Speaker 1: Made a decision than Sunny sunon on I had avision.
Speaker 2: My, Hey, everybody, welcome to Patreon. It's Wednesday, Patreon. And
I am super excited boy, because Okay, I got a pit.
I'm gonna I'm gonna set the stage.
Speaker 1: Okay, set the stage earlier, earlier.
Speaker 2: I don't know how many days ago at this point.
But last week, Uh, Lynette and I came in, LYNETTEA
and I came into record certain skill rewind and Lynette
had gotten a text that she was flat out busted
for talking about that teacher, the one, the Pellets teacher.
Speaker 1: I got a voicemail from God bless her Cammy's mom, Elaine,
and she said, because she's real, like she's like an
she's infiltrated into the school system. So she's like, she's
very close. Okay, there's two things happening here. There is
the So she's very close with the teacher. Remember the
teacher that I've always talked about how great she is
and we should get her the Rose Carrington Award. She
was this second grade. She was the teacher that Adam
talked about on k Rock. And she got upset. She
cried all night. She cried all night and she because
she had no idea. And then I had to go
in there with my tail between my legs and explain
to her, like what Adam does for a living. And
didn't you guys like send her flowers? We sent her
flowers and now like we've all we've been friends. Now
she sends me texts once in a while. I'm sitting
with people that are in love with your husband. You know,
she's really sweet. She's the greatest teacher. I love her
and I'll met Sunny will never forget her, and she
changed his life when it came to education. All kay,
So her, So she's not you know, she's not in
the entertainment business. She's not even not. I don't even
think she knows how to listen to it. But she
didn't even know what a podcast is. I don't think.
I don't know she's not. I don't sounds to me
that she doesn't. So anyways, okay, so there's that. Now
keep her and that we'll call her missus p Okay, Okay.
Had she ever heard that that episode? Though she read it,
she reads, she read, she read it online, she read
the transc yeah of it, but she didn't hear it
because she doesn't know how to hear it. Ok And
that was k Rock. That was on k Rock Radio.
Oh okay, okay, So anyway, that was in two thousand.
Now back in twenty thirteen, I retold that story about
what had because I was so mad at Adam for
doing that to her and upset, you know, like, why'd
you have to go and do that?
Speaker 2: No, Buttlynette, Hold on a second, No, I think it
was his podcast, no, because we were already podcasting at
that time.
Speaker 1: He was, he was podcasting, but he did this week
in rage. Oh god, was I'm sorry? I thought you
met when he was still like the morning. Okay, no,
and so she So in twenty thirteen, I retold the
story on our show about what happened. I told you
like I was mortified. Yeah, okay, all right, So there's
that now. Then fast forward to this year or last year.
In November of last year, I had the parent teacher conference,
and that's the famous one where I sat with the
two teachers, the nice one and the not so nice one,
and how my kids don't want to ask questions in
the not so nice one class, And then I said,
maybe maybe you want to try some pellets. So hormonal pellets,
maybe because she keeps her classroom freezing. But I told
that story and I went back and listened to it
because I had to. And I remember being like, I
came in with a head full of steam because I
got into a fight with somebody on Facebook. Oh yeah,
what Adam or not is something about me and Adam's
were married. So I had that. And then anyways, I
told that story in November about the parent teacher conference.
Somehow got caught up to the teacher. It took her.
It took her how many months? And to get caught
up to her.
Speaker 2: Oh so she did hear that episode because when you
came in, we weren't sure if she heard that or
if she just heard you refer to right. So on
that day when I came in and saw you, okay.
So now now last week I get a voicemail from Elaine,
Cammy's mom just wanted to give your heads up. Missus
R will call her the mean one missus R heard
about for crying out loud's episode. And it's pretty upset.
Speaker 1: And but missus missus P was upset too, but I
got I calmed her down. I was like, huh, right, okay, So.
Speaker 2: What But I was mortified for you. Oh my god,
happened to me with the Jacks thing.
