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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, Princess.

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<v Speaker 2>Here one is another episode of by Pumpkin Wrap Up Edition.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's get right to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I m M.

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<v Speaker 2>The first thing I want to talk about, real, real quick,

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<v Speaker 2>is y'all arguing with those ignits over fucking air conditioning.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you don't know what I'm talking about there,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, this past week there's been like a huge

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<v Speaker 2>heat wave. It's hot as fuck, guys, It's real fucking hot.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like we're dancing on the devil's tint. But

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a lot of European countries don't really do

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<v Speaker 2>air conditioning. And it's because Europe is higher up than

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<v Speaker 2>we are on the fucking lobe. Okay, it's it's further

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<v Speaker 2>up there, all right. And in general, in general, obviously

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<v Speaker 2>there are some exceptions. And so when we think about

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<v Speaker 2>their climate, they have a cooler climate than we do

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<v Speaker 2>because we're closer to the fucking equator, all right, especially depending.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you're in the US. And so this small fact,

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<v Speaker 1>this small fact.

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<v Speaker 2>Is arguing about incessantly online because they don't really a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of their structures don't really have a central air conditioning.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, they also say that they're that they're

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<v Speaker 2>that their buildings are too old to get that's a lie.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lie.

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<v Speaker 2>It might be too expensive for you to retrofit, but

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<v Speaker 2>that it is too old to get it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not true. That's not true. You could get it.

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<v Speaker 1>But also is that worth it? But I don't give

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<v Speaker 1>a fuck. I told you to stop arguing on the

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<v Speaker 1>fucking internet with them.

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<v Speaker 2>They have no idea about America. American culture not shit,

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<v Speaker 2>and you have no idea about them. Okay, maybe we

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<v Speaker 2>all know a little bit about each other, but living

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<v Speaker 2>in France, unless you did that, I don't think that

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<v Speaker 2>you know what that's like. And so it's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they're saying that the heat related deaths in Europe rival

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<v Speaker 2>the gun related deaths in America.

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<v Speaker 1>That's shocking to me. I don't think anything rivals the

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<v Speaker 1>gun related deaths in America.

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<v Speaker 2>But fine, But and I did see this video from

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<v Speaker 2>a saying air conditioning culture. I couldn't even finish it

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<v Speaker 2>because I was like, what is air conditioning culture? She

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<v Speaker 2>didn't mention something about the halves and the have nods

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<v Speaker 2>and that and that it would further like for like

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<v Speaker 2>the make a line between the halves and the haves,

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<v Speaker 2>not maybe you don't think there's a fucking line. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, but here's what I need to say. Stop

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<v Speaker 2>fucking arguing and I and I feel like I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like the reason we most people are mostly arguing with

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<v Speaker 2>British people. I feel like the reason that happens is

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<v Speaker 2>because we're speaking the same language, and so we think

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<v Speaker 2>that we should have a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have a lot in common. Maybe a shmidge

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<v Speaker 1>of things in common, but we have more not in common.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when somebody from over there is telling you

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<v Speaker 1>they don't have their HoTT as fuck and they might

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<v Speaker 1>die today because of the heat, okay, believe them. And

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<v Speaker 1>also when they say stuff like you don't need air conditioning,

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<v Speaker 1>block them, because yes the fuck you do. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just so stop arguing with them. Stop arguing with them.

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<v Speaker 2>Every time you see a post that goes why in

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<v Speaker 2>America that block them?

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<v Speaker 1>Block them.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't want you to answer them. They just want

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<v Speaker 2>to sit over there and play. And then the other

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<v Speaker 2>thing is every time you disagree with one of them,

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, what about your school shootings? Gleefully like they're

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<v Speaker 2>like like we're all sitting around being like this is

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<v Speaker 2>the best way to run things.

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<v Speaker 1>We know it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>We know it's not, but we're not French enough to

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<v Speaker 2>kill everybody in the government. And I personally think we

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<v Speaker 2>should be Okay, those French people, they'll take to the

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<v Speaker 2>fucking streets, all right, and we should take a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of that. That's a compliment, Okay. I don't care

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<v Speaker 2>what you got to say about the French. Those motherfuckers

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<v Speaker 2>were riot and that's kind of energy need we need to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>But what I'm saying, though, it is like block them,

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<v Speaker 2>Like seriously, that's all anybody has to say?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what about all your gun depths? Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having these gun depths because you're fucking king trying to

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<v Speaker 1>take away our guns and nobody got over it. And

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<v Speaker 1>that is fucking sad and shit, don't that what you

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't involved in? Sup? Let me stop.

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<v Speaker 2>I find these arguments pointless. I find them to be

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<v Speaker 2>mostly for Internet engagement. And I really think that the

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<v Speaker 2>people that are like having these conversations in serious ways

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<v Speaker 2>are spinning their circle, their their their circle. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>like when like when you're on a Mac and you're

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<v Speaker 2>like trying to click something and won't let you click

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<v Speaker 2>and it's just that spinny rainbow circle.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're just like, what the fuck and it just

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<v Speaker 1>keeps going and going and going and going going, and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to just wait or you have to shut down

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<v Speaker 2>your fucking mac book. That is what is going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut down the fucking map book. Doesn't nobody hears anybody, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>stop arguing with them, especially over fucking air conditioned.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want it.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't have to fucking have it real quick, Jack

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<v Speaker 2>Antonov and Margaret Quick are getting divorced. I so you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>if you didn't know, I did the Fame Sick episode right,

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<v Speaker 2>I went over Lena dumbs Lunt and I did this

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<v Speaker 2>the whole episode too, Lena Dunham's book, and I found

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<v Speaker 2>that to be super interesting. I told you the Jack

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<v Speaker 2>Antonov shit was the least interesting part of the book,

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<v Speaker 2>mostly because I don't care about him, and I think like,

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<v Speaker 2>if I cared about him, I would have been like,

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<v Speaker 2>ooh details. But I don't care about him and I

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<v Speaker 2>never care about the relationship. So the stuff that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>hearing for the first time is like, I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>anything to compare it against that I had no concept

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<v Speaker 2>of it before. I do think that, Like I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that relationship was over years before then, before you left

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<v Speaker 2>that relationship. Because mostly I don't think he always liked you.

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<v Speaker 2>And and I'm not saying Lena Dunham is likable. I've

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<v Speaker 2>said that, like, I don't think she's super likable. She's

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<v Speaker 2>funny and she is talented, but I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>likable she is. So I'm not blaming him, but I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think he liked her. Like when she was recovering

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<v Speaker 2>from her from her multiple health crisis, she would be

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<v Speaker 2>home with her parents the apartment that she shared with Jack.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. The lordship was weird. Why is Lord calling

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<v Speaker 1>Lena auntie Lena? Why would she be doing that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I so, like, you know, I don't have anything to

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<v Speaker 1>compare it to. I didn't have like a story of

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<v Speaker 1>Lena and Jai to compare it to. Out let me

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<v Speaker 1>use back up, and I'll keep saying this every time

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<v Speaker 1>Jack Antonov dated Scarlet Johansson, right, and everyone's like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, he did Scarlet Johansson. That's crazy. He must

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<v Speaker 1>have so much game, babe.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at a picture of scar of Scarlet Johansson and

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<v Speaker 2>Jack Antonov together. Those people are the are the most

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<v Speaker 2>we should be together people in the world. They look

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<v Speaker 2>exactly alike. They actually look like they're related in it,

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<v Speaker 2>but they definitely look like they they they riding on

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<v Speaker 2>the same bus.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I don't know what to tell you. Of course, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course he got her.

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<v Speaker 2>Why wouldn't he, Why wouldn't he Anyway, so him and

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<v Speaker 2>Margaret Qualley broke up, right and they've been married three years,

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<v Speaker 2>and I guess it's I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually don't know what happened. Yet. Jack showed up

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<v Speaker 1>to Taylor Swift's convention.

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<v Speaker 2>Conference with with without her, and I think he brought

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<v Speaker 2>his sister, and you know, then they announced the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>People were like, oh, I think they announced so they

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't steal Taylor's thunder. I was like, no, they announced

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<v Speaker 2>because in PR you want to announce right after something

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<v Speaker 2>big happen, so hopefully people won't be talking about you

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<v Speaker 2>as much. And I don't think that people are talking

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<v Speaker 2>about them as much as they would have if they

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<v Speaker 2>announced Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, but they Yeah, so they're broken up.

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<v Speaker 2>And I saw something that said that at Fame Sick

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<v Speaker 2>Lena's book is basically a curse, because I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>why why they are talking about anything but Jack, because

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<v Speaker 2>what else did it curse? People think that Margaret read

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<v Speaker 2>Famesick and then was like, that's a final straw.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's true at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's true at all. You think this

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<v Speaker 2>the first time she heard she You think this is

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<v Speaker 2>the first time she heard about the power point, the

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<v Speaker 2>Lord power point and how Jack and Lord were Obviously

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<v Speaker 2>if they were not physically, if they were not having

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<v Speaker 2>a physical sexual relationship, they were definitely having an emotional relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>an emotional affair. Do you think it's the first time

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<v Speaker 2>Margaret heard about that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't think any of the other stuff in

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<v Speaker 2>the book Margaret would find surprising because she's lived with

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<v Speaker 2>him for three years and I bet she could see

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<v Speaker 2>a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't think what the fuck she might not.

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<v Speaker 1>I've read the book.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that it's likely that people who have read

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<v Speaker 2>the book have had have come to her and tell

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<v Speaker 2>ever told her about it. But I don't think. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't it's possible she didn't. I honestly don't think it's

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<v Speaker 2>about that at all. I think they got married and

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<v Speaker 2>people really like romanticized their relationship. I mean, of course

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<v Speaker 2>you've got a romanticize the relationship. What else do you

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<v Speaker 2>do with relationships? Demonize them like their friends and colleagues,

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<v Speaker 2>and really romanticized in the public, you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>people having what's it called.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the thing where you too involve somebody you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even fuck. I know, parasocial people having parasocial relationships with.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, like really romanticized their love. And Margaret Qualley is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed her and made it was a Netflix I

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<v Speaker 2>guess it's not a movie. It was an ex Fleix show,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's only like once, its supposed to be one season.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the memoir it's based on I call required reading,

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<v Speaker 2>especially if you want to understand poverty, how people get

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<v Speaker 2>into it, how people, how it sucks you down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you should. I think you should read it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's super compelling and she's been in some other ship.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't fucking know, like is she really pretty? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>That's all I fucking know about her. I just really

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<v Speaker 2>don't think it's that book. I don't think. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like okay, because if your relationship is really good or

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<v Speaker 2>even just fine. Right, It's not amazing, but it's fine

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<v Speaker 2>if your relationship is fine, and you read a book

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<v Speaker 2>in which his ex girlfriend describes him as kind of standoffish.

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<v Speaker 1>The fights, he.

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<v Speaker 2>Get a little low, you know, the type of person

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<v Speaker 2>and Lord, forgive me, I can be that person too,

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<v Speaker 2>The type of person if you get into a fight

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<v Speaker 2>with them, they just they just unload the clip on

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<v Speaker 2>you and they start mentioning some shit that that you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you've been thinking about this. That's what he seems to be.

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<v Speaker 2>And he seems he seems to be someone who will

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<v Speaker 1>That's what that's the type of person he seems to be.

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<v Speaker 2>And your tasting books sucks, Your tasting movies suck, Your

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<v Speaker 2>Lena described him. But again, I told you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Lena Dunham. Dunham is incredibly.

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<v Speaker 2>Self aware, and that's where her awareness ends. She does

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<v Speaker 2>very well in a way that a lot of people don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But it doesn't extend past her own nose. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>maybe maybe she's unfairly portraying him, who knows. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>not the book, guys, it can't be the book because

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<v Speaker 2>if that's not, if she's having a great relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna dismiss that. You wouldn't be like, hmmm, is

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<v Speaker 1>that how he really is? You've been married to him

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<v Speaker 1>for three years. You wouldn't do that. You would dismiss

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<v Speaker 1>I actually like when people get divorced. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody should be doing that. When people quit at my job,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, good, not because I want them gone, but

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, I hope you're getting something you want, Like, like,

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I'm happy to get that's kindly weird. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about this particular video that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>There's a woman who starts.

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<v Speaker 2>She sounds like she has like a try state at

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<v Speaker 1>That's what she sounds like.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's like, I'm nineteen, married, I have a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of kids, and this is the right where I want

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<v Speaker 2>and they start doing She just talks.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's it's it's the usual stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, it's an honor to have children, having kids so young.

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<v Speaker 2>I got married right at eighteen, then I got pregnant

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<v Speaker 2>right at eighteen, and this is the best thing that

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I just want to stay.

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<v Speaker 2>At home and bake cookies and look at my children,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's the most important thing to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would I want to work? That sounds crazy. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you know? I work for my husband, which is

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<v Speaker 1>being me.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, you are labor every single day all day

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<v Speaker 2>and you're doing and the person that's paying you are

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<v Speaker 2>also have sex with.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, There's just tons of people stitching that because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when we get to the tradwive conversations. They lead to

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<v Speaker 2>a certain place, and that is where the forty five

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<v Speaker 2>a few out here that are still feeling great and

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<v Speaker 2>still having a great life, but a lot of them

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<v Speaker 2>don't exist. But and also, you know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I there's a video that people stitch all the time

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<v Speaker 2>that's also it's a woman's site. People ask about if

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<v Speaker 2>me and my husan are gonna divorce. We don't plan

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<v Speaker 2>to get divorced. People ask if my husband gonna die.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not.

