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<v Speaker 1>From Workhouse Connect and aj Benze fame. He'd liked to

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<v Speaker 1>be walked on a leash and play really dirty kinky

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<v Speaker 1>sex games. Is uh the guy put the cock in

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<v Speaker 1>the Peacock network. Okay, bitch, Hey, everybody aj Benzi here

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<v Speaker 1>with fame is a bitch. This is your daily unfiltered podcast. Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>should Mike put it up tonight? Well, you'll probably get

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<v Speaker 1>up tonight Tuesday night. Solely she'll have it on Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry about Monday. Sick for twelve hours, stomach sick, noise,

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<v Speaker 1>just throwing up, wretching of sorts.

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<v Speaker 2>It was horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't work with anse. I just did a whole

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<v Speaker 1>spiel on this for politics.

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<v Speaker 2>A bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to repeat it over and over. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not skipping shows. I'm not raising the price and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to work less. It's all nonsense. I just the

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<v Speaker 1>last couple of years, I'm getting sick once a month

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<v Speaker 1>with the stomach thing, and when it happens, I'm done.

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<v Speaker 1>It's twelve hours on the nose and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. Wasn't food poisoning the night before. I

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<v Speaker 1>hardly ate anything at watermelon, some straw. I ate fruit

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner. You know, so I don't know, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>back today and I want you to know that I

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<v Speaker 1>hate when I don't work. In fact, i'm I feel

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<v Speaker 1>sicker on the couch trying to not stress out, hoping

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<v Speaker 1>I can take. But the more I stress i'm the

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<v Speaker 1>more I get sicker because I don't like the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm that I'm not able to do your show.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm concern you guys think I'm playing a fast

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<v Speaker 1>one or playing hooky, which I'm not doing. And I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I said in the past, I'm locked

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<v Speaker 1>out of Patreon, so I couldn't put a note up there.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Mike did, so at least you got the word.

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<v Speaker 1>But look, I'm sorry about it. There'll be a free

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<v Speaker 1>show this week to kind of more or less make

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<v Speaker 1>up for what happened Monday, so you get extra age.

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<v Speaker 2>You got four shows for me today.

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<v Speaker 1>I taped four shows everything relationships, politics, and fame, and

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<v Speaker 1>after this is going to watch my Yankees try to

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<v Speaker 1>pull a miracle out of their ass.

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<v Speaker 2>They need it, they need it. I get very disappointed

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<v Speaker 2>when I miss the show.

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<v Speaker 1>For one reason this week was because I failed to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to talk about well a very important holiday

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<v Speaker 1>of sorts that we're not really looking into. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard of this one, but I guess a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people must look forward to it every year.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yesterday, October sixth was National Oversized Dress Appreciation Day.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, oh, I hate missing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Every year October sixth promoting body positivity, self love, and

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<v Speaker 1>the celebration of diverse body types, particularly larger bodies. It's

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<v Speaker 1>recognized by the National Day Calendar. The day serves to

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<v Speaker 1>challenge conventional beauties. That why are we're challenging them? There

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<v Speaker 1>are standards of beauty, period, just like there's a blood

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<v Speaker 1>pressure range healthy and dangerous, there's blood levels, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many different things in our body that give you

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<v Speaker 1>a wide range of you're good, you're healthy. Up that

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<v Speaker 1>number is too high? Better lower you live in number.

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<v Speaker 1>Better lower this number your diet, your sugar levels too.

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<v Speaker 2>Why can't beauty be the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people could work on the side of themselves, not

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<v Speaker 1>not their features so much lest they got money and

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<v Speaker 1>want to do with facial surgery. I'm not in favor

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<v Speaker 1>for that, but most people could help themselves out, like

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<v Speaker 1>you have to help yourself out with high blood pressure

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<v Speaker 1>or hypertension, whatever the hell you got high cholesterol, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the blood pounds we get back that say what levels up?

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<v Speaker 1>With levels down? Correct this fix that beauty should be

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing, because beauty is tied to health in

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<v Speaker 1>in my opinion, they're pretty tight together, beauty and health.

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<v Speaker 2>But either way, look supposed to build.

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<v Speaker 1>Confidence and plus size individuals by acknowledging their inherent value

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<v Speaker 1>and elegance.

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<v Speaker 2>They have value, of course, elegance.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean some might, but it's not elegant when you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to wear a size twenty dress and that's not elegant.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people say when they see someone in the

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<v Speaker 1>size eighteen of size twenty dress come to a function,

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<v Speaker 1>she tried. I mean, that's a nice stress.

