1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: Made a decision than Sunny sunon on I had avision. 2 00:00:10,839 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 2: My, Hey, everybody, welcome to Patreon. It's Wednesday, Patreon. And 3 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:25,359 I am super excited boy, because Okay, I got a pit. 4 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,839 I'm gonna I'm gonna set the stage. 5 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: Okay, set the stage earlier, earlier. 6 00:00:32,799 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 2: I don't know how many days ago at this point. 7 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:37,759 But last week, Uh, Lynette and I came in, LYNETTEA 8 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,920 and I came into record certain skill rewind and Lynette 9 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:46,439 had gotten a text that she was flat out busted 10 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,960 for talking about that teacher, the one, the Pellets teacher. 11 00:00:51,079 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: I got a voicemail from God bless her Cammy's mom, Elaine, 12 00:00:57,119 --> 00:01:00,159 and she said, because she's real, like she's like an 13 00:01:00,359 --> 00:01:03,520 she's infiltrated into the school system. So she's like, she's 14 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:08,359 very close. Okay, there's two things happening here. There is 15 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:13,120 the So she's very close with the teacher. Remember the 16 00:01:13,159 --> 00:01:15,040 teacher that I've always talked about how great she is 17 00:01:15,079 --> 00:01:18,359 and we should get her the Rose Carrington Award. She 18 00:01:18,519 --> 00:01:20,840 was this second grade. She was the teacher that Adam 19 00:01:20,879 --> 00:01:23,359 talked about on k Rock. And she got upset. She 20 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,400 cried all night. She cried all night and she because 21 00:01:25,439 --> 00:01:27,159 she had no idea. And then I had to go 22 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,439 in there with my tail between my legs and explain 23 00:01:29,519 --> 00:01:31,760 to her, like what Adam does for a living. And 24 00:01:31,799 --> 00:01:33,879 didn't you guys like send her flowers? We sent her 25 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,680 flowers and now like we've all we've been friends. Now 26 00:01:36,719 --> 00:01:38,560 she sends me texts once in a while. I'm sitting 27 00:01:38,599 --> 00:01:40,640 with people that are in love with your husband. You know, 28 00:01:40,719 --> 00:01:44,120 she's really sweet. She's the greatest teacher. I love her 29 00:01:44,159 --> 00:01:47,439 and I'll met Sunny will never forget her, and she 30 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,719 changed his life when it came to education. All kay, 31 00:01:50,959 --> 00:01:55,040 So her, So she's not you know, she's not in 32 00:01:55,079 --> 00:01:57,200 the entertainment business. She's not even not. I don't even 33 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:58,319 think she knows how to listen to it. But she 34 00:01:58,359 --> 00:02:00,159 didn't even know what a podcast is. I don't think. 35 00:02:00,239 --> 00:02:02,359 I don't know she's not. I don't sounds to me 36 00:02:02,439 --> 00:02:05,760 that she doesn't. So anyways, okay, so there's that. Now 37 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,240 keep her and that we'll call her missus p Okay, Okay. 38 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,599 Had she ever heard that that episode? Though she read it, 39 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,719 she reads, she read, she read it online, she read 40 00:02:14,719 --> 00:02:17,840 the transc yeah of it, but she didn't hear it 41 00:02:17,879 --> 00:02:19,599 because she doesn't know how to hear it. Ok And 42 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,560 that was k Rock. That was on k Rock Radio. 43 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:25,599 Oh okay, okay, So anyway, that was in two thousand. 44 00:02:25,719 --> 00:02:29,560 Now back in twenty thirteen, I retold that story about 45 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,800 what had because I was so mad at Adam for 46 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:33,840 doing that to her and upset, you know, like, why'd 47 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:34,719 you have to go and do that? 48 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,199 Speaker 2: No, Buttlynette, Hold on a second, No, I think it 49 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,039 was his podcast, no, because we were already podcasting at 50 00:02:40,039 --> 00:02:40,400 that time. 51 00:02:40,719 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: He was, he was podcasting, but he did this week 52 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,080 in rage. Oh god, was I'm sorry? I thought you 53 00:02:46,159 --> 00:02:48,360 met when he was still like the morning. Okay, no, 54 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:54,759 and so she So in twenty thirteen, I retold the 55 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,800 story on our show about what happened. I told you 56 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,400 like I was mortified. Yeah, okay, all right, So there's 57 00:03:01,439 --> 00:03:06,439 that now. Then fast forward to this year or last year. 58 00:03:06,479 --> 00:03:08,960 In November of last year, I had the parent teacher conference, 59 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,479 and that's the famous one where I sat with the 60 00:03:11,479 --> 00:03:14,800 two teachers, the nice one and the not so nice one, 61 00:03:14,879 --> 00:03:17,319 and how my kids don't want to ask questions in 62 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,120 the not so nice one class, And then I said, 63 00:03:20,159 --> 00:03:24,400 maybe maybe you want to try some pellets. So hormonal pellets, 64 00:03:24,439 --> 00:03:27,800 maybe because she keeps her classroom freezing. But I told 65 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,199 that story and I went back and listened to it 66 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,439 because I had to. And I remember being like, I 67 00:03:33,479 --> 00:03:35,439 came in with a head full of steam because I 68 00:03:35,479 --> 00:03:39,080 got into a fight with somebody on Facebook. Oh yeah, 69 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,120 what Adam or not is something about me and Adam's 70 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,120 were married. So I had that. And then anyways, I 71 00:03:44,159 --> 00:03:48,240 told that story in November about the parent teacher conference. 