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Speaker 1: What's up? Everybody help?

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Speaker 2: Happy?

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Speaker 1: Uh f co ol.

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Speaker 2: Friday, Yeah yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah. I ah, let's

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say how to our friends real fast, Ashley Chic, Stephanie Stinger, Rinker,

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Athena Ginshirt, Sander Greens, Jennifer falls, Aaron Sanchez, Leslie Whyckoff,

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Alicia Escalante, Kelly Bryandt, Rebecca Lubin, Isshan Vajpe, Missy and Gabby, Katerina,

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Katerina Moeller, Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Polly Butterfield, Rita Bassiett, Elizabeth Williamson,

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Nikki Collier, Katie Murphy, Kelly Ladida and Dick Frolicker. M

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still help. Couldn't help myself.

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Speaker 1: I frolicking down that Colorado river last week, and Missy

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and Gabby were right there.

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Speaker 2: So I feel so bad for all of us fellow

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moms who have kids who are doing APS this week.

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This is the week boy Xander had one last week,

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but this week he had. Okay, so peek behind the curtain.

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Today is Monday. We're recording on a Monday. Xander had

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his AP seminar test this morning. Okay, Wednesday, he's got

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ap laying. Last week he had a push APUs boy.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, that's a lot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And also this is just a little bit of

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a complaint about my kid's school. So ap tests are, are,

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you know?

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Speaker 1: Hard?

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't know. I never took an AP test or

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Speaker 1: Last at my school, at my Valley Alternative school.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they had them at mine, but

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I've got to assume they did. It's not like a

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new invention.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I could see why they didn't have them at Valley Alternative.

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But I went to like a big regular public school.

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I'm sure I know they had honors classes. Yeah, they

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had aps. I never took any. I didn't, No, I

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told you. I was like honor the honors English class

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was too hard for me. I got a C and

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then dropped out of like. I was like, nope, not

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for you.

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Speaker 1: They didn't have honors at my school either. It was

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just like you're either in the advanced class or you're

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in the remedial class, or I are in between, don't

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I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: I can't help but not giving a fuck about me,

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And I try to pretend to be supportive and go like, yeah,

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you want to take that as an ape. Sure, but

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in my mind, I'm like, look, I ended up being

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a writer. I barely graduated school and like I said,

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I couldn't even handle Honors English. Right, it doesn't to

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me equate that much with what you're going to do

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later in life. Yes, now, I know that AP classes

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help you with the credits. Listen, God bless LB and

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taking all those aps.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, totally so it worked out worked in our advantage.

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Speaker 2: But she's already kind of a go getter yet, which

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she doesn't get from me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: These schools, so the test, that AP test is three

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hours long and you pay for them, right, they're not cheap, right,

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I know some kids at some schools they give it

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to them for free. I don't know, they have some fun.

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Speaker 1: Qualify I think, yeah, well.

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Speaker 2: No, there's all there's financial hardship. But also like last

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the LB's last year of school, they were all the

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aps were free for all kids. Ok, you just you

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sign up for it. You don't have to pay, right,

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Those things are like one hundred and fifty dollars a pop.

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Maybe the seminar one was one fifty and the other

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ones are like one twenty five. But my point is

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it's not cheap. Let's say you have twins and there getters.

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God forbid, I don't have that, but.

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Speaker 1: Like, God forbid, that's for a lot of money too.

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Speaker 2: I know it's more than college applications. Yeah, Anyway, our

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school makes it so that, like they send out these

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notices that are like, hey, AP's are coming up, but

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just know that you if you try to miss any school,

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like if you have like a doctor's appointment early in

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the day, but you get to school in time for

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your AP test, like you can't take it.

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Speaker 1: Jesuz, what's with the rules?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. They're very obsessed with attendance at our school,

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so their whole thing is like but the thing is,

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like taking an AP test is not a luxury, Like

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this means that the kids that go to your school

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are go getters and are going above and beyond. And

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if your whole thing about your school is like we

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want everybody to go to a good college, then like

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easy on me, like making everything more difficult, Like basically

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they go if you're late for school or if you.

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Speaker 1: Even if you have a doctor's appointment.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure, but I would hate to like risk

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the rules or if you take an AP you can't

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go home, or the next AP test you can't. You

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can't You're not allowed to take it.

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Speaker 1: Jesus crimey. Yeah, it's a lot of I was. I

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was so happy when school is done because and my kids,

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because my kids both you know, we all know how

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sunny in Italia. You know, these they struggled. They were

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lot of meetings with the teachers and things like that, accommodations.

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by twelfth grade. I was concerned, like, Okay, now you

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guys are going off to college. Now it's it's different.

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out of it. And the fact that they're like both

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kicking ass, doing really well like their actual some of

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their classes. Yes, they have a lot of shitty classes

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too that they have to get out of the way.

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Ty's got to do stats and everything. She's got a

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whole she's taking five classes and if she doesn't get

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the GPA that she wants to get to the college,

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she's gonna go into summer and she's gonna take classes

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during summer. Same thing with Sonny. But I think Sonny's

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gonna be okay. But her, like, she's you know, she

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really is pushing hard. So and I'm like, why you

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guys are doing really well? Uh, you know, I never

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I never thought. I mean I not that I never thought,

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but the fact that you're enjoying it. And they said,

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it's different because we're not tortured all day. There's some

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days we don't have to go to class. We have

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class online, you know, we can whatever. It's just, you know,

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it's not the same. Like high school was such a burden.

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eleventh grade. I think it was just such so tough.

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and they're enjoying it makes me so happy. So I

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was happy that school is done. And you're almost there.

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a little bit easier. It will. There are certain things,

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like Spanish has been kind of kicking Xander's ass because, well,

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the problem is the Spanish teacher left midway through the

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year and they couldn't get another Spanish teacher, so they

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had to move to online. Same exact thing happened to

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Elb and it was a total disaster because having a

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Spanish teacher is way better than trying to learn Spanish online.

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behind when he was doing Greece. Told you I did

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see the movie Grease by the way, Yeah, but he

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got behind, and now it's kind of kicking his ass.

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take stats. He's going to take statistics. So I know

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a lot of kids struggle with that. But Elbe took

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statistics and didn't mind it and then got it out

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of the way, so she there were a lot of

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classes she did not have to take in college.

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Speaker 2: And she's only been taking three classes.

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, well, I feel she's got a lot of

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those out of the way. Yeah, got she got done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so kind of same thing. She's she's really enjoying it.

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She says, it's so different than high school. Also, and

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was in high school, it was a straight schedule, so

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it was like one first through sixth period every day,

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five days a week, whereas Sadie and Xander have a

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block schedule, which I just think is much better. So

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they have every class on Monday, but it's there, but

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the classes are short. Tuesday they have like three classes

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and like, but they're longer, right, there are long classes, yeah,

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but there's only a couple of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Setting and Italian had block scheduled too, which was

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good in some ways, but bad if you have a

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class that you really hate and then you're there extra

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long on those days. Yeah, that was tough. But yeah,

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so their schedule is easier.

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Speaker 2: Well, so both kids have a tough schedule on Tuesdays

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the week better because like Wednesday and Friday they're doing electives, rightly, right,

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he has music, and he has speech and debate, and

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he has like advisories. So it's kind of a.

