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Speaker 1: All right now, Hey, come on, Pana, this is arn's

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abuse no more. With your host, doctor and evangelist Hey

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Hill Rich, we're here to help.

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Speaker 2: You admit what you feel. They're going to heal from the.

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Speaker 1: Effects of narcissistic abuse because you're sillies do master.

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Speaker 2: Hello everyone, I am so glad to be here with

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you in this new year of twenty twenty six. We

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are back, Yes, we are. This is nark abuse, no

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more narcissistic abuse, no more helping you to admit what

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you feel in order to heal from the effects of

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narcissistic abuse because your feelings do matter. I am your host,

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doctor evangelist ko Rich, and I am so happy to

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be here with you once again. We took a year

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s Hyenas, and I was busy and also getting some

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relaxation because we had been doing this particular podcast for

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seven years and and then our other podcast. It is

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finished for I believe ten years, and so we are

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back twenty twenty six and we will be going strong.

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Lord Willene, and I'm glad to have you all here

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today so we can pick up and start over and

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talk about those narcissists. Yes, we're going to be talking

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about a lot of different things. This year, we plan

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on having some guests that have written books again as

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authors who have written books. We're gonna be discussing various

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subjects with regards to narcissism, abuse, recovery, forgiveness, that journey,

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going no contact, if when or should you. Uh, We're

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gonna be discussing a lot of different things this year.

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So I pray that you are ready for this journey.

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For those who may be new to it, for those

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who may be uh uh professional at it, I mean

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it means that you have been through it a lot,

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you have you know about it, but sometimes you have

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to you need those reminders to let you know that

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you're not gone bonkers. Okay, this is a reality. This

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is even your reality. But despite the people that are

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around you, we want to all ways know that you

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can change your situation. You can't change someone else, but

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you can change your situation and how you deal or

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not deal with those that want to abuse, missues or

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manipulate you. All Right, So today we're restarting as if

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we have never ever talked about these issues before, because

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we have those that may be new and then those

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who may need reminders refreshers on the terminologies and the

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things that is relevant for you to know when you're

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dealing and should you ever deal with a narcissist. So

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we're gonna call this the narcissism Narcissistic Glossary, the narcissistic

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glossary terms that you need to know. And first we're

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gonna start off with what is narcissism? What is narcissism?

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And you know you have you may have people that

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have a lot of different definitions for it, but narcissism

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is a it's a psychological, a psychological condition. So we

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want to just start off right there that it's a

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psychological condition that is often uh, it often presents or

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is marked by uh terms or should I say, exhibit

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signs of self love, self centeredness. Uh. These those who

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are dealing or operating narcissism, they have a sense or

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ego or over inflating ego or sense of entitlement. They

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have an inflated sense of self importance. These type of

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people that deal operate in narcissism, they they they constantly

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seek approval from others. They seek admiration from others.

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They're always seeking that admiration and importance from other people.

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They they have again, they have a te uh. They

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display this entitlement. They they feel like they're entitled, They

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display manipulative behavior. They often fail to empathize with others,

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and so these can have a lot of different traits

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that affect personal and professional relationships and social relationships. So

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you definitely want to understand how these people operate and

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how they think when they're operating under narcissism. Now you

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have those when you when you're talking about narcissistic personality disorder.

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This is a diagnosis that needs to be done by

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a professional. But the thing is you don't have to

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be a professional to recognize certain traits that are in someone.

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be in plain sight without being seen. Let me repeat

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that they tend to be in plain sight without being seen.

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though they're around other people, most people a lot of

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because the narcissists seen to they often camouflage who they are.

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So you're seeing doctor juggle when behind closed doors they

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are mister Hyghe. So narcissistic personality disorder is as a

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clinical diagnosis dealing with extreme narcissistic behavior. These type of

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they are emotionally dysfunctional. Okay. They disrupt the life of

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various relationships. These people, they again they lack empathy. Even

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though they may pretend to empathize with you, they actually don't. Okay.

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you have those that are considered spiritual narcissists, all right,

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and those are some of the most dangerous type of

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narcissism because they will use religion or use the Bible,

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or use God to support their bad behavior. These people,

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they have again an exaggerated sense of self importance, so

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they're constantly craving attention, and if you don't give them

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that attention, then you are on their on their Nazi lists. Okay.

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when you're dealing with the narcissist. Now you have those

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that operate covertly, okay, and so that's considered covert narcissism. Basically,

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these type of narcissists are narcissists behind the scenes, behind

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the shadows. They appear as if they're sensitive, they appear

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meek and and and you think, oh, this is just

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a really, really good individual. When in actuality, okay, it's

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a it's a camouflage for who they really are. These

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type of people, they harbor resentment, they have feelings of entitlement.

