610
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,200
and try to get an act shot. And he's just

611
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,440
not getting the height, and I'm getting pissed. So I

612
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:00,319
asked for my sister to come out. She's two years

613
00:31:00,319 --> 00:31:02,400
older than him, so if he was twelve, she's got

614
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,200
to be like fourteen or or thirteen. Maybe she's thirteen

615
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,039
because I'm five years older than there and he had

616
00:31:07,039 --> 00:31:07,799
to be eleven.

617
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,079
Speaker 3: So I asked her to do it, and she gets

618
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,240
really great height. All right, all right, let's do it again.

619
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,559
And she does it, and I snapped the photo.

620
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: She lands and she starts screaming in pain, and I

621
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,039
can see like her ankle has she just broke her ankle.

622
00:31:22,079 --> 00:31:23,880
Oh really? Oh yeah, oh oh yeah.

623
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 3: And what do you fear from your father?

624
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: You fucking got it, Doug. Wait wait, so I fucking

625
00:31:31,319 --> 00:31:33,000
like my father comes out? God dag.

626
00:31:33,839 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

627
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,079
Speaker 1: I don't even remember exactly. All I know is I

628
00:31:37,119 --> 00:31:40,519
got so scared. I did what I now look at

629
00:31:40,559 --> 00:31:42,680
and go the weakest thing I could have done. I

630
00:31:42,759 --> 00:31:44,759
jumped in my car and I took off.

631
00:31:45,039 --> 00:31:49,079
Speaker 3: Wow at eighteen Jesus, he left your sister there crying.

632
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: My dad was My dad and mom were there. I

633
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,200
was I was like, what am I gonna do? I

634
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,960
gotta get the fuck out of her. He's gonna kill me,

635
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:57,480
Like you're gonna have a broken ankle, I'm gonna be dead.

636
00:31:57,759 --> 00:32:00,359
So I took off, but I go. I was so afraid,

637
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,480
Like in that moment, I was fucking afraid. And it's

638
00:32:04,519 --> 00:32:07,200
just you know, here is powerful, right, and so you

639
00:32:07,279 --> 00:32:10,039
just do something right. I think I'm gonna die here

640
00:32:10,039 --> 00:32:11,480
because someone's coming at me with a car.

641
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 3: Did you call home before you went home or you

642
00:32:14,319 --> 00:32:16,440
just went home like five hours later, I.

643
00:32:16,359 --> 00:32:19,839
Speaker 1: Don't remember my parents had because I grew up in

644
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:24,119
My brother always refers to it as Appalachia, which I'm

645
00:32:24,119 --> 00:32:28,559
not exactly sure that that's inaccurate. But it was so

646
00:32:28,759 --> 00:32:31,799
rural that where I went to high school, twelve miles away,

647
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:35,640
was a long distance phone call. So if you called

648
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,519
a girl who lived up there or something, you were

649
00:32:37,599 --> 00:32:40,240
racking up phone bills. So my parents there used to

650
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:44,000
be something called call Home America and it was an

651
00:32:44,039 --> 00:32:48,799
eight hundred number, and so we had an eight hundred number, and.

652
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 3: I think I remember this. Yeah, so I could go.

653
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,519
Speaker 1: To any payphone or anything just call home. And they

654
00:32:53,559 --> 00:32:55,799
did it. Because then when everybody you remember this, when

655
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,759
your mom did, Yeah, yeah, my parents put it in.

656
00:32:58,799 --> 00:33:01,160
So so when I was in college and I knew

657
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,279
my brother was home alone, my buddies and I would

658
00:33:04,319 --> 00:33:09,759
go call up and go douche bag and then say

659
00:33:09,799 --> 00:33:12,359
things like we see you, and he'd be like freaking

660
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:13,880
the fuck out, which is nice. Really.

661
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did that once too, and the girl went insane.

662
00:33:18,359 --> 00:33:21,000
What Oh this was in Geneseo years ago. We're all

663
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,359
friends and uh so he's like, where's your girlfriend? And oh,

664
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:27,039
she doesn't feel good? A prank caller, and I'm like, oh,

665
00:33:27,039 --> 00:33:29,720
we all know you're home alone and we're going to

666
00:33:29,759 --> 00:33:31,400
be coming over to make sure you have the lights

667
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,720
out of She did. She freaked out, found out, but

668
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,960
well we thought a little joke and yeah, that wasn't funny.

669
00:33:37,079 --> 00:33:37,759
Speaker 1: It wasn't funny.

670
00:33:37,759 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 3: Oh they had to be thirty years You scared the

671
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:40,839
ship out of her fear.

672
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:44,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, slacking all the doors, sleeping with a knife under

673
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,680
her bed. Yeah, somebody I know. How did your sister

674
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:47,000
work out?

675
00:33:47,039 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 3: By the way, she's just tell her she have a cast?

676
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,599
Oh yeah, yeah, that bad all the way up to

677
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:58,759
the knee. Oh god, your picture came out. I forgot

678
00:33:58,759 --> 00:33:59,759
to take the lens off.

679
00:34:01,799 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 1: So poor dog, Like I COVID here and I had

680
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,799
been letting someone else use the laptop and things, and

681
00:34:07,839 --> 00:34:10,440
I'm going the car. It just gives me, like the

682
00:34:10,519 --> 00:34:12,440
camera with an accident. It's like, your camera isn't on.

683
00:34:13,079 --> 00:34:16,519
I can't figure out what to do. So I'm searching,

684
00:34:16,559 --> 00:34:19,239
I'm looking, I'm reading different things, and finally I just

685
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:23,199
do another Google search on this specific computer not Windows eleven,

686
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,519
and it says there's a little toggle Swiss at the top.

687
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,719
Just move it. That's it. And I'm like, oh dummy,

688
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,320
uh yeah, no, the I don't remember how the picture

689
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,440
came out. I didn't do well in the class. Yeah,

690
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:36,960
that's all I do.

691
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 3: Did you get into see Jeff Fisher?

692
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 1: That was fine. I'm back there now.

693
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,519
Speaker 3: You know I have to write an essay righting?

694
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: Uh good?

695
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:47,679
Speaker 3: Yeah.

696
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

697
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 3: We just started up classes again and uh a little different.

698
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: Lot of a lot of kids are still in January break.

699
00:34:55,119 --> 00:34:58,159
Some of the yeah, I think Rockport is and some other.

700
00:34:59,199 --> 00:35:01,559
Speaker 3: Kind of empty. Yeah, making a lot of rides out

701
00:35:01,559 --> 00:35:07,000
of there. You'll you'll get them. They're gonna come flooding back, buddy, Tuesday. Boy,

702
00:35:07,039 --> 00:35:09,559
I don't know. I think yeah, I think next week

703
00:35:09,639 --> 00:35:12,440
probably starts classes. A lot of uh yeah, a lot

704
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,800
of airport rides and the train rides.

705
00:35:15,119 --> 00:35:17,519
Speaker 1: Yep, yeah, coming up. I used to take the train,

706
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:18,360
Yeah I could.

707
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,119
Speaker 3: I love taking the train. Could I could have called,

708
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,199
could have could have called you take a six hour

709
00:35:23,599 --> 00:35:26,159
trip to uh New York City, have dinner and turn around,

710
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:26,880
come on back.

711
00:35:27,039 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: Uh huh uh. Let me ask you this then. Sure,

712
00:35:31,559 --> 00:35:36,599
with like fear, a lot of times, like when we

713
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:40,119
think of fear, we're not thinking of those moments like

714
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:40,840
life or death.

