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Welcome to the experiment. 12 00:01:12.319 --> 00:01:16.400 I'm Bill Correll, and this is my investigation. I'm researching 13 00:01:16.439 --> 00:01:19.560 to gather data from one hundred beautiful human beings for 14 00:01:19.599 --> 00:01:23.439 the sole purpose to see what actually happens across the interviews. Now, 15 00:01:23.480 --> 00:01:26.760 the questions are fixed and all the interviews will remain consistent, 16 00:01:27.159 --> 00:01:31.200 the variable being the actual participants themselves and their answers. 17 00:01:32.280 --> 00:01:34.480 So Matti says, if I'm having you come sit on 18 00:01:34.480 --> 00:01:36.599 my porch to share your thoughts so I can learn 19 00:01:36.599 --> 00:01:39.879 about people. We're looking forward to what we're going to 20 00:01:39.959 --> 00:01:43.280 learn when we're done with this whole thing. But mostly 21 00:01:43.280 --> 00:01:46.280 we're interested in the people, the process, and in your 22 00:01:46.319 --> 00:01:50.359 particular story. So with all that said, what is your 23 00:01:50.400 --> 00:01:50.959 full name. 24 00:01:51.799 --> 00:01:53.519 It's Matthew jusequal. 25 00:01:55.239 --> 00:01:57.560 Do you have a middle initial or a middle name? Kay, 26 00:01:58.959 --> 00:02:03.760 it's Carl, Carl Okay, great Carl with a K. Yes, 27 00:02:04.280 --> 00:02:05.640 that's a great that's a great name. 28 00:02:08.400 --> 00:02:08.599 Yeah. 29 00:02:08.639 --> 00:02:10.879 Tell me a little bit about your about your last name. 30 00:02:11.960 --> 00:02:19.719 Uh, it's Jessicual. We're let's see family strunk. Uh, Paris, France. 31 00:02:20.719 --> 00:02:28.280 Originally many many residents moons ago, but uh, that's it's 32 00:02:28.439 --> 00:02:36.120 originally from France, and according to came from Paris, France 33 00:02:36.319 --> 00:02:43.280 into northern Canada and then ended up in Sus Saint Marie, Michigan. 34 00:02:43.479 --> 00:02:48.000 And then my grandfather ended up in Alpina and so, 35 00:02:48.400 --> 00:02:50.240 and I also have a part of my family that 36 00:02:50.319 --> 00:02:56.919 apparently is down in New Orleans area, So apparently by 37 00:02:57.319 --> 00:03:01.719 Bayou side of the family, which have didn't even know 38 00:03:01.719 --> 00:03:04.400 they even existed, to be honest with you up until 39 00:03:04.400 --> 00:03:06.039 a few years ago, by doing genealogy. 40 00:03:06.159 --> 00:03:09.800 So so it sounds like you were part of the 41 00:03:10.360 --> 00:03:15.120 original knock migration from Canada. Canada, you come down here 42 00:03:15.159 --> 00:03:17.080 you huh. 43 00:03:16.240 --> 00:03:20.719 Well, a little bit. Literally, the family came from a 44 00:03:20.759 --> 00:03:23.199 part of the family settled in Sus Saint Marie. The 45 00:03:23.240 --> 00:03:27.560 other part came into Michigan and literally passed through Canada 46 00:03:27.560 --> 00:03:31.120 on the way in. But that's kind of the way 47 00:03:31.159 --> 00:03:36.879 it came across. And so no, kind of a different 48 00:03:37.240 --> 00:03:42.199 point of view. But most of them, or I shouldn't 49 00:03:42.199 --> 00:03:44.280 say most, there's a few that are there. There's a 50 00:03:44.319 --> 00:03:47.680 few still in France, there's a few, like I said, 51 00:03:47.800 --> 00:03:51.080 a couple other spots all over, So we just kind 52 00:03:51.080 --> 00:03:52.159 of listen and go from there. 53 00:03:52.199 --> 00:03:56.680 So have you met any of the French people I've taught. 54 00:03:56.759 --> 00:04:02.759 I've messaged back and forth with one I believe would 55 00:04:02.759 --> 00:04:05.879 be a cousin who's a doctor over in Paris, and 56 00:04:05.919 --> 00:04:10.280 that was just messaging back and forth a little bit. Basically. 