Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice
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Speaker 2: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you for getting your pot on.
Thanks for telling a friend. One at a time, we
build the pirate ship. That's right, Danny's here. Have you
ever served jury duty? No, I have, Drey, I have
duty tomorrow.
Speaker 3: Do you So I've been. I was on the list.
Speaker 4: And then I called through it and I ended up
not getting called.
Speaker 2: So my number is like, yeah, I'm there, and I
got to show up at a certain time, and I
don't know whether to. Uh. I think I'm just gonna
let the process play out and see what happens. I
don't know. Kevin just had it. Yeah, but he got off,
didn't he?
Speaker 3: Yeah? How claimed racism?
Speaker 2: No he didn't.
Speaker 3: No, I'm just joking that.
Speaker 2: I don't think he could do that. I think I
think years ago I had a relative who did the thing. No,
who said something like, uh, well, if he didn't do this,
I'm sure he did something else. Like I'm pretty sure
to get out of it. Yeah, just terrible, terrible.
Speaker 3: It's terrible.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but uh yeah, because he served.
Speaker 3: His jury duty the same time as our listener suits.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well so I'm like going Apparently.
Speaker 3: Suits like suits is Asian.
Speaker 4: So he pretended to understand the English and he got
up for real something like that.
Speaker 2: Okay, but wouldn't it be intriguing to sort of be
on interesting? We discussed this, Yeah, yeah, we discussed how like, yeah,
if you found a good one, yeah, I had a
good one.
Speaker 4: There are some people who actually I think I mentioned this,
who actually like being on Jerry's and they have to
tell them no, we we You've solved enough problems, right,
you know, because people like there's some people who show
up in court like, well, we used to do what
you do at the courthouse.
Speaker 3: I interviewed a guy who.
Speaker 4: Just shows up just to watch because yeah, it's a
live action soap opera.
Speaker 3: Baby, this judge, no best to ride this judge. Oh no,
you don't talk back in his courtroom.
Speaker 2: I forgot about that. Yeah. Yeah, so I don't know
what I'm expecting or or not. And uh, can I
hang on one second, hang.
Speaker 3: On, get a phone call.
Speaker 2: Yeah, buddy, I'm doing a podcast. Yeah, I know. I'm sorry.
Can I go to AJ's house and hang out with
them while you're gone? How are you getting there? Ride? Possibly?
What do you mean possibly?
Speaker 3: I got my skateboard.
Speaker 4: They said I could come over, and then they have
to ask somebody thinking from getting like.
Speaker 2: Aprils, No, just stay home? Why can't you stay home?
I don't want to have fun with the homies.
Speaker 3: Because it's like your father he knows, yes, an audience.
Speaker 2: It's just like, but buddy, I got ah.
Speaker 3: I want to have home.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm I'm I'm working understeing. You understand What's
I'm doing here? I'm working? And then drug free homies
this is yeah, this is getting you okay, So then
we're gonna go with the with.
Speaker 3: No want stay home? Jameson Iran might attack call me
back dad.
Speaker 2: This is like, do you see what you boy? Do
you see what happens in my life lately?
Speaker 4: That's just thirty seconds of a glimpse into the life
of pill Mora.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Just that's a small glimpse. And I'm trying to
balance it all and I feel like a lot of
plates in the air, a lot of plates in the
air with the sticks.
Speaker 3: Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Dan, Holy count yourself?
Speaker 3: Thank you?
Speaker 2: Yes, well, I try I have t from hang on,
he's on. Yes, hello, buddy, Why hang on a second?
Hang on, I can't hear you. What AJ's mom is
doing a little movie night thing and asked if I
could come stay.
Speaker 3: The night and then come home in the morning.
Speaker 2: I'll have a ride.
Speaker 3: Back home school, please.
Speaker 2: I was answering a different question. Hang off, Uh, No,
school is done. What do I answer to this? You
know what I mean? Here's where I feel guilty. I'm
not like I'd rather you just kind of lock it down.
But it's also summer. Yeah, you got a buddy, it's
warm out. Okay, friend, it's that time of year. You
know what I mean, going into your sophomore gear. You're
already playing the sophomore card. I'm a sophomore now man
pass my exams, letting him practice drive and stuff.
Speaker 3: I gotta d my basketball.
Speaker 2: What do I do here? Do I Let him go?
Speaker 3: Let him go, Let him go. It's summer. As long
as he gets home in the morning and an appropriate time.
Speaker 2: How am I gonna know I'm not gonna be there?
I gotta go big get down to Jersey.
Speaker 5: Ud.
Speaker 3: You gotta have faith, Billy.
Speaker 2: Okay, what time are you coming back in the morning?
Speaker 3: Circle of trust.
Speaker 2: You got to be in by ten. If you're a
home you got what.
Speaker 3: I'll bring my key to just in case.
Speaker 2: You got to be home by ten. I will not
be there, but you have to be there nine Central.
All right, goodbye.
Speaker 4: I thought he'd be home watching the NBA Finals. Must
be a pro basketball player. He's got to learn.
Speaker 2: What man, did you see Kevin Durant? Yeah, and he
almost seemed relieved that he's going to hear.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hey, would you want to play at Phoenix?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I heard there was locker room drama.
I I have no idea wherever Kevin.
