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<v Speaker 1>Are you guys ready to make up? I hope we

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<v Speaker 1>make a love connection.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, all right, I hope.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're going to Newington. Stephanie's on the line. Second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Obviously, Stephanie, you went on a great first

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<v Speaker 1>date and now you're getting ghosted? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really get it. Okay, I went on a

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<v Speaker 3>date with this guy. It was really amazing. We went

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<v Speaker 3>to a happy hour at a little spot in the city.

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<v Speaker 3>He chose it, okay, and it was was really awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't really know what happened, and I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what's going on. All right. So the guy's name

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<v Speaker 1>is Anthony, our producer says you. You and Anthony went out,

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<v Speaker 1>You went to happy hour? How was the conversation? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it awkward? Was it flowing?

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<v Speaker 3>Fantastic? I was really able to open up, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I try to put myself out there, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's hard out here, and you know, this was kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like the first time where I really thought like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm really into this. Then there's it's easy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'd probably say.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just it was the easiest one that I

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<v Speaker 3>that I had had easy states and I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what really happened. It seems like he was into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Too well, you say it it was happy hour? Is there?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have too much to drink? Did he have

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<v Speaker 1>too much to drink? No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm not a huge drinker. I had, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, one cocktail and then I had a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of monktails.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, So that went well. And so you sent

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<v Speaker 1>him a text after the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's literally nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well interesting, So let's go. This is what we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do. We're gonna call up Anthony. I'm gonna ask

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<v Speaker 1>him about the date. You know, you're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>listening in at any point if you want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him, you can, Okay, Oh, okay, hold on. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know what could have happened or

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<v Speaker 1>how this could have gone wrong. I was really thinking

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they drank too much. But yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel like the most normal ones are

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that are not so all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hi is Anthony there?

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<v Speaker 1>This is hey Anthony. It's Courtney Anthony.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Walmart chef.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Anthony, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the radio this morning. Anthony.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, Hi, Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>So listen, Anthony, you're on something called second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You go on a first date, you get ghosted, We

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<v Speaker 1>get the answers, and that's why we're calling you because

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<v Speaker 1>Stephanie reached out to us to tell us about a

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<v Speaker 1>great date you guys went on.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah, okay, all right, So we just want you

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<v Speaker 2>to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>She told us you guys went for a happy hour.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys had great conversation. There is nothing awkward about

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<v Speaker 1>the date. In fact, she felt like a connection to you.

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<v Speaker 1>She sent you a text message and you didn't respond,

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<v Speaker 1>so she wants to just know why she's getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, like, so was it not a good date for you? No,

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<v Speaker 2>it was the date. The date was fine. I I honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I just I felt like a therapist a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>like I feel like on the date, I just I

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<v Speaker 2>learned like everything about her, like her her obsession with

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<v Speaker 2>like uh like saving uh saving pigs, and her best

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<v Speaker 2>friend who is pregnant with a married man's baby. That's

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<v Speaker 2>pretty her fear of clowns. Like all right, So what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, Anthony, when you go on a first

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<v Speaker 1>day that is kind of get to get to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other. But are you Are you saying she just

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<v Speaker 1>did a lot of talking and didn't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, I mean it was like after the date,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like I just I like I just needed

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<v Speaker 2>like like a little bit to kind of process everything. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like when I leave work after hanging out with Plaiting,

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<v Speaker 2>It's like I need to go home and have a

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<v Speaker 2>cigarette and just kind of sit there and just collect

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<v Speaker 2>my thoughts. You're ridiculous, right, And then like when I

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<v Speaker 2>got like the long text from her, it was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like, Okay, I don't know, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>this is going to be, you know, the right situation

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<v Speaker 2>for me. And uh so you know that was I

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<v Speaker 2>guess kind of my reason for all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Anthony, so it was overwhelming, you felt like a therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>She did a lot of talking, and then the text

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<v Speaker 1>message she sent to you was extremely long. Yeah, guys

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<v Speaker 1>get overwhelmed with a lot of words. They don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of vocabulary, no, so you got to keep

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<v Speaker 1>it short. Can listen Anthony Stephanie. Stephanie's on the line,

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<v Speaker 1>Anthony Stephanie, Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you talk about a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you try to get to know Anthony or did

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<v Speaker 1>you just talk about yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't I guess maybe. Yeah, I guess things

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<v Speaker 3>have just been a little bit crazy recently. So when

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of felt, I don't know, it just really

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable and really vivy, I guess I just went on

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit too long. Now i'm thinking back to it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's that's valid. Okay. I'm really sorry about that. That's

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<v Speaker 3>so unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you accept your apology, Anthony?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's like, if we're going to these lengths

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<v Speaker 2>to reach out, Yes, of course I'm going to accept,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, her apology.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. And so then, Stephanie, when you send a text

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<v Speaker 1>message to a guy, you have to keep it simple,

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<v Speaker 1>not a lot of adjectives, smallers, yeah, measures, easier the better.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Okay, I'm getting that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm getting that.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to work on that, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, this is what I want to do. I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to offer to pay for the next date, because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like if I ever to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date, I would be nervous and talk a lot too,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wouldn't you know, I feel like you were

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<v Speaker 1>just full of nerves. I want to pay for the

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<v Speaker 1>next date. If you guys agree to go on another one,

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<v Speaker 1>to give it another try.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, that'd be cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Anthony, I'm definitely I'm definitely open to it. I really