72 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,400 Somehow got caught up to the teacher. It took her. 73 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,560 It took her how many months? And to get caught 74 00:03:54,599 --> 00:03:54,960 up to her. 75 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,439 Speaker 2: Oh so she did hear that episode because when you 76 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,520 came in, we weren't sure if she heard that or 77 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,599 if she just heard you refer to right. So on 78 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:05,439 that day when I came in and saw you, okay. 79 00:04:05,479 --> 00:04:09,879 So now now last week I get a voicemail from Elaine, 80 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:14,240 Cammy's mom just wanted to give your heads up. Missus 81 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:19,639 R will call her the mean one missus R heard 82 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:24,279 about for crying out loud's episode. And it's pretty upset. 83 00:04:24,439 --> 00:04:28,199 Speaker 1: And but missus missus P was upset too, but I 84 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:32,480 got I calmed her down. I was like, huh, right, okay, So. 85 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 2: What But I was mortified for you. Oh my god, 86 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:37,680 happened to me with the Jacks thing. 87 00:04:37,879 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 1: That happened you with the theater. But this is Simmy's teacher, 88 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,360 Italia's teacher, No, I know. I was like, I was like, 89 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:48,000 this is definitely worse. Yeah, so just let that sing 90 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:51,720 in for a second. That she but this message that 91 00:04:51,759 --> 00:04:55,839 I got from her wasn't very clear. It's just heard, right. 92 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,560 I wasn't sure but she heard the for crying out 93 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,519 loud and but I calmed missus Pea down, but I'm 94 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:03,639 sure miss and you were like, why is missus Pea 95 00:05:03,879 --> 00:05:08,199 say exactly? How did she get hurt? Right? Then I thought, well, 96 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:11,519 wait a second. We talked about them. We talked about 97 00:05:11,519 --> 00:05:14,759 her because remember you told the story like a week 98 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,360 ago about Xander's teacher, right, and and so I thought 99 00:05:18,639 --> 00:05:21,120 they were talking about that episode, right you because you 100 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:24,920 said if it wasn't for you, we were talking about 101 00:05:24,959 --> 00:05:27,519 great teachers, and you were talking about the great teacher 102 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,600 who won an award, and then you were saying, if 103 00:05:30,639 --> 00:05:31,800 it wasn't for the. 104 00:05:32,199 --> 00:05:36,879 Speaker 2: Crappy teacher that right, Sonny has, he'd probably like school more, right, right. 105 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,879 Speaker 1: So I was given missus p props, you know the 106 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,120 Rose Harrington weren't right? Okay? So and I was like, 107 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,639 why is she man? Why is she upset? When did 108 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,839 she have to talk her down? I don't get it. 109 00:05:47,519 --> 00:05:51,680 So what happened is I talked to Cammy's mom and 110 00:05:51,759 --> 00:05:56,439 she said, missus R found out that that episode that 111 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,240 some that you talked about her in an episode back 112 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:02,480 in the fall. Oh boy, So it was wasn't this 113 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,160 last episode. It was the wash that we were scared 114 00:06:05,199 --> 00:06:07,439 that she might have heard right, And that's the one 115 00:06:07,519 --> 00:06:10,399 like the one where I told the whole parent teacher conference. 116 00:06:10,879 --> 00:06:17,120 So she listened to that episode? No, And then somebody, 117 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,879 this is why we have Patreon. Your eyes. Now, you understand, 118 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,680 tell a friend if you want to listen to the 119 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,480 stuff that we can't do. You understand why this is 120 00:06:26,519 --> 00:06:29,040 our lives. This is we're telling you about our lives. 