1 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: If you could be a bad bitch as a man, 2 00:00:15,359 --> 00:00:17,600 marry a rich woman and leave her for half her earnest, 3 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,920 would you say what you want to know? 4 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 2: What's crazy is I just saw a person the other 5 00:00:25,199 --> 00:00:27,800 day about like the top ten richest women, and I 6 00:00:27,839 --> 00:00:32,159 think only two of them were like built their wealth 7 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,079 on their own. Everything else was either handed down from 8 00:00:35,079 --> 00:00:37,240 a parent or it came from a divorce. 9 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:41,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, niggas is the only one trying to get it 10 00:00:41,399 --> 00:00:44,359 out the mud. Fuck that shit, bro. 11 00:00:44,439 --> 00:00:46,079 Speaker 2: I'm not going You're not getting half or nothing in 12 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:47,759 mind you tiging to prenup. 13 00:00:49,399 --> 00:00:52,719 Speaker 1: I feel I would feel comfortable with my wife getting. 14 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 2: Half, but that's if you would build your wife while 15 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:55,640 she's there. 16 00:00:55,679 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: If I meet you with you already successful. 17 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,759 Speaker 2: But you're not getting nothing when we go, I'll give 18 00:01:00,799 --> 00:01:03,000 you a like a severance package, like a job with 19 00:01:03,679 --> 00:01:08,519 here's three million, make it last. I'm not that's not 20 00:01:08,599 --> 00:01:11,200 my problem. You didn't have nothing. I don't listen. I 21 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,560 don't understand how man is obligated to take care of 22 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:15,599 a common adult. 23 00:01:15,799 --> 00:01:18,079 Speaker 1: And I still can't fuck you. 24 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 2: Right, And you could go get with a whole nother person, 25 00:01:20,159 --> 00:01:22,840 and if they don't make what I make brus. I'm listening, 26 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,000 I'll be in I'm not gonna be in jail because 27 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,599 I'm not gonna beat it because you're saying if you 28 00:01:26,599 --> 00:01:29,159 don't sign the prenup. It's just like Steven Jackson, his 29 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,799 wife to be at the time wouldn't sign the prenup 30 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:36,959 and they said he caught off the wedding. So that's 31 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,200 just my preference. Now, if you're there with me from 32 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,400 the start and we was broke together and I build 33 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,239 this wealth, even if I build it by myself, but 34 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,799 if you ride with me to that, yeah, you and 35 00:01:46,879 --> 00:01:48,519 you entitled because we struggled together. 36 00:01:48,599 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: So I like Jeff Bezos wife, I feel like, but 37 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:55,640 you created the lift style though, so I don't care. 38 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,719 Speaker 2: Listen, if I'm a billionaire millionaire and I meet you 39 00:01:58,799 --> 00:02:01,280 in the projects, I take you from that and bring 40 00:02:01,319 --> 00:02:04,040 you to me and we don't work out, go back. 41 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: But you can't go back after that and this ship? 42 00:02:07,359 --> 00:02:10,680 Why not that you should have tried harder. Now, try 43 00:02:10,719 --> 00:02:12,800 harder to make this ship work. What they're gonna do 44 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,719 is they're gonna try to find another nigga to match 45 00:02:14,759 --> 00:02:16,719 what you did, or go ahead and do that. But 46 00:02:16,759 --> 00:02:17,759 I don't I don't owe. 47 00:02:18,319 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: Nobody knows none of my funds except for the children 48 00:02:21,199 --> 00:02:22,840 that I have brought into this world. I am not 49 00:02:23,479 --> 00:02:27,960 paying no woman half of what I have learned, especially 50 00:02:28,039 --> 00:02:30,159 if I met you and I already had it. 51 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: Why do you feel I beg I could say that 52 00:02:32,599 --> 00:02:35,159 because our kids getting up there in age, so it's 53 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,759 like you can't go back. You can't be like I'm 54 00:02:37,759 --> 00:02:40,199 about to get some child support or something like that. Hell, 55 00:02:40,199 --> 00:02:43,680 the kids down their ground now, you know you on 56 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:48,879 back page? Listen, what's going on? Everybody? This is I 57 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,840 Create podcast and I'm the host today Deboy and Ship, 58 00:02:53,159 --> 00:02:57,120 so we're gonna call it I feel Create today philosophy 59 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:01,000 and I Create has merged like Team Mubble and Sprint. 60 00:03:01,319 --> 00:03:05,080 Let me put my phone on, Please put sid tell 61 00:03:05,159 --> 00:03:09,360 me nigga. Uh. I'm in here with my brothers, the 62 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,280 two people I've been talking to the most lately. And 63 00:03:11,319 --> 00:03:12,919 even though I talk to Perry every day, that just 64 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:14,800 goes to show you how much I talk to people. 65 00:03:16,039 --> 00:03:18,400 I'm in here with my boy, Perry, what's going on? 66 00:03:18,439 --> 00:03:20,680 My dog, Sir, yr Sir? What up? What up? And 67 00:03:20,759 --> 00:03:24,080 my boy why do they call you? DJ? Dwayne junr 68 00:03:26,319 --> 00:03:29,680 So Mike Haney not your real name? Yeah, my man, 69 00:03:29,759 --> 00:03:32,800 the name is Dwayne and I'm a junior. Oh, because 70 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,520 my wife be asking me that all the time. She's like, 71 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,319 why the fuck is the name DJ? But what's so 72 00:03:36,439 --> 00:03:39,120 crazy is if you know me, know me, you call 73 00:03:39,199 --> 00:03:42,319 me DJ. If you don't know me, know me, it's Michael. Oh, 74 00:03:42,639 --> 00:03:45,360 I call you both. Yeah, she was like, I need you. 75 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,639 She was like, I need you to pick a name. 76 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,240 I'm talking about different people. 77 00:03:49,879 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: For me, it depends on who I'm talking to. Like 78 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,159 the people that know him as Mike. To them, I'll 79 00:03:54,199 --> 00:03:56,759 call him mikeno him as DJ, I'll be like DJ, 80 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:58,280 because if I say the wrong one, they'd be like, 81 00:03:58,280 --> 00:03:59,439 who who like DJ? 82 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: Oh? I didn't know that was his name. I'm like, bitch, 83 00:04:02,719 --> 00:04:06,280 but yeah, pre nup shit. I was just thinking about 84 00:04:06,599 --> 00:04:12,879 Tyresee he's going through promix. He out here, and mind you, 85 00:04:14,639 --> 00:04:18,040 Tyree has been a part of our lives since niggas 86 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,879 sweet lady, you know what I'm saying, So since ninety eight, 87 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,600 ninety seven, ninety nine, he's been a part of our lives. 88 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:29,279 And to see that he really a loveybe nigga. He 89 00:04:29,399 --> 00:04:31,160 wants to be in love. He wants to be with 90 00:04:31,199 --> 00:04:33,959 a woman, he wants to be the family man, and 91 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,920 he just keeps picking the wrong hole. Bro he keeps 92 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,600 and most niggas that's like that, they always pick. They 93 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,800 they get hurt. They get hurt. 94 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,879 Speaker 2: Because the women can sense that vulnerability in them and 95 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,120 they feed that sleeve. 96 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, men do the same thing with 97 00:04:55,079 --> 00:04:58,560 women do the same thing. They turn into hobosexuals. I'm 98 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,000 gonna say everything that I need to say to live 99 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:02,720 with you. I'm gonna give you the right amount of dick, 100 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,920 I'm gonna eat the right amount of cooochie, and I'm 101 00:05:04,959 --> 00:05:06,560 gonna do it enough choices so I can live in 102 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,920 this motherfucker rent free until you realize that we ain't together. Still, 103 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,600 that's crazy. It's toxic as fuck. But I did it 104 00:05:13,639 --> 00:05:15,360 back in the day, and I had to reach out 105 00:05:15,399 --> 00:05:17,519 to Shorty and I had to apologize. Recently, I had 106 00:05:17,519 --> 00:05:24,240 to apologize, like, oh shit, even like just now that 107 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,839 I got daughters, and I had to realize that the 108 00:05:28,879 --> 00:05:31,480 way that they see men is going to be drastically 109 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,399 different from a lot of the people that they know, 110 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,279 especially a father that knows how to talk, especially a 111 00:05:37,319 --> 00:05:40,639 father that's emotionally intelligent at this age that I'm at, 112 00:05:40,639 --> 00:05:42,680 Like I had my first kid at thirty three, so 113 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:46,319 it's different. It's different from having a kid as a 114 00:05:46,319 --> 00:05:52,360 teenager and yeah, get on your boy, man, you know 115 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,959 your book, this motherfucker off. But yeah, I had to 116 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:00,240 reach out to her and out and you know, I think, 117 00:06:00,759 --> 00:06:03,639 I think when a relationship started, we had started on 118 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,639 something that's just fuck type shit. That's how our relationships 119 00:06:06,639 --> 00:06:10,639 basically start. Yeah, not really, because there's there are there 120 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,160 are there are women in my past that I approached 121 00:06:13,199 --> 00:06:14,879 like yo, I love you, bitch, I want to be 122 00:06:14,959 --> 00:06:17,920 with you forever type ship and then and it never 123 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,160 worked out. But all the girls that I wanted to 124 00:06:21,319 --> 00:06:24,839 just put my wi wi in, I ended up needing 125 00:06:24,879 --> 00:06:27,000 them and they were there to help me down, but 126 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:30,000 my my stance didn't change. I still don't want to 127 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:31,800 be with you, even though you are allowing me to 128 00:06:32,959 --> 00:06:35,199 sleep with sleep with sleep at your house and keep 129 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,439 some shit over here. And I know, like, as I'm 130 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:41,279 saying it now, it sounds fucking crazy, but in my mind, 131 00:06:41,319 --> 00:06:44,720 I'm thinking they should have just walked away, Like if 132 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,920 I'm not giving you what you want and I'm still 133 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,839 not giving you a title and I'm still not giving 134 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,560 you the ship that you want out of me? Why 135 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,920 don't you just walk away? Why are you waiting on me? 136 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:02,480 And I didn't. I just felt really bad when I 137 00:07:02,519 --> 00:07:04,360 thought about it. Like when I thought about it, I 138 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,160 was like, yo, I was a piece of shit, A 139 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:11,120 huge piece of shit. And I agree. 140 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 2: A lot of times I think they may not walk 141 00:07:13,519 --> 00:07:15,720 away because they could see the potential of what you 142 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:17,959 can be and they would rather try to wait it 143 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,759 out versus see you be that for somebody else. 144 00:07:21,199 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: That's stupid walk away. I ain't saying it's smart, but 145 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,560 that's just yeah, would it be. I don't even see 146 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,600 how they could see the potential, That's what I'm saying. Like, 147 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:30,680 looking back, I don't even see the potential. 148 00:07:30,879 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's the same one. I think it 149 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,879 was just fitting for that moment, don't. I don't see 150 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,519 the potential in nobody or you never know what another 151 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,480 person sees individuals. I'm sure we both can probably think 152 00:07:42,519 --> 00:07:45,720 of three to five relationships in our lives that we've 153 00:07:45,759 --> 00:07:47,439 seen and you think, like, no, why the fuck were 154 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:47,959 y'all together? 155 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,279 Speaker 1: No? Or like why did you like to hear somebody else? 156 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:54,879 Speaker 2: Or somebody somebody else, like like two people like the 157 00:07:54,959 --> 00:07:56,920 woman made have been on this pedestal and the man 158 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:58,600 was down here, and you like, why she with that 159 00:07:58,720 --> 00:07:59,759 nigga or vice versa. 160 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,519 Speaker 1: I see that now when I shoot weddings for real, 161 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:04,759 I'll be like, why the fuck are y'all together? 162 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,439 Speaker 2: So you never really know what draws two people. You 163 00:08:07,519 --> 00:08:11,279 don't even match her fly? You never know, bro, Some 164 00:08:11,439 --> 00:08:14,480 people don't know. It could be a them not knowing 165 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:14,920 they're worth. 166 00:08:16,079 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: You just never know, bro. 167 00:08:17,079 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: A lot of people settle. No, I don't know about that. 168 00:08:21,079 --> 00:08:23,480 I don't think we I don't think in this generation. 169 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,000 I don't think, not as much as it used to be. 170 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,959 Speaker 1: You don't think niggas settled? Why what do you mean settle? 171 00:08:30,399 --> 00:08:32,799 I mean shit, I might as well. 172 00:08:34,159 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: If they do that, then they got another one around 173 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:40,879 that feels the voice that they actually want. So it's 174 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:44,279 like you may be with this one settling, but you 175 00:08:44,399 --> 00:08:46,679 might have two or three other women. 176 00:08:46,799 --> 00:08:49,399 Speaker 1: That to where it's like, okay, it's okay to marry her. 177 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,759 Curious it's dope, I mean from everywhere else. So you know, 178 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,480 I don't want nobody that left me at a desperation. 179 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,080 I feel like, I feel like if I'm not I 180 00:09:01,399 --> 00:09:04,399 feel like, if I'm the only one that can love you, 181 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:07,399 then I don't want to love you. You ain't special enough. 