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our car drive from Arizona, and he was telling me

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about he has a twenty one year old daughter and

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she's going to school full time and she works. And

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he said, he said to me, I teach my kids

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their credit is everything. When they get old and they

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get a job, you want to have good credit because

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if you late, you know, you want to buy you

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want to Lisa car or buy a car or whatever.

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good FIGHTA scores and he started, you know, when they

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got jobs, he got them their own credit card, the

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little limit, a couple hundred dollars limit, but made sure

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a credit card. She has her credit card. I

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just got want to discover student credit card. It's in

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Speaker 1: Her credit that's what I got. That's what Natalia got

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at Chase. She got h I think it was a student.

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She did it by herself, and I get the bill.

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But she's got a zellm me money. But you know,

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it's some sometimes it's out of her allowance. But now

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she's going to be coming home in a few weeks

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and we're working on her resume and she wants to

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get a job immediately when she gets back, and so

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I'm helping her with that. Sonny too a job, I know,

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I know Sonny want. Sonny wants to work at Trader

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was telling you that, but I told you

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that they opened up that. The guy told me they

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opened up the thing, the job opportun tunity, the Trader

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Joe's near us, And he told me that. The guy,

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the manager said, in three days they had five hundred applications.

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Speaker 1: Insane. I know, it's too tough.

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Speaker 2: It's like playing the lottery. Yeah, how are you gonna

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get in there?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: And Xander has friends that work there that vouched for him,

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and they've never called him. He's gone by there and

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handed his resume and said, you know, interest in the job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's tons of I told Sending, there's so many

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different like restaurants and places to work in our little area.

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high school and stuff, little part time jobs at the

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chop shop, salad Jersey mics whatever. So but then he's

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gonna have to get a car. So then he's gonna

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have to pay for it, which I'll have to get him.

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Speaker 2: Adam won't get him a car.

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Speaker 1: Nope, mm hmm. Natalia tried to No, waita thought she

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has a car. She does, but her lease is gonna

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be up. And she's like, I I think you know

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he's a he's a car guy, and I want I

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want Dad to help me find a car. And uh,

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I asked her, how did you have that conversation? She said, yeah, no.

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Speaker 2: And he just said no, just straight up won't help.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, okay, not to do our ad early, but

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seriously definitely calling Oh Adam, he will, Adam, it's it's you.

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He will save you so much money and you just

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tell him what you're looking for and he'll find.

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Speaker 1: When the time comes.

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Speaker 2: I know for sure it's low. I get a monthly payment.

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He'll do all the research. He'll take care of the

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financing and then you'll just get a car.

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Speaker 1: There's your head.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people do that for their kids. He

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deals with a lot of that, Yeah, he does.

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Speaker 1: I've seen it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, He's definitely the first thing I think of when

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the time comes.

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Speaker 2: And there are a lot of deals right now, especially

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on electric cars, a lot of rebates and the electric thing.

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Speaker 1: It's like, if Natalia has it in Santa Barbara, is

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there a place to plug it in?

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Speaker 2: You know, right, that's true, So you might want to

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do a hybrid for herh Gascar. Yeah, yeah, so we'll see. Yeah,

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but there's deals on those two m Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, they're going to be home soon for the summer.

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And Suzanne went and got Gracie. She's coming home. She's

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done a lot of these kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my my, one of my bff's daughters already home,

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came home over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it went so fast.

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Speaker 2: It's only May, I know, but yeah, Alby's got like

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another six Albe doesn't get out until mid June, but.

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Speaker 1: It's Natalia gets out. I don't know, I sun anything

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in June too. I think Natalia is coming home in

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a few weeks.

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Speaker 2: Don't you feel like though now that now that you

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sent your kids to college. I don't know. Maybe maybe

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it's different for some people, but because both your kids

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are fairly close. But I have never had to miss Albie.

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Speaker 1: I know. I Natalia came home for a couple of

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days last week. It would probably be a Patreon. But

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whatever her roommate was, as my mother would say, is

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a given her a headache?

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Speaker 2: Oh really yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and a given everybody around her a headache. I

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guess she has a boyfriend now, so she gets really

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bitchy when when he's around. I don't know. So Natalia's like,

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I'm just coming home for a couple of days. I

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was like, good, But it was great for me. I

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bonded with her. We were talking about everything and you know,

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get caught up. It was really nice. I love that

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she But she didn't come home very often at all

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up until kind of recently. And then Sonny, well't you

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Sonny's been home quite a few times, and then he's

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going to be back for the summer.

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Speaker 2: How is his ankle? Is it all better?

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Speaker 1: All better?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Good? Yeah, yes, Sometimes those things can take a

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long time to heal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And he had a great time in Korea. He

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was sick though his stomach. This kid doesn't do good.

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He's a paradise. He's like the rest of all the

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guys in my family too, are the my nephews are

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the same way. They all have sensitive stomachs. So Sonny

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eating you know, kim chi every day was just going,

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you know, giving him a hard time with his stomach.

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And then so Sonny in his in his pal they

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would have to take train sometimes. Sometimes they like one

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day they traveled for twelve hours, you know, but that

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I think there was a lot of traveling, but just

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you know, there's like an hour long train ride, then

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another train ride. Sometimes the trains don't have bathrooms, and

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he's just went out to dinner and now he's like,

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can't wait to get home because the food and uh.

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Speaker 2: You know so well, last time that happened to him.

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Speaker 1: It happened to him last year.

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Speaker 2: He had to be stuck in the bathroom and they

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had had a behind that broke my heart.

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Speaker 1: Yes, No, he took the last train. No, he took

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an uber. It was like late and his friends were leaving.

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They're like, we're leaving, and he was stuck in the bathroom,

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and the guys that worked at the station didn't speak

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any English, and they were, you know, trying to close up,

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and they're yelling at Sonny. He was in the stall

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in the bathroom. While he's trying to go to the bathroom,

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they're yelling at him. He's like, I don't speak English.

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He's trying to on his app trying to tell him

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what's going on, and they're like, come on, come on,

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you know. Yes, so I think he's done with Asia

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for a while. Oh, maybe he needs some Italian food

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or did he have fun though, Yes, he had a

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great time. They went on a really long hike, They

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went to some museums, they took the bullet train. Yeah,

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they just tooled around Korea. He said, it was.

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Speaker 2: It was.

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Speaker 1: They have a lot of the same customs as Japan,

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but more relaxed. Like in Japan, it's frowned upon to

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walk around and drink in public or eat food and public.

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Korea not so much. It's a little more relaxed. But

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the beds in Japan were way more uncomfortable compared to

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the ones in Korea. Korea, they're basically like a merit

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like a hotel in New York. But the hotel beds

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and Japan are like, you know there, it's custom. It's

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a it's kind of like they're custom. But Sonny's like

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some customs are like after a while, you know, like

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aren't there taller people that want to be more comfortable?

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I don't know that. The beds are extremely tiny for

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him and not just short, but like skinny, like his

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shoulders barely fit on the whole thing. But uh, but yes,

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he had a great time and he did a lot

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of like he had when he first got there. He

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traveled for twenty fridesy to do you know, one around

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by himself, finding everything and it was easy. And coming

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home he came home by himself. It was great. Yeah,

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he did a great time.

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Speaker 2: That's so cool. He's adventurous, never asks for anything, so

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I was happy to send him.

