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Speaker 1: doing today? If you're hearing this episode, then you are
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Speaker 1: steeped in our power if we are giving our power
Speaker 1: away to everyone and their father? Now can we? No,
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Speaker 1: won't agree just yet, but allow it to awaken the
Speaker 1: light within yourself and see where it takes you. Hookup
Speaker 1: culture makes you ugly mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and yeah, physically,
Speaker 1: and I'm going to tell you why. I'm also going
Speaker 1: to tell you why and how you can actually get
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Speaker 1: hookup culture or maybe you're just dating, I'm going to
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Speaker 1: here right now with me, you're listening to this podcast.
Speaker 1: Like I say in the intro, you're meant to be
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Speaker 1: Without further ado, let's get into today's episode. Now, I
Speaker 1: made a claim that hookup culture makes you ugly, and
Speaker 1: to understand this, before we get into the spiritual and
Speaker 1: emotional side effects, let's just start with the physical. Yes,
Speaker 1: we are a spirit in a body, but we are
Speaker 1: quite materialistic because we really rely on our three D
Speaker 1: senses to give us information about the world. We rely
Speaker 1: on our eyes, our ears, our tastes, our touch to
Speaker 1: give us input about the physical reality around us. So
Speaker 1: it's only natural that we start with the most physical
Speaker 1: thing that we have, which is our vessel. It's our body.
Speaker 1: Whether we're engaging with hookup culture or we're just with
Speaker 1: someone who isn't the right person for us, and there's
Speaker 1: an unequal energetic dynamic where we're giving way more than
Speaker 1: we're receiving in either one of those scenarios. It will
Speaker 1: make us uglier. Why, because we're in a heightened state
Speaker 1: of survival for too long twenty four to seven, ninety
Speaker 1: percent of our day. You have to understand our brain
Speaker 1: and nervous system is very much ancient, yet we're living
Speaker 1: in this modern world. We used to get a cordisle
Speaker 1: spike from a lion running away a poisonous bury. Oh,
Speaker 1: I almost ate that. Now we're in a heightened cordisal
Speaker 1: state almost twenty four to seven because social media, because
Speaker 1: they're not texting us back, because of dating apps, We're
Speaker 1: constantly looking outside of ourselves for threats, and it's putting
Speaker 1: us into a constant fight or flight state. What do
Speaker 1: you think this does to your physical vessel? What do
Speaker 1: you think happens to your body when you're pumping out cortisol?
Speaker 1: Do you think you're glowing and floating through the planet.
Speaker 1: Of course not. When you're in the sympathetic nervous system,
Speaker 1: your whole entire demeanor changes. Your body literally primes itself,
Speaker 1: It gets ready for battle because it's perceiving a threat.
Speaker 1: What's a threat in today's age? In hookup culture, they're
Speaker 1: not texting me back, they're not calling me I just
Speaker 1: gave them all of myself, and now they're not even here.
Speaker 1: I don't understand that causes you to go into your
Speaker 1: sympathetic nervous system, your power sympathetic nervous system. Actually, let's
Speaker 1: call on my book show up as her page fifty three,
Speaker 1: I literally give you the definitions. So your power sympathetic
Speaker 1: nervous system is a part of the autonomic nervous system
Speaker 1: that is just responsible for relaxing your body. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: often referred to rest and digest. When you're calm, when
Speaker 1: you're relaxed, when you're self focused, you're able to digest
Speaker 1: your food. Your shoulders are back, you are smiling, you
Speaker 1: feel really good, your heart centers open. In this state,
Speaker 1: we're able to digest properly, conserve energy, breathe deeply, engage
Speaker 1: with others, and feel safe. However, when we're constantly looking
Speaker 1: outside of ourselves for connection, especially to the wrong people,
Speaker 1: we then trigger ourselves into the sympathetic nervous system, which
Speaker 1: is responsible for responding to perceived stress. Keyboard is perceived.
