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Speaker 1: I made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Face sunny sun on I hadurdasion yet.

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Speaker 1: Night to what's up everybody?

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Speaker 2: Hey, hey, happy Labor Day. Yay, it's the next day,

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but so what.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah it's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: Hope you guys had a great day off for those

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of you who still are employed, right, Hope you got

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out of the house, went to the mall.

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Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, got your nails done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got your hair died, just mixed it up

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and mingled with friends, went to a big party.

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Speaker 1: You know. Labor Day. Yeah, Labor Day. Oh my god,

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I'm so over COVID. I know, I'm done. I'm none.

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I know, I am too, I am too. I'm done. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Although there's no traffic today, that was nice. By the way,

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what happened with the traffic situation? There was no traffic

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and now there's a ton of traffic. Remember I missed

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those days when I was driving Italia around the city

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at five o'clock with no anything, no problem.

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Speaker 1: Most of the time, it's not bad, it's.

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Speaker 2: Not bad, but it gets gotten more congested, that's for sure.

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But today was a breeze, that's for sure. Oh yeah,

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combination of COVID and Labor Day, right, so I was

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we had a We was Your Family drama on Patreon

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this week. Guys, sign up, Yeah, five dollars to hear

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about that.

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Speaker 1: And at the very end of it, I was going.

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Speaker 3: To tell you that Xander, So this is a maybe,

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I don't know if it's a complaint.

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Speaker 1: I think you're going to relate with Sonny.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Xander has a great personality, he really does.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he had a funny kid. He makes me laugh

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really hard.

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Speaker 3: He I told you about the time we were at

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Starbucks and he was just like making me laugh, legit,

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belly laugh at the funny things.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I know that kid's got a good sense of humors.

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Speaker 2: This Halloween costume from last year that was genius, very very.

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Speaker 1: And he's such a good kid.

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Speaker 3: But so here's the thing, though, he's so like I

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think my kids, and I'm not talking about Elbe here,

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just Sadie and Xander. They've been home for so long, isolated,

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and neither one of them had a lot of friends

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to begin with.

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Speaker 1: But now it's like.

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Speaker 3: So Sadie has Sadie has one friend that was like

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her closest friend before this everything shut down, and that

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friend has an autoimmune has immune issues.

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Speaker 1: From birth, so the mom is super paranoid, like, will

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not let her. She's she's I don't think she's left

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the house since this end. So that was in.

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Speaker 3: March, March, April, May, June, July, August. Now we're into September,

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we're into like seven months. She saw her one time

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because the mom said, my daughter's going crazy. She really

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wants to see Sadie, but she she wouldn't let her

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come over to our house.

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Speaker 1: So she said she can come over.

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Speaker 3: They can be in the backyard for two hours with

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masks on and sit six feet apart.

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Speaker 1: That's good, that's something.

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Speaker 3: So you know, Sadie was just like seriously, but she

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took it because it was like she really wanted to

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see her friend. But then after that, they nothing. I

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talked to that mom recently and she was like, yeah,

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we have to try that again. But hello, yesterday it

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was one hundred and eighteen degrees, so that's not going

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to happen for a while. Meanwhile, she has one other

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friend that I think I told you last week came

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over so they had a great time. She came over again. No,

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so here's the thing. But okay, so I feel like

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I have to now push them. I feel like they

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almost just got used to it, and now it's almost

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like an imposition to hang out with somebody because they're

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so used to like not having to.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say they're lazy, but yeah, they're late.

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They got really lazy.

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Speaker 3: They like to sleep in and play video games, and

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neither one of them can be bothered to do anything.

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See friends to the point that so Xander has a friend,

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I'm with you, sister, that he has he has a friend,

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and both of them are kind of the same way

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that his friend's mom is a friend of mine.

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Speaker 1: I love her.

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Speaker 2: She's agreed, she agrees with me. She can't get her

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son to go do stuff either. And we were basically

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like talked on the phone.

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Speaker 3: We're like, we got to get our kids them together, right,

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So so I told, Okay, I hope she doesn't listen

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to this, but it doesn't matter, right, I tell we

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talk about everything.

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Speaker 1: But so Xander was supposed to go over to their house.

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Speaker 3: They have like a nice house with a big pool

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and it's fun, lots of stuff to kind of do, right,

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but he and it's not.

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Speaker 1: We don't live in like a shithole.

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Speaker 3: But it's and we can use that pool and I store.

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But I told you it's kind of ghetto because we

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have to climb my fence.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's all right, But the point.

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Speaker 3: The point is a lot of times they go over

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to his house just because he was in a nice

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house and there's a pool right there in the summer.

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So I told Xander, you're gonna hang out with a

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let's just call his friend Mac.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you're.

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Speaker 3: Gonna hang out with Mac and he was like, oh, okay, great.

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And they go through long periods where they just don't

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see each other. It's I feel like it's like sunny,

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like not seeing Jensen or something where you're like, you know,

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they're really good friends. It's not like they had a

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falling out, right, But they never take the initiative to

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like get together.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, have you talked to Mac?

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Speaker 3: And he's like, yeah, we've been we've been online or

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facetiming or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, well do you want to get together?

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Speaker 3: So he goes, Okay, what is these can you don't

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see anybody for weeks and weeks on end and I'm

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offering you to see somebody. And because I think he

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just gets so used to just being and I think

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he gets used to not having to compromise at all,

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because if he's hanging out with Sadie and he gets.

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Speaker 1: Done, right, he's like I'm done.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, either he had a room or he goes all right,

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I'm going to go play roadblocks now and leaves. So

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they hang out, but it's such a feeling of ease

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because he never has to host her. He never has Hey,

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what do you want to do like normal fucking people

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that are having a human relationship, or you have to

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go what do you want to do?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Like, how are you ever going to get married or

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spend a lot of time with somebody if you can't

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just so anyway, So I said, had you brought this up?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, it's getting dangerous, And Sadie like, I

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told you the day that remember when we were talking

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last week, the day I told you she had the

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play date with that girl?

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay girl, And I.

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Speaker 3: Remember I told you that the girl was going to

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go to the beach and the mom was like, come

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meet us at the beach.

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Speaker 1: And I told Sadie and she was like, hmm, it's

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my girl.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, you've been talking about getting together

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with this girl. You guys have never hung out together.

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She's inviting you to come to the beach, and you're like.

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Speaker 2: Huh, how, what the fuck else are you doing? And

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she she said, I don't know. She's like, I just

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feel like relaxing.

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Speaker 1: I was like, that, bitch, that's all you do is

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relax your whole life. It's relaxation. Right now, we're in quarantine.

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She needs to chillax. Yeah, that's all.

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Speaker 3: She's like, well, it's been a long week, you know,

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the school thing. I just was hoping to just relax.

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Speaker 2: Right. She's stressed, as you say, you say you have

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a certain way a linette wave of a relax.

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Speaker 3: And she's just like, I just want to relax. So

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I was like, okay, so that what happened. Is what

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happened is she was relaxing and the other girl went

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to the beach and then was like, well, this isn't

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really that fun. I want to I'd rather hang out

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with Sadie. So then I told you this story last

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week and mom was like, all right, they want to

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get together, I'll bring.

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Speaker 1: Her over that bless that mom, by the way, great mom.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So then they ended up having a great day,

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so much fun all day long, so many laughs. Okay,

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so this weekend, the girl was with her dad. So

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I had texted the mom and hey, we got to

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get together, get these girls together again. She goes, yeah,

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she's with her dad this weekend, but definitely next weekend

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or or but I know she's around.

