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<v Speaker 1>Last time on the Instascammer, you heard about the night

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<v Speaker 1>a house caught on fire in Wisconsin. The house that

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<v Speaker 1>Tom and Joanne owned and that Laura, by then known

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<v Speaker 1>inside the Liana Shanti community as Gahira, had been renting.

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<v Speaker 1>Tom and Joanne were in Washington state when the news

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<v Speaker 1>reached them, but Dean and Charlotte were much closer.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever seen the little fires everywhere? We were

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<v Speaker 2>on the episode watching the specific part of this episode

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<v Speaker 2>where the house is up in flames and the kids

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<v Speaker 2>had something to do with it. And we get a

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<v Speaker 2>phone call from his daughter crying because the house is

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<v Speaker 2>on fire.

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<v Speaker 3>Minutes after watching this part of the episode, minutes after that,

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<v Speaker 3>it blew our mind.

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<v Speaker 2>We were like, what the heck? So we get in

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<v Speaker 2>the car. I tell my daughter, hey... The kids, their

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<v Speaker 2>house is on fire. She's like, what? And I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to leave real quick. As we're driving towards there,

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<v Speaker 2>we could see the smoke from miles away.

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<v Speaker 4>And this was.

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<v Speaker 3>At like 10, 3, 11 o'clock at night.

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<v Speaker 1>And in the days that followed, the questions multiplied. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Casey, and this is Episode 7 of the

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<v Speaker 1>Insta Scammer. Before the fire, Dean and Charlotte say, the

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<v Speaker 1>house in the quiet neighborhood appeared completely normal from the outside.

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<v Speaker 1>Dean had been to the property many times. It was

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<v Speaker 1>where his children were living. And he and Charlotte would

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<v Speaker 1>pick them up from there regularly.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a really nice house. She was going to

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<v Speaker 2>rent it from them because they were moving out of state.

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<v Speaker 2>And so her and the kids all moved into this house.

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<v Speaker 2>We would go and pick up the kids from there.

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<v Speaker 2>It was in a really nice neighborhood down the street

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<v Speaker 2>from the high school. The kids were homeschooled, but they

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<v Speaker 2>still attended for sports and all that other stuff. Down

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<v Speaker 2>the street was the kids' work. They worked at a

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<v Speaker 2>coffee shop down the street. Really nice neighborhood. Kahira had

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<v Speaker 2>her own means of transportation. Then a few of his

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<v Speaker 2>kids got their license, so then they would all share

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<v Speaker 2>a vehicle. No, she lived a pretty normal life.

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<v Speaker 1>According to Dean and Charlotte, things were pretty typical. Arriving

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<v Speaker 1>to pick up the children, the street that the house

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<v Speaker 1>was on looked ordinary, stable, beautiful. That is what made

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<v Speaker 1>what happened next so difficult for them to process. Dean

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<v Speaker 1>and Charlotte arrived at the fire as quickly as they could.

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<v Speaker 1>Their first concern was the children.

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<v Speaker 2>We leave just to make sure and we were like,

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<v Speaker 2>we can take the kids back with us. But she

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<v Speaker 2>was like, no, they're staying with me. We already got

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<v Speaker 2>a place. But we stayed there for a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure that the kids were calmed down.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone was physically safe. But according to Dean and Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>the choices Laura made in those first hours and in

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<v Speaker 1>the weeks that followed were not ones they could easily

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<v Speaker 1>account for. The Ozaukee Press reported on the fire in

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<v Speaker 1>Port Washington, Wisconsin. Port Washington Fire Chief Mark Mitchell was quoted,

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<v Speaker 1>We got there just at the right time. It could

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<v Speaker 1>have turned into something much more serious. In addition to

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<v Speaker 1>the Port Washington Fire Department responding, there were five other

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<v Speaker 1>local fire departments that responded to the fire, with a

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<v Speaker 1>sixth one standing by at the firehouse. The article confirmed

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<v Speaker 1>that the family was renting the property, describing it as

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<v Speaker 1>the house the family was renting. The article described Kahira

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<v Speaker 1>Noelani as a holistic life coach and noted she had

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<v Speaker 1>changed her name from Laura Lambrecht the previous year. The

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<v Speaker 1>article reported that a GoFundMe had raised approximately $ 6, 500 at

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<v Speaker 1>the time of publication. Tom and Joanne say that in

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<v Speaker 1>the days following the fire, they began hearing things about

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<v Speaker 1>the investigation that they couldn't easily make sense of. They

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<v Speaker 1>talked me through the moments after learning about the fire

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<v Speaker 1>and the subsequent conversations with the fire chief.

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<v Speaker 4>And I said, do you see Kahira and the kids?

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<v Speaker 4>Are they okay? So she runs outside. and gets through

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<v Speaker 4>all this mess, and she can't find them. She finally

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<v Speaker 4>finds them in Kahira's car, like a block up the street,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's sitting there on the phone. So my sister-in-law

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<v Speaker 4>knocks on the window, and Kahira opens the window, and

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<v Speaker 4>she says, Have you talked to Joanne? Knowing full well

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<v Speaker 4>that she has not, because she never called us. She goes,

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<v Speaker 4>I've got her on the phone right here. Talk to her.

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<v Speaker 4>She finally says yes. There's a fire. It's in the

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<v Speaker 4>bathroom upstairs. My son was doing laundry and the other

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<v Speaker 4>one smelled some smoke and then we all got out

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<v Speaker 4>and everybody's fine. And I'm talking to Leanna and she's,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, helping me. And I said, okay, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really glad that you guys are all safe. Are

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<v Speaker 4>you okay? And she said, oh yeah, we're fine. We'll

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<v Speaker 4>be fine. I'll go, okay. So I let her get

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<v Speaker 4>back on her conversation with Leanna. What we found out

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<v Speaker 4>was that the fire was a dryer fire. And it

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<v Speaker 4>started in the dryer. That was like a bathroom laundry room.

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<v Speaker 4>All the true horrific damage was just in that room.

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<v Speaker 4>The rest of the house had water damage from the firemen.

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<v Speaker 4>But otherwise, if you walked through the house, you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>have noticed anything except that maybe there was wet underneath.

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<v Speaker 1>It's important to note here that these are Tom and

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<v Speaker 1>Joanne's recollections of what officials told them, presented in their

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<v Speaker 1>own account. And Tom and Joanne are explicit on one point.

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<v Speaker 1>They do not know what caused the fire. They make

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<v Speaker 1>no attribution. The cause of the fire has not been

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<v Speaker 1>publicly determined. What Tom and Joanne describe is what they

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<v Speaker 1>say they were told by investigators. Observations that left them

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<v Speaker 1>with questions they say were never fully answered. As the

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<v Speaker 1>investigation was still underway, the story inside Liana Shanti's community

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<v Speaker 1>was already taking shape. Joanne was still a member of

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<v Speaker 1>the Lemurian sisterhood inside Liana Shanti's community when the fire happened.

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<v Speaker 1>She says she was watching its private group chat in

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<v Speaker 1>the hours and days that followed.

