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Speaker 2: It's night.

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Speaker 1: What's up everybody? It's uh for crying out loud?

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Speaker 2: Yes? What? Okay? You know how normally it feels like

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it's been two weeks. Yes, for some weird reason, it

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feels like it's been three days because it.

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Speaker 1: Kind of has been now. But yeah, did we didn't record, No.

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Speaker 3: No, we did record, but we recorded two days close

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but we did record last Monday. So it

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has been one week. But it is still because not

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much goes on in our lives.

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Speaker 2: Nothing nothing. The only thing that's going on, honestly, is

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or that went on is something that I can only

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talk about on Patreon. I can't wait. Yeah, okay, and

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you'll know why immediately. But literally, that's the thing that's

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been like, right, it was kind of clogging up my week.

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But so I don't know, although I do have okay,

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in the house.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Yay, what's up guys? Hi producer Gary? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Gary?

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Speaker 4: I know I think we should come out of the

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gate and say that Kaylen is feeling a lot better.

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Speaker 1: Oh good.

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Speaker 4: I'm just doing him as solid here because we're all

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looking out for bald Bryan, who's got I don't know,

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he's sick or something. Yeah, he's's always complaining about shit.

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I don't know, his ass hurts or something. But yeah,

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Kaylen's feeling a lot better and he's at home, you know,

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falling along as.

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Speaker 1: We speak, so that's good.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, he's just gotten a few more days to

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stay home so that he can come back, and he's

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out of the woods and not infect everybody here, which

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is nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, although let it be known that he already tested negative. Right,

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So we were fine, Yes, we're no snowflakes. We were like,

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come on, man, we're ready for you.

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Speaker 4: Calen actually was fine too and really wanted to come in.

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Chris told him no, and Kaitlyn emailed me for my thoughts,

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and I kind of yelled at him that he would

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probably be in trouble with the boss man if he

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was seen here and then wasn't here for the next

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four days. So we're just we're just covering each other.

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But he's doing really well.

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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 4: Good, Good to see you guys.

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Speaker 1: Good to see you too.

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Speaker 2: Gary.

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Speaker 1: We're all gonna talk to you later.

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Speaker 2: Cool. Yeah, but how are you, Gary.

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year old. I'm tired. You know, it's a it was

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a and it was a weird, h weird curveball to

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have the world shut down when he was, you know,

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eight or nine months old.

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Speaker 1: So uh yeah, do you have to put a mask

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on him?

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Speaker 4: If we ever, when we put him on a plane

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in a few months, we're gonna have to. He's gonna

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be a Paul or a ring bear in a wedding,

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and so we're gonna have to figure that out. We're

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trying to train him a little bit now. But down

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where I live, we don't have to do it to

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go places. We just it's only when we get to

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airports and stuff.

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Speaker 3: M interesting, poor thing. It breaks my heart when I

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see young.

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Speaker 1: Kids with masks. It really, it just did. It looks

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so unnatural when you see like a toddler walking in

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with a mask.

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Speaker 2: I know, I cannot believe how long this has gone.

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toddler years, all of the things that like make your

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life sane, Like I mean, I know this is gonna

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sound insane, but remember all those indoor playground places.

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there's a bunch of like absolutely rubber hea stuff for

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them to climb on, and a little kitchen. Yes, you

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bring their asses there. You pay met an hour on

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there to talk to and you let them play for

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two hours and they love it. But those places are

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all closed for COVID. Yeah, it's hat because you can't

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keep them ano. They're open to Gary.

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as twenty twenty one, as things started to calm, things

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those open back up. So I've spent a lot of

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just talking about like Scooter's Jungle or I'm talking about

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like some of those real kind of shitty ones, yes,

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where it's just not even that much stuff, but the

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Speaker 3: It, they do, especially those ones at the mall. That's

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those are the worst. Those are you feel like you

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got thrown into a you know, a silkwood shower.

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million years ago, but when Albie was a baby. This

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is like a classic for crying out loud parent fail.

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that one used to have a little like it was

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like a little look like a canoe, yeah in there,

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and she in the canoe and I went to like

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pick her up, and there was a puddle underneath her.

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traveled with one extra diaper and I'd already used it.

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aware of how much fluids they've had. I just wasn't

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thinking about it. Pudd doh, like like the boat had

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taken on water, you know what I mean. At her

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feet are in it, like and I was like, oh no,

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pretend like it wasn't me, like nothing or I didn't

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see anything, like I just pick her up, carry her

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out of there like with purpose, like, oh no, it's

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just our time to go nothing happened here, and then

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pray that nobody walks over there immediately after and it's like,

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what the hell, Hey, lady, go get some paper towels.

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I was like that, I'm not getting paper towels. But

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then I have to put her in the stroller, right,

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the boat water. So I have to take the diaper off.

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just right over her little baby bits, totally bottomless, and

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then I have to pray that she doesn't pee up

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the car seat. I'm right, And you have that nervous

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feeling like please, don't please. Let that have been everything

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that had to come out, right, that's what you're hoping for.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did I.

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Speaker 2: Learn my lesson? No? Because half of our shows at

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the beginning were about how I forgot.

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Speaker 1: We always had to fucking mood shit off of other moms.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I couldn't mooch anything off of like I mean,

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that would have been a whole cashaw like, hey, does

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anybody have a size two or through whatever size diapers

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and diaper and then they would have known. Then they

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would have probably gone to investigate. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: No in that area. You need to get out of there.

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Speaker 4: Quick.

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Speaker 2: Waiting for a call from.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 2: We were looking over the video and her daughter was

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the last one to be Hello, who is this?

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Speaker 1: So Natalia is back?

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Speaker 2: Oh how was it?

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Speaker 1: Well? It could have go any other way? So everything

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Speaker 3: She gets there, fine, it's Florida, the weather's nice.

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Speaker 1: She picks her up. You know, they like watch movies,

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well movies.

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Speaker 3: They watch a lot of real housewives together because Auntie

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Wendy's got the what's it called the Peacock Network. There's

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the Miami Housewives. There's all these housewives that a lot

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of catching up for Natalia.

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Speaker 1: They go to the beach for a little bit.

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Speaker 2: And how come Natalia will watch it with Anti Wendy. Yeah,

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that's good question.

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Speaker 1: Won't watch great question? Are you kidding? When she's with

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Aunty Wendy?

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Speaker 2: Sure, can we watch one Housewives.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, she won't watch anything with me and

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nothing like I'll say.

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Speaker 1: You want to watch a movie tonight? I'm tired. I

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gotta do my homework.

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Speaker 2: This is my life.

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Speaker 1: Zoom's calling. I don't know, Like I got snapchat ship

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Speaker 2: Sadie could be dying of boredom, like anything to do.

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I'm like, let's watch something. I guess I'm gonna do.

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Just found something in my room. I gonna stare at

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my gym collection.

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Speaker 1: Sonny loves watch.

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Speaker 2: No, Xander won't watch anything with me. Neither will I'll

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Speaker 3: Sonny loves to like show me these new dumb shows

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that he thinks is hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Right, Like, there's like some animated superhero show the uh,

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I don't know, Incredible, the something right, Yeah, Invincible. Do

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you know what I'm talking about? Gary?

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Speaker 4: The Eternals?

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Speaker 2: Is that it?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't know. I don't. I don't think that's animated.

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That's just a Marvel thing. No, I don't know what

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Speaker 3: It's an animated and it's kind of funny, and it's

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a dad who's teaching his son how to be a superhero.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, thanks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's just I watched the first episode and I

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fell asleep. He's like, I guess you didn't like it,

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watch movies and stuff with me, but not I Talia.