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<v Speaker 2>And someone said they look at the update of her,

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah they're still married. But why where else would she be?

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<v Speaker 2>Where else she'd be right over there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I I like hearing from the numerous married traditional wife

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<v Speaker 2>women that are thirty five, forty five, and they're talking

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<v Speaker 2>about how their lives like are fucked.

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<v Speaker 1>Like they they're living in a one.

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<v Speaker 2>Bedroom apartment with three fucking kids and it's trying to

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<v Speaker 2>make it work. And that sort of stuff has really

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<v Speaker 2>radicalized me. Obviously I was always a little radical about this,

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<v Speaker 2>but like I'm just like, don't even put men's names

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<v Speaker 2>on the birth certificates, like they gotta fight to get

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<v Speaker 2>that last name. But that's just me, right, So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a bit radical radicalized about that. But here's the thing

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<v Speaker 2>about this. I know that there's much to be said

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<v Speaker 2>about these sorts of things, but I also do not

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<v Speaker 2>I know, you're not talking to her, because there's no

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<v Speaker 2>talking to her her. She's probably pretty religious, she's probably

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<v Speaker 2>been raised this way. There's probably a lot of like

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<v Speaker 2>if she comes out on the other side, she'll be

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<v Speaker 2>deconstructioning her religion, her family, her core beliefs. Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>fucking hard, guys, that's really fucking hard. A lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people just choose to keep where they are because leaving

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<v Speaker 2>is difficult and painful. And so like, I know, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys aren't talking to her, obviously, you're talking to the

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<v Speaker 2>other people that see this, and that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe perhaps will become radicalized. But I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if it's helpful anymore. Maybe I'm tired of it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't even know if it's helpful anymore. I

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<v Speaker 1>just really think that the type of person that thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that thinks that was raised to believe that, and like

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<v Speaker 1>a few TikTok video aren't gonna change that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>under those comments Every now and then you get someone

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<v Speaker 1>be like, I've been married thirty years. It takes a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of hard work, and I'm fine, and I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>being a stay at home mom. But yeah, great your

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<v Speaker 1>exception to all those rules, you really are. This isn't

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<v Speaker 1>about stay at home moms.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, lots of people are staying at home because that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's all that can happen right now. Financially and other reasons,

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<v Speaker 2>that's all that can happen. I know a couple like that,

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of them like that, and these bitches are poor, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>real fucking poor, and it's because it's what they gotta do.

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<v Speaker 2>I know somebody who has two kids and two adults

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<v Speaker 2>in the house and they thinking about having the third

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<v Speaker 2>they love for forty thousand dollars a year.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know some of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Are like forty thousand dollars, that's amazing. Forty thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 2>for four people is ten thousand dollars a year. And

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<v Speaker 2>they struggle, you know, they struggle, and.

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<v Speaker 1>She has to stay at home because there's no other

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<v Speaker 1>way to do this. But I just wonder what.

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<v Speaker 2>The I really just wonder what we're doing next. A

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<v Speaker 2>lot of the rise of this type of stuff has

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<v Speaker 2>to do with the direction our country's going is on

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<v Speaker 2>the rise of fascism. People trying to get rid of

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<v Speaker 2>no fault divorce, which means that you can't divorce unless

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<v Speaker 2>you can find unless you can prove the other person

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<v Speaker 2>did something, which is a crazy thing, a crazy fucking thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>Allowed to divorce you. Now, I don't have to stay

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<v Speaker 2>in the same home with you. But if I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to divorce you, that means our finances stay the same.

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<v Speaker 1>That means that are what you own, I also own.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you were to find get another place, I

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<v Speaker 2>could possibly be entitled to it.

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<v Speaker 1>That means that you cannot. That means when.

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<v Speaker 2>You are if there are no fault divorces, like you

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<v Speaker 2>cannot get out of this marriage unless something explicit happens, right.

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<v Speaker 1>That means that.

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<v Speaker 2>That trickles down to when I want to lease an

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<v Speaker 2>apartment because of the way the laws in this state

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<v Speaker 2>are not Virginia. But if the state is doing no

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<v Speaker 2>eliminating no fault divorce, I'm sorry I've been saying no

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<v Speaker 2>fault divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but you guys understand.

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<v Speaker 2>Saying no fault because they've limited no fault divorce. It

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<v Speaker 2>makes sense that a company wouldn't rent out to you,

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<v Speaker 2>at least in company wouldn't rent to you. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you are married, because and they need to have your

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<v Speaker 2>spouse also, like you couldn't buy a car unless your

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<v Speaker 2>spouse is also there. Might go both ways. But still

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<v Speaker 2>this only harms women. Every now and then in my

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<v Speaker 2>harm a man, but it harms women. But so when

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<v Speaker 2>we talk about the direction our country is going on

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<v Speaker 2>going in, and then also there are women on social

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<v Speaker 2>media making content about how this is the best, their

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<v Speaker 2>lives are the best they've ever been, and this is

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<v Speaker 2>and making a pie today is the only thing I

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<v Speaker 2>want to be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little bit further than that. This is not.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not choice feminism anymore, guys. This is part

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<v Speaker 2>of the pr plan for that. It's not about that woman.

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<v Speaker 2>It's about the rise of that type of content. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not about the individual. It's about the system. And the

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<v Speaker 2>other thing that someone said that really got me to think,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm never gonna stop. This is gonna be seared

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<v Speaker 2>in my brain forever. If having kids young and being

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<v Speaker 2>a parent at eighteen years old is wonderful, then how

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<v Speaker 2>come there are no men talking about it? If staying

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<v Speaker 2>at home to care for your family is the best

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<v Speaker 2>thing they ever happened to you, how come there are

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<v Speaker 2>no men talking about it. We all know that if

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<v Speaker 2>something's wonderful, men want it too. So and the reason

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<v Speaker 2>is the reason is is because these women are older.

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<v Speaker 2>The men that these women are marrying or older, they

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<v Speaker 2>are not encouraged to get married at eighteen most of

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<v Speaker 2>the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's rare.

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<v Speaker 2>When it is, they're encouraged to make money and then

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<v Speaker 2>get married and to date and to enjoy their lives

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<v Speaker 2>and then get married maybe still young at like twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five or you know, twenty eight, but still nobody encourages

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<v Speaker 2>me to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that some of the think about but I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I might need to reset my algorithm. Tired of saying

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<v Speaker 1>these things.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not the I Maybe I'm the person that agrees

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<v Speaker 2>with them, but that doesn't mean I have to look

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<v Speaker 2>at it in my feed all day long. I think

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I want to talk about that voy smell. So

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<v Speaker 1>this woman gets on she is.

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<v Speaker 2>And the TikTok video is really just her playing this

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<v Speaker 2>voice note that she got. It wasn't a voicemail's voice

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<v Speaker 2>note that she got from a guy that basically said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been enjoying hanging out with you and I'd love

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<v Speaker 2>to come you know, you invite me over your house.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to come over your house.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to say, if you're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>have sex, then not really interesting come over your house

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<v Speaker 2>or doing this further. It's it's a lot more. But uh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, people are really reacting to that. Some people

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<v Speaker 2>were some people were like, he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Giving his boundaries, he's.

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<v Speaker 2>I I think, or some people find it gross that

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<v Speaker 2>he's so like, give me some sex or leave me alone.

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<v Speaker 2>But for me, it was the tone in when she

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<v Speaker 1>It was real, like.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I did the Maternal Instincts episode with

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<v Speaker 2>the doctor that was just so gleefuble. Then like a

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<v Speaker 2>baby came out of there like that, Like the tone

425
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<v Speaker 2>did not match what was happening, because if a baby

426
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<v Speaker 2>did not come out of her, that means some terrible

427
00:24:04.039 --> 00:24:07.119
<v Speaker 2>shit has happened. So why you sound like sing songy

428
00:24:07.200 --> 00:24:10.200
<v Speaker 2>and stuff. But he's saying this this voice note sounded

429
00:24:10.200 --> 00:24:11.559
<v Speaker 2>all sing songy to me.

430
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<v Speaker 1>It's just like, are you are you just trying like

431
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<v Speaker 1>to make it sound casual because you know it's a

432
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<v Speaker 1>pretty direct request. It wasn't a boundary, it was a request.

433
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<v Speaker 1>It was.

434
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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't a threat, is like, the connotation of a

435
00:24:32.920 --> 00:24:34.960
<v Speaker 2>threat is not what I'm looking for. But it was

436
00:24:35.000 --> 00:24:38.319
<v Speaker 2>a basically listen. If you're not doing that, I'm not

437
00:24:38.359 --> 00:24:44.000
<v Speaker 2>coming over there. And there's this one woman that made

438
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<v Speaker 2>a video saying this is consent.

439
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<v Speaker 1>No it's not.

440
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<v Speaker 2>That's not what consent is. Consent is about honoring your partners,

441
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<v Speaker 2>your partner's wishes and making sure that they have you

442
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<v Speaker 2>have buy in of them before for you move forward.

443
00:25:01.519 --> 00:25:02.079
<v Speaker 1>That's consent.

444
00:25:02.119 --> 00:25:05.200
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have consent about anything, right, and then if

445
00:25:05.200 --> 00:25:07.559
<v Speaker 2>you find out that they don't want to do immediately

446
00:25:09.680 --> 00:25:12.960
<v Speaker 2>then backing away and backing off of this. There was

447
00:25:13.000 --> 00:25:16.559
<v Speaker 2>coercion that was like, I'd love to see you again,

448
00:25:16.640 --> 00:25:18.359
<v Speaker 2>but only if you're gonna be willing to do this.

449
00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:20.519
<v Speaker 2>If you're not willing to, then lose my number.

450
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<v Speaker 1>What it was was.

451
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<v Speaker 2>Honest, which I'll take over a lot of fucking things.

452
00:25:25.079 --> 00:25:32.559
<v Speaker 2>It was honest, but honesty is not always It's not

453
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<v Speaker 2>that you shouldn't be honest about things, but the way

454
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<v Speaker 2>you deliver honesty really fucking matters, really matters. And I

455
00:25:42.799 --> 00:25:46.519
<v Speaker 2>don't think and you guys are. I've been very clear

456
00:25:46.559 --> 00:25:48.279
<v Speaker 2>about the fact that I think people should have sex

457
00:25:48.319 --> 00:25:49.720
<v Speaker 2>a lot more often than they're having sex.

458
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<v Speaker 1>I think.

459
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<v Speaker 2>Second, I think, if you're not fucking right away, second

460
00:25:53.839 --> 00:25:58.599
<v Speaker 2>date at the very latest, because why am I gonna

461
00:25:58.640 --> 00:26:01.000
<v Speaker 2>learn all about your childhood? And then I realize we

462
00:26:01.160 --> 00:26:06.119
<v Speaker 2>have we don't connect physically, like, no, I'm not doing that.

463
00:26:06.759 --> 00:26:09.079
<v Speaker 1>But and I understand there's lots of you that are like.

464
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<v Speaker 2>Princess no no, no, the rules blah blah blah. Fine,

465
00:26:12.720 --> 00:26:14.599
<v Speaker 2>you do what you want to do. But I really

466
00:26:14.599 --> 00:26:18.680
<v Speaker 2>think people should be having six more frequently than they should,

467
00:26:19.000 --> 00:26:21.559
<v Speaker 2>like closer to it, And it just depends on how

468
00:26:21.599 --> 00:26:25.079
<v Speaker 2>you how you see things, like maybe for you really early,

469
00:26:25.160 --> 00:26:27.680
<v Speaker 2>it's five dates, fine, but I think you should have

470
00:26:27.680 --> 00:26:31.440
<v Speaker 2>it as early as you feel comfortable. Let's get this

471
00:26:31.480 --> 00:26:33.079
<v Speaker 2>shit out the way and figure out if this is

472
00:26:33.119 --> 00:26:34.759
<v Speaker 2>even if we're even really compatible.

473
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<v Speaker 1>So it's not that.

474
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<v Speaker 2>It's what gives me the ache about this is that

475
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<v Speaker 2>the way is the tone.

476
00:26:52.759 --> 00:26:53.599
<v Speaker 1>As if.

477
00:26:55.279 --> 00:26:59.000
<v Speaker 2>He's not making a line in the sand. I mean, obviously,

478
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<v Speaker 2>I don't think a voice being like listen, if you

479
00:27:01.799 --> 00:27:04.119
<v Speaker 2>don't have such, I don't think that will work either. Okay,

480
00:27:04.559 --> 00:27:05.839
<v Speaker 2>but why don't you send it.

481
00:27:05.839 --> 00:27:07.400
<v Speaker 1>In a voice note?

482
00:27:07.599 --> 00:27:09.160
<v Speaker 2>It's a type of This is the type of thing

483
00:27:09.200 --> 00:27:15.759
<v Speaker 2>you say to someone in person, like hey, I'm I'm

484
00:27:15.960 --> 00:27:17.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm really having a good time with you, but I

485
00:27:17.519 --> 00:27:20.440
<v Speaker 2>am looking for a physical relationship, so I understand.

486
00:27:20.079 --> 00:27:20.480
<v Speaker 1>If you're not.