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Speaker 1: I think she was implying like, I'm not talking to

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my ex husband.

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Speaker 3: But but Sadie's welcome to, like, see, invite her over

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or hangout or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Right, So I bring that up to Sadie. I was like,

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did you did you?

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Speaker 3: Could you want to reach out to her and see

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if she wants to do anything, and she's like, yeah,

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never did, And then later oh okay. So but back

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to the Xander thing for a second. So I talked

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to the mom. I make the plans right, because he won't.

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Speaker 2: Even though he's twelve years old, fully capable of inviting

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somebody over, he doesn't make plans.

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Speaker 3: So I call the mom. I'm like, we got to

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get them together. She goes, great, how about Sunday?

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Speaker 1: Go perfect? I tell Xander, Xander, you're hanging out with

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mac on Sunday. He goes, okay.

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Speaker 3: So Sunday comes around and she says, Okay, I'm going

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to bring him over. Basically, she says that her in

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laws have been over. She implies that she's had kind

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of a busy few days, and she's like, so can

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Speaker 2: Can you not come over until like two? And I

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said yeah, And I said, but he can also, he's

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welcome to come to us, and then.

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Speaker 3: She says, oh, you know what he'd really like to

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do that. She goes, I think he wants to get

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out of the house. And I was like, great, right,

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so I go, Xander Mac's gonna come over here. Now

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we're on a podcast, so you can't see my face

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or his face, my impression of him. But he was like,

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uh oh, And I said, you told him, like yeah,

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And so if I told him I'm just going to

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poke you with a hot stick real quick before he

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comes over, do you mind?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was.

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Speaker 2: Like like that's not necessary, and I knew it was

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because he was going to be He's like Sonny where

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he was like, oh, im position right in position, like,

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but I have my routine and now I have to

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come up with stuff to do. And then he goes,

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you know, he just doesn't really.

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Speaker 3: Like to do anything but make tiktoks. And he was

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complaining about his friend, his only fucking friend. He's one friend,

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and he's complaining like, oh, he's not like as if

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he's not that fun, right, which is one not really true,

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he's a lower key kid, but also it's Xander's own

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fault too, because it's not like Xander's always coming up

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with great stuff for them to do, and no one

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really can do.

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Speaker 1: Much of anything anyway because of COVID.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, Xander, I go, it's been like

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six weeks since you've seen another friend. I said, I'm sorry,

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but you're gonna you might have to come up with

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some stuff to do.

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Speaker 1: He's going to do it. He's not going to go like, no,

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I only want to.

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Speaker 3: Make tiktoks, right, And then I have to say, you know,

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we'll have fun. You guys can swim next door, or

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I'll play new phone hoods. Remember the card game I

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told you about. I go, I'll play a game with

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you guys.

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Speaker 2: And he was like, oh, okay, and I and I said,

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and also it's not endless like he'd come home for

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a few hours. When you talk to him like that,

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does he give you any kind of pushback at all?

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Speaker 3: Little he doesn't. Eventually he just well, I don't I

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don't give an option. I've already told the mom that

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he's welcome to come here. I'm not going to go,

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oh you're not comfortable with that, okay, let me. So

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I was like, good, well that's what's happening. So getting

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a good mood about it, right right, Yeah, he's coming over,

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and you need a friend, put on your texting.

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Speaker 1: You need to do something with other people.

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Speaker 3: Say so okay. So he goes, okay, whatever, Okay. So

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then Matt comes over almost from minute one, already having

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fun like it was like not a problem. Then I

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had to draw. Oh.

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Speaker 1: Then so the mom comes in and we chit chat

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for a while.

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Speaker 3: I love her so much, and she and by the way,

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her son is the same way, like she wouldn't even

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be a feend by this because he gets and we

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were talking about this, they've all gotten into such ruts like.

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Speaker 1: They just don't I do anything.

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Speaker 3: And her son he plays a lot of tennis with her,

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and he's gotten very like just used to kind of

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hanging out with her and hanging out with my family

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and just goes and just wants to play tennis with her.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't seen any of them.

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Speaker 3: He saw one other friend for like one afternoon, but

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they get so used to not doing anything, so anyway,

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so then she leaves, So then I go and I

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have to drive Albe somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I come back. They were in the pool for a

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long time. Then they came back.

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Speaker 3: Then there was NonStop laughter, like they were clearly having

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the best time.

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Speaker 1: And then they were like, hey, do you want to

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play the game?

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Speaker 3: And I said yeah, and then and then they I

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had ordered him, I'd ordered a bunch of pizza and stuff,

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pizza and wings, you know, because I'm a really good mom.

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I'm always overdoing it whenever there's like.

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Speaker 1: A and I'm like, you're like a dance monkey. Oh

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my god.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to make it the best goddamn

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playdate anybody's ever playdated.

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Speaker 1: At, like, which never does any good. No, I know.

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I'm like, I'm now, you're exhaust What do you want

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on your pizza? And MA get you your own pizza?

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What do you dream about? It's like cheese. I'm like,

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come on, it's kind of mommy, you pineapple and all

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of us Google, go for it. I don't care. We

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don't like that pizza, but I'll get it just for you.

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Get your own pizza. You just want cheese.

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Speaker 2: I know some of these brownie cookie things Domino's come

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out with. Let's get too, Let's have two orders of each,

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have your own order nine pieces each. And he's like, wow,

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I'm exhausted from Xander's mom.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, do you guys want to make a TikTok?

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To make a TikTok?

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Speaker 2: And now you don't even get any relief because you're

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trying to do the song.

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Speaker 3: And right I'm having the play date. You can't believe

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I'm standing at a playdate. I set it up, I'm

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figuring out.

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Speaker 1: I'm putting.

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Speaker 3: I'm putting together the itinerary like Julie from The Love Boat.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay. Then at at four point thirty on

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the lido deck, there's gonna be new phone who is?

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Speaker 2: And at six point thirty, we're gonna do a dance

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party in the living room. If you don't want to

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do it, you stay in your cabin like that's on you.

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Speaker 1: But there's fun to be had out of here. Scavenger hunt, sure,

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step right up. So okay.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, they have such a good time, right, and

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then we do then we eat dinner, and we play

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this game, and then they want to sleep over. So

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of course I'm like so happy for sure, Like Xander

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ends up having the best time. Oh meanwhile, and Sadie

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had a great time too. But also meanwhile, Sadie was like,

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I said, why don't you invite over your friend who

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you know, let's make this a real party. Well, Xander's

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having Mac over, so you know, I mean, he's just

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gonna end up wanting to play with me and my friend.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's just got to puss on, as you

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would like, just yeah, and I knew that.

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Speaker 3: The reason why was she's just feeling put out by

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the fact that Xander was going to have a friend over.

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And when she has her friend over, Xander is way

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more outgoing, so he horns in on that, right, But

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when he has a friend, he doesn't really let Sadie

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horn in on them. Oh he doesn't, not really does

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she try?

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Speaker 1: Not really? That's why she just does her own thing.

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Speaker 3: But so she's like so she's acting depressed, so it's like, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Whack them all. I'm like, oh, this one's.

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Speaker 3: Finally connecting with somebody. But now I got to deal

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with her a bad attitude, you know.

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Speaker 1: I know, it's so exhausting all to get one thing

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on the books.