57 00:04:10.319 --> 00:04:14.360 It was like, you know, kind of hey, uh, you know, 58 00:04:14.759 --> 00:04:17.040 I got a message to one day over Facebook of 59 00:04:18.879 --> 00:04:23.360 so I think we're related. Now, well, you know, with 60 00:04:23.439 --> 00:04:25.319 the spelling of the last name, it kind of makes 61 00:04:25.319 --> 00:04:25.920 it look that way. 62 00:04:26.639 --> 00:04:30.639 Yeah. Absolutely, you have a very distinctive name. You're my first, 63 00:04:31.079 --> 00:04:34.639 actually you're my second. Your wife was my first. Yeah, 64 00:04:35.079 --> 00:04:38.439 so yeah, I have a rather uncommon name also, but 65 00:04:38.519 --> 00:04:40.920 it's getting more common all the time. C O R 66 00:04:41.120 --> 00:04:43.680 R E L L. And then there are lots of 67 00:04:43.759 --> 00:04:49.959 variations of that. So what's your favorite nickname, Matt that 68 00:04:50.040 --> 00:04:51.040 most people don't know? 69 00:04:52.160 --> 00:04:56.360 Oh, well, I guess it would go back a long 70 00:04:56.439 --> 00:05:01.399 long time. For a long time, or for a while, 71 00:05:01.560 --> 00:05:05.160 my father and a couple of his friends called me matador. 72 00:05:07.040 --> 00:05:14.720 And my dad said it was because basically I was 73 00:05:14.800 --> 00:05:18.199 the I'm still the smallest of the four boys that 74 00:05:18.319 --> 00:05:21.360 my father had, six three, two sixty. I'm a little 75 00:05:21.360 --> 00:05:26.600 little one, okay, yeah, and uh, he basically used to 76 00:05:26.600 --> 00:05:31.399 sit there and I'm the youngest by five years, and 77 00:05:31.519 --> 00:05:35.160 so they were all bigger, all older than me, and 78 00:05:35.279 --> 00:05:37.680 he said it was always he was. He basically would 79 00:05:37.720 --> 00:05:40.319 compare me to a matador trying to face down three balls, 80 00:05:42.000 --> 00:05:46.560 and you know, he always sat there and goes just 81 00:05:46.680 --> 00:05:50.879 you know, there's most matadors would have ran, and you 82 00:05:51.120 --> 00:05:54.639 continued to face the problem. So he used to basically 83 00:05:54.720 --> 00:05:57.519 tell me I was stubborn as a bull and sometimes 84 00:05:57.560 --> 00:05:58.120 meaner than. 85 00:05:58.040 --> 00:06:01.759 The ball, so you had what you needed to be 86 00:06:01.800 --> 00:06:06.279 a man at or'. That's pretty cool. So we'll move 87 00:06:06.319 --> 00:06:08.759 into the next question, which is when did you first 88 00:06:08.800 --> 00:06:11.160 notice what color hair you had. 89 00:06:11.600 --> 00:06:15.720 Well, I want to say that it would have been 90 00:06:15.800 --> 00:06:20.240 probably about four or five years old, and it happened 91 00:06:20.360 --> 00:06:24.120 actually because my hair changed color. My hair had a 92 00:06:24.120 --> 00:06:26.079 little bit of a red tinge to it. As a 93 00:06:26.120 --> 00:06:30.040 matter of fact, according to looking at my first haircut, 94 00:06:30.560 --> 00:06:34.920 my hair was red, which my grandmother's nickname had been 95 00:06:35.040 --> 00:06:37.839 red because she had like a deep auburn color hair. 96 00:06:40.240 --> 00:06:42.879 But you know, it's kind of one of those weird 97 00:06:42.879 --> 00:06:45.399 things when you look back and go, hold on, this 98 00:06:45.560 --> 00:06:49.240 definitely is not red, you know, And it was just 99 00:06:49.319 --> 00:06:52.680 kind of unique to realize, you know, I have this 100 00:06:52.800 --> 00:06:56.240 darker colored hair than and my hair is different than 101 00:06:56.319 --> 00:06:59.680 all my brothers as well. They all have like kinky, 102 00:06:59.720 --> 00:07:03.399 curly your hair, and theirs was almost jet black all 103 00:07:03.439 --> 00:07:05.959 the time, and then mine kind of stayed a little 104 00:07:06.040 --> 00:07:06.639 lighter brown. 