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<v Speaker 1>Oh, here we go, Here we go, Here we go. Yeah, Jenny,

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<v Speaker 1>what's my weakness?

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<v Speaker 2>Man? Oh yeah, Tomato. It's men though, right they say men? Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that was the remix. That is one of my most

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<v Speaker 2>missed moments of having you next to me in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Is well, besides the fact that I don't get to

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<v Speaker 2>touch you, but thank you. Also, Fallan would just remix

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<v Speaker 2>all these songs to be filthy. Like I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>think of some of your best ones. What is your

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<v Speaker 2>best ones? I don't remember. No, I just like the

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<v Speaker 2>popular song that's playing on the radio at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>and Fallen would remix it and make it dirty. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also even pre Jenny obviously did that with

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<v Speaker 1>Steve a lot, but Steve only remixed it with the

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<v Speaker 1>P word. We only put pe in every single song.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did feel like I had a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more creativity than you.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely did. Speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to have lunch with that bitch last

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<v Speaker 1>week and he canceled. Why well, he said he screwed

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<v Speaker 1>up something at work, classic Steve and had to fix it.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, soy, it's okay, we rescheduled. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was ready to kill him because I was

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<v Speaker 1>We were supposed to, first of all, go to walk

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<v Speaker 1>in the park, which I was real high about. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>it was one of my Jake's first date, Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>we were supposed to go that Steve picked and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>hell yeah, because we almost always picked Rohoe, which is great,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was nice for a different thing. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that little chunk of time between my shows is sacred,

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<v Speaker 1>Yes it is.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Already like five minutes from walking the park when he

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<v Speaker 1>called the cancel. So I was so annoyed because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to go to the radio station at

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<v Speaker 1>like eleven fifteen am on a Friday. So I drove

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<v Speaker 1>all the way back home, which was also a waste.

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<v Speaker 1>But I you know whatever, I wasn't mad at him.

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<v Speaker 1>I was mad that that sacred little time was just wasted.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, and you called me too, we could have gotten walk. No,

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<v Speaker 2>actually I was sick Friday. Nevermind, I wasn't going to walk.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know you were sick. But I did call

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<v Speaker 2>you and chat with you.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, I've been doing it, like I feel like lately,

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<v Speaker 1>one day a week, I'll call you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just talk to you on my ride just

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<v Speaker 2>to chat. I love that because Andrew calls me and

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<v Speaker 2>he's driving all the time, and so it's like constant

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<v Speaker 2>like on the phone with him. But outside of him,

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<v Speaker 2>you're probably one of the few people I'm like cool

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<v Speaker 2>with having long phone conversations with or even just like

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<v Speaker 2>quick short ones. But let me tell you, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was sick on Friday and I didn't end up coming

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<v Speaker 2>into work that day, I had started better. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel much better. So I had still gotten up for work,

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<v Speaker 2>like had I anticipated going into work and everything, even

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<v Speaker 2>though I wasn't feeling good Thursday, but I had turned

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<v Speaker 2>my alarms off on my phone and didn't reset them.

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<v Speaker 2>And this morning, all of a sudden, I'm hearing Andrew's

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<v Speaker 2>alarm go off, and I'm like fuck. And I look

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<v Speaker 2>at my phone and it's five point fifty and that's

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<v Speaker 2>when he sets his alarm every day for five fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>I screamed the F word like ten times. I immediately

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<v Speaker 2>out of habit, go unplug the fan, like out of

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<v Speaker 2>the word, grab my phone and like my water bottle

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<v Speaker 2>like whatever, like jumping out of bed even though Andrew's

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<v Speaker 2>still in bed, and want that fan off. How do

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<v Speaker 2>you look this nice? Then my hair is just straight

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<v Speaker 2>from the walk end. Okay, But I got ready in

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<v Speaker 2>nine minutes and I got here in the middle of

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<v Speaker 2>our first live break and stuff, and so I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I just felt so bad because Found and I've talked

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<v Speaker 2>about this. We try not to take sick days. We

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<v Speaker 2>really try not to do that. It's kind of been

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<v Speaker 2>engraved in our heads, like we really should legitimately probably

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<v Speaker 2>be dying in order to take a sick day. And

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<v Speaker 2>so I already felt bad about being sick on Friday,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I showed up late and I can't tell

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<v Speaker 2>you the last time I've done that. Yeah, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>woken up a little bit later to my alarm. I

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<v Speaker 2>kind of fell back asleep and then woke back up.

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<v Speaker 2>But this morning was like a complete like I knew

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<v Speaker 2>something was wrong. Yeah, the moment I heard a noise that,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that is not my alarm, that's Andrews.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't had one obviously, not during the morning show.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't had one of those moments in so long.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is awful. It is like a you just

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<v Speaker 1>feel immediately sick, like at your stomach. It's and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this. Like Dave was always very like

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<v Speaker 1>kind about it, like he's like, we're all going to

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<v Speaker 1>have one occasionally if you if you're regularly late, that's

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<v Speaker 1>like an issue anywhere you work. But it's like you

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<v Speaker 1>he always was very kind about that, like we're all

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<v Speaker 1>going to have a late one here and there.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, but you still be like I know,

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<v Speaker 2>but like ah, and it just it messes up your