Speaker 3: Goes, Kevin Durant goes the drop of Fallow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 4: And I've seen people on both sides saying Rockets won
this trade.
Speaker 3: Sun's won this trade. Nobody knows anything. Shut up.
Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of fun to speculate.
Speaker 4: Well, he's at he was at a Fanatics They had
this big Fanatics convention New York.
Speaker 2: By the way, I never heard of Fanatics fest Fanetics.
Speaker 3: Fanatics material is garbage.
Speaker 2: But let's go with This was amazing.
Speaker 4: The festival was fantastic because they're stipping all that money
and like actually quality material.
Speaker 3: I don't know if they have. I mean guy in
Buffalo who went because of course.
Speaker 2: And why why why do you do that? Why do
you why do you have to do that? Why you
have to do that? They even had he was on
Best Stressed Fan contest and they had a fan looking
like she jumped through a table. She's like got the
table around her waist and legs coming out the other
side like she jumped through the table in Zumbas. Yea, yeah, Zubas.
Speaker 3: The Buffalo has kept Zubas in business the last.
Speaker 2: I never say that, but they had. I mean, this
looked like really cool because I'm going a lot of
this ship to go it's lame, it's lame. I'm like,
this is this was amazing.
Speaker 3: They did go all out for it.
Speaker 2: They did.
Speaker 3: John Cino was there, A lot of people were.
Speaker 2: There, Tom tom Brady was everywhere. Tom Brady sat down
on a live taping of Lebron James to called the cut,
yes or something like that. Yeah, but it's supposed to
be like, you know a bunch of guys sitting around
a barbershop talking. I think it's an HBO show and.
Speaker 3: Drink wine and they talk about whatever seriously.
Speaker 2: I know, I know, but let's see this. Yeah, they
had Lebron James, Tom Brady, Kevin Durant, Travis Scott, jay Z,
Derek Jeter, Peyton Manning, Eli Manning. I think. I think
Tom Brady is a joke like Burned a Giants, Eli
Jersey something else. But it actually looks for Victor Women.
Yama is going to be there, it was there, Jaden Daniels,
Joe Burrow, Kevin Hart, I show.
Speaker 3: Speed, Kevin Hard, Alway sneaks in on those.
Speaker 2: Kevin Costner, Rob Gronkowski, Rodriguez, Alex Rodriguez, Drewski who I'm
not sure if you're familiar with. Uh, this is kind
of a comedian, Uh, Henrik Lunguist, I meet John Cena,
as you said, Cody Rhodes, the Undertaker, Rhea Ripley, Jay Usso,
Jamar Chase. It's just amazing. But listen to this. This
is on I think it's called The Cut Lebron James
show that's on HBO and Tom Brady with Lebron sitting there,
I don't forget he's friends with Michael Jordan. Tom Brady
and Michael Jordan are are good friends.
Speaker 4: He's talking like Jordan went out of his way to
do a piece about tom Brady and his greatness. He did, yes, okay, yes,
just to stick it to Lebron.
Speaker 2: Probably maybe maybe to do that. Yeah, he threw a
bit of a curveball to Michael Jordan.
Speaker 3: Oh did he?
Speaker 2: Yes? He did? Okay, because he says this, it's a
little achoey, but we'll listen to tom Brady talking about Lebron.
Speaker 1: Him and you know, the different teams that he's been on,
and he's always done things the right way. He's always
risen above all the noise and the bs and continue
to deliver.
Speaker 2: So your witness the greatest ever. Oh right now, oh
you know, right now, Michael Jordan's typing up an invitation
for game of one on one and the loser has
to buy dinner forever. I took that personally, Yes, but
he did. He said that he is the basketball goat?
Did he not just say that? They're yeah saying he
played for all these different teams. He was always kind
of the center point the Olympics. All the pressure that
was on him making these choices. You think he's the
greatest ever do it? No.
Speaker 4: I think he's the most valuable, but I don't think
he's the greatest. Well, it's interesting because people think that's
a cop out.
Speaker 3: It's not.
Speaker 4: It's it's actually pretty fair to say that. But I mean,
there's one thing about Lebron James that nobody wants to
talk about. L Sonnen was on Patrick but David's show
and said that he believes that Lebron has a little
help from some friends. And I'm not talking about like,
I'm not talking about like the banana boat buddies.
Speaker 3: I'm talking about something you can get in a bottle.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Maybe because everybody else he's played with is long retired.
Speaker 2: I like when I see guys from different sports, you know,
greatness recognizes greatness. I mean, here's something else that came
out at this fanatics fest, and I meant to grab
the audio of this. I did not know that Tom
Brady and Peyton Manning had become pretty tight at the
peak of their careers. They were both NFL MVPs at
the time, and they would talk quite a bit and
Tom Brady, I guess Manning invited Brady down to Knoxville
and said, why don't we work out together Over a weekend,
they played golf, they went out to eat, and they
threw passes to high school players and the kids. All
their phones were locked up and they were sworn to
never talk about this. And so could you imagine being
a high school fucking kid catching passes from Tom Brady
and Peyton man.
Speaker 4: Well, we just talked to one like five minutes ago.
I think I'm sure, Dad, Are you sure we can't
go play ketch with temper? I mean someone, yeah and
so and so. I mean, how amazing would that be?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I couldn't keep up.
