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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice,

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mixing some vodka colored.

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Speaker 2: A podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in

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Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots jeep Ram.

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Speaker 1: It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, hello and welcome.

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Thanks for getting your pot on. Thank you for telling

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a friend.

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Speaker 3: And that's how we spread.

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Speaker 1: The word about the pirates. Shit doucky fresh in the house.

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In the house, baby, I'm just I'm just posting our

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picture got into the picture. Man.

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Speaker 4: We've had a busy couple of busy week.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean me and you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What did you do?

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Speaker 4: I was on vacation.

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Speaker 1: Oh where'd you go? It was this cold that I

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can't seem to get rid of. I was told it

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was bronchitis. I have no fucking idea. Been on an antibiotic?

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I I just it's I tried drinking it away. No, okay,

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I have not. I have not tried that. I or

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something I don't know. I need, uh, yeah something. Where

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did you go on vacation?

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Speaker 4: Brandingham a small little community outside of Rome by about

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forty five minutes. My friends.

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Speaker 3: Oh it sounds unique, very.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I compare it to if you ever seen the

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movie on Golden Pond. Yeah, from the eighties, the eighties,

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it's like that, okay and golfed, drank, boted, yeah eight

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Well even even got hired to DJ last minute and

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this can't see it.

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Speaker 1: But god damn, what happened? Doug you fresh? You want

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to DJ?

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, fuck, yeah, where you want me? On

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top of the boat house. Well I didn't feel all

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the bug bites.

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Speaker 1: God damn, dude, you looks like you got yeah. Wow,

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a couple hours up there on top of the boat.

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I mean, but where was the Where was the party?

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Speaker 4: A mile away at somebody's house? Somebody's house, Yeah, on

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the water.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I DJ'd up there a few times. How this

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guy named Milky has usually has a party, Milky and

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he was next door, like Milky, Douggie's here. He's like, Dougie.

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Speaker 1: Fresh, you DJ? You got DJ?

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, yeah, Milky, I got three hundred for him?

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Speaker 1: Like that work? Wow? Yeah, look at Milky. Yeah, So

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what how many people come?

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Speaker 4: It was? He was drunk, he just it was like

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twenty people.

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Speaker 3: Twenty people. Yeah, anybody get baked?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: No, I asked somebody to go get me sweatshirt, and uh,

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twenty minutes later, no sweatshirt, no keys.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean? No keys?

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Speaker 4: I didn't know where she went and I couldn't remember

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who it was. And then I went to the house.

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There's my keys. I go on my car, yeah, and

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uh no, no, there's ship messed up in the front

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seat and uh things pulled out from my my camera

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and my cell phone. Things was trying to rob you.

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I think she was just hammered, didn't know what she

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was looking for.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, but.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why she would have pulled all this

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ship out of my car.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm kind of mad.

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Speaker 4: And then I go back and there's girls on the microphone. Hey,

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anybody want to sing karaoke? I'm like, I'll be I'll

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be right up there. Just you know, you don't touch

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somebody ship like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh territorial Doug.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, equipment. He said, I'm gonna do a podcast.

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And then you come from the bathroom like, how do

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I turn this?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 1: I would be yeah, that would that would sort of

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that would annoy me at a party with drunk people.

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Speaker 3: This is an opportunity, Doug, for I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You tell me. I mean, I see I smell opportunity

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or maybe I smell fish. You're near a like, I'm

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not sure.

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Speaker 4: I like, Yes, they wanted me back the next night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I go, I can't do it.

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Speaker 4: I could have, but I was also DJing a hundredth

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birthday party for a lady named Loraene.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, Lorraine wouldn't have known if you were there

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Speaker 4: No, she had all the marbles. Uh okay, did not

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look a hundred right. And I actually met her daughter

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a few years ago at the Lago. Okay, and you

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know who's from Rochester. As you get to talking when

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they change the cards, you know they're you know, from Syracuse,

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Buffalo South from Rochester. Oh that's two. And we're from Hilton.

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I'm like, oh, I bartend down there for us Hill

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And they started coming in BEB regulars and they needed DJ.

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Very nice family.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's one hundred years old, hundred years on

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her own.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I just I'm curious because I knew somebody who had

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the money.

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Speaker 4: Looking at her, I would say, yes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, isn't it weird? At what age do you start going? Man?

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Speaker 3: You look great for your age?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Is that an insult in

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a way? Like people go and you look great for you?

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Wasn't that so close to me?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: How old did you think? I watched you Fox?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what ad that would be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder, I'm curious.

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Speaker 4: I look good for fifty five.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. Okay, I don't know what fifty

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five looks like anymore, I really don't. I mean, I

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stopped to think, and I go back, and Uh, there's

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been a whole lot of stuff happening with my old man.

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And there's pictures that my dad had. Now, my parents'

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house burned down, so everything was gone, all the pictures, everything,

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But over the years, other relatives had pictures. So my

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dad has a drawer full of pictures that when I

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looked at them and I saw his parents, I was

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going there probably about my age in that picture, and

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they look old. But do they look old because they

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were grandma and grandpa to me and I was a

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child looking at it from a different.

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Speaker 3: Perspective or are they so?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because I would say fifty today isn't

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what fifty was fifty years ago?

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Speaker 4: I would agree with that.

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Speaker 1: Right, I mean fifty years ago or fifty five years ago.

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My grandmother was fifty when I was born, so I

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don't know.

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Speaker 4: They're having kids younger. Back then, there is more. My

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mom was twenty four places to smoke, so you might

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be working with smokers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, well doesn't affect your skin.

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Speaker 4: Drinking, you know, drinking was more popular back than I think.

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Speaker 3: Yep, yeah, people didn't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean we say, like the food

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probably didn't have as much process stuff in it as

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it does now. But people are more health conscious and

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eating better maybe and exercising on a regular basis, or

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at least taking a walk or doing something if their

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name is and Doug.

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Speaker 3: Right, But so I, hey, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I guess I'm exercising, did you Brandingham? No, I didn't regulate.

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So on a pontoon boat, my friend Mary Bethner, brother Chuck,

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I'm driving just around the lake. Oh really yeah, and

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a pontoon boat passes us. Yes, And it's got what

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we thought was around fifteen people, probably twelve to fifteen adults, kids,

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and we're going two three miles an hour, just enjoying.

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It's just very peaceful, and all of a sudden you

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hear a sound like a helicopter is coming out of sky.

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I look around. Their motor came out. Too many people

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in the front. So what you normally do would be

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just slow down and put people in the back, put

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people in bed, balance it out. Yeah, you got to wait.

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Problem they didn't I go, Mary said Mary Lyn, Should

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we go help? No, they'll fine.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Second time merrily, and you really really think.

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Speaker 1: We shouldn't go out.

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Speaker 4: Now they're fine, they'll figure it out. Third time, I

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think we should turn around. No, they're doing fine. Like

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I'm still looking like now the boat is in the water,

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going under and sinking and sinking. She comes running from

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the French. She goes me, me, me, me, So I

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get out of the driver's seat. She floors it floor.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, we turn around.

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Speaker 4: Now there's uh seats, whatever's flotables in the water, and

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fifteen people in the water in the water now by

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this time, and we're probably let's say fifty yards half

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a football field. We're coming up. So and now there's

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other pontoons coming to help, probably three or four. So

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we make five circling this and people are grabbing she

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out of the water. We come up on a mother

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and two daughters, two year old and four year old.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so everybody got tell me their known life jackets

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on these They had life jackets.

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Speaker 4: Afterwards they said one wasn't zip properly, maybe a little big,

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but still they had a life jacket on. So we're

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coming up. So I'm looking at this woman. She has

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got the fear of God that she is going to drown.

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So Dougie fresh in the water. Hey, grabs on a

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pond two boat. We're okay, We're okay, I got it.

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Speaker 1: Grab a hole. It's a two year old and a

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four year old, right, and a mother. Grab what you

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can float device dece you know, mom, you're gonna hee

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Speaker 4: So the little girl, I'm like, we're okay.

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Speaker 1: How deep is the water? Oh you can't stand that

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is what I'm saying. No, you can't.

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Speaker 4: I jumped in and I'm coming up, and I knew

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she wasn't gonna run me over with a pontumbo. She went,

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I was in the middle of the things.

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Speaker 1: Did you say, did you announce I'm going in or

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did you know? Spontaneous?

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Speaker 4: Spontaneous? She looks you are she was going to drown. Yeah,

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and those girls, so get into water. Keep them calm.

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We're okay, I'm here, don't worry. I got you. Hold

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on ponto. I grab her, the little one up there,

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and then they had her brother put a ladder on

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the size so they they came around. He helped them

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get out of the water. But yeah, I mean they

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were they were shaking when the boat I think because

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they were a little cold. But also the.

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Speaker 1: What the hell why did they Did you get any explanation?

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Speaker 4: Like no, because because that time everybody was divided. The

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only two people on the pontoon boat were the two

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were two guys.

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Speaker 3: They stayed on it.

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Speaker 4: They stayed at for whatever reason.

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Speaker 3: Did they get it out of the water.

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Speaker 4: No, the motor never went in, so they were able

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to drive it back in. We drove the mother.

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Speaker 1: So when everybody got out, what I'm asking is it

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came back up to the surface. Yeah, the pontoon boat.

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Well yes, yeah, And so this is a weight issue. Yes,

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everybody was How big.

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Speaker 3: Were some of the people in this.

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Speaker 1: Twelve people on it, kid and that that that how

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big were some of these adults? Buddy?

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Speaker 4: They weren't big ever? Size really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Kind a shitty pondtoon boat? Is this if you get

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everybody up in the front, yeah, like a seesaw.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know you want to? I mean why it's

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even funny Like on an airplane, they still have to

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distribute everything the right way.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and and uh my thought is, why wouldn't you

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just if you feel your going up? Okay, everybody stop right, stop,

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move back here, let's get this under control instead of

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keep going. Because I kept seeing it go, I'm like,

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they're not stopping me. Then they'll figure it out.

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Speaker 1: Were they drunk?

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Speaker 4: You know what? I didn't have time to answer those questions.

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We docked it, they got off. What time of day

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is this two o'clock?

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Speaker 1: No, they're drunk. I gotta think I did not there

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were you know you still you crack at ten am.

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Speaker 4: I don't do that. You don't o'clock?

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the kids and stuff. What can happen is you don't

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even realize you're drunk. It's it's it's the boiling water theory, right.

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If I drop a frog and just regular water and

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then slowly turn up the heat.

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Speaker 3: If I just slowly start drinking. The next thing, I know.

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Speaker 1: Hey, the boat fucked up. I don't think keep going,

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you know what I mean? That's like, how does the

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noise not.