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<v Speaker 2>whole day too, because you you're behind on your work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like a whole weird feeling is because the like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, fifteen minutes of pre show work that

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to get done, then I'm doing it during

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<v Speaker 2>the show. Yeah, it was a whole thing. I think

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<v Speaker 2>I like recovered quickly because old Jenny would have been

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<v Speaker 2>so stressed the entire morning. But this morning and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I learned this honestly from therapy. My therapist

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<v Speaker 2>was like, if you're running late for work, you need

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<v Speaker 2>to be like okay, and then what and then what,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's not the end of the world. You go

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<v Speaker 2>into work, you keep going, and you go through your day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I kind of have really infiltrated that into my

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<v Speaker 2>life when I'm like super stressed about something like, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well there's nothing I can change about the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up late, right, so, and the world's not

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<v Speaker 2>going to end because I wasn't at the show the

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<v Speaker 2>moment we went live, and yeah, that was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>my thought process. I still feel bad about it, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so that was my start to my day. How does

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<v Speaker 2>your day start? Well, funny enough, I was late to

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<v Speaker 2>work as well for the Jason Show. Yeah, and now

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't late for the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a whole different story. But we meet at

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<v Speaker 1>nine am, and I took Jake, took my mom to

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<v Speaker 1>the airport. She's going to Florida to visit my sister,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I took all of to school and I

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<v Speaker 1>got my coffee everything. I always and I'm always way early,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'll get there like twenty to thirty minutes before nine,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll just sit there and work on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show until Jason's done with his radio show. He walks out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we start working on the TV stuff. So

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<v Speaker 1>I get on Highway seven and the traffic is at

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<v Speaker 1>a complete stop, and I'm like, what's going on? And

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<v Speaker 1>it's not moving at all. Long story longer. I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>texting pictures to them. I'm like, guys, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be late, like and I put it in my

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<v Speaker 1>GPS just to see. Yeah, it shows it's gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>me thirty minutes for what normally would take me twelve.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gay is Yeah. So I finally discover and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what happens, so hopefully everyone's okay. At one

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<v Speaker 2>oh one and seven, no stoplight at all, like the

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<v Speaker 2>huge massive stoplight completely gone. So I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>someone hit it and took that big massive thing out

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<v Speaker 2>or what. So it was a stop sign sot like

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<v Speaker 2>this huge crazy busy intersection stop signs. Oh okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't see an accident in the moment, but my

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<v Speaker 2>light was gone.

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<v Speaker 1>I assumed there must be an accident. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>could see right past the one oh one seven mark.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's completely clear. What the hell is? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Highway seven now turning into four ninety four, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you know how you get to thirty five W and

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing there. But for some reason, traffic was asked nope,

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<v Speaker 1>it was in that got I was like, oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was late by like twenty minutes to the show,

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<v Speaker 1>which I was like, I had sent evidence of why

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<v Speaker 1>I was late.

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<v Speaker 2>But still not. I don't like that I feel the

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<v Speaker 2>need to overly explain anytime I'm late to things I

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<v Speaker 2>would have done the same, like had the phone, like

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<v Speaker 2>the pictures, I had photos proven it, like here go,

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<v Speaker 2>here go slide show guys, and they don't care at all.

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<v Speaker 2>The we don't whatever fell in your hair? Shut up? Like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>can I tell you how? I think I experienced one

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<v Speaker 2>of the worst pains I've ever found in my entire

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<v Speaker 2>life this weekend? What happened? Like I want to play

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<v Speaker 2>the game. I'm like, guess what I did? But lego,

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<v Speaker 2>no no. I was doing a jump roping workout, and like,

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<v Speaker 2>I've whipped myself with jump ropes before. But the jump

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<v Speaker 2>ropes I have are okay, I don't know what you do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but the jump ropes I have are weighted, and there's

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<v Speaker 2>something called double unders where you do two spins of

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<v Speaker 2>the rope in one jump. Okay, So I usually do

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<v Speaker 2>dumb blinders with like the lightest weighted rope, while this

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<v Speaker 2>workout specifically said to go up to like the half

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<v Speaker 2>pound rope. So I was like, all right, I gave

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<v Speaker 2>it a try, and then when the timed session came,

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<v Speaker 2>I started doing it and I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>can do this, and I missed it and smashed my

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<v Speaker 2>toes so hard, like all five of my toes on

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<v Speaker 2>each of my feet, the rope just slammed onto both

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<v Speaker 2>of them so hard. It felt like if you stubbed

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<v Speaker 2>every single one of your toes and you multiplied that

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<v Speaker 2>by like twenty. I couldn't. I was screaming the F

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<v Speaker 2>word in my backyard. You're very like I know, Jerry

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<v Speaker 2>and they always and Tom had just gotten home recently

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<v Speaker 2>from running Errand and he was farting around in the garage.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my gosh, she thinks I'm crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>So I go in the house. I lay on my couch.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to put my feet above, like up in

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<v Speaker 2>the air to see if that'll help with like some

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<v Speaker 2>kind of circulation pain something nothing. I am physically sick

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<v Speaker 2>to my stomach because that's how much pain is being

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<v Speaker 2>shot through my entire body from it. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>go in the front living room thinking me moving around

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<v Speaker 2>is going to like help it. And at that point

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in like a downward dog position with my feet

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<v Speaker 2>kind of hanging over this like bench thing I have. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what I did, but it took us

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<v Speaker 2>solid fifteen minutes for that pain to go down quite

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<v Speaker 2>a bit. And all I was trying to do was

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<v Speaker 2>get a quick workouted. Yeah, all I was trying to

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<v Speaker 2>do yesterday morning. I had a lot of stuff going on.

