1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Well, hello friends. Coming up. In this episode, Laura and 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,799 Mark come face to face for the first time since 3 00:00:06,839 --> 00:00:12,080 that awkward fortieth birthday sort of snub. I'll call it thing. 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,759 Speaker 2: I haven't seen you in a while, I don't. 5 00:00:14,679 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 3: Insit each other three weeks three weeks ago plus. 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: We dig into Mark's past to see what he's learned, 7 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,960 if anything. Was there a lesson that radio taught you? Yeah, 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,960 never going radio, and Laura gets kind of deep. 9 00:00:26,039 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 2: I was like on the ground, crumbled in tears, and 10 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:31,000 then I built myself back up to where I was 11 00:00:31,039 --> 00:00:35,479 like so content, happy by myself, like feeling successful, feeling 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,759 like I love where my life is right now. And 13 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:43,240 so I just don't think I could ever go back 14 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,479 down that far, you know what I mean. So I 15 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,560 would just never allow myself to get to that point. 16 00:00:47,719 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: But first, be sure to check out Bill Moran Productions 17 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,520 dot com. You'll find every episode, some bonus clips, and 18 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:57,240 a handy link to email me directly at Bill at 19 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:01,159 Bill Moran Productions dot com. That's Bill at Billmoreproductions dot com. 20 00:01:01,159 --> 00:01:03,159 And if you'd like to support the pirate ship, there's 21 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,120 a link in the episode description. So climb aboard when 22 00:01:06,159 --> 00:01:09,480 your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice, mix 23 00:01:09,519 --> 00:01:14,719 in some vodka in color. A podcast from the Mac 24 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,439 of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor 25 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:34,599 Chrysler Dots Jeep Ram. It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, 26 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,599 hello and welcome. I'm so excited. I wanted like we 27 00:01:38,719 --> 00:01:44,359 had an incident earlier last week, and then I got 28 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:45,840 an incident. An incident. 29 00:01:45,879 --> 00:01:47,079 Speaker 3: It was just in a little incident. 30 00:01:47,439 --> 00:01:52,359 Speaker 1: And Laura's here and Marcus here. Yeah, I'm very excited 31 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,920 about this because you know, one of the big things 32 00:01:55,959 --> 00:02:01,200 coming up is Laura's extravaganza fortieth birthday party. 33 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: Oh there's a party going out. 34 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know about it. Well, I mean apparently you didn't. 35 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:10,199 And I would like to, uh, you know, I would 36 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:15,520 like to away play for Laura. 37 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 4: I love that park right away and knows where this 38 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:18,439 is going. 39 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,879 Speaker 1: I would like to play for Laura the part where 40 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:26,360 Mark realized he was not invited to your fortieth birthday 41 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,960 extravaganza and here we go. This is uh, this is 42 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:30,840 the segment. 43 00:02:31,039 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 3: Twins find a way to play a song? 44 00:02:32,879 --> 00:02:38,039 Speaker 1: So why are you taking? My name is Mark? I 45 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:38,879 think we get him on. 46 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 3: I think they should come on, yeah. 47 00:02:41,879 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: It might be at Laura's party. Oh yeah, what about 48 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,919 that's what? Wait? 49 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:51,439 Speaker 3: What what a bunch of uh people have on this 50 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:52,879 show stirring the pot? 51 00:02:53,439 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Okay, now let it go. 52 00:02:56,199 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 2: I was literally texting with your buddy Matt right before this. 53 00:03:00,479 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 4: I'm like, this whole group is all pot stars. We 54 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:05,759 love to push each other. 55 00:03:07,159 --> 00:03:09,759 Speaker 1: Do you know I want to go down different day? Why? 56 00:03:10,039 --> 00:03:13,879 But see right here, this is a nice I have nothing. 57 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 3: Here's the thing when someone made a remark to me 58 00:03:19,039 --> 00:03:21,599 that Laura is talking about all this cool stuff and 59 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,439 you want to talk about and you want to talk 60 00:03:23,439 --> 00:03:27,919 about a conspiracy theory about Helen Keller, who someone to work? 61 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: Okay, all right. 62 00:03:30,879 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 3: So what am I supposed to do? 63 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:32,439 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 64 00:03:33,879 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 3: But everyone here, Laura, Manton and Kevin together with the 65 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,280 me on And it wasn't meant to be an insult, wasn't. 66 00:03:40,319 --> 00:03:43,439 I didn't I disliked anybody, you know, it wasn't met 67 00:03:43,439 --> 00:03:45,400 LinkedIn but everybody you were but. 68 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:52,919 Speaker 1: Hurt not really, Let's keep it rolling, okay, Laura, Laura Watts, 69 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:58,639 Laura has thoughts. Yeah, we heard about that little world discussion. 70 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,199 It's gonna be one by is a and one breakfast 71 00:04:02,199 --> 00:04:08,560 burrito for everybody, and it'll feed everybody. Well, you might 72 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,879 have to get Joe his own. Yeah, yeah, joking, jo 73 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,919 Joe's a big he's a big guy. Now we don't 74 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:16,120 mean that insultingly. 