105 00:07:06.879 --> 00:07:12.920 So just interesting, yeah, it is. And having being the 106 00:07:12.959 --> 00:07:16.639 youngest of four no sisters, right, just all boys. 107 00:07:17.079 --> 00:07:20.680 Yeah, no, no. My dad's favorite comment to us was 108 00:07:21.839 --> 00:07:27.759 especially like when Jen started coming around and he realized 109 00:07:27.759 --> 00:07:30.920 how serious things were with Jen and I, he used 110 00:07:30.920 --> 00:07:33.519 to turn to me and go, you know, and I 111 00:07:33.560 --> 00:07:36.399 remember him making this statement because I told him the 112 00:07:36.399 --> 00:07:38.399 one day I'm like, you know, her dad made a 113 00:07:38.399 --> 00:07:40.600 comment about you know, if I ever heard her, he'd 114 00:07:40.639 --> 00:07:42.959 kill me. And my dad looked at me and goes, 115 00:07:44.120 --> 00:07:46.720 you don't have to worry about that, Matt. By the 116 00:07:46.720 --> 00:07:48.279 time Gerard got out here, do you know to be 117 00:07:48.319 --> 00:07:52.959 in a hole? Yeah, I'm like what, he goes, that's 118 00:07:53.040 --> 00:07:56.160 my daughter. I got four you I can lose one. 119 00:07:56.199 --> 00:08:00.160 It's no big deal. Yeah, I'm like Jesus. 120 00:08:01.519 --> 00:08:05.720 Yeah, that's one of those father son conversations that I 121 00:08:05.759 --> 00:08:09.600 think a lot of us have been through. Yep, we'll 122 00:08:09.639 --> 00:08:16.000 take you, but we really love jen perfect. So what's 123 00:08:16.040 --> 00:08:18.519 your favorite thing to do to intentionally waste time? 124 00:08:23.959 --> 00:08:30.600 Honestly? Cooking? Just to sit down and go out on 125 00:08:30.639 --> 00:08:33.000 the grill, cook on the grill, cook in the kitchen, 126 00:08:35.120 --> 00:08:38.200 even sometimes bake. I'm not a big baker, but there's 127 00:08:38.240 --> 00:08:41.799 times where it's just I just lose myself in the 128 00:08:41.840 --> 00:08:43.879 cooking and can enjoy myself. 129 00:08:44.320 --> 00:08:45.159 Yeah. 130 00:08:45.240 --> 00:08:47.000 The kids used to laugh at me because every time 131 00:08:47.039 --> 00:08:49.559 I'd be cooking, I'd be whistling and laughing and singing, 132 00:08:49.600 --> 00:08:54.840 and they're like, the hell are you doing? So it's 133 00:08:54.879 --> 00:08:56.759 kind of one of my favorite things. Sometimes it's just 134 00:08:58.399 --> 00:09:00.639 on my day off, I'll just go out and start 135 00:09:00.679 --> 00:09:03.480 the smoker and cook all day long. 136 00:09:04.000 --> 00:09:07.360 So all right, So, so tell me about your favorite 137 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:09.440 things to cook and or smoke. 138 00:09:11.360 --> 00:09:16.600 Let's see. I love ribs, I've gotten a point. 139 00:09:17.159 --> 00:09:18.559 What's your favorite? Like baby bag? 140 00:09:19.080 --> 00:09:23.960 I like, I like all of them, Honestly, I'm not. 141 00:09:25.720 --> 00:09:28.360 I like to try different things. So when Jena and 142 00:09:28.399 --> 00:09:31.840 I've traveled, I have a tendency to try and pick 143 00:09:32.039 --> 00:09:37.519 a barbecue place at every every stop we make. So 144 00:09:37.960 --> 00:09:41.639 I tend to when we're in Texas, I love trying 145 00:09:42.039 --> 00:09:45.639 the Texas barbecue with it is you know, pretty strict 146 00:09:45.799 --> 00:09:48.080 and just salt pepper and that's all there is to it. 147 00:09:49.440 --> 00:09:53.159 And then the same type of thing for the when 148 00:09:53.159 --> 00:09:57.480 we went through Kansas City, trying certain things there. I like, 149 00:09:57.759 --> 00:10:00.000 you know, I'm the guy that I make my own 150 00:10:00.039 --> 00:10:04.519 own barbecue sauce. I have three different varieties of barbecue sauce. 151 00:10:04.600 --> 00:10:07.200 I make, you know, my own spice rubs for everything. 