Speaker 1: There doesn't even have to be a real threat out
Speaker 1: there for us to think that there is. But if
Speaker 1: we're telling ourselves that this person is somehow threatening our
Speaker 1: connection to one day get married, have children, engage in
Speaker 1: a relationship. We're going to stress ourselves out. This state
Speaker 1: is often referred to as fight or flight because our
Speaker 1: heart beats faster or draw tightens, our body becomes contracted,
Speaker 1: and we become hyper vigilant towards the perceived threat. Your
Speaker 1: body when it's not just getting a cortisole spike here there,
Speaker 1: but constantly, it will not digest food, so you're gonna
Speaker 1: feel bloated. You're gonna start to have less sleep, so
Speaker 1: bags underneath your eyes. You're either gonna gain weight or
Speaker 1: lose weight. Your hair will thin, you're gonna break out,
Speaker 1: your shoulders are gonna be hunched over, your head will
Speaker 1: be down. Your whole entire body and system will operate differently.
Speaker 1: And on page fifty seven, I literally give you a
Speaker 1: chart on how your body literally looks different when you're
Speaker 1: in this constant state of stress. And if you're being
Speaker 1: intimate with all these different people or with the wrong person,
Speaker 1: this is what happens. Your body is gonna perceive this
Speaker 1: as a stressed threat, and you're not gonna operate properly.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be able to breathe as deep think. Clearly,
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be able to hear the same sea.
Speaker 1: Nothing will be the same. I'm gonna give you a
Speaker 1: little antidote from my own life.
Speaker 2: Here.
Speaker 1: There was someone I felt a connection to a deep
Speaker 1: sense of connection to this person, and I literally refused
Speaker 1: to be intimate with them because I just knew that
Speaker 1: they were not in the right headspace. They would say
Speaker 1: things like, well, they said they loved me and I
Speaker 1: was their wife. But they also said things like, for example,
Speaker 1: see this is why i's to listen to everything and
Speaker 1: not just cherry pick what you wanna. Really pay attention to,
Speaker 1: listen to all that they're saying, but more importantly, look
Speaker 1: at action. But they would also say things like I'm
Speaker 1: in transition. I don't know, I'm really chaotic right now
Speaker 1: of all these things going on. They saw me as
Speaker 1: really intimidating. That's not a good thing. So I heard
Speaker 1: everything he said, not just the things that I wanted
Speaker 1: to pay attention to, and I looked at his actions
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, there are some
Speaker 1: good words here, but the actions aren't aligning with the
Speaker 1: good words. And he's also saying a lot of things
Speaker 1: that are not positive. Now, I felt connected to this person,
Speaker 1: so it made me upset, But I would not allow
Speaker 1: myself to cross that line because I knew, Ceci, if
Speaker 1: you are to cross this line, who's going to get hurt?
Speaker 1: Who's going to be stressed out?
Speaker 2: Him? Or you? Me?
Speaker 1: It would have been me because I'm the one who
Speaker 1: wanted something more real or more committed, because I don't
Speaker 1: engage in hookup culture, and he was all over the place.
Speaker 1: We have to read the writing on the wall. We
Speaker 1: have to look for situations, or look at situations for
Speaker 1: exactly as they are, not what we wish them to be.
Speaker 1: And if you're having trouble with this, I want you
Speaker 1: to call on divine assistance, and I want you to say, God,
Speaker 1: give me eyes to see, ears to here in a
Speaker 1: heart full of discernment, so I can see the situation
Speaker 1: as clear as day, so I can make the right
Speaker 1: decision here. And I said that to God, and I
Speaker 1: was able to see clearly and therefore able to make
Speaker 1: the right decision for me. A lot of us think
Speaker 1: that we're being played, when really we're playing ourselves. They're
Speaker 1: literally telling us, I'm in transition. I can't do something
Speaker 1: serious X, Y, and Z, whatever it may be. What
Speaker 1: else could they say, I don't want a relationship right now.