75 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,079 Speaker 4: Oh you know that man can just like. 76 00:04:19,079 --> 00:04:23,319 Speaker 1: But I remember when Laura found out she had a 77 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,879 medical problem. But she's like, I'm putting on weight and 78 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:27,839 she goes and I always I think it's Joe. He 79 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,680 had not jos. 80 00:04:30,079 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: He comes home and takes me at nine o'clock. On 81 00:04:32,879 --> 00:04:35,720 his drive home, is like, I'm gonna stop at Tackle Bell. 82 00:04:35,759 --> 00:04:37,519 I'm gonna stop and get a chicken sandwich. Do you 83 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,279 want something? And I'm like no, But then he comes 84 00:04:40,319 --> 00:04:42,240 over and he's sitting on the couch with it, and 85 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,639 then I'm like, give me a bite. 86 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 1: I need some stuff. That is gonna be a fun party. 87 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,199 I hope you're I hope you're there. That wasn't invited 88 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,600 just to fuck you work? Where Where was I invited? 89 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,120 You should gun in text? I got invite on Facebook? 90 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,079 A Facebook invite. You don't even know if you got to. 91 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,040 We're going from Laura's to Greg's party and iron smoke. 92 00:05:07,759 --> 00:05:10,759 Greg I might have to just say what day is 93 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:11,720 that one? 94 00:05:11,759 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 3: I'm going as you're going where I'm going to Gregg's party? 95 00:05:15,319 --> 00:05:15,519 Speaker 1: No? 96 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:20,399 Speaker 2: Not hang on, So first I gotta say Facebook. I 97 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,360 it's funny because a lot of my friends don't even 98 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,560 use Facebook anymore. But I was like, how do you 99 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:29,319 send a party invite anymore? Because some people are on 100 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,639 the internet. I can't text like fifty people. I don't 101 00:05:32,639 --> 00:05:33,839 want to and I don't want to text. 102 00:05:33,879 --> 00:05:36,319 Speaker 1: What well if you did, like okay, because I'm going 103 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:40,480 are we at an age where you think like an 104 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:45,240 evite is I don't know, too casual, but an engraved 105 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,079 mailed out invitation is too culty? You know what I'm saying. 106 00:05:49,399 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 4: Well, evites. 107 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,519 Speaker 2: I've had friends who use them. I use them a 108 00:05:52,519 --> 00:05:54,240 lot for my kid's birthday parties. 109 00:05:54,439 --> 00:05:55,879 Speaker 4: But I don't know. 110 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: I don't have everyone's email addresses. I haven't used them 111 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,279 like that. But I was joking at my gym. I 112 00:06:02,319 --> 00:06:05,160 was like, I wish I did like print out flyers. 113 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:09,199 Speaker 1: Or something flyers Like it's a rager. I just saw 114 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,519 old school when they did the flyers everywhere. 115 00:06:11,959 --> 00:06:16,519 Speaker 2: Like friends, Yeah, did send invitations to via Facebook? They're like, 116 00:06:16,879 --> 00:06:19,920 it's not even showing up for me. I don't know, 117 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,600 so I like asked some people. I'm like, have you 118 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,639 gotten it? And they're like nope. Even my one niece 119 00:06:25,639 --> 00:06:28,199 who's twenty three. You think she'd be on social media. 120 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,360 She's like, I haven't gone on my Facebook in like 121 00:06:30,399 --> 00:06:30,759 a year. 122 00:06:32,639 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 1: Okay, here is Uh that was a good butt. 123 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 4: It was a really nice ass that just walked by. 124 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:43,759 Speaker 1: I don't know anything seventeenth So what would it be 125 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:47,560 under They don't know the party. You don't even look 126 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:48,600 at your ship, so don't worry. 127 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 3: I did look at my ship. 128 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: Well maybe they didn't get an invite. 129 00:06:51,519 --> 00:06:53,879 Speaker 3: I didn't get an invite it that'd be great. 130 00:06:54,199 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: Now now here comes some some shit story. Man. You 131 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:02,120 could go there and probably see you picks galore, do 132 00:07:02,199 --> 00:07:05,360 not you can see you in one of those bonus rooms, 133 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:09,040 and will we all watch that? Not be watch for free? 134 00:07:10,319 --> 00:07:13,120 I'll put up open some stadium seating in there. Oh yeah, 135 00:07:13,199 --> 00:07:15,600 actually I might let you watch for free. She got 136 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,160 a freaky he never know, Laura might, but that's true. 137 00:07:19,439 --> 00:07:21,839 Yeah you you all right? Wait, now here comes the 138 00:07:21,879 --> 00:07:24,879 ship stirring part. This this is what I thought. I'm 139 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,920 sure you got invited. I didn't. Okay, but you're you're welcome. 140 00:07:28,639 --> 00:07:31,399 What well, No, she did say, hang on a second, 141 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,720 Hang on a second. She said she was only inviting 142 00:07:34,759 --> 00:07:42,000 people that made her happy. Such a dick. Okay, Oh, 143 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:43,000 I forgot about you, sir. 144 00:07:43,079 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 3: In the fire, I was thinking about Cavin and Madge. 145 00:07:48,759 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 1: Come on, what a deck. Who's the one who could 146 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:57,000 always get it? What a deck? She did wrong? Yes, man, 147 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,800 I was surprised. But Matt, that's true. That's true. So 148 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,720 apparently you know. Of course, I'm sure you got invited, 149 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,319 and there's no way you didn't. I just sent her 150 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,560 a text because she likes you and I work that 151 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:13,639 worked on. I'm sure you do. I know seven days. Wait, 152 00:08:13,639 --> 00:08:21,560 you get a plus one so you could bring Marianne. 