182 00:09:08,399 --> 00:09:10,159 And that just might be on some whole other shit. 183 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,759 It might be wrong say that again. If I'm the 184 00:09:12,879 --> 00:09:15,840 only one that sees the potential, not potential, If I'm 185 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,519 the only one that sees the value in you, then 186 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,159 you really ain't got no motherfucking value. If you go out, 187 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,120 if we leave, if we break up and you went 188 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,200 out there and made yourself readily available and people can 189 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,039 see you, and then they don't want you, I made 190 00:09:28,039 --> 00:09:32,080 a mistake. Like women, women see that shit, like women 191 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:35,039 want men that other women want because it's like, Okay, 192 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:40,039 there is some value in this motherfucker right here. Men. 193 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,919 On the other hand, sometimes sometimes I don't think we 194 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:47,159 understand how to pick a partner. And I think that's 195 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,720 back circling back to Tyresse. I don't think we know what. 196 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,000 I don't think we know how to build a team. 197 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,639 I think we just got women that we fuck that 198 00:09:55,759 --> 00:09:57,759 make us feel good in the moment. But I don't 199 00:09:57,759 --> 00:10:00,679 think niggas know how to make pick a woman that's 200 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,840 going to better help better their lives because a lot 201 00:10:03,919 --> 00:10:05,559 of the men that I know, the women that they 202 00:10:05,799 --> 00:10:08,960 do fuck with when the women give them some type 203 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,919 of critique or feedback, the women might not know how 204 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,159 to communicate it right, but the men ain't accepting that shit. 205 00:10:15,879 --> 00:10:19,240 Niggas ad just be like, man, that bit is tripping man. No, 206 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,440 she's actually telling you something, and vice versa. A lot 207 00:10:22,519 --> 00:10:25,120 of women don't like critique for men, So niggas just 208 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,679 stay in this this space and they never change, They 209 00:10:28,799 --> 00:10:35,360 never evolved. And I think that nobody really knows the 210 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:38,320 point of Dayton. I think that I think back in 211 00:10:38,399 --> 00:10:41,480 the day, women needed niggas because they couldn't get no job, 212 00:10:41,519 --> 00:10:43,480 They couldn't get a license, they couldn't get a bank account, 213 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,240 they couldn't do a lot of shit. They couldn't vote, 214 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,159 they couldn't do a lot of shit. So then they 215 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:51,720 fell into this role of cleaning, cooking, buying draws, taking 216 00:10:51,759 --> 00:10:53,879 care of the kids, having kids, this, this, and that. 217 00:10:55,159 --> 00:10:58,600 Now that they got money, they don't need us no more. 218 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,240 So what's the point of having so what now? What's 219 00:11:01,279 --> 00:11:03,799 the point? I think we have to sit down and 220 00:11:03,919 --> 00:11:06,840 reevaluate what all of this is supposed to even look like, 221 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,039 and I think that we still thinking about grandma and 222 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,519 granddad and this and that. No, my nigga, none of 223 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:15,480 that shit is working. No more is. We can't go 224 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,559 back to that because women are more educated, they got 225 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:21,960 more money, So we can't go back to, Oh, Sally 226 00:11:22,039 --> 00:11:24,240 May at the crib and she gonna cook the bacon 227 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,679 and no, no, nigga, she gonna be at home right 228 00:11:27,759 --> 00:11:29,399 when you pull up. Y'all both get off at five, 229 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,840 y'all both gonna pull up at five forty five. You 230 00:11:31,919 --> 00:11:33,399 can't expect her to go in the house and cook. 231 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,399 You can't expect her to be your emotional support dog. 232 00:11:36,519 --> 00:11:38,720 You can't expect her because niggas, she got her own shit. 233 00:11:38,799 --> 00:11:40,840 She got a boss, she got a boss that she hates, 234 00:11:40,879 --> 00:11:43,639 she got colleagues that she hate, she hate traffic. She's 235 00:11:43,639 --> 00:11:45,879 still trying to figure out her weight, trying to go 236 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,840 to the gym, she's trying to figure out her life's 237 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,600 trying to identify herself other than the fucking mother, other 238 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,559 than the wife. And I think that men don't see that, 239 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,200 and we expect a lot out of them, and then 240 00:11:57,399 --> 00:12:00,679 vice versa because they are taking this role. Don't understand 241 00:12:00,759 --> 00:12:02,440 that the roles of a man has changed, so they 242 00:12:02,519 --> 00:12:06,320 still expecting us to be granddaddy. Yeah, I can't be 243 00:12:06,399 --> 00:12:08,519 your granddaddy, bitch, because your grandma didn't have no money, 244 00:12:08,759 --> 00:12:11,039 right right, were living at different times. We living in 245 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:14,039 a completely different time with the same rule book of 246 00:12:14,159 --> 00:12:16,200 love from back in the fucking day. So how do 247 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:19,120 you feel about the fifty to fifty? And I see 248 00:12:19,159 --> 00:12:20,799 that a lot. It ain't gonna never be fifty to fifty, 249 00:12:20,879 --> 00:12:23,039 Like some days I might wake up on twenty percent 250 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:24,879 and my wife got to be fifty, like with the 251 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,559 bills and shit. Yeah, because we both got money. I 252 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,679 think it all ties in together. Yeah. Yeah, if you, 253 00:12:29,879 --> 00:12:33,120 if you and your partner, two things, If you and 254 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,120 your partner, I feel like, just from me and my wife, 255 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,320 a lot of niggas are afraid to tell they girls 256 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,320 how they want. They dick suck just off the strength, 257 00:12:45,879 --> 00:12:50,039 just uncomfortable just talking to her, like while she down there, 258 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:52,320 y'all y'all naked, look at her and be like, nah, 259 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:55,919 I don't do it like that, patter head, don't do 260 00:12:56,039 --> 00:12:57,720 it like that. Do it like this. I like it 261 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:00,639 like this, like because that's your partner. And when you 262 00:13:00,759 --> 00:13:02,559 go down there and eat her pussy. She needs to 263 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,200 do the same exact thing. But a lot of the 264 00:13:04,279 --> 00:13:08,399 times motherfuckers could just be super unsatisfied, never say nothing 265 00:13:08,639 --> 00:13:11,480 and didn't go get a whole You got a whole 266 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:13,600 bitch right here that to do whatever it is that 267 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:15,440 you want her to do, and you're too afraid to 268 00:13:15,519 --> 00:13:17,799 tell her. And then to the money. A lot of 269 00:13:17,799 --> 00:13:20,519 people don't like asking what their partner make. How much 270 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:22,720 money do you make after taxes, after you pay a bit, 271 00:13:22,759 --> 00:13:24,720 how much money do you have? How much money do 272 00:13:24,799 --> 00:13:27,279 you have? Because if my wife makes more than me, 273 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:29,919 it can't be fifty to fifty. You make twenty thirty 274 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,080 thousand dollars more than me, you ask him you want 275 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,639 to go fifty? Yeah or no? 276 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 2: We're not even a team as the man. They want 277 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,159 you to really go one hundred most of the time 278 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:40,840 from the shit that. 279 00:13:40,919 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: They be saying. Now that shit just instagram shit. I 280 00:13:43,039 --> 00:13:45,360 don't know that should just instagram shit. That is This 281 00:13:45,519 --> 00:13:46,399 is my point of yew on it. 282 00:13:46,519 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 2: I think it all comes down to the value because 283 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:51,200 I think when you find that person that you value, 284 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,919 and this is speaking from experience, all of those things 285 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:58,759 that could cause odds or disagreements, they go out the 286 00:13:58,799 --> 00:14:04,279 window because the value system is gonna over overpower all 287 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,639 of that other little petty bullshit. All that petty stuff 288 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,320 only falls into place when you really don't value that person. 289 00:14:09,639 --> 00:14:11,399 Speaker 1: If the woman, if you're looking for a reason to 290 00:14:11,519 --> 00:14:12,879 leave anyway, Exactly. 291 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 2: If a woman values her man, if he make less, 292 00:14:15,039 --> 00:14:16,799 she don't give a fuck because she values him and 293 00:14:16,879 --> 00:14:19,399 she's gonna hon to respect him as a man based 294 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:21,200 off of who he is and as long as he's 295 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,360 given her everything that he got vice versa. The nigga 296 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,919 who values his woman is not going to expect her 297 00:14:27,039 --> 00:14:29,399 to come home after an eight hour shift to. 298 00:14:29,519 --> 00:14:31,039 Speaker 1: Him to take care of the cleete, take care of 299 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:31,440 the kids. 300 00:14:31,759 --> 00:14:34,639 Speaker 2: It's all a value system, and it's really fucked up 301 00:14:34,639 --> 00:14:36,600 because I feel like for the past couple of years, 302 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:39,240 black men and women have been at odds. 303 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:42,279 Speaker 1: Hold on, nigga, it's been since like twenty ten. Hey 304 00:14:43,159 --> 00:14:47,039 the internet got popping, Yeah, every since motherfuckers can really 305 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:53,000 express theirselves freely, Yes, but I feel like a lot 306 00:14:53,039 --> 00:14:55,480 of motherfuckers. I went to a bitch page on Facebook, 307 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,039 and I'm saying bitch and lo because I ain't recorded. 308 00:14:58,559 --> 00:15:00,360 I went to this bitch page on face Book. I 309 00:15:00,399 --> 00:15:02,879 got to burn a page on Facebook. I'm a girl 310 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,919 on Facebook. Nobody know that I'm I'm a whole girl 311 00:15:06,039 --> 00:15:09,360 on Facebook. And I did it for black Widow. But 312 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,879 my page that leaded. But I'm a whole girl in there, 313 00:15:11,879 --> 00:15:13,600 and sometimes I'll be forgetting that I can comment and 314 00:15:13,679 --> 00:15:15,720 people won't know it's me. I can say whatever it 315 00:15:15,879 --> 00:15:17,679 is that I want to say, but I don't say. 316 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,080 I don't do that. I go in there and just 317 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,759 read shit. Just look I seen let me, I'm about 318 00:15:21,799 --> 00:15:23,799 to read it. I send it to my nigga, Carlos. 319 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,600 Something about it was it was a stud. It was 320 00:15:26,799 --> 00:15:28,240 it was a girl, and she took a picture with 321 00:15:28,279 --> 00:15:30,919 a nigga and she was like, I left my husband. 322 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,440 This man never made me happy. And the whole two 323 00:15:33,519 --> 00:15:36,240 years that we've been together. I saw a girl at 324 00:15:36,279 --> 00:15:38,480 the truck stop or at the gas station and she 325 00:15:38,559 --> 00:15:40,639 looked at me and I felt butterflies for the first time. 326 00:15:40,679 --> 00:15:42,559 Da da da da da. So I left my husband 327 00:15:42,639 --> 00:15:46,799 and went to the to the girl. It's sixty thousand comments, 328 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,600 all types of all type of shit, right, But then 329 00:15:49,639 --> 00:15:51,600 I started scrolling her page because I know you, I 330 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:55,200 know people get paid for interactions on Facebook. Yeah, so 331 00:15:55,279 --> 00:15:58,639 then I start going down a page bo and three 332 00:15:58,679 --> 00:16:03,639 months ago she wasn't married, so she just saying things 333 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,919 online to go to get the interactions to get checked 334 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,840 from Facebook. Yeah, so you causing all of this this riff. 335 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:14,159 It's not even your fucking life. 336 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,919 Speaker 2: It's somebody out there that's living like that, or somebody 337 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,919 out there that's looking at that, and they might take 338 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,720 that into consideration when they run across somebody that getting 339 00:16:22,799 --> 00:16:24,919 butterflies and be like, well, shit, maybe I need to 340 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:25,519 leave who I'm with. 341 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: If not even not even that, it's more so going 342 00:16:28,879 --> 00:16:33,039 back to what you said about people voicing their opinions, 343 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,840 I don't even think people are voicing their opinions. I 344 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:39,320 think they're just saying things to get a reaction. It's 345 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:42,879 not they don't even they don't even feel what they're saying. 346 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,559 They're just going off of. This is going to give 347 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,639 me the most the most arguments, and that the interactions 348 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:52,919 on Twitter X and Facebook and Instagram, and just like 349 00:16:53,039 --> 00:16:56,039 baller Alert Baller Alert in the shade Room, they are 350 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,799 posting ship for the interactions. That's why they're not posting nothing. 351 00:17:00,399 --> 00:17:07,200 Because niggas don't comment under anything positive gravitation and social 352 00:17:07,279 --> 00:17:10,200 media runs like that. So okay, now that we understand that, 353 00:17:10,319 --> 00:17:14,880 I feel like, are we not smart enough to realize 354 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:18,079 that this isn't real? Like this is a facade, this 355 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,440 is smoke, none of this is None of this is real. 356 00:17:20,519 --> 00:17:23,400 So the fact that people are taking advice from single 357 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:28,160 people is weird to me because married people that stick 358 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:34,640 it out, unconditionally loving married people to have to have 359 00:17:34,839 --> 00:17:41,920 somebody unconditionally love you despite the flaws, despite them having 360 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:45,920 to carry the relationship financially, despite you going through this 361 00:17:46,559 --> 00:17:50,680 growth spurt of not knowing who you are, trying to 362 00:17:50,799 --> 00:17:52,839 identify who you are in life at the age that 363 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:58,720 you might be at the weight fluctuation, the the might 364 00:17:58,759 --> 00:18:01,519 get laid off, you might lose a job, and you 365 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,160 might not have any money. Now, if your relationship is 366 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,599 based on you're fucked. Yeah, but you know certain things 367 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:09,799 in life happening where you can't cook it, you don't 368 00:18:09,799 --> 00:18:12,759 even feel like cooking. You depressed, So has somebody to 369 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,079 love you through all of these things? It's not gonna 370 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,400 be ever fifty to fifty? So what do you do. 371 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:23,279 Speaker 2: When real quick piggyback to what you were saying about 372 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,240 social media being fake. That's why anybody that I'm seriously 373 00:18:26,319 --> 00:18:28,599 dealing with, I don't follow if I follow on my 374 00:18:28,759 --> 00:18:31,519 mute tape page, because if you post something. 