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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice,

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mixing some vodka in color. The podcast from the Mac

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of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor

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Chrysler Dots jeep Ram. It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on. Thank

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you for telling a friend.

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Speaker 2: That's how we spread the word about the bird ship.

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Oh a little surprise today, back from the resorts of

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Turks and Fatso I mean Keikos.

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Speaker 1: You submit?

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Speaker 3: Is this the only reason you have got nobody else

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to pick out?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Baby, I'm bat Dougie Fresh, the hipshaking money making Tower,

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part Man of the twenty four to seven, the one

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your mother warned you.

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Speaker 1: About getting a tan? And look at I any fine

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his back home? Baby? How are you? I am? Well,

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you're looking good. I gotta say. Man, Turks and Kekos

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and you got a little bit of a tan going there? Yeah,

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because I burned the first day I used to do.

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Speaker 3: You gotta be careful with that ship, dude, I had,

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I had sunscreen on and.

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Speaker 1: Still through the spf fifty. You were getting fifty.

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Speaker 3: It was only date fifty, but you were out there.

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Speaker 1: Man, you put a picture of you on social media. Yeah, shirtless,

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standing there, arms wide open, and I go to a towel.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm like, you know what, Yeah, but who should care? Right,

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I'm in the middle of son and fun, my good

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friends getting married.

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Speaker 1: Look at some point in your life, right, yeah, you're

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either keep hiding the parts you're insecure about or you

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just walk out and go Love me for who I am.

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This is the body that got me here, and that's

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what you did. And I loved it. I thought that

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was great.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you since January, the second week

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in January, I've lost twenty two pounds. Really did not

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show in that picture. I'd actually have to lose another.

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Speaker 1: You got one. Great about that, though. I do what

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you been doing?

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Speaker 3: Very little exercising, okay, so well, I mean diet, yes,

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eating a whole lot less a lot of protein, not

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a lot of protein, but just enough to fill me

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up in the move on, exercising in the morning, some

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plank works now and just itching up just a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit, doing some plank work.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for the belly, because if you lose your way

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too fast, like these people with the SAIC, it gets saggy.

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Speaker 1: Remember the old.

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Speaker 3: What was it when your mom had the wash the

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wash line out back, she had that big thing full

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of pins.

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Speaker 1: We just hang there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I always see. I don't want to

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be yes the meat skirt that comes out. I don't

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want to be hanging over like that.

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Speaker 1: You see there. There are a couple of thoughts I

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had about all this, and and then and let's go

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back to the ozembic because I think at some point

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in your life you gotta let go of performative youth.

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You just are what you are, right and and and

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and so be it. And I think a lot of

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times attractive is attractive. But what it's also attractive is

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a confidence and a self security right.

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Speaker 3: Yes, rightackage that you like right.

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Speaker 1: And the other thing is women have a lot of

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things that they can hide flaws with. I don't mean

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to sound like a misogynistic jerk, but they do, like

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uh oh, when they get a little bit older, if

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things get a little big. You got the bathing suit

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with the little skirt that goes around the side, right,

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kind of hides everything, you know what I mean? There

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ain't shit for us, No, there's not ship. Let it

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all hang out. Are fucking fat, beautiful, right, and then

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that's it. And I think that it becomes like it's

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confidence first delusion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people hanging in their youth. I mean I did

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an old timer wrestling tournament twelve years ago, got a

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shape for that, down to one seventy and this is obvious.

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I've ever been too fifty. Now I'm done, just twenty

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seven a day on the scale.

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Speaker 1: Good.

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Speaker 3: So this in the next three months. And I hate

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talking about this because I always feel, just do it.

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Speaker 1: Don't tell everybody gonna do it.

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Speaker 3: You do it, and then have somebody else toot your

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horn instead of you blowing yourself. I'm gonna I'm gonna

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lose this and I'm gonna do that. You know you're

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not doing anything.

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Speaker 1: You're speaking my language because I often say, uh, go

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forth and tell no one. And I say it that

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way because it was like, you know, almost biblical in

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a sense, because it was Jesus and I had this

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disagreement i'll call it with my dad philosophically on whether

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or not Jesus had actually said something like that. But

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I believe that he would heal people with leoparsy or

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whatever and then say go back to your village. But

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tell no one that you've been healed. And because as

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if you do, you know, dogs gonna come along go

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fuck you is gonna fall off again. And then it

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gets in your head and you and and everything I

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believe in life really is up here. And so oh yeah,

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you know what I'm saying, like the way you feel

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about all that stuff, and that's why.

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Speaker 3: Well that's as xempech. It doesn't make you lose weight,

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it gets you on a mind path off.

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Speaker 1: Don't even talk to me about I have such a problem. Okay,

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I'm just saying, you know, I know.

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Speaker 3: People, it gets you thinking not to eat so much.

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It helps you that way, just so you just don't

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stick it in you and you're losing weight automatically. There's

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a whole process to it. If that's what you feel.

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Speaker 1: Didn't go for.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to do that. Some people suggest that.

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I'm like, no, I'm gonna lose weight on my own

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and I do feel better.

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Speaker 1: Let me. Let me sleeping through the night.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to wake up and piss because your

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belly is not hanging on your bladder. You know, your

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knees don't hurt as much. Blong Dave bartending.

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Speaker 1: Uh, I think you should be but the whole.

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Speaker 3: But getting back to the picture, yes, you know the whole.

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It was a this is what they're doing in France

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with a towel around you so I could hide my belly.

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Speaker 1: Oh I got you still in the arm. Yeah. No,

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had a lily white bowling ball there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but not as bad as hanging it out.

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like, you know what, why do you care?

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But you do. The beach is the last honest place

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on earth. It really is, because even I mean as

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I kind of joke that women have the the thing.

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Oh many of them do. You'll see flaws, and my

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favorite are the women that just don't care. I loved

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when I.

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Speaker 3: Was self confidence is very sexy in a woman.

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Speaker 1: Well, self confidence and almost maybe not understanding.

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Speaker 3: Uh, they're not worried about being judged. They like their outfit.

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I'm going out in there, and I've met a lot

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of people in the bars obviously, yeah, and over there

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is and I remember some of the women that just

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you know, I like this and this is who I am,

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and they don't like it. They can go to hell.

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They're not wearing it. They didn't pay for it.

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Speaker 1: No, look I. But what I was gonna say is

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I used to have a timeshare, so we would go

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to different places. You know, you can. My wife at

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the time was great at like booking it out west

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and you know, trading whatever we had in Florida. And

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I remember being at one family resort, family place, and

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this lady sitting up like you had to swim out

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to like this makeshift island in the pool, and she's

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sitting on this thing and she has on fucking dental floss.

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I mean, there's nothing there and I and I go,

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goddamn lady. And you knew every nobody there dressed that way,

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so every woman was probably you know, in some way

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judging under their threat and all this stuff, and it

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seemed inappropriate for the place. But I, you know, I

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fully appreciated it in all its beauty, and that was

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fine with me. That was fine. Oh, zemic, Let me

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let me say something. We can go back to something else. No, well,

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let me tell you about my trip and we'll go

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to that. Let me talk about ozembic because you brought

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it up and it's too fresh. Uh. Ozembic to me

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is a wonderful thing for people who are really struggling

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to lose weight. I think that that's okay. I don't

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have problem with any of that stuff. But even the

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people and we can think of this, and everybody probably

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knows of someone who had gastric bypass, and most people

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who had gastric bypass ate through it. They blew through

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it at some point. You mean, most people like to

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put on more weight sometimes had problems because they the

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mesh or whatever they put around you to constrict it

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blew out. I mean, I've known people who've done that. Yeah,

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with ozembic, and I again, I truly at my core,

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whatever is going to make you feel best. The human

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experience can be tough. Judgment can be tough. But because

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of that, when I'm hearing less and less of is

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people saying not so much big as beautiful, but body acceptance.

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You know, this is who I am. I appreciate it. Well,

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you know, don't judge me because I'm this. Don't do that.

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And if you said to somebody the greatest way to

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really feel good about yourself and lose weight is consistency

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with diet and exercise, but when you said that, you

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were kind of an asshole because you're shaming them and

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you're doing this, and I'm hearing less and less from

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the the Lizos and the other people of the world

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that were kind of big and beautiful and flauning it.

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do whatever. But now they've all found a zembac and

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they're all in shape and skinny, and nobody's saying that anymore.

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Nobody's fucking saying it. And the other thing is, I

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do believe, like anything in life, if you have skin

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in the game, it's valued more. Now ozembic is the

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uh the or or any GLP one. I think some

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even coming up in a pill form. But if you're

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stabbing yourself with this medicine once a day, once a week,

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whatever it is, it does constrict your eating and a

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lot of people talk about how painful it is, like

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you get cramping and it's awful and you don't want

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to eat, so you don't eat. Look if it again,

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if it helps, if you went through it, I help

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you maintain it. I hope there's no real side effect,

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because I don't know that.

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Speaker 3: They've stun a ton of reasons and some people do

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because of the metabolism are just naturally heavy and it's

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helped them. That's I don't know what percentage that is.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 3: I also know people that smoking hot Yeah, and they

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got their hands out of them because they want to

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be even skinnier. Yes, and they're on their phone taking

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pictures yes all day.

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Speaker 1: No, I got it. But the part with me is

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like when I say no skin in the game is

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you took an easy way to get to where you

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wanted to get. When you actually work for it, you

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maintain it longer. It's a lifestyle, right. I don't know

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how long a GLP one lifestyle can go. You want

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to be stabbing yourself all the time with a needle,

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I don't know if it works for you. Great, But

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what bothers me is the people who said diet and

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exercise is really the key to a longer, better life

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were often told, don't tell me how to fucking live,

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love my body for the way it is. I am

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what I am. And now I hear less of that

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because those fuckers got GLP one. And that's the thing

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that I go, Oh my god, they were full of shit.

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Speaker 3: When did the whole change and body and everything I mean,

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when did plastic surgery come out that you could change something?

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I had exercise. I mean in the eighties, yes, you know,

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fake breast, it went out, a liposection, you know, knows

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jobs everything.

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Speaker 1: Now we've just elevated, you know, we've just we've gone

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on for We've made it more acceptable, We've made it

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more accessible.

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Speaker 3: I will say that anybody can do it with money.

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Well and everything there's good in bed.

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Speaker 1: Hang on on, you've seen some bad plastic surgery and

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not even that. Take it back one step before plastic surgery.

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How many people are getting botox now, even men to

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get rid of the I forget that what they call

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this there's a rinkle, No, but there's an actual word

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for the one in between your highs. They do do

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their forehead, all this stuff you will see and then

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you see uh people women plumping up their lips and all.

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And I think that that isn't something most men really,

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I don't care for that.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: I know some people get botex to get rid of migraines.

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Speaker 1: Yep, okay, I've heard of that as well, But I know,

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but that's not the majority that is not even close

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to the majority, and it's become a business and so

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what and if it makes you feel better at the

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end of the day.

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Speaker 3: I don't like pumping anything into my body because I

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know what's want to happen.

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Speaker 1: That's you're full of shit. Look at your body. You

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pump a lot of stuff, Jenny Light, I'm fucking with you.

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But yes, I hear what you say. Anything that isn't

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outside of food or whatever. Yeah, yeah, something like that.

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I don't Again, I don't want to sound like, you know,

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you're such an ass. No, if it makes you feel

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better about you and you're and it makes you present

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yourself better and you have a little more confidence and

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all that, that's fine. All I'm saying with the gop

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ones is I do wonder how long it goes because

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I look back to the other alternative and the people

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I know who ate through it, blew out or like.

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I have a relative his name was Frank. He had one.

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He would leave my mother's house after like a big

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holiday meal and they were driving back to Albany, about

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an hour away from my mom, and he'd come running

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back in and he'd be running to go to the

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bedroom to take a fucking dump. And then I don't

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know why. When my parents rebuilt their house, they had

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a powder room right off the kitchen just for him. No,

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just I mean it was there, beautiful, but all of

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a sudden, it just was like, you're fuck. You can't escape,

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you know, and you can't escape you understand what I'm saying.

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I don't know exactly what you're saying. And so my

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father to run it comes Charlie. So my dad used

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to go all the time, Uh, you know, let me

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be frank with you, please, don't you know, because the

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guy would and and it. It is that thing where

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unfortunately the greatest thing is discipline. I don't really have it.

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I've had to really really rain in my drinking, like

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I had another incident.

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Speaker 3: Those are those videos I've seen in the past four weeks.

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You down to New mc connery's.