153 00:08:23,439 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 2: You ended it too early, yeah, because then then Kevin 154 00:08:28,319 --> 00:08:32,759 texted me and it was like, hey, what's Holman invited? 155 00:08:32,919 --> 00:08:35,720 And I wrote, no, there's gonna be too many personal 156 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:37,720 big personality. 157 00:08:37,159 --> 00:08:41,279 Speaker 3: Which Matt, Matt love him dearly, stirring the pot because 158 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,759 I told him that be TB. I said, you guys, yeah, lord, 159 00:08:45,639 --> 00:08:48,759 you guys, I'll go on another night. Seriously, I go 160 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,720 too many personalities And it was a compliment. 161 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,039 Speaker 1: It wasn't an insult. 162 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,519 Speaker 3: It wasn't like, oh my god, fucking bitch, I hate her. 163 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,919 I'm like, no, people would rather listen to her. When 164 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,159 my friends are telling me that they'd rather listen to 165 00:09:00,399 --> 00:09:02,279 I mean, I really kind of think we should probably 166 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,000 go put me in another direction. 167 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right? But on a scale 168 00:09:06,399 --> 00:09:10,639 on a scale of one to full carry it prom 169 00:09:10,759 --> 00:09:12,759 How hurt were are you that you wouldn't included. 170 00:09:12,919 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 3: I wasn't you feel doubt? I did until the next day, 171 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:17,240 and I didn't give a phoe. 172 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 1: I did, though, take some time to write an invitation 173 00:09:23,639 --> 00:09:27,039 to Laura's party to you, Mark, if you'd like to, 174 00:09:28,159 --> 00:09:30,240 If you'd like me to read it to you, I'd 175 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,519 be happy to do that and Laura can hear it 176 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:36,879 as well, if that's all right. Yeah, Dearest Mark, it 177 00:09:36,919 --> 00:09:39,720 has come to our attention, tragically late and with deep 178 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:43,759 emotional cost, that you were not formally invited to Laura's 179 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:51,480 fortieth birthday extravaganza. Please accept this hand delivered podcasting knowledge, 180 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:55,000 spiritually binding invitation as proof that you were always in 181 00:09:55,039 --> 00:09:59,799 our hearts but not on the original guest list story. 182 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:04,360 My is this grievous oversight is in no way a 183 00:10:04,399 --> 00:10:08,159 reflection of your value as a friend, podcast contributor, or 184 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:15,360 occasional bringer of dirty stories. It's simply a result of 185 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,240 Laura turning forty in her memory becoming less sharp and 186 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,120 more Google calendar dependent. And I saw her Google calendar. 187 00:10:21,399 --> 00:10:25,960 It's color coded. It's color coded. We are thrilled, nay honored, 188 00:10:26,279 --> 00:10:30,919 to now formally invite you to Laura's fortieth birthday, people 189 00:10:30,919 --> 00:10:41,000 who make her happy and Mark Saturday, May seventeenth, four 190 00:10:41,039 --> 00:10:46,000 o'clock unless you're mad, show up at five. Dress code forgiveness, 191 00:10:46,039 --> 00:10:50,279 casual vibe, joyful chaos with hints of champagne and low 192 00:10:50,279 --> 00:10:54,480 stakes emotional damage, and mark as a VIP very ignored 193 00:10:54,519 --> 00:10:59,960 person your attendance. Your attendance includes one awkward hug from Laura, 194 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,480 unlimited shade, and the last slice of birthday cake if 195 00:11:03,519 --> 00:11:07,600 when no one's watching RSVP, by saying something passive aggressive 196 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,279 on the podcast, or just showing up and pretending like 197 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,960 it never happened, with love, laughter, and a mild amount 198 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,559 of guilt. The Birthday Committee, which is just Laura of fun. 199 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,519 Speaker 3: It sounds like a three all three of me on Monday. 200 00:11:19,759 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 1: Oh what do you eat? All three on Monday. 201 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 2: I wrote that time to write that I love that 202 00:11:24,639 --> 00:11:26,279 I did just send you the invite. 203 00:11:26,399 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 4: You are more than invite. 204 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: I invited. 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I don't 263 00:14:44,519 --> 00:14:48,440 mean that, but what have you learned in your fifties 264 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,600 now that you couldn't have grasped in your thirties? Do 265 00:14:50,639 --> 00:14:52,120 you think, Well, let's put it this way. 266 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 3: Let me use let me use a movie and TV too, Okay, 267 00:14:56,879 --> 00:15:00,360 explain the answer. The other day we watched I was 268 00:15:00,399 --> 00:15:02,879 in the training class about how to talk to you know, 269 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,879 students and stuff, and they showed us the clip on 270 00:15:06,759 --> 00:15:11,200 the Breakfast Club where the teacher is saying that Bender 271 00:15:11,639 --> 00:15:15,399 is giving him all the detentions. Yeah, and I'm watching 272 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,639 it and I remember being thirteen years old watching it, going, well, 273 00:15:19,639 --> 00:15:22,080 the guy's a deck, you know. You know. Now i'm 274 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,799 watching it, I'm looking at Bendroom. What a fucking punk? Yeah, 275 00:15:24,879 --> 00:15:27,679 you know, I look at that differently. When I watched 276 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:32,399 Like Friends, for instance, I hated Ross, thought he was 277 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:35,480 a dumb, stupid character. Now I watched it back. He's 278 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:41,360 my favorite character. Why because he's fought me. His lines 279 00:15:41,399 --> 00:15:46,240 were funny, which I didn't understand a twenty something and he's. 280 00:15:46,039 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: Just you know, he was. 281 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:50,159 Speaker 3: It was just as what he would say and how 282 00:15:50,159 --> 00:15:51,320 he'd say it interesting. 283 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, so you appreciate some things differently. 