WEBVTT

1
00:00:00.480 --> 00:00:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Bailey is very excited because you had a landmark day yesterday.

2
00:00:04.440 --> 00:00:08.199
<v Speaker 2>Landmark I hit three thousand followers on Instagram.

3
00:00:08.240 --> 00:00:09.839
<v Speaker 1>I made you have before you started working at the

4
00:00:09.880 --> 00:00:11.439
<v Speaker 1>Mighty katiewb.

5
00:00:10.960 --> 00:00:12.640
<v Speaker 3>Probably like seven hundred and seventy.

6
00:00:12.679 --> 00:00:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, that makes sense. You're on the radio. It's

7
00:00:14.679 --> 00:00:16.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of like Lena who used to be on our show.

8
00:00:18.079 --> 00:00:20.800
<v Speaker 1>She you know, she was here before Instagram was a thing.

9
00:00:21.399 --> 00:00:23.359
<v Speaker 1>Then she went and worked on the big Elvis duran

10
00:00:23.399 --> 00:00:25.719
<v Speaker 1>Show in New York and was syndicated, and now she

11
00:00:25.800 --> 00:00:27.600
<v Speaker 1>has like two hundred and eighty thousand followers.

12
00:00:27.600 --> 00:00:29.359
<v Speaker 2>That's why she has so many. I thought she was

13
00:00:29.440 --> 00:00:31.320
<v Speaker 2>just like an influencer of some kind.

14
00:00:31.440 --> 00:00:32.799
<v Speaker 1>Well, I think she is a little bit, but I

15
00:00:32.799 --> 00:00:35.560
<v Speaker 1>think she's really good with social media too. But I think,

16
00:00:35.600 --> 00:00:37.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, if anybody was on and this is not

17
00:00:37.759 --> 00:00:40.640
<v Speaker 1>to discredit Lena, she would totally admit this that if

18
00:00:40.640 --> 00:00:42.600
<v Speaker 1>you were on the Elvis Durant Show and you're syndicated

19
00:00:42.600 --> 00:00:44.679
<v Speaker 1>in eighty markets and you're a big star on that

20
00:00:44.759 --> 00:00:48.320
<v Speaker 1>big radio station, you're gonna get followers. So I would

21
00:00:48.320 --> 00:00:52.359
<v Speaker 1>have about fifteen followers if I was not on. Katie Sure, yes,

22
00:00:52.799 --> 00:00:54.359
<v Speaker 1>checks out on it, but I've got about I don't know,

23
00:00:54.479 --> 00:00:57.200
<v Speaker 1>forty five thousand followers something like that. I gained like

24
00:00:57.200 --> 00:00:59.119
<v Speaker 1>one hundred every six months. So if you want to

25
00:00:59.159 --> 00:01:02.159
<v Speaker 1>follow me. It's funny because there are people who like

26
00:01:02.240 --> 00:01:04.319
<v Speaker 1>and like and like the things that we post, but

27
00:01:04.359 --> 00:01:07.959
<v Speaker 1>they don't follow us. So we encourage you follow us

28
00:01:08.239 --> 00:01:08.959
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram.

29
00:01:09.000 --> 00:01:10.079
<v Speaker 3>Please do so if you.

30
00:01:10.000 --> 00:01:13.719
<v Speaker 1>Go look at Bailey Bailey on air, hit that follow button.

31
00:01:13.519 --> 00:01:15.319
<v Speaker 2>Hit the follow button, please follow me. All of my

32
00:01:15.359 --> 00:01:16.959
<v Speaker 2>Instagram stories are fascinating.

33
00:01:17.040 --> 00:01:18.200
<v Speaker 1>Now they're not. I've seen some of them.

34
00:01:18.239 --> 00:01:19.879
<v Speaker 3>The race are you don't watch all of them?

35
00:01:20.040 --> 00:01:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Well because they're not fascinating.

36
00:01:21.280 --> 00:01:22.239
<v Speaker 3>They're really like.

37
00:01:22.200 --> 00:01:26.480
<v Speaker 4>To watch Bailey's stories. See, but sometimes there's a glare

38
00:01:26.560 --> 00:01:27.519
<v Speaker 4>of sorts.

39
00:01:27.159 --> 00:01:29.159
<v Speaker 3>Because your camera, my camera's really bad.

40
00:01:29.239 --> 00:01:30.760
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so like when you do a lot of like

41
00:01:30.840 --> 00:01:33.159
<v Speaker 4>walking stories, it kind of looks like there's a fog

42
00:01:33.239 --> 00:01:36.000
<v Speaker 4>over the city, and I'm like, yeah, what's happening?

43
00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:38.319
<v Speaker 2>Very much that I do need a new phone. We've

44
00:01:38.400 --> 00:01:40.159
<v Speaker 2>established this in one day, maybe you will get one.

45
00:01:40.280 --> 00:01:43.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I hope. So and so go follow Bailey, follow

46
00:01:44.079 --> 00:01:48.159
<v Speaker 1>Jenny KTWB and vont Leak l e ak and Dave

47
00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Ryan KTWB. So we appreciate any likes and all that stuff,

48
00:01:51.000 --> 00:01:53.920
<v Speaker 1>but also hit that follow button. Yeah, why not dive

49
00:01:53.959 --> 00:01:57.359
<v Speaker 1>it in too. Some emails here on the Minnesota Goodbye.

50
00:01:57.359 --> 00:01:59.159
<v Speaker 1>First of all, I'm want to tell you I'm very excited.

51
00:01:59.400 --> 00:02:01.799
<v Speaker 1>It is my last stay before vacation starts. So once

52
00:02:01.840 --> 00:02:04.239
<v Speaker 1>ten o'clock hits this morning, there will be a puff

53
00:02:04.280 --> 00:02:06.159
<v Speaker 1>up smoke where I'm standing and I will.

54
00:02:06.000 --> 00:02:07.840
<v Speaker 5>Be gone, Yes you will.

55
00:02:08.120 --> 00:02:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm go work out later today, headed to Colorado and

56
00:02:11.680 --> 00:02:14.599
<v Speaker 1>then the Pike's Peak hike is a week from yesterday,

57
00:02:14.639 --> 00:02:17.400
<v Speaker 1>a week from Thursday. Unless all of a sudden I

58
00:02:17.400 --> 00:02:18.680
<v Speaker 1>look at the weather and it's going to be bad

59
00:02:18.759 --> 00:02:20.120
<v Speaker 1>on my hike day, I might do it a little

60
00:02:20.120 --> 00:02:22.719
<v Speaker 1>bit earlier, a day late, so we will see.

61
00:02:23.000 --> 00:02:25.159
<v Speaker 5>He us posted because I would like to call you.

62
00:02:25.479 --> 00:02:27.520
<v Speaker 4>You see how you're doing, like the morning now while

63
00:02:27.520 --> 00:02:30.080
<v Speaker 4>we're here doing a show.