375 00:18:31,279 --> 00:18:34,319 Speaker 1: That I know ain't aligned with your core value, no, 376 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:35,039 not even that. 377 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:38,640 Speaker 2: Like let's say, you know, we rocking heavy and you 378 00:18:38,759 --> 00:18:41,599 post something about how niggas ain't shit, I'm gonna be like, 379 00:18:42,279 --> 00:18:43,759 why are you posting that? If you're dealing with a 380 00:18:43,839 --> 00:18:45,799 nigga who you fucking with, who you're talking and you 381 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:49,720 really fuck with me? So and I understand that a 382 00:18:49,799 --> 00:18:51,720 lot of times they just post for the interactions, to 383 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:53,359 just post to express stuff. 384 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:54,279 Speaker 1: Or just share stuff. 385 00:18:54,279 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 2: So me personally, as soon as we really start clicking, 386 00:18:58,240 --> 00:18:59,119 you're going on mute. 387 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to see because I don't want to 388 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:02,319 have to. 389 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 2: I don't want to be that nigga screenshotting and being like, so, 390 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:05,920 what the fuck is this about. 391 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: I've seen somebody say, I've seen somebody say, how come 392 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:14,160 when we start fucking you stop liking my pictures? And 393 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:18,759 it's because I had to mute you, real had the 394 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,240 mute you. It's so it's certain rill. There's certain drills 395 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:26,519 on Instagram that I had to mute just because that 396 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:31,200 bait you're throwing is nice that but then they wonder 397 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:35,279 why they're single, the ones throwing the bait. No, No, 398 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,160 I don't think. I don't think that's why they're single. 399 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:41,319 I think that the relationship never brings the validation that 400 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:46,079 the likes and or whatever bring mm hmm. Like, but 401 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:49,960 when somebody like you, it's private, bro, for sure, it's private. 402 00:19:50,039 --> 00:19:52,839 Motherfucker bringing you flowers's private. Mo fucker rubbing your back 403 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,680 is private. Motherfucker calling and asking you are you okay? 404 00:19:55,799 --> 00:19:58,720 Did you eat today? That? Have you drank some waters? 405 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,000 To where motherfucker's posting you can't post if I ask 406 00:20:02,079 --> 00:20:05,319 if you have water today, you can't post that. I'm 407 00:20:06,839 --> 00:20:11,640 but you're right, you can't ready too, And. 408 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 2: Then you got the niggas out here that'll be like 409 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:18,880 send her flowers today or send her fifty dollars a day, 410 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:23,359 so if she didn't get it now on this chirro 411 00:20:23,599 --> 00:20:26,119 just I'll be trying to stay out the internet, I swear, 412 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,960 because it'd be so much stuff that triggered me. But 413 00:20:29,079 --> 00:20:31,119 I see stuff like that, and I'm like, bro, you 414 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,960 could have just fucked up somebody day because you said 415 00:20:34,039 --> 00:20:36,079 send this girl flowers today. The nigga might not have 416 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,519 sent her the flowers, and now she in her mind 417 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:40,920 like hmm, yeah, I ain't get no flowers today. 418 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: No, no, I don't think if I'm happy from this party, 419 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,319 I'm happy my grilling like this bro. 420 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 2: No, that specific situation is definitely not personally experienced. But 421 00:20:52,279 --> 00:20:54,359 I just know in the past I've seen that ship 422 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,680 and it's like it's even like the whole ship with 423 00:20:56,759 --> 00:20:59,920 the Cam Newton interview that just happened with the I 424 00:21:00,079 --> 00:21:02,160 can't think of the doctor's name, the therapist, but. 425 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: Any nigga that wears hair like that, I don't like it. 426 00:21:06,599 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 2: Nah, But I'm just saying we need when the when 427 00:21:08,799 --> 00:21:13,119 social media has these large conversations about men and women, 428 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:18,559 it enters into people's relationships, and sometimes for good, sometimes 429 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,079 for bad. And I feel like, like I was saying, 430 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,759 I think it just is continuously putting us against each 431 00:21:23,799 --> 00:21:26,839 other because she may say one thing and then he 432 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:28,720 may say one thing. So now when you get home 433 00:21:28,759 --> 00:21:31,000 with your partner, you're having this discussion. Well, well today 434 00:21:31,039 --> 00:21:33,599 this doctor said that you should be doing this the 435 00:21:34,599 --> 00:21:36,519 no no, no, but no no no, you looking at 436 00:21:36,519 --> 00:21:39,160 it in a bad way. I see where you're going now, 437 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,920 I said, it could be good and bad. It just 438 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,680 depends on the dynamic in your relationship. 439 00:21:42,799 --> 00:21:44,759 Speaker 1: You need to lead that. Then, mind you, once again, 440 00:21:44,799 --> 00:21:46,519 these are not problems I had about you. 441 00:21:46,559 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 2: I'm talk about whoever listening. Then, Yeah, I'm understand. I'm 442 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,559 appreciative of being able to have open, thorough. 443 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, because a lot of the times I had to 444 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,599 when I was doing in the philosophy. Looking back, I 445 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:01,720 realized that my wife was the one that I was 446 00:22:01,759 --> 00:22:04,799 talking to the least. I was talking to Keen of 447 00:22:04,839 --> 00:22:07,799 the most. I do the most, Puggy the most, talking 448 00:22:07,839 --> 00:22:13,160 to these niggas. Bro, I'm talking to these niggas five 449 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:17,440 hours out of the week. We just did that to her. Yeah, 450 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,440 And I think a lot of the times people are 451 00:22:20,519 --> 00:22:24,079 in the comments arguing and not just hey, what do 452 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,359 you think about this? And just like when we're troing 453 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,000 me KWANDT, my wife was like, you know rich from 454 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,000 QUANDT and I was like, yeah, I saw that, And 455 00:22:32,079 --> 00:22:35,519 then we had a conversation about it about the industry 456 00:22:35,599 --> 00:22:37,720 might have the industry turning on them, and then you know, 457 00:22:38,599 --> 00:22:41,799 did the industry turning did the industry turning on him 458 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,240 have an effect on his drug usage, and did and 459 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,200 did and did and did and did that kill him? 460 00:22:50,519 --> 00:22:52,599 That type of ship opposed to me getting on here 461 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,359 and and I feel like a lot of the times 462 00:22:55,559 --> 00:22:58,720 I feel like people. I don't even think that it's 463 00:22:58,759 --> 00:23:05,200 the conversations that is the problem. I think it's the visualization. 464 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:09,119 The highlight reels up deeper relationships. I think that's the 465 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:13,880 biggest problem because if you, if I, if I accept, 466 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,359 if I accept Perry to be the guy who makes 467 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,880 my clothes, and then he might take long to make 468 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,759 my clothes because he got a job, he got a kid. 469 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,599 You know what I'm saying, Basketball, working out, sleep, and 470 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,359 I see somebody constantly posting some shit, it's gonna make 471 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:33,400 me be like, although I although I appreciate his service, 472 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,039 and although we have a system in place that he's 473 00:23:36,079 --> 00:23:38,640 going to drop off six shirts and six pants once 474 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:43,640 a month, this person got eight twice a month. So 475 00:23:43,759 --> 00:23:46,480 now I'm looking at him like, well, why ain't you 476 00:23:46,599 --> 00:23:49,160 being that? Because I like the way. I like the 477 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,640 way that they're putraying it on social media, and I 478 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,440 think that that's what a lot of people are doing. 479 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,359 Because if you go over to that motherfucker house that 480 00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:00,240 you're comparing your shit to. That motherfucker might stink the 481 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,119 dish away. The dishes is always dirty. The house smell 482 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:08,160 like ass and garbage. She only wash her clothes once 483 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:12,039 a month. Like you, you're really gonna walk out and 484 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:15,839 not even understand what you're walking into. Yeah, sure, that's 485 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,119 why you right. And my motherfuckers be walking out of 486 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:24,000 happy situations thinking that they can have happy year because 487 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,720 they don't value back to what you said, they don't 488 00:24:27,799 --> 00:24:31,720 value this person. I don't want to leave my wife ever. 489 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,119 If you're listening to this, I might flirt. I'm not 490 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,960 leaving that woman. You can you know my ask for permission. 491 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,400 You can suk me out toppy, Toppy, I'm not leaving 492 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,839 that woman. Everything that I do is for my kids 493 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:48,400 and that woman. There's nothing on the internet that I 494 00:24:48,519 --> 00:24:51,079 see more shit on social media that makes me not 495 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,440 like y'all out there in the world. I'll be on 496 00:24:55,519 --> 00:24:58,240 social media, I'm like, I don't like any of you. 497 00:24:59,079 --> 00:25:01,920 You are a fucking even some of my friends. The 498 00:25:02,039 --> 00:25:04,200 social stuff like, oh I don't like you for real. 499 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,079 Speaker 2: It's probably like seven people's stuff that come through my feed. 500 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,599 But because bro, you know, once you mute people so often, 501 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,119 like the algorithm will stop. But I literally probably see 502 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,599 the same seven people's stuff so much because it really 503 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,799 be making you look at people like, Bro, you really stupid? 504 00:25:19,319 --> 00:25:23,559 Are you really just your views? It just bro, it's wild. 505 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:27,480 But yeah, to finish what you were just speaking on 506 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,039 something that I personally do, is how you were saying, 507 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,960 like people may think it may be happier over there. 508 00:25:34,759 --> 00:25:36,960 You gotta also not even get in room to do that. 509 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,759 So the consistent compliments, you know, the random gifts flowers, 510 00:25:40,799 --> 00:25:43,119 whether it be money, whatever, I try to make sure 511 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:43,920 I keep up on that. 512 00:25:44,079 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 1: That way. 513 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 2: If it is a nigga and the d MS trying 514 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,640 to slide in, she like, nigga, my man already sent 515 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:49,880 me this. 516 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 1: So I think what's so crazy about that is I 517 00:25:54,079 --> 00:25:56,640 do that periodically. But I ain't got to do that 518 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,559 shit because if you and me, you with me, yeah, 519 00:26:00,599 --> 00:26:01,720 ain't gonna get no better than me. 520 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,079 Speaker 2: But I would just say it makes it easier for 521 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,599 them to brush off all. Oh yeah for sure, because 522 00:26:06,599 --> 00:26:08,200 it's gone. If you got to attract the woe bro, 523 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,880 they're gonna be for sure. The hunters are going to try. 524 00:26:11,039 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's like you just gotta keep her, but 525 00:26:13,519 --> 00:26:16,400 but you better not acknowledge it. You better not even 526 00:26:16,599 --> 00:26:18,960 like the message. Heart the message you've been Delete that 527 00:26:19,079 --> 00:26:21,680 motherfucker act like you. My girl ain't got social media 528 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,559 at all. Good good cause the way that I feel 529 00:26:26,559 --> 00:26:28,960 about people, she feel that way times one hundred. She 530 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,200 just be like, man, y'all nigga's is stupid. Yeah, y'all 531 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,240 married nigga. Now she's been rubbed off. She's been like that. 532 00:26:34,319 --> 00:26:35,920 I was gonna say, you know, rubbed off all that. 533 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,759 She's been like that. It took me a while to 534 00:26:37,799 --> 00:26:39,960 even track her down. She ain't had social media to like, 535 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,960 twenty thirteen, twenty twelve. I've been hunting that bitch down 536 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,920 since two thousand and five. Damn oh yeah. Every year 537 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,000 I asked her sister where she at every single year, 538 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:49,880 and then one year she was like, she finally an Instagram. 539 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,240 Send her a message. And then I sent her a message, 540 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,039 and I moved from Hawaii to here. Cool been wanting 541 00:26:55,079 --> 00:26:58,039 since high school. Got her. You know, in life, I 542 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,200 think a lot of I think a lot of black men. 543 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,799 They be talking about this, We were talking about ty 544 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:08,839 Ree soon. We're all over the place. But I think 545 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:13,200 a lot of black men need to realize, not all 546 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:18,319 because some of y'all are just peasants, but a lot 547 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,319 of black men need to understand that we got power 548 00:27:23,079 --> 00:27:25,359 and we can really get whatever it is that we want. 549 00:27:25,519 --> 00:27:27,759 It might not come to you the way that you want, 550 00:27:28,079 --> 00:27:29,720 It might not look the way that you thought it 551 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,119 would look. But bro I said, I wanted a daughter 552 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,440 in ninth grade, I wanted a daughter named Emily. In 553 00:27:36,519 --> 00:27:41,000 ninth grade, I got two. God gave me two daughters 554 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,160 and the son. They looked exactly like me. I've been 555 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:48,359 one Sierra since two three. He gave it to me 556 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,119 in twenty thirteen. We never talked, We never did nothing 557 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:56,440 until twenty and twelve. I wanted to God. I wanted 558 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,680 to do so. I wanted to work with, worked with. 559 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,200 I wanted to meet a dream. I met the dream. 