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Speaker 4: If that alone didn't scare you, or know that the

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motor's coming out? What the hell you're thinking?

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Speaker 1: Right exactly?

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Speaker 4: And then I do remember one part. It was a

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so maybe they rented the pontoon boat or it came with.

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Speaker 4: Because talking to Marylyn's husband Tim, they've been there sixty years.

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They had never seen anything like that. I never even

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heard of it.

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Speaker 1: No, it's impossible, it seems it seems impossible. That's what

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I would say. I have always wanted to have a

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house on the canal, and I want to have a

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pontoon boat. I want to be one of those annoying

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fucks that sits there and has wine and just trolls

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down to the bar.

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Speaker 4: They do that all the time up there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but because it's it's it's like, you know, stuffy

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white people. I have a kayak. I haven't taken my

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kayak out in a long time. I actually have to see. Well,

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I lost weight Doug, I'm just asking, yes, but the

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it was last time, I guess some use.

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Speaker 3: My kayak hasn't been wet in a while. I used

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to call it Selma kayak.

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Speaker 1: I used to say, I'm gonna slip in the Selma.

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So I remember like kayaking down into into the village

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of Fairport and seeing these people and they were a

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little toasted, and they were all sitting there and they're

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they're kind of their finery and they're drinking glasses of

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white wine, and the ladies like hai, and I go,

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That's that's the fucking life I want right there.

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Speaker 4: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's all I want.

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Speaker 3: I want to live on on the canal.

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Speaker 1: And the canal is awful in the in the wintertime

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it's pretty desolate, but the in the summer is well.

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Speaker 4: The Pine Tree is a very popular bar up there

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that snowmobilers know, even from Rochester, Okay, vacation up there.

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They go for I don't know hundreds of miles but

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maybe hundreds of miles through the trails and everything, and

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it's very popular kind of core area.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So if you're up near Old Forge, which is forty

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which is forty five minutes away, all right, So they

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have their spots where they go for drinks and hanging out.

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Speaker 3: I am supposed to. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling this the summer my summer of fluidity because

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I have no idea, and I don't mean that like

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the way some people may say fluidity. But I need

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to be kind of no plans. I gotta be a

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little more fluid, just because of shit with my old man.

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But Mac, yes, he has a big party every year

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up at his He has a whole bunch of property

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up in the Anrondiccks near Old Forge.

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Speaker 4: Did you go to this one a couple of years ago?

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Speaker 1: Last year when my son rolled the fucking uh? Didn't

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I tell you about that? Jordan's roll rolled the Uh.

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We we do a whole thing where you're side by side,

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So you go through all the trails in the woods

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and you stop at different bars along the way. It's

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all day thing. And at one point my son goes,

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can I drive? And I said sure? And I had

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been fishtailing and stuff and you know, kicking up rocks

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and people. Some people were getting annoyed at me, and no,

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this is a what's called a side by side. It's

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like look out to your if you look at what

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the police have right there, yeah, yeah, I wish.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So it was a bunch of those razorbacks and stuff

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like that. So we rented it and you're all traveling

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through and there's a lot of dust, so you're not

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necessarily seeing the car in front of you. We had

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been drinking, and I knew at this point. I was like, man,

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I'm I'm gassed here a little bit. And my kids say,

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can I drive? I go sure. Well he starts fishtailing

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right playing and I go, slow down, You're not that

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good and I and then he goes, I go take

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your foot off the accelerator.

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Speaker 3: Just take your foot off of it. But don't forget.

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This is loud.

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Speaker 1: So I'm yelling and I have a helmet on. I'm

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going take your foot off the accelerator. Do not hit

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the brake, I go, Jordan, do not hit And then

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all of a sudden, I went shit and foo right over. Yeah.

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Fifteen dollars damage. Wow, yeah, well fifteen hundred dollars deductible. Yeah,

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I mean cracked everything, and it was right, it was.

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We were able to finish the trip. But I'm like, god, damn, dude,

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I remember going, You're not as good as you think

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you are.

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Speaker 3: I always say that to the boys.

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Speaker 1: I always go a whole lot of seconds. None of

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us are as good as we think we are, me included, included, although.

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Speaker 4: I'm not as good as I was was.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, right, I love that song. But the thing is,

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like with the kids, I always say that, and I

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will say because like even sometimes in cars and things,

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when I'm with the boys, I will freak them out, like.

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Speaker 3: I'll punch it and we'll just fucking fishtail out.

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Speaker 4: Till now oh yeah, oh oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: If I get the right car, fuck yeah. So And

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I've had one of my kids go, remember I'm sitting

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here because he hates it when I do.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then sometimes they'll go, remember Dad, you always say

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you're not as good.

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Speaker 1: As I go. I am, I am, I am. I

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know what I'm doing, I know, I know, until you

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go too far, right, Yeah, that's always the that's always

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the way.

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Speaker 3: All right, we'll take a moment, we'll find out.

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Speaker 1: I got a bunch of questions for Dougie Fresh and actually, well,

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I don't know if I'm want to get into this

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with you or not, but you would see this more

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than other people. I kind of saved it urban outlaws

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or rolling culture talking about the mini bikes and the

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ATVs in the city.

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Speaker 4: In the city, I hate them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll get to that right after this.

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Speaker 1: Leo's Bakery and Deli on desk MAT's Drive in East Rochester.

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I went over there, and I know we're past the

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fourth of July, but any holiday they have corresponding delicious desserts.

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I'm telling you the most patriotic desserts I found at Leo's.

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I bought American flag moon cookies. Fantastic, great to bring

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to a party. Look, people have all kinds.

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Speaker 3: To get togethers throughout the summer.

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Speaker 1: Go to Leo's. Don't show up and handed come with

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you know, how about one pound of Italian cookies?

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Speaker 3: Right, can't beat that? Canoi's can't beat.

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Speaker 1: That delicious salads that are already made for you. Max salary,

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Speaker 5: It's MJ Dispensary.

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Speaker 1: For footloose. Yeah, complete with the tractor. Say this is

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for Doug. Yes, it's right, jumping in and saving mama

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and her babies. Absolutely, Yeah, things had to be done.

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Take care of shit where have all the good men

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gun finding Tyler?

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Speaker 4: There's no tractor in the middle of the lake.

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Speaker 1: No, he had a pont.

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Speaker 4: Right, I'm jumping in.

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Speaker 1: No fear, baby, you'll you're when.

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Speaker 3: You jumped off.

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Speaker 1: You're lucky. Starts Monday, does it? I mean, come on,

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let's be honest, Doug, we can come up. I've been

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I've been pretty good lately.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, you're in Maine.

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Speaker 1: What do you need? Oh, pizza fish? I mean while

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I was in Maine, but I stayed with my father

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because he could not be alone.

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Speaker 4: And then you're not eating, You're not even hungry. If

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that happens, you're you're just sitting there and just talking.

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Speaker 1: And no, we we ate me. Yeah, it's been a uh,

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it's strange. I don't know how to I wrote you

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like I was. I was crushed leaving And I've talked

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a little bit about this on the on the podcast.

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But my dad is not well and and he has

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Parkinson's and so he was living in an apartment in

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an assisted living center. But they check on you periodically.

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You have something. If you need help, you call, but

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you have your own kitchen and things. He needed a

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higher level of care. They offer that. So my we

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really had to kind of convince him to move, and uh,

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my brother and I moved it. Man, we moved that

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furniture with the help of one or two of his

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friends with the big bookcase. But other than that was

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he and I. I've told this portion of the things.

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Some people are listening again, I apologize. But as we're

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coming in, somebody had died in the in the new

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building that we're going into.

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Speaker 3: We're carrying in a dresser. The door.

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Speaker 1: The second door is a little narrower, so we bump

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and I go, oh, we got to push out, and

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right behind my brother is the gurney from the funeral

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home to pick up the body. The body that's you

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didn't jump on.

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Speaker 4: You could get.

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Speaker 1: We should have something that you should journey rides. We

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should anywhere two out of three. Hey, listen, that guy's

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already dead. Can we just put this dresser around there

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and just push that motherfucker right at boom? Uh? So

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that was that was all. Well, my dad had fallen

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a lot and really needed would say to me, I'm

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afraid to go to sleep. I think my dad could

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be labeled as a fatalist. I would say in that

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you know, he was calling people saying I'm going to

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die tomorrow. You know, I'm calling to say goodbye or whatever,

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which is how do you react. I did have a

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friend once call me and say, this is probably the

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last time I'm calling you. He had really lived with

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cancer for about eight years and it had just come

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and I remember just sitting there going, I don't I'm

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honored that you would take the time to call me.

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Like there are times where in life that, as I've

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become an adult, you try to think about and I

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don't try to process it. I go, I don't know

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how to feel. I don't I don't know what to

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think of this. And as it went on, I started

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to realize it.

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Speaker 5: Go.

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Speaker 1: The one thing that we all have in life that

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is the greatest gift you can give anybody is your time.

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00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,640
I mean, it really is, and I try to I

471
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,640
used to try to always say that to my kids.

472
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,680
It's like, hey, man, be respectful of people's time. Is

473
00:23:09,839 --> 00:23:11,440
we don't know how much he got and if they're

474
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,200
willing to spend it with you, that's quite a compliment

475
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,319
in a way, you know what I mean. I mean,

476
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,720
it's always something I thought I and I started to

477
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,480
think when wo when this guy would called me, it

478
00:23:21,599 --> 00:23:27,240
was like wow, uh and oh it's great food. Well yeah,

479
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,759
and it's just my head. This is what always rolls

480
00:23:29,759 --> 00:23:33,440
around my stupid head. But the uh so with my dad,

481
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,839
he we got him into what's now just like a studio,

482
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,839
right studio apartment basically, but a lot of its furniture

483
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,720
fit in there. The big you know, big heavy leather

484
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,240
black chair, and the big heavy leather black couch, the

485
00:23:48,279 --> 00:23:53,440
grandfather clock, it's all in there. And uh, he did

486
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,039
agree to things that I don't think he wanted to, like,

487
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,799
you know, being helped, being showered, because he said to me,

488
00:23:59,079 --> 00:24:01,000
he signed up to be shit. I'll tell you what, man.

489
00:24:01,079 --> 00:24:03,960
Oh I've never I've never been scrubbed like that before.

490
00:24:04,039 --> 00:24:06,759
She left no stone unturned. Oh she did let me

491
00:24:06,839 --> 00:24:10,240
turn a stone or two. But I mean I was like,

492
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:11,160
oh my god.

493
00:24:11,519 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 4: I think my dad asked me that if it ever

494
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,640
came down here, you showered me. I'm like, you're gonna

495
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,319
be in the front yard with them. No, no, you will.

496
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:19,759
You'll do it and scare all the deer.