Speaker 2: Mouth shit, couldn't possibly.
Speaker 4: He realized, I have to probably do a light detective
test beforehand to see if you would tell anybody.
Speaker 2: I have no idea pass. Did that ever get out?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: Did you even know these guys hung out?
Speaker 4: No, because the last that I had heard, they've always
had mutual respect for each other.
Speaker 3: That that's always been there.
Speaker 4: But like Peyton Manning, like the story got out where
there was an email that Tom Brady sent to a
relative or somebody, and it got out where he says,
you know, Peyton's best man ears are behind him. Mine
are still coming, man, I'm still going. Yeah, this is
like when he was like thirty nine and he ended
up planning till he was forty five, Right, so he
wasn't wrong. I mean, by the way, Brady was better
than Manning. I don't care what anybody says.
Speaker 3: Don't.
Speaker 4: Let's not get stupid here. But I mean I didn't
think that they were close. Usually guys like that, like
Ali and Fraser, had a lot of respect for each other,
but they could never be in the same room together, exactly.
Speaker 2: Jordan and okay, Jordan and anybody.
Speaker 3: Broxyship for anybody else. Larry and Michael, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: Larry and Magic Magic Johnson and Larry Bird hated each
other until they had to tape a Converse commercial together.
Speaker 3: Then they started eating together and started to learn a
little bit. But and then they had mutual respect, became
really really good friends and had a healthy rivalry. But
they hated each other for years.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, but let's go with this for just
a second. Now, you've got so this all came out.
That's why I thought this fanatics fest looked like the
coolest thing. Maybe I only saw the cool moments. It
looked impressive and during this, Peyton Manning is on stage
and Tom Brady and Peyton's laying out, how you know,
he goes, I said to Tom, let's keep it subtle,
and he goes here he comes flying in on mister
Craft's private jet, like real subtle. He's like, you know,
poking fun at him, and he said, but it was
a great weekend. And Tom says, I still have my
notes from that weekend, and he said, one of the
things that I loved was it was very hard. And
it sounds like it makes me wonder if Tom Brady
initiated this. Tom said, I was always wanted to learn
and be better. And as Peyton said, at this point,
Peyton had won an NFL MVP, and so had Brady,
and he said, Brady's going, you know, Belichick liked to
recruit young guys, and he would bring in young quarterbacks.
He goes, So there was nobody that I could learn from.
There was nobody who had experience that was around, that
had seen things, even been on sidelines.
Speaker 3: I think it was he broke at every step.
Speaker 2: So he's like, I wanted to find that. And the
only one I could kind of connect with and talk
about these things was Peyton, and we went and we
actually learned from each other. He goes, granted, we kind
of held some things back, but we we really Yeah,
and he go and he said, I'll never forget that
whole weekend. But the high school kids, I'm like, how
fucking cool? So this fanatics fest to me looked amazing.
It just looks so freaking cool. And then the name
of the show is the shot, by the way for Lebron.
But let's go back to the fact that he calls
Lebron the ghot, the greatest of all time. And what
he said was he was on different teams the pressure
of this. Would we have said that Tom Brady is
the greatest to ever do it? Or would there have
been more of an argument? It was the system, It
was Belichick, It was this until Tom went to Tampa
and he became Tampa Tom and that And I granted,
what was that the COVID year? Yes, but they won, Yes,
and the game was just they won.
Speaker 4: They humiliated Patrick Mahomes, Andy Reid and the Chiefs, the
defending champions.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So my question to you is does that make
him the greatest? That he did it in more than
one spot. Does it make Lebron the greatest, that he
did it in more than one spot. Don't forget Michael
stayed just with and back then it wasn't common for
guys to be traded as much. I mean, I've I've
never seen we talk about Kevin Durant, that guy said
he was the Nets, He's here, he's everywhere, he was
the Warriors for a little while, he was Oklahoma City
and then you know, he's been everywhere. So but it
didn't seem to happen as much when MJ was playing.
So but you get in that system, you get in
you know what I mean, you get to build them.
And we say this even with college basketball, sometimes the
teams that have been together the longest do the best
in the tournament because they know their system and they
trust each other. Same thing I would say with anybody,
and you get, you know, all of a sudden, they
started to buy into Phil Jackson's whole thing. And he
stayed with the team and stayed with the system, and
he always had Pippin and I guess you could say
he always had Gronk because Gronk did go to Tampa too.
But just interesting, I.
Speaker 4: Got to give the non that Jordan in basketball, Brady
in football. Because here's the thing, Jordan and Brady did
not have the control that guys like Peyton Manning lot.
Peyton Manning got chased out of Indianapolis because he won.
He was basically thought of himself like a part owner.
And Bill Polly and the general manager used to be
in Buffalo, enabled him. He enabled him to do that
to the point where Jim Mercy is like, I need
to I need my team.
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UK has announced yes, a man on pornography depicting violent acts.
Particularly they're saying strangulation. Some people like to be lightly choked.
I'm just saying I don't mean to embarrass you, but
you have talked about it openly on this podcast.
Speaker 3: Somebody wants to ask me to do that.
Speaker 2: Yes, and you said, like what, I can't do that?
And I have thought long and hard could I do it?