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<v Speaker 2>She tried. No one says, my god, that she blow

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<v Speaker 2>me over. No one says that anyhow. I don't keep

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<v Speaker 2>picking on this stuff just.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, body positivity is still very important in

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<v Speaker 1>this world. Challenge beauty standards, boost your confidence. Acknowledging inclusivity.

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<v Speaker 1>There's that word again, diversity inclusivity. All right, share the

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<v Speaker 1>hashtag on social media. I forgot to do that. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what shop inclusive brands there we go inclusive diversity.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all there.

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<v Speaker 1>They used every word. Isn't that something unbelievable? Ask brands

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<v Speaker 1>to increase their offering of plus sized clothing and accessories?

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<v Speaker 2>What are they your accessories? What do you get?

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<v Speaker 1>Bigger necklaces, bigger ear rings? What except you mean belts?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I don't know. Jesus Christ, and you know.

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<v Speaker 2>The seventh of October was National Taco Day.

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<v Speaker 1>You see how Taco Day comes after National Plus Sized

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<v Speaker 1>Dress Appreciation Day. So the people who have to wear

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<v Speaker 1>plus sized dresses can do. Can go to any taco

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<v Speaker 1>bell they want and shout down like crazy, have their

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen tacos before they go shopping.

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<v Speaker 2>Makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>That was kind of the national day calendar. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a gay Pride being celebrated again this month in

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<v Speaker 1>different parts of the country, so they have June and October.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought October was Italian History month, Italian Pride month.

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<v Speaker 1>See my two months June my birthday. I've told of

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<v Speaker 1>my background of both getting the gay treatment, the gay

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<v Speaker 1>pride treatment, and I don't like it. It feels personal.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you a cute story that resonates with

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<v Speaker 1>me and Joey and Rosalie, the whole thing. When Jackie

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<v Speaker 1>was younger, he loved the game Zelda. He wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>that young. He loved Zelda until he was gone. He

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<v Speaker 1>loved playing Zelda. I never played it. I've seen people

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<v Speaker 1>play it. I find it. It would drive me crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>little girl, Hey, he flipping around. I can't do that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But that generation grew up with their hands on controllers,

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<v Speaker 1>so to them and second nature, and you'd always get

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<v Speaker 1>Joey to play with him. Joey didn't like Zelda. Joey

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<v Speaker 1>back then was too much at the sports and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>outside of playing James Bond, which I love the sniper

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<v Speaker 1>game where you dinner every time he got killed Dan

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<v Speaker 1>and Joey was a great sniper, and I wasn't good

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<v Speaker 1>at the game.

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<v Speaker 2>So I turned a corner. I could never operate the

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<v Speaker 2>controllers right.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought spinning around my James mom would spin around,

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<v Speaker 1>run into walls, and Joey would find places in buildings

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<v Speaker 1>and just put me in the sites and blow my

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<v Speaker 1>head off and the whole screen would fill with red.

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<v Speaker 2>So I stopped playing airball.

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<v Speaker 1>But Joey was interested in sports and James Bond didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to play Zelda, didn't want to do it. But

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<v Speaker 1>as he gets older, he discovers Zelda and he's been

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<v Speaker 1>playing it a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>When he's free, he jumps on the computer and plays it.

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<v Speaker 1>And now he's got cc and Ava into it and

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<v Speaker 1>they love it. They play together with him, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>a great bonding thing. We used to play that with

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<v Speaker 1>Roxy and Rocco back in the day. But it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun for the family to play. And he said,

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<v Speaker 1>can you I used to.

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<v Speaker 2>Hate this game. Jackie tried to me play it, and

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<v Speaker 2>now it's all my daughter's doing. I'm off.

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<v Speaker 1>We'd love to play Zelda and make fun of the screen.

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<v Speaker 1>And I go, don't you realize what happened? That was

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<v Speaker 1>Jackie's That's Jackie's gift to you. That's what he gave you.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I know, I thought of That made me cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I told mom and she cried, and I told the

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<v Speaker 1>kids that Jackie told me how to play this game.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love stories like that, you know, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to play that stupid game. Then you play

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<v Speaker 1>it and you realize, holy shit, And you know what

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<v Speaker 1>Jackie used to always do.

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<v Speaker 2>He would take our fifteen yorkies that we had back then, and.

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<v Speaker 1>He would do like wrestling moves with them because he

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<v Speaker 1>was obsessed with professional wrestling, so he'd do like but

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<v Speaker 1>in slow motion.

