1 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: Hey, bebs, I'm back. Part two. It's me Chris Farrah. Welcome. 2 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:13,320 This is Vanity Fair. It's ninety Day Fiance. It's season twelve, 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:21,800 episode twelve, So help me God, yay Part two. Okay, 4 00:00:21,879 --> 00:00:27,320 my loves, Let's move forward, shall we. Okay, we have 5 00:00:27,359 --> 00:00:31,719 already talked about Paula and Thomas and Marissa and Edward, 6 00:00:31,839 --> 00:00:37,840 and we've already talked about Mito and Debbie. So we're 7 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,560 gonna pick up with Asha and Malcolm. So she's on 8 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,640 the phone with her friend Patricia, and Patricia can't have 9 00:00:43,679 --> 00:00:45,679 time for this, honey. So you know, Patricia like probably 10 00:00:45,679 --> 00:00:48,119 hangs up, but not before Asha was like, let's do 11 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,719 a quick prayer. And she's like, yeah, quick prayer. Oh no, 12 00:00:51,119 --> 00:00:55,079 static just hangs up on her face. It's like sorry God, 13 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,399 but also God, you know that she's crazy. Sometimes I 14 00:00:58,399 --> 00:01:01,359 gotta just hang up. You have to really, you know, 15 00:01:01,439 --> 00:01:06,760 sometimes be cognizant of the energy you're giving out. So 16 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:13,599 we have Rob and Asia's sisters in Nigeria at the hotel, 17 00:01:14,239 --> 00:01:18,079 and as we know, Asha has gotten an airbnb, so 18 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:24,280 different places, and the driver doesn't have the address to 19 00:01:24,359 --> 00:01:28,680 the airbnb, so Asha has to get on that for 20 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:30,840 them to come and is like, have you told my 21 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:34,239 family that anything? He's like no. We find out that 22 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,799 it's her two sisters and her mom's friend, which is 23 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,519 interesting because her two sisters look older than her mom's friend, 24 00:01:39,879 --> 00:01:42,920 who should be older. Juliette her mom than all of them. 25 00:01:43,439 --> 00:01:46,879 I found that interesting. Juliet is wearing like a pink 26 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:52,519 laced top, Honey, it looks super cute and it's like 27 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,400 a two piece, and then sorry, and then Asha's wearing 28 00:01:55,439 --> 00:01:58,719 like a cute green leaf two piece. We meet her 29 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:04,799 sisters and it's Jacola and Glenna, and they're basically like 30 00:02:05,359 --> 00:02:09,479 all our lives. She's been very bossy, Asia's very Katie like, 31 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:15,560 less making out. We think more the blood, the blood, 32 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,039 the blood, the blood. Every time Katie makes up in 33 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:22,000 with someone, Asha's saying the blood somewhere same people like 34 00:02:22,039 --> 00:02:24,680 it's there is maybe just yeah, I guess there's a 35 00:02:24,719 --> 00:02:31,960 repetitive repetitiveness. There's also a bossiness and a controllingness to 36 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,879 both people. Oh that's so interesting, and maybe a little 37 00:02:35,879 --> 00:02:42,120 bit of an obsessiveness, maybe sort of like a tendency 38 00:02:42,159 --> 00:02:46,199 to look outward and judge others without kind of bringing 39 00:02:46,199 --> 00:02:50,599 that energy back to themselves, maybe both Katie and Asia. Okay, 40 00:02:54,879 --> 00:02:57,479 So finally they get the driver to get the address 41 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,680 and they meet up at the airbnb. Now we also 42 00:02:59,719 --> 00:03:02,159 realize like him and his family are gone, they're already 43 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,599 like at the event they're having, like a beach meet 44 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,639 up or whatever. So they have come to Ashia to 45 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:15,360 pick her up, and she, you know, is dancing around 46 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,800 the idea of the fact that they really want us 47 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,360 to know that she obviously has told Rob everything. Rob 48 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,159 hates all of this, and that she hasn't told her 49 00:03:22,199 --> 00:03:25,960 sisters or this mom's friend. I don't know quite why 50 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,039 the mom's friend is so precious that she doesn't know 51 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:32,280 the mom knows, like Juliette knows that she's about to 52 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,639 marry Malcolm. So I don't understand why they're like, we 53 00:03:35,719 --> 00:03:40,080 can't tell Juliette's friend. God forbid, we know what her 54 00:03:40,199 --> 00:03:45,800 opinion is on the situation. Doesn't that seem weird to you? Also? 55 00:03:47,159 --> 00:03:52,840 Are we supposed to subtly think that Asha and Rob 56 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:56,039 Rod Sorry, I'm going to say Rod and Rob. I'm 57 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,199 going to go back and forth over and over again 58 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:04,800 for some reason with him and it's Rod. Okay, it's Rod, 59 00:04:06,199 --> 00:04:08,199 but are we supposed to pick up on like subtle 60 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,479 sexual tension between Asia and Rod. I'm gonna have to 61 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:16,319 ask my reality gays this we are right, we're supposed 62 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,560 to sort of be like, why aren't you with each other? 63 00:04:19,079 --> 00:04:21,800 You've grown up together, you both love God. You both 64 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,240 can you know, tell each other the real real like 65 00:04:24,319 --> 00:04:29,240 you know your families love each other. You both know 66 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,399 each other. Have you both ever tried? He seems a 67 00:04:32,439 --> 00:04:37,680 little older than her, but you know, I'm not saying 68 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,480 she should be attracted to him. But at the same time, 69 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:48,240 you know, okay, He's like, why are you keeping secrets? 70 00:04:50,199 --> 00:04:53,879 And She's like, how dare you you think I'm pregnant? 71 00:04:54,199 --> 00:04:57,879 How dare you? You know I'm a Christian lady to 72 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:02,319 think that I would be caring. Also, if I'm telling 73 00:05:02,319 --> 00:05:05,600 you I'm not pregnant, just believe that. How dare you? 74 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,920 He's like, this doesn't make sense, doesn't make sense. Why 75 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,800 you would rush it. She's like, on, it's here already, 76 00:05:09,959 --> 00:05:11,920 I'm already here. You know how hard it is to 77 00:05:11,959 --> 00:05:15,360 get here. It's like exhausting. So I'm just like here 78 00:05:15,439 --> 00:05:17,920 is am I get it done? I'm annoyed. Also, there's 79 00:05:17,959 --> 00:05:19,759 also I think a part of Asia. If this is 80 00:05:19,759 --> 00:05:22,720 all to be believed, that is like I'm on a crusade, 81 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:27,439 a christ crusade. I know what Christ wants, which is 82 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:31,480 coincidentally what I want, which is nice. And if you 83 00:05:31,519 --> 00:05:35,600 go against what Christ wants, slash me, then I have 84 00:05:36,879 --> 00:05:44,120 no no barrier between what I will do in this world, 85 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,720 this civilization, or what is normal for other people to think, 86 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:53,160 because my only job is to further Christ's and my agenda. 87 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,439 She's like God said, Maxwell and I are to get married. 88 00:05:58,079 --> 00:06:03,240 How dare Nigeria or America or the visa process alone 89 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:07,319 stand in our way? So if the only way for 90 00:06:07,439 --> 00:06:11,199 me to trump them and to get around this stupid 91 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:15,839 earth business is to get the spousal visa that I'm 92 00:06:15,879 --> 00:06:18,560 going to, I don't care what it looks like. I've 93 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,959 already told you it's what God wants, slash me. And 94 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,959 so that's what's happened. Like it like it almost feels 95 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,399 like that kind of thing. I've never known, the amount 96 00:06:26,399 --> 00:06:32,000 of confidence one would need to stand not only ten 97 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,720 toes down in whatever decision I want in my life, 98 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:39,759 but then all of God's being down behind me and 99 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:47,399 a decision. I think it sounds kind of great. Okay. Now, 100 00:06:47,439 --> 00:06:54,199 of course Rod is like I get robo calls all 101 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,879 of a sudden. That's all Nigeria. That's all they do 102 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,800 is just sit there and robo call, which is funny 103 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:08,639 because usually robo calls are like AI voices. I guess 104 00:07:08,639 --> 00:07:11,360 there's different ones, you know. Obviously, now we're in the 105 00:07:11,399 --> 00:07:13,319 realm of like the funniest ones to get are they 106 00:07:13,399 --> 00:07:20,959 like AI texts? Hey, moving back to Los Angeles? Can 107 00:07:20,959 --> 00:07:27,120 we meet up again and talk? And it's like unknown 108 