And the answer I keep coming back to after much
deep reflection is fuck. Yes.
Speaker 4: What's funny that the UK is banning this stuff, but
yet they're letting like people just well, the laws are
kind of just suggestions.
Speaker 2: Now, it seems well as part of a broader effort
to combat violence against women and girls. The measure follows
the Independent Porn Review. The Independent Porn Review, how do
you get on that panel? It's barrenness Gabby Burton, which
highlighted how such content normalizes dangerous sexual behaviors. I will
say it'll be part of their crime and policing builds,
an amendment, whatever, whatever. I don't know if I like
this or I don't like this, well, I mean I
don't like this. I'm gonna say it right now. I
don't like it because it treads too dangerously close to
government censorship of adult media. Now, I don't know how
England does things. This is the UK, but I would
say here in the United States, you can't. I would
rather see the I don't know if they're the government
or or if it's if there's public schools over there,
but but some kind of sexual education because I do
think this, I think we have I've called it hyper connectivity.
But pretty much anything you want to see at any moment,
you can see anywhere. And that includes porn, and a
lot of the porn if it's like this, if it's violent,
if it's whatever. And I don't know what pops up
on a lot of porn sites right away, but let's
say it is. And we see the choking in the
in the rough sex and you know you're I don't know,
putting a ballgag or whatever. H Well, that's just not normal.
It's not it's not normal. It's not intimately and I
think it takes expectation away. But if you're a thirteen, fourteen,
fifteen year old and this is your exposure to what
sexual content is norm right? And so how do you
combat that? And is there a way to constantly talk
to what ahead you put this clav the web?
Speaker 3: But if you're not, you have to click the buck.
Speaker 2: But do you understand what I'm saying? And I don't.
I don't like to be that that guy, but I go,
if the government were to do something, should the government
do This is.
Speaker 4: Where a slippery slope argument is what it is. It is,
but it's hard to legislate morality, is it. As much
as I hate the idea of this stuff going on,
you have to cut I hate because like, hey, we
could ban this, we could ban this, we could ban this,
because now all of a sudden, it's all the If
it's a morality judgment on these laws, then all of
a sudden, everything is subject to the temperature of the time.
Speaker 2: I don't think they can even have fifty shades of
gray over there. It be fifty shades of minorly disappointed.
That's the other thing it. But you know, is a
ban necessary to safeguard women and girls, I don't think so.
I think you have to have real conversations and I
and how many are getting hurt that way, I don't know.
I guess how you figured it out. Is one's too
many if one actually died or something, that's horrible. But
I think like constantly trying to open that communication with
with young kids and go that's really not normal and
you always have to have consent and some people may
like things like that. We've had Laura sit here and
talk very openly about liking that sort of stuff. And
I think she talked about like being slapped in the
face or something.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, look, but different different strokes to love, to
have different strokes for different folks. Right, So there's the thing.
But when it's all you see, it becomes a steady
diet of that, you start to think that's the way
it needs to be done, and it's not right.
Speaker 3: It's yeah, that's all.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't I hate the idea of the of
like pornography in general, let alone the violence, yes, yes,
But I mean but the idea of banning it is
also can lead to like what else you're going to ban?
Speaker 2: Here?
Speaker 3: Well, look, yeah, there's a verse in the Bible.
Speaker 4: We talked about this, right, We could not you in
the Bible, in the Old Testament, I forgot the verse
about the word.
Speaker 3: The term is called pisseth against the wall, meaning men.
Speaker 4: Okay, And we couldn't you brought this up. We could
not bring that verse up on a radio station. But
it's in the Bible, right, right, So we got to
ban the Bible now, right? Do you see where this
can go?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 4: But that's my point, right, yeah, yeah, I mean, like
those slippery slopes.
Speaker 2: That's where I always saw as a product the things
that there are things that I don't like about free speech,
but I love the idea of free speech. Ye, therefore
you have to tolerate the guy who tells you how
to build a bomb or whatever that book is, or
whatever these things are. Maybe that maybe we've changed laws
a little bit. Maybe that's a bad example, but those
are the types of things that I think you have
to and the only way to combat there is a
comprehensive sex education, that's it. How do you do that
and have real conversations? I don't know. Do you have
porn stars come in to your class? How great would
that be? How fucking great would that be? Every fourteenth
they would not hear one thing, this big titted milk says.
Speaker 3: Remember when Dave Chappelle had that bit. Modern times require
modern solutions.
Speaker 4: Have those two oldest teachers at the school have sex
in mayon days in front of in front of the
entire school.
Speaker 3: How do you prevent teenage pregnancy? But that's right, But
that's his point, that was his point.
Speaker 4: Though you ain't ever gonna want to try that, right, exactly, No.
Speaker 2: But we have bodily urges right, And a lot of
times they happen more when you're younger. People weren't living
as long. I think Romeo and Juliet was supposed to
be like a thirteen and fourteen year old. Yeah, they
were really young, right, I comparison to today they were
middle aged then, right, maybe most people don't lived at
twenty a few more years or whatever it was, you
know what I mean? Right, So here we go. But
it is that thing like I've been thinking too, and
it happened a little bit today. I worry about the
constant consumption of stuff all the time, Like especially with
my kid. I hear the phone on while he's in
the shower, he walks out, he's on the phone with
somebody and a video is playing. He's seriously And then I.