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<v Speaker 4>The next day in our little group chat, within the

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<v Speaker 4>Lemurian sisterhood. Everybody's all concerned. Kahira's been, her house burned down,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's talking about how horrible it is, and Leanna

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<v Speaker 4>has diagnosed her with PTSD. Kahira said, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I went back there the next day, and it was

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<v Speaker 4>amazing that my bedroom, which was right next to this bathroom,

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<v Speaker 4>was completely saved and everything in there and Leanna's painting

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<v Speaker 4>that she painted and all of their stuff was fine.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just the one room and Leanna took credit.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, yes, that's because I was saving the rest

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<v Speaker 4>of the house for you and all of you. That

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<v Speaker 4>she was putting some aura on it all. But what

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<v Speaker 4>was interesting is that she was going on about how

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<v Speaker 4>much she lost in her house. And it was one

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<v Speaker 4>of the other ladies. She actually said, well, hey, wait

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<v Speaker 4>a minute. Kahira was renting from Joanne. It was Joanne's

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<v Speaker 4>house that has burned down. And this is horrible for her, too.

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<v Speaker 4>This was her family home. So then everybody, oh, gosh, wow. Yeah, sorry. Yeah, sorry, Joanne. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that type of thing.

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<v Speaker 5>After a few days, I resuscitated the conversation and asked, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>we need to still talk about things. I think she

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<v Speaker 5>was under the false impression she was going to get

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<v Speaker 5>back into the house if the damage wasn't so small.

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<v Speaker 6>Suddenly, for me anyway, everything was blocked.

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<v Speaker 4>Then all of a sudden, she wasn't returning my phone

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<v Speaker 4>calls because the insurance people said, okay, sorry for your loss,

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<v Speaker 4>but we got to get moving.

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<v Speaker 6>We had home insurance and a homeowner's policy. with rental coverage.

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<v Speaker 6>She had a renter's insurance.

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<v Speaker 4>Which, by the way, her renter's insurance was completely paid up.

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<v Speaker 1>Eventually, Joanne says she had to return to Wisconsin in person.

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<v Speaker 1>The insurance assessment required access to the property, and Kahira's

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<v Speaker 1>items still needed to be removed before their own insurer

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<v Speaker 1>could complete its work.

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<v Speaker 6>She was not helpful in working with the insurance adjuster

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<v Speaker 6>for getting things out of the house. And that came

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<v Speaker 6>to a head when Joanne was making a visit because we.

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<v Speaker 5>Needed to get things out so we could have our

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<v Speaker 5>own insurance assessment done.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because part of the assessment was that our insurance

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<v Speaker 4>would not pay for the removal of her stuff because

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<v Speaker 4>she was a renter. One of my older sons and

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<v Speaker 4>I got there first. So we had prepared ourselves for

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<v Speaker 4>the fire damage. So I'm there in port. We go

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<v Speaker 4>through the house and the most... heart-wrenching horribleness was going

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<v Speaker 4>through the house and seeing all the damage that had

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<v Speaker 4>nothing to do with the fire. I mean, our furniture

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<v Speaker 4>and faucets and sinks and things had permanent marker scribbled

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<v Speaker 4>all over it, paint everywhere. The bathrooms were just filthy.

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<v Speaker 4>Some would say, oh, well, there was soot from the

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<v Speaker 4>fire or whatever. It's like, no, no, this is just filth.

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<v Speaker 4>There was grease everywhere in the kitchen, which also didn't

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<v Speaker 4>make sense because if she was such a healthy food person,

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<v Speaker 4>why is she prying stuff? There's like food splattered all

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<v Speaker 4>over the walls. I mean, it was just filthy. Absolutely filthy.

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<v Speaker 4>And then there was like garbage, like tons of garbage.

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<v Speaker 4>Literally the day before our oldest sons and I arrived,

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<v Speaker 4>she all of a sudden got everything out. We rented

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<v Speaker 4>the dumpster. She should have. It was her stuff. But

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<v Speaker 4>we rented it. So my son and I, we were

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<v Speaker 4>going to have to remove everything. And I had texted

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<v Speaker 4>her and said, if you don't remove your stuff, I

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<v Speaker 4>guess we'll be going through all your stuff and removing it.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't you want any of your things? So they all

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<v Speaker 4>of a sudden, literally the day before we arrived, got

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<v Speaker 4>rid of everything. So when our son and I are

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<v Speaker 4>walking through the house, it's like filthy and tons of

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<v Speaker 4>garbage and this and that, but that's without her furniture

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<v Speaker 4>in there. It was just so devastating. I mean, the reason.

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<v Speaker 7>We asked this and I put it in quotes, friend

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<v Speaker 7>to rent our place was because they were going to

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<v Speaker 7>take care of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Like they loved it. And And it was just trashed.

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's safe to say that you're finding the

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<v Speaker 6>house was a real violation. Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And that physical house violation was kind of symbolic of

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<v Speaker 5>what would become the violation of the relationship that you

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<v Speaker 5>had with Laura and Liana.

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<v Speaker 1>The fire occurred on April 22nd, 2020. And by April 24th, 2020,

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<v Speaker 1>the GoFundMe fundraiser appeared online, with Kahira Noelani listed as

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<v Speaker 1>the beneficiary. The campaign was titled Rebuilding Life After a

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<v Speaker 1>House Fire. The campaign raised $ 9, 785 from 82 donors towards

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<v Speaker 1>a $ 20, 000 goal. The campaign description stated that the fire

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<v Speaker 1>had originated in a second-floor laundry area. It made no

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<v Speaker 1>reference to the fact that Kahira Noelani was renting the property,

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<v Speaker 1>nor to any outstanding debt owed to the property owners.

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<v Speaker 1>The campaign is currently paused.

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<v Speaker 6>A couple days after the fire is when the GoFundMe appeared.

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<v Speaker 6>Somebody started a GoFundMe to help her.

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<v Speaker 5>Nice picture of her kids in the attic with all

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<v Speaker 5>the fire stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody ever talked to us about it.

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<v Speaker 5>No mention of the fact that it wasn't her home,

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<v Speaker 5>which is kind of inconsequential, I guess, but very consequential

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<v Speaker 5>if you're the actual homeowner.

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<v Speaker 6>There was a follow-up article in the local weekly newspaper.

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<v Speaker 3>Same thing.

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<v Speaker 6>A lot of heartstrings pulled, but no mention of the

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<v Speaker 6>fact that she was renting.

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<v Speaker 1>And yet.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not like any of that ever came our direction,

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<v Speaker 5>or she even talked.

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<v Speaker 3>With us afterward.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because she made almost like 60 grand off of

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<v Speaker 4>this whole fire.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, Tom is describing that when he added up what

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<v Speaker 1>he understood Kihira to have received from all sources in

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<v Speaker 1>the weeks following the fire, he believes it to be

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<v Speaker 1>around $ 60, 000. He is clear that this is his estimate,

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<v Speaker 1>and what was publicly raised. None of it, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>came their direction or helped to settle the renter's debt

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<v Speaker 1>that Kahira Noelani still had outstanding. And then, Tom says,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened next was something that he hadn't anticipated.