497
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,039
Speaker 1: You'll do it. I did it. I mean, you just

498
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:25,240
do it, and you do it and there were times.

499
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,839
Speaker 4: Trust me, there were hookers on State Street. They get

500
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,720
twenty dollars for a head if you go shower my

501
00:24:31,799 --> 00:24:36,240
dad for fifty. I'm gonna got options. Put a little

502
00:24:36,279 --> 00:24:37,240
time and effort into it.

503
00:24:37,279 --> 00:24:40,519
Speaker 1: Well, I think, like, uh yeah, I mean these people

504
00:24:40,559 --> 00:24:42,640
are sort of angels in a way, right, I mean

505
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:43,640
they're coming in every day.

506
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:44,759
Speaker 3: They scrub them down.

507
00:24:44,759 --> 00:24:46,599
Speaker 4: It takes a certain it does.

508
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,839
Speaker 1: And my dad was a very private, proud guy.

509
00:24:51,039 --> 00:24:52,839
Speaker 3: You know, he built the house I grew up in.

510
00:24:53,519 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: And then I was talking to him during the week

511
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,880
and you Parkinson's.

512
00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 3: Parkinson's won't kill you.

513
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,039
Speaker 1: That's the unfortunate part, I guess. And I know I

514
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,720
say that because at this point I can't imagine my dad,

515
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,200
who built the house I grew up in and did

516
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:12,920
all these wonderful, ingenious you know, really a genius of

517
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,880
a person and a doctorate in philosophy and all this stuff,

518
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,279
not having the physical ability to just move. I don't

519
00:25:20,319 --> 00:25:23,799
know that he wants to live that way. I think

520
00:25:23,839 --> 00:25:27,559
he comes from a fire and brimstone religion, and I

521
00:25:27,599 --> 00:25:32,200
think that for him. And you know, also with his

522
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,599
philosophical background is more one of every day your here

523
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,319
is a gift and you got to live to live

524
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:43,720
the fullest right. So that was kind of his thing.

525
00:25:43,759 --> 00:25:45,400
But then there were a few more falls. I get

526
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,720
a call that he fell after I had already returned. Yeah,

527
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:53,599
he Doug. I got him up at the walker right,

528
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,279
so he's standing. I get him out of the leather chair.

529
00:25:56,319 --> 00:26:00,519
He's standing at the walker. I moved the coffee table slightly,

530
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,319
just turn my back to move it so that way

531
00:26:04,079 --> 00:26:07,160
there's no no path right, just a clear path to

532
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,599
wherever he's headed. And all of a sudden I hear

533
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,440
he had fallen back into the chair, like his muscles

534
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,279
have atrophied so much. He had.

535
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:20,039
Speaker 3: My brother stayed with him before I got there.

536
00:26:20,079 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: I mean, like I can't with my brother. I can

537
00:26:25,559 --> 00:26:28,279
never thank him enough for all he's done for my dad.

538
00:26:28,319 --> 00:26:31,559
It's it absolutely amazing. And my brother and I talked

539
00:26:31,559 --> 00:26:34,039
this morning and he said, look, you're just in it.

540
00:26:34,039 --> 00:26:34,559
Speaker 3: You just do it.

541
00:26:34,599 --> 00:26:37,519
Speaker 1: And I know what he means because you're never looking

542
00:26:37,559 --> 00:26:38,880
at the amount.

543
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 3: But as somebody who's observing this, like, holy shit.

544
00:26:41,839 --> 00:26:43,519
Speaker 4: Would it be any different if your father was here,

545
00:26:43,519 --> 00:26:45,640
you'd be taking care of him a hundred brother would

546
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:46,279
be thanking you.

547
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,839
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. But I didn't jump in and go,

548
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,039
Dad were putting you here.

549
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,519
Speaker 3: I didn't do that. He did, And and it may.

550
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,839
Speaker 4: Family that's good because if you have too many Indians,

551
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:56,640
then enough chiefs.

552
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,519
Speaker 1: Well I'll tell you this because I've heard my brother

553
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,480
seen families squabble because and it gets to the end, Well,

554
00:27:03,519 --> 00:27:06,279
I'm gonna need more for mom and dad now because

555
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,559
then I'm in charge and I but.

556
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 4: He's gonna come my way and I'm going to handle everything.

557
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 3: And no, that's ego.

558
00:27:13,079 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 4: You've been a screw up for years and now you're

559
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,920
gonna come at the end and look like a hero.

560
00:27:18,039 --> 00:27:20,839
Speaker 3: That's somebody's ego. Yeah, and guilt and stuff.

561
00:27:21,519 --> 00:27:25,319
Speaker 1: To me. My brother's the youngest in the family. I

562
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,200
just all I can say is thank you. I did

563
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,279
not jump into action. I don't know that my dad

564
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,799
wanted to come here. I don't know that I want

565
00:27:31,839 --> 00:27:33,319
to go anywhere, right. I don't even know if he.

566
00:27:33,279 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 4: Wants to you Dan Jamison all your place, well.

567
00:27:36,039 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 1: That could be yeah, but he decided, so my brother

568
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,680
moved him there. Anyway, the long and the shortest last night,

569
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:48,759
I get a call my dad fell in while having

570
00:27:48,839 --> 00:27:52,119
lunch or in the dining room or whatever, and whatever

571
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:57,039
way he fell. He had broken his hip pretty badly.

572
00:27:58,079 --> 00:28:01,640
So he was at the hospit they had given a morphine.

573
00:28:01,799 --> 00:28:06,240
My brother said, I don't think that surgery. I don't

574
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,559
think we should do surgery. It's like I just don't

575
00:28:08,559 --> 00:28:12,599
think so. So then my sister and I and all.

576
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,000
I was recording a podcast last night and I get

577
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,319
the call during that time, so I took a break,

578
00:28:17,759 --> 00:28:20,599
got on the three way call with my brother and sister.

579
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,519
Brother's just feeling us in saying I don't think that

580
00:28:23,559 --> 00:28:27,960
the surgery is a great idea. And then my sister

581
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,640
wrote today going I read a lot of things about hip,

582
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,279
and I think surgery is probably the better option. My

583
00:28:33,279 --> 00:28:35,039
brother's one waiting to talk to the doctor, and the

584
00:28:35,039 --> 00:28:38,039
doctor came in. And I love doctors like this because

585
00:28:38,039 --> 00:28:41,200
it's so true. I always say, the human body is

586
00:28:41,319 --> 00:28:44,559
just a pump and pipes. That's all we really are, right,

587
00:28:44,599 --> 00:28:46,720
I mean, you think about it, it's plumbing, right. The

588
00:28:46,759 --> 00:28:49,160
plumbing gets clogged, get done.

589
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,319
Speaker 3: To a certain degree.

590
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 4: Right.

591
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: But wait, sometimes we can go in and we can

592
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,240
you know, wrote a router.

593
00:28:55,759 --> 00:28:58,799
Speaker 4: Doctor Miranda, Room five, Doctor Miranda.

594
00:28:58,519 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 1: Room five. You know what I'm saying that, but that's

595
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,160
what we are. We're pumping pipes. So the guy goes, Hey, listen,

596
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,799
where do like carpenters? Basically, he goes, but your dad's

597
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,920
hip broke badly. He cracked the femur and it's at

598
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,079
the ball joint. And he goes, it's really bad, and

599
00:29:12,119 --> 00:29:16,240
I would recommend surgery because otherwise he's probably never going

600
00:29:16,279 --> 00:29:18,359
to be able to sit up again. He goes, I'm

601
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,079
not sure if he'll be able to walk, but I'm

602
00:29:20,119 --> 00:29:21,759
not sure if he'll even be able to sit up

603
00:29:21,759 --> 00:29:24,200
in a wheelchair. Right, So they have to put a

604
00:29:24,319 --> 00:29:27,000
rod and a pin in. He said it should take

605
00:29:27,039 --> 00:29:29,960
He goes, Normally a hip surgery half hour. He goes,

606
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,640
this will probably take an hour. It'll be tomorrow three o'clock.

607
00:29:33,599 --> 00:29:35,960
So they'll admit him and then from there he'll go

608
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,839
to rehab, and then from there, I don't think I'll

609
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,000
ever be back in the room that we just moved

610
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,920
all the furniture into, which means all the furniture's got

611
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,279
to come out of it, and where does it fucking go? Now?

612
00:29:48,079 --> 00:29:51,319
Like my brother's garage, you know what I mean, Like

613
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,680
all that stuff, And I go, God, what you know.

614
00:29:54,039 --> 00:29:57,480
So I feel badly and I said to my brother.

615
00:29:57,559 --> 00:29:59,680
He goes, look, we're just gonna take it one step

616
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,880
at a time. Time here, he said, but it'll be

617
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:06,079
rehab and then from rehab he'll go to a hospice house.

618
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,000
He's like, I don't think you know. So there's a

619
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:14,319
piece of me that and this sounds so weird, but

620
00:30:14,359 --> 00:30:20,039
I go, at this point, is exiting the earth maybe

621
00:30:20,079 --> 00:30:22,559
the best thing to happen, you know what I mean?

622
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,039
And I know that sounds heavy and mean maybe a

623
00:30:25,079 --> 00:30:27,279
little bit, but I don't mean it that way. But

624
00:30:27,319 --> 00:30:32,079
I'm thinking my brother's kids. They're twelve and eight years old.

625
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,640
They left on Sunday for two weeks a camp, no

626
00:30:36,799 --> 00:30:39,319
kids for two weeks. My brother and his wife were

627
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,000
looking forward to that. My brother even jokingly after a

628
00:30:42,039 --> 00:30:46,079
couple of beers, goes, kids were not coming up in between.

629
00:30:46,119 --> 00:30:48,640
Because your mother has promised to do things she's never

630
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:52,519
promised me, you know, like this guy's right, and now here's

631
00:30:52,559 --> 00:30:54,640
my dad, And I go to all this.

632
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 4: Shit that But sometimes life just throwsy.

633
00:30:57,759 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 3: It does, it does, and you deal with it.

634
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,279
Speaker 1: But I just wonder if if for all parties involved,

635
00:31:03,319 --> 00:31:05,880
I don't know, I don't know. I hate saying that.

636
00:31:06,039 --> 00:31:08,319
It sounds cruel. There's a piece of me that feels

637
00:31:08,319 --> 00:31:08,839
like it's cruel.

638
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 4: But you would be and uh undignified, and we would

639
00:31:13,599 --> 00:31:16,559
allow our pets, right, do you know what I'm saying?

640
00:31:17,359 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: And I know that sounds so shitty, but and people,

641
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,240
but I'll just say this, how many people have said

642
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,000
these are my fur babies?

643
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 3: Oh, I know what it's like to have a kid.