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Speaker 2: Right, So she's all all yours and eyes for anti

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wind right for the housewives.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: So day three I get a phone call. Uh huh,

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hi mom? Do you Oh?

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she we have a zoom call with the teachers. I

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don't know if you remember, right before Christmas break how

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I laid into the teachers, the assistant principle, and the

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teacher was that that hughes Natalia of plagiarism. But then

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I said, maybe if she wasn't so fucking bored and

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checked out at your class, then maybe she would be

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and not afraid to approach you and ask questions.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she wouldn't have to. That's your fault.

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Speaker 3: She played her now, But I talked. I told this

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whole story. But I sent the email and I was like,

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my son, same exact teacher, across the way, subject, same subject, sorry,

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across the way, different teacher, but teaching the same subject

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history or uh all right, yeah whatever, huh, who cares anyway?

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Speaker 1: Across the way cats out of that.

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Speaker 2: You're not You're not mentioning any names. No, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of history teachers in the same time tongues, okay,

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but teaching the same thing. My son loves that class

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and is very engaged, and he's like everybody loves that teacher,

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and you know, blah blah. Anyway, online, they said, let's

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have a meeting when after the break, let's get on,

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let's have a zoom with Natalia and her counselor and

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we'll talk about switching up her schedule.

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we have love my Patreon this week.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, go on.

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Speaker 3: So we have a zoom call scheduled for the next morning.

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but actually ten forty five her time zoom meeting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah ten And I.

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Speaker 2: Know I was doing the math too, Yeah, yeah, so

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she got to sleep in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she got to sleep in.

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Speaker 3: But also though she's got to do her whole week

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there right on zoom. But class didn't start yet for her,

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and I I just realized it right then and there

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how is she gonna like hang out with Antie Wendy,

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you go to the beach and stuff when she's got.

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Speaker 1: Class all day, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: By the time she's done, it's gonna be she's three

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hours ahead.

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Speaker 1: The whole day is gone. What were you thinking, Natalia?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: What was I thinking? But oh well, but she figured

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it out anyway. She was online every day.

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Speaker 3: So we have our zoom meeting and they switched her

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into the.

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Speaker 1: Teacher.

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Speaker 3: Oh, same period, so her and Sunny for the first

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time have the same class together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Sadie and Xander have a couple of classes

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together and they love it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Sonny, I don't think he's gonna be too happy.

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Like he was like, is Natalia really in my class?

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And I was like, yep, but I don't know she

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has you know what.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but he needs to get over it because

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they are old enough where they live fairly separate lives. Yes,

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they their own friends, They do a lot of their own.

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It's not like it's not like when you're a little

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kid and you're just like with a twin and you

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share a room and together all day long, every day,

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and you don't want to see them in your Yeah,

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he's fine, he's fine, he's fine with it. I had

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conversations with both of them about the two of them

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getting along better, which I'll tell you.

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Speaker 1: But so yeah, so that worked out.

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Speaker 3: But but she's on zoom for like a minute in

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this meeting, like two minutes into it, and the thing

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freezes up and it gets like she can't get She's like, sorry,

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wi fi is bad here, and I'm like, oh great,

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that's how it's going to be the rest of the week.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. But she managed to pull it off.

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Speaker 2: And uh so does the teacher that you're not fond

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of in that zoom?

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Speaker 3: No, she's done good. Yeah, Okayan on switching her. So

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I didn't have to ever talk to her ever again. Okay, Well,

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couldn't they have just emailed you? That would have been

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nice that zoom because they wanted to talk to Natalia.

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They wanted to put better things in place, better like better,

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you know, what more can we do for you to

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get you to you know, uh do better?

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Speaker 1: In school?

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Speaker 3: One of the things that all the teachers complained about

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was she's on her phone too much. So the assistant

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principal really like talk to her and like on a

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nice level, Like when I was in college, this is

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what I would do because I was tempted to be

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on the phone. So I did this, And maybe if

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you put your phone up up at the desk, you know,

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that could help at the teacher's desk. Before I doubt

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how he's gonna I was gonna say that, right, fat chance.

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Speaker 1: But but he asked her so many questions.

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Speaker 3: He really like like got down on her level, and

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she was like, yeah, that that would help, this would help,

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blah blah blah blah blah. So they put more stuff

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in place for her, which was nice. So that's why

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they wanted to have a meet. Why do I have

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to be in on that meeting?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 2: What if you know, you know they're all heyd so right, yeah,

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just tell them to tell you. Hey, by the way,

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but M moved your class, right she in the other period?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay. So now you're a couple days into her trip. Yes,

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I say you because somehow you're involved, right, and a

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lot of it getting on the zoom call. Yeah, that

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gets straightened down. She's happy. A couple days later, mid midweek,

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I get the phone call from Natalia.

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Speaker 1: Hey, mom, uh.

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Speaker 2: Oh, no, I no, I knew what's gonna happen, but

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I'm braced back.

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Speaker 3: And do you have my health insurance and phone? By

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any chance? Do you have my Social Security number? By

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any chance? I?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Why?

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Speaker 3: And she's like, Oh, we're just a care where urgent care?

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Why are you at urgent care?

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Speaker 2: Mmmm?

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Speaker 1: Auntie, Wendy's not feeling good, she's got a fever and

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we're getting tested.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, of course she does.

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Speaker 3: Like she was sick when we got to Chicago. She

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was like, at the end of being sick. Tested a

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bunch of times.

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Speaker 1: Nothing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so far Wendy hasn't had We don't think she's

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had COVID, but I think she could have possibly had

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it when we went to Chicago, and I think, I

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don't know whatever, But now she's got.

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Speaker 1: It it probably has it now.

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Speaker 3: Then she didn't have it before, she doesn't have She

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still doesn't have because she tested negatives. So Natalia and

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her went to get tested negative. Oh so then Natalia's

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whole thing was, yeah, I might have to hunk her

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down here for a few more days.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to be able to fly, right if

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you can't fly.

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Speaker 2: Here if she's positive, right, so she's already banking on

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being because she's like, I mean, right, and then I'm

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just trying to look out for the rest of the population. Mom.

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Speaker 1: Right, She's like a superhero.

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Speaker 3: Even when she was tested negative, she was like, yeah,

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but Auntie Winnie really feels like she's got it. So

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we're going back in like two or three days to

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get tested again. I was like, and then you know,

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we might I might have to.

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Speaker 1: Like stay here.

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Speaker 3: Plus Auntie Wenny's gonna be by herself. Who's gonna help her,

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Who's gonna take care of her?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh.

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Speaker 3: My god, Natalia, She's like, I'm just saying you might

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want to look into the flights.

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Speaker 2: I love the fact that when you were there over

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the holiday, she was like, how can I get home

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as fast as possible? And now she's like, how can

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I stay here longer?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: She must be having a good time. So she she

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did have a great time. Everybody tested negative.

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Speaker 2: So you brought her home?

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Speaker 1: Yes, she came home. Yeah, Then she came home.

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Speaker 3: Then she tells me I'm planning a Valentine's party and

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I'm like, oh, no, you're not at our house. No,

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you're not You're never having a party again. Remember your

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last party? Nope, not having a party. Why, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It's like she is like it's it's she is like

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a like she just won't let things go. She just is.

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It's assaulting, is what it is, because like you think

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you're you're you're in the clear. When you tell her no, Carrie.

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Speaker 2: Is laughing so loud.

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Speaker 4: It just doesn't sound like anyone else. I know.