284 00:15:54,519 --> 00:15:57,919 Speaker 3: Because you just, yeah, you change and you see things 285 00:15:57,960 --> 00:15:59,039 in a totally different way. 286 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,279 Speaker 1: Well, see that that's the thing I always I mean. 287 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 3: I still don't get invited to parties. I didn'tet invite 288 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,600 the parties when you know, it was when I was 289 00:16:05,639 --> 00:16:12,159 eleven and I don't getting invited. Did you get invited 290 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,799 to high school parties? Well, well they're up the street, 291 00:16:16,679 --> 00:16:20,799 so I would just go up and myself, Yeah, I 292 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,519 could see. Well I always think like do we ever 293 00:16:24,639 --> 00:16:27,240 really change? And I go, yeah, I think you're not 294 00:16:27,279 --> 00:16:31,080 the same person who were like two three years ago. No, right, 295 00:16:31,159 --> 00:16:32,759 all the experiences in life that. 296 00:16:32,759 --> 00:16:35,279 Speaker 1: You have and just the way you see and you're right, 297 00:16:35,559 --> 00:16:39,679 you see things maybe differently or for what they are, right, 298 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,360 you know what I mean. Do you have any regrets 299 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:43,159 when you look back or do you just go I 300 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:44,480 was all part of the evolution. 301 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,519 Speaker 3: I do have regrets. There's a lot of regrets, but 302 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:51,240 it's also things that I wanted to do right and 303 00:16:51,279 --> 00:16:54,480 I did it. And it's you know, and uh, I 304 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:55,679 guess I shouldn't say regrets. 305 00:16:55,799 --> 00:16:59,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't like regrets. I don't wish I handled differently. 306 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: Oh that's a great way. 307 00:17:01,759 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 2: Like I think regrets. You learn your lessons. It's part 308 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,079 of your growth. It makes to who you are. But 309 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,279 there are definitely things I wish I handled differently. 310 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: There's a lot of things I wish I had handled 311 00:17:13,039 --> 00:17:13,599 differently too. 312 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:15,039 Speaker 3: I think I see the time warn on the way 313 00:17:15,039 --> 00:17:19,440 too long. Okay, I hated. I hated that job towards 314 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,119 the end, but I knew. I knew that they were 315 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,559 going to get rid of us and give us the severance. 316 00:17:25,039 --> 00:17:27,880 So I hung I hung on for the last five years. Yeah, 317 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:29,039 because I knew what was common. 318 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:34,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm going man mark poor drinks probably once 319 00:17:34,839 --> 00:17:37,759 in a while, you know, just for managed bar Uh 320 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,599 was in radio. Dabbled in radio sales, which is I'll 321 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:44,200 say dabbled. I don't know. I liked radio sales. 322 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 3: It was easy for me because I was selling something. 323 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,480 I was selling something that I was on. Yeah, you know, 324 00:17:49,559 --> 00:17:52,000 I mean that was selling for you guys. I wouldn't 325 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,319 sell for Bill because I was mad at him, So it. 326 00:17:55,319 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: Would be true. You even dodged bullets literally Yeah, yeah 327 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:02,599 at the liquor store. 328 00:18:02,799 --> 00:18:07,559 Speaker 3: Oh fuck yeah, that fucking place. But but if it 329 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,880 wasn't for that to happen, I wouldn't be where I 330 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:10,839 am right now, is. 331 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: Right, That's what I'm saying. It's like it's all part 332 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,519 of the evolution, because it's Laura saying I have no regrets. 333 00:18:15,759 --> 00:18:18,119 There are things with my older boys I wish I 334 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:22,240 had done differently, or I had more patience, or I 335 00:18:22,279 --> 00:18:26,359 paid more something, and you go, but it's all part 336 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:28,400 of the evolution. You didn't know it then. You weren't 337 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:33,039 trying to do something that was gonna not fully benefit everybody. 338 00:18:33,079 --> 00:18:33,920 You just didn't know. 339 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:38,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And like even the things that you regret or 340 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,079 you know, wish you would have handled differently, you learn 341 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,119 things from them. They teach you stuff about yourself. And 342 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,720 I don't know, like there's nothing that I would fully 343 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,880 take back. It's just yeah, you know, things taught me 344 00:18:54,079 --> 00:18:56,039 what I want in life, you know, and what I'll 345 00:18:56,079 --> 00:18:57,160 never stand for again. 346 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 1: No. I think, Wow, that's how powerful statement right there. 347 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:07,319 That's very powerful, like that I'll never stand for again? Wow? 348 00:19:07,599 --> 00:19:10,839 Are there is there one thing? And without prying to 349 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:12,920 it to say, you can say, are there several things 350 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,359 you wouldn't stand for? Oh? Yeah, yeah, what would be 351 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,640 just one that's a little more innocuous, but something that 352 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:19,559 people could relate to. 353 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 2: I would say having a passionate romance, like just having 354 00:19:26,759 --> 00:19:34,200 passion in love with your partner, Like and I sadly 355 00:19:34,799 --> 00:19:38,319 see so many couples that there's no passion there and 356 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:40,519 whether and they're like, oh, it's because of the age 357 00:19:40,519 --> 00:19:43,880 of the kids, and I you know, I don't know 358 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:50,400 if you can blame that on everything. Like I'll also 359 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:55,400 I'll never put myself in a position where I feel 360 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,359 like people are demeaning to me or talking down to me, 361 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:01,599 don't treat me as an equal or you know, respect 362 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,640 what I have respect in some way, right, Like you know, 363 00:20:05,599 --> 00:20:09,200 I think some people sometimes even with my business, they 364 00:20:09,759 --> 00:20:12,359 look and they're like, holy shit, that's what you do. 365 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,279 Like they don't realize what I do and what I 366 00:20:15,319 --> 00:20:17,119 have built, right exactly. 