WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.200 Hello everyone, Hello, Hello, Hello. I'm guessing the audio is working. 2 00:00:04.280 --> 00:00:06.639 It looks like everything is doing what it's supposed to 3 00:00:06.639 --> 00:00:09.679 be doing. I have my headphones here because we're going 4 00:00:09.720 --> 00:00:12.560 to be doing some reaction shit before we getting these questions. 5 00:00:14.160 --> 00:00:17.239 So I have over the last couple of days somehow 6 00:00:17.280 --> 00:00:20.960 have ended up on the manisphere side of TikTok and YouTube, 7 00:00:20.960 --> 00:00:24.519 where a lot of my content is men and women 8 00:00:24.600 --> 00:00:30.199 hating each other and a whole lot of stupidity. Today 9 00:00:30.359 --> 00:00:32.439 I watched somebody else react to a video and they 10 00:00:32.439 --> 00:00:34.200 had a very different take than what I had. So 11 00:00:34.240 --> 00:00:36.719 I went and found the video on TikTok, I downloaded it. 12 00:00:37.159 --> 00:00:39.280 I want to watch the video. I want you guys 13 00:00:39.280 --> 00:00:41.600 to pay attention to verbage, and then I want to 14 00:00:41.600 --> 00:00:45.240 have a discussion about it because this video, had I 15 00:00:45.359 --> 00:00:48.679 followed this man's advice, would have prevented me from being 16 00:00:48.719 --> 00:00:55.159 with my wife, and this was my mindset before we 17 00:00:55.439 --> 00:00:57.679 actually got committed. So I figured it would be a 18 00:00:57.679 --> 00:00:59.960 good conversation piece. And then I have a document of 19 00:01:00.079 --> 00:01:02.280 questions that I want to get into. With that being said, 20 00:01:02.320 --> 00:01:04.400 it's Saturday. I hope you guys are having a good day. 21 00:01:04.719 --> 00:01:06.799 The Patreon members that are hanging out with me right now. 22 00:01:06.799 --> 00:01:08.680 Thank you for rocking with me on a Saturday afternoon. 23 00:01:08.719 --> 00:01:10.079 I'm sure you guys had a whole bunch of other 24 00:01:10.079 --> 00:01:13.480 cool shit that you could be doing. So y'all are here, 25 00:01:13.640 --> 00:01:17.239 it's all that matter. So put these on. I'm going 26 00:01:17.319 --> 00:01:21.200 to pop over in the here we go. 27 00:01:22.200 --> 00:01:25.319 Dating a single mother is one of the worst decisions 28 00:01:25.319 --> 00:01:29.000 that you could possibly make as a single man looking 29 00:01:29.040 --> 00:01:32.159 to have a successful, long lasting relationship. 30 00:01:32.599 --> 00:01:35.680 All right, so before I go any further, I kind 31 00:01:35.680 --> 00:01:38.280 of agree with him. And this is gonna bother some 32 00:01:38.280 --> 00:01:39.760 of the ladies in the chat. I'm not trying to 33 00:01:39.760 --> 00:01:42.799 be controversial. I'm not trying to offend anybody. There's gonna 34 00:01:42.799 --> 00:01:45.599 be language here, and it's the language that matters. So 35 00:01:45.840 --> 00:01:47.239 I'm gonna back it up and I'm gonna play the 36 00:01:47.239 --> 00:01:48.640 beginning of this again just so that you guys can 37 00:01:48.719 --> 00:01:51.000 understand what I'm talking about by paying attention to the language. 38 00:01:51.280 --> 00:01:54.359 Dating a single mother is one of the worst decisions 39 00:01:54.400 --> 00:01:58.079 that you could possibly make as a single man looking 40 00:01:58.079 --> 00:02:01.200 to have a successful, long lasting relationship. 41 00:02:01.359 --> 00:02:06.560 Okay, so a successful long lasting relationship. The reason that 42 00:02:06.599 --> 00:02:09.120 a lot of men feel this way, depending on how 43 00:02:09.120 --> 00:02:13.000 they define success is that they have a proven track 44 00:02:13.000 --> 00:02:15.639 record of not being able to keep a family together right, 45 00:02:15.759 --> 00:02:18.800 And there's there could be a whole lot of reasons 46 00:02:18.840 --> 00:02:22.639 why that relationship didn't work out right. It could be 47 00:02:22.639 --> 00:02:25.520 an abusive situation. It could have been that there was 48 00:02:25.599 --> 00:02:27.759 no real relationship there, it was an oop since she 49 00:02:27.800 --> 00:02:29.520 didn't believe an abortion. There could be a whole lot 50 00:02:29.560 --> 00:02:33.400 of reasons as to why that relationship did not work. 51 00:02:33.520 --> 00:02:37.039 From a surface level, without any of the information, we 52 00:02:37.159 --> 00:02:40.319 see that situation and we automatically think this is somebody 53 00:02:40.319 --> 00:02:42.520 who decided to have a child with another human being, 54 00:02:42.879 --> 00:02:46.039 they were incapable of making that relationship work, and now 55 00:02:46.080 --> 00:02:48.919 they're looking for another man to step in and raise 56 00:02:48.960 --> 00:02:52.400 that child. I'm not saying that that's what they're doing. 