Speaker 1: A man will know whether or not he wants a
Speaker 1: relationship with you fairly quickly, and if you feel like
Speaker 1: you have to prove yourself to him in order for
Speaker 1: him to take you seriously, that is not the right
Speaker 1: person and you're gonna trigger yourself. You have to see
Speaker 1: people for who they are. You have to see the
Speaker 1: situation for what it is. They're not playing you. Stop
Speaker 1: being a victim. And by the way, if this sounds harsh,
Speaker 1: this is the same conversations I have with myself, and
Speaker 1: I've literally been there too, I understand. But you cannot
Speaker 1: be the victim when they're literally telling you what it
Speaker 1: is and you're then telling yourself, well, I can convince them.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna prove to them. I'm gonna give them my body,
Speaker 1: my time, my energy, I'm gonna show how amazing I am,
Speaker 1: and then they'll see and they're gonna want to convince me. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's literally not how it works. They will know, just
Speaker 1: like you know certain things. They will know fairly quickly,
Speaker 1: and it will not require you to prove yourself to them.
Speaker 1: You are not being played. You're playing yourself because you
Speaker 1: are not listening to what they're saying, and you're telling
Speaker 1: yourself that you're gonna convince them to like you. So
Speaker 1: you're giving them all your time, your energy, and your body.
Speaker 1: And what is it doing. It's making you uglier, it's
Speaker 1: making you more stressed out, it's making you feel terrible. Now,
Speaker 1: when this person did try to be eventually intimate with me,
Speaker 1: I was like, no, whoa no, And he was like, what,
Speaker 1: I only do this with the girls that I like,
Speaker 1: and I laughed. I was like what He's like, No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not one of the girls you like. I'm either
Speaker 1: the girl or I'm gone girl. That's this is not
Speaker 1: the game I play. Sorry, no, thank you. And he
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I feel so rejected. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make myself feel dumb. So if me
Speaker 1: making a smart decision for myself makes you feel rejected,
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that. Yeah that works for me because
Speaker 1: right now you just want me when it's good for you,
Speaker 1: and that doesn't work for me, so therefore feel rejected.
Speaker 1: All you want, I'm gonna rest on my pedestal and
Speaker 1: feel really good in the decision I'm making right now.
Speaker 1: Was I hurt? Yes, I liked this person. The thing is,
Speaker 1: sometimes we're gonna feel connected to people, but that doesn't
Speaker 1: mean that they're right for us, or that they are
Speaker 1: meant to be our partner in crime. There are so
Speaker 1: many different types of soulmates. There are those who trigger
Speaker 1: a spiritual awakening in us, those who lead us back
Speaker 1: home to ourselves, those who are great partners, boyfriend girlfriends.
Speaker 1: There are some soulmates that are just gonna teach you
Speaker 1: something a season or reason or a lifetime, whatever it
Speaker 1: may be. There are different types of soulmates. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: felt connected to this person, but I had to take
Speaker 1: a step back and say, well, I feel connected to them,
Speaker 1: but that's not good enough. Having chemistry with someone feeling
Speaker 1: a connection to them, that's not good enough. There needs
Speaker 1: to be a shared value system, and we need to
Speaker 1: be in the right and same state of mind. And
Speaker 1: I saw that he was chaotic. I saw he was
Speaker 1: all over the place. I saw that he was like
Speaker 1: a dog, and as soon as another squirrel went by,
Speaker 1: he was going towards that squirrel. I saw that his
Speaker 1: nervous system was disregulated. I read the writing on the wall,
Speaker 1: even though I wanted it to be something different. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: my ceiling is God's floor, so obviously there's just something
Speaker 1: better for me. And that's what you need to remind
Speaker 1: yourself about. If it's not this person, it will be
Speaker 1: someone better. That's the mindset you want to adopt. Not
Speaker 1: I need to prove myself so they like, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: The cure to this is intentional intimacy. Before I ever
Speaker 1: would go out with this guy, I would always tell myself, Okay,
Speaker 1: I know the line I'm not going to cross because
Speaker 1: I have not gained enough data on this person to
Speaker 1: understand what they're truly capable of giving me and if
Speaker 1: we're aligned. And eventually I saw, oh we're not aligned,
Speaker 1: No are we? They we're not They we're not. And
Speaker 1: I'm so happy I didn't cross that line because if
Speaker 1: I did, who would be more stressed out, who would
Speaker 1: be more upset? Who would not feel good? It would
Speaker 1: be me. You have to protect your own heart. And
Speaker 1: I'm so much of a lover girl. I absolutely love love,
Speaker 1: but there's no one I love more than myself. So
Speaker 1: therefore I'm gonna make sure that I'm intentional and not
Speaker 1: just on autopilot and acting out of wounds. Your power
Speaker 1: is not your promiscuity. Your power lies on your pedestal
Speaker 1: when you are hypervigilant. Not of do they like me?