367 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, is there something you won't stand for? I'm trying 368 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:21,720 to think of, like something I wouldn't stand for, because 369 00:20:21,759 --> 00:20:24,000 I think I just I think there's things I wouldn't 370 00:20:24,039 --> 00:20:29,440 stand for. I just avoid it, Like I no, I 371 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:30,240 don't even regret. 372 00:20:30,279 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 3: But I wish did I went. I wish I was 373 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:36,079 a teacher. I wish I was much Debt's where I went. 374 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:39,720 I didn't realize that that's what I liked, that I 375 00:20:39,799 --> 00:20:42,519 liked and wanted to do. Yeah, I don't have kids. 376 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:44,680 I thought I didn't even like kids. 377 00:20:48,279 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 1: But you're you're more than that. Like you're giving emotional 378 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:55,359 support to kids who need support. 379 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 3: You know, and these kids all you know, these kids 380 00:20:57,079 --> 00:20:59,400 mean a lot. I mean they do, They mean a lot, 381 00:20:59,759 --> 00:21:02,160 and it's like, you know, I just think, you know, 382 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,960 being in radio was so cool in the nineties, right 383 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,079 because we got to do everything. Yeah you know what 384 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,000 twenty something you old didn't want to do that? 385 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,799 Speaker 1: Was there a lesson that radio tell you? Yeah, never 386 00:21:11,839 --> 00:21:18,039 go in radio. Connerson Ferris handles workers comp, social security, disability, 387 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,920 and personal injury cases. 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For leo's because the best Thing about 408 00:22:32,799 --> 00:22:36,759 leo's IS everything i Know that laura has and it's 409 00:22:36,759 --> 00:22:42,160 been talked about on. This Podcast the swinger lifestyle is 410 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,480 curious to you and. 411 00:22:46,599 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 3: Now explain what what you what you would, have curiosity 412 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,759 what your career eyes because there's different types. 413 00:22:56,839 --> 00:23:00,559 Speaker 1: Of swing yeah okay, You no i'm. Sorry INTERRUPT what 414 00:23:00,599 --> 00:23:02,720 i would say To that mark is it's it's a, 415 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:07,039 great question but what would your first, ideal experience if 416 00:23:07,079 --> 00:23:09,480 you were to experience it be? 417 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,799 Speaker 4: For you it's not as much. 418 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,759 Speaker 1: Just, your vision no judgment. 419 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 2: As much of a swinger as the. Voyeurism, Part OKAY 420 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,680 LIKE i i would. 421 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,079 Speaker 4: Love to have Somebody watch JOE. 422 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,039 Speaker 1: And i joe wouldn't really. 423 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 2: Not KNOW and i also think it would be so 424 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:36,799 hot to watch. Another couple like it's Not as i'm 425 00:23:36,799 --> 00:23:40,720 not as interested in the, partner swapping, like, okay okay 426 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,160 just like the openness. 427 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 4: Of it it really turns. 428 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 1: Me on, it does the the openness of the. 429 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:55,599 Speaker 2: Voyeuristic, Aspect Yeah like, i've said my fantasy is literally 430 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,880 like police interrogation room and knowing that there's like two 431 00:24:00,079 --> 00:24:01,440 tons of people behind. 432 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: The, glass yeah a one. Way, Mirror wow so that 433 00:24:06,519 --> 00:24:10,319 makes you what would Make it let's say there was something. 434 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,400 Like that but see this IS where i am, always afraid, 435 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:18,200 NOT afraid i believe sometimes like if you're so, turned 436 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:22,079 on like there's a couple. OF things i think for 437 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,000 a lot of, YOUNG guys i think they get so 438 00:24:25,319 --> 00:24:29,559 turned on in the moment and then they not and, 439 00:24:29,599 --> 00:24:31,559 they go, OH fuck i gotta get out, Of here like. 440 00:24:31,599 --> 00:24:35,079 They're uncomfortable what were? They doing they? DON'T know, i 441 00:24:35,079 --> 00:24:37,240 mean if, you're, young right you don't have the maturity 442 00:24:37,319 --> 00:24:41,319 on how to handle. The, Situation YES but i think 443 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,480 a lot of, those guys let's say it, does happen 444 00:24:45,519 --> 00:24:47,960 they handle it better or, they don't you KNOW what. 445 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:49,640 I mean, IT'S like i, Fuck it i'm a human 446 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,440 being shut off a little. Early today But what i'm 447 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,799 saying is like in, those situations sometimes you would lose 448 00:24:56,079 --> 00:24:59,440 and all of, a sudden like do you find yourself 449 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,519 with another couple in some way or if someone comes 450 00:25:03,559 --> 00:25:05,440 over AND starts, i mean. 451 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 4: WHO knows i, don't KNOW and i don't. 452 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 2: JUDGE it i just don't know what my levels. Would 453 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,359 be BUT like, I mean i've talked to some of 454 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,720 my close friends about, it too and, they're, LIKE oh 455 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,359 i can see you. DOING this i can see you, 456 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,559 