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<v Speaker 2>He wouldn't hurt them. Pala bombs, rear naked.

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<v Speaker 1>Chokes, all the moves you see. And he had a

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<v Speaker 1>few dogs that would like to play with me. You'd

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<v Speaker 1>count them out on the couch.

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<v Speaker 2>One, two, it's all then, and we'd all laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>And the other day I see a picture of these

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<v Speaker 1>one of these gyms that like a trampoline spot we

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<v Speaker 1>have in different towns.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a few out here.

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<v Speaker 1>They're really fun trampolines with a basketball court where kids

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<v Speaker 1>can dunk and just a bunch of tramps and even

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<v Speaker 1>the walls have patty you can jump off the walls.

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<v Speaker 1>And now they have these games, these areas where fathers

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<v Speaker 1>are just tossing their kids and doing all complete professional

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<v Speaker 1>wrestling moves. I mean, everything is going on. Kids are

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<v Speaker 1>doing with the kids father's doing today.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids.

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<v Speaker 1>It's adorable. You pick up these big rubber things and

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<v Speaker 1>smack your kid, they smack you back. Joey goes, That's

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<v Speaker 1>all I do now with the kids when we go

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<v Speaker 1>out to play. I take them with one of those parks,

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<v Speaker 1>one of those real auditoriums we want to call it.

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<v Speaker 2>And we played a wrestling game and I throw them

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<v Speaker 2>all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's something else Jackie gave to us, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>all he did, and we thought he was nuts back then.

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<v Speaker 1>None of us like wrestling. And now you're doing that

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<v Speaker 1>too with your kids. So even though he's not there

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<v Speaker 1>and never met CEC, which really broke Joey up the

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<v Speaker 1>night we all got together and met the night Jackie died,

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<v Speaker 1>Joey broke down when he just said he just hit us.

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<v Speaker 2>He I didn't think of it. He said he'll never

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<v Speaker 2>meet CC. He never met her. He only met Ava.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was sick, like I said, but watch a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of TVV as best I could, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to sleep. So I took my THC gummy gummy

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<v Speaker 1>thing and then I took two dramamine come On kick in,

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<v Speaker 1>I drank some sleepy time tea anything, and I finally

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<v Speaker 2>Thirty or so. But watch Chad Powers last night.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's on Hulu.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a story starring Glenn Powell. The handsome guy that

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<v Speaker 1>was at Sydney Sweeney and he's been very popular lately.

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<v Speaker 1>Plays a famous college football player who fucks up the

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<v Speaker 1>national championship game, drops the ball too early before it

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<v Speaker 1>crosses the goal line. Another player picks up, runs the

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<v Speaker 1>whole field back, and they lose the National championship.

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<v Speaker 2>His life spirals out of control.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not ruining anything, and we'll take it into Football's

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<v Speaker 1>his life. He'll never be a pronoun because of his

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm watching it and there's that beautiful girl, Perry Mattfield. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>still it drop. Just a beautiful girl, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>body slammed the guy twice. The guy's twice his age

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<v Speaker 1>critical condition for days. Now he's stable. Sanchez is gonna

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<v Speaker 2>I believe can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Body slam sixty nine year old men, but that's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe that there was only a three hundred

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<v Speaker 2>What the fuck is that about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna be found guilty. And once you found guilty, the

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<v Speaker 1>this beautiful Perry Matfield after three years of marriage. Stick around.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she makes her own money. Good actress, getting

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<v Speaker 1>more and more in demand. Used to be a dancer,

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<v Speaker 2>A very talented girl.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's the fact that I haven't brought this up yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is a COVID romance. They met during COVID

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<v Speaker 1>and ended up staying together. What's that called not coalescing?

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<v Speaker 1>When you have to disappear for the word they had

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<v Speaker 1>to They were together for whatever reason. And while they

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<v Speaker 1>were together, you know, hibernating for lack of a better word,

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<v Speaker 1>from the crazy virus from China. They they ended up

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<v Speaker 1>standing together and getting hitched. A lot of people fell

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<v Speaker 1>for each other during COVID. Andrew and I too. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you put a lot of thoughts in our head

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<v Speaker 1>that we could die. What are we doing? Are we

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<v Speaker 1>in something unhappy?

