Speaker 1: Stuck at home, bored and alone. You'd think I could
Speaker 1: have some fun on my own, but not bald. I
Speaker 1: thought AF with Cecily and Stephanie. What's up, everybody, Welcome
Speaker 1: to board AF. It's a show. Listen. The name can
Speaker 1: be deceiving. We create. We came up with the name.
Speaker 1: It was COVID nobody. We were bored. We were so
Speaker 1: bored we could. You couldn't leave the house. Well you could,
Speaker 1: but you couldn't go anywhere. Where are you going? I
Speaker 1: miss that.
Speaker 2: I mean I don't miss like the deaths and everything
Speaker 2: that was awful, But I thought that was the part
Speaker 2: you missed. I miss like the I mean not now.
Speaker 2: I had nostalgia. I did have nostalgia for it for
Speaker 2: a while. I don't have it anymore. It has, it
Speaker 2: has passed.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't quite explain it.
Speaker 2: There was something just kind of special about like reconnecting
Speaker 2: to people using Zoom and using remember House game that
Speaker 2: you play the game, there's something called like house Party,
Speaker 2: and you downloaded an app and you could play charades
Speaker 2: with people.
Speaker 1: And it's like, I.
Speaker 2: Don't hate this, I don't love and I got to
Speaker 2: tell you, I don't mean to scare anybody. But I
Speaker 2: went to dinner last night and a lot of masks
Speaker 2: were back on. So I'm like, did I because I
Speaker 2: did turn off the news for a couple of days?
Speaker 1: Is there another thing? There's a flu? And crazy is
Speaker 1: the people? Just because you know a lot of people
Speaker 1: got really mad about having to wear a mask during COVID.
Speaker 1: Turns out they do work, so people in other countries
Speaker 1: use them for just regular illnesses. So although you don't
Speaker 1: have to wear a mask, like I feel like if
Speaker 1: people are sick or they're planning to go on a
Speaker 1: trip and they just don't want to catch anything, that's
Speaker 1: a game. It's a good way to protect yourself. You
Speaker 1: don't have to. I'm feeling you.
Speaker 2: No, I know I wore a mask. I mean I
Speaker 2: was one of those like you. I bought the gloves
Speaker 2: I like, went and found those gloves or I would
Speaker 2: change out every day. You know how things like bring
Speaker 2: you back, Like smell is such a strong sense of memory.
Speaker 2: And every time I smell the you called the you know, the.
Speaker 1: The stuff you squirt on your hands to make them clean.
Speaker 1: It's a sanitizer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel like there's another name for him.
Speaker 2: But that as a sanitizer. Yeah, Like when I smell
Speaker 2: it in certain ones, like from right A, it had
Speaker 2: like a nice little aloe smell to it, I.
Speaker 1: Get a little musted out. I don't know, I get
Speaker 1: a little like, ah.
Speaker 2: I don't use that shit anymore, and I never wash
Speaker 2: my hands. I learned nothing. I learned. I went the
Speaker 2: other way. I'm like, fuck it, I'm gonna roll myself
Speaker 2: in this. Oh you've matt you have mad cow disease.
Speaker 1: Okay, let me snuggle up.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not a fan of any of this, and
Speaker 2: I'm I want to be very careful. But yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean after a couple of years, I think we just
Speaker 2: we we did what we had to do, and now
Speaker 2: I kind of just don't do it. Do you do
Speaker 2: you like scrub your hands and hot water for every Yeah,
Speaker 2: of course. Not wash your fruit for a long time,
Speaker 2: soak it. I mean I wash all fruit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I've ever washed fruit. Really apples.
Speaker 2: You have to wash an apple because people pick that
Speaker 2: shit up at the store. I've always washed the apple.
Speaker 2: But I'm just telling you that I really don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be rude, but that's nasty girl.
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but like, how often do you hear
Speaker 1: am I sick? Oh? When's the last time you heard
Speaker 1: of me being sick? You had a long cough? You
Speaker 1: don't have that? Well, I've always had I've always had that.
Speaker 1: I didn't have a year long cough. You were in it,
Speaker 1: don't you remember? You were in it, literally in a
Speaker 1: sanitarium for TB. Did you You don't remember that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was in there for that. I don't. Was I
Speaker 1: at a TV?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I was. I was. I'm saying I'm saying you. I'm saying, yes,
Speaker 1: I was in sanitarium for TV. But that was something
Speaker 1: that's not what I caught from an apple. I mean,
Speaker 1: they say an apple a day, but I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what, here's the difference between us.
Speaker 1: My grocery store is rock and roll. Ralph's right.
Speaker 2: People that go into rock and roll, they are not
Speaker 2: people that you want touching your apples. And I am
Speaker 2: not being judgmental. That is just facts. So I think
Speaker 2: I'm coming at it from a day it's like, oh God,
Speaker 2: like I'm scared to eat anything. I mean, that's why
Speaker 2: I it's all microwave dinners, because touches the thing yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Even then they'll touch it sometimes, just take it out
Speaker 2: and look at it and put it back, and I'm like.
Speaker 1: No, it's it's pretty crazy, you know, it's crazy. I
Speaker 1: just think that what you're going to get from not
Speaker 1: washing something is more of like a stomach issue, right.
Speaker 1: I feel like you're going to get more your more
Speaker 1: app to get something like Legionnaire's disease is that you
Speaker 1: don't want that. No, you don't want that. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying you want that, but I'm saying that's that's more
Speaker 1: what you're gonna get than like a flu. But you're
Speaker 1: saying you don't like Legionnaire's disease. You're what I hear
Speaker 1: you saying is but I don't want a stomach thing.
Speaker 1: And what I'm saying is like, you know what, what's
Speaker 1: wrong with a little stomach thing? Do you? I mean,
Speaker 1: do you want to be skinny or not? I guess.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this. I don't let me ask
Speaker 2: you this. Let me ask you this. Have you gotten
Speaker 2: because later in life we're supposed to get TB. We're
Speaker 2: supposed to get their shots again. You know, we're supposed
Speaker 2: to get a shingle shot. I am late I'm going
Speaker 2: to get it, but I.
Speaker 1: Don't want it. I've uh no, I haven't done it.
Speaker 1: And now you're making me feel really guilty too.