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Speaker 3: All they get one time that they're hanging out with

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somebody because I don't, I have to break up this

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like they have no social life, and so we.

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Speaker 2: Have to do this until at least January. I'm gonna

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I know, I don't understand what I mean. I'm glad

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you brought this up because I have the same issues

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with Sonny. Jesus, this kid, it's the same as what

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your friend was saying, Like he leans on me most

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of the time to do stuff. Last night, it was

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like eighty nine degrees outside at ten o'clock at night.

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I'm in my pajamas. He comes in, You want to

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go for a walk? Walk? What this kid? He's like, yeah,

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I got I got too much energy. That's the other

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thing is he has a lot of energy. He has

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to get out, and he wanted to go for a walk,

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and you know, and then I feel like, yeah, he's right.

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He didn't do much today. He didn't get a lot

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of energy out all right, Like what else am I doing?

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Speaker 1: It's you know, a.

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Speaker 2: Graded steps on the pool. That's what I said, you know,

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but no he wants to. He's I'll just go by myself.

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Then I'm like no, no, And then of course Adam

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walks by and goes, I'll let him go. Put give

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him a flashlight. He's fine, just go up the street

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and back. Sonny like no. So then I feel like

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I have to go.

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Speaker 1: You know, Adam won't go with him.

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Speaker 2: That's what Sonny says. Sonny goes, why don't you go

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with me? And he's like, well, now, listen, a mom

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can go.

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Speaker 1: I know. It's just I'm like that, there's gonna be

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a reason. All right, listen, sit down, son let me

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let me tell you something. Mom can go.

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Speaker 2: Right, Ask her again, go ask her again. She needs

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a sob story one more time, you know. And then

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it's like, well maybe we should take Phil And I

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was like no, all right.

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Speaker 1: So then we went on a walk and he's like

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the story of my life. No, all right, all right,

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it is right. I mean you know the other thing too,

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with the first response is no to everything.

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Speaker 2: And then I'm like, all right, all right, I know

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the thing is is I ground Natalia for a day.

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Speaker 1: The other day because she left a huge mess in the.

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Speaker 2: Theater, right I remember, yes, Oh, in the theater. A

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different story, different story. I said, that's it grounded, and

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then I leave. I was here right, or that was

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something else that was.

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Speaker 1: The the making a cake and then taking off. Fucking

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I forgot about that nightmare. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: See, she has this tradition of leaving a mess, mess,

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a mess, thinking I'm just gonna come right in, and

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so she left another mess and I said, okay, then

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you're not. You know, because every day after school she'd

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go on a walk with her friend Devin around that

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the you know, neighborhood come back.

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Speaker 1: But this time I was like.

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Speaker 2: But but then I'm I'm torn because they're in COVID

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and she's like, please, I learned my lesson, Please I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I've been stuck in this house, you know. And she's

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got a point.

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Speaker 2: You know, she's been She's been in the house every

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day doing her schoolwork, not getting not doing anything. And

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she's the most outgoing social butterfly. And I can't contain

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that sometimes and I'm like and then I look like, okay,

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all right, all right, leave me alone, go out.

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Speaker 1: So Sonny is the same way and he won't.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't, like we've talked about before, he doesn't have

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his friends to come over. He doesn't want to have

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his friends come over. He doesn't want to feel like

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a host. He likes being able to just play with

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them online and when they be like you done got

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yah right, I've had enough of you buy so it's

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it it And I get that, and I get his

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friends are that way as well. And like a lot

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of the boys, don't, you know, they don't walk, they

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don't hang out with their friends like the girls are.

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I drive around the neighborhood, I see all the girls

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walking together. Never see any of the boys really, And

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it's but let's say Sonny wants to have a walk

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at night. He's fourteen, Yeah, can't he just he has

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friends in the neighborhood, right, not very close like that?

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Oh she does.

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Speaker 3: Is there anybody that's like even just a tiny bit far,

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that's like five minutes away that you could just go

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that their parents could drop them off and they could

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just go for a walk.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, not at ten o'clock at night, but yeah, yeah,

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I mean in general, Yeah, but he doesn't want to.

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He feels that if he does that then it's gonna,

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you know, lead into his I don't know, relaxation time, right.

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Speaker 1: Yes, what is that? What the hell?

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Speaker 2: That's all I do is relax right, that's your life

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is a relax right, I know. I mean it's insanity.

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And I feel like he's constantly looking at me, you know,

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to do stuff. You want to go outside and play basketball? No,

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I don't want to go in the pool. No?

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Speaker 1: Right, how my friend over to do that? Right? And

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then I can't say no because I feel guilty, Like

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what else? Am I?

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Speaker 2: All?

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Speaker 1: Right? Okay?

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Speaker 2: You know I always say, you know, it's a good exercise.

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Sonny keeps me going.

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Speaker 1: And then you get torn. I know you do too,

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where you're like, I mean, there's.

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Speaker 3: A part of you that's like, well this is a

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I mean, later I'm going to look back and go, oh,

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I should have spent more time with him when he

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wanted to hang out with me. There's going to come

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a time where he doesn't want to hang out with me.

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But then there's also a part of you that's like,

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but this is not normal that he wants to hang

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out with me all the time exactly.

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Speaker 2: But then I think, like, is it because of you know,

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he probably would be doing hanging out with his friends more.

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I mean, I know he would be. But now he

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doesn't even want to do basketball. The basketball is starting up,

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doing small groups, her volleyball starting up, and she's going

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she's already working out two days a week with her

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coach one on one. Now she's got this whole. The

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tryouts are coming, they're going to do the tryouts. Same

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with him now with the basketball, and he's like, no,

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I think I'm done. I don't want to, you know,

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And I get it, but I get why he doesn't

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want to do it because you know, he's not the

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star athlete in basketball, but that was what was giving

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him a lot of getting his exercise, getting his social

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you know needs met And now he doesn't even want

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00:21:45,799 --> 00:21:48,480
to do that. And it just kind of scares me,

469
00:21:48,599 --> 00:21:50,240
Like I don't know what am I supposed to do?

470
00:21:50,599 --> 00:21:53,720
And now I'm like, okay, what else he wants to do?

471
00:21:53,839 --> 00:21:54,160
Speaker 1: Track?

472
00:21:54,319 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 2: He wants to do track, but I keep telling him, well,

473
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,720
then sign up for track at school. They are doing,

474
00:21:58,759 --> 00:21:59,799
they're doing little things.

475
00:22:00,039 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 1: He doesn't do it. What am I supposed to do?

476
00:22:02,079 --> 00:22:05,079
Speaker 2: Be that crazy, controlling mom that jumps in and says

477
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,160
all right, I'll sign you up, you know, I just

478
00:22:08,279 --> 00:22:11,799
I don't know what else to do with with It's hard.

479
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 1: I had to with LB.

480
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 3: I mean it was a year later because it was

481
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,960
this year, but when she didn't want to do basketball,

482
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,039
and I knew the reason why, very similar to Sonny,

483
00:22:23,279 --> 00:22:26,559
was because she wasn't pulled up to JV. Remember from

484
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,119
she played on the fresh soft team and the other

485
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,200
girls got called up to the big show JV.

486
00:22:35,319 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 2: A stupid it's not even varsity, but whatever, it's the

487
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:42,559
next step for them for sophomore year. These other girls

488
00:22:42,599 --> 00:22:46,839
were being asked and she was just like, oh, okay,

489
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:52,599
I'm not It's not about the love of basketball. I

490
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,440
know Sonny is more loves it more. But the point

491
00:22:55,519 --> 00:22:56,559
is then.