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and even though they may say the right things, okay,

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they're still underneath narcissists. So they will basically say what

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passive aggressive people. They will give you the silent treatment treatment,

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they will play the victim. They use manipulation subtly so

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you don't see it obviously. But these people or damage individuals, Okay,

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so they are hard to get along with and they're

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hard to deal with. Now, these the other people on

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the outside of the narcissism target, uh, they will they

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often will not see this. They because these people when

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you're dealing with covert narcissists. You're dealing with people again

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that's in the shadows. Even though they're out in the open,

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they're in the shadows. Their narcissism is in the shadows.

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So these are the people that are your football coaches,

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your your teachers, your peace officers, these are the people

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your doctors. These are the people that may even go

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the extra mile. They're they're on the outward. They're giving,

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they're loving. They people will sing their praises people they

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they other people will think that these are just the

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sweetest people, because that's what they want people to think.

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giving it self, sacrificing and looking as if they're really

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really just sweethearts. Okay, but behind the scenes of the

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people that are the target of their abuse, because that

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is abuse behind the behind the scenes, these people are

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damaging to those who are close in their inner circle.

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those that are demanding, those that exaggerate their achievements. They

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feel superior to others. So these are the obvious ones

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that that don't hide their narcissism. They're over narcissists. But

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the dangerous ones are those that do it, especially behind

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the scenes, because they don't want others to know who

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and what they are. Now, I have a term that

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a lot of people that are victims of narcissists that

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they deal with, and this particular term is called gas lighting. Now,

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gas lighting is a it's a dirty technique. It's a

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manipulat manipulative technique that narcissists used to make someone doubt

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their reality. For example, let me say that, okay, there's

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a cup of water that's sitting on the table. The

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narcissists will pour the water on you and then tell

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you that it didn't happen. Okay, this is called gas lighting.

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they will outright just lie about whatever they did. They

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will accuse the victim of not understanding things the correct way,

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where in actuality the victim understands it quite perfectly. And

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then when you're the victim of this particular type of

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technique that the narcissists use. Then you start doubting your reality.

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So therefore you become insecure. You become unsure of who

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you are as a person. This allows a narcissists to

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gain control over you. There's a movie that was years

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or gas light, and I think it was two different versions.

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didn't know that he was actually he had actually married

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her to get a hold of her aunt's jewels. He

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had actually killed her aunt, and the young lady did

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not know, and he was trying to find the jewels

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in the house. And so during that time, a lot

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of people use gas for their lighting, so that's why

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it was called gas lighting. But he did some nasty

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little things. He was moving pictures around. He will miss

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was losing her mind. And so that's where the term

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that this particular term of gas lighting come from. Is

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when someone does something but they make you feel as

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if you're gone bonkers. Okay. Narcissists try to make you

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doubt your reality, and they use this technique of gas

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lighting to do it. So if you call them out

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on something they did, they're gonna deny it. And not

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only deny it, they will make you feel as if

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you're crazy for even mentioning it, or it make you

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think that it didn't happen. They twist the events so

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much that it would have you doubting your reality. Another

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thing that it's important to know about narcissists is beware

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of their flying monkeys. If you remember, the Wizard of

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Oz of the Wicked Witch of the West, had her

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flying monkeys to go and do her evil bidding. Okay,

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those that the narcissists use. People that the narcissists use

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to act on behalf of them. Sometimes they know and

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sometimes they don't know, Okay, So this could be anyone,

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whether it's friends or family, or coworkers or whatever. The

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narcissists use this these people to discredit and intimidate their victims.

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victim feel as if they're by themselves. So, for example,

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is abuse. So this person, whether it's physically, spiritually, emotionally, verbally,

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whatever case may be, the narcissists will have people in

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their lives that's gonna go along to get along, okay,

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they are flying monkeys, and they may not know the

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term per se, but they know that they're being used

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by the narcissists. But even if they're in cohucion with

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the narcissists, they feel as if they have more to

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lose by going against the narcissists than they do for

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defending the victim. Okay, So basically, the narcissists, you will

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an abusive relationship with the narcissists and you may be questioning,

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you know, hey, I'm ready to leave, I'm tired of

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this going on. Well, the flying monkey will try to

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make you think that you're wrong for leaving that narcissist,

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or you really didn't miss you really didn't understand what

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was going on, or maybe you took it too harsh.