57 00:02:52.520 --> 00:02:56.000 I'm just saying that from a very initial assessment, without 58 00:02:56.039 --> 00:02:58.360 knowing any of the information, that is a pretty safe 59 00:02:58.400 --> 00:02:59.960 assumption statistic. 60 00:03:00.360 --> 00:03:00.520 Right. 61 00:03:00.560 --> 00:03:04.199 We're not throwing shade or blame because men who are 62 00:03:04.280 --> 00:03:06.479 just as guilty in this situation too, Because if it 63 00:03:06.560 --> 00:03:09.400 wasn't for men running around trying to fuck everything they could, 64 00:03:09.759 --> 00:03:12.039 this wouldn't be a thing, right, So this is not 65 00:03:12.120 --> 00:03:13.879 a blame thing. I just want you guys to be 66 00:03:13.960 --> 00:03:14.560 clear on that. 67 00:03:15.479 --> 00:03:18.960 All right, moving on, especially if you are a single 68 00:03:19.000 --> 00:03:22.439 man in your prime years, which is we'll say thirty 69 00:03:22.520 --> 00:03:23.960 to about forty five years old. 70 00:03:24.199 --> 00:03:26.400 I agree with this too. I agree with the prime 71 00:03:26.479 --> 00:03:28.360 years thing. Up until you're thirty years old, you don't 72 00:03:28.400 --> 00:03:31.080 have a real career. You haven't established any type of 73 00:03:31.319 --> 00:03:32.719 real life shit, are you guys hearing us? 74 00:03:32.719 --> 00:03:32.919 Okay? 75 00:03:32.960 --> 00:03:37.240 In the chat, I keep getting clicking in my headphones. Okay, 76 00:03:37.639 --> 00:03:42.120 you guys aren't getting clicking or anything. All right, all right, sorry, 77 00:03:46.800 --> 00:03:47.599 I'm just gonna play it. 78 00:03:48.759 --> 00:03:51.000 You're at the right position of your career, your income 79 00:03:51.080 --> 00:03:55.360 is increasing, you have a stable business, and you choose 80 00:03:55.599 --> 00:03:59.400 yo dumbass chooses to date a single mother, someone who 81 00:03:59.479 --> 00:04:03.360 has made the ultimate decision, deciding to have a child, 82 00:04:03.960 --> 00:04:08.599 and then failing abjectly in that endeavor and ending up 83 00:04:08.680 --> 00:04:10.000 with a broken household. 84 00:04:10.800 --> 00:04:14.439 Okay, again, this is one of those things where both 85 00:04:14.479 --> 00:04:18.439 people in this situation failed. And as somebody who there's 86 00:04:18.439 --> 00:04:19.800 gonna be a whole lot that we're gonna get into, 87 00:04:19.839 --> 00:04:21.680 I'm not gonna get into. I'm gonna try really hard 88 00:04:21.720 --> 00:04:23.399 not to get them ahead of myself. But both people 89 00:04:23.439 --> 00:04:26.399 in that situation failed just doing hotness. I love you, 90 00:04:27.480 --> 00:04:28.360 I'll see you get home. 91 00:04:29.199 --> 00:04:29.600 You can. 92 00:04:32.480 --> 00:04:34.079 I don't remember what he was saying because my wife 93 00:04:34.199 --> 00:04:35.759 just distracted me. So we're just gonna play it. 94 00:04:36.319 --> 00:04:37.399 So let's talk about that. 95 00:04:38.040 --> 00:04:43.199 If you're a man in his prime, investing your time, energy, 96 00:04:43.279 --> 00:04:48.079 and resources into dating a single mother bears almost zero 97 00:04:48.519 --> 00:04:49.560 ROI for you. 98 00:04:50.120 --> 00:04:52.680 Okay, this is where things start to get real for me. 99 00:04:53.480 --> 00:04:57.040 He said that investing your time, your effort, in your 100 00:04:57.079 --> 00:05:02.079 resources bears no ROI for you. People who don't operate 101 00:05:02.160 --> 00:05:05.319 on a business level, or at least have some sort 102 00:05:05.360 --> 00:05:09.240 of business degree or real understanding is not going to 103 00:05:09.439 --> 00:05:15.439 understand what he's actually talking about here. Factually, he's correct. 