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Speaker 3: Oh right, somebody.

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Speaker 4: Won't let something go.

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Speaker 2: Are you saying one nuttes like that?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm saying someone who zones in on you and

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will not let the thing go until they get the

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answer they want. It sounds like nothing I've ever heard before.

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Speaker 3: Gary's witnessing Adam every single day on again see.

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Speaker 2: Four.

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Speaker 4: I've grown up with her, I know, I know, I.

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Speaker 3: Know it's true she is. I would hope that she's

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going to be a lawyer someday.

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Speaker 1: I really do.

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Speaker 3: She should be, because she just won't let anything go,

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and she's got to do like a whole preason.

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Speaker 1: She did, like a whole PowerPoint presentation to Adam for

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her car. Why should she get Why should she get

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a car? Yes? I wasn't there for that, but yeah,

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she did a whole presentation.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe she should have used Google slides. I'm

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just saying, I'm not like gonna turn out, not just kidding. Okay, yeah, yes,

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but she didn't need to do that because he wants

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to buy her car anyway. Right, that's between those two.

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My name's Paul.

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Speaker 3: That's between that's their issues, not my problem. But I

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was like, you're not having a party, so so like, No.

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What I was saying is like I think I'm in

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the clear. Right, I go to bed and get in bed.

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I'm like, it's been a long day. I put on

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some Yellowstone and then it's like, mom, no, she does

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a video with her and her friend, Candygram. Let me

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just show ndra video.

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Speaker 1: Look, you don't want to hear that lant shark.

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Speaker 2: You're not telling you about lamp shark coming asked me about.

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Speaker 3: A party, Candygram party, Graham. She comes in and she

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shows me video that she does. You don't want to

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disappoint Little Annie and Katie?

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Speaker 1: Do you you love my friend.

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Speaker 2: Have a party at their house? This is Corolla. Can

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we play?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, I do want to disappoint them. No,

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you're not having a party in my house. End of

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story period, end of story. So I had to Yeah, she.

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Speaker 2: I think you standing strong?

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Speaker 1: Betch I'm not doing that again. Hell no, I don't

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want to have the ageta of worrying about you know.

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Speaker 2: Plus, I feel like a couple of those parents wouldn't

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let their kids come back over for a while.

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Speaker 1: That's what I That's what I said.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, wait, who's supervising?

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Speaker 3: Exactly? Dad in his bathroom? Mom not there? Like no,

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uh huh, yeah, so that's that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, interesting, you know, speaking of like putting your foot down. Yeah,

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I'm so glad that I put my foot down with

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I'll be getting a job. Remembering how I had to

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like how she was like, but maybe I don't want

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to have a job. I was like, oh, hell, yes

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you do. Maybe I want to work at PACSN No

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you don't. Maybe I want to think about this more. No,

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you're gonna say yes. But guess what. She's worked. She

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had two shifts. She worked, So how's it going? That's

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aweso loving it. She was high as a kite. She worked.

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Speaker 1: She did a zoom not literally was she.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's a very loose environment there. She she did

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like a zoom training which she was kind of disappointed

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about because she was planning to go in there and

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train and they did it over zoom, so she was like,

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oh no, yeah, COVID, yeah, you know, ruin my plans.

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But then so that was like Wednesday, and then they

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said could you come in. Then the guy was like, hey,

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do you want to wait till omicrons died down or

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do you want to come in? And she was like no, no, no,

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I want to come in. So he's like, okay, come

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in on Saturday. So she was there Saturday for four hours.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: She was super anxious before she went in, like having

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full on old school anxiety attack for her. I don't

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want to say anxiety attack, but I want to say

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that kind of anxiety where there's no reason for it.

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And I try to talk to her about it and go, okay, well,

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I try to channel like what would her therapists say,

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you know, okay, well what do you think what's the

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worst case scenario? First of all, she didn't really want

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to drive there, and I understand, you know when you're

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the first time you do something, and there's a lot

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of components to it, like where are you going to park?

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Like what if you get into the parking lot and

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it's all full? Is there? What's the backup plan? You know,

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you've never been at a job before. Am I supposed to?

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Is getting there early? Really cringey?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 2: Right? Right? But I don't want to be late, Like

472
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:27,720
what's the purf? What's the sweet spot?

473
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 1: You know?

474
00:22:28,559 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 2: You don't know?

475
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 4: Right?

476
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 2: So, and everything at her age makes her feel stupid,

477
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,519
like what if I don't understand the parking situation? What

478
00:22:37,559 --> 00:22:38,160
if I?

479
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:38,279
Speaker 1: So?

480
00:22:38,319 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 2: I was like, elb, would it help you if I

481
00:22:40,319 --> 00:22:43,160
just drove it's six minutes away. I was like, what

482
00:22:43,319 --> 00:22:45,160
it help if I just drove you there and dropped

483
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,039
so we could we can look at it together. We'll

484
00:22:47,039 --> 00:22:48,880
pull in the parking lot and see the scope out

485
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,240
the stitch. And she was like, oh my god, would

486
00:22:51,279 --> 00:22:55,279
you I go, yeah, no problem. So we pull in

487
00:22:55,279 --> 00:22:59,119
the parking lot and actually, sure enough, the guy's like, okay,

488
00:22:59,319 --> 00:23:02,240
nine dollars, And I was like, she works here.

489
00:23:03,839 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: And the guys not tell her that, like anything about

490
00:23:06,759 --> 00:23:07,839
the parking and like.

491
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,599
Speaker 2: I think, well, so normally she would get a ticket

492
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,079
and then they would give her a monthly pass. Okay,

493
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,920
but the ticket thing was out of order, so they

494
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,680
were just charging her. I guess you do. I don't

495
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,119
know how it would have worked, but it would have

496
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,279
overwhelmed her. She would have been already upset, like I

497
00:23:25,319 --> 00:23:28,759
don't have night, you know whatever. Okay, anyway, long story short,

498
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,119
I go, can we just I just need like a

499
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,839
ten minute grace period. I just want to pull into

500
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,400
the parking lot and I'm going to come right back out.

501
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,160
And the girl was like, okay, go ahead. So I

502
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,240
pull in. There's tons of parking, so she feels better

503
00:23:39,279 --> 00:23:42,680
about that. But now it's way too early, because of

504
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,880
course she was standing at the door like let's go,

505
00:23:45,039 --> 00:23:47,839
let's go, and I'm like, okay, but you realize it's

506
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,400
like going to be seven minutes from our door there,

507
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,880
and we're leaving thirty minutes early. You're gonna be early.

508
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,480
We left like thirty five minutes. She was like, no,

509
00:23:55,559 --> 00:23:58,079
I want to make sure I'm there on time. Okay, Well,

510
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,440
now we're twenty minute We were literally twenty minut's early.

511
00:24:00,519 --> 00:24:03,000
So I go, okay, Well, why don't you just like

512
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,559
go up there and see if they need you to

513
00:24:04,599 --> 00:24:09,559
fill out paperwork? And she was like oh what, no,

514
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:16,079
like are you kidding me? Like how do you how?

515
00:24:16,519 --> 00:24:18,799
How well, do you not know me if you're thinking

516
00:24:18,839 --> 00:24:21,839
I'm gonna walk in anywhere twenty minutes early. I was like, okay,

517
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:27,200
all right, fifteen She's like no, I go ten. And

518
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,279
then I said, I go. You could go in there

519
00:24:29,279 --> 00:24:30,680
and just say hey, I got here a little early

520
00:24:30,759 --> 00:24:32,720
in case you need me to do paperwork. What if

521
00:24:32,759 --> 00:24:35,079
they don't need me to do paperwork? I go, Albie,

522
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,480
it's not on the honor system. They don't go. What's

523
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,400
your name again? Oh, Elbie Taylor. Okay, here's a check, right,

524
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,880
I go. They every job that you have, it's official.