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<v Speaker 6>But about that time, I was still in Washington State,

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<v Speaker 6>Joanne was in Wisconsin. I was contacted by a landlord

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<v Speaker 6>down in Whitefish Bay, a suburb of Milwaukee. She reached

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<v Speaker 6>out to me independently and said, I have an application

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<v Speaker 6>for rent from a Kahira Noelani landlord. And I happen

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<v Speaker 6>to know enough about Port Washington and I've heard about

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<v Speaker 6>the fire. So I put two and two together.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. Here I had listed two, three, two, whatever as

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<v Speaker 6>We can tell you about this.

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<v Speaker 5>And I forwarded her onto Joanne and Joanne gave her

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<v Speaker 5>the whole story. And as a result, the woman was

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<v Speaker 5>very thankful and said, Oh, thank goodness.

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<v Speaker 6>I learned this information. I'm not going to rent to her.

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<v Speaker 5>And, uh, That little act, which was simply following up

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<v Speaker 5>on somebody else contacting us, is what led to real

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<v Speaker 7>So what was funny is she called and she said, oh,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, would you be a reference for her? And

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<v Speaker 7>I went, she put us down as a reference? She goes, no,

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<v Speaker 7>it's just that I know about the town and I

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<v Speaker 7>knew about you guys. And I just called you because

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<v Speaker 7>I figured you were the last landlord.

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<v Speaker 1>According to Joanne, that phone call set off a chain reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>The very next day, she says she received a message

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<v Speaker 4>So then the key thing was the day after that,

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<v Speaker 4>all of a sudden I get a text message directly

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<v Speaker 4>from Liana saying that I have been kicked out of

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<v Speaker 4>the Lemurian sisterhood. that the rest of my monthly fee

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<v Speaker 4>of $ 89 would be reimbursed to me. And I'm like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 4>that's nice. Because supposedly I had said all these horrible

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<v Speaker 4>Kahira could not rent from anyone. And so I texted

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<v Speaker 4>her back because I was thinking, Wait a minute. I

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<v Speaker 4>shouldn't be the one that's being kicked out. It should

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<v Speaker 4>be Kahira. She's the one that's not legit here. And so, amazingly,

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<v Speaker 4>Leanna did call me. And she didn't charge me. So

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<v Speaker 4>I told her everything that had happened to the house,

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<v Speaker 4>all the stuff that's going on. Leanna screwed up. She

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<v Speaker 4>made a huge mistake. Because I said, yeah, she hasn't

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<v Speaker 4>paid us 15 months of rent. And she goes, oh. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>I knew she was behind on rent for maybe like

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<v Speaker 4>two months, but I didn't realize it was that long.

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<v Speaker 4>And the light bulb went on in my head. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>wait a minute. You're the clairvoyant one that supposedly can

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<v Speaker 4>see people's bathrooms and if they're dirty or not. And what?

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't know that she hadn't been paying rent? And

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<v Speaker 4>she said, well, you're dark. For some reason, I'm dark. And,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm just going to let Kahira decide if

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<v Speaker 4>and when you're allowed back into the group. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was just like, what the heck?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Great.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>I obviously figured out that it was a total scam.

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<v Speaker 4>But the key thing she said to me at the

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<v Speaker 4>end of that conversation was, do not talk to anybody

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<v Speaker 4>in the group. Do not contact anybody. And if anybody

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<v Speaker 4>tries to contact you, do not talk to them. And

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<v Speaker 4>I will know if you do. So that was her threat.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I thought back over time of threats that

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<v Speaker 4>had been made to other people and other people that

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<v Speaker 4>had been like kicked out or she removed them because

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<v Speaker 4>they were dark. And she even went so far to

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<v Speaker 4>say is this one woman who was going against her

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<v Speaker 4>now has cancer and was dying because she went against Leanna.

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<v Speaker 4>One woman had been sucked back in by her husband,

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<v Speaker 4>and now she no longer does any of her artwork

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<v Speaker 4>and stuff. She's lost all creativity because she went back.

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<v Speaker 4>She got sucked back in by her husband. Anyway, so

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<v Speaker 4>there was a threat. So I have no idea what

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<v Speaker 4>horrible story was told about me within the group.

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<v Speaker 5>You had seen people kicked out of the group while

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<v Speaker 5>you were a member, so you kind of knew the drill.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I knew that, you know, some horrible story would

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<v Speaker 4>be told. Because no one could make a decision without,

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<v Speaker 4>of course, asking Leanna first. And she would say, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>you need to do this. You need to do this. But,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, don't tell anybody that I told you to

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<v Speaker 4>do this. It has to come from you. You have

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<v Speaker 4>to believe. I just remember this one woman saying, And

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<v Speaker 4>she was like so torn, probably like me, about leaving

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<v Speaker 4>her husband. And she was being told, you know, you

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<v Speaker 4>need to leave him. We need to leave him. And

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<v Speaker 4>all of these, the planets are in the right vector

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<v Speaker 4>or whatever. You need to do it now. Otherwise, you're

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<v Speaker 4>going to lose your opportunity. And she would never do it.

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<v Speaker 4>So then the next week they ask, oh, well, did

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<v Speaker 4>you do it? No. Because I wasn't doing it either.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I wasn't leaving Tom, and I kept questioning,

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<v Speaker 4>kept questioning. And you could just hear it in the

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<v Speaker 4>things that she said, that she was just frustrated because

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<v Speaker 4>they weren't doing it. I remember that woman, because she

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<v Speaker 4>just would not take her star moments and leave her husband.

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<v Speaker 4>Then all of a sudden, she just wasn't around anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>Then she would come up with some crude story. I

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<v Speaker 4>just remember one person, she said, oh, yes, I found

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<v Speaker 4>out that she was very dark and she was doing

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<v Speaker 4>voodoo on people in our group and had made all

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<v Speaker 4>these dolls and was shoving pins into them.

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<v Speaker 1>Alongside the community and spiritual elements of the group, there

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<v Speaker 1>was also a business structure that Joanne had been operating within.

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<v Speaker 1>As a now-certified HMI coach, she was supposed to earn

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<v Speaker 1>commission when clients enrolled in courses through her referral code.

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<v Speaker 4>One of the things that we kind of skipped over

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<v Speaker 4>here was that I was doing HMIs things and, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>working with people. And how it all worked was that

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<v Speaker 4>your clients would buy the course material through Leanna, through

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<v Speaker 4>Leanna's website, and they would use a code that was

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<v Speaker 4>connected to the health coach directly. And so then that's

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<v Speaker 4>how Leanna would then pay you our commission for it, right? Well,

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<v Speaker 4>I think the very first client I had, I got paid,

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<v Speaker 4>but then everybody else after that never got any money.

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<v Speaker 4>I was working with a website guy who said, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 4>we can fix that. Because I was told that Leanna

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<v Speaker 4>was so busy, she couldn't get to everybody's commissions because

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<v Speaker 4>she was working on all these new things and she'll

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<v Speaker 4>get to it. She'll get to it. So I proposed

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<v Speaker 4>what we can do is your customers can buy their

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<v Speaker 4>course material on my website and my website would automatically...

