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Speaker 2: serving in the military to serving in the adult industry.
Speaker 2: He's been in for about six years now, and I'm
Speaker 2: very excited to get to know him. I know you
Speaker 2: are too. Let's welcome Bobby Gray.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you for having me. I'm honored.
Speaker 1: Thanks well, thank you. No, it's a pleasure.
Speaker 2: I like doing these interviews at ABM because, you know,
Speaker 2: a lot of people are in town that don't normally
Speaker 2: you know, live in LA which is normally where I
Speaker 2: record my podcast, and I get the opportunity to meet
Speaker 2: a lot of different people and do these kind of
Speaker 2: like quick little get to know you sessions, and yeah,
Speaker 2: it's just a great way to like add variety and
Speaker 2: new faces to the show.
Speaker 3: Awesome.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you live in Texas right now? In Austin, right, yeah,
Speaker 2: Austin is. I spent a couple of months in Austin
Speaker 2: when I was shooting my Playboy TV show.
Speaker 1: It's a very cool city.
Speaker 3: Oh yes, Yeah, it's like a mix between New York
Speaker 3: and LA right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's one of the fastest growing cities too.
Speaker 3: Right, ever since after COVID, Yeah, everybody just flooded in.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of COVID, that's like when you got into
Speaker 2: the industry, like around that time, right, yes.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I came in January twenty twenty. Wow, a
Speaker 3: couple months later COVID.
Speaker 2: Oh so like right before COVID you didn't even wait
Speaker 2: for like the shutdown in like a lot of people.
Speaker 1: You were like right before.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: So now before that, you were in the army, right, yes,
Speaker 2: and you even did a combat tour in Iraq, that's.
Speaker 3: Correct, yea.
Speaker 2: So how did that shift from you know, being an
Speaker 2: army vet to work in the adult industry?
Speaker 1: How did that happen?
Speaker 3: I always wanted to be in the adult industry. I
Speaker 3: was actually deciding back when I was in college. I
Speaker 3: was actually this closest sign of contract and going to
Speaker 3: the adult industry first. But because I made a promise
Speaker 3: to my mom, finished college, then went to the army.
Speaker 3: But I always had in the back of my I
Speaker 3: had always had that voice calling out to me, so
Speaker 3: it was natural for me. I was pretty much ready.
Speaker 3: So when I finished up in the army in twenty fourteen,
Speaker 3: I just progressed naturally right over into acting and modeling.
Speaker 3: So I was doing that in Korea, South Korea, where
Speaker 3: I was stationed. Oh really, and then went to La
Speaker 3: back to New York, Texas. And so when I got
Speaker 3: to Texas, I said, you know what, I said, let
Speaker 3: me put the acting part to the side. Let me
Speaker 3: give this adult entertainment an opportunity, a chance. So yeah,
Speaker 3: I came across Tadpole X studio. He gave me opportunity.
Speaker 3: I flew into Vegas, went to the hard Rock Hotel
Speaker 3: and I walked in, I saw everybody. I was just amazed.
Speaker 3: And he had promised, if I remember correctly, he had
Speaker 3: promised his fans seven new guys. And when I showed up,
Speaker 3: we get to Ela Water, we go up and he said, hey, Bobby,
Speaker 3: he said, you know, thank you for showing up. He's like,
Speaker 3: you know, I appreciate so much. And he's like, welcome
Speaker 3: to Welcome to the porn industry. He's like, by the way,
Speaker 3: you're the only guy that showed up, no pressure all
Speaker 3: on you.
Speaker 1: Well, so he's really thankful that you showed up. Wow.
Speaker 3: And I walked through the door and Kendri Heart my
Speaker 3: first shoot. Oh wow, yeah, yeah, and I was nervous.
Speaker 3: I was yeah, and yeah, she's like she took command
Speaker 3: of the room, like her energy. She was so bubbly
Speaker 3: and chill.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so how did the scene go?
Speaker 3: Scene went good? He actually threw and to make it
Speaker 3: a group scene. He threw in one of his friends
Speaker 3: that was suppsed to shoot the next day, but he
Speaker 3: was tested and everything, so he just hadn't put a
Speaker 3: mask on. Yeah, so he did an MFM. So he
Speaker 3: was good. He was really good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh wow, yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Why did he mention, like why the other guys didn't
Speaker 2: show up? Do you do you think that it's because
Speaker 2: I will say, like I get a lot of dms.
Speaker 2: Every woman in the adult industry gets a lot of
Speaker 2: dms from guys who want to get into the industry, right,
Speaker 2: like in their head it sounds like a great idea,
Speaker 2: but the reality of it.
Speaker 1: Is not the same exactly exactly. Do you think that
Speaker 1: that's why they chickened out.
Speaker 3: I think that's a big part of it, because, like
Speaker 3: you said, like they have this version in their mind
Speaker 3: and now when it's kind to put up our shut up,
Speaker 3: and whether it's you know, having it out there and
Speaker 3: Internet forever, or I think the big part is them
Speaker 3: actually showing up and having you know, the lights of
Speaker 3: the camera and all these other people possibly around, you know,
Speaker 3: the manager, the agent, you ever know, or just extra
Speaker 3: people who are there like waiting for their shoot. I
Speaker 3: think that plays into the mind of men, because again,
Speaker 3: it's it's easy when you're when you're watching it and
Speaker 3: you can envision yourself in that fantasy. But it's another
Speaker 3: thing now when it becomes reality. So yeah, when he
Speaker 3: told me that, you know, we both started laughing because
Speaker 3: we both already kind of figured that's what it was.
Speaker 2: Now you did your first scene, what was like unexpected
Speaker 2: about it?
Speaker 1: What was expected about it?
Speaker 2: Like, did you finish that thinking that's exactly how I
Speaker 2: thought it would be, or where you're like, that's not
Speaker 2: at all what I thought it would be.
Speaker 3: Well, you know, funny thing is, I cleared my mind beforehand.
Speaker 3: I just said, you know, I don't want to have
Speaker 3: any expectations. So when I went in and like I said,
Speaker 3: I was, I was nervous, even though I had been
Speaker 3: in the Swermer lifestyle before, I was kind of nervous
Speaker 3: just because again I'm going into a different realm in
Speaker 3: a sense. So I guess you could say like once
Speaker 3: I finished up, like I was, I was thrilled.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 3: It was like I was proud of myself in a sense.
Speaker 3: You know, I actually did exactly what I said I
Speaker 3: was going to do. I followed through and I made
Speaker 3: a good impression on Tadpole and on the other folks,
Speaker 3: so they kept calling me back. But yeah, it was
Speaker 3: I would say it was. It was eerie because I
Speaker 3: manifested that, because I had prayed about it a long
Speaker 3: time ago, because like I said, when I was in college,
Speaker 3: I like this closest signed the contract, and I guess
Speaker 3: you could say divine timing, So it just it happened
Speaker 3: exactly when it was supposed to happen.