525
00:24:44,079 --> 00:24:46,680
This is a real thing. You have to fill up paperwork. Well,

526
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,119
I don't know if you do it on the first day.

527
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:49,720
I'm like, and.

528
00:24:49,759 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 1: Also makes her look good. You know that she's early, but.

529
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:59,079
Speaker 2: She is so anxious. She doesn't care. She doesn't she

530
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,079
doesn't she's she just needs to do something one time

531
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:03,240
and then she's fine.

532
00:25:03,079 --> 00:25:05,640
Speaker 1: Right right. I get it. I totally get it.

533
00:25:05,799 --> 00:25:07,839
Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, So we drove around the

534
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,759
block a few times and then we pulled out. We

535
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,440
pulled over and at like she was had to be

536
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,480
there at four, So at like three point fifty two,

537
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,039
I was like Okay, go you'll be seven minutes early.

538
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,839
It's fine. So she did. I knew she'd be fine

539
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,519
the second she was in there. Of course, she came home.

540
00:25:25,799 --> 00:25:28,400
I you know, she was so happy. She was like,

541
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:32,039
oh my god, it was so fun. I was so fun.

542
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:33,000
I have a job.

543
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 4: Oh I know.

544
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 2: And then the very next day they had her come

545
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,039
in for a five hour shift. Really yeah, so she

546
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,480
was super excited. That's nice. She went, she spent the

547
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,759
whole day. She was tired, she took a disco nap.

548
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: Nice.

549
00:25:45,599 --> 00:25:47,599
Speaker 2: She went out with their friends and then, you know,

550
00:25:48,799 --> 00:25:53,400
but she was so happy. She feels she's so far

551
00:25:53,519 --> 00:25:56,160
the youngest, but most of the other kids are about

552
00:25:56,200 --> 00:26:00,559
her age. They're like eighteen, she's seventeen. The kids are

553
00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:03,279
like eighteen nineteen, ye and then the manager's roll in

554
00:26:03,279 --> 00:26:03,839
their twenties.

555
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 1: So she's like, she probably she fits right in.

556
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 2: But I'm so glad I didn't listen to her. Oh

557
00:26:10,039 --> 00:26:13,279
try to wheezel a lot, right, right, that's great. That's

558
00:26:13,559 --> 00:26:15,160
such a great fun first job.

559
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 1: I know.

560
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 2: But you know, I'm just saying the pain of when

561
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,759
she was just kept putting off, like applying or doing

562
00:26:22,759 --> 00:26:24,519
her resume and having to be like, no, you're not

563
00:26:24,559 --> 00:26:26,119
going out to lunch. You're going to stay home and

564
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:27,359
you're going to apply for a job.

565
00:26:27,519 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: Right.

566
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,839
Speaker 2: You feel like a bitch doing it, but like they

567
00:26:29,839 --> 00:26:30,240
need it.

568
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know. I know makes Sonny go

569
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:34,279
get a job.

570
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 2: I don't is he's not little.

571
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:41,319
Speaker 3: Too young, but as soon as he hits you know, sixteen,

572
00:26:42,279 --> 00:26:45,000
he doesn't want to drive as much as Natalia, Which

573
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,880
I'm like, you know, come on, buddy, get in the

574
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,559
car and drive my car around the block.

575
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 2: Oh isn't Natalia is old enough to have her Uh

576
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:53,200
she does have it?

577
00:26:53,319 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: Yeah permit, Yeah, she has her permit.

578
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:55,599
Speaker 2: She already got it.

579
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh my god. Yeah she was on top

580
00:26:58,079 --> 00:27:00,400
of it. I know, I didn't even know she did

581
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,960
it all by herself. Well, all her friends are older

582
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,880
than her, so she they she knew exactly what to do.

583
00:27:06,519 --> 00:27:09,440
A lot of her friends actually have cars now, like

584
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,400
you know, they had drive in there, you know whatever.

585
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,559
But like she that's why she keeps badgering at him

586
00:27:15,559 --> 00:27:19,799
because in June of this year, she's gonna be ready

587
00:27:19,839 --> 00:27:22,519
for her life. She's gonna have her license. So, yeah,

588
00:27:22,559 --> 00:27:25,039
she has her permit. So she's been driving with me

589
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,400
a lot. She's been driving Olga a lot. She by

590
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,079
the way, I was d I was. I was that

591
00:27:31,279 --> 00:27:33,599
night I got home from the airport. Remember I went

592
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,000
to the airport. No that Yeah, that night I came

593
00:27:36,039 --> 00:27:38,240
home with Sunny. My car wasn't charged up.

594
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,400
Speaker 1: I was gone. Yeah, so I'm sitting there waiting for

595
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:41,079
it to charge up.

596
00:27:41,079 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah blah blah. So then, uh, then

597
00:27:44,519 --> 00:27:46,880
I'm leaving. It's like eight thirty. Get in the car.

598
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:47,599
Speaker 1: I pull out.

599
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 3: Adam's car comes up the driveway, and you know, Adam

600
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:53,799
and I just kind of pass each other and way,

601
00:27:54,319 --> 00:27:58,359
that's about it. And I pull and I pull up

602
00:27:58,599 --> 00:28:02,000
and I look over and it's Natalia. She looks so

603
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,599
little in his suv, like she's like barely. I'm like,

604
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,519
what is Dad in the car with you? She goes, no,

605
00:28:08,839 --> 00:28:10,759
Dad asked me to take his car to go get gas.

606
00:28:11,759 --> 00:28:14,160
I was like, well, the gas station is literally like

607
00:28:14,759 --> 00:28:18,079
at the end of our street, residential street, there's an

608
00:28:18,079 --> 00:28:22,480
Exxon station. So she just went there and I go, oh, really,

609
00:28:23,559 --> 00:28:26,119
that's interesting. Which you went to the one at the

610
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,200
end of the street. Yes, yes, I'm like, oh, okay.

611
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 2: Does she know how that's amazing that. I'm more impressed

612
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,079
that she knows how to get gas because Elbie's been

613
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,759
driving now for a long time and was like, Mom,

614
00:28:37,799 --> 00:28:39,000
the car's running out of gas.

615
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 3: She showed me that she broke her nail because she

616
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,640
was frustrated, and she's like, I didn't know what to do.

617
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: Dad didn't answer the phone. I didn't know how to

618
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,680
get the thing open. I had asked somebody to help

619
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,279
me open the thing. I go, why didn't you ask

620
00:28:52,359 --> 00:28:54,599
Dad how to do it? Didn't you did? She's like,

621
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:55,039
I knew.

622
00:28:55,279 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 3: He asked me what side it's on, and I knew

623
00:28:57,519 --> 00:29:00,799
that because he plugs in his car sometimes it's like

624
00:29:00,839 --> 00:29:04,799
a half it's a hybrid, and so like she knew

625
00:29:04,799 --> 00:29:06,519
what side it was on, but she didn't know how

626
00:29:06,519 --> 00:29:08,319
to open the thing. It's one of those things that

627
00:29:08,359 --> 00:29:11,440
you push and it pops open. Except she was trying

628
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,960
and trying and trying. She broke her acrylic nail, and

629
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,480
then she had to ask somebody.

630
00:29:15,759 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: And she's like, and he was so rude.