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<v Speaker 2>We were going to the Wicked movie that afternoon, and

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't. And then I was like frustrated because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>also trying to make an effort to be outside like

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<v Speaker 2>while I still can before it is super freezing. And

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<v Speaker 2>so then I just went out and raped leaves, which

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<v Speaker 2>is great, but it wasn't really like a workout. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>just a fore warning, like, man, don't do double unders,

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<v Speaker 2>would weighted rope hot tip hot, Yeah, and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>You can you now jomprope at all without being I

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<v Speaker 1>So here we are. I got my second period this month.

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<v Speaker 2>How does that make you feel angry? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But I what I told Jake was so I've been

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<v Speaker 1>hormones suck. Because I've heard how I like, I'll hear

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<v Speaker 2>Jake, it's so rude. It's so that is not in

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what I said to him or how I

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<v Speaker 1>all the time around Olive. I do not want to

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<v Speaker 1>be the person who talks to her husband that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I work with Colt. I don't know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I talk to him that way. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be that person. So I'm I definitely think it is

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<v Speaker 1>one thousand percent some hormone situation. So I haven't I'm

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<v Speaker 1>due to go have like a ful my usual like

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<v Speaker 1>annual physical anyway, I need to a mammogram all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm just gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask about it because I don't like the way it

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<v Speaker 2>Already a iper lead to the negative kind of gall

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<v Speaker 2>I don't be that amplified at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It cannot amplify a kindness in me, you know, can

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<v Speaker 1>it not? So I don't love that. Jenny, Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for asking.

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<v Speaker 2>No solution for you, You're not I'm asking for one,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have nothing for you because I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>bit with that. I know, like is there something that

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<v Speaker 2>they can give you for like hormones to help you out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean they definitely have hormone replacement therapy and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, So I don't know, maybe something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also it does not help that I've been eating

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<v Speaker 1>decent enough out, I'm gonna go for a walk. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't on pilates in two weeks. That was like the

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<v Speaker 1>other the spin class that did with you. The walk

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday was the only thing I've done. I've been in

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<v Speaker 1>a weird vibe, you know, you know, you go through those.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably the weather changes. It's not helping.

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<v Speaker 2>I fully agree with the weather changing because I my

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<v Speaker 2>motivation for working out has been very slim lately. After

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<v Speaker 2>we had both gone to a wicked yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>Which, by the way, we want to talk about but

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<v Speaker 1>we're not allowed. If this podcast came out on Wednesdays,

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<v Speaker 1>could but we're not allowed to talk about it until

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<v Speaker 1>was it, which is weird because you can post about

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<v Speaker 1>it on social media, but you can't talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's. Yeah, So I had done a friends giving

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<v Speaker 2>Saturday night, ate my body weight in dairy goods, your

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<v Speaker 2>mac and cheese, your green bean casserole, your gravy. Yeah, love,

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<v Speaker 2>love love. Wake up Sunday, do a bunch of shit,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm just like not having any sort of battle movement.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I go to the movies and think it's a

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<v Speaker 2>good idea to eat nerds, gummy clusters or whatever what

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<v Speaker 2>I got to Yeah, so good, I eat that. That

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<v Speaker 2>was practically my meal up until that point that I

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<v Speaker 2>also after the debacery of the jump rope pitting me

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<v Speaker 2>that morning. Like I think that movie would have helped

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<v Speaker 2>me go to the gym afterwards feel better. Still have

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<v Speaker 2>no bowel movements. And now we're recording this Monday, like

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<v Speaker 2>early afternoon. Your girl is still all the turkey gravy.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually just kidding. We had rotissory chicken, not turkey. All

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<v Speaker 2>of the food from Friendsgiving is sitting, it's living, it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's built a camp in my stomach. Right now, there's

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<v Speaker 2>a fire in there. They're having some ores. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>that's happening. I can offer two things, Okay. I can

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<v Speaker 2>either punch you in your stomach. Okay, A bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>times it give me the next option. I can put

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<v Speaker 2>my finger in your butt. God, you sound like you

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<v Speaker 2>sound like Andrew when he comes up with solutions for things. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I know what I'll I do what'll make it feel better.