152 00:10:09.120 --> 00:10:13.200 But like I said, I will do just about I 153 00:10:13.240 --> 00:10:15.720 can't say have one thing I love more than others 154 00:10:16.480 --> 00:10:19.919 other than like I said, I like doing pork, ribs, 155 00:10:20.720 --> 00:10:26.120 spare rubs. Mainly Jen likes the baby backs, so I 156 00:10:26.159 --> 00:10:32.279 tend to do those and then those I've gotten to 157 00:10:32.279 --> 00:10:35.639 the point like you know, when I start start a pack, 158 00:10:35.720 --> 00:10:37.360 when I start a round of baby backs, you know, 159 00:10:37.840 --> 00:10:44.240 I'm tied up for four hours. So yeah, so that's 160 00:10:44.320 --> 00:10:47.679 the fun part of the day. 161 00:10:47.759 --> 00:10:51.559 So you and I could talk about barbecuing and cooking 162 00:10:51.759 --> 00:10:57.440 in particular for hours. Yes, let us just decide that 163 00:10:57.480 --> 00:11:00.559 we'll do that at another time, because there's to be 164 00:11:00.679 --> 00:11:02.120 explored here, that's for sure. 165 00:11:02.679 --> 00:11:03.360 Yes, there is. 166 00:11:04.320 --> 00:11:08.039 So you and I if somebody asked us about cooking, 167 00:11:08.080 --> 00:11:11.279 we wouldn't necessarily think that was intentionally wasting time. It's 168 00:11:11.360 --> 00:11:14.559 just something doing what we love, right, Yeah, well. 169 00:11:14.360 --> 00:11:17.120 And it isn't. I shouldn't say wasting time. It's just 170 00:11:18.200 --> 00:11:21.200 it's a way for me to pass the time, yes, 171 00:11:21.320 --> 00:11:30.600 and I just it's also my way of sharing what 172 00:11:30.600 --> 00:11:34.559 what I grew up with with my kids, and you know, 173 00:11:34.840 --> 00:11:40.720 and it's funny because I love bold flavor, and you know, 174 00:11:40.840 --> 00:11:43.200 my father was the day you know, my dad was 175 00:11:43.200 --> 00:11:47.080 a truck driver. So for from the time I was 176 00:11:47.200 --> 00:11:50.759 four actually, I guess my first time in a semi 177 00:11:50.879 --> 00:11:55.799 was I was two till he was or til I 178 00:11:55.879 --> 00:11:59.399 was fourteen, which is when he kind of he got 179 00:11:59.480 --> 00:12:04.639 hurt me to stop truck driving. You know. For those 180 00:12:04.919 --> 00:12:08.559 twelve years, he and I would all summer, I would 181 00:12:08.559 --> 00:12:11.960 go all over the country with my dad and he 182 00:12:12.039 --> 00:12:16.519 would be and it was so funny because I love 183 00:12:16.600 --> 00:12:20.039 my mother. She was a good cook, but she didn't 184 00:12:20.120 --> 00:12:23.799 use a lot of spices and flavorings. And she'd say, well, 185 00:12:23.799 --> 00:12:26.200 that's because your dad doesn't like, you know, that type 186 00:12:26.200 --> 00:12:28.080 of food. But every time we went out, my dad 187 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:33.480 would find the places that had just huge flavor yeah, 188 00:12:33.519 --> 00:12:36.720 and I'd be like, you know, and finally at one 189 00:12:36.759 --> 00:12:39.919 point I looked back and went, I just think mom 190 00:12:39.960 --> 00:12:40.519 doesn't like it. 191 00:12:42.240 --> 00:12:43.840 You may be onto something there. 192 00:12:44.440 --> 00:12:47.360 Yeah, So that was a fun part of the day. 193 00:12:48.240 --> 00:12:50.399 Yeah. I find with people that really like to cook, 194 00:12:50.440 --> 00:12:53.279 they like all of it. They like shopping for the 195 00:12:53.320 --> 00:12:57.399 food and being really discriminatory about exactly what they're getting 196 00:12:57.519 --> 00:13:00.080 and how much pats on it, because you know, if 197 00:13:00.080 --> 00:13:02.960 you're going to slow cook something you don't that's not 198 00:13:03.159 --> 00:13:05.120 going to bother you at all. It's gonna render out 199 00:13:06.639 --> 00:13:09.600 and then it'll go right. 200 00:13:09.759 --> 00:13:12.480 So yeah, the longer the better. 201 00:13:13.039 --> 00:13:15.799 And then the knife work and the preparation and you know, 202 00:13:15.840 --> 00:13:18.039 if you're going to you know, put it in and 203 00:13:18.120 --> 00:13:21.240 marinade for a while or overnight or something like that. 204 00:13:21.360 --> 00:13:23.960 It's all just steps in the process. You know. 205 00:13:24.480 --> 00:13:27.879 Oh, well, that's that's the same thing. To turn to 206 00:13:27.879 --> 00:13:30.440 me the one day and the kids or my my 207 00:13:30.440 --> 00:13:33.320 son literally just turned to me and went we went 208 00:13:33.399 --> 00:13:38.440 down and tried place down near him, and he cheered. Run. 