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<v Speaker 4>take my commission and then send Leanna her portion of it.

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<v Speaker 4>And so no one has to do any kind of

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<v Speaker 4>administrative work. And I actually talked to Kahira about it because,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, now she's supposed to be managing the HMI stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>And she's thought, wow, that's awesome. That's really a great

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<v Speaker 4>thing because everybody was kind of having troubles, right? Getting paid.

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<v Speaker 4>And she goes, this is fabulous. Well, she lent up

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<v Speaker 4>the ladder to Kahira. Liana, and Liana absolutely kiboshed it.

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<v Speaker 4>No way. Nope, that's not how I do business. We're

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<v Speaker 4>doing it this way and only this way. So she

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<v Speaker 4>wanted everything going through her thing and that she would

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<v Speaker 4>pay out people when it was convenient or, in most cases,

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<v Speaker 4>not convenient for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Joanne says Liana Shanti's reasoning, as relayed to her, was simple.

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<v Speaker 1>All transactions had to go through Liana Shanti's system. No alternatives.

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<v Speaker 1>and Joanne says that left all commission payments subject entirely

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<v Speaker 1>to Liana Shanti's timing and discretion. The irony, Joanne says,

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<v Speaker 1>was not lost on her. Kihira had spent months doing

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<v Speaker 1>advanced coursework through this same system. Coursework, Joanne says, Liana

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<v Speaker 1>Shanti gave her for free, while owing Tom and Joanne

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<v Speaker 1>nearly $ 20, 000 in unpaid rent.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, a couple hundred bucks. But then there

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<v Speaker 4>were all these courses... here and there. Then they had

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<v Speaker 4>another one of these just for special people course, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like the second time. And they encouraged me, oh, you

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<v Speaker 4>should do it again because you learned so much more.

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<v Speaker 4>And Kahira was going to be on that one. And

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<v Speaker 4>that one, I think, you know, it was probably $ 1, 500 or,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, whatever it was. And I do remember her

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<v Speaker 4>like saying to me, oh, well, Leanna is, she's letting

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<v Speaker 4>me do this one. I'm not paying for it. So

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<v Speaker 4>she did, she saw the disconnect of that she was

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<v Speaker 4>doing all these things with Leanna.

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<v Speaker 6>But not paying us rent.

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<v Speaker 4>But not paying us rent.

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<v Speaker 6>So the excuse was it was for free to her.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>By the end of 2020, Tom and Joanne say they

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<v Speaker 1>had accepted that the informal route was not going to

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<v Speaker 1>resolve things. They began gathering every document they had, communications

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<v Speaker 1>the rent spreadsheet Kahira had agreed to, and filed a

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<v Speaker 1>civil lawsuit. Tom says he also wrote letters to two

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<v Speaker 1>people directly connected to Kahira's life at the time. The

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<v Speaker 1>first letter went to Gordon Eisendrath, the actual owner of

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<v Speaker 1>a property in Whitefish Bay where Tom understood Kahira to

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<v Speaker 1>be living, identified through public tax records. The letter described

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<v Speaker 1>the rental, the fire and the outcome of the civil proceedings.

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<v Speaker 1>The second letter went to Dean, a factual account of

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<v Speaker 1>the judgment. Tom says both letters were written without accusation.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted people in Kahira's immediate orbit to have the

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<v Speaker 1>information he hadn't had when she first approached him.

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<v Speaker 5>So we put together all the facts and communications and

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<v Speaker 5>we put it in front of a small claims.

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<v Speaker 3>Lawyer back home.

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<v Speaker 5>Our goal was to get a small claims judgment against

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<v Speaker 5>her for the facts. The rent, that's factual. So we

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<v Speaker 5>filed for the full extent of the background. And it

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<v Speaker 5>took about six months.

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<v Speaker 3>From our court.

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<v Speaker 6>She tried her best to defend herself.

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<v Speaker 5>We made sure that the suit was.

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<v Speaker 6>Filed against both her names, Laura Lamb, Brezhnev, Kaker, and Noelani.

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<v Speaker 5>Our end goal is what we had got. If you

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<v Speaker 5>want to do a public record search now, you will

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<v Speaker 5>find it. We were given a default judgment against her.

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<v Speaker 5>I sent her a note about every two or three months,

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<v Speaker 5>just a kind little, hey, if you look at this

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<v Speaker 5>judgment against you, you still.

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<v Speaker 3>Owe us this money.

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<v Speaker 5>It Nothing inflammatory, just, hey, you cut me off of

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<v Speaker 5>all communications, but here's my contact information if you would

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<v Speaker 5>like to call us to start to make good on

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<v Speaker 5>this judgment.

420
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<v Speaker 6>She never did.

421
00:25:20.210 --> 00:25:22.150
<v Speaker 5>I also wrote two other letters.

422
00:25:22.210 --> 00:25:25.109
<v Speaker 3>I wrote one to her ex-husband, and I wrote one.

423
00:25:25.049 --> 00:25:31.259
<v Speaker 5>To her current landlord, whom I found by just public records. Again,

424
00:25:31.299 --> 00:25:33.980
<v Speaker 5>not inflammatory, just letting them know that we were her

425
00:25:34.200 --> 00:25:39.119
<v Speaker 5>previous landlord. She left us with a lot of rent owed.

426
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<v Speaker 5>She went to the Whitefish Bay Wisconsin Police Department and

427
00:25:45.769 --> 00:25:48.470
<v Speaker 5>tried to get some sort of complaint against me. I'm

428
00:25:48.589 --> 00:25:51.069
<v Speaker 5>not sure what came of it, but we never heard

429
00:25:51.130 --> 00:25:53.539
<v Speaker 5>from the Whitefish Bay Police Department per se.

430
00:25:53.579 --> 00:25:55.640
<v Speaker 6>They called our attorney who told them the facts.

431
00:25:56.259 --> 00:25:59.500
<v Speaker 5>But we got a strangely formal cease and desist letter

432
00:25:59.559 --> 00:26:04.180
<v Speaker 5>from Kahira on a letterhead that was Kahira Noelani's.

433
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<v Speaker 1>A lot of the documents and letters and evidence that

434
00:26:08.740 --> 00:26:12.079
<v Speaker 1>are described in this episode have been forwarded onto the

435
00:26:12.119 --> 00:26:18.240
<v Speaker 1>production team. On March 13th, 2021, Kohira Noelani sent Tom

436
00:26:18.279 --> 00:26:21.059
<v Speaker 1>and Joanne a cease and desist letter written on her

437
00:26:21.180 --> 00:26:25.119
<v Speaker 1>own personal headed paper, not from a law firm. The

438
00:26:25.160 --> 00:26:28.359
<v Speaker 1>letter stated she had contacted the Whitefish Bay Police Department

439
00:26:28.519 --> 00:26:32.359
<v Speaker 1>and ordered them to stop contacting her. Her current landlord...