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<v Speaker 2>A'm dicking your ass. I didn't say that. I know

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying that's what. He doesn't say that either mine. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>he says it in a much more like teenage boy

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<v Speaker 2>sounding thing like dick an. Yeah, speaking of not Andrew's,

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<v Speaker 2>but kind of. I asked Jaca question today this past week,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I texted Jenny. I think it was like

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle of your show. Yeah, yeah, it was. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it was very much in the middle of my show,

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<v Speaker 2>and not just in the middle at like six forty

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning, very early in the morning, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just sitting there like, okay, but keep going, I asked Jake,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we'll go get into the progression of your

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<v Speaker 2>asking everything. I don't know where it came from, but

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<v Speaker 2>I was just in there and I was like, Jake,

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<v Speaker 2>if we like in the future, I think it's because

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<v Speaker 2>we saw the movie Wild Robot and the Robot Girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Her point is to like be help with tasks.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, Jake, if we had a robot

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<v Speaker 1>in our house and she looked kind of like human, like,

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<v Speaker 1>would you ever let her beat you off? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, let's just and he's like, he's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, let me finish.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you're horny. I'm never going to find out,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm not saying you have a full on affair

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<v Speaker 2>with the robot? Would you let her beat you off?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like I can honestly say fallon, no, And

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<v Speaker 1>I go, I don't believe you, and he's like yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he goes because he goes, I have to imagine if

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<v Speaker 1>my life got that sad and pathetic, I would just

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<v Speaker 1>hate myself. I couldn't. He's like, I could not. I

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<v Speaker 1>camerik exactly what. So basically that would be his lowest

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<v Speaker 1>low if he let a robot beat him off. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was like no, and I was like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>might believe that, actually, but I do think if like

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't in the picture and he was solo, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>begin it from Roz the robot constantly probably, So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hmm, I'll touch Jenny and have her ask

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew and go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I send just the full screenshot so I

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<v Speaker 2>don't miss, like put the words wrong out there. What

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<v Speaker 2>Foln's asking? And Andrew goes, Heaven's no, what if it

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<v Speaker 2>ripped my dick off? That was Andrew's response to it,

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<v Speaker 2>which I felt like was appropriate. Yeah, I honestly thought

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<v Speaker 2>he would have said yes, and I wouldn't have cared.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have been like, go for it. It's a robot, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really care, no way, I'm way too insecure.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, she's probably doing it better than me,

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<v Speaker 2>So what as a whore? Sorry, got too far? Got

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<v Speaker 2>too far? I don't know, Oh gosh. But I was

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<v Speaker 2>curious because I didn't know what Jake's answer was until

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<v Speaker 2>we all just learned in this moment. So I was

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<v Speaker 2>curious what he had to say. But then you asked

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<v Speaker 2>Tina because she came over. Tina and her fiance Trevor

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<v Speaker 2>know what Fallon asked me this morning? And so then

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<v Speaker 2>I asked Trevor.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, really quick, Tina that you guys were like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where she got this, and Tita goes, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Balan absolutely came up with that, because that's some weird

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<v Speaker 1>stuff where she would try to trap.

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<v Speaker 2>Jake into the cheat on the robot, Yes exactly, and

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<v Speaker 2>Trevor's answer was like, yeah, I'll do it. Yeah like

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<v Speaker 2>whatever was like wow, the trickle down of responses, and

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<v Speaker 2>Andrew was like what no, what if that thing like rips?

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<v Speaker 2>And Trevor's like, oh, I thought this was gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>like a relaxing, like nice situation, and then it turned

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<v Speaker 2>into like what if it circuits out? And all of

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<v Speaker 2>a sudden, and I was like, oh my gosh, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are thinking about this now, endless, endless open dialogue here.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we were at the theater with Tita's friend Tom.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure he'll love me sharing this, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>and Tom's single. So Tom's like, well yeah, and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's fair. But then I felt bad because I told

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<v Speaker 2>him what Jake's responsible and I was like, he said

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<v Speaker 2>he'd have to be in as low as low and

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<v Speaker 2>Tom raised his hand and like, yep, that's me. I

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<v Speaker 2>was sorry, Tom, But if you need a question to

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<v Speaker 2>ask your partner this week, just for funny conversation, feel

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<v Speaker 2>free to ask him that one can I ask you

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<v Speaker 2>a question and this will get like sexual once again.

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<v Speaker 2>But have you ever had those moments with Jake? We're like, you, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe just got done hooking up, having a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like on a high from like that or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>and within like ten minutes you want to kill him

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<v Speaker 2>because of something he does. That's such a pet peeve.

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<v Speaker 1>So, for instance, sure I would think about killing Jake

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, but I also know that hitting he

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<v Speaker 1>makes my life better.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it can't. But it's such a crazy flip

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<v Speaker 2>of the switch to go from like we're having a

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<v Speaker 2>good time yesterday morning, just whatever that finishes, and then

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<v Speaker 2>we're sitting on the couch like ten minutes later, and

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<v Speaker 2>I want to murder him because he sits down and

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<v Speaker 2>eats the juiciest, plumpest blueberries I've ever seen in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm trying to work on stuff for the show,

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<v Speaker 2>and all I can hear is his chewing, And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>how did I go from oh, yeah, no, get the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck out of here? How did I go? It's like

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<v Speaker 2>so so crazy how you could like love someone and

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<v Speaker 2>be so into them and a moment later you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>get out of my presence, yeah, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>see or smell you. Like. Also, blueberry is so expensive

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<v Speaker 2>right now, the fact that he was just devouring, like

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<v Speaker 2>the way you describe him eating. You guys can't afford

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<v Speaker 2>blueberry the way the packs you get from Costco so

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<v Speaker 2>like they're the bigger, They're so expensive at Costco. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but I'm saying he eats that in one sitting.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, like he does. It must be the

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<v Speaker 2>strangest color of all. I don't know what it does,

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00:19:29.920 --> 00:19:33.519
<v Speaker 2>want to know, but the man eats so much food that,

416
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<v Speaker 2>like when I've talked before about having separate groceries and

417
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<v Speaker 2>like memeal prepping, Like, I just don't think you understand

418
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<v Speaker 2>how much food I would have to eat to keep

419
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<v Speaker 2>up with a lot of the stuff that he does.