209 00:13:38.440 --> 00:13:41.919 He goes, this is probably the closest thing to your 210 00:13:42.039 --> 00:13:45.360 chicken wings and your your chicken tenders you used to 211 00:13:45.360 --> 00:13:48.360 make when we were on family vacations. Wow, He's like, 212 00:13:48.399 --> 00:13:51.679 these are probably the closest things to it. And you know, 213 00:13:51.799 --> 00:13:55.960 and I'm like, okay, it was darn it was pretty 214 00:13:56.000 --> 00:14:01.320 dying close to what I do. And he goes, but 215 00:14:01.440 --> 00:14:04.480 you just literally like here, I watched you because you 216 00:14:04.480 --> 00:14:06.279 you turn around, walked in the one day and went okay, 217 00:14:06.320 --> 00:14:10.759 here's some buttermilk, here's some this, and boom, and then 218 00:14:11.360 --> 00:14:16.320 write it and he goes, I you know, he always 219 00:14:16.320 --> 00:14:17.960 tells me, he goes, there's times where I just look 220 00:14:18.039 --> 00:14:24.639 back and go okay, And and that's his comparison when 221 00:14:24.639 --> 00:14:28.480 it comes to like chicken wings, chicken chicken tenders, and 222 00:14:28.559 --> 00:14:30.879 that type of things. He goes, I compare it back 223 00:14:30.919 --> 00:14:33.279 to your cooking and I sat there and like, okay, 224 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:34.480 I'll take that as compliments. 225 00:14:34.519 --> 00:14:38.399 So you know, yeah, you said a standard no question 226 00:14:38.480 --> 00:14:41.879 about it. Yeah, and now you can tell him the truth. 227 00:14:41.919 --> 00:14:42.559 It's magic. 228 00:14:43.159 --> 00:14:47.720 Yeah. Well, and you know, actually with with him, he's 229 00:14:48.159 --> 00:14:51.679 I think he's kind of he's cut off the same 230 00:14:51.720 --> 00:14:54.639 block because he's the same kid that will walk in 231 00:14:54.799 --> 00:15:00.600 and you know, I, before him, I would have looked 232 00:15:00.600 --> 00:15:04.200 at sushi and walked away and never tried it. He's 233 00:15:04.240 --> 00:15:08.360 the one who talked me into trying sushi and going, hey, 234 00:15:08.360 --> 00:15:13.879 this isn't bad and then finding out actually delicious, And 235 00:15:13.960 --> 00:15:17.279 so you know that was He's the he actually was 236 00:15:17.279 --> 00:15:21.960 a little more adventurous than Jennini and that kind of 237 00:15:23.039 --> 00:15:27.000 led us to being what we do. So and now 238 00:15:27.000 --> 00:15:30.600 it's every time we go someplace, we're looking for something different. 239 00:15:32.360 --> 00:15:38.440 So it's yes, see, there's there's lots of different ways 240 00:15:38.480 --> 00:15:40.960 to see the world, but from the inside or the 241 00:15:40.960 --> 00:15:43.600 outside of a restaurant or a gee dunk or you 242 00:15:43.639 --> 00:15:47.440 know or something like that, not a bad way to go. 243 00:15:47.639 --> 00:15:49.279 It's all experience, isn't. 244 00:15:49.120 --> 00:15:51.399 It, every bit of every bit. 245 00:15:52.759 --> 00:15:55.080 So this will be an interesting one for you, Matt. 246 00:15:56.279 --> 00:16:00.840 I think what's your favorite movie to watch alone. 247 00:16:02.120 --> 00:16:09.879 Uh huh, that's gonna sound stupid, but as far I 248 00:16:09.879 --> 00:16:14.919 shouldn't say alone because honestly, there's nothing I like to 249 00:16:14.960 --> 00:16:24.360 sit there and just watch by myself. Okay, when Lex 250 00:16:24.519 --> 00:16:29.360 was around, it would have been some type of comedy 251 00:16:29.399 --> 00:16:33.799 but scary movie type thing, because that's that was her. 252 00:16:35.600 --> 00:16:37.919 One of my favorite movies, which is gonna sound stupid, 253 00:16:38.000 --> 00:16:42.320 is the movie Swat. Not because and everybody's like, well, 254 00:16:42.360 --> 00:16:47.960 that's because you're a cop. Well no, actually it's the 255 00:16:48.039 --> 00:16:52.879 training and everything that's behind that and understanding that you know, 256 00:16:53.960 --> 00:16:59.320 