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Speaker 1: Talk about my boy Phil and how much he loves

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When they sent us the uh, the their unkibble, they're unkibble.

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He loved it and he wasn't it satiated him. He

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And as you know, Pipo is a very picky eater,

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and this is one of the first foods in so

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long that she goes to her bowl to eat, like

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with Gusto uh huh. She eats the whole bowl of it.

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buy that frozen food. Plus it takes up so much

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f co ol Nice. Yeah, I was just gonna say

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too that with LB. I was just actually talk discussing

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this with Julie because both of us have kids at UCLA,

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and I was like, you know, the year that Elby

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was home, the thing is the time that I spend

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with Elby now is so much better then. Even though

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she was home for that whole year in between high

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school and going to UCLA, it was such a drag

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because she was so unhappy. I remember that she was

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just sad all the time, and it was like a

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lot of worrying and a lot of them, you know,

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just like how are you Albie quiet? You know, just

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staying in her room. And now when I see her,

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even though I see her a lot less, but when

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I see her, she's just a different person and she

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shares stuff with me, and it's like it's so much

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more intentional because like when I go pick her up,

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I get like, hi, Mama, Like she's like beaming and

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like excited and like what do you want to do?

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You want to go get something to eat, and then

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we sit and she gossips with me and you know

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the best. And I felt like, I, oh, let me

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leave her alone, like leave her be, because it always

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felt like I was being intrusive, like evading her space

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or like yes, you know. Now it's like, oh, when

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I see her, we have a great time. And if

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I was to say, like, hey, do you want to

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go to the mall, she'd be like, yeah, let's go

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to the mall.

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Speaker 1: And then it's so nice, I know. And as the

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girls get older, you know, they change a little bit.

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senior year and I would ask Natalia, well, she would

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tell me some things about her friends, and then i'd

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you know, later a few weeks later, I'd ask her

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about it and she goes, okay, do we have We

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don't need to talk about it. We already I already

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told you you know, like that. But now, you know,

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like when she was here a couple of days and

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I asked her about that date. You know, I was

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like can you I said, you know, I approached it

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like do you want to finish telling me about the

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date you went on? And she's like, oh, yeah, and

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then she went into it and we talked about it,

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and she was telling me about a couple other guys

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that have asked her out other dates she's been on,

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and then she's telling me about her really good guy

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friends that she loves and this is what they do

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for her and the stories. She's showing me videos and

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stuff like just so it was just nice, Like I

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never have that chance with Natalia. Sonny and I talk

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all the time. We we I get on the phone

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with Sonny a couple times a week when he's in Oregon,

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and we just most of the time it's him talking

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about sports but whatever, you know, like we talk, you know,

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and then we're talking.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But with Natalia, she's it's always been like hi, goodbye,

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you know, keeping everything short. And now like since this

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last year, she's way more. She'll call me in between

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her classes because she has nobody else to talk to,

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and she knows that I'll pick up immediately and we'll talk,

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and then you know, she's getting something to eat while

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we're talking, and you know, and then she's like, Okay,

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I gotta go now by you know, I love it.

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I love it. It's totally she's totally changed, you know,

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it's getting older.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. And you know, if I think

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about it too, it's the same with me, where like, oh,

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I'll be used to She's always been kind of private.

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of bristle a little bit, like especially about like boys stuff.

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totally wants to talk about it with me. She wants

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to like analyze stuff and like get into it with

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you know I do. Yes, I love it and yeah

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me it's the same. But it used to be too

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with the friends stuff. Same thing where like she tell

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me this whole story about let's say, something that was

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bothering her. Right then the next time I go to say, like, oh,

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so what's going on with that, she'd be like what

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do you mean? Uh huh, Say, well, you were telling

469
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,640
me a whole story about it. She's like, yeah, it's

470
00:24:55,759 --> 00:25:00,279
the same, and I'd be like, okay, right, I know

471
00:25:00,519 --> 00:25:05,359
that you'd want to, like, yes, rehash it right now

472
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,880
She kind of does. Yeah. Now, if I give me

473
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,920
an update about this or give me an update about that,

474
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,799
she'll be like, oh, okay, and she knows that I

475
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,359
like to gossip in a fun way, right, not like

476
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,400
me and gossip ever, But you know she knows I

477
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,440
liked the details. So she'll be like, oh, mom, do

478
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,359
you want to hear about She's like, I know you'll

479
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,480
want to hear about this. She's like, oh, I got

480
00:25:26,519 --> 00:25:27,240
something for you.

481
00:25:27,759 --> 00:25:28,599
Speaker 1: I love that.

482
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,559
Speaker 2: I know. I eat it up. It's so great.

483
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:36,039
Speaker 1: Now, what's gonna happen? Like Xander's gonna go off? You

484
00:25:36,039 --> 00:25:39,559
think he's gonna leave live at home? No, I don't.

485
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:41,359
He doesn't want to.

486
00:25:41,559 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 2: It's tricky.

487
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,039
Speaker 1: It's tricky to rack around, to rock her around.

488
00:25:46,079 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 2: That's right on time.

489
00:25:47,039 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: It's chicky gz chicky chick chick. It's rock around, no

490
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,960
rock Arama's right on time.

491
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:56,599
Speaker 2: It's chicky.

492
00:25:57,799 --> 00:25:59,079
Speaker 1: Oh he said, we say.

493
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 2: He's by Buddas.

494
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: Tinted windows don't mean nothing. They know who's inside is chicken.

495
00:26:08,519 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: And racker around too.

496
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 1: Come on, kaylin, rack around.

497
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:12,079
Speaker 2: That's right on time.

498
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 1: It's chicky, ticky, chicky, chicky chicky. In New York, the

499
00:26:21,519 --> 00:26:25,519
people talking trying to wake the Ryan, you really hope,

500
00:26:25,559 --> 00:26:28,400
but they don't don't because they got no time. But

501
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:29,359
in the City.

502
00:26:29,599 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 2: It's a pity, one of the best albums. I love

503
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,640
that every song is a hit. Run DMC. That is

504
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,039
like classic run DMC.

505
00:26:39,319 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: Do you know that it was run DMC? No? Did

506
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,000
you think we were making this song? No?

507
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 3: I didn't know. I know that song, but I didn't

508
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:45,559
know who's saying it.

509
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: Oh, mother one to me?

510
00:26:48,319 --> 00:26:50,799
Speaker 2: I started singing. You know what's funny about the kids?

511
00:26:50,839 --> 00:26:55,279
Speaking of Xander, he knows every song. He knows eighty songs.

512
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,279
He knows seventies songs from from listening to yacht rock.

513
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,119
It's like these kids, their brains, they have so much

514
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,640
more room in their memory. I do so like he

515
00:27:04,839 --> 00:27:08,519
knows so many lyrics to songs, but he knows lyrics

516
00:27:08,599 --> 00:27:11,359
to like eighties songs, some of them better than I do. Right,

517
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,680
Like he would sing it's tricky, and I'd be like

518
00:27:13,759 --> 00:27:16,839
Leah forgot right. Yeah, he'd be like mom and then

519
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,119
just sing me the whole song. Right. He knows Beastie

520
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,519
Boys songs. Yeah, he has favorite beat. I was trying

521
00:27:22,559 --> 00:27:26,079
to play him. She's crafty. I love more of the

522
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,279
words than I knew.