715
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,559
Speaker 3: I think there's a lot of different levels of fear

716
00:35:42,599 --> 00:35:45,599
there is, right, Yeah, losing a loved one, losing a job. Yes,

717
00:35:47,119 --> 00:35:49,599
maybe you're on the highway with a flat tire yep,

718
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,480
you know, even your cell phone no reception or you know,

719
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,960
or you're at a juice or something like that, or

720
00:35:55,079 --> 00:35:58,679
it's not real fair but suck somewhere and no self

721
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,000
phone service.

722
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:04,679
Speaker 1: Or yeah, yeah that's fear. Verizon went out this week. Yeah,

723
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,480
people were afraid. Yeah, people all of a sudden, We're saying,

724
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,119
was it a cyber attack, They're going to shut down

725
00:36:10,159 --> 00:36:13,519
the country. They're gonna write fear all fear. But I mean,

726
00:36:13,639 --> 00:36:18,480
how about fear that like isn't on a grand scale

727
00:36:18,519 --> 00:36:23,000
like that. It's more individual like fear of dating somebody,

728
00:36:23,119 --> 00:36:27,519
or fear of fear of rejection read something I ain't

729
00:36:27,559 --> 00:36:30,760
know about. I don't put myself out there. Is it really?

730
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:31,920
Oh yeah? Really?

731
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 3: That big ass personality, that big, smiling, happy.

732
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 1: All the time, like playful guy. Yeah, Stephanie eyed and

733
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,239
I'm gonna have her in. I was in about a week.

734
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,480
She's good, she's busy, and she's very much in love

735
00:36:51,519 --> 00:36:54,320
and she would rather spend that but she put a

736
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:58,000
Facebook post up this week saying that I have two

737
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,480
friends who are professionals and can't find a man.

738
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 3: And well, let's take a look at him. They're attractive

739
00:37:06,039 --> 00:37:08,159
and blah blah blah. She wasn't saying who they were,

740
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:12,639
she just put this up. This thing exploded, Oh I'm

741
00:37:12,639 --> 00:37:16,000
sure exploded. And a lot of guys were putting pictures

742
00:37:16,039 --> 00:37:17,679
and things, and she's like, some of these guys you

743
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,920
want to go, how how.

744
00:37:21,199 --> 00:37:25,079
Speaker 1: Do you think I'm making to take this? Well, no, no,

745
00:37:25,119 --> 00:37:27,480
not dick pics. But there's like a guy posted a

746
00:37:27,519 --> 00:37:31,159
pic and his blinds are broken behind him and he's like, Eh,

747
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,639
take what you get. That's right. But I mean it's like,

748
00:37:35,039 --> 00:37:39,599
but I really think that there is something going on

749
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,320
with men in particular.

750
00:37:43,519 --> 00:37:46,559
Speaker 3: Like you know, Chris raxaid the best like twenty years

751
00:37:46,599 --> 00:37:48,880
ago on stage, he goes, when you ask a guy

752
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,559
he's got a new girlfriend, the first question on everybody's

753
00:37:51,639 --> 00:37:53,320
mouth is what does she look like?

754
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,599
Speaker 1: Yeah? Girls, I got a new boyfriend. What's his job?

755
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,000
What does he do? Yeah? What does he do? Right?

756
00:37:59,119 --> 00:38:01,519
Speaker 3: And he's an uber drag that ain't going over well? Yeah,

757
00:38:01,519 --> 00:38:03,840
but it well he's a bartender.

758
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a.

759
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 3: DJ's stand up comic raise money for breast cancer. He

760
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:11,199
does a podcast Bill Moran, Oh fuck him a loser?

761
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,639
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I mean the thing is like, what if

762
00:38:14,679 --> 00:38:16,519
they're a dog center, what if they don't feel the

763
00:38:16,559 --> 00:38:17,599
same right?

764
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm one on the electricity and lightning. It just

765
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,119
happens like I look at it.

766
00:38:23,159 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: Oh no, I got you. That's always it's usually the best.

767
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:30,559
It's usually the best. I hear you. It's it's a

768
00:38:30,639 --> 00:38:33,519
weird it's a weird thing. But it was weird to

769
00:38:33,519 --> 00:38:35,840
me because I go, how many guys are just fucking

770
00:38:36,039 --> 00:38:38,760
lonely out there because they won't put themselves out there?

771
00:38:39,119 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 3: Probably just as many as women, or you think, or

772
00:38:42,199 --> 00:38:43,800
I think we're getting to a certain age, I mean,

773
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:47,480
fifties fifty five. You know, obviously women aren't looking for sex,

774
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,800
and guys kind of slow down too. Yeah, but you

775
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:54,360
want to have somebody that you're compatible with, enjoy talking to. Sure,

776
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,519
I mean, sex isn't gonna happen like it was in

777
00:38:56,559 --> 00:38:59,559
your twenties and thirties. It might, it might probably not, Okay,

778
00:38:59,679 --> 00:39:02,599
okay on everybody's dream, I'm.

779
00:39:02,519 --> 00:39:07,559
Speaker 1: Not what are you just gonna have sex all day long? Maybe? Yeah, yeah, No,

780
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,239
I you're right, and you are. You're probably looking for

781
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:11,920
more compatibility interest level.

782
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 3: That's sort of what you don't want to kill when

783
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:14,119
they open their mouth.

784
00:39:14,159 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: And I think you're yeah, And I think you also

785
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:22,880
would explain when it secks. Why so many guys we

786
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:26,320
see the mismatch, the guy who gets back in shape

787
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,320
after the divorce and starts dating twenty years younger. Well,

788
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,159
she's got all the things that he wants, she has

789
00:39:33,199 --> 00:39:35,960
the sex drive, she has all that he does sore

790
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,800
of or has pills for it. And it's fine until

791
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,719
it just becomes a pain of the ass. You know,

792
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,639
I sometimes feel bad for when I look at him.

793
00:39:43,679 --> 00:39:45,639
Speaker 3: Oh, and I know this isn't gonna go over well

794
00:39:45,639 --> 00:39:48,800
at all. I look at Alec Baldwin sometimes.

795
00:39:48,559 --> 00:39:51,199
Speaker 1: I Okay, poor fuck is out of a bitch. How

796
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,519
what did you do? Like? Why did you do this?

797
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,039
He's got a million little kids, he's sixty something years old,

798
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:02,639
his wife very attractive, and thirty things. I don't fucking know.

799
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:08,079
Speaker 3: I just go, no, No, he's got nanny's he's got

800
00:40:08,119 --> 00:40:10,320
he doesn't have to I know, he doesn't have to watch.

801
00:40:10,079 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: It, but they do. Family. You're right, I don't how

802
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,920
do I know. I have no idea what the truth is,

803
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,480
but I think he tries to be around the kids.

804
00:40:18,559 --> 00:40:22,719
I think as you get older, you start to realize, uh, how.

805
00:40:22,599 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 3: That goes over for other parts of your family when

806
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,199
you're dating somebody younger.

807
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 1: Than your your daughters.

808
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,199
Speaker 3: Hear that some now. I used to watch entertainment a

809
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:37,199
little bit, but uh, some of the tabloid stuff, and

810
00:40:37,199 --> 00:40:39,320
then just got bored with it so many years ago.

811
00:40:39,519 --> 00:40:41,599
But every now and then you get the clips on

812
00:40:41,639 --> 00:40:43,599
your phone, your reels, your TikTok, stuff like that, and

813
00:40:43,599 --> 00:40:46,000
you hear or see things like this happened the same

814
00:40:46,039 --> 00:40:49,440
with Uh, that'd mean more an Ashen Kushner. Yeah, she

815
00:40:49,559 --> 00:40:51,880
was older, he was younger than he wanted a threesome.

816
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:56,239
She agreed because she thought it would strengthen the relationship,

817
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,159
right right, did you ever watch porn? Doesn't really strengthen anything.