Speaker 1: That happened you with the theater. But this is Simmy's teacher,
Italia's teacher, No, I know. I was like, I was like,
this is definitely worse. Yeah, so just let that sing
in for a second. That she but this message that
I got from her wasn't very clear. It's just heard, right.
I wasn't sure but she heard the for crying out
loud and but I calmed missus Pea down, but I'm
sure miss and you were like, why is missus Pea
say exactly? How did she get hurt? Right? Then I thought, well,
wait a second. We talked about them. We talked about
her because remember you told the story like a week
ago about Xander's teacher, right, and and so I thought
they were talking about that episode, right you because you
said if it wasn't for you, we were talking about
great teachers, and you were talking about the great teacher
who won an award, and then you were saying, if
it wasn't for the.
Speaker 2: Crappy teacher that right, Sonny has, he'd probably like school more, right, right.
Speaker 1: So I was given missus p props, you know the
Rose Harrington weren't right? Okay? So and I was like,
why is she man? Why is she upset? When did
she have to talk her down? I don't get it.
So what happened is I talked to Cammy's mom and
she said, missus R found out that that episode that
some that you talked about her in an episode back
in the fall. Oh boy, So it was wasn't this
last episode. It was the wash that we were scared
that she might have heard right, And that's the one
like the one where I told the whole parent teacher conference.
So she listened to that episode? No, And then somebody,
this is why we have Patreon. Your eyes. Now, you understand,
tell a friend if you want to listen to the
stuff that we can't do. You understand why this is
our lives. This is we're telling you about our lives.
You need to understand that we can't just tell everything
on the regular show. We can't and we want to,
we want to do right, but we can't. There's no way.
That's a big deal. What just you know, the whole thing,
just the parent teacher conference thing is a big deal.
And what Sonny is going through it was a big
deal and we're talking about my kids.
Speaker 2: But we don't realize how many people listen. And we
don't realize or we don't expect. We hope that people
don't go like, oh, really, well, I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1: Tell that teacher, right exactly, we have to, would you go?
Aren't assholes? Right? But we guess what, we can't trust everybody.
Those people, you guys, we can trust because you're you're like,
we like Stephanie Lynette enough that we're gonna pay five dollars.
People that hate listen aren't don't actually want to part
with five dollars. That's right, they're not listening. No, and Calen,
maybe it would help if you don't write like in
the title, uh, Sonny Lynette versus Sonny's teacher. What's the
name of the episodes? I was like, how did she
find the episode? Right? A lot of download numbers though
in that one. But the audience really seemed to like it. Jesus, Well, okay,
so what happened? One person didn't like it so much?
Speaker 2: So and I remember that day too. Your Elaine said
she wants the teacher wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Yes, she said, she said that she's gonna call you.
She said, she's gonna call you. And but missus P.
I talked to her. I talked to her. She's okay, right,
So after should she write? So after we did our
sword and scale, I leave, I'm dying to talk to
Elaine and I get her on the phone and she's like, so,
what happened was I guess? She said that missus R
heard the episode back in the fall and somebody and
she was so upset that somebody told her you should
talk to missus P and ask her how she dealt
with it. And she's like, wait a minute, this is
something that's happened before to another teacher. Oh no, So
she went to missus P. Missus P was like, Lynette
has a podcast.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: I was like, wait a second. First of all, you
teachers should not know that I have a podcast away
for my business. Just lie you up in my business.
That's my joy to do with you. I'm not in
your jewel whatever. But yeah, I dono, Yeah it sucks,
come on. Why. So she's like, Lenette has a podcast. What.
I love the fact that we're like, yeah, I don't
go to your job and tell you oh near mind.
Oh my God, this is the juiciest story ever. Oh God, Okay,
now I hope I don't get So does a Lane
listen to it? Alien says, no, she doesn't listen to it,
and then she has to be so she's.
Speaker 2: A nice manners get the etiquette to go. That's my
friend's personal business. That's what she wants to talk about me.
That's on her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like, she's like, look, she goes, I don't.
She goes, I don't listen. She was giggling, I don't
listen to the podcast, and she goes, not because it's
not good. I'm sure it's good, but I just, you know,
I don't really feel like I have to. I'm trying
to raise my daughters to be like really good students, right,
I'm trying. I'm busy here parenting.