560 00:28:01,519 --> 00:28:03,200 All of the things that I wanted to do, I 561 00:28:03,279 --> 00:28:07,359 got to do it. And sometimes I still question my 562 00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:11,799 ability to be magical. And it's crazy because I think 563 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:16,759 as men, we equate, so many of us men equate 564 00:28:16,839 --> 00:28:19,240 our value with money. It's like neck and neck. It's 565 00:28:19,319 --> 00:28:21,960 like it goes like this, and if what you love 566 00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:24,559 ain't bringing you money. You start to question if I'm 567 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,400 loving the right thing, if I'm wasting my time on 568 00:28:27,519 --> 00:28:29,279 this ship, at least for me, I'll be like, bro, 569 00:28:29,319 --> 00:28:31,720 I'm wasting me too. I'll be like, bro, what the 570 00:28:31,839 --> 00:28:34,119 fuck like? It's black lidow shit. I'm like, man, this 571 00:28:34,319 --> 00:28:37,359 is I love doing this ship. My shit sound better 572 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,880 than everybody ship that I listen to. Nope, not even 573 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,680 being biased. I just study it so fucking much. My 574 00:28:42,839 --> 00:28:45,240 ship sounds. I'm working on the project right now. I 575 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,440 won't say who is with, I won't say what production 576 00:28:47,519 --> 00:28:49,599 company is under, but I'm like, bro, y'all should have 577 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,920 had me in begin direct this because it doesn't sound natural. 578 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,920 It just doesn't sound like people talking and whatever. It 579 00:28:58,039 --> 00:29:01,359 sounds more scripted. Yeah, just sound like it sounds like 580 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:06,039 something fake. It's a format. I'm watching YouTube series with 581 00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:08,079 black people and I'm just like, well, we don't. We 582 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,799 don't move like that. It looked like you said action. Yeah, 583 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,839 this is why I like Forrest Gump. This is why 584 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:19,039 we like life. It looks like life looks like a 585 00:29:19,119 --> 00:29:20,799 bunch of niggas that went to jail for some ship 586 00:29:20,839 --> 00:29:24,799 that they ain't do and they stuck. And that's reality. Yes, 587 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,279 we got to talk about life too after this, and 588 00:29:28,839 --> 00:29:31,119 Forrest Gump just looked like a retarded nigga that's looking 589 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,440 for the love of his life. That's what it looks. 590 00:29:34,559 --> 00:29:39,319 I was about to say, please please bleep that clips 591 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,480 is not big enough to get canceled. Bro, you have 592 00:29:41,559 --> 00:29:46,480 to retarded. It's about getting flagged and it getting taken down. 593 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:56,920 Leave it in. But just hit the bars crazy that 594 00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:03,680 nigga put his hand out. No, I just think that. 595 00:30:04,319 --> 00:30:06,119 I think that you know a lot of a lot 596 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:10,279 of us, like if we knew, if we could see, 597 00:30:10,599 --> 00:30:13,559 if we could see the value of a woman. I 598 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,119 think the reason why niggas is hoes and trash is 599 00:30:16,119 --> 00:30:18,079 because we do not understand the value of a woman 600 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:22,119 because not enough men told us the value of a woman. 601 00:30:22,319 --> 00:30:24,640 I remember when I was in motherfucking ninth grade, my 602 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,079 mom had a friend named Robert light skinning nigga about 603 00:30:27,119 --> 00:30:29,640 six y one. I always look up to this nigga 604 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,000 because he was tall, and I thought he was handsome 605 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,039 because he had I could see holes just like classing, 606 00:30:35,079 --> 00:30:36,119 you know what I mean, I can see it. So 607 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,359 I was like, man, that nigga five and he could dress, 608 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,319 and he came in one of the last house parties 609 00:30:41,359 --> 00:30:44,079 my mom had with this batch of friends. He came 610 00:30:44,119 --> 00:30:47,039 into my room. It was like a bear. Man, what's 611 00:30:47,119 --> 00:30:50,000 uh you thinking about going to college? I was like, 612 00:30:50,039 --> 00:30:51,720 I don't know. He said, man, you got to go 613 00:30:51,799 --> 00:30:54,240 down to Atlanta and I was like wow. He was like, man, 614 00:30:54,279 --> 00:30:57,119 there's a lot of women down there. He said. The 615 00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,559 ratio is like eighteen to one. Something. Weird ass, he said. 616 00:31:00,559 --> 00:31:03,480 And I was like, at the time, I'm DJing, I 617 00:31:03,559 --> 00:31:06,720 got my turntables playing Scarface Mary Jane. I always slowed down. 618 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,920 I'm not even really thinking about that shit. But men 619 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,880 talk to boys about women like that, yeah, and not 620 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,720 like and not like, Bro, you need to find you one. 621 00:31:18,839 --> 00:31:20,799 You need to find you one, bro, like the one 622 00:31:20,839 --> 00:31:22,359 that's gonna hold you down, the one that's gonna help 623 00:31:22,359 --> 00:31:24,200 build you up, the one that's gonna speak life until 624 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,880 your brother. You need to find one. And you need 625 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,680 to find one that's gonna love you for you and 626 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,359 and and try to help you become the best you 627 00:31:31,599 --> 00:31:33,480 that you want to be. And then we need to 628 00:31:33,559 --> 00:31:36,240 have a man around to tell us how to identify 629 00:31:37,039 --> 00:31:39,519 these feelings that we have. And we have the self doubt, 630 00:31:39,519 --> 00:31:41,559 and how we can talk ourselves off the ledge of 631 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,200 the self doubt, cause niggas all climb out ever, So 632 00:31:44,319 --> 00:31:47,359 try to climb out ever and turn around because we 633 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:50,240 talk ourselves out of being so great because we don't 634 00:31:50,319 --> 00:31:55,359 have enough response emotionally intelligent black men telling black boys, Hey, 635 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,279 this is how you do this, how you do this, 636 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,119 like like like keening my nigga, love a nigga. He's 637 00:32:01,119 --> 00:32:05,480 a fighter. He don't express himself like he'd rather fight 638 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,039 Dave Hicks the same way. He's a fighter, like he's 639 00:32:09,119 --> 00:32:12,680 not a These are my guys, and I'm not a fighter. 640 00:32:13,279 --> 00:32:15,400 I'm gonna talk to you, and niggas is gonna get 641 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,240 mad at me because I'm gonna keep trying to I'm 642 00:32:17,279 --> 00:32:19,240 not about to fight you, bro, because we're still gonna 643 00:32:19,799 --> 00:32:22,200 this situation is still gonna be unresolved. If we fight, 644 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,119 you could beat my ass, I might beat your ass 645 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,160 whatever the case. But this ain't gonna solve nothing, bro. 646 00:32:27,759 --> 00:32:30,440 And I've started to realize, like a lot of men 647 00:32:30,599 --> 00:32:37,119 think that the only okay way to express themselves is anger. 648 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,640 That's the only thing that's exact communication. Yeah, that's because 649 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,720 that's the I remember talking. I remember back in the day, 650 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,720 I was trying to talk to motherfuckers about how I feel. 651 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,559 It's like, why you being so emotional, Why you're being 652 00:32:46,599 --> 00:32:48,839 so sensitive about shit. I'm like, bitch, I'm not being sensitive. 653 00:32:48,839 --> 00:32:51,000 I'm just telling you how I feel. I don't like 654 00:32:51,079 --> 00:32:54,200 that shit. But you ain't. You ain't got a bit. Yes, 655 00:32:54,279 --> 00:32:55,720 I'm going to tell you how I feel. 656 00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,599 Speaker 2: I think sometimes the anger in the fighting just is personal. 657 00:33:02,359 --> 00:33:05,119 My personal perspective is just sometimes you just got to 658 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:05,559 get it out. 659 00:33:06,599 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 1: I think. 660 00:33:09,039 --> 00:33:10,519 Speaker 2: I mean because even just like when we were talking 661 00:33:10,599 --> 00:33:12,720 on the phone yesterday, I told you about Saturday, and 662 00:33:12,759 --> 00:33:15,319 I was just like, I just I needed that ship 663 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:16,039 to go somewhere. 664 00:33:16,359 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: Mind you what to do? What you do? 665 00:33:17,799 --> 00:33:19,519 Speaker 2: I didn't do nothing, but I was mad for a 666 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:25,480 very fucking long time because I didn't. Yeah, but at 667 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,720 the end of the day, the anger that lingered for 668 00:33:27,759 --> 00:33:29,839 a few hours would have been over if I had 669 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,480 the chance to put my hands on somebody. 670 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,599 Speaker 1: Just go to the gym, bro, I do that's I 671 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,119 paid at that time. 672 00:33:36,079 --> 00:33:38,759 Speaker 2: Well that might you're right, but I have an LA 673 00:33:38,839 --> 00:33:41,359 Fitness membership simply because had punch of bags. 674 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's literally I had to I had to start 675 00:33:44,319 --> 00:33:46,039 I had to tell my wife, Like, Yo, the only 676 00:33:46,119 --> 00:33:49,519 way that I can the only way that I can 677 00:33:49,559 --> 00:33:51,000 get this energy out of me is if I ride 678 00:33:51,039 --> 00:33:54,519 this bike ride. I don't ride ten miles, Bro. I 679 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,440 have to throw my hands, Bro, I have to. I 680 00:33:59,079 --> 00:34:02,559 think I've gotten older, Like I mean that's I learned 681 00:34:02,599 --> 00:34:03,799 how to fight when I was a kid. But like, 682 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:05,000 I take that shit seriously. 683 00:34:05,039 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 2: I work out more with my hands than I do basketball, 684 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,480 and basketball is my life and now I'm getting my 685 00:34:09,519 --> 00:34:12,039 son into it. Cause for one, just to know how 686 00:34:12,039 --> 00:34:14,440 to defend yourself, but I don't. It's not like I 687 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,360 like to fight or be an aggressor, but I just 688 00:34:17,519 --> 00:34:19,400 know there's times where, Bro, I don't have no other 689 00:34:20,079 --> 00:34:22,119 way to fucking release built up. 690 00:34:22,119 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 1: It for me is you got to really push me 691 00:34:25,599 --> 00:34:30,320 to the limit of you just wont shut up, you 692 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,960 know what I'm saying. Like I can ignore certain shit, 693 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,960 but like if you just keep talking and it's irritating me, 694 00:34:37,519 --> 00:34:39,320 I'm just gonna pop you just so you could just 695 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,480 shut the fuck. I've never been I've never been in 696 00:34:42,559 --> 00:34:44,840 that situation that the last time I had to get 697 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,159 in the physical altercation, it was because the little motherfucker 698 00:34:47,199 --> 00:34:50,039 wouldn't shut up. Sometimes you just got to hit somebody 699 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,599 and and the nigga that you know them, I'm very mild, manner, 700 00:34:53,679 --> 00:34:56,079 calm and all that. So for somebody, literally, bro, this 701 00:34:56,159 --> 00:34:58,159 little nigga would not shut the fuck up. Bro, like 702 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,559 pointing in my face, call me or now in the book, 703 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,760 and I'm just looking at him, and eventually I just 704 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:03,320 tagged him. 705 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 2: Sometimes after that he didn't even do ship. So I'm like, nigga, 706 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,239 you just did all of that built up all this 707 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,360 frustration to me that I had to get you in 708 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,840 your mouth. Now I got more that I can't even 709 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:17,199 use because you done scurried out to jail. So like, nigga, 710 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,119 you don't waste my time and yours. 711 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,320 Speaker 1: Was built up energy. I learned a long time ago 712 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,960 not to play, not to play with. I ain't like 713 00:35:26,039 --> 00:35:32,079 sports because I just na. I never really liked how 714 00:35:32,159 --> 00:35:36,079 niggas talked during You can't handle the trash talk, yeah 715 00:35:36,079 --> 00:35:39,719 I can. I can't. I can ignore it. But some 716 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,880 niggas if you get if you are too good, yeah, 717 00:35:43,119 --> 00:35:46,360 and you don't and you're unphased, niggas take it to 718 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,280 another level. Yeah, I'm not really phased by any of this, Bro, 719 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:50,760 I don't want to be Alan iverson. 720 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 3: Bro. 721 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just playing back said I just want 722 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,360 to get to work and that's and that's yeah, I 723 00:35:56,559 --> 00:35:58,639 just playing basket. Well, why are you so aggressive right now? Bro? 724 00:36:00,079 --> 00:36:04,280 It's crazy, whole ass nigga can't Why are you doing them? 725 00:36:04,599 --> 00:36:07,039 That's that's real. Why are you? Why are you like this? 726 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,039 That's why? And then I started saying ship like that. 727 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:16,199 I started getting into counselor niggas, like niggas is really like, oh, 728 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,960 you're trying to you're trying to be a little nigga rebound. 729 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,480 Why are you? Why are you so aggressive? Bro? Bro? 730 00:36:23,599 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 2: When I go hoop or I only hoop with my niggas, like, 731 00:36:27,199 --> 00:36:29,039 be careful the days of going to hoop, Like if 732 00:36:29,079 --> 00:36:30,679 somebody just hit me up, like hey, bro, come pull 733 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,360 up in such and such a hoop, I'm not bro. 734 00:36:33,199 --> 00:36:35,199 If it's not at least five to seven of my 735 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,679 partners they're running, I'm not going because I already know 736 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,719 how niggas get when they broke. Basketball brings out and 737 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,960 because you don't really play like pick up football like 738 00:36:44,039 --> 00:36:48,159 that pick up basketball, bro, it brings something out of niggas. 739 00:36:48,519 --> 00:36:50,719 I think that I don't understand. I think for me 740 00:36:51,119 --> 00:36:52,960 like you just said the whole ass and I'm like, damn, 741 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,559 I gotta be a bit. I scored five buckets. 