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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna start off the podcast with remember Juananita, who

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<v Speaker 1>writes in every couple of days with a rant about

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<v Speaker 1>things that get on her nerves. And I said, Janita,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to hear you vocalize this. So here

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<v Speaker 1>she comes, God bless her. Pee pick a little heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Juanita has sent in a video. Now, because we have

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<v Speaker 1>a low tech operating system here, I'm gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>hold my microphone up to the little speaker for you

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<v Speaker 1>and to be able to hear this. So it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit primitive, but I'm going to play a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of Juanita and her rant with me holding this

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<v Speaker 1>up to the speaker. JANKI I know, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey yo, hey, it's one even here with the video

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<v Speaker 2>of random shit that gets on my nerves. Sorry, it

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<v Speaker 2>took so all long to get it to you, Dave.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to get my husband to do it while

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<v Speaker 2>he was watching the preseason game, and it was like

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<v Speaker 2>follow the phone, follow the phone, because he kept fucking moving.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, be still. But anyway, there's some more random

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<v Speaker 2>shit that gets on my freaking nerves. This one has

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<v Speaker 2>to do with my kids. So I got a fourteen

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<v Speaker 2>and a seventeen year old. I work nights. My husband

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<v Speaker 2>works days, so when I'm at work, he's home. When

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<v Speaker 2>I'm home, he's at work. I can be home all day,

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<v Speaker 2>all until I get ready to go to work. Them

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<v Speaker 2>two kids won't say a goddamn word to me. As

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<v Speaker 2>soon as I leave the house and punch into work,

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, I get fifteen texts a piece

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<v Speaker 2>from each of them. You say to me when I

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<v Speaker 2>was there? Why do you have everything to say to

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<v Speaker 2>me now? But here's the part that pisces me off.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is a typical texting conversation with my kids. Mom,

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<v Speaker 2>what's for dinner? Spaghetti and me balls? Where's the palmersan cheese?

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<v Speaker 2>It's in the cabinet. Is there any more garlic? Bread?

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<v Speaker 2>Where's your damn dad sitting on the couch? Why the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck would you text me? And I'm working fifteen miles

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<v Speaker 2>away from you. Your dad's two feet away from you.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it that kids don't like to talk to

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<v Speaker 2>their dad. I just don't understand it. It gets on

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<v Speaker 2>my goddamn nerves. I'm a CINGC machinist, so I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>the machine. I'm doing the setup of running parts in oil.

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<v Speaker 2>Have that oil all over my fucking hands. Now you

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<v Speaker 2>have to wipe my hands off the sea to make

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<v Speaker 2>sure that it's not something an emergency for something wrong. Nope, Mom,

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<v Speaker 2>have you seen my black shirt?

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<v Speaker 3>My hat?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I wear into this shit? Do?

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<v Speaker 4>Why?

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<v Speaker 3>They would?

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<v Speaker 2>I know where you're stuff at And like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>your dad's on the fucking count, don't ask me. Thanks

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<v Speaker 2>again for listening to my rants. I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't get any better than that. And I want

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<v Speaker 1>to thank you personally Wannita for sing that in And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so happy that that it like semi technologically

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<v Speaker 1>worked and the recorder recorded it, so I actually watched

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<v Speaker 1>the waveform to make sure. Word Juanita, I I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to do this maybe once a week because his

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<v Speaker 1>corner and I love it because you should do stand

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<v Speaker 1>up because I love the way that you pepper in

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<v Speaker 1>unexpected words that a mom wouldn't normally use, like what's

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<v Speaker 1>your fucking problem? I mean it's aggressive and it's funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't normally hear a mom talk about her

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<v Speaker 1>kids that way. So Juanita, applause to you. You actually

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<v Speaker 1>you pretty much made the podcast today. So I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>for hold on, I got to find the window, and

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<v Speaker 1>now I can't find it. Hold on, let me see

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<v Speaker 1>if I can find it here. Oh I think I

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<v Speaker 1>closed the window. You get a minute, a minute there, Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hold one, just talk about it something like amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yesterday I tried the fried Ranch at the Affair and

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<v Speaker 4>I liked it and vanted not but I want to

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<v Speaker 4>say that, Jenny, you were talking about like the prime

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<v Speaker 4>spot at the top at Lulu's and I got literally

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<v Speaker 4>the exact same spot. We were like right looking down

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<v Speaker 4>below at the line.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you the one who posted a photo of it?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I was like, oh, got itt And someone messages

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<v Speaker 3>me and they're like, wait, how do you get that spot?