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<v Speaker 2>As our life? Not fulfilled? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>You just the same thing happened if at nine to eleven?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I want to be signaled? Do I want to

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<v Speaker 1>start a family? What am I doing alone this world?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I think COVID is kind of the same thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>I would venture a guest that a lot of those

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<v Speaker 1>romances that happened during COVID are either over or about

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<v Speaker 1>to be. And I think it's going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>lot different when you're dealing with a couple where one

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<v Speaker 1>completely lost his head, body slammed, an old man stabbed

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<v Speaker 1>and he's gonna be found guilty and sued for millions,

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<v Speaker 1>and a beautiful young actress. I don't think that one's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make it. I don't think she's gonna stick around

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<v Speaker 1>to be with the man who's gonna be so despised

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<v Speaker 1>and unemployable.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't make a fortune at football. I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>Not a fortune. He's still gotta work. He makes a

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<v Speaker 2>You got morals clauses and all that kind of conduct clauses.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think this relationship as we learn more and

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<v Speaker 1>more about Sanchez, they're waiting for his toxicology reports. Obviously

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<v Speaker 1>he was loaded. He was doing wind sprints in an

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<v Speaker 1>alleyway outside the bar, it's a crazy thing to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and was mad because the guy parked his car up

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<v Speaker 1>truck in a loading dock and was blocking Sanchez his

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<v Speaker 1>way in the alley. And you know the guy couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear me. He has ear plugs in because the truck

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<v Speaker 1>is so loud when he's transferring oil or grease, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be bad. By the way, you guys made

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<v Speaker 1>me laugh well making that. But there's something I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to bring up because you asked me today on the page,

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<v Speaker 1>what's some of my favorite mysteries and scandals episodes were?

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<v Speaker 1>Because one was on that somebody liked a lot, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess and they asked me my opinion, and that one

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<v Speaker 1>came after, well, this is about this is the Frankie

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<v Speaker 1>Liman episode. A good episode. Frankie Limon was definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>good episode, but the question was not true from who

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<v Speaker 1>oh Joe Leon, I wonder what episode stuck with you

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of freaked you. Schedule interested you the most

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<v Speaker 1>story wise, so I said an answer on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you. I like Frankie Lymon. Bobby Fuller is

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<v Speaker 1>a great story, Sam Cook is a great horrible ending

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<v Speaker 1>to a wonderful life. But to me, the tippy Top

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<v Speaker 1>was Alfalfa from The Little Rascals because that was the

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<v Speaker 1>first time the show ever got over a million viewers,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was enough to beat Howard Sterns, which came

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<v Speaker 1>on after us, and I thought that was so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, I wanted to show the next day and

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<v Speaker 1>told him. I kept saying, I beat you, I beat you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, what's the big deal you gave me one time? AJ,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but it's pretty cool. I know you're the

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<v Speaker 1>king of all media. But I beat you one night.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 2>And he got to kick out it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I put a I like the way I looked

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<v Speaker 1>at Alfalfa. I remember we were on top of a

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<v Speaker 1>roof at a. It was in Hollywood, off to one

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<v Speaker 1>on one by Gower, the corner off Gower and uh

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<v Speaker 1>on the corner of Gower and not Yuka, but the

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<v Speaker 1>other one Highland made. I don't forget it out Gower

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<v Speaker 1>and I forget. I haven't been up in Hollywood and

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<v Speaker 1>so long. It's disgusting up there.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I might actually do a walk through Hollywood late at

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<v Speaker 1>night to see just how bad it is. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of mine who's been doing it, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. I want to go late two o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, dress up a little ratty, and I

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<v Speaker 1>understand the stuff, the freaks that come out and the

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<v Speaker 1>rats that are everywhere, that don't even scurry if they

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<v Speaker 1>see you so brazen. Now that's gonna scam me more

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<v Speaker 1>than crazy people rats scam me more, but they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do it at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>I love the a lah no Zimova show. Most of

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<v Speaker 2>you don't know who she is.

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<v Speaker 1>I did neither, But she was this famous lesbian who

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<v Speaker 1>owned a place called the Florentine Gardens of Sunset I

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<v Speaker 1>think in Crescent Heights, I believe, or Hyland and Sunset.

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<v Speaker 2>Either way, she man.

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<v Speaker 1>She had this place called Florentine Gardens where everybody came

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out, get fucked up, have orgies, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>gay sex. You know, men who couldn't be seen in

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood having a gay romance would go to her place.