Speaker 4: Actually caught myself today watching my phone while watching television,
and I'm like, yeah, really did.
Speaker 2: Right, Really, I've done it. I've done it.
Speaker 4: Because you got bored with the show, not just or
you got to tell this wasn't like my wife watching
something I don't want to watch on my phone or no,
this was me by myself watching television and then watching
my phone while watching television because the television wasn't enough, like.
Speaker 2: What are you doing? Damn? But if you're sitting there
and your phone's next to you, and Greg Connors likes
to send things on Instagram, Yeah, and you go to
look at what Greg sent you while you're watching TV
and maybe it's a sporting event. Yeah, but we have
we're split attention all the time. There's gotta be a way.
And there's a guy I would like to talk to
you about this. I don't know if you're familiar with God.
What's the guy's name, cal somebody, younger guy, but he
has like solutions to digital detox. And today I took
Jamison to the pool or for at least forty minutes,
nobody was on the phone. Nobody was on the phone,
and we actually were talking and conversing, and I said
to him something on the way out. I go, God,
that phone never stops. He goes, yeah, he goes, I
guess I'm on it twelve hours a day.
Speaker 3: Oh, you can check your phone.
Speaker 2: And I go, I said, that's it, because I think
it's way more. And he's like, well, you know, sometimes
I'm making music and stuff and he is, yeah, and
he is, and he listens to like I can hear
them the rap that he's creating, but I'm like, I
don't A. Cal Newport is the guy's name. Okay, he's
like a kind of a modern philosopher and talks a
lot about this sort of stuff and digital detox and that,
and look, we have dopamine loops. I mean, these the
people who created this stuff. There was a science of
what went on into the screen.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well there's stories that like at a Google, at
Facebook and meta at any digital time.
Speaker 2: It's your business. You're trying to keep people right.
Speaker 4: But they tell them like, we don't have our we
don't let our kids online, we don't let our kids
use this stuff because we know exactly what we're doing,
you know. And it's like the thing about dopamine is
that dopamine is supposed to be earned, and when it's unearned,
now you're it's empty. It's like empty calorie snacks for
your brain. And you just continuously like are searching for
that dopamine and you have to keep raising it and
raising it, and if it doesn't meet those heights, you
get depressed.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 4: That's why, like you know, like like you guys like
doctor Jordan Peterson and others are telling men don't watch pornography, don't.
Speaker 3: To it because it's unearned.
Speaker 4: You're getting used to doing something without going out and
getting a date, meeting a woman, going through the exercise
of actually becoming a man in society.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but sometimes, you know, sometimes I just had to
here's my argument to doctor Peters. Have you had to
go on a date? Doctor?
Speaker 3: Have you sat through some of this my wife?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I got it. I'm sure she does.
You're very interesting in intellectual managers to work every year
sometimes the path of least resistance. And by the way,
we have talked about on this podcast, what's healthy for
the prostate? I think we said twice a week. I
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COUNTY where i said, small town.
Speaker 3: Big, PROBLEMS yeah i know what. THAT'S like i grew
Up In.
Speaker 2: Silver, CREEK well i grew Up In, Pine, plant yeah
so we know. The pain i'm trying to REMEMBER if
i ever saw stuff like, this though, OKAY not i
mean just or heard of things. LIKE this i don't
remember too much of that, going On but i'm sure different.
THINGS did i just don't remember hearing. About it this
happened Back on, june fifteenth the Year Of, our lord twenty.
Twenty five the guy's Name Is richard ashmead Now, ashmean mead.
Excuse me ashmead is sixty seven. Years old it's been
arrested for criminal mischief in the.
Speaker 3: FOURTH degree i know they went down.
Speaker 2: That PHONE oh i. Didn't, either oh and harassment in
the second degree over a two day. Domestic, dispute now this.
Is fantastic this is a fight that you and your
your significant. Other have it starts like On, a saturday
and it continues when you Wake up. SUNDAY morning, i
mean you are still boiling. About it you went to,
bed mad you wake up even angrier. Or try you
start to think you're gonna. Forgive you maybe you wake
up and go it was kind, of dumb and then
you see her and she says something, to you and
you just go's, Fucking on jesus.
Speaker 3: Set.
Speaker 2: Off uh he allegedly destroyed the victim's phone because he
picked it up and he just threw it into the.
Coffee craft something's bruin and then then they got into
some kind of. Physical CONFRONTATION and i can't, picture this
but allegedly she was kicking to get away. From Him
so i'm assuming that she's on the ground probably and he.
Pants her he like she got out of the, she,
was yeah out of the. PANTS completely, i mean is you.
Shouldn't scenario it's just this Is A cohen, brothers movie,
so right it's so she's out. Of that then then
he sprayed her with a. Garden hose she got in
the car and there was a crack in, the window
so he was giving her a shitty car wash Through
the the, problem is how do you talk seriously about
situations like this that are domestic violence and and, it's
horrible but they have elements of. Dark comedy do you
Understand what? I'm saying there are elements of dark comedy
without minimizing. The harm how do you talk about it
because that's. PSYCHOLOGICALLY damaging, i mean, you know you're, pissed
off you throw her phone in. The craft then she's getting,
some argument maybe she's kicking at you when you're just
trying to drag or. Who knows, next thing, you know
her pants are off and then you're putting a garden
hoades into the crack of the. WINDOW sprainer i. DON'T
know i, always go what does it say about the
power dynamics when something as simple, as coffee a garden
hose or all become part of a. DOMESTIC dispute, i
mean that's a. Violent episode you nose, were weapons you're.