121 00:06:29,319 --> 00:06:32,600 You need to understand that we can't just tell everything 122 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,519 on the regular show. We can't and we want to, 123 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,839 we want to do right, but we can't. There's no way. 124 00:06:40,319 --> 00:06:42,759 That's a big deal. What just you know, the whole thing, 125 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,680 just the parent teacher conference thing is a big deal. 126 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,759 And what Sonny is going through it was a big 127 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,279 deal and we're talking about my kids. 128 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,879 Speaker 2: But we don't realize how many people listen. And we 129 00:06:53,959 --> 00:06:56,800 don't realize or we don't expect. We hope that people 130 00:06:56,879 --> 00:06:58,759 don't go like, oh, really, well, I'm gonna go. 131 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: Tell that teacher, right exactly, we have to, would you go? 132 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,720 Aren't assholes? Right? But we guess what, we can't trust everybody. 133 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,120 Those people, you guys, we can trust because you're you're like, 134 00:07:08,439 --> 00:07:11,879 we like Stephanie Lynette enough that we're gonna pay five dollars. 135 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,360 People that hate listen aren't don't actually want to part 136 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:19,040 with five dollars. That's right, they're not listening. No, and Calen, 137 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,240 maybe it would help if you don't write like in 138 00:07:21,319 --> 00:07:26,360 the title, uh, Sonny Lynette versus Sonny's teacher. What's the 139 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,120 name of the episodes? I was like, how did she 140 00:07:28,199 --> 00:07:30,879 find the episode? Right? A lot of download numbers though 141 00:07:30,879 --> 00:07:34,639 in that one. But the audience really seemed to like it. Jesus, Well, okay, 142 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,079 so what happened? One person didn't like it so much? 143 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:41,279 Speaker 2: So and I remember that day too. Your Elaine said 144 00:07:41,399 --> 00:07:42,920 she wants the teacher wants to talk to you. 145 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: Yes, she said, she said that she's gonna call you. 146 00:07:46,959 --> 00:07:49,560 She said, she's gonna call you. And but missus P. 147 00:07:49,759 --> 00:07:52,040 I talked to her. I talked to her. She's okay, right, 148 00:07:52,319 --> 00:07:55,560 So after should she write? So after we did our 149 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,600 sword and scale, I leave, I'm dying to talk to 150 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:02,160 Elaine and I get her on the phone and she's like, so, 151 00:08:02,199 --> 00:08:05,920 what happened was I guess? She said that missus R 152 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,639 heard the episode back in the fall and somebody and 153 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,560 she was so upset that somebody told her you should 154 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,560 talk to missus P and ask her how she dealt 155 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,879 with it. And she's like, wait a minute, this is 156 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,240 something that's happened before to another teacher. Oh no, So 157 00:08:20,279 --> 00:08:24,160 she went to missus P. Missus P was like, Lynette 158 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:24,920 has a podcast. 159 00:08:25,439 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: Oh. 160 00:08:26,959 --> 00:08:30,319 Speaker 1: I was like, wait a second. First of all, you 161 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,120 teachers should not know that I have a podcast away 162 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,440 for my business. Just lie you up in my business. 163 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,120 That's my joy to do with you. I'm not in 164 00:08:38,159 --> 00:08:41,799 your jewel whatever. But yeah, I dono, Yeah it sucks, 165 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,759 come on. Why. So she's like, Lenette has a podcast. What. 166 00:08:45,919 --> 00:08:47,440 I love the fact that we're like, yeah, I don't 167 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,759 go to your job and tell you oh near mind. 168 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,639 Oh my God, this is the juiciest story ever. Oh God, Okay, 169 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,000 now I hope I don't get So does a Lane 170 00:08:59,039 --> 00:09:02,600 listen to it? Alien says, no, she doesn't listen to it, 171 00:09:02,639 --> 00:09:04,120 and then she has to be so she's. 172 00:09:04,039 --> 00:09:06,799 Speaker 2: A nice manners get the etiquette to go. That's my 173 00:09:06,879 --> 00:09:09,320 friend's personal business. That's what she wants to talk about me. 174 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:09,840 That's on her. 175 00:09:10,039 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like, she's like, look, she goes, I don't. 176 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,960 She goes, I don't listen. She was giggling, I don't 177 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:16,639 listen to the podcast, and she goes, not because it's 178 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,600 not good. I'm sure it's good, but I just, you know, 179 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,559 I don't really feel like I have to. I'm trying 180 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:22,879 to raise my daughters to be like really good students, right, 181 00:09:22,919 --> 00:09:24,639 I'm trying. I'm busy here parenting. 