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<v Speaker 3>I go, it's lost.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Just like I was like, I don't have a hook up.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a hook up to get That's why I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, you just like gotta keep your eyes. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I love it. People watching them, Oh, we did

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<v Speaker 4>so much people watching. I also saw a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>people I know. Which is my favorite game to play

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<v Speaker 4>in any public situation is who sees the person that

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<v Speaker 4>they know first? And I won.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, well yeah, I guess.

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<v Speaker 4>But the fact, vont doesn't have any friends. He's been

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<v Speaker 4>here a year, broke and have some friends, so that's

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<v Speaker 4>on him.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Okay, thanks for calling. I appreciate that. Next one, Hey, Gang,

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<v Speaker 1>I know Dave is the only one with kids who

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<v Speaker 1>were grown, but I'd like anybody's input as the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of you might have nieces and nephews young age kids.

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<v Speaker 1>My question is how young is too young to give

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<v Speaker 1>kids electronics, cell phones or an Apple Watch? I asked because

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<v Speaker 1>our neighbor got their six year old and Apple Watch

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<v Speaker 1>but for security purpose aka a locator or tracker to

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<v Speaker 1>see where their kid is. Doesn't that seem too young?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it normal in this day and age of

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<v Speaker 1>the world. What happened to no electronics and just trusting

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<v Speaker 1>they'll be okay and be back at the time they're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be? Isn't it scary? We you just can't

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<v Speaker 1>trust the world anymore? Thoughts lick lick dart, lick lick

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<v Speaker 1>dart dart. Ooh, that's wind nice.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there are watches that are pretty much solely trackers.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean I think that if you

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<v Speaker 1>have that available and you worry about your kids and

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<v Speaker 1>they're in situations where you might worry about them. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think most kids don't need a tracker, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, Well, I don't know. I say that now

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<v Speaker 3>as someone who is not a mother, as a person

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<v Speaker 3>who has anxiety and thinks about what I would be

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<v Speaker 3>like as a mother, I probably would want a tracker

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<v Speaker 3>on my child when they're young, because I would be

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<v Speaker 3>very nervous all the time of like if they're home

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<v Speaker 3>ten minutes late. I used to be scared as a

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<v Speaker 3>kid if my parents were home late from work. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought they got in a car, so the sad died. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so like i'd know that as a parent, I'd probably

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<v Speaker 3>I probably would give them a cell phone earlier than

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I would, because I want them to be

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<v Speaker 3>able to contact me.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, I think it's one thing. If like you're

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<v Speaker 4>trusting your kid to like come back home after playing

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<v Speaker 4>with the neighbor like in the backyard, Like that's one thing.

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<v Speaker 4>But if they're like going out to like the mall,

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<v Speaker 4>then and you want to track them or I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>I because same sort of thing. If they have an

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<v Speaker 4>adult that's keeping watch over them, then I would trust

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<v Speaker 4>that and they don't need a tracker or like an

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<v Speaker 4>electronic to communicate with you. But if they're there alone

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<v Speaker 4>with their friend at the which usually you wouldn't do

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<v Speaker 4>until you're in at least middle school anyway, then yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'd want to know where my kid was and have

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<v Speaker 4>some kind of way to contact them, be it a

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<v Speaker 4>tracker or a cell phone.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, on to the next one. There's a weird

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<v Speaker 1>plethora of Minnesota goodbye emails today. Okay, so here we go,

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<v Speaker 1>Minnesota goodbye question. All right, Flugelbinder, Ryan, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>question that you might not even know. I listened to

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<v Speaker 1>the morning show on iHeart, just wondering why they played

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<v Speaker 1>different songs when there is a break. Normally older songs

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<v Speaker 1>also will start a commercial that are on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Then halfway through it'll either restart the same commercial or

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<v Speaker 1>switch to a completely different one. Just curious, is all

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<v Speaker 1>dart lick dart lick so long on the lick? I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's because the if you buy a commercial, let's

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<v Speaker 1>say that you're Coca Cola and you buy a commercial

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<v Speaker 1>that runs on the radio station, you are not getting

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<v Speaker 1>that same free commercial on the iHeart platform. So, in

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<v Speaker 1>other words, there are commercials that are different priced. It's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like buying something over it, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like Pennies, and then buying something at Target. So just

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<v Speaker 1>because you bought it at Pennies doesn't mean you get

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<v Speaker 1>a free one over at Target. So there's my analogy.