104 00:05:15.759 --> 00:05:20.040 There is no real ROI in me investing in the 105 00:05:20.120 --> 00:05:23.360 children other than I get to be in their lives 106 00:05:23.399 --> 00:05:26.560 as long as I'm with their mother. My return on 107 00:05:26.680 --> 00:05:30.439 investment if I give my resources, my time, my energy, 108 00:05:30.480 --> 00:05:33.040 and I raise these children to the best of my 109 00:05:33.160 --> 00:05:36.279 ability while their father is still in their life or not, 110 00:05:37.800 --> 00:05:43.240 I am only I'm only in their lives as long 111 00:05:43.279 --> 00:05:45.680 as their mother permits. And in the event that we 112 00:05:45.680 --> 00:05:47.920 were to ever get split up or something was to happen, 113 00:05:47.920 --> 00:05:50.120 I would have no access to those kids. So in 114 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:52.519 the event that I put both of these children through college, 115 00:05:54.000 --> 00:05:56.240 you can say, I'll say we just for the sake 116 00:05:56.279 --> 00:05:59.519 of argument, because what about her, right half of the 117 00:05:59.560 --> 00:06:02.279 everything is mine, you know, and the assets that I 118 00:06:02.319 --> 00:06:05.639 had before her are mine. So the time, effort and 119 00:06:06.279 --> 00:06:09.000 finances that I'm putting into putting these kids through college, 120 00:06:09.040 --> 00:06:13.759 feeding them, raising them, boxing jiu jitsu, swimming lessons, speech lessons, 121 00:06:14.120 --> 00:06:17.160 all vacations, all of that shit, that money's gone. And 122 00:06:17.240 --> 00:06:19.160 though I get dope memories and I get to be 123 00:06:19.199 --> 00:06:21.720 a part of watching these young you know, these kids grow, 124 00:06:22.000 --> 00:06:24.560 you know, our son and daughter. I'm a bonus dad. 125 00:06:25.199 --> 00:06:27.839 I don't have a stake to claim to these children. 126 00:06:27.959 --> 00:06:33.519 So all of that is a complete waste of money 127 00:06:33.560 --> 00:06:37.000 from this standpoint when you're looking at it from a ROI, 128 00:06:38.639 --> 00:06:41.720 because again return on investment, we are talking about the 129 00:06:41.759 --> 00:06:45.879 financial aspect that goes into raising these children. If I 130 00:06:45.959 --> 00:06:48.759 raise these kids into adulthood, Peaches and I get along great, 131 00:06:49.000 --> 00:06:51.000 you know, up until they're in their thirties, and I 132 00:06:51.120 --> 00:06:53.120 end up in a retirement home, Peaches ends up with 133 00:06:53.160 --> 00:06:55.839 another man, and all of the raising that I've done 134 00:06:55.879 --> 00:06:57.839 for the thirty years that these kids were in my life. 135 00:06:58.480 --> 00:07:00.439 They're not going to put me in a retire at home. 136 00:07:00.480 --> 00:07:02.319 They're not going to come visit me. I'll be lucky 137 00:07:02.319 --> 00:07:04.199 if I get a phone call from them after the 138 00:07:04.240 --> 00:07:05.920 two of us have split, because they're going to pick 139 00:07:05.920 --> 00:07:08.720 the loyalty to the parent. This is a very real 140 00:07:08.759 --> 00:07:11.040 conversation for a lot of fucking men when they start 141 00:07:11.079 --> 00:07:13.360 meeting single mothers, because it's a whole lot easier to 142 00:07:13.360 --> 00:07:15.199 support a woman than it is to support a woman 143 00:07:15.240 --> 00:07:16.959 that's got a whole bunch of baggage with them. And 144 00:07:17.040 --> 00:07:19.639 make no mistake, single men look at women who have 145 00:07:19.759 --> 00:07:22.720 kids as baggage. This is not a fuck you for 146 00:07:22.800 --> 00:07:24.439 having kids, because there's a whole lot of men out 147 00:07:24.480 --> 00:07:27.240 there who aren't raising their own children, let alone have 148 00:07:27.399 --> 00:07:31.319 the financial responsibility to take on somebody else's children. 149 00:07:31.439 --> 00:07:33.720 Right, Let's get back to this in. 150 00:07:33.680 --> 00:07:38.160 General, not in every single situation, but in general, the 151 00:07:38.240 --> 00:07:42.439 percentage chance odds are that dating a single mother is 152 00:07:42.439 --> 00:07:44.600 going to end with your demise and it's going to 153 00:07:44.680 --> 00:07:45.759 leave you at a deficit. 154 00:07:46.600 --> 00:07:49.519 So if you again, guys, he is talking about your 155 00:07:49.600 --> 00:07:54.800 financial resources. This is not about emotional heartbreak. He is 156 00:07:54.879 --> 00:08:00.399 approaching this entire situation from a fiscal mindset, of financial mindset. 