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Speaker 1: Hang on a second. I was there for one time,

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just one. I was there one time for the grand opening.

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There were a lot of videos, but I was there time. Yeah, okay, yeah,

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because I haven't been back there. I have not been

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back there. Oh wait. After I had my colonoscopy in Brockport,

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I stopped there for a beer, but then came back

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to the East Side. So I can't go out that far, yes,

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but that's the uh oh, I know you can't go

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out that far.

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Speaker 3: I can't tea megia as a night. You got to

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save up your pennies and dimes and the uber out

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there and give Dougie Fresh a call.

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Speaker 1: And because I haven't been there yet, Oh okay, yeah,

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I just I have not. I haven't really, I didn't

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even I mean last night it was just me and

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my kid and then I had to take a midterm

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online and how'd they go. I think, well, I mean, right,

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you don't know right until you do it. Of course,

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if it's online, it's open book for you to go

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back through your notes and things. Yep. I mean I

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think you can look. I would think like any doctor

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that's worth their salt, or any therapist that's worth their salt,

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they're going to research things to freshen up. But yeah,

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so I think you're not necessarily cheating. You you either

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get it or you don't get it. And to me,

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when it's like that, if you don't get a hundred,

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you're kind of a dope. So let's see where I land.

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I scam. I don't know, let's go back because Doug

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did debut a limited time only, limited time only Caribbean

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release of his Beautiful Body.

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Speaker 3: On the beach Jerks and Caicos. My friend Mark and

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Tamiln get married. This is a destination wedding, first one

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I have ever been on. And we had to go

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from Rochester, Miami, Miami into Turks, which I believe is

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owned by the British government, and uh, you know you

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need your passport and penn and why am I here?

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Speaker 1: And then we were there. The first we runted an

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RB and B.

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Speaker 3: There was five of us and we had the GPS,

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but no address on Grand Island. Laney and the guys like,

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this is the old It wasn't a Jamaican accent, but

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something similar to that. And what's the closest bar. Danny boys,

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Danny Boys. Danny Boy is very clever. So we went there.

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We're waiting for everybody to come in. Eight dollars a

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cours light, then tax which was twelve dollars government nine

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percent in house, so nine ten dollars of beer and

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then okay, we know where the house is. There's a

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little Wegmans or whatever up the street. We'll go get

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a couple some drinks and h everything's important. How much

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for a case of Miller Lite or you told me

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I did? Yeah, yeah, seventy three dollars. Okay, I was

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gonna say it's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but go back to the prices at the bar. Yeah,

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because I don't think I know what the prices are

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when I buy things.

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Speaker 3: I well, it's different from what you used to in

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Rochester cours Light. It's usually three or four dollars because

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I ordered to hire end bar. Maybe five okay.

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Speaker 1: So I drink.

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Speaker 3: Guinness, that's usually six six fifty seven.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's usually eight yeah. Well I haven't poured it

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in a while.

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Speaker 3: So that was when I worked at Johnny's, yeah, ten

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years ago a little more.

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Speaker 1: So. This is like because I'm thinking it's it's for me.

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I always think it's eight bucks. But I'll tell you like,

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I've gone on some tears in recent times where I

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have left and I close out and I go, holy shit, Yeah,

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it's one hundred and fifty down to the fuck. What

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the fuck? So I go, I gotta no, Yeah, that's

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no play. But so got the house. It was two

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pools in back.

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Speaker 3: Everybody had their own room. It's beautiful. We went out

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later that night saying karaoke Danny Boys getting our feet wet.

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Speaker 1: Of course they had the crowd going.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Then Thursday, Yeah, there's video of it somewhere. Thursday,

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we go to the beach, Crystal Blue water. That's when

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I got burned. But you're you're having fun, you know,

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you're not thinking about it. You put the sunscreen. It's

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a different kind of sun, you know, and you're out

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in the ocean and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well it was, and it's reflecting off the water.

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I mean, I think a lot of people also don't

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think of that when they ski and stuff and on

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a nice day, right, you'll get it. I do only

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because I've had a lot of skin cancer issues. Yeah,

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and and they're bad. They can be very bad. Allegedly

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there was a melanoma. One doctor said, you know, my

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original doctors like, you got to get in right away.

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And the guy who took it out close because it's

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almost too small to tell. Her thought was, if we

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let this go to the point where it would be

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the size we would normally take out and test, it

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would be too late. She's like, it's too close to

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your sinuses, it's too close to every day. So since

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then I live in a little bit of paranoia of

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the sun. Which I love the sun, right, fucking love it.

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Sometimes I have to wear big stupid hats and you know, sunscreen. Well,

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the other thing is I want to be here, right,

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I want to be here. I got a lot, I

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have a lot, there is left to do.

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Speaker 3: I will say this at the end of well, I

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was gonna say to the end. I just thought about it.

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Once you go to some place like that, you're like,

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you know, I got to save up and go other places.

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I'm missing out on the world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, I think that's a great Yeah. Man. Fuck.

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Speaker 3: There was two main bars. It was Castaways, Danny Boys,

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There's some restaurants. It was very nice, obviously expensive. Everybody

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got along in the house, coffee and uh breakfast. Friday,

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we walked down to a place called Hemingway's. They had

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a welcome party Tammy and Mark and everybody got dressed up.

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That's where some of the pictures were. And that was

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open bars, so you know, you're taking advantage of that

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and boozing. And then I was taking pictures because you don't, right,

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you know, I'm that I'm that guy. Okay, I'm like

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I don't see amy, you're taking pictures and everybody's catching

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up and how you doing, how's your room?

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Speaker 1: How's this? How's that?

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Speaker 3: But if you don't do it, then you're right. I mean,

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that's that's a really true thing, because I think I

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had over one hundred pictures at night. You know, Okay,

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we're gonna go on one three, you know, click one more, boom,

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thank you, and I would just move around, put people together,

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the brothers and their mom, you know, the bride and groups.

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Speaker 1: Those are nice things to have and look back on

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because I think of all the times like I've been

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together with my whole family and yeah, how we didn't

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take pictures? And when I look back at some of

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the pictures that were taken at places, and even if

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I thought they were dumb at the moment, like I'm like, God,

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I fucking get a camera out of my face. It's

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you're selling my brother in law? Yeah, getting ped No.

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But I mean like there was one where I'm asleep

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on a couch, all culled up. Somebody snaps a photo

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and it kind of wakes me up, but I go,

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what the fuck? And now I look at it and

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I go that actually was kind of cool because you

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were exhausted from a great time, and who gives a shit,

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and you're happy to have that memory. And to your point,

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when my parents' house burned down, that's the stuff that

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meant the most that they lost. The other shit could

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be replaced, yes, but but those were the things I

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could not be replaced.

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Speaker 3: I go on my laptop every now and then and

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I will just go through and this is usually after

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a night of drink air. I'm just playing, listen to

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some music, and I would just start going through folders

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of folders of shoulders, everything I've downloaded, and just the

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great memories.

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Speaker 1: So overall, good time.

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Speaker 3: Yes, there was nothing. Everybody had a great time.

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Speaker 1: That was the well.

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Speaker 3: That was the welcome party. Saturday was the wedding, and

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Mark asked me to shuttle everybody from wherever they were,

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so we got the rent a car the run of

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the shuttle bus. Now you're steering wheels on the other side, yeah,

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and you're driving on the other side of the road.

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Speaker 1: And I am fucking hung over. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And at one point he Trinity goes, you're gonna be

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able to do that? I go, I'm not gonna remember

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any of the.

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Speaker 1: The first thing in the morning, ten o'clock. I'm like,

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we'll make it work.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, GPS worked fine, and everybody's phone number.

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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 3: I did hit the curb a few times because you're

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on the somebody coming and do you think they're fucking

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hammered y and all of a sudden you're bopping speed

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bumps everywhere. I took one about forty miles per hour.

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Everybody jumped up in.

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Speaker 1: The in the van.

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Speaker 3: I had to slow down a little bit. After that,

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you figured it out. Yeah, the roundabout no lights, it's

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all roundabouts, and they're down there. There's people that drive

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like assles. Effect my buddy Bobby had the other caravan.

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He flew by me and I'm giving.

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Speaker 1: Them the figure motherfucking him to death. And their videotaping,

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it's uh.

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00:23:14,519 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 3: The wedding was on the beach. They rented this huge

472
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:22,240
fork t your house. If you saw the pictures, absolutely beautiful.

473
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,440
Then we went up for cocktail hour on the top floor.

474
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:28,319
I didn't drink, uh, and then it was jerk chicken, steak,

475
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:34,519
lobster tail. Yeah, good time, yes, And then just drove

476
00:23:34,559 --> 00:23:36,319
everybody home when they now we only wanted me to

477
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,319
take a couple of trips, two coming into coming out.

478
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,160
So so I enjoyed myself.

479
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 1: DJ was great.

480
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 3: It was fun, beautiful, beautiful, and then we now this

481
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:46,640
is the story I told my parents.

482
00:23:48,319 --> 00:23:48,839
Speaker 1: The next day.

483
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 3: We get a shuttle bus down there and Mark's like,

484
00:23:52,279 --> 00:23:54,000
come to the house. We got all this left over food,

485
00:23:54,039 --> 00:23:58,119
all this left over drinks, and we boozed all day

486
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,480
in the pool. I mean there was like the bar,

487
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,319
the canopy, then the ing ground pool. So I ever

488
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:05,799
walked behind there to get even a water.

489
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 1: Let's go.

490
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 3: You're a new bartender, fill him up. What doesn't matter,

491
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:16,839
just mix something. So let me go. This is Sunday night, Tuesday.

492
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,960
We're at the airport and my friend Nancy, who I

493
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,480
have not talked to in five years, text me, did

494
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,240
you make it home Sunday? And like Sunday, Like, I

495
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,960
don't know why? How did you know? I'm in Turks

496
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,559
and I'm not leaving Sunday. I'm leaving today. She goes,

497
00:24:31,599 --> 00:24:35,720
you called me for my ride because our uber rider

498
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,960
was named Nancy. So I'm looking and go, hey, does

499
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,079
anybody remember me calling Nancy from Rochester?

500
00:24:42,279 --> 00:24:44,519
Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, you wanted her to come down and

501
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,079
drive everybody.

502
00:24:45,759 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 3: And Bennett or Bette that's his name. He got mad

503
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,319
at me. He goes, you fucking call the wrong Nancy.

504
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,160
Now we have no way home. Then somebody comes and goes,

505
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:57,440
Nancy's here, and he was like, okay, let's go. Oh yeah,

506
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:01,359
a whole bunch of drinking fun the sun and yeah

507
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,039
I watched the US win the gold.

508
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sure, we're at a bar.

509
00:25:04,599 --> 00:25:08,519
Speaker 3: Good time that Yeah, so everybody had a wonderful time.

510
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 4: Well deserved. You look refreshed. Yeah, it's feeling good. It's

511
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,079
a game change. Yeah, you get by for half in

512
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:21,799
your steps. Man, you do some vitamin D yes right sunshine. Yeah,

513
00:25:21,839 --> 00:25:23,680
and then you get out there and you and you're

514
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,240
socializing and how important that is?

515
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, all that ship all right? Well you will uh

516
00:25:29,319 --> 00:25:31,720
we will take a moment. I got I want to uh,

517
00:25:32,079 --> 00:25:34,480
I'll talk to you about a doctor. There's a doctor,

518
00:25:34,559 --> 00:25:38,359
letter doctor, you know my doctor. He's a weird doctor. Yeah.

519
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,920
Well this guy, yeah he lost his license with this

520
00:25:41,039 --> 00:25:45,160
one is it's interesting, but yeah, we'll get into that

521
00:25:45,599 --> 00:25:48,279
right after this. Ever, look at your wall and think, hmmm,

522
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:54,000
that hole definitely wasn't there yesterday, or maybe your faucet's

523
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got a drip that's slowly driving you into madness. That's

524
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when you got to call my buddies at Mac of

525
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All Trades because it's your home and if you don't

526
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have the skills to fix it yourself, go to the

527
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people who do. And trust me, there's nobody better than

528
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Mac of All Trades. They do everything. Leaky faucett they

529
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530
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full kitchen or bathroom model. Oh yeah, they'll do that too.

531
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From patching the hole that someone made by definitely not

532
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533
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535
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536
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537
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538
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539
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Good afternoon, you lucky dogs.