631
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 3: He went dink and he opened it, no problem, and

632
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,200
he looked at me like I was dumb, Like, I'm sure,

633
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:23,359
look at you, And she goes yeah.

634
00:29:23,839 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: She was like all flustered, and I was like, well, okay,

635
00:29:27,559 --> 00:29:28,559
now you know how to do it.

636
00:29:29,039 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 2: So hold on. Adam's car also a Tesla.

637
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,759
Speaker 3: No, it's not, no something else I don't it's a

638
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:36,680
I don't know what it is.

639
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,039
Speaker 4: It's a Lincoln Aviator, but it's one that's a plug

640
00:29:39,119 --> 00:29:41,279
in hybrid. So like the Prius is a hybrid, but

641
00:29:41,319 --> 00:29:42,839
it just doesn't you don't plug it in. It just

642
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,519
gets battery from the brakes. Now they make some that

643
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,880
have like a small batteries, can go like fifty miles

644
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:51,000
on electric only and then switches over to gas.

645
00:29:51,799 --> 00:29:53,119
Speaker 2: You get that car.

646
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:54,599
Speaker 1: I didn't know.

647
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: I didn't really realize it until he started taking my

648
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,559
Tesla charger and putting his own chart. You're on top

649
00:30:00,599 --> 00:30:03,599
of it, which was recently, And I never see the

650
00:30:03,599 --> 00:30:04,359
car because I'm.

651
00:30:04,279 --> 00:30:06,799
Speaker 1: Never He's never there when I'm there, got it? But

652
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:07,839
I don't know.

653
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: Maybe I look, I just think you would do better

654
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:15,319
with a hybrid. Yeah, I think so options, Yes, Like

655
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,960
you don't need to be sweating running out of battery.

656
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,200
I have the gas as a backup, right, That's all

657
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:26,119
I'm saying. Yeah, Hey, you know what we This almost

658
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,920
doesn't feel like an ad because sometimes we just like

659
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:32,960
to talk about Audible. That's right, we're happy Audible. Yeah,

660
00:30:33,079 --> 00:30:34,839
the latest book you're reading. I should have looked this

661
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,960
up on my phone before we started doing this ad.

662
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,079
But are you listening to anything on audible?

663
00:30:39,759 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: I was? What did I was because I was traveling,

664
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,680
so I downloaded Oh the Power of Now I downloaded,

665
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:51,160
but I haven't listened to it yet by eckhart Tolly. Yeah,

666
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,839
I wanted to hear I wanted to listen to that

667
00:30:53,119 --> 00:30:55,400
and they but by the way, they got so many

668
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,519
I have so many books in my library.

669
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 3: And you know what I love about Audible. I always credits,

670
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,720
which is me too, Me too.

671
00:31:03,559 --> 00:31:07,799
Speaker 2: I was listening to now, this is an oldie book, Goodie,

672
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:11,440
But I was listening to Oh my gosh, here's you Yes,

673
00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:13,359
because I wanted to listen to it again. I wanted

674
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,000
to listen to it instead of read it. I read

675
00:31:15,039 --> 00:31:17,160
it the first time. But have you ever heard of

676
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,960
the book Drinking a Love Story. It's a book about

677
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,480
an alcoholic. But I read it way before I was

678
00:31:24,519 --> 00:31:27,480
an alcoholic, Back when I back when I didn't know

679
00:31:27,519 --> 00:31:29,720
I was an alcoholic at all, and just thought I

680
00:31:29,799 --> 00:31:31,599
liked to I was alcohol enthusiast.

681
00:31:31,799 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: Yes, I read that book.

682
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 2: It's really good. It's by Carolyn Knapp kN App. But anyway,

683
00:31:38,039 --> 00:31:41,039
here's what I love about Audible as well. Yes, you

684
00:31:41,039 --> 00:31:43,920
always have credits. You sign up, and you will never

685
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,400
anytime you want to read a book or listen to

686
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:46,799
a book.

687
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:47,079
Speaker 1: Right.

688
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,119
Speaker 2: First of all, I'm addicted to my phone, so I

689
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,200
like to be sometimes playing a game on my phone,

690
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,960
and then I can still feel like I'm reading. That's

691
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,880
the best feeling about it. The feeling of accomplishment of

692
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,519
you read a book, but you weren't. Actually you could

693
00:32:00,519 --> 00:32:03,119
walk the dog, right, you could do the dishes, and

694
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,440
you can still be really enjoying a book. Yeah, and

695
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,400
you still can get the feeling of like, can't put

696
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:07,759
it down.

697
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

698
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 3: Actually it's the best if you're working out and listening

699
00:32:11,799 --> 00:32:14,200
to it, because then it really inspires you to go

700
00:32:14,279 --> 00:32:16,039
back to the gym again the next day because you

701
00:32:16,079 --> 00:32:17,319
want to hear the book.

702
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:24,559
Speaker 2: Yes, with some uninterrupted time. Nice. Yes, So so Gary

703
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,839
talk to us a little bit more about parenthood challenges.

704
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,079
If you're still according to our schedule, you're still officially

705
00:32:33,079 --> 00:32:33,920
in the mill room.

706
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,119
Speaker 4: Oh, no doubt. I mean, I look in the span

707
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,079
of time, I look back and it feels like I'm not.

708
00:32:40,359 --> 00:32:43,000
But you know, I know, looking from a ten thousand

709
00:32:43,039 --> 00:32:46,359
foot view that I definitely am. Yeah, I mean, COVID

710
00:32:46,359 --> 00:32:50,279
definitely threw things for a very severe loop because you know,

711
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,240
for the longest time, it was a lot of concern.

712
00:32:53,319 --> 00:32:55,720
I mean, and obviously there still is to a certain extent.

713
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,400
But you know, luckily down in Orange County, things are

714
00:32:59,519 --> 00:33:02,640
a little bit looser, or they were certainly when things

715
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,200
were more of a lull. You know, obviously the world

716
00:33:06,319 --> 00:33:09,400
changes every day, but we're we're able to do a

717
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,599
little bit more and we've kind of, you know, we've

718
00:33:11,599 --> 00:33:15,519
been able to get him out kind of for you know,

719
00:33:16,279 --> 00:33:19,279
mini trips and stuff like that. So just kind of

720
00:33:19,319 --> 00:33:21,599
focusing on things that he enjoys.

721
00:33:21,839 --> 00:33:25,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome. He's not in preschool, right he is? Oh,

722
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:27,119
he is, and does he like it?

723
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:31,839
Speaker 4: He loves it. He just he started he started sometime

724
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,160
last year, I think at the end of the beginning

725
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,640
of August. He started with two days a week, half day.

726
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,039
He kind of goes eight eight thirty in the morning

727
00:33:39,119 --> 00:33:42,440
and he's picked up around twelve thirty or one and

728
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,680
then in the new year we expanded that to three days.

729
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,519
Speaker 1: Did he have a hard time the first day at first?

730
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,480
Or was he like by uh no?

731
00:33:51,319 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 4: The first week was sort of it was it was

732
00:33:54,279 --> 00:33:57,319
a roller coaster. The first day he was so he

733
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,519
was sort of confused, it's what was going on? And

734
00:33:59,559 --> 00:34:01,599
then day two and three it was by and then

735
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,359
day four and five it was don't you dare to

736
00:34:03,599 --> 00:34:06,240
leave me here? You know? And then now he's back

737
00:34:06,279 --> 00:34:09,360
to He just absolutely loves it. So that's the best

738
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,000
that we have. There's really good teachers, and it's in

739
00:34:11,039 --> 00:34:12,440
our neighborhood so we can like walk to it.