Speaker 2: Not me too, I feel guilty too because I want
Speaker 2: to do it. But you have to take a whole weekend. See,
Speaker 2: you've got John and people that can help you, like
Speaker 2: I can't unless somebody can watch them. And honestly, like
Speaker 2: you're really sick for like two days, not just like
Speaker 2: the COVID vaccine sick, which makes you a little flu
Speaker 2: made me a little fluy. I do it every year still,
Speaker 2: by the way, I still I still get COVID backs.
Speaker 1: They like you, Oh yeah, what do you mean. I
Speaker 1: got it in like September.
Speaker 2: Oh I went because I was watching the news and
Speaker 2: I went, and I get my.
Speaker 1: Flu in COVID boxes together. Okay, And that's where you're
Speaker 1: going wrong. That's why you're having to take a weekend off. No,
Speaker 1: that's for shingles.
Speaker 2: I don't have to take it off for those I
Speaker 2: get a little like I don't feel good for like
Speaker 2: one day. But shingles is like you've got to give yourself.
Speaker 2: My friend had like four days she had to take
Speaker 2: off work. She was so sick Jesus A lot of
Speaker 2: my friends, but one friend really like she something really
Speaker 2: went wrong. She had it. It's very painful too, Like
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to scare people away. You should do
Speaker 2: it post fifty. But it's a thing. So I've been scared,
Speaker 2: but we should fucking do it. Cause I had shingles already.
Speaker 2: I had it when I was fourteen?
Speaker 1: Are you serious?
Speaker 2: And let me tell you girl what. I don't know
Speaker 2: what you come to this podcast for, but it's horrible.
Speaker 2: And the doctor when they went in, they said they'd
Speaker 2: never seen a case because it's, you know, chicken pox related,
Speaker 2: but it's not. They said they'd never seen a case
Speaker 2: so young. And the doctor said to my mom, I.
Speaker 1: Think I told you this because the doctor goes, does
Speaker 1: your daughter stress a lot? Does she get stressed?
Speaker 3: And my mom's like, oh all, we're all just like
Speaker 3: and then it was it seemed like the time to
Speaker 3: tell the doctor that the kids at school called me stressily,
Speaker 3: which I never even minded because like, if the shoe fits, yeah,
Speaker 3: so my fucking stress and whatever immune system.
Speaker 2: I had shingles and it's so painful and mine was
Speaker 2: not even a bad case.
Speaker 1: Are you sappy? So that's the only time though, you've
Speaker 1: ever had it. Yeah, but I should definitely get the vaccine.
Speaker 1: But I'm scared. I'm like, what if it don't But
Speaker 1: you've never had it again. That's so crazy, isn't it
Speaker 1: The kind of thing where if you get it, you
Speaker 1: like in your body.
Speaker 2: Well, it's in your body anyway, if you've had the
Speaker 2: chicken pox, it's stays dormant, same as you know, the
Speaker 2: same all the thing. So it's like it's up, It's
Speaker 2: in there, just waiting to be open up. How do
Speaker 2: you get up? Or do I get stressed out? I
Speaker 2: guess I don't know what I did.
Speaker 1: So it is stress related.
Speaker 2: Well, it's it's a lot of things related. It's a
Speaker 2: virus that just can be like if your immune system
Speaker 2: goes down in my I was also I think I
Speaker 2: was fourteen, so I was really underweight at the time.
Speaker 2: I wasn't really eating. I mean, who knows why. Sometimes
Speaker 2: it just happens. But it's like a rash that it
Speaker 2: goes in a straight line. That's how they can tell
Speaker 2: what it is. It's just like a it went on.
Speaker 2: It was on my back all the way to my
Speaker 2: chest and it went in a perfect straight line, and
Speaker 2: it's just like the most painful thing.
Speaker 1: Like god, I now remember I have not heard good things,
Speaker 1: like I've never heard anybody back out there. It wasn't horrible.
Speaker 1: We don't want that. Are we going to have to
Speaker 1: rehire like an in home caregiver though? For it to
Speaker 1: take care of her hand?
Speaker 2: It?
Speaker 1: We get the shot, yes, well you have that. Here's
Speaker 1: the thing.
Speaker 2: Also, you have to get a second shot, yes, two
Speaker 2: weeks later like the first COVID's. Remember when you sted
Speaker 2: to have to do that. I don't do that anymore.
Speaker 1: Remember the pasters We had to get one and then
Speaker 1: you got one like two weeks later.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was really that was crazy.
Speaker 1: Did I ever tell you? I mean, I'm sure, I'm
Speaker 1: sure we talked about it, but I was obsessed with
Speaker 1: getting the shot. I mean, he's still me shit about
Speaker 1: it to this day. People sometimes I don't know. I've
Speaker 1: seen it online where somebody was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: she was trying to like take cuts because do you
Speaker 1: remember the story? Because I found like a clinic. First
Speaker 1: of all, I was constantly like looking at the different sites,
Speaker 1: and you could not get an appointment at any of
Speaker 1: the sites. Oh I know, same same because yeah, yep,
Speaker 1: so I found this clinic though that was like it
Speaker 1: was for low income families that you cut, no, I do, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I sort of did. What happened is appen was I
Speaker 1: went down to this place it was like downtown, and
Speaker 1: we took Elby, So we went. We had tried to
Speaker 1: go on our own, John and I to just try
Speaker 1: to get a shot, and you you'd wait all day
Speaker 1: and you couldn't get in. So then the next time
Speaker 1: we went, we took Elbe and she was it was
Speaker 1: they have the shot for sixteen year olds. So if
Speaker 1: you were there in line with a sixteen year old,
Speaker 1: I believe we literally had her take a day off
Speaker 1: school and we went to this place and we waited
Speaker 1: in line, and then they would call groups and they
Speaker 1: called for sixteen year olds. Oh my gosh, and so
Speaker 1: if you were with a sixteen year old, you got
Speaker 1: to go with them and get the shot.
Speaker 2: I cut a little too, I'd had I was one
Speaker 2: of the I had like a heart you know, well
Speaker 2: my heart thing, right, So I asked my cardiologist and
Speaker 2: I'm like, can you I should go early? Right, because
Speaker 2: it was if you were in any kind of immune
Speaker 2: immuno confident compromise. And my cardiologist is like, you're not
Speaker 2: immuno compromise. You had heart surgery and it's been fixed
Speaker 2: and you don't have to worry about that. So but
Speaker 2: you know, the funny thing about COVID is that the pharmacy,
Speaker 2: no one knew anything, including the pharmacist. So all I
Speaker 2: had to do is I went in and I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm my heart and I showed my scar, you know,
Speaker 2: and they were like okay, because.