Speaker 1: But how do I feel? How does this feel in
Speaker 1: my body? How is this person affecting my nervous system?
Speaker 1: That will lead you to the right places. Your power
Speaker 1: is in your receptivity, not trying to prove yourself. Your
Speaker 1: power is in you receiving seeing them prove themselves over
Speaker 1: a period of time. By the way, if you're worried
Speaker 1: about is this person for me or not, the truth
Speaker 1: always stands the test of time. So if they are
Speaker 1: for you, they'll stay, They'll stay around, they will stand
Speaker 1: the test of time. They will be there. And now
Speaker 1: that I've been dating again, because as you guys know,
Speaker 1: I was in a seven year relationship and then we
Speaker 1: ended earlier this year, And now that I've been dating again,
Speaker 1: it's so easy for me to have better discerning because
Speaker 1: I'm like, WHOA, I really see how different different people
Speaker 1: affect my nervous as. This person who I liked in
Speaker 1: this scenario was constantly triggering me, making me feel very
Speaker 1: anxious and then there'd be another person who I would
Speaker 1: be talking to, and they made me feel like a princess,
Speaker 1: fairy queen. And I clearly see the difference now, and
Speaker 1: that helps me make better decisions as well, you know,
Speaker 1: even asking God give me discernment here, so I can
Speaker 1: really understand what's right for me and really make right
Speaker 1: decisions that make me feel my best. That's going to
Speaker 1: help you. Okay. So that's our physical self. When we're
Speaker 1: in our sympathetic nervous system, we look worse because we
Speaker 1: have more quarters ole and we can't digest our hair
Speaker 1: mai thin acne, bloating all that jass. When we're in
Speaker 1: our powasympathetic nervous system, our rest and digest our skin glows.
Speaker 1: We have just a different air about us. Where our
Speaker 1: shoulders are back, we can smile, We're feeling safe to engage.
Speaker 1: That is where we want to go. Now, let's move
Speaker 1: on to the mental body here. Okay, so that's a
Speaker 1: physical body. Let's move on to the mental body. When
Speaker 1: you're thinking about them twenty four to seven, Why aren't
Speaker 1: they texting me? What are they doing? Are they talking
Speaker 1: to someone else? Oh my god, are they gonna hook
Speaker 1: up with someone because I'm not there. When you're checking
Speaker 1: their Instagram twenty four to seven, their social media, their
Speaker 1: snapchat score, who they're following, you're checking your phone to
Speaker 1: see if they're texting you, that is repellent and depleting
Speaker 1: on your end, You're depleting yourself. We want to attract
Speaker 1: and not chase, but you can't do that if you're
Speaker 1: giving everyone and their father all of your energy, your body,
Speaker 1: and your attention. And I want you to just take
Speaker 1: a step back here. How would it look if instead
Speaker 1: of giving your time and your energy and your attention
Speaker 1: and your awareness to this person you poured into you
Speaker 1: think about this, like, really think about this. If you
Speaker 1: weren't checking their social media, if you weren't waiting around
Speaker 1: for their text, if you weren't waiting for them to
Speaker 1: call you, if you weren't stalking who they're following, what
Speaker 1: they're doing, waiting for an update from them, how much
Speaker 1: more time and energy would you have? Okay? And what
Speaker 1: would you do with this time and energy? Really visualize this?