742 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,840 Speaker 1: You a hold up. I remember playing. I'm playing basketball 743 00:36:59,079 --> 00:37:00,840 with my nigga tongue. Good he rest in peace. We 744 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:06,000 was over Salem, across the street from Brendaway, No, across 745 00:37:06,039 --> 00:37:09,079 the highway from Brnaway. It's from next to LC across 746 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,519 from it. But that was the only basketball Kobe had 747 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,320 and for some that day, man, I must have watched 748 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,920 and one nigga. This is when they was on ESPN, 749 00:37:18,159 --> 00:37:19,880 so by now you can watch it every day. You 750 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,079 weren't just it was wasn't just volume four and volume 751 00:37:22,159 --> 00:37:25,920 three the tape tape they was on ESPN. So, nigga, 752 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,719 we go to Salem. I'm dribbling and ship and for 753 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,960 some reason, I just kept hitting threes. Bro. I just 754 00:37:32,159 --> 00:37:36,000 was coming down and being just flagoring with the with 755 00:37:36,119 --> 00:37:39,880 the road the shamguard and I'm just shooting and They're like, 756 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,840 who the fuck is this? Niggas is going crazy. But 757 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,559 I'm like, damn, I can't have a good game. I 758 00:37:45,599 --> 00:37:49,440 done played five games. I was I was smid all 759 00:37:49,599 --> 00:37:53,119 four fifth game warmed up now and now I got 760 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,360 beef with everybody. I'm like, god, it just and then 761 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,400 they like, you don't even play like that. That's what 762 00:37:58,559 --> 00:38:00,360 it is. They always say that to me. You don't 763 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,960 even play like that. Now they angry. I'm like, bro, 764 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:08,960 you need therapy. It's like Carrie, Bro, Bro, Carrie got 765 00:38:09,039 --> 00:38:09,599 no fight, he. 766 00:38:09,599 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 2: Said, like that My faan la fitis because the nigga 767 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,519 kept talking ship because that nigga still like in his prime, 768 00:38:14,599 --> 00:38:17,480 so he's still nice. And I guess the nigga is 769 00:38:17,639 --> 00:38:20,559 mad because he good Carry was probably busting out, bro, 770 00:38:20,679 --> 00:38:23,639 he would and Carrie is real sarcastic me too. That's 771 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,960 that's the problem too, And he said, niggas don't like 772 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,920 sarcastic and you know Carry, you know, light skinned looking dude. 773 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,400 So niggas have always tried us because we don't look threatening, 774 00:38:31,519 --> 00:38:33,320 but we know how to get down. I'm gonna just 775 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,239 put it like that, bro, he said, like the. 776 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,039 Speaker 1: Nigga walked up on him, and he said he turned 777 00:38:37,039 --> 00:38:39,159 around and just like two pieces ass, because like, bro, 778 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,159 why are you And it's like I don't and it's like, bro, 779 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,519 just because I'm getting buckets like Bro, why are you 780 00:38:45,639 --> 00:38:48,199 so angry? It's not that serious. A lot of niggas angry. 781 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,519 I realized that I grew up. I grew up from 782 00:38:51,559 --> 00:38:57,239 the parents. I grew up around niggas that didn't like sarcasm. 783 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 3: Bro. 784 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,400 Speaker 1: Like, your sense of humor can get you in a 785 00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,400 lot of bullshit, Broeh, I grew up. I didn't care 786 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,760 for Martin Bro. I didn't care for Jamie Fox Show. 787 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,199 I didn't care for the Wayne Brothers. I like seinfail 788 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:14,480 bro like, I like dry sor, I like extreme. I 789 00:39:14,639 --> 00:39:17,400 like my shit dry than a bitch, bro like. And 790 00:39:18,639 --> 00:39:21,400 it took me copping weed from my homeboy Mirth and 791 00:39:21,519 --> 00:39:23,920 he was like, he said something, and I had came 792 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,679 back with a reddy response, and he was like, Bro, 793 00:39:26,679 --> 00:39:29,800 you've been funny. You've been you always been talking shit 794 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,840 since we met, bro, and you got the best sense 795 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,800 of humor. Bro, that shit just funny. And in my mind, 796 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,280 nobody had ever told me that because I always been 797 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,760 in the smart mouth. Nigga, always been the asshole, That's 798 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,199 how people describe it. But it's not the asshole. It's 799 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,400 just when you hear when you hear a nigga that 800 00:39:45,599 --> 00:39:48,559 like the slapstick comedy. Yo, mama, joke this this this 801 00:39:49,079 --> 00:39:52,199 talk to a nigga that is like witty. You start 802 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,679 to see how dumb this nigga really is. I'm not 803 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,639 a smart mouth or asshole. You just really are dumb. 804 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,000 You don't know anything. You probably like Jason Bateman A 805 00:40:02,039 --> 00:40:03,320 lot of those I don't know who that is? 806 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,880 Speaker 2: Who that the dude from Horrible Bosses? He was Kevin 807 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,199 Spacey was his boss. Have you seen Horrible Bosses? So 808 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:11,920 it was the one you know, they all had their boss. 809 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:13,960 It was Kevin Spacey's was his boss. 810 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 1: The only person I know in that movie is Kevin 811 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,320 Spacey and Jennifers. Bro. 812 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,119 Speaker 2: Jason Bateman had some of the most show your pictures. 813 00:40:20,119 --> 00:40:22,639 He's got some of the best anything he's in. I'm 814 00:40:22,639 --> 00:40:25,360 gonna watch if it's a comedy, just because his dry humor. 815 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,800 Speaker 1: The dry hummor. Bro, it's just so it's super fun 816 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,400 to get like you like the Office, No, my wife 817 00:40:32,079 --> 00:40:34,400 get into ship like that. Man, I get I like 818 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:39,119 Curby Enthusiasm, Sein failed. That's really that's pretty much it. 819 00:40:40,119 --> 00:40:44,840 Anything anything else is oh yeah, that was my nigger, bro. 820 00:40:45,199 --> 00:40:49,639 Oh yeah, he's funny. He's funny and he's very intentional. 821 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 2: It is just like it's a quick short, like oh, 822 00:40:52,039 --> 00:40:54,880 you're just gonna do that, huh swear to guy Bro. 823 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,280 Speaker 1: But a lot of the times too, like real quick. 824 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:04,440 They was talking about if hip hop has been more 825 00:41:04,599 --> 00:41:08,440 useful detrimental to the black community, and I say detrimental. 826 00:41:09,559 --> 00:41:12,000 I don't feel like hip hop has saved us at all. 827 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,760 I feel like if anything is making it worse, it's 828 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,280 making everything. I feel like. I feel like if you 829 00:41:18,639 --> 00:41:22,360 if you turn on the TV right and you see 830 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,920 let's go back to two thousand and three, four Got 831 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:36,800 y'all Rule, Nelly fifty Jay, Kanye, Ludicris, Ludicris, t I chingy, 832 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:41,480 motherfucking j Kwan, Nigga you got started to Jesus started 833 00:41:41,519 --> 00:41:46,960 a slide pause. He tried to bubble up. I never 834 00:41:47,039 --> 00:41:50,760 could identify with anybody except Kanye. Until Kanye was came along. 835 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,679 I didn't identify with nobody because I'm not a drug dealer. 836 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:57,199 I'm not aggive from the streets. I don't call women bitches, 837 00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,199 I don't outside the podcast and I don't I'm not. 838 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:05,800 I'm just not that nigga. Ever, and then after after Kanye, 839 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,400 the next person that I can relate to was Drake 840 00:42:09,119 --> 00:42:12,639 and that's a big ass fucking never identified with. No, 841 00:42:13,519 --> 00:42:15,519 but that's good. He's a good rapper. I like Loope. 842 00:42:15,639 --> 00:42:18,360 But did I look at him and be like, oh, 843 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,039 he's kind of like me, like you could see your 844 00:42:20,079 --> 00:42:22,239 life in him? No, but I would. 845 00:42:22,519 --> 00:42:24,599 Speaker 2: I mean, I will compliment you on that, because that's 846 00:42:24,639 --> 00:42:26,880 basically saying that you stayed true to you who you were. 847 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,119 A lot of people would just try to become those individuals. 848 00:42:30,559 --> 00:42:32,599 Speaker 1: But I mean I say that, I say, I say, 849 00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:37,320 I'm just I brought that up because like, but that's 850 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,400 I mean, that's a positive characteristic. A lot of a 851 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,320 lot of black A lot of black guys can look 852 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:45,280 up to Hey, I think because they were Hoopers or 853 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,159 Kobe Bryant or Michael Jordan or Shaquilla O'Neil or Madic 854 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,639 Johnson or jay Z because they sell dope, or Beanie 855 00:42:51,639 --> 00:42:54,519 Siegel because they aggressive and sell dope, or who or 856 00:42:54,599 --> 00:42:57,760 Boosy or Webby, Like they can identify themselves and part 857 00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,480 of their lives with all of these different people. Then 858 00:43:00,519 --> 00:43:04,960 I couldn't. So I often found myself not liking a 859 00:43:05,039 --> 00:43:07,679 lot of the content that was made because, Yeah, the 860 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:12,400 beat is nice or you dressed cool, but I don't. 861 00:43:13,039 --> 00:43:14,840 I can't relate to any of this shit. Bro. I'm 862 00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,880 trying not to go to jail because my mama don't. 863 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,159 I feel like my mama be mad. My mom had 864 00:43:19,199 --> 00:43:21,079 me at fourteen. I'm not out here fucking like that 865 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,400 because I don't want to be. I don't want to 866 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:24,960 have kidscause I don't want to let my mama down. 867 00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,199 You know what I'm saying. I don't like confrontations, so 868 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,639 I'm not really into aggressive shit. You know what I'm saying. 869 00:43:30,639 --> 00:43:32,119 I'm not going to the club because it's a little 870 00:43:32,199 --> 00:43:34,519 John Era and niggas was just stealing off on niggas, 871 00:43:34,559 --> 00:43:37,280 So I'm not just not going. I'm not doing none 872 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,599 of that shit. Bro. And the older I get, I realized, 873 00:43:39,679 --> 00:43:43,199 like a lot of the people that was identifying themselves 874 00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,400 with these rappers, it didn't work out well for them 875 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,559 and they didn't even have to do it. 876 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,440 Speaker 2: I was did you feel like you identified or aspire 877 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:51,760 to be any of those type of people? 878 00:43:52,039 --> 00:43:54,039 Speaker 1: Nah? But I lived around it, okay. 879 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,800 Speaker 2: Because me personally, I was like I Gez and Wayne 880 00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,880 was like my niggas growing up. But I didn't aspire 881 00:44:00,079 --> 00:44:03,320 to do, Like, I just really fucked with their music 882 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,599 and literally in the moments I'm rapping them lyrics, I'm not. 883 00:44:07,079 --> 00:44:09,880 As soon as I get home, I'm rhythm. In my 884 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,639 regular life, I'm identified with the pain. 885 00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,719 Speaker 1: Of the shit that they was talking about at that time, 886 00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,239 because my older cousins and the older brothers, they was 887 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,599 all in the dope game, you know what I'm saying. 888 00:44:21,639 --> 00:44:25,199 So the pain of niggas going to jail and your 889 00:44:25,599 --> 00:44:31,400 you know, grandparents dying, mama's dying, and you can't see it, 890 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,239 but I could see it, you know what I'm saying, Like, 891 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,760 I take a lot. I take a lot in that. 892 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,159 I think a lot of people are my family your 893 00:44:39,639 --> 00:44:42,760 big pause that a lot of people in my family 894 00:44:45,079 --> 00:44:47,679 don't realize even they don't even realize it for themselves, 895 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,280 you know what I'm saying. And that's why I feel 896 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,719 like I'm That's why I'm so family oriented now, you 897 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,639 know what I'm saying, I'm not only there a few 898 00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,280 grands or whatever that likes to be around. I had 899 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:03,320 remember we talked about that last time I went. I went. 900 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,719 I went to the butter that Sunday and uh, my 901 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,159 my cousin live over there they live off of he 902 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,039 lived over there, like ten minutes away. So I stopped 903 00:45:12,039 --> 00:45:15,440 by over there, and I was just sitting there and 904 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,920 I was just like, damn, I haven't been here since 905 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,639 last year, since the last butter. I was just looking 906 00:45:21,639 --> 00:45:24,639 around like damn. And I and granted, me and my 907 00:45:24,679 --> 00:45:26,840 wife been going through ship with with the with the kids, 908 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,880 with the deaths, with the moving and all the type 909 00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:34,320 of ship, but I was just looking around, like why 910 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,039 don't I like being around? And it's because a lot 911 00:45:37,119 --> 00:45:39,880 of the times they made me feel weird for not 912 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,199 being into the ship, the very ship that I'm telling 913 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,599 you that I don't like. Yeah, it's not a comfortable environment, 914 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,360 Like I don't they nigga, they keep keying over the 915 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:52,480 waying brothers. I'm like, these niggas is corny. They keep 916 00:45:52,559 --> 00:45:54,719 keying up with Martin with the with the fake dog man. 917 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,400 This ship is corny. They like, I just didn't identify 918 00:45:58,519 --> 00:46:01,159 with it. And and I'm saying because I'm being over dramatic, 919 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:05,800 but I never no. And I feel like a lot 920 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:12,400 of a lot of a lot of Black culture only 921 00:46:13,199 --> 00:46:18,199 forecast certain type of guys. They only forecast, they only 922 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:22,079 they only shed life on or shed light on the 923 00:46:22,199 --> 00:46:24,960 niggas I do not identify with. And I don't like 924 00:46:25,079 --> 00:46:27,360 that because I because with my son, and my son 925 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:31,440 just discovered speed Uh, the nigga that be with Cosina, 926 00:46:32,519 --> 00:46:38,079 the nigga that be barking, just discover him. And I'm like, now, 927 00:46:38,159 --> 00:46:42,119 this is cool because if he watched Cosanat, I like Cosinat, 928 00:46:42,559 --> 00:46:44,519 and if he watches him and likes the way that 929 00:46:44,599 --> 00:46:46,679 he dress and likes the way that he talks, because 930 00:46:46,679 --> 00:46:48,559 I like, I like all of it about Cosnat. He 931 00:46:48,679 --> 00:46:51,920 like a very well put together young nigga. We didn't 932 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,199 have that growing up, Like just a popular nigga that 933 00:46:55,400 --> 00:47:00,480 was just regular. Hell nah, he got it. I don't, bro, 934 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,880 no think about who comes. I'm trying to think Conston 935 00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,840 that was just like Consonat is just a nigga in 936 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,920 this room, playing with his friends, setting shit on fire, 937 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,239 chilling with Kevin Hart and Drew like he ain't he ain't, 938 00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,360 he don't cuss a lot, he ain't, he ain't none 939 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,679 of that shit. Bro, We didn't have that. We didn't 940 00:47:18,679 --> 00:47:20,000 we didn't even have YouTube growing up. 941 00:47:20,079 --> 00:47:21,519 Speaker 2: Well, I was about to say, do you think it's 942 00:47:21,599 --> 00:47:23,440 because of the lack of the presence of them, or 943 00:47:23,599 --> 00:47:27,039 it was just the lack of the resource to see it, 944 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,719 like the YouTube, the facebooks, and the internet base. 945 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 1: I don't think niggas was really just trying to be 946 00:47:31,519 --> 00:47:38,239 themselves that I'm not. Just I'm asked. That's what it is. Yeah, 947 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,079 niggas just didn't want to be themselves because I'm trying 948 00:47:40,119 --> 00:47:41,559 to think of who. It's crazy. 