Speaker 2: So you go ahead and do your little yeah, your
little thing, right, take your time away from your kids.
Speaker 1: She knows that I love her family and her and
then I would never say anything. So anyway, although she
is missing out on a lot of juicy stuff people
that she does know, by the way, so she maybe
she should. But anyway, so she said, so they asked
missus peace, So missus P was like, huh, Lenette has
a podcast. What so now she gets online to research it?
Oh no, and then she sees back in twenty thirteen,
Lynette talks about her tells the story on air of
what happened, and I don't know what she read, but
she read comments and Elaine said that she did read.
Speaker 2: She why is she up to a lot of the
comments were again we're saying, like, Lynet.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have said that to your teacher. I shouldn't
have said a lot of the.
Speaker 2: Comments were like you, Lenna, that kind of crossed the line,
like you don't tell your teacher about the the pilot.
I'm just saying no, it wasn't like. It wasn't like
everyone was like, yes, screw that teacher. It's like you
and you weren't.
Speaker 1: Now this is I'm talking about. Missus P went online
the nice She looked up the episode where I taught,
and so she was like, so let me. She didn't
care about Missus R's feelings. She wanted to see, like
what's going on. So she found back in twenty thirteen
the episode that I told the story about what happened? Okay, okay,
so she read I guess she read some of the comments.
That's what he's kind of all good because you were like,
she's a really nice teacher. I feel terrible. But guess what.
She doesn't listen to the podcast. She just reads the
comments and she reads like the summary of the show.
So she doesn't know what's going on. She just knows
I'm talking about her, and now here she is being
talked about in the public again, and now she's like,
So she told Elaine, She's like, you know, she came
in and apologized, and I thought we had a really
nice and I really care about her and her family.
And was that all just an act? Like she asked Elaine,
is it just an act? And Elaine's like, no, it's not.
Trust me, no, like she so when Eline said she
talked her down, she like, you know, she told her.
She was like, and her and Elaine are pretty good friends.
They went to Disneyland with the kids together. They're friends.
She's an older woman. Yeah, she's not like, you know,
I don't like it.
Speaker 2: By the way, when parents friends teachers, stop it, don't
don't grow up their ass, don't. But she's still socialized
with them. Yeah, so that your kid gets better treatment
than fine. Even though her kids already went through.
Speaker 1: But anyway, anyway, she explained to her, but she thought, like,
so when I talked to Elaine, I was like, more,
I was only consistent. Only when did Elaine know that?
When we did the podcast? How much?
Speaker 2: You were like, oh, I just feel so bad that
Adam mentioned her. And she's a really nice teacher.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, knew that, yes, okay, yes, and so she
told her that and she said, I'm sure she just
retold the story. And she's like, you know, missus peach,
she loves you because she thought I was just being
I was bullshitting her throughout all these years, you know,
and so and so at that point my only priority
at this point, Yes, that's Sonny's teacher. She's mad, But
you know what I thought about it, and I went
and listened. There's really there's really not anything that I
said on air that I didn't tell her to her face. So, yes,
I talked about her, but I said, I told you guys,
I told you guys basically the same thing I told her.
And maybe I did cross the line with the pellets,
but whatever, So there's nothing on that show that I
said that she doesn't know. I didn't even call her
awn name or anything. Oh you said her name. I
don't say the school's name, right, you know? So so okay.
So then I talked to Elaine and she said, well,
that's that's what happened. So then I said, you know what,
And then I went home and I told Olga and
all goes like, oh, poor missus P because she loves
her too, and and then she was like, good, she says,
missus R heard the podcast. Oh yeah. Olga was the
one who was like, you need to go say something.
She was like, I'm glad she listened, and then she said,
I oh. Elaine said, they're they're probably they probably are
going to go to the school district. No, no, But
Olga was like, bring it, tell them to go. I
hope they go to the school district, meaning miss.
Speaker 2: You can't get in trouble for libel or slander because
you said no one's name.