doing that but. 457 00:25:23,319 --> 00:25:25,160 Speaker 3: Would it be would it be with someone that? 458 00:25:25,279 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 2: You, KNOW no i don't THINK so i had a 459 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:30,359 FRIEND who. 460 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 3: I mean LIKE if. I ASK if i ask, This 461 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:38,000 question i'm going to say it has nothing to do. 462 00:25:38,079 --> 00:25:40,200 With me it's just a QUESTION that i want to 463 00:25:40,279 --> 00:25:42,160 ASK because i. Think people do You think i'm going 464 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:42,680 to jump all? 465 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,799 Speaker 1: Over? You, YEAH okay i. 466 00:25:43,839 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 3: Can't wait you go ahead like, the person because would 467 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,119 you let someone watch you that? You Know and i'm asking, 468 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:53,759 a question that QUESTION because i. 469 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:58,759 Speaker 2: Because he Wants to, well, No no i'm. Kidding you, 470 00:25:58,839 --> 00:26:01,640 finish yours Because Then i'll i'll have A follow i'll 471 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:02,359 tell you a follow. 472 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 1: Up, STORY well. 473 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,799 Speaker 3: I want i always knew. THE girl i didn't know. 474 00:26:07,839 --> 00:26:11,000 THE guy i didn't. Really know every once in A 475 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,920 while i, knew both but it was always. The girl 476 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,799 it was my it was my. Comfort, zone okay so 477 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,799 that was right and not the not. The. Guy right 478 00:26:20,079 --> 00:26:20,759 it made it easier. 479 00:26:20,759 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: That, way, yeah sure because guys can also, be, territorial, 480 00:26:23,519 --> 00:26:27,839 right uncomfortable change. Her mind weird HAPPENED. 481 00:26:27,519 --> 00:26:30,680 Speaker 2: Once i had a female friend asked to watch me. 482 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 3: And, someone wait what don't she can't talk about this? 483 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: GOING on i miss something a. 484 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 4: Different name we'll Go. 485 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 1: With jake, a friend one of. 486 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,039 Speaker 2: My female friends wanted to watch Me. And jake and 487 00:26:47,079 --> 00:26:51,119 then she was like Talking to jake and, WAS like 488 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,680 i would want To help, Laura orgasm LIKE could i 489 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:59,119 touch her while you two are going? 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CIRCULAW today I just. 527 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 4: I Don't think i'll ever allow myself to get hurt by. 528 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:29,119 Speaker 1: Another, guy really how do you but it? 529 00:29:29,119 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 2: Would hurt it, Would hurt it would, Be devastating my 530 00:29:32,759 --> 00:29:37,440 kids would be. A mass BUT like, I know i 531 00:29:37,559 --> 00:29:39,559 prove TO myself i can do it on, my OWN 532 00:29:40,559 --> 00:29:43,000 and I know i would, Be okay i'd, be, like 533 00:29:43,039 --> 00:29:44,640 okay if you're, not happy you're. 534 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 4: Not happy do you think. 535 00:29:46,039 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: If you talk about that sort of stuff that you're 536 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,599 either soothing the fear or it's kind of? Out there, 537 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,599 LIKE eh i just think somebody doesn't really see this going. 538 00:29:58,640 --> 00:29:59,119 LONG term i. 539 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 4: Don't, know, no oh. 540 00:30:00,279 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: NOT that. 541 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 2: I JUST think i have a have a Barrier that 542 00:30:08,079 --> 00:30:14,400 i'm never going to fully allow someone else. In, again, 543 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,559 really yeah as MUCH as i love him, and everything 544 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,200 as HAPPY as, i AM like i went THROUGH what 545 00:30:22,319 --> 00:30:23,880 i think was still like. 546 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,799 Speaker 1: The, worst yeah but that's not a good way to. Live, either, No, right. 547 00:30:27,839 --> 00:30:28,599 Speaker 4: No because i'm. 548 00:30:28,759 --> 00:30:31,039 Speaker 2: VERY open i, love, him LIKE but i Don't think 549 00:30:31,039 --> 00:30:34,119 i'm ever going to be able or be as HURT as. I, 550 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:35,559 WAS oh i see what. 551 00:30:35,599 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 1: You're, saying yeah because going to break. 552 00:30:38,319 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 4: Me down as much as. 553 00:30:39,599 --> 00:30:44,079 Speaker 1: That day what? Is that is that just, your resilience 554 00:30:44,119 --> 00:30:49,119 your something you learned from that relationship that makes you's 555 00:30:49,119 --> 00:30:53,440 a stronger person or is it like there's a section 556 00:30:53,559 --> 00:30:55,359 of you that's just like you're not getting. 557 00:30:55,359 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 2: IN here i was like on, the ground crumbled, in 558 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,519 TEARS and i built myself back up TO where i 559 00:31:00,559 --> 00:31:04,680 was like, so content happy, by myself like, feeling successful 560 00:31:04,759 --> 00:31:07,240 FEELING like i love where my life is. 561 00:31:07,359 --> 00:31:08,559 Speaker 4: Right now AND. 562 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 2: So i just DON'T think i could ever go back down, 563 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,400 that far you KNOW what. I MEAN so i would 564 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,680 just never allow myself. 