157 00:08:00.480 --> 00:08:03.040 A woman who has a child by a man she's 158 00:08:03.079 --> 00:08:06.120 no longer with, You're probably looking at a woman who 159 00:08:06.160 --> 00:08:11.000 is potentially divorced, obviously separated, has a lot of mental, 160 00:08:11.160 --> 00:08:13.959 emotional and financial baggage and trauma. 161 00:08:15.040 --> 00:08:16.600 On a biological level, she's. 162 00:08:16.439 --> 00:08:19.000 Already been ran through by impregnated by this man, so 163 00:08:19.120 --> 00:08:24.240 her internal biology inside of her wound is actually more 164 00:08:24.399 --> 00:08:28.839 prime and receptive to having continued offspring with the man 165 00:08:28.920 --> 00:08:33.039 who impregnated her, who she had children by. His semen 166 00:08:33.279 --> 00:08:38.519 literally is implanted in neurons or in certain areas within 167 00:08:38.559 --> 00:08:41.799 the brain and as well as along the nervous system. 168 00:08:42.039 --> 00:08:43.919 Okay, I didn't look this up. This is like the 169 00:08:44.000 --> 00:08:45.840 fourth person that I've heard talked about this in like 170 00:08:45.840 --> 00:08:48.440 the last two or three weeks, and every time I 171 00:08:48.440 --> 00:08:50.159 think to look it up, something comes up and I 172 00:08:50.240 --> 00:08:54.120 forget to look it up. If that's true, does that 173 00:08:54.240 --> 00:08:57.960 just mean that every woman, every man that has ever 174 00:08:58.000 --> 00:09:00.840 come inside of a woman has that scene thing with 175 00:09:00.879 --> 00:09:04.720 the semen and the neurology or whatever. He just said that, 176 00:09:04.840 --> 00:09:07.360 I don't know. I have no idea. I also didn't 177 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:09.759 know that once you have a pregnancy with somebody that 178 00:09:09.799 --> 00:09:12.559 your body is more primed to continue to have kids. 179 00:09:12.840 --> 00:09:15.799 So that could be complete bullshit. It could be internet science. 180 00:09:15.879 --> 00:09:18.879 I don't know because I didn't look this up. All right, guys, 181 00:09:19.039 --> 00:09:21.480 this is Chris from the next Day. I edited this 182 00:09:21.559 --> 00:09:24.039 episode last night. I listened to that part where they 183 00:09:24.039 --> 00:09:29.240 were talking about the DNA and the human matter male 184 00:09:29.320 --> 00:09:31.320 matter being caught in a woman's brain. However, he worded that, 185 00:09:31.600 --> 00:09:34.639 and I started doing some digging because I think it's bullshit, 186 00:09:35.039 --> 00:09:37.919 and sure enough, I could not find a single study 187 00:09:38.320 --> 00:09:42.240 that confirmed the narrative that's being stated. What I did find, 188 00:09:43.120 --> 00:09:46.960 according to Google, is that on the priming of the 189 00:09:47.360 --> 00:09:50.159 woman once being pregnant by a man, that is absolutely 190 00:09:50.159 --> 00:09:54.879 not true. That speaks to genetic imprinting. So Google said, 191 00:09:54.919 --> 00:09:57.840 a woman's body is not biologically primed or altered to 192 00:09:57.879 --> 00:10:00.240 have an easier time conceiving or carrying a baby with 193 00:10:00.279 --> 00:10:05.039 the same specific person in future pregnancies. There is no 194 00:10:05.120 --> 00:10:08.440 genetic imprinting. A partner's DNA or sperm does not change 195 00:10:08.480 --> 00:10:12.080 a woman's genetic makeup or permanently alter her reproductive system 196 00:10:12.919 --> 00:10:18.600 micro microchimerism. While cells from a fetus can cross into 197 00:10:18.639 --> 00:10:21.519 a mother's body and remain there for years. Cells from 198 00:10:21.519 --> 00:10:24.519 a sexual partner semen do not integrate into her tissues 199 00:10:25.159 --> 00:10:27.679 or influence her future pregnancies. That one's super important because 200 00:10:27.679 --> 00:10:30.360 of the next thing I'm gonna get into independent pregnancies. 201 00:10:30.399 --> 00:10:34.080 Each new pregnancy starts completely fresh, hormones reset after delivery, 202 00:10:34.080 --> 00:10:37.480 and the body treats a new conception independently, regardless of 203 00:10:37.480 --> 00:10:44.639 who the father was previously. Now, there are myths called telegani, 204 00:10:45.480 --> 00:10:49.320 which believes that past partners affect future offspring. 205 00:10:50.039 --> 00:10:51.879 It's been proven to be debunked. 206 00:10:52.240 --> 00:10:59.399 All right, So let's go to an article on PubMed. 