949 00:47:41,559 --> 00:47:44,679 Speaker 2: I don't remember no particular person that I ever really like, 950 00:47:45,039 --> 00:47:47,400 looked up to or aspire to kind. 951 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,159 Speaker 1: Of be neither Bro. Me neither. Bro. 952 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 2: It's like I just took bits and pieces from everything 953 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:54,360 that I liked and it kind of just molded me. 954 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,400 But even still, it wasn't to the point to where 955 00:47:56,519 --> 00:47:58,559 I'm intentionally like, well, he do this, so I want 956 00:47:58,599 --> 00:48:01,360 to do this this way. I kind of just became 957 00:48:01,559 --> 00:48:04,280 like a melting pot of us so many different things, 958 00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,639 whether it be my peers, my relatives, what I'm indulging 959 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,480 in on TV, it was just a lot of. 960 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,320 Speaker 1: And I think for me, I didn't I didn't take anything, Bro. 961 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:15,000 I was just a lonely asked kid out here. Bro. 962 00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:20,639 That's why I don't. I just just nothing identified with 963 00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,119 what you wanted to do. So you was like I'm 964 00:48:23,199 --> 00:48:24,800 just better. I'll just yeah, because I think it's it's 965 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:28,880 in hindsight. I think it's easier to think like that. 966 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,679 We always had YouTube, and then we always had the Internet, 967 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,880 but we only saw what was on MTV jams, BT, 968 00:48:36,559 --> 00:48:40,159 rapt City and what we saw outside and what I 969 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,760 saw outside the neighborhoods we lived in my home did 970 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,800 a really good job of keeping us away from ship 971 00:48:46,199 --> 00:48:49,280 like whether it be just where we moved it, it wasn't. 972 00:48:50,599 --> 00:48:53,079 It was close, but it was out the way. Yeah, 973 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,760 because it wasn't Amberwood, you know what I'm saying, Like 974 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,079 she did enough to keep us out of situations like 975 00:48:58,159 --> 00:49:00,519 that's where it wasn't like I was peer pressure to 976 00:49:00,639 --> 00:49:04,880 be a drug dealer, peer pressure to be a street nigga, 977 00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,400 peer pressure to be whatever I could be. I just 978 00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,239 didn't see anything, you know what I'm saying. And if 979 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,800 I if I had met, if I had made friends 980 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,039 that accepted me, then great, because all my friends was 981 00:49:16,119 --> 00:49:18,480 either niggas who loved to fight, niggas who sold drugs, 982 00:49:18,559 --> 00:49:21,079 niggas like I had. I was around it once we 983 00:49:21,119 --> 00:49:23,239 got into high school and shit, and then niggas embraced 984 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,519 me because I could rap. I was just about to ask, 985 00:49:25,599 --> 00:49:27,760 so how did you connect with them rap? Because you 986 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:29,639 can't rap better than me, nigga. I think about this 987 00:49:29,639 --> 00:49:31,719 shit all day, all that because. 988 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,039 Speaker 2: That now that makes me go back to think to 989 00:49:33,119 --> 00:49:36,360 some of my closest partners growing up, like Kiweezy, who 990 00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:40,199 was here Billy's little brother, Like we're clearly polar opposites 991 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,599 on a lot of different spectrums, but bro, that was 992 00:49:42,679 --> 00:49:45,039 my literally my best friend for like three years and 993 00:49:45,039 --> 00:49:47,840 the only reason we went apart is because he ended 994 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,679 up going to a different school. So it's like that's 995 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,519 why to this day though, like we are still like 996 00:49:51,639 --> 00:49:55,519 that's my boy, my boy Kenny Elijah. Like it's a 997 00:49:55,559 --> 00:49:59,599 lot of my niggas who like were indulge in different 998 00:49:59,639 --> 00:50:00,679 shit they didn't like. 999 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,199 Speaker 1: But then was my niggas what what was the commonality? 1000 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,039 Speaker 2: I don't know, I really, I mean it was it 1001 00:50:07,159 --> 00:50:09,599 was sports and girls, of course, But even that, I 1002 00:50:09,679 --> 00:50:11,719 feel like the bond that we have to where we 1003 00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,119 still have it today in our thirties, like it's got 1004 00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:15,599 to be something else, and I don't. 1005 00:50:15,519 --> 00:50:17,960 Speaker 1: Still I think. I think when I talked to my 1006 00:50:18,039 --> 00:50:21,320 niggas from my nigga called me her Ron and done. 1007 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,559 He called me. He was like talking on the phone 1008 00:50:23,599 --> 00:50:26,559 for like thirty minutes, forty five minutes about kids, marriage 1009 00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:30,960 like that, And I was like, Bro, I don't know 1010 00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:34,880 what brings. I don't know what feeling I'm feeling right now. 1011 00:50:35,119 --> 00:50:39,000 It's a it's joy. But the fact that we made 1012 00:50:39,039 --> 00:50:43,679 it out alive from the like, from the trenches. I 1013 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:48,159 feel like this is what makes me connect to you 1014 00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:54,000 more today that we both was all of us black 1015 00:50:54,079 --> 00:50:56,920 boys running through the motherfucking jungle. We could have died 1016 00:50:57,039 --> 00:50:59,679 a long time ago, and now we live in the 1017 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,840 talk about those Yeah, we could have. We could have 1018 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,440 died alone. We could have we could have way more kids, 1019 00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:07,360 we could have you know what I mean, just beef 1020 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,199 out here. We can have. We could be so Indianapolis 1021 00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,800 it's not a forgiven place for black boys. Bro. It's 1022 00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,960 just not. Bro, It's just it's just it's just not so. 1023 00:51:16,079 --> 00:51:20,199 When you when you if you ever went to I P. S. 1024 00:51:20,679 --> 00:51:23,920 And then went to Wayne Township or Lawrence Township or 1025 00:51:24,079 --> 00:51:26,440 whoever whatever other township school, and you just see the 1026 00:51:26,639 --> 00:51:31,440 vast difference and then the environments and then you because 1027 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,280 one I didn't know that I PS existed, so I went, 1028 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:36,400 I moved here from Gary, went to Wayne Township. So 1029 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:40,679 it was like I PS and Gary, Yeah, motherfucking dangerous 1030 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:48,360 minds to Wayne to Wayne Township just motherfucking daisies and roses, 1031 00:51:49,079 --> 00:51:52,199 and then going to Ips back to Dangerous Minds to 1032 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,920 be reminded, and then then back to Wayne Townships Ben 1033 00:51:56,000 --> 00:52:00,320 Davis and then transferring to Lawrence Township. I I met 1034 00:52:00,519 --> 00:52:04,679 so many different people, bro, and moving from side of 1035 00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,519 towns and different cities and shit like that to know, 1036 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,039 like a lot of these some of these niggas is dead, 1037 00:52:10,119 --> 00:52:11,840 some of these niggas is perked out. Some of these 1038 00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:16,440 niggas as zombies out here, bro, with no destination. Like Bro, 1039 00:52:16,639 --> 00:52:18,639 like I said, we climbing up, we climbing out. Everyth 1040 00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,239 might turn around because we were talking ourselves off the ledge. 1041 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,719 But nigga, we can literally look down and be like, oh, 1042 00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,079 I'm way higher than I thought I was. 1043 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:30,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting you say that because that might have 1044 00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,159 a lot to do with me being well rounded because 1045 00:52:32,199 --> 00:52:35,960 I went to Lawrence Township schools primarily and then Warren Township, 1046 00:52:36,039 --> 00:52:38,679 but I lived in IPS. Yeah, so it's like your 1047 00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:42,639 environment outside outside from my outside friends went to Arlington 1048 00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,840 and the texts and all that, and then I went 1049 00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:48,519 to school with a mixed because you know Lawrence Township. 1050 00:52:48,559 --> 00:52:51,679 I mean it's post Road is going in. But I'm 1051 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,159 also getting the kids that live out in Fishers and 1052 00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:57,079 carful them. So it's like that, that honestly might be 1053 00:52:57,199 --> 00:52:59,400 why I'm so well balanced, because I got a good 1054 00:52:59,559 --> 00:53:00,320 mix of everything. 1055 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,599 Speaker 1: Because you can't because you couldn't. You couldn't go to 1056 00:53:02,679 --> 00:53:06,599 Ben Davis and b like that. Yeah, I was stuck 1057 00:53:06,639 --> 00:53:11,719 in the box. Where'd you go? Because let's see, I 1058 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:16,719 went to Christmas Addicts because that's my neighborhood. And from 1059 00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,679 there we went to Tech and then I left and 1060 00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:23,960 went to Mount Vernon All White School and then back 1061 00:53:24,079 --> 00:53:27,159 to Tech. So it's like all of my friends were 1062 00:53:27,199 --> 00:53:29,760 neighborhood friends and we all went to school together. You 1063 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,639 got Hallville right up the street, you got two g 1064 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,559 right up the street, you got hard Park, Like I 1065 00:53:35,639 --> 00:53:37,280 went to school with all them niggas, you know what 1066 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,800 I'm saying. And then looking back, as y'all was just saying, 1067 00:53:40,679 --> 00:53:42,440 there's a lot of niggas that didn't make it. Bro, 1068 00:53:42,679 --> 00:53:45,679 you know what I'm saying. But I think what it 1069 00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:48,519 was for me. Is like, my mom knew the environment 1070 00:53:48,559 --> 00:53:52,119 we was in, Yeah, but she always kind of kept 1071 00:53:52,159 --> 00:53:55,559 me a little bit out the way, Like when the 1072 00:53:55,559 --> 00:53:57,679 streets lights came on, I had to be in the crib. 1073 00:53:58,079 --> 00:54:03,039 My mom was a fucking hood rap bro Like, and 1074 00:54:03,159 --> 00:54:05,599 I mean that in the most respectful way possible. My 1075 00:54:05,679 --> 00:54:09,039 mama came from a very fucked up environment, right, and 1076 00:54:09,159 --> 00:54:11,320 it was an ideal for a fucking fourteen year old. 1077 00:54:11,559 --> 00:54:13,599 It wasn't. It just wasn't ideal for Like, when we 1078 00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,280 have conversations now, I'd be like, Bro, you've you kind 1079 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,119 of messed me up a little bit, but I understand, like, 1080 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,199 I'm not holding against you. So when we moved here, bro, 1081 00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:24,920 she nigga, she only hung out with Gary Nigga in 1082 00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,440 the nineties, Nigga was it was crazy. So when we 1083 00:54:28,559 --> 00:54:31,639 moved here, she knew exactly how to identify ship. She 1084 00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,119 knew exactly what to know. Y'all not doing that, No, 1085 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,519 y'all not going there. She was aware, well, she was 1086 00:54:36,639 --> 00:54:39,639 super aware. Nigga. Yeah, I gotta, I gotta, I gotta 1087 00:54:39,679 --> 00:54:42,199 give her some flowers for that. But I mean, you 1088 00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:46,400 turned out turn out, Yeah, it turned out good, though 1089 00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,320 you know what, you know what's crazy. Yeah, you're right. 1090 00:54:48,519 --> 00:54:53,239 But what's crazy is is that the white kids. Since 1091 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,679 we speaking about the environments, then we got to go 1092 00:54:55,719 --> 00:55:00,079 because I'm hungry the environment. The white kids, he is 1093 00:55:00,119 --> 00:55:04,719 shooting at the schools. Parents getting charged, All right, they say, 1094 00:55:06,159 --> 00:55:12,400 they say the kids parents saw the signs, the signs 1095 00:55:12,519 --> 00:55:16,920 that they needed help, their mental health wasn't the greatest, 1096 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,559 that they posed a threat, and that they often talked 1097 00:55:20,599 --> 00:55:22,920 about things that they wanted to do in regards to 1098 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:27,400 harmon people. And everybody is saying, yeah, the parents should 1099 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:32,079 be held accountable for the things that their child did 1100 00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:37,119 at this school. All right, let's take this to Chicago. 1101 00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:43,079 Let's take it to the violent Chicago. These kids are 1102 00:55:43,119 --> 00:55:49,360 getting suspended from school from kindergarten, first grade. They grew 1103 00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:52,199 up in the environment that they grew up in. No father, 1104 00:55:52,679 --> 00:55:54,360 or maybe they do got a father, but he's not 1105 00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,119 a good role model. Maybe the mama not a good 1106 00:55:56,199 --> 00:55:59,920 role model. They're getting their hand, they're getting access to guns, 1107 00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:04,639 and they're killing people. But they've been getting suspended and 1108 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:08,880 having school conferences with you since he was in first grade. 1109 00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,760 At what point do we think that the government gonna 1110 00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,360 say Okay, if we can charge these little white boys 1111 00:56:17,599 --> 00:56:20,639 for going to schools and shooting them up, then we 1112 00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:24,440 can charge these black parents for sending their fucking juvenile 1113 00:56:24,519 --> 00:56:28,320 delinquents to school or not or not sending them to school. 