487
00:27:21.000 --> 00:27:22.799
<v Speaker 2>I don't I don't want you to do anything that

488
00:27:23.359 --> 00:27:26.119
<v Speaker 2>you wouldn't want to do, but I'm really looking for

489
00:27:26.119 --> 00:27:30.640
<v Speaker 2>something that's gonna move forward. So you know, pausing your court,

490
00:27:31.480 --> 00:27:34.240
<v Speaker 2>I really enjoyed spending time with you. That sounds different

491
00:27:34.319 --> 00:27:37.640
<v Speaker 2>to me than what he was doing. Like I'm not

492
00:27:37.680 --> 00:27:41.200
<v Speaker 2>gonna come over your home unless I know you invited

493
00:27:41.240 --> 00:27:43.599
<v Speaker 2>me to your home. But I'm not coming unless there's

494
00:27:43.640 --> 00:27:45.079
<v Speaker 2>some pussy when I get there.

495
00:27:45.200 --> 00:27:50.599
<v Speaker 1>That's weird. That's weird, and a creator I fortten is.

496
00:27:50.599 --> 00:27:53.559
<v Speaker 2>I think his name is Shahem, who is who I've

497
00:27:53.599 --> 00:27:56.279
<v Speaker 2>agreed with and not agree with over the time. I

498
00:27:56.319 --> 00:27:58.720
<v Speaker 2>just don't find it necessary to tell somebody I don't

499
00:27:58.720 --> 00:28:06.000
<v Speaker 2>agree with him. Shahim said, I want you to imagine

500
00:28:06.000 --> 00:28:08.680
<v Speaker 2>that I invite you over my home to spend some

501
00:28:08.759 --> 00:28:12.039
<v Speaker 2>time together, and you're like, cool, I want to come

502
00:28:12.039 --> 00:28:12.680
<v Speaker 2>over there too.

503
00:28:13.440 --> 00:28:17.319
<v Speaker 1>But if we but if we come over there, we

504
00:28:17.440 --> 00:28:18.519
<v Speaker 1>better have pizza.

505
00:28:19.839 --> 00:28:22.359
<v Speaker 2>And if there's no pizza, it's not worth me coming

506
00:28:22.400 --> 00:28:25.519
<v Speaker 2>over your house. That sounds differently than I'd like to

507
00:28:25.519 --> 00:28:29.599
<v Speaker 2>have pizza to night, right, That sounds differently to me.

508
00:28:29.680 --> 00:28:33.519
<v Speaker 2>Send you a voice note saying if there's no pizza,

509
00:28:33.640 --> 00:28:35.920
<v Speaker 2>there's no point in me even coming over there.

510
00:28:36.000 --> 00:28:37.240
<v Speaker 1>That's that's different.

511
00:28:38.319 --> 00:28:41.079
<v Speaker 2>And the thing about men is, I don't think you know,

512
00:28:41.200 --> 00:28:44.599
<v Speaker 2>all dating, almost all dating advice is about is target

513
00:28:44.640 --> 00:28:45.160
<v Speaker 2>towards women.

514
00:28:45.160 --> 00:28:47.440
<v Speaker 1>Almost all relationship advices target towards women.

515
00:28:47.599 --> 00:28:49.319
<v Speaker 2>The ones that are targeted towards men that are like

516
00:28:49.400 --> 00:28:53.720
<v Speaker 2>real red pill fucking content, real like wild shit, like for.

517
00:28:53.759 --> 00:28:54.519
<v Speaker 1>Men who.

518
00:28:56.079 --> 00:29:00.240
<v Speaker 2>Who have no idea what women want at all.

519
00:29:00.319 --> 00:29:05.680
<v Speaker 1>Right, But I think that.

520
00:29:07.960 --> 00:29:11.880
<v Speaker 2>There's probably there's probably people out here giving advice to

521
00:29:11.960 --> 00:29:15.039
<v Speaker 2>men to be like just say it, just say it

522
00:29:15.119 --> 00:29:15.480
<v Speaker 2>right now.

523
00:29:15.519 --> 00:29:16.039
<v Speaker 1>And I just.

524
00:29:20.240 --> 00:29:26.640
<v Speaker 2>Where's the yearning, where's the romancing, where's the flirting? Where

525
00:29:26.720 --> 00:29:29.599
<v Speaker 2>is these things? Where are these things? Why are we

526
00:29:29.640 --> 00:29:32.640
<v Speaker 2>sending voice notes demanding sex? Or I don't think he

527
00:29:32.720 --> 00:29:35.039
<v Speaker 2>was demanding I'll take that back, letting people know that

528
00:29:35.079 --> 00:29:36.359
<v Speaker 2>you have that you are going.

529
00:29:36.200 --> 00:29:38.319
<v Speaker 1>To drop them if you don't have sex the next

530
00:29:38.359 --> 00:29:41.000
<v Speaker 1>time you see them. Where the fuck.

531
00:29:43.000 --> 00:29:46.480
<v Speaker 2>Ain't nobody yearning no more? I like, I think it's

532
00:29:46.519 --> 00:29:49.400
<v Speaker 2>the it's the death of r D. Y'all need to

533
00:29:49.440 --> 00:29:51.359
<v Speaker 2>be in the rain where.

534
00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Your shirt off, saying how much you how you're gonna

535
00:29:55.200 --> 00:29:58.680
<v Speaker 1>y'all gotta figure this out because these voice notes ain't

536
00:29:58.960 --> 00:30:02.079
<v Speaker 1>they ain't hit n Hey, this is not for me,

537
00:30:05.160 --> 00:30:07.279
<v Speaker 1>all right, Last thing I want to talk about. So

538
00:30:08.680 --> 00:30:10.119
<v Speaker 1>I saw a Threads post.

539
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and a woman was basically explaining that she went

540
00:30:15.160 --> 00:30:17.759
<v Speaker 2>to go see her guy no today and they basically

541
00:30:17.839 --> 00:30:22.279
<v Speaker 2>told her that they're switching to they're not taking insurance anymore.

542
00:30:22.559 --> 00:30:26.039
<v Speaker 2>If you guys don't know, taking insurance as a doctor sucks.

543
00:30:26.839 --> 00:30:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Sucks.

544
00:30:27.519 --> 00:30:29.759
<v Speaker 2>You have to hire a full time person to manage that.

545
00:30:30.720 --> 00:30:33.799
<v Speaker 2>You have to be I want to say the word certified,

546
00:30:33.799 --> 00:30:36.160
<v Speaker 2>but you have to be accepted by the insurance. The

547
00:30:36.240 --> 00:30:40.279
<v Speaker 2>insurance company has rules for you to for them to

548
00:30:40.319 --> 00:30:42.720
<v Speaker 2>pay out to you, so you have to be like

549
00:30:43.799 --> 00:30:47.519
<v Speaker 2>it might be enrolled. I'm missing the exact terminology you

550
00:30:47.720 --> 00:30:51.839
<v Speaker 2>need to have passed whatever their requirements are for them

551
00:30:53.000 --> 00:30:56.680
<v Speaker 2>to allow you to take their insurance, and then you

552
00:30:56.839 --> 00:31:02.079
<v Speaker 2>have to deal with submitting them in in the correct template.

553
00:31:02.279 --> 00:31:04.240
<v Speaker 2>And keep in mind, if you take multiple insurances, they're

554
00:31:04.240 --> 00:31:07.079
<v Speaker 2>probably all different. Medicaid's probably the biggest pain in the

555
00:31:07.119 --> 00:31:11.480
<v Speaker 2>fucking ass. And then were they and they throw it back,

556
00:31:11.519 --> 00:31:13.519
<v Speaker 2>They kick it back to you all the time, and

557
00:31:13.519 --> 00:31:15.319
<v Speaker 2>they're like, you've run to dot the eye and then

558
00:31:15.319 --> 00:31:16.000
<v Speaker 2>you gonna.

559
00:31:16.440 --> 00:31:19.000
<v Speaker 1>You have to be in this system and the like

560
00:31:19.200 --> 00:31:19.799
<v Speaker 1>all that shit.

561
00:31:20.119 --> 00:31:22.599
<v Speaker 2>And then at the end of the day, if you

562
00:31:22.759 --> 00:31:26.039
<v Speaker 2>charge two hundred and fifty dollars, the insurance company does

563
00:31:26.079 --> 00:31:28.400
<v Speaker 2>not give a fuck. The insurance company says, we pay

564
00:31:28.440 --> 00:31:31.960
<v Speaker 2>one hundred dollars for this. That's all we pay.

565
00:31:32.119 --> 00:31:37.920
<v Speaker 1>So you we can get the insured to give you

566
00:31:38.039 --> 00:31:41.839
<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars, and we're gonna pay one hundred dollars to you,

567
00:31:42.359 --> 00:31:46.400
<v Speaker 1>and you gotta eat that other one hundred dollars.

568
00:31:45.759 --> 00:31:47.559
<v Speaker 2>If you want to take our insurance, you gotta eat

569
00:31:47.559 --> 00:31:50.880
<v Speaker 2>the the one hundred dollars.

570
00:31:51.400 --> 00:31:53.079
<v Speaker 1>And you can make that up with volume.

571
00:31:53.279 --> 00:31:56.720
<v Speaker 2>But I mean, like, have you ever been to a

572
00:31:56.759 --> 00:31:59.200
<v Speaker 2>health facility that made it up with volume?

573
00:31:59.640 --> 00:32:02.359
<v Speaker 1>That's what you're sitting in the in the exam room.

574
00:32:02.920 --> 00:32:06.119
<v Speaker 2>Uh, and the doctor is in there for five fucking minutes,

575
00:32:07.200 --> 00:32:09.640
<v Speaker 2>and don't ask any questions because if you do, this

576
00:32:09.759 --> 00:32:13.200
<v Speaker 2>changes the nature of this into instead of a well check,

577
00:32:13.279 --> 00:32:18.119
<v Speaker 2>into a into a what's it called when you have

578
00:32:18.160 --> 00:32:19.880
<v Speaker 2>to go when you just go in a sick visit

579
00:32:19.960 --> 00:32:22.599
<v Speaker 2>or something like that. It changes that. So then now

580
00:32:22.640 --> 00:32:24.519
<v Speaker 2>we have to charge you this and and don't in

581
00:32:24.640 --> 00:32:27.839
<v Speaker 2>the coding. The coding, like I said, you gotta hire

582
00:32:27.880 --> 00:32:31.400
<v Speaker 2>a person just to do that. So taking insurance to

583
00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:33.440
<v Speaker 2>the pain the ance. And that's why people who don't

584
00:32:34.039 --> 00:32:36.319
<v Speaker 2>health providers who don't have to take insurance.

585
00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:36.720
<v Speaker 1>Don't take insurance.

586
00:32:37.200 --> 00:32:41.799
<v Speaker 2>Okay, if you're established enough and you're and you're servicing

587
00:32:43.039 --> 00:32:45.920
<v Speaker 2>a clientele that can handle it, they don't.

588
00:32:46.240 --> 00:32:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't take insurance, okay. So she's there at the.

589
00:32:49.200 --> 00:32:51.000
<v Speaker 2>Out of collegis they're like, hey, we're more we're not

590
00:32:51.039 --> 00:32:54.359
<v Speaker 2>taking insurance anymore. We're moving to a subscription model. And

591
00:32:54.440 --> 00:32:57.279
<v Speaker 2>the subscription model that they told her, I'd never heard

592
00:32:57.319 --> 00:33:00.119
<v Speaker 2>of this, but apparently it's it's getting pretty popular that

593
00:33:00.240 --> 00:33:04.039
<v Speaker 2>you pay per month to see this doctor and then

594
00:33:04.079 --> 00:33:12.279
<v Speaker 2>they they your visits are covered. I don't know why guynoed.

595
00:33:13.759 --> 00:33:15.759
<v Speaker 1>I guess like.

596
00:33:15.720 --> 00:33:22.119
<v Speaker 2>If you're pregnant or but even't people are guy, no obstetrician,

597
00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:25.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, okay whatever, but they're like, it's six thousand

598
00:33:25.240 --> 00:33:29.240
<v Speaker 2>dollars a year, which is like five am I getting this?

599
00:33:29.279 --> 00:33:30.799
<v Speaker 1>Am I doing the math round? It's like five hundred

600
00:33:30.799 --> 00:33:31.240
<v Speaker 1>dollars a month?

601
00:33:31.319 --> 00:33:35.720
<v Speaker 2>No to continue to be a patient there now, your

602
00:33:35.720 --> 00:33:38.200
<v Speaker 2>prescriptions and everything will still be covered on the insurance.

603
00:33:38.240 --> 00:33:42.240
<v Speaker 2>But to see this doctor. And I'm also assuming that

604
00:33:42.240 --> 00:33:46.839
<v Speaker 2>there are exclusions there are that this doctor will see

605
00:33:46.920 --> 00:33:52.720
<v Speaker 2>you for office visits and write referrals and prescriptions, but

606
00:33:53.519 --> 00:33:58.240
<v Speaker 2>if you need surgery, this doctor isn't gonna like consult

607
00:33:58.240 --> 00:34:00.400
<v Speaker 2>at the hospital. I'm sure there's some exclusion there, or

608
00:34:00.440 --> 00:34:02.680
<v Speaker 2>maybe they're like you can only come here twice a month.

609
00:34:03.039 --> 00:34:05.079
<v Speaker 1>If you're here three, you have to pay it. There's

610
00:34:05.160 --> 00:34:06.680
<v Speaker 1>got to be some exclusions.

611
00:34:06.200 --> 00:34:10.199
<v Speaker 2>To this, because otherwise, h if you, if you're primary

612
00:34:10.239 --> 00:34:12.159
<v Speaker 2>for physicians, did that, you could just be there every

613
00:34:12.199 --> 00:34:14.840
<v Speaker 2>other week and just sit in lobby and be and

614
00:34:14.880 --> 00:34:17.159
<v Speaker 2>be like, I'm looking for I need.