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,240 number as I'm supposed to be, like, oh my god, 109 00:07:29,519 --> 00:07:31,680 I wonder if this was that one person one time, 110 00:07:31,959 --> 00:07:35,720 or oh my god, at least someone from life is 111 00:07:35,759 --> 00:07:37,519 texting me. I can't wait to find out if I 112 00:07:37,519 --> 00:07:39,040 have a new friend. Like, you know, It's just it 113 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:40,759 is kind of a sad thing to think how many 114 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:47,800 people like get hooked in such a weird text phishing scam. Anyway, 115 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,079 I wonder how many times Rod's getting those texts and 116 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,199 is like writing back and then being like, oh a 117 00:07:52,319 --> 00:07:59,839 Nigerian person again, Oh I thought it was my friend Matilda, 118 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:04,040 randomly just said to Matilda, who obviously was a lovely 119 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,879 nne of Day cast member from an African country, but 120 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:10,839 you know, I'm just I'm in my own mental realm. Okay. 121 00:08:11,839 --> 00:08:14,839 So at this point, now we're all going to go 122 00:08:14,879 --> 00:08:17,839 to the beach and have like a beautiful meetup with 123 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,360 his family, and there's gonna be like various bonfires behind them, 124 00:08:21,399 --> 00:08:27,879 which coincidentally behind framing Asia and Maxwell makes them look 125 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,319 like they're in hell. There's literally flames behind them, which 126 00:08:31,399 --> 00:08:33,200 I caught. I don't know if anyone else did. I'm 127 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,279 surprised that, like Rod didn't make conversation like you guys 128 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,120 have the flames of hell behind you, you know, I'm 129 00:08:39,159 --> 00:08:43,879 quite sure or if you just thought that. Okay, So 130 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,720 Kathy is Juliet's friend, and yeah, Kathy just looks younger 131 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,960 than everyone else involved, and so I'm like, daw did 132 00:08:55,039 --> 00:09:01,960 Juliet and Kathy meet? When Rod gets introduced to Maxwell 133 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,120 and Maxwell's family, he says down, he doesn't say much. 134 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,480 Juliette's like, Rob, what do you say? Which I found 135 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:11,279 that interesting because I know that Juliette knows that Rod thinks. 136 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:15,679 So why would Juliet want Rod to voice his opinion 137 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:23,039 knowing it's going to in fact be antagonastic antagonistic to 138 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:27,360 the situation, Unless Juliet wants back up to be like, 139 00:09:27,519 --> 00:09:34,279 someone get my daughter to not do this. Juliet is 140 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:43,519 there and to me rather like guarded with her opinion. 141 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:50,120 She seemingly is supportive of her daughter. But if we're 142 00:09:50,159 --> 00:09:52,559 also to believe that she has washed her hands of 143 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,200 trying to control her daughter, then she just goes along 144 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,919 with things because it's probably easier. And I would love 145 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,559 Juliette's like seecret agenda to be like I. Once Rod 146 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,919 gets here and Rod gets his opinion out there, I'm 147 00:10:05,919 --> 00:10:11,279 just gonna hop on in. I need, you know, to someone, 148 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,360 and so I need like a backup or like an 149 00:10:14,399 --> 00:10:19,399 offensive line front line. Then I go in after them. 150 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:25,720 Rod's like, I say, you charmed her good Maxwell and 151 00:10:26,399 --> 00:10:28,720 her sisters are also like, it's weird that you didn't 152 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:30,759 tell us earlier so that we could be and then 153 00:10:30,799 --> 00:10:34,000 they both say this at the same time prepared, And 154 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,000 in my mind it wasn't so much that they were 155 00:10:37,039 --> 00:10:40,000 going to prepare some sort of like PowerPoint presentation of 156 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:43,159 why she shouldn't do this. I'm assuming that they meant 157 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:48,679 fashion wise, like how dare you not tell us that 158 00:10:48,759 --> 00:10:53,200 we're coming abroad for a wedding? So that we can 159 00:10:53,240 --> 00:11:00,279 bring appropriate fashion, because what would be the preparation you 160 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:08,039 would do besides packing to confront this. Like if my 161 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:13,120 cousin Monique was Asia and I was my cousin me 162 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,200 or Asia or you know, obviously her cousin slash sister 163 00:11:17,279 --> 00:11:18,919 who was in this situation, and I was brought to 164 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:20,879 a country where now my cousin was like, guess what, 165 00:11:20,879 --> 00:11:24,639 I'm getting married to someone? And I was like, how 166 00:11:24,759 --> 00:11:26,679 dare you not tell me earlier so that I would 167 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:31,600 be prepared. That's not what I would do if I 168 00:11:31,639 --> 00:11:34,240 didn't want her to get married. If I didn't want 169 00:11:34,279 --> 00:11:36,120 her to get married, I would just start being like, 170 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,799 you can't get married, don't get married in that person? No, 171 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,440 you know, I'd be like, my first line of defense 172 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,799 would be then to try and get other people to 173 00:11:44,399 --> 00:11:45,840 be on the same side as me, is that this 174 00:11:45,879 --> 00:11:47,799 person shouldn't get married. I would try, you know, and 175 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:51,919 get her parents, her sisters, any other person that we 176 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,440 know to be like you're not doing this, talk or 177 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:54,960 out of it, yell at her, you know what it is, 178 00:11:55,039 --> 00:11:57,600 but that's not what her sisters do. It does seem 179 00:11:57,639 --> 00:12:04,159 like all her family walks around her like on egg shells, 180 00:12:04,919 --> 00:12:08,440 and has it always been this way? Is it this way? 181 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,879 Because they all agree with her that she is a 182 00:12:11,919 --> 00:12:14,840 prophet and they all believe her, so they're all like, 183 00:12:14,879 --> 00:12:17,519 we can't it's really hard to argue with God slash 184 00:12:17,519 --> 00:12:22,600 her or they just have allowed her to align herself 185 00:12:22,639 --> 00:12:27,399 with God so many times that it's like just one 186 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:31,000 big personality trait that she's bossy and they allow it 187 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,519 and they don't think that she's a prophet. But like, 188 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:39,440 it's just annoying how to deal with her. Because if 189 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,720 someone in my family who was bossy and controlling and 190 00:12:42,759 --> 00:12:45,960 always crazy and I just had to like walk around eggshells, 191 00:12:46,399 --> 00:12:49,240 was also going around these streets being like I'm a 192 00:12:49,279 --> 00:12:51,879 prophet of God and then also trying to use that 193 00:12:52,039 --> 00:12:57,120 against me in situations I would often be like, no, 194 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:02,799 you're not. God does not want you to get your 195 00:13:02,799 --> 00:13:06,919 way about where we're gonna go to dinner tonight, are 196 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,879 you no? God? No, I don't think God wants us 197 00:13:09,879 --> 00:13:14,559 to go to sup plantation again. Also, you're crazy for 198 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:21,720 thinking that. I just feel like these sisters have had 199 00:13:21,759 --> 00:13:23,919 to deal with so much on her behalf. I need 200 00:13:23,919 --> 00:13:25,879 to know why why have they allowed it? Are they 201 00:13:25,919 --> 00:13:30,200 also in the same church. Does Juliet go to that church? 202 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,159 Because if they all go to a different church, and 203 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:39,720 if they all know that she's using this god stuff 204 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,960 to further her agenda, and she's also a bossy person 205 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:47,279 by nature, why is no one calling her out? Why 206 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:55,000 is Rod the only person that has a voice? This 207 00:13:55,080 --> 00:14:00,159 is weird. Also, why does Juliet have this one young friend? 208 00:14:00,039 --> 00:14:06,279 And why is Juliette's friend there? Why wouldn't I don't 209 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:15,080 know her dad come out. There's like a billion questions 210 00:14:15,159 --> 00:14:19,120 right like, and no answers. Okay, I'll tell you right now. 211 00:14:19,159 --> 00:14:22,000 The answers could easily exist on her TikTok because she's 212 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,200 often on it and often live and I don't want 213 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:29,639 to know, I don't care, I don't know, I can't 214 00:14:29,679 --> 00:14:36,360 watch it, okay. So basically she's like, listen now, they're 215 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:39,039 all here. Yes, we're getting married. And it's for the 216 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:41,120 reason why I was I have a good at spousal 217 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:44,480 because we got denied and I want this to didn't 218 00:14:44,519 --> 00:14:46,720 be happening, and I want this to happen now. And 219 00:14:46,759 --> 00:14:49,559 they're like, well, what happens if you still get denied? 