64
00:02:29.919 --> 00:02:32.800
<v Speaker 1>With now Now, at this time it's early in the morning,

65
00:02:32.800 --> 00:02:35.000
<v Speaker 1>they're an hour behind. So if I'm on the trail

66
00:02:35.159 --> 00:02:38.879
<v Speaker 1>at four o'clock, which is my plan, and I'll be

67
00:02:38.919 --> 00:02:41.199
<v Speaker 1>hiking the first hour ish in the dark with a

68
00:02:41.240 --> 00:02:44.360
<v Speaker 1>headlamp on to start to get an early start so

69
00:02:44.439 --> 00:02:46.400
<v Speaker 1>I'll have more time. So I won't rush, and there's

70
00:02:46.439 --> 00:02:48.599
<v Speaker 1>thunderstorms in the afternoon that I want to try to beat.

71
00:02:50.000 --> 00:02:52.319
<v Speaker 1>But I think I'm ready for it. I'm as ready

72
00:02:52.319 --> 00:02:54.840
<v Speaker 1>as I'll ever be. I've been doing a ton of

73
00:02:54.879 --> 00:02:59.240
<v Speaker 1>training for it for about six months and hopefully it

74
00:02:59.319 --> 00:03:00.240
<v Speaker 1>will pay off.

75
00:03:00.680 --> 00:03:03.560
<v Speaker 4>I think you're gonna do just fantastic. I mean you've

76
00:03:03.560 --> 00:03:05.840
<v Speaker 4>been like you literally just started doing StairMaster at the

77
00:03:05.879 --> 00:03:08.319
<v Speaker 4>gym out of nowhere, which is not an easy thing

78
00:03:08.360 --> 00:03:11.439
<v Speaker 4>to do, and you crush like one hundred plus flights

79
00:03:11.479 --> 00:03:12.080
<v Speaker 4>when you do it.

80
00:03:12.319 --> 00:03:14.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's boy, I tell you talk about a

81
00:03:14.319 --> 00:03:16.879
<v Speaker 1>sweat machine. Do you think that you sweat more the

82
00:03:17.000 --> 00:03:19.240
<v Speaker 1>healthier you get, because I think I sweat more than

83
00:03:19.240 --> 00:03:22.039
<v Speaker 1>I did back when I wasn't as healthy.

84
00:03:23.159 --> 00:03:23.599
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

85
00:03:23.719 --> 00:03:26.439
<v Speaker 4>I think some people are naturally gifted to not sweat.

86
00:03:26.479 --> 00:03:29.400
<v Speaker 4>I have always been a sweaty bitch, always.

87
00:03:32.520 --> 00:03:33.479
<v Speaker 3>Sweat, not really.

88
00:03:33.719 --> 00:03:36.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And that's how Andrew is too. He like doesn't sweat,

89
00:03:36.439 --> 00:03:38.840
<v Speaker 4>And I'm just like, how, Like he's got one of

90
00:03:38.879 --> 00:03:42.319
<v Speaker 4>those bodies that's always naturally hot, but he just doesn't sweat.

91
00:03:42.879 --> 00:03:45.000
<v Speaker 1>Steve O from the show back in the day, he

92
00:03:45.120 --> 00:03:46.719
<v Speaker 1>was a sweat machine.

93
00:03:47.159 --> 00:03:49.080
<v Speaker 3>Every picture I've ever seen of Steve O. He's sweating

94
00:03:49.680 --> 00:03:50.599
<v Speaker 3>and he adds up.

95
00:03:50.759 --> 00:03:53.039
<v Speaker 1>I think we went running one time and he took

96
00:03:53.039 --> 00:03:54.680
<v Speaker 1>his shirt off and he rang it out and it

97
00:03:54.719 --> 00:03:56.360
<v Speaker 1>was like he took it out of a bucket of water.

98
00:03:56.960 --> 00:03:58.840
<v Speaker 1>It was like too funny, it was.

99
00:03:58.879 --> 00:04:00.759
<v Speaker 4>And I would go to Warriors Golf with him, which

100
00:04:00.800 --> 00:04:04.199
<v Speaker 4>is a heated yoga like intense hit class, and I

101
00:04:04.199 --> 00:04:06.719
<v Speaker 4>would almost slip on his sweat next to my mat

102
00:04:06.759 --> 00:04:08.840
<v Speaker 4>if I stepped off my mat, because he'd be mixting

103
00:04:08.919 --> 00:04:09.840
<v Speaker 4>me sweating and stuff.

104
00:04:10.240 --> 00:04:10.560
<v Speaker 5>Shod.

105
00:04:11.840 --> 00:04:14.000
<v Speaker 1>Let's jump into the emails, and this is a follow

106
00:04:14.080 --> 00:04:16.279
<v Speaker 1>up from one that we talked about yesterday about a

107
00:04:16.279 --> 00:04:18.639
<v Speaker 1>therapist who wrote in and said she'd like to be

108
00:04:18.680 --> 00:04:23.399
<v Speaker 1>on the show. She says, I'm up late ruminating. There's

109
00:04:23.399 --> 00:04:25.040
<v Speaker 1>some shit I can't stop thinking about, so I thought

110
00:04:25.079 --> 00:04:27.839
<v Speaker 1>i'd share. I can't stop thinking about how Ginny said

111
00:04:27.879 --> 00:04:30.279
<v Speaker 1>pap smear in today's episode.

112
00:04:30.399 --> 00:04:31.240
<v Speaker 3>I thought that too.

113
00:04:31.399 --> 00:04:32.319
<v Speaker 5>Is that not how you say it?

114
00:04:32.360 --> 00:04:32.480
<v Speaker 2>No?

115
00:04:33.639 --> 00:04:37.839
<v Speaker 3>Sorry, carry on, dad, it's pap smear like shmear.

116
00:04:37.560 --> 00:04:40.079
<v Speaker 2>Is like a like a bagel, a bagel stuff you

117
00:04:40.079 --> 00:04:40.680
<v Speaker 2>put on a bagel.

118
00:04:40.759 --> 00:04:42.040
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, pap smear.

119
00:04:42.279 --> 00:04:44.759
<v Speaker 1>You never knew your entire life you're thirty four years old.

120
00:04:44.759 --> 00:04:45.879
<v Speaker 1>You never knew it was not pash.

121
00:04:46.040 --> 00:04:47.319
<v Speaker 5>I probably said it both ways.

122
00:04:47.360 --> 00:04:49.160
<v Speaker 4>But sometimes I just talk and words come out of

123
00:04:49.160 --> 00:04:50.600
<v Speaker 4>my mouth, and then I go back and I hear

124
00:04:50.639 --> 00:04:52.160
<v Speaker 4>things and I'm like, well, that wasn't right.

125
00:04:52.240 --> 00:04:54.079
<v Speaker 3>That ba Rista got a pap smear.

126
00:04:54.800 --> 00:04:56.360
<v Speaker 5>I do say Barrista all the time.

127
00:04:56.480 --> 00:04:58.560
<v Speaker 4>I will probably never change that, though Dave kind of

128
00:04:58.600 --> 00:05:00.040
<v Speaker 4>said it like that yesterday.

129
00:04:59.639 --> 00:05:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Too, Barista. I probably do Brista. Best part was Bailey

130
00:05:04.079 --> 00:05:06.079
<v Speaker 1>was the only one that caught it and laughed out loud.