644
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: I used to get so pissed because my buddy goes,

645
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,480
I remember this one I had, like my kids were

646
00:31:30,519 --> 00:31:33,119
sixteen months apart, and you're pulling your hair out and

647
00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:35,880
they're all over the place, and somebody goes, I know

648
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,640
what you're going through, man, I just got a puppy.

649
00:31:37,759 --> 00:31:41,960
And I remember turned around. I remember turning around and going, yeah,

650
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,960
I can't send my kid outside to shit in the

651
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,519
front lawn and come back in. I just it's allowed.

652
00:31:46,799 --> 00:31:48,000
It's like, you know what I'm saying.

653
00:31:48,039 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 4: If you have a puppy whimpers, you throw them in

654
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,079
the bathroom, shut the door. You're not gonna listen to them,

655
00:31:52,119 --> 00:31:54,200
your kids crying, You're getting up out of bed right

656
00:31:54,279 --> 00:31:55,240
seven eight times a night.

657
00:31:55,319 --> 00:31:57,559
Speaker 1: But there are people who will who do? And and

658
00:31:57,599 --> 00:32:01,000
it's wonderful. I think and treat your pets please. I

659
00:32:01,359 --> 00:32:02,799
love dogs. I'm a big f.

660
00:32:04,359 --> 00:32:05,279
Speaker 4: I dug sitting right now.

661
00:32:06,559 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't allow your dog and I go, boy,

662
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,640
it almost feels like we're cruel. Now, my dad is

663
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,240
of a sound somewhat of a sound mind, I'll say,

664
00:32:15,599 --> 00:32:17,960
and so that's his decision. I will say this, and

665
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,799
I'll ask you because I didn't mean to get sort

666
00:32:21,839 --> 00:32:24,240
of heavy on this, uh stuff, but this is what's

667
00:32:24,279 --> 00:32:30,160
happening in my work right now. Ah, your mom passed

668
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,640
away last summer, last.

669
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,039
Speaker 3: October, right, I remember getting the I remember.

670
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:41,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right, you called. For those of you don't

671
00:32:41,559 --> 00:32:45,440
know this, I was at my mom's house, she had

672
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,680
just died the day before, and Bill's calling me, and uh,

673
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:54,039
I accidentally hit the green button. I really don't want

674
00:32:54,039 --> 00:32:56,400
to talk about this. And Bill heard this part and

675
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,039
started joking, Oh, who is she?

676
00:32:58,119 --> 00:33:01,039
Speaker 1: Who? She was big? How big would I go?

677
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:02,559
Speaker 4: She wasn't no, come out? She was fair?

678
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: Wasn't you bang a fan?

679
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:04,359
Speaker 4: Check out?

680
00:33:04,359 --> 00:33:04,519
Speaker 1: Fair?

681
00:33:04,599 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 4: With like Bill?

682
00:33:05,519 --> 00:33:05,559
Speaker 1: No?

683
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 4: And he kept going, Finally, go, Billy goes what I go?

684
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,359
My mom Digesteday, he goes and after a little silence,

685
00:33:12,759 --> 00:33:14,480
I am so sad. I didn't I go.

686
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:15,359
Speaker 1: I know you didn't.

687
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 4: I wasn't mad because you didn't know.

688
00:33:17,559 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 3: How could you be mad?

689
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 4: He couldn't?

690
00:33:19,519 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: I mean, if anything else, it's a great story now, yeah,

691
00:33:22,839 --> 00:33:25,200
it is now right even at the moment I fucking

692
00:33:25,319 --> 00:33:25,960
roared about it.

693
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,359
Speaker 3: You did, Yeah, because that's me.

694
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 4: My mother was ready to go and.

695
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: Just but take it from Yeah, yes, okay, But when

696
00:33:35,039 --> 00:33:38,400
that happens, did you at any point look at your

697
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:43,279
own life and go? What? Well, here's why I look

698
00:33:43,319 --> 00:33:46,559
at my life and go, if the average life inspectancy

699
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,279
is to seventy eight, how much more time do I have?

700
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 3: And what am I doing with it?

701
00:33:51,599 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 4: Well, my sister brought something up and when her father died. Well,

702
00:33:55,839 --> 00:33:59,960
I'm in a split family, have two stepsisters, my biological sister.

703
00:34:00,319 --> 00:34:03,559
Their father died and they had something called the dashes.

704
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:05,160
Have you ever heard?

705
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: Yes?

706
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:06,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you do between the da.

707
00:34:07,039 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 4: So I'm born seven dash twenty seven seventy and whenever

708
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:12,920
I die will have dashers in it. So what you

709
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,599
do between the dashes? And I've thought about this before,

710
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,719
but I try not to dwell on where I went

711
00:34:18,199 --> 00:34:22,280
or where my path because I think I'm very blessed

712
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,119
with family, especially friends I have. I mean tell you this,

713
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,079
I mean, that's what's an important life. So with the

714
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,679
making the movie that didn't go well, the comedy that

715
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:38,000
I when, Yeah, funniest person person that I open up for,

716
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,760
danber and now silence. So you just got to keep

717
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,239
going in life. And I've raised two hundred and fifteen

718
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,760
thousand dollars for breast cancers.

719
00:34:46,199 --> 00:34:47,559
Speaker 1: That's that's something.

720
00:34:47,679 --> 00:34:49,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's something. Yeah, that's impressive.

721
00:34:50,199 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 1: No, I right, and I think that for me, it's

722
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,199
like I have a lot more stuff I want to do. Yeah,

723
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,119
and I got to get moving. Yeah you know that

724
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,599
that's my thing. All those things, all those fears that

725
00:35:01,639 --> 00:35:04,079
you have, and wow, if I do it and it

726
00:35:04,119 --> 00:35:06,599
doesn't work, and I fuck it either, do it?

727
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 4: Say that people were the most successful the ones that

728
00:35:11,519 --> 00:35:13,000
failed the most because they just kept trying.

729
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: They never gave up, right, I mean you can hear

730
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,199
them about my bucket list.

731
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,159
Speaker 4: I would I would like to uh see San Fran

732
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,719
game in San Fran. Yeah, you know, I think I

733
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,360
want to go see the Grand Canyon. Yeah, get laid

734
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,880
a few more times. Yeah, you know, stuff like that,

735
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:28,960
I have a threesome.

736
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,199
Speaker 1: Maybe you do two, maybe you do two things at once.

737
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,159
You see her grand canyon and they go close enough.

738
00:35:34,079 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 4: It looks hello, Hello, Hello.

739
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:37,599
Speaker 3: You didn't have to say it twice.

740
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 4: I didn't, you know, bang somebody under seventy six years old.

741
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: I just stuck, you know, just mild balls, right, sures things,

742
00:35:46,559 --> 00:35:49,760
things that have to do. There is something that I've

743
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:54,599
thought about a lot, and I go, I remember reading

744
00:35:54,679 --> 00:35:57,800
this and it just popped into my head today, and

745
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,800
it's for people like you go, so, how did the

746
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,480
people who were super successful? Because you always go, well,

747
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,239
there's twenty four hours in a day, and Oprah built

748
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,360
an empire, and Bill Gates did this, and Steve Jobs

749
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:11,039
did this, and I remember reading something and they go,

750
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,840
A lot of those people would figure out, what are

751
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,079
the three most important things I need to do? I

752
00:36:18,199 --> 00:36:20,599
was my business in the next eighteen hours.

753
00:36:20,639 --> 00:36:22,039
Speaker 4: I just I just said that to a buddy of

754
00:36:22,039 --> 00:36:23,000
mine within the hour.

755
00:36:23,119 --> 00:36:25,559
Speaker 1: Yeah did you really? Yeah? Yeah, it's in a book too,

756
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,719
and it's like, what do you have to do in

757
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,920
the next eighteen hours? And keep the noise up and

758
00:36:32,039 --> 00:36:34,960
just everything else is a distraction or noise and how

759
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,039
do you play above the noise? Yeah?

760
00:36:37,159 --> 00:36:38,599
Speaker 4: And it's about Steve Jobs.

761
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 3: Yes, it was in his book too.

762
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,079
Speaker 1: Yeah. And I was going back through stuff and I

763
00:36:44,119 --> 00:36:47,559
saw that, and I'm like, that's the thing, right, because

764
00:36:47,559 --> 00:36:51,280
if you're focused on the big picture, sometimes we lose

765
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,280
other things. What are the three most important things in

766
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,079
the next that I got to get done before my

767
00:36:55,119 --> 00:36:56,480
head hits the pillow type of shit?

768
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,679
Speaker 3: And I think if you do that, you'll be fine.

769
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 4: Yeah. Man, I had to take care of the dogs

770
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,119
this morning. Go to the train station, get my Folks

771
00:37:05,639 --> 00:37:07,639
podcast with you. I'm gonna go check it on the

772
00:37:08,679 --> 00:37:12,679
dog again. Then I'm going to red Wing Stadium and

773
00:37:13,119 --> 00:37:14,639
Thurman Thomas is signing a nice So.

774
00:37:14,639 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: If you're looking to stock dogery, I am.

775
00:37:17,119 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 4: Or if you'd like to come with me. Yeah, all

776
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,599
you gotta do is stand in line for an hour.

777
00:37:23,119 --> 00:37:25,039
Gates open a five thirty. I'll be there four thirty.

778
00:37:25,079 --> 00:37:27,239
I have a few extra tickets. Oh look at you,

779
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,960
go right in. Go to the right stand in line.

780
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,639
I got a jersey, too many helmets, and I think

781
00:37:32,679 --> 00:37:34,760
like twelve or thirteen pictures. I was hoping to have

782
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:39,039
that many people because not only for breast cancer fundraising,

783
00:37:39,079 --> 00:37:42,199
but I gave it to Jay Cohing for als like

784
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:46,079
tripany for I had kids, so I spread their wealth,

785
00:37:46,119 --> 00:37:49,559
help help, you know, build their raffle tables.

786
00:37:49,679 --> 00:37:52,159
Speaker 1: I say, a very nice thing that you do, dog

787
00:37:52,199 --> 00:37:55,320
people have really yeah, people helping people. And I would

788
00:37:55,360 --> 00:38:02,320
go back to your your sense of family and stuff. Boy,

789
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:07,480
sometimes I regret how far away from everybody I am

790
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,320
in my family at this point, because and we were

791
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:15,519
like scattered, you know, my brothers in me and my

792
00:38:15,519 --> 00:38:20,119
sisters in DC. I'm here, but my dad's brother moved

793
00:38:20,119 --> 00:38:22,920
to Utah or you know, moved out west and bounced

794
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,679
around out there as a pilot for Delton, never really

795
00:38:25,679 --> 00:38:27,480
came back east. And it was just sort of that

796
00:38:27,559 --> 00:38:30,239
was sort of the mentality of well, you don't stay here,

797
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,599
why would you stay here? And I'm starting to see

798
00:38:33,639 --> 00:38:38,599
the benefit of, you know, family, and one of the

799
00:38:38,599 --> 00:38:42,199
things I always loved about where we are is the

800
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,480
sense of family and how many people leave and come.