220 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:58,279 And she's like, no, I didn't think about that, and no, 221 00:14:59,159 --> 00:15:04,600 my mom what I want. Now. There's a lot of 222 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:10,679 different viewpoints here, and one viewpoint is that Maxwell's dad 223 00:15:11,519 --> 00:15:13,039 is like, I want you to have them babies. I 224 00:15:13,039 --> 00:15:14,600 want you to have two girls and two boys. And 225 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,559 she's like, well, I'm only gonna have two pregnancies, so 226 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,799 unless I have two sets of twins, that's the only way, 227 00:15:22,879 --> 00:15:27,000 mathematically and god wise, we would both get what we want. 228 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:38,600 Rod's like, let me ask Maxwell some questions. What career 229 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:43,879 will you chase after once you're in America? And he's like, oh, 230 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:50,279 cars buyer seller, Like, oh, okay, you're gonna sell You're 231 00:15:50,279 --> 00:15:55,120 gonna sell cars. I got like a lot what it is? Yeah, 232 00:15:55,240 --> 00:16:02,399 I mean you know, yeah, you can go to like Teyota, Alabama. Yeah, 233 00:16:02,519 --> 00:16:06,399 get get a job. And then he's like that's what 234 00:16:06,399 --> 00:16:08,559 I used to do here. But also my dad like 235 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:12,320 is an electrician, so I have grown up knowing how 236 00:16:12,399 --> 00:16:17,960 wires work. And then it becomes a little awkward because 237 00:16:19,919 --> 00:16:29,519 Rod says, well, I don't want you. I don't want 238 00:16:29,559 --> 00:16:32,840 you to scam my god sister, because I know Nigerians, 239 00:16:32,879 --> 00:16:37,799 you know, like scam people, and you what are you 240 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,279 going to do to like take care of you know, 241 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:43,919 American women who really expect there to be providers. And 242 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:49,720 he's like obviously offended by that, Maxwell, and then Rod's like, 243 00:16:49,759 --> 00:16:51,240 how much do you have in your bank account? And 244 00:16:51,279 --> 00:16:55,279 when he says that, honey, Maxwell's real fucking pissed. He's like, 245 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:59,879 Nigerians know how to work. Americans are lazy, and Rod's like, 246 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:02,919 you're talking about Americans are lazy. And then Maxwell's like, 247 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,279 you have machines do everything for you. We have no 248 00:17:06,559 --> 00:17:09,160 machines here. Everything we do we do with our own hands. 249 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:11,359 We have to count, you know whatever. It is like 250 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,200 we're doing it. I can't wait to be in America 251 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,359 and use the machines. And It's like, well, it's interesting, truly, Yes, 252 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,119 of course, the machines. Like if you I don't know, 253 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,559 if you were to be you know, on a car 254 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:27,200 lot selling cars, as you know, car salesperson, you would 255 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,160 have your machines like your computer and you have to 256 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:31,039 like log all your things. But yeah, you would still 257 00:17:31,039 --> 00:17:34,200 have to make the sale. Bec a machine isn't making 258 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,880 the sale, unless, of course, people buy cars online. I 259 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,240 don't really know, you know, I'm you know, it's like 260 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:45,119 yes and no, there's always this idea that once you 261 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:49,160 get something, the world opens up to you. And it's 262 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:56,960 interesting to see this play out through other people's mentalities too. 263 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:05,720 There's this sort of need to problem solve the world. 264 00:18:05,799 --> 00:18:08,079 I've talked about this a lot, where then your mind 265 00:18:08,519 --> 00:18:12,400 signs a certain like you know, justice, Okay, this than this, well, 266 00:18:12,519 --> 00:18:15,559 this than this right, And it's hard to free yourself 267 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:18,599 of that because you can get locked into a certain 268 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:22,680 way of thinking, Uh, if I'm in America, I will 269 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,440 make enough money and I'll be able to you know, 270 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:29,960 like be whatever. And that might not, you know, obviously 271 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:33,000 happen for a variety of reasons that you didn't even 272 00:18:33,039 --> 00:18:37,880 take into account because you weren't in America yet. In 273 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,799 a like very small way, it's like so dumb. I remember, 274 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:45,319 like truly thinking in the early ads, like I booked 275 00:18:45,319 --> 00:18:48,920 like three national commercial commercials, and I thought that I 276 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:53,240 would never have to work in a restaurant again. Like 277 00:18:53,279 --> 00:18:54,680 this is like you know, I just thought, like I 278 00:18:54,799 --> 00:18:57,480 just thought that growing up, like when you know you're 279 00:18:57,599 --> 00:19:00,000 enacting classes and stuff that like once you start booing, 280 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:04,319 especially the timeframe the nineties and early on, it's like 281 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:08,640 national commercial commercials that you were like a working actor, 282 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,319 and you you know, that's what you were doing. That's 283 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,119 what's always going to happen. Now, you're just to keep 284 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,880 doing that. That's what you are now. A couple of 285 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:20,279 things happened. A commercial contracts shifted and so you didn't 286 00:19:20,319 --> 00:19:22,359 make as much as you used to do. Uh. And 287 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:27,640 then also movie actors started to do commercials, so that 288 00:19:28,599 --> 00:19:32,400 TV actors weren't being able to do commercials as much. 289 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,039 Movie actors were doing TV shows, and so like there 290 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:38,039 was like less of an opportunity that there was I 291 00:19:38,039 --> 00:19:40,720 think in the realm before and or I wasn't even 292 00:19:40,759 --> 00:19:43,599 a working commercial actor when I thought the things I thought, 293 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,960 and so when I got to be one, I was 294 00:19:47,079 --> 00:19:49,440 wrong in what I thought because I wasn't even there 295 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,480 yet to know the ins and out. It's like okay, 296 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,160 but okay, but like we think, we just we want 297 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,880 there to be like meaning an order in life. So 298 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,880 we're like, well this and this and this and that, okay, 299 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:04,799 so all that to be Definitely, Maxwell has some ignorance 300 00:20:04,799 --> 00:20:09,720 and nativte that, like it's easy to work in America 301 00:20:10,039 --> 00:20:13,400 and make money now in some ways is it easier 302 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:19,960 than Nigeria. Yes, it's easier work to do a job 303 00:20:20,079 --> 00:20:24,319 in America, and it's easier to live in America to me, 304 00:20:24,839 --> 00:20:28,960 and I'm saying Medisine who's never lived in Nigeria. It's 305 00:20:29,079 --> 00:20:33,240 just not easy to keep up and live how do 306 00:20:33,319 --> 00:20:36,440 you think you should or well or to the degree 307 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:40,640 you think other people are in America or in the life, 308 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:45,599 even in the social media landscape. To keep up with 309 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:50,119 how you think everyone else is doing is overwhelming, you know, 310 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,440 because it's like you think that everyone is, you know, 311 00:20:52,519 --> 00:20:54,960 driving the newest car and the newest nice car or 312 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,240 like the newest lux car or then everyone ever. You 313 00:20:57,279 --> 00:21:02,359 think that everyone has you know, crazy vacations and you know, 314 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,359 crazy homes and all whatever it is, and some people do, 315 00:21:06,519 --> 00:21:11,960 some seple don't. But like the it is very difficult 316 00:21:12,319 --> 00:21:16,119 credit wise and utility, you know, utilities and how much 317 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:22,880 everything costs to live in the way that Americans live. 318 00:21:23,079 --> 00:21:26,359 And if you haven't lived in America, you might not 319 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:32,640 understand all the things that happen. Now, Rod, who already 320 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:37,319 is coming in hot and Maxwell should be trying to charm, 321 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,400 is doing like a mediocre job because Rod hates him 322 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,799 and has to hear Maxwell like be like Maxwell means greatness, 323 00:21:45,839 --> 00:21:50,400 so that's how you'll think of me. Rod's like, Now, 324 00:21:50,519 --> 00:21:53,880 if this did turn into a situation where Rod pulled 325 00:21:54,079 --> 00:21:57,720 Asha's aside and was like, don't do a girl, don't 326 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:01,279 do it when you got me right there, I think 327 00:22:01,279 --> 00:22:02,880 that would be into it. It would give it a 328 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:08,000 little drama. I think it would be also would be fake. Okay, 329 00:22:08,079 --> 00:22:15,640 So Maxwell does have like a little sister sidebar being like, 330 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,359 we don't. We don't scam. It's not for our family. 