740
00:34:12,519 --> 00:34:15,079
Speaker 1: So it's that's nice. Oh, that's so nice.

741
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 2: Elbie loved preschool. You'd be it's surprising since she has anxiety,

742
00:34:20,199 --> 00:34:24,280
but she not really separation anxiety. She was like bye bye.

743
00:34:24,519 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 4: Huh yeah.

744
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 2: First day I was the one crying. I was like,

745
00:34:28,159 --> 00:34:29,800
she's just going to be there and I'm going to

746
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,840
be at a meeting, eating you know, muffins with the parents,

747
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:36,400
and and she was not happy to see me. When

748
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,760
I came back, She's like, wait already, I don't want

749
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,840
to go home. The next day, I was expecting maybe

750
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,199
a change, but no, the entire time she and she

751
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,840
was she started early days, but then I would pick

752
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,239
her up and she'd be like, why don't I get

753
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:51,800
to stay with the other kids, Why don't I get

754
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,079
to nap here? And I was like, well, if you

755
00:34:54,119 --> 00:34:55,719
want to, sure you can.

756
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 4: You know, so that's right where we are where it's like,

757
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,000
he's still on early days for three days a week,

758
00:35:01,079 --> 00:35:03,559
but as soon as he asked to stay, we'll.

759
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:04,199
Speaker 1: Let him, right.

760
00:35:04,559 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just and we're it's a it's a cool

761
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,719
little thing that does like the Christmas play and the

762
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,239
costume parade and all, which I'm sure every preschool does,

763
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,800
but it's just super nice that it's so close to

764
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,400
our house. And it's like, so if they do something

765
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,320
in the morning, it's like a nine am costume parade

766
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,800
or something like I can do it on the way

767
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,360
to work and not be late. Yeah, which is really

768
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:25,039
really fortunate.

769
00:35:25,159 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's nice.

770
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 3: I remember a little costume parade at my preschool.

771
00:35:29,679 --> 00:35:30,679
Speaker 1: I have a picture of it.

772
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:37,679
Speaker 3: Like Natalia was a katy Perry, always ahead of her time,

773
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:41,000
always ahead of her time, and Sonny was an angry bird.

774
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,360
And it was before angry birds were really anything. I

775
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:47,320
had to make his costume later, like the next year.

776
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:47,639
Speaker 2: It was.

777
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 4: That was back when it was just a game and

778
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,440
it wasn't a movie yet. Right when it became a movie,

779
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,360
the merchandise went everywhere. Right, it was just a game

780
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:54,800
back then.

781
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,280
Speaker 3: Yes, And he I had to make his little costume,

782
00:35:57,519 --> 00:35:59,719
which I don't know how, I don't know what I did,

783
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,880
but and I like, you know that he was playing

784
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,840
it on my phone every time we picked up, and

785
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,760
we had an iPad at home, and we had it

786
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,039
on the iPad and he just figured it out, like

787
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,840
just sat there and played all day long on that

788
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,280
thing and was like, I don't want to be an

789
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,360
angry bird. But yeah, it was so cute. It was

790
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:17,880
the best.

791
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 1: Like when they're like little like that and they're in

792
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,039
a little preschool car.

793
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:21,519
Speaker 4: You know.

794
00:36:21,679 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 2: The only problem though with this age two and a

795
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,400
half is they start to have little tantrums about things

796
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,159
because they're not good with Like I remember that Elbe

797
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,000
was like such a good girl always and became really

798
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,840
good again, but that was the age where she would

799
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:37,840
start to argue about like she didn't want to leave

800
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,679
the park, you know. And I had a babysitter because

801
00:36:40,679 --> 00:36:43,800
I was writing at that time. Our babysitter Andrea is

802
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,480
a lover to this day, full circle. I think I

803
00:36:46,519 --> 00:36:49,440
told you this. Andrea is married and has kids, and

804
00:36:49,559 --> 00:36:54,000
Elbie babysit for kids. Crazy, But Andrea was the only

805
00:36:54,039 --> 00:36:56,559
time Andrew was ever like, yeah, it was a little

806
00:36:56,599 --> 00:37:01,679
tough today because elb like she's like a where like Penelope.

807
00:37:01,679 --> 00:37:03,480
If she doesn't want to go for a walk anymore,

808
00:37:03,599 --> 00:37:05,480
like she'll just dig her heels in. And that was

809
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,000
like el toddler version of it. I'll be like, oh no, like, no,

810
00:37:09,039 --> 00:37:11,960
I'm staying at the park. Yeah, and she was like no,

811
00:37:12,039 --> 00:37:15,000
because it's actually first he tried to reason with its

812
00:37:15,119 --> 00:37:19,440
actually though, actually though we have to go home because

813
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,800
mommy's waited. Whatever it is, No, I want to stay

814
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,039
at the park, though, I want to stay at the park. No,

815
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,760
we're leaving the park now. No.

816
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

817
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,760
Speaker 3: Then they did that thing where they just drop their

818
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,639
body to the floor. Yes they yeah.

819
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, And my son's probably too big for Joy to

820
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,039
move him if he really puts his mind to it.

821
00:37:39,079 --> 00:37:40,920
He doesn't know that yet, but if he really decided

822
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,840
to actively fight against her, like I don't know if

823
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,519
she could get him into this, into the wagon or

824
00:37:45,559 --> 00:37:48,920
the stroller or whatever they have. But yeah, you brought

825
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,480
up the park. Right after my son was born, we

826
00:37:52,519 --> 00:37:54,320
saw a news story that the city we live in

827
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,280
was investing five million dollars to redo all the parks

828
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,360
over the course of the next seven years, and I went, well,

829
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,400
that's really cool. They'll probably finish ours up right when

830
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,800
he turns eight and doesn't want to go to the

831
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,159
park exactly. It turned out first one was the one

832
00:38:07,199 --> 00:38:09,760
in our neighborhood, so it opened about two months ago.

833
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,599
He's got a brand new park that's all space themed.

834
00:38:12,599 --> 00:38:15,320
It's got that new foam stuff with the sand and

835
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,400
the grass and the new jungle. It's so lucky.

836
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,599
Speaker 1: That's nice. Yeah, we are just setting to the.

837
00:38:21,519 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 2: Park by himself, you know what I mean, teaching some

838
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,559
independent What if we just became so out of touch

839
00:38:27,599 --> 00:38:30,880
with parenting young kids. That's how long it's been. Just

840
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,760
like he's advice, like, point him, it's close, right, just

841
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:35,760
point him in the director.

842
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: He'll be good.

843
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 2: Pack him some pirates booty like and you know, a backpack,

844
00:38:41,039 --> 00:38:42,079
give him a little backpack.

845
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,639
Speaker 4: It wasn't that long ago that that wasn't that insane.

846
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,000
We know the family lives on the corner right by

847
00:38:47,039 --> 00:38:50,599
the park. Their house faces it. His step uncle lives

848
00:38:50,599 --> 00:38:52,880
two houses down for the park, like he'd probably be.

849
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: All right, do right a dog with him?