492
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,880
Speaker 3: She was like, well I want I think I want

493
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to cheerleading because her friends are doing it and asking

494
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:03,319
her to do it.

495
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,599
Speaker 1: But same thing where she wasn't.

496
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,559
Speaker 2: Going to take the initiative and sign up, and it

497
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,920
was I had to keep digging and going, well, so

498
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,400
what are you gonna do? Are you going to play basketball?

499
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:17,039
I don't think so. Well are you trying out for cheerleading?

500
00:23:17,559 --> 00:23:20,759
Speaker 1: M h, I don't know, but she was the night

501
00:23:20,839 --> 00:23:22,920
before no that she was going to miss.

502
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 2: The I remember the registration and I said, I'll be

503
00:23:26,319 --> 00:23:29,440
If you're going to leave yourself with nothing, then why

504
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,880
don't you at least give yourself the opportunity to have

505
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,720
a choice like sign up?

506
00:23:34,079 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 3: She went, I mean at that point, I was like,

507
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,640
I can't do it for you. Yeah, so sign up

508
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,559
if you want to even have an opportunity. And then

509
00:23:41,599 --> 00:23:44,680
she did, but at the last second.

510
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 2: Right, and she loved it. See that's what I'm gonna

511
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,839
have to do with him. There's the track. There's also

512
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,519
a mountain bike team, which I think he would like,

513
00:23:51,759 --> 00:23:55,039
and he's talked about it. But again it's like it's

514
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,960
all talk. And then when I say did you sign

515
00:23:57,039 --> 00:23:58,920
up or do you want to sign up or anything

516
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,359
like that, no, really, or I will. It's either no

517
00:24:02,599 --> 00:24:04,480
or I will. And I told him, I said, you

518
00:24:04,559 --> 00:24:07,079
have to get a sport going. You know, there are

519
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,319
some things that are starting back up. You got to

520
00:24:09,319 --> 00:24:12,759
get into it. What are his friends doing? I really don't.

521
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,000
His one good friend is doing mountain biking, and then

522
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,720
his other friends who are great at basketball are doing basketball. Well,

523
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,240
they're doing their you know, their drills again and they're

524
00:24:22,279 --> 00:24:25,079
getting back into it. But you know, the team that

525
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,440
he was on the travel team he was on, they're

526
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,680
all going back. The coach asked me to Sonny want

527
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,319
to come back, and because they got jipped out of

528
00:24:32,319 --> 00:24:34,880
going to Vegas this day, he said he's gonna make

529
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,799
it so that they can go next year. And Sonny

530
00:24:37,839 --> 00:24:39,680
was excited when he heard that. And then it came

531
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,480
down to it and he was like, no, I'm gonna pass.

532
00:24:42,519 --> 00:24:43,519
I think I'm gonna do track.

533
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,599
Speaker 1: Oh really yeah? Yeah.

534
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,839
Speaker 2: And here's where I want Adam to step up because

535
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,640
this would be perfect for him to get involved. That's

536
00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:55,720
the thing that Adam needs to do with Sonny. Get

537
00:24:55,799 --> 00:24:59,519
him going, get him involved, getting interested in sports. Talk

538
00:24:59,599 --> 00:25:02,640
to him, you know, kind of make him do it.

539
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,839
If he's not going to do basketball, do something else.

540
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,920
But why do I have to I have to be

541
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,559
his best friend, his bff and his parent getting him

542
00:25:10,599 --> 00:25:11,559
back into the sports.

543
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 3: You know, It's just it's I wonder if this is

544
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,519
a common thing right now. I wonder if a lot

545
00:25:18,559 --> 00:25:20,960
of us are feeling like we have to be everything

546
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:25,400
to our kids and continue having careers right and keep

547
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,960
up our own friendships.

548
00:25:26,519 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 2: Keep up our own mental health. Keep up our physical health.

549
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:34,319
Like it's a freaking lot right now. I swim because

550
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:35,279
of you the other day.

551
00:25:36,039 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: How did it go? Is that right now?

552
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,759
Speaker 2: I thought of you the whole time, And you know,

553
00:25:41,559 --> 00:25:44,559
it's a whole cashat it is. It's a big casina,

554
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,720
big casino. You got your hair up, get it wet,

555
00:25:48,839 --> 00:25:51,640
put it in the shower, take a shower. It's forced

556
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,240
me to take more showers. Yeah, that's true. I'm never

557
00:25:54,279 --> 00:25:54,960
even cleaner.

558
00:25:55,599 --> 00:25:57,319
Speaker 1: No, this hout went.

559
00:25:57,519 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 2: I said, I'm going for a swim after dinner. I'll

560
00:26:00,079 --> 00:26:03,559
so too from both of them and the dog.

561
00:26:04,039 --> 00:26:06,279
Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is.

562
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: Not what if Stephanie say she did, Like how did

563
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:10,920
she get away from the kids?

564
00:26:11,599 --> 00:26:14,559
Speaker 1: Yeah? Everybody was out there with me, And you're right,

565
00:26:14,599 --> 00:26:15,160
you can't.

566
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,599
Speaker 2: Listen to anything, so all right, I know it's a

567
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,160
that's the worst part.

568
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,799
Speaker 1: It's like I need I'm Badlynnette.

569
00:26:22,839 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 3: Like, even when I'm walking the dog, I have I'll

570
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,359
have like four things going. I'll be playing a game

571
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,920
on my phones while I walk and listening to a

572
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,680
podcast and then just chit chatting with the neighbor or

573
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,559
talking on the phone, or I go back and forth.

574
00:26:35,599 --> 00:26:38,640
I can't my mind can never be quiet now, I know,

575
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,960
even just walking the dog. Honestly, even just walking the

576
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,559
dog and listening to a podcast not enough business for

577
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,160
my mind. Right, gotta get something else. My mind needs

578
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,720
a lot going on. My mind's like this is all.

579
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 2: I need a challenge. Yeah, don't you want to be

580
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,880
playing scrabble. Don't you have some scrabble games that are unfinished?

581
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I know, open as grabble.

582
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 2: My favorite is watching ninety Day Fiance while I do

583
00:27:05,799 --> 00:27:09,559
give myself manicure and patticure while talking on the phone

584
00:27:09,559 --> 00:27:11,880
to Wendy and in the middle.

585
00:27:11,799 --> 00:27:15,440
Speaker 1: Playing Fortnite in between. I was doing that the other day,

586
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,720
going what the hell you know?

587
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:22,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you listening to? Any podcast recommendation?

588
00:27:23,279 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 3: Well, I it's bad. I am really so easily bored.

589
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: I try.

590
00:27:30,319 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 3: I've tried a bunch of ones that people told me

591
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,079
are good, like something about a priest, smoke screen, smoke

592
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,200
screen priest.

593
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: Some wasn't there.

594
00:27:38,319 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 2: Something from the Dirty John people, dirty Sally or so

595
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,720
I don't know some girl's name, oh that we saw

596
00:27:45,759 --> 00:27:46,119
so many.

597
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: One of our people on the board said, dirty Sally.

598
00:27:49,759 --> 00:27:51,680
I'll have to learn to the Allie it's something like that.

599
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,680
She said. It was from the people that did.