331 00:22:19,839 --> 00:22:22,799 Our family likes to judge people based upon age. It's 332 00:22:22,799 --> 00:22:30,279 more of our family's thing. I would say. Anyway, Okay, babes, 333 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:45,599 let's move on, shall we. Okay, Malory and Rashid, we 334 00:22:45,839 --> 00:22:49,599 are wedding dress shopping and not at line Felds. But 335 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:53,759 this place looks adorable. I like this place. What a 336 00:22:53,839 --> 00:22:59,319 homegrown place, honey. I like the sales associate Victoria. I 337 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:03,680 like the chalk with bubbly on the side. I don't know, 338 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,240 I like it. I like the chalkboard. You know, all 339 00:23:05,279 --> 00:23:08,359 the ping. Now we know Malory is there with her 340 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:12,319 besties Mikayla and Katie. So now I really have to 341 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:18,240 understand is Katie part of this friend circle? Is Katie 342 00:23:18,799 --> 00:23:24,599 romantically involved with Brandy. I mean, okay, why haven't they 343 00:23:24,599 --> 00:23:29,160 told us this? Does it? Does Brandy just kind of 344 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,319 like hook up with everyone in the circle. Because if 345 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:38,759 Katie is going home from a party with Brandy that 346 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:45,599 there's been drink sat I'm assuming they hooked up. So 347 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,400 if Katie and Brandy are hooking up, we need to 348 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,960 know this is this is the like, this is the drama. 349 00:23:51,039 --> 00:23:52,279 Speaker 2: Like I'm like, that's so, this is why I've been 350 00:23:52,319 --> 00:23:55,400 making me mad because I think that the upcoming like 351 00:23:55,519 --> 00:23:59,440 Malory Rashid drama, rasha drama, like with like whether the 352 00:23:59,519 --> 00:24:02,799 kids are gonna happen for them, that feels forced and 353 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,920 fake because there's too many like tropes we have. 354 00:24:06,079 --> 00:24:09,640 Speaker 1: It's like the secret into the oh no, will they 355 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,240 or won't they right before the wedding because like they 356 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:17,759 do these storytelling patterns to get drama right, and it's 357 00:24:17,799 --> 00:24:21,000 like the secret, like I said, oh no, telling of 358 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:25,519 the secret and then will they make it to the altar? 359 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:33,319 I'm like, fuck all that, Katie? Are you fucking Brandon? 360 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,920 What's that? Like you guys just not putting a label 361 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:45,880 on it yet? Or also like Malory, are you all jealous? 362 00:24:48,519 --> 00:24:50,920 How long? How long is you know? Like, I please, 363 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,559 please give me these what I actually want to know, Like, please, 364 00:24:54,759 --> 00:24:59,880 it's rude doing all this, not give me what I want. Okay, 365 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:06,200 So we talked about Kleinfeld's Panina Torney lookalike dresses. Okay, 366 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,359 So at this wedding dress shop we get two Malorie dresses. Okay. 367 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:17,920 The first Mallorie dress is this one. And it's a 368 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:22,680 beautiful kind of plain like structured strapless dress that really 369 00:25:22,799 --> 00:25:32,160 like accentuates her waist and also covers her neckline beautifully. 370 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,079 Like also, I'm saying this as a big tittied lady. 371 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,839 Strapless gowns can also easily like sort of fall down 372 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:44,039 in such a way or like start to fall in 373 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:45,839 the front, like that's what happens to my boobs on 374 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,640 the shading my boobs on the pull shading my body. 375 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:52,079 I'm not quite sure, but she looks gorgeous in that dress, 376 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,640 and she's like, I'm you know, don't anything that's too 377 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,720 tight or too see through because his family is going 378 00:25:56,759 --> 00:25:58,920 to be like facetiming in and also like my family's 379 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,440 there or and my friends will get into more of 380 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,400 her family situation a second, which we don't really know, 381 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,240 and we're glad to know. Now She's like, I really 382 00:26:06,279 --> 00:26:08,599 want to look classy, but later on I will look 383 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,920 like a five dollars horre. Honey, I'm going to make 384 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,279 that change. I can't wait. I love like a fun 385 00:26:13,559 --> 00:26:18,759 wedding outfit change. So Mikayla and Katie, you know, get 386 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,359 that free champagne. You know, I don't know if she's 387 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,519 going to get the cheese platter for Murray's, but they 388 00:26:23,519 --> 00:26:25,880 get the champagne. And we talked about the first dress. 389 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,200 The second dress that she tries on is a really beautiful, 390 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:35,720 like flower embroidered number with kind of like a I 391 00:26:35,799 --> 00:26:38,960 don't know, I forgot it what you called it. It's 392 00:26:39,039 --> 00:26:42,599 like the sleeping beauty neckline where there's like points out 393 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,039 got forgot it. I don't really know cuts of dresses 394 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,319 very well, but I wish I did. But it has 395 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:56,400 detachable which I don't love that part, pearl droopy sleeves 396 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:05,039 and they are reminiscent of Audrey Hepburn's dress in My 397 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:10,319 Fair Lady. That are gorgeous, super elegant. And then what 398 00:27:10,599 --> 00:27:16,079 happened was there has been many different inspo dresses since then, 399 00:27:16,559 --> 00:27:20,720 but unfortunately Kendall Jenner did a version of this, like 400 00:27:22,079 --> 00:27:24,960 pearl droopy dress, I think in a met gala or 401 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:29,400 something like that, and it did become like also a trend. 402 00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:32,000 So now in the Year of Our Lord twenty twenty five, 403 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,839 Mallory's like, this is what I'm thinking about doing. It's 404 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:40,799 unfortunate that I even bring up Kendall Jenner's name because 405 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:44,680 it really isn't obviously an Audrey Hepburn moment, but for 406 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:50,240 people to sort of like do things that haven't been 407 00:27:50,279 --> 00:27:54,039 seen them come back up in a moment. It's annoying 408 00:27:54,079 --> 00:27:57,759 to do a trend like that for your wedding because 409 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,160 in a couple of years, you'll be able to date 410 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:07,000 a wedding pick within two years, and there is a 411 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:12,160 certain loveliness to a classic, you know, sort of like 412 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,680 timelessness in a wedding dress because of all the pictures 413 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:21,079 in your life. It's just you know, it's an important 414 00:28:21,079 --> 00:28:23,400 one and you're gonna see it, and it doesn't it 415 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,839 shouldn't be something to me that is like screaming a 416 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:35,880 certain year. People also like bring up the Grace Kelly dress, 417 00:28:36,039 --> 00:28:39,359 her wedding dress as being that like that lace kind 418 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,920 of like body con dress on top that was also 419 00:28:42,119 --> 00:28:49,039 I feel like Catherine Wales's dress. I really thought that's 420 00:28:49,079 --> 00:28:52,759 a beautiful dress. I sort of, yeah, I do love 421 00:28:52,839 --> 00:28:55,519 lace like that. Yeah, and I do love pearls or whatever. 