Speaker 1: What I want to do a cooking class? Would I
Speaker 1: want to try a new sport? Maybe I want to
Speaker 1: read a new book. Is there something I've been wanting
Speaker 1: to do since I was a child, but hadn't have
Speaker 1: the time to do. Can I channel my energy into
Speaker 1: that instead. I've realized that there were certain people who
Speaker 1: I would date and they would not make me feel
Speaker 1: stable and grounded and peaceful, and I'd be giving them
Speaker 1: all my attention and energy. And the cure to this
Speaker 1: is you have to direct your mind better, cause your
Speaker 1: mind will do what you tell it to do. You
Speaker 1: got to input something, so instead of me just sitting
Speaker 1: around waiting for someone to reach out to me or
Speaker 1: whatever it may be, I started taking cookie classes. I'm
Speaker 1: certified in reiki. Now, I am a golf star. I've
Speaker 1: been taking golf lessons. I've been signing up for esoteric
Speaker 1: energy classes at least twice a month. I've learned more
Speaker 1: about politics. I've been learning about ancient civilizations like Egypt,
Speaker 1: Jesus and the scenes. I've been taking my health so
Speaker 1: much more seriously, Like I have so much more time now.
Speaker 1: And I was telling someone last night, I was like,
Speaker 1: this is a favorite or this is my favorite iteration
Speaker 1: of CC because I have so much time to give
Speaker 1: to myself and I'm loving it. I'm loving it.
Speaker 2: And when you.
Speaker 1: Literally. Yesterday, I set up a little divine, feminine ritual
Speaker 1: and I put my phone on do not disturbed. I
Speaker 1: put on a Victorian music playlist.
Speaker 2: It was like.
Speaker 1: Victorian library music background. Whatever from you to put that on.
Speaker 1: I lit all my candles. I did some mirror work. Okay,
Speaker 1: people call this glamour magic, but literally, it's just looking
Speaker 1: in the mirror and saying affirmations and then writing it down.
Speaker 1: I meditated on this and I've really just fed myself
Speaker 1: my energy for a full hour. And when you do that,
Speaker 1: you remind yourself how much you actually like your own energy.
Speaker 1: When you're constantly depleting yourself, you don't know who you are,
Speaker 1: you don't know what your energy feels like, you don't
Speaker 1: know how cool your energy is, and therefore you're walking
Speaker 1: around like an empty cup and it sucks. So you
Speaker 1: want to take your power back by directing your mind.
Speaker 1: Do a ritual, do a meditation, read a book, sign
Speaker 1: up for a course, learn something new. When you are
Speaker 1: hurt from a situation, from a hookup that went wrong,
Speaker 1: from someone who can't give you what it is, you
Speaker 1: truly want, use that energy and channel it into a class,
Speaker 1: Channel it into a creative endeavor. This is how you
Speaker 1: get hotter from your hurt. Oh you're feeling hurt, Okay,
Speaker 1: use that energy, Go do a workout. Oh someone's bowling
Speaker 1: you at work. Use that energy to stay an extra
Speaker 1: hour and use it as fuel. You can use your
Speaker 1: hurt as fuel. This is transmutation. This is how you alchemize.
Speaker 1: So you can think of all the people who have
Speaker 1: hurt you and say, think you think you think you,
Speaker 1: thank you. I'm going to use that energy and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna write a book. I'm going to use that energy,
Speaker 1: and I'm going to create a shadow Alchemy course. I'm
Speaker 1: going to use that energy and I am going to
Speaker 1: really channel it into something that can help me make
Speaker 1: me more beautiful, happy, wealthier, healthier, whatever it be. Oh,
Speaker 1: I just realized. I talk about this guy more in
Speaker 1: depth in the Shadow Alchemy course as well, So if
Speaker 1: you want to hear even more tea on that, you
Speaker 1: can look there. The other cure of this, in addition
Speaker 1: to directing your mind, is call your power back. I
Speaker 1: lovingly and peacefully call all of my power back to
Speaker 1: me now. And if you want a twenty minute meditation
Speaker 1: on this, you can get that for free on YouTube,
Speaker 1: and if you want a course on this, join the
Speaker 1: Pedestal Path course. It will help you understand why it's
Speaker 1: so hard for you to focus on yourself, why it's
Speaker 1: so hard for you to be on your pedestal. And
Speaker 1: then I give you not only meditation and workbooks to
Speaker 1: get yourself back on there, but I believe it's over
Speaker 1: four hours of me literally teaching you how to put
Speaker 1: yourself back on your pedestal. It's worth the investment. You
Speaker 1: can't go on like this, it's not serving you anymore.