131
00:05:06.120 --> 00:05:08.519
<v Speaker 1>I laughed too, girl. I'm still laughing just thinking about it.

132
00:05:08.759 --> 00:05:11.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm also thinking about how Dave did something super weird

133
00:05:11.240 --> 00:05:13.160
<v Speaker 1>with his hand in the most recent video of the

134
00:05:13.199 --> 00:05:15.360
<v Speaker 1>four of you all on Instagram, and I don't know

135
00:05:15.360 --> 00:05:17.560
<v Speaker 1>if it was on accident or his secret signal. So

136
00:05:17.680 --> 00:05:21.279
<v Speaker 1>help let us know, Dave. My hands are like my

137
00:05:21.360 --> 00:05:24.959
<v Speaker 1>twitchy like device I have. I just play with my

138
00:05:25.000 --> 00:05:25.560
<v Speaker 1>hands a lot.

139
00:05:26.000 --> 00:05:28.720
<v Speaker 5>I wonder what you did which video hands.

140
00:05:28.720 --> 00:05:30.639
<v Speaker 1>A couple of times, Yeah, I would straightened my fingers and

141
00:05:30.639 --> 00:05:34.720
<v Speaker 1>then curl them up a little. Yeah. Yeah it means nothing.

142
00:05:35.120 --> 00:05:37.199
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, but you were not the only one who

143
00:05:37.240 --> 00:05:41.560
<v Speaker 1>wondered about that follow up to you your follow up

144
00:05:41.600 --> 00:05:43.800
<v Speaker 1>to your follow up about having a therapist on your show.

145
00:05:44.199 --> 00:05:45.759
<v Speaker 1>This is my pitch of why I think it would

146
00:05:45.800 --> 00:05:47.800
<v Speaker 1>be better than the rest of the therapists you've ever had.

147
00:05:47.839 --> 00:05:49.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm young, and funny, an up to date on what

148
00:05:50.079 --> 00:05:52.639
<v Speaker 1>is dope to talk about on the air, and not second.

149
00:05:52.639 --> 00:05:56.079
<v Speaker 1>I solemnly swear and promise to be simultaneously concise and

150
00:05:56.160 --> 00:05:58.879
<v Speaker 1>hilarious at the same time if you ever choose to

151
00:05:58.879 --> 00:06:01.439
<v Speaker 1>invite me to participate in the show. Honestly, I don't

152
00:06:01.480 --> 00:06:04.800
<v Speaker 1>even care if it isn't about therapy. I just love

153
00:06:04.839 --> 00:06:07.160
<v Speaker 1>to run my mouth, so let me know for whatever reason,

154
00:06:07.519 --> 00:06:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I am multifaceted as fuck. Sligh. That is all. Bye,

155
00:06:13.519 --> 00:06:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Thank you. You know what. I'll save your email. You

156
00:06:15.800 --> 00:06:21.279
<v Speaker 1>never know what will happen next one, Jenny writes in

157
00:06:21.720 --> 00:06:23.639
<v Speaker 1>I love your show. I know sometimes you guys are

158
00:06:23.720 --> 00:06:26.519
<v Speaker 1>leery of recommendations. Last night I went down a rabbit

159
00:06:26.560 --> 00:06:29.480
<v Speaker 1>hole of Selene Dion stiff person syndrome. It was too

160
00:06:29.560 --> 00:06:31.839
<v Speaker 1>hot out this weekend, I recommend you watch I Am

161
00:06:31.879 --> 00:06:36.759
<v Speaker 1>Celen Dion on Amazon Prime. Always a fantastic always It

162
00:06:36.800 --> 00:06:39.360
<v Speaker 1>is a fantastic documentary on her short journey of this

163
00:06:39.519 --> 00:06:43.639
<v Speaker 1>disease because she has stiff person syndrome. So there's a recommendation.

164
00:06:44.519 --> 00:06:47.879
<v Speaker 1>Thanks for reading Happy Friday, I might do that. We're

165
00:06:47.959 --> 00:06:50.560
<v Speaker 1>right now binging season twelve of Alone.

166
00:06:50.879 --> 00:06:52.160
<v Speaker 3>There's twelve seasons of that.

167
00:06:52.439 --> 00:06:55.519
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Wow, we watched maybe season three or five years

168
00:06:55.560 --> 00:06:57.920
<v Speaker 1>ago and we were running out of things to watch,

169
00:06:57.959 --> 00:07:00.199
<v Speaker 1>so I said, well, wat And it's so compelling. It

170
00:07:00.240 --> 00:07:03.720
<v Speaker 1>is so interesting. Basically, these people are set out in

171
00:07:03.720 --> 00:07:07.160
<v Speaker 1>the middle of nowhere, like Saskatchewan or somewhere, and they

172
00:07:07.199 --> 00:07:09.959
<v Speaker 1>have to build a cabin and fish and hunt, and

173
00:07:10.959 --> 00:07:14.079
<v Speaker 1>it really is interesting. And I guess I did a

174
00:07:14.079 --> 00:07:17.040
<v Speaker 1>spoiler the other day by accident talking about yeah, like

175
00:07:17.079 --> 00:07:18.879
<v Speaker 1>who had dropped out or tapped out already?

176
00:07:18.920 --> 00:07:20.920
<v Speaker 4>So I think, did you say names or did you

177
00:07:20.920 --> 00:07:22.519
<v Speaker 4>say specific things about the contestants?

178
00:07:23.120 --> 00:07:24.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I share pretty much name them.

179
00:07:24.800 --> 00:07:24.959
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

180
00:07:25.879 --> 00:07:31.240
<v Speaker 1>Thank Jenny Lucas writes in this one is for Jenny.

181
00:07:31.279 --> 00:07:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Did you hear about this tragic fall? I believe I

182
00:07:35.120 --> 00:07:37.480
<v Speaker 1>know what he's referring to, and he attaches I think

183
00:07:37.480 --> 00:07:39.560
<v Speaker 1>a video or a story and I'm not going to

184
00:07:39.600 --> 00:07:41.720
<v Speaker 1>be able to watch it right now. But this is

185
00:07:41.759 --> 00:07:46.120
<v Speaker 1>a woman who was a u Arizona University ASU student,

186
00:07:46.399 --> 00:07:48.399
<v Speaker 1>and she went hiking, I think, with her father on

187
00:07:48.560 --> 00:07:51.759
<v Speaker 1>Half Dome in Yosemite. Now, you can climb up half Dome.

188
00:07:51.879 --> 00:07:54.519
<v Speaker 1>It is literally you take a dome and you split

189
00:07:54.560 --> 00:07:57.959
<v Speaker 1>it in half. You can technical climb with ropes and

190
00:07:58.000 --> 00:08:01.759
<v Speaker 1>everything up the flat face that's called half Dome the

191
00:08:01.759 --> 00:08:04.639
<v Speaker 1>hard way, or you can take a trail up the backside.

192
00:08:04.639 --> 00:08:05.519
<v Speaker 1>Do you know anything about this?