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<v Speaker 1>If you buy advertising on KATIEWB, the radio station, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't get that same commercial for free on the iHeart app. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so there would be something different.

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<v Speaker 4>Like local commercials are on the actual radio station because

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<v Speaker 4>I listened to iHeart when I would be like getting

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<v Speaker 4>ready for work and then I would listen to the

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<v Speaker 4>radio station in my car. So on the iHeart app, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you get like more nationwide commercials. I will just say

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<v Speaker 4>sweet hack on the iHeart app. If you're listening and

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<v Speaker 4>you're like, okay, there's been like too many songs in

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<v Speaker 4>a row. I'm pretty sure they should be talking by

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<v Speaker 4>this point. Just hit refresh, okay, and then it'll be

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<v Speaker 4>like your voice talking like suddenly, and I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh man, I should have hit refreshed earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>I will give a shout out to the iHeartRadio app,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna make fun of me, and rightfully. So.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's an artist named Gordon Lightfoot, and he's mostly

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<v Speaker 1>known for the Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald, but he

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<v Speaker 1>also did a bunch of other great songs, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of grew up listening to his music and I

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<v Speaker 1>had this, you know, his record and whatever. So I

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<v Speaker 1>found the Gordon Lightfoot channel on iHeart Radio and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a mix of his music and other similar music.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's on iHeartRadio and it's free, and I listened

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<v Speaker 1>to it last night. I was out driving and I

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<v Speaker 1>had on the Gordon Lightfoot channel, which is like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like totally like not cool to listen to. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think the cool thing was you can look for like

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<v Speaker 1>any channel. You could do the Britney Spears channel or

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<v Speaker 1>the I don't know name somebody current the Halsey channel,

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<v Speaker 1>and it'll play her music interspersed with music that's similar

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<v Speaker 1>to And it's on iHeartRadio. And I didn't really know

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<v Speaker 1>about this. I knew you could do like, okay, classic

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<v Speaker 1>hits or songs from the nineties, but I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>you could pick an artist and be like, I want

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<v Speaker 1>Halsey and songs similar to hers. So a little plug

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<v Speaker 1>for the iHeart app and I.

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<v Speaker 4>Listened to all of my podcasts on the iHeartRadio app.

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<v Speaker 1>I try to do that too. Yeah, I usually try

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<v Speaker 1>to listen. If I find a podcast, I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>well is it on the iHeartRadio app?

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<v Speaker 4>Ye?

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<v Speaker 1>So, Charis writes in she showed up the state Fair

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<v Speaker 1>with her lovely daughter, and she's always so very sweet

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<v Speaker 1>and supportive and we just love you. Hello, my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>morning show crew, Charise, and I find myself needing some advice.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you a condensed version. My male cousin was

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<v Speaker 1>engaged to a young lady and they have two children together,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing something in the kitchen. Sorry for the long email.

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<v Speaker 1>Any advice would be appreciated by the way. I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>Sharishi have beautiful eyes. I can point that out before

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<v Speaker 1>I do anything else. You have beautiful, shockingly beautiful eyes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, the most beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have any idea what to tell her. I've

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, it's just it's tough because you made an

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<v Speaker 3>agreement about the bills. So I think if she's saying

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<v Speaker 3>she bought more household items, then you should be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>well let me know how much the household items that

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<v Speaker 3>you were willing to split with her, because you said

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<v Speaker 3>she did buy things that she wanted for herself and

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<v Speaker 3>then like somehow equate that to bills. So maybe knock

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<v Speaker 3>off some of the stuff she owes you, because like,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys did need like I'm thinking like pots and pans, right,

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<v Speaker 3>if she bought all that, then I do see like

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<v Speaker 3>sort of her point of view. Yeah, So I would

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<v Speaker 3>say just like a civil conversation would be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>Of all this, right, and it's I would definitely use

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<v Speaker 4>the word like communal expenses, like what are these communal

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<v Speaker 4>things that we've been using, and tell me how what

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<v Speaker 4>the price says of those things. So and then if

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<v Speaker 4>you kind of turn it on you, it'll feel less

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<v Speaker 4>awkward of a situation where if you kind of approach

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<v Speaker 4>it like so that I can make sure that we're

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<v Speaker 4>on you, then it'll be less like you're calling her out.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's my recommendation. And then use that word communal.