it's called special it's swats, special weapons and tactics. It's 257 00:16:59.320 --> 00:17:03.279 the tactics, not the weapons, right, And that's the part 258 00:17:03.320 --> 00:17:07.440 that always found I found interesting and looking at some 259 00:17:07.519 --> 00:17:09.559 of the things they did in the movie. And then 260 00:17:10.839 --> 00:17:15.519 you know, you know, with my background, you know, i 261 00:17:15.559 --> 00:17:17.920 am I've been a police officer going on twenty six years, 262 00:17:18.640 --> 00:17:25.640 so I've got my firearms instructor, chaser instructor, defensive tactics, 263 00:17:26.000 --> 00:17:31.079 use of force, pretty much any type of force training. 264 00:17:31.640 --> 00:17:35.079 I'm an instructor in it. And so to look back 265 00:17:35.119 --> 00:17:37.880 and look at the movie and go, oh, they did 266 00:17:37.880 --> 00:17:42.039 that shit, right, Yeah, you know, instead of most movies 267 00:17:42.039 --> 00:17:44.279 where you're look and go, oh, that is absolutely not 268 00:17:44.319 --> 00:17:45.039 how it works. 269 00:17:45.000 --> 00:17:50.079 Ye, right exactly. The yeah, rights permitted is what it 270 00:17:50.079 --> 00:17:51.880 comes down to sometimes, right. 271 00:17:52.079 --> 00:17:54.799 Yeah, so it was. That's one of those shows that 272 00:17:54.839 --> 00:17:57.079 I still look back and every once in a while 273 00:17:57.079 --> 00:17:59.200 and if it comes on, I'll sit out and watch it. 274 00:18:00.839 --> 00:18:06.119 And you know, and again, those are the types of 275 00:18:06.160 --> 00:18:09.559 things that you know, we would I would sit down 276 00:18:09.599 --> 00:18:13.759 and watch, and then I would find out, you know, 277 00:18:13.920 --> 00:18:16.880 Christian would be hiding around the corner trying to watch 278 00:18:17.960 --> 00:18:19.279 because you didn't want to let Dad know that you 279 00:18:19.440 --> 00:18:23.880 liked the movie too. Yeah, you know, and then you know, 280 00:18:24.799 --> 00:18:28.279 just depending on the show said that, that was probably 281 00:18:28.319 --> 00:18:30.240 one of the one of those movies that I would 282 00:18:30.279 --> 00:18:33.240 sit down and watch. But you know, still to this day, 283 00:18:33.279 --> 00:18:34.880 one of the movies I would sit down and watch 284 00:18:34.880 --> 00:18:38.960 in a heartbeat would be There's Two Labyrinths. 285 00:18:39.720 --> 00:18:42.680 Yes, and. 286 00:18:44.319 --> 00:18:47.799 Oh my goodness, why they just went out of my head. Oh, 287 00:18:47.839 --> 00:18:48.720 Princess Bray. 288 00:18:50.880 --> 00:18:57.839 Inconceivable. Absolutely, you know, I'll tell you that's fantastic. And 289 00:18:57.839 --> 00:18:59.920 and by the way, not not to step over it. 290 00:19:00.079 --> 00:19:02.240 Thank you very much for your service. I very much 291 00:19:02.279 --> 00:19:06.519 appreciate what rolled off of your tongue twenty six years 292 00:19:06.319 --> 00:19:10.599 as a cop. I appreciate you, I really do, especially 293 00:19:10.640 --> 00:19:15.519 these days. Thank you for your service, no problem. Yeah, So, 294 00:19:15.599 --> 00:19:19.240 now that we've got the movies handled, I know, anything 295 00:19:19.240 --> 00:19:23.720 with David Bowie is all right with me, you know. 296 00:19:23.839 --> 00:19:26.920 And Mandy Patankin is not a bad actor either, you know. 297 00:19:27.039 --> 00:19:32.599 Any Montoya, here's where we get it, where we get 298 00:19:32.799 --> 00:19:37.200 get into some fun, especially with somebody who's on the job. 299 00:19:38.160 --> 00:19:40.240 If you were to have an action figure made to you, 300 00:19:40.720 --> 00:19:43.440 what superpower would it have and what color would its 301 00:19:43.519 --> 00:19:44.079 uniform be? 302 00:19:47.400 --> 00:19:50.920 Well, uniform is going to be blue, even though I 303 00:19:50.960 --> 00:19:53.400 wear blue and brown I work, you know, I actually 304 00:19:53.440 --> 00:19:56.960 work for a couple of different entities, but