600
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: That wondering dirty dirty John and the other one that

601
00:27:58,039 --> 00:27:58,319
he did.

602
00:27:58,519 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: And by the way, did you see the Broderick Yeah?

603
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,039
Did you like it? I think I watched most of it.

604
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,519
Speaker 3: I lost interest in that too because and then but

605
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,680
I did go back and watch the Lifetime movie you

606
00:28:10,799 --> 00:28:13,799
did and reminded myself how great it is. So good,

607
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,680
So goll in love with Meredith Baxter over again. Oh

608
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,240
my god, she's good great, so that something good came

609
00:28:20,279 --> 00:28:20,559
out of it.

610
00:28:20,599 --> 00:28:22,599
Speaker 1: Remember when we had what's the girl on?

611
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,880
Speaker 2: That was in prison with yes sort and skilled rewind?

612
00:28:28,319 --> 00:28:29,519
Speaker 1: Yes, I loved her.

613
00:28:29,599 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 3: She was from a reality show. I can't remember her name.

614
00:28:32,599 --> 00:28:36,519
And she told us how how Meredith.

615
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,039
Speaker 1: I'mond or something?

616
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 2: Yes?

617
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: Right, and she was on a big like flavor of love.

618
00:28:41,079 --> 00:28:44,319
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yeah new York she was on

619
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,920
with New York, right, I guess I don't remember.

620
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

621
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:53,559
Speaker 3: She was telling us remember about how uh Betty Betty

622
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:57,519
Broderick was had was like the boss, like a total

623
00:28:57,599 --> 00:28:59,799
boss at the prison, and how you had to like

624
00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:02,640
go through like three she had like three people like

625
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,039
you had to basically go through her prison publicist to.

626
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,759
Speaker 1: Get to talk to her. Yeah, like could sit down.

627
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,079
Yeah right, she had like people protecting her.

628
00:29:10,079 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 2: And that's crazy.

629
00:29:13,759 --> 00:29:14,799
Speaker 1: I forgot about that.

630
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,799
Speaker 2: I forgot about the show. I was wanting to watch it,

631
00:29:17,839 --> 00:29:19,279
and I thought about you the other day. It was

632
00:29:19,279 --> 00:29:21,519
like I never asked Stephanie when she saw it.

633
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 3: But now people are talking about watching The Vow, which

634
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,759
is about that sex cult that I got recruited for.

635
00:29:28,839 --> 00:29:31,559
Speaker 1: I love that story. Where is that? What do you mean?

636
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:36,079
What's the Vow? Where is the Vow? Is that next Nexium? Yes? Thing,

637
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,359
I've listened to all the podcasts about it.

638
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 2: Right, So remember when I do you remember the story

639
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:45,000
of how that girl from Smallwood, absolutely small.

640
00:29:44,839 --> 00:29:48,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, small Smallville, Smallville, Smallville, Allison, the main girl from

641
00:29:48,759 --> 00:29:52,440
the story of the of the Ringleader, the Ringleader, Alison

642
00:29:52,559 --> 00:29:55,480
mack Y, How she had direct message to me on

643
00:29:55,519 --> 00:29:59,559
Twitter many years ago, right in like two thousand.

644
00:29:59,279 --> 00:30:01,319
Speaker 1: And nine or what was like, Hey, do you want

645
00:30:01,319 --> 00:30:03,960
to meet up for coffee? That what you did? You

646
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,720
didn't know that she was in a cult at the time, you.

647
00:30:05,839 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 3: Know, So at first I was so excited because I'm like,

648
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,400
I've never been dne by like an actual celebrity.

649
00:30:12,759 --> 00:30:13,799
Speaker 1: Why is this girl?

650
00:30:14,079 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 3: She was like, hey, oh she I think she told

651
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,559
me like to friend her because she wanted to message me,

652
00:30:20,799 --> 00:30:22,599
and I was like, what what.

653
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,759
Speaker 1: Blue check check?

654
00:30:25,599 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 3: So I friend her and then she's like, oh, thanks

655
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:32,160
for like friending me or whatever. Now I wish she'd

656
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,519
said something like, oh, I'm a fan of your podcast.

657
00:30:34,559 --> 00:30:36,000
So I didn't know how she knew me because she

658
00:30:36,079 --> 00:30:38,240
was just like, hey, I was wondering, I wanted to

659
00:30:38,279 --> 00:30:43,799
tell you about this. Uh uh, like I not program,

660
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:45,599
but like this.

661
00:30:45,519 --> 00:30:49,519
Speaker 1: Group I'm in career women or something. Yeah, but it did.

662
00:30:49,559 --> 00:30:51,119
Speaker 3: She didn't say it for career women. If I want

663
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,000
to tell you about this, it's like And then I said, oh,

664
00:30:53,039 --> 00:30:55,279
is it a charity? And she goes, not exactly, it's

665
00:30:55,319 --> 00:30:58,799
like a woman empowerment kind of thing. And I was like, oh, boy,

666
00:30:59,079 --> 00:31:00,880
you know you're coming to the wrong place any kind

667
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,559
of empowerment shit, Yeah, you're barking up the wrong tree.

668
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,880
So before I knew anything about sex cult, I was

669
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,119
already like, this sounds like for a joiner, not for

670
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:10,680
someone like me.

671
00:31:10,799 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: But I was like, as soon as I heard, it.

672
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 2: Sounded like some kind of like thing that was going

673
00:31:16,759 --> 00:31:18,839
to take place in a conference room at a Sheraton

674
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,119
and I was like, I'm out.

675
00:31:21,519 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 1: So then I said, well, oh, so then I said.

676
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: Something where she where. She told me it didn't sound appetizing,

677
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,880
so I kind of ignored her. And then some time

678
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,720
went by and then she reached out again and she

679
00:31:32,799 --> 00:31:35,079
was like, hey, can I meet you for coffee?

680
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,119
Speaker 1: And then I believe that John.

681
00:31:39,759 --> 00:31:41,359
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know what this thing is,

682
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,640
but I'm not interested. She was creeping me out, so

683
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,519
I ignored her. And then years later John was like,

684
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,599
oh my god, that's insane. And she had used the

685
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,319
name I'll put back up the directors recruited for cults.

686
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: I know, well, you got to look at yourself. Are

687
00:31:55,920 --> 00:32:01,480
you sexy enough? I don't think so. I guess not.

688
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,759
Is it so? I think it's so funny.

689
00:32:05,079 --> 00:32:08,799
Speaker 2: I think it's great. I think it's hilarious. Keith Ranary, Yeah,

690
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:09,920
I could have had a brand.

691
00:32:10,359 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you literally you literally could.

692
00:32:12,519 --> 00:32:17,039
Speaker 2: Have a brand. Oh my god. I loved that podcast.

693
00:32:17,079 --> 00:32:19,960
There was like two podcasts about it. I think there

694
00:32:20,039 --> 00:32:22,599
was an episode about it.

695
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:27,319
Speaker 3: And then one was a podcast yeah that was uh,

696
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,359
not sponsored by, but that was like brought to you

697
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,359
by and then they were the same ones that did

698
00:32:32,359 --> 00:32:35,960
They did a couple of different podcasts about different things. Yeah,

699
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,799
and they did like six episodes on Nexium. Yeah it

700
00:32:38,839 --> 00:32:42,000
was really good, right, that's yeah, they weren't the same

701
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,960
people that did the Dream. Right about the multi.