801
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,079
Speaker 4: Back from where you were in Rochester.

802
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: Ches not from where I am, no, but you know,

803
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:56,039
leave and then and come back here and to be

804
00:38:56,159 --> 00:38:59,519
closer to family and realize what a great area this

805
00:38:59,599 --> 00:39:01,159
really is. It really is.

806
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 4: I love this area. Yeah, I'm running for mayor in

807
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,000
two years. I'm gonna have an iron fist. Okay, yeah,

808
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,039
just like you know.

809
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,559
Speaker 1: Are you God? I would love it if you're for

810
00:39:10,639 --> 00:39:13,800
fucking mayor. God damn, I want to see that.

811
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 4: I just these clips that you're seeing Rochester Rocks or

812
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:22,440
Rock Rochester just rocking on Mad Rock, Rock on Mad.

813
00:39:22,559 --> 00:39:23,079
Speaker 1: Yeah.

814
00:39:23,119 --> 00:39:26,199
Speaker 4: The fighting of the dran Park beach. Uh yeah, you know,

815
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:28,360
pistols being fired.

816
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:32,039
Speaker 1: Just why why why? I don't know, so said, I

817
00:39:32,079 --> 00:39:32,440
don't know.

818
00:39:33,079 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 4: Uh, you know that I was told this years ago.

819
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,119
But at one point five out of ten businesses that

820
00:39:39,599 --> 00:39:43,760
sponsored the Olympics were in Rochester. Yeah, yeah it was

821
00:39:45,119 --> 00:39:49,800
IBM zero Xerox was IBM here I could look it up.

822
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:50,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought they.

823
00:39:50,519 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: Were down more and where I grew up in the

824
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:58,400
Pekeepsie had uh Wapingers Falls area, But either way, still

825
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,440
to have those that's a lot. Yeah, yeah, I think

826
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,360
it all came from here. Yeah, we will take a moment,

827
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:05,880
we'll get into a little bit of that. Let's see

828
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,280
what Zuckie's gonna do as he runs from mayor of

829
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,360
the city around Yeah, baby.

830
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 4: Get to that iron fist.

831
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:16,119
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Speaker 3: Now go forth and grill like a legend.

860
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Speaker 1: Oh. I see you have random, rusty, ridiculous scrap metal

861
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all throughout your garage. I know that scene holding on

862
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Speaker 4: Joe Cocker.

880
00:43:09,599 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's one of my favorite sounds. You

881
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:20,760
got a half nothing guy need a little jail time.

882
00:43:23,639 --> 00:43:28,760
Billy Preston, Billy Preston, Billy Preston running around in circles

883
00:43:29,039 --> 00:43:30,679
was Billy Preston and Billy Preston.

884
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:34,039
Speaker 4: Uh, he doesn't sing get Back? He sing Get Back

885
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:36,639
the Beatles and Sergeant Pepper's movie.

886
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: Yes he did, and he played keyboard for Beatles stones

887
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,000
he played with on songs and uh, I think he

888
00:43:45,039 --> 00:43:50,559
got caught with an underage. I don't know. I don't

889
00:43:50,559 --> 00:43:54,719
think it was. I'll tell you so, I can't. You

890
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:56,960
can't justify it, right, you can't justify it, but I

891
00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:01,000
would go. I don't think Billy Preston was a child molester.

892
00:44:01,119 --> 00:44:05,840
I think Billy Preston saw some young person and didn't

893
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:09,039
realize maybe they were fourteen instead of eighteen. And you know,

894
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,719
but I don't know. Don't you remember?

895
00:44:15,119 --> 00:44:17,639
Speaker 3: Don't you just fucking love this stuff?

896
00:44:18,519 --> 00:44:20,079
Speaker 4: That a good get you going?

897
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:21,199
Speaker 3: That's right?

898
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: More around poverty urban outlaws of the rolling culture. Doug

899
00:44:25,639 --> 00:44:29,760
is an uber driver and goes through the city as

900
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,800
a yes, I'm sorry, I didn't mean it like no, no, no,

901
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,079
but I meant you see you like we always joke

902
00:44:35,119 --> 00:44:35,440
about me.

903
00:44:36,519 --> 00:44:39,639
Speaker 4: It gives me freedom. Yes, I had to pick my

904
00:44:39,639 --> 00:44:41,519
parents up at the train station. Today I get to

905
00:44:41,559 --> 00:44:44,599
dog sit which bounce this stuff out. I can work

906
00:44:44,639 --> 00:44:47,679
on the breast cancer fundraiser. Yeah you know, yeah, like

907
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,840
I'm going tonight. But you see stuff I see that

908
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,559
I don't, right, And that's my point. As of July,

909
00:44:54,079 --> 00:44:55,840
in the city.

910
00:44:55,559 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: Work closest to which is Rochester, New York, The department

911
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,800
has seized eighty four mini bike It's good dirt bikes,

912
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,920
ATVs and off road vehicles. This year the first defense

913
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:09,559
incurves a five hundred dollars fine, subsequent offenses costing two

914
00:45:09,639 --> 00:45:13,920
thousand now. In April, the current mayor, Malik Evans said,

915
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,239
the choice is simple. You either make it street legal

916
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:18,519
or they will be scrapyard. Ready.

917
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 3: Why are they auction these things off?

918
00:45:21,079 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 4: They should in different ones. Yeah, different towns. Come on, man, yeah,

919
00:45:24,639 --> 00:45:26,639
make some money for the absolutely.

920
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,639
Speaker 1: But you see this stuff and it's almost like modern

921
00:45:30,679 --> 00:45:32,599
outlaws when they come down the street.

922
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 4: Yes, and helmet I haven't seen yeah, usually no helmet.

923
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,920
There's a guy that has reels on Facebook. He just

924
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,639
does wheelies all down the street. Now I've seen it. Yeah,

925
00:45:45,039 --> 00:45:48,000
I mean from fifty yards close, going through intersections.

926
00:45:48,079 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 1: Some of these people And here here's the thing. They're

927
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:54,760
not criminals. Necessarily. Necessarily they are breaking laws. I don't

928
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,079
like it because.

929
00:45:56,079 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 4: It they're not criminals. Well, I say, people breaking the law.

930
00:46:01,079 --> 00:46:02,159
One's a criminal to you?

931
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: Well, I would say this if you were driving and

932
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,519
you got and you broke, you ran a red lighter.

933
00:46:07,599 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 4: If they guys doing a wheelie down the street, and

934
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:13,199
it's against self expression.

935
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

936
00:46:13,679 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 4: It's between lights, yes, and this this lady has a

937
00:46:19,039 --> 00:46:21,039
kid in yes, yes, screams right in front of her.

938
00:46:21,079 --> 00:46:25,599
She gets she gets scared. Right, that's the it's a

939
00:46:25,639 --> 00:46:30,480
wheel that's hits, hits another car, I hear and dies

940
00:46:30,519 --> 00:46:32,639
with her daughter. Now is he a criminal, Well, it's

941
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,360
it's street ballet or urban terror.

942
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I called street la until somebody it

943
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,320
becomes urban. Now I see what you're saying. My point

944
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,039
is like, if you or I ran a red light,

945
00:46:42,119 --> 00:46:45,239
does that make us a criminal necessarily because we broke

946
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:49,639
a driving law? No, it doesn't, we broke law. Uh.

947
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,360
These guys, to me are exactly what you were saying,

948
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,880
and it scares the ship out of me because I

949
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:55,960
don't want to hurt somebody.

950
00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 3: I don't want that to happen. I'd like to.

951
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,639
Speaker 1: It's just text came in from my sister. Sorry, but

952
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:08,440
I don't want to hit somebody and then have that

953
00:47:08,519 --> 00:47:11,920
on my conscience. And by the way, it was because

954
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,679
of your behavior and your way of.

955
00:47:14,679 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 4: Doing You know it's wrong and you're still doing it.

956
00:47:17,159 --> 00:47:20,000
I've seen at vs out there, I've seen the games

957
00:47:20,039 --> 00:47:21,960
like the Black Widows from any which way, but lose

958
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:23,880
either way.

959
00:47:24,199 --> 00:47:27,679
Speaker 1: I mean, I could say this maybe lower on the

960
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:31,440
criminal scale they got. There's probably other ship going on.

961
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:33,679
By the way, they're not streetly. Where are you getting

962
00:47:33,679 --> 00:47:39,920
it from? Who owned it? Originally from Geneva? Somebody stole that, absolutely,

963
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,480
because we could go it's the you know now, maybe

964
00:47:43,519 --> 00:47:44,079
not maybe not.

965
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 4: Maybe they have hard working jobs. But if you're you know, maybe.

966
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,599
Speaker 1: It's just you got time to do fucking wheelies down

967
00:47:50,639 --> 00:47:52,800
the middle of that's true on a Saturday. I guess, yeah,

968
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:53,400
I guess you could.

969
00:47:53,559 --> 00:47:55,039
Speaker 4: Where are you learning to do these wheelings?

970
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:55,639
Speaker 1: I don't know.

971
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,760
Speaker 4: You don't learn one hour. You don't learn ride a unicycle?

972
00:47:59,119 --> 00:48:01,519
Speaker 3: No you know, No you do not, Yes you do.

973
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:03,960
Did I see you on a unicycle?

974
00:48:04,119 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 4: Yes?

975
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:06,159
Speaker 3: Where did I see this video of you?

976
00:48:06,679 --> 00:48:08,679
Speaker 4: Facebook memories? I think I dagged you?

977
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah he did. It was a few years ago. It

978
00:48:11,079 --> 00:48:14,159
was pretty good. Yeah. Good balance, yes, well, wrestling, you'd

979
00:48:14,199 --> 00:48:15,079
have to have good balance.

980
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 4: It takes a while. You got to keep yourself in front.

981
00:48:18,039 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

982
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,280
Speaker 4: And momentum yeah, like what we should be doing in life. Oh,

983
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,840
I was keep yourself and keep the momentum going.

984
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,199
Speaker 1: I was trying to, uh, because that's what I say

985
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,199
to my dad, you know, the way you're leaning, trying

986
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,719
to lean balance wise. I want to get one of those.

987
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,639
I used to have a balance board. It was just

988
00:48:33,679 --> 00:48:34,679
a barrel and a board.

989
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 4: Yeah I remember, yeah.

990
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if I always thought that was great, like

991
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:40,880
it was great for the kids.

992
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,199
Speaker 4: This is one of my nieces nephews.