Speaker 3: On. HER yeah i always like to be the defense attorney.
Speaker 2: FOR this i. Don't know and why does it seem
LIKE because i, Don't think like my grandparents, were loud
and they would yell at, each other and then, you
know you'd hear my my grandmother, just screamed, drop it, Drop,
It eddy just, Drop it eddy sat. And that but
that was THE extenting i don't remember them turning the
hose on. Each other they didn't. Get violent, drop well
it would turn to a.
Speaker 3: Honeymooner's episode, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah but it wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Get. Violent no but in, small towns it's like these
things HAPPENED because, I thought i. Do, remember okay here's
one from my. Small town it was the same family
that dad got drunk and insisted It was christmas and
the kids got on the bus with all their. NEW
gifts i think we talked about that and we made
we Made the hoffman calendar in, our House like easter
Was in february and, you know different. Like that but,
he now this is. Pretty redneck they were at a, bowling,
alley okay And mister hoffman got, very drunk and they
had kids that were kind of. Spread out they had
two girls and then a boy who was a twin
that was, my friend and his twin sister had been
killed in a tragic accident with a school bus a
little back. On her that's why they always told you
don't walk behind the. School bus it was his sister that.
Speaker 3: That, happened oh that's.
Speaker 2: For real. And uh and then they Had two they had,
twins again twin boys that were eight Years after jack,
so like and they were friends with my brother who
was eight years younger. Than me and she's at the
bowling alley and the twins are young at, the time
they're probably like eight. Or nine and she. Went out
bob didn't want. To leave he was having a great
time bowling and drinking beers and having a. Good time
so she went out to the car and she wrote
on lipstick on, the windshield, Fuck. YOU bob i took
the kids AND so i guess she got. A ride i,
don't know but that. Was legendary it's out. The neighborhood, Fuck,
YOU bob i took the kids. In, lipstick now now
that is that not? Small town is that not? Fucking?
Speaker 3: Small yeah it's like that's like in school the. Next
morning that's.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah NOTHING says i care like panting and giving
your car the settest. CAR wash i, mean this, THIS couple,
i mean, who knows but the guy's. SIXTY seven a
lot of passion for a sixty seven year, old man that's. Some.
Speaker 3: Passion shit or have you gotten to the age where you?
Speaker 2: Just, caring, well, no no, you do because if you,
didn't care you're not. Doing anything you're just sitting in your.
Speaker 3: Easy chair you're Pretending al bundy.
Speaker 4: Not caring i'm talking ABOUT like i don't care if
the cops come and.
Speaker 2: Get, me well that may, be that, you know that
could Be the but you're also almost seventy. Years old
you still got a lot, of passion still a lot
of a lot of fire in, the belly dropping phones,
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Speaker 3: The best time to.
Speaker 2: Be, ALIVE well i think that it's a lot of, people,
who yeah are going back to a.
Speaker 3: Simpler time just enough technology.
Speaker 2: We can watch, it ALL but i, mean streaming and
then there's probably social media pages about it that you
can get on and it's, it's weird but, IT'S uh i.
Don't know retro marketing is like fueling. THIS trend i
kind of.
Speaker 3: Like it yeah.
Speaker 4: IT is i mean like even like commercials now they're
gearing car commercials towards, you know using nostalgia'll e sell cars.
Speaker 3: And Stuff even.
Speaker 2: HERE'S What i i'm not a big. Fan of i'm
not a big fan. Of, Reboots yeah i'm. Not, either
no when we would like try to, recreate SOMETHING and
i think they did That WITH. MAGNUM p i never
watched The New. Magnum pi they did That with dallas. Was,
Terrible yeah BUT but i love what they Did With
Top gun maverick well because it was picking up the
Story where blast. LEFT off i. Really LIKE although i
didn't watch the, ENTIRE thing i. FELL out i like
the way they did it With The karate kid where
they pick up the story, and now like, You Know
daniel sun is the owner of a, car dealership big
car dealership In. Southern CALIFORNIA and i, Love THAT and,
I go, i like that's a continuation of. The story
i'm cool. With that isn't?
Speaker 3: That, Cool yeah i'm cool. With that The story i'm
not cool with like, Redoing.
Speaker 2: This no redoing The story i'm not a. Fan OF
and i can't think of movies or anything that was done.
SIGNIFICANTLY better i guess you, could say what Was The
Lady Gaga bradley. Cooper remake, OH yeah i know what you're.
Speaker 4: Talking About The.
Speaker 3: Stars, born yeah that's the third time that they've. Done, that,
yeah yeah at Least.
Speaker 2: Right, Chris Christopher chris Christopher And. Barbara, streis yeah and,
even there like that was. PRETTY good i mean it's
had an odd ending, to me. But, whatever UH but
i go. Not such i'm not. SO sure i like
the remake of THINGS like i wouldn't want to see
a Remake like superman he did in nineteen, seventy. NINE
nineteen i leave. It There christopher reeve. Looked great it Was.