182 00:09:25,399 --> 00:09:28,279 Speaker 2: So you go ahead and do your little yeah, your 183 00:09:28,279 --> 00:09:30,440 little thing, right, take your time away from your kids. 184 00:09:30,519 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 1: She knows that I love her family and her and 185 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,799 then I would never say anything. So anyway, although she 186 00:09:35,879 --> 00:09:37,799 is missing out on a lot of juicy stuff people 187 00:09:37,799 --> 00:09:40,360 that she does know, by the way, so she maybe 188 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:44,279 she should. But anyway, so she said, so they asked 189 00:09:44,279 --> 00:09:46,840 missus peace, So missus P was like, huh, Lenette has 190 00:09:46,879 --> 00:09:50,159 a podcast. What so now she gets online to research it? 191 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:55,120 Oh no, and then she sees back in twenty thirteen, 192 00:09:55,879 --> 00:09:59,720 Lynette talks about her tells the story on air of 193 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,399 what happened, and I don't know what she read, but 194 00:10:02,519 --> 00:10:05,919 she read comments and Elaine said that she did read. 195 00:10:05,879 --> 00:10:08,159 Speaker 2: She why is she up to a lot of the 196 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:11,279 comments were again we're saying, like, Lynet. 197 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,799 Speaker 1: You shouldn't have said that to your teacher. I shouldn't 198 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:15,039 have said a lot of the. 199 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 2: Comments were like you, Lenna, that kind of crossed the line, 200 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,120 like you don't tell your teacher about the the pilot. 201 00:10:20,159 --> 00:10:22,759 I'm just saying no, it wasn't like. It wasn't like 202 00:10:22,799 --> 00:10:25,559 everyone was like, yes, screw that teacher. It's like you 203 00:10:25,639 --> 00:10:26,320 and you weren't. 204 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:30,519 Speaker 1: Now this is I'm talking about. Missus P went online 205 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,480 the nice She looked up the episode where I taught, 206 00:10:33,519 --> 00:10:35,600 and so she was like, so let me. She didn't 207 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:37,960 care about Missus R's feelings. She wanted to see, like 208 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,840 what's going on. So she found back in twenty thirteen 209 00:10:40,879 --> 00:10:43,720 the episode that I told the story about what happened? Okay, okay, 210 00:10:43,759 --> 00:10:45,759 so she read I guess she read some of the comments. 211 00:10:45,759 --> 00:10:47,600 That's what he's kind of all good because you were like, 212 00:10:47,639 --> 00:10:50,159 she's a really nice teacher. I feel terrible. But guess what. 213 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,559 She doesn't listen to the podcast. She just reads the 214 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,960 comments and she reads like the summary of the show. 215 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,679 So she doesn't know what's going on. She just knows 216 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,360 I'm talking about her, and now here she is being 217 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,360 talked about in the public again, and now she's like, 218 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,279 So she told Elaine, She's like, you know, she came 219 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,399 in and apologized, and I thought we had a really 220 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:10,519 nice and I really care about her and her family. 221 00:11:10,879 --> 00:11:13,519 And was that all just an act? Like she asked Elaine, 222 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,159 is it just an act? And Elaine's like, no, it's not. 223 00:11:17,519 --> 00:11:20,519 Trust me, no, like she so when Eline said she 224 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,639 talked her down, she like, you know, she told her. 225 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,360 She was like, and her and Elaine are pretty good friends. 226 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:30,080 They went to Disneyland with the kids together. They're friends. 227 00:11:30,399 --> 00:11:32,679 She's an older woman. Yeah, she's not like, you know, 228 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:33,320 I don't like it. 229 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 2: By the way, when parents friends teachers, stop it, don't 230 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,360 don't grow up their ass, don't. But she's still socialized 231 00:11:40,399 --> 00:11:42,919 with them. Yeah, so that your kid gets better treatment 232 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,000 than fine. Even though her kids already went through. 233 00:11:45,799 --> 00:11:50,639 Speaker 1: But anyway, anyway, she explained to her, but she thought, like, 234 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,039 so when I talked to Elaine, I was like, more, 235 00:11:54,399 --> 00:11:58,320 I was only consistent. Only when did Elaine know that? 236 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,399 When we did the podcast? How much? 237 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,039 Speaker 2: You were like, oh, I just feel so bad that 238 00:12:03,159 --> 00:12:05,080 Adam mentioned her. And she's a really nice teacher. 