207 00:11:00.639 --> 00:11:03.960 This is from the National Library of Medicine. Okay, guys, 208 00:11:04.159 --> 00:11:06.600 so the other link and I'll post this in the 209 00:11:06.639 --> 00:11:08.399 description of the video if you want to go read 210 00:11:08.440 --> 00:11:13.639 the actual thing from PubMed. I am going to run 211 00:11:13.679 --> 00:11:16.399 this through AI to give me a summary so that 212 00:11:16.440 --> 00:11:18.840 I don't have to read you a really dry article 213 00:11:18.960 --> 00:11:22.320 of science, because I gotta be honest, it's really fucking 214 00:11:22.360 --> 00:11:25.039 boring and people don't want to hear it. So Summary 215 00:11:25.480 --> 00:11:30.000 of the male microchimerism and the human female brain from 216 00:11:30.039 --> 00:11:34.120 twenty twelve. This study explored a fascinating question can sells 217 00:11:34.159 --> 00:11:36.600 from a fetus remain in a mother's brain for decades 218 00:11:36.639 --> 00:11:40.480 after pregnancy. Okay, do you guys hear what I just said? 219 00:11:40.600 --> 00:11:44.879 Can sells from a fetus remain in a mother's brain 220 00:11:44.919 --> 00:11:47.919 for decades after pregnancy the fetus not the male that 221 00:11:48.000 --> 00:11:52.240 she slept with the fetus? The answer appears to be yes. 222 00:11:52.279 --> 00:11:55.519 Researchers examined brain tissue from fifty nine deceased women, twenty 223 00:11:55.519 --> 00:11:59.039 six without neurological disease, in thirty three with Alzheimer's. They 224 00:11:59.039 --> 00:12:02.600 search specifically for male DNA by detecting a Y chromosome 225 00:12:02.639 --> 00:12:07.120 marker DYS one four, because women do not naturally carry 226 00:12:07.159 --> 00:12:11.240 a Y chromosome. Finding male DNA strongly suggests cells or 227 00:12:11.279 --> 00:12:16.000 genetic material originating from a male fetus, not a male partner. 228 00:12:16.120 --> 00:12:21.519 A male fetus. What is a microchimerism microchimerism? During pregnancy, 229 00:12:21.559 --> 00:12:24.759 cells travel in both directions across the placenta. Fetal cells 230 00:12:25.159 --> 00:12:28.600 enter the mother's body, maternal cells enter the fetus. Most 231 00:12:28.639 --> 00:12:31.879 people assume that these cells disappear after birth, but previous 232 00:12:31.919 --> 00:12:35.639 research showed that they can persist for decades. This study 233 00:12:35.679 --> 00:12:38.360 asked whether those fetal cells could also be found in 234 00:12:38.360 --> 00:12:41.720 the brain. So the major findings of this article is 235 00:12:41.759 --> 00:12:44.919 that male fetal DNA was found in most women's brains. 236 00:12:44.960 --> 00:12:49.159 The researchers found male mito microchimerism in thirty seven of 237 00:12:49.200 --> 00:12:52.120 fifty nine women, so sixty three percent. This means that 238 00:12:52.200 --> 00:12:54.840 nearly two thirds of the women had detectable male DNA 239 00:12:54.919 --> 00:12:58.639 somewhere in their brains. The cells weren't confined to one area. 240 00:12:59.080 --> 00:13:04.679 Male DNA appeared throughout the brain, including the hippocampus, temporal lobe, 241 00:13:04.879 --> 00:13:12.639 paralal lobe, singulate giros, ponds, medulla, thalamus, cerebellum, spinal cord. 242 00:13:13.840 --> 00:13:17.360 The medulla showed the highest detection rate, while some regions 243 00:13:17.399 --> 00:13:21.639 had detected had none detected, likely because some of the 244 00:13:21.679 --> 00:13:25.799 small number of samples available. These cells may remain for life. 245 00:13:25.840 --> 00:13:27.960 The oldest woman with a detectable male DNA in our 246 00:13:27.960 --> 00:13:28.799 brain was ninety. 247 00:13:28.559 --> 00:13:29.200 Four years old. 248 00:13:30.000 --> 00:13:35.039 Women with Alzheimer's appear to have less microchimerism, it's not 249 00:13:35.080 --> 00:13:38.399 really relevant to the study. They detected it by using 250 00:13:38.440 --> 00:13:42.639 a PCR technique to amplify the Y chromosome gene to 251 00:13:42.679 --> 00:13:47.799 reduce false positives. They required detention in multiple wells, a 252 00:13:47.840 --> 00:13:51.600 minimum concentration before calling a sample positive and where do 253 00:13:51.639 --> 00:13:55.360 these cells come from? Pregnancy with a SUN is the 254 00:13:55.360 --> 00:13:59.639 most likely source. However, the paper notes the other possibilities miscarriage, abortion, 255 00:14:00.159 --> 00:14:05.679 a vanished male twin and older male sibling through maternal transfer, 256 00:14:05.840 --> 00:14:09.600 and blood transfusions. None of those say a male partner 257 00:14:10.440 --> 00:14:16.360 because pregnancy. Because pregnancy histories were incomplete, the researchers couldn't 258 00:14:16.399 --> 00:14:19.200 determine the exact origin of the male cells in every woman. 