702
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 2: Those people, I keep waiting for something to come out

703
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,799
of them. No, that was great too, the Dream. Yeah,

704
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,799
but then I and then I was, so the vow

705
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:54,799
is the TV show?

706
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:55,279
Speaker 1: It is?

707
00:32:55,319 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 2: It's a TV show. Yeah, that's based on the that thing?

708
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:03,799
Speaker 3: Really? Yeah, people are I think, so, oh write that down. Yeah,

709
00:33:03,799 --> 00:33:05,400
everybody seems to be loving it.

710
00:33:05,279 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: Because I love a good cult. Who doesn't you know

711
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:11,160
what I was thinking.

712
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,599
Speaker 2: To myself the other day. I was watching Italian her

713
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:17,559
friend walking over to my car down by the beach,

714
00:33:18,039 --> 00:33:21,799
and her friend who's adorable, and I love she's got

715
00:33:21,839 --> 00:33:27,880
that all American, all Los Angeles like California blonde beauty,

716
00:33:28,039 --> 00:33:31,000
like she's got that like little freckles. Her hair is

717
00:33:31,279 --> 00:33:34,160
thick and long, like almost down to her ass. And

718
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,480
then there's a Natalia like the brunette. And I'm looking

719
00:33:36,519 --> 00:33:39,359
at them walking over to my car and they're birken stocks,

720
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,200
and I'm like, God, is it wrong? For me to

721
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,359
think that my daughter and her friend look like the

722
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,640
Manson family girls.

723
00:33:48,359 --> 00:33:50,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I did not know where you were

724
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,359
going with that. I said that to Adam. I smarted.

725
00:33:53,599 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna say, like, is it wrong

726
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,240
that I think my daughter and her friend are so

727
00:33:57,279 --> 00:33:58,640
beautiful they could be models?

728
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: And you're like, is that that I think they could

729
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,240
be part of the Manson family.

730
00:34:04,359 --> 00:34:07,119
Speaker 2: I was like, I said that to Adam and he's like, yes,

731
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,440
you're right, they do look like Manson.

732
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: I don't know why. It just hit me. I was like, yeah,

733
00:34:12,679 --> 00:34:15,440
they look like a part of the Manson family. That

734
00:34:15,599 --> 00:34:16,400
is so funny.

735
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do love a good cult. I know

736
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:20,920
I need a new podcast to listen to. And I

737
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,000
can't stop watching that Ninety Day Fiance. It's horrible. Like

738
00:34:25,119 --> 00:34:26,599
I want to get in bed. I want to watch

739
00:34:26,599 --> 00:34:29,760
like a drama and it's calling me. I can't, you know,

740
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,719
like on Sunday night you want to watar drama on

741
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,159
HBO or something, and I get in bed. I'm like,

742
00:34:34,159 --> 00:34:37,159
I'm going to watch something. It just I just it

743
00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:39,960
goes right into I can't. As soon as I pull

744
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,360
up Apple TV, I see it up there. There's just

745
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,000
too many shows. It's too good.

746
00:34:44,159 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 3: Well, remember I told you that John and I kept

747
00:34:47,119 --> 00:34:49,920
trying to get into Breaking Bad. Yeah, years ago when

748
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,800
it was first out, and then we'd watch. We watched

749
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,880
like half a season, and then we gave up because

750
00:34:54,119 --> 00:34:55,880
I don't know, I think the twins were young or

751
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,039
something and it was like too hard, right, and then

752
00:34:58,079 --> 00:35:00,280
we tried again, and then we tried again, and then

753
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,199
finally we're in now I know you and Sonny started

754
00:35:04,199 --> 00:35:06,039
watching it and then he binge and watched the entire

755
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,239
phrased right through it. Well, so we're in season four,

756
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:12,519
and it was so funny because I don't know if

757
00:35:12,519 --> 00:35:14,880
this was end of season three or season four, but

758
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:18,280
we're watching this episode and by the way, it's so good,

759
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,199
and it just keeps getting better. Now that we're in

760
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,920
season four, it's just like every episode is like, holy shit,

761
00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:26,199
I believe it.

762
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 1: This is never Jumped the Shark, No, throughout the whole

763
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:29,440
all of it.

764
00:35:29,639 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 3: Right, So, but we're watching it and we're like, we're

765
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:38,159
watching this one episode it's called the Fly We're trying

766
00:35:38,159 --> 00:35:40,880
to kill. But it's so funny because we're watching it.

767
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,119
We're both like, I'm like, I just the one thing happened,

768
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:48,760
I said, he falls off, Hey, Walt falls off like

769
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:53,440
the second story of their little meth lab place. Doesn't

770
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,880
get hurt, I swear to guy. I look at John,

771
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,119
I go, is this a dream sequence?

772
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: Because everybody had it. Don't get hurt, Like, he didn't

773
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:01,400
get hurt.

774
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 2: His glasses don't break, he doesn't break a tooth. He

775
00:36:05,079 --> 00:36:08,000
falls off onto a cement floor and hits a railing

776
00:36:08,039 --> 00:36:09,880
on the way down, and he finds like he just

777
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,199
kind of gets up. He doesn't have a scrape. And

778
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,159
then John's like, I know that is weird. And then

779
00:36:15,199 --> 00:36:17,840
it goes on and I'm like, what is going on?

780
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,840
I go, what is happening?

781
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:23,119
Speaker 1: This is really annoying. So then like a few.

782
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,639
Speaker 2: Minutes later, John shows me this article and it's like

783
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,960
the Fly is like the worst rated episode of any

784
00:36:30,159 --> 00:36:32,960
of the seasons, of any of the episodes. Everybody hates

785
00:36:33,039 --> 00:36:36,239
this episode. And I was like, oh my god, can

786
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:36,960
we just skip it?

787
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:37,119
Speaker 1: Then?

788
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 3: Is nothing going to happen? And he goes, no, we

789
00:36:39,039 --> 00:36:40,800
got it. We have to see what happens. But I

790
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,199
fell asleep and then later I wake up and I said, okay,

791
00:36:44,199 --> 00:36:46,239
so what happened. Let's move on to the next episode

792
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:47,960
and he's like, well, it's kind of a thing where

793
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,079
like you determine, like what you think happened.

794
00:36:50,079 --> 00:36:52,039
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, what is at the finale

795
00:36:52,119 --> 00:36:56,679
of the soprise? Like, no, averybody got time to determine

796
00:36:56,679 --> 00:36:59,039
what happened? How I interpret the stupid fly?

797
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: So did they kill Yeah, It's like he had a

798
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,440
brain aneurysm while he was writing that episode.

799
00:37:05,559 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 1: I do.

800
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 2: I told Sonny so many times, like, wait till we

801
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,400
get to the fly up, you're gonna hate it.

802
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,159
Speaker 1: I'll just fast forward through it.

803
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,199
Speaker 2: And he was like all right, And then we started

804
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,199
watching it and I fast forward through some of it,

805
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,199
but then said He's like no, no, no, stop, stop stop.

806
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,639
He loves the banter between him and Jesse, and there

807
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,719
was a lot of that. So then I was like,

808
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,599
after I watched it the second time, I was like, oh,

809
00:37:26,639 --> 00:37:28,480
it's not that bad, but yeah, I should have I

810
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,320
should have warned you.