Speaker 5: And yeah, yeah, are you glad that you waited, because
Speaker 5: a lot of people get into the adult industry early,
Speaker 5: and not always, but sometimes they wish they had waited.
Speaker 3: For me. I am thankful that I waited, because I
Speaker 3: just know that had I gone in at nineteen, I
Speaker 3: probably would have gotten gotten hooked up to the wrong
Speaker 3: crowd per se, and I probably would have messed a
Speaker 3: lot of stuff up for myself. And then we hear
Speaker 3: those stories all the time, in the entertainment business. You know,
Speaker 3: folks that kind of go in whether at like a
Speaker 3: very early age in their teens, young adults, and end
Speaker 3: up kind of like going like blowing through their money
Speaker 3: and getting caught up in drugs, the bad crowd. And
Speaker 3: I think for me, not because I was a party
Speaker 3: guy too much, it was just more of like I
Speaker 3: have a really good heart, and that's like easy prey
Speaker 3: for certain you know.
Speaker 1: Type of people. It's easy to be influenced to at
Speaker 1: that age exactly.
Speaker 3: So I'm very thankful that I did wait. And also,
Speaker 3: you know, I got to experience, like I said, going
Speaker 3: into the military, serving my country and going overseas, meeting
Speaker 3: just the different different people going around with different cultures.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm glad I waited.
Speaker 2: Do you think that the army gave you like a
Speaker 2: kind of discipline that helped you, yes.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah. It definitely gave me structure, and it
Speaker 3: definitely gave me the ability to have like that thick
Speaker 3: skin to where like when things kind of like you know,
Speaker 3: don't go your way, especially in this industry, it's like
Speaker 3: a roller coaster ride. You managing so much, so it's like,
Speaker 3: so you got to have that thick skin where it's
Speaker 3: just like on to the next thing, you know, and
Speaker 3: just not allow other things to affect you too much.
Speaker 2: So, yeah, have you had to navigate changes in like
Speaker 2: how friends or family perceive you since entering porn?
Speaker 3: Uh somewhat. I don't have too many family and friends
Speaker 3: that know about it.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 3: The ones that do super excited. A best friend of mine,
Speaker 3: he lives in the Philippines now, and every now and
Speaker 3: again he'll hit me up and he'll send messages and go, hey, man,
Speaker 3: I'll just show these girls your your page and stuff
Speaker 3: and when you're coming out to the Philippines. And then
Speaker 3: my younger brother, we're twelve years apart, and he's he's
Speaker 3: back in New York and every now and again we'll talk.
Speaker 3: And recently, the last time we talked a few months ago,
Speaker 3: he said that he's also interested in, you know, getting
Speaker 3: into the industry. So I gave him some tips and
Speaker 3: them some emails and that stuff, and I said, you know,
Speaker 3: I said, pick my brain as much as you want.
Speaker 3: But uh, yeah, the uh, the family friends who know,
Speaker 3: you know, they're they were kind of shocked at first
Speaker 3: because I didn't give off the energy of that type
Speaker 3: of person that would go, you know, into into the
Speaker 3: industry because people see me as more like the clean cut,
Speaker 3: you know, guy next door type stuff. So when I
Speaker 3: do tell people their shots, yeah, but.
Speaker 1: There's obviously like a side of you that they don't see.
Speaker 2: Right, How do you think adult performers are still misunderstood
Speaker 2: by people outside the industry?
Speaker 3: Oh, great question.
Speaker 2: I mean now that you're in it, and maybe the
Speaker 2: way that you saw them before you got in it,
Speaker 2: right now that you're now that you're one of us.
Speaker 3: Exactly, exactly exactly. I think the big part is and
Speaker 3: it's so funny because it's like us in the industry
Speaker 3: now we laugh at it. They don't seem to realize
Speaker 3: like how often we get tested. You know, on the outside,
Speaker 3: people have this mindset like Okay, I got tested in
Speaker 3: like it like they're good for a year, and I
Speaker 3: have to remind them. I'm like, that's a test, it's
Speaker 3: not a shot. Yeah, And I was like, you know,
Speaker 3: we have to get tested very often, especially depending upon
Speaker 3: how many shootes. It could be every two weeks, every
Speaker 3: three weeks, whatever the case may be. And I think
Speaker 3: that's the misconceptions that we were like a bunch of
Speaker 3: dirty people just having sex and you know, we've got
Speaker 3: all types of diseases and runner and that's far from it.
Speaker 3: I mean, we are. And that's that's something that definitely
Speaker 3: opened my mind's eye was just how strict the industry is.
Speaker 3: I mean, and of course because of things that have
Speaker 3: happened in the past with you know, things on set,
Speaker 3: with people not being tested and spreading stuff.
Speaker 2: Yeah, unfortunately, we've had to learn, We've had to learn
Speaker 2: some hard lessons over the years. Yeah, but it's made
Speaker 2: us a safer industry and it's created like also, like
Speaker 2: I think a strong sense of responsibility amongst people in
Speaker 2: the industry. Like I think that people who are professionals
Speaker 2: and you know, who work consistently like understand the importance
Speaker 2: of testing and like nobody blows it off, you know exactly.
Speaker 3: And I think also the fact that they don't, I
Speaker 3: guess they sometimes forget like that we're human. And sometimes
Speaker 3: I'll other places that I've worked at, work in fitness
Speaker 3: facilities and people have known there and they were all
Speaker 3: excited and stuff. And the funny thing is they don't
Speaker 3: realize just how chill and how relaxed and just how
Speaker 3: normal we are. Yeah, they Yeah, they truly believe like
Speaker 3: we were from like another planet.
Speaker 1: You know, it was so funny.
Speaker 2: I had girth Master on a few months ago, and
Speaker 2: you know, he's like fairly new to the industry doing
Speaker 2: mainstream porn, and I asked him, like, what one of
Speaker 2: the things about the porn surprised him, and he.
Speaker 1: Said, there's a lot less orgies that I expected.
Speaker 2: Like I thought that every party I would go to
Speaker 2: the orgies, No one's having orgies.
Speaker 1: People are just it's like a normal party are going
Speaker 1: and like having drinks and like talking.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, which I thought was so funny. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: mean it's it's it's a beautiful thing to see, like
Speaker 3: when you can actually just chill out, relax, enjoy a drink,
Speaker 3: cap of conversation with people, and that's something I think
Speaker 3: for me, it didn't surprise me too much when I
Speaker 3: was on the outside, because, as I said, like I
Speaker 3: wanted to be an industry for so long. So when
Speaker 3: I had the opportunity to meet like Shawn Michaels joining
Speaker 3: Angel at the Expos Awards years back, I got to
Speaker 3: kind of peek into that world a little bit. I
Speaker 3: got to hang out with people at the after the
Speaker 3: award shows and stuff, and it was just so calming,
Speaker 3: It was so relaxing. It was like it was like
Speaker 3: I felt like I belonged, you know, and I loved it.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I say this so frequently that people are probably sicking
Speaker 2: to me saying it. But it is very much like
Speaker 2: a big kind of misfit family. And Mick Blue actually
Speaker 2: brought a friend of his to one of the awards
Speaker 2: ceremonies and he told Mick that, and he was someone
Speaker 2: who works in mainstream Hollywood, and this like really stuck
Speaker 2: with me. And he said that he couldn't believe how
Speaker 2: incredibly close everybody was and how like genuinely happy everybody
Speaker 2: was to see everybody, and like the like the love
Speaker 2: and the connection between people was felt really genuine, and
Speaker 2: it was like I've never seen that at a Hollywood
Speaker 2: party at all, And I thought about I actually went
Speaker 2: to like Paris Hilton's birthday party last year or something
Speaker 2: with a friend of mine, and it was very like la,
Speaker 2: you know, like nobody was talking to each other. People
Speaker 2: were just like no one was talking to each other.