Speaker 1: They don't fuck it.
Speaker 2: Nobody knew nobody, And I didn't feel that bad. I
Speaker 2: just there wasn't like a big line that I got
Speaker 2: in front of. I write this like kind of pharmacy
Speaker 2: that somebody told somebody in Beverly Hills, but no one
Speaker 2: really knew they had the thing, but no one was
Speaker 2: really on it, you know, so it was like okay.
Speaker 2: So yeah, it wasn't like I didn't like throw someone.
Speaker 2: I didn't grab someone like a ninety five year old
Speaker 2: and like throw them into the street so.
Speaker 1: I could get it. I would have. I didn't do
Speaker 1: that either. And here's the like, you know, just to
Speaker 1: take it down a notch. Here's the thing that a
Speaker 1: lot of people didn't understand was that at some of
Speaker 1: these low income areas, they weren't a lot of the
Speaker 1: people the neighborhood didn't know about it. They didn't I
Speaker 1: know about the COVID vaccine, they didn't know about these
Speaker 1: low cost what was free. But they didn't know about
Speaker 1: these clinics. So there were a lot of people that
Speaker 1: were sort of starting trying to spread awareness, and you know,
Speaker 1: it was like it was hard to get in because
Speaker 1: it was all freaking people like me that weren't in
Speaker 1: the neighborhood. So that was the thing that they didn't love,
Speaker 1: was that it was supposed to be for people in
Speaker 1: the neighborhood. I always met people. But on the other hand,
Speaker 1: the reason I didn't even were not bad is they
Speaker 1: weren't a lot of those people weren't there, and really
Speaker 1: not a time where you could really just go door
Speaker 1: to door. You were scared for your life. We were
Speaker 1: scared for our lives. Yes we did.
Speaker 2: Like, okay, I'm going to switch I got switch topics
Speaker 2: really quick. If I may, or go what were you
Speaker 2: going to say something to I didn't mean to.
Speaker 1: No, I was just I was going to say like
Speaker 1: fuck you, no, okay, fair enough this is the thing
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about that I was all excited
Speaker 1: to talk about.
Speaker 2: And I feel kind of weird saying it, but I
Speaker 2: know that these people don't listen to. Do you ever
Speaker 2: do that on for crying out loud or whatever? You're like,
Speaker 2: I want to tell the story And I feel kind
Speaker 2: of bad, but like fuck.
Speaker 1: It because I don't even bother to listen to this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there are well my problem with for crying out loud
Speaker 1: not naming that. There that every once in a while,
Speaker 1: Lynette and I will talk about somebody that's like in
Speaker 1: my life, like something that I you know, worked with
Speaker 1: or a parent from the kids.
Speaker 2: To school, and I don't listen, so, yeah, you don't
Speaker 2: I give be one of those people.
Speaker 1: And I always go like, none of those people listen.
Speaker 1: And then every once in a while, somebody really random
Speaker 1: in my life will just be like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I was listening to your podcast, and I'm like, we.
Speaker 2: Know what, I have a lot of those I have.
Speaker 2: I know who I think listens, so I just kind
Speaker 2: of careful. But okay, I'm going to tell you something.
Speaker 2: This is I'm not naming names, but I have two
Speaker 2: friends that don't know each other they've met, but they
Speaker 2: don't know each other. Okay, and this story isn't going
Speaker 2: to be long, so like we're gonna have to fill
Speaker 2: this out.
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you right now.
Speaker 2: But one of them, they both have a cadence when
Speaker 2: they speak that both drive me. Fuck, it drives me
Speaker 2: crazy talking to them. So I want I want to
Speaker 2: I want to break this down with you and figure out, like,
Speaker 2: is it my I think it's my impatience and I
Speaker 2: do have ADHD. So like when someone's telling a story
Speaker 2: in a certain way, I'm like, fucking get to it,
Speaker 2: like I'm doing right now. But it's more the way
Speaker 2: they speak, not what they're saying. So one of them
Speaker 2: does this. I'm just gonna just I'm just gonna say
Speaker 2: they're both he he But that's not necessarily true. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 2: he does this.
Speaker 1: This guy's like so.
Speaker 2: I was as wait, I was so and it like
Speaker 2: every not every word, but like every tenth word is
Speaker 2: held out that long. So I have lost I am
Speaker 2: no longer listening at the first sentence. I really honestly
Speaker 2: don't know why. I know that that's impatient and shitty.
Speaker 2: But then my other friend, he talks like this. He'll
Speaker 2: be telling a story and he'll just be like yeah.
Speaker 2: So in we went to London and I'm like, okay, dude,
Speaker 2: and I'm closer to him, so I'll say you got
Speaker 2: to go, like, I'm out if you don't speed this up.
Speaker 2: And then I even said to him today, actually, I go,
Speaker 2: can you just put this on a voice recording, like
Speaker 2: do a voice memo and I'll put it at one
Speaker 2: point five because I literally cannot do this.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 2: I can't do it? So what's wrong? What's what's going
Speaker 2: on here? I know I talk fast, so that's on me,
Speaker 2: but like, what can I do? What are some tips that.
Speaker 1: I will have? I genuinely think because I have I
Speaker 1: also have have this issue. I won't say had it
Speaker 1: which and we've talked about it. Yes, yes, I genuinely
Speaker 1: think that there are times, and you might not know
Speaker 1: it in the moment, but there are times when you
Speaker 1: have more anxiety than other times. And it's always I
Speaker 1: noticed this for myself. It always bothers me more when
Speaker 1: I'm anxious. When I'm anxious, I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I can't listen to this for much longer.
Speaker 2: I think I'm always anxious. I don't think there's a
Speaker 2: lot of times where that isn't the case.
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't need to be friends with this person
Speaker 1: if they could not get a sentence out.
Speaker 2: But I had this thought of like, what if they
Speaker 2: talk to each other? What if I was in a
Speaker 2: room and they're having a conversation with each other.
Speaker 1: Would it sound like that? Would it be?
Speaker 2: Now I'm very self conscious about how I'm speaking, but
Speaker 2: I'm telling you one of them is like, yeah, so,
Speaker 2: And then occasionally they'll say something that is normal, like
Speaker 2: in normal speed. They'll be like, yeah, so right, okay,
Speaker 2: so we landed in Vancouver and then okay, and it's
Speaker 2: it's crazy to me, but that's just how this person talks.