Speaker 4: Fantas batman they keep Like redoing batman in. Different versions
how Many different batman do?
Speaker 2: WE need i.
Speaker 4: Can't watch it's not Like the, bond films where like
they were Continuing different. Bond, stories no we got to
Redo bat we gotta bring Back, the joker we got
to bring Back, the riddler we got to bring Back.
Speaker 3: The penguin different actors.
Speaker 2: Love to go, to movies loved going. To movies There's. Only,
Blockbuster yeah Friday.
Speaker 4: Night blockbuster they made that place smell like a, movie theater, pod,
carpet candy.
Speaker 3: Overpriced stuff, but man when those new movies came out
On a, friday night you knew what you.
Speaker 2: Were doing AFTER T g i, f, yeah yeah and
you get.
Speaker 3: The.
Speaker 2: Pizza yeah There's only there's A movie i'm really looking
forward to seeing in the THEATER and i think it's
out this. Coming week IT'S the f. One movie, OH
okay i want to see this movie. So BADLY and
i don't know. What's, cars yeah but it's like it's not.
JUST cars, i mean this is Like the DRIVER that
i always think that. THE drivers i don't know that
they know a lot. ABOUT cars i.
Speaker 3: Think they just have great teams around them.
Speaker 2: And they're and, they're fearless like they're they're. Fucking fearless
you have you have to have nerves or steel to
get BEHIND the i, always say not even nerves. Are
steel you have to have no. Nerve endings these guys
just like to drive like that and to understand the
instrument in, the CAR like. I love netflix. Has it
it's only, one episode but It's About, total wolf who
OWNS the f one Team for mercedes or is the
head OF the f one Team for mercedes and one
of THE best f one drivers decided to leave to
go to Like maybe penske or somebody probably go offering
him a lot. Of money so this guy goes and
takes a seventeen year old kid and drops him in
the seat Of the mercedes and, it's like it's kind
of it's this cool thing seeing this kid, who's seventeen eighteen.
Years old it is debut race finished in the. Top
five nobody's ever. Done, that like do you realize how?
Fucking BALLSY and, i, go yeah it's usually, younger guys.
OLDER guys i think they start to realize there is
an end, to this and so you just can't have
the same level of competitiveness as used, to it or
you're gonna end Up Like, Dale, earnhardt right you Know what.
I'm saying and when, you're young why do we send
young guys? To war why DO we i would love
to know the average age of the pilot that drove
flew thirty eight hours to BOMB the u Was in iran's. Nuclear,
CAPABILITIES possibly i don't know whether they actually had them.
Or not but the, point is like young and that's what,
we WANT and. I go but this is about This Is,
brad pitt who's sixty.
Speaker 3: Don't, look sixty but yeah.
Speaker 2: He's, sixty yeah he's sixty.
Speaker 3: Years, old yeah.
Speaker 2: So, cruise yeah oh they. Look great you KNOW what, i, Supplements,
buddy yeah wind sprints and moisturized and. Wind sprints that's what.
They do and so THIS is I Think brad pittlack
smoked and drank and did.
Speaker 5: All.
Speaker 3: Kinds, YEAH yeah, I, Don't, TOM no i don't think, he's, LIKE.
Speaker 2: Well i just. Saw something, they said if you want
to lose, twenty pounds, ah SHIT did i just? Lose
my it was this thing and, they said give. Up
alcohol if you want to lose twenty pounds in, fifty
days give. Up alcohol alcohol takes away. Your testosterone buddy? Did?
That yeah and it worked and uh? It. Did yeah,
oh yeah. Just alcohol.
Speaker 4: Just, alcohol well this was a bunch of, other things
like he, dropped alcohol he lost. Twenty pounds. Quit drinking
really it's, a, pilot yeah just like because like these guys,
are flying so like that's the.
Speaker 3: Dun fly what do? YOU do i like drinking a
lot of people.
Speaker 2: LIKE drinking i.
Speaker 4: Enjoy it there's two Things, that like there's, this Woman Doctor,
amy morris she. Beat cancer, she says there's two things
that are guaranteed to eventually. Cause, cancer, alcohol alcohol. Processed meat,
OH man i, LOVE pepper, i know no fucking.
Speaker 3: Love bacon are you?
Speaker 2: Kidding? Me yes what about? Uncured bacon is that the?
SAME thing i.
Speaker 3: DON'T know i gotta go into the hood and that.
Speaker 2: SAYS uncured i don't know what. That means don't know
what that. Means, either Yeah so i'm thinking that Apple not,
COME on i, could. YEAH uncured i, don't DRINK but
i mean, like that but like.
Speaker 4: The bacon, come on people, love BACON and i love,
you know. Brizio ham yeah it's.
Speaker 2: Good.
Speaker 3: Too, YEAH yeah i mean. WHO doesn't i loved out
going Down to danny's getting a nice. BIG sub i, ALWAYS.
Speaker 2: Go I get. Danny's. Favorite yeah make, that, process yes all,
process men even the. Bread's, Processed probably i'm uh those Things.
Speaker 3: That yeah that's what that's what, causes cancer according.
Speaker 2: To, her well it's. It's, SUGAR yeah, I mean i
can't imagine.