422 00:28:55,519 --> 00:28:58,160 It's just too it's too bad that like a drapy 423 00:28:58,359 --> 00:29:00,960 sort of sleeve right there is just like so specific 424 00:29:01,279 --> 00:29:03,759 and not just specific to something great like Audrey Hepperd, 425 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,039 but also specific to a trend that was been revisited 426 00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:10,519 by a Kardashian Jenner. You know, I'm saying, don't do 427 00:29:10,599 --> 00:29:12,680 it to yourself, That's what I'm saying. Don't get married 428 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,359 in that dress. Surely fine, where are that kind of dress? 429 00:29:15,359 --> 00:29:16,759 If you like? And I do like it, you know, 430 00:29:16,799 --> 00:29:18,559 to like an event right now, to like a sexy 431 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,640 nighttime event, But don't get married in that dress yet, 432 00:29:20,799 --> 00:29:25,920 don't do it. Don't do it? Okay. So as she's 433 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,480 trngu on my dress, she's like, guess what, girls, there 434 00:29:28,559 --> 00:29:30,880 might not even be a wedding. They're like what what? 435 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,720 And we're like, oh my god, and it's like, yeah, 436 00:29:32,759 --> 00:29:35,920 here it comes. I have a secret, the secret that 437 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,400 I haven't told my husband or my fiance, and therefore 438 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,680 I might not even have a husband. It's like, what 439 00:29:41,839 --> 00:29:44,000 is it, and if the secret is that she might 440 00:29:44,079 --> 00:29:48,480 not want to have kids, and the reason is because 441 00:29:48,519 --> 00:29:50,559 she had a horrible childhood. She has a shitty dad, 442 00:29:50,599 --> 00:29:53,400 shitty mom, you know, real shitty mom, shitty dad. Both 443 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,039 of them just like absolute trash. Kicked her out when 444 00:29:57,039 --> 00:29:59,680 she was in that car accident. Didn't come So she's 445 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:01,680 just like, why do I want to even? Like, what 446 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:02,960 am I going to be? What kind of mom am 447 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:09,400 I going to be? What? What instruction have I seen? 448 00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:12,599 What example have I been shown that makes me feel 449 00:30:12,599 --> 00:30:16,200 like I can do it? And both women are like, 450 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,960 but no, but he wants kids. But one thing we 451 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:20,799 know about him is he wants he wants kids right now. 452 00:30:20,839 --> 00:30:22,319 He would have kids right now. You can't. You have 453 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,519 to tell you have to talk to him because he 454 00:30:24,599 --> 00:30:28,480 wants kids. We're like, we it's interesting that, Yeah, it's 455 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,880 I guess my mind. I'm like, it's a little heavy 456 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:36,440 handed that you guys are so on the side of 457 00:30:36,519 --> 00:30:42,640 him having and wanting kids. Surely she knows she's with him, 458 00:30:43,119 --> 00:30:47,039 she knows that he wants kids. You're not like closer 459 00:30:47,079 --> 00:30:53,359 to him than she is. You keep like you're saying 460 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,160 that over and over again, seemingly to fan the flames 461 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:06,920 of like the direness of this, Like, to me, it 462 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,160 seems like bad directing to have the friends being like, well, 463 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,079 you got to tell him he wants kids so bad, 464 00:31:12,759 --> 00:31:15,920 because it's just like, yeah, it seems very obvious that 465 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:21,279 you're trying to raise the stakes, you know what I'm saying. 466 00:31:23,519 --> 00:31:25,720 Can we just talk more about Brandy and Brandy's dick? 467 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,680 I want to like, why isn't Katie and fucking Mallory 468 00:31:28,759 --> 00:31:32,079 talking about like, well does he do that thing sometimes 469 00:31:32,119 --> 00:31:37,519 to you? Why doesn't Katy have a conversation with Rashet 470 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,039 where she's like, you don't have to worry about Brandy 471 00:31:40,279 --> 00:31:42,880 and malorymore because I'm here and I take care of 472 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,000 my man and I can take care of you too. 473 00:31:45,119 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 2: Min. 474 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:50,759 Speaker 1: I'm like, I want that kind of drama. Oh just 475 00:31:50,759 --> 00:31:54,839 feels so fake. The next day, she's home with him 476 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,279 and she's making tea and he complains that it's too hot, 477 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,880 also that there's dog hare at it, which grows. She's like, no, 478 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,240 there's not, or it's fine, just use it to stir. 479 00:32:04,519 --> 00:32:08,359 It's very listen, my dogs have very thick, straight hair. 480 00:32:08,559 --> 00:32:13,920 Just use it to steer, steer, stir the tea. Is 481 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,039 it hard for you to say those two words right now? 482 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:21,680 Say the word stir and then say the word steer 483 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,759 ster her? Maybe maybe, now that I said it out loud, 484 00:32:25,839 --> 00:32:27,160 not that hard. But when I was trying to say 485 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,640 to my mind hard steer stare steer stir, that's what 486 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:36,640 it is. Okay, she's upset. She's upset, and uh he 487 00:32:36,799 --> 00:32:43,880 recognizes that uh face. He's like, why you are face 488 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:52,039 like toilet right now? He has such a way with words. 489 00:32:54,839 --> 00:32:58,759 I mean he puts roomy to shame, like he knows 490 00:32:58,759 --> 00:33:00,480 what he's doing. He knows what he's being funny with that, right, 491 00:33:04,559 --> 00:33:08,400 that's hilarious. She's like, you're right. My face like toileta 492 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:14,240 right now because I have to tell you something. I 493 00:33:14,279 --> 00:33:18,119 don't know if I want to have a baby. And 494 00:33:18,119 --> 00:33:20,599 it's because I don't know if I would be a 495 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,839 good mom. He's like, why do you always think bad 496 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:24,640 all the time. She's like, why do you always think 497 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:30,160 good all the time. He's like, I need to have kids. 498 00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:35,960 I want my parents to love my kids. It's like 499 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,319 I've seen them with my brothers and you know, they're kids, 500 00:33:41,319 --> 00:33:43,440 and I want my parents to do that with my kids. 501 00:33:45,079 --> 00:33:47,519 When my parents look back up at me and for 502 00:33:47,599 --> 00:33:49,799 us all to know we did the thing where we 503 00:33:49,839 --> 00:33:55,079 shared the jeans. You gave me jeans, I gave them jeans. 504 00:33:55,480 --> 00:34:02,920 These are our jeans, jeans jeans. Sometimes you know we're 505 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,079 gonna be like, look that one has your eyes, that 506 00:34:05,119 --> 00:34:09,239 one has your nose. Plus, Mallorie, have you seen me 507 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:14,519 and my brothers. We're hot, all of us sign a 508 00:34:14,559 --> 00:34:17,280 contract with God where we said we're gonna keep these 509 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:23,159 genes going for humankind. So my parents they need to 510 00:34:23,159 --> 00:34:30,760 see kids. He gets up and he walks away. He's 511 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,679 really upset. Every I'm assuming that he's going to go 512 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,440 to that little like shed where he likes to, you know, 513 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,840 build things. And we realize he's wearing a shirt. In 514 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:42,639 the shirt on the front side says have a nice day, 515 00:34:44,039 --> 00:34:46,039 which is funny because he's like, he gets up and 516 00:34:46,079 --> 00:34:48,000 walks away without saying anything, so it just feels like 517 00:34:48,039 --> 00:34:51,639 he's said bad on the shirt. And then as he's 518 00:34:51,639 --> 00:34:53,400 walking away, we see the back of the shirt and 519 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,599 the shirt has a finger putting, you know, a fuck 520 00:34:56,639 --> 00:34:58,599 you symbol up. I'm sorry, a finger up is what 521 00:34:58,639 --> 00:35:01,239 it is, because that is the fuck you SAI internationally, 522 00:35:02,159 --> 00:35:05,440 and it is one of the more American shirts I've 523 00:35:05,559 --> 00:35:08,960 seen in life, meaning that he's already done the transition. 524 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:17,320 Why didn't he wear this shirt to the white Trash party? 525 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:21,159 This is a white trash shirt. That's the white trashiest 526 00:35:21,159 --> 00:35:29,119 shirt ever. Now, again, we're supposed to really really believe 527 00:35:29,599 --> 00:35:33,880 and sit in like, oh, no, they might not get 528 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:38,760 married now because he wants kids and she doesn't know 529 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,039 if she wants to have kids, because we understand she's 530 00:35:42,079 --> 00:35:46,800 been through turmoil. So what do we do. We're gonna 531 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,360 wait and it's like, no, we know they're gonna get married. 