523
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,559
Speaker 1: And I know that song.

524
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:32,759
Speaker 2: Oh scrubs, No scrubs, you can sing all the words

525
00:27:32,839 --> 00:27:36,319
to No Scrubs love that and I'm like, I miss

526
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,200
some of it, and I'm like, oh, it's a bust exactly.

527
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,759
He's like all the lyrics right right.

528
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,319
Speaker 1: I think they like they they discover that kind of stuff,

529
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,920
you know, like Instagram or TikTok or whatever. Yes, yeah, yes, yeah.

530
00:27:50,279 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 2: It's so funny though, the songs that he knows that

531
00:27:52,599 --> 00:27:54,640
I'm like, you don't know this song and he's like, yeah,

532
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,839
I do. I know it's crazy, but he knows old

533
00:27:58,039 --> 00:28:00,759
songs too, just I guess from I love that he

534
00:28:00,799 --> 00:28:04,319
could sing Brandy, You're a fine girl. Yeah, what a

535
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:10,119
good wife. You would be such a good my lady.

536
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,880
Oh my god. This is totally off topic. But my friend,

537
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,720
my friend Cecily, not podcast partner Cecily, but my mom

538
00:28:22,759 --> 00:28:27,640
friend Cecily. She got for her birthday. She got us

539
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:33,240
tickets to go see the yacht rock really by Nature,

540
00:28:33,319 --> 00:28:37,759
but you know the one that I love, not his face,

541
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,759
you know, the yacht rock the big yacht rock band

542
00:28:41,799 --> 00:28:43,480
that now I can't think of the name of it.

543
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:47,759
But she got good seats to wherever We're going. That

544
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,519
was which she got for her birthday and then invited.

545
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: Me, Wow, that's nice. Where are they playing now? I

546
00:28:55,279 --> 00:28:58,240
can't remember at the place out in Thousand Oaks, so

547
00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:58,839
not the.

548
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's somewhere else, but like where you

549
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,319
get like real seats. I don't know all reports coling

550
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,480
next week because it's not till November. Oh okay, all right,

551
00:29:10,119 --> 00:29:12,039
but listen, at my age, I like to have stuff

552
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,160
like like to look forward to. I know, no, it's fun,

553
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,799
like it's like a little fun thing to think about.

554
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: Right we're going. We were saying, like this weekend was

555
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,640
such a success. Suzanne was the one that was missing,

556
00:29:24,319 --> 00:29:27,519
and Glenn said, we'll do it again, but not until

557
00:29:27,559 --> 00:29:31,599
like October because it's miserable now starting now because out

558
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,480
there it's like one hundred and ten. Shit, it gets

559
00:29:34,839 --> 00:29:39,799
really miserably hot. So he's like, not October, it'll be nice,

560
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,079
like now he has something to look forward to.

561
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, but back to Xander and call.

562
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

563
00:29:48,039 --> 00:29:52,119
Speaker 2: So different than Elbe. So Elbe was very much like

564
00:29:52,799 --> 00:29:56,799
and this is what ended up fucking her, although in

565
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,440
the end it all worked out so it didn't. It

566
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,079
didn't really. But Elbe was like, I want to go

567
00:30:01,119 --> 00:30:03,039
to school in California, and I want to go to

568
00:30:03,119 --> 00:30:07,240
a big school. So her dream school was UCLA. From

569
00:30:07,319 --> 00:30:10,079
early on, she'd gone on a tour of it. Young

570
00:30:10,599 --> 00:30:13,319
We used to go to the UCLA basketball girls basketball

571
00:30:13,519 --> 00:30:15,960
games and then she, like I said, she toured it

572
00:30:16,039 --> 00:30:19,240
in junior year and then she was like, that's my

573
00:30:19,359 --> 00:30:21,599
dream school. But then she didn't feel like she had

574
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,519
the grades and the extracurriculars to get in there. So

575
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,480
then her hope was Santa Barbara, which we really felt

576
00:30:27,559 --> 00:30:31,799
confident about. But the point is she had like, this

577
00:30:32,039 --> 00:30:33,400
is the type of school I want to go to.

578
00:30:33,519 --> 00:30:35,599
When we went to tourist Santa Barbara, she was like,

579
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:37,200
I'm in.

580
00:30:37,759 --> 00:30:38,519
Speaker 1: This is what I want.

581
00:30:39,319 --> 00:30:42,279
Speaker 2: And she already knew that she wanted to major in psychology,

582
00:30:42,799 --> 00:30:47,240
which did not she's sociology, but she loves it now.

583
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,000
She was very clear, like I want to be in California,

584
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,359
so I'm not even She applied to a couple of

585
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,799
other schools, but even when it came down to it,

586
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,480
she was like, I'm not going to go I'm not

587
00:30:58,519 --> 00:31:02,079
going to go to them. Although after she came with

588
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,440
me to New York to do JUW Barrymore, she was like,

589
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,440
I kind of like, maybe I should have applied to

590
00:31:08,519 --> 00:31:11,720
some East Coast schools because yeah, that I've been here

591
00:31:11,799 --> 00:31:14,079
and done this, Like I think I could have lived

592
00:31:14,079 --> 00:31:19,759
this life. But she's so happy. Everything's fine. Xander does

593
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,640
is like I don't know, I don't know what I

594
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,759
want to major in. Actually, if anybody can help me

595
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,920
and come up with okay. So here's what Xander loves.

596
00:31:31,319 --> 00:31:35,279
He loves music. He's very into music. I mean, the

597
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,680
kid plays his guitar, you know how they say you

598
00:31:39,759 --> 00:31:42,519
know how we talked about the idea that like getting

599
00:31:42,559 --> 00:31:44,240
your kids into an activity and then you have to

600
00:31:44,319 --> 00:31:47,079
make them practice and it can and if you have

601
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,319
to do. But then there's the kids that are super

602
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,200
into something that they just do it on their own.

603
00:31:51,799 --> 00:31:55,119
That's Xander with guitar. From the time he's taught himself

604
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,880
how to play guitar. We tried with the lessons. He

605
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,240
did it like one or two times, and he was like, oh,

606
00:32:00,319 --> 00:32:03,559
it's not for me taking lessons, right, Fria can YouTube

607
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:09,200
videos like taught himself taught during COVID and now he

608
00:32:09,599 --> 00:32:13,519
is like he plays guitar every single day. If he's home,

609
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:17,920
he's playing his guitar. He's playing it like he plays

610
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,720
it to relax. Right, like he doesn't need a break

611
00:32:20,799 --> 00:32:23,119
from guitar, but he's had a stressful day.

612
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: That's a good sign.

613
00:32:24,359 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 2: He's unwinding by playing guitar, always working, he's always challenging himself.

614
00:32:29,559 --> 00:32:30,400
He's really good.