818
00:41:00,159 --> 00:41:03,039
And nobody's lasting forty five minutes. Let me tell you

819
00:41:03,159 --> 00:41:04,760
how that we're going to try this and this and

820
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,480
this and this when you're younger.

821
00:41:07,599 --> 00:41:08,199
Speaker 1: Is it editing?

822
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:08,599
Speaker 3: Huh?

823
00:41:08,639 --> 00:41:10,039
Speaker 1: Is it editing? Is a editing? Oh?

824
00:41:10,119 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's ai no, And I'm saying and there's three things.

825
00:41:14,119 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you're right, right, And and that's

826
00:41:16,639 --> 00:41:19,199
also I think another thing that.

827
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 3: When you're younger, you're wild. Things happen sometimes in the

828
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,480
bar and you just die up in somebody's ouse. As

829
00:41:24,519 --> 00:41:27,599
you get older, yeah, you know, and you might be

830
00:41:27,639 --> 00:41:31,239
making wiser decisions, you think, so you'd like to.

831
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 1: Not leave you are, Yeah, well unless.

832
00:41:33,639 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it should go sideways.

833
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:39,320
Speaker 1: No, But I mean I think sometimes to your to

834
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:43,639
your point when you are younger, or here's one of

835
00:41:43,639 --> 00:41:46,840
my concerns, right, because I have boys all all all

836
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:54,119
boys and rapid or wagon once in a pretty serious relationship.

837
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,679
I'm not so I think they're but they both are

838
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:02,920
pretty goal oriented to things. Look, it only takes one, right, Yeah,

839
00:42:03,079 --> 00:42:06,239
but I would assume because she has a lot of

840
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,119
things she wants to do when she's graduating this year,

841
00:42:09,199 --> 00:42:14,480
and so there's I think, and I usually don't say anything,

842
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,280
but you know, just kind of. But my worry is

843
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,320
more like with the younger guys like Jamison who can

844
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,559
access porn so easily on their phone. And I'm not

845
00:42:24,599 --> 00:42:26,079
saying he is or he isn't. I don't.

846
00:42:26,119 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 3: I've been not a fan of that for many years.

847
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,199
And I think anything why Why Because it's easy access

848
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,599
to children even if you're not. It's not like finding

849
00:42:34,599 --> 00:42:37,199
your dad's old playboy should be instead of dot org,

850
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:41,880
dot com, dot sex, anything with dot sex, explicit pornography,

851
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,440
nudity should be dot sex. So you can just go

852
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:49,719
you go into your phone and uh block it, block it.

853
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,800
Then you can give your kid your phone because you

854
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,639
don't know if he's playing candy Crush or whatever going

855
00:42:54,679 --> 00:42:56,840
through your stuff in your own on your own phone.

856
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, but a lot of kids today are they it's

857
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,079
almost I know it sounds sort of ridiculous, and you

858
00:43:02,119 --> 00:43:04,559
can certainly buy them with restrictions on it, but you

859
00:43:04,599 --> 00:43:08,679
almost need a phone before the child because they need

860
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,199
to be picked up somewhere. I understand the wayte of track,

861
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,679
so it just makes it easy. But my bigger concern

862
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:15,400
with that, I.

863
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 3: Think there or I hope there's restrictions if you give

864
00:43:17,519 --> 00:43:20,039
somebody phone, all their texts come through you, all the

865
00:43:20,079 --> 00:43:23,280
pictures both through you before they said and send it

866
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,719
goes to you, and then you click the.

867
00:43:26,119 --> 00:43:27,559
Speaker 1: Apps and things that you can do that with.

868
00:43:28,079 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 3: I don't know since fifteen I don't have a lot

869
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:35,000
of those restrictions on there, but even at fifteen, you

870
00:43:35,039 --> 00:43:38,000
know that fifteen sixteen, that's when you're dating, trying to

871
00:43:38,079 --> 00:43:41,280
kiss other stuff. But twelve and thirteen.

872
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,519
Speaker 1: Well, no, that's the thing. But since twelve and thirteen,

873
00:43:44,039 --> 00:43:47,280
many of the kids have had access to that, and

874
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:54,159
so when they are so when they're doing their thing,

875
00:43:54,599 --> 00:43:58,599
they're watching sex that isn't real, right, So the expectations

876
00:43:59,199 --> 00:44:01,920
are there and they get in it, and you kind

877
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,320
of hope in that instance that a little bit of

878
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,800
fear so you're not grabbing her by the hair, you

879
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,480
know what I mean. And I know that sounds fat,

880
00:44:10,679 --> 00:44:12,599
but you kind of hope a little bit of fear

881
00:44:12,639 --> 00:44:15,760
of the moment will make you just awkward. And I'm

882
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,599
okay with that because the other shit is it's not realistic,

883
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,159
and most women probably don't like that, especially girls who

884
00:44:22,199 --> 00:44:22,960
have no experience.

885
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 3: Maybe later on, maybe later later on, well I know

886
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:26,840
a few of them.

887
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, I'm not denying that. I'm not denying that

888
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:34,239
pull the hair. But I didn't. I certainly didn't. I

889
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:37,239
certainly didn't at sixteen, no, you know what I mean,

890
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:41,000
or when you were sort of coming of age, I

891
00:44:41,039 --> 00:44:43,159
didn't know that. I didn't even get to see that shit.

892
00:44:43,559 --> 00:44:47,239
So I saw stuff that was somewhat aggressive in club magazine,

893
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,159
but by that point I was nineteen, but it was

894
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:53,000
pulling the hair and look at this. But I also

895
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,519
would never say to a girl, let me put your hair,

896
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,480
because that just sounded nutty to me. I was like,

897
00:44:58,519 --> 00:45:00,320
I try to do it. No, I know, but I

898
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:00,719
didn't know.

899
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:06,159
Speaker 3: You gotta learn, yes, you know, feel each other out.

900
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:10,280
That's the beauty of maturing with somebody growing a bond.

901
00:45:10,639 --> 00:45:13,159
Speaker 1: This is true. Yeah, and you're you're hit on the

902
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:17,119
right thing. What else? Are you afraid of? Heights? But

903
00:45:17,199 --> 00:45:19,159
I'm not going to get over that. No, But I mean, like,

904
00:45:19,199 --> 00:45:21,599
how about things in life? Like you said alone fear

905
00:45:21,639 --> 00:45:23,360
of is that really a fear of yours? Man? I

906
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:24,280
don't think i'll die alone.

907
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 3: I'm sure I'll find somebody older and richer and just

908
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,199
retire in the next five years.

909
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: That's my plan.

910
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 3: Anyways, Doug, what's your five year plan? I'm tyke a

911
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:39,079
million dollars stelling devil Diggs my five year plan. Oh gosh,

912
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:44,360
I'm just you know. I printed out this month's January

913
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,239
thirty one days and just wrote everything down that I

914
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,639
want to do and bills and catch up here and

915
00:45:49,639 --> 00:45:52,119
then take these two weeks two weeks in bank, and

916
00:45:52,159 --> 00:45:54,320
then next month I got a wedding to go to,

917
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,280
so I want to get ahead of that and then

918
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:59,280
work on comedy and a few other things.

919
00:46:00,039 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: Yeah you know.

920
00:46:00,679 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, Sammy Hagar's coming to uh Ohio and I went

921
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:08,199
saw a few years ago in a great venue called

922
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:12,840
and Kyuga Blossom Events Center. So I'd like to plan

923
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:16,079
to go to that drive down. I mean, little goals,

924
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,199
let me a new set of golf clubs, let me

925
00:46:19,599 --> 00:46:20,280
go back.

926
00:46:20,079 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 1: To like the comedy thing with you. I think it's

927
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:28,000
been a almost a maybe I'm gonna say this wrong,

928
00:46:28,119 --> 00:46:30,480
but I love hate for you in that you love

929
00:46:30,559 --> 00:46:33,880
doing it. It's hating trying to find the opportunities to

930
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,280
do it because it feels like.