540
00:26:54,039 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 3: We are in Fairport, Pittsford, Penfield area. You got the one,

541
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,279
the only, the hipshaking money. Megan Tower of Power, Man

542
00:27:02,279 --> 00:27:04,920
of the Hour twenty four and seven. Dougie Fresh next

543
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,279
to me on my right, the man, the myth, the legend,

544
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:12,240
six foot two as a blue men wanna be ladies

545
00:27:12,279 --> 00:27:16,759
adore him, the admiral of the airwaves up point extra podcast.

546
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,440
Ladies and gentlemen, please keep your hands and feet inside

547
00:27:19,519 --> 00:27:21,440
the car till the right comes with complete stop for

548
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:22,440
mister bean.

549
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:31,319
Speaker 1: Morera Wow, look at Douggie the posting. Yeah, little instrumental there,

550
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,960
that's pretty good. Uh So when.

551
00:27:33,759 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 3: Did you leave for Turks and Caicos last Wednesday?

552
00:27:38,599 --> 00:27:39,279
Speaker 1: Last Wednesday?

553
00:27:39,319 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 3: And I didn't get back till the following Wednesday. You're

554
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,559
in an airport for thirty six hours?

555
00:27:45,039 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: Good? Yeah? Wow. Connecting flight laid out weather, the.

556
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 3: Communications, so we could either stay in Miami and wait

557
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:52,960
there or.

558
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,559
Speaker 1: Go to Washington take care chances while Washington was closer.

559
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,319
Speaker 3: So did that and then they couldn't get us there,

560
00:27:59,319 --> 00:28:01,160
so they put us up in the room we had

561
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,799
to stand by the next morning at ten am. We

562
00:28:03,839 --> 00:28:05,640
didn't make that, so we had to wait for a

563
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:11,119
ten o'clock fight ten pm ten pm, twelve hours.

564
00:28:10,079 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: So we played uh deck cars.

565
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,279
Speaker 3: Me and my friend played gin all day and to

566
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,640
his credit, he'd beat me twenty two games of seven.

567
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,720
I couldn't believe. I nervous a fucking man, like, I'm

568
00:28:19,759 --> 00:28:21,960
not getting when you would don't have cars, you know,

569
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,079
a night of cars with friends.

570
00:28:23,079 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: You're like, ah, yeah, cars just weren't with me a night. Yeah,

571
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:26,680
when you're losing.

572
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 3: Twelve hours straight, that's so, and you're you're late and

573
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,160
you're just sitting there suck.

574
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:39,319
Speaker 1: Yeah it did. So we finally got home and then well, yeah,

575
00:28:40,079 --> 00:28:41,480
that was it. You just gotta roll with the punch

576
00:28:41,519 --> 00:28:42,880
of stuff like that. You can't control.

577
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,519
Speaker 3: They went like control and you're on the plane and

578
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,839
people are complaining. I know they're gonna make us stay

579
00:28:47,839 --> 00:28:49,720
here and we're gonna do this my friend to them,

580
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,519
and at one point I just want to stay ups, like, shut.

581
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: The fuck up, right, You were not helping this situation

582
00:28:55,519 --> 00:28:57,960
an adult for a second, exactly. It's hard.

583
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 3: If you knew what was going to happen, you wouldn't

584
00:29:00,079 --> 00:29:01,799
got on this plane. And I don't want to hear it.

585
00:29:01,839 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: I'm stuck to have a good point while you were

586
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,960
having all that fun. I had a colonoscopy on Friday

587
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:13,200
that you were gone, and it was the weirdest thing

588
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,960
ever because before well, this isn't a finger bow, this

589
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,000
is a whole camera. Yeah, they go deep. Can I

590
00:29:20,039 --> 00:29:24,839
have a wallless sense? So I went out. I didn't

591
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,359
realize that there's a strong West. So now when you

592
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:35,240
get a strong West, that's it's the hospital strong Oh yeah,

593
00:29:35,359 --> 00:29:38,480
strong West. Okay, Okay, So I had no idea. So

594
00:29:38,759 --> 00:29:41,519
now my doctor said to me, Hey, you're a little

595
00:29:41,519 --> 00:29:44,920
bit overdue. I'm gonna put a thing in and they'll

596
00:29:45,079 --> 00:29:48,799
call you answer it because they don't call back, and

597
00:29:48,839 --> 00:29:50,680
you got to be you know, if you're going to

598
00:29:50,759 --> 00:29:53,160
get in, you gotta do this. Well, they don't call anymore.

599
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,440
They text you. Okay, so they text you a date,

600
00:29:56,599 --> 00:30:00,720
and I'm just assuming it's over by me. Right, I've

601
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:04,559
had my last klonoky and it is not. So I

602
00:30:04,599 --> 00:30:07,480
don't find out until someone. I say to somebody, hey

603
00:30:07,799 --> 00:30:09,759
I need a ride, and then they go where am

604
00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:12,119
I going? And I look down and go, oh my god.

605
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:17,519
Strong West is in Brockport. Oh yeah, so that was

606
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,279
not my intention. I yeah, I don't know I could

607
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,839
because I've ubered in Brockport.

608
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think I've ever picked up anybody I

609
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,000
know unity care out there.

610
00:30:26,519 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, so this is strong Way, So whatever so

611
00:30:29,079 --> 00:30:32,599
I figured that's a good friend. Well, I got a

612
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,599
ride out and I and then Kevin from the podcast

613
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,319
picked me up and took me back. Did they put younger? Well,

614
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:43,039
the sort of, so here's the thing is you and

615
00:30:43,079 --> 00:30:47,160
be like, hey, I'm let's take some pictures. I took

616
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,039
a lot of I do the prep right, which is like, Duke, lax, me,

617
00:30:51,119 --> 00:30:54,240
relax all this stuff and you clean out your system.

618
00:30:54,279 --> 00:30:56,920
Well it's not really cleaning out the way I thought

619
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,000
it would. And then that morning, you're going a lot

620
00:31:00,559 --> 00:31:02,240
and I get there and I'm still going, and the

621
00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:04,759
nurse says to me, what color is the liquid that's

622
00:31:04,759 --> 00:31:06,960
coming out of you? And I'm still a little brown. She's like,

623
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,559
they may not want to do this, and I'm like okay.

624
00:31:09,759 --> 00:31:13,079
So the guy's in there and I'm and they're moving me, Doug.

625
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,039
They're physically like asking me to shift and do all

626
00:31:16,079 --> 00:31:18,839
this stuff, and so I'm at but I'm listening. And

627
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,920
then there's like, I swear to God, one of the

628
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,880
nurses doing handstands on my abdomen to try to manipulate

629
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,119
my coal and so he can get the camera up

630
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,119
and in there. And then at one point I'm awake

631
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,720
up watching the screen. He's like powerwashing it because it's

632
00:31:31,759 --> 00:31:35,039
just water coming out. You're laying down. Yeah, you go

633
00:31:35,079 --> 00:31:36,759
on to bed and they bring in your eye. You're

634
00:31:36,759 --> 00:31:38,519
out where you're on your back and you're on your side.

635
00:31:38,559 --> 00:31:43,400
You're on your side. Yeah, you never had one. No listen, Oh,

636
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,160
don't tell me about it. I won't tell you about

637
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,920
my life. My body. It was all big thing.

638
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,279
Speaker 3: So was she's standing on your abdomen, You're on your side.

639
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,519
Speaker 1: I'm on my side and they're trying to manipulate around

640
00:31:55,519 --> 00:31:57,039
when he's going to have him pushed so it's like

641
00:31:57,119 --> 00:31:59,519
pushing down and oh, because you said stand, I don't know.

642
00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:04,039
She's like standing there pushing okay, and I'm saying handstand

643
00:32:04,079 --> 00:32:06,200
because it's like, you know, they're going hard and they're

644
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,640
apologizing to me and they're telling me what a trooper

645
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,640
I am for this. And then I hear the doctor end.

646
00:32:11,839 --> 00:32:14,440
The doctor goes which I sounded so funny, right like

647
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,559
a child, and then doc goes, hey, up up the

648
00:32:17,559 --> 00:32:19,960
pain mets because he's running in he's like hitting the

649
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,960
side of my admin and all this. So how did

650
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,839
he find up there? Gold Watch or Olex? He found

651
00:32:25,039 --> 00:32:28,440
he found a remote from nineteen eighty seven and controller

652
00:32:28,519 --> 00:32:31,079
from the old Nintendo system I had as a kid.

653
00:32:31,839 --> 00:32:34,440
He's like, he's going there was a checker, a piece

654
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,519
of chest. What the fuck's going on here? So I

655
00:32:38,559 --> 00:32:42,599
think we've found the weird part with the world we

656
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,480
live in today, and I'll take this to another direction.

657
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,960
Uh in the next segment that we talked. But it

658
00:32:50,119 --> 00:32:54,880
was strange because then you get the results now on

659
00:32:54,920 --> 00:33:00,240
your my chart. Yes, okay, so it's it's a week

660
00:33:00,319 --> 00:33:04,119
later and I'm a little bothered by everything going on.

661
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,599
They removed two polyps. I had two polyps three years ago.

662
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,920
I had two polyps again. My grandfather, my maternal grandfather,

663
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:16,400
my mom's dad, died of colon cancer, really prostate colon

664
00:33:16,519 --> 00:33:19,519
something in there. Never had this, wouldn't have anybody go

665
00:33:19,599 --> 00:33:21,880
up his ass period and died at sixty nine years old.

666
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,799
Oh yeah, so he got a little bit of a

667
00:33:24,839 --> 00:33:27,960
family history. We're seeing more and more young people. I

668
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:32,000
think the because they were famous people that people were

669
00:33:32,039 --> 00:33:35,200
recognized and go, oh my god, forty eight years old,

670
00:33:35,279 --> 00:33:38,480
forty seven years old, forty three years old is very

671
00:33:38,519 --> 00:33:41,640
young to be dying of colorectal cancer. I don't think

672
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:46,839
they were recommending people get exams until you were in

673
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:51,640
your fifties, so they said in them. So yesterday I

674
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,640
get the notice and I'm with my son and he's

675
00:33:55,839 --> 00:33:57,920
we had to go to a specific store. So we're

676
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,039
out at a mall I'm not that familiar with, and we,

677
00:34:01,279 --> 00:34:06,160
uh buy this the mall zero is only two left. Yeah,

678
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,960
I guess you're right East View, I know in Greece. Yeah, well,

679
00:34:10,159 --> 00:34:12,840
I don't know grease the mall itself inside. I know

680
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,960
you know bTB, but that's about it. So we we

681
00:34:16,079 --> 00:34:18,639
buy that. And while I'm in the store, I get

682
00:34:18,679 --> 00:34:22,079
a text, uh test results and you get an email

683
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,639
and a notification from my chart on the app. So

684
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,760
I'm like, oh cool, and I go this must be

685
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,599
the process of So now I'm I'm I finally it's

686
00:34:32,639 --> 00:34:34,639
not working in the store. So now I'm starting to

687
00:34:34,639 --> 00:34:37,000
get a little bothered because there's test results. What am

688
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,320
I gonna know? And this is where our over communication

689
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:44,079
is not good, because back in the day, you would

690
00:34:44,159 --> 00:34:48,440
get a note from your doctor right saying, hey, here's

691
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,199
what's going.

692
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,039
Speaker 3: On, mister Marin. Yes, we just want to let you

693
00:34:51,079 --> 00:34:53,079
know everything came back. Now a wonderful.

694
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: Thank you. Now I've got the pathology report that I

695
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:03,840
can't understand right, and I'm in Greece in the parking

696
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,679
lot and about a half hour from where I live,

697
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,920
and I'm with my son, who is but I think

698
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,480
we're attuned to the point where he can kind of

699
00:35:15,119 --> 00:35:19,360
nonverbal communication realize that it's something that's bothering me. And

700
00:35:19,559 --> 00:35:24,639
I'm reading through the thing and I see the word lesion. Now,

701
00:35:25,199 --> 00:35:31,840
I have a friend of whose wife just died, did

702
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,400
the funeral and all this. It was terrible. I saw

703
00:35:35,519 --> 00:35:39,079
him and I think, and he told me she had

704
00:35:39,079 --> 00:35:42,079
a cough. So, Billy Broomfield, I've talked about this on

705
00:35:42,119 --> 00:35:47,000
the podcast. She had a cough fifty two years old,

706
00:35:47,079 --> 00:35:50,519
fifty three years old, went so the doctor wasn't going

707
00:35:50,559 --> 00:35:54,079
away and found out that she had cancer pretty much

708
00:35:54,079 --> 00:35:56,360
everywhere in her body and had no idea and was

709
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,480
dead within six weeks. Wow, that was just now, just now,

710
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,800
And so you kind of see the word leads and

711
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,960
you go, what the fuck. So I'm driving home and

712
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:11,079
I'm quiet. My son's like, you're right. I go, oh yeah, yeah, no,

713
00:36:11,159 --> 00:36:13,079
I'm good. I'm good. And I'm thinking, if this is

714
00:36:13,119 --> 00:36:15,840
something I don't want to say anything to him, and

715
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,440
you know, how can I secretly do treatments? I don't

716
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,360
want to rock his world, and you know he lives

717
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,119
with me, and blah blah blah. I'm all this shit.