193
00:08:06.079 --> 00:08:08.560
<v Speaker 4>I did see it. It's very sad. I'm pretty sure

194
00:08:08.560 --> 00:08:10.600
<v Speaker 4>they made it to the top. And I didn't read

195
00:08:10.600 --> 00:08:12.480
<v Speaker 4>the full article, but I think they made it to

196
00:08:12.560 --> 00:08:14.360
<v Speaker 4>the top. And the article says that she had just

197
00:08:14.639 --> 00:08:16.800
<v Speaker 4>told her dad, I love you like you know. They

198
00:08:16.839 --> 00:08:19.759
<v Speaker 4>just accomplished this thing together, and I think she fell

199
00:08:19.800 --> 00:08:23.040
<v Speaker 4>on the way down and she died. It's so sad.

200
00:08:23.560 --> 00:08:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let me open it up and see if I

201
00:08:25.120 --> 00:08:28.879
<v Speaker 1>can find out more about it. Yeah, there's a video.

202
00:08:29.160 --> 00:08:32.440
<v Speaker 1>She's a you know, college aide student, and it says

203
00:08:32.480 --> 00:08:35.039
<v Speaker 1>a heartbroken dad is speaking out after his daughter died

204
00:08:35.080 --> 00:08:39.440
<v Speaker 1>while they hiked Yosemite's Half Dome. Grace Rollof was hiking

205
00:08:39.440 --> 00:08:42.799
<v Speaker 1>with her dad. Jonathan tells Inside Edition that his daughter

206
00:08:42.840 --> 00:08:44.919
<v Speaker 1>had checked the forecast when they made it to the top.

207
00:08:45.600 --> 00:08:48.600
<v Speaker 1>A storm appeared out of nowhere. It began to pour

208
00:08:48.799 --> 00:08:52.720
<v Speaker 1>during their descent. Unfortunately, she slipped off the side. As

209
00:08:52.799 --> 00:08:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Jonathan roll Off warns his daughter's death, he says he

210
00:08:55.159 --> 00:08:59.320
<v Speaker 1>will now work on making Half Dome a safer adventure.

211
00:09:00.039 --> 00:09:02.559
<v Speaker 1>And Yeah, my god, that.

212
00:09:02.600 --> 00:09:05.559
<v Speaker 4>Like breaks my heart because I feel like they weren't

213
00:09:05.600 --> 00:09:08.559
<v Speaker 4>like super they weren't doing anything dumb, you know, Like

214
00:09:08.679 --> 00:09:10.759
<v Speaker 4>it's not like they didn't bring water or something. They

215
00:09:10.879 --> 00:09:13.200
<v Speaker 4>it's got such an unfortunate weather.

216
00:09:13.879 --> 00:09:18.799
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I think there are cables you hold on to,

217
00:09:19.519 --> 00:09:22.840
<v Speaker 1>but you're not like buckled into the cables, like sometimes

218
00:09:22.879 --> 00:09:24.360
<v Speaker 1>when you do some sort of a sense kind of

219
00:09:24.360 --> 00:09:26.120
<v Speaker 1>like a ropes course and you go up and you're

220
00:09:26.159 --> 00:09:27.840
<v Speaker 1>even if you fall off the ropes course at Mall

221
00:09:27.879 --> 00:09:30.320
<v Speaker 1>of America, you're hanging by a belt, you know what

222
00:09:30.360 --> 00:09:35.159
<v Speaker 1>I mean. So, and they said that she was not inexperienced. Yeah,

223
00:09:35.159 --> 00:09:37.279
<v Speaker 1>but it's just I think I think that they're you know,

224
00:09:37.320 --> 00:09:39.480
<v Speaker 1>like when I hike Pike's Peak, there are no treacherous

225
00:09:39.559 --> 00:09:42.799
<v Speaker 1>falls that I know of. I haven't hiked all the

226
00:09:42.799 --> 00:09:47.279
<v Speaker 1>way up yet, but most trails, if you fall, you fall,

227
00:09:47.320 --> 00:09:49.519
<v Speaker 1>you get back up. But apparently someone was one where

228
00:09:49.519 --> 00:09:52.039
<v Speaker 1>she tumbled over the side and felt like hundreds of feet.

229
00:09:52.159 --> 00:09:57.399
<v Speaker 1>So she says, this guy, this text or emailer says,

230
00:09:57.399 --> 00:09:59.879
<v Speaker 1>my question is why doesn't this hike have safety cables.

231
00:10:00.200 --> 00:10:02.200
<v Speaker 1>If they already have steel cables to hold on to,

232
00:10:02.720 --> 00:10:05.840
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't you think half Dome would install these seems absolute

233
00:10:05.879 --> 00:10:10.000
<v Speaker 1>craziness to trust yourself from not sleep slipping. That's a

234
00:10:10.000 --> 00:10:13.600
<v Speaker 1>good question. But also I think Lucas that you can't

235
00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:16.679
<v Speaker 1>make everything safe. Yeah, and people have said, well, why

236
00:10:16.679 --> 00:10:20.519
<v Speaker 1>don't they put a bar around the Grand Canyon, Well

237
00:10:20.519 --> 00:10:23.000
<v Speaker 1>you can't. You just have to rely on yourself to

238
00:10:23.000 --> 00:10:27.120
<v Speaker 1>be safe, and accidents happen. Second question for Jenny, if

239
00:10:27.120 --> 00:10:29.000
<v Speaker 1>you ever come close to an injury or even slipping

240
00:10:29.039 --> 00:10:31.159
<v Speaker 1>on a hike that you made, you question the hike.

241
00:10:31.480 --> 00:10:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Love you guys, keep up the good work. Licklick, dart

242
00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:36.559
<v Speaker 1>dart lick lick. That is from Lucas, Jenny.

243
00:10:37.360 --> 00:10:40.519
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I cut myself on a hike in Tahiti

244
00:10:40.799 --> 00:10:44.080
<v Speaker 4>just because it was like a very difficult hike. The

245
00:10:44.159 --> 00:10:47.639
<v Speaker 4>trail was barely maintained. It wasn't anything awful. I could

246
00:10:47.639 --> 00:10:49.519
<v Speaker 4>put a band aid on it. It wasn't bad. That's

247
00:10:49.559 --> 00:10:50.960
<v Speaker 4>like the only thing I can think of. But I

248
00:10:50.960 --> 00:10:53.120
<v Speaker 4>will say that we turned around on that hike because

249
00:10:53.159 --> 00:10:55.600
<v Speaker 4>we did see storm clouds going over the peak and

250
00:10:55.679 --> 00:10:58.559
<v Speaker 4>it was already so narrow of a trail that you

251
00:10:58.600 --> 00:11:00.799
<v Speaker 4>could like fall to your death if you slipped off

252
00:11:00.840 --> 00:11:02.480
<v Speaker 4>either side of it, because it was kind of a

253
00:11:02.519 --> 00:11:05.480
<v Speaker 4>ridgeline hike, and once we saw the storm clouds, I

254
00:11:05.519 --> 00:11:08.039
<v Speaker 4>was like, going back down will be even harder, especially

255
00:11:08.120 --> 00:11:11.679
<v Speaker 4>if it rains. So we trusted our instinct on that one,

256
00:11:11.720 --> 00:11:13.480
<v Speaker 4>and I don't think it ever ended up raining, but

257
00:11:13.559 --> 00:11:16.000
<v Speaker 4>we didn't want to risk it, so we turned around.