440
00:26:32.359 --> 00:26:36.720
<v Speaker 1>her ex-husband, her clients, her neighbours and her friends. The

441
00:26:36.779 --> 00:26:40.160
<v Speaker 1>letter specifically named the rental house and the fire at

442
00:26:40.220 --> 00:26:42.859
<v Speaker 1>Tom and Joanne's address as a subject matter they were

443
00:26:42.980 --> 00:26:48.099
<v Speaker 1>ordered to stop discussing. Eighteen days later, another letter arrived.

444
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<v Speaker 1>Dated March 31st, 2021, addressed to Tom and signed by

445
00:26:53.700 --> 00:26:58.890
<v Speaker 1>someone identifying themselves as Aralyn Shiri, a community name associated

446
00:26:58.930 --> 00:27:02.299
<v Speaker 1>with members of Liana Shanti's group. This was received at

447
00:27:02.339 --> 00:27:06.119
<v Speaker 1>Tom's address. The letter carried no professional letterhead and no

448
00:27:06.180 --> 00:27:10.160
<v Speaker 1>return address. It described Tom as a sexual predator who

449
00:27:10.220 --> 00:27:14.920
<v Speaker 1>has stalked Kahira. It also contained a direct accusation against

450
00:27:15.039 --> 00:27:19.180
<v Speaker 1>Joanne that she had asked Kahira to try to seduce

451
00:27:19.319 --> 00:27:23.160
<v Speaker 1>Tom in order to prove his infidelity. No evidence has

452
00:27:23.180 --> 00:27:27.569
<v Speaker 1>been produced to support either allegation. Aralin Shiri is still

453
00:27:27.609 --> 00:27:32.089
<v Speaker 1>believed to be a community member within Lian Ashanti's digital ecosystem.

454
00:27:32.789 --> 00:27:36.789
<v Speaker 1>No identification or professional credentials were listed in the letter.

455
00:27:38.609 --> 00:27:40.849
<v Speaker 5>But shortly after that, I got a letter from this

456
00:27:40.970 --> 00:27:45.089
<v Speaker 5>Aralin who's down in the Quad Cities. You know, no letterhead,

457
00:27:45.150 --> 00:27:48.430
<v Speaker 5>but a short letter telling me that I'm a sexual

458
00:27:48.470 --> 00:27:53.069
<v Speaker 5>predator and I needed to leave Kahiro alone.

459
00:27:53.130 --> 00:27:53.910
<v Speaker 3>So it's like, uh-oh.

460
00:27:55.740 --> 00:27:56.839
<v Speaker 5>The pit bulls are out.

461
00:27:57.460 --> 00:28:01.119
<v Speaker 4>But that showed you how she could just go and say,

462
00:28:01.400 --> 00:28:04.420
<v Speaker 4>you're a sexual predator. You know, she's just making up shit.

463
00:28:05.549 --> 00:28:08.470
<v Speaker 1>The letter that accused both of them, Tom and Joanne,

464
00:28:08.529 --> 00:28:11.630
<v Speaker 1>say they understood it for what it was, an attempt

465
00:28:11.710 --> 00:28:15.250
<v Speaker 1>to generate a story about people who were asking difficult questions.

466
00:28:16.369 --> 00:28:18.910
<v Speaker 1>Joanne notes it fit the same pattern she had watched

467
00:28:19.039 --> 00:28:22.500
<v Speaker 1>play out against others inside the group. By the autumn

468
00:28:22.519 --> 00:28:26.220
<v Speaker 1>of 2021, Tom and Joanne say they learned that Kahira

469
00:28:26.279 --> 00:28:28.980
<v Speaker 1>had filed for Chapter 7 bankruptcy protection.

470
00:28:30.549 --> 00:28:33.250
<v Speaker 5>By fall of 2021, we had heard from our attorney

471
00:28:33.269 --> 00:28:35.329
<v Speaker 5>that she had filed for Chapter 7 bankruptcy.

472
00:28:36.609 --> 00:28:39.329
<v Speaker 6>And although I tried.

473
00:28:39.109 --> 00:28:42.789
<v Speaker 5>To insert myself into those proceedings, it looks like our

474
00:28:42.990 --> 00:28:44.990
<v Speaker 5>legal judgment debt, along with every other.

475
00:28:44.910 --> 00:28:48.430
<v Speaker 6>Debt she had, was all just wiped away with a

476
00:28:48.490 --> 00:28:50.269
<v Speaker 6>Chapter 7 bankruptcy.

477
00:28:50.710 --> 00:28:53.230
<v Speaker 5>It was odd to us because she had apparently filed

478
00:28:53.250 --> 00:28:57.190
<v Speaker 5>for Chapter 7 as a household back in, I don't.

479
00:28:57.089 --> 00:28:59.950
<v Speaker 6>Know, 2013 or whatever, seven years ago, gets you.

480
00:29:00.890 --> 00:29:03.369
<v Speaker 5>I'm still not quite sure how this is allowed in

481
00:29:03.450 --> 00:29:06.910
<v Speaker 5>our society, but we were told by our attorney, once

482
00:29:06.990 --> 00:29:10.019
<v Speaker 5>that debt has been retired by Chapter 7, you cannot

483
00:29:10.119 --> 00:29:12.900
<v Speaker 5>and must not make any kind of a claim toward

484
00:29:12.940 --> 00:29:15.940
<v Speaker 5>your previous judgment. So that was the last thing. I've

485
00:29:15.980 --> 00:29:19.359
<v Speaker 5>really not heard or thought about that woman since.

486
00:29:19.759 --> 00:29:24.289
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And what was also interesting, when you file for bankruptcy,

487
00:29:24.789 --> 00:29:28.769
<v Speaker 4>you have to wait seven years before you can do

488
00:29:28.809 --> 00:29:33.009
<v Speaker 4>it again. It was almost to the date of when

489
00:29:33.269 --> 00:29:36.789
<v Speaker 4>she could file bankruptcy again. One of the things, too,

490
00:29:36.849 --> 00:29:39.549
<v Speaker 4>going through the house, she didn't get rid of all

491
00:29:39.569 --> 00:29:44.160
<v Speaker 4>the garbage. like the garbage can. And there, when I

492
00:29:44.369 --> 00:29:47.609
<v Speaker 4>went through the garbage can, there were all these unpaid bills,

493
00:29:48.289 --> 00:29:52.609
<v Speaker 4>not even opened. So credit cards, and of course, Since

494
00:29:52.650 --> 00:29:55.609
<v Speaker 4>she'd already gone through bankruptcy once before, she's not going

495
00:29:55.650 --> 00:29:58.670
<v Speaker 4>to get a Visa or MasterCard or whatever. But they

496
00:29:58.710 --> 00:30:03.390
<v Speaker 4>were all like stores, Ulta and those types of credit

497
00:30:03.430 --> 00:30:07.549
<v Speaker 4>cards that they just sign people up no matter what.

498
00:30:07.910 --> 00:30:09.750
<v Speaker 4>Don't really look at their credit history or whatever.