718
00:36:23,159 --> 00:36:26,440
So then I go home and and and I'm driving Doug,

719
00:36:26,519 --> 00:36:29,719
and I start to go, like somatic. You ever hear

720
00:36:30,119 --> 00:36:32,000
like something like you start thinking about it. So then

721
00:36:32,159 --> 00:36:35,920
you know, you watch a doctor show and somebody has

722
00:36:36,639 --> 00:36:38,840
pancreat titus, and all of a sudden, you're going, god, damn,

723
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,400
my side fucking you know what I mean. It's a

724
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:41,800
somatic thing. It's your mind.

725
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,559
Speaker 3: Only when I watch porn, I'm like, gosh damn, I

726
00:36:43,599 --> 00:36:46,800
got a heart on too, just like this guy.

727
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: Right, That's all. But like somatic things, they would call

728
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,559
it psycho psychosomatic. The term I think it's a little

729
00:37:01,599 --> 00:37:03,679
other people don't say that as much anymore, but just sematically.

730
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,920
So I'm thinking, I go, man, now my ass is

731
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,000
starting to like I go, even my ass will start

732
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,920
to hurt a little bit, right, And then I realize

733
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,559
it's about a fifty degree day and I still have

734
00:37:13,679 --> 00:37:17,000
this the heated seat on high So I go, okay,

735
00:37:17,039 --> 00:37:18,679
all right, A right, let me calm down here. But

736
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,760
you know, I noticed that as I'm driving, and I'm

737
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,800
starting to think, holy fuck, you know now, that must

738
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,280
be it. That must be the cancer coming out. I

739
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,039
don't know what it is, my ass. So I go

740
00:37:27,159 --> 00:37:30,320
home and I had not been going to the bathroom

741
00:37:30,559 --> 00:37:34,280
exactly correctly, not correctly, I can't see because you had

742
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,320
all this shit in your system. Yeah, but dude, it's

743
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,440
been a fucking week. I haven't actually take it longer

744
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,840
to get out a bowel. Movie mean really really well

745
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,719
right until today. Oh I shoit a fucking rope, but

746
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:46,239
not to do you like that? Talk right?

747
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 3: So I will tell you really quickly. A few months ago,

748
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,599
I had to take somebody to uh what.

749
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,039
Speaker 1: Do you call it? The colin Oscar Colosky.

750
00:37:54,639 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 3: And he was going to the doctor. He goes, I

751
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,760
haven't pooped in a while. Yeah, he goes, They don't

752
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:01,199
know what it is, and they go, you know what,

753
00:38:01,519 --> 00:38:04,039
go to KFC, eat some garbage.

754
00:38:04,039 --> 00:38:05,199
Speaker 1: I go, do you ever go to fast food?

755
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 3: He goes, No, I go get a greasy hamburg get

756
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,880
some greasy chicken and see if that helps. Or take

757
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:12,760
some fucking fiber or something like that.

758
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, yeah, but go ahead. I'm sorry. So I

759
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,480
uh so, now I go home and I'm kind of

760
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,559
a little bit out of my mind. I go, man,

761
00:38:21,639 --> 00:38:24,400
I don't know what this is. Now, all this information,

762
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,320
it's the pathology report, and now you have access to it,

763
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,559
and you have no education on how to read this

764
00:38:30,599 --> 00:38:37,159
goddamn thing. So I put it in. I go ai ai, AI,

765
00:38:38,039 --> 00:38:41,480
copy the thing, throw it in there, and it comes

766
00:38:41,519 --> 00:38:46,760
back with you're fine, Yeah, hey, join the club of

767
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:50,280
people you've had cutting paste. Put in AI, and please

768
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,960
tell me this. I just say, like, you know it,

769
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,159
put this this, put this in language I can understand.

770
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,679
You know, I'm not a doctor. And then boom and

771
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,280
basically they go, Bill, you have now joined the club

772
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:07,039
of people who have had polyps removed and are fine.

773
00:39:07,159 --> 00:39:09,119
Had you waited eight to fifteen years, you may have

774
00:39:09,119 --> 00:39:13,000
had a problem. And so I go, okay, this is

775
00:39:13,079 --> 00:39:15,199
this is great. But and then it breaks it down.

776
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:19,440
This one means it had They were both really really tiny,

777
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:24,039
and they were both you know, one was a very

778
00:39:24,079 --> 00:39:27,639
common polyp that that is pre cancerous but slow growing.

779
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:29,800
The other one is a little could be a little

780
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:34,199
more aggressive, but still another five to fifteen and I

781
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,519
had jagged edges, but nope, they got it all on

782
00:39:36,559 --> 00:39:41,039
your fine cha. Yeah. And so then today today I

783
00:39:41,039 --> 00:39:46,360
get a think from the doctor and it says, hey,

784
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,119
your bill, no, no, no, no, let me tell you something.

785
00:39:50,159 --> 00:39:55,199
I will say, this health insurance. You gotta get to insurance.

786
00:39:55,199 --> 00:39:58,000
And that's a tough one. And that is why I am.

787
00:39:58,199 --> 00:40:01,199
I doing another job and I to where I'm working.

788
00:40:01,199 --> 00:40:03,639
I go They're like, well, you know, but I go,

789
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,119
I don't care about your money. And I know that

790
00:40:06,199 --> 00:40:08,519
sounds really really shitty of me to say I don't

791
00:40:08,519 --> 00:40:11,119
need your money. I need the healthcare they have and

792
00:40:11,159 --> 00:40:14,000
it's great healthcare. So I'm like, fuck, man, I'll do

793
00:40:14,079 --> 00:40:19,079
that to whatever you want. So yeah, So basically it's like, hey,

794
00:40:19,159 --> 00:40:21,719
they were both benign, you're fine, blah blah blah. And

795
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,679
I go, why doesn't that just come right? Not the

796
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,960
other thing? Because I gotta think, like, we live in

797
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,320
a world now where you just.

798
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:34,159
Speaker 3: No fifty three four fifty four, yes, now what about

799
00:40:34,159 --> 00:40:37,599
somebody seventy four right eighty four? They're going to try

800
00:40:37,599 --> 00:40:39,239
to get it on their phone. They can't even get

801
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,920
pictures of the grandkids, mos of them, or they try

802
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,519
to get it in their email and then they got

803
00:40:43,559 --> 00:40:45,840
to call Susie to come over and blow it up.

804
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,639
And then, you know, I feel sorry for that.

805
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,199
Speaker 1: You know, when was the last time you went to

806
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,679
a doctor? Honestly, I don't say it. Okay, all right,

807
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,239
all right, okay, this has been a long time. It's

808
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,159
been a long time now. There are many many I.

809
00:40:59,079 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 3: Am actively not really, I am looking for a doctor whatever.

810
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,320
I did just get New York State Health insurance.

811
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:07,559
Speaker 1: Awesome, yes, very.

812
00:41:08,079 --> 00:41:11,079
Speaker 3: I kept hearing commercials, my friends, my age were bugging me,

813
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,199
so I signed up. I have it good finding a doctor.

814
00:41:15,159 --> 00:41:17,480
I have a couple of leads I just haven't followed.

815
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 1: That's fine.

816
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,079
Speaker 3: But if anything happens, car acid, anything you got, I've

817
00:41:21,079 --> 00:41:22,440
got the thing in my pockets.

818
00:41:22,599 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: So the only reason I bring that up is a

819
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,320
lot of men don't live as long as women, especially men,

820
00:41:28,599 --> 00:41:30,800
because they drive us to the grave. Well they could.

821
00:41:31,519 --> 00:41:34,000
I saw an old Bobby Slaton, but that I texted

822
00:41:34,079 --> 00:41:36,760
him about the other day because he's mentioned in the

823
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:40,960
Epstein files. Oh no, oh, yeah, he's mentioned in the

824
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,320
Epstein files, just as he in one of them. He

825
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,239
says something basically is, I'd love to go to dinner

826
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,719
with you and Woody Allen. But I'm on my way

827
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:56,760
to the shithole of comedy Rochester to York. I was dying,

828
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,840
but then I was showing my kid a piece of

829
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:00,719
my kids laughing his a off, And I go this

830
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,840
material from almost twenty five years ago holds up today

831
00:42:04,079 --> 00:42:05,679
and it's a lot of what marriage and what are

832
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,599
you talking about? But most married guys for sure live

833
00:42:08,679 --> 00:42:11,360
longer because they have a wife nagging them or or

834
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,440
or pushing them politely to go to the doctor and

835
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:18,039
be checked out. You don't, I don't really anymore. I'm

836
00:42:18,079 --> 00:42:19,760
on top of it. I got kids, I want to

837
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,679
be here. I got a lot of shit. I feel

838
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,079
like I need to accomplish it before I leave the planet.

839
00:42:25,199 --> 00:42:28,199
But here's the story that I think would discourage many

840
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:32,199
men from going to the doctor. Oh yoh yeah, male practice.

841
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:38,000
Well there's a guy, uh general practitioner. He has had

842
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:43,719
his medical license suspended after multiple male patients accused him

843
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:48,480
of sexual misconduct during exams. Let me go into what

844
00:42:48,639 --> 00:42:52,320
these men are claiming that this doctor did. And then

845
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,880
I have a lot of questions, but we'll start with this.

846
00:42:55,480 --> 00:43:01,159
According to the petition, this guy, doctor gurgis is accused

847
00:43:01,199 --> 00:43:04,480
of watching a patient ejaculate in order to provide a

848
00:43:04,519 --> 00:43:08,119
semen sample. He watches it. I I've never heard of that.

849
00:43:08,199 --> 00:43:12,559
Usually they send you to Okay, what grabbing a patient's

850
00:43:12,599 --> 00:43:16,440
penis during a prostate exam? So he's got a finger

851
00:43:16,519 --> 00:43:18,880
up his ass and he does that telling a patient

852
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:27,199
he needed to perform Wait, listen to this now. I want,

853
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,599
I want, I need you for a moment. Okay. I

854
00:43:30,599 --> 00:43:32,880
don't need you to act this out, Okay, I just

855
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,679
need you to put yourself. You're in a doctor's office. Yes,

856
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,239
you're in a doctor's office. They've asked you to get down.

857
00:43:39,679 --> 00:43:41,760
You're in the gown. You can keep your underwear on,

858
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,360
and he can keep your socks on. You look very sexy.

859
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,760
And he comes in and says I need to perform

860
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,800
a stretch test and then grabs your penis and starts

861
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:56,800
tugging it back and forth. What do you? I are

862
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:57,519
you questioning this?

863
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 3: Are you gonna make a blue and animal out of this?

864
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:08,039
I think there's clowns clown guy.

865
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 1: But the thing is like, we we don't know, just

866
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,360
like the path. I know, I haven't been to a

867
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,159
doctor in forty years. I know I haven't even seen

868
00:44:21,199 --> 00:44:23,519
anything like that, No, or heard about it. No, but

869
00:44:23,599 --> 00:44:27,199
this doesn't coming to start. No, not a guy, right exactly.

870
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,400
But my point is this just like the pathology report,

871
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,159
where I go, I don't know what I'm looking at.

872
00:44:32,199 --> 00:44:34,800
I don't know what all this means. I think you're

873
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,719
half naked on a table and the person with the

874
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:41,440
white coat is the authority, So you don't really question it, right,

875
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,400
But that's fucked up? Like he starts yanking me back

876
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:50,400
and forth, spending approximately ten minutes on a genital examination.

877
00:44:52,119 --> 00:44:53,760
Speaker 3: I don't think I have ten minutes to jump to

878
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:58,320
look over five minutes. Yeah, when you had seven and

879
00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:59,760
a half minutes, I think that's done.

880
00:45:00,039 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: You did have a rectal exam.

881
00:45:04,119 --> 00:45:06,079
Speaker 3: Exam was, but it was really weird. He goes, you

882
00:45:06,119 --> 00:45:07,920
might feel some pressure. I go, yeah, I go, but

883
00:45:08,079 --> 00:45:09,679
why are both your hands on my shoulders?