258
00:11:16.480 --> 00:11:18.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a really good idea. I know that you

259
00:11:18.600 --> 00:11:21.159
<v Speaker 1>don't want to get caught in the open during the thunderstorm,

260
00:11:21.159 --> 00:11:22.440
<v Speaker 1>and that is one of the things we learned when

261
00:11:22.480 --> 00:11:25.720
<v Speaker 1>we were boy Scouts. We went to New Mexico because

262
00:11:25.840 --> 00:11:28.759
<v Speaker 1>the year before us, our troop got caught in a

263
00:11:28.799 --> 00:11:34.080
<v Speaker 1>thunderstorm on an exposed, treeless peak. And what you're supposed

264
00:11:34.120 --> 00:11:36.919
<v Speaker 1>to do when you're on a hike and you're out

265
00:11:36.919 --> 00:11:40.159
<v Speaker 1>in the open, you're supposed to put your backpack on

266
00:11:40.200 --> 00:11:44.080
<v Speaker 1>the ground, squat on top of your backpack, and be

267
00:11:44.159 --> 00:11:46.399
<v Speaker 1>a good fifty or one hundred yards from every other

268
00:11:46.480 --> 00:11:48.840
<v Speaker 1>person in your group. You don't want to huddle up

269
00:11:48.840 --> 00:11:50.600
<v Speaker 1>in a bunch because if one of you get struck,

270
00:11:50.639 --> 00:11:53.120
<v Speaker 1>then you're all going to get struck. So you're supposed

271
00:11:53.120 --> 00:11:56.039
<v Speaker 1>to put your backpack on the ground, squat on it,

272
00:11:56.200 --> 00:11:59.519
<v Speaker 1>and then like you know, duck down so you stay low.

273
00:12:00.759 --> 00:12:02.440
<v Speaker 4>This might be a dumb question, but what if you

274
00:12:02.440 --> 00:12:05.159
<v Speaker 4>have like cell phones or technology in the backpack?

275
00:12:05.360 --> 00:12:06.639
<v Speaker 5>Is that like not good to do?

276
00:12:06.840 --> 00:12:09.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know. Yeah, yeah, I just go.

277
00:12:09.480 --> 00:12:11.039
<v Speaker 5>Throw your cell phone fifty feet away too.

278
00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:15.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I guess. Yeah, you definitely don't want

279
00:12:15.039 --> 00:12:17.440
<v Speaker 1>to take your hiking poll and point up at the thunder.

280
00:12:17.799 --> 00:12:22.720
<v Speaker 1>So all right, next one, Dave Bailey, Jenny vont it

281
00:12:22.759 --> 00:12:25.399
<v Speaker 1>is Charisse. I guess probably be a question for Dave.

282
00:12:25.480 --> 00:12:27.639
<v Speaker 1>Next week, on July thirty first, it'll be twelve years

283
00:12:27.679 --> 00:12:30.399
<v Speaker 1>since I lost my mom. Even though it's been twelve years,

284
00:12:30.399 --> 00:12:32.639
<v Speaker 1>I still cry and get sad and depressed around this time.

285
00:12:32.720 --> 00:12:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Since I know Dave has lost both parents, I was

286
00:12:35.159 --> 00:12:37.399
<v Speaker 1>wondering how he handles the feelings of sadness. Do you

287
00:12:37.440 --> 00:12:39.759
<v Speaker 1>try to think of happy memories with your parents or

288
00:12:39.799 --> 00:12:41.919
<v Speaker 1>do you keep yourself busy on those days? By the way,

289
00:12:42.159 --> 00:12:45.240
<v Speaker 1>your mom by Oh, my mom was my only parent,

290
00:12:45.360 --> 00:12:48.320
<v Speaker 1>so losing her was devastating. Any advice would be appreciated.

291
00:12:48.600 --> 00:12:51.039
<v Speaker 1>I just want to stop randomly breaking into tears when

292
00:12:51.080 --> 00:12:53.360
<v Speaker 1>I think about her. Thank you if you read this

293
00:12:53.600 --> 00:13:00.480
<v Speaker 1>all all right, Charise, thank you. Twelve years is a

294
00:13:00.519 --> 00:13:05.159
<v Speaker 1>long time and it does get easier, for sure. And

295
00:13:05.200 --> 00:13:06.519
<v Speaker 1>I think that most of the time when I think

296
00:13:06.519 --> 00:13:08.519
<v Speaker 1>about my parents now, I think of the happy things.

297
00:13:08.879 --> 00:13:11.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't think of anything sad. Maybe they've been gone

298
00:13:11.279 --> 00:13:17.840
<v Speaker 1>for a long time, and while we were close, I

299
00:13:17.879 --> 00:13:19.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want to say that we I think we had

300
00:13:20.000 --> 00:13:22.679
<v Speaker 1>gotten to a part where I didn't talk to them

301
00:13:22.720 --> 00:13:26.240
<v Speaker 1>as much. I still love them just as much, but

302
00:13:26.279 --> 00:13:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I guess I didn't rely on them for things. It

303
00:13:29.440 --> 00:13:31.399
<v Speaker 1>was just always nice. And the nice thing about having

304
00:13:31.399 --> 00:13:33.840
<v Speaker 1>a parent when you get older is like you know

305
00:13:34.000 --> 00:13:35.919
<v Speaker 1>they're always there for you, and you know that if

306
00:13:35.919 --> 00:13:37.639
<v Speaker 1>you needed them, you can go back and move into

307
00:13:37.639 --> 00:13:39.960
<v Speaker 1>your basement room anytime you want to. And I think

308
00:13:39.960 --> 00:13:41.840
<v Speaker 1>that's true with I would tell Carson or any of

309
00:13:41.879 --> 00:13:44.799
<v Speaker 1>my kids, everything's get rough, you come back and you

310
00:13:44.840 --> 00:13:47.840
<v Speaker 1>move in with mom and dad. But I would say

311
00:13:48.679 --> 00:13:51.799
<v Speaker 1>for me, I think time has just created more of

312
00:13:51.840 --> 00:13:56.320
<v Speaker 1>a softness to the pain. And I also, I really

313
00:13:56.720 --> 00:14:00.240
<v Speaker 1>have comforted myself with this. As a parent, if I die,

314
00:14:01.039 --> 00:14:04.720
<v Speaker 1>I would not want my kids to be so sad

315
00:14:05.759 --> 00:14:09.440
<v Speaker 1>that they couldn't function or they couldn't enjoy life. So,

316
00:14:09.440 --> 00:14:12.399
<v Speaker 1>in other words, if if I died, I would expect

317
00:14:12.399 --> 00:14:14.480
<v Speaker 1>and demand that they'd be sad for a while, and

318
00:14:14.600 --> 00:14:17.360
<v Speaker 1>like plant a tree or something, I would demand that.

319
00:14:17.559 --> 00:14:19.679
<v Speaker 1>And if they weren't sad, I'd be pissed, But I

320
00:14:19.720 --> 00:14:24.480
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want them to not be the same or enjoy life.