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abusive situation. The narcissist convinces the flying monkey that you're

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just out of your mind or that you have taken

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things too seriously, or so they try to use the

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flying monkey as a way to discredit what the narcissist

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has done. So you have to be careful about anyone

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who is friends with the narcissists because if you go

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to that person and tell them, oh, well, the narcissists

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is doing this or that to me, oftentimes if this

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person is not aware of what is going on, or

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even if they are, they will not staying in your corner.

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Rather they do so knowingly or unknowingly. And let me

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sexual things that was going on, okay, well, the church

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in basically more so than not, the church acted as

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within the church, and they took the side of Bishop

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Dye Long rather than them investigating and analyzing if this

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was actually true what the young men had to say. Okay,

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so the church was a flying monkey. The church operated

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as we're gonna stand by the side of this narcissist

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rather than protect the innocent victim. This also happened with

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the Catholic Church when different abuse victims came out and

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told what was what had taken place with many priests,

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the church acted as a flying monkey. Instead of the

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rights of the victim, they protected the priests. They stood

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alongside the priests. Therefore, the priests were allowed to get

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by with what they were doing because the church protected

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them by acting as a flying monkey. This is what

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thing that a person has to be careful of when

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they're dealing with narcissists is love bombing. Love bombing What

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does this mean? Narcissists in order to retain or maintain

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their loyalty points in a sense. You know how when

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you get a credit card and they would give you

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different bonuses, you know, based upon your usage of the

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credit card to keep you as a client. Okay, well,

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other words, keep you in debt. Okay. So with love bombing,

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a relationship. The narcissists, Uh, they are. They give you

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a lot of attention, a lot of praise, a lot

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of affection, a lot of gifts.

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then the narcissists, the narcissists change get gears, okay, and

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they become the narcissists starts changing their behavior and therefore

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the victim of this love bombing which they're used to

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the narcissists being all attentive, they are confused and stressed

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out because they don't understand what has happened. But basically

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this is an attempt to get you in their good graces.

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cut the cord and throw you out. Okay, So this

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and this is a way to control and manipulate you.

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But as soon as you get and let me use

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ones that are statistically known to be abused. Okay, So

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I'm gonna use physical abuse. She's been beat up, black eyes,

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broken bones and all that. Okay, what does the abuser do?

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a box of chocolates, go take her out to eat,

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do all these nice things. Okay, this is I love bombing. Okay,

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but remember you have the part that says love where

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it's not so loving, okay, because at the end of

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it is the bomb part where it's gonna explode. All right.

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So they do all these kind acts and then as

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soon as they get you suck back in bam.

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acts of kindness, and then as soon as they get

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you back, then they go and go about doing what

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they want to do to you, which is the abuse.

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Speaker 3: Just come on calling you so you love, for everyone

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to know what I'm in love.

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Speaker 4: With you, patient.

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Speaker 5: And strong.

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Speaker 1: Always no matter what you've been there to bring this

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through just fine.

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Speaker 3: On time.

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Speaker 2: It's a cloud to see that your.

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Speaker 6: Love was true.

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Speaker 5: Novel to you, but.

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Speaker 6: You didn't know, you didn't know your ill juesay.

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Speaker 3: Heaven is where I want of me, where I am

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when I'm with you?

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Speaker 6: Perfect?

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Speaker 3: Yes, perfect, it's party gate hold the world to see.

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Speaker 4: Now the one day.

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Speaker 7: Saving law you need n't but sill not die.

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Speaker 5: I just born of egles to you, come follow, he said.

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Speaker 4: Jap coow to see now we know that to me.

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Speaker 6: Can I'm going to be your man's lot of people?

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Speaker 1: Do you.

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Speaker 4: How this day?

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want to be close to you and be careful about

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the narcissists who wants to be close to you?

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Speaker 6: All right, all right?

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Speaker 2: So one thing that we know that when you're dealing

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with the narcissists, they definitely want to devalue you. Okay,

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So the narcissists, they criticize you, they belitter you, They

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they insult you, they diminish you, they diminish who you are.

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So therefore it helps to lore your self esteem as

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the victim. Okay, they try to diminish your sense of

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self worth, and yet they cannot stand that being done

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to them. So they will sometimes make jokes at your

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expense in front of others. They will emotionally withdraw from

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you as a form of manipulation. They will threaten to

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withdraw from you as a form of manipulation. Now, one

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thing that is important for those who have been victimized

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by these narcissists is to remind yourself or even if

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you have to go over such podcasts such as this

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or books, to remind you of who these people are.