615
00:32:30,599 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: That's interesting because we were listening to the audiobook of

616
00:32:33,559 --> 00:32:36,640
Alex van Halen on the way home, and he dedicated

617
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,680
the book to his brother and he talked about when

618
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,720
they were little. Their dad was a musician and he

619
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,279
didn't care if they played, but the mother did. So

620
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,599
the mother she was more of the disciplinarian where she

621
00:32:51,839 --> 00:32:54,400
was like, if that your husband, my husband wants you

622
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,519
to be a musician's just start like she first started

623
00:32:57,599 --> 00:33:00,599
them on piano or whatever. But then they got older,

624
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,079
they were seeing like the Beatles and all these bands,

625
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,720
and they were, you know, they wanted to start playing

626
00:33:05,799 --> 00:33:10,440
other instruments. So Alex started playing the guitar, Eddie started

627
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,119
playing the drums, and they loved it. They would come

628
00:33:13,119 --> 00:33:15,960
home and just play, and the dad was like, hey,

629
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,319
that's what they want to play. Let him play. Like

630
00:33:18,599 --> 00:33:21,400
we forced him with the piano, but obviously they want

631
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,240
to do this, let him play that. And then after

632
00:33:24,279 --> 00:33:27,559
a while they were playing and they switched and now

633
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,920
you know, the rest is history. But if you had

634
00:33:31,039 --> 00:33:33,359
and Tommy Lee too, I've I've read his book. Like

635
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,039
he all he wanted to do is play those drums.

636
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,440
And my friend Craig that we were on the trip with,

637
00:33:37,559 --> 00:33:39,519
he was a drummer and a band for a long time.

638
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,839
We loved to go see him play. And he was

639
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,880
saying the other day that if he had YouTube, he

640
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,400
would have been a way better drummer. It makes a

641
00:33:47,599 --> 00:33:50,000
world of a difference. He's like, if I had YouTube,

642
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,759
like back then when I was a kid, I would

643
00:33:52,759 --> 00:33:54,720
be a totally bad I would probably you know, went

644
00:33:54,799 --> 00:33:58,640
on to playing with other bands, being a musician in studio,

645
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:00,359
you know, on records or something.

646
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: But it's I mean tutorials for any song. Like so

647
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,039
Xander is like, oh, I want to learn how to

648
00:34:07,079 --> 00:34:09,800
play this song? Right that looks up the tutorial and

649
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:10,760
like my.

650
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: Point is back to Xander, is that if that's what

651
00:34:13,639 --> 00:34:16,440
he likes and it's coming naturally to him, you know

652
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,880
that he should keep it going. So he likes music.

653
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,039
Speaker 2: He likes music, but he doesn't know if he wants

654
00:34:22,119 --> 00:34:26,320
to major in music because a that in college is

655
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,679
like a lot of it is more classical music. There

656
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:33,079
isn't really like rock guitar major in college. So he's like,

657
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,360
I would be interested in majoring in like music in

658
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,960
music production. But he's never even really done it that much,

659
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:42,599
you know what I mean, Like he's not it's not

660
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,559
like he's on his own doing that. So he's like,

661
00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:50,159
but he's also so he doesn't love like straight up acting,

662
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,280
so he doesn't think he wants to major in theater,

663
00:34:52,559 --> 00:34:57,119
but he does he loves comedy. Uh huh, Now there's

664
00:34:57,159 --> 00:35:00,039
a comedy program. He really He's like, if I I

665
00:35:00,159 --> 00:35:02,000
just want to major in comedy, like I want to

666
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:07,199
write sketches and like, I know, but that it's that

667
00:35:07,519 --> 00:35:10,719
is a very specific. There's one college that has it,

668
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:17,519
Emerson as a literal comedy major, but Emerson is really

669
00:35:17,679 --> 00:35:20,559
expensive and it's in Boston, and I just don't know

670
00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:23,239
if I can afford to pay for that for four

671
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:27,320
years to major in comedy, which, dude, you live in

672
00:35:27,519 --> 00:35:31,239
LA You could do something else and then go take

673
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,920
classes at UCB And you know what I mean, Like,

674
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,840
do you if we were rich, I'd be like, sure,

675
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:41,760
go spend four years learning about comedy in college and

676
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,719
experimenting and having fun. But there's a part of me

677
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:50,960
that's like, but then I've suggested that maybe screenwriting or

678
00:35:51,039 --> 00:35:54,320
like a writing degree's just going to say, and then

679
00:35:54,519 --> 00:35:57,519
focus it on comedy and make all your pieces comedic.

680
00:35:57,639 --> 00:35:58,000
I don't know.

681
00:35:58,199 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: I was gonna say the same thing, right, Yeah, what

682
00:36:01,079 --> 00:36:01,960
about cal Arts?

683
00:36:03,599 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, it's really expensive, So like I could, I'll

684
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,360
let him apply and see if we could get a deal,

685
00:36:13,599 --> 00:36:16,960
But like, I don't know. I'm like confused as to

686
00:36:17,199 --> 00:36:19,840
and he's confused, and I'm like, let's go look at

687
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:23,320
some schools and see what you vibe with, right, because

688
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,760
you see, Santa Barbara has a creative writing program that

689
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,000
I feel like could be good. But he's like, I

690
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:34,000
don't know. So he's in that mode of like nothing

691
00:36:34,119 --> 00:36:37,480
is Like LB would get real excited about a certain

692
00:36:37,599 --> 00:36:42,400
school the vibes, Xander's like he doesn't know what he wants.

693
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,960
I can take him to see some schools, but it's

694
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:49,320
been hard because his high school doesn't allow for like

695
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,599
juniors to go miss days to go see school.

696
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:53,639
Speaker 1: He's got to wait till senior year.

697
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 2: Senior year they get they can go visit, they can

698
00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:00,639
go do college tours. But I would like, maybe I'll

699
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,360
take him for one over the summer or you know,

700
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,320
I don't know. I guess they have Saturday tours for

701
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,320
some schools. Yeah.

702
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,559
Speaker 1: I think you should just take them around and see

703
00:37:11,599 --> 00:37:14,760
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765
00:40:47,119 --> 00:40:49,519
watching any show? Have you been okay?

766
00:40:50,159 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

767
00:40:50,679 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 2: After last week? Yeah, you kind of have your friends

768
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:58,000
and neighbors. No the John Ham, No, I haven't I vehicle.

769
00:40:58,320 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 3: No.

770
00:40:59,199 --> 00:41:05,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gotten progressively worse every week. Dang it. This one.

771
00:41:05,519 --> 00:41:08,400
John and I were like, come on, come on, come

772
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back to us, your friends and neighbors. I cannot tell

773
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,280
you how many times we both like looked at each

774
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:18,079
other and had giant eye roll like are you are

775
00:41:18,119 --> 00:41:21,760
you kidding with this? Damn that is.

776
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:25,280
Speaker 1: So disappointing because I haven't caught I haven't I'm not

777
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,199
caught up, and we were I was with my friends

778
00:41:28,679 --> 00:41:31,480
who are kind of like civilians, you know, not in television,

779
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,639
and like, yeah, they love it, and I'm like, really

780
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:35,960
is it? Is it? Like?

781
00:41:36,159 --> 00:41:36,599
Speaker 2: They love?

782
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 1: Of course they love the first episode, and I was

783
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,440
telling them that it was getting kind of like not

784
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,119
so great. The writing's not that good. And then they

785
00:41:44,159 --> 00:41:47,000
were like, oh, it's good. It's fine. It's like okay,

786
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:49,599
all right, we're just snobs.

787
00:41:49,639 --> 00:41:53,599
Speaker 2: I guess maybe so. But the studio, are you guys

788
00:41:53,639 --> 00:41:54,440
watching the studio.