Speaker 1: We talked about the physical body, we talked about the
Speaker 1: mental body. Now let's talk about the spiritual body. Understand
Speaker 1: that intimacy is actually a lot like money. Money is
Speaker 1: not good, money is not bad. Money is a neutral energy.
Speaker 1: It depends on how the person is using it. That
Speaker 1: will dictate if it's a positive entity or a negative one.
Speaker 1: And it's the same thing with intimacy. Intimacy. Pleasure with
Speaker 1: the right person, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, more power to you.
Speaker 1: When there's an equal energetic exchange, when there's a level
Speaker 1: of commitment, when there's mutual love and respect and honesty, awesome, cool, yeah,
Speaker 1: go you. However, intimacy with someone where there's not an
Speaker 1: equal energetic exchange, someone who takes from you, someone who
Speaker 1: does not respect you, someone who has negative entities all
Speaker 1: around and in them. That is not a positive experience.
Speaker 1: I need to take a moment here. Okay, this is
Speaker 1: especially for my lover girls. You will notice that, oh,
Speaker 1: your career, you don't have many issues there. It's pretty fine.
Speaker 1: Your friendship's all good. But your relationships, the men that
Speaker 1: come into your life or the women that come into
Speaker 1: your life. Ho ho, yeah, yeah, Okay, for my lover girls,
Speaker 1: most of your trials and tribulations will be through your
Speaker 1: relationships because those are the primary lessons you signed up
Speaker 1: to learn during this incarnation. Some of these people who
Speaker 1: come into your life who can't give you what you
Speaker 1: want or won't give you what you want, the narcissistic behaviors, energies,
Speaker 1: these people, most of them have demonic or really lower
Speaker 1: vibrational entities on them, and these dark forces of the world, world,
Speaker 1: whatever you want to call them. They want to derail
Speaker 1: you from your destiny. That is literally their job to
Speaker 1: distract you, to put you down, to drag your vibration down,
Speaker 1: to dull your shine. These entities will attack you through
Speaker 1: the men that you date. If you are not conscious
Speaker 1: and intentional, these entities want your consciousness plugged into a
Speaker 1: negative system of doubt, of fear, of insecurity, of hurt,
Speaker 1: so that you don't have the confidence, the awareness, and
Speaker 1: the attention to focus on your purpose. These entities, and
Speaker 1: this is just an energetic principle. All energy seeks to expand.
Speaker 1: So if it's negative energy, that energy just wants to expand.
Speaker 1: And what is it going to do. It's going to
Speaker 1: try to expand by bringing you down, by making you
Speaker 1: fret about this person, by making you feel insecure about yourself,
Speaker 1: by making you feel less then so that you are
Speaker 1: distracted and dulled and muted and numbed from going after
Speaker 1: what you came here to do. Are you gonna let
Speaker 1: a negative, stupid energy derail your destiny? Because let me
Speaker 1: just tell you, I love men, but no man has
Speaker 1: ever made me feel as good as I feel when
Speaker 1: I'm connected to divine source, channeling a TikTok, channeling information,
Speaker 1: channeling the information that we all need. Nothing feels as
Speaker 1: good as being steeped in my purpose. These men who
Speaker 1: you know are having a negative effect on you, or
Speaker 1: these women who you know are having a negative effect
Speaker 1: on you. It's not about them, it's through the entities
Speaker 1: that are working through them to derail you from your focus.
Speaker 1: You need to refocus, you need to rant it back in,
Speaker 1: and you need to focus on your purpose. You will
Speaker 1: get attacked when you're two feet from gold. You will
Speaker 1: get attacked right before everything works in your favor. Understand
Speaker 1: that that is a manifestation principle, that everything falls apart
Speaker 1: right before falling together. You must keep going and you
Speaker 1: must use that energy to make yourself happier, healthier, wealthier, hotter.