565 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:21,119 Speaker 1: To get to. That? Point? Gotcha interesting interesting look? That, 566 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:26,279 Mark Right derek carr is retiring thirty four. Years OLD 567 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,599 he i think he was going to miss the. Entire 568 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,559 season he had a rotator cuff entry and they. SOMETHING'S 569 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,000 labor i think he was With the saints, now okay 570 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:45,279 and he had an eleven year CAREER and i. Don't 571 00:31:45,319 --> 00:31:47,160 know it gives me a couple. OF things i always 572 00:31:47,279 --> 00:31:50,279 wonder like you're always told play through, the pain play, 573 00:31:50,319 --> 00:31:53,480 through it, you know and there are bonuses and, things like, 574 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,000 oh god that is such a. Brutal sport he WAS 575 00:31:56,079 --> 00:31:58,839 like i wouldn't put him as a top, tier quarterback 576 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,119 but he was a. Good quarterback he was a good 577 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,160 like he was. PRETTY good i wouldn't. Say great he 578 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:08,599 Wasn't A Josh allen, mahomes level but he was like right. Under, 579 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,440 that yeah and uh could HAVE won i guess A. 580 00:32:11,519 --> 00:32:16,200 SUPER bowl i mean. Anything's, possible yeah but, uh yeah 581 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,160 he said that he did this whole thing and it 582 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:23,279 was a lot of talking to his wife, right that 583 00:32:23,559 --> 00:32:25,559 like that was his person to. Go TO and, i, 584 00:32:25,599 --> 00:32:29,559 go yeah that. Makes SENSE and i think that's why 585 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,240 a lot of guys who get divorced seem to get 586 00:32:32,279 --> 00:32:35,960 in relationships faster than some women who get, divorced to don't. You, 587 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,880 Think YEAH and i think it's that that, it's this 588 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,880 it's not so, much, this this this sex and stuff, 589 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,319 like that because. IT'S this i think that's. The more 590 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:52,960 and that's, that's intimacy which isn't necessarily. Good either, no 591 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:57,039 codependent but there is that THING where i feel most 592 00:32:57,119 --> 00:33:01,400 comfortable talking to and when you listen, TO me i 593 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,720 FEEL as i feel loved. OR whatever i don't. Know 594 00:33:06,519 --> 00:33:09,319 what when are you? A, hoarder well. 595 00:33:09,079 --> 00:33:13,359 Speaker 2: If you are collecting items that you're not, really using 596 00:33:13,559 --> 00:33:15,359 so are you using them or? 597 00:33:15,759 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 3: Their? 598 00:33:16,799 --> 00:33:19,079 Speaker 1: DECORATION there i, USE some i use some. 599 00:33:19,079 --> 00:33:21,839 Speaker 3: Some some some of them aren't out of the are 600 00:33:21,839 --> 00:33:25,319 going to stay in. The box, BUT yeah i bring 601 00:33:25,359 --> 00:33:25,920 them to school. 602 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,759 Speaker 2: With, ME okay i guess you're interacting, With kids. 603 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,519 Speaker 3: SO yeah i guess that's how it. 604 00:33:31,559 --> 00:33:33,039 Speaker 1: All, STARTED yes. 605 00:33:33,279 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 4: I don't think thirty is. 606 00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 3: A lot i'm. Still done and it has to Be a. 607 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,640 Ruby's cube it can't be. A. 608 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:45,359 Speaker 2: Knockoff okay what about like, different Shapes because lucas has 609 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:46,599 a triangle, one, Too. 610 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,359 Speaker 3: Right, BUT yeah i have, that one but it's Not a. 611 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,200 Ruby's cube there's A triangle, ruby's cube but, it's smaller 612 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,240 so there has to be actually. 613 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 4: Rub you you will fit in great with the ten 614 00:33:57,319 --> 00:33:57,680 YEAR old. 615 00:33:59,079 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: I do he is one that you put in the 616 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,920 freezer and it's. All black it's, all black and then 617 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,039 as it, warms up the. Colors appear it's. 618 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 3: Called the it's Called. The phantom It's. The fanta you 619 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,039 can't even do it. At first you can't do. 620 00:34:14,079 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 1: It, first yeah you gotta do it to warm. 621 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:20,079 Speaker 2: It, Up yeah lucas will mess it up as much. 622 00:34:20,079 --> 00:34:22,480 As possible he looks at it for like five seconds 623 00:34:22,519 --> 00:34:28,119 and then he'll be. Like, gover yeah he's consistently right around. A. 624 00:34:28,159 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 1: Minute, jees yeah it's. Pretty, good yeah that is. Pretty good. 625 00:34:33,559 --> 00:34:36,760 That's Uh but i'm stuck in this. Horror THING like 626 00:34:37,039 --> 00:34:40,239 i Wonder if i'm a. Horror, horder well it just 627 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,199 showed you a video. 628 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,079 Speaker 3: Being a being. A hoarder my mother was a hord 629 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:45,760 like in? 630 00:34:46,159 --> 00:34:47,519 Speaker 1: My closets are you can. 631 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 4: Get rid of things? You have do you have a 632 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:51,639 hard time getting rid? 633 00:34:51,679 --> 00:34:54,880 Speaker 2: Of things or if you're like saving something that's broken 634 00:34:55,119 --> 00:34:57,079 or not useful and, you're, like, oh Well maybe i'm 635 00:34:57,119 --> 00:35:00,360 going to, fix this Or maybe i'll you this in, 636 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,559 the FUTURE or i could there's this One project i've 637 00:35:03,559 --> 00:35:06,199 been meaning for, this war and you're just unwilling to 638 00:35:06,199 --> 00:35:09,000 get rid. Of, things yeah is it tipping over in? 639 00:35:09,039 --> 00:35:09,639 Speaker 4: Your house do you? 640 00:35:09,639 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 1: Have? Piles, NO okay I mean i have. Some, PILES 641 00:35:13,519 --> 00:35:16,559 yes i mean, That's true but what, about, like Okay 642 00:35:16,639 --> 00:35:21,480 so i'm not into, collecting Anything but i'm hearing what. 643 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 2: YOU'RE saying, i mean there's also a difference. Between hoarding 644 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:29,039 there's five levels. Of hoarding but then there's just clutter that, 645 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,559 everyday clutter and a lot of people that's all that 646 00:35:32,639 --> 00:35:34,079 it is is just having a lot. 647 00:35:34,119 --> 00:35:35,400 Speaker 1: Of. Clutter yeah but if you have a lot of 648 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:36,639 clutter that you haven't got, rid. 649 00:35:36,599 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 2: Of yeah a lot of times you just need. A 650 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,840 boost if you're, a hoarder you have a hard. 651 00:35:41,599 --> 00:35:42,360 Speaker 4: Time getting rid. 652 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,599 Speaker 2: OF stuff a lot of my clients just have a 653 00:35:44,679 --> 00:35:48,639 lot of clutter and they don't know where, to start 654 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,960 and so they need me to come in in sort 655 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:55,480 of sort purge and then. Organize them where the hoarders 656 00:35:55,519 --> 00:35:57,840 are the ones who, are, LIKE oh i can't get rid. 657 00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,599 OF that i can't get rid. OF that i have to, say, 658 00:35:59,679 --> 00:36:03,920 that like, you know there's the this is a missing uh, 659 00:36:04,079 --> 00:36:07,199 tupperware TOP but i know that the bottom is somewhere in. 660 00:36:07,199 --> 00:36:10,159 Speaker 1: The, house, yes, yes yeah would you just throw? 