884
00:45:10,039 --> 00:45:15,559
Speaker 1: You you hold that thought for a second, because another

885
00:45:15,599 --> 00:45:18,239
thing this guy's accused of is using more than one

886
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,639
finger to perform a rectal and prostate examination. Let me

887
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:30,880
get in there. Yeah, I mean wow. Uh, then failing

888
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:34,440
to tell some patients he was about to insert his

889
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,599
finger into the rectum. I had that happen. It was weird.

890
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:43,440
I was at my dentist. This one hurt a bit.

891
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:47,079
We've done me yep uh. Failing to wear gloves during

892
00:45:47,159 --> 00:45:50,519
genital and or prostate exams, now that's just kind of sense. Well,

893
00:45:50,559 --> 00:45:52,320
I'm not going to put a glove on a stick

894
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:57,480
unless he's going later. Hey, doc, I hope you're not

895
00:45:57,519 --> 00:46:00,760
a nail butter. It goes down with whip cream. I

896
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,079
think there's something wrong. In December, according to the petition,

897
00:46:05,519 --> 00:46:11,960
he was found to be grossly unprofessional grossly unprofessional conduct.

898
00:46:12,079 --> 00:46:15,239
And I go, that is the most corporate way to

899
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:20,000
describe I mean that that that phrase is doing a

900
00:46:20,039 --> 00:46:23,559
lot of pr work because you say to me, he

901
00:46:23,639 --> 00:46:25,920
was grossly unprofessional conduct. I go, what did he wear

902
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,320
crocs into surgery? I mean what I'm saying it was like, no,

903
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,800
he stuck two fingers in your asshole and goes hey.

904
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,079
Speaker 3: And you know how many reports does it take for

905
00:46:34,159 --> 00:46:36,360
him to get looked at? How long did it go on?

906
00:46:37,199 --> 00:46:39,280
How long does it take to evaluate.

907
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 1: Started being a doctor in two thousand and eight. This

908
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:43,880
just happened in twenty twenty five.

909
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 3: That's seventeen years, right, yeah, five twenty twenty Well, whatever,

910
00:46:47,039 --> 00:46:50,000
oh fifteen sixteen years, yeah, yeah, so long, who's the

911
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:50,719
first one that's going.

912
00:46:50,639 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 1: To blow over? I don't know that. This is my point, right,

913
00:46:53,039 --> 00:46:56,039
Like we trust doctors because you've got the lab coat,

914
00:46:56,079 --> 00:46:58,960
you're the authority, right, And I'm like, holy crap.

915
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:03,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean even if you google what

916
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,519
to expect during a prostate exam.

917
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,159
Speaker 1: Well you know, yeah, right, does.

918
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 3: Everybody usually have seven shots at tequila before they be over?

919
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,559
Speaker 1: But I mean even some clear communication. I'm going into

920
00:47:15,599 --> 00:47:18,440
the rectal exam? Now, right, did they put you under?

921
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 3: I thought you were going to tell me that somebody

922
00:47:20,639 --> 00:47:21,400
knows under.

923
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: They do do that, though for for what rectal exams,

924
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:29,239
for the prost for the king calling, Yes they can.

925
00:47:29,639 --> 00:47:33,079
I was numbed up, yea, but somewhat loucid numb them.

926
00:47:36,079 --> 00:47:37,559
But yeah, I mean I would want to be out,

927
00:47:37,679 --> 00:47:39,239
but i'd want somebody I know in the room.

928
00:47:39,679 --> 00:47:41,199
Speaker 3: I mean, you don't want to take advantage of this.

929
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,159
Speaker 1: No, I don't think they're you're in much danger because

930
00:47:44,159 --> 00:47:46,039
there's a lot of cameras that they can all see.

931
00:47:46,079 --> 00:47:48,559
This is a private practice where you know, go in

932
00:47:48,599 --> 00:47:52,920
for a physical element, and I don't think in New

933
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,039
York State. Any I don't know what the laws are,

934
00:47:55,079 --> 00:47:57,920
but I don't think they do prostate exams and physicals anymore. However,

935
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,960
this is another state. I don't know what they're what

936
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:03,920
theirs are? You understand what it was Indiana?

937
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 3: Oh god, they just carry Indiana as a music man.

938
00:48:11,559 --> 00:48:16,639
Speaker 1: They're getting the bears, I know. But that transparency reduces

939
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,960
trauma saying I'm about to enter your ass. Let's you know,

940
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,119
I mean, you would be that politely to if you

941
00:48:22,199 --> 00:48:28,880
had somebody over the house. Yeah, at least a glass

942
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,239
of wine. Let's play doctor. Go to the whole new

943
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:35,719
level playing doctor. I yes, I I just you know,

944
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:41,159
no nurse ratchet. Just well, anytime a medical exam uses

945
00:48:41,199 --> 00:48:44,559
the word stretch test, that's not a medical exam. That's

946
00:48:44,599 --> 00:48:47,719
creative writing. That's not that is not what somebody starts

947
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,039
pulling your penis. Well, and that's the thing. But I go,

948
00:48:51,199 --> 00:48:55,440
we mistake authority for legitimacy because he's the doctor. So

949
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:59,280
I'm gonna go and take you for example, just you've

950
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,639
said I've been there in a while. You go in,

951
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,360
we got new preciadures. Now we're gonna do a stretch

952
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:06,880
TXT grab.

953
00:49:06,639 --> 00:49:08,760
Speaker 3: Your crank and see how far it goes across the room.

954
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:16,320
Bend over and everybody's gonna pick a finger. Yeah, oh god,

955
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:17,639
I rides downstairs.

956
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 1: Well. The other thing is like, if you have to

957
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:26,000
override your gut because of somebody's credentials, that's submission, you

958
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:26,400
know what I mean?

959
00:49:26,599 --> 00:49:28,039
Speaker 3: Really well, I have to I have to meet a

960
00:49:28,039 --> 00:49:30,480
few doctors. See who I like, who I'm comfortable with.

961
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:34,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think the other thing is I think, what

962
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,679
what you just said? Okay, because I don't think I've

963
00:49:36,679 --> 00:49:39,239
ever really done that. I've had the same doctors since

964
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:40,320
my twenties.

965
00:49:40,599 --> 00:49:44,079
Speaker 3: That's good, Yeah, it is if you're comfortable with them.

966
00:49:44,159 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 1: Yes, But I think like shopping and being the consumer

967
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:54,880
is really important because it's you and you want to

968
00:49:55,039 --> 00:49:56,920
have the best for you, and you want somebody you

969
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,920
can be honest with and comfortable with, right, which is

970
00:50:00,119 --> 00:50:02,840
not always easy because you know, I just had the

971
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,800
physical and he goes, uh, how many drinks yet you

972
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:07,760
have a week because he's still the two to three

973
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,480
beers a week. And I stayed silent for a while

974
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,519
and then he goes, what is it right?

975
00:50:14,599 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 3: And I said, that gets sent to your room right now?

976
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: And I go uh, he goes, Is it more? Is

977
00:50:20,199 --> 00:50:23,280
it other things besides beer? I said, it goes wine?

978
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:26,840
I said, yeah, yeah, probably Like yeah, he goes, So

979
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,119
what are we talking? Three beers two glasses of wine

980
00:50:29,119 --> 00:50:30,079
like he's feeling.

981
00:50:30,039 --> 00:50:31,639
Speaker 3: I look at a banger or now, I mean, if

982
00:50:31,639 --> 00:50:33,320
I'm just a beer at home, or if I'm out

983
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,239
trying to get you into your drawers, then I'm going

984
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,159
to load you up on shots and guinnis. I'm gonna

985
00:50:37,199 --> 00:50:38,800
take you home and probably a bloody marry in the

986
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:39,639
morning because.

987
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 1: You're so fait.

988
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 3: I enroll you out at that.

989
00:50:41,159 --> 00:50:44,199
Speaker 1: Explain it to my son. So what do you want, doc?

990
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,880
So he said, So I go, yeah, that sounds good,

991
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,719
and then I start going to my head. Shit, when

992
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,519
Jimmy Fallon was in town, I drank twenty twenty six

993
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:58,320
according to that math. Fucking unbelievable. All right, we will uh,

994
00:50:58,559 --> 00:50:59,320
we'll take a moment.

995
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,559
Speaker 3: So what was your final answer for what for drinking?

996
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,880
When I stayed with the three to three beers and

997
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,880
two doctor, Yes, you're not.

998
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: Supposed to You're just You're supposed to be honest. I

999
00:51:12,039 --> 00:51:15,679
have a good report and talking it's all about trust.

1000
00:51:16,519 --> 00:51:18,079
Speaker 3: And then you go in the next time, and you're like,

1001
00:51:18,119 --> 00:51:21,920
my god, you're I'm sorry, Bill, mister ran your test

1002
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,159
came back in your liver and just you.

1003
00:51:24,159 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 1: Told me only in three or four a week. This

1004
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,679
looks like you've been drinking a case of beer and

1005
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,480
meat for the past thirty years. Like, wait a minute,

1006
00:51:31,519 --> 00:51:35,159
did I tell you that? And oh? I thought you've

1007
00:51:35,159 --> 00:51:38,599
been five or six cases a week. I didn't. All right,

1008
00:51:38,639 --> 00:51:45,320
we'll take a moment, loneliness, loneliness, do you bring this

1009
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:50,280
up for real? I don't know. I just happened to

1010
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,760
read this article, okay, and you thought of me. I

1011
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:54,719
did not. Oh good, I did not, but I thought

1012
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:58,719
would be an interesting discussion with you. Okay, we'll get

1013
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,840
to that right after this. After this. If the new

1014
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,440
year has you saying I did not sign up for

1015
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,559
this like a worker's comp case, social security disability, or

1016
00:52:08,639 --> 00:52:12,119
a personal injury claim, don't try to google lawyer your

1017
00:52:12,159 --> 00:52:15,639
way through it. Go to Connors and Ferris. They have

1018
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:19,000
offices in Buffalo, New York City, Syracuse, and Rochester, and

1019
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:23,599
they'll get back to you within twenty four hours. Yeah.

1020
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,920
So even when you're stress scrolling at two am, you

1021
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,360
can call two six to two comp tell them a

1022
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,239
little bit about what's going on in your life, and

1023
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:34,239
within twenty four hours one of their attorneys will get

1024
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,960
back to you. You'll talk to real lawyers who will

1025
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:41,719
explain things in plain English, not legal mumbo jumbo. Workers,

1026
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:47,719
comp social security, disability, personal injury complicated. Absolutely something you

1027
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:53,400
should handle alone. Nope, Connors and Ferris experienced, responsive and

1028
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:56,559
committed to serving you. Better call two six' to two

1029
00:52:56,679 --> 00:53:00,360
comp helps available right now.

1030
00:53:06,159 --> 00:53:10,639
Speaker 3: In the house route number three here At meadowville And

1031
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:12,559
meadowville In, Penfield.

1032
00:53:12,559 --> 00:53:16,039
Speaker 1: Pittsford where what a? FUCK i don't even? KNOW i

1033
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,920
agree HOW i feel like WHEN i go to The West,

1034
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,239
SIDE i don't, KNOW i don't know my way around out,

1035
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,559
there and it has nothing to do is just. FAMILIARITY

1036
00:53:23,639 --> 00:53:25,639
i went To Saint John fisher AND I i'm not from,

1037
00:53:25,679 --> 00:53:27,039
here so i just stayed on this side of the,

1038
00:53:27,199 --> 00:53:33,039
absolutely And i'm always GLAD i. Did, yeah just fucking with. You,

1039
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,760
uh what were you gonna say you had a? THOUGHT

1040
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:38,559
i saw a. THOUGHT i don't know there was.

1041
00:53:38,559 --> 00:53:41,639
Speaker 3: A, thought but, well people getting out trying new restaurants

1042
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,159
things like, that they're a little more familiar. Me i'm

1043
00:53:44,199 --> 00:53:46,599
just Maybe i'm more familiar BECAUSE i uber all the.

1044
00:53:46,639 --> 00:53:49,639
Speaker 1: Time, yes, yeah, yeah and mostly on The west side or, no,

1045
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:51,840
anywhere anywhere and. Everywhere that's.

1046
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,039
Speaker 3: True that one TIME i left, HERE i picked up

1047
00:53:54,079 --> 00:53:55,679
a ride and we went all the way to uh

1048
00:53:56,079 --> 00:53:58,440
Senecon Agara. CASINO i told you about, that, Right.

1049
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:03,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, ah nice a little. Ride, yeah nice, day nice.

1050
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:08,000
Day there you, go we. TALKED i wanted to talk about.