931
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,519
Speaker 3: I don't think I hate that, it's just sad that.

932
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 1: There aren't more. Yeah, you know, gotcha? And how do

933
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,360
you think your life would be different if you were

934
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:47,760
able to just push through that push yourself.

935
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 3: To get to where I'm getting the phone?

936
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,079
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's like you would.

937
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 3: Be great and where and how much? Yeah you know

938
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,039
what your budget? I'll be there to do that every

939
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,400
every weekend. Yeah, yeah, it would be a changer.

940
00:46:59,039 --> 00:46:59,199
Speaker 1: You know.

941
00:47:00,039 --> 00:47:02,760
Speaker 3: I'm still trying to get enough material to send you

942
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:08,119
a cruise line and see that avenue. And then maybe

943
00:47:08,199 --> 00:47:09,960
I don't know how to go to New York City.

944
00:47:10,039 --> 00:47:12,199
I mean, you call you audition, you send you reel,

945
00:47:12,639 --> 00:47:15,639
which is your tape? Your MP three? I don't even

946
00:47:15,639 --> 00:47:16,079
know if they I.

947
00:47:16,079 --> 00:47:18,159
Speaker 1: Don't know the answer to that. I thought there were

948
00:47:18,199 --> 00:47:18,960
times you could.

949
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,079
Speaker 3: Just I wanted to make or I had forty five

950
00:47:21,159 --> 00:47:27,440
minutes before I did anything. Yeah, because going to New

951
00:47:27,519 --> 00:47:30,360
York City and trying to get fifteen minutes anywhere, what's

952
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,800
that going to do? Come back next week? So another

953
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,960
plane ride, another you know, and if you're not getting paid,

954
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,360
what are they going to give you fifty dollars for

955
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:39,199
being on stage? If that I have no idea.

956
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:39,519
Speaker 1: No.

957
00:47:40,079 --> 00:47:43,639
Speaker 3: So again, if if I get ahead on bills and

958
00:47:43,639 --> 00:47:46,119
I can take a week off, even four days, and

959
00:47:46,119 --> 00:47:48,239
then go down there, stay with a friend, and then

960
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:49,920
go to the comedy club, see what it's all about?

961
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,519
Did my you know, feet in the water?

962
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,679
Speaker 1: Do you? So? Many many years ago, in the early

963
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:59,159
two thousands, I had a conversation with a guy who

964
00:47:59,159 --> 00:48:02,320
I think is extremely funny. His name is Jim Norton.

965
00:48:03,519 --> 00:48:06,280
Maybe you've heard of Jim He's Yeah. I think I

966
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,719
just saw something about him. Yeah, so Jim's Jim is

967
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,360
a U. I just think it's a great comic. He

968
00:48:12,079 --> 00:48:16,320
wound up on the Opian Anthony radio show. Uh he

969
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,000
and they met him through Andrew Dice Clay. I think

970
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,280
he was the opener for Dice and they just loved him,

971
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,679
and so he started being part of their show. And uh,

972
00:48:24,199 --> 00:48:26,960
he was great and really did add a lot. I thought,

973
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,280
extremely funny, just quick, quick, quick, and kind of a

974
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,760
fucked up human being. I remember going to Montreal and

975
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,639
they had these things called the Confession Show, so comics

976
00:48:36,639 --> 00:48:39,679
would get up there and they would confess something, and

977
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:45,000
he confessed to like, uh, just being so having such

978
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:49,000
an insatiable sexual appetite that he wound up He would

979
00:48:49,039 --> 00:48:51,320
do hookers and things a lot, and he wound up

980
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,039
behind a dumpster with what he thought was a woman.

981
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,239
It turns out to be a transvestite and he didn't

982
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:57,360
carry fuck it anyway.

983
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,199
Speaker 3: Hey, I think he's broccoli until you try.

984
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: I think he's married to a transgender woman. Yeah. From Europe,

985
00:49:08,639 --> 00:49:11,559
and Jim is a pretty conservative guy in a lot

986
00:49:11,599 --> 00:49:13,960
of his at least it seems that way. But I

987
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,119
remember talking to him and he was saying, like they

988
00:49:16,119 --> 00:49:18,519
would go club to club to just work on material

989
00:49:18,599 --> 00:49:20,280
on like a Wednesday Thursday night, and you would get

990
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,000
fifteen bucks and he goes. You know, by the end

991
00:49:23,039 --> 00:49:24,639
of night, maybe he made seventy five because you hit

992
00:49:24,679 --> 00:49:26,760
a bunch of different clubs. But it was to work

993
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,000
out material for whatever. Now, this is a guy who's

994
00:49:30,039 --> 00:49:32,519
done arenas and specials, now and all kinds of things.

995
00:49:32,519 --> 00:49:36,800
But it's like, I go the sometimes sometimes I mean,

996
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:38,639
what would happen if you just did it anyway? That

997
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:41,239
was my thinking with the podcast, what happens if I

998
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,400
just do it anyway? You know? I mean there was

999
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,079
a lot of behind the scenes stuff, right, you know,

1000
00:49:47,119 --> 00:49:51,199
there were lawyers involved and all kinds of things and discussions,

1001
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,000
and then I let fear kind of dictate that I go,

1002
00:49:55,199 --> 00:49:56,920
I don't want to go this path. I don't want

1003
00:49:56,920 --> 00:50:00,400
to go this path. So I go this path, and

1004
00:50:00,519 --> 00:50:02,599
I don't know how this is gonna work or not.

1005
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:05,119
And it's been an evolution and a learning process for

1006
00:50:05,199 --> 00:50:08,039
me for damn sure. But sometimes they just go you

1007
00:50:08,119 --> 00:50:10,760
just got to fucking jump. You just gotta fucking jump

1008
00:50:11,199 --> 00:50:14,320
and I don't know. I look at you, I go,

1009
00:50:14,599 --> 00:50:16,320
I said to you, and I don't. And I don't

1010
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,079
mean to bring this up again because I don't want

1011
00:50:18,079 --> 00:50:19,920
to hit a sore spot with you. But I'm like,

1012
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:25,159
how do women not oh the personality, the.

1013
00:50:25,679 --> 00:50:29,039
Speaker 3: Great A lot of single women and the women I do, did.

1014
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 1: You ever do like a fifty plus dating site?

1015
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I joked about silver singles and

1016
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,159
you go, you gotta be fucking kidding me, And I'd

1017
00:50:37,199 --> 00:50:38,800
actually looked into it, and then I did it because

1018
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,119
of fear. I'm like, because of fear, because my dumb

1019
00:50:41,199 --> 00:50:46,440
ass I said, that's right, Yeah, no fucking do it.

1020
00:50:47,519 --> 00:50:49,000
I've not a couple of them. And you know what

1021
00:50:49,039 --> 00:50:53,480
it's funny is I love the women to say, please laugh,

1022
00:50:53,679 --> 00:50:54,280
know how to cook.

1023
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:55,039
Speaker 1: I love the golf.

1024
00:50:55,159 --> 00:50:59,159
Speaker 3: No Trump, no mega, oh swipe BLUFFT like O, you've

1025
00:50:59,199 --> 00:51:00,000
already made up your mind?

1026
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:04,039
Speaker 1: Yeah that that that This is the mo It's the

1027
00:51:04,079 --> 00:51:09,159
most divisive I've ever seen politics in politics, And and

1028
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,480
I will say I'm not a fan of the guy.

1029
00:51:11,679 --> 00:51:13,960
He says and does some stuff that you just go.