Speaker 2: It was like no one knew each other. Everyone was
Speaker 2: just standing.
Speaker 1: In these little groups.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and everyone looked so bored. It was like the
Speaker 2: most boring party I've ever been to, and I was like,
Speaker 2: this is not the world I want to be in.
Speaker 2: Like it made me so grateful for working important.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you've been married twice and you now prefer
Speaker 2: a polyamorous lifestyle.
Speaker 1: What did traditional relationships teach you about yourself?
Speaker 3: That I'm not monogamous? That it is, Yeah, it's it's
Speaker 3: the traditional relationship lifestyle. Nothing wrong with it, but it's
Speaker 3: just not for me. I felt like, I don't know,
Speaker 3: I felt like I was confined, and uh, I think
Speaker 3: for me, like society gives you like a guidebook and
Speaker 3: it's to learn from and create your own. The mistake
Speaker 3: I made was I was actually like following it to
Speaker 3: a tea, you know, go to college, career, get married.
Speaker 3: And it also taught me that I'm very sensual, very sexual,
Speaker 3: Like I love women, you know, I love being sexual.
Speaker 3: And I think being in a monogamous relationship, at least
Speaker 3: from what I saw growing up, it was it was
Speaker 3: confined in the sense that it's almost like you you
Speaker 3: couldn't have certain thoughts, you couldn't be a certain way
Speaker 3: even in your own relationship. Like something was wrong with you,
Speaker 3: And that's what I went through in both those relationships,
Speaker 3: and it got to the point where I was just like,
Speaker 3: you know what, I the best thing to do is
Speaker 3: just to walk away. We're not compatible, you know. And
Speaker 3: it was nothing against them, wonderful, wonderful women, but I
Speaker 3: knew what they needed and I just was not that
Speaker 3: and I knew what I needed. So it it, like
Speaker 3: I said, divine time, like everything just kind of fell
Speaker 3: into place where it was supposed to. And then the
Speaker 3: port the opportunity for the porn industry came up, and yeah.
Speaker 2: Can you tell us the story of how you earned
Speaker 2: the nickname mister Honeymoon.
Speaker 3: Yes. So I was on a sept for Tadpole TADPOLEX Studios,
Speaker 3: and I don't know if it was either, Yes, it
Speaker 3: was Exotica Chicago and Exotica Miami. So on the set
Speaker 3: doing the game scene and because I take my time,
Speaker 3: I worship the woman's body. I listened to her energy
Speaker 3: and that's just how I how I kind of navigate.
Speaker 3: So there was this guy, I'm not gonna get his name,
Speaker 3: good guy, good guy. He didn't mean anything by it.
Speaker 3: So after the one in Chicago, he walks up to me,
Speaker 3: and he's just like, hey, man, you know, just so
Speaker 3: you know, I get your style and everything. I respect it,
Speaker 3: but you know, this is gang bang. You know we
Speaker 3: got to be like pop pop pop to the next
Speaker 3: one pop pop pop, Yeah, the next one, right, And
Speaker 3: I said no, I said, I completely understand. And we
Speaker 3: talked for a little bit, and then when I got
Speaker 3: back home, he had messaged me again. I guess he
Speaker 3: felt really bad, so he messaged me this long, you know,
Speaker 3: nice message and he said he said, yeah, you know,
Speaker 3: he's giving me some more advice. And so then I
Speaker 3: said to him, I said, hey, I said, you know,
Speaker 3: duly noted, but I said, also realized. I said, this
Speaker 3: is the reason why Tadpole keeps, you know, asking me
Speaker 3: to come back, because he likes my style. His fans
Speaker 3: like my style. I guess it ads like a different dynamic.
Speaker 3: And then also a lot of times in the past
Speaker 3: when Tadpole reached out to the women and they were
Speaker 3: kind of like, I don't know if I can make it,
Speaker 3: then he would show them my profile and they're like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: he's going to be there. I'll be there. I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: So it again, I in my own way contributed that energy,
Speaker 3: and that's what I also loved about it was just
Speaker 3: being on the set and seeing like the different people
Speaker 3: who have, you know, brought something different. So then now
Speaker 3: the Miami Exotica shoot, same thing again, and the same
Speaker 3: guy is there, and so everybody finishes up. Tadpole's standing
Speaker 3: there butt naked with the camera and he's looking at me,
Speaker 3: and I'm on top of Sarah Arabic. Wonderful, wonderful.
Speaker 1: We love Sarah Arabic.
Speaker 2: I met her for the first time on the Expis
Speaker 2: red carpet because she did an unboxing of the strip
Speaker 2: chat merch that we gave away at the party that
Speaker 2: we did at David Busters.
Speaker 1: So thank you, Sarah.
Speaker 2: I will always love you for that special like social
Speaker 2: media like shout out, yes.
Speaker 3: She is awesome, like her energy, the way we connected.
Speaker 3: So I'm on top of her, and I think we
Speaker 3: both kind of forgot where we were. So that's why
Speaker 3: Tadpole was like, hey, Bobby, youre about to finish up?
Speaker 3: Was like, so I said, yeah, one second. So just
Speaker 3: as I get ready, the guy he's standing there and
Speaker 3: he has his hands on his hips, sure on his hips,
Speaker 3: Like there he goes mister Honeymoon, and everybody starts busting
Speaker 3: out left and I stopped like right before I come
Speaker 3: and I look over and I was like, bro, thank you,
Speaker 3: I'm going to use that. And I just took it
Speaker 3: and ran with it, and so ever since then, I
Speaker 3: used mister Honeymoon, and yeah, it's stuck because it was
Speaker 3: funny too. It's like I was looking for a nickname
Speaker 3: for myself and Boems, you just gave it to me
Speaker 3: right through him.
Speaker 2: So do you feel though, then, because I understand what
Speaker 2: he's saying about gang bangs and gang bangs are like
Speaker 2: a very yes. I've talked a lot about how the
Speaker 2: dynamic actually matters between the guys than it does between
Speaker 2: like the women and the guys, because it is very
Speaker 2: much a dance. Do you feel like gang bangs are
Speaker 2: maybe like not your niche because it sounds like you're
Speaker 2: more of like a one on one kind of guy.