321
00:14:24.519 --> 00:14:26.039
<v Speaker 1>And I have a friend of mine whose parents have

322
00:14:26.120 --> 00:14:29.039
<v Speaker 1>both died. She's my age, and she's still she won't

323
00:14:29.080 --> 00:14:31.840
<v Speaker 1>live her life because she's so sad. And I think

324
00:14:31.879 --> 00:14:35.399
<v Speaker 1>your mom and dad would have been devastated to think

325
00:14:35.399 --> 00:14:38.120
<v Speaker 1>that you are so devastated that you can't enjoy life anymore.

326
00:14:38.440 --> 00:14:40.440
<v Speaker 1>So your mom and dad will still want you to

327
00:14:40.559 --> 00:14:43.279
<v Speaker 1>be happy. They're not here to tell you that, but

328
00:14:43.279 --> 00:14:46.559
<v Speaker 1>if they were here, they would say, cheris, I want

329
00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:49.559
<v Speaker 1>you to be happy. Think about the happy things about me. Now,

330
00:14:49.559 --> 00:14:53.720
<v Speaker 1>that's easier said than done, but I think that just

331
00:14:53.759 --> 00:14:56.159
<v Speaker 1>think of the happy thoughts. That's what your mom would want.

332
00:14:56.360 --> 00:15:00.559
<v Speaker 1>Think the happy thoughts, all right, Next one it is.

333
00:15:01.440 --> 00:15:06.320
<v Speaker 1>The subject is skibbity Toilet's comment s gimbity. Okay, so

334
00:15:06.440 --> 00:15:08.360
<v Speaker 1>this is this came up on the show the other

335
00:15:08.440 --> 00:15:11.000
<v Speaker 1>day and Bailey, I think it was on Wednesday or

336
00:15:11.000 --> 00:15:13.919
<v Speaker 1>Tuesday said skibbity toilet and I thought it was just

337
00:15:13.960 --> 00:15:17.240
<v Speaker 1>one of Bailey's random, weird ass things that come out

338
00:15:17.279 --> 00:15:19.519
<v Speaker 1>of her mouth. And it turns out this is a phrase.

339
00:15:19.639 --> 00:15:23.320
<v Speaker 2>It's a real thing that gen Alpha says, and in

340
00:15:23.399 --> 00:15:25.120
<v Speaker 2>looking into it, because I was trying to find out

341
00:15:25.200 --> 00:15:28.519
<v Speaker 2>exactly what it means, it's this whole like brain rot

342
00:15:28.639 --> 00:15:31.799
<v Speaker 2>thing that like Jen Alpha does apparently when they say

343
00:15:31.799 --> 00:15:35.360
<v Speaker 2>things that truly mean nothing, and skibby toilet is one

344
00:15:35.399 --> 00:15:35.919
<v Speaker 2>of those things.

345
00:15:35.960 --> 00:15:36.120
<v Speaker 1>Though.

346
00:15:36.120 --> 00:15:38.440
<v Speaker 3>It is like a music thing.

347
00:15:38.519 --> 00:15:41.720
<v Speaker 2>It's like a song thing, and it's creepy video where

348
00:15:42.000 --> 00:15:44.000
<v Speaker 2>heads come out of toilets and they have creepy eyes.

349
00:15:44.080 --> 00:15:47.279
<v Speaker 2>It's all like cgi and I don't know is a fortnite?

350
00:15:47.320 --> 00:15:47.799
<v Speaker 3>Who knows?

351
00:15:48.039 --> 00:15:48.120
<v Speaker 2>So?

352
00:15:48.240 --> 00:15:50.279
<v Speaker 1>Is it an expression like you drop your sandwich in

353
00:15:50.279 --> 00:15:51.919
<v Speaker 1>the mud and you go, ah, skibbity toilet.

354
00:15:51.960 --> 00:15:53.120
<v Speaker 3>I have absolutely no idea.

355
00:15:53.200 --> 00:15:54.080
<v Speaker 5>It makes no sense.

356
00:15:54.120 --> 00:15:55.440
<v Speaker 4>When we were talking about it on the show, was

357
00:15:55.440 --> 00:15:56.960
<v Speaker 4>trying to google it and I could not understand.

358
00:15:57.080 --> 00:15:59.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it doesn't mean anything. That and like they say,

359
00:15:59.440 --> 00:16:01.840
<v Speaker 2>what the sig? And that doesn't mean anything.

360
00:16:01.919 --> 00:16:05.120
<v Speaker 3>And just like skibby riz and skibbity Ohio or whatever,

361
00:16:05.519 --> 00:16:07.399
<v Speaker 3>none of that means anything.

362
00:16:07.519 --> 00:16:12.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, she says, good morning. I've been listening to

363
00:16:12.200 --> 00:16:14.200
<v Speaker 1>Show since the nineties. You guys make my mornings. I

364
00:16:14.240 --> 00:16:17.200
<v Speaker 1>wanted to comment on the Skibby toilets conversation from last week.

365
00:16:17.440 --> 00:16:19.559
<v Speaker 1>I'm a mom in my forties. I had no idea

366
00:16:19.600 --> 00:16:22.159
<v Speaker 1>this was kid LINGO. I hear my two youngest using

367
00:16:22.200 --> 00:16:24.639
<v Speaker 1>this term and I thought they made it up. I

368
00:16:24.720 --> 00:16:28.399
<v Speaker 1>had no idea. It is what the kids say. Thanks

369
00:16:28.399 --> 00:16:30.919
<v Speaker 1>for educating me. And now I know why my youngest

370
00:16:30.960 --> 00:16:34.679
<v Speaker 1>calls me a boomer even though I'm in my early forties.

371
00:16:35.480 --> 00:16:38.240
<v Speaker 1>I am a teacher. My question for you is what

372
00:16:38.320 --> 00:16:40.639
<v Speaker 1>was your favorite elective class in high school? I am

373
00:16:40.679 --> 00:16:44.120
<v Speaker 1>an FACS HOMEC teacher. Love you guys, look forward to

374
00:16:44.159 --> 00:16:46.840
<v Speaker 1>listening to you on my commute to work all year long.

375
00:16:47.240 --> 00:16:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I live in Austin aka Spam Town. I would love

376
00:16:50.159 --> 00:16:53.080
<v Speaker 1>a staff writer sticker that is from Jennifer in Austin, Minnesota.

377
00:16:53.440 --> 00:16:55.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna let Jenny go first. What was your favorite

378
00:16:55.440 --> 00:16:56.399
<v Speaker 1>elective back in school?