850
00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 3: Right, Doc comes back, Bye bye Doggie. I just every

851
00:39:06,519 --> 00:39:09,800
time we think of the park, I just remember Gina Kimmel, like,

852
00:39:10,119 --> 00:39:13,119
I am not going to the park with you. After

853
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,400
I said Gina had the kids, she had kids that

854
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,679
were by the time I had kids, her kids were

855
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:23,159
like in middle school, right, and she would go and

856
00:39:23,199 --> 00:39:25,679
me and Melissa hurt like two best friends are having

857
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,079
you know, got married, now we're having kids. And her

858
00:39:28,119 --> 00:39:30,119
whole thing was I'm not going to the park with

859
00:39:30,159 --> 00:39:32,440
you too. I'll do anything, but I'm not going to

860
00:39:32,519 --> 00:39:34,159
the park. And we were always like, why what's the

861
00:39:34,199 --> 00:39:35,159
big deal with the park?

862
00:39:35,639 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 2: Now?

863
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 1: I know, like fucking park sucks. It sucks.

864
00:39:38,679 --> 00:39:41,679
Speaker 2: Well, if there's no sand I could see it being better.

865
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,960
Plus the fact that modern day we have all sorts

866
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,840
of things on our phones. We could play games on

867
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,400
our phones. We could, you know, play wordle we could

868
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:53,119
read Facebook. Back in the day that wasn't it wasn't

869
00:39:53,159 --> 00:39:55,440
as widespread. It was like I think I had a BlackBerry,

870
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,400
Like I'm gonna bring my BlackBerry to the park. But

871
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,039
here's the type out right now.

872
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 1: But I had mot of myself, one kid that would

873
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,599
go off and do his own thing. Then I had

874
00:40:04,639 --> 00:40:06,920
the other kid'd be like, Mommy, come with me, Mommy,

875
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,480
watch me, Mommy put mommy, put the phone down, Mommy,

876
00:40:09,519 --> 00:40:11,719
come play with me. Mommy, this mommy, mommy.

877
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,559
Speaker 2: So you know, right, And also the problem with the

878
00:40:15,599 --> 00:40:18,400
park is that there's too many judgmental moms that are like,

879
00:40:18,519 --> 00:40:20,360
you should be keeping an eye on your kid, not

880
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,239
on your phone. Even if they don't say it right out,

881
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,599
you know, they're just like, why are you not engaging

882
00:40:25,599 --> 00:40:28,440
with your kid the whole time? And you want to go, well,

883
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,000
this is my time, bitch, Like my kids they don't

884
00:40:32,039 --> 00:40:34,679
need me. What am I supposed to climb on the

885
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:38,400
freaking jungle gym with them? Like, let them learn some skills,

886
00:40:40,079 --> 00:40:41,960
let them climb on the rope. But I had the

887
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,039
same problem where I had all of my kids were

888
00:40:45,039 --> 00:40:49,000
a little bit scared, so like they would climb up

889
00:40:49,039 --> 00:40:50,719
on stuff and then not be able to come down.

890
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,639
The worst is when you're at a place like Chuck

891
00:40:53,679 --> 00:40:55,920
e Cheese though, and they've climbed into one of those

892
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,679
like habit trail things, and then they can't get out.

893
00:40:59,159 --> 00:41:00,920
Then you just got to send another kid up to

894
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,079
go get him because like, my big ass is not

895
00:41:04,159 --> 00:41:06,440
fitting into the habit trail to pull you out.

896
00:41:06,599 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 3: That was sunny and Natally was the one that would

897
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,840
go and get him and pull him out.

898
00:41:12,559 --> 00:41:16,079
Speaker 1: Like stuck halfway. Remember the place, the place by.

899
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 3: Your house that jump around, Uh, there's the place that

900
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,719
closed but it's it's closed now.

901
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 1: But remember the there was the trampoline place and the

902
00:41:25,559 --> 00:41:26,880
next door was the glow zone.

903
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,159
Speaker 3: Yeah zone, yeah, they had was it the it was

904
00:41:30,159 --> 00:41:34,800
one of those places that had that thing obstacle thing. Yes,

905
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,239
Sonny stood up and then got stuck.

906
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,559
Speaker 1: It wasn't in the habit trail. It was just he

907
00:41:39,679 --> 00:41:41,760
was like on these wire I don't know the things.

908
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:47,159
Oh yeah the wire right, yes, And some kid goes,

909
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:51,679
is that your son up there? He's crying for you.

910
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:55,039
Speaker 3: He's like his like his feet were like cement, like

911
00:41:55,079 --> 00:41:56,039
he couldn't move them.

912
00:41:56,079 --> 00:41:57,280
Speaker 2: He was I'm like, Sonny, just.

913
00:41:57,199 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 3: Step step to the left, stepped out back, now, put

914
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:01,400
your foot.

915
00:42:01,639 --> 00:42:03,679
Speaker 1: No, he would not move at all.

916
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 3: And I be like, okay, where's an Italian Natalia, go

917
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,239
get your son employee.

918
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 2: How come they look for my parents to solve all

919
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,719
the problems? How did I get hurt? I just brought

920
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:13,079
him here.

921
00:42:13,159 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just paid a lot of money for my

922
00:42:15,519 --> 00:42:20,360
son to get stuck up there. Go get him? Like,

923
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:21,360
where is he now?

924
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,119
Speaker 2: Paying like thirty dollars an hour for my kid to

925
00:42:24,119 --> 00:42:28,360
climb a rock wall. You to deal with it, right, Gary,

926
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:29,360
this is all coming for.

927
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:30,159
Speaker 1: Us, that's right.

928
00:42:30,519 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 4: Oh, it's it's here. I mean, we go to one

929
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,760
of the obstacle places. I've had to crawl all the

930
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,239
way up into the top of it to get my

931
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,320
son before it's it's it's here you mentioned chuck E cheese.

932
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,519
We just went for the first time this past weekend,

933
00:42:42,639 --> 00:42:44,519
and the one we went to doesn't have the big

934
00:42:44,559 --> 00:42:46,519
obstacle course, but there was a new thing that I

935
00:42:46,559 --> 00:42:49,519
certainly don't remember, where you pay for the number of

936
00:42:49,519 --> 00:42:51,480
minutes and you can just play unlimited games in that

937
00:42:51,559 --> 00:42:54,559
amount of time. Oh oh, that's We've had like twenty

938
00:42:54,599 --> 00:42:56,519
bucks for forty five minutes. And it was just like

939
00:42:56,559 --> 00:42:58,480
you get they give you a card. Everything's done on

940
00:42:58,480 --> 00:42:59,960
a card. All your tickets go on to the car

941
00:43:00,079 --> 00:43:01,679
and everything. You just walk up and tap it. And

942
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,639
play as many things as you want. So for my

943
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,079
toddler who just wants to run around and press the buttons,

944
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:07,920
you just walk up to everything and just hit it.

945
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,039
Speaker 2: And that pretty cool.

946
00:43:09,119 --> 00:43:11,079
Speaker 4: Plays for four seconds, he walks away, and then some

947
00:43:11,119 --> 00:43:13,320
other older kid comes up and plays a turn.

948
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,039
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

949
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 2: That is such good thinking, yeah, Mark, because those things

950
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,159
take so many tokens. The worst is when you have

951
00:43:21,199 --> 00:43:24,239
a birthday party there and the amount of tokens they

952
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,840
give you for to give each kid is not enough

953
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,519
to keep them busy. And the parents are not like, hey,

954
00:43:30,519 --> 00:43:33,119
you're going to need extra money for tokens for nothing.

955
00:43:33,199 --> 00:43:36,159
They're not, you know, So then you get constant kids

956
00:43:36,199 --> 00:43:39,239
coming up going I'm out of tokens, you know, and

957
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,440
then you have to buy, like you end up spending

958
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,199
another one hundred dollars just on tokens.

959
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:47,159
Speaker 3: Yes, right now, that's a great idea. God, I don't

960
00:43:47,519 --> 00:43:49,320
miss any of that at all.

