Speaker 1: I like asking questions. The reason why is because the
fund begins when you start researching for answers such as,
why do employees and co workers feel they're never gonna
get caught breaking the rules? Plus? Is it okay for
someone to tell a lie? My name is Arrow. I'm
a daily writer, a silent wolf. That means I stand
on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,
then activate. I call it the daily mess, a chronological
walk through in everyday world. Yeah, it's my morning pages.
As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people
tend to throw things to the side because we think
we're gonna deal with it later. When a subject arrives
inside of me, I know it's time to dig in.
It's still keeping that daily journal, but by doing the research,
the picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess. Why
do employees feel like they're never gonna get caught breaking
the rules? Mental health professionals see it as a mix
of psychological, environmental, and cultural reasons. Number one a serious
lack of accountability. If a workplace rarely enforces rules or
picks on other selective people, employees begin to believe, m Well,
no one's watching Number two perceived low risk of detection.
The employee assesses the cost versus the benefit. If the
odds of getting caught are low, they may feel it's
worth the risk. Number three everyone else is doing it
coworkers cutting corners is every day, showing up late to
work to misusing resources. Number four remote or unsupervised work
places where there is very little boss attention. Overconfidence is
another factor in why employees would rather break the rules
at a company. Plus, we can't leave out those who
feel undervalued, underpaid, and believe they are unfairly treated, so
they steal and or break the rules. Why out of
rebellion and or indifference? Coming up? This was brought on
by a coworker he thinks that it's okay to tell
a lie. I have to figure it out myself. Is
it ever okay to tell a lie? Hey, thanks for
coming back to the daily mess? When is it okay
for a person to tell a lie? Mainly because it
feels like a system of laws and justices are being
nothing more than a big lie these days? Is it
okay to play the same game as a regular, everyday person.
Let's break this down. Lies are acceptable when protecting someone
from harm, not my words. This is the actual research.
People who tell a white lie to spare someone's feelings
is okay with many mental experts. Even in social smoothing.
It's okay for you to personally make things a little
bit better by telling a lie when in reality, huh huh,
that's not the way you really are. Probably one of
the biggest lies not getting the big label of bad
is the resistance to injustice. So now the question is
what lies are unacceptable? Those that point away from accountability,
A lie that leads people into manipulation and or exploitation.
How about those moments when family and friends tell untruths
about their image and it allows them to be someone
that they really aren't. The top dog is associated with romance,
business and family matters. The foundation of your life can
be damaged forever in those situations. Here's the thing to do.
Before you say your lie, think about your lie and
what are the repercussions. I'm maro own. That's the daily mess.