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<v Speaker 3>And then also don't live with her again in the

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<v Speaker 3>gesture No, I'm just kidding. I'm sure she might be lovely,

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<v Speaker 3>but you never know.

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<v Speaker 1>Dan writes in, And Dan is a smart ass. And

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<v Speaker 1>you've heard Dan on the show a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 1>a smart ass. He writes in It says, Dave, when

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<v Speaker 1>you were gone the other day, the show that I

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely really enjoyed listening to was Benny and a Chen

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<v Speaker 1>and Bailey. So I think he's trying to make a

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<v Speaker 1>not here. Fuck you, Dan, I will only say, sincerely

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<v Speaker 1>Dan from Apple Valley PS Bailey, xoxo.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh Dan, thanks, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And finally I got an email from Shane from Woodberry

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<v Speaker 1>and I really appreciate it was kind of longer email,

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<v Speaker 1>it is a very helpful public surface announcement email Keep

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<v Speaker 1>your keep your pets away from your weed. Basically, they said,

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<v Speaker 1>legalized more and more common, keep all your weed away

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<v Speaker 1>from your dog because their dog's a weed. Long story short,

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<v Speaker 1>they had to go to the vet and it cost

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<v Speaker 1>four hundred and twenty dollars. So be responsible with your

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<v Speaker 1>weed products. And if I the person that did this,

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<v Speaker 1>I will go all alien romulus on their ass. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that means they'll pop out of their chest. Yes, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>And hopefully it's short enough to be read, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would love a sticker. If so, Shane, I will send

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<v Speaker 1>you a sticker and thank you for writing in on

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<v Speaker 1>the Minnesota Goodbye. I am not a weed person, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to worry about that. I've tried weed

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<v Speaker 1>enough times to know that it does not make me

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<v Speaker 1>experience the things that I want to experience, but I

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<v Speaker 1>saw a guy walk it through. Okay, So I was

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<v Speaker 1>watching this movie the other night. It was called Blink Twice,

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<v Speaker 1>movie is smoke weed. They're partying on an island and

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<v Speaker 1>they smoke weed all day, and I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get it. What is the pleasure Like when I drink,

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<v Speaker 1>I get a warm, soft, little comfortable buzz, But weed

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<v Speaker 1>makes me tense up. It heightens my awareness of every

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that's a unique experience for you because

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<v Speaker 4>So that's why they would smoke it all day. I

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<v Speaker 4>really wish I did continue that. Yeah, oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well I was just going to say, I think that

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<v Speaker 3>mine and Dave's experiences are very similar. I become paranoid,

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<v Speaker 3>I start panicking, my heart's racing, I think I'm dying.

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<v Speaker 3>It's pretty much my entire experience with weed. And then

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<v Speaker 3>For me, I don't want to feel like I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what it does. I feel like I am

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<v Speaker 1>And if it works for you, I'm glad it works

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<v Speaker 1>for you. But I also if it worked for me

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<v Speaker 1>It's not as risky as other drugs or alcohol, but

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<v Speaker 4>I mean same with alcohol too, Like I feel like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>end up drinking every day, but like I would feel

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I like me the way I am and I

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<v Speaker 1>like experiencing life as it comes at me, the good

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<v Speaker 1>that I'd want to experience like, oh oh, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to experience that fully without a chemical filter.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, can I say too, not just hiding weed from

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<v Speaker 4>That's bad. My mom's cat ate bath salts ones and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know dogs couldn't eat grapes. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>dogs can't eat grapes. It can kill them. Did you

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like that's not just one grape, but

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<v Speaker 3>But there are plenty of food. Like they say, chocolate

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, the grandkids were trying to feed Josie chocolate

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<v Speaker 1>stop it. And that is going to do it for

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<v Speaker 1>the Minnesota Goodbye. A special shout out to Juananita for

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<v Speaker 1>your contribution. That was very special. We've never done that before.

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<v Speaker 1>Once a week Juanita. If you want to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>we will feature you on the podcast. And if you

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