Speaker 3: Yes, oh yes, Oh yeah. So that's something that I
Speaker 3: recently just came to a conclusion to, like, I've done
Speaker 3: gang bangs and orgies and I love them great. But
Speaker 3: the best way I can say is that I got
Speaker 3: to greedy Dick. You know, he just wants it all
Speaker 3: for himself, and so I've when it comes to group stuff,
Speaker 3: it'll be just more like me and other women. But yeah,
Speaker 3: I've realized that my energy just doesn't fit and that's okay. Yeah,
Speaker 3: That's what I've come to learn that I don't have
Speaker 3: to be everything for everybody because I'm just not going
Speaker 3: to be able to accomplish that. So the best thing,
Speaker 3: the best way for me to give my best performance
Speaker 3: is just to be myself and be in that environment
Speaker 3: where I can actually just fully commit my energy to her.
Speaker 2: It's important to know your niche and like your strengths,
Speaker 2: you know, because that helps you follow like the path
Speaker 2: that's right for you and put yourselves in the scenes
Speaker 2: that like help you shine. Considering everything that you've been
Speaker 2: through in the last six years, what advice would you
Speaker 2: give someone considering entering the industry today, and we're talking
Speaker 2: about like men specifically.
Speaker 3: Be yourself, take your time, don't feel as I was
Speaker 3: saying earlier, don't feel like you have to try to
Speaker 3: do everything and be everything for everybody. Like, really figure
Speaker 3: out and hone in on what your gift is. When
Speaker 3: I was in the acting side of entertainment, one of
Speaker 3: my asking coaches that said to me, find what is
Speaker 3: appealing about you and sell the shit out of it.
Speaker 3: So whatever that is that that draws people to you.
Speaker 3: And then also because I've had guys reach out to
Speaker 3: me and say, man, how do I get in on
Speaker 3: this stuff? And all the advice I've given them, and
Speaker 3: I said, one of the things is because I asked
Speaker 3: about like how do they meet the women? And I say,
Speaker 3: you can either reach out to them, you know, on
Speaker 3: their links, or you contact whatever agency they're with. But
Speaker 3: I said, just make sure that when you reach out
Speaker 3: to them, because some of them have had I guess
Speaker 3: bad experiences when they were talking to the women. And
Speaker 3: I just say, just be a gentleman, just say hey,
Speaker 3: you know, I'm Bobby Gray. I've been in an industry
Speaker 3: or I've just got into an industry. I'm talent tested
Speaker 3: through TTS or cleared. I would love to film with
Speaker 3: you sometime. I have no problem traveling to you or
Speaker 3: flying you to me if the vibe is right, you know,
Speaker 3: by all means, check out my profile and guys, if
Speaker 3: you have references, put that in there as well. Say hey,
Speaker 3: you know I can have I can give your rect
Speaker 3: miss upon request. And I have no problem. Give you
Speaker 3: my QR code, my lab results and everything like that,
Speaker 3: and please check out my profile any questions. I'm an
Speaker 3: open book and laid out right there.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you so much for coming to
Speaker 1: join us. It was a pleasure to get to know you.
Speaker 1: Can you tell everyone where they can find you online? Please?
Speaker 3: Yes, you can go to x. You can find me
Speaker 3: at Bobby Gray xxx. My OnlyFans be Bobby Gray xxx.
Speaker 3: That's where you can find me and you have all
Speaker 3: my links there and if for whatever reason, you can
Speaker 3: also type in handsomehead dot com.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, stay tuned. I have some more interviews
Speaker 1: lined up.
Speaker 2: Okay, So my guest today went from college cam model
Speaker 2: to one of the fastest rising names in the adult industry,
Speaker 2: racking up tens of millions of views, landing major award nominations,
Speaker 2: and building a massive fan base and record time. But
Speaker 2: behind the success are some truly unhinged early stories, hard lessons,
Speaker 2: and a crash course in navigating an industry. It doesn't
Speaker 2: always come with a manual.
Speaker 1: Let's welcome Addison Vodka.
Speaker 6: Hello, Hi, I'm so happy to be here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so glad that we could finally make that Yes,
Speaker 2: so Addison, I guess let's start, like I do with
Speaker 2: most of my guests, start from the beginning. We always
Speaker 2: want to wonder how you ended up on the dark side.
Speaker 1: Yes, how does your story begin?
Speaker 4: So? I actually started out back when I was a
Speaker 4: preschool teacher.
Speaker 6: I was still living with my parents.
Speaker 4: And I had a boyfriend at the time who I
Speaker 4: found out was using this camming website behind my back.
Speaker 4: And I had asked him repeatedly to stop because I
Speaker 4: found out that he was using it.
Speaker 6: He didn't stop.
Speaker 1: So when you say using it, he was not a
Speaker 1: performer on it, he was. No, he was live.
Speaker 6: Streaming himself on it for fun, I guess.
Speaker 2: Okay, so he was like as a performer, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: wasn't like a like a fan on there, like tipping.
Speaker 1: Other girls both, okay, gotcha.
Speaker 6: On a very small scale, I know, he had maybe
Speaker 6: three viewers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he.
Speaker 6: Didn't stop when I asked him to.
Speaker 4: So at that point I kind of just thought to myself, Well,
Speaker 4: if you can do it, then I'm going to do it.
Speaker 4: And I went on the website and made an account,
Speaker 4: and the first night I had over twelve thousand viewers,
Speaker 4: and I made a.
Speaker 1: Bunch of money.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 4: And then within the next few days, I moved out
Speaker 4: of my parents' house and I quit my job.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: So camming like really launched you, like into a whole
Speaker 2: new stratosphere, just.
Speaker 6: A whole different world.
Speaker 4: I didn't really know what I was doing at that
Speaker 4: point in my life. I was in this stupid relationship,
Speaker 4: I had moved back in with my family. I was
Speaker 4: just struggling all around. And then it kind of gave
Speaker 4: me this new door to unlock where I fell. I
Speaker 4: had some freedom, you know, and once it started, I
Speaker 4: just couldn't really get away from it.
Speaker 1: Wow. What surprised you the most about camming?
Speaker 6: I think it was the response that I got.
Speaker 4: I had assumed maybe if I logged onto one of
Speaker 4: these websites, I would have five people watching me. Having
Speaker 4: ten thousand plus people watching you live was insane.
Speaker 6: It was so hard for me to even grasp that.
Speaker 4: And everyone was just so nice to me, and it
Speaker 4: was so crazy to start building a fan base.
Speaker 6: I just never bad them something like that could happen.
Speaker 2: Were there some things that you did early in your
Speaker 2: camming career that now you are like, Oh, I should
Speaker 2: have done that differently.
Speaker 4: I think no, Honestly, I think I really loved the
Speaker 4: way that I was just this crazy.
Speaker 6: College party girl.