420
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<v Speaker 2>And he doesn't realize it because it goes so fast.

421
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<v Speaker 2>It's like in a blink of an eye, something's gone

422
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<v Speaker 2>and he doesn't remember it. And I'm like, you don't

423
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<v Speaker 2>want to understand why I get frustrated again, I can't

424
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<v Speaker 2>afford to feed you. Yeah, you can't have You can't

425
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<v Speaker 2>have his kids, Jenny, because they're going to have his

426
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<v Speaker 2>same appetite and you're gonna feeding your children a yeah.

427
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<v Speaker 1>But one other dong thing the internet I saw and

428
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<v Speaker 1>Colt and I posted a video so that avocado tastes

429
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<v Speaker 1>like clean penis. And I said clean ween on the

430
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<v Speaker 1>video because I was trying not to get flagged.

431
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<v Speaker 2>I was afraid of. I said, anyone's what would you

432
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<v Speaker 2>say that?

433
00:20:15.759 --> 00:20:17.759
<v Speaker 1>Because I was afraid of I said penis on the video,

434
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<v Speaker 1>it would like not get his many views or whatever. Yeah,

435
00:20:21.440 --> 00:20:24.480
<v Speaker 1>So I like was like, then I started thinking about it,

436
00:20:24.519 --> 00:20:26.440
<v Speaker 1>and then I told Jake and he started laughing and

437
00:20:26.480 --> 00:20:29.960
<v Speaker 1>he was like, he's like, avocado does have like a

438
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<v Speaker 1>taste that's unlike anything else. But you know him and Cult,

439
00:20:34.039 --> 00:20:35.240
<v Speaker 1>and I believe him and Cult.

440
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<v Speaker 2>Even though people on the video were like the way

441
00:20:37.079 --> 00:20:39.200
<v Speaker 2>Colt worded it made it seem like he definitely tried

442
00:20:39.279 --> 00:20:41.480
<v Speaker 2>dong before. I don't care if they have, but they

443
00:20:41.480 --> 00:20:43.759
<v Speaker 2>both said they have it, so I'm gonna believe them.

444
00:20:44.039 --> 00:20:46.480
<v Speaker 2>But they both were like, it does have a taste

445
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<v Speaker 2>that's unlike anything else. And I was like I could

446
00:20:49.720 --> 00:20:53.519
<v Speaker 2>kind of see it kind of. And then everyone kept commenting,

447
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<v Speaker 2>is it a clean penis? It shouldn't have a taste

448
00:20:55.839 --> 00:20:59.519
<v Speaker 2>at all. I'm like, that's such an amateur statement. Yeah,

449
00:20:59.680 --> 00:21:03.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm certain that my clean vagiene still has some form

450
00:21:03.519 --> 00:21:06.480
<v Speaker 2>of skin has a different taste to it, Like my

451
00:21:06.640 --> 00:21:09.880
<v Speaker 2>armpit's going to be different than my four arm That's like,

452
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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's like a very weird statement you're making. Now.

453
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<v Speaker 2>That's all I'm going to think about when I eat

454
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<v Speaker 2>out phatos. Yanks for putting that into my head, because

455
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<v Speaker 2>I had not seen that on the interwebs until I

456
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<v Speaker 2>saw you guys posting.

457
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<v Speaker 1>You read the comment section. One guy made the mistake

458
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<v Speaker 1>of posting what's a waen? And that became its own

459
00:21:27.920 --> 00:21:30.960
<v Speaker 1>comment thread and people writing every version of what a

460
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<v Speaker 1>dong is?

461
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<v Speaker 2>And it may it. Every time I look at it,

462
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<v Speaker 2>I laugh more. Oh my gosh, it out. Yeah.

463
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<v Speaker 1>So we also have an email we need to read, Jenny,

464
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<v Speaker 1>would you like to take thee to it?

465
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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Van and Jenny. I'm writing in with the hopes

466
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<v Speaker 2>of getting your guys genuine opinion on my relationship. My

467
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<v Speaker 2>fiance and I have been together for over ten years

468
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<v Speaker 2>and have a kid together. I love him very much

469
00:21:53.559 --> 00:21:56.799
<v Speaker 2>and we've never really had any traditional problems in our relationship.

470
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<v Speaker 2>That being said, there are a few things that I

471
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<v Speaker 2>have that have been upsetting to me for quite some time,

472
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<v Speaker 2>and I'd really like an outside perspective. I'm not a

473
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<v Speaker 2>confrontational person at all, and sometimes it's easier for me

474
00:22:08.160 --> 00:22:09.920
<v Speaker 2>to tell him how I'm feeling through text, but I

475
00:22:09.920 --> 00:22:13.480
<v Speaker 2>think the message is way less personal that way. So

476
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<v Speaker 2>here's the issues she's having. One. He's a lazy lover.

477
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<v Speaker 2>I've probably finished a total of three to five times

478
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<v Speaker 2>in our entire relationship. I promise I am not exaggerating.