1051
00:54:08,079 --> 00:54:13,199
LONELINESS i saw an Article don't make fun Of. ME

1052
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:19,320
i saw an article In Psychology, today and it talked

1053
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:20,679
about a.

1054
00:54:20,559 --> 00:54:24,079
Speaker 3: Magazine Called Psychology. Today, yeah, okay, yeah there. Is it

1055
00:54:24,199 --> 00:54:26,559
used to be a magazine for. Everything, yes, yes.

1056
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:29,039
Speaker 1: Things are mostly online, now but they've been around for,

1057
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:34,000
PROBABLY i don't, know fifty years. Six and the article

1058
00:54:34,079 --> 00:54:39,880
argues that lonely fred pinup girl in a straight. Jacket,

1059
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:48,280
no it's just sorry that loneliness is a lot of

1060
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:52,199
TIMES i think that people say it maybe even diagnosed

1061
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:57,639
as an individual. Failure go join a, gym start going

1062
00:54:57,679 --> 00:55:02,280
to the, church download right the game visual. Failure, WELL

1063
00:55:02,519 --> 00:55:04,840
i think that's how it's. Diagnosed i'm not saying that

1064
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,320
that's what, really that's not what it. Is and this,

1065
00:55:07,519 --> 00:55:10,599
article by the, way argues against. That the article, says

1066
00:55:10,679 --> 00:55:14,440
that's not. True but you, know download a friend, napp

1067
00:55:14,519 --> 00:55:18,639
go to, therapy try. Harder and this person, writes but

1068
00:55:18,679 --> 00:55:22,559
what if loneliness isn't about personal effort at? All because

1069
00:55:22,639 --> 00:55:25,519
AND i didn't know, this THE Us Surgeon general has

1070
00:55:25,599 --> 00:55:30,119
labeled loneliness a public health. Crisis NOW i can just

1071
00:55:30,159 --> 00:55:33,039
tell you just in terms of it sounds ridiculous right

1072
00:55:33,519 --> 00:55:36,719
a little. BIT i swear To, god my mom is

1073
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:41,360
thriving because she has a strong social. Network she's out

1074
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:45,239
doing things all the. Time she's preparing to teach classes

1075
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:48,159
At Bard college in the. Fall she's got some other.

1076
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,239
Groups she's part of some meditation. Things she's, like she

1077
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:55,960
has a coffee. Group my dad fucking did. NOTHING i

1078
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,639
went to visit him In jersey when he was living down,

1079
00:55:58,639 --> 00:56:03,599
there And, doug we did. Nothing we went to the

1080
00:56:03,679 --> 00:56:06,360
diner three times. Today that was the big, outing like.

1081
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:10,199
Nothing and this was just at the no onset Of

1082
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,960
parkinson's for, Him like he you, know there was still the,

1083
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,480
ability but he was doing. Nothing AND i, Go, wow

1084
00:56:16,559 --> 00:56:19,280
what a. Difference, Yes so that's WHAT i get to,

1085
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:21,760
That AND i think that's why THE Us Surgeon general is, saying,

1086
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,280
yeah it is A i didn't realize it was a

1087
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,920
public health. Crisis but chronic loneliness is linked to, depression heart,

1088
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:32,719
disease and increase. Mortality but most most of the stuff

1089
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:36,159
focuses on the, individual as you just need to get

1090
00:56:36,199 --> 00:56:39,840
better social. Skills and this, person who is a train,

1091
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:42,840
sect he goes that ain't fucking. It that's not the.

1092
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:46,599
Answer and here's the. Thing she started to write an

1093
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,960
article on STUDYING bdsm.

1094
00:56:49,199 --> 00:56:55,599
Speaker 3: GROUPS, BDMS. Bdsm what do you, ever what's like a

1095
00:56:55,679 --> 00:57:02,159
barber shop quartet where you get together and you, say, Oh, madarlin,

1096
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:06,440
no Madarl. In the spaks harder.

1097
00:57:06,599 --> 00:57:11,639
Speaker 1: Bonding, bondage, discipline, sadism and.

1098
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 3: Masochism, yes, yes my ex girlfriend was IN s AND.

1099
00:57:14,599 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: Ms, Okay so this, woman this woman writes that she

1100
00:57:22,519 --> 00:57:27,440
found something, surprising not just the sex, culture but, structured

1101
00:57:28,079 --> 00:57:34,760
recurring face to face interaction and not even like of

1102
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:40,320
a sexual. Nature she, said these people were actually making

1103
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:47,320
lasting relationships in this offshoot kink group that was helping.

1104
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,360
Them and she said to the point where if people

1105
00:57:50,519 --> 00:57:54,519
had mechanical, problems someone from the group could was helping,

1106
00:57:54,559 --> 00:57:59,519
them making job, suggestions loaning, money just having a, network

1107
00:58:00,119 --> 00:58:02,679
just having a, network you, know AND i think of that.

1108
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,920
OFTEN i, go you got to kind of have a

1109
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,199
network of. People you need to be active in the

1110
00:58:07,199 --> 00:58:10,800
network of friends and things like. That you, know it's

1111
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:13,960
a it's a reciprocal. Thing but how do you make.

1112
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,880
Friends you make friends by, well just think about, this

1113
00:58:17,079 --> 00:58:20,159
the people who have come even as an. Adult let's

1114
00:58:20,159 --> 00:58:23,239
say it's somebody that you see every week when you're, bartending,

1115
00:58:23,519 --> 00:58:25,840
right and you just it's and it's a it's a

1116
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:29,920
guy about your, age maybe, divorced single themselves, like and

1117
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,760
you guys start, talking and the more you, talk the

1118
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,360
more he starts to reveal about, himself and then you

1119
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,000
start revealing things about. Yourself and that's how you make

1120
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:40,599
a fucking. Friend AND i, go and this person's, saying

1121
00:58:41,239 --> 00:58:44,000
there isn't that? Anymore AND i have said for a

1122
00:58:44,199 --> 00:58:47,480
fucking long time on this podcast now THAT i think

1123
00:58:47,519 --> 00:58:50,280
one of the worst things about the pandemic was work

1124
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:54,519
from home only because is it more? Convenient fuck, yeah

1125
00:58:54,639 --> 00:58:57,480
does it save you maybe some, money probably because you're not,

1126
00:58:57,559 --> 00:59:00,360
driving you, know every. Day but what do you make out?

1127
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,119
On you miss out on, friendships you miss out on,

1128
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,159
Mentors you may even miss out on romantic relationships that

1129
00:59:06,239 --> 00:59:08,679
sometimes come out of, work but not. Always but at

1130
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:10,679
least those other two you know WHAT i. Mean and

1131
00:59:10,719 --> 00:59:12,719
how many people have you worked with over the years

1132
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,119
that you no longer work with but you're still friends? With?

1133
00:59:16,119 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 3: Um that WOULD i have to think. About, actually my first,

1134
00:59:20,039 --> 00:59:24,400
Manager Kenny, Shoes Kirk. Condana, YEAH i just called him

1135
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,840
on the way. Here, yeah that'll be off work the

1136
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:28,719
next few, days come over and help me with the.

1137
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:32,679
House but that's been nineteen eighty, eight so that's coming

1138
00:59:32,719 --> 00:59:34,280
in almost forty years and three.

1139
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: Years, yeah and that started as a work.

1140
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 3: Relationship, yes that's that's the largest. One But i'll tell you.

1141
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,079
THIS i Think i've sold this. Before there was a

1142
00:59:42,079 --> 00:59:44,880
bus trip WHEN i was working wind, jammers and they

1143
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,519
all came back in the bus and somebody left this

1144
00:59:46,599 --> 00:59:49,639
big rush and babushka furry, hat AND i put it

1145
00:59:49,679 --> 00:59:51,800
on my head AND i started Doing Rodney dangerfield in.

1146
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:55,800
RUSH i, know, ife she's on me every TIME i

1147
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,119
come home, better it says.

1148
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:57,519
Speaker 1: Quick out the.

1149
00:59:57,519 --> 01:00:02,719
Speaker 3: Window So, mark the guy that just got, married is

1150
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:07,000
listening and laughing his ass, off and we started hanging.

1151
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:09,039
Out he, goes, dude he, goes you just sound just

1152
01:00:09,159 --> 01:00:11,119
like my. Grandparents let's have, it you, know drinking a

1153
01:00:11,119 --> 01:00:13,199
couple of days going over, here AND i mean just

1154
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,320
instantly bonded like, that and we got to know each.

1155
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,440
Other and he, goes you, KNOW i didn't know how

1156
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:19,599
to take. You sometimes you're, this sometimes you're, that and

1157
01:00:19,599 --> 01:00:21,239
then getting to know me is LIKE i get it,

1158
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:23,280
now especially working.

1159
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 1: There.

1160
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, so AND i was telling that story at the

1161
01:00:27,039 --> 01:00:30,519
Wedding turks And. CAICOS i, go that hat was a game.

1162
01:00:30,599 --> 01:00:33,679
Changer sure if that hat wasn't, HERE i, mean ten years,

1163
01:00:33,719 --> 01:00:37,159
Later i'm at his wedding on this beautiful beach with all.

1164
01:00:37,039 --> 01:00:40,079
Speaker 1: These beautiful butt and also that's the beauty of. Life

1165
01:00:40,159 --> 01:00:42,400
but the other thing is if had you not built

1166
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:46,480
and had the confidence to build the breast cancer, thing

1167
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:49,360
that wouldn't happened, either, right, Right so that was the

1168
01:00:49,519 --> 01:00:52,559
opportunity to be face to face with People you've built

1169
01:00:52,599 --> 01:00:55,639
a community that supports your efforts to do. That, yes

1170
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:57,719
that's how you make. Friendships And i'm not trying to

1171
01:00:57,719 --> 01:00:59,960
get all preachy and see, it BUT i was shocked

1172
01:01:00,039 --> 01:01:02,599
at THE Us Surgeon general, goes it's a health it's

1173
01:01:02,599 --> 01:01:03,280
a chronic health.

1174
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:06,599
Speaker 3: Problem, WELL I i don't LIKE i get, emotional but

1175
01:01:06,719 --> 01:01:08,480
you know my MOM i always you, know you have some,

1176
01:01:08,519 --> 01:01:10,320
friends you can go out for. Lunches she never want

1177
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,679
to do, them LIKE i gotta get out and they

1178
01:01:12,719 --> 01:01:14,960
do because it does a little bit once a, month,

1179
01:01:15,159 --> 01:01:18,960
yes but she never watched she wants WATCH, tv smoking at,

1180
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:23,639
home the dog there and just, yeah so and that's you,

1181
01:01:23,679 --> 01:01:25,280
know some people don't like to go, out some people

1182
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,639
don't want to interact. Them you, know it's, just, yeah

1183
01:01:28,239 --> 01:01:31,880
not everybody can be like. Me, obviously somewhere on that you,

1184
01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:34,920
know somebody that's miserable all the time compared to me

1185
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,679
THAT i would think mostly happy all the, time ALTHOUGH

1186
01:01:37,679 --> 01:01:40,079
i had my, moments but you, know telling, jokes there's

1187
01:01:40,079 --> 01:01:42,960
a somewhere in between that you can find your. Happiness

1188
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:44,719
and you know it's not going to. Bars you can

1189
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:46,360
go to A Red wing game by, yourself an amag

1190
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,400
game by, yourself go to movies by, yourself, right you,

1191
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:50,159
know just even to get out, there just to see other.

1192
01:01:50,239 --> 01:01:52,400
PEOPLE a lot of times when you're in the, LIBRARY i,

1193
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,039
mean just think about take a ride In Niagara, falls

1194
01:01:55,079 --> 01:02:00,639
go to the. Casino you, know just new, restaurants lunch, places, coffee.

1195
01:02:00,639 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 1: Shop you, KNOW i used, TO i mean used to

1196
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:04,840
make fun of like, bowling leagues and. Things AND i always,

1197
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:06,679
go it's the only sport that you can get better

1198
01:02:06,719 --> 01:02:09,400
at while eating nachos and drinking. Beer you know WHAT i.

1199
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:12,440
Mean it's, like it's the only as a lot of,

1200
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:14,559
fun a lot of, fun a lot of, friendships a

1201
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:17,719
lot of, connection made you feel, good you looked forward to.

1202
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:21,599
Speaker 3: Something, yes right now we've Replaced, FINALLY i can't do this.

1203
01:02:21,599 --> 01:02:24,440
Anymore i'm getting too drunk every.