379
00:16:56.440 --> 00:16:59.000
<v Speaker 4>I would say ap stats because I loved math and

380
00:16:59.039 --> 00:17:01.559
<v Speaker 4>I just thought stats was super fun and everything about

381
00:17:01.600 --> 00:17:04.680
<v Speaker 4>it was decently easy for me, except for probability. I

382
00:17:04.680 --> 00:17:07.240
<v Speaker 4>struggled with that for some reason. But also, my teacher

383
00:17:07.519 --> 00:17:10.400
<v Speaker 4>was one of the bigger influences in my life to

384
00:17:10.400 --> 00:17:12.279
<v Speaker 4>help decide where I went to college. He was just

385
00:17:12.359 --> 00:17:15.200
<v Speaker 4>so fucking cool and he kind of talked me through

386
00:17:15.359 --> 00:17:17.160
<v Speaker 4>because it was my senior year, my decision to go

387
00:17:17.480 --> 00:17:20.000
<v Speaker 4>either Marquette or the u of M, and he was

388
00:17:20.039 --> 00:17:21.559
<v Speaker 4>more on the side of the u of M. Without

389
00:17:21.559 --> 00:17:24.440
<v Speaker 4>being like biased, I could tell he was, and that's

390
00:17:24.480 --> 00:17:26.279
<v Speaker 4>where I decided to go, not only because of him,

391
00:17:26.279 --> 00:17:27.680
<v Speaker 4>but he made some very good points.

392
00:17:27.720 --> 00:17:30.680
<v Speaker 1>So, Bailey, what was your favorite elective?

393
00:17:31.400 --> 00:17:34.119
<v Speaker 2>I would probably sit like. We had theater classes, so

394
00:17:34.200 --> 00:17:36.759
<v Speaker 2>like acting class was really fun. But I also liked,

395
00:17:36.880 --> 00:17:39.880
<v Speaker 2>uh photo. It was called photo video, which is such

396
00:17:39.880 --> 00:17:43.480
<v Speaker 2>a stupid name for a class, but we just used

397
00:17:43.680 --> 00:17:45.759
<v Speaker 2>you know, it was like the photography class and everything,

398
00:17:45.839 --> 00:17:48.799
<v Speaker 2>and it was super fun and I ended up teaching

399
00:17:48.839 --> 00:17:50.720
<v Speaker 2>half of that class because my teacher didn't know how

400
00:17:50.759 --> 00:17:53.759
<v Speaker 2>to use photoshop, so I knew how to use photoshop,

401
00:17:53.839 --> 00:17:56.000
<v Speaker 2>just because I was chronically always on the internet and

402
00:17:56.039 --> 00:17:58.880
<v Speaker 2>on my computer during the summer instead of outside, and

403
00:17:59.240 --> 00:18:01.279
<v Speaker 2>so I would teach their kids in the class how

404
00:18:01.279 --> 00:18:02.039
<v Speaker 2>to use photoshop.

405
00:18:02.079 --> 00:18:03.839
<v Speaker 3>I felt better than everybody.

406
00:18:04.000 --> 00:18:08.400
<v Speaker 1>That is cool, I would say mine was probably I

407
00:18:08.440 --> 00:18:11.920
<v Speaker 1>don't really remember. I took band and I was not great,

408
00:18:12.240 --> 00:18:16.440
<v Speaker 1>But I think my favorite elective was probably in ninth grade.

409
00:18:17.039 --> 00:18:20.640
<v Speaker 1>It was called batching it, which was a term that

410
00:18:20.680 --> 00:18:23.920
<v Speaker 1>they used to use back in the day. Batching was

411
00:18:23.960 --> 00:18:28.039
<v Speaker 1>short for bachelor. So batch's to learn to do things

412
00:18:28.079 --> 00:18:30.519
<v Speaker 1>if you don't have a woman around the house to

413
00:18:30.599 --> 00:18:33.759
<v Speaker 1>do things for you. That was a class batching it. Yeah,

414
00:18:34.079 --> 00:18:36.480
<v Speaker 1>so it was basically being a bachelor. Learned to cook

415
00:18:36.599 --> 00:18:39.240
<v Speaker 1>and learn to sew. And so the cooking part, I

416
00:18:39.319 --> 00:18:41.200
<v Speaker 1>knew how to cook. I baked my ass off when

417
00:18:41.240 --> 00:18:42.519
<v Speaker 1>I was a kid, And one of the reasons I

418
00:18:42.519 --> 00:18:44.480
<v Speaker 1>did is because it made my dad so happy. He's like,

419
00:18:44.519 --> 00:18:46.839
<v Speaker 1>look at Dave. He's making a cake. He made fudge,

420
00:18:46.839 --> 00:18:50.440
<v Speaker 1>he made brownies. But we sewed. I learned to sew

421
00:18:50.720 --> 00:18:53.960
<v Speaker 1>in this class. And I've told this story before. I

422
00:18:54.000 --> 00:18:55.960
<v Speaker 1>was in ninth grade, so I was growing like a weed.

423
00:18:56.559 --> 00:19:00.599
<v Speaker 1>I the beginning of the semester I bought a down kit.

424
00:19:01.279 --> 00:19:03.319
<v Speaker 1>So you buy the stuff and you buy the down

425
00:19:03.400 --> 00:19:05.240
<v Speaker 1>and you make the down vest. And I made this

426
00:19:05.319 --> 00:19:07.359
<v Speaker 1>down vest. It took me about three or four months

427
00:19:07.400 --> 00:19:10.839
<v Speaker 1>to make it, an hour at a time. And by

428
00:19:10.839 --> 00:19:13.319
<v Speaker 1>the time I finished the down vest, I had outgrown it.

429
00:19:13.400 --> 00:19:15.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, and it really it was. It bummed me

430
00:19:15.640 --> 00:19:17.279
<v Speaker 1>out because it was like, fuck, I made this down

431
00:19:17.359 --> 00:19:19.920
<v Speaker 1>vest and I remember putting it on and it was

432
00:19:19.960 --> 00:19:22.279
<v Speaker 1>too small, and I was like, so sad. I wore

433
00:19:22.279 --> 00:19:24.240
<v Speaker 1>it a couple of times. I'm like, it's too small

434
00:19:24.559 --> 00:19:27.680
<v Speaker 1>and I still have it. I should throw it away.

435
00:19:27.839 --> 00:19:28.599
<v Speaker 1>What am I going to do with it?

436
00:19:29.319 --> 00:19:30.200
<v Speaker 3>Would it fit Carson?

437
00:19:30.359 --> 00:19:31.359
<v Speaker 1>He doesn't want all this shit?

438
00:19:31.440 --> 00:19:31.839
<v Speaker 3>Take it?

439
00:19:32.799 --> 00:19:34.200
<v Speaker 1>You? Really? Would you want my down vest?

440
00:19:34.279 --> 00:19:35.000
<v Speaker 3>I mean, is it cute?

441
00:19:35.279 --> 00:19:38.000
<v Speaker 1>It's not particularly cute. If you remind me, I will.

442
00:19:38.039 --> 00:19:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I will try to remember to bring it in when

443
00:19:39.480 --> 00:19:42.079
<v Speaker 1>I get back from Vacas. I wear it is it's

444
00:19:42.119 --> 00:19:43.200
<v Speaker 1>a down vest. It's legit.

445
00:19:43.359 --> 00:19:44.839
<v Speaker 3>I mean, if it's warm, I'll wear it.

446
00:19:44.920 --> 00:19:47.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean this idea that was called batching it, that's

447
00:19:47.440 --> 00:19:48.240
<v Speaker 2>hilarious to me.

448
00:19:48.319 --> 00:19:49.799
<v Speaker 1>That was the thing. Yeah. I was like, oh yeah,

449
00:19:49.839 --> 00:19:52.000
<v Speaker 1>well he's not married. He's twenty four years old. He's

450
00:19:52.000 --> 00:19:52.559
<v Speaker 1>batching it.