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<v Speaker 1>They had. There was a big pool there in a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of rooms like a motelish kind of feel, and

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<v Speaker 1>a club and John barrenmore the biggest stars went there

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<v Speaker 1>and hung out, and some of them lived there for

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<v Speaker 1>different periods of time. You could live there longer, like

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<v Speaker 1>a long stay kind of thing. And I found that

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating because of all the stars who had to hide

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<v Speaker 1>their sexuality and they had a place to go to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with that must have been a lot of fun

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<v Speaker 1>that place. I love the Black Dahalia probably my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>The poor girl Elizabeth Short who got chopped up, chopped up,

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<v Speaker 1>and whoever killed it, they still haven't found out. Caught

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<v Speaker 1>a smile in her face from ear to ear, went

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<v Speaker 1>across her cheeks to make it like a smile, like

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<v Speaker 1>a joker, cut off her breasts, damaged her vagina, terribly

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<v Speaker 1>dismembered her. And I believe, well, I know he did that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know he also drained her all all of

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<v Speaker 1>her blood was drained. And then she was put out

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<v Speaker 1>in a lot of field on her residential street where

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<v Speaker 1>property wasn't being built yet, And that's how she was discovered.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was an actress who always wore a flower

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<v Speaker 1>a dahlia in her hair, and she was promiscuous, got around.

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<v Speaker 1>They never found or were able to arrest them. On

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<v Speaker 1>this and the theories out there, I got a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of books on it. It's time for a whole show

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<v Speaker 1>on Elizabeth Short. So I'll look into that peg and Twistle,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my first ones. I loved it because just

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing about an actress jumping off the Hollywood

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<v Speaker 1>sign to suicide, because she wasn't getting enough work. It's

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<v Speaker 1>amazing more of them haven't done that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. They found a shoe on the hill and

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<v Speaker 2>a handbag and she got dressed up to jump.

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<v Speaker 1>And the saddest thing is that I think two or

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<v Speaker 1>three days later she got a telegram to get work

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<v Speaker 2>If you just waited a couple of days, she'd be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But she was overcome with the fact that she couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get work and the phone wasn't ringing. I know that feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>but not to kill yourself of a Hollywood But that

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood Sign. I got close as soon as you can.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't touch it. You get to a fence that's

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<v Speaker 1>right around it, and of course there's park ranges. How

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<v Speaker 1>he couldn't climb it. I would love to have climbed

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<v Speaker 1>it and touched sign, but no, they wouldn't let you

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<v Speaker 1>do it. And the other fascinating thing is that she

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<v Speaker 1>And at night, and that's when we filmed it. You

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<v Speaker 1>can smell Guardina and the rangers said, and they all

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<v Speaker 1>say this, there was no Guardina growing in in that

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<v Speaker 1>hilled area. So is that her scent that's still out there?

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<v Speaker 1>Is the ghost still there? It's a creepy story and

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. Ramon Navarro, silent film star, loved this

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<v Speaker 1>because he was having a flame with Rudolph Valentino among

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<v Speaker 1>other people. But this poor bastard was killed I think

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<v Speaker 1>in the sixties or seventies, living up in the hills,

424
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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood Hills, retired.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he'd call up.

426
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<v Speaker 1>Day mail escorts to come to his young young guys

427
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<v Speaker 1>to come to his house and pleasure him. They'd have

428
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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun, probably got a little loaded, and

429
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<v Speaker 1>go about their business. But one day he called up

430
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<v Speaker 1>i think two brothers and they beat him to death.

431
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<v Speaker 2>And the weapon of death they.

432
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<v Speaker 1>Used was a big, heavy, wooden dildo that Rudolph Valentina

433
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<v Speaker 1>had given Navarro as a gift. And we couldn't say

434
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<v Speaker 1>that on TV because our show would repeat during the day.

435
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<v Speaker 1>We couldn't say a rubber dildo or phallax simb but

436
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<v Speaker 1>we couldn't say a wooden object. I'm like, can you

437
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<v Speaker 1>fucking You're taking all the fun out of the story man,

438
00:22:35.920 --> 00:22:39.519
<v Speaker 1>the whole irony of two gay escorts beating a man

439
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<v Speaker 1>with a wooden dildo. It's too much from Valentino, it's beautiful,

440
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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy.

441
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<v Speaker 2>No wooden object.

442
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<v Speaker 1>Betsy Rot, fucking supervising producer. What a pain theah she was.

443
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<v Speaker 1>I've been told she liked me a lot.

444
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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

445
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<v Speaker 1>She was tough to get along with, but anyhow, Finally,

446
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<v Speaker 1>Albert Decker, the actor who was found with a ball

447
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<v Speaker 1>of gag in his mouth and all sorts of shit

448
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<v Speaker 1>hanging from his shower.