479
00:22:25.839 --> 00:22:29.160
<v Speaker 2>Once again, they've been together for ten years. Number two,

480
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<v Speaker 2>feel free to phrase this however it's appropriate for the pod.

481
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<v Speaker 2>But he has gone down on me four single times

482
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<v Speaker 2>in our entire relationship. I can remember each time. He

483
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<v Speaker 2>says he doesn't like doing it because, of course loves

484
00:22:42.440 --> 00:22:46.160
<v Speaker 2>but of course loves to receive. Number three, I'm ninety

485
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<v Speaker 2>nine percent sure he has a porn addiction. I called

486
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<v Speaker 2>him out on it a few times and told him

487
00:22:51.440 --> 00:22:53.279
<v Speaker 2>that it was really upsetting for me that he watches

488
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<v Speaker 2>porn so often, and he said he'd stop. Number four.

489
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<v Speaker 2>He rarely comes to sleep in our bed at night.

490
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<v Speaker 2>I'd say at least six or seven nights of the

491
00:23:00.200 --> 00:23:02.359
<v Speaker 2>week he sleeps on the couch cleaning, he just falls

492
00:23:02.359 --> 00:23:05.599
<v Speaker 2>asleep watching YouTube. Number five. Not to make this all

493
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<v Speaker 2>about sex, but you may have gathered we don't have

494
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<v Speaker 2>sex regularly. Maybe once a week if I'm being generous,

495
00:23:11.359 --> 00:23:14.279
<v Speaker 2>but more realistically it's probably two to three times a month.

496
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<v Speaker 2>Number six. He's lazy around the house, barely does anything

497
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<v Speaker 2>to help clean up ever, and when he does clean,

498
00:23:19.559 --> 00:23:22.480
<v Speaker 2>it's because the house is a shitthole, in his words,

499
00:23:22.799 --> 00:23:26.440
<v Speaker 2>and it's finally bothering him. He'll say, we have to clean,

500
00:23:26.519 --> 00:23:29.400
<v Speaker 2>but really it's me. I do all the cooking and cleaning, laundry,

501
00:23:29.599 --> 00:23:33.319
<v Speaker 2>make sure homework's done. I deal with some mental health issues,

502
00:23:33.440 --> 00:23:35.720
<v Speaker 2>so all of that shit is a huge mental load

503
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<v Speaker 2>to take on on top of my own issues. A

504
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<v Speaker 2>lot of the time, I feel like we're just roommates

505
00:23:40.240 --> 00:23:43.599
<v Speaker 2>and not a couple in a relationship. And then, really

506
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<v Speaker 2>off topic, they say, Jenny, you signed my daughter's Walking

507
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<v Speaker 2>to her booklet at the Safe Fair and she absolutely

508
00:23:48.119 --> 00:23:50.440
<v Speaker 2>cherished that thing. Lol. She can't wait for Jenny in

509
00:23:50.440 --> 00:23:53.440
<v Speaker 2>the Morning Zoo to take over. And thanks for reading.

510
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<v Speaker 2>That comes from m So she wants an outside perspective.

511
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<v Speaker 2>Flash advice is what she says about her fiance and

512
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<v Speaker 2>their relationship. Allan, I'm gonna let you take the.

513
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<v Speaker 1>Lead out thereat I mean, okay, let's just let me

514
00:24:11.000 --> 00:24:14.519
<v Speaker 1>start with like a very negative outlook first and then

515
00:24:14.559 --> 00:24:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll go to like a positive The negative to me says,

516
00:24:19.599 --> 00:24:24.039
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like a person who probably isn't going to

517
00:24:24.160 --> 00:24:28.559
<v Speaker 1>change much. And if you're okay with being moderately happy

518
00:24:29.680 --> 00:24:31.599
<v Speaker 1>because you say you love this person, it sounds like

519
00:24:31.680 --> 00:24:34.440
<v Speaker 1>you are. You think you're moderately happy, But I think

520
00:24:34.480 --> 00:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>you think you're moderately happy because they don't do anything awful,

521
00:24:39.480 --> 00:24:42.319
<v Speaker 1>which I don't think that that actually equals happy, but

522
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<v Speaker 1>I think we convince ourselves like, as long as they're

523
00:24:44.839 --> 00:24:47.920
<v Speaker 1>not like cheating on us or doing like something crazy,

524
00:24:47.960 --> 00:24:52.240
<v Speaker 1>gambling all of our money away or worse, then it's fine.

525
00:24:52.880 --> 00:24:54.920
<v Speaker 1>And it doesn't mean you don't like them as a person.

526
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<v Speaker 1>You don't look back on times. I mean, you have

527
00:24:56.720 --> 00:24:59.039
<v Speaker 1>a kid with them that always makes everything more difficult,

528
00:24:59.079 --> 00:25:02.720
<v Speaker 1>but you're not married to me. Sure it could be

529
00:25:02.799 --> 00:25:05.039
<v Speaker 1>something like a lot of people. Whenever we bring up

530
00:25:05.039 --> 00:25:07.759
<v Speaker 1>stuff like this on the radio, first thing everyone says

531
00:25:07.799 --> 00:25:10.200
<v Speaker 1>is maybe they're depressed, and that is possible, but it

532
00:25:10.240 --> 00:25:12.440
<v Speaker 1>sounds like the sexual thing has been the entirety of

533
00:25:12.480 --> 00:25:16.079
<v Speaker 1>your relationship. And I will say this, I in the

534
00:25:16.119 --> 00:25:19.000
<v Speaker 1>past used to just think sex was not very important.