1204
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: Week, okay but what? Happened don't? Drink i'm, like, well

1205
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:31,280
why WOULD i? Bowl? Yeah the? Reason but it was,

1206
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:33,719
Fun yes it, WAS i got. It and that's that's

1207
01:02:33,719 --> 01:02:36,159
What i'm. Saying we've replaced that with scrolling on our fucking,

1208
01:02:36,199 --> 01:02:40,360
phone looking at ship that we can't, achieve jealous of somebody,

1209
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:42,840
else making up conversations in our. Head AND i, go,

1210
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:47,320
YEAH i fucking get. This AND i think it's a bigger. Problem.

1211
01:02:47,519 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 3: UH i, MEAN i think the scrolling on the phone

1212
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:54,280
And facebook and instagramming is it's. Step it's not. Terrible, no,

1213
01:02:54,559 --> 01:02:57,920
well yes and. No there's pros and cons. Everything so

1214
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,320
if you post something as somebody likes you so buty's

1215
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:03,159
in your circle, now so somebody's noticing me even just

1216
01:03:03,159 --> 01:03:06,119
to like that you're not home all, alone, right you

1217
01:03:06,119 --> 01:03:08,199
know WHAT i? Mean SO i, mean, yes IF i post, something,

1218
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:09,320
WELL i THINK i might.

1219
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: Might get more.

1220
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:11,519
Speaker 3: Likes but there's a few people THAT i knew were

1221
01:03:11,559 --> 01:03:14,559
bitching and being not. Sneaky But i'm, like, YEAH i,

1222
01:03:14,639 --> 01:03:17,840
mean look at this and they have a dozen posts

1223
01:03:18,239 --> 01:03:20,719
and nobody's liking them or they have one thumbs, up

1224
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,159
And i'm, like that's so. Sad what is this person to?

1225
01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:27,320
Wonder they're so miserable and. Sad guys from working in

1226
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:29,519
the in the, bars and you wonder about people and you're,

1227
01:03:29,559 --> 01:03:30,679
like because people are.

1228
01:03:30,599 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 1: Like what is her? Story i'm, LIKE i don't think

1229
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:34,559
you want to know, that or you, know what's his?

1230
01:03:34,599 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 3: Story i'm, like you, KNOW i don't really want to

1231
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,519
say that to them BECAUSE i don't know them that.

1232
01:03:39,639 --> 01:03:41,039
Speaker 1: Well you know WHAT i.

1233
01:03:41,079 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 3: Mean they might want to hit on them or have

1234
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:43,239
a drink with.

1235
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: Them what do you?

1236
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:47,079
Speaker 3: Think i'm, LIKE i don't don't take it from, me you,

1237
01:03:47,119 --> 01:03:49,679
Know i'll find out for myself and Then i'll relay

1238
01:03:49,719 --> 01:03:52,400
it to. You and the closer you're, IN i, mean

1239
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:54,559
If i'm out with a stranger or somebody asks me

1240
01:03:54,599 --> 01:03:57,960
about SOMEBODY i don't, know but if you ask me

1241
01:03:58,199 --> 01:04:01,559
because we're a, friend and be like fucking, nuts don't

1242
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:04,519
don't even don't even, engage don't even look over because

1243
01:04:04,719 --> 01:04:04,960
it's a.

1244
01:04:05,039 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: Nightmare, right they're gonna latch on and, yeah, Yeah BUT

1245
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:11,639
i want you to also think about. This, People this

1246
01:04:11,679 --> 01:04:13,159
is And i'm very. Important let, me let me just

1247
01:04:13,199 --> 01:04:18,000
look at the camera. Here this, this this is such

1248
01:04:18,039 --> 01:04:20,840
a crisis that THE Us, JOURNAL Us search And general

1249
01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:25,000
has come out to talk about. It and loneliness increases your.

1250
01:04:25,039 --> 01:04:28,719
Mortality SO i want you to remember this annoying motherfucker

1251
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:33,000
at work that has talked NonStop about his fantasy football

1252
01:04:33,079 --> 01:04:39,400
league has kept you, alive you lonely Fuck when we

1253
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:41,199
go off, There i'm gonna show you SOMETHING i got last.

1254
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:47,280
Speaker 3: Night oh, YEAH i can't put it on air. Bend that's, loneliness,

1255
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:47,880
right it's.

1256
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 1: TOUGH i, mean Well i'm seeing, that AND i don't

1257
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:55,079
even mean to make like light of. It but we

1258
01:04:55,159 --> 01:04:58,880
optimize convenience because of the pandemic and things, now but

1259
01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:04,800
we've lost. That you're avoiding, traffic but you're also avoiding hallway,

1260
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:08,440
conversations people not going out for the first. TIME i

1261
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:13,320
think in maybe, ever the liquor industry is taking a

1262
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:17,280
percentage hit in terms of people not buying or. Selling

1263
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,960
not Just i'm not even just saying, Bars. DOUG i,

1264
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,440
mean like the.

1265
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 3: They have reasons for that that the younger crowds are

1266
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:27,079
doing gummies or edibles AND i don't have to go

1267
01:05:27,079 --> 01:05:29,679
to a. BAR i can just pop this and sit

1268
01:05:29,719 --> 01:05:32,559
at home and be numb or high for two hours

1269
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:33,079
and not.

1270
01:05:33,239 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 1: Drink but that's that's where there are liquor.

1271
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 3: Companies somebody Said Jim beam's going under because of all the,

1272
01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:42,280
tariffs and they're not coming in A us. Anymore i'm, like,

1273
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:46,719
WELL i just saw this. Report there's seven thousand whiskey

1274
01:05:47,119 --> 01:05:50,079
companies and at the bar you're selling the same. Seven

1275
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,840
that's why somewhere going. Under they're not trying as.

1276
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:54,079
Speaker 1: Much.

1277
01:05:54,119 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 3: Now you go to bigger cities Like miami And, atlanta

1278
01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:59,800
they have tequila, bars bourbon, bars and there are a

1279
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:02,239
few people that come in and try different, Bourbons but

1280
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:06,639
we only have six or, Seven so where are the

1281
01:06:06,679 --> 01:06:10,960
other seven thousand, selling you, know across the. Nation and

1282
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:12,920
then if you don't sell you get a fold.

1283
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 1: Up it's, right but we. DON'T i think a lot of,

1284
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:19,039
times and even my.

1285
01:06:19,199 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 3: Drinking i'm, sorry BUT i mean the older people used

1286
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:23,119
to go out for a happy hour after work and

1287
01:06:23,119 --> 01:06:26,559
then go. Home that's. Dwindled that's. Gone you know the

1288
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:30,599
day Before thanksgiving where everybody went out and partied because

1289
01:06:30,639 --> 01:06:33,039
they got everybody's got the day off, after that's gone

1290
01:06:33,119 --> 01:06:35,760
down That it was used to. Be The friday Before

1291
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:40,119
christmas was a top four day to, drink but that's

1292
01:06:40,119 --> 01:06:42,360
when everybody get Their christmas bonus and we go spend

1293
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:45,119
a little, bit drink and then go. Home that's. Gone

1294
01:06:45,519 --> 01:06:49,119
there's no More kodak. Bonuses, well stuff like that are big, companies.

1295
01:06:49,159 --> 01:06:51,639
Speaker 1: Factories AND i understand it, too BECAUSE i think another

1296
01:06:51,679 --> 01:06:55,400
factor in there that we're not really addressing is the

1297
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:58,960
loss right for drinking and. Driving they've gotten much stricter

1298
01:06:59,039 --> 01:07:02,800
over the years and much more, expensive and so maybe

1299
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:05,400
so absolutely. So, Yeah so maybe some people have gone,

1300
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:08,599
like WELL i can't go. Here here would be my b. Uber,

1301
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:10,199
yes one hundred per.

1302
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 3: And that's a save if even forty dollars their way

1303
01:07:15,519 --> 01:07:18,119
six grand on the, lawyer it is six you're talking

1304
01:07:18,239 --> 01:07:20,960
ten to twelve. Minimum, yeah and then getting this thing

1305
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:22,920
in your car you have to blow into every, time.

1306
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:23,679
Speaker 1: Right and you got to pay for.

1307
01:07:23,679 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 3: That you got to pay for that and your classes

1308
01:07:25,719 --> 01:07:27,800
and to go through the tests all over.

1309
01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 1: Again. YEAH i thought the whole thing Was i've gone

1310
01:07:30,199 --> 01:07:32,840
not me, personally BUT i have been through it with

1311
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:36,079
someone and, UH i, KNOW i just know what the lawyer,

1312
01:07:36,119 --> 01:07:38,559
costs and then all the additional things have. Right BUT

1313
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:43,320
i would say on the other, side there's also lots

1314
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:46,480
of studies that come out now that, say, uh drinking

1315
01:07:46,639 --> 01:07:49,480
is you, know so? Bad and even just one and

1316
01:07:49,519 --> 01:07:51,119
it leads to cancer and. All there's a lot of.

1317
01:07:51,159 --> 01:07:53,239
Studies there's a lot of. Things and by the, way

1318
01:07:53,559 --> 01:07:56,000
whether these studies are legit or, NOT i haven't looked into,

1319
01:07:56,039 --> 01:07:59,599
them BUT i hear people saying them on social, media

1320
01:07:59,679 --> 01:08:02,559
where most of us are getting our information and not

1321
01:08:02,679 --> 01:08:05,119
double checking. It just like the doctor that was given

1322
01:08:05,119 --> 01:08:08,079
the stretch test because he's got a lab, coat like we, go,

1323
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:11,360
OH i don't fucking. Know maybe he's. Right my point

1324
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:13,679
is kind of questioned these, things and even if it,

1325
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:16,840
is you know, what young, people your fucking liver's, fine

1326
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:20,520
go out and meet and talk and don't do. This

1327
01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:24,920
and because it was all third party places where you

1328
01:08:25,039 --> 01:08:29,760
met and made, friends, bowling, leaks, hobbies, churches, right all

1329
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,279
those things are. Down why are churches? Down, well probably

1330
01:08:32,319 --> 01:08:35,560
because The Catholic church did a wonderful job of pr

1331
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:38,560
on how they just fucked over, everybody, Right and SO

1332
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:40,880
i think a lot of people were turned off by. That,

1333
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,720
Absolutely And i'm not just saying The Catholic. CHURCH i

1334
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:48,079
think churches in, general every faith is. Down but you

1335
01:08:48,079 --> 01:08:50,880
could still go and meet people, there and those are

1336
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:51,439
the things THAT i.

1337
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,479
Speaker 3: Think, WELL i think one of the things, is well

1338
01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:55,840
the pedophiles or whatever you hear the story is taking

1339
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:59,560
my kid there and then your parents make you go

1340
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,079
there for twenty, years and then you get out of the.

1341
01:09:02,119 --> 01:09:04,520
House you're, Like i'm not going to, church and there's

1342
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:06,359
so much to the point you don't want to keep doing.

1343
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,560
Speaker 1: It, YEAH I i did this for twenty. Years i'm.

1344
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 3: Good, no my parents made, me, yes you, know and

1345
01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:12,600
that's the thing they made.

1346
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:15,359
Speaker 1: Me But i'll tell you, what like, dude going back

1347
01:09:15,399 --> 01:09:20,039
to school right for grad school and being one of the,

1348
01:09:20,199 --> 01:09:24,039
oldest if not now the, Oldest i'm not. Sure in

1349
01:09:24,079 --> 01:09:29,920
there has been a spank in your. Erasers, NO i told,

1350
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:33,479
YOU i told you off how hard this has been for,

1351
01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:35,720
me not, academically but just.

1352
01:09:36,359 --> 01:09:40,520
Speaker 3: Learning, yes it's not even the, learning, duggets it's going Through,

1353
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:41,239
no it's.

1354
01:09:41,199 --> 01:09:46,680
Speaker 1: Learning how how what went? On? Right AND i wait

1355
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:49,800
for it went trauma and all that, stuff and how

1356
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:54,039
you carried it forward and the damage that you did

1357
01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:58,359
to the people that you brought to the. Planet it's

1358
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,920
like it HAD. I i had to just like back

1359
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:04,800
away for a brief minute and then, go oh, God

1360
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:06,760
i'm fucking losing. HERE i got to get back in the,

1361
01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:08,319
race you know WHAT i? Mean BECAUSE i was falling

1362
01:10:08,319 --> 01:10:10,520
behind on. Stuff and it wasn't LIKE i. WAS i

1363
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:12,439
was still going to the classes and, things but, man

1364
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:17,920
it fucked me. Up AND i think, that but just

1365
01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:20,840
being around other people that are also in the same,

1366
01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:24,479
boat realizing it's a shared human. Experience whatever you're, in

1367
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:28,079
everybody's sort of feeling the same. Way and just BECAUSE

1368
01:10:28,159 --> 01:10:30,680
i think in my life and probably yours as, well

1369
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:34,960
you always like the, message whether it was really worded

1370
01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:37,319
this way or, not was everybody's got. Problems no one

1371
01:10:37,319 --> 01:10:40,119
who wants to hear. Yours so you put on a

1372
01:10:40,159 --> 01:10:42,439
face and you just go about your life and people,

1373
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:44,840
say how are you going? Great we're, fine you, know,

1374
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:48,039
hey how's it going? Good and you don't say, anything And.