615
00:34:17.000 --> 00:34:18.599
<v Speaker 1>You to describe you some atobiotics.

616
00:34:18.960 --> 00:34:23.199
<v Speaker 2>You really could do that. But she expressed disappointment, and

617
00:34:23.280 --> 00:34:25.280
<v Speaker 2>it got a lot of traction. People are like what

618
00:34:25.400 --> 00:34:29.159
<v Speaker 2>And obviously a lot of people who were looking at

619
00:34:29.159 --> 00:34:31.239
<v Speaker 2>that don't live this woman looked at lived in New

620
00:34:31.320 --> 00:34:35.599
<v Speaker 2>York City. It's like going to California and getting gas, right,

621
00:34:35.760 --> 00:34:37.800
<v Speaker 2>you'd be like, oh, god damn, But that's how much

622
00:34:37.800 --> 00:34:42.199
<v Speaker 2>gas costs in California, and that's how things are priced,

623
00:34:42.239 --> 00:34:45.119
<v Speaker 2>and if you're driving that how much it costs. Whereas

624
00:34:45.239 --> 00:34:47.119
<v Speaker 2>in Virginia that's not how much gas costs. So I

625
00:34:47.159 --> 00:34:49.360
<v Speaker 2>guess I would be surprised. But a lot of remember,

626
00:34:49.440 --> 00:34:51.119
<v Speaker 2>threads is not just the people who live in your

627
00:34:51.159 --> 00:34:56.360
<v Speaker 2>geographic area. The the threads are everybody, and so there

628
00:34:56.360 --> 00:34:58.559
<v Speaker 2>are lots that's six thousand dollars look crazy to a

629
00:34:58.599 --> 00:35:01.199
<v Speaker 2>lot of people. People were saying she won't have any clients,

630
00:35:01.920 --> 00:35:05.119
<v Speaker 2>and the op was basically saying, no, it's new. I'm

631
00:35:05.119 --> 00:35:08.280
<v Speaker 2>sure she'll have plenty of clients, but it can't be me.

632
00:35:09.960 --> 00:35:15.599
<v Speaker 2>So then the doctor enters the chat. So she starts

633
00:35:16.840 --> 00:35:23.599
<v Speaker 2>writing these long fucking paragraphs in the comments basically just

634
00:35:23.679 --> 00:35:27.920
<v Speaker 2>explained like defending themselves and saying, you know, this wasn't

635
00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:33.039
<v Speaker 2>from greed, and that as the healthcare professionals are often overworked,

636
00:35:33.039 --> 00:35:34.679
<v Speaker 2>and underpaid, which is true.

637
00:35:34.960 --> 00:35:38.079
<v Speaker 1>I mean, and also I know some people be like underpaid, Yeah,

638
00:35:38.239 --> 00:35:41.320
<v Speaker 1>underpaid for what they're doing. Yeah, you know, maybe it's

639
00:35:41.320 --> 00:35:42.880
<v Speaker 1>just because somebody makes more money and it doesn't mean

640
00:35:42.920 --> 00:35:47.599
<v Speaker 1>they're not underpaid. And just paragraphs and paragraphs and paragraphs.

641
00:35:48.480 --> 00:35:49.360
<v Speaker 1>And that's when I.

642
00:35:49.400 --> 00:35:55.199
<v Speaker 2>Found out that this doctor was doctor Camilia Camilla from

643
00:35:55.239 --> 00:35:56.480
<v Speaker 2>fucking real Ward, Boston.

644
00:35:56.639 --> 00:35:59.400
<v Speaker 1>And if you might remember, just a couple of weeks ago,

645
00:35:59.719 --> 00:36:02.639
<v Speaker 1>I post it on threads.

646
00:36:02.719 --> 00:36:05.440
<v Speaker 2>I posted there and I said to myself, I said,

647
00:36:05.480 --> 00:36:09.559
<v Speaker 2>I want you to imagine that you run a nonprofit,

648
00:36:10.400 --> 00:36:15.280
<v Speaker 2>underfunded after school program for underserved children on their share

649
00:36:15.280 --> 00:36:19.360
<v Speaker 2>of communities. MDD comes to you and they say to you, hey,

650
00:36:19.880 --> 00:36:23.599
<v Speaker 2>we are Hit Show the real World. We'd like our

651
00:36:23.719 --> 00:36:27.960
<v Speaker 2>cast this year to work there, and we can promote

652
00:36:28.000 --> 00:36:31.960
<v Speaker 2>your organization and hopefully get the word out, and we

653
00:36:32.000 --> 00:36:36.800
<v Speaker 2>can also provide some labor for you, and maybe they

654
00:36:36.920 --> 00:36:43.480
<v Speaker 2>also and here's a check. Okay great, so and you're like, yeah, okay,

655
00:36:43.519 --> 00:36:48.960
<v Speaker 2>this sounds fine, and then immediately you realize that seven

656
00:36:49.000 --> 00:36:51.440
<v Speaker 2>of the new employees, four of them don't give a fuck.

657
00:36:52.199 --> 00:36:53.559
<v Speaker 1>I don't give a fuck about me.

658
00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:56.519
<v Speaker 2>Four of them don't even want to come to work,

659
00:36:57.119 --> 00:36:58.960
<v Speaker 2>like you have to ask where they are. They're like, well,

660
00:36:58.960 --> 00:36:59.760
<v Speaker 2>I've been sick.

661
00:36:59.559 --> 00:37:03.119
<v Speaker 1>All week, Like like, if you could fire me, would

662
00:37:03.159 --> 00:37:04.960
<v Speaker 1>but this is but I think you gotta you kind

663
00:37:04.960 --> 00:37:08.480
<v Speaker 1>of have a deal with MTV, so you gotta have

664
00:37:08.559 --> 00:37:10.880
<v Speaker 1>certain circumstances to fire them.

665
00:37:11.039 --> 00:37:13.280
<v Speaker 2>And maybe I'm misremembering, but if you get fired, they

666
00:37:13.400 --> 00:37:14.960
<v Speaker 2>leave the house. So you know they come to work

667
00:37:14.960 --> 00:37:15.519
<v Speaker 2>every now and then.

668
00:37:16.960 --> 00:37:17.679
<v Speaker 1>And then.

669
00:37:19.599 --> 00:37:23.280
<v Speaker 2>There's often arguments about who fucked who in the house

670
00:37:23.360 --> 00:37:29.840
<v Speaker 2>last night with Elka and Dan mad at Camellia Camilla

671
00:37:30.440 --> 00:37:33.320
<v Speaker 2>and because they just know she was doing it, and

672
00:37:33.440 --> 00:37:38.320
<v Speaker 2>the and the kids are just sitting there coloring, like

673
00:37:38.760 --> 00:37:45.440
<v Speaker 2>Camilia Camilla is, uh, defending her pussy and Elka and

674
00:37:45.559 --> 00:37:47.199
<v Speaker 2>Dan are all of in her pussy's business.

675
00:37:48.159 --> 00:37:53.639
<v Speaker 1>The kids are just coloring. And then there's an impromptu

676
00:37:54.360 --> 00:38:01.400
<v Speaker 1>uh lesson about homophobia because one of.

677
00:38:01.360 --> 00:38:05.159
<v Speaker 2>The kids says, I I hate gay people, and Genesis

678
00:38:05.199 --> 00:38:12.960
<v Speaker 2>is there, and uh, Camilia Camilla is is giving a

679
00:38:13.000 --> 00:38:17.159
<v Speaker 2>small short lesson on homophobia and how gay people are

680
00:38:17.239 --> 00:38:19.880
<v Speaker 2>people and you may know some gay people, and she

681
00:38:19.920 --> 00:38:23.320
<v Speaker 2>doesn't point at Genesis, but she it's obviously talking about Genesis,

682
00:38:23.360 --> 00:38:27.280
<v Speaker 2>except for to the fucking child, and you have to get.

683
00:38:27.119 --> 00:38:30.880
<v Speaker 1>The phone call from the from the parent to be like, hey,

684
00:38:31.199 --> 00:38:33.960
<v Speaker 1>so I didn't know that you were going to be

685
00:38:34.039 --> 00:38:40.360
<v Speaker 1>doing gay pride at the after school thing yesterday. Did

686
00:38:40.360 --> 00:38:44.480
<v Speaker 1>I miss a handout or some sort of waiver I

687
00:38:44.519 --> 00:38:47.440
<v Speaker 1>was supposed to sign, like why did my kid come

688
00:38:47.480 --> 00:38:52.079
<v Speaker 1>home and want to talk about gay people for three hours?

689
00:38:52.119 --> 00:38:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Can you can you help me out with that? What's

690
00:38:55.760 --> 00:38:58.480
<v Speaker 1>going on? So, but you have to feel that conversation

691
00:38:58.519 --> 00:38:59.440
<v Speaker 1>because they did that.

692
00:38:59.519 --> 00:39:04.800
<v Speaker 2>And then then then then one of the uh, the

693
00:39:04.920 --> 00:39:08.920
<v Speaker 2>seven new workers is fucking apparent. It's fucking apparent.

694
00:39:11.239 --> 00:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>And you know, usually people you hire would know not

695
00:39:14.840 --> 00:39:15.400
<v Speaker 1>to do that.

696
00:39:16.039 --> 00:39:18.599
<v Speaker 2>They'd be like, ah, that's a little too complicated, but

697
00:39:18.679 --> 00:39:21.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, this is the real world, and so they're

698
00:39:22.000 --> 00:39:22.719
<v Speaker 2>fucking apparent.

699
00:39:22.760 --> 00:39:24.199
<v Speaker 1>They got an attitude about it.

700
00:39:24.719 --> 00:39:28.000
<v Speaker 2>And the kid has to be in the after school

701
00:39:28.039 --> 00:39:30.760
<v Speaker 2>care knowing they saw that motherfucker come out of their

702
00:39:30.760 --> 00:39:33.920
<v Speaker 2>mama's room this morning. Everybody's up at arms. It's all

703
00:39:33.920 --> 00:39:38.880
<v Speaker 2>they're fucking talking about. You have to run another seminar

704
00:39:39.199 --> 00:39:43.960
<v Speaker 2>with the actual employees and the real world employees that

705
00:39:44.039 --> 00:39:47.800
<v Speaker 2>says things like, hey, please don't make out with the

706
00:39:47.880 --> 00:39:51.000
<v Speaker 2>parents in the parking lot. Things look obvious.

707
00:39:51.000 --> 00:39:56.159
<v Speaker 1>Shit. And then and then they go on a field

708
00:39:56.159 --> 00:39:58.920
<v Speaker 1>trip and sip store a festival or carnival or something,

709
00:39:59.480 --> 00:40:02.960
<v Speaker 1>and one one, I think it was two dan one

710
00:40:04.400 --> 00:40:08.559
<v Speaker 1>gave a child some wine and then asked the child

711
00:40:08.599 --> 00:40:10.000
<v Speaker 1>to be quiet about it.

712
00:40:10.400 --> 00:40:13.159
<v Speaker 2>That was never gonna happen. You don't, you don't. You

713
00:40:13.199 --> 00:40:16.239
<v Speaker 2>don't go into a listen that child having a spewine.

714
00:40:17.239 --> 00:40:22.679
<v Speaker 2>That did not ruin their lives. However, anybody with a

715
00:40:23.800 --> 00:40:27.960
<v Speaker 2>smige of sens knows not to give somebody else's child.

716
00:40:27.760 --> 00:40:29.800
<v Speaker 1>Alcohol, not maybe not to give your own child alcohol.

717
00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:31.880
<v Speaker 2>But I understand somebody's gonna be like the kids in

718
00:40:32.000 --> 00:40:34.519
<v Speaker 2>Italy they drink wine in their bottles. Okay, we're not

719
00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:36.760
<v Speaker 2>in fucking Italy, and that's not your kid. And so

720
00:40:37.880 --> 00:40:40.559
<v Speaker 2>anybody with a snige of sense knows you can't do that.

721
00:40:41.400 --> 00:40:44.800
<v Speaker 2>You can't do that. And also when you did it,

722
00:40:44.840 --> 00:40:47.599
<v Speaker 2>and you told that kid not to tell baby, he

723
00:40:47.840 --> 00:40:50.360
<v Speaker 2>was already figuring out how he was gonna tell this

724
00:40:50.440 --> 00:40:54.199
<v Speaker 2>story to the other kids, to his mama, to the mailman,

725
00:40:54.679 --> 00:40:55.440
<v Speaker 2>to his dog.

726
00:40:55.559 --> 00:40:58.440
<v Speaker 1>He was ready. Okay, don't you ever try to commit

727
00:40:58.480 --> 00:41:00.679
<v Speaker 1>a crime with a child. These mother, the fuckers tell

728
00:41:00.719 --> 00:41:06.440
<v Speaker 1>it so, so so, and then so when you find

729
00:41:06.480 --> 00:41:10.039
<v Speaker 1>out that she's given alcohol to a child in your program,

730
00:41:10.719 --> 00:41:13.639
<v Speaker 1>you know, the one where they expect you to, I

731
00:41:13.679 --> 00:41:16.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know, help the kids who a little homework, play

732
00:41:16.920 --> 00:41:20.079
<v Speaker 1>some go outside the playground and play, maybe feed them

733
00:41:20.079 --> 00:41:24.719
<v Speaker 1>a snack chaferon on a field trip. This is what

734
00:41:24.760 --> 00:41:29.440
<v Speaker 1>your program supposed to do, not having kids doing shots

735
00:41:29.480 --> 00:41:33.119
<v Speaker 1>at Saint Patty's Day. Pray okay, And who's got to

736
00:41:33.159 --> 00:41:36.320
<v Speaker 1>have that conversation with the parents. You do? You do

737
00:41:36.679 --> 00:41:37.119
<v Speaker 1>because this.