Speaker 1: I said, no one's name, and you're gonna go to
the school district because why because a parent was complaining
about how all the kids are afraid of you and
all by the way, a kid left the school because
of you, which I didn't know about, which now I'm
telling you this first time that I found this out.
But if a kid left the schoo because of her,
or maybe I did find I did say this on
air last night. I didn't. I didn't know this. Yes,
and she this is not the first this is not
the first time. So she's gonna go to the school
district to talk about how I let them listen to
the podcast. Maybe things will change. And then by the way,
that day, Olda was like, good, bring it on. Then
that day she's like, I hope she goes this. She
was so happy, she was all smiles. I don't know why.
She was like, I hope she I hope she goes
to the school district. Good, I'm glad she heard. And
then she goes, but missus P, you should call her,
and I said, okay, So I called her in the
evening and she answered the phone. She's like, hello, oh no,
this is pet. Do you have a few minutes And
she's like yeah, uh huh, what's going on? I go, well,
you know, and she goes, well, what happened was is
that we were in a staff meeting and it came
up that this episode for missus R that this happened.
And now in February. Yeah, I don't know. She bothered
her in November and she never said anything. No, I
think she just found out about it. Okay, she just
found out about it back in the fall. They keep
saying the fall, but it's back. It was back in November,
right that that this podcast aired. And then I went
and then missus Pea sing. Then I went and looked
up I didn't know you had a podcast, and then
I then I looked it up and I just read
the summary of the show and I thought, now she's
talking about me. I didn't know, and I go, no,
this is I was retelling the story. I wasn't talking.
Of course, I wasn't talking by the way I've talked.
The only thing I've done was talk positive about you
throughout the years. I said, yeah, Rose Harrington Award. And
then she didn't tell her.
Speaker 2: About the Maybe you should have added in the little
thing about Xander's teacher and that you were here as
a comparison to like an amazing teacher.
Speaker 1: Exactly what I did.
Speaker 2: Because what we do on our podcast really is rave
about teachers, right, It's kind of our thing thing. So yeah,
just we're constantly just shouting out you know, given kudos.
Speaker 1: That's right, That's what I told her. We've been all
nine years, that's what we did that.
Speaker 2: I was saying, what an amazing experience they had, and
you were like, you know, who else is an amazing teacher?
Speaker 1: Exactly? So I told her all that, okay? Was she
like yes? Then she was like Elaine told me. But
and I had a feeling that was the case. But
you know, I'm glad you called. And actually i'm you know,
you beat me to the punch. I wanted to call you,
and I just was feeling bad and I didn't know
and I go, no, just just trust me. And then
and the thing about her, the original thing was a
a long ass time ago, years ago, that's what she said. Yeah,
Anne was all good, right, yes, yeah, it was all
like she's a sweet to feel bad and that you
were kind of mad at him to tell her about that.
I told her all that, right, and so she gets it. Yeah.
Then she's like, well, missus R. I don't really know
her that well, but I do know that she's devastated,
you know, and uh, she just was very upset about it.
And somebody said that she should talk to me and
ask me how to handle it how she I handled it.
And she's a very different situation, right, very different. And
she says, I'm very sorry that you're kids are happy.
Has some internal work to do, and she said, I'm
very sorry that your kids are going through this. And
I care about your kids and it really breaks my
heart to hear that they are they feel this way.
And oh nice, yeah, and so she said, and she said, so,
you know, I told the only thing I could tell
her was, you know, you should call missus Corolla. She's
a very delightful, nice person and I have had nothing
but good experience with her. So misunderstanding with me burn
burn and you should call her burn.
Speaker 2: So much for the blue line or the white line
for teachers or the whatever, so much for having each
other's back.
Speaker 1: You're on your own, Yeah, missus our's on her own.
Weird that miss Missus Corolla, you have a problem with you. Yeah,
I might want to look inside inside, look into the mirror.
But she said, she did say she did. She did
say that, uh, this this place that we work in,
we feel very alone, she said, at times, and you know,
I don't know, she just said that it sometimes it
can be I feel like you're in like a frozen tundra.