Speaker 1: That was the vibe, and it was really fun. It
Speaker 1: was really natural.
Speaker 4: It was just me on laptop webcam having fun with
Speaker 4: my friends and with guys and just doing crazy stuff.
Speaker 4: So I wouldn't change it, I don't think.
Speaker 1: So how long did you cam before you transitioned into
Speaker 1: doing studio work, which is what you're doing now, right, Yes.
Speaker 4: I think I was camming for almost two or three years, okay,
Speaker 4: and then I started doing OnlyFans. I had started meeting
Speaker 4: more people, I went to expos and stuff, and then
Speaker 4: once I started doing OnlyFans, I just opened more of
Speaker 4: the world, you know. And then I started doing studio work,
Speaker 4: which was crazy.
Speaker 2: Tell me about that transition from like, you know, you're camming,
Speaker 2: then you're doing only fans. These are still two things
Speaker 2: that are very much like in your control, right, Yes,
Speaker 2: and probably a lot of it was shot at your home,
Speaker 2: maybe by yourself. Yeah, and then transitioning into doing studio
Speaker 2: works like a whole different thing.
Speaker 1: So what was that move like for you?
Speaker 6: So it was a little scary. I had met.
Speaker 4: A few mainstream porn stars at an event in Miami,
Speaker 4: and I just thought it was so cool and it
Speaker 4: seemed so fun. I had no idea. I didn't know
Speaker 4: how to get an agent, I didn't know how to
Speaker 4: do anything. I just started emailing the websites on there,
Speaker 4: like scroll to the bottom and email the help email.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and one of.
Speaker 4: Them actually emailed me back. So that's how I started shooting.
Speaker 4: And the transition felt oddly very natural to me.
Speaker 6: I was nervous, of course, because.
Speaker 4: It is very different than being in the comfort of
Speaker 4: your home and just being alone. But once I started
Speaker 4: doing it, I was like, this is really what I enjoy.
Speaker 4: It's so much fun.
Speaker 1: Tell me about your first experience, like your first studio shoe,
Speaker 1: What was that like.
Speaker 4: I was in Florida and I think it was for
Speaker 4: New Biles and they had sent me a crazy long
Speaker 4: script and I'd never done anything like that before at all.
Speaker 1: Everything I read a script in my life. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I was so nervous.
Speaker 4: I just remember I kept messing up and messing up,
Speaker 4: and I felt so bad for the poor director and
Speaker 4: camera people I was. I almost cried. I was just
Speaker 4: so anxious and nervous, and that scene haunts me to
Speaker 4: this day because my acting is atrocious, But that's rough.
Speaker 2: Like I've been the director on the other side of that.
Speaker 2: I've also been the talent on the other side of that,
Speaker 2: Like when I had a show for a Playboy TV
Speaker 2: and I would have to I never understood what it
Speaker 2: was like being talent until I did that show and
Speaker 2: I was just a host. I wasn't a performer at all, right,
Speaker 2: But having to struggling with something and then still having
Speaker 2: to like project this image of like I'm happy or
Speaker 2: I'm this or you know what I mean a place
Speaker 2: that you're not feeling at the moment is tough.
Speaker 1: And you know what's funny is that.
Speaker 2: I am very very bad at memorizing line, like very
Speaker 2: bad even if I wrote the script. Yeah, I'll write
Speaker 2: myself lines, Like all of a sudden, when I used
Speaker 2: to shoot like Digital Playground and stuff, I put myself
Speaker 2: in as a like a non sex role just because
Speaker 2: I didn't want to pay somebody else to do it,
Speaker 2: so I would just get it myself.
Speaker 1: But I wouldn't remember my own line, yeah, my own lines.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And like everyone's waiting for me the director, Hello,
Speaker 2: you can't find doer lines And it's just like and
Speaker 2: you get caught in that yeah, in that headspace, and
Speaker 2: then it gets worse and it's.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, oh hard.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the spiral with it was definitely the worst thing. Yeah,
Speaker 4: over time, I've gotten much better at memorizing lines.
Speaker 6: I think it took a little while, but no, that
Speaker 6: haunts me every day.
Speaker 1: That's so bad.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I mean, overall, do you feel like this
Speaker 2: scene was fairly successful, Like once you get to the
Speaker 2: sex part, did that at least go better?
Speaker 1: I think so.
Speaker 4: I think I was Also, it was it was funny
Speaker 4: because that being my first scene, it was more technical
Speaker 4: type of one. They really liked to cut between each
Speaker 4: you know, position and this and that's so it felt
Speaker 4: very stop and starts, stop and start, and I was
Speaker 4: just which is so different than like camming line?
Speaker 1: Yeah, as being in the moment.
Speaker 4: Yes, and then of course later down the line, I
Speaker 4: had experiences where they were like, okay, just go.
Speaker 6: We're just gonna roll through the thirty minutes, go have fun.
Speaker 1: So it was crazy, It was.
Speaker 4: It was nerve wracking, and but I think funny enough
Speaker 4: to see people like it a lot, And I think
Speaker 4: I'm just overly critical of it because you know, I
Speaker 4: just know that was my first yeh.
Speaker 2: Ever, what was the hardest part of transitioning from solo
Speaker 2: camming to the larger porn industry, like agents or sets
Speaker 2: or expos or lines.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think one of the hardest parts was just navigating
Speaker 4: the whole new world itself. I mean all of those
Speaker 4: things like together, you know, finding an agent was scary.
Speaker 4: Just making sure that I was doing the right things.
Speaker 4: You know, of course you're never always going to do
Speaker 4: the right thing, but trying my best to do that.
Speaker 4: Just meeting so many new people, putting myself in all
Speaker 4: these new crazy positions and experiences.
Speaker 6: So I think all of it was pretty hard.
Speaker 4: But at a point it started to flow naturally, and
Speaker 4: I think that the transition just was the right one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the mainstream adult world can also be competitive and
Speaker 2: confusing without lesense.
Speaker 1: What do you wish someone had told you early on?
Speaker 6: I think.
Speaker 4: Someone should have told me that, you know, everyone has
Speaker 4: their own journey, everyone goes at different paces.
Speaker 6: I think it's really easy to get caught.
Speaker 4: Up in the comparison, especially, you know, if you see
Speaker 4: someone that started at the same time as you, and
Speaker 4: you see someone on a different path than you, you
Speaker 4: and you feel like you're not leveling up to that,
Speaker 4: et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 6: You know, there's everyone has.
Speaker 1: Their own timeline.
Speaker 4: I think that success comes at all different rates and times,
Speaker 4: and to just not put so much pressure on yourself
Speaker 4: to get somewhere a certain time, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, that constant comparison social media doesn't help with that,
Speaker 1: no either.
Speaker 2: No, So, how do you protect your mental health while
Speaker 2: navigating like this world? Because the adult industry can be
Speaker 2: you know, quite training for several reasons.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's important to be able to take
Speaker 4: time away. I think for me, I like to go home.
Speaker 4: I like to take a week if I have to.