259 00:14:21.799 --> 00:14:24.919 The study doesn't prove what the cells are doing, but 260 00:14:24.960 --> 00:14:26.720 it discusses several possibilities. 261 00:14:26.720 --> 00:14:27.399 Tissue repair. 262 00:14:27.480 --> 00:14:30.279 Other studies have shown that fetal cells can behave like 263 00:14:30.320 --> 00:14:35.159 simstem cells, differentiating into various cell types and potentially helping 264 00:14:35.200 --> 00:14:39.159 repair damage tissue immune surveillance. These cells may assist in 265 00:14:39.240 --> 00:14:43.639 detecting damaged or abnormal cells, including potentially cancerous ones, and 266 00:14:43.720 --> 00:14:48.679 brain function animal studies. Animal studies suggest fetal cells can 267 00:14:48.720 --> 00:14:51.399 become neurons astrokites. 268 00:14:52.240 --> 00:14:54.159 I'm not even try that one, immune. 269 00:14:53.759 --> 00:14:57.240 Cells within the brain, and whether this also happens in 270 00:14:57.320 --> 00:15:00.960 humans remains unknown. The The takeaway here is that this 271 00:15:01.000 --> 00:15:04.120 study overturned the long held assumption that pregnancy ends at birth. 272 00:15:04.159 --> 00:15:05.159 On a cellular level. 273 00:15:05.559 --> 00:15:07.919 It demonstrated that cells from a fetus can cross the 274 00:15:07.960 --> 00:15:11.360 mother's blood brain barrier, becoming widely distributed throughout her brain 275 00:15:11.679 --> 00:15:14.639 and remain there for decades, perhaps for life. What these 276 00:15:14.639 --> 00:15:17.639 cells actually do is still an open question. They may 277 00:15:17.639 --> 00:15:21.360 contribute to tissue repair, immune function, or other biological processes, 278 00:15:21.559 --> 00:15:25.279 but more research is needed before drawing firm conclusions. Perhaps 279 00:15:25.279 --> 00:15:29.000 the most profound implication is that pregnancy creates a lasting 280 00:15:29.080 --> 00:15:32.759 biological connection between mother and child that extends far beyond 281 00:15:32.759 --> 00:15:36.440 genetic or shared experience. At the cellular level, the child 282 00:15:36.600 --> 00:15:40.399 cells may literally become part of the mother's brain, persisting 283 00:15:40.440 --> 00:15:44.279 throughout much of her life. The child's, the fetuses, the 284 00:15:44.320 --> 00:15:47.799 fetal cells. Not once in this entire fucking study does 285 00:15:47.799 --> 00:15:51.600 it say a male partner. It may suggests that if 286 00:15:51.639 --> 00:15:54.679 a mom had a son before she had a daughter, 287 00:15:54.799 --> 00:15:57.519 that that daughter may already carry markers from having a son, 288 00:15:57.600 --> 00:16:00.519 because those DNA markers were in her body when they happened. 289 00:16:00.919 --> 00:16:03.440 But there's nothing here that establishes what these people have 290 00:16:03.480 --> 00:16:06.159 been stating on the internet. Now, I did find another 291 00:16:06.279 --> 00:16:10.120 article because I wanted to be thorough and I didn't 292 00:16:10.159 --> 00:16:13.240 want anybody to be like, oh, well, what about this 293 00:16:13.360 --> 00:16:16.399 what about that? So before I get into this study, 294 00:16:16.639 --> 00:16:20.200 I have to be very clear. This comes from Cincinnati's 295 00:16:20.320 --> 00:16:26.840 Children's Research Horizons. Mom's ability to remember prior pregnancy suggests 296 00:16:26.919 --> 00:16:30.840 new strategies for preventing complications. This is a study in mice. 297 00:16:31.759 --> 00:16:33.879 I did not find any studies in humans where this 298 00:16:33.919 --> 00:16:38.879 has been a thing. They are studying mice to get 299 00:16:38.879 --> 00:16:42.679 this information. I'll post a link in this one too, 300 00:16:43.679 --> 00:16:45.840 so I'm going to just scroll down to the parts 301 00:16:45.879 --> 00:16:49.840 that's relevant here implications for high risk pregnancy. While the 302 00:16:49.919 --> 00:16:53.000 new study is based on studying mouse models, the co 303 00:16:53.080 --> 00:16:56.200 authors say a body of research already exists demonstrating the 304 00:16:56.200 --> 00:16:59.480 cellular cross talk observed in the mice that also happens 305 00:16:59.480 --> 00:17:04.559 in humans. One emerging theory that requires further study is 306 00:17:04.599 --> 00:17:08.359 that a woman's immune system may also remember bad pregnancy 307 00:17:08.440 --> 00:17:11.839 outcomes and much the same way it remembers good outcomes. 