789
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: I love that show. I haven't getten better.

790
00:41:57,079 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 2: That was getting better, Yes, getting more curby your enthusias.

791
00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: Right, yes, you get the you get okay makes Pratt

792
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,960
does the Pratt falls and it's a little over the

793
00:42:07,079 --> 00:42:09,320
top and everybody, you know, you get the straight out

794
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,159
of casting, casting of the chick, the publicist, like everything's

795
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,079
like you know, that's Delulu, you know that kind of

796
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,480
But it's gotten better. It gets I think the first

797
00:42:19,559 --> 00:42:22,360
episode I was like eh with Marty scorsesey, but then

798
00:42:22,679 --> 00:42:25,960
I got the gist, like Okay, this is what's going on,

799
00:42:26,159 --> 00:42:26,639
and but.

800
00:42:26,679 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 2: It's less prout folly like it is aired crazy over

801
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,800
the top. Did you see last week now? I haven't

802
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,639
seen like two. No, I can't really funny.

803
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: Oh I'm gonna go watch that ship tonight.

804
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, this one it just aired over the weekend, and

805
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,840
the one the week before was I thought, really funny.

806
00:42:44,199 --> 00:42:44,760
Speaker 1: I think it's it.

807
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 3: I like it.

808
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,079
Speaker 1: I like the studio. Yeah that was really good.

809
00:42:48,639 --> 00:42:52,559
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, Friends is like Seth Rogan too. I

810
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:56,519
like him too. I used to, and he's really smart

811
00:42:56,639 --> 00:42:59,320
and funny and on the right side of things, and

812
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,679
I used to really get him confused with Jonah Hill,

813
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,679
he too talked about. But Jonah Hill is like God

814
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,320
is way more problematic, like Seth Rogan is like a

815
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,440
good guy. Yeah.

816
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 3: Seth Rogan is a great guy for sure. Yeah.

817
00:43:14,159 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: I like him when I hear his interviews on Howard Stern,

818
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:20,400
I love him. He's so down to earth. I love

819
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,280
his laugh and everything. Yeah, I like him a lot.

820
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,079
I never really paid attention to him until this show.

821
00:43:26,599 --> 00:43:30,119
You know, always thought he was just like for Stoner's

822
00:43:30,199 --> 00:43:33,320
or something. I don't know, but but yeah, because I

823
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,559
think he originally was that was like his name thing.

824
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 2: He writes super bad. He did, and then Jonah Hill

825
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:44,960
played like him. But then he they were both like

826
00:43:45,119 --> 00:43:48,840
fat Stoners, right, both of them like lost weight and

827
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,760
like became like a little bit more serious.

828
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 3: Jonah Hill definitely lost He kind of went up and

829
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,440
down there for a while, and then he definitely lost

830
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,039
a lot of weight. But I don't think Seth Rogan

831
00:43:57,159 --> 00:43:59,000
really I guess he did lose weight.

832
00:43:59,039 --> 00:44:01,320
Speaker 1: He was kind of he was a little chubby. He's

833
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,920
like my nephews, Like he was like in the awkward

834
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,000
stage or something. I don't know how old he was,

835
00:44:06,079 --> 00:44:08,079
but yeah, he was a little chubby. But then he

836
00:44:08,159 --> 00:44:11,199
got guys get better looking as they get older too,

837
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,880
some of them, like my guy friends, They're all like

838
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,599
they get better looking as they get older.

839
00:44:16,679 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think that.

840
00:44:18,599 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 1: Uh, I like those two shows. Well, I'm rooting for

841
00:44:22,119 --> 00:44:25,119
Friends and Neighbors, but right now that's the only shows

842
00:44:25,159 --> 00:44:28,920
I'm I'm other than watching like you know, Karen Reid

843
00:44:29,039 --> 00:44:32,400
Stuff and Puff Daddy. I was watching this morning on

844
00:44:32,599 --> 00:44:40,320
tubou toob tmz. Harvey Levin has like updates now, I

845
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,280
think weekly updates on the p Didty trial and he

846
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:46,320
had Gara Gos and Nancy Grace on the one I

847
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,599
watched this morning, and they were going at it, arguing

848
00:44:48,679 --> 00:44:51,079
with each other. Oh really yeah, it was pretty funny.

849
00:44:51,119 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 2: But like, is pro Diddy right? Yeah? I mean he

850
00:44:56,199 --> 00:44:58,559
was so God is he ever on the wrong side

851
00:44:58,559 --> 00:45:02,039
of something? Right? So he's a defense attorney.

852
00:45:02,079 --> 00:45:04,639
Speaker 1: He's a defense attorney and his daughter is like number

853
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,840
two up there as for his defense team, and he

854
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,280
got in trouble. So if you if you watched the

855
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:16,199
Angry Two Angry Men podcast with Harvey Levin and Mark Garratt,

856
00:45:16,199 --> 00:45:19,440
goes like a week ago before the trial started, he

857
00:45:19,679 --> 00:45:22,519
was said he made a comment and said, the legal

858
00:45:22,599 --> 00:45:27,480
team for the prosecution is six a pack of six

859
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,760
white women. Is that what he said? Oh?

860
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the This came out as like a

861
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:36,159
news story, right right, and the judge heard some white women.

862
00:45:36,559 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: I guess not. Well, he was talking about that on

863
00:45:39,079 --> 00:45:42,559
our show. Yeah, so the judge said, like, I don't know,

864
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:44,559
he got pissed about it. And then the judge said,

865
00:45:44,599 --> 00:45:49,280
I'm going to be watching your podcast. Yeah yeah, and yes,

866
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,719
So Gerret Goos was all over that for the first

867
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,079
week he was at the courthouse. He was sitting behind

868
00:45:55,199 --> 00:45:59,199
them in the courtroom and Diddy, I guess, look is

869
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:02,400
all gray and it's thin and not looking good.

870
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 2: And probably on purpose.

871
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: I also, yeah, I also heard the saying that he

872
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,480
got a hold of a cell phone while he's been

873
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,519
at that jail, and he also got like a serial

874
00:46:15,639 --> 00:46:18,360
number you can use so that they can't they don't

875
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,559
know it's him using the phone and he like was trying.

876
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:25,480
So they're like, he can't even abide by the rules

877
00:46:25,599 --> 00:46:28,000
while he's in jail. We're not gonna let him out

878
00:46:28,039 --> 00:46:32,599
on bail, right, So I don't know, I don't know

879
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,159
what's gonna happen. It's gonna be crazy.

880
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:37,559
Speaker 2: So yeah, a flight risk. Come on, right, that guy's

881
00:46:37,599 --> 00:46:39,880
gonna hop on one of his boats, get on a

882
00:46:40,119 --> 00:46:44,519
jail by Yeah, you know, go to a Roman pilancerpos

883
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:48,000
not liking white women. It's pretty funny. He I mean,

884
00:46:48,079 --> 00:46:51,199
he's such a we love us some Mark Garrett. It's

885
00:46:51,199 --> 00:46:54,840
such a so yeah, but like he can smile on

886
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,320
your face and go, you're a big nightmare for jury,

887
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,840
just a middle aged white woman right when I was

888
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:04,800
like hot card Dad definitely did it. But like you're

889
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:09,719
a nightmare, how right, because I see the truth, Mark, I.