Speaker 4: Just taking time to reset yourself mentally and physically, and
Speaker 4: just keep time to do the things that you like
Speaker 4: to do, no matter how small the time is. Because
Speaker 4: there's been times where I've overworked myself for weeks on
Speaker 4: end and then I go crazy.
Speaker 1: So I think I've learned to.
Speaker 4: Kind of balance it a little more, which is hard
Speaker 4: to do because I feel a lot of us are workaholics.
Speaker 1: But it's important.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I mean really being you know, being a
Speaker 2: creator in the adult industry, you're really like you are
Speaker 2: an entrepreneur. Yeah, I mean I interviewed Melrose Michaels a
Speaker 2: couple of weeks ago, and she said something you know
Speaker 2: that like very much, just said it in a very
Speaker 2: straightforward manner, you know. And I said, what advice would
Speaker 2: you give to someone who's looking to get into the industry,
Speaker 2: And she said, do you want to be an entrepreneur?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: As the first question I'd ask, because that's exactly what
Speaker 1: you're going to be. Yes. And it's a lot of.
Speaker 4: Work you're always on, even if you know, it's just
Speaker 4: always in your head all the time. And it's great
Speaker 4: because you know it's everything and it's what you want
Speaker 4: to be doing, but it is always there.
Speaker 2: Yes, you've experienced stigma both inside and outside of the industry.
Speaker 2: How do you navigate friendships dating like public perception?
Speaker 4: I mean, I've had my fair share of losses and
Speaker 4: gains throughout my time in the industry. I've lost friends
Speaker 4: that I was friends with before and who didn't really
Speaker 4: want to continue being my friend throughout. It's tough. I
Speaker 4: think it just comes with time. I mean, people are
Speaker 4: always going to judge what you're going to do, and
Speaker 4: if they do, that's just not the right place for
Speaker 4: them to be in your life, right. I think the
Speaker 4: stigma is difficult to handle sometimes, but surrounding yourself with
Speaker 4: people who accept and appreciate you just for being who
Speaker 4: you are is important and makes it all better.
Speaker 2: What is the one most common misconception that you hear
Speaker 2: from people about the adult industry.
Speaker 6: That we're all like suffering.
Speaker 1: All the time, that you all want to be rescued?
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, someone needs to save us all.
Speaker 4: That's the one I think that drives me the most crazy.
Speaker 4: I get those kind of comments all the time. They're like,
Speaker 4: someone needs to save all these girls. You know, we're all.
Speaker 1: Here on our free wills. We want to be here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so there's probably not anyone that needs saving.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean that whole thing is just this automatic assumption
Speaker 2: of placing women as like victims, and that that whole
Speaker 2: thing always drives me insane.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: You've also talked about porn as a safe way to
Speaker 2: explore your fantasies. Yes, Can you explain that to people
Speaker 2: who may feel like that sounds contradictory to what they
Speaker 2: imagine the adult industry is like?
Speaker 4: Right? So for me, I guess when I say that,
Speaker 4: it's you know, I get to have the ability to
Speaker 4: be in a safe, consensual, I guess, in a way
Speaker 4: guarded atmosphere to do these crazy things that I've always
Speaker 4: wanted to do, because you know, before I would have
Speaker 4: been on some Tinder or something and meeting up with
Speaker 4: a guy, and who knows, that could maybe not go
Speaker 4: so great. Yeah, and it's scary because outside of porn.
Speaker 4: Funny enough, I feel I'm quite shy where it used
Speaker 4: to be, and I always wanted to explore so many
Speaker 4: more of my sexual interests and stuff, but I was
Speaker 4: just shy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So being able to just have it laid out
Speaker 1: for me ready to go, I was a lot better
Speaker 1: than just thinking about it.
Speaker 2: You know what, specific like sexual fantasies, have you been
Speaker 2: able to play out in a scene.
Speaker 4: I have been able to do a lot more BDSM
Speaker 4: esque stuff. I was suspended for the first time not
Speaker 4: too long ago, which was really fun. I've always wanted
Speaker 4: to do that.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that's a perfect example of having to
Speaker 2: make sure that you're working with a professional, yeah, because
Speaker 2: they have to know how to suspend you in the
Speaker 2: right way, because that can be dangerous if it's not
Speaker 2: done correctly exactly.
Speaker 4: And that was all always something that I wanted to do,
Speaker 4: but I was like, I don't even know where to
Speaker 4: find someone.
Speaker 1: Rights, what do I do? Yeah?
Speaker 2: So you did it a soft white belly interview which
Speaker 2: gets an enormous amount of traffic. Yeah, and it brought
Speaker 2: you a lot of mainstream attention. How was that experience
Speaker 2: for you?
Speaker 4: It was really just insane, an insane experience. I was
Speaker 4: a huge fan of the channel itself beforehand, so doing
Speaker 4: that interview, I was very nervous. I was really nervous,
Speaker 4: and people were not very kind in the comments. That
Speaker 4: was the first time that I've ever been exposed to
Speaker 4: such harsh kickback on the internet for the first time
Speaker 4: in my life.
Speaker 1: People most of the time are pretty nice and before.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but because you're being supposed to a whole different audience,
Speaker 2: a whole different audience.
Speaker 4: And I think these people couldn't handle that I was
Speaker 4: happy with what I'm doing and they want to see
Speaker 4: someone who's suffering in.
Speaker 1: A sense, they want that confirmation bias.
Speaker 4: Yes, and they were just most of the comments were
Speaker 4: just saying that I was so broken and so sad
Speaker 4: and they could feel the pain behind my eyes.
Speaker 1: There's all this crazy stuff.
Speaker 2: And was it about you being a cam model, because
Speaker 2: I know he always say is very like specific.
Speaker 4: A lot of them just said, you know, because I
Speaker 4: talked about how I'm very happy with my porn career,
Speaker 4: I'm very happy with the life that I've set up,
Speaker 4: I'm happy with my job, et cetera. And I just
Speaker 4: think people couldn't really handle that I'm happy and okay.
Speaker 1: Having that exposure.
Speaker 2: And then obviously, like just being in the industry, Now,
Speaker 2: how do you de say what parts of yourself that
Speaker 2: you want to like protect when the internet just kind
Speaker 2: of wants everything from you.
Speaker 6: I think I struggle with that a little bit.
Speaker 4: Pretty an open book on the internet, especially being a
Speaker 4: cam model, You're constantly just talking to them, and it
Speaker 4: feels very personal. So that's sort of what I carry
Speaker 4: through the way that I use social media when I.
Speaker 6: Interact with my fans and everything.
Speaker 4: I mean, obviously I keep my very personal personal life separate,
Speaker 4: but otherwise.
Speaker 6: I think I share mostly everything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I don't have too much that I hide
Speaker 4: from the Internet, which probably should have hid some more.