308 00:17:12.440 --> 00:17:15.720 The challenge will be to identify specifically what a mother's 309 00:17:15.759 --> 00:17:18.960 immune system retains from a pregnancy with a poor outcome. 310 00:17:20.000 --> 00:17:22.799 If we can isolate how those mechanisms differ from a 311 00:17:22.799 --> 00:17:26.000 healthy outcome, then we would have a target for developing 312 00:17:26.079 --> 00:17:31.319 improved treatments to improve outcomes. And high risk pregnancies. This 313 00:17:31.640 --> 00:17:35.240 also gets into vaccine research. The about the study here, 314 00:17:36.720 --> 00:17:38.400 it just gives all of the doctors. It gives a 315 00:17:38.440 --> 00:17:41.920 study information. It's on there. But this study basically says that, 316 00:17:44.559 --> 00:17:47.480 and this is from twenty twenty three. It's saying that 317 00:17:47.519 --> 00:17:50.240 scientists have known for decades that pregnancy requires a mother's 318 00:17:50.279 --> 00:17:52.880 body to adjust so that her immune system does not 319 00:17:53.039 --> 00:17:56.000 attack the growing fetus as if it were a hostile 320 00:17:56.079 --> 00:17:59.200 foreign invader. Yet, despite learning a great deal more about 321 00:17:59.200 --> 00:18:02.519 the immunology of pregnancy in recent years, a new study 322 00:18:02.559 --> 00:18:05.000 shows that cellular cross talk between a mother and her 323 00:18:05.000 --> 00:18:08.839 offspring is even more complex and long lasting than than 324 00:18:09.000 --> 00:18:14.079 expected by investigating how prior pregnancy changes the outcome of 325 00:18:14.119 --> 00:18:18.200 future pregnancies. This is why I copied the article because 326 00:18:18.200 --> 00:18:21.759 he's saying that they're imprinting on the woman and now 327 00:18:21.799 --> 00:18:24.559 they're primed to have babies with that person. That's not true, 328 00:18:24.599 --> 00:18:29.279 that that implies genetic imprinting. Knowing that a woman's body 329 00:18:29.400 --> 00:18:32.279 changes once she has a baby to recognize that the 330 00:18:32.359 --> 00:18:35.480 fetus is not a foreign hostile invader, It's a very 331 00:18:35.480 --> 00:18:40.079 different conversation than what's being stated in these videos. By 332 00:18:40.119 --> 00:18:44.359 investigating how prior pregnancy changes the outcome of future pregnancies, or, 333 00:18:44.400 --> 00:18:47.440 in other words, how mothers remember their babies. Our findings 334 00:18:47.480 --> 00:18:50.680 add a new dimension to our understanding of how pregnancy works. 335 00:18:51.440 --> 00:18:55.960 Nature has designed built in resiliency in mothers that generally 336 00:18:56.000 --> 00:18:59.960 reduce the risk of preterm birth, proclamsia, and still birth 337 00:19:00.160 --> 00:19:03.759 women who have had prior healthy pregnancies. If we can 338 00:19:03.880 --> 00:19:07.079 learn ways to mimic these strategies, we may be better 339 00:19:07.160 --> 00:19:12.160 able to prevent complications in high risk pregnancies and in addition, 340 00:19:13.160 --> 00:19:16.279 in addition to potentially making progress against the leading cause 341 00:19:16.319 --> 00:19:20.640 of infant mortality, Way says Way as a scientist, Way says, 342 00:19:21.039 --> 00:19:24.599 understanding how the immune system changes during pregnancy could influence 343 00:19:24.640 --> 00:19:28.799 other research fields, including vaccine development, autoimmunity research, and how 344 00:19:28.839 --> 00:19:32.559 to prevent organ transplant rejections. Gets into the way that 345 00:19:32.599 --> 00:19:35.480 moms remember their babies. You guys can read these articles 346 00:19:35.480 --> 00:19:37.720 if you want to. But there's nothing in here. I 347 00:19:37.799 --> 00:19:40.119 literally looked last night for over an hour. I found nothing. 