661 00:36:10,199 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 4: It, Out yeah, i'm like just fucking throw, it out. 662 00:36:12,559 --> 00:36:17,880 Speaker 2: Use tupperware, it's stained, it's, stayed yeah, Melted, plastic, like. 663 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's me that would. Be me i'm like. 664 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 4: That when, You move i'm gonna Have to. 665 00:36:27,199 --> 00:36:29,559 Speaker 1: THAT'S true i, am yes set you up for. 666 00:36:29,559 --> 00:36:31,360 Speaker 4: Your, success well the. 667 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 1: Thing IS like i have so many areas, right now 668 00:36:34,519 --> 00:36:37,079 like everything is just coming at you, at ONCE and 669 00:36:37,119 --> 00:36:42,440 I and, i'm like, fuck dude but, THE yeah i. 670 00:36:42,519 --> 00:36:45,480 Do that what about like kids? Art projects oh, my 671 00:36:45,559 --> 00:36:46,360 god what do? 672 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,079 Speaker 4: You do the kids do not want their? 673 00:36:48,199 --> 00:36:52,639 Speaker 2: Art PROJECTS so i tell people to keep a bin for, 674 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,679 your year like and if the KIDS go i call them. 675 00:36:57,679 --> 00:37:00,360 Purgatory piles like the kids put their stuff in a 676 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,880 purgatory pile for. The week, the weekends you go, through 677 00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,039 it you look through it, with them maybe you save 678 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,280 one item out, of it and then it goes in 679 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:11,480 like their file for. The YEAR then i love. FILING 680 00:37:11,519 --> 00:37:14,000 cabinets i think that. They're great you can Do little 681 00:37:14,039 --> 00:37:17,679 manila folders and have like like, to me i have 682 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,519 cam kindergarten, cam first cam second Like and. I'M saving i. 683 00:37:21,599 --> 00:37:25,400 ONLY save i don't really care about. THEIR homework i 684 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,320 don't care as much about like their. Little doodles anything 685 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,480 that's a creative mind when he writes, a story when 686 00:37:31,519 --> 00:37:35,440 he's like doing something that's truly him IS what. I 687 00:37:35,599 --> 00:37:40,079 save and, you know it's very very minimal because the 688 00:37:40,159 --> 00:37:42,519 kids aren't going to want to look through their shit when. 689 00:37:42,519 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 4: They're, thirty, no no they're not gonna. 690 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: Tell you you see how much shit? Goes home, oh yeah, 691 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,599 yeah right, Oh yeah and so it's like what do? You. 692 00:37:50,679 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 2: Do yeah you can also get like art folders where 693 00:37:56,599 --> 00:37:59,639 it's like, a frame it's a, large frame and then 694 00:37:59,679 --> 00:38:02,519 you can they're, deep though so you can put some 695 00:38:02,599 --> 00:38:04,639 really cool art projects in there and then sort of 696 00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,519 rotate what's towards the front and have it hung up 697 00:38:07,639 --> 00:38:12,079 where it's like displayed and appreciated. BUT preserved i think 698 00:38:12,079 --> 00:38:13,440 things like that are, really. 699 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 4: Cool but you do not need to save. 700 00:38:15,119 --> 00:38:18,199 Speaker 2: Onto everything BUT then i do tell people to GET 701 00:38:19,039 --> 00:38:22,880 like i can't even think of, the name but the 702 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,840 boxes and things that your kid may want for. Their lifetime, 703 00:38:28,519 --> 00:38:31,039 keep that but it should just be one like small 704 00:38:31,119 --> 00:38:34,599 canvas box that's, pretty sturdy and you can do like, 705 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:38,920 you know first, communion things anything that's really really worthy 706 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,800 that when they go to move on in our adult 707 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,440 and have, their home they can keep that box to show. 708 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,719 Their children but their schoolwork they are not going to 709 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:46,920 give a. 710 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 1: Shit about there's many Layers, to laura you KNOW what. 711 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:55,119 I mean the last there's my. Business, layer yeah the, 712 00:38:55,239 --> 00:39:00,320 business layer. The organizing that's those, are great Tipsy fun 713 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,760 i'm excited you're, Going, now yes now that we got 714 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:03,199 The official. 715 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,079 Speaker 2: Marianne's, coming, Yes yes i've got a shambong with. 716 00:39:07,119 --> 00:39:11,079 Speaker 1: Her shambong this is the what is, that again. Chucking 717 00:39:11,199 --> 00:39:12,480 champ She's a. 718 00:39:12,559 --> 00:39:13,280 Speaker 3: Laura fan She. 719 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,599 Speaker 1: Looks, Laura yeah laura's It Here. 720 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:17,360 Speaker 4: Team, Laura. 721 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,119 Speaker 1: Yes laura, ALL right i gotta go deal with some Drama, 722 00:39:21,559 --> 00:39:25,760 for Laura, for laura who's. CELEBRATING her i can't wait 723 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,880 for the review of, the party the whole thing for. 724 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,679 The soldier great job as always. COMING in i like 725 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:33,119 it on a. 726 00:39:33,519 --> 00:39:35,320 Speaker 3: DAY like i think WE should i think we should do. 727 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,920 Speaker 1: It again we'll do. It Again I'm. Bill moran we'll 728 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:43,519 See You tomorrow's california bait and things have gotten worth 729 00:39:43,559 --> 00:39:46,559 sees a landa opportunity for me is just a cursey 730 00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,079 that judging make us feel