993
00:48:42,599 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's great for kids because they find that balance

994
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:49,719
and you can see, like most athletic people have a

995
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:54,000
pretty good sense of balance. And uh, Doug certainly.

996
00:48:53,679 --> 00:48:59,039
Speaker 4: Does remember those. Those would be great Christmas gifts before internet,

997
00:48:59,119 --> 00:49:02,159
cell phones, everything like that. Games, you know, stuff you

998
00:49:02,199 --> 00:49:05,880
could keep busy for you know, a few hours, look

999
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,719
forward to doing it in the summer. I mean we've

1000
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:12,719
lost that. Uh, you know, even a basketball. I don't

1001
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,440
see kids out in the street playing football like I

1002
00:49:15,519 --> 00:49:18,239
used to do, or even basketball a little bit around,

1003
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:23,679
very little around the birds the parks, even in the city,

1004
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,960
but you know, just pick up games, you know. Outside

1005
00:49:28,639 --> 00:49:30,320
it's nice to see people walking. I see in a

1006
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:34,280
fairport in Pittsford. Well, not too much in this city though, no,

1007
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:38,280
I mean I see bums and people with their cardboard

1008
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,519
size and wearing nikes and their backpacks with bottle water,

1009
00:49:41,639 --> 00:49:43,719
so they're good to stand there all day asking you

1010
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:48,280
for a slap man, I would fucking nail that stop.

1011
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:53,599
She got the right way and blue water already?

1012
00:49:53,599 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 1: How old? Probably like old raty. Yes that's what I

1013
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:03,239
was thinking. She does. Your Dougie can run up? Where's Mallory?

1014
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:04,199
Speaker 4: Oh?

1015
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 1: Okay, all right? The date?

1016
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,039
Speaker 4: Yes, I've told you got all about it?

1017
00:50:08,639 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 1: So did I? I apologize. I have lost all sense

1018
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:14,039
of time. I really have put all the shit going

1019
00:50:14,079 --> 00:50:14,719
on with my old man.

1020
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:15,159
Speaker 3: What happened?

1021
00:50:15,199 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: Yeah? What's their well?

1022
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 4: Tonight I'm going out to get donations, well, science signatures

1023
00:50:21,519 --> 00:50:25,159
and Thermon Thomas and as many of you know, this

1024
00:50:25,199 --> 00:50:29,440
will be my fifteenth year of running fundraisers, okay for

1025
00:50:29,519 --> 00:50:32,440
the Breast Cancer Coalition, in my sixth year of running duel.

1026
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:36,239
I got golf tournament August twenty fifth. That's full if

1027
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,199
I told you that, one hundred and forty one people,

1028
00:50:38,559 --> 00:50:42,239
and then bowling is October eighteenth at Bowler Roll and Henrietta.

1029
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:43,599
Speaker 1: What does this have to do with Mallory?

1030
00:50:44,519 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 4: I don't know where I was going with this. Go

1031
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:47,199
ahead with Mallory.

1032
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:48,519
Speaker 3: I don't know, wh where were we going.

1033
00:50:48,679 --> 00:50:50,559
Speaker 4: I was gonna go. I was gonna say if anybody

1034
00:50:50,599 --> 00:50:53,480
would like info, find me on Facebook, Dug Felt. Or

1035
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,079
if you have a favorite restaurant and you want to

1036
00:50:56,119 --> 00:50:59,719
contribute something like a gift card, send it to Bill

1037
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:03,280
Moore in here, okay, you know, or or call us

1038
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:07,320
in write us on Facebook. How you can help from

1039
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:08,880
now up from now till October.

1040
00:51:09,039 --> 00:51:11,679
Speaker 1: You can email Bill at Bill Moran Productions dot com.

1041
00:51:11,679 --> 00:51:13,920
It's all right there.

1042
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 4: Because every bit of the day from now till then

1043
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:18,199
is partly going to be with breast cancer. Okay, yeah,

1044
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,119
all right, I have which I'm very proud of.

1045
00:51:20,199 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 1: Yeah you should be.

1046
00:51:21,039 --> 00:51:23,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's it's it's good stuff that.

1047
00:51:23,079 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: You give back and you do a lot of nice

1048
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:25,840
nice a lot of people.

1049
00:51:26,079 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 4: It's getting I have, Well, I think I have four

1050
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,880
teams waiting golf. So now I'm going to make a decision.

1051
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,719
Do you do two next year? We can do that

1052
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,880
because we're making that many people are hurt. How fun

1053
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:40,320
it is.

1054
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 1: Going? Do you want to do two or do you

1055
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,159
want to like just up the ane on this one?

1056
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:47,679
It's a little more expensive to get in.

1057
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,039
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I don't want to do that. Let's just

1058
00:51:50,079 --> 00:51:52,519
have a good time. Yeah, you can have two good

1059
00:51:52,519 --> 00:51:55,039
times in a year. Actually, I'm thinking very seriously, I'm

1060
00:51:55,039 --> 00:51:57,920
gonna talk to my team about doing one for prostate

1061
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,920
and colon cancer next June, the week and before the fourth.

1062
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: Should we have a doctor in here and give you

1063
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:08,519
a prostate examine on the air If she's hot, that

1064
00:52:08,639 --> 00:52:09,559
lady just walk by.

1065
00:52:10,679 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 4: So so Mallory.

1066
00:52:12,639 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 1: Doug and Mark, we're supposed to go out and dates

1067
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:20,360
with the same person. Mark did have, Okay, all I know.

1068
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 4: Is that he went to Schooner's.

1069
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:27,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know much about that. So the question is,

1070
00:52:28,679 --> 00:52:31,519
I don't know much about any of it anymore. Uh.

1071
00:52:31,559 --> 00:52:33,559
Speaker 3: So I think she's still interested.

1072
00:52:33,599 --> 00:52:37,360
Speaker 1: And I just got caught up with and so things,

1073
00:52:37,559 --> 00:52:40,760
things got out of control, and I'm I'm back and I.

1074
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:43,280
Speaker 3: You asked me what date.

1075
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:46,159
Speaker 4: Is, I'd have to stop and think absolutely.

1076
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,599
Speaker 1: Right to what data is? So uh and there's so

1077
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:53,360
many things in motion. I had, like this pad with

1078
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,480
just a bunch of things I got to get done

1079
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,400
and I'm trying to pick the biggest ones to get

1080
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:01,079
done for I picked my three. Yeah you three? So

1081
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:05,159
uh yes, But the date is going to happen. Well,

1082
00:53:05,199 --> 00:53:07,480
we will make that happen. Do you have plans? I

1083
00:53:07,519 --> 00:53:08,480
thought you said.

1084
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,559
Speaker 4: You had an idea? You know, I may to tell you.

1085
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 1: No, I do if you're willing to share.

1086
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 4: SHI thought that. Uh where was I? I think in

1087
00:53:18,159 --> 00:53:20,840
Buffalo when I took you there. Yeah, I haven't been

1088
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:24,519
a nice in a long, long time. Drive there, have

1089
00:53:24,559 --> 00:53:26,519
a good conversation, ride the maid of the miss, which

1090
00:53:26,519 --> 00:53:31,760
I've never done, and then drive back. That's it, Okay,

1091
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,880
something different, something I've never done. But of course she

1092
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,840
gets bored with my conversation, says, turn around. My mother's

1093
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:39,280
calling me.

1094
00:53:42,199 --> 00:53:43,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, I could be fun.

1095
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna go to a movie.

1096
00:53:45,159 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't.

1097
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 4: I I don't Where would you go on a you know,

1098
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:53,360
on a date? Well, I was thinking, like some of

1099
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,239
the things I've seen on Love Connection or blind Date

1100
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,159
was a TV show out of l A. You know,

1101
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,239
you're not going to go and get your first tattoo

1102
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:06,239
together or a piercing or they would line things up

1103
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:10,519
like the what is that the axe and hatchip drink?

1104
00:54:11,039 --> 00:54:15,679
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, throw the axes. Uh.

1105
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,679
Speaker 4: I don't know why that popped into my mind. It's

1106
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,159
there's enough people around, you're not one on one, you

1107
00:54:21,159 --> 00:54:21,840
can just talk.

1108
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 1: I would.

1109
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 4: It's been a while since I have to dust off

1110
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:27,639
my dating.

1111
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I was thinking the same

1112
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,880
thing because I don't know what I would do. I

1113
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,920
don't know what I would do. I think like a

1114
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,760
winery would be nice, Like that would be something that

1115
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:40,039
I could do, but I I don't know most of them.

1116
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,599
Speaker 4: Like as long as I could uber you there, you're

1117
00:54:42,639 --> 00:54:43,280
fucking drunk.

1118
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: Well, I'll see. This is the problem. This is the

1119
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:50,800
fucking problem. I know that's the problem. I can't I

1120
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,920
care that. That's Julie right hot, damn.

1121
00:54:54,039 --> 00:54:58,119
Speaker 4: You know she stopped me outside.

1122
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,800
Speaker 1: Alight, okay, all right? Yeah, she like made it the

1123
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:05,079
miss Yeah, the name of one of the strippers you

1124
00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:06,280
used to.

1125
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,679
Speaker 4: With the windows down there was made of the best

1126
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:14,760
Kyle Watch was over me before I knew it.

1127
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: Oh god, I think there was years ago, years ago.

1128
00:55:20,599 --> 00:55:22,800
This is really bad. But I think on the radio.

1129
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,039
I don't know that I was there for it, but

1130
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,840
I know it happened. They put a kiddie pool in

1131
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,880
one of the studios and some featured stripper was coming

1132
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:37,440
around and she could piss from across the room into

1133
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:39,639
the pool, and I think we did. I think they

1134
00:55:39,639 --> 00:55:41,280
did it in the radio. And one of the things

1135
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,840
you really couldn't talk about FCC wise was bodily fluid,

1136
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,320
Like I know, it's weird, it was fucking weird, but

1137
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:50,480
you couldn't talk about that stuff. So I think there

1138
00:55:50,559 --> 00:55:52,599
was like a hall guy. I think everybody was in

1139
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:54,119
so much fucking trouble.

1140
00:55:54,159 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 4: I mean, how did you describe that.

1141
00:55:57,320 --> 00:56:00,639
Speaker 1: I wasn't part of that. I wasn't part of that thing.

1142
00:56:00,679 --> 00:56:02,719
I just remember walking in and seeing the kiddie pool

1143
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:06,119
and went, oh boy, uh yeah, what are we at today? Yes,

1144
00:56:07,199 --> 00:56:09,800
it was pretty wild. But so I'm thinking her name

1145
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:16,199
could have been made of the miss aw there's yeah,

1146
00:56:16,079 --> 00:56:19,280
when we've all experienced something in life. I don't know, Uh,

1147
00:56:19,519 --> 00:56:21,559
I like that idea. I don't know, Doug. When it

1148
00:56:21,599 --> 00:56:23,639
comes to like a date.