449
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<v Speaker 2>They called it a suicide, not.

450
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<v Speaker 1>Quite sure it was also I think burn marks on

451
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<v Speaker 1>his back or some kind of marks on his back,

452
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<v Speaker 1>or something that he couldn't have done. You can't write

453
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<v Speaker 1>in your back before you kill yourself. Very strange, but

454
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<v Speaker 1>they called it a suicide back then, and no one

455
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<v Speaker 1>got to know too much about the ballgag in his

456
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<v Speaker 1>mouth and what exactly was in the bathroom at the

457
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<v Speaker 1>time he died. But you know, autoerotic asphyxiation.

458
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<v Speaker 2>But someone else had to.

459
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<v Speaker 1>Be there because of the telltale signs. And I like

460
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<v Speaker 1>him in movies. I've seen him in some old movies.

461
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<v Speaker 1>It's a crazy ass story, but those are my off

462
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<v Speaker 1>the top of my head. I'll do more during the week.

463
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<v Speaker 1>You guys also wanted me to comment on the fact

464
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<v Speaker 1>that Esquire magazine back in the day put me on

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<v Speaker 1>their se list. I was put on the sea List,

466
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<v Speaker 1>and I took a picture of it to show you

467
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<v Speaker 1>got here. It is very proud to have made Esquy

468
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<v Speaker 1>Magazine's yearly Hollywood Sealist. This is before I got This

469
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<v Speaker 1>is two years before I got to Hollywood, but I

470
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<v Speaker 1>still made the Hollywood seed List. A lot of big

471
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<v Speaker 1>names on here the Esquy I thought were sees. Oh

472
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<v Speaker 1>my goodness, Louis Anderson, what a great comedic actor. He

473
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<v Speaker 1>was stupid se list. Brooke Burke is not a se list.

474
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<v Speaker 1>These names are ridiculous. There's some really good Billy Ray Cyrus. No.

475
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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

476
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<v Speaker 1>They're using a lot of old Baywatch people like Donna

477
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<v Speaker 1>Derricko and Erica Olenniakoh. I did a movie but they

478
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<v Speaker 1>never got made, never aired. Sexy Girl. Oh Steve Harvey,

479
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<v Speaker 1>he's a seedless sure he is. Yeah, Steve Harvey. This

480
00:24:41.440 --> 00:24:44.160
<v Speaker 1>did not age well at all. But I'm on there

481
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<v Speaker 1>right next to my buddy Adam Carolla, so that obviously

482
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<v Speaker 1>he did not age right at all. But Eric Roberts

483
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<v Speaker 1>has made about five hundred movies.

484
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<v Speaker 2>Ryan Seacrest sealst This is so stupid.

485
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<v Speaker 1>It's also the same issue where they gave out dubious

486
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<v Speaker 1>achieve awards and I got Rookie of the Year because

487
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<v Speaker 1>of the New York Magazine profile in which they they

488
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<v Speaker 1>pulled a quote from my book in which I said,

489
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<v Speaker 1>when my when I see a girl, I really want

490
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<v Speaker 1>to fuck my asshole. Pucker's a little bit. It was

491
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<v Speaker 1>a throwaway joke to a writer, ended up in her

492
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<v Speaker 1>story and caused me a lot of grief.

493
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<v Speaker 2>But that got me the Rookie of the Year. Do

494
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<v Speaker 2>be his Achievement award. I like it good.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to tell you, guys, something I find very

496
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<v Speaker 1>endearing and and and just god, there's something amazing about

497
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<v Speaker 1>manifesting things and and and I always did that with

498
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<v Speaker 1>my life. I always said who I was going to be,

499
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<v Speaker 1>who I wanted to be, where I wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I tell you, everything I've wanted in life,

501
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<v Speaker 1>every person I've wanted in life has come true. I

502
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<v Speaker 1>don't miss out. I always get what I want, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>either through luck or through hard work. But in nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>eighty seven, Okay, Pete Hamill, as he was wont to do,

505
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<v Speaker 1>wrote for New York Magazine a story called the New

506
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<v Speaker 1>York City We've Lost, And that's right up his aute.