1114 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,400 But they going around the neighborhood killing people, robbing stores, 1115 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:36,000 stealing cars. Like the nigga that died in Philadelphia who 1116 00:56:36,119 --> 00:56:40,199 dug up somebody's grave and then they killed them. The 1117 00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,800 daddy should have been like the nigga who dug up 1118 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,599 their graves should have been in jail, and the fucking 1119 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:48,199 parents should have been because who the fuck what type 1120 00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:52,320 of parent are you? You? Who are you like? These 1121 00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,880 niggas are terrorizing shit, bro the key to boys that's 1122 00:56:55,960 --> 00:57:03,320 going around stealing the people thing. Listen brutally right now. 1123 00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,840 Speaker 2: I stepped away from I worked in the youth in 1124 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:11,039 juvenile system for like five and a half years, and 1125 00:57:11,159 --> 00:57:14,760 by year four, I knew I wasn't gonna be able 1126 00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,760 to make it because I stopped feeling sympathy for the 1127 00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:22,760 ignorance of these little demonic bastards. And I remember mister 1128 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,840 Fred called me and tried to get me back into 1129 00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:30,360 doing it, and I went for like I went for 1130 00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:34,800 like three weeks and within that third week, motherfucking kid 1131 00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,280 got stolen and I told him, I said, I can't 1132 00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:40,039 do it. That just triggered me because I'm gonna end 1133 00:57:40,119 --> 00:57:42,000 up walking in that juvenile and I was gonna take 1134 00:57:42,039 --> 00:57:44,039 this for me to hear one of them little fuckers explain, 1135 00:57:44,079 --> 00:57:45,400 because they be telling on themselves. 1136 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:46,880 Speaker 1: But once they're in there, they're like, yeah, bro, me 1137 00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,480 and my boys, we had a kid. We almost got it. 1138 00:57:49,679 --> 00:57:50,239 I'm a snap. 1139 00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,639 Speaker 2: Now I got a case for grabbing on the fucking 1140 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:56,280 teenager in juvenile center. So it's like, I don't But 1141 00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:58,159 like you said, bro, they're they're fucking heathens. 1142 00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:03,320 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here trying to trying to think because so 1143 00:58:03,519 --> 00:58:08,199 I was shout out to Voices. I was at an 1144 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:11,000 event they put on for the youth, and Voices is 1145 00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:16,519 an organization, improfit organization that deals with trouble teams. And 1146 00:58:16,599 --> 00:58:18,960 as I'm sitting there and I'm looking at these kids, bro, 1147 00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:26,880 they're like fourteen, fifteen, sixteen ankle bracelet. So in my mind, 1148 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:29,840 but but me as an adult and what I went 1149 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:32,239 through growing up because I had a choice to do 1150 00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,400 whatever the fuck I wanted to do. You see what 1151 00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:37,360 I'm saying, and I'm looking at them, I'm like, man, 1152 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,880 what kind of mind frame or what is it that 1153 00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:45,480 you're going through at home to where you feel like 1154 00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:49,000 this is okay, this is okay, or for you to 1155 00:58:49,119 --> 00:58:54,280 go out rob somebody, kill somebody. I didn't and the 1156 00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:58,079 OG told me just last weekend, like, man, they just 1157 00:58:58,159 --> 00:59:01,960 don't value life, you know what I'm saying. And I 1158 00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,440 don't know if they feel like they don't have nothing 1159 00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:09,920 to live for or you know, I can say majority 1160 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:12,280 of them probably just doing it because it's a trend. 1161 00:59:13,039 --> 00:59:15,159 You ever see you ever see somebody You ever see 1162 00:59:15,199 --> 00:59:19,440 somebody really dumb, like just the dumbest I ain't gonna 1163 00:59:19,719 --> 00:59:23,880 just the dumb dumbest motherfucker online on Instagram doing something, 1164 00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:25,679 and then you go to the comments and the comments 1165 00:59:25,719 --> 00:59:28,079 say this person can vote. You ever seen that comment 1166 00:59:28,159 --> 00:59:31,920 for they put that up there. Now a lot of 1167 00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:33,639 people be like, and this person can vote like the 1168 00:59:33,679 --> 00:59:35,719 shit that they be saying, be like, bro, you sound 1169 00:59:36,079 --> 00:59:38,239 dumbest fuck. And then the person going to comments and 1170 00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:42,119 be like, this person can vote. When you look at 1171 00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,400 when you look at people who are just not right 1172 00:59:45,599 --> 00:59:50,159 up here right and they are just demonic or just 1173 00:59:51,119 --> 00:59:54,920 lack self awareness. They don't have self value any of 1174 00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:57,159 that shit. They don't give a fuck about society. They 1175 00:59:57,199 --> 00:59:59,280 throw shit at the window, They throw they trash at 1176 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,079 the window and shit like that. They they just don't 1177 01:00:02,159 --> 01:00:05,239 have a fucking respect for authority. They can have children, Yeah, 1178 01:00:06,039 --> 01:00:08,400 they can have They can meet somebody just like them 1179 01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:10,039 and have a baby. 1180 01:00:10,199 --> 01:00:13,960 Speaker 2: Ye create nom and creating and then and then seed 1181 01:00:14,039 --> 01:00:17,079 of Chucky, the seed of Chucky. Then and then this person, 1182 01:00:17,159 --> 01:00:21,840 this kid grows up not experiencing love, no affection, no attention, 1183 01:00:22,679 --> 01:00:28,599 no comfort, no safe environment, fight or flight all the time, quarters, 1184 01:00:28,639 --> 01:00:30,199 all levels, all the way high and ship. 1185 01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:36,519 Speaker 1: They don't have no the environment. Yeah. Yeah, that person 1186 01:00:36,559 --> 01:00:38,960 who raised that kid that went out and shot somebody 1187 01:00:39,039 --> 01:00:42,840 because they felt like like a nigga, a nigga who 1188 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:46,599 a girl a nigga out and a girl a nigga 1189 01:00:46,639 --> 01:00:48,320 outside and the girl walked by. He said, can I 1190 01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,159 hay a number? She say no, he shoot her. You 1191 01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:53,480 should go to jail and your parents should go to jail. Yeah, 1192 01:00:53,599 --> 01:00:56,239 because who told you that was? Okay? Because why are 1193 01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,679 you so? Why why are you responding like this? What 1194 01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:03,119 happened in your life? Okay? Somebody failed you. Somebody failed you, 1195 01:01:03,559 --> 01:01:06,079 and they need to be held accountable for this, ship bro, 1196 01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,239 because somebody lost their daughter because you didn't do right. 1197 01:01:09,519 --> 01:01:14,639 And even with you speaking of that, my cadolesss to 1198 01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:21,119 to the women here recently that just passed from gun violence. Uh, 1199 01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:25,440 somebody got some young lady was sitting in the car. 1200 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:27,400 I don't know the full stories, and don't judge me, 1201 01:01:28,039 --> 01:01:32,320 but somebody was sitting in their car. A car drove 1202 01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:36,880 around two times, came back around the third time, shot 1203 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:38,639 the light, unloaded the clip on the lady while she 1204 01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,760 was sitting right in her car. Why it happened, I 1205 01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:44,760 don't know, but it's a real close friend of mine. 1206 01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:48,480 That's his little sister. So my cadolences to her. Jesus. 1207 01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:52,000 Just a lady that was at riverside chilling with her 1208 01:01:52,039 --> 01:01:54,800 friends and then a girl driving a car lost control 1209 01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:58,880 of the car, hit her, got out the car and ran. Okay, 1210 01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:03,079 you know what I'm saying, so fucked up. Back to 1211 01:02:03,199 --> 01:02:05,920 what you were saying, Yeah, you'all parents should be hell 1212 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:07,880 fucking account because you're thinking about think about it like this, 1213 01:02:08,199 --> 01:02:10,559 bemus who taught you to hit somebody and run? 1214 01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:12,719 Speaker 2: Not even that that goes back to the thing of 1215 01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,760 me dislike ignorance, Because, Bro, I understand when y'all get 1216 01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:17,840 hell casted, y'all want to drive fast, go to a 1217 01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:19,639 motherfucking empty parking lot for that ship. 1218 01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,000 Speaker 1: Why are you driving down there? Bro? 1219 01:02:21,159 --> 01:02:23,360 Speaker 2: Every time I see a car driving down my street, 1220 01:02:23,679 --> 01:02:25,679 That's why I let my son play outside, because nigga, 1221 01:02:25,679 --> 01:02:29,440 I would I Bro, day a fucking car even has 1222 01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:32,440 to slam on their brakes too closely. It's like, why 1223 01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,000 are y'all so fucking ignorant that you gotta go sixty 1224 01:02:35,039 --> 01:02:37,800 miles an hour down to residential street? Take your ass 1225 01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:40,360 on the motherfucking highway, go to Washington Square Mall. That 1226 01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:45,840 lot is emptied in the bitch Donuts, Bro. But that 1227 01:02:46,039 --> 01:02:49,599 that's that ignorance that once again your parents ain't teach 1228 01:02:49,679 --> 01:02:51,159 you no kind of sense or something for you. 1229 01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:56,880 Speaker 1: I didn't realize how important it was or how quickly 1230 01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:00,679 you can fail your kid until I have my son. Yeah, Nigga, 1231 01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:05,119 my son. If I wasn't here for some strange reason 1232 01:03:05,199 --> 01:03:07,199 and he was missing me and he had I can 1233 01:03:07,239 --> 01:03:09,760 see why the little little niggas be showing out of school, 1234 01:03:10,119 --> 01:03:13,320 talking non stopping the fucking classroom, niggas, stealing shit out 1235 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:16,239 of the classroom, calling the teacher a bitch in the classroom, 1236 01:03:16,719 --> 01:03:19,559 skipping school. When he's skipping school, he doing be and 1237 01:03:19,639 --> 01:03:21,679 e you know, you know what I'm saying, kicking niggas doors. 1238 01:03:21,679 --> 01:03:24,519 Ain't he doing all type of shit? The parents failed them? 1239 01:03:25,519 --> 01:03:28,079 And on top of that, like and it's a slippery 1240 01:03:28,119 --> 01:03:31,079 slope because a lot of the times, well I guess 1241 01:03:31,079 --> 01:03:33,119 it got to be responsible for your dicking your pussy. 1242 01:03:33,159 --> 01:03:35,280 But a lot of the times the environments, like when 1243 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:38,119 niggas is struggling, you know what I'm saying, Like, we 1244 01:03:38,239 --> 01:03:42,039 don't come from it. We don't come from the background 1245 01:03:42,119 --> 01:03:44,920 where we can stay with our moms for forever without 1246 01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:47,360 feeling like we are being a burden to our mom 1247 01:03:47,559 --> 01:03:49,280 to save money, you know what I'm saying. And kicking 1248 01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,199 us out when we's sixteen, seventeen, eighteen years old, as 1249 01:03:52,199 --> 01:03:54,119 soon as we can get a place, go get a place. 1250 01:03:54,239 --> 01:03:57,159 It's that type of shit, ain't know, Hey, stay here 1251 01:03:57,400 --> 01:03:59,199 and let me let's build some morale. Let me teach 1252 01:03:59,199 --> 01:04:00,880 you how to say your money. Let me let's talk 1253 01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,840 about you out there. You ain't got to go nowhere. 1254 01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:08,599 I need help here. I got three kids. They gonna 1255 01:04:08,599 --> 01:04:11,159 stay with me until they get married. Y'all about to 1256 01:04:11,159 --> 01:04:14,840 take on some of these motherfucking bills. You gotta pay 1257 01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,119 some back pay with this. You gotta pay. You gotta 1258 01:04:17,159 --> 01:04:19,800 pay the motherfucking property tax. You gotta do something. You 1259 01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:22,360 can go cut the grass, go do something. But no, 1260 01:04:22,519 --> 01:04:26,360 we why are we operating? Why why are we operating 1261 01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,920 as if we're not a team? We are eight teens. 1262 01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:32,400 That's that's what I didn't see that. I didn't really 1263 01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:34,280 see that until I went to Hawaii. Bro. It's so 1264 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,320 expensive to live there that it's eight niggas in the house. 1265 01:04:38,239 --> 01:04:42,079 It's so expensive to they all sharing some bill. Bro. 1266 01:04:42,159 --> 01:04:44,960 Speaker 2: It's a dude that worked for me that he said 1267 01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:47,159 his older brother is a doctor and he's still living home. 1268 01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:51,920 Speaker 1: Motherfucker like thirty two. Yeah, he's like a heart surgeon. Yeah. 1269 01:04:53,159 --> 01:04:55,760 Why why do I need my own place? I'm never here? Bro? 1270 01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,039 Why do I need my and we be so weak? 1271 01:04:58,119 --> 01:05:00,559 The environment be so toxic that we can't even be 1272 01:05:00,719 --> 01:05:04,480 around our people's like that. Bro. Yeah, so it's like 1273 01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,480 we man, it's a long list of things that need 1274 01:05:07,599 --> 01:05:11,199 to be corrected. Man. And to end this, I think 1275 01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:12,920 before we getting. No, No, you can't end it on 1276 01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:14,280 that or were not to end it, But I think 1277 01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:19,320 what will help is value. Yeah. I want to talk 1278 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:21,880 about the super Bowl. Let's get it. I've been seeing 1279 01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:23,320 that because I want to go to ke double with 1280 01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:26,239 your niggas needs to eat before I go this doctor appointment. 1281 01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:29,840 Super Bowl? How do you feel about Little Wayne not performing? 1282 01:05:30,039 --> 01:05:32,440 I don't give a fuck, Bro. The super Bowl was 1283 01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:34,519 in the super Bowl was in New Orleans in twenty thirteen. 1284 01:05:34,679 --> 01:05:37,400 They didn't cry and complain. Then, why do you think 1285 01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:40,719 they carrying and complaining now? Because it's Kendrick. Because it's Kendrick, 1286 01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,920 So it's a whole Drake Wayne. If it was Master, 1287 01:05:45,119 --> 01:05:48,800 if it was Master P, they wouldn't give a fuck. Yeah, 1288 01:05:49,519 --> 01:05:52,079 if it was if it was if it and and 1289 01:05:52,199 --> 01:05:54,119 for all I know, Bro, this could be a fucking 1290 01:05:54,239 --> 01:05:57,119 roll out. Bro. Kendrick Lamar loves Little Wayne. 1291 01:05:57,159 --> 01:05:57,239 Speaker 3: Bro. 1292 01:05:57,519 --> 01:06:00,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, he idolizes Little Wayne. Bro. He has said it 1293 01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:03,159 a bunch of times. How do we know he wasn't 1294 01:06:03,159 --> 01:06:05,679 gonna bring him out cause, Nigga, this ain't your show, 1295 01:06:05,719 --> 01:06:07,800 it's my show. No, no no, But every super Bowl 1296 01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:10,559 they bring somebody out there, every single surprise. Yeah, it's 1297 01:06:10,599 --> 01:06:13,719 always a surprise, it's always somebody else. I think Rihanna 1298 01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:15,679 might be the only person that didn't bring somebody out, 1299 01:06:15,719 --> 01:06:17,280 but she had a bunch of hits. Yeah. 1300 01:06:17,519 --> 01:06:20,079 Speaker 2: I think the only thing that I don't think it 1301 01:06:20,079 --> 01:06:22,000 would be that is because of the Drake situation. 