738
00:41:37.079 --> 00:41:39.599
<v Speaker 2>Is your program and who's going And then you have

739
00:41:39.639 --> 00:41:41.679
<v Speaker 2>to go have a conversation with the woman that did

740
00:41:41.719 --> 00:41:44.559
<v Speaker 2>it again, I think Dan was it on too. The

741
00:41:44.599 --> 00:41:48.119
<v Speaker 2>woman who did it, she got an attitude, She got

742
00:41:48.159 --> 00:41:48.760
<v Speaker 2>an attitude.

743
00:41:48.880 --> 00:41:50.199
<v Speaker 1>She don't know why you're coming over there and talk

744
00:41:50.239 --> 00:41:52.440
<v Speaker 1>to her about this, because what's the big deal?

745
00:41:54.000 --> 00:41:57.840
<v Speaker 2>Now, imagine that was your job for what is it?

746
00:41:58.119 --> 00:42:01.719
<v Speaker 2>They probably filmed for three to four months, probably foist

747
00:42:01.840 --> 00:42:08.320
<v Speaker 2>on the on the forest side. Imagine imagine I put

748
00:42:08.320 --> 00:42:10.360
<v Speaker 2>that post up and you know what the thing is

749
00:42:10.360 --> 00:42:14.239
<v Speaker 2>is that, Uh, everybody, remember I didn't say real world Boston.

750
00:42:14.920 --> 00:42:17.599
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even say real world in it. But immediately

751
00:42:18.719 --> 00:42:21.760
<v Speaker 2>people were like, that was a fever season. I can't

752
00:42:22.000 --> 00:42:25.119
<v Speaker 2>I can't believe, we can't watch it. Oh my god,

753
00:42:25.119 --> 00:42:28.039
<v Speaker 2>I knew you were talking about real world Boston immediately.

754
00:42:28.920 --> 00:42:32.239
<v Speaker 2>I There are also some people that were like, hey,

755
00:42:32.800 --> 00:42:33.760
<v Speaker 2>who was fucking apparent?

756
00:42:33.760 --> 00:42:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I was like, that was the fucking storyline in the show.

757
00:42:36.360 --> 00:42:38.840
<v Speaker 1>This is before we would have them tweeting about it

758
00:42:39.000 --> 00:42:42.320
<v Speaker 1>and we would have uh uh a live show afterwards

759
00:42:42.360 --> 00:42:44.599
<v Speaker 1>and after show. This is before all that. So the

760
00:42:44.920 --> 00:42:46.840
<v Speaker 1>so if I know this, it's because it was a

761
00:42:46.880 --> 00:42:49.440
<v Speaker 1>story line in the fucking show. They didn't do stuff

762
00:42:49.480 --> 00:42:49.800
<v Speaker 1>like that.

763
00:42:49.800 --> 00:42:52.199
<v Speaker 2>They didn't come out and talk about things after the

764
00:42:52.320 --> 00:42:53.519
<v Speaker 2>rally show like they do now.

765
00:42:54.400 --> 00:42:55.840
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of them didn't fucking know that.

766
00:42:55.880 --> 00:42:59.559
<v Speaker 2>A lot of them didn't fucking know that Montana, my

767
00:42:59.719 --> 00:43:04.400
<v Speaker 2>dad gave that kid. Why A lot of other ones

768
00:43:04.480 --> 00:43:07.119
<v Speaker 2>wanted to talk I keep saying Dan, his name is Sean. Sorry,

769
00:43:07.960 --> 00:43:11.599
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to talk about Sean and how he has

770
00:43:11.679 --> 00:43:15.719
<v Speaker 2>become like a piece of shit in the Trump administration.

771
00:43:16.800 --> 00:43:18.360
<v Speaker 2>That's not what I was talking about. They were like,

772
00:43:18.440 --> 00:43:19.519
<v Speaker 2>why not call out that?

773
00:43:19.880 --> 00:43:23.400
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck? Bro, what the fuck? I'm not calling

774
00:43:23.440 --> 00:43:26.559
<v Speaker 1>out anybody. I'm imagining what it would be like to

775
00:43:26.559 --> 00:43:30.400
<v Speaker 1>be Anthony the program director and just have like your

776
00:43:30.519 --> 00:43:32.960
<v Speaker 1>hands in your head, your head in your hands at

777
00:43:32.960 --> 00:43:35.000
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day on your desk that's full

778
00:43:35.039 --> 00:43:37.559
<v Speaker 1>of papers in your tiny office that you probably share

779
00:43:37.599 --> 00:43:39.079
<v Speaker 1>with six other people, and just be.

780
00:43:39.119 --> 00:43:44.480
<v Speaker 2>Like, oh my god, oh my god, and the phones

781
00:43:44.559 --> 00:43:46.880
<v Speaker 2>ringing off the hook because it's just parents being like.

782
00:43:47.320 --> 00:43:51.559
<v Speaker 1>So, who did come in a fuck like shit like that?

783
00:43:53.480 --> 00:43:55.760
<v Speaker 1>That's what I was saying. I am not supporting fucking

784
00:43:55.880 --> 00:44:00.679
<v Speaker 1>shot that piece of shit. I'm not supporting him and

785
00:44:00.719 --> 00:44:09.000
<v Speaker 1>his and his Republican barbie wife who is Latina from

786
00:44:09.079 --> 00:44:10.920
<v Speaker 1>the Real World La.

787
00:44:11.159 --> 00:44:13.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not reporting those mother I'm not supporting those motherfuckers.

788
00:44:13.760 --> 00:44:15.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about the goddamn show.

789
00:44:15.800 --> 00:44:18.719
<v Speaker 1>You make a post about politics if that's what you

790
00:44:18.760 --> 00:44:21.320
<v Speaker 1>want to late, get the fuck out of my face. Anyway.

791
00:44:21.639 --> 00:44:27.360
<v Speaker 2>What the doctor in question was doctor Camillia Camilla from

792
00:44:27.800 --> 00:44:30.519
<v Speaker 2>Real World Boston. She's all grown up now, obviously.

793
00:44:30.119 --> 00:44:39.840
<v Speaker 1>She's likely gosh, she's probably in her fifties. Yeah, and

794
00:44:39.960 --> 00:44:41.960
<v Speaker 1>she is unless she was super young on the show.

795
00:44:42.519 --> 00:44:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I think Elka was the baby.

796
00:44:43.800 --> 00:44:48.639
<v Speaker 2>Though everybody said Elka was so cool, I thought Genesis

797
00:44:48.719 --> 00:44:54.320
<v Speaker 2>was cool as shit. Her smoking those fucking cigarettes, arguing

798
00:44:54.360 --> 00:44:58.639
<v Speaker 2>with her girlfriend. And I thought she was cool as shit,

799
00:44:59.159 --> 00:45:05.920
<v Speaker 2>her blonde and her and her her her lip liner,

800
00:45:06.159 --> 00:45:07.239
<v Speaker 2>and I thought she.

801
00:45:07.280 --> 00:45:11.159
<v Speaker 1>Was cooly shit. Yeah. Anyway, uh So it turned out

802
00:45:11.199 --> 00:45:11.519
<v Speaker 1>to be her.

803
00:45:11.679 --> 00:45:14.880
<v Speaker 2>And this was shocking because you know, I feel like me,

804
00:45:15.079 --> 00:45:16.760
<v Speaker 2>Liz and three other people are the only people.

805
00:45:16.599 --> 00:45:19.840
<v Speaker 1>That remember her. And you know, people were coming at

806
00:45:19.840 --> 00:45:20.559
<v Speaker 1>her saying that.

807
00:45:20.480 --> 00:45:24.840
<v Speaker 2>She she violated hippa.

808
00:45:25.960 --> 00:45:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Hippa is spelled hipaa.

809
00:45:28.960 --> 00:45:32.000
<v Speaker 2>It is an acronym for a law in which you

810
00:45:32.159 --> 00:45:37.159
<v Speaker 2>cannot It's it's basically managing the private information of your

811
00:45:37.159 --> 00:45:42.440
<v Speaker 2>patients and so and a lot of people did not

812
00:45:42.559 --> 00:45:45.320
<v Speaker 2>understand that, and during the pandemic because they they thought

813
00:45:45.480 --> 00:45:49.719
<v Speaker 2>they were the their job was violating hippa by asking

814
00:45:49.760 --> 00:45:51.519
<v Speaker 2>them did they get to vaccinated?

815
00:45:52.159 --> 00:45:54.760
<v Speaker 1>And the truth, that's not what that is.

816
00:45:54.840 --> 00:45:58.199
<v Speaker 2>It's for medical professionals and medical institutions.

817
00:45:58.760 --> 00:45:59.920
<v Speaker 1>It's not for regular people.

818
00:46:00.119 --> 00:46:02.679
<v Speaker 2>If I find out you have HERPEES and I tell everybody,

819
00:46:03.000 --> 00:46:05.360
<v Speaker 2>unless I'm your doctor, it doesn't matter. Unless i'm your doctor,

820
00:46:05.400 --> 00:46:07.960
<v Speaker 2>I work at the clinic that you go to, or

821
00:46:08.000 --> 00:46:10.400
<v Speaker 2>I work at the hospital or something like that, then

822
00:46:10.639 --> 00:46:14.719
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't it's not hippa. It's specifically so that you

823
00:46:14.920 --> 00:46:20.559
<v Speaker 2>can allow your information to go to your doctor and

824
00:46:20.760 --> 00:46:23.920
<v Speaker 2>anybody else that's caring for you without being worried that

825
00:46:23.960 --> 00:46:26.079
<v Speaker 2>they can then turn around and tell so what.

826
00:46:26.320 --> 00:46:28.000
<v Speaker 1>I think you can subpoena.

827
00:46:27.519 --> 00:46:33.800
<v Speaker 2>It, but you know, I think that varies from state

828
00:46:33.800 --> 00:46:37.400
<v Speaker 2>to state, jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Yeah, I know you can

829
00:46:37.400 --> 00:46:42.599
<v Speaker 2>subpoena Sabina. Actually, that's how they get therapist records and

830
00:46:42.639 --> 00:46:47.679
<v Speaker 2>things like that. So people are saying she violated HIPPA.

831
00:46:47.880 --> 00:46:49.280
<v Speaker 2>I actually don't know if that's true.

832
00:46:50.119 --> 00:46:56.519
<v Speaker 1>I think she maybe she did because she identified because

833
00:46:56.559 --> 00:46:59.840
<v Speaker 1>the patient never identified her.

834
00:47:00.239 --> 00:47:05.039
<v Speaker 2>She identified herself in the comments and saying apparently saying

835
00:47:05.199 --> 00:47:09.000
<v Speaker 2>that that is her patient is like a violation. Uh,

836
00:47:09.039 --> 00:47:11.519
<v Speaker 2>like a therapist could not tell y could not be like,

837
00:47:11.599 --> 00:47:14.320
<v Speaker 2>that's my therapy patient right over there. That's not They're

838
00:47:14.360 --> 00:47:16.239
<v Speaker 2>not allowed to do that. I don't know if it's that,

839
00:47:16.480 --> 00:47:19.360
<v Speaker 2>if that's the if it's that cut and dried, I

840
00:47:19.400 --> 00:47:21.760
<v Speaker 2>don't know. I don't claim to be a fucking lawyer, Okay,

841
00:47:23.079 --> 00:47:25.559
<v Speaker 2>but you know, there's just been a lot of discourse

842
00:47:25.599 --> 00:47:28.000
<v Speaker 2>around it. Why did she do that? Let's give her grace,

843
00:47:28.039 --> 00:47:31.400
<v Speaker 2>blah bah blah, blah. And this is one of those

844
00:47:31.440 --> 00:47:36.880
<v Speaker 2>classic things about defending yourself on the internet and how

845
00:47:36.880 --> 00:47:41.199
<v Speaker 2>that can blow up in your face if like nobody

846
00:47:41.239 --> 00:47:44.840
<v Speaker 2>knew it was her, and so like, I understand wanting

847
00:47:44.880 --> 00:47:47.239
<v Speaker 2>to defend yourself, but like unless you said.

848
00:47:47.039 --> 00:47:50.079
<v Speaker 1>Something no one, no it was you, and.

849
00:47:52.760 --> 00:47:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Unless I mean maybe someone sent it to her, I

850
00:47:55.440 --> 00:47:58.920
<v Speaker 2>don't know, cause they knew that she was a gynecologist.

851
00:47:59.079 --> 00:48:02.480
<v Speaker 2>The the resided in New York City that was changing

852
00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:06.760
<v Speaker 2>to six thousand dollars a year a subscription. Maybe that's

853
00:48:06.760 --> 00:48:10.920
<v Speaker 2>how she found out. Maybe, But defitting on it yourself

854
00:48:10.960 --> 00:48:14.679
<v Speaker 2>on the internet almost never works, unless it can be

855
00:48:14.679 --> 00:48:17.360
<v Speaker 2>something very short, like people are accusing you of being

856
00:48:17.400 --> 00:48:19.639
<v Speaker 2>maggot or something like that, and you can just get

857
00:48:19.639 --> 00:48:21.800
<v Speaker 2>on in and be like, no, I'm not, no, I'm not.