239 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, knew that, yes, okay, yes, and so she 240 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,080 told her that and she said, I'm sure she just 241 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:13,480 retold the story. And she's like, you know, missus peach, 242 00:12:13,759 --> 00:12:16,639 she loves you because she thought I was just being 243 00:12:16,919 --> 00:12:19,679 I was bullshitting her throughout all these years, you know, 244 00:12:20,519 --> 00:12:25,440 and so and so at that point my only priority 245 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,440 at this point, Yes, that's Sonny's teacher. She's mad, But 246 00:12:29,519 --> 00:12:31,799 you know what I thought about it, and I went 247 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:35,879 and listened. There's really there's really not anything that I 248 00:12:36,039 --> 00:12:41,360 said on air that I didn't tell her to her face. So, yes, 249 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:45,440 I talked about her, but I said, I told you guys, 250 00:12:45,519 --> 00:12:47,840 I told you guys basically the same thing I told her. 251 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:50,080 And maybe I did cross the line with the pellets, 252 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:53,799 but whatever, So there's nothing on that show that I 253 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,879 said that she doesn't know. I didn't even call her 254 00:12:56,919 --> 00:12:58,799 awn name or anything. Oh you said her name. I 255 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:04,480 don't say the school's name, right, you know? So so okay. 256 00:13:04,519 --> 00:13:06,320 So then I talked to Elaine and she said, well, 257 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,080 that's that's what happened. So then I said, you know what, 258 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:10,639 And then I went home and I told Olga and 259 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:13,320 all goes like, oh, poor missus P because she loves 260 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:16,799 her too, and and then she was like, good, she says, 261 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:19,679 missus R heard the podcast. Oh yeah. Olga was the 262 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:22,759 one who was like, you need to go say something. 263 00:13:22,879 --> 00:13:25,120 She was like, I'm glad she listened, and then she said, 264 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,720 I oh. Elaine said, they're they're probably they probably are 265 00:13:28,759 --> 00:13:32,600 going to go to the school district. No, no, But 266 00:13:32,759 --> 00:13:35,519 Olga was like, bring it, tell them to go. I 267 00:13:35,519 --> 00:13:38,120 hope they go to the school district, meaning miss. 268 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:41,279 Speaker 2: You can't get in trouble for libel or slander because 269 00:13:41,279 --> 00:13:42,200 you said no one's name. 270 00:13:42,279 --> 00:13:45,279 Speaker 1: I said, no one's name, and you're gonna go to 271 00:13:45,279 --> 00:13:48,279 the school district because why because a parent was complaining 272 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:51,600 about how all the kids are afraid of you and 273 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:54,039 all by the way, a kid left the school because 274 00:13:54,039 --> 00:13:56,200 of you, which I didn't know about, which now I'm 275 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,679 telling you this first time that I found this out. 276 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:00,679 But if a kid left the schoo because of her, 277 00:14:00,759 --> 00:14:02,480 or maybe I did find I did say this on 278 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,919 air last night. I didn't. I didn't know this. Yes, 279 00:14:05,159 --> 00:14:08,120 and she this is not the first this is not 280 00:14:08,159 --> 00:14:09,759 the first time. So she's gonna go to the school 281 00:14:09,799 --> 00:14:13,240 district to talk about how I let them listen to 282 00:14:13,279 --> 00:14:16,200 the podcast. Maybe things will change. And then by the way, 283 00:14:16,279 --> 00:14:18,840 that day, Olda was like, good, bring it on. Then 284 00:14:18,919 --> 00:14:21,159 that day she's like, I hope she goes this. She 285 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,879 was so happy, she was all smiles. I don't know why. 286 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,480 She was like, I hope she I hope she goes 287 00:14:25,519 --> 00:14:28,320 to the school district. Good, I'm glad she heard. And 288 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,720 then she goes, but missus P, you should call her, 289 00:14:31,039 --> 00:14:33,919 and I said, okay, So I called her in the 290 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:37,679 evening and she answered the phone. She's like, hello, oh no, 291 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:40,759 this is pet. Do you have a few minutes And 292 00:14:40,799 --> 00:14:44,799 she's like yeah, uh huh, what's going on? I go, well, 293 00:14:45,679 --> 00:14:47,399 you know, and she goes, well, what happened was is 294 00:14:47,399 --> 00:14:50,080 that we were in a staff meeting and it came 295 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:55,200 up that this episode for missus R that this happened. 296 00:14:55,879 --> 00:14:59,840 And now in February. Yeah, I don't know. She bothered 297 00:14:59,879 --> 00:15:02,320 her in November and she never said anything. No, I 298 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,279 think she just found out about it. Okay, she just 299 00:15:05,279 --> 00:15:08,039 found out about it back in the fall. They keep 300 00:15:08,039 --> 00:15:10,519 saying the fall, but it's back. It was back in November, 301 00:15:10,759 --> 00:15:14,440 right that that this podcast aired. And then I went 302 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,240 and then missus Pea sing. Then I went and looked 303 00:15:16,279 --> 00:15:17,960 up I didn't know you had a podcast, and then 304 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,840 I then I looked it up and I just read 305 00:15:19,879 --> 00:15:22,559 the summary of the show and I thought, now she's 306 00:15:22,559 --> 00:15:24,720 talking about me. I didn't know, and I go, no, 307 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:28,480 this is I was retelling the story. I wasn't talking. 308 00:15:28,559 --> 00:15:30,200 Of course, I wasn't talking by the way I've talked. 