Speaker 1: I think. I think there are people that know, uh,
Speaker 1: they know they're kind of doing it, but they're not
Speaker 1: thinking ahead and there they don't have a we're storytellers,
Speaker 1: so we kind of know where shit's going, right, you
Speaker 1: know when we go to start out of story listen,
Speaker 1: are there going to be times when we go hold
Speaker 1: on a minute, I forgot to give you this part
Speaker 1: to give it context. Right, Oh, sure that's going to happen.
Speaker 1: But I think in general, we kind of know when
Speaker 1: we're starting out a story, we don't usually start out
Speaker 1: with like, oh my god, I have the funniest thing
Speaker 1: to tell you, and then just trail off forever. And
Speaker 1: I think that a lot of people do because they're
Speaker 1: just not used to telling stories. Is that possible this
Speaker 1: person they are both used to telling stories. One tells
Speaker 1: them on stage, they are both in the entertainment business.
Speaker 1: That's absolutely not No. I think it's like with one
Speaker 1: of them. I think that this person is looking at
Speaker 1: other doing other things. Because this is always on the phone,
Speaker 1: it's not as bad in person. Okay, so I think
Speaker 1: that he's he's texting, or he's you know, yeah, he's
Speaker 1: doing something else. I guess. I don't know. That's where
Speaker 1: you just got to call it out and go it
Speaker 1: sounds like you're distracted, So why don't you let's talk
Speaker 1: later when you're not.
Speaker 2: Wanting to put it on a voice memo whatever this
Speaker 2: bullshit is. But I also know I'm impatient the other one. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it just I just thought of
Speaker 2: it today, was like, my god, what if we were
Speaker 2: all what if they talk to each other?
Speaker 1: So, yeah, they just won't talk to each other. They
Speaker 1: won't they will have nothing to say to each other.
Speaker 1: They would both be like, oh my god, you're the
Speaker 1: most boring person I've ever talked to, not realizing they're
Speaker 1: already boring.
Speaker 2: The space is in between what I said to the
Speaker 2: like I said my friend that I'm closer to where
Speaker 2: I was, like, just put it in a voice memo.
Speaker 2: I can't, I go the spaces are too long between
Speaker 2: your words. And he's like, you, you just talk fast,
Speaker 2: so that's what you and I go, Yes, But maybe
Speaker 2: somewhere in the middle is.
Speaker 1: The truth, you know, like, let me say this too.
Speaker 1: Let me say this. Sometimes when you become aware of it,
Speaker 1: it makes it one hundred times worse, like when you
Speaker 1: start going like, oh my god, this person. Okay, so
Speaker 1: case in point and John and I noticed this at
Speaker 1: the same time. But do you ever listen to Sam
Speaker 1: Cedar The Majority Report? Okay, I used to love him,
Speaker 1: love him like he's super super smart, he's really and
Speaker 1: trimmy door. He bites with Jimmy dor. He's always on
Speaker 1: the right side of things as far as I'm concerned. Whatever, Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: and he speaks for a living his show, The Majority Report.
Speaker 1: I believe it's every day it's a daily thing and
Speaker 1: it's a couple hours. Yeah, lately. And I said this
Speaker 1: to John, I said, is do you think it's because
Speaker 1: he's getting old he has the um disease? It's just
Speaker 1: I have them. But he says it so much and
Speaker 1: he can't it takes so long. It's what you're describing.
Speaker 1: He'll like, Okay, he'll say like, oh, the I got
Speaker 1: a new iPhone and the it's not working the way older.
Speaker 1: That's what I said to John. And John said, no,
Speaker 1: he's kind of been that way for a really long time.
Speaker 1: You just haven't noticed. Oh okay, that's do you think.
Speaker 2: That's a possibility absolute? I think yeah, I think both
Speaker 2: of them. I mean these people, I've known one longer
Speaker 2: than the other, and I know that they've they've always
Speaker 2: taught one the one.
Speaker 1: Who hold down.
Speaker 2: Every word, Like I've never not known this person to
Speaker 2: do that. So that's just how they talk. They don't
Speaker 2: know and and yeah, the more I and now I'm
Speaker 2: thinking now I'm very self conscious, like I probably am.
Speaker 2: There's words I can't I couldn't remember hand sanitizer. That's
Speaker 2: got to be frustrating for people listening. But like it's
Speaker 2: not I'm not expecting perfection. I just want to be
Speaker 2: I guess as I get older, I just want to
Speaker 2: be like more no nonsense about what I can handle.
Speaker 2: And maybe it's just been maybe I just want to
Speaker 2: be alone with like fifteen cats. They are going to
Speaker 2: meow when they meet. They're not going to hold out
Speaker 2: their meals. Well they might some of them do, I guess,
Speaker 2: but you know what I mean. I want to like
Speaker 2: set down, but I want to be kind about it.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: I'm not kind about it with my other friend because he,
Speaker 2: like you know, he doesn't give a show.
Speaker 1: Right. Okay, now, so yeah, I've told you this story before,
Speaker 1: and I probably told it at least twice, maybe three times,
Speaker 1: and I retell it to my kids a lot. But
Speaker 1: I had that situation but different with somebody and I
Speaker 1: couldn't ever tell them. And it was the girl who
Speaker 1: said maamo all the time. And if you recall, it
Speaker 1: was so bad, it just it was nails on a chalkboard.
Speaker 1: I lived with her, we were roommate. We had a tick.
Speaker 1: For those who don't remember, it was an affect. She
Speaker 1: had a roommate.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well she had a roommate and a friend who
Speaker 2: had I would call it a tick.
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't a tick. She thought it was cute.
Speaker 1: A tick means okay. She'd be like, hi, yamyo, oh
Speaker 1: so I went to the store and blah blah blah, yeahmyo,
Speaker 1: like that's a tick. No, it's not. No, you can't.