890
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: Know, I don't know, it's it's uh. And then there's

891
00:47:14,519 --> 00:47:20,079
one uh, there's one person. They're gonna have Cassie Ventura.

892
00:47:20,199 --> 00:47:22,760
She's going to be like their uh start witness, but

893
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,519
they have another witness that does not want Like she's

894
00:47:26,599 --> 00:47:28,519
like in the top three that they want to call,

895
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,159
and she doesn't want to do it. She's afraid, and

896
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:35,840
they're trying to get her to, you know, uh take

897
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:36,320
the stand.

898
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 2: But they they have their defense. Part of their defense

899
00:47:40,199 --> 00:47:43,159
is that Cassie was it was like a consensual thing.

900
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,519
Speaker 1: That's what they're going for. Like they're all adults, they're

901
00:47:46,639 --> 00:47:47,400
all consensual.

902
00:47:47,519 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, except that we all saw the videotape.

903
00:47:50,119 --> 00:47:53,039
Speaker 1: Imagine the other videotapes they have after they went through

904
00:47:53,199 --> 00:47:55,599
all his mansions. I mean they took his hard drives.

905
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,239
I guarantee they saw other ship on there. So how

906
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:01,880
are they gonna that when you watch a video of

907
00:48:02,639 --> 00:48:05,199
that ship going down, how are you gonna say? I

908
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,719
don't know, like that that could work. I don't know

909
00:48:09,119 --> 00:48:12,480
if it's consensual unless they really, you know, can put

910
00:48:12,519 --> 00:48:15,320
together a good cage, which I think they are going to.

911
00:48:16,599 --> 00:48:20,000
I think that they pretty pretty much feel confident, but

912
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:24,360
I don't know. It's gonna be pretty crazy. And then

913
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:28,400
who's what other you know, celebrities are gonna whose names

914
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:32,440
are gonna come out? That's quite interesting? Yeah? Is it

915
00:48:32,639 --> 00:48:36,800
started or they just they're gonna They're finished today. Today's Monday.

916
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,639
They're finishing the jury selection and they should be starting

917
00:48:40,679 --> 00:48:42,320
testimony by tomorrow.

918
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,599
Speaker 2: Okay, well, well we will stay on that because we're

919
00:48:45,639 --> 00:48:48,760
pretty good like court reporters. Yeah, and I wonder I

920
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,559
need to see what's happening with Karen Reid.

921
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:54,559
Speaker 1: I'm behind on Karen Reid, although they did play her

922
00:48:55,159 --> 00:48:59,239
voicemail messages which are kind of hilarious and after I

923
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,800
heard that, I was like, man, this bitch is nuts.

924
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,599
Maybe she did do it, and why is she Here's

925
00:49:04,639 --> 00:49:07,199
the thing when she's saying they had somebody on the

926
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:10,159
stand like an EMT saying that she said I hit him,

927
00:49:10,199 --> 00:49:13,000
I hit him, and then the police officer came. She

928
00:49:13,079 --> 00:49:16,000
said the police officer asked him, when asked her what happened,

929
00:49:16,039 --> 00:49:18,159
and she's like, I think I hit him. I hit him.

930
00:49:18,199 --> 00:49:20,280
You know, she said it a lot of times. But

931
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:24,679
to me, that's like a She's such a narcissist that

932
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:29,199
it's like, I could you know see that she's making

933
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,559
it even in his death, she's making it about her

934
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,320
like could could I have hit him? Could I have

935
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:36,760
hit him? I don't know? And then when you hear

936
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voice messages, I have to second guess, like maybe she did.

937
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She's fucking nuts.

938
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Speaker 2: Well as you know, I think she did do it.

939
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But I know everybody disagrees with me.

940
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Speaker 1: Oh fuck yourself. I love that one.

941
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Speaker 2: Yeah pervert, Yeah, rap pervert. You're a rap pervert.

942
00:49:53,039 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: John, It's one am. I'm with your nephew. Fuck yourself.

943
00:49:59,079 --> 00:50:02,039
I say that all the time. I know, go fuck yourself.

944
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Speaker 2: I know we're gonna start doing the like the what

945
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:10,320
was our our pam uh not Pam smart? But whoa

946
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whoa whoa.

947
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Speaker 4: Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa

948
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:21,199
whoa go fuck yourself yourself, fuck yourself. Somebody wrote it

949
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:22,400
online too, the way.

950
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Speaker 1: Like f A h c K like fuck yourself yourself.

951
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:33,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, An, I think that we have to take

952
00:50:33,679 --> 00:50:36,960
it seriously that she literally has no memory of what happened.

953
00:50:37,079 --> 00:50:39,719
So you can't say, like, no, she remembers, she knows

954
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,440
she didn't do it. No, she doesn't. She was so

955
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:46,480
so drunk. Listen, I'm not saying this is I'm not

956
00:50:46,519 --> 00:50:48,599
saying this is proof that she did it, okay right now,

957
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,719
but I'm saying what people that are like, No, she

958
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,760
absolutely didn't do it. She was framed. She knows she

959
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:58,000
didn't do it. No, she doesn't. She doesn't have a

960
00:50:58,119 --> 00:51:00,639
memory of what happened. She said that. So if she's

961
00:51:00,679 --> 00:51:02,840
saying like I hit him, and everyone's saying, oh, and

962
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:06,440
she never said that, that's all been it's all a conspiracy.

963
00:51:06,559 --> 00:51:08,440
They're all saying that she said it, but she didn't

964
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,400
say it. I don't think that they could have gotten

965
00:51:10,599 --> 00:51:13,159
everyone in on the conspiracy. But I'm not gonna say

966
00:51:13,159 --> 00:51:15,400
anything else because I know people think that I'm not

967
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,559
looking at all. The cares. It's your opinion.

968
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Speaker 1: Cares go, well, fuck yourselves, everybody. She's guilty, she's innocent.

969
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:27,159
Who knows. I don't know. I it is the thing though, Yeah,

970
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,239
I mean it's just like, well it could be I

971
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:33,840
don't know, like fifty to fifty. But the the the police,

972
00:51:34,519 --> 00:51:36,719
there was a lot of fucking weird shit going.

973
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:40,039
Speaker 2: Definitely hundred percent. Kaitlin, you have a movie that you

974
00:51:40,119 --> 00:51:41,320
said that we should all watch that.

975
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,639
Speaker 1: It was Nonahs. I'm gonna watch that.

976
00:51:44,039 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 3: What is it?

977
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:48,519
Speaker 1: Bonah's on Netflix? Nona's Yeah, it's Vince. Sorry one second,

978
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:52,599
it's Vince Vund's movie. He's in it and he played

979
00:51:52,639 --> 00:51:55,599
and it's based on a true story in New York City.

980
00:51:55,639 --> 00:51:59,480
He gets a restaurant and he hires all these nonahs

981
00:52:00,119 --> 00:52:03,719
like Nanas to cook Grandma's Italian old school grammas to cook.

982
00:52:04,079 --> 00:52:07,559
And there's like what's your name? From Goodfellas is in it? Like, oh,

983
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,320
what's her name? From the Sopranos. There's a lot of

984
00:52:11,519 --> 00:52:14,840
actress that Susan Sarandon's one of the Nona's Yeah, it's

985
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,199
really it looks good, so I'm gonna watch it.