499
00:30:10.390 --> 00:30:13.829
<v Speaker 5>Over the next few months, Joanne and I decided, you know,

500
00:30:13.849 --> 00:30:18.170
<v Speaker 5>Joanne's totally out and is kind of re-evaluating all the

501
00:30:18.259 --> 00:30:19.230
<v Speaker 5>things in her life.

502
00:30:19.900 --> 00:30:26.809
<v Speaker 4>Like apologizing left and right i feel so stupid and

503
00:30:26.849 --> 00:30:29.309
<v Speaker 4>that's you know my biggest thing is with this whole

504
00:30:29.329 --> 00:30:32.549
<v Speaker 4>thing i feel like such an idiot when i finally

505
00:30:32.849 --> 00:30:36.369
<v Speaker 4>see it and so in a sense this whole house

506
00:30:36.410 --> 00:30:38.930
<v Speaker 4>thing while horrible it was probably the best thing that

507
00:30:38.950 --> 00:30:42.490
<v Speaker 4>could have happened because to have this happen so you

508
00:30:42.509 --> 00:30:47.730
<v Speaker 4>could see that oh these people are scam artists i.

509
00:30:47.690 --> 00:30:50.849
<v Speaker 5>Don't know that it was uh crystal ball fortune but

510
00:30:50.900 --> 00:30:53.150
<v Speaker 5>i think a lot of my feelings were just to

511
00:30:53.230 --> 00:30:56.529
<v Speaker 5>play the long game on this because to confront joanne

512
00:30:56.569 --> 00:30:59.730
<v Speaker 5>during the middle of it would have really caused more

513
00:30:59.789 --> 00:31:01.849
<v Speaker 5>problem than it was worth it was just a question

514
00:31:01.890 --> 00:31:05.160
<v Speaker 5>of waiting for it to resolve i'm.

515
00:31:05.119 --> 00:31:09.500
<v Speaker 4>More upset with myself for falling for it and my

516
00:31:09.559 --> 00:31:12.619
<v Speaker 4>friends you know and even tom have said no they

517
00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:19.960
<v Speaker 4>were really really good They were so good at twisting, twisting, twisting.

518
00:31:21.240 --> 00:31:24.480
<v Speaker 4>They're still the people that you married or loved or,

519
00:31:24.539 --> 00:31:27.079
<v Speaker 4>you know, whatever. And now they're really going to need

520
00:31:27.259 --> 00:31:31.980
<v Speaker 4>your help. Because if I didn't have Tom and my girlfriends,

521
00:31:32.299 --> 00:31:34.509
<v Speaker 4>like my girlfriends would encourage me to do this because

522
00:31:34.529 --> 00:31:36.369
<v Speaker 4>they said, I think you need closure, even though it's

523
00:31:36.400 --> 00:31:37.069
<v Speaker 4>been this long.

524
00:31:37.829 --> 00:31:39.930
<v Speaker 5>I felt like it was time when I found your email.

525
00:31:41.069 --> 00:31:47.599
<v Speaker 4>We would never insinuate by any means that She started

526
00:31:48.019 --> 00:31:52.799
<v Speaker 4>the fire. We don't know. And to this day, the

527
00:31:52.859 --> 00:31:56.339
<v Speaker 4>insurance company, all they know is that they sent the

528
00:31:56.400 --> 00:32:01.609
<v Speaker 4>dryer off to be inspected and they found nothing wrong

529
00:32:02.420 --> 00:32:05.769
<v Speaker 4>with the dryer. So the insurance company couldn't go after

530
00:32:05.829 --> 00:32:08.450
<v Speaker 4>the dryer manufacturer because that's what they were hoping, right?

531
00:32:09.250 --> 00:32:11.329
<v Speaker 4>So to this day, and I don't know if it's

532
00:32:11.390 --> 00:32:16.319
<v Speaker 4>because of COVID or whatever, we don't know why a

533
00:32:16.880 --> 00:32:21.880
<v Speaker 4>fire started in the dryer and how that would have happened.

534
00:32:23.000 --> 00:32:26.839
<v Speaker 1>While Tom and Joanne were navigating the financial and legal

535
00:32:27.079 --> 00:32:31.380
<v Speaker 1>aftermath of the entire situation, Dean was living with a

536
00:32:31.420 --> 00:32:35.519
<v Speaker 1>different kind of consequence, one that had been building quietly

537
00:32:35.559 --> 00:32:38.319
<v Speaker 1>for years and that had by this point become the

538
00:32:38.359 --> 00:32:42.799
<v Speaker 1>defining weight of everything that had happened. Dean's children.

539
00:32:43.990 --> 00:32:46.910
<v Speaker 2>Three of his children stayed in his life after one

540
00:32:46.950 --> 00:32:50.519
<v Speaker 2>decided not to come around anymore. From the outside looking in,

541
00:32:50.559 --> 00:32:53.539
<v Speaker 2>somebody might say, like, why didn't you guys take legal

542
00:32:53.680 --> 00:32:57.880
<v Speaker 2>action because this child was still under the age of 18?

543
00:32:57.880 --> 00:33:01.440
<v Speaker 2>We did seek legal advice, even though our attorney said, yeah,

544
00:33:01.460 --> 00:33:04.960
<v Speaker 2>I do feel like there's something here and we can

545
00:33:05.359 --> 00:33:07.819
<v Speaker 2>take it to court. Have you ever put any thought

546
00:33:07.880 --> 00:33:12.039
<v Speaker 2>into what then? You have this group. child who has

547
00:33:12.079 --> 00:33:14.319
<v Speaker 2>been brainwashed to think that you guys are the enemy

548
00:33:15.140 --> 00:33:17.460
<v Speaker 2>now you have taken this child away from the mother

549
00:33:18.180 --> 00:33:20.819
<v Speaker 2>and now this child is in your home what then

550
00:33:21.759 --> 00:33:25.319
<v Speaker 2>he was still able to see this child at the

551
00:33:25.519 --> 00:33:29.200
<v Speaker 2>tournaments basketball tournaments and stuff well then those all ended

552
00:33:29.839 --> 00:33:33.069
<v Speaker 2>and he was no longer able to see this child

553
00:33:34.210 --> 00:33:37.210
<v Speaker 2>so then after a few months we didn't hear from

554
00:33:37.430 --> 00:33:40.750
<v Speaker 2>another one of his kids And so we decided to

555
00:33:40.829 --> 00:33:42.099
<v Speaker 2>do a wellness check.

556
00:33:43.380 --> 00:33:47.200
<v Speaker 1>Whitefish Bay Police Department records confirm a welfare check was

557
00:33:47.279 --> 00:33:53.140
<v Speaker 1>filed on April 27th, 2023. Dispatch notes record, caller states

558
00:33:53.180 --> 00:33:56.380
<v Speaker 1>his wife is in a cult now. Leader convinces them

559
00:33:56.460 --> 00:34:00.019
<v Speaker 1>to go to Florida and abandon their children. Officers attended

560
00:34:00.079 --> 00:34:04.119
<v Speaker 1>the address. Kahira Noelani told them everything was fine and

561
00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:07.880
<v Speaker 1>that the children were purposefully not communicating with their father.