535
00:25:19.160 --> 00:25:21.599
<v Speaker 1>I thought that was so low on the list, and

536
00:25:23.160 --> 00:25:26.720
<v Speaker 1>I changed my mind on that. I realized how important

537
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<v Speaker 1>it is. I'm not saying I think you need to

538
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<v Speaker 1>have sex all the time. I'm not saying he needs

539
00:25:31.519 --> 00:25:33.400
<v Speaker 1>to like pleasure you all the time you need to

540
00:25:33.400 --> 00:25:36.599
<v Speaker 1>pleasure him all the time. I just find it to

541
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<v Speaker 1>be it's so interesting. I think you're right he probably

542
00:25:39.359 --> 00:25:41.640
<v Speaker 1>does have a porn addiction, because for him to like

543
00:25:41.680 --> 00:25:43.480
<v Speaker 1>not want to do these things and not want to

544
00:25:43.519 --> 00:25:46.200
<v Speaker 1>hook up but want to watch porn, there's some disconnect there,

545
00:25:46.640 --> 00:25:49.319
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know what it is, but that's something

546
00:25:49.319 --> 00:25:51.039
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people suffer from. It's like they're

547
00:25:51.079 --> 00:25:53.720
<v Speaker 1>really into watching porn. And that's probably, honestly, part of

548
00:25:53.759 --> 00:25:56.640
<v Speaker 1>the reason he stays on the couch at night, realistically,

549
00:25:56.759 --> 00:25:58.640
<v Speaker 1>is he probably is still looking at it and just

550
00:25:58.720 --> 00:26:02.079
<v Speaker 1>hiding it from you. And I know every relationship is different,

551
00:26:02.079 --> 00:26:04.279
<v Speaker 1>because I don't care that Jake looks at it, but

552
00:26:04.359 --> 00:26:07.119
<v Speaker 1>I know some people do care. And you stated that

553
00:26:07.160 --> 00:26:09.599
<v Speaker 1>you do care to this person. I'm always under the

554
00:26:09.720 --> 00:26:13.119
<v Speaker 1>like mindset. If it isn't affecting the relationship, why is

555
00:26:13.160 --> 00:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>it a big deal? But it sounds like it is

556
00:26:14.960 --> 00:26:17.920
<v Speaker 1>affecting your relationship, and you've made it clear that it

557
00:26:18.000 --> 00:26:20.039
<v Speaker 1>is a big deal and everyone's allowed to have their

558
00:26:20.079 --> 00:26:23.640
<v Speaker 1>own different things, right. All that's to say, I know

559
00:26:23.680 --> 00:26:27.680
<v Speaker 1>you don't like confrontation, but is this really what you

560
00:26:27.839 --> 00:26:32.119
<v Speaker 1>want for your life forever?

561
00:26:34.160 --> 00:26:37.839
<v Speaker 2>I don't think you do. I think you wouldn't be right.

562
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<v Speaker 1>You wrote a pretty good list of reasons that you're

563
00:26:41.640 --> 00:26:44.799
<v Speaker 1>not You're not having your needs met, and it seems

564
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<v Speaker 1>in any.

565
00:26:45.200 --> 00:26:48.079
<v Speaker 2>Way mm hmm, I agree, not just sexually, it seems

566
00:26:48.079 --> 00:26:49.599
<v Speaker 2>like you're not you don't have a partner. I think

567
00:26:49.599 --> 00:26:49.960
<v Speaker 2>you're right.

568
00:26:50.000 --> 00:26:52.519
<v Speaker 1>You have a roommate, and that's so common, so that

569
00:26:52.519 --> 00:26:54.160
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't beat yourself up over that. I think a lot

570
00:26:54.160 --> 00:26:57.079
<v Speaker 1>of people get into the roommate relationship. And I'm not

571
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<v Speaker 1>an expert, you know what I mean. I'm like always weird.

572
00:27:01.000 --> 00:27:02.559
<v Speaker 1>I always think that, like everyone's always like you have

573
00:27:02.559 --> 00:27:05.480
<v Speaker 1>to fight for you to try you, and I do think.

574
00:27:05.440 --> 00:27:09.599
<v Speaker 2>To a degree, you do. But I also think that's

575
00:27:09.640 --> 00:27:11.559
<v Speaker 2>incredibly hard, And that doesn't mean you don't want to

576
00:27:11.599 --> 00:27:13.319
<v Speaker 2>fight hard. Especially if you have kids.

577
00:27:13.880 --> 00:27:16.720
<v Speaker 1>But you have to decide how much energy you want

578
00:27:16.720 --> 00:27:20.480
<v Speaker 1>to put in. Yeah, in the positive, maybe you do

579
00:27:20.640 --> 00:27:23.359
<v Speaker 1>go to a sex therapist and you go to a

580
00:27:23.359 --> 00:27:26.480
<v Speaker 1>couple's therapist and you find solutions and you figure it

581
00:27:26.519 --> 00:27:29.359
<v Speaker 1>out and he does change and you get to keep

582
00:27:29.359 --> 00:27:31.559
<v Speaker 1>the person you like as a person and you start

583
00:27:31.559 --> 00:27:32.480
<v Speaker 1>getting your needs met.