1030
00:51:14,079 --> 00:51:15,400
But I like, I told you at the time I

1031
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:19,159
played all that stuff. I just go if nothing else,

1032
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:23,440
I'm sorry to the people who absolutely despise anything about him,

1033
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,760
but I can find the fucker funny. He says, shit,

1034
00:51:26,119 --> 00:51:31,880
that is just funny. I don't know. I wonder where

1035
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:34,079
we go from here. I wonder if it's a good thing.

1036
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:35,599
I wonder if it's a good thing.

1037
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:37,559
Speaker 3: We'll find out in three years.

1038
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: And well, but what I mean by that is, do

1039
00:51:40,519 --> 00:51:44,159
we get to see, uh, what's really what what a

1040
00:51:44,159 --> 00:51:48,039
lot of people were hiding or covering up in certain pockets,

1041
00:51:48,119 --> 00:51:50,199
like is there is there still a lot of hatred,

1042
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,719
a lot of racism that we didn't necessarily we turned

1043
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:55,760
a blind eye to or just pretended it wasn't there.

1044
00:51:56,159 --> 00:51:58,920
And now you've got this divisive person in and you know,

1045
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:01,760
remember the whole boys thing and what some of those

1046
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:05,119
guys were into or was more, you know, And he's

1047
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,159
on the fence of does he support I think that

1048
00:52:07,199 --> 00:52:11,320
really turned some people, even conservatives off about Trump. But

1049
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,199
I wonder if it just shows.

1050
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 3: Very bold he says, what's that in his mind?

1051
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 1: Well, he I have said to you, and I say

1052
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:20,639
it over and over with this guy, when you talk

1053
00:52:20,679 --> 00:52:22,840
about fear, I'm not sure he has.

1054
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:23,639
Speaker 3: I don't think he does.

1055
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,079
Speaker 1: I don't think he has those fears to hold back

1056
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,719
because how many times have other presidents been told, hey,

1057
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,559
we did a poll. They're sick of hearing from you

1058
00:52:31,639 --> 00:52:33,679
right now, little less of you were ninety days into

1059
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,480
the second administration, we need to back off. They back off,

1060
00:52:37,519 --> 00:52:41,920
and they're listening to somebody. Nobody's gonna say, that's President Trump.

1061
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,519
He's going to get up there. The presidency, by pretty

1062
00:52:44,559 --> 00:52:46,400
much by definition, by what it is, what it was

1063
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:48,639
established to be, is kind of a bully pulpit for

1064
00:52:48,679 --> 00:52:51,360
the rest of the world. It just is. And he

1065
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:56,280
is maybe the best in the history of our country

1066
00:52:56,519 --> 00:52:57,519
to use it as such.

1067
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:02,519
Speaker 3: And he doesn't down from anybody. He answers the questions,

1068
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:07,719
and or he doesn't answer no, but or he doesn't

1069
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,280
answer the question, he calls you fat.

1070
00:53:09,559 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. He's done that too, and

1071
00:53:11,519 --> 00:53:14,320
so I don't know. But when he does that, that's

1072
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:17,079
when I laugh. I go, this is outrageous, miss piggy.

1073
00:53:17,079 --> 00:53:20,519
I'm not answering your question. It's like, oh my god,

1074
00:53:21,199 --> 00:53:22,440
right and I and.

1075
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 3: Even there, there's a tremendous fear with him that that's

1076
00:53:26,519 --> 00:53:30,000
why you're seeing that a tremendous fear of that stuff.

1077
00:53:30,039 --> 00:53:32,280
Speaker 1: I hated over the fact that I think there are

1078
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:35,360
families that don't talk oh yeah, I know, which I

1079
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,599
think is so sad because at the core issue, like

1080
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:44,800
I always will say, there's not a whole lot at

1081
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:49,280
the national level that directly affects me today, I'm not

1082
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:52,639
saying it, you know, but it doesn't. Gas prices, yeah,

1083
00:53:52,679 --> 00:53:54,679
but a lot of those two are state taxes.

1084
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 3: Yeah. Also go around town, different parts of town. It's

1085
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,119
cheaper than others. And I don't even understand that you

1086
00:54:00,159 --> 00:54:02,239
pay thirty five dollars for their card, then you get

1087
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,400
cheaper gas, but you're paying thirty five dollars. Yeah.

1088
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,320
Speaker 1: But I mean what I'm saying is, let me give

1089
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,599
you an example of what I mean. And I think

1090
00:54:09,639 --> 00:54:16,719
this is just simply business. I'm a BJS member and

1091
00:54:17,039 --> 00:54:19,559
I will sometimes go there and get my gases cheaper.

1092
00:54:19,559 --> 00:54:22,960
It's under three bucks. It's like to something if I'm

1093
00:54:23,119 --> 00:54:26,119
ever in the Henrietta area and I try to avoid that.

1094
00:54:26,119 --> 00:54:29,840
That's another town in our area. It's even cheaper at

1095
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,800
the same BJS, same gas way.

1096
00:54:32,639 --> 00:54:34,679
Speaker 3: Cheaper because they're competing with Delta.

1097
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:38,039
Speaker 1: Yahah you got it exactly, so it becomes an economic decision.

1098
00:54:38,039 --> 00:54:40,280
And that's where I'm like, I don't know what goes

1099
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,400
into all this stuff. I don't know how much.

1100
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:47,119
Speaker 3: What competitors are closer to you. If you have more competitors,

1101
00:54:47,159 --> 00:54:51,079
your gas goes down. Remember during COVID, they dropped the tax,

1102
00:54:51,199 --> 00:54:52,639
the New York state tax for a while.

1103
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: Is that what it was. Yeah, they took eighteen cents

1104
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,280
off in New York State. They dropped the tax was eliminated,

1105
00:54:57,599 --> 00:54:58,039
so they.

1106
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,199
Speaker 3: Weren't but you kind of need it tax at the

1107
00:55:01,199 --> 00:55:03,519
same time for a new extent. Don't we get a

1108
00:55:03,519 --> 00:55:04,599
budget every year?

1109
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 1: Yeah? But I mean some of that's based on the tax,

1110
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:10,239
the tax on your gas. It goes towards things like

1111
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,000
roads and stuff that the infrastructure.

1112
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:18,039
Speaker 3: You have, see the the the tolls. We're supposed to

1113
00:55:18,079 --> 00:55:20,159
give all the roads no taxes, and you have to

1114
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:22,440
keep raising them. I don't know where our money is

1115
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:25,880
going from the taxes on gas, your property tax, right,

1116
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:27,079
the tax on your phone.

1117
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I mean some of it stays local, right,

1118
00:55:30,639 --> 00:55:33,199
because there's some things that aren't tax and everything, but

1119
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,719
they're But like, I don't think some of the roads

1120
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:39,920
are they're not state roads, they're local roads.

1121
00:55:40,039 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 3: Local the tolls in the state. Yeah, but but there's

1122
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,760
no tolls on some of those roads. I jumped out

1123
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,079
four ninety and stuff. I mean that would be more interstate.

1124
00:55:48,159 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like, there's different things. Here's here's

1125
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:54,239
the here's my favorite one. And this is a big

1126
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:55,960
one for a lot of people in different parts of

1127
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:59,000
the state. And I had a relative confront me about this,

1128
00:55:59,039 --> 00:56:02,360
And again it's always like, I'll tell you this. What

1129
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:04,159
do you get confronted with the question like this, or

1130
00:56:04,159 --> 00:56:06,679
at least I can see, I can see, I can

1131
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,599
see where you're coming from. Not you, I just mean somebody, right,

1132
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:12,239
and they're coming almost loaded at you in a sense,

1133
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:17,639
and the you gotta be careful in the answer you give.

1134
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:19,519
But again it becomes fear based because you don't want

1135
00:56:19,519 --> 00:56:22,639
to get in an argument with somebody over something because

1136
00:56:22,679 --> 00:56:24,960
it's just dumb. And we've been having a really lovely time.