Speaker 3: There's nothing healthy.
Speaker 2: In, ALCOHOL okay i have a family group. Text, already, no,
no no like it's, my mom, my dad, my brother and. My.
Speaker 3: Sister right that's.
Speaker 2: YOU know i think maybe one of my nieces on
there and then all three of. My sons So yesterday
jackson puts up there that he's going to do the
nine to nine to nine Challenge, nine beers Nine, hot
dogs nine innings of, a Game only jackson's doing it
at home while.
Speaker 5: Watching them he's.
Speaker 2: Doing it, hang on he's doing it. At home is
he Gonna get he's doing it at home?
Speaker 4: At uh is he Gonna hire it's like somebody from
the stadium to come To.
Speaker 3: Hot dogs jacks to. Get you is he gonna get
the guy with like?
Speaker 2: The? Conehead wait so, He yeah so he's doing that right,
and uh he's doing it while Watching the. Mets game
let me SEE if i can. Find, it uh maybe
they deleted IT because i said something that, he's okay. He.
GOES uh i accomplished one of my top three. ACHIEVEMENTS
tonight i successfully completed the ninety nine. Nine challenge i'm
so proud. Of you? What's that this is? My, SISTER
wait i know, nine years, nine Dogs, my niggs The.
HOT dogs i know we're not as a big CHALLENGE
as i. Initially thought eleven, to Four. Go mets, Jamison
writes mets and two, puking Emojis and, JACKSON writes I
mean yankees all. The way, Calm down this was just
the game that was, playing Today, and james that game
started at. Eleven today, jamison Writes, Nets. Jets mets Why
Does New york city suck at so many sports Except
the yankees And? The Knicks and, jackson said. Couldn't help
but Notice the giants, weren't listed And then, jamison says they.
Don't rhyme get with, the program, pal right And and
jackson SENDS an i a rolling emoji and the, middle
FINGER and, i go this is the fucking. Family, text
yes do this on your. Own text and these are
THE conversations i have to have that they don't want.
TO have i don't. WANT to i don't.
Speaker 4: Want to or the oldest person in the text thread
that ruins the.
Speaker 3: Text, thread yeah, well no this.
Speaker 2: Wasn't it they're the, Younger. GUYS jamison, I go i
said TO jameson, i, go buddy Keep those, he, GOES
oh i didn't, do it and, he's right. He Didn't but,
i'm LIKE do i need a middle, finger, Thing right,
it's like, you know the worst IS when i got
my father every Day saying, i'm up so everybody knows.
Speaker 4: He's AWAY so i have certain text threads that are
muted because they'll, never stop particular during.
Speaker 3: Bills, GAMES okay i don't need to hear what the.
Speaker 4: Family thinks i've tried to watch the freaking game and
analyze it.
Speaker 3: And understand you'll get my postgame. Show later, RIGHT now
i just want to watch. THE game i know that
he fumbled on the. FOUR yard i don't we don't
need to discuss it over, the Texts so.
Speaker 4: I'm, Mute yes then all of, a sudden the, thing
is your car doesn't know. The difference my car does
not know know the difference between muted texts and and
and like in, other words it won't if you're in
my if You're if i'm in, my car the text
will come through the car, will yeah.
Speaker 2: Ding ding ding ding ding ding.
Speaker 3: Ding ding it's so.
Speaker 4: Freaking annoying AND if i tell my family stop, Stop
texting i'm trying.
Speaker 2: TO listen i can put it on, on uh, you,
know silent and it just comes in and just buzzes and,
you're right it'll pop up on. The screen but a
lot of TIMES if i turn on do, NOT disturb i.
Get Nothing so i'm fine. WITH it i can do
a lot of do. Not disturb lately took. Into, THAT
yeah i just, just, say, hey blank do not put do.
Not disturb you don't have to. DO anything i was
thinking about that the. OTHER day, I, go man what
a world we. Live in i'm in, The car. I'M
driving i, can say, hey blank call so, and SO
and i can have. A conversation i don't have to.
Do ANYTHING like i have not picked up, THE phone
i have not, touched it and my eyes around. The
road it's it's a weird time that we're. Living in
when you, think about LIKE if, i go if, we
could if my grandfather can, come back who died in
the early nineties and, see this. It's amazing. He's, stunned
yeah it's. It's amazing if my father could come back and, see, it,
sure right it would be. It's, Amazing right, it's like
what would, They think like you never had a.
Speaker 3: Cell phone my mother buys his cell phone like three
months before. He dies he looks.
Speaker 4: At it you call your father now on the. Cell
phone he's got a. Cell, PHONE yeah i don't want to. Use,
THIS here i get it to. Your, mother okay?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 3: That?
Speaker 2: Sure Internet? What internet Oh For dann barillo the run
of his wind sprints? Looking, good DANNY and i think
the beer does? Look good?
Speaker 3: All.
Speaker 2: Right yeah see, what happens you're gonna. Forget about it'll
be one of your face you won't. Even, know, yeah
yeah it. Does, it, yeah yeah it does a little
bit when it first. Comes in. That's, True Hi, bill
moran will see, you tomorrow will be in.
Speaker 3: The hotel didn't know what.
Speaker 2: TO do i TURN. A tv i want to rule
a letter. To you was stouting by the deadening about
the years