1302 01:06:22,199 --> 01:06:24,280 Speaker 1: Like, I don't know how to bro, Lil Wayne and 1303 01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:27,320 Rick Ross still do songs together. Bro, They're on a 1304 01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:29,800 song right now together. Bro, that that ship don't mean nothing. Bro. 1305 01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:31,880 I feel like I feel like this all could be 1306 01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,760 a rollout. Bro, I feel like it all is a rollout. 1307 01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:36,760 It could have been. It could have been the Drake 1308 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:39,679 and Kendrick beef, could have been a rollout from the jump. Bro, 1309 01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:44,559 I don't believe none of this ship wing gonna be 1310 01:06:44,599 --> 01:06:47,039 on the stage. When he says not like us, I 1311 01:06:47,039 --> 01:06:49,320 don't know if he's gonna do nothing like us. If 1312 01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:52,360 he do not like us, that's crazy. Oh, he's definitely 1313 01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:54,159 he's going to sing that song. Bro, that's what they 1314 01:06:54,239 --> 01:06:56,199 WoT him for. He's going to sing that song. There's 1315 01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:58,039 no way he won'ts that's what they WoT him for. 1316 01:07:00,159 --> 01:07:05,159 Get goosebumps. I hear that it might only be fifteen 1317 01:07:05,239 --> 01:07:07,440 seconds worth but they gonna hear that beat. They shut 1318 01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:11,400 out the mustard on the beat, kill that man. I 1319 01:07:11,599 --> 01:07:14,440 like that song. When I first heard it during the beef, 1320 01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:16,440 I was like, all right, okay, But then when I'm 1321 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:20,840 in a gym and they'd be like, and I think 1322 01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:24,880 for me. Kendrick Lamar, we know that he is better 1323 01:07:25,039 --> 01:07:28,920 for the culture than Drake. We all everyone knows that, bro. 1324 01:07:29,639 --> 01:07:32,840 Everyone knows that. I don't want to see Drake do 1325 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:36,800 hotline blank. I don't want to see Lil Wayne do lollipop. 1326 01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:38,719 I don't want to see Lil Wayne do a MILLI. 1327 01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:41,159 I don't want to see Lila Wayne do anything any 1328 01:07:41,239 --> 01:07:43,639 of the I don't want to see Lil Wayne do anything. 1329 01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:45,960 All new shit we'll see I don't want. I don't 1330 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,559 want to see Lil Wayne at all dressed like a 1331 01:07:48,679 --> 01:07:51,639 seventeen year old on a state Bro, you are forty, Bro, 1332 01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:56,079 put put some fucking clothes on and fucking stop using 1333 01:07:56,079 --> 01:08:00,000 auto tune and like, Bro, I don't I like Little Wayne. 1334 01:08:00,159 --> 01:08:02,039 I'm not a big ass Little Wayne fan like that. 1335 01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,199 I only listen to Little waynecause of the niggas in 1336 01:08:04,239 --> 01:08:06,000 the hung out with so squad tapes and all that 1337 01:08:06,039 --> 01:08:09,239 type of ship, but Bro, he had trash ass albums 1338 01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:13,679 until Carter One. Bro, he had trash albums until Carter 1339 01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:17,520 one Mixtapes was popping squads. The squads were got in 1340 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,119 them all that I ain't. And that's what I was 1341 01:08:20,199 --> 01:08:21,800 going to say. The songs that I would want to 1342 01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:23,960 hear him sing mixtape song, Yeah, they're not gonna be 1343 01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:26,520 on mixtape song. I don't want to see this nigga 1344 01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:32,159 do lollipop a millie. I would like to see that, 1345 01:08:32,199 --> 01:08:34,960 though it'll probably be uh, they should be fine. I 1346 01:08:35,119 --> 01:08:39,199 love that song. Bobby Valentino miss we letting him get 1347 01:08:39,239 --> 01:08:45,800 some bullshit off, bro. Yeah, like like ap Co, Bro, 1348 01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:48,479 what the fuck? Bro? We allowed a lot of rappers 1349 01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:49,960 to get some bullshit off. Bro. Because I was just 1350 01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:53,000 thinking the other day, I was like, man, I really 1351 01:08:53,079 --> 01:08:55,479 hated the fact that they put Ludacris on Amy Reeves 1352 01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:58,000 why Don't You fall in Love remix? They should have 1353 01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:01,119 put Jadakiss on that because Jadakiss was smoking ship back there. 1354 01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:08,000 But then Luda let me shut up. Luda had a 1355 01:09:08,119 --> 01:09:10,399 nice little run. Bro, go back and listen to it 1356 01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:12,600 and just see how corny he is. All I'm asking 1357 01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:15,359 just go back and listen to it and just see 1358 01:09:15,359 --> 01:09:17,640 how corny it is, bro, because that that was the 1359 01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:21,119 whole ti I thing, Like y'all like this that was 1360 01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:24,800 That was TIA's whole thing. Like, He's not a representation 1361 01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:27,000 of Atlanta, Bro, Yeah, that was his whole thing. So 1362 01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,840 when I go back and listen to it, I'll be like, Bro, 1363 01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:32,479 you're not a representation of Atlanta. I think it was 1364 01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:34,279 just one of the things where that ship was working. 1365 01:09:34,359 --> 01:09:37,119 So he was like, fuck it, I'm a ride this way, bitch, 1366 01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:40,920 get out the way. There was bangers back then. Oh no, 1367 01:09:43,159 --> 01:09:46,439 we never happened to bone crush it. I heard that, 1368 01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:50,640 so wasn't even his. I think, yeah, I heard never scared. 1369 01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:52,880 Wasn't his. I think he stole that from somebody. 1370 01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:55,119 Speaker 2: I don't know, But in two thousands was really probably 1371 01:09:55,159 --> 01:09:56,640 one of the most competitive times. 1372 01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:58,600 Speaker 1: If you really think about who I was out at 1373 01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:02,319 the time. You know who we need to that transgender 1374 01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:06,119 Sydney Starr, because how the fuck did you lie on 1375 01:10:06,239 --> 01:10:09,079 chingy like that kill his career and now you're on 1376 01:10:09,239 --> 01:10:11,880 Loving hip hop? How did you? How are you able 1377 01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:15,720 to lie like that? How did fabulous beat his wife up, 1378 01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:19,000 knock her two fout and have a versus y'all still 1379 01:10:19,039 --> 01:10:22,640 talking about Chris Brown? What the fuck is happened? Bro? 1380 01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:25,960 I don't like hip hop culture colective? Bro? I do 1381 01:10:26,119 --> 01:10:29,680 not like hip hop culture. What's selective? Outrageous? We let 1382 01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:33,279 Nelly walk around with two jerseys on the under his eye, 1383 01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:37,000 the head band with the hat and the do rat 1384 01:10:37,159 --> 01:10:42,079 Combo Bros. He got some fucking bullshit off, bro, just 1385 01:10:42,119 --> 01:10:45,479 to wear everything. Bro. Man Like, I was like, were 1386 01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,920 you not even your nighties? Bro? You ain't even got that? Bro. 1387 01:10:49,039 --> 01:10:50,680 The nigga it's a rat video. You're like, you're about 1388 01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:53,439 to go play ball? Oh my god, that ship was wild. 1389 01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:56,720 That was a bad time in fashion. Niggas got some 1390 01:10:57,079 --> 01:11:01,880 foul ship off T shirts, lean and with it. Bro. 1391 01:11:02,199 --> 01:11:04,399 I ain't gonna going to foot locker and get that 1392 01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:10,239 four five and lead a sticker on it. Nigga, don't 1393 01:11:10,279 --> 01:11:13,399 take that crazy, don't take my sticker off. And then 1394 01:11:13,399 --> 01:11:15,239 when you finally take the sticker off, that's the whitest 1395 01:11:15,239 --> 01:11:18,000 party on the shirt. You'd be like, damn, I should 1396 01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:21,399 have left that motherfucker down there or just sit it 1397 01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:26,520 in Bleak bros A wild times crazy ass era. They 1398 01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:29,439 got some bullshit off, Bro. They really got some you 1399 01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:31,800 know what, I what trend that. I like that. I'm 1400 01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,960 not really understanding why I went away girls and Melissa's. 1401 01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:41,000 I like the Melissa's I feel through joints. They all 1402 01:11:41,119 --> 01:11:43,399 held every color in the spectrum on there. I remember 1403 01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:46,399 I was going to take every chick had some Melissas. Yeah, bro, 1404 01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:47,279 I don't know what happened. 1405 01:11:47,319 --> 01:11:51,000 Speaker 2: I wouldn't mind jersey dresses coming back either. Oh, my mother, 1406 01:11:51,159 --> 01:11:53,479 that's really just it's really a sporty sun dressing. I 1407 01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:55,439 wish they would I wish they had this. I wish 1408 01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:58,439 they was son. I wish they was sun dressed material. 1409 01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:02,119 Jersey dresses. I want to see the ass curvage might 1410 01:12:02,199 --> 01:12:03,319 have just put some on my mind. 1411 01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:11,199 Speaker 1: Suggestion. Yeah, that was returning. You know what I don't like. 1412 01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:15,079 I don't like. I don't like that women like I 1413 01:12:15,199 --> 01:12:20,760 think that women don't realize that there are creepy ass 1414 01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:24,079 niggas facts, but there are niggas who look at women 1415 01:12:24,279 --> 01:12:28,680 like art. You are. It's hard to identify that you 1416 01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,760 are fine man, but it's hard to identify that in 1417 01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:35,279 these days. The time about it, I think it's the 1418 01:12:35,319 --> 01:12:37,000 way you go about it. If you if you, if 1419 01:12:37,039 --> 01:12:40,039 you if you come off. If you come off classy, 1420 01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:45,199 niggas is gonna respect you, bro, Jada money Yoh yeah, 1421 01:12:47,359 --> 01:12:54,760 bro you but it's but that's my homie, so it ain't. 1422 01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:58,279 But but a lot of people like she does it 1423 01:12:58,359 --> 01:13:00,159 in a way. I'm like, all right, cool, there's some 1424 01:13:00,279 --> 01:13:02,840 girls on it like that looks like they're soliciting sex. 1425 01:13:03,119 --> 01:13:05,119 Na say this, that's like you said, you use the 1426 01:13:05,159 --> 01:13:05,720 perfect word. 1427 01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:07,720 Speaker 2: Bro, it's art. The way she dances. Bro, it's a 1428 01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:10,960 whole Yeah, it's it's levels to it, for sure. 1429 01:13:11,119 --> 01:13:12,479 Speaker 1: It's definitely levels to that ship. 1430 01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:14,520 Speaker 2: I just know as soon as I see her videos, 1431 01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:16,479 I go right to the comments, like where this nigga at? 1432 01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:20,159 Speaker 1: I deleted my page, but he's somewhere. I'll be back. 1433 01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:23,880 I gotta retire. I just got I have to realize 1434 01:13:23,960 --> 01:13:28,199 how I look if you don't know me, and I 1435 01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:31,079 I have to remind myself that once I go online, 1436 01:13:31,159 --> 01:13:33,279 people don't know me. Yea, you know what I'm saying, 1437 01:13:33,359 --> 01:13:35,920 Like these comments can be seen by everybody in the world. 1438 01:13:36,039 --> 01:13:40,880 So although we all might know, right, other motherfuckers might 1439 01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:42,720 not know. And I don't even know who you fucking, 1440 01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:45,399 so this might be interfering, you know. What I'm saying 1441 01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:49,279 social media is social media. Reality is reality. All of 1442 01:13:49,359 --> 01:13:51,720 it is reality, and I live in reality. All of 1443 01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:55,039 its reality, bro. Think so a motherfucker can approach you kids. 1444 01:13:56,199 --> 01:13:58,159 My niece came home from school and said that there 1445 01:13:58,239 --> 01:14:00,880 was a fight at seven, eight ten in the morning 1446 01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:03,880 and the girl got jumped and she peed her pants 1447 01:14:04,039 --> 01:14:06,000 and my and my mother in law was like, who 1448 01:14:06,079 --> 01:14:08,039 why are they fighting so early? I said, because they 1449 01:14:08,079 --> 01:14:12,039 were online arguing all night. It's a reality, bro. It 1450 01:14:12,159 --> 01:14:14,199 might not be, it might not be to us, but 1451 01:14:14,319 --> 01:14:18,760 these motherfuckers is If a motherfucker is bullying motherfucker's online 1452 01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,439 and they want to kill themselves, that's a reality. Bro. 1453 01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:25,159 If motherfuckers is bullying people online and they they change 1454 01:14:25,199 --> 01:14:28,880 their whole persona, that's reality. Bro. It can't be. It 1455 01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,399 can't it can't be. It can't be false. If we 1456 01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:35,319 just sat here and talked about motherfucker's ruining relationships for 1457 01:14:35,399 --> 01:14:37,479 the first forty five minutes based off of social media, 1458 01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:40,359 that shit is a reality, bro, And it takes us 1459 01:14:40,399 --> 01:14:45,520 to realize which reality that we feel better in. Like 1460 01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:51,079 for us, we like the touch reality. Some people prefer 1461 01:14:51,199 --> 01:14:54,000 that because I call it Choose your own a venture Land. 1462 01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:56,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you can literally get on that motherfucker to 1463 01:14:56,880 --> 01:15:01,199 be whoever you decide to be. Literally have watched people 1464 01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:07,000 who I've known from childhood be something the internet thinks. 1465 01:15:07,079 --> 01:15:09,680 They are this person that is on the internet, and 1466 01:15:09,760 --> 01:15:12,079 they probably act like this personnel in real life, but 1467 01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:14,439 it's like they legit create. 1468 01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:17,880 Speaker 1: It's a creative character. Yeah, and that's why I say, 1469 01:15:18,279 --> 01:15:20,319 That's why I say the way I said it, because 1470 01:15:20,359 --> 01:15:23,279 it's like, I'm only going to give you what I 1471 01:15:23,359 --> 01:15:26,199 want to give you on social media, you know me 1472 01:15:26,319 --> 01:15:31,840 in real life. Get damn So, man, I really appreciate 1473 01:15:31,920 --> 01:15:34,800 y'all allow me to come and record early with y'all. Man, Yeah, 1474 01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:37,720 I feel this is this is the best time to record. Really, 1475 01:15:38,239 --> 01:15:40,439 that's hard. I wish I was off every day. I 1476 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:44,039 would you off on tuesdays. I'm off this week, this 1477 01:15:44,159 --> 01:15:46,960 whole week. But see, this is my goal. I want 1478 01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:48,960 to be able. We can talk about this off. I'm 1479 01:15:49,039 --> 01:15:49,560 Eric dizzy. 1480 01:15:50,399 --> 01:16:00,079 Speaker 3: This is I want to be a record ale. So 1481 01:16:00,159 --> 01:16:01,000 we need to talk about that. 1482 01:16:01,079 --> 01:16:02,119 Speaker 1: Let's go back s