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Because the thing is, when you let down your guard,

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they're like cobras that will attack. Okay, Now, how many

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of you will sleep next to a cobra? Okay, not

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many people will, all Right. You have to remember that

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these narcissists do not stop being narcissists, all right. They

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may take a break from you seeing it obviously, all right,

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but at the end of the day, they're going to

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return back to who they are and they do not change.

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Now this is not to say that with the help

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of God that they cannot intentionally allow him to come

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in and change and change their hearts. Okay, because with God,

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all things are possible. Nevertheless, if you think that you're

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gonna change a narcissists, think again, Okay, it's not going

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to happen. First of all, narcissists never realize that they're

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doing anything or will not acknowledge that they're doing anything.

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So a narcissist operates either pride. Okay, they would never

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hardly admit that you know, I'm wrong or I should

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not have done that, or even if they do say

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the words, you have to be careful because their actions

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will oftentimes show the opposite and they may say the

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right thing, oh I'm sorry, just to get in your

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good graces, and then as soon as you if you've

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left them, take them back, oftentimes you're gonna find out

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that there has not been a change. Okay. These type

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of people need serious therapy, okay, But oftentimes what takes

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place is the victims, their victims wind up having to

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go get therapy, but the narcissists themselves don't go get anything.

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All right. Another thing that is important to understand with

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regards to narcissists is they need what's called narcissistic supply.

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Narcissistic supply, so basically, they they seek to get their admiration,

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their attention, their validation from other people, and when they

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fail to get that, then they go into what we

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call a narcissistic rage. All right, So they if you

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as long as you're feeding them the juice of what

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they want, their attention, their admiration, they're valid and all

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these things, then you know, then you're you're more like

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you maybe to stay maybe to stay in their good graces, Okay,

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because they're getting that narcissistic supply. So basically you're the

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battery that's given them the juice of what they want.

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But disconnect the cable to that battery and they will

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go into what's called a narcissistic rage. Now what the

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narcissistic rage. Let me let me just say this. When

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you're dealing with narcissists and they go into the narcissistic rage,

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do you remember the incredible Incredible Hawk. Okay, if you

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remember the Incredible Hawk, you you, uh, David Banner? Okay.

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The I think this started back in the seventies. David Banner.

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He he had took too much radiation or gamma or

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whatever they call it, and he turned into this green monster.

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When he would become upset and he does his favorite saying,

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uh popular saying rather was you wouldn't like me when angry. Okay,

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so you didn't want to get him angry. Well, this

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is how narcissists act. Okay. They have this intense anger

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and aggression when they feel like they've been threatening when

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you challenge them. So if you say anything to a

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narcissist about something that they've done, if you criticize something

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that they've done, if you set boundaries, if you do

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not meet their expectations, they will go into this narcissistic rage. Now,

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the thing about it is most people would think, oh, well,

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the narcissist is so sweet. See. The funny thing is

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these type of individuals they camouflage very very well. Okay,

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they camouflage well where you don't see who they really are.

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So behind the scenes they go into this explosive rage. Okay,

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they will yell, they will scream, they give insults, they

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will even threaten people. Okay, So this is that narcissistic

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rage that if you don't line up with how they

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want you to be, then they will go into all

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of these different types of things that they do to

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instill fear and intimidation with regards to their victims, all right.

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So once they don't get the narcissistics applied, they were

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going to a narcissistic race. So whenever you confront the

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narcissists about anything that they do, they cannot handle it. Now,

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the thing about narcissists is they never turn the mirrors

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on themselves. Okay. They will often find everything that's wrong

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with everybody, okay, because this is no way to control

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and manipulate and dominate and devalue anyone else. But they

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can't handle that if you turn and flip the script

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on them. Another thing, when you're dealing with narcissists, be

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careful of the triangulation. Think of a triangle, okay, the

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narcissists being at the time you to the right and

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someone else is to the left, all right, So they

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want you to feel as if you are isolated, all right.

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So they try to create jealousy, They try to have confusion,

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they try to create insecurity. They will play victims or

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individuals against one another. Okay. The narcissist maintains the control, okay,

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but they avoid direct responsibility. This increases and allows them

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to have power over their victims. Do not allow a

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narcissist to play you against someone you might. For example,

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you will have a narcissist and when they're dealing when

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you're dealing with triangulation, they will try to have you

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jealous of someone else. They might say, well, this person

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is better you than you, or this person goes along

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with them, or this person's side with them, or rather,

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so they want you to feel as if you're on

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an island by yourself. So then when you're feeling isolated,

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then you feel like you don't have anyone to talk to.

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You feel like that you don't have anyone who understands you.