811
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

812
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,519
Speaker 3: But then as soon as that episode ended, the rest

813
00:37:33,559 --> 00:37:35,800
of the next few episodes have been nothing. Bill are

814
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,199
all good, oh so good, but I feel so late

815
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,519
to the party. It's really hard to have a conversation

816
00:37:41,599 --> 00:37:43,559
and go, hey, watch that break in Bad.

817
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 1: That's a good show. People are like, I what.

818
00:37:47,559 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 2: I remember when you said I watched a show when

819
00:37:51,519 --> 00:37:52,760
Gary was our producer.

820
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: I don't remember what show it was.

821
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:58,559
Speaker 2: I think it was Breaking Bad because I came on late, okay,

822
00:37:58,679 --> 00:38:02,239
And Gary's like, yeah, you're so two thousand and four

823
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,679
right now, and you go, literally the year LB.

824
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 3: Was born, that's probably what happened. We started watching Paradise

825
00:38:09,519 --> 00:38:10,480
Hotel or whatever.

826
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:11,679
Speaker 1: Remember that show?

827
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 3: Yes, And we were like, yeah, that's all we have

828
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,800
the mental capacity for right now, especially when you have

829
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,360
a breastfeeding and watching Paradise, staying up all night to

830
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,440
watch Paradise Hotel.

831
00:38:20,599 --> 00:38:21,679
Speaker 1: Right, But then you.

832
00:38:21,599 --> 00:38:23,599
Speaker 2: Go, hey, Lynette, there's a show about a bunch of

833
00:38:23,639 --> 00:38:26,239
teenagers hanging out at the peach pit called Beverly.

834
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,760
Speaker 1: You should check it out. It's so true.

835
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,559
Speaker 2: And Game of Thrones was another one, like you didn't

836
00:38:34,599 --> 00:38:37,559
watch it now? I watched it, like I started watching

837
00:38:37,639 --> 00:38:40,000
it after the day after the finale.

838
00:38:39,599 --> 00:38:46,039
Speaker 1: Right right right. I never watched Lost. I never watched Lost. Okay.

839
00:38:47,079 --> 00:38:50,119
Can I just tell you what an addict I am? Yeah, so.

840
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 3: I I have. I've brought back the vice of sugar.

841
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,880
I've been you know, I've been eating sugar, trying to

842
00:39:00,519 --> 00:39:05,679
completely beginning of pre beginning of COVID, I was eating

843
00:39:05,679 --> 00:39:08,639
candy all the time like it was Halloween, Yeah, every day, right,

844
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,599
But that stopped. But then I get like, oh, I

845
00:39:12,639 --> 00:39:16,679
have a certain favorite thing that I've rediscovered, and this

846
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:23,159
is so embarrassing. Yes, masturbating while eating saltwater.

847
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 2: Taffy, Yes, because you have to multitask. Yes, I'm like,

848
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,159
I don't know which one's bringing me more pleasure right now?

849
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: While listening to podcasts about cults. Oh my god, what

850
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:34,519
a turn on.

851
00:39:34,639 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 2: I don't know which part of that would make me

852
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:43,840
come faster. My magic wand the licorice taffy or the

853
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:48,840
Colt podcast the conclusion of the Polt coffee. Right, that

854
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,280
sounds like a party. Yeah, okay, go ahead. So I

855
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,519
love saltwater taffy.

856
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,159
Speaker 3: But then I get like, I used to be really

857
00:39:57,159 --> 00:39:59,679
into jelly bellies, the jelly beans, but I only like

858
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:00,639
crazy flavors.

859
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 2: Right.

860
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,159
Speaker 3: So you go to a candy store and find like

861
00:40:03,199 --> 00:40:08,360
the offbeat out amaretto, Right, you know, So I'm like, oh, this,

862
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,360
this saltwater Taffy's good. But what would be even better

863
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:12,840
is if I could get my hands on some of

864
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:16,000
these like offbeat flavors. So then I literally went on

865
00:40:16,039 --> 00:40:17,960
a little tear where I was like looking it up

866
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,880
on eBay, looking it up on Amazon, and then I

867
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:24,400
found this Yes, but then you it's all basic. It's

868
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,480
all like the basic flavors, right, you know. And then

869
00:40:27,519 --> 00:40:30,719
I read this one thing on like this is what

870
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,800
a deep dive I did. I'm like, there's a place

871
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:37,119
called Taffy Town, but they won't put together you have

872
00:40:37,159 --> 00:40:41,039
to order each flavor individually. Anyway, long story short, They're like, well,

873
00:40:41,039 --> 00:40:43,559
we'll send you this mix, but we're going to mix

874
00:40:43,599 --> 00:40:44,960
the most popular flavors.

875
00:40:45,039 --> 00:40:48,119
Speaker 1: And I'm like, bitch, that's the whole that defeats the purpose.

876
00:40:48,159 --> 00:40:50,880
I want to not popular. Can't you do a collection?

877
00:40:51,519 --> 00:40:54,320
Curate me your least popular flavors.

878
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:57,679
Speaker 2: Like gasoline mint? How about that sounds good? Yeah, grass right,

879
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,519
go on give me something I can Yeah.

880
00:40:59,719 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

881
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 3: So anyway, I found this place. It just reminded myself

882
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,880
because I was looking when I was looking for podcasts

883
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:09,079
I'm listening to. I found the email from the place

884
00:41:09,119 --> 00:41:11,119
I ordered, and I was like, I've got to tell

885
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:15,199
Lynette about my embarrassment. I ordered from Candy man, seaside

886
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:20,199
candy man aside candy. Isn't that a serial killer candy? Yeah,

887
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:24,119
seaside candy man. That sounds like one. Yeah, I'm pitching that. Yeah,

888
00:41:24,199 --> 00:41:25,440
I don't have to have a sun a waiver.

889
00:41:25,639 --> 00:41:26,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

890
00:41:26,639 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 3: Anyway, I found all these They have all the crazy

891
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,320
flavors and you can order just a dollar's worth of

892
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,800
like each one. So I put together this and I

893
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,199
was literally like embarrassed as if I was being caught drinking,

894
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:40,960
like I was doing it on my computer, and I

895
00:41:41,039 --> 00:41:44,199
kept I kept changing screens like if John would walk by,

896
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:45,880
I'm like, he doesn't need to see that. I'm looking

897
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,320
up like pineapple mint, Like he'd be like, what are

898
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:49,840
you doing?

899
00:41:50,039 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 2: Uh like coffee blah blah blah.

900
00:41:54,079 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: Ordering my taffy. Right, that's good. I ordered thirty five

901
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:58,880
dollars worth of taffy.

902
00:41:59,039 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Wow, Stephan, you got a problem.

903
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 3: I know, I know, And wow the bad news. It'll

904
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,760
be gone in a few days. It's not like it's

905
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,320
gonna last me a few months. And that's because you're

906
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:11,920
eating it all.

907
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,119
Speaker 1: Not the kids. Oh they don't. They're not even interested.

908
00:42:14,559 --> 00:42:16,679
Speaker 3: Nadia Exander can't eat it because they have braces, they

909
00:42:16,679 --> 00:42:19,559
can't eat taffy. Elvey doesn't care for it. John's not

910
00:42:19,639 --> 00:42:20,920
really a candy person.

911
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: That was just me. What's with guys not being into

912
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,559
candy or saying they're not into candy?

913
00:42:26,599 --> 00:42:28,639
Speaker 3: But then certain things you can't keep in the house,

914
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,239
and then John will do this, Oh.

915
00:42:32,079 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 1: No, that's semi sweet. Really, that's semi sweet. That's his excuse.