309 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,720 The only thing I've done was talk positive about you 310 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:36,000 throughout the years. I said, yeah, Rose Harrington Award. And 311 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,159 then she didn't tell her. 312 00:15:37,039 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 2: About the Maybe you should have added in the little 313 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,480 thing about Xander's teacher and that you were here as 314 00:15:41,519 --> 00:15:43,879 a comparison to like an amazing teacher. 315 00:15:44,159 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: Exactly what I did. 316 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,159 Speaker 2: Because what we do on our podcast really is rave 317 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:52,320 about teachers, right, It's kind of our thing thing. So yeah, 318 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,960 just we're constantly just shouting out you know, given kudos. 319 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: That's right, That's what I told her. We've been all 320 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:00,639 nine years, that's what we did that. 321 00:16:01,039 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 2: I was saying, what an amazing experience they had, and 322 00:16:03,399 --> 00:16:05,639 you were like, you know, who else is an amazing teacher? 323 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: Exactly? So I told her all that, okay? Was she 324 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:10,440 like yes? Then she was like Elaine told me. But 325 00:16:10,559 --> 00:16:12,360 and I had a feeling that was the case. But 326 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,519 you know, I'm glad you called. And actually i'm you know, 327 00:16:15,639 --> 00:16:17,559 you beat me to the punch. I wanted to call you, 328 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,519 and I just was feeling bad and I didn't know 329 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,200 and I go, no, just just trust me. And then 330 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:25,960 and the thing about her, the original thing was a 331 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:29,159 a long ass time ago, years ago, that's what she said. Yeah, 332 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,879 Anne was all good, right, yes, yeah, it was all 333 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,519 like she's a sweet to feel bad and that you 334 00:16:34,519 --> 00:16:37,120 were kind of mad at him to tell her about that. 335 00:16:37,519 --> 00:16:40,200 I told her all that, right, and so she gets it. Yeah. 336 00:16:40,279 --> 00:16:42,399 Then she's like, well, missus R. I don't really know 337 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:45,159 her that well, but I do know that she's devastated, 338 00:16:45,639 --> 00:16:50,559 you know, and uh, she just was very upset about it. 339 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,240 And somebody said that she should talk to me and 340 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,519 ask me how to handle it how she I handled it. 341 00:16:55,039 --> 00:16:58,440 And she's a very different situation, right, very different. And 342 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,840 she says, I'm very sorry that you're kids are happy. 343 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:04,240 Has some internal work to do, and she said, I'm 344 00:17:04,319 --> 00:17:06,839 very sorry that your kids are going through this. And 345 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,880 I care about your kids and it really breaks my 346 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,480 heart to hear that they are they feel this way. 347 00:17:12,599 --> 00:17:16,799 And oh nice, yeah, and so she said, and she said, so, 348 00:17:17,039 --> 00:17:19,599 you know, I told the only thing I could tell 349 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,759 her was, you know, you should call missus Corolla. She's 350 00:17:21,799 --> 00:17:27,680 a very delightful, nice person and I have had nothing 351 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:32,519 but good experience with her. So misunderstanding with me burn 352 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,240 burn and you should call her burn. 353 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:41,079 Speaker 2: So much for the blue line or the white line 354 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:44,519 for teachers or the whatever, so much for having each 355 00:17:44,559 --> 00:17:45,119 other's back. 356 00:17:46,079 --> 00:17:48,880 Speaker 1: You're on your own, Yeah, missus our's on her own. 357 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:53,039 Weird that miss Missus Corolla, you have a problem with you. Yeah, 358 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:56,279 I might want to look inside inside, look into the mirror. 359 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:01,079 But she said, she did say she did. She did 360 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,480 say that, uh, this this place that we work in, 361 00:18:04,799 --> 00:18:07,599 we feel very alone, she said, at times, and you know, 362 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,759 I don't know, she just said that it sometimes it 363 00:18:12,759 --> 00:18:14,839 can be I feel like you're in like a frozen tundra. 364 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 2: Well, I guess, like, you know, maybe that's the thermostat. 365 00:18:18,599 --> 00:18:20,279 Speaker 1: I try to turn it at the heat a little bit. 366 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,000 So anyway, so did she. 367 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,079 Speaker 2: Have any suggestions I tried to transfer out of the 368 00:18:25,079 --> 00:18:25,839 class or. 369 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,039 Speaker 1: No. I don't really get into So you know what 370 00:18:30,079 --> 00:18:34,079 I find interesting is that and I have not heard 371 00:18:34,079 --> 00:18:34,759 the whole story. 