Speaker 2: But well, I think it's like all has to do
Speaker 2: with everybody's comfort zone. Yeah, I'm the same way. I'm
Speaker 2: I'll tell you pretty much anything. Yeah, and I'm very open,
Speaker 2: but like like you, there's a lot of the things
Speaker 2: that I don't talk about are because I'm protecting the
Speaker 2: privacy of somebody else exactly right, Yeah, someone close to me. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 2: otherwise I would, but it's like it's not my secret
Speaker 2: to share story to share. Yeah, like it directly affects
Speaker 2: me in a very strong way, but it's also not
Speaker 2: like just my decisions. Yeah, there's things that I hope back. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but otherwise, like if it's about me, right, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm also like one of those people who, like I
Speaker 2: love to talk about like my pain and my drama.
Speaker 2: If you want to like ask me like really hard
Speaker 2: questions about like things that are very like you know,
Speaker 2: very emotionally triggering for me.
Speaker 1: I'm all about it. Oh yeah, anytime, I will on
Speaker 1: you any time exactly.
Speaker 6: I'm like, I will talk for three hours straight if
Speaker 6: you need me.
Speaker 2: So, what a terrible segue for this question. You've had
Speaker 2: some sugar Daddy Shenanigan.
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I've had some really funny situations, some that
Speaker 4: just I feel fine their way to me.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: How I've I've dabbled in that world, but most of
Speaker 4: the time, it just finds me.
Speaker 6: I think one of the craziest ones was when I
Speaker 6: was living in New York City.
Speaker 4: I someone had found me on Twitter and I was
Speaker 4: just I was a very small person at this time.
Speaker 4: You know, I wasn't a name or anything, just a
Speaker 4: small camgirl. And uh, turns out this man was a
Speaker 4: Hasidic Jewish man living in New York and.
Speaker 1: Just I don't know.
Speaker 4: I was always terrified because I never I was like,
Speaker 4: you're putting so much on the line here to give
Speaker 4: me money and help me with my life. He just
Speaker 4: would bring me money all the time, give me a
Speaker 4: credit card, like I don't even know.
Speaker 1: And it was.
Speaker 4: Crazy because did you ever meet him in person? Yes,
Speaker 4: we met in person many times. And what was interesting
Speaker 4: about this was he it wasn't a sexual relationship at all, wow,
Speaker 4: not once, not even text exchange, just friendly. It was
Speaker 4: one of the strangest things I've ever He's a great,
Speaker 4: great man.
Speaker 1: What was his reasoning for? I don't know.
Speaker 4: I think that he just saw me on the internet
Speaker 4: and I maybe wanted to help me.
Speaker 1: But you know, it was so what did you guys
Speaker 1: like talk about? Because I actually had a similar experience,
Speaker 1: really a long time ago.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I made it clear to him from the
Speaker 2: start that I would never have sex with him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was never gonna happen.
Speaker 2: But he called himself Actually I kind of appreciated this,
Speaker 2: but he called himself like a patron of mine, where
Speaker 2: like he appreciated my work, right, like my photography and stuff,
Speaker 2: and he just wanted to support me in that, like
Speaker 2: he helped put a down payment on my equipment van. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it was like it was kind of like unsexy shit,
Speaker 2: like he would want to like buy me like sexy
Speaker 2: stuff for like obvious reasons, and I'm like, I don't
Speaker 2: need laingery. I need a down payment on my equipment.
Speaker 4: Right, No, I need rent for the next three months,
Speaker 4: not any set good. Yeah, I mean we just were friends,
Speaker 4: I guess in a sense. But I always assumed, you know,
Speaker 4: there was the underlying, Yeah, you have feelings for me,
Speaker 4: m et cetera, because why are you doing this for
Speaker 4: some random girl putting your entire life and reputation on
Speaker 4: the line. But I mean eternally grateful, of course. But yeah,
Speaker 4: that was just.
Speaker 6: Things like that just somehow find their way to me.
Speaker 4: I'm not sure you still talk to him we do
Speaker 4: here and there, but no, after I moved away, it
Speaker 4: kind of dwindled out.
Speaker 1: I think he maybe was like, I should.
Speaker 6: Probably stop doing it at some point.
Speaker 2: But yeah, and then you also sit saying else about seizures.
Speaker 6: Yes, I actually was. This wasn't too long ago.
Speaker 4: I was a man had taken me shopping and we
Speaker 4: you know, he's kind of similar in that sense, just
Speaker 4: someone who was very generous to me.
Speaker 6: And he while we were checking out, he.
Speaker 4: Was handing me his card and his hand was shaking,
Speaker 4: and I thought like he was messing around with me,
Speaker 4: trying to be like, oh no, don't take it. Yeah,
Speaker 4: but no, he was fully like seizing. Oh my god,
Speaker 4: and We're in the middle of the store, and I
Speaker 4: just freaked out. I didn't know what to do. I
Speaker 4: had to take him outside. I like called the ambulance.
Speaker 4: It was one of the craziest and the worst part
Speaker 4: was while he was handing it to me, I hit
Speaker 4: him like, oh, on back, because I thought he was
Speaker 4: messing around with me, and like to find out he's
Speaker 4: like about to pass away on me.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: So I think was he epilectic, like had this happened before? No,
Speaker 2: I don't even know it was the craziest thing ever.
Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, I'm never going shopping with
Speaker 2: a man ever again.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's not me.
Speaker 6: I'm traumatized.
Speaker 1: I ever find out what was wrong with him?
Speaker 4: No, no, he he was also very strange about it,
Speaker 4: just completely played it off like, acted like nothing happened,
Speaker 4: wouldn't talk about it.
Speaker 1: It was the craziest of the craziest things ever. I
Speaker 1: thought I was. I thought I made it all up
Speaker 1: and I was like a big drinker.
Speaker 6: No, No, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Interesting. I know more about seizures than I should.
Speaker 6: I know nothing about it that I don't know anymore.
Speaker 1: I didn't until last year.
Speaker 2: But speaking of men and shopping, Yes, I have to
Speaker 2: ask you the one question that everybody wants to know.
Speaker 1: How important is penis sized to you?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Man, Honestly, I do love.
Speaker 6: Good size, like I do love it a.
Speaker 1: Lot length or girth or both.
Speaker 4: I like both, but I prefer girth, I think. But
Speaker 4: it's not it's not make or break. I love it,
Speaker 4: but I'm okay with you know average. Okay, Yeah, so
Speaker 4: it's not the most important thing ever, but I'm glad
Speaker 4: I get to experience it.
Speaker 1: Okay. Other question for you, what is big to you?
Speaker 2: Because like some girls, I'll talk to them like I
Speaker 2: like average size, you know, like eight inches. I'm like,
Speaker 2: that's not average age.
Speaker 1: Average average is actually five and a half inches, all right.
Speaker 1: I mean I guess big to me is like.
Speaker 4: The guys with the crazy penises, you know, like yeah,
Speaker 4: like crazy big.
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 4: I don't know, it's it's my favorite, probably, but I
Speaker 4: do average under eight is good too.