1137
00:56:25,159 --> 00:56:27,480
So I'm not sure exactly why you're bringing this up,

1138
00:56:27,519 --> 00:56:29,159
but hey, what do you think about the Bills getting

1139
00:56:29,199 --> 00:56:31,519
a new stadium? Now this is a relative downstate. What

1140
00:56:31,519 --> 00:56:33,440
do you think about that they're building the thing? And

1141
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:40,719
I said, oh yeah, I said that it's I think

1142
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:42,679
it's gonna be great for the area. I said, you know,

1143
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,280
and I mean they're going in and well, it's not

1144
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,559
even going to have as many people, right, I said, well,

1145
00:56:47,599 --> 00:56:50,440
if you go back when it was rich Stadium for

1146
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:54,199
many years, it had eighty thousand capacity and so it

1147
00:56:54,199 --> 00:56:56,920
was one of the biggest in the NFL. And then

1148
00:56:57,480 --> 00:56:59,079
as they put the suites in, I think you read

1149
00:56:59,119 --> 00:57:00,639
seventy two, and I think the new one's going to

1150
00:57:00,639 --> 00:57:02,559
be like six, somewhere between sixty eight and sixty five.

1151
00:57:02,679 --> 00:57:04,920
Somebody else is sitting at the table. They're checking my numbers.

1152
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:07,360
They're looking it up what I'm saying so I can

1153
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:10,119
and they're going yeah, no, no, or they're given exact numbers,

1154
00:57:10,159 --> 00:57:11,880
so they're going to be there. So you can already

1155
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,519
feel like, okay, this is tense. And I said, I

1156
00:57:14,559 --> 00:57:17,360
know where you're driving at the text, Well, the people

1157
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:20,480
are paying for it. And I said, here's the thing

1158
00:57:20,599 --> 00:57:24,239
that I don't think most people understand. It's not as

1159
00:57:24,239 --> 00:57:27,840
though if the money from New York State that was

1160
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:33,559
allocated would go to schools or roads or anything. You

1161
00:57:33,599 --> 00:57:36,199
said it just a few minutes ago there's a budget,

1162
00:57:37,079 --> 00:57:40,719
and there's a budget, and there's entertainment. And so if

1163
00:57:40,719 --> 00:57:44,440
that money didn't come to Buffalo, that money was going

1164
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,239
to go somewhere for entertainment. It was going to go

1165
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,840
somewhere in New York State for entertainment. It may not

1166
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,599
have all gone like it did. It may have been

1167
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:56,760
a little bit to revitalize an amphitheater somewhere. It may

1168
00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:59,960
have gone to a historical entertainment site. But that money

1169
00:58:00,159 --> 00:58:03,280
is allocated for that and that alone. That's what it is,

1170
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,000
and it's there in the budget, and people get, all right, textile,

1171
00:58:06,119 --> 00:58:08,920
we're paying for this. You're paying for it anyway. There's

1172
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,199
a budget, and that's the part like we don't know

1173
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,159
and it comes out of like fear base and I go,

1174
00:58:13,159 --> 00:58:15,480
why are people so angry about this shit? Who cares?

1175
00:58:16,159 --> 00:58:19,159
Speaker 3: Well, he's a five six billion dollar person. No, I

1176
00:58:19,719 --> 00:58:21,840
he could sell his properties and he could come up

1177
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,480
with that billion dollars in Okay, his stadium. Yeah, I

1178
00:58:24,519 --> 00:58:25,679
mean even if he sells a team.

1179
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:29,639
Speaker 1: He sold twenty percent of the team or no, I

1180
00:58:29,679 --> 00:58:33,079
think it was twenty he sold. Because now there's guys

1181
00:58:33,159 --> 00:58:36,119
like who's the best. There's a couple of basketball players

1182
00:58:36,159 --> 00:58:38,519
that are part owner. Vince Carter, who used to play

1183
00:58:38,559 --> 00:58:42,760
for the Toronto I was gonna say, organize, that's not it, Raptors,

1184
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:47,760
and a couple other teams. Duke Kid, he is part

1185
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:49,199
of one of this, one of the owners of the

1186
00:58:49,199 --> 00:58:52,559
Buffalo Bills. They were minority share owners. I think they

1187
00:58:52,559 --> 00:58:57,320
sold off twenty percent for two reasons, one the stadium

1188
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:02,960
and the other. I think it prevents family from losing

1189
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:05,559
because they can kind of come in and go you

1190
00:59:05,559 --> 00:59:08,079
can't afford it or whatever. I think there's some kind

1191
00:59:08,119 --> 00:59:10,840
of family trust thing that way. It stays in the family.

1192
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:13,039
If you're not you know, you could still be majority owner,

1193
00:59:13,079 --> 00:59:15,320
but you gotta have other people. And so I think

1194
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:19,239
that's that's part of the reason why. I again, I mean,

1195
00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:22,440
sure we billions and billions of dollars. I just feel

1196
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:24,519
like we all rise to our next level. Broke. I

1197
00:59:24,519 --> 00:59:27,159
don't know what the fuck's going on. It's life, but

1198
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,440
my point is, yes, okay, it seems unfair like I

1199
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,760
could afford it, But at the same time, that money

1200
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:36,679
is going to go somewhere and maybe it actually helps

1201
00:59:37,039 --> 00:59:40,199
an area. Maybe the Bills now are on and run.

1202
00:59:40,239 --> 00:59:43,159
Who knows who knows who knows. We're gonna find out tonight.

1203
00:59:43,239 --> 00:59:45,920
We'll find out that is Uh, that's it, all right,

1204
00:59:46,519 --> 00:59:52,159
that's it. Okay, let me see. Okay, somebody's just asking

1205
00:59:52,199 --> 00:59:53,079
what I'm gonna wrap up?

1206
00:59:53,639 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 3: Wrap up? Is this session one? No?

1207
00:59:56,239 --> 00:59:58,519
Speaker 1: We do? We just did one long when we've talked

1208
00:59:58,559 --> 00:59:59,159
for over an hour?

1209
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 3: Oh we did? Oh are we wrapping up? Now?

1210
01:00:04,239 --> 01:00:07,079
Speaker 1: Wrap up in just a minutes. I'm sorry.

1211
01:00:07,159 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 3: Oh, that's all right, waiting for the break. Yeah, you

1212
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:10,599
can tell me that at the beginning.

1213
01:00:10,679 --> 01:00:14,239
Speaker 1: No, I didn't. My head's been all over the place.

1214
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:17,960
I've been, uh, studying a lot of things lately, not

1215
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:21,280
just school stuff, and I'm trying to put it all

1216
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,199
together and see where it goes.

1217
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 3: I guess the new jed jokes you want to hear?

1218
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:25,199
Speaker 1: I do?

1219
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:27,639
Speaker 3: Okay, just wrap it up with some dead jokes. This

1220
01:00:27,679 --> 01:00:28,159
is my favorite.

1221
01:00:28,159 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 1: Hang on, do I have? Hang on? Just one second?

1222
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:34,639
I got to see if I have. I used to

1223
01:00:34,639 --> 01:00:37,039
have music that I could run underneath this and it

1224
01:00:37,119 --> 01:00:41,800
might be over here. Yep, there we go. Come on, Doug,

1225
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:44,159
give me a little bit. Uh.

1226
01:00:44,199 --> 01:00:46,039
Speaker 3: What does a painter do when he gets cold?

1227
01:00:46,559 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: What does a painter do when he gets cold. Hang on,

1228
01:00:50,199 --> 01:00:53,920
What does a painter do when he gets cold?

1229
01:00:56,559 --> 01:00:58,719
Speaker 3: Brushes it off, puts in another coat.