858
00:48:22.440 --> 00:48:24.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know who told you that, or they're accusing

859
00:48:24.360 --> 00:48:27.280
<v Speaker 2>you of like having a certain criminal history. If it's

860
00:48:27.280 --> 00:48:29.280
<v Speaker 2>short and sweet, and you can get on the internet

861
00:48:29.320 --> 00:48:35.239
<v Speaker 2>and immediately say Nope, that's not me. Sorry the look

862
00:48:36.320 --> 00:48:38.920
<v Speaker 2>I think you're looking for somebody else. But if you

863
00:48:39.159 --> 00:48:43.760
<v Speaker 2>have to pull get into semantics, if you have to

864
00:48:43.800 --> 00:48:47.159
<v Speaker 2>do that, you probably shouldn't. You probably shouldn't and the

865
00:48:47.239 --> 00:48:48.159
<v Speaker 2>reason is.

866
00:48:48.039 --> 00:48:49.400
<v Speaker 1>That because.

867
00:48:50.519 --> 00:48:54.599
<v Speaker 2>That sort of arguing back and forth will always draw

868
00:48:54.639 --> 00:48:57.719
<v Speaker 2>more attention to you than not. Right, if it's gotta

869
00:48:57.719 --> 00:49:01.239
<v Speaker 2>have nuance and you have to and you need a

870
00:49:01.360 --> 00:49:05.880
<v Speaker 2>forty six page power point with receipts, you probably are

871
00:49:05.920 --> 00:49:11.559
<v Speaker 2>doing better by ignoring it or by addressing only certain

872
00:49:11.599 --> 00:49:14.199
<v Speaker 2>parts of it. But it's real tricky. It's real fucking tricky.

873
00:49:14.400 --> 00:49:16.199
<v Speaker 2>I understand it where she was coming from, but this

874
00:49:16.280 --> 00:49:18.199
<v Speaker 2>is just not how you're supposed to do. And for

875
00:49:18.280 --> 00:49:20.280
<v Speaker 2>all of us to find out it was the girl

876
00:49:20.280 --> 00:49:25.360
<v Speaker 2>from the real world even worse, even worse, Here's how

877
00:49:25.360 --> 00:49:27.360
<v Speaker 2>I would have handled it. I would have seen who

878
00:49:27.360 --> 00:49:31.679
<v Speaker 2>it was, and hopefully I could determine I think this

879
00:49:31.719 --> 00:49:34.800
<v Speaker 2>person had their name in their handle anyway, hopefully I

880
00:49:34.800 --> 00:49:38.159
<v Speaker 2>could determine who it was, and I would reach out

881
00:49:38.199 --> 00:49:41.840
<v Speaker 2>to them privately to ask for a phone call. And

882
00:49:42.000 --> 00:49:44.400
<v Speaker 2>on the phone, I would let them know that I'm

883
00:49:44.400 --> 00:49:51.480
<v Speaker 2>really sorry that they felt shocked and slighted and basically fired. Right,

884
00:49:51.519 --> 00:49:56.519
<v Speaker 2>they felt fired from her practice, And I would say,

885
00:49:57.480 --> 00:49:59.719
<v Speaker 2>you know the let me tell you a little bit

886
00:49:59.719 --> 00:50:01.519
<v Speaker 2>about it. The reason I know they told you were

887
00:50:01.519 --> 00:50:03.000
<v Speaker 2>moving to the subscription. Let me tell you about the

888
00:50:03.039 --> 00:50:09.119
<v Speaker 2>reason and explaining that when she was working with insurance,

889
00:50:10.079 --> 00:50:13.159
<v Speaker 2>there would be a five hundred dollars so a service

890
00:50:13.159 --> 00:50:15.639
<v Speaker 2>she would charge five hundred dollars and they would only

891
00:50:15.679 --> 00:50:18.239
<v Speaker 2>pay her two hundred, and that led to her having

892
00:50:18.239 --> 00:50:21.519
<v Speaker 2>to have to make that to make up. That difference

893
00:50:21.519 --> 00:50:24.960
<v Speaker 2>in volume meant that she couldn't give her patients the

894
00:50:25.079 --> 00:50:27.440
<v Speaker 2>level of service that's what she wanted to She wanted

895
00:50:27.480 --> 00:50:28.880
<v Speaker 2>to be able to sit in there and talk to you.

896
00:50:29.000 --> 00:50:32.880
<v Speaker 2>She wanted to answer all your questions, and being beholden

897
00:50:32.920 --> 00:50:35.599
<v Speaker 2>to the insurance model meant that she couldn't do that.

898
00:50:35.719 --> 00:50:39.440
<v Speaker 2>And this isn't the way she envisioned being a doctor.

899
00:50:39.639 --> 00:50:42.480
<v Speaker 2>This isn't the way she envisioned helping people. And so

900
00:50:42.559 --> 00:50:44.440
<v Speaker 2>she really felt like this is the right thing to

901
00:50:44.480 --> 00:50:47.480
<v Speaker 2>do for herself and her practice and her patients. But

902
00:50:47.559 --> 00:50:52.039
<v Speaker 2>she does understand that not all her patients can can

903
00:50:52.320 --> 00:50:56.760
<v Speaker 2>can afford that, or can participate in this. So I'm sorry,

904
00:50:56.880 --> 00:50:59.760
<v Speaker 2>I hate to lose you as a patient because of this,

905
00:50:59.800 --> 00:51:01.760
<v Speaker 2>but I just want to explain to you why it's

906
00:51:01.760 --> 00:51:03.360
<v Speaker 2>not that I don't like being your doctor. It's not

907
00:51:03.440 --> 00:51:05.400
<v Speaker 2>that I'm like trying to get a house in the Hampton's.

908
00:51:05.440 --> 00:51:08.480
<v Speaker 2>It's really not that. It's a combinations of things and

909
00:51:08.760 --> 00:51:10.840
<v Speaker 2>it just felt like the right way to go. Now

910
00:51:10.840 --> 00:51:12.880
<v Speaker 2>it's for you. Since this isn't gonna work for you,

911
00:51:13.199 --> 00:51:16.880
<v Speaker 2>can I help you find another doctor now? Obviously, I mean,

912
00:51:16.880 --> 00:51:20.519
<v Speaker 2>if they were worth their salt anyway, the front desk

913
00:51:20.639 --> 00:51:22.840
<v Speaker 2>would have had a list of doctors that take that

914
00:51:22.920 --> 00:51:28.039
<v Speaker 2>insurance to like, like start here, even if it's just

915
00:51:28.079 --> 00:51:30.400
<v Speaker 2>three doctors, you can say here, check and see if

916
00:51:30.400 --> 00:51:32.960
<v Speaker 2>they're doing new patients. They I've confirmed that they do

917
00:51:33.000 --> 00:51:35.559
<v Speaker 2>take that insurance, so hopefully you'll be able.

918
00:51:35.440 --> 00:51:36.079
<v Speaker 1>To get in with them.

919
00:51:36.119 --> 00:51:38.639
<v Speaker 2>And if they can't, ask them if they have any

920
00:51:39.159 --> 00:51:45.760
<v Speaker 2>if they have any suggestions or for this. But that's

921
00:51:45.760 --> 00:51:47.119
<v Speaker 2>what they should have been doing at the front desk

922
00:51:47.159 --> 00:51:48.840
<v Speaker 2>when they told when they told her about the six

923
00:51:48.880 --> 00:51:51.039
<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars. But if they didn't, this is a great

924
00:51:51.079 --> 00:51:53.239
<v Speaker 2>time to do that. And if they did, this is

925
00:51:53.239 --> 00:51:58.239
<v Speaker 2>a great time to say, hey, I want to I'm

926
00:51:58.239 --> 00:52:01.239
<v Speaker 2>gonna connect you with my admin who is gonna work

927
00:52:01.280 --> 00:52:05.840
<v Speaker 2>with you to find a new to get to find

928
00:52:05.880 --> 00:52:08.760
<v Speaker 2>a new provider and like get an appointment there. Well

929
00:52:08.840 --> 00:52:12.119
<v Speaker 2>they'll just help you figure it out. And I'm really

930
00:52:12.159 --> 00:52:16.199
<v Speaker 2>sorry that's your felt that way, that private conversation in

931
00:52:16.239 --> 00:52:21.119
<v Speaker 2>which you are acknowledging that this patient is feeling a

932
00:52:21.119 --> 00:52:23.719
<v Speaker 2>certain way, but also explaining why this is the way

933
00:52:23.760 --> 00:52:26.119
<v Speaker 2>you need to go. We'll have done wonders that ope

934
00:52:26.400 --> 00:52:30.400
<v Speaker 2>to come back to her, to her post and said, hey,

935
00:52:30.639 --> 00:52:35.519
<v Speaker 2>I just actually talked she saw this and she you know,

936
00:52:36.239 --> 00:52:38.079
<v Speaker 2>I feel so much better about what she told me.

937
00:52:38.360 --> 00:52:39.920
<v Speaker 2>And I just want you guys to know that she's

938
00:52:39.960 --> 00:52:41.920
<v Speaker 2>not like a lot of you are, assuming she's being

939
00:52:41.960 --> 00:52:44.119
<v Speaker 2>malicious ingredient and stuff, but that's not what's going on.

940
00:52:44.400 --> 00:52:47.280
<v Speaker 1>And she's helping me find another provider that can do

941
00:52:47.320 --> 00:52:48.039
<v Speaker 1>what I need to do.

942
00:52:48.440 --> 00:52:51.559
<v Speaker 2>And I just really appreciate that, Like, that's probably the

943
00:52:51.559 --> 00:52:55.280
<v Speaker 2>good will you have gotten from just that conversation. Would

944
00:52:55.320 --> 00:52:59.519
<v Speaker 2>have would have been a thousand percent more, a thousand

945
00:52:59.559 --> 00:53:02.800
<v Speaker 2>percent better than you in the comments trying to explain

946
00:53:02.840 --> 00:53:07.320
<v Speaker 2>the position. I don't know I should I be like

947
00:53:07.360 --> 00:53:09.199
<v Speaker 2>a pr rap Is that what I should do?

948
00:53:10.360 --> 00:53:12.400
<v Speaker 1>No? No, I just know.

949
00:53:12.760 --> 00:53:16.320
<v Speaker 2>What I would have wanted in that situation. I post

950
00:53:16.360 --> 00:53:18.360
<v Speaker 2>a lot of stuff on threads. A lot of it

951
00:53:18.400 --> 00:53:22.480
<v Speaker 2>gets a lot of likes. I'm not sure why. I

952
00:53:22.519 --> 00:53:26.079
<v Speaker 2>think it's because of the subjects. I'm posting about kids,

953
00:53:26.119 --> 00:53:28.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm posting about eternal I.

954
00:53:28.480 --> 00:53:34.079
<v Speaker 1>Found I'm posting. I put a comment on one on one.

955
00:53:35.480 --> 00:53:37.480
<v Speaker 2>Post about what to do if you get the ick

956
00:53:37.719 --> 00:53:39.719
<v Speaker 2>to a married person, like if you're married and you

957
00:53:39.719 --> 00:53:41.880
<v Speaker 2>get the EG and she's like, I would cry, and

958
00:53:42.000 --> 00:53:44.360
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I opretunly, like I didn't see that.

959
00:53:44.639 --> 00:53:47.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not selling my house and seeing my kids half

960
00:53:47.000 --> 00:53:48.360
<v Speaker 2>the time because you eat spaghetti weird.

961
00:53:48.800 --> 00:53:50.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll just bam spaghetti in this house.

962
00:53:51.800 --> 00:53:54.480
<v Speaker 2>I will wait until you go to sleep and get

963
00:53:54.519 --> 00:53:59.000
<v Speaker 2>that outfit that is killing me and I will stuff

964
00:53:59.039 --> 00:54:00.719
<v Speaker 2>it in a trash bag and stuff at the bottom

965
00:54:00.760 --> 00:54:03.119
<v Speaker 2>of the trash and pretend and I'll.

966
00:54:02.920 --> 00:54:05.159
<v Speaker 1>Help you look for it. Yeah, you gotta do. You

967
00:54:05.199 --> 00:54:06.440
<v Speaker 1>gotta do what you fucking gotta do.

968
00:54:06.480 --> 00:54:09.360
<v Speaker 2>And people underneath that there's a lot of likes and comments,

969
00:54:09.400 --> 00:54:11.000
<v Speaker 2>but people underneath they were like, well, what if you

970
00:54:11.039 --> 00:54:14.239
<v Speaker 2>find out that you're that that your man is rude

971
00:54:14.280 --> 00:54:18.079
<v Speaker 2>to staff and baby, you know what to do if

972
00:54:18.119 --> 00:54:21.039
<v Speaker 2>you find out that you're that your that your husband

973
00:54:21.119 --> 00:54:23.400
<v Speaker 2>or wife is a bad person, you know what to do.

974
00:54:23.440 --> 00:54:24.880
<v Speaker 1>There. You don't need me to tell you that.

975
00:54:25.039 --> 00:54:26.880
<v Speaker 2>But that's not what an itch is an itch is

976
00:54:27.440 --> 00:54:29.119
<v Speaker 2>doesn't have any morality behind it.

977
00:54:29.239 --> 00:54:31.039
<v Speaker 1>So an it is.