1149
00:56:24,559 --> 00:56:27,519
Speaker 4: I know women don't like, well, I can't say this

1150
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,760
eat on the first day because you're trying to chew

1151
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:33,400
your talking, and yeah, I don't want to.

1152
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:35,559
Speaker 1: I think like that. I think with me, it wouldn't.

1153
00:56:35,599 --> 00:56:36,880
I wouldn't, you know.

1154
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:42,119
Speaker 4: I'm not maybe something appetizers and ice cream or yeah, abbots,

1155
00:56:42,159 --> 00:56:43,960
But then I'm gonna look like a pig as a child.

1156
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:49,760
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and then it's like, oh god, yeah, hey, you're.

1157
00:56:49,679 --> 00:56:52,320
Speaker 4: Gonna finish that. I'm gonna wear another one. While you're

1158
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:57,920
talking exercise, Doug, Oh yeah, exercise my right to buy abbots.

1159
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: I am what like you do wonder what would be

1160
00:57:03,559 --> 00:57:08,559
what would be a good date? And I'm what a

1161
00:57:08,559 --> 00:57:12,480
good date would be? All right, hang on, I'll do

1162
00:57:12,519 --> 00:57:16,719
you one better. We'll do you one better. Let me see.

1163
00:57:17,039 --> 00:57:22,800
I'll go to chat GPT, right and go give me.

1164
00:57:24,719 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 3: Three chat GPT. It's AI.

1165
00:57:27,599 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: Give me three unique first date ideas. You first date ideas. Boom,

1166
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,119
let's see what they get. Okay, here are three offbeat

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00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:47,440
but actually doable first date ideas that go beyond drinks

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00:57:47,559 --> 00:57:50,440
or dinner memorable without trying too hard.

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Speaker 3: This is the thing.

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00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,079
Speaker 1: It's like, you don't want to try too hard, and

1171
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,239
I sometimes just go at this point in my life,

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00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:59,320
if I were to date, it's like I just have

1173
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,320
to be me. I what you see is what you get, baby,

1174
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:08,159
that's all right? Hit it, okay, Jesus Christ, I hate

1175
00:58:08,159 --> 00:58:10,920
this already. I hate the first fucking one. I fucking

1176
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,679
hate it. Hit a thrift store with twenty dollars each.

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00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,079
You pick out an outfit for each other, then wear

1178
00:58:17,119 --> 00:58:20,199
them out to grab ice creamer coffee, silly low Stake's

1179
00:58:20,199 --> 00:58:23,440
fun that reveals personality, taste and confidence. Perfect icebreaker. I'll

1180
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:26,239
tell you what that is a fun shit thing to

1181
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:29,280
do later on. I'm not doing that on a.

1182
00:58:29,239 --> 00:58:31,199
Speaker 4: First date, can I Can? I swing it around? Yeah,

1183
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,719
let's up it to fifty dollars and go to show world.

1184
00:58:36,159 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: First date, first date. You pick this.

1185
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 4: You picked the outfits for one another, so you want

1186
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:44,840
the domination leather broad I'm gonna take the Star Wars

1187
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:46,239
Chebacca g string with it.

1188
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:55,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Ready? Number two bookstore Roulette and rooftown

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00:58:55,360 --> 00:59:00,880
rooftop snacks. Go to a local bookstore or library. Each

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00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:04,000
person finds a book the other has to read based

1191
00:59:04,039 --> 00:59:07,719
on nothing but vibes. Then head to a nearby rooftop

1192
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,199
parking garage, park, et cetera with snacks and trade stories

1193
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,639
or read passages out loud. They say why it works romantic,

1194
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:18,199
low pressure and sparks deeper convos without being too intense.

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00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 4: All right, listen, I hate that one less than a

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00:59:21,519 --> 00:59:22,000
hundred pages.

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00:59:22,119 --> 00:59:24,039
Speaker 1: These are two that I fucking hate. I would not

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00:59:24,119 --> 00:59:25,880
want to do these on first dates. If some chick

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said to me, why don't we go with twenty dollars,

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00:59:28,159 --> 00:59:31,159
You're like, don dope, why don't we go with twenty dollars?

1201
00:59:31,119 --> 00:59:36,960
An dolls exactly. I'm pissing away in it, and guess

1202
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,480
some great fucking stories. I'll give you some.

1203
00:59:39,519 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 4: Great to be part of the story.

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00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,679
Speaker 1: Three guinness. I got great. Believe me, I've lived, I

1205
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,039
got shit, I got I got everything. You want trauma,

1206
00:59:47,079 --> 00:59:48,880
I got it? You want funny, I got that, I

1207
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:53,840
got it all. Uh diy street food step street me,

1208
00:59:54,440 --> 01:00:00,239
street food crawl. Pick a neighborhood with food trucks or

1209
01:00:00,559 --> 01:00:02,760
hole in the wall spots. I like this one.

1210
01:00:03,159 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 4: They do that every Wednesday at railroad station, a railroad crossing, and.

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01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,679
Speaker 1: You each pick one off. The other has to try.

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01:00:12,719 --> 01:00:14,920
See again. These are like I don't want to be

1213
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,679
picking shit out for you, and go try this, and

1214
01:00:17,679 --> 01:00:19,119
then all of a sudden, I don't tell you what

1215
01:00:19,199 --> 01:00:21,440
it is, and you have a shrimp allergy, and now

1216
01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:23,800
your fucking face blew up and your ears are glowing,

1217
01:00:24,039 --> 01:00:27,880
and I gotta go find benadrel and possibly you know

1218
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:28,440
what I'm saying.

1219
01:00:28,599 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 4: Again, Let's get that one right out of the way.

1220
01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:38,719
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

1221
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:40,599
Speaker 3: Talking about a shrimp allergy.

1222
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,079
Speaker 1: You pick one of the other tries and rate them

1223
01:00:44,119 --> 01:00:46,480
like you're running a bootleg food network show.

1224
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 4: You just said to pick out three. To give you

1225
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:50,159
any more after that?

1226
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,000
Speaker 3: No, I said three? Do you want more?

1227
01:00:52,119 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1228
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: All right? Fun? All right? What niche ideas for introverts,

1229
01:00:57,039 --> 01:00:59,079
thrill seekers or creative types.

1230
01:01:00,079 --> 01:01:01,599
Speaker 3: Let's see what thrill seekers.

1231
01:01:01,199 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: Say I want to see. Well, no, you're not a

1232
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,519
thrill seeker. I have a thrill secret. Well, like, I'll

1233
01:01:06,519 --> 01:01:09,280
tell you what we thrill Let me tell you what.

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01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,599
Speaker 4: I'm back and have a cigarette. Don't finish the cigarette

1235
01:01:11,599 --> 01:01:12,079
and get it on.

1236
01:01:12,199 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I've been there too many times in my life. Yeah,

1237
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,960
that's a hat. There, done that. Here's what I would

1238
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,519
love to do. Here's a first date I would fucking

1239
01:01:21,639 --> 01:01:23,719
love And I don't know if a chick would like

1240
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:26,199
this or not. Please write in if you would be

1241
01:01:26,239 --> 01:01:30,760
willing if this and I want I don't want somebody

1242
01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:32,719
to answer this because then they're gonna think I'm going

1243
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:33,960
to take him on the first date and it's not

1244
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:37,320
going to happen. We're not doing that. But I would

1245
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,519
want to go I would like to take somebody to

1246
01:01:39,519 --> 01:01:43,840
walkins Glen, rent a car and take you for three

1247
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:46,239
laps around the track and they do that.

1248
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, you can do that.

1249
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:53,079
Speaker 1: Actually, I have a buddy who owns a little speech

1250
01:01:53,079 --> 01:01:55,360
shop and he sets up down there and he does

1251
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:57,840
all the repairs for the rich guys that come in

1252
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:00,159
and just drive their cars. There are people that have

1253
01:02:00,559 --> 01:02:06,400
like he will trailer down a ferrari that is built

1254
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:10,840
for the track. It's a dentist in Long Island, and

1255
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,639
the guy flies up and just blows off steam by

1256
01:02:13,719 --> 01:02:16,039
hitting the track, you know, and if a break goes,

1257
01:02:16,079 --> 01:02:20,679
if a pin pops, if a caliper, whatever, he's right there,

1258
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:24,400
you know, Kevin puts it all back together. But I

1259
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,440
would love to do that and then hit a winery,

1260
01:02:26,679 --> 01:02:28,639
a couple of wineries on the way back. I think

1261
01:02:28,679 --> 01:02:31,760
that would be a fucking blast. Yeah right, But you

1262
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:36,360
could see how like how adventurous this person is. It's fun.

1263
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:39,320
It's different. Who's taking you in a fucking legit race

1264
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,079
car to go one hundred and sixty miles an hour

1265
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:48,400
and you better trust me. Yeah, wouldn't that be fun?

1266
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:49,159
Speaker 4: It would be great.

1267
01:02:49,519 --> 01:02:54,719
Speaker 1: Okay, let's see what you want creative types. Okay, let's

1268
01:02:54,719 --> 01:03:00,480
go dates for creative types. Let's see what doug he says.

1269
01:03:00,719 --> 01:03:02,639
And by the way, I would like people to let

1270
01:03:02,719 --> 01:03:06,159
us know what these these date like the ones we

1271
01:03:06,239 --> 01:03:10,039
just read from AI. Would that be Would people be

1272
01:03:10,079 --> 01:03:11,519
open to that or would that be weird?

1273
01:03:12,199 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 4: I think people, all right, you're always looking for something

1274
01:03:18,559 --> 01:03:20,800
to do. Yeah, you know, whether they do it or not,

1275
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:22,760
they at least like to hear about it and be like,

1276
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:24,559
I wouldn't do that. Oh that would be too much

1277
01:03:24,599 --> 01:03:24,800
for me.

1278
01:03:25,039 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 1: Well, well, here's the thing. I'll ask you this. I

1279
01:03:27,559 --> 01:03:31,039
have said that I have found now that I'm of

1280
01:03:31,559 --> 01:03:35,079
a man of a certain age, and people know that

1281
01:03:35,159 --> 01:03:39,559
I am legally separated from my wife when I was married.