Speaker 2: And then what sex advice do you think that most
Speaker 2: men need to hear?
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I fear there is not a general piece
Speaker 4: of advice I could give, because I think every man
Speaker 4: is so different, is what I've come to notice.
Speaker 6: I think.
Speaker 4: Some advice would be for everyone would maybe just to
Speaker 4: be more sensual, like sometimes you know, really don't just
Speaker 4: ram into it.
Speaker 1: More for a play. Yeah, that's pretty much what I
Speaker 1: hear from almost a Yeah, I think.
Speaker 2: That is a good general piece of advice, ycause I
Speaker 2: think a lot of guys like watch porn and like
Speaker 2: you know, and it kind of gets straight into it.
Speaker 2: But it's also just because like a scene can only
Speaker 2: be so long, and like if there's a ton of foreplay,
Speaker 2: it's like, yeah, it just takes forever, right, Yeah, and
Speaker 2: it's but yeah, I think I think that is one
Speaker 2: thing that I find that most women ask for more
Speaker 2: four plates because we're not We're so different than guys, right, yeah,
Speaker 2: take us longer to warm us up, so to speak. Yes,
Speaker 2: in four play I have found also like doesn't even
Speaker 2: necessarily have to be touching.
Speaker 1: Yeah right.
Speaker 2: It can be like auditory, It can be you know,
Speaker 2: like I don't know, sending like sexy texts throughout the
Speaker 2: day or something like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you know, it can get I.
Speaker 4: Think, just intimacy in general, you know, any form of it. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I think is a good way to four play.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So Addison, you've built a massive digital success in
Speaker 2: a fairly short amount of time. What do you think
Speaker 2: fans actually connect with the most about you?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Man, well, thank you for that.
Speaker 4: Also, I think I'm very personable. I think that's some
Speaker 4: thing that from the start, even way back to just
Speaker 4: in my bedroom days, is that was what drew people
Speaker 4: to me just kind of my personality. I guess that
Speaker 4: I seem like a really normal girl per se. I
Speaker 4: think that is something that people really like. I noticed
Speaker 4: that a lot, especially on my websites as well, when
Speaker 4: I'm talking to people, they just really enjoy that it's me,
Speaker 4: it's real, it's not just some bought I guess, robot girl.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it kind of like points to how you were
Speaker 2: saying that. You know, sometimes you're very much an open book, right,
Speaker 2: you have a hard.
Speaker 1: Time holding things back. Yeah, it probably resonates with people.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think they like the authenticity that I can give them.
Speaker 4: You know, they really like getting to know me on
Speaker 4: a personal level.
Speaker 1: Do you do custom videos and stuff like that?
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I do a lot of live streams too.
Speaker 4: Still, so I think people really like that because I
Speaker 4: never shut up and I just talked.
Speaker 1: What do you find that people ask for you from
Speaker 1: you the most?
Speaker 4: Ooh, I think people really like my role play videos. Okay,
Speaker 4: that's one of the things I get the most, even
Speaker 4: custom requests. People just always want me to play some
Speaker 4: type of role.
Speaker 1: What's the most common role you get asked to do?
Speaker 6: A girlfriend? Okay, people want me to be their girlfriend
Speaker 6: with their names.
Speaker 4: And I think that was a lot of videos of
Speaker 4: mine that went kind of viral in a sense, not viral,
Speaker 4: but you know, got good viewings on the internet. So
Speaker 4: I think that's what people really like to see from me.
Speaker 4: I guess they want the girlfriend experience. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 4: it sounds like they feel very connected to you. Yeah,
Speaker 4: which is fun. I really like doing that, Like I
Speaker 4: love doing POV stuff. It's really fun to be able
Speaker 4: to make each video unique for someone. You know.
Speaker 2: Any like crazy customer requests you've gotten that you've just
Speaker 2: been like, oh, either you accepted or didn't.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've gotten really crazy ones just with stuff that
Speaker 4: I would never do, like taking it to a whole
Speaker 4: new level, like with bodily fluids of all swords out, Yeah,
Speaker 4: anything like that.
Speaker 1: Really insane ones like that. So I feel like that's
Speaker 1: probably the craziest stuff that I get.
Speaker 4: I have had a few, like kind of campy ones,
Speaker 4: you know, people wanting me to do like really long
Speaker 4: scripts that are pretty out there. But those are fun.
Speaker 4: I like those, Yeah, but yeah, just creepy ones sometimes.
Speaker 2: Looking ahead, what does the next step look like for
Speaker 2: your like, career wise or personally?
Speaker 4: I think personally there's I guess they go hand in
Speaker 4: hand in a sense.
Speaker 6: Personally, I want to further my career more so this year.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of goals I have mainstream wise, I
Speaker 4: would really like to be able to accomplish.
Speaker 6: There's a lot of companies and things that.
Speaker 4: I want to do that I hope bring my career
Speaker 4: to another level where I want to be.
Speaker 6: I just see a lot of longevity in this realm.
Speaker 4: For me.
Speaker 6: It's where I want to be.
Speaker 4: It's where I'm happy to be, and I care so
Speaker 4: much about my place and my position in the industry
Speaker 4: that all I want is to be.
Speaker 6: More successful at it.
Speaker 1: So we're at the beginning of a new year January.
Speaker 2: Any big plans for twenty twenty six, I mean, I
Speaker 2: just hope to be able to do a lot more
Speaker 2: big projects.
Speaker 6: I have a lot that I'm hoping to do.
Speaker 1: Are there any specific brands that you're like dying to
Speaker 1: shoot for.
Speaker 6: I would love to work for Brawsers.
Speaker 4: I think that's probably one of the last ones left
Speaker 4: on my lips to knock out. I just would love
Speaker 4: to do some more movie esque projects. I had so
Speaker 4: much fun doing that this year.
Speaker 2: I like features, Yes, yeah, I because you're going to
Speaker 2: remember your lines is yes.
Speaker 4: I'm actually very good at it now. I had so
Speaker 4: much fun doing the horror stuff. I really want to
Speaker 4: lean into more acting stuff this year. I didn't think
Speaker 4: I was going to enjoy it and do it so well,
Speaker 4: so that was really exciting for me. I hope to
Speaker 4: be able to do some anal this year the first time,
Speaker 4: and then we'll see what happens.
Speaker 2: All right, it sounds like twenty twenty six is going
Speaker 2: to be Addison's ear. Yes, amazing, Well, thank you so
Speaker 2: much for coming on.
Speaker 1: I go to connect with you too. Can you let
Speaker 1: everyone know where they can find you online? Please?
Speaker 4: Yes, you can find me at Addison Vodka dot com
Speaker 4: or Instagram at Addison Vodka XO and that has everything.
Speaker 2: And you guys can of course find me at Holly
Speaker 2: Randall on Instagram and on Twitter. Go to hollylinks dot
Speaker 2: com for access to all of my plan platforms. Thank
Speaker 2: you guys so much for joining, and I'll see you
Speaker 2: on the next one.