532 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,840 They love each other. They're one of the better, like 533 00:35:53,920 --> 00:36:01,599 stronger couples on the season and in past seasons. So 534 00:36:01,679 --> 00:36:03,519 I guess in my mind, I'm like, yeah, like, why 535 00:36:03,559 --> 00:36:07,199 can't we just focus on things that are happening there? 536 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:11,360 Like why do they think we need the old secret? 537 00:36:11,599 --> 00:36:16,119 Oh no, will they or won't they? It's been played 538 00:36:16,159 --> 00:36:19,199 out so many times, You've done it so many times. 539 00:36:24,159 --> 00:36:29,360 I guess. Also, the here's just this, I'm not okay. 540 00:36:29,639 --> 00:36:35,599 I don't want Rash to experience any sort of discriminate discrimination. 541 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,440 They set up that that could happen. So my only 542 00:36:41,559 --> 00:36:45,360 question is the entire time that he's been here, has 543 00:36:45,559 --> 00:36:52,480 nothing happened, Like he's just had perfect experiences the whole 544 00:36:52,519 --> 00:36:55,840 time with everyone. Again, I don't want him have a 545 00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:58,880 bad experience. I'm just saying in storytelling, why is they 546 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:02,760 set up that that might happen? And so did it? Anyway? 547 00:37:03,639 --> 00:37:07,599 I just okay, okay. My love's last couple is Katie 548 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:14,280 and Josh. My god, Katie and Josh. All right, So 549 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:20,679 they're at a cake consultation with her parents Danielle, Sorry, 550 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,440 Daniel and Debrah. It's forty five days to wed. Now 551 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,880 We're all like, what this is so weird for a 552 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,239 lot of reasons. Hey, why do we care about Daniel 553 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,320 and Debrah's view once on this Also, we had known 554 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,079 but we don't even we know that there's no venue yet, Like, 555 00:37:36,119 --> 00:37:41,480 where is that happening? So they're expecting they say fifty 556 00:37:41,519 --> 00:37:45,440 people to the cake people were like, oh okay. The 557 00:37:45,519 --> 00:37:47,559 cake people are like, what are your colors that you 558 00:37:47,599 --> 00:37:49,360 have in mind? And she's like, I don't have any 559 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,800 colors in mind. He's like, well, how about burgundy. She's like, 560 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:55,039 well except that color. I had that color, not in mind. 561 00:37:55,199 --> 00:38:02,800 I had in mind, not that color. She says, though, 562 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,719 that for this wedding, she will not be bossy like 563 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,159 a bridezilla. She's just going to be her regular amount 564 00:38:08,159 --> 00:38:14,079 of bossy, which is obviously already too much. Also, weirdly, 565 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,679 something about her is that everyone in her life is like, 566 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,840 she's so bossy, and yet everyone's only too happy to 567 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:25,000 put her in charge of everything. I would assume if 568 00:38:25,039 --> 00:38:26,920 I had the power of a family behind me, and 569 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,559 then someone who is doing something wrong, I could use 570 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,000 the power of the family to put the person in 571 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,639 their place by being like, listen, bossy, yes, bitch, you 572 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,599 don't get to control everything. Now I get to, or 573 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:43,960 we'd get to the democracy of this family because you 574 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,960 have shown yourself to be unreliable and not a dictator. 575 00:38:50,599 --> 00:38:53,440 We find out that they don't have a venue yet 576 00:38:54,119 --> 00:38:57,000 for some reason, they thought there might be an option 577 00:38:57,159 --> 00:38:59,840 to get married at her parents' house. So they just 578 00:39:00,159 --> 00:39:03,079 ask the parents if they can have a wedding at 579 00:39:03,119 --> 00:39:06,360 the house. And I don't know what the parents' backyard 580 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,800 looks like that there's no chance. I would think that 581 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,840 this house could probably do like fifty people. Her parents 582 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:16,880 are like, no, no, and that's crazy that you would ask. 583 00:39:18,639 --> 00:39:20,880 But here's the thing. It's like, you should think that 584 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,400 your daughter's going to ask because the one thing, well, 585 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:24,920 there's a couple of things we know about Katie. Of 586 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:29,880 course OCD, drunk making out. She loves to be frugal, 587 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:34,159 So I would assume that my daughter's first line of 588 00:39:34,199 --> 00:39:37,719 defense over anything would be to use me or whatever 589 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:41,840 I have for free for her. So if she needed 590 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,480 a venue, and I had a venue that I live 591 00:39:44,559 --> 00:39:47,480 in day and day out, I would assume this self 592 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,840 serving cheap person to be like, let's use you without 593 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,400 any sort of like rhyme or reason of how that 594 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:57,519 might impact you in your life. Because Katie's like, I'll 595 00:39:57,559 --> 00:40:00,239 sleep in a car, So why who cares? If you know, 596 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,880 I don't know, I wouldn't want to have a wedding 597 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,000 in my home, but I've never you know, I just 598 00:40:04,079 --> 00:40:13,480 that's me. Okay. So they now have to fight a venue, 599 00:40:13,679 --> 00:40:17,000 which seems like thing you to do number one, besides 600 00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:18,920 the fact they also have to find clothes to wear 601 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:24,039 and also send out invites on a date. But for 602 00:40:24,079 --> 00:40:25,880 some reason, the cake goes the first thing that they 603 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,920 decided to do. And I don't even really understand if 604 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:33,280 we got a decision on that, because at this cake situation. 605 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:39,639 Josh finds out that Katie has been getting contacted by 606 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:43,639 the shipping people that are shipping all of his UK stuff, 607 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,239 and she says that she has told him that she's 608 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:52,280 been dealing with them, and he says that she hasn't, 609 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,920 and that this has been like a high priority thing 610 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,320 for him that he's been worrying about, and she is 611 00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,480 treating it like it's not really a big deal, and 612 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:06,960 the situation is something like they told her there's going 613 00:41:07,039 --> 00:41:09,840 to be a three hour window of them delivering his 614 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,119 stuff to their place in Portland where they're not and 615 00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,960 she has to now. She's like, you have to call 616 00:41:16,039 --> 00:41:19,559 them to get the window changed because we're not there. 617 00:41:20,039 --> 00:41:26,599 And he's like what. He's like, why do they have 618 00:41:26,639 --> 00:41:28,719 your number? And again yeah, we're like why do they 619 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:33,800 have your number? You're from the UK, you have a phone, 620 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:38,760 has WhatsApp. She's like, I told you in a text. 621 00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:44,239 We're like, okay, well then where's the text. She has 622 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,559 a lot on her plate for someone who keeps screaming 623 00:41:46,559 --> 00:41:48,119 about not wanting to have a lot on her plate 624 00:41:48,119 --> 00:41:52,599 and how she can't handle her plate. That's all she's 625 00:41:52,639 --> 00:41:54,760 really said to us, And for some reason, it's always like, yeah, 626 00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,280 he doesn't like the way I do things. He thinks 627 00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,119 I can't do things right, and so the whole play, 628 00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:03,320 the whole finding out apartments on my shoulder, Like Josh, 629 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,960 if you think those things, then buddy, you start to 630 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:09,719 do some things. Also, the priority of what you do 631 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:13,239 in this relationship seems to be off. Like, for instance, 632 00:42:13,519 --> 00:42:15,800 if you want to have nice furniture and you want 633 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,400 to have a nice bed, and you like want those things, 634 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,920 and you want nice eggs, then the priority of what 635 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,400 you're giving to this should be going out getting the eggs, 636 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,440 getting the furniture, all of that stuff. What to me 637 00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,599 seems weird. I don't know. This seems wild to me 638 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:36,639 that they're going to have any Easter of just Katie, 639 00:42:36,679 --> 00:42:40,519 even though she has siblings, her parents, and then her grandparents, 640 00:42:40,639 --> 00:42:43,800 no one else, no nieces, no nephews, no aunts, no uncles, 641 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:49,719 no cousins, at a major holiday at her parents' house, 642 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:55,239 which has very haphazard decorations. I mean, like what looks 643 00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,119 like one weird reef from like a Home Goods and 644 00:42:58,159 --> 00:43:01,000 then like something from a CBS. I mean it's like 645 00:43:02,039 --> 00:43:09,400 all crazy looking, and he's going to cook for their Easter. 