Speaker 1: A tick is neurological. It's not this. She did not
Speaker 1: have a neurological issue. She just started it out. Maybe
Speaker 1: it was an anxiety thing. Maybe it was a thing
Speaker 1: that propped up in her conversation the way some people
Speaker 1: will say, like, but it became a crutch. But also
Speaker 1: she would call people blah blah blah, like she called
Speaker 1: her cat something head right, So then she would he's
Speaker 1: steph heead and she would do it. But the thing
Speaker 1: all the time. And she dated a guy that we
Speaker 1: both know and he yes, his name is Ron the
Speaker 1: one dog. Yeah that's dated him, okay, And yeah, so
Speaker 1: he's not gonna he's not gonna listen to tell you
Speaker 1: might we don't know what's going on what podcast. He
Speaker 1: was very edgy. You know. He reminds me a little
Speaker 1: bit of Charles Bakowski totally, just not the women hating
Speaker 1: more the women loving, but also just doesn't put up
Speaker 1: with any kind of bullshit, like you know. Anyway, they
Speaker 1: dated for a while and and he brought up with
Speaker 1: her and one day I talked to him and he
Speaker 1: said that I just couldn't deal with the mayammeo thing.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Same. But how do you tell somebody
Speaker 1: see that's different? Because how do you say, like, that
Speaker 1: thing you think is kind of cute and kind of
Speaker 1: like part of your personality is so obnoxious and nobody
Speaker 1: can stand it.
Speaker 2: I think you don't say that, you say, hey, what's
Speaker 2: with the maya maow, You don't say all the other stuff.
Speaker 2: You're just like, what do you do? You know that
Speaker 2: you're saying that.
Speaker 1: I did I did do that, I did try that.
Speaker 1: She thought it was cute, I said. She say, really
Speaker 1: say like miammo a lot, And she was like, ah
Speaker 1: do I you know, just kind of liked my thing.
Speaker 1: That's crazy is your thing. But when it's bad, when
Speaker 1: you just can't deal with something that somebody who you're
Speaker 1: kind of close to does to the point that you
Speaker 1: have to just go, I just can't be I can't
Speaker 1: I can't be friends with this person too much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, that's exactly my point. And it's not even
Speaker 2: something that they're doing. Like I have to separate what
Speaker 2: matters because it doesn't really matter the cadence of something.
Speaker 2: What matters is who they are and if I love
Speaker 2: them and they're good, you know, and I want good
Speaker 2: people that I love around me. So I don't want
Speaker 2: to just like throw it all out. But at the
Speaker 2: same time, I maybe you should just check myself. I
Speaker 2: think it's more like I need to meditate, I need
Speaker 2: to Patience is not my best or I don't have
Speaker 2: that as a virtue. I just don't, like I get
Speaker 2: really impatient in a line for the bank. I make
Speaker 2: it a big to do like everybody else is also
Speaker 2: in line of the bank. I don't have to make
Speaker 2: eye contact with everyone and to go, oh my god,
Speaker 2: this one.
Speaker 1: But I do. But I think that that's anxiety. I
Speaker 1: think that whenever I'm feeling extra anxious and edgy, you know,
Speaker 1: if I haven't like worked out or I haven't I
Speaker 1: just don't feel in it. Oftentimes going to meetings helps
Speaker 1: me kind of like I'll go into a meeting and
Speaker 1: I've got so many like I'm just agriate it at
Speaker 1: so much stuff, and then I go, oh, never mind
Speaker 1: feel better. But if you're extra anxious, everything bugs me.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: People, Yeah, nobody can fucking drive, you know, yes, every day.
Speaker 2: I think you're right, But there's I've got to look
Speaker 2: at that because you say work out, like I haven't
Speaker 2: even I don't even go on walks anymore, which I
Speaker 2: used to do a lot and haven't been able to do.
Speaker 2: So yeah, maybe, but I've always been this way. I
Speaker 2: here's a funny thing. I was going to play this
Speaker 2: for you, but there's some stupid stuff on there, so
Speaker 2: I have to young. Cecily said stuff that now Cecily
Speaker 2: wouldn't say, not think racist or anything. Don't don't, don't
Speaker 2: worry about that. But can you imagine it's like we
Speaker 2: wouldn't put on the show. But I have these tape
Speaker 2: recordings of myself that I sent to Chip. You know,
Speaker 2: my my bestie for those who don't know, well recently,
Speaker 2: when I told him he was my bestie, he was
Speaker 2: like really and.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh what do you mean? He goes, well,
Speaker 1: I go, am I not yours?
Speaker 2: He said, well, you're in the top five, but like
Speaker 2: not number one.
Speaker 1: Damn.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you're bestie isn't Sometimes who your bestie is you're
Speaker 2: not their bestie. It's hard to match that ship up,
Speaker 2: really impossible. But I sent him these tapes of myself.
Speaker 2: I could play a little bit. But I had this
Speaker 2: friend named Kelly. I was about eight or nine, and
Speaker 2: I think I talked about it once on the thing,
Speaker 2: but I was very at a very thick Texas accent,
Speaker 2: and was very bossy being Holly Hunter broadcast news, even
Speaker 2: though especially as the kid, you know in the first
Speaker 2: part of the movie where she's just a kid, and
Speaker 2: I was, I mean like i'd be like, okay, Kelly,
Speaker 2: say what you think about Nick Tom, you know, I'd
Speaker 2: name all the guys in our class and like, what
Speaker 2: do you think? And she was clearly playing Atari because
Speaker 2: you could hear the Atari game, which is hear like Pitfall.
Speaker 1: I was like, ba na right.
Speaker 2: And then I go, Kelly, say it, I'm talking. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna turn the type off if you don't. And she's like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, that's me at eight. So this isn't new. Well,
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not proud, but I'm also trying to
Speaker 2: own like.
Speaker 1: Just just that's who I am.
Speaker 2: A little bit, because if that really was who I am,
Speaker 2: and I'm just yelling at my friend Kelly. I friends
Speaker 2: with her on Facebook, and I kind of want to
Speaker 2: send it to her and just go, I'm really sorry
Speaker 2: about that. I'm like, oh my god, talk say something.
Speaker 2: Then you hear me turning the table. That's still how
Speaker 2: you currently feel.
Speaker 1: You just have more self control over yelling it at people.
Speaker 1: I don't know that I do, though. I think that's
Speaker 1: my whole point is that I think I don't.
Speaker 2: It's just not as cute because I don't have a cute,
Speaker 2: little eight year old Texas accent. It is pretty cool
Speaker 2: that you can hear pitfallen like pac Man and stuff
Speaker 2: in the background.