twenty six 305 00:19:57.039 --> 00:20:00.720 years i've worn blue. Yeah, so I would stick with 306 00:20:01.960 --> 00:20:05.599 it would be well, probably a combination of red, white, 307 00:20:05.599 --> 00:20:08.519 and blue, just to be honest with you. Yeah. You know, 308 00:20:08.680 --> 00:20:12.480 I look back at a family history of you know, 309 00:20:13.799 --> 00:20:16.640 I have three brothers that were all in three different 310 00:20:16.640 --> 00:20:21.440 branches of the military, which Army or Navy, Marines, and 311 00:20:21.480 --> 00:20:24.160 Air Force. And then my father was in the army. 312 00:20:24.720 --> 00:20:28.000 And then I have three uncles that were in the military, 313 00:20:28.839 --> 00:20:33.119 and you know, lost one uncle in Vietnam. And so 314 00:20:34.119 --> 00:20:39.440 you know, I always honor that side because I didn't 315 00:20:39.480 --> 00:20:45.279 do that portion of it, and you know, there's times 316 00:20:45.279 --> 00:20:49.200 I think back going, but you know, I'm kind of 317 00:20:49.200 --> 00:20:51.920 glad the way things worked out because i'd have done 318 00:20:51.920 --> 00:20:53.519 the military, I would have met Jen. 319 00:20:54.160 --> 00:20:58.359 So yeah, yeah, things happen the way they're supposed to, 320 00:20:58.440 --> 00:21:03.359 don't they. Yep. Yeah. The other thing too, is I 321 00:21:03.359 --> 00:21:05.559 think we find it a little with a lot of 322 00:21:05.640 --> 00:21:10.079 first responders, seventy to eighty percent of them are our 323 00:21:10.279 --> 00:21:15.200 x EX military yep. Yeah, which is actually yeah. 324 00:21:15.680 --> 00:21:19.359 Yeah, it depends. Actually around here, what we're finding is 325 00:21:19.400 --> 00:21:24.960 about probably about between thirty and forty five percent military, yep. 326 00:21:25.839 --> 00:21:29.720 And then the rest either went to school for it 327 00:21:30.039 --> 00:21:34.400 or there's a couple guys that literally, I mean, I 328 00:21:34.440 --> 00:21:39.400 got two. I still want to call them kids because 329 00:21:39.759 --> 00:21:42.480 they're young enough to be my kids that literally just 330 00:21:42.559 --> 00:21:44.559 went through the academy and I'm looking at them like 331 00:21:45.839 --> 00:21:49.799 I have a child that's older than you, you know. Yeah, 332 00:21:51.039 --> 00:21:57.799 And it's fun It's funny because literally I've known him 333 00:21:57.920 --> 00:22:04.799 since he was seven years old and now he's a 334 00:22:04.839 --> 00:22:07.240 police officer. He's twenty one, and he's an officer with 335 00:22:07.519 --> 00:22:11.480 our local Sheriff's department. And you know, literally he and 336 00:22:11.519 --> 00:22:13.799 I sat down last week and he goes, he goes. 337 00:22:13.880 --> 00:22:15.920 You know how many times I would sit there and 338 00:22:16.079 --> 00:22:18.519 ask you questions and I said, I know, and he goes, 339 00:22:18.559 --> 00:22:21.160 and he goes. Now I expind myself asking questions. He goes, 340 00:22:21.200 --> 00:22:24.440 But now I'm actually listening and you know, and trying 341 00:22:24.440 --> 00:22:28.559 to learn, because he goes, he turned, he goes. Honestly, 342 00:22:28.599 --> 00:22:33.759 he goes, You've got so much knowledge, and he goes, 343 00:22:33.880 --> 00:22:36.599 and he keeps that, he'll ask me questions. He's like, 344 00:22:37.000 --> 00:22:42.160 he goes because you have just so much experience that 345 00:22:43.880 --> 00:22:45.640 what they give you and the academy can't compare to. 346 00:22:46.720 --> 00:22:49.880 So I take it as as a huge honor to 347 00:22:50.440 --> 00:22:52.160 sit down with a couple of those guys are going so. 348 00:22:52.200 --> 00:22:55.480 While so, and I guess that would probably lead to 349 00:22:55.519 --> 00:22:56.759 your superpower. 350 00:22:56.279 --> 00:23:00.960 Right, Actually, you know it's going to be weird superpower. 351 00:23:00.960 --> 00:23:06.359 But it's just the ability to stay calm. 352 00:23:06.480 --> 00:23:07.720 Is that a power you already have? 353 00:23:08.480 --> 00:23:09.160 Sometimes? 