646 00:43:12,639 --> 00:43:14,960 I can't even get over, Like, how weird I think 647 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:16,840 it is to have like a guest who's never been 648 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,800 to your home cooked for Easter cook the meal. I 649 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,199 think it's crazy. Okay, but she's you know, until this point. 650 00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,360 Now we're like hot on the heels of him needing 651 00:43:25,559 --> 00:43:27,960 needing to like be Lutheran, you know. And now that 652 00:43:28,039 --> 00:43:30,639 he'd I guess called the people, She's like, you know, 653 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,760 here meets these chickens, you know, and they have some 654 00:43:34,079 --> 00:43:36,920 fun back and forth over the fact that she wants 655 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:38,800 to try and capture one of the chickens, and her 656 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,280 chasing with chickens around is sort of, you know, as 657 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,480 reminiscent of her chasing around someone at a bar. And 658 00:43:44,519 --> 00:43:48,079 he can laugh about that because this is seemingly not 659 00:43:48,159 --> 00:43:55,679 as humiliating as it would be for someone else. She says, 660 00:43:55,719 --> 00:44:01,400 she always has a favorite chicken, and I wonder if 661 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,320 the chickens can tell. He asks if the chickens are dirty, 662 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:11,400 I mean that's relative. I mean they're walking around, you know, 663 00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:17,559 on dirt. So you know, she's wearing a red lip 664 00:44:17,639 --> 00:44:20,480 and a red dress with red earrings. She really loves red. 665 00:44:21,559 --> 00:44:24,199 You know, it's like a power color. For her. She 666 00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:28,320 loves that color. She holds a chicken for a pick 667 00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:32,760 and it's cute. Josh wants no part of him in 668 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:37,400 the pick. So but they're in a good mood because 669 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:41,440 they had a nice evening of shagging, he says. And 670 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:46,320 before they serve his food for lunch, her parents set 671 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:49,519 up an egg hunt egg hunt just for them again, 672 00:44:49,599 --> 00:44:54,280 because there's no kids there. This is just them, the 673 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,079 two adults. So the older adults set up a hard 674 00:44:58,119 --> 00:45:01,400 egg hunt just for them, where there's one golden egg 675 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:05,840 with two dollars in the middle. This is some of 676 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,800 the whitest shit I've had. I mean, this seems really basic, 677 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,320 really boring, really like I don't mean to say white, 678 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:22,559 but like just not necessary, bland, unseasoned, weird, awkward or 679 00:45:22,599 --> 00:45:26,280 cold or uncanny valley like it's all of those things. 680 00:45:27,159 --> 00:45:29,400 And it's like it like it starts with again that 681 00:45:29,519 --> 00:45:32,960 he's cooking for this family. Then they it's not a 682 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,679 real Easter, right because there's no one else really like 683 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,920 there and there's nothing really happening that they didn't seemingly 684 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:46,360 go to church in the morning, Like why if this 685 00:45:46,519 --> 00:45:49,880 is Easter? And the whole thing about them being Lutheran. 686 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:53,960 I would assume that this scene, and this is saying, 687 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,519 like from a Catholic porn of view, that the day 688 00:45:56,559 --> 00:46:01,639 would be we're making Josh go church. You're seeing that 689 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:06,239 all of the church shit Easter and Allelulijah, and He's 690 00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:10,159 raisen all of that. Then we're going to our house 691 00:46:10,199 --> 00:46:12,880 where our family is there, and you see a typical Easter. 692 00:46:14,159 --> 00:46:16,880 There are our little kids, and we've dyed these eggs, 693 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,239 and there's an Easter egg hunk for kids or you 694 00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:23,880 know whatever, goblass. But none of that's happened, which makes 695 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:29,440 this feel false, weird, fake, you know what I'm saying. 696 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:35,000 Why is he cooking sausage rolls for a holiday he 697 00:46:35,119 --> 00:46:41,199 doesn't even know or like or subscribe to. Why wouldn't 698 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,519 he have done the sausage rolls like the night they 699 00:46:43,519 --> 00:46:46,400 got there are a different night. Why isn't her mom 700 00:46:46,519 --> 00:46:52,280 making food? Why is there no ham honey? Why is 701 00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:58,599 there no honey baked ham? I don't get it unless 702 00:46:58,599 --> 00:47:00,920 you can really tell me, like this is just a 703 00:47:01,039 --> 00:47:05,360 very specificness of Lutheran culture and I don't know it, 704 00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:07,920 which I would be like, Okay, you're right, I don't 705 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,920 know it. I don't know what I'm a cultural Catholic 706 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:16,760 and I'm a Lebanese person, so like, I don't know, Josh 707 00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,760 is like, I don't want to have uh a kuns 708 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:24,320 for my kids. It's too competitive, which makes him seem 709 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:31,760 so wimpy. A hunts are fine, Like sports are fine. 710 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:33,079 You're not gonna have what You're not gonna have your 711 00:47:33,159 --> 00:47:37,079 kids play any sports then, because like A hunts whatever, 712 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:41,440 Like they can't play baseball or basketball? Ever, how about 713 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:46,159 rugby any of You're weird English sports? So soccer? So 714 00:47:46,199 --> 00:47:50,000 I mean football. Do you think football is too competitive? 715 00:47:50,679 --> 00:47:52,599 I mean, because surely it is. I mean you can 716 00:47:52,679 --> 00:47:56,480 give that, I mean makes no sense. So then we 717 00:47:56,519 --> 00:47:59,880 get a horrible conversation. Katie's grandparents are there, and you know, 718 00:48:00,039 --> 00:48:02,000 God blessed to have some other people at this table, 719 00:48:02,519 --> 00:48:17,320 and Katie's like comprehension levels are really suspect. Katie suddenly 720 00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:23,480 becomes like an Asia level god person of religious understanding, 721 00:48:24,599 --> 00:48:33,480 where she's like, Mommy, if Josh doesn't convert to Lutheranism, 722 00:48:34,679 --> 00:48:37,360 is he gonna go to Hell for the rest of 723 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,800 his life. He's gonna be burning hell all how long, 724 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:44,519 all for eternity, while I'm in heaven in front of Josh. 725 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:49,079 Josh is like, I'm agnostic. This is like this alone, 726 00:48:49,119 --> 00:48:53,159 this conversation is so banana ramas that I can't imagine 727 00:48:53,159 --> 00:48:56,119 any rational person getting married after it. Like if you 728 00:48:56,199 --> 00:48:58,400 are like I'm agnostic, no, I you know, I don't 729 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,559 really know if there's or not. And you think you're 730 00:49:01,559 --> 00:49:04,800 gonna get married to someone who's all all over on 731 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,960 the side of like say yes to this one, to 732 00:49:08,039 --> 00:49:10,480 this one kind of branch of God right now, right here, 733 00:49:10,639 --> 00:49:13,679 or for the rest of life. I'm sorry, for the 734 00:49:13,679 --> 00:49:16,840 rest of time, you'll be in damnation. Like that's just 735 00:49:17,199 --> 00:49:22,360 very different viewpoints. And Katie starts to be like, I 736 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,960 just want you and my kids to have the same 737 00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:32,679 values the Lutheran set of premiere values, which is tequila 738 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:34,480 means you can make out with people. I mean it 739 00:49:34,559 --> 00:49:39,199 means Jesus loves us. Like you're just like what, Like 740 00:49:40,079 --> 00:49:49,960 it's so crazy that you're like, Josh is the Debbie 741 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:54,079 of this situation where you're like, Debbie, why would you 742 00:49:54,079 --> 00:49:56,639 stay with me? Thought that everyone's like Josh, why would 743 00:49:56,639 --> 00:49:59,800 you stay with Katie? Katie seems to have a very 744 00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:03,480 very like black and white understanding of some things, and 745 00:50:03,519 --> 00:50:08,039 she cannot comprehend the nuance of things like she cannot 746 00:50:08,119 --> 00:50:14,039 comprehend the nuance that her way isn't the highway, and 747 00:50:14,079 --> 00:50:18,880 so everything that she thinks to be true. God is Lutheran. 