978
00:54:31.480 --> 00:54:36.360
<v Speaker 2>They they're sneezes are way over the top for no

979
00:54:36.440 --> 00:54:37.119
<v Speaker 2>fucking reason.

980
00:54:37.440 --> 00:54:42.800
<v Speaker 1>Like every time they sneeze is like huh like something

981
00:54:43.199 --> 00:54:46.840
<v Speaker 1>like that. That's an eck, which the first thing I'd

982
00:54:46.880 --> 00:54:50.280
<v Speaker 1>be like is, well, are you okay? Are you okay?

983
00:54:50.480 --> 00:54:54.360
<v Speaker 1>What is that? What was that? Theater kid asked, fucking sneeze?

984
00:54:54.360 --> 00:55:00.960
<v Speaker 1>You just did? But I would. I might. I mean,

985
00:55:01.000 --> 00:55:03.000
<v Speaker 1>they're getting enough war and they're gonna sneeze. I fight

986
00:55:03.119 --> 00:55:08.559
<v Speaker 1>leave the road. I might embarrass them toil they stop.

987
00:55:09.079 --> 00:55:10.239
<v Speaker 1>There's all kinds of things I can do.

988
00:55:10.320 --> 00:55:13.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm not leaving anybody over that, though, especially after I've

989
00:55:13.360 --> 00:55:15.159
<v Speaker 2>entangled my my finances with you.

990
00:55:15.199 --> 00:55:17.079
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not. You're gonna have to do better than that

991
00:55:17.159 --> 00:55:19.400
<v Speaker 1>to get me hired. I'm not.

992
00:55:21.199 --> 00:55:23.079
<v Speaker 2>But I get a lot of stuff like that, And

993
00:55:23.800 --> 00:55:26.480
<v Speaker 2>so I understand where the op was coming from.

994
00:55:26.519 --> 00:55:30.519
<v Speaker 1>When like they just like, we're like, girl, can y'all believe?

995
00:55:30.519 --> 00:55:34.159
<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah blah, And they're thinking like twenty maybe

996
00:55:34.239 --> 00:55:37.280
<v Speaker 1>fifty one hundred people are gonna see this and and

997
00:55:37.280 --> 00:55:40.440
<v Speaker 1>and be like, what are you crazy?

998
00:55:40.480 --> 00:55:42.920
<v Speaker 2>Boom, you know that's what they think they're gonna get

999
00:55:42.960 --> 00:55:45.880
<v Speaker 2>some friends, some fun, just a couple of people commenting

1000
00:55:45.920 --> 00:55:47.440
<v Speaker 2>on it and like validating them.

1001
00:55:47.280 --> 00:55:50.880
<v Speaker 1>And it getsself. It's like twenty million likes in all

1002
00:55:51.000 --> 00:55:55.000
<v Speaker 1>these fucking comments. I understand there's plenty of things that

1003
00:55:55.000 --> 00:56:00.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm posting on. I was like, what the fuck? I

1004
00:56:00.840 --> 00:56:04.639
<v Speaker 1>thought six people were gonna comment on this. I thought

1005
00:56:05.239 --> 00:56:09.880
<v Speaker 1>Liz van for the best weekend ever, my cousin. I

1006
00:56:10.000 --> 00:56:13.039
<v Speaker 1>thought the people never gonna comment on it. Maybe Caro,

1007
00:56:13.239 --> 00:56:16.440
<v Speaker 1>if she sees it, she's she's so much better at

1008
00:56:16.440 --> 00:56:20.079
<v Speaker 1>social media than I am, that she's doing other things. Yeah,

1009
00:56:20.199 --> 00:56:24.519
<v Speaker 1>I thought three people were gonna see it, And now

1010
00:56:24.519 --> 00:56:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I know he's fucking opinions and everything. Yeah, I totally

1011
00:56:29.519 --> 00:56:34.119
<v Speaker 1>understand how how that can happen to you. But here's

1012
00:56:34.159 --> 00:56:34.519
<v Speaker 1>the thing.

1013
00:56:35.480 --> 00:56:39.800
<v Speaker 2>That person does not have a professional responsibility a professional

1014
00:56:39.920 --> 00:56:42.719
<v Speaker 2>duty doctor Camilla does.

1015
00:56:43.480 --> 00:56:46.440
<v Speaker 1>And that's just how it goes anyway. I hope people

1016
00:56:46.480 --> 00:56:50.039
<v Speaker 1>will give her a little grace and I hope she

1017
00:56:50.159 --> 00:56:53.599
<v Speaker 1>didn't violate hippo with that, But if she did, Jesus Christ, Like,

1018
00:56:53.840 --> 00:56:58.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't think the op's interested in pursuing sanctions or

1019
00:56:58.239 --> 00:57:01.320
<v Speaker 1>whatever the fuck you would pursue and you know what,

1020
00:57:01.639 --> 00:57:03.719
<v Speaker 1>People are so fucking weird on the internet. I bet

1021
00:57:03.760 --> 00:57:05.119
<v Speaker 1>you a couple of people were reported her to the

1022
00:57:05.119 --> 00:57:06.559
<v Speaker 1>medical board.

1023
00:57:06.800 --> 00:57:09.519
<v Speaker 2>Do you think that people are so fucking weird on

1024
00:57:09.559 --> 00:57:13.039
<v Speaker 2>the internet, so weird they love to try to get

1025
00:57:13.039 --> 00:57:19.920
<v Speaker 2>somebody fired over a difference of fucking opinions. Like That's

1026
00:57:19.920 --> 00:57:21.519
<v Speaker 2>another one that blew up that long where I talked

1027
00:57:21.519 --> 00:57:24.679
<v Speaker 2>about how at the place I used to work, they

1028
00:57:24.679 --> 00:57:26.199
<v Speaker 2>didn't really care if you about your kid as long

1029
00:57:26.199 --> 00:57:28.239
<v Speaker 2>as your kids stayed in your area and didn't disturb

1030
00:57:28.280 --> 00:57:31.199
<v Speaker 2>everybody else. So I did bring my kid. A guy

1031
00:57:31.320 --> 00:57:33.559
<v Speaker 2>came in my office to ask me a question he

1032
00:57:33.599 --> 00:57:37.639
<v Speaker 2>could have emailed me. We were we talked via email

1033
00:57:37.679 --> 00:57:44.440
<v Speaker 2>all the time. I and he said, why is your

1034
00:57:44.519 --> 00:57:47.760
<v Speaker 2>kid here? And this was cheeks when he scratched his cornea,

1035
00:57:48.400 --> 00:57:50.599
<v Speaker 2>he had a it wasn't a scratch, it was an

1036
00:57:50.599 --> 00:57:54.239
<v Speaker 2>eye ulcer. And so he's sitting there in an eyepatch,

1037
00:57:54.840 --> 00:57:57.760
<v Speaker 2>looking at a book or maybe his tablet, and he's

1038
00:57:57.800 --> 00:58:01.360
<v Speaker 2>like in the corner behind me, and he's like, I

1039
00:58:01.400 --> 00:58:03.840
<v Speaker 2>was like, he's not feeling well. He's like, dude, was like, Oh,

1040
00:58:03.840 --> 00:58:05.119
<v Speaker 2>if he's sick, he shouldn't be here. To get the

1041
00:58:05.159 --> 00:58:06.360
<v Speaker 2>rest of them sick. And I told him he is

1042
00:58:06.360 --> 00:58:09.800
<v Speaker 2>free to go back to his office, right because you

1043
00:58:10.000 --> 00:58:12.119
<v Speaker 2>don't have to be if you think you're gonna get

1044
00:58:12.159 --> 00:58:14.039
<v Speaker 2>sick from him, you don't have to be in here.

1045
00:58:15.480 --> 00:58:22.000
<v Speaker 1>And I also mentioned that I had a coworker who

1046
00:58:22.280 --> 00:58:31.239
<v Speaker 1>uh a coworker who brought her main coon cats and

1047
00:58:31.400 --> 00:58:33.840
<v Speaker 1>she had two of them. Thinking answer Jack and G,

1048
00:58:33.960 --> 00:58:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I could be wrong. I wasn't really introduced to him

1049
00:58:35.880 --> 00:58:40.000
<v Speaker 1>like that, and these huge, motherfucking cats were in her office.

1050
00:58:40.039 --> 00:58:42.239
<v Speaker 2>She had a sign saying don't open the door because

1051
00:58:42.320 --> 00:58:43.119
<v Speaker 2>they might run out.

1052
00:58:43.480 --> 00:58:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't I think she was in there because she

1053
00:58:45.039 --> 00:58:48.039
<v Speaker 1>was moving or there was some reason that those cats

1054
00:58:48.039 --> 00:58:50.280
<v Speaker 1>had to come to work with her. And I didn't

1055
00:58:50.320 --> 00:58:54.199
<v Speaker 1>say shit. I didn't say a god damn thing, because

1056
00:58:54.239 --> 00:58:56.800
<v Speaker 1>guess what what the fuck them cats get to do

1057
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<v Speaker 1>with me? If I was unhappy those cats that's where

1058
00:59:00.400 --> 00:59:00.880
<v Speaker 1>it work.

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00:59:00.880 --> 00:59:02.920
<v Speaker 2>I would just go I'll go back in my office

1060
00:59:02.920 --> 00:59:05.840
<v Speaker 2>and close the dooring my my fucking business. And so

1061
00:59:05.880 --> 00:59:09.239
<v Speaker 2>I wrote about that. I got so many people commenting

1062
00:59:09.320 --> 00:59:11.360
<v Speaker 2>won they want to know about them cats? Don't post

1063
00:59:11.400 --> 00:59:12.639
<v Speaker 2>about a cat on the internet.

1064
00:59:12.960 --> 00:59:13.559
<v Speaker 1>And then some.

1065
00:59:13.480 --> 00:59:16.559
<v Speaker 2>People being like cat allergies people could die. Sure, I

1066
00:59:17.760 --> 00:59:20.880
<v Speaker 2>didn't bring those cats. You guys know how I feel

1067
00:59:20.880 --> 00:59:23.599
<v Speaker 2>about pets just going every fucking where.

1068
00:59:25.239 --> 00:59:28.320
<v Speaker 1>Although if you have a cop, if you have.

1069
00:59:28.280 --> 00:59:32.760
<v Speaker 2>An office cat or an office dog, I don't see

1070
00:59:32.800 --> 00:59:33.880
<v Speaker 2>the problem.

1071
00:59:33.480 --> 00:59:35.639
<v Speaker 1>In that, as long as anybody that wants.

1072
00:59:35.480 --> 00:59:37.000
<v Speaker 2>To work there, or anybody wants to come in there

1073
00:59:37.039 --> 00:59:38.960
<v Speaker 2>and understands there's a cat or a dog here.

1074
00:59:39.000 --> 00:59:39.880
<v Speaker 1>He works here with.

1075
00:59:43.039 --> 00:59:47.559
<v Speaker 2>Who he's actually on time and a half's, And then

1076
00:59:47.599 --> 00:59:49.480
<v Speaker 2>it would be great if you put like a little

1077
00:59:49.599 --> 00:59:51.000
<v Speaker 2>if it as a cat, you put it like a

1078
00:59:51.000 --> 00:59:55.159
<v Speaker 2>little bow tie and like a suit. Okay, that would

1079
00:59:55.159 --> 01:00:00.599
<v Speaker 2>be great. But that's where that pet.

1080
01:00:00.400 --> 01:00:01.920
<v Speaker 1>Belongs, and they go there every day.

1081
01:00:04.159 --> 01:00:07.280
<v Speaker 2>But you know, I just don't think necessary for us

1082
01:00:07.440 --> 01:00:12.639
<v Speaker 2>the dragar pets to whole foods and while water Country

1083
01:00:12.719 --> 01:00:14.840
<v Speaker 2>USA and various other things.

1084
01:00:15.440 --> 01:00:18.280
<v Speaker 1>But so I understand what someone was trying to say,

1085
01:00:18.320 --> 01:00:19.199
<v Speaker 1>what about alergies, But.

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01:00:19.159 --> 01:00:22.480
<v Speaker 2>I have no fucking cats. And also my son had

1087
01:00:22.519 --> 01:00:25.280
<v Speaker 2>an eye patch on. So if he thought my son

1088
01:00:25.360 --> 01:00:28.360
<v Speaker 2>had a cough or a flu or whatever, YadA, YadA YadA,

1089
01:00:28.800 --> 01:00:32.239
<v Speaker 2>I think you think he just where the eye patch

1090
01:00:32.800 --> 01:00:33.559
<v Speaker 2>for fucking fun.

1091
01:00:35.960 --> 01:00:37.519
<v Speaker 1>And he was telling people he was getting sick.

1092
01:00:37.840 --> 01:00:42.440
<v Speaker 2>From my child's corneal ulcer shut up because he didn't know,

1093
01:00:42.480 --> 01:00:47.880
<v Speaker 2>he didn't care to ask. Yeah, So I got so

1094
01:00:47.920 --> 01:00:51.960
<v Speaker 2>many people, mostly you were talking about the cats never

1095
01:00:52.000 --> 01:00:55.199
<v Speaker 2>pals about cats on the anent, and other people were

1096
01:00:55.199 --> 01:00:58.079
<v Speaker 2>talking mostly like you know, about how what an asshole

1097
01:00:58.079 --> 01:01:00.119
<v Speaker 2>he is. But there are a couple that were like,

1098
01:01:00.119 --> 01:01:07.559
<v Speaker 2>like you, like you should have answered his question. You

1099
01:01:07.559 --> 01:01:09.440
<v Speaker 2>should have gave him this and this and that, and

1100
01:01:09.480 --> 01:01:11.119
<v Speaker 2>he had he needed to come in your office to

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01:01:11.119 --> 01:01:11.360
<v Speaker 2>do He.