Speaker 1: That is funny. But the one, so, the one friend though,
Speaker 1: that that does speak for a living like, that's the
Speaker 1: one that you said that you've said straight up like
Speaker 1: just send this to me in a voice memo. That's
Speaker 1: my friend. Yeah, right, But the other one, you you
Speaker 1: haven't ever like lost your cool and been like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you're annoying me. No, okay, no, I mean
Speaker 1: you're doing that fair, I'm good, I'm getting up, getting better. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm okay.
Speaker 2: Said to that person that they're annoying me for different reasons,
Speaker 2: but never each never the because you can't really change that.
Speaker 2: You don't want to draw attention to because they're not
Speaker 2: going to change it now. Yeah, that's just how they talk. Also,
Speaker 2: remember what was the movie? Was it best in Show?
Speaker 2: I think it was one of the characters like did
Speaker 2: the thing where she would she would kind of do
Speaker 2: that and she would hold her she'd close her eyes
Speaker 2: when she would feel out. She'd be like, yeah, so
Speaker 2: our terrier.
Speaker 1: She kind of did that. But also the eyes are closed. Well,
Speaker 1: they wrote the character that way too, so they obviously
Speaker 1: knew that was like a affect that people don't like.
Speaker 1: It was Catherine O'Hara's character. My love. That's how I
Speaker 1: feel about that.
Speaker 2: And I'm a dick, and I'm asking for forgiveness from
Speaker 2: the universe for you, guys. Is from you guys. Uh,
Speaker 2: there's any way you can help me out? Well, you've
Speaker 2: got to give forgiveness to yourself first, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. You have to love yourself before you can
Speaker 2: love other people.
Speaker 1: I don't. That's just something I came up with. You
Speaker 1: did you wrote that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not like a speaking of it. You're like
Speaker 2: a poet. I mean you're a poet.
Speaker 1: Like, No, I'm a helper.
Speaker 2: I'm a right, you know what, I am a healer
Speaker 2: or a healer, healer and philosopher.
Speaker 1: I think I'm more of a healer than you.
Speaker 2: I think you're more of a philosopher and I'm more
Speaker 2: of like get it done heal if I were if
Speaker 2: I were a betting man, Like.
Speaker 1: You know how people will do the joke and we
Speaker 1: do it all the time of like, well, I didn't
Speaker 1: go to medical school, but like here's my advice. What
Speaker 1: if we just did that? Though? But for other stuff
Speaker 1: that's really stupid, like oh, I didn't I didn't major
Speaker 1: in philosophy, But I have a thought like if every
Speaker 1: time you that, it'd be more.
Speaker 2: Specific, like I didn't major, like I didn't major in physics,
Speaker 2: but I do know how to plug this in, but
Speaker 2: that work.
Speaker 1: It's not as funny. But I think it would be
Speaker 1: funny if if you said just random shit and then said,
Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't a philosophy major person from your.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like the per se part and I always
Speaker 2: bring it up and we have this kind of conversation
Speaker 2: because there was this, as I said many times, just
Speaker 2: a really bad comic when I was back just starting out,
Speaker 2: and this woman was like, I'm not a blank blank
Speaker 2: per se, and then Dunkleman yelled out, per se something funny.
Speaker 2: It's my favorite. It was like my favorite moment. You know,
Speaker 2: that's kind of an interesting topic, like the moment you
Speaker 2: knew you really liked somebody not just a boyfriend, like
Speaker 2: with you and me.
Speaker 1: Was there a moment?
Speaker 2: I'm sure there was, because we used to talk about
Speaker 2: like friendship chemistry, how we really had right away, like
Speaker 2: friendship chemistry that you don't.
Speaker 1: Probably I probably saw you on stage and was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, she's really funny. She has my sense
Speaker 1: of humor. Oh that is the nicest thing you could have.
Speaker 1: Sharing a sense of humor with somebody is so rare
Speaker 1: that you know you can't help, but like want to
Speaker 1: be best friends with somebody when you see them saying
Speaker 1: stuff that you're like, oh my god, that person is
Speaker 1: so funny.
Speaker 2: Yeah, probably saying we were set up, and we've talked
Speaker 2: about this, but we were Steph and I were set
Speaker 2: up on a literal playdate.
Speaker 1: Bryan set us up. Yeah, you remember, like I think
Speaker 1: we did. We go we go to lunch.
Speaker 2: I think so, but maybe we'd seen each other do
Speaker 2: stand up first we were like, okay, we're game. Yes,
Speaker 2: but that is I think about that with other people,
Speaker 2: like what was the thing?
Speaker 1: What was the thing they said? Or what was it you?
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't with you, I don't know, Like
Speaker 2: there's so many, but I wish I want to from
Speaker 2: from now on, I want to take note of that.
Speaker 2: When I meet someone and really like them, I'm like,
Speaker 2: what was the one thing that like got me in
Speaker 2: got me hooked? So yeah, either ran, it was per se,
Speaker 2: something funny. I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: There's this podcaster. I think I think you'll relate to
Speaker 1: this a little bit. So have you heard of the
Speaker 1: I've Had It podcasts with Jennifer Welch and somebody pumps
Speaker 1: these two women and they talk politics. But they used
Speaker 1: to just be like a kind of a mom show,
Speaker 1: a little like for crying out loud, because their thing
Speaker 1: was I've had It and it's all the things they
Speaker 1: just that make them mad and which at first I
Speaker 1: was kind of jealous because they got their a huge podcast.
Speaker 1: They just became massively famous and they have had so
Speaker 1: many famous people on. But anyway, they've gotten very political,
Speaker 1: very very left liberal. Like it's great, it's really fun
Speaker 1: to listen to, but I still had a little bit
Speaker 1: of that, like, I don't know, I don't know if
Speaker 1: I can like her because Jennifer Welsh, who's the main person,
Speaker 1: because she does a lot of her own videos where
Speaker 1: she's just slamming Trump and she's faced a lot of backlash,
Speaker 1: so you know, I already kind of liked that, but
Speaker 1: I did have a little bit of like, it's not
Speaker 1: really fair that she's like gotten so famous so far.
Speaker 1: You're a little there's a little envy podcast a little bit.
Speaker 1: So I wasn't listening to it, and John would be like,
Speaker 1: have you heard have you listened to I've had it?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, I podcast to listen to. I
Speaker 2: know what I think and say.