748 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:22,440 Mom said, God is Lutheran. Mom said word Lutheran. Mom said, 749 00:50:22,599 --> 00:50:27,360 Heaven exists only for Lutheran. I need to check the 750 00:50:27,559 --> 00:50:30,239 oven fourteen times. I need to check the oven fourteen times. 751 00:50:30,599 --> 00:50:35,599 You shouldn't be so stringent in your planning. Like all 752 00:50:35,599 --> 00:50:40,840 of the things that she holds true, she holds true 753 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,480 in a way that she doesn't allow space for like 754 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:46,320 anything else right. And yet it's interesting to me because 755 00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:51,400 she will admit having hard times with like executive functioning 756 00:50:51,559 --> 00:50:54,760 or decision making or planning. So I guess at this 757 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,280 I've brought this up. It's like, how you have both 758 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,760 the ability to understand that you have hardship in this 759 00:51:01,039 --> 00:51:03,719 as well as be like, oh no, but I'm right 760 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,159 and it's only my way. The way you're doing it 761 00:51:07,199 --> 00:51:17,119 is wrong. He basically has to try and defend the 762 00:51:17,119 --> 00:51:19,119 fact that he does not want to be a Lutheran 763 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:24,079 or doesn't believe in Jesus Christ to her family in 764 00:51:24,119 --> 00:51:28,199 a way that is awkward because of course. Like the 765 00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:32,000 grandma's like, well, you have to believe in God. It's 766 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,079 not gonna work if you don't. And the mom's like, well, 767 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,039 if you don't accept Jesus Christ as you're a Lord 768 00:51:37,039 --> 00:51:41,840 and savior and no heaven. So I mean, you know 769 00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,920 Katie's right. Is that the one thing she is right about, 770 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,960 even like Katie's grandparents are like, she is bossy, she's 771 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:52,480 a lot, but she's right about that God stuff. She's like, 772 00:51:52,599 --> 00:51:55,119 I don't understand. I told you I was a Lutheran 773 00:51:56,039 --> 00:51:59,400 a long time ago, so you were fine with it. 774 00:51:59,559 --> 00:52:04,159 He's like, well, I also told you I was agnostic then, 775 00:52:04,159 --> 00:52:07,960 and you were fine with it. We both just accepted 776 00:52:08,039 --> 00:52:11,199 that at that moment. That's what had happened me. Hearing 777 00:52:11,199 --> 00:52:14,480 that you were a Lutheran wasn't like me being like, okay, 778 00:52:14,519 --> 00:52:17,360 now I will be too. It's weird that you thought that, 779 00:52:18,599 --> 00:52:22,159 because I didn't think that when I said I was agnostic, 780 00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:24,840 that you were gonna be like, oh okay, now me too. 781 00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:32,559 It seems like Katie does not want to get married, 782 00:52:34,119 --> 00:52:36,960 and so the making out with people is a way 783 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,360 for her to put a bridge in between or put 784 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:42,920 a roadblock in that because she can't be expected to 785 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:47,199 be like a you know, faithful wife if that's what's happening, 786 00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,719 and he should think twice about that. But it also 787 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:53,960 feels like this deal breaker suddenly of like having Lutheran 788 00:52:54,079 --> 00:52:56,119 kids and him being Lutheran is another way for her 789 00:52:56,119 --> 00:52:58,800 to be like, oh, maybe it won't work out because 790 00:52:59,039 --> 00:53:02,039 I don't think Katie he loves him like that. I 791 00:53:02,039 --> 00:53:05,719 think that Katie has insecurity issues and Katie feels like 792 00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:09,000 comfortable with him, and Katie has people like Katie's mom 793 00:53:09,039 --> 00:53:11,400 and her life being like, you should be nice to 794 00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:15,800 him because he's the best you'll ever get and you're weird. 795 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:23,320 So take this one. I guess I would. He's good 796 00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,760 for you. He makes you seem normal a little bit. 797 00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:29,559 So like it feels like Katie is dealing with both 798 00:53:29,639 --> 00:53:32,039 of those things in her head, and that's that's why 799 00:53:32,039 --> 00:53:37,159 we're seeing her sort of in real time weigh those things. 800 00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,320 He's like, they're like, will you go to church with us? 801 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:46,360 He's like, I'm not, I don't want to. Are you 802 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,920 asking me that without Katie's input? Would I be like 803 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:50,320 I want to get up early on a Sunday and 804 00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,400 go to church for an hour and a half. No, 805 00:53:53,039 --> 00:53:56,079 but I'm surrounded by you people right now, and you 806 00:53:56,159 --> 00:53:58,440 haven't said if you like my sausage rolls yet, so 807 00:53:58,519 --> 00:54:02,800 oh maybe i'd be like, enjoy your sausage roles. Ask 808 00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:07,159 me later. I don't see any fucking mashed potatoes around here. 809 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:14,320 Where's your sides? I don't know. I can't wait to 810 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,960 see what happens though. All right, my loves, thank you 811 00:54:17,039 --> 00:54:20,360 so much for being with me for these two parts 812 00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:23,400 of this. So help me, God recap, so help me 813 00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:26,639 God on Ahama deal with this season. I need your help. 814 00:54:27,119 --> 00:54:32,679 So help me, you guys and God slash Asia slash 815 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:36,119 the Lutheran version of God. I didn't know Lutherans were 816 00:54:36,159 --> 00:54:42,519 so like militant? Are They are the Lutherans the people 817 00:54:42,519 --> 00:54:45,559 that were like the Puritans. I gotta do some research. 818 00:54:45,679 --> 00:54:48,639 That's a distootoo stupid question. I'm sorry, I'll do some research. 819 00:54:48,679 --> 00:54:51,840 I'll come back to you, all right, my babes. If 820 00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:53,719 you haven't yet, please follow me. I'm at Chris el 821 00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,880 Fara on TikTok and on Instagram. I have a Patreon 822 00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,440 dot com slash Chris Farah. I have a Facebook group 823 00:55:00,119 --> 00:55:03,719 called Vanity Farah and my page Chris Farah on Facebook 824 00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,360 that you can go ahead and like, I also would 825 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,960 appreciate any sort of sharing you can do on like 826 00:55:09,039 --> 00:55:11,239 you know, your friends or on Reddit or any sort 827 00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,639 of forms of things that you've enjoyed or you know, 828 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,559 reels you like of me or whatnot. Truly would help 829 00:55:16,599 --> 00:55:20,039 me in so many ways. But also give me like 830 00:55:20,039 --> 00:55:22,320 that review would also help me. So thank you so 831 00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,360 much for helping me. Is what I'm trying to say. 832 00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:25,440 I love you guys. 833 00:55:25,519 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 3: Let's breathe and I'll let you guys go h feel 834 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:31,800 your heart, plant your feet. Let's do the thing where 835 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:37,480 we touch ourselves and bring ourselves to this very moment 836 00:55:38,119 --> 00:55:41,000 and connect our hearts, our minds, our souls, our spirits, 837 00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:49,800 our energies with acious God and Katie's God and God. 838 00:55:50,119 --> 00:55:55,079 But if you're an agnostic, also the universal divine Spirit 839 00:55:55,199 --> 00:56:00,599 that energetically connects us all as people that share the reality. 840 00:56:01,559 --> 00:56:02,800 Okay too breast. 841 00:56:02,519 --> 00:56:04,639 Speaker 1: To kind of try and get us into a rhythm. 842 00:56:04,679 --> 00:56:07,559 Wondering that if you're listening to this, maybe someone else 843 00:56:07,679 --> 00:56:11,360 is listening at the same time, and you guys are 844 00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:17,480 experiencing something together. This really probably in the moment, it's 845 00:56:17,519 --> 00:56:23,840 not digital or fake. Okay, here we go. 846 00:56:24,079 --> 00:56:52,679 Speaker 4: Blow it out, breath it in twice. 847 00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 1: All right, babes, take care of yourselves and one another, 848 00:56:55,559 --> 00:56:57,440 staying up for what you believe, and make art. I'll 849 00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:58,960 talk to you bye.