1102
01:01:11.320 --> 01:01:13.360
<v Speaker 1>Didn't need to come in my office. He didn't need

1103
01:01:13.400 --> 01:01:13.840
<v Speaker 1>to come in my.

1104
01:01:13.800 --> 01:01:16.199
<v Speaker 2>Office, as evidence by the fact he went back to

1105
01:01:16.239 --> 01:01:17.960
<v Speaker 2>his desk and sent me an email and got his answer.

1106
01:01:19.000 --> 01:01:19.519
<v Speaker 1>There you go.

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01:01:21.119 --> 01:01:25.199
<v Speaker 2>So I got so many people talking about this, and

1108
01:01:25.280 --> 01:01:27.280
<v Speaker 2>I did preface this with I used to have this

1109
01:01:27.360 --> 01:01:31.440
<v Speaker 2>job a while ago, and and I was like, this

1110
01:01:31.480 --> 01:01:34.679
<v Speaker 2>does not affect work, this is not I did not

1111
01:01:34.800 --> 01:01:37.320
<v Speaker 2>need that man's permission. He did not own the company,

1112
01:01:37.320 --> 01:01:39.800
<v Speaker 2>he didn't own this office, okay, And in fact, he

1113
01:01:39.840 --> 01:01:41.360
<v Speaker 2>was in a cubicle, So what do you want from me?

1114
01:01:42.039 --> 01:01:44.519
<v Speaker 2>He was in a cubicle, So go back to your cubicle.

1115
01:01:46.519 --> 01:01:52.320
<v Speaker 2>And so, yeah, like I I, he didn't question the

1116
01:01:52.400 --> 01:01:56.280
<v Speaker 2>main cooncats. He won't looking up in there, asking what

1117
01:01:56.320 --> 01:01:59.159
<v Speaker 2>they were doing, what their names were, whether they were sick.

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01:01:59.199 --> 01:02:01.400
<v Speaker 1>He didn't ask no fue questions, And which is fun

1119
01:02:01.480 --> 01:02:03.760
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't ask these questions either. I didn't ask

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01:02:03.760 --> 01:02:04.280
<v Speaker 1>any questions.

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01:02:04.559 --> 01:02:07.079
<v Speaker 2>It just seemed like, you know, if I'm not her

1122
01:02:07.119 --> 01:02:09.320
<v Speaker 2>boss and I'm not in charge's office, if somebody want

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01:02:09.360 --> 01:02:12.440
<v Speaker 2>to tell her get rid of these coon cats whatever.

1124
01:02:12.559 --> 01:02:17.320
<v Speaker 2>Those cats when they eat other cats, those cats looked

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01:02:17.360 --> 01:02:21.159
<v Speaker 2>like the apex cats in the neighbor the apex predators

1126
01:02:21.159 --> 01:02:21.920
<v Speaker 2>of the neighborhood.

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01:02:22.599 --> 01:02:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Those are big ass fucking catsu. They're like small dogs,

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01:02:27.159 --> 01:02:32.400
<v Speaker 1>right Like, if I was a regular science cat and

1129
01:02:32.440 --> 01:02:34.840
<v Speaker 1>them big ass cats showed up somewhere, I'd be like,

1130
01:02:34.920 --> 01:02:36.119
<v Speaker 1>let's go home, Let's go home.

1131
01:02:36.159 --> 01:02:39.159
<v Speaker 2>I don't want no trouble. Let's go home. Why I'm

1132
01:02:39.159 --> 01:02:45.760
<v Speaker 2>a Trader Jones anyway, please take me home. But but yeah,

1133
01:02:45.760 --> 01:02:48.760
<v Speaker 2>I didn't ask no fucking questions, you know what I'm saying.

1134
01:02:49.079 --> 01:02:50.800
<v Speaker 2>And he didn't ask her no questions either, But he

1135
01:02:50.840 --> 01:02:53.079
<v Speaker 2>had a lot of questions about my kid. Now, let

1136
01:02:53.159 --> 01:02:55.239
<v Speaker 2>me be clear. This guy was an absolute kid hater.

1137
01:02:55.360 --> 01:02:57.920
<v Speaker 2>And then he fucking hated kids, and that's all he

1138
01:02:57.960 --> 01:03:00.880
<v Speaker 2>talked about. And that's he talked about that quite a bit, okay,

1139
01:03:01.440 --> 01:03:04.800
<v Speaker 2>Like nobody asked you. I didn't offer you any children.

1140
01:03:04.880 --> 01:03:05.239
<v Speaker 1>I didn't.

1141
01:03:05.280 --> 01:03:07.880
<v Speaker 2>I did not speak about my children to him. Maybe

1142
01:03:07.880 --> 01:03:09.639
<v Speaker 2>he saw a picture of them on my desk or

1143
01:03:09.679 --> 01:03:12.559
<v Speaker 2>something like that, but he always had the it was

1144
01:03:12.639 --> 01:03:14.239
<v Speaker 2>very important for him to bring this up.

1145
01:03:16.360 --> 01:03:18.760
<v Speaker 1>And I'd be like, good for you, Like I don't

1146
01:03:18.800 --> 01:03:21.559
<v Speaker 1>care you and his.

1147
01:03:21.559 --> 01:03:24.039
<v Speaker 2>Partner with her as well, this happened, you and your

1148
01:03:24.079 --> 01:03:27.360
<v Speaker 2>partner of sixteen years that don't believe in marriage or children.

1149
01:03:27.480 --> 01:03:32.599
<v Speaker 1>That sounds fine, that sounds fine. Well why are you

1150
01:03:32.679 --> 01:03:35.000
<v Speaker 1>bringing this up? Let's talk about this fucking exhale thing.

1151
01:03:35.039 --> 01:03:38.280
<v Speaker 2>I never asked you none of that shit, okay, And

1152
01:03:38.320 --> 01:03:40.239
<v Speaker 2>this is also the third time you've mentioned it to me,

1153
01:03:40.320 --> 01:03:41.519
<v Speaker 2>So what are you doing?

1154
01:03:41.559 --> 01:03:46.119
<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? Anyway? Somebody underneath there was just

1155
01:03:46.159 --> 01:03:48.039
<v Speaker 1>they were so upset by that. They were like, this.

1156
01:03:48.039 --> 01:03:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Sounds like a smug workplace, blah blah blah. I was like,

1157
01:03:51.000 --> 01:03:52.679
<v Speaker 2>you can go back to your office too, and so

1158
01:03:53.360 --> 01:03:55.000
<v Speaker 2>go right back to where the fuck you belong to.

1159
01:03:55.360 --> 01:03:56.920
<v Speaker 2>If you don't like what's happening over here, go or

1160
01:03:56.960 --> 01:03:59.039
<v Speaker 2>right back the way you belong and they were like

1161
01:04:00.119 --> 01:04:02.199
<v Speaker 2>implying that they were gonna try to get me fired.

1162
01:04:02.199 --> 01:04:04.199
<v Speaker 1>They were like, does your boss know about this?

1163
01:04:04.400 --> 01:04:08.199
<v Speaker 2>Maybe they need to know, and I'm like, they fine,

1164
01:04:08.760 --> 01:04:12.320
<v Speaker 2>A fine. First of all, I don't work there anymore.

1165
01:04:12.360 --> 01:04:14.079
<v Speaker 2>I think the company went out of business or they

1166
01:04:14.079 --> 01:04:16.639
<v Speaker 2>got absorbed by somebody else. But yeah, go ahead and

1167
01:04:16.760 --> 01:04:21.679
<v Speaker 2>like find them and let them know how mean I am, and.

1168
01:04:23.599 --> 01:04:31.079
<v Speaker 1>How I had my son there. Gosh, she was small

1169
01:04:31.280 --> 01:04:36.360
<v Speaker 1>eight years ago. Go ahead.

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01:04:36.880 --> 01:04:38.920
<v Speaker 2>And also the reason I was in the office is

1171
01:04:38.920 --> 01:04:41.559
<v Speaker 2>because you have to put dots like this drops in

1172
01:04:41.599 --> 01:04:42.880
<v Speaker 2>his eyes over and it's really painful.

1173
01:04:42.880 --> 01:04:44.400
<v Speaker 1>You have to put these drops in his eyes over

1174
01:04:44.440 --> 01:04:45.000
<v Speaker 1>and over again.

1175
01:04:45.079 --> 01:04:47.239
<v Speaker 2>And that's why he wasn't at summer camp, because I

1176
01:04:47.280 --> 01:04:51.880
<v Speaker 2>did not believe that a YMCA employee who is a

1177
01:04:51.960 --> 01:04:54.519
<v Speaker 2>nineteen year old trying to get some summer work.

1178
01:04:56.039 --> 01:04:58.480
<v Speaker 1>Should be in charge of putting that shit in his

1179
01:04:58.559 --> 01:05:01.119
<v Speaker 1>ear as well as the other thirty kids that are

1180
01:05:01.199 --> 01:05:02.599
<v Speaker 1>running around I can like assholes.

1181
01:05:02.920 --> 01:05:05.079
<v Speaker 2>I didn't think that was a fair I think that

1182
01:05:05.119 --> 01:05:06.199
<v Speaker 2>if I showed up and I was like, you have

1183
01:05:06.239 --> 01:05:08.239
<v Speaker 2>to give them this medicine every hour, they would have

1184
01:05:08.320 --> 01:05:10.320
<v Speaker 2>tried to. But I don't think they would have been successful.

1185
01:05:10.480 --> 01:05:13.159
<v Speaker 2>And I also don't think that was fair, Like that's

1186
01:05:13.199 --> 01:05:15.920
<v Speaker 2>something you handle at home. And I didn't want to

1187
01:05:15.960 --> 01:05:18.239
<v Speaker 2>be there, but they needed me and I was the

1188
01:05:18.239 --> 01:05:20.320
<v Speaker 2>only one that they could do it. And so it

1189
01:05:20.360 --> 01:05:23.039
<v Speaker 2>was either don't show up here and the thing that

1190
01:05:23.119 --> 01:05:23.679
<v Speaker 2>y'all really.

1191
01:05:23.559 --> 01:05:28.199
<v Speaker 1>Want to happen won't happen, or bring him and let

1192
01:05:28.239 --> 01:05:29.239
<v Speaker 1>him chill in the office.

1193
01:05:29.440 --> 01:05:32.320
<v Speaker 2>Which one do you want to do? I'll tell you

1194
01:05:32.320 --> 01:05:35.239
<v Speaker 2>my boss wanted to do that, so that's what I did. Anyway,

1195
01:05:35.360 --> 01:05:38.440
<v Speaker 2>that's a long story. I really hope nobody. People are

1196
01:05:38.440 --> 01:05:42.440
<v Speaker 2>just so eager to get people fired over very casual things.

1197
01:05:42.480 --> 01:05:43.559
<v Speaker 1>It's like a power trip.

1198
01:05:43.719 --> 01:05:45.519
<v Speaker 2>It's very different than a nurse getting on there and

1199
01:05:45.559 --> 01:05:48.800
<v Speaker 2>telling you that she hates Hispanic people and every time

1200
01:05:48.920 --> 01:05:52.280
<v Speaker 2>she hears someone speaking Spanish when she comes in, she

1201
01:05:52.440 --> 01:05:56.679
<v Speaker 2>makes sure to not give them the real vaccines or whatever.

1202
01:05:57.280 --> 01:05:59.559
<v Speaker 1>That's very different. That is a workplace thing that we

1203
01:05:59.599 --> 01:06:03.039
<v Speaker 1>need to talk. It's very different than someone in a

1204
01:06:03.119 --> 01:06:08.400
<v Speaker 1>company car being caught on the caught on a video

1205
01:06:08.519 --> 01:06:14.400
<v Speaker 1>that's on TikTok being incredibly like aggressive towards someone and

1206
01:06:14.519 --> 01:06:18.039
<v Speaker 1>just being real crazy. That's different. It's different than someone

1207
01:06:18.199 --> 01:06:22.280
<v Speaker 1>who a company if that company knew.

1208
01:06:22.119 --> 01:06:24.400
<v Speaker 2>About the what they're doing, would will not want to

1209
01:06:24.400 --> 01:06:28.519
<v Speaker 2>be represented by them. That's different somebody who's opinion you

1210
01:06:28.559 --> 01:06:33.440
<v Speaker 2>don't like. Someone who thinks Minn does not have to

1211
01:06:33.519 --> 01:06:36.239
<v Speaker 2>be in is not good enough to be in.

1212
01:06:36.320 --> 01:06:39.719
<v Speaker 1>Cats are baby, That's not so. I call people's jobs

1213
01:06:41.400 --> 01:06:45.760
<v Speaker 1>in this economy, in this economy Jesus. Anyway, that's all

1214
01:06:45.760 --> 01:06:46.840
<v Speaker 1>I got today.

1215
01:06:47.119 --> 01:06:50.599
<v Speaker 2>I will catch up with you guys on Monday when

1216
01:06:50.599 --> 01:06:53.639
<v Speaker 2>we finish my fair Brady.

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01:06:53.920 --> 01:07:03.559
<v Speaker 1>Until then, tootles the gy ca them Tim