354 00:23:09.640 --> 00:23:14.160 Yeah, okay, sometimes you'd be able to point and click 355 00:23:14.200 --> 00:23:15.200 a little bit more often. 356 00:23:15.680 --> 00:23:18.279 Yeah, there's there's a there's a few points and times 357 00:23:18.279 --> 00:23:23.079 where you know, I've literally had to walk away and go, hey, 358 00:23:23.240 --> 00:23:26.400 somebody better get him out of my car, because if 359 00:23:26.440 --> 00:23:28.279 I go to get him out, he's gonna go through 360 00:23:28.279 --> 00:23:33.559 the window, you know, you know. Or there's been a 361 00:23:33.559 --> 00:23:35.720 few times where I've literally just turned to him and 362 00:23:36.359 --> 00:23:38.279 I walk him in, I put him in the jail. 363 00:23:38.759 --> 00:23:42.640 I look at him. I'm like, here, here's all your paperwork, 364 00:23:43.920 --> 00:23:46.680 sign and I'm gonna walk out the door. You can, 365 00:23:46.720 --> 00:23:48.960 you can hand the cuffs out after you get him off. 366 00:23:49.000 --> 00:23:51.799 I don't care. I'm just walking away because I don't 367 00:23:51.799 --> 00:23:54.160 need to hear his mouth anymore. And they'll look at 368 00:23:54.200 --> 00:23:56.079 me and they're like, you know, it's funny because some 369 00:23:56.079 --> 00:24:02.319 of the corrections officers like, gotcha know, and but also 370 00:24:02.319 --> 00:24:06.559 the one corrections offer goes, we've heard you know, You've 371 00:24:06.680 --> 00:24:08.960 you've brought in people that are screaming, hollering, and you're 372 00:24:09.000 --> 00:24:16.119 just like, you know, and then they're like, apparently they 373 00:24:16.160 --> 00:24:18.920 pushed the wrong button because you're ready to throw them 374 00:24:18.960 --> 00:24:19.359 at us. 375 00:24:19.400 --> 00:24:24.880 So you've got the state. But but your mileage may vary, right. 376 00:24:25.599 --> 00:24:26.480 Depending on the day. 377 00:24:26.599 --> 00:24:31.559 Yes, So, now, what did you want to grow up 378 00:24:31.599 --> 00:24:32.920 to be when you were five years old? 379 00:24:34.880 --> 00:24:42.720 Oh? You know, in a way, I think I did 380 00:24:44.000 --> 00:24:48.359 that done my dad just that was you know, my 381 00:24:48.440 --> 00:24:52.480 dad was the guy that he could do damn near anything. 382 00:24:53.680 --> 00:24:59.759 And you know, I mean when you look a guy 383 00:24:59.799 --> 00:25:06.160 who who graduates high school doesn't know he's good. He 384 00:25:06.200 --> 00:25:10.960 has a full ride scholarship to University of Michigan, joins 385 00:25:11.000 --> 00:25:14.720 the military, got into West Point and then got kicked 386 00:25:14.720 --> 00:25:18.200 out of West Point because he wore glasses because at 387 00:25:18.200 --> 00:25:20.000 that time you couldn't have glasses and be a part 388 00:25:20.039 --> 00:25:24.680 of West Point. And then his job in the military 389 00:25:24.720 --> 00:25:28.720 was building Nike missile bases. So he would literally build 390 00:25:28.960 --> 00:25:34.119 a nuclear missile work site one day. Four days later, 391 00:25:34.119 --> 00:25:36.079 they'd tear it down and move it to a different spot. 392 00:25:36.880 --> 00:25:39.440 And he went all over the country and sometimes out 393 00:25:39.440 --> 00:25:41.599 of the country to do that while he was in 394 00:25:41.640 --> 00:25:44.279 the military. And you just sit there and look back 395 00:25:44.279 --> 00:25:49.759 and go, Okay, there's got to be something there. And 396 00:25:50.039 --> 00:25:51.720 you know, he was also the same guy that would 397 00:25:51.720 --> 00:25:56.640 sit down and I'd watch him. You know, the Harry 398 00:25:56.720 --> 00:26:00.839 Potter books when those came out, he read the books 399 00:26:01.559 --> 00:26:04.599 in two or three days. And the only other person 400 00:26:04.640 --> 00:26:06.480 I know that read him that fast was my son, 401 00:26:08.119 --> 00:26:13.480