1375
01:10:48,039 --> 01:10:51,520
Speaker 3: I'll say something of the right, person, right but also

1376
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,159
having a good, Listener like some people just start spewing

1377
01:10:54,159 --> 01:10:56,439
stuff on me AND i don't say, anything LIKE i

1378
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,439
can't believe you're listening like. It sometimes you just need

1379
01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:04,039
a good. LISTENER i get. It, Yeah i'm not changing your, world,

1380
01:11:04,239 --> 01:11:05,560
no you, Know i'm. NOT i don't have all the.

1381
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:07,079
Answers you just got to release a.

1382
01:11:07,239 --> 01:11:11,600
Speaker 1: Steam yes you, do because, otherwise, yeah you can. Explode

1383
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:14,479
you got, It AND i JUST i don't. Know i'm,

1384
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:20,680
like you, know we we say things like the new

1385
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,720
term that is often uses self, care self, care take

1386
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:25,960
care of, yourself go to the, gym do these. Things

1387
01:11:26,159 --> 01:11:30,439
i've heard, them but well it might help you cope with.

1388
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:34,399
Things but it's the infrastructure of a third party. Place

1389
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,039
it doesn't have to be a. Bar it could be

1390
01:11:37,359 --> 01:11:41,199
a club or. Hobby there. Is but here's the weird

1391
01:11:41,199 --> 01:11:43,880
part is like a lot of these things are just

1392
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:46,479
sort of, online and we're a little turned off by

1393
01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:50,199
your haircut. Online that's a perfect. Place, yeah you. Know,

1394
01:11:50,399 --> 01:11:53,239
hey good, point, dude really good. Point i'm just saying

1395
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:54,640
THAT i think that there's.

1396
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:57,800
Speaker 3: Options and if it drops you to use those options or,

1397
01:11:57,800 --> 01:12:00,920
not you. Know and it's the same way with losing,

1398
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:03,920
weight quit, smoking quit drinking if you want, to you,

1399
01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:06,520
know go on vacation if you want to stop gambling

1400
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:09,439
and do something, different. RIGHT i MEAN i was down

1401
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:11,399
there AND i do gamble a, lot And i'm, like,

1402
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,640
Gosh i'm wasting WHAT i could go to a cruise

1403
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:17,359
or something so some new you, know just to get

1404
01:12:17,359 --> 01:12:18,039
out even by.

1405
01:12:18,079 --> 01:12:21,159
Speaker 1: Myself do they still do things like singles?

1406
01:12:21,199 --> 01:12:24,479
Speaker 3: CRUISES i think, so But i've heard it's a sausage.

1407
01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:26,560
Fester it's all guys or you, KNOW i don't know

1408
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:27,279
if they even it.

1409
01:12:27,279 --> 01:12:33,159
Speaker 1: Out, Yeah but what about Like i'm hearing like there's

1410
01:12:33,199 --> 01:12:36,600
more singles outings because people are sick of even like

1411
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:40,399
the online, dating because you're kind of fishing from the same.

1412
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:42,720
Pool and by, THAT i mean you see the same

1413
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:46,039
pictures on all of. Them, well here's What i'm exactly

1414
01:12:46,159 --> 01:12:49,359
because Those i'm not saying that there are more single

1415
01:12:49,399 --> 01:12:52,319
people out. There those are the brave ones to put

1416
01:12:52,359 --> 01:12:55,199
themselves out. There it takes some moxie to do. THAT

1417
01:12:55,359 --> 01:12:59,119
i THINK i really, do because you face rejection and. Judgment,

1418
01:12:59,359 --> 01:13:02,920
yeah and it's not even fun, no, right just that feeling,

1419
01:13:03,239 --> 01:13:05,600
it just in terms Of i'm putting. IT i, go

1420
01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:08,159
that's not even that's a little fucked. Up SO i

1421
01:13:08,199 --> 01:13:10,199
think they're starting to do things where you get to

1422
01:13:10,199 --> 01:13:10,920
actually talk with.

1423
01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:13,560
Speaker 3: People i'll tell you somebody liked me on one of

1424
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:15,760
the dating sites this within the last two. WEEKS i

1425
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,359
saw Your. Robbies you're really. FUNNY i, go thanks a.

1426
01:13:18,399 --> 01:13:20,520
LOT i, go at least we're past the point WHETHER

1427
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:21,640
i have a good sense of humor or.

1428
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 1: Not.

1429
01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,079
Speaker 3: Right she's, like, yeah you're absolutely. Right i'm, like, Well

1430
01:13:24,319 --> 01:13:28,279
i'm going to this. Wedding oh, bah let's talk when

1431
01:13:28,279 --> 01:13:31,319
we get. Back she, Goes i'm, leaving and, UH i

1432
01:13:31,359 --> 01:13:34,640
THINK i text her from the airport or on the,

1433
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:36,880
app LIKE i, said, Hey i'm having a great. Time

1434
01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,359
i'm going back To.

1435
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:39,560
Speaker 1: Rochester i'm just stuck at the.

1436
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:41,279
Speaker 3: AIRPORT i hope you're having a good time, too and

1437
01:13:41,319 --> 01:13:45,760
then she deleted me for whatever. Reason i'm, like you,

1438
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:47,920
Know i'm. Funny you THOUGHT i was. Cute you reached

1439
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:48,159
out to.

1440
01:13:48,199 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 1: Me maybe she went out with somebody and, goes, oh,

1441
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:54,600
YEAH i mean. IT i like. That, well that's got

1442
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:57,600
to feel like it's a you, thing, absolutely BUT i

1443
01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:00,279
don't think it. Is and you gotta you got WAS

1444
01:14:00,279 --> 01:14:03,039
i supposed to wait TILL i got? Back it's, hard?

1445
01:14:03,119 --> 01:14:03,840
Right how do you do?

1446
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:06,800
Speaker 3: THAT i Don't the people complain that nobody communicates And

1447
01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:08,239
i'm trying to communicate and then you ghost.

1448
01:14:08,239 --> 01:14:15,560
Speaker 1: Me i'm, like, okay, yeah, uh you, know go out

1449
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:18,199
to the. Bars just go out to the. Bars why

1450
01:14:18,399 --> 01:14:20,319
go to the? Bars not. You i'm just, saying like

1451
01:14:20,359 --> 01:14:21,840
people in, general go out to the.

1452
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:24,199
Speaker 3: Bars the only bars that are hopping right now or

1453
01:14:24,319 --> 01:14:28,079
everything everybody. Knows fairport is booming with iron smoke and

1454
01:14:28,119 --> 01:14:30,359
all the places around, there and that's where all the

1455
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:32,199
young hot women. Are so if you want to go

1456
01:14:32,359 --> 01:14:33,319
people watching.

1457
01:14:33,279 --> 01:14:35,600
Speaker 1: And your liver's, fine your soul needs a fucking sponsor

1458
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:37,039
on not according to, you you lie to your.

1459
01:14:37,079 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 3: Doctor my lovers just asked my. Doctor it was the

1460
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:43,880
only drinks three times a.

1461
01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:46,600
Speaker 1: Year speaking of, comedy how did they go At? Robbie's

1462
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:48,359
it went, great Awesome.

1463
01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:49,640
Speaker 3: And actually my next one is going to be AND

1464
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:53,560
i THINK i can promote. This you can do fundraiser

1465
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,039
at let me get in.

1466
01:14:58,479 --> 01:14:59,039
Speaker 1: Page right.

1467
01:14:59,079 --> 01:15:01,760
Speaker 3: Here you should just pop Up. Yep The Comedy night

1468
01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:07,960
For michael AM i pronouncing that. Right banano sure looks

1469
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:11,800
Like banano the Third Fighting. Leukemia full night of comedy and.

1470
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:15,920
Music this Is march twenty. Eighth it's gonna be The

1471
01:15:16,239 --> 01:15:17,760
Italian American club On Buffalo.

1472
01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 1: Road oh that's a that's a nice space in. There

1473
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:22,359
i've been in there for it's.

1474
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:25,560
Speaker 3: Nice you can look at My i'm gonna post. This

1475
01:15:26,079 --> 01:15:31,039
i'll leave a share right, now good and says it's forty.

1476
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:31,399
Speaker 1: Five dollars to.

1477
01:15:31,399 --> 01:15:35,720
Speaker 3: Take you got six, comics including, Myself Joey, Bruno Ralph,

1478
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:41,279
Tetta Greg, Owens Vinnie, paulino D, Lo Dan, brown and

1479
01:15:41,319 --> 01:15:42,640
Myself Doug.

1480
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:44,520
Speaker 1: PHELPS i think you got. It that's a nice. CREW

1481
01:15:45,119 --> 01:15:45,600
i really do.

1482
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 3: Fifteen minutes everybody the FUN i did a little more

1483
01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:52,920
really funny. GROUP i did my act and THEN i

1484
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:55,239
ended with a couple old jokes and that went OVER

1485
01:15:55,239 --> 01:15:58,239
wehl For. Robbies SO i haven't NEW i heard a

1486
01:15:58,279 --> 01:16:00,239
new joke on THAT i had never heard. BEFORE i

1487
01:16:00,239 --> 01:16:04,479
want to tell you so this husband wife are struggling

1488
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:06,359
to pay the. BILLS i got no, Money so they

1489
01:16:06,359 --> 01:16:08,680
decide that the, woman the, wife is going to be a.

1490
01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:10,399
Prostitute she, GOES i don't know how to. Do you

1491
01:16:10,399 --> 01:16:12,760
know what DO i? Do, Well i'll drive, You i'll

1492
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:14,720
drop you outside the, bar And i'll hide around the

1493
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:16,439
corner and i'll just you, know take care of, you

1494
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:18,600
make sure everything goes. Right she, goes, well SHOULD i?

1495
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:21,359
Charge and he goes one hundred dollars. Away she, goes,

1496
01:16:21,399 --> 01:16:25,560
okay so he. Leaves this guy walks. Up he, goes

1497
01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:28,079
so he turned the. Tricks she, goes, yeah how much

1498
01:16:28,279 --> 01:16:30,720
one hundred. Dollars he, GOES i only got thirty. Dollars

1499
01:16:31,239 --> 01:16:32,800
i'll be right. Back so she goes around the, corner

1500
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:35,640
talks on you, know this guy's only got thirty, dollars

1501
01:16:36,239 --> 01:16:36,840
just give him a hand.

1502
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: Job, okay so she goes. Back she goes for thirty,

1503
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:40,720
Dollars i'll give you a hand. Job he goes.

1504
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:43,239
Speaker 3: Okay so they go in his car and he pulls

1505
01:16:43,279 --> 01:16:46,159
his dick out and it's the, biggest hugest cock she's ever,

1506
01:16:46,199 --> 01:16:50,560
seen and her eyes light. Up she, Goes i'll be right.

1507
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:53,439
Back so she goes back to her husband, says, hey

1508
01:16:53,640 --> 01:16:54,960
can you lend this guy seventy.

1509
01:16:55,000 --> 01:17:03,840
Speaker 1: Dollars, Oh Dougie, FRESH i think on that. One we'll

1510
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:05,640
take it out of, that all, right we'll take it

1511
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:07,199
out on. That it's good to see, it good to

1512
01:17:07,239 --> 01:17:09,840
see you're looking. Good, yes come, on baby.

1513
01:17:10,279 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 3: Rocking we're, rolling making things, happen making it life is

1514
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:13,479
a beautiful.

1515
01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:13,720
Speaker 1: Things.

1516
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:16,319
Speaker 3: Kids get out there and get some sunshine and you,

1517
01:17:16,319 --> 01:17:17,119
know make it happen.

1518
01:17:18,279 --> 01:17:22,680
Speaker 1: Things that's. Right, yeah and Find Dougie. Philips, yeah brighten your. Day.

1519
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:24,840
Absolutely I'm Bill. Moran we'll see you next.

1520
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:25,039
Speaker 3: Time