451
00:19:52.680 --> 00:19:57.240
<v Speaker 2>Wow, well this the person emailing teaches that class essentially facts. Yeah,

452
00:19:57.240 --> 00:19:59.559
<v Speaker 2>Family and consumer Science was always like the bombs class

453
00:19:59.599 --> 00:20:00.359
<v Speaker 2>too slutely.

454
00:20:00.839 --> 00:20:04.720
<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go a a high gang. I

455
00:20:04.759 --> 00:20:06.480
<v Speaker 1>need to note that I love and appreciate you all,

456
00:20:06.480 --> 00:20:10.119
<v Speaker 1>but this question is specifically for Dave. I live in Colorado,

457
00:20:10.200 --> 00:20:12.039
<v Speaker 1>been plotting my move back to Minnesota for the last

458
00:20:12.079 --> 00:20:14.160
<v Speaker 1>two months with my two and three year olds. I've

459
00:20:14.160 --> 00:20:16.640
<v Speaker 1>been with my partner for thirteen years, but we never married,

460
00:20:16.680 --> 00:20:19.599
<v Speaker 1>so I have complete custodial rights as their mother, and

461
00:20:19.640 --> 00:20:22.240
<v Speaker 1>I can move them anywhere without his approval. He is

462
00:20:22.240 --> 00:20:25.279
<v Speaker 1>a narcissist. He has cheated on me numerous times, and

463
00:20:25.319 --> 00:20:27.839
<v Speaker 1>I cringe thinking about my children inheriting some of his

464
00:20:28.000 --> 00:20:31.400
<v Speaker 1>characteristic traits. My family is amazing. I had the best

465
00:20:31.480 --> 00:20:33.559
<v Speaker 1>childhood growing up. I felt like I was part of

466
00:20:33.599 --> 00:20:35.759
<v Speaker 1>the community, had their support, which I would like to

467
00:20:35.799 --> 00:20:38.279
<v Speaker 1>give my littles as well. My question to you is

468
00:20:38.759 --> 00:20:41.079
<v Speaker 1>how did you co parent with Cricket and Julie when

469
00:20:41.079 --> 00:20:44.440
<v Speaker 1>you lived in different states? What worked and what would

470
00:20:44.480 --> 00:20:47.839
<v Speaker 1>you have changed. I am heading into uncharted territory and

471
00:20:47.920 --> 00:20:49.880
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate your advice on how I can help my

472
00:20:49.960 --> 00:20:53.519
<v Speaker 1>children maintain a relationship with their dad. Thank you, oh

473
00:20:53.559 --> 00:20:57.680
<v Speaker 1>wise one. Well, everybody's Alyssa's situation is different. Cricket was

474
00:20:58.039 --> 00:21:00.799
<v Speaker 1>very good about if we wanted to come for a

475
00:21:00.839 --> 00:21:04.440
<v Speaker 1>week or a month, she was happy to They lived

476
00:21:04.440 --> 00:21:07.200
<v Speaker 1>in a crappy environment, they really did. It was a

477
00:21:07.240 --> 00:21:10.440
<v Speaker 1>dirty house with not always the best people around Beth.

478
00:21:10.480 --> 00:21:12.559
<v Speaker 1>So whenever I had a chance or Cricket had a

479
00:21:12.640 --> 00:21:15.640
<v Speaker 1>chance to send Beth to me, she would gladly send her.

480
00:21:15.880 --> 00:21:18.480
<v Speaker 1>And Beth loved coming up to see us, So that

481
00:21:18.599 --> 00:21:21.480
<v Speaker 1>was never an issue. With Chase. It was a little

482
00:21:21.519 --> 00:21:23.200
<v Speaker 1>bit different because there was a lot of resentment and

483
00:21:23.240 --> 00:21:27.400
<v Speaker 1>bitterness with Julie, and so Julie used to poke the

484
00:21:27.440 --> 00:21:31.839
<v Speaker 1>bear every chance she got. Every chance she got, she

485
00:21:31.880 --> 00:21:34.559
<v Speaker 1>would try to make things as difficult or as expensive

486
00:21:34.599 --> 00:21:38.559
<v Speaker 1>as possible. But I would say, if you're dealing with

487
00:21:38.599 --> 00:21:42.799
<v Speaker 1>somebody difficult, document everything. Document like right down. If the

488
00:21:42.880 --> 00:21:47.160
<v Speaker 1>kids went and visited Dad, document what they did, Like

489
00:21:47.400 --> 00:21:49.720
<v Speaker 1>did he just make them sit around and watch TV

490
00:21:49.880 --> 00:21:53.759
<v Speaker 1>all weekend? Did he send money or did he not

491
00:21:53.920 --> 00:21:57.119
<v Speaker 1>send money? Did he pay for this? Did he call

492
00:21:57.160 --> 00:22:00.000
<v Speaker 1>the kids and tell him they're stupid? Was he drunk? Document?

493
00:22:00.079 --> 00:22:04.960
<v Speaker 1>Meant everything other than that, don't expect a lot, don't

494
00:22:05.000 --> 00:22:09.519
<v Speaker 1>have high expectations, but if you can have him at

495
00:22:09.599 --> 00:22:13.799
<v Speaker 1>least involved in the kid's life. But also gauge what

496
00:22:13.880 --> 00:22:16.200
<v Speaker 1>the kids are saying about the visits with dad. And

497
00:22:16.279 --> 00:22:19.000
<v Speaker 1>also remember Alyssa that kids will tell you what they

498
00:22:19.000 --> 00:22:21.880
<v Speaker 1>want to hear. So if you if the kids think

499
00:22:21.960 --> 00:22:23.920
<v Speaker 1>that you want to hear they had a miserable time

500
00:22:23.920 --> 00:22:26.400
<v Speaker 1>with dad, they will tell you they had a miserable

501
00:22:26.440 --> 00:22:28.920
<v Speaker 1>time with dad. Because Chase used to do that when

502
00:22:28.920 --> 00:22:32.160
<v Speaker 1>he was little. He'd be like, I gotta go visit Dad,

503
00:22:32.400 --> 00:22:34.799
<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to And he would say that

504
00:22:34.839 --> 00:22:36.839
<v Speaker 1>because he was six years old and he wanted to

505
00:22:36.839 --> 00:22:40.599
<v Speaker 1>tell mom exactly what she wanted to hear. So, all right,

506
00:22:40.680 --> 00:22:43.400
<v Speaker 1>thank you for that one, and we're going to wrap

507
00:22:43.519 --> 00:22:46.440
<v Speaker 1>up on the Minnesota Goodbye. That's going to do it

508
00:22:46.599 --> 00:22:47.799
<v Speaker 1>because it's time.

509
00:22:48.039 --> 00:22:49.680
<v Speaker 3>It's time, it's time.

510
00:22:49.960 --> 00:22:52.519
<v Speaker 1>Send it in to Ryan's show at katiewb dot com

511
00:22:52.559 --> 00:22:53.720
<v Speaker 1>if you got something to talk about.