Speaker 1: But so the other day I decided to just try
Speaker 1: it out, and this thing happened where so they go,
Speaker 1: what's your I've had it, and then one of them
Speaker 1: will say the thing that's really bugged them. So the
Speaker 1: girl's friend pumps went first and she goes, you know
Speaker 1: what really bugs me? She's like, I've had it with
Speaker 1: people who like are so sensitive about like their dog.
Speaker 1: She goes, I was talking to this person and she goes,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, your dog's so fluffy,
Speaker 1: like they're they're so like they're a little belly or whatever.
Speaker 1: And she goes and my friend got really the person
Speaker 1: got annoyed, like they look like I'd called them fat.
Speaker 1: And it's like, oh, that is dump I'm with them
Speaker 1: on that.
Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say, like sensitive about
Speaker 2: like their dog being sick or no.
Speaker 1: But so she goes, yeah, I mean you think I
Speaker 1: called them like I was fat shaming them. I just
Speaker 1: like making a comment about their dog. It was cute.
Speaker 1: They're like, well, they're like kind of a little fat
Speaker 1: dog or whatever. And I was thinking, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I get really mad when people would fat shame Peopo
Speaker 1: would would say like, oh my god, oh she's kind
Speaker 1: of fat. And then because it feels like judgment, it
Speaker 1: does feel like judgment and I feel so it. And
Speaker 1: so she was like, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Has happened to you? And Jennifer Wells she goes, you
Speaker 1: know what, No, she goes, you know what. I'm on
Speaker 1: the other I'm on the side with the person. She goes,
Speaker 1: you can't be judging people's dogs. Like y dog owners
Speaker 1: are very sensitive about their dogs. And that is that
Speaker 1: feels personal. She goes, you can't be an asshole about
Speaker 1: somebody's dog.
Speaker 2: She goes, I'm sorry, but you're the asshole here she goes, oh,
Speaker 2: And I was like.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is so funny. I love her
Speaker 1: now I'm friends with her. You have to you have
Speaker 1: to seek this. Yeah. I was like, when you tell so,
Speaker 1: when you make a comment about somebody's dog being overweight,
Speaker 1: you are also slamming the owner, but it's a passive
Speaker 1: aggressive way of saying, like, oh, do you give your
Speaker 1: dog table scraps? You're so right.
Speaker 2: I had a beagle Baba, who was at the very
Speaker 2: end and we were at the vet and he was
Speaker 2: on pregnazone, so he was really sick and that makes
Speaker 2: you really big, you know. It was steroids and was
Speaker 2: not going great. And someone's like, oh, is your dog pregnant?
Speaker 2: I was like, well, it's a boy and no. And
Speaker 2: we're at the vet too, you know, and they're like
Speaker 2: a little fatty. They didn't say fatty, but they're like, oh,
Speaker 2: big boy. And I wasn't mad, but I was already
Speaker 2: so upset about how big. I think the prednizone did
Speaker 2: not help. I'm very young and like it was.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, now that I think of it, No, that's shitty.
Speaker 1: Your dog's really dirty.
Speaker 2: It's like pig pen when you pat him, there's just
Speaker 2: like actual dust that comes off. What's going on in
Speaker 2: your house? It's not nice.
Speaker 1: No, And I just think that listening to like, I
Speaker 1: was just not relating to pumps. Yeah, her story about
Speaker 1: getting annoyed pumps. She's from a Bravo show. They called
Speaker 1: her that she's from, Like, was she Southern charm?
Speaker 2: Was she's some kind of Southern charm? I promise that.
Speaker 2: I don't think. Well, now I want to look it up.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't. I promise something had it podcast? What
Speaker 1: Bravo show were they on? Okay, I go to find out.
Speaker 1: We go okay, Sweet Home Alabama? Oh no, that's side movie.
Speaker 1: I've had it podcast.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: Jennifer Walsh and Angie Pump's Sullivan were previously on the
Speaker 1: short lived Bravo reality show Sweet Home Alabama Very Short Lived,
Speaker 1: which from twenty seventeen to twenty nineteen and followed their
Speaker 1: lives as an interior designer and an attorney in Oklahoma City.
Speaker 2: It wasn't it was. I thought it was HGTV Bravo. Oh, okay,
Speaker 2: I do sort of remember that. Yeah, you didn't try
Speaker 2: to do a couple of shows like that.
Speaker 1: The show is a launching pad for their popular podcast,
Speaker 1: where they continue their unfiltered discussions and venting sessions.
Speaker 2: I mean, I like that, and everyone has a wrong take,
Speaker 2: including me just going after a friend or.
Speaker 1: Tucking I have another thing. How much time do we got?
Speaker 1: What we got? We have a few minutes. Well, if
Speaker 1: it's just time for one more topic, let's go, let's
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 2: Well, this topic is an amazing but I want to
Speaker 2: give you okay, so I have Okay. We had a
Speaker 2: conversation on something. I don't remember what we were talking about.
Speaker 2: What show was, probably it had to have been Housewives,
Speaker 2: but we were just talking about music taste. Oh, because
Speaker 2: someone on the Housewives said, no, this is last week
Speaker 2: if you didn't listen, But someone on Beverly Hills said,
Speaker 2: only white girls like cold Play. So Steph and I
Speaker 2: got into a little argument about it. Yeah, and I
Speaker 2: texted a friend of mine who I knew would get
Speaker 2: back to me right away, who happened to be a
Speaker 2: black guy, And I said, do you like cold Play?
Speaker 1: Settle a bet? And he didn't really settle the bet.
Speaker 1: He just wrote back like I'm indifferent. I really am.
Speaker 1: I don't I like this one song. But like first
Speaker 1: out say, he didn't lead with I'm indifferent, He leaded,
Speaker 1: he leaded, He leaded with not really, Yeah.
Speaker 2: He said, not really, I like this one song, but
Speaker 2: really I'm indifferent. Then he wrote back, what was the
Speaker 2: bet that black people don't like gold Play? And I
Speaker 2: was like, that's right, and so he was, and then
Speaker 2: we talked about other things. So then we Stephan and
Speaker 2: I talked about bands and I can't it. Now has
Speaker 2: become my mission in life to make you understand how
Speaker 2: amazing the Counting Crows is. So I brought that up
Speaker 2: last week and I'm on, I'm on it. I'm going
Speaker 2: to make you a mix. But I had dinner last
Speaker 2: night also with a friend whenever you were hearing this
Speaker 2: few days ago, with a friend, and I brought that up,
Speaker 2: and we were talking about bands that we love or
Speaker 2: bands that we whatever from what you know, times in
Speaker 2: our life. And I'll never back down on bare naked ladies.