1230
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,039
Speaker 1: Oh that would be damn.

1231
01:01:02,079 --> 01:01:04,639
Speaker 3: Yeh Did I tell you I recently went to the

1232
01:01:04,679 --> 01:01:07,199
World's Biggest wind turbine exhibit?

1233
01:01:08,639 --> 01:01:09,239
Speaker 1: Say that again?

1234
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:12,559
Speaker 3: What I was at the World's biggest wind turbine?

1235
01:01:13,119 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 1: Wind turbine? Yes, exhibit. You were blown away.

1236
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:17,119
Speaker 3: I wasn't a big fan.

1237
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:24,239
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm trying so hardier. I'm really trying. I want

1238
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,400
you to know this. I'm really listening.

1239
01:01:27,719 --> 01:01:30,119
Speaker 3: Since Christmas, I tell you, I got over my addiction

1240
01:01:30,199 --> 01:01:32,599
to chocolate, marshmallows and nuts.

1241
01:01:33,079 --> 01:01:35,880
Speaker 1: You got over your You got over your addiction to chocolate,

1242
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:37,000
marshmallows and nuts.

1243
01:01:37,119 --> 01:01:40,079
Speaker 3: How I'm just gonna say it was a rocky road.

1244
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: All right. When does a dad joke become a dad joke? Uh?

1245
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:52,079
Speaker 3: You know what, I don't know. That's a good question.

1246
01:01:52,679 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 1: When it becomes apparent.

1247
01:01:54,639 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 3: Ah, I like that. I bought a porn DVD at

1248
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,440
a grassya, but when I put it didn't all I

1249
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,320
could see it was a dark image of a fat

1250
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,159
guy holding his dick. Then I realized the TV wasn't on,

1251
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:14,159
or it'd be great somewhere somewhere. I used to have neighbors,

1252
01:02:14,239 --> 01:02:15,159
and I remember.

1253
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,639
Speaker 1: My dad would get so upset because back in the

1254
01:02:17,719 --> 01:02:22,440
VHS days, they somebody had like HBO or something, so

1255
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,480
they would tape a movie and then somebody else would

1256
01:02:24,519 --> 01:02:29,239
have it and uh, tap over with porn or no no.

1257
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,599
Speaker 3: So yeah, well, so this one guy lent our neighbor

1258
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,920
or or the neighbor lent it to this friend of

1259
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,880
theirs and they get it back and he had spliced

1260
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:40,360
in porn.

1261
01:02:40,119 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 1: Scenes at different stuff.

1262
01:02:41,719 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 3: So really the neighbor I think didn't tell my parents

1263
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,000
and my dad mom were watch a movie and my

1264
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:49,519
father was so pissed because I think.

1265
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:50,719
Speaker 1: The kids were out and all of a sudden, it's like,

1266
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:55,360
oh and would get fun you know you get that

1267
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:58,079
snow right because you couldn't really edit well right, but

1268
01:02:58,159 --> 01:03:02,920
you just recorded a little bit. See now, I found

1269
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:06,840
it funny. Oh that's my dad, did you again? You

1270
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:07,599
can't see it.

1271
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:09,599
Speaker 3: When I was living with my best friend and his wife,

1272
01:03:09,719 --> 01:03:11,920
we had a they had birthday party and there was

1273
01:03:12,039 --> 01:03:16,519
kids between three and twelve, and uh, they wanted a

1274
01:03:16,559 --> 01:03:19,440
family movie or something and I won't see it. Was

1275
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:23,639
they put in hot tub time machine? Yeah, and uh,

1276
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,719
funny movie, and I'm like, I enjoyed it. I'm like, Mike,

1277
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:30,920
didn't anybody watched this beforehand? No, He's like, yeah, so

1278
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:32,599
and so was supposed to it. And all of a sudden they're

1279
01:03:32,599 --> 01:03:36,159
in a hot tub with a girl with huge russ

1280
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:38,840
and I'm just like, what the for the kids?

1281
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:40,559
Speaker 1: You mean, yeah, the kids were all watching.

1282
01:03:40,599 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 3: All a sudden the parents are covering the kid's eyes,

1283
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,639
and well, it's okay, you know, it's yeah at one point.

1284
01:03:45,719 --> 01:03:50,320
But I'm like, you could have fast forward this in

1285
01:03:50,719 --> 01:03:52,599
ten minutes to see if there was anything like this

1286
01:03:52,679 --> 01:03:53,800
and pick a different movie.

1287
01:03:55,119 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 1: The best used to be when he would go to

1288
01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:00,199
the video store and they always had that room off

1289
01:04:00,199 --> 01:04:02,239
that we had the beads coming down, beads coming down,

1290
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:04,320
you know where you're going in a different dimension. But

1291
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,280
you used to love to stand there and see if,

1292
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:09,320
like who, you knew someone was in there because you

1293
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,719
could hear some noise. And I used to be a

1294
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,679
kid and we had a really small town and there

1295
01:04:13,719 --> 01:04:16,719
was this one that I was like, all shitty movies,

1296
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:18,920
but they had the porn section and we used to

1297
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:20,639
wait to see who would come out. Sometimes it'd be

1298
01:04:20,719 --> 01:04:23,480
one of our friend's older brothers. Sometimes it'd be somebody's dad.

1299
01:04:23,519 --> 01:04:26,159
I think once we saw a teacher and it was

1300
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:29,679
like So, I remember my dad coming home because then

1301
01:04:29,719 --> 01:04:32,559
the Blockbuster bought up a bunch, right, he comes home

1302
01:04:32,599 --> 01:04:36,280
with a movie. I was really sick, and that's when

1303
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:37,679
I had seen Ferris Bueller's Day Off.

1304
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 3: My father goes, I don't know if there's gonna be

1305
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:40,840
any good. It's the worst title of a movie ever.

1306
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:42,400
And I loved it, right, it was great.

1307
01:04:42,639 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: So then he comes home with another one and he goes, oh,

1308
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,679
Flash Gordon. I don't know anything about Flash Gordon with

1309
01:04:48,679 --> 01:04:49,400
a flesh Gordon.

1310
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 3: Yes, it was, yes, it was, Yes, it was Flash

1311
01:04:55,039 --> 01:04:56,320
the Universe.

1312
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:59,239
Speaker 1: I remember I'm watching and I think my dad was

1313
01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:02,280
like there with me. He had moved the recliner for

1314
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:06,599
me into a different room and I'm watching it it yeah,

1315
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:08,360
and I think he comes in. I think he put

1316
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:09,679
in and he was just starting to watch with me.

1317
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:11,679
And in the first scene I can remember this this

1318
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:14,519
playing day. Oh yeah, they they're up and they're flying

1319
01:05:14,519 --> 01:05:16,920
a plane and they get hit by some kind of

1320
01:05:17,039 --> 01:05:19,719
ray right in the entire plane. You see it all

1321
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,920
like Cloe and all this shit's like and everybody just

1322
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:24,639
all of a sudden starts looking around and they're peeling

1323
01:05:24,679 --> 01:05:29,320
off their clothes, just fucking hump at each other. He

1324
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,679
practically fell into the fucking TV. Try to get that.

1325
01:05:33,559 --> 01:05:36,039
I can't believe this. They need to check those days.

1326
01:05:36,119 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 3: I swear to god it was Flash Gordon Nights, Flash Cordon.

1327
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: It was the greatest. It was one of the greatest moments.

1328
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,480
But again, fear, fear of what though in a way, well,

1329
01:05:45,719 --> 01:05:48,360
I mean you didn't have access that you have now, right,

1330
01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:51,280
I say. My fear is you don't really you have

1331
01:05:51,639 --> 01:05:57,280
an unrealistic expectation of sex fear. I don't have that fear. No, no, no,

1332
01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:59,440
I'm saying that's a fear I have with like my

1333
01:05:59,519 --> 01:06:03,039
young son today look at porns, not really how it is.