Speaker 2: Well, I guess, like, you know, maybe that's the thermostat.
Speaker 1: I try to turn it at the heat a little bit.
So anyway, so did she.
Speaker 2: Have any suggestions I tried to transfer out of the
class or.
Speaker 1: No. I don't really get into So you know what
I find interesting is that and I have not heard
the whole story.
Speaker 2: I was going to say, is that, like she hasn't
contacted you know, which I mean.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: So I guess because what does she want? I mean,
I guess she would just because what are you going
to do? So like, I'm so sorry that I said
that my son is scared ask questions in your class
and you got no satisfaction in the conference, Like.
Speaker 1: Right, it didn't change, it changed for like a day.
But interesting was that to the day I was telling
Olga when I found out that the kids came home
from school that day, and I said, so, how's school good?
I go to how's missus R doing? You know, it's
just really nice. Actually she's really nice today, No bullshit,
this is just recently. This is the day the day
that I found out that that day they came home
from school. So maybe it's actually making her be nicer,
And I don't I guess maybe she did take a
hard look in the mirror because it's out there that
how how you know it's out there that this is
how my kids feel so and it's not just my kids,
it's a lot of the kids. We've heard it from
a lot of the kids that are in her class.
They feel this way because they get shamed when they
ask questions at times, and so they are intimidated. So
you know, maybe she did. Maybe it did work. I
don't know. So two things.
Speaker 2: One, it's kind of a good story because it actually
got back to her. And now even though you already
told her to her face, right, but the fact that
I got back to her makes it even more like,
this is how passionate you felt about how bad you
were feeling, that you even lashed out a little bit,
just because you were so frustrated that your kids are
having this experience. Our kids are with their teachers all
day long. A great teacher can make their year and
a bad teacher can break their year.
Speaker 1: It really is that dire. I think teachers should know that,
especially with these younger kids are in such formative years,
if they feel kind of bad about themselves.
Speaker 2: That thing sticks. They take that attitude home with them.
They don't feel good about going to school. So two things.
One that like it's kind of good, and to god,
that's got it.
Speaker 1: That's the worst feeling. It's like being caught shoplifting. I know,
when you get the phone call, just like just like,
holy shit, now a teacher. But the other teacher. Now
I got two teachers. Its mad at me, Like one
you had to talk off the ledge like what what happened?
I bet?
Speaker 2: But missus p you probably even closer to her now
you've got because you got to.
Speaker 1: Be like, yeah, did I talked about her with the
Rose Harrington Order And the only.
Speaker 2: Thing you said about her recently at all was to
reference her in a really good way.
Speaker 1: Right and she knows that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you used her name because I remember you said, well,
I'm saying something really nice about her. So her name
is this, and she won this award and deservedly.
Speaker 1: So she didn't win, but yeah, she was. You tried
to get her the word nominated her with the parents. Yeah,
everybody I wrote a letter. Everybody wrote a letter, right, Well,
that was she was touched by that. Yes, it doesn't
matter if you win. It's just you know, just that
she was nominating, right, so you only referenced her in
a very positive way. Right, she knows that.
Speaker 2: And we have to be pushed kind of far to
actually call people out, and you still didn't call out
by name. But when we're up against it and in
there talking about these i EPs like it's.
Speaker 1: This is this is close to our heart? I agree.
And the one last thing I'll say is I just
find it funny that she probably listened to that episode
and we kept saying I PA the I P A,
And she must be going like, how dumb is this mom?
She calling it an I p A. That's the only thing, Like,
I hope she knows that we are joking. Oh god,
I don't know. She's probably like she's got the ie
p's calling it I P A.
Speaker 2: I don't know her, right because you just drop off
and pick up and you don't know. Do you have
a conference coming up?
Speaker 1: No? But like graduation and you know they're.
Speaker 2: Doing but there's no parent teacher conferences no, because they're no.
Speaker 1: No mm hmm. But I will have to see her
at some point, Oh my god. All right, Okay, sorry guys, Okay,
don't tell anybody stop it. Your parents now, don't fuck
it up like us.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that was a good episode.
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