Speaker 1: Whatever transmuted, transmuted, it transmuted. And don't be intimate with
Speaker 1: people who are making you feel bad about yourself because
Speaker 1: that is a telltale sign that there's an entity working
Speaker 1: through them. You have to own that your spiritual and
Speaker 1: you operate at a different vibration than most people, and
Speaker 1: therefore your spiritual hygiene has to be a top priority.
Speaker 1: You cannot be giving your temple, your mind, your energy,
Speaker 1: your body to just anyone because, whether you like it
Speaker 1: or not, energy transference occurs, and that means that when
Speaker 1: you're intimate, it involves an unconscious exchange of energy, which
Speaker 1: is referred to as energy transference because we live in
Speaker 1: an energetic universe. Remember what I said at the top
Speaker 1: of this podcast. We're very materialistic. We really rely on
Speaker 1: the three D things, but there's oh so much more
Speaker 1: in the unseen world. And whether you want to acknowledge
Speaker 1: the energetic laws of this universe or not, when you're
Speaker 1: intimate with another person, some of their energy will stick
Speaker 1: to you and some of your energy will stick to them.
Speaker 1: And this exchange occurs without our conscious consent or awareness,
Speaker 1: and we are just give and giving, and then we
Speaker 1: absorb their energy. And when we're intimate with people who
Speaker 1: possess these lower vibrational energies or harbor negative perceptions of us,
Speaker 1: this energy can have detrimental effects on us and our
Speaker 1: well being. It can leave us feeling needy, of them, insecure, hurt,
Speaker 1: doubtful because we absorbed and internalized their energy of unfavorable
Speaker 1: beliefs about ourselves, and then we obsess about them. But
Speaker 1: really this isn't about them being the one. It's about
Speaker 1: them just having our energy and holding onto our energy. Again,
Speaker 1: you have to call this energy back. You need to
Speaker 1: remember that your awareness, your perception is divinely yours, and
Speaker 1: this is something we work on in the shadow Alchemy course.
Speaker 1: We reclaim our awareness. You're the only person who has
Speaker 1: the awareness of you, who has the consciousness of you,
Speaker 1: who has your unique perspective. You have to claim it again.
Speaker 1: You have to put it back into your body. And
Speaker 1: we literally stop our feet and take our fists and
Speaker 1: do somatic healing to take our consciousness and put it
Speaker 1: back into our body. I'm telling you, if you're dealing
Speaker 1: with this, you have to integrate your shadow so you
Speaker 1: stop giving too much of yourself away and instead exists
Speaker 1: within all of your light. You are so worthy of
Speaker 1: someone who can give you what you know you need,
Speaker 1: and if these people are incapable of that, you have
Speaker 1: to walk in the other direction and choose yourself. Because
Speaker 1: choosing yourself is never the wrong answer. Again, intimacy, that's
Speaker 1: not the problem. Being intimate with the wrong people is
Speaker 1: the problem. To many people is the problem, because then
Speaker 1: you're taking on all their energy, all their demons, all
Speaker 1: their whatever, all their unfavorable ideas about you, and then
Speaker 1: you start believing them. Now they're in your energetic field.
Speaker 1: You have to reclaim your shadow aspects. You have to
Speaker 1: reclaim every part you feel shameful. Every part you don't
Speaker 1: like about yourself, we have to say, e fit. I'm
Speaker 1: reclaiming all of myself. I'm gonna step into my power.
Speaker 1: I know my power is on my pedestal, not my promiscuity,
Speaker 1: and I'm going to not stop until I get exactly
Speaker 1: what it is I want. I love you so much
Speaker 1: you can be Do you have anything in this world
Speaker 1: the sparkle in me honors of sparkling you. I hope
Speaker 1: this podcast episode brought you to some new awareness. Join
Speaker 1: the Shadow Alchemy course so you don't have to deal
Speaker 1: with this BS anymore, and I will see you in
Speaker 1: the next one. Energy cancer.
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