916
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,199
So does he like chocolate?

917
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 3: No, not really, No, he'll leave chocolate alone. But John

918
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,400
is not an addict, but he's compulsive.

919
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:52,599
Speaker 1: So he will.

920
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 3: If I buy a bunch of snacks that he likes,

921
00:42:55,079 --> 00:42:57,920
he will eat them all. Really about any.

922
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: Like red vines and taffy and stuff.

923
00:43:00,159 --> 00:43:02,119
Speaker 3: No, not that, But I'm saying, like, let's say I

924
00:43:02,119 --> 00:43:05,440
buy some like cheese popcorn, like yeah, from Trader Joe's,

925
00:43:05,599 --> 00:43:09,559
and he likes these parmesan toasts. I could buy three

926
00:43:09,679 --> 00:43:12,239
packets of them, and he'll eat them all on one day.

927
00:43:12,519 --> 00:43:15,320
Yeah wow, Like he'll eat one pack of it while he's,

928
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:19,599
you know, getting angry about politics, and then it's like

929
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,679
the wrappers start piling up, like and then pretty soon

930
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:23,920
he's into the second one, and.

931
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: Then I'm like, what the fuck? A ah, the parmesan.

932
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 3: Toast and he's like oops, and then he does this.

933
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,239
He goes, Oh, don't worry about it. I'm going to

934
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go to the store and I'll replace him.

935
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Speaker 1: No, you won't. You haven't been to the store since

936
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nineteen ninety seven.

937
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Speaker 2: Ye can't even find the clam sauce. Not going anywhere?

938
00:43:42,679 --> 00:43:45,639
Speaker 1: Right? Does he ever go to the grocery store? Never?

939
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 2: No?

940
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:50,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, never he every once in a while.

941
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 2: At the beginning of COVID, he was like, we're in lockdown.

942
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 1: That's it. Nobody leaves the house. This is like a

943
00:43:58,480 --> 00:43:59,920
bomb shelter. I go to call.

944
00:44:00,599 --> 00:44:03,519
Speaker 3: I take the risk. I'm gonna, you know, in full

945
00:44:03,559 --> 00:44:05,960
like riot gear. I'm going to go to Costco. I'm

946
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,239
gonna get us food to last for two months. Right

947
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,960
where are you gonna put it on? It doesn't matter.

948
00:44:12,039 --> 00:44:14,320
We'll buy four freezers, you know. So we have a

949
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,559
freezer out. So he goes to Costco. He buys all

950
00:44:16,599 --> 00:44:19,239
this stuff. Our whole little we have like this little

951
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:22,400
breakfast nook where there's a table and chairs, but now

952
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:26,239
it's all piled up with like boxes of like ood

953
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:30,920
on noodles, boxes chips, gatorade.

954
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: In case in case, shit go sideways exactly.

955
00:44:35,679 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 3: You know, sparkling waters, all this stuff, Okay, and then

956
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,440
then like you know, a month goes by, we don't

957
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,159
eat any of that stupid food.

958
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:47,039
Speaker 1: Because it's like it's not the good Costco food.

959
00:44:47,159 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 3: It's like it's like you bian food that you that

960
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,519
you boil in like a package like that's frozen that

961
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,000
like you really have to be at.

962
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: The bottom of the barrel, like you have to be

963
00:44:59,519 --> 00:45:00,000
so high.

964
00:45:00,079 --> 00:45:01,599
Speaker 2: We'd have to have not eat, we'd have to be

965
00:45:01,639 --> 00:45:03,880
breaking a fast and have nothing else to eat.

966
00:45:05,079 --> 00:45:08,639
Speaker 1: Like what is this chicken medallions with in a mushroom

967
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,079
something what you're talking about? Yeah, it doesn't even come

968
00:45:12,079 --> 00:45:14,519
with rice or anything. And you're like it's in a

969
00:45:14,559 --> 00:45:15,440
weird packaging.

970
00:45:15,639 --> 00:45:19,559
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, right, Yeah that looked good to him because

971
00:45:19,559 --> 00:45:22,440
he was you know, I don't know, so all of

972
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,960
that is in our outside freezer. But then, but then

973
00:45:26,079 --> 00:45:28,639
what will happen is like we'll be fully out of chips.

974
00:45:28,679 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 1: And he's.

975
00:45:30,639 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 3: Basically named himself like the Costco guy, like I have.

976
00:45:34,079 --> 00:45:36,679
So he's like, oh, looks like it's time for another

977
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:37,480
Costco run.

978
00:45:37,599 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: And I'm like, don't buy any weird food while you're there.

979
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, we don't really need to go

980
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:46,079
to Costco because we're not we're not filling the bomb

981
00:45:46,119 --> 00:45:47,079
shelter with more of this.

982
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: You can't buy any more food. What are you going

983
00:45:49,079 --> 00:45:49,840
to buy at Costco?

984
00:45:50,199 --> 00:45:52,360
Speaker 3: It's like, well, sparkling water, okay, but I could get

985
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,320
that at the grocery store. It's not worth right. What

986
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,480
it would help me is if I sent him to Ralphs.

987
00:45:57,519 --> 00:46:00,280
But he's like, he's not the Ralphs guy's Costco?

988
00:46:00,639 --> 00:46:02,519
Speaker 1: What is with the Costco with dudes too?

989
00:46:03,039 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 2: Like Jimmy is like on the collar on the cover

990
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:08,719
of Costco magazine for fuck's sakes, like that it goes

991
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,440
to Costco like it's going on a style right time, right,

992
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:12,320
I don't get it.

993
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,079
Speaker 3: And you can tell John not to get food and

994
00:46:15,119 --> 00:46:17,840
he'll be like okay, and then he'll come back with

995
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,800
like a huge thing of blackberries and he thinks he's

996
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:22,920
he thinks he's helping me because he knows I eat

997
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:24,920
blackberries in my hot cereal every morning.

998
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 1: Uh huh. But I buy a small thing of blackberries.

999
00:46:27,559 --> 00:46:28,480
Why do you think that is?

1000
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,519
Speaker 3: Because they get moldy and like you can't have I

1001
00:46:32,559 --> 00:46:37,039
don't need a gross of blackberries that are going to

1002
00:46:37,079 --> 00:46:39,920
be moldy in like four days. I buy enough for

1003
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:41,480
what I eat, and then I go back to the

1004
00:46:41,519 --> 00:46:43,480
store and get more like normal people.

1005
00:46:43,679 --> 00:46:46,280
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, but then I can't.

1006
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,519
Speaker 2: If I say, like, honey, I told you not to

1007
00:46:48,559 --> 00:46:51,280
get food, like I don't need this many blackberries, He'll

1008
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:51,599
be like.

1009
00:46:51,679 --> 00:46:53,840
Speaker 1: Oh really, I mean I was.

1010
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,679
Speaker 3: I'm looking out for you, like you eat blackberries and

1011
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:58,840
you're hot cereal every night.

1012
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,159
Speaker 2: I gotta take a silk sh hour now, just for

1013
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:02,239
your blackberries.

1014
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:07,039
Speaker 1: And they want to be a hero. Yes, uh yeah, yeah,

1015
00:47:07,079 --> 00:47:10,960
well all right, that's it.

1016
00:47:11,199 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 2: Thank you Caylin for coming in on a labor day. Yeah,

1017
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,719
you're a parent, now, don't f it up.