507
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<v Speaker 1>Because he grew up in New York. He knows all

508
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<v Speaker 1>about the old days, and he's perfect to write about

509
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<v Speaker 1>New York. And I'll just read the beginning of this

510
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<v Speaker 1>story because his writing is just beautiful. Once there was

511
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<v Speaker 1>another city here, and now it is gone. There are

512
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<v Speaker 1>almost no traces of it anymore. But millions of us

513
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<v Speaker 1>know it existed because we lived in it, the Lost

514
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<v Speaker 1>City of New York. It was a city, as John

515
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<v Speaker 1>chiev once wrote, that was still filled with a river

516
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<v Speaker 1>light when you heard the Benny Goodman cort TETs from

517
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<v Speaker 1>a radio in the corner stationery store, and when almost

518
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<v Speaker 1>everybody were a hat.

519
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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

520
00:26:45.720 --> 00:26:48.440
<v Speaker 1>In the city, the taxi camps were called checkers, with

521
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<v Speaker 1>ample room for your legs, and the drivers knew where

522
00:26:50.720 --> 00:26:53.880
<v Speaker 1>Grand Central Station was and always helped with your luggage.

523
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<v Speaker 1>In that city, there were apartments with three bedrooms and

524
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<v Speaker 1>views of the river. You hurried across the street with

525
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<v Speaker 1>your girl was waiting for you under the biltmore clock

526
00:27:02.000 --> 00:27:05.119
<v Speaker 1>with snow melting in her hair. Cars never double part.

527
00:27:05.480 --> 00:27:08.519
<v Speaker 1>Shop doors weren't locked in the daytime. Bus drivers still

528
00:27:08.519 --> 00:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>made change all over town. Cops walked the beat, and

529
00:27:12.160 --> 00:27:14.720
<v Speaker 1>everyone knew their names. In that setting, it did not

530
00:27:14.839 --> 00:27:17.440
<v Speaker 1>smoke on the subway. You wore galotches in the rain.

531
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<v Speaker 1>Waitress has called you, honey. You slept with windows open

532
00:27:21.079 --> 00:27:23.799
<v Speaker 1>on a summer night. And I'll just read a little

533
00:27:23.799 --> 00:27:27.039
<v Speaker 1>bit more. That New York is gone, now, hammered into

534
00:27:27.160 --> 00:27:31.359
<v Speaker 1>dust by time, progress, accident, and greed. Yet most of

535
00:27:31.440 --> 00:27:33.599
<v Speaker 1>us distrust the memory of how we lived here not

536
00:27:33.720 --> 00:27:37.440
<v Speaker 1>so very long ago. Nostalgia is a treacherous emotion, at

537
00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:40.240
<v Speaker 1>once a curse against the present and an admission of

538
00:27:40.279 --> 00:27:44.240
<v Speaker 1>permanent resentment, never to be wholly trusted. For many of us,

539
00:27:44.279 --> 00:27:47.279
<v Speaker 1>looking back is simply too painful. We must confront the

540
00:27:47.359 --> 00:27:50.759
<v Speaker 1>unanswerable question on how we let it all happen, How

541
00:27:50.880 --> 00:27:53.519
<v Speaker 1>the lost city was lost, And so most of us

542
00:27:53.680 --> 00:27:57.440
<v Speaker 1>have trained ourselves to forget. It's a beautiful story. It's

543
00:27:57.440 --> 00:28:00.000
<v Speaker 1>called the New York We've lost. It must be online somewhere,

544
00:28:03.319 --> 00:28:04.079
<v Speaker 1>but I'll tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>This is nineteen eighty seven. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I didn't work at Daily News in nineteen ninety two,

547
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<v Speaker 1>five years later. But in nineteen eighty seven, I sent

548
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<v Speaker 1>this story I xeroxet and sent it to my aunt

549
00:28:20.359 --> 00:28:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Anna in Brooklyn. We had a love affair with writing

550
00:28:22.480 --> 00:28:24.640
<v Speaker 1>letters to each other, which I didn't have with other ants,

551
00:28:25.599 --> 00:28:27.839
<v Speaker 1>but in Anna loved to write and love my writing,

552
00:28:28.759 --> 00:28:32.039
<v Speaker 1>and I'd send her things in the mail and she'd

553
00:28:32.039 --> 00:28:35.640
<v Speaker 1>write me back and listen to this.

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<v Speaker 2>I sent to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Article January twenty fourth, nineteen eighty seven. Dear and Anna, No,

556
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<v Speaker 1>I didn't write this story. Maybe someday I'll be as

557
00:28:45.559 --> 00:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>great as Pete Hamil, But I'm sending it to you

558
00:28:48.240 --> 00:28:49.759
<v Speaker 1>since I know you love to see it, and I

559
00:28:49.839 --> 00:28:52.559
<v Speaker 1>know you lived a lot of those things out when

560
00:28:52.599 --> 00:28:53.960
<v Speaker 1>you and New York were younger.