1334
01:06:03,119 --> 01:06:05,000
And you gotta I don't want you to be an

1335
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:07,079
aggressive dick who all of a sudden is like, you know,

1336
01:06:07,159 --> 01:06:10,519
you get a reputation or something, but at the same

1337
01:06:10,559 --> 01:06:14,280
time I do. So you saw a titty pop out

1338
01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:17,239
or whatever like that, you know, but you worry because

1339
01:06:17,239 --> 01:06:26,159
you worry about people. I do not remember this. Remember

1340
01:06:26,159 --> 01:06:30,400
what the conversation I apparently had with the owner of

1341
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:32,559
an establishment.

1342
01:06:32,639 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 3: You're supposed to have a meeting today.

1343
01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:37,679
Speaker 1: Okay, hey, pal, want them to follow up on an

1344
01:06:37,719 --> 01:06:43,559
old discussion about comedy downstairs. Call when you've got time.

1345
01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 3: That was streious comedy.

1346
01:06:46,039 --> 01:06:49,159
Speaker 1: It's a really nice establishment at this place. I will

1347
01:06:49,159 --> 01:06:51,199
tell you off, Eric, I don't want to do that. Sure,

1348
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,599
here's the problem. What's it. I don't remember. I don't

1349
01:06:54,639 --> 01:06:57,199
remember having the conversations you do.

1350
01:06:57,360 --> 01:06:57,639
Speaker 3: Rinking.

1351
01:06:57,800 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know a lot of time.

1352
01:07:00,119 --> 01:07:02,719
And with this person, Yes, they once had a they

1353
01:07:02,719 --> 01:07:05,119
once boxed me in on four ninety. I was married,

1354
01:07:05,559 --> 01:07:10,480
so we were out and we're drinking, and at the time,

1355
01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:14,719
this person, who now owns his own establishment, successful, very

1356
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:18,679
nice place, was a rep for one of the beers.

1357
01:07:19,239 --> 01:07:21,440
So I was with a friend of mine who happened

1358
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:25,480
to be a client, and that guy was just giving

1359
01:07:25,559 --> 01:07:28,559
him the business and he was spending, and this guy's

1360
01:07:28,679 --> 01:07:32,159
ordered and spending, and we were fucking hammered, and I

1361
01:07:32,239 --> 01:07:34,719
needed to be home because I had to sign the

1362
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:39,960
taxes and get them to the mail. And I am

1363
01:07:40,079 --> 01:07:43,599
so bad that I get home and I went face

1364
01:07:43,639 --> 01:07:46,920
first into the gal. I thought at the time my

1365
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:48,119
wife was ready to stab me.

1366
01:07:48,519 --> 01:07:52,559
Speaker 3: But was that fear. Oh, well, you were drunk, so

1367
01:07:52,599 --> 01:07:53,840
there's no fear when you're drunk.

1368
01:07:54,159 --> 01:07:58,079
Speaker 1: There was fear of things. I think that here's here

1369
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:00,440
just to bring it up. Since you brought that up,

1370
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:03,519
I think that everybody can relate to what I'm about

1371
01:08:03,559 --> 01:08:08,679
to say. The fear of saying something sometimes right, instead

1372
01:08:08,719 --> 01:08:11,920
of being truthful, we push it down. I don't want

1373
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:13,559
to say that I don't know how they're going to react.

1374
01:08:13,599 --> 01:08:15,519
I don't know. I don't know, and a lot of

1375
01:08:15,559 --> 01:08:17,960
times it could be things that are annoyance. There's a

1376
01:08:18,039 --> 01:08:20,640
great book that I read last semester, and I don't

1377
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:22,800
think use this as an example on somebody when I

1378
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:24,880
use an example on the podcast in the past that

1379
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:27,279
I was talking about them specifically and I wasn't. I

1380
01:08:27,359 --> 01:08:30,000
never even thought of this person because they reached out going, oh,

1381
01:08:30,119 --> 01:08:32,000
why you know, I hope I didn't, and I'm like, no,

1382
01:08:32,279 --> 01:08:34,840
I wasn't talking about you. But it's this woman who

1383
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:39,520
is going to get her boyfriend, her fiance. He had

1384
01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:41,640
been away on a business trip and she's picking him

1385
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:45,119
up at the airport and she's very excited, and she

1386
01:08:45,359 --> 01:08:48,560
had made like a really nice meal, candlelight has a

1387
01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:50,960
bottle of wine, and she's excited to see him. He's back, right,

1388
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,159
they're gonna, you know, kind of and they're planning a

1389
01:08:53,159 --> 01:08:58,640
life together. And she said, he says, uh, hey, what,

1390
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:00,960
so what's what's the player? She says something to him

1391
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:03,000
about what's the plant? Oh, my battery's running low too,

1392
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:08,520
because see everything's got to happen today, so we're gonna

1393
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:12,119
have to wrap something a second. I apologize, So she

1394
01:09:12,319 --> 01:09:14,560
he says to her what was going on? She goes, Oh,

1395
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:16,399
I have a really nice dinner and all that stuff,

1396
01:09:16,439 --> 01:09:18,359
and he goes, oh, when will it be ready? She goes,

1397
01:09:18,359 --> 01:09:20,279
as soon as we get home. He goes, great, then

1398
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I can go out with the guys after. I can

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meet my buddies after, right, And you know, right, he's

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just not thinking, right, He's just not thinking. And so

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she in this thing is like in that scenario where

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everybody can relate to in some way. She does want

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to say anything. She doesn't want to rock the boat,

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but she's pissed and she's hurt, and but if she

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says anything, then it's like, oh, come on, you're always

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wine and you're great whatever. So she doesn't and it

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goes down and down and down, and I did that

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a lot in relationships. And then you explode or I exploded.

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Not good. That never goes well, by the way, that

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never goes well. And that was why in this thing

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was it was interesting. And then at one point she

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and her fiance go away and she says, no phones

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this weekend, we're not working whatever, and she can tell

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he gets a phone call. He steps out of this

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you know, they're at some little resort place. He steps

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out of wherever they are, and he's kind of pacing

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back and forth, and she's like, instead of pushing it down,

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she did say to him, Hey, I know that was

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a work call, and I get that that happens, but

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we promised each other we weren't going to do that

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this weekend. And instead of a fight, the guy turns

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around because she would be afraid to say anything, guy

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turns around and goes, you're right, let's enjoy the rest

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of the weekend. I apologize and it was over right.

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But how many times do we go? I don't want

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to get into this, but god damn it, here, okay,

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you mind if you get on that dating side. I

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don't know a.

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Speaker 3: For Dougie Fresh, I know we didn't get any of

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the DJ stuff. I apologize, that's all right, I mean

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true show.

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Speaker 1: I will say this, fear keeps alive as a species

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is a staring live now.

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Speaker 3: No, no, So what are your predictions for this weekend football?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say Bill's Niners Chicago and I think Patriots

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get upset.

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Speaker 1: Wow. I kind of hope you're right. I'm gonna go

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with your picks. I hope you're right. I'm a little nervous.

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That's why my head's all over the place. I'm going

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to watch this thing. I don't know. For Dougie Fresh, Yes,

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for Dougie Fresh.

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Speaker 3: What I was gonna say is, next time fear grabs

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the wheel of your life.

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Speaker 1: Don't floor it. Don't floor it, but maybe just take

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01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:41,960
a big, big breath and realize it's just a moment.

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It's just a moment for Dougie Fresh, for his deviled eggs,

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and for future comedy maybe somewhere. Who knows, we'll find out.

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I'm Bill Moran. We'll see you tomorrow. Now year the

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