Speaker 2: Of course, I don't care what people think. But I
Speaker 2: was like, Counting Crows, man, don't sleep that August and
Speaker 2: Everything After is one of my favorite albums of all time.
Speaker 1: It's in top ten for sure. And he's like, I
Speaker 1: don't really like them.
Speaker 2: I kind of put them in with like the spin Doctors,
Speaker 2: and I got I got upset. I was like, that
Speaker 2: has nothing to do with it. That couldn't be further.
Speaker 2: But I said, instead of shaming you, I'm going to
Speaker 2: turn you. I'm going to change you. And he's like,
Speaker 2: go for it. So I'm literally compiling like, not only songs,
Speaker 2: but if it's Adam's voice that people don't like, which
Speaker 2: I get, I'm gonna find covers of those songs that
Speaker 2: like will make you really appreciate. And I'm going to
Speaker 2: write out some of the poetry and I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 2: gonna put together.
Speaker 1: I'm putting together like.
Speaker 2: A folder, and I really really want people to come along.
Speaker 2: I want to if this is my like dying wish.
Speaker 1: The songs are good, I do. I do think that
Speaker 1: some people don't like the feeling, like the vibe of
Speaker 1: the little like it's just a little why, a whiny extra,
Speaker 1: it's it's perform it can feel performative. I totally get that.
Speaker 1: I totally get that, But people like me that like
Speaker 1: more of a clear, voiced, like pretty sound and aren't
Speaker 1: as swayed by that and the.
Speaker 2: Words and add up though, because if I and I
Speaker 2: think you like this band too, but I probably was
Speaker 2: more into it than you. Huge fan of The Cure,
Speaker 2: I know you like some of their music, but you
Speaker 2: cannot say that Robert Smith of The Cure is not performative, dramatic,
Speaker 2: goth emotional.
Speaker 1: He's not a very I that than that than that,
Speaker 1: like oh it's and I do like a lot of
Speaker 1: Counting Crows songs, I just don't. I don't like enough
Speaker 1: of them for me to be like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I love the Counting Crows. That is fair.
Speaker 2: I will also tell you that Sullivan Street if you
Speaker 2: want to, if I can just begin, maybe I'll do
Speaker 2: a thing every time I like, okay, that's my favorite.
Speaker 2: And then there's not really a bad album. I mean
Speaker 2: even like there like I can't there's some bad songs
Speaker 2: of course on everybody remember when we let like when
Speaker 2: I back in the day in nineteen ninety thought that
Speaker 2: Annie DiFranco, like there'd never be a better musician that
Speaker 2: existed than Annie, And then after the eighteenth album, I
Speaker 2: was like Okay, we don't need the jazz, we don't
Speaker 2: need the horns here.
Speaker 1: So sometimes things do change. It's not perfect, but I
Speaker 1: sometimes some stuff is just not People don't see the magic.
Speaker 1: Like you know how I've told you I love the
Speaker 1: singer Jonathan Brook. Yeah, and I love love love. I
Speaker 1: mean I went crazy. I could listen to anything that
Speaker 1: she puts out, although her last few albums yet me
Speaker 1: a little bit slick, but John would. John has never
Speaker 1: been able to feel it like He's always like, there's
Speaker 1: it's just there's no hook. None of her songs have hooks.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, are you fucking crazy? What's wrong? How
Speaker 1: do you not hear the hook? I know crazy, It's
Speaker 1: it's so hooky that I have to listen to it
Speaker 1: one hundred million times over and over and over. That's
Speaker 1: how hookey it is. And he's like, don't hear it,
Speaker 1: there's no chorus, Like you just don't get it. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's hard you feel.
Speaker 2: I remember going out with a guy years years ago
Speaker 2: and I was like, you got to listen to this
Speaker 2: Glenn Phillips song.
Speaker 1: You know you loved it, and we had like it
Speaker 1: was it was back when you had a nano. You know,
Speaker 1: I had an I.
Speaker 2: Pod and so we each I was like, so romantic,
Speaker 2: here's your iPod, here's your earbud, and I'll listen on
Speaker 2: this side. And he just was like not getting it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, but that lyric like what do you not get?
Speaker 1: What do you not like? And I didn't. I didn't
Speaker 1: date him after that. You can't. I was already well.
Speaker 1: John came with me to see Jonathan Brook reform. The
Speaker 1: one thing that was really nice about John, and there
Speaker 1: was only one thing, so don't get excited. He didn't.
Speaker 1: He wouldn't say straight out. He wasn't like David Cross
Speaker 1: going like, no, your music taste sucks by the payings,
Speaker 1: you give it a chance. Yeah, he would be like.
Speaker 1: He wouldn't tell me right away. It was only later
Speaker 1: when he felt a lot more comfortable that he'd be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, it's not one hundred percent, it's not
Speaker 1: really for me. I don't hear like the but he
Speaker 1: would he never at the beginning. He went with me
Speaker 1: to see Jonathan Brook many times. Now he doesn't have
Speaker 1: to because we've been together like twenty six years. So
Speaker 1: if I say, like going.
Speaker 2: To Jonathan Brook, he'd I think he'd feel fine going
Speaker 2: like no, I think he would feel fine doing that too.
Speaker 2: And I got to be better.
Speaker 1: We have to.
Speaker 2: I have to be better and not trying to force it.
Speaker 2: This is a lesson and like, hey, if I can
Speaker 2: like them, I don't have to make other people like
Speaker 2: my friend that I was telling that I was going
Speaker 2: to put little, a little, you know, portfolio together to
Speaker 2: make him love Counting Crows. There's bands he likes, and
Speaker 2: he never tries to make me or other people like them.
Speaker 2: He just like that's his thing that he likes. I
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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, thanks everybody, We love you. Guys. Have
Speaker 1: a very merry Christmas or enjoy well. No, this will
Speaker 1: have hit the day after the last night of Hanukkah.
Speaker 2: So yeah, so a happy related hankah, Happy Christmas. Happy
Speaker 2: Kwanza if you don't celebrate any of those, just like,
Speaker 2: let's make twenty twenty six a little better about that,
Speaker 2: Let's do let's doe fucking hell.
Speaker 1: All right? Bye, we love you, we thank you. Sorry
Speaker 1: I were sorry. Bye,