348 00:19:40.599 --> 00:19:45.839 I did not find a single actual PubMed National Library 349 00:19:45.839 --> 00:19:49.960 of Health article, did not find anything that indicates that 350 00:19:50.440 --> 00:19:53.240 there is genetic imprinting. I did not see anything about 351 00:19:53.279 --> 00:19:56.319 priming a fetus because you have a baby with a man. 352 00:19:56.960 --> 00:20:01.160 I didn't see anything that confirmed that our DNA or 353 00:20:01.200 --> 00:20:04.319 a sperm somehow ends up in the woman's brain. This 354 00:20:04.359 --> 00:20:07.680 is a narrative that has been twisted, sounds good, and 355 00:20:07.720 --> 00:20:11.000 has been regurgitated so much that people take it for fact. 356 00:20:11.559 --> 00:20:15.079 This is mass manipulation, guys. This is because you don't 357 00:20:15.160 --> 00:20:17.480 do the fucking research. You guys, hear something that sounds 358 00:20:17.480 --> 00:20:19.640 good or it fits a narrative that you already believe, 359 00:20:20.079 --> 00:20:22.559 gives you more evidence to fire off at people, and 360 00:20:22.599 --> 00:20:25.720 you believe the shit. Do your fucking research. If you 361 00:20:25.759 --> 00:20:28.240 hear something that you are unsure of, go to Google, 362 00:20:28.519 --> 00:20:31.519 do the fucking research and find out if there's truth 363 00:20:31.559 --> 00:20:34.000 behind it. If you are repeating something that you have 364 00:20:34.119 --> 00:20:37.839 never researched, you you are you could be spreading misinformation, 365 00:20:38.400 --> 00:20:44.319 you could be You're a sheep. Where where is the research? 366 00:20:44.440 --> 00:20:46.839 Where's the I want to understand how this is happening. 367 00:20:47.079 --> 00:20:51.039 Where's the I'm gonna I'm gonna be factual so that 368 00:20:51.119 --> 00:20:53.160 in the event that this is question, I am able 369 00:20:53.200 --> 00:20:55.880 to give an answer because real shit. If I would 370 00:20:55.880 --> 00:20:58.799 have regurgitated that shit yesterday and did not do the research, 371 00:20:59.119 --> 00:21:01.200 and somebody tried to questioned me on it, I'd be like, well, 372 00:21:01.200 --> 00:21:03.319 I saw it on YouTube, saw it on TikTok, It's 373 00:21:03.319 --> 00:21:05.240 got to be true, right, Like somebody on TikTok said 374 00:21:05.240 --> 00:21:07.519 that shit he was wearing a suit had to be factual. 375 00:21:08.079 --> 00:21:12.240 Come on, guys, back to yesterday's video. I don't like 376 00:21:12.319 --> 00:21:15.400 the term ran through. That makes it sound like this 377 00:21:15.400 --> 00:21:18.119 this person had a one night's stand or is just 378 00:21:18.160 --> 00:21:21.079 out fucking a bunch of dudes. And you know, my 379 00:21:21.240 --> 00:21:24.960 wife has two kids from the same person. That's not 380 00:21:25.119 --> 00:21:27.759 being ran through. She was in a relationship for a 381 00:21:27.799 --> 00:21:31.359 really long time with this person. They were married. Like, 382 00:21:31.519 --> 00:21:34.160 that's not the same thing as just meeting a girl 383 00:21:34.240 --> 00:21:36.119 on the street that's you know, and finding out later 384 00:21:36.119 --> 00:21:39.720 that she's got six kids from four fucking dads. This 385 00:21:39.759 --> 00:21:42.519 is a different conversation. The problem is is with what 386 00:21:42.640 --> 00:21:46.920 he's saying, there's no context. He's providing the information which 387 00:21:46.960 --> 00:21:49.559 is telling the story that supports the narrative that he's 388 00:21:49.599 --> 00:21:53.640 trying to tell without the other context there. Because of 389 00:21:53.680 --> 00:21:56.599 the Internet, because of social media, because of content creators 390 00:21:56.599 --> 00:21:59.160 that speak the things that this man is speaking, we 391 00:21:59.279 --> 00:22:02.000 now have a very surface level understanding of things. We 392 00:22:02.079 --> 00:22:03.839 don't know if any of it's true because I've heard 393 00:22:03.880 --> 00:22:05.599 this over and over again and I haven't done the 394 00:22:05.599 --> 00:22:08.400 research to find out if it's real or not. But 395 00:22:08.559 --> 00:22:10.279 now that I've heard it so much, it must be true. 396 00:22:10.319 --> 00:22:12.440 So many people are talking about it, right, like that's 397 00:22:12.559 --> 00:22:15.960 the mindset of so many people. I saw something last 398 00:22:16.039 --> 00:22:19.880 night on Facebook that said that there was human like 399 00:22:20.119 --> 00:22:24.200 DNA found in an asteroid that was two billion years old, 400 00:22:24.960 --> 00:22:26.920 and like it looked like a science thing. There was 401 00:22:26.920 --> 00:22:28.960