562
00:34:08.710 --> 00:34:12.480
<v Speaker 1>She also told the responding officer that she had domestic

563
00:34:12.539 --> 00:34:17.420
<v Speaker 1>violence concerns about her ex-husband. Three days later, Dean returned

564
00:34:17.440 --> 00:34:20.360
<v Speaker 1>to the police station in person. This time, he named

565
00:34:20.420 --> 00:34:24.619
<v Speaker 1>the community directly. On April 30th, at the Whitefish Bay

566
00:34:24.639 --> 00:34:29.059
<v Speaker 1>Police Department, Dean described concerns about his ex-wife's involvement in

567
00:34:29.119 --> 00:34:32.429
<v Speaker 1>what he called the Liyana Shanti cult, and that the

568
00:34:32.469 --> 00:34:35.570
<v Speaker 1>Liyana Shanti community was posting untrue things about him on

569
00:34:35.590 --> 00:34:39.929
<v Speaker 1>the internet. He expressed concern about his 15-year-old daughter's welfare.

570
00:34:39.949 --> 00:34:43.070
<v Speaker 1>Police advised him that his concerns were civil in nature

571
00:34:43.170 --> 00:34:45.789
<v Speaker 1>and referred him to an attorney and to family court

572
00:34:45.869 --> 00:34:47.730
<v Speaker 1>to address the placement of his daughter.

573
00:34:48.889 --> 00:34:52.639
<v Speaker 2>Well, then the wellness check ended up backfiring a little

574
00:34:52.679 --> 00:34:57.000
<v Speaker 2>bit because the mother lied. His ex lied and told

575
00:34:57.019 --> 00:34:59.820
<v Speaker 2>the kids that he was doing a wellness check on

576
00:35:00.079 --> 00:35:03.840
<v Speaker 2>the two boys that are in college, not even in

577
00:35:03.880 --> 00:35:06.840
<v Speaker 2>the state. And when they blasted him on the internet

578
00:35:06.860 --> 00:35:10.219
<v Speaker 2>for this, they didn't even mention the child that we

579
00:35:10.260 --> 00:35:14.119
<v Speaker 2>were actually doing the wellness check on. Totally kept his

580
00:35:14.139 --> 00:35:16.780
<v Speaker 2>child out of the equation and just focused on the

581
00:35:16.840 --> 00:35:19.880
<v Speaker 2>two boys that were out of the state in college.

582
00:35:21.139 --> 00:35:22.840
<v Speaker 2>And then the boys started texting.

583
00:35:23.360 --> 00:35:26.239
<v Speaker 3>Nasty texts to me, calling me crazy for doing that.

584
00:35:27.659 --> 00:35:31.849
<v Speaker 3>Using profanities that I had never heard from them before.

585
00:35:32.309 --> 00:35:33.989
<v Speaker 3>And now all of a sudden they're just blasting me

586
00:35:34.010 --> 00:35:37.710
<v Speaker 3>with it. and pretty much saying that we want nothing

587
00:35:37.730 --> 00:35:38.909
<v Speaker 3>to do with you from now on.

588
00:35:39.969 --> 00:35:43.489
<v Speaker 1>The exchange that followed was made public, not by Dean

589
00:35:43.710 --> 00:35:46.719
<v Speaker 1>and not by his children, but by Liana Shanti on

590
00:35:46.760 --> 00:35:51.860
<v Speaker 1>her Instagram. On her public Instagram account, at Liana Shanti,

591
00:35:52.360 --> 00:35:56.099
<v Speaker 1>Liana Shanti posted a series of Instagram stories featuring screenshots

592
00:35:56.159 --> 00:36:00.050
<v Speaker 1>of private messages sent by Kahira Noolani's adult sons to Dean.

593
00:36:00.809 --> 00:36:05.300
<v Speaker 1>The post included Dean's full name, and was labelled Kihira's

594
00:36:05.420 --> 00:36:09.579
<v Speaker 1>adult son's messaging dean. One post had a caption saying,

595
00:36:09.599 --> 00:36:14.210
<v Speaker 1>the silly little story they kept trying to perpetuate. A

596
00:36:14.269 --> 00:36:17.809
<v Speaker 1>separate story framed the posts as, truly a beautiful example

597
00:36:17.929 --> 00:36:20.550
<v Speaker 1>of what it looks like when a powerful divine feminine

598
00:36:20.590 --> 00:36:23.840
<v Speaker 1>woman who has healed her wounds raises three incredible boys

599
00:36:23.969 --> 00:36:28.380
<v Speaker 1>into amazing young men. The accompanying text read, such strong

600
00:36:28.440 --> 00:36:33.179
<v Speaker 1>divine masculine men Kihira raised. The sons wrote to Dean

601
00:36:33.219 --> 00:36:36.119
<v Speaker 1>that they'd grown up and realized how terrible of a

602
00:36:36.159 --> 00:36:39.820
<v Speaker 1>father he had been. One message, which Liana quoted separately

603
00:36:40.300 --> 00:36:43.050
<v Speaker 1>on its own black slide in enlarged white text, read,

604
00:36:43.670 --> 00:36:46.849
<v Speaker 1>We are finally happy without him in our lives. So

605
00:36:46.929 --> 00:36:49.349
<v Speaker 1>stop this shit. We're sick and tired of all the

606
00:36:49.389 --> 00:36:53.369
<v Speaker 1>pain he's caused. Posted by Liana Shanti as a standalone

607
00:36:53.409 --> 00:36:55.909
<v Speaker 1>pull quote on her public Instagram stories.

608
00:36:57.010 --> 00:37:01.030
<v Speaker 3>And so now I went from, you know, one of

609
00:37:01.050 --> 00:37:04.809
<v Speaker 3>my children, not having a relationship with me to now

610
00:37:04.869 --> 00:37:08.710
<v Speaker 3>all four not wanting a relationship with me. And I mean,

611
00:37:08.750 --> 00:37:13.880
<v Speaker 3>that was heartbreaking. And I just remember sobbing. And if

612
00:37:13.920 --> 00:37:16.599
<v Speaker 3>I keep thinking about it, it will affect me. I mean,

613
00:37:16.639 --> 00:37:19.360
<v Speaker 3>it does on a daily basis. I think about my

614
00:37:19.380 --> 00:37:20.099
<v Speaker 3>kids all the time.

615
00:37:21.079 --> 00:37:22.380
<v Speaker 2>He still reaches out to them.

616
00:37:22.599 --> 00:37:24.940
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I send them texts here and there, and I

617
00:37:25.159 --> 00:37:28.670
<v Speaker 3>never get a response, which is difficult. The one response

618
00:37:28.710 --> 00:37:30.170
<v Speaker 3>I got was, stop texting us.

619
00:37:31.849 --> 00:37:34.670
<v Speaker 1>For Dean and Charlotte, the silence from the children has

620
00:37:34.710 --> 00:37:39.190
<v Speaker 1>been one of the most painful consequences of everything that transpired.