372 00:18:34,799 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 2: I was going to say, is that, like she hasn't 373 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:40,319 contacted you know, which I mean. 374 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. 375 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 2: So I guess because what does she want? I mean, 376 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:45,160 I guess she would just because what are you going 377 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,599 to do? So like, I'm so sorry that I said 378 00:18:47,599 --> 00:18:49,920 that my son is scared ask questions in your class 379 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:54,079 and you got no satisfaction in the conference, Like. 380 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 1: Right, it didn't change, it changed for like a day. 381 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,480 But interesting was that to the day I was telling 382 00:19:00,519 --> 00:19:03,079 Olga when I found out that the kids came home 383 00:19:03,079 --> 00:19:06,039 from school that day, and I said, so, how's school good? 384 00:19:06,079 --> 00:19:09,039 I go to how's missus R doing? You know, it's 385 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,640 just really nice. Actually she's really nice today, No bullshit, 386 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,359 this is just recently. This is the day the day 387 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:17,880 that I found out that that day they came home 388 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,400 from school. So maybe it's actually making her be nicer, 389 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:24,200 And I don't I guess maybe she did take a 390 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:27,079 hard look in the mirror because it's out there that 391 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,720 how how you know it's out there that this is 392 00:19:30,759 --> 00:19:34,319 how my kids feel so and it's not just my kids, 393 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:36,880 it's a lot of the kids. We've heard it from 394 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,000 a lot of the kids that are in her class. 395 00:19:39,279 --> 00:19:41,839 They feel this way because they get shamed when they 396 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:45,720 ask questions at times, and so they are intimidated. So 397 00:19:46,799 --> 00:19:49,519 you know, maybe she did. Maybe it did work. I 398 00:19:49,559 --> 00:19:51,079 don't know. So two things. 399 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:55,039 Speaker 2: One, it's kind of a good story because it actually 400 00:19:55,039 --> 00:19:57,400 got back to her. And now even though you already 401 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,160 told her to her face, right, but the fact that 402 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:01,799 I got back to her makes it even more like, 403 00:20:01,839 --> 00:20:05,000 this is how passionate you felt about how bad you 404 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:08,240 were feeling, that you even lashed out a little bit, 405 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:10,640 just because you were so frustrated that your kids are 406 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,799 having this experience. Our kids are with their teachers all 407 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:18,839 day long. A great teacher can make their year and 408 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,519 a bad teacher can break their year. 409 00:20:20,559 --> 00:20:24,759 Speaker 1: It really is that dire. I think teachers should know that, 410 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:28,039 especially with these younger kids are in such formative years, 411 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,559 if they feel kind of bad about themselves. 412 00:20:30,559 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 2: That thing sticks. They take that attitude home with them. 413 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,400 They don't feel good about going to school. So two things. 414 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,359 One that like it's kind of good, and to god, 415 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:40,920 that's got it. 416 00:20:41,079 --> 00:20:43,599 Speaker 1: That's the worst feeling. It's like being caught shoplifting. I know, 417 00:20:44,039 --> 00:20:46,160 when you get the phone call, just like just like, 418 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:49,599 holy shit, now a teacher. But the other teacher. Now 419 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,839 I got two teachers. Its mad at me, Like one 420 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,920 you had to talk off the ledge like what what happened? 421 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:55,480 I bet? 422 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: But missus p you probably even closer to her now 423 00:20:58,799 --> 00:21:00,279 you've got because you got to. 424 00:21:00,079 --> 00:21:02,759 Speaker 1: Be like, yeah, did I talked about her with the 425 00:21:02,839 --> 00:21:04,599 Rose Harrington Order And the only. 426 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 2: Thing you said about her recently at all was to 427 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:08,880 reference her in a really good way. 428 00:21:08,799 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: Right and she knows that. 429 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you used her name because I remember you said, well, 430 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,680 I'm saying something really nice about her. So her name 431 00:21:15,799 --> 00:21:20,319 is this, and she won this award and deservedly. 