584
00:27:33.359 --> 00:27:35.839
<v Speaker 2>But I do think you have to have the hard conversation.

585
00:27:36.480 --> 00:27:37.519
<v Speaker 2>Maybe even read your email.

586
00:27:37.559 --> 00:27:39.079
<v Speaker 1>A don't time you send it to our podcast, but

587
00:27:39.079 --> 00:27:40.720
<v Speaker 1>maybe you read the email to him, like I wrote

588
00:27:40.759 --> 00:27:42.519
<v Speaker 1>this down because I have a hard time telling you

589
00:27:42.559 --> 00:27:45.519
<v Speaker 1>what I'm feeling. Yeah, if it's easier to read that

590
00:27:45.599 --> 00:27:47.640
<v Speaker 1>to him, I think it is better to do it

591
00:27:47.680 --> 00:27:50.720
<v Speaker 1>face to face. I agree, And I think that that

592
00:27:50.839 --> 00:27:53.039
<v Speaker 1>is such good advice to maybe just like sit down

593
00:27:53.119 --> 00:27:56.200
<v Speaker 1>and read from your email. Because I'm the same where

594
00:27:56.880 --> 00:27:59.599
<v Speaker 1>I will go into a conversation that's confrontational with all

595
00:27:59.640 --> 00:28:01.680
<v Speaker 1>of these ideas in my head, and then I get

596
00:28:01.680 --> 00:28:04.000
<v Speaker 1>into it and I forget them and I didn't remember

597
00:28:04.039 --> 00:28:05.880
<v Speaker 1>what I was saying, and then I don't I'm not

598
00:28:05.920 --> 00:28:08.119
<v Speaker 1>prepared for their defense in it or whatever it is.

599
00:28:08.519 --> 00:28:12.119
<v Speaker 1>And so there have been some scenarios where I wrote

600
00:28:12.200 --> 00:28:14.880
<v Speaker 1>things down because I really need to have my thoughts

601
00:28:14.880 --> 00:28:17.079
<v Speaker 1>on paper to be able to express what I wanted

602
00:28:17.079 --> 00:28:19.440
<v Speaker 1>to do. So I think that that's a good start.

603
00:28:19.599 --> 00:28:22.000
<v Speaker 1>And I know also that you said that you're not confrontational,

604
00:28:22.079 --> 00:28:26.000
<v Speaker 1>but like you, I feel like I'm reading an email

605
00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:28.039
<v Speaker 1>that has a lot of despair, if that could be

606
00:28:28.160 --> 00:28:30.240
<v Speaker 1>the right word in it. And I think that you

607
00:28:30.960 --> 00:28:33.960
<v Speaker 1>need to look out for yourself now at this point,

608
00:28:34.119 --> 00:28:36.519
<v Speaker 1>because it kind of sounds like he's been very much

609
00:28:36.559 --> 00:28:39.599
<v Speaker 1>looking out for himself. So I would say that you're

610
00:28:39.640 --> 00:28:42.920
<v Speaker 1>kind of at a point where confrontation is the only

611
00:28:43.000 --> 00:28:46.680
<v Speaker 1>way out, either out of the relationship or out of

612
00:28:46.720 --> 00:28:49.599
<v Speaker 1>the rut you guys are in and to a solution.

613
00:28:49.960 --> 00:28:51.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I also don't think it has to be

614
00:28:51.480 --> 00:28:53.680
<v Speaker 2>labeled as confrontation. This is communication.

615
00:28:54.680 --> 00:28:56.839
<v Speaker 1>I think we get like just because we're saying something

616
00:28:56.880 --> 00:28:58.640
<v Speaker 1>that might be hard for the other person to hear

617
00:28:58.920 --> 00:29:01.839
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean you're like coming at them. I can tell

618
00:29:01.880 --> 00:29:04.319
<v Speaker 1>from the way you worded this to us you're not

619
00:29:04.359 --> 00:29:06.519
<v Speaker 1>going to be coming at him in an angry way.

620
00:29:06.599 --> 00:29:08.039
<v Speaker 1>I think you're going to be coming at him, probably

621
00:29:08.079 --> 00:29:10.319
<v Speaker 1>in a kind pleading like I want this to work,

622
00:29:10.440 --> 00:29:12.279
<v Speaker 1>help me, like way.

623
00:29:14.359 --> 00:29:14.759
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, like I say, I always lean to

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<v Speaker 1>the negative, which I'll blame on my hormones. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like that before, So I don't know the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>And again, Jenny and I are not experts by any means,

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<v Speaker 1>and I never claim to be. But I think maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's where you start. And I wish you luck because

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<v Speaker 1>I do think that you deserve sounds like you deserve

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more than what you're currently getting for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, agreed. Anything else you would like to add this week?

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<v Speaker 2>Gen Dog, I think I've said everything. Yeah, you said

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<v Speaker 2>your piece, I've said my piece. Thank you so much

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<v Speaker 2>for listening. As always, we appreciate you listening. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>want to end it with the defying gravity note together

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<v Speaker 2>which not said the one? Yeah? Okay, ready one to three? Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>they will move over.