561
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<v Speaker 2>It's great, so you love you, see you soon.

562
00:28:56.680 --> 00:28:59.359
<v Speaker 1>PS wouldn't be amazing if I got to work with

563
00:28:59.400 --> 00:29:02.359
<v Speaker 1>Pete Hamil day, that would be a dream come true.

564
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<v Speaker 2>She writes back a long letter that I'm not gonna

565
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<v Speaker 2>read to you it's too long, and that it was

566
00:29:06.440 --> 00:29:08.279
<v Speaker 2>very verbose. I'm a beautiful writer, but.

567
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<v Speaker 1>She was adamant in telling me you will work with

568
00:29:12.240 --> 00:29:15.519
<v Speaker 1>Pete Hamble because you manifest it you say it out loud.

569
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<v Speaker 1>If you say it out loud and you believe it,

570
00:29:17.720 --> 00:29:19.599
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna happen. You have to get it out to

571
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<v Speaker 1>the world. Don't say bad things, don't say bad luck things.

572
00:29:24.400 --> 00:29:26.920
<v Speaker 1>Say good things, good luck things. You want, things you're

573
00:29:26.920 --> 00:29:29.519
<v Speaker 1>going after, things, are striving for things that'll make your

574
00:29:29.559 --> 00:29:33.799
<v Speaker 1>life better. You'll get them because you manifested and you

575
00:29:33.880 --> 00:29:35.839
<v Speaker 1>put it out there and it comes back to you.

576
00:29:36.720 --> 00:29:39.599
<v Speaker 1>So could you imagine when the rumor that Pete Hamil

577
00:29:39.640 --> 00:29:41.039
<v Speaker 1>was going to take over the Daily News and I'm

578
00:29:41.039 --> 00:29:44.440
<v Speaker 1>sitting there, I'm almost crying that I'm gonna work with

579
00:29:44.480 --> 00:29:47.279
<v Speaker 1>my idol, I'm gonna be in editor meetings with him

580
00:29:47.279 --> 00:29:49.720
<v Speaker 1>and have private time with him. And it was just

581
00:29:49.759 --> 00:29:52.519
<v Speaker 1>too much to bear. And of course he ended up

582
00:29:52.599 --> 00:29:55.720
<v Speaker 1>telling me either your design or or fired. But it's

583
00:29:55.759 --> 00:29:58.400
<v Speaker 1>all water under the bridge now. He told me, you'll

584
00:29:58.400 --> 00:30:01.680
<v Speaker 1>always write. Your words will all matter. It may not

585
00:30:01.759 --> 00:30:05.519
<v Speaker 1>be in another newspaper, but you'll always write because you're

586
00:30:05.519 --> 00:30:08.480
<v Speaker 1>a good writer. But he said to me, newspapers will

587
00:30:08.519 --> 00:30:11.680
<v Speaker 1>always break your heart. I've been written, I've written for

588
00:30:11.720 --> 00:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>six of them and all have broken my heart. So

589
00:30:15.440 --> 00:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>maybe your future is not newspaper writing. But another kind

590
00:30:17.920 --> 00:30:21.359
<v Speaker 1>of writing. So look, it's all too beautiful and too

591
00:30:21.480 --> 00:30:24.920
<v Speaker 1>mixed up. And what a beautiful recipe for things you

592
00:30:25.039 --> 00:30:28.079
<v Speaker 1>dream for, things you wish for, and how it all

593
00:30:28.119 --> 00:30:31.759
<v Speaker 1>comes together with the right amount of confidence and manifestation

594
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<v Speaker 1>is that word again?

595
00:30:34.079 --> 00:30:39.759
<v Speaker 2>And luck and preparedness and being ready to be lucky.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very important.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm lucky to have you guys, and I appreciate

598
00:30:45.240 --> 00:30:48.319
<v Speaker 1>you understanding my being ill yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>Busy week, I did four shows today.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting kind of beat the Yankee start in one

601
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<v Speaker 1>hour and that's where I'll lose the rest of my

602
00:30:55.000 --> 00:30:57.039
<v Speaker 1>voice should they begin to lose that game as well.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's it for today.

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<v Speaker 1>Gang, I'm aj Ben was your daily Unfiltered podcast for October.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know either seventh or eighth, but I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>here all week. I'll talk to this tomorrow