986
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:18,599
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll watch that, all right.

987
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 3: Yeah. I watched the movie on Peacock last week called

988
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,679
Black Bag, which is like a kind of spy thriller

989
00:52:25,159 --> 00:52:29,559
with Michael Fossbender, you know, Michael Fossbender and Kate Blanchett,

990
00:52:30,079 --> 00:52:32,719
and it's it's a very kind of like simple movie,

991
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,440
but they play like I five, like British intelligence agents

992
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,599
and they're kind of trying to like just find kind

993
00:52:38,639 --> 00:52:41,280
of like a mole in the in the agency or whatever.

994
00:52:41,519 --> 00:52:42,760
And it's it's good.

995
00:52:43,039 --> 00:52:47,119
Speaker 1: It's good. It's on Peacock. Oh, also on Peacock as

996
00:52:47,199 --> 00:52:52,039
Karen Reid, so they're they're Boston ten in NBC New

997
00:52:52,159 --> 00:52:55,199
York Local News. They do I guess, like a half

998
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:58,199
hour wrap up of every day and then they're putting

999
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:00,880
it on Peacock and you can stream it. There's three

1000
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:05,840
episodes so far, but it's each week and each episode

1001
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:09,159
is like almost two hours, so it's like every night

1002
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:13,599
all of there. Oh hell yeah, now watch that. Yeah.

1003
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 2: I want there to be like a podcast, like maybe

1004
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:18,280
a daily podcast.

1005
00:53:18,559 --> 00:53:21,519
Speaker 1: I think there is is there. I don't know, I'm

1006
00:53:21,599 --> 00:53:24,360
probably there. Is, but yeah, on Peacock you can watch

1007
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:25,960
the whole wrap up each week.

1008
00:53:26,119 --> 00:53:28,079
Speaker 2: I gotta tell you that I am so out of

1009
00:53:28,119 --> 00:53:29,199
podcasts right now.

1010
00:53:30,119 --> 00:53:32,639
Speaker 1: I was what I was listening listen to the Two

1011
00:53:32,679 --> 00:53:36,320
Angry Men podcast. Okay that listen to the episode. It's

1012
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:39,760
Nancy Grace and and and Garrett go's going at it.

1013
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,440
It's really funny actually, and she gives them a whole

1014
00:53:42,519 --> 00:53:46,800
fucking hard time about Scott Peterson. She's like, you're Delulu. No,

1015
00:53:47,159 --> 00:53:50,719
She's like, oh yeah, She's like she's arguing. She's like, okay,

1016
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:53,280
mar like totally like what you would say to him,

1017
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:55,920
totally arguing with him. It's really funny.

1018
00:53:56,559 --> 00:53:59,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you gotta watch Peterson. His blind spot for

1019
00:53:59,639 --> 00:54:02,119
Scott Peterson is hilarious.

1020
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:03,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's the Lulu.

1021
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 2: I mean, it's his lawyer. What's he supposed to say? Like,

1022
00:54:05,679 --> 00:54:06,880
I probably did it right.

1023
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 1: Now, it's over, absolutely not right.

1024
00:54:11,199 --> 00:54:13,519
Speaker 2: I want to know, are these menandos brothers out yet?

1025
00:54:13,599 --> 00:54:14,480
What's happening with you now?

1026
00:54:14,639 --> 00:54:16,639
Speaker 1: He talks about that on the podcast too. He gives

1027
00:54:16,639 --> 00:54:19,360
you updates about that. Oh my god, he's fighting though

1028
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:20,920
every day, like for them.

1029
00:54:21,159 --> 00:54:23,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of at this point want them out

1030
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:23,559
of jail.

1031
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good enough enough, We're good. Look, they're not

1032
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:29,480
a danger. I don't think they're a danger to society.

1033
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 2: No, probably not.

1034
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: No. And all the good things they've done in jail

1035
00:54:35,039 --> 00:54:37,639
since all the programs they've set up.

1036
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 2: They've done a lot. Really yeah, like all the Yeah,

1037
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:45,199
you gotta listen, it's good. Okay, all right, listen. We

1038
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:49,320
have a couple more shout outs. We got Robin's charity,

1039
00:54:49,559 --> 00:54:55,400
pop Culture Rescue dot org. Put Culture Rescue and that's

1040
00:54:55,679 --> 00:54:59,119
you know, they're they're rescuing the dogs there. They need

1041
00:54:59,199 --> 00:55:02,199
money for food and medical care, and they're getting them

1042
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:06,320
out of like, you know, the overcrowded shelters. So Popculture

1043
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:11,320
Rescue dot Org. Also Family Skeptical. It's a podcast for

1044
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,159
raising kids with our religion if so, you know whatever,

1045
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,639
Come find your people and listen to a cool podcast. Also,

1046
00:55:18,199 --> 00:55:22,159
my friend whose name I won't say, is posting over

1047
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on medium dot com under the name Unbecoming Stories, and

1048
00:55:28,119 --> 00:55:33,559
go check out her fascinating, very well written stories. You

1049
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:40,039
won't regret it. Also Krista Stroup, her friend Sarah lost

1050
00:55:40,079 --> 00:55:43,159
her son to suicide and she is on a mission

1051
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:45,840
to break the stigma surrounding suicide and help fill in

1052
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,360
the gaps in her community in Ohio. So go to

1053
00:55:48,519 --> 00:55:56,400
Chase Haleyproject dot com. And then every week Queer Youth

1054
00:55:56,559 --> 00:55:59,679
Resource in Vancouver, Washington. They need our help, they need

1055
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rec sources q y RC Vancouver, w A dot org.

1056
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:09,400
And also Adam's got a car dot com. He can

1057
00:56:09,519 --> 00:56:12,480
help you. He'll help you, gonna help me. He's helping

1058
00:56:12,559 --> 00:56:17,079
me right now. Yeah, my friends. He literally got my

1059
00:56:17,159 --> 00:56:19,440
friends a car in two days. She really she had

1060
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,400
totaled her car. She was driving a rental and she

1061
00:56:23,599 --> 00:56:26,039
was like, we're gonna try your guy. And two days

1062
00:56:26,079 --> 00:56:27,159
later she's like, got our car.

1063
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Speaker 1: Nine got love it.

1064
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:31,280
Speaker 2: Love it anyway, that's it.

1065
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:32,559
Speaker 1: That's not drunkish.

1066
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 2: Drunkish. Please listen and please subscribe. And I've been really good.

1067
00:56:37,639 --> 00:56:38,280
Good episode.

1068
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,639
Speaker 1: You're doing a great job, Stephanie, you really are. It's

1069
00:56:41,679 --> 00:56:46,000
a good I love it. You're doing wonderful, really good stories.

1070
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,199
You can't wait to hear this this week.

1071
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:53,280
Speaker 2: Kayhanley, Yeah, you're gonna love it. Such a good episode.

1072
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:57,119
And then next week I have this guy named Matthew

1073
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:01,679
Hahn who did a long stint in prison and has

1074
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,800
like a it's a crazy story. I put it into

1075
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,840
two parts. Wow. Yeah, I love it all right, Thanks everybody.

1076
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,360
Thanks Caylin. You're a parent, now, don't f it up.

1077
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:12,679
It's good.

1078
00:57:15,079 --> 00:57:15,679
Speaker 1: Let a go.