621
00:37:40.230 --> 00:37:43.510
<v Speaker 1>And over time, they've developed their own view about why

622
00:37:43.590 --> 00:37:47.429
<v Speaker 1>that distance remains and what they believe Kahira's fate will

623
00:37:47.469 --> 00:37:49.980
<v Speaker 1>be if she remains within the community.

624
00:37:51.340 --> 00:37:54.300
<v Speaker 2>Like, I honestly don't think she's going to turn her

625
00:37:54.340 --> 00:37:56.480
<v Speaker 2>back on Leon. If she's in it till the end,

626
00:37:56.679 --> 00:38:01.320
<v Speaker 2>that's how I feel about it. I would love to

627
00:38:01.360 --> 00:38:04.840
<v Speaker 2>be wrong about that. I would love for her to

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<v Speaker 2>wake up and get out of this and just be

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<v Speaker 2>done with all of it. I think for Kahira, if

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<v Speaker 2>Liana says it, then it's true. I've actually seen a post.

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<v Speaker 2>If this is what Liana likes, I like it too.

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<v Speaker 2>And I do feel like she loves Liana like a mother.

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<v Speaker 2>Liana has taken over as her mother. And also, the

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<v Speaker 2>kids feel the same way. I mean, they've wrote it

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<v Speaker 2>numerous times, like, Liana has been more of a mother

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<v Speaker 2>to me than anything. They think the same way of her.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the same way Liana coaches Kahira. And who knows?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe Liana's coaching the kids. I mean, you know that

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<v Speaker 2>they're all homeschooled, and you know Liana has homeschool programs, curriculums.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's crazy when I found that out. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, so they've been homeschooled by this woman too. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>It just goes so much deeper than we thought. To

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<v Speaker 2>be honest with you, this whole thing, like I used

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<v Speaker 2>to be obsessed. I asked my husband, I was obsessed

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<v Speaker 2>with this. And eventually there was just one day where

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm working on this chronology and I totally lost interest.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm done. I'm walking away. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>care anymore. And then from then on, like we've had

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<v Speaker 2>such peace in our home. It was so freeing. It

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<v Speaker 2>was so freeing. It was a weight lifted off of

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<v Speaker 2>my shoulders.

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<v Speaker 3>We started, you know, dating and we started having conversations

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<v Speaker 3>about Jesus, the church again. And it all came pouring

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<v Speaker 3>back into my life again. And I yearned for it. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>then I started attending her church and, you know, meeting friends, family.

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<v Speaker 3>The last couple of years now, we've been attending the

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<v Speaker 3>same church, really got involved in volunteering, and it's been good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been really good. We've been serving together, we're volunteering together.

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<v Speaker 2>It's what keeps us grounded, to be honest with you, because, like,

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<v Speaker 2>going through what we've gone through, it's really hard not

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<v Speaker 2>to be reactive, and I feel like, me personally, like,

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<v Speaker 2>God has taught me so much through this process. I

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<v Speaker 2>have learned not to be reactive. I've always been a

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<v Speaker 2>very reactive person, like, You burn me, I'm gonna burn you. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to speak my truth now. Like, now you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna hear the other side of the story. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>really taught me, like, I don't need to get the

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<v Speaker 2>last word. Like, the other side of the story, would

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<v Speaker 2>it even matter if I told it? Who knows? Would

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<v Speaker 2>you listen?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, a lot of people, when you get married,

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<v Speaker 2>you go through things over time. We faced it immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like, we got that craziness out of the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to say we won't. face other craziness, but.

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<v Speaker 3>We were literally thrown into the fire immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I had a huge death in my family. I

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<v Speaker 2>lost my mom at the same time. He lost one

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<v Speaker 2>of his children who just totally turned their back on him. Um,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was heartbreaking. And I, you know, I'm grieving

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<v Speaker 2>my mom and not realizing, oh my gosh, he's grieving

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<v Speaker 2>his child. You know, so we're both trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>this through together. I'm needing him to, like, be the

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<v Speaker 2>strength for me. But I'm like, wait a minute. He's

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<v Speaker 2>grieving too. And I feel like, you know, with a

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<v Speaker 2>death of somebody, an actual death of somebody, there's a final.

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<v Speaker 2>It's final. When you lose a child like that who

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<v Speaker 2>you know is still out there, there's no closure to that.

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<v Speaker 1>For Dean and Charlotte, the loss isn't final in the

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<v Speaker 1>way death is final. The children are still out there somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>And that leaves one question that will never quite go away.

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<v Speaker 1>What if, one day, they all decide they want to

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<v Speaker 1>come home?

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<v Speaker 3>I would just say that's an answer to prayer. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>we've both prayed over this whole situation that they all

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<v Speaker 3>come out of it, snap out of it and wake

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<v Speaker 3>up and see just how deceived they were and how

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<v Speaker 3>deceiving Liana is. And that they just see the grander picture.

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<v Speaker 3>But no, if that were to happen, I'd say we

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<v Speaker 3>would both be welcoming and helping them to recover and

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<v Speaker 3>supportive as much as we could be. I mean, my

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<v Speaker 3>dream is to have my kids back again.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I definitely agree with him. As much as, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>the Bible teaches us that as much as we are forgiven,

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<v Speaker 2>we're required to forgive. I forgive her now. Even though

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like she's torn things apart and separated my

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<v Speaker 2>husband from his children, like, I forgive her now. Because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to allow that unforgiveness to hold us

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<v Speaker 2>down in our lives, you know? Like, we forgave her

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<v Speaker 2>a long time ago. It's hard. It's not easy to forgive.

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<v Speaker 3>And the crazy thing is, you know, we both, we

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<v Speaker 3>have literal dreams about the kids all the time, you know?

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<v Speaker 3>And a lot of it is, like, they're, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we can tell they're hurting and wanting to come out,

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<v Speaker 3>but They're stuck and they're so lost and they're brainwashed.

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<v Speaker 3>But we're ready for them to snap out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>By the end of this story, Tom and Joanne had

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<v Speaker 1>lost a home, money, and friendship they say was built

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<v Speaker 1>on deception. Dean and Charlotte were left with something even

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<v Speaker 1>harder to quantify. Children still alive, but increasingly unreachable. And

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<v Speaker 1>in both cases... the same name sat at the centre

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<v Speaker 1>of the fallout. Next time, we widen the lens again

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<v Speaker 1>and follow that pattern further. Because the deeper we go

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<v Speaker 1>into Liana Shanti's world, the clearer it becomes that none

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<v Speaker 1>of these families were isolated cases.

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<v Speaker 8>And then you see this person in front of you

728
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<v Speaker 8>who is a real human being. It's the weirdest, most, like,

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<v Speaker 8>validating experience ever the woman that i saw in person

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<v Speaker 8>the woman that i listened talked to in a courthouse

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<v Speaker 8>with a judge was a person who is very manipulative

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<v Speaker 8>who is very aware of what she is doing liana

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<v Speaker 8>shanty i think that's a made-up person.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your host casey And join us next time for

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<v Speaker 1>episode

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<v Speaker 4>Eight of the Insta Scammer.