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You feel like no one will believe you. A lot

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of times victims stay silent because they feel that no

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one will believe them. And that's exactly what the abusers

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want you to feel. And let me just say this

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because when you're dealing with the narcissists that may be

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indeed true where many of their friends, their flying monkeys,

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will not believe you, but you don't deal with them.

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You go to those who will who will believe you,

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support you, believe your truth, allow you to express your truth,

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and try to help you if you intend to get

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out of that abusive situation. Narcissists, they they're good at projecting. Okay,

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so the things that they do to you, they try

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to project it on to your behavior, saying that you're

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the one that's doing it. Now, what do I mean

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by that? A narcissists Instead of them accepting personal accountability

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or acknowledging the things that they do, they become accusatory.

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So they will accuse you of the very things that

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they're guilty of doing themselves. So they would make you

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feel as if you're the one abusing them, when in actuality,

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they're the ones that's being the abuser, all right, So

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they deflect and project their bad behavior on to someone else.

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Be careful of this because this often happens when they

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go into their narcissistic rage, which includes verbal attax, physical aggression,

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emotional abuse, or they will try to punish you. Okay,

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they will threaten you, so, and they threaten you by

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projecting the very thing that they're doing to you, they

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will accuse you of doing to them when and then

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therefore they have you confused. Well, am either abused or no,

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it's them abusing you. The thing that narcissists can't handle

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is when you finally speak up for yourself. When you

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finally speak up for yourself, they're not able to handle it.

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They're not able to handle it, which often leads them

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into what they consider narcissistic injury. And the narcissisicis injury

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is when the narcissist experiences humiliation or they feel emotionally

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insecure because of them receiving criticism, rejection, or what they

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consider as as a perceived a failure in their life.

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So therefore they cannot handle their ego being broken, all right,

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So they that's when when they go into when they

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feel like they've been narcissistically injured, then they will also

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going to a narcissistic rage. Again, the narcissists cannot look

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in the mirror and see the truth about themselves. And

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when you try to tell them, hey, you've done this,

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are you doing this to me or whatever case may be,

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they cannot handle it, which makes them go into a

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narcissistic rage. Another thing, when you're dealing with narcissists, sometimes

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they will often going they have this victim mentality, okay,

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and so they portray themselves as the victims. Are they're

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the ones being misunderstood? Are They're the ones being treated

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unfairly when it's actually them, the ones that's doing it

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to other people. This is a sign of narcissism. Okay,

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they're abusive. You have a lot of a lot of

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narcissists that are basically they're they're they're at the end

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of the day, they're abusers. Okay. All of this, these

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things that we're talking about, is dealing with abuse. Okay,

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So you have this narcissistic cycle of abuse. You have

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the uh, the the stage of idealization, then they devalue you,

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then they discards you, then the hoover and phase, and

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it starts all over again. Abuse goes in cycles. When

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people say, oh, we had good times, that's part of

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the cycle. Oh we had bad times, that's part of

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the cycle. Oh we had the escalation, that's part of

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the cycle. One thing to expect from a narcissist is

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a spear campaign, because they will try to damage your

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reputation by spreading false information, lies and everything. They will

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try the ice you from other people they don't see narcissists.

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They even try to make you feel guilty because you

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have people that support you. Now you're the victim, but

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they want you to feel isolated. They don't want you

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to feel that if you deserve to have friends or

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loved ones to support you, and so therefore they would

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run a smear campaign and lie about you just so

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they can isolate you from other people. Let me just say,

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when you're dealing with narcissists, you're dealing with a bag

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of all kinds of nasty little things, Okay, all kinds

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of nasty little things when you're dealing with narcissists, and

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you have to be very very careful because if you don't,

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if you don't be careful, then it will it can

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destroy you. You will you will have this. You will

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feel as if what the narcissists saying it is true.

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You will question yourself. You will never be confident in yourself,

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and therefore the narcissists, at the end of the day

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will get exactly what they want. The more that they're

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able to devalue you and put you down is the

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way that they're able to maintain control over you. Therefore,

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when you understand how they operate, then you're better able

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to protect yourself and know how to be on the

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offense rather than on the defense. All right, well, we're

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going to close today's In today's program, Man, there's a

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lot more that we're going to be going into dealing

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with narcissists. This is just the tip of the iceberg.

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But I pray that you will have been able to

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understand what you're dealing with so that you will be

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stronger and be able to empower yourself against the narcissists.

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Did you learn anything today? I pray that you did well.

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This is naric abuse, no more. Well. We're here to

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help you to admit what you feel in order to

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heal from the effects of narcissistic abuse. I am your host,

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Doctor ko Rich. Until next time.