961
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: I don't either. I don't either, But I'm thinking just

962
00:43:55,079 --> 00:44:00,639
about how it was just ways to spend time, Like

963
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,920
what can I do to enrich this kid's exhibit enough

964
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,079
to like get him out of the house do something

965
00:44:06,519 --> 00:44:10,039
and then have earned time to earned your chance to

966
00:44:10,079 --> 00:44:11,559
just come back home and ven right.

967
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:15,159
Speaker 4: Also, I don't know how it was for you and Sunny.

968
00:44:15,159 --> 00:44:17,280
It seems like was always just a calm little My

969
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,559
son is a run and scream kind of kid. So

970
00:44:21,039 --> 00:44:24,519
it's everything you just said, Stephanie combined with and how

971
00:44:24,559 --> 00:44:26,559
can I burn off the most amount of energy. So

972
00:44:26,599 --> 00:44:28,559
hopefully I get a nap or a kid that goes

973
00:44:28,559 --> 00:44:30,719
to sleep before Grey's Anatomy comes on or what I

974
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:32,280
holy watch, I don't actually.

975
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: Watch that shit, right, That's what I'm saying, Like the.

976
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,519
Speaker 4: Ten PM show, like whatever, nine PM show, Like, you

977
00:44:36,559 --> 00:44:38,480
just want the kid down so that you can have

978
00:44:38,639 --> 00:44:41,400
thirty five seconds of adult time before you pass out.

979
00:44:41,519 --> 00:44:43,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's exhausting when you have to when you have

980
00:44:43,559 --> 00:44:45,679
a kid that you need to just get that energy out,

981
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,440
burn burn, burn that energy off.

982
00:44:47,639 --> 00:44:50,199
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I mean that's that's all we're trying to do.

983
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,280
I mean, we were we play games where I'll go

984
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,000
stand at the front of the front lawn and my

985
00:44:54,039 --> 00:44:55,719
wife will stand at the back because it's sort of

986
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,119
at a slope and the hill will will burn off

987
00:44:58,159 --> 00:44:59,760
some energy as he runs back and forth.

988
00:45:00,039 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: Anything that's just so boring.

989
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just so mindingly boring to try to tire out.

990
00:45:06,039 --> 00:45:09,440
It's like having a dog all day where you're not

991
00:45:09,599 --> 00:45:13,039
you're not really interacting because you can't have full on

992
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:17,360
normal conversations yet because I'm too young, right, I and

993
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,159
everybody always said, like, but when they're three, everything changes.

994
00:45:20,159 --> 00:45:24,039
When they're three. I found it to be five. At five,

995
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:28,119
it was a whole different ballgame. Oh, for sure, Elbie

996
00:45:28,199 --> 00:45:31,480
was so fun at five, but not until then. And

997
00:45:31,559 --> 00:45:33,760
she was a smart little kid. But still at three,

998
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:37,960
there's not a lot of reasoning and interesting conversations that five.

999
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,400
I'm still arguing about what song to put on the

1000
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,920
radio at three, Like I want to hear the band

1001
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,159
Aid song again. I don't want to hear that song

1002
00:45:45,199 --> 00:45:49,400
ever again. But mom, Mom, they don't say butt mom,

1003
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,400
But at that point, it's just like mom, mom, band

1004
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:52,960
Aid sign?

1005
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:53,599
Speaker 4: Right.

1006
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,760
Speaker 2: I think I remember me telling you the story of

1007
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,760
when she was like, there's some kids record I had

1008
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:02,320
that had the song that goes, do you want to

1009
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:06,280
see my boo boo? Tell me? Do you want to

1010
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,000
see my boo boo? And I was pregnant with the

1011
00:46:09,039 --> 00:46:12,280
twins and not in a good mood. It was kind

1012
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,119
of early in the pregnancy. So she was like two

1013
00:46:14,159 --> 00:46:17,559
and a half sitting in her car seat in the back,

1014
00:46:18,159 --> 00:46:19,920
wanting to hear the Boo Boo song. And I did

1015
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:21,480
not want to hear that, and I'd already played it

1016
00:46:21,519 --> 00:46:23,639
for her like ten times, and I was like, if

1017
00:46:23,679 --> 00:46:25,880
I hear it one more time, I'm going to shoot myself.

1018
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,079
So I was like, no, honey, like we're gonna turn

1019
00:46:28,119 --> 00:46:31,440
on something else. And she starts crying, Oh, boo boo song.

1020
00:46:31,599 --> 00:46:33,480
I want to hear the boo boo song. I want

1021
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,760
to hear the boo boo song. And she just kept

1022
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,079
saying it and sanging it and saying it, and I

1023
00:46:38,119 --> 00:46:41,440
was getting it was irrational, but I was pregnant and

1024
00:46:41,639 --> 00:46:48,559
just I was like, study stand And then of course

1025
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:52,000
she started crying because that doesn't work, by the way,

1026
00:46:52,159 --> 00:46:55,400
that doesn't work, no words of the wise. And then

1027
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,199
I started crying, and then I was like, I'm sorry,

1028
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,199
but she was too young to understand that. I was

1029
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,840
like apologizing, and then I was like, booboo sock. I

1030
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,639
was like, here's the booboo song. And then I came

1031
00:47:07,679 --> 00:47:08,239
home and I.

1032
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:12,679
Speaker 1: Was just yeah, I yelled at Albie.

1033
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,039
Speaker 2: She wanted to hear.

1034
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 1: Them Boo song.

1035
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 2: I couldn't make it stop. I'll never forget. I was

1036
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,039
driving home from the paint store because she was too

1037
00:47:23,079 --> 00:47:24,880
young to have to drag her around on errands. But

1038
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:29,239
we were doing construction on our house, so he already

1039
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,039
stressed about that, and I have to go to the

1040
00:47:31,079 --> 00:47:34,320
paint store for the you know, yeah, I'm dragging around

1041
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:35,519
to two and a half year old. I think she

1042
00:47:35,599 --> 00:47:38,320
was past her nap. It was a freaking nightmare. Yeah, yeah,

1043
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:38,679
I see.

1044
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 3: Now this is where the air AirPods come in handy,

1045
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,760
because I had to drag an Italian to these tournaments

1046
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:45,519
and she wants to.

1047
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: Hear her music, and I'm like, you hear.

1048
00:47:48,079 --> 00:47:51,159
Speaker 3: Post alone for the eighteenth time, Like I want to

1049
00:47:51,199 --> 00:47:55,280
hear my podcast, you know. So now that comes in handy,

1050
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:56,920
except Natalian's got a blast it.

1051
00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: I can't even barely like hear It's pretty bad. But

1052
00:48:02,039 --> 00:48:04,719
I can't hear my own podcast in my ear.

1053
00:48:05,039 --> 00:48:07,159
Speaker 2: You know. It's like trying to listen to something over

1054
00:48:07,159 --> 00:48:07,880
a vacuum clean.

1055
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:08,559
Speaker 1: Right, It's.

1056
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 2: Not that I would know what that's like. What time

1057
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:14,639
is it?

1058
00:48:14,679 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: Gary?

1059
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,119
Speaker 2: We have no Stopwatch?

1060
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, all right, awesome, all right, thank you Gary

1061
00:48:20,639 --> 00:48:23,760
so much having me all right.

1062
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:24,559
Speaker 2: We love you guys.

1063
00:48:24,599 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 1: You're a parent now, don't f it up.

1064
00:48:31,039 --> 00:48:31,760
Speaker 4: Let a go.