432 00:21:19,839 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 1: So she didn't win, but yeah, she was. You tried 433 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,640 to get her the word nominated her with the parents. Yeah, 434 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,839 everybody I wrote a letter. Everybody wrote a letter, right, Well, 435 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,079 that was she was touched by that. Yes, it doesn't 436 00:21:31,079 --> 00:21:33,279 matter if you win. It's just you know, just that 437 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,079 she was nominating, right, so you only referenced her in 438 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,599 a very positive way. Right, she knows that. 439 00:21:39,039 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 2: And we have to be pushed kind of far to 440 00:21:41,759 --> 00:21:45,079 actually call people out, and you still didn't call out 441 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,279 by name. But when we're up against it and in 442 00:21:48,319 --> 00:21:51,759 there talking about these i EPs like it's. 443 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,640 Speaker 1: This is this is close to our heart? I agree. 444 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,000 And the one last thing I'll say is I just 445 00:21:56,279 --> 00:21:58,559 find it funny that she probably listened to that episode 446 00:21:58,599 --> 00:22:00,680 and we kept saying I PA the I P A, 447 00:22:00,839 --> 00:22:04,200 And she must be going like, how dumb is this mom? 448 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,960 She calling it an I p A. That's the only thing, Like, 449 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:11,440 I hope she knows that we are joking. Oh god, 450 00:22:12,279 --> 00:22:14,279 I don't know. She's probably like she's got the ie 451 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:15,799 p's calling it I P A. 452 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 2: I don't know her, right because you just drop off 453 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,319 and pick up and you don't know. Do you have 454 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:23,400 a conference coming up? 455 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: No? But like graduation and you know they're. 456 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 2: Doing but there's no parent teacher conferences no, because they're no. 457 00:22:30,519 --> 00:22:33,279 Speaker 1: No mm hmm. But I will have to see her 458 00:22:33,319 --> 00:22:37,119 at some point, Oh my god. All right, Okay, sorry guys, Okay, 459 00:22:37,319 --> 00:22:43,640 don't tell anybody stop it. Your parents now, don't fuck 460 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:44,400 it up like us. 461 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that was a good episode. 462 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 1: I believe the children are your children. 463 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 3: Teach them well, let them lead the way, show them 464 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:22,079 all the beauty and they possess inside. Give them a 465 00:23:22,319 --> 00:23:29,480 sent a bride to make it easier. Let the children's 466 00:23:29,799 --> 00:23:37,119 left reminds how we use two people. 467 00:23:37,599 --> 00:23:39,839 Speaker 4: Everybody searching for you. 468 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 1: People need some. 469 00:23:42,319 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 3: Want to the good to I never found any wrong 470 00:23:46,599 --> 00:23:54,759 who fulfill my lead along the vains to me, and 471 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,839 so I learned to depend on me. 472 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 4: I don't never too long in anyone shuts it had 473 00:24:08,039 --> 00:24:16,480 if my succession at these muck battle they take from me, 474 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,400 they can't take away. 475 00:24:18,759 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 5: I did not recuse vable. 476 00:24:28,519 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 4: It's happen. I thought bable inside. 477 00:24:48,839 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 5: Below bubble it is it. 478 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 4: Listen to long as he is the basest. 479 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 1: I believe the. 480 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 3: Children are you child, she's the well and let family. 481 00:25:21,079 --> 00:25:25,759 Speaker 4: The way, show them all the beauty in that subside. 482 00:25:28,279 --> 00:25:32,279 Speaker 3: Get them a set opera to. 483 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:33,279 Speaker 5: Make it peace. 484 00:25:35,079 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: Let that children left. 485 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 3: Remind us how we use to become hid. 486 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:53,880 Speaker 4: Time haven't too long. Can anyone inside of it succeed 487 00:25:54,640 --> 00:26:02,839 at least moment no man take not they can't take 488 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:12,480 on be agent. 489 00:26:12,319 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 5: The loon, it's happened to be. 490 00:26:20,599 --> 00:26:21,079 Speaker 4: I'm the. 491 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,759 Speaker 5: Agent, the loll. 492 00:26:27,880 --> 00:27:00,839 Speaker 4: Inside as. 493 00:26:51,839 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 5: He's the good. 494 00:26:57,519 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 1: And in my chance that's the shop. 495 00:27:01,559 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 4: Be said. 496 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 1: That's who've been Team 497 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 4: Leages too, at bad place, bind Paster rat