1282
01:03:41,199 --> 01:03:44,039
I think that, I say, women are more aggressive, but

1283
01:03:44,079 --> 01:03:46,679
they're more outgoing. But I think so. I do wonder

1284
01:03:46,719 --> 01:03:49,760
if they'd be more at this age willing to try

1285
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,360
these things. Because I couldn't see my twenty three year

1286
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:55,199
old son. I would almost like to ask him, go, hey,

1287
01:03:55,239 --> 01:03:59,760
if you went on a first date and need pick

1288
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:02,079
out outphits for maybe that would be fun. Maybe that

1289
01:04:02,079 --> 01:04:05,159
would be so quirky fun. I'm I'm too too stuck

1290
01:04:05,199 --> 01:04:07,159
in my head to think about it. That might be fun.

1291
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 4: Down on Hudson, buying each other sneakers.

1292
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 1: All right, here we go silence, sketch off in the park,

1293
01:04:15,039 --> 01:04:19,320
bring sketchbooks, cheap art supplies or iPads. Pick a subject,

1294
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:23,920
strangers walking by a weird statue each other and draw

1295
01:04:24,159 --> 01:04:29,039
silently for fifteen minutes. Then reveal it's fun, vulnerable, and

1296
01:04:29,079 --> 01:04:32,639
get you into into creative flow without the pressure of

1297
01:04:32,719 --> 01:04:38,480
constant talking plus drawing each other flirty as hell, especially

1298
01:04:38,559 --> 01:04:41,719
if this what if I see now, here's what I

1299
01:04:41,719 --> 01:04:44,559
would do, and it would be said, I would draw

1300
01:04:44,599 --> 01:04:49,280
stick figure with huge tits and I go, it's you.

1301
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:54,639
Speaker 4: That would be me, lines and circles, that's it.

1302
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,920
Speaker 1: That's it. Hey, you know what, look at the guns

1303
01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:05,079
on that boat. The audio diary walk, Take a walk

1304
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:08,519
and use your phone's voice recorder to make weird little

1305
01:05:08,599 --> 01:05:13,800
audio diary together. Narrate what you see, make up stories

1306
01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:17,280
about strangers, describe what your alien selves think of Earth.

1307
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:22,440
It's weird, playful taps into storytelling muscles. Plus you end

1308
01:05:22,519 --> 01:05:26,400
up with a surreal souvenir of the first date. No, okay,

1309
01:05:26,559 --> 01:05:27,360
I agree with that.

1310
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,079
Speaker 3: One object challenge. This may be up your alley.

1311
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I only saw the first three words of the

1312
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:40,280
of the next sentence. Go to a dollar store or

1313
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:45,159
flea market, pick one strange object each. Then go to

1314
01:05:45,199 --> 01:05:48,880
a cafe or bar, and come up with a short story, song,

1315
01:05:49,079 --> 01:05:51,239
or scene inspired by the two objects.

1316
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:55,159
Speaker 3: Bonus points If you acted out, that might be neat.

1317
01:05:55,239 --> 01:05:57,239
Speaker 4: If you created it for the other person, they had

1318
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:57,960
to make it up.

1319
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:02,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, creative improv calling it that instant chemistry test. Do

1320
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:06,360
they riff or freeze? I don't know, man, I always

1321
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:10,639
think like, if you got a personality in that half

1322
01:06:10,679 --> 01:06:11,480
the battle.

1323
01:06:12,719 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 4: I need.

1324
01:06:13,519 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 3: I need these gimmicks.

1325
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,639
Speaker 4: Some people aren't big talkers like us, and it's tough

1326
01:06:16,679 --> 01:06:17,079
to bring.

1327
01:06:18,079 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's true, you know.

1328
01:06:20,079 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, and some of the dating sites I've seen, You know,

1329
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:26,000
I'm shy at first that I warm up, So I'm

1330
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:30,039
not shy at first. Yeah, sometimes I'm overly, you.

1331
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:32,199
Speaker 1: Know, just like a model T from nineteen twenty eight.

1332
01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 3: Oh, let me.

1333
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: Crank you up, baby, warming up?

1334
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 4: Maybe I can't get.

1335
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: It shut up? Yeah right, Well, I'd love to hear

1336
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:45,679
people's thoughts on those dates. Are they something that people

1337
01:06:45,719 --> 01:06:47,440
would want to try, or would you be like, what

1338
01:06:47,519 --> 01:06:50,719
the flip is this guy right? You know that's it?

1339
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:52,719
All right, We'll take them moment. I got questions for Doug.

1340
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:56,039
Oh good. Yeah, like almost the tails from the strip,

1341
01:06:56,039 --> 01:06:58,280
but sort of will lead you. We have answers, I

1342
01:06:58,559 --> 01:07:01,599
think you will. We'll get to that right after this. Hey.

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Speaker 4: Everybody welcome to the world famous Podcast Bill. Moran you

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got the, one the, only the him shaking money making

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the one your mother warned you, About Dougie fresh and

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has at this, TIME i want you to keep your

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hands and feet inside of the car till the ride

1376
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comes to complete.

1377
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Speaker 1: Stop i'm hotter than the, sun cooler than the other

1378
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:01,359
side of the pillow by the. LADIES i get more

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waves In? Hawaii can you? DO i get more waves Than?

1380
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Hawaii like that. One i've never heard. Of.

1381
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Speaker 4: ACCIDENT i came up with that a couple of years.

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Speaker 1: Ago it's, right this is one of your. Songs, man

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IS i gotta queued up in my? Car did you? Really?

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Speaker 4: Yeah cool uber riders or people getting weddings or single,

1385
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ladies and, yeah all the single, ladies all the single,

1386
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ladies all.

1387
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Speaker 1: The single Lead now when you dj do they still

1388
01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:35,439
throw the garter in the.

1389
01:09:35,039 --> 01:09:36,319
Speaker 4: Mid that's kind of gone.

1390
01:09:36,319 --> 01:09:38,680
Speaker 1: Away, yeah especially the.

1391
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 4: Garden they still throw the.

1392
01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 3: Book, okay, yes but the garters the carters.

1393
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Speaker 4: Said, yeah nobody wants to say they've gone to the

1394
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:45,920
anniversary dance a.

1395
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,039
Speaker 3: Lot i've been to The Grand. Canyon keep your legs.

1396
01:09:48,079 --> 01:09:52,680
Speaker 4: Closed the anniversary, dance you know what that? Is, everybody

1397
01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:55,800
every couple get on the dance floor With mark And,

1398
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,600
lisa and, okay if you if you're just, dating off

1399
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:00,239
the dance. Floor if you've been married five year or,

1400
01:10:00,279 --> 01:10:02,199
less get out the dance. Floor then you go ten

1401
01:10:02,279 --> 01:10:05,439
years or, less twenty, years thirty, years thirty. Five then

1402
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,319
you get down the last few and the last couple

1403
01:10:08,399 --> 01:10:11,199
up there you go four forty five, years forty, six forty,

1404
01:10:11,239 --> 01:10:13,720
seven forty, Eight, yeah keep going in a you, know

1405
01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:16,279
fifty to fifty to fifty three, years fifty three, years,

1406
01:10:16,359 --> 01:10:18,840
yeah or whatever it might. Be so the one they're

1407
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:23,359
dancing with other people, that, yeah THE ymc has been out.

1408
01:10:24,119 --> 01:10:29,319
Outdated last WEDDING i, did she didn't Win Jesse's, girl

1409
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:32,520
but her brother was Named. Jesse and she's, Like i've

1410
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:34,720
heard this song all my. LIFE i that at my.

1411
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,720
Wedding i'm, like that's, fine you, SURE i. Go it's your.

1412
01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:40,239
Wedding you know What i'm Hearing more and more these

1413
01:10:40,319 --> 01:10:42,960
DJs are telling people you pick ten, Songs i'll take

1414
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:43,239
care of the.

1415
01:10:43,239 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 1: Rest oh like, what, yeah, WELL i mean it's a

1416
01:10:47,039 --> 01:10:50,479
lot in planning. Wedding maybe it takes the pressure. OFF

1417
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:53,520
i don't, know no IT i you know What i'm.

1418
01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 4: Saying i'm gonna sit down with a bride this weekend

1419
01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:59,199
THAT i, know and we're gonna go through all my,

1420
01:10:59,239 --> 01:11:05,000
folders just go country, rock fun, folder slow, music wedding.

1421
01:11:05,079 --> 01:11:08,880
Dance i'm gonna look and you, Know i'm gonna look at,

1422
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:11,600
you and you've got a. Cursor you just skip to

1423
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,000
the next. Song and IF i don't hear any or

1424
01:11:14,079 --> 01:11:16,840
see any, REACTION i know you don't want. It but

1425
01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:19,239
as soon as, OH i like this, one then you

1426
01:11:19,279 --> 01:11:20,960
move it to the, folder and you move it too the.

1427
01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:24,199
Floor so by the time a couple of hours gone,

1428
01:11:24,199 --> 01:11:26,720
by maybe an hour for, that it's only two. Seconds

1429
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:30,720
we gotta but if you don't know. It and then

1430
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:31,760
by the end she's, like how many we?

1431
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 1: Have?

1432
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:33,520
Speaker 4: None like we got one hundred and twenty shecues that.

1433
01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:35,439
MANY i, go that's how quick it. Goes so you're

1434
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:39,680
gonna know all these, songs you? Know then you have you?

1435
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:44,079
Know do you Want Sweet? Caroline Neil, diamond you Want

1436
01:11:45,319 --> 01:11:50,039
John dever Take Me? Home Country? Road jesse's Girl Grease

1437
01:11:50,119 --> 01:11:54,640
footloose wrote the rodeo song kind OF i.

1438
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:58,359
Speaker 1: Joke does anybody ask for her up before he? Cheats?

1439
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 4: Yeah no anymore they? Did, yeah, yeah shut The she

1440
01:12:03,119 --> 01:12:06,880
was real popular back in day. One, tennessee whiskey is

1441
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:10,279
still popular song to, play you, Know AND i tell,

1442
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:12,159
go pick six soul. Songs if you don't have, It

1443
01:12:12,159 --> 01:12:14,079
i'm gonna play you know the FEW i?

1444
01:12:14,119 --> 01:12:15,319
Speaker 3: Have how about Al?

1445
01:12:15,359 --> 01:12:19,279
Speaker 1: Green let's stay? Again that? One? YEAH i love that.

1446
01:12:19,319 --> 01:12:22,720
Speaker 4: Song how DO i live without?

1447
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:23,960
Speaker 1: You well very?

1448
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:30,520
Speaker 4: Easily, Yeah Whitney. Houston, YEAH i will always love you the.

1449
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:35,640
Greatest we had not an argument debate on her being

1450
01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:40,359
the greatest voice of all, time and my Friend rich was,

1451
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:43,279
like who? Else who else is even? Closing i'm, like Oh,

1452
01:12:43,359 --> 01:12:46,479
Sherer he's, like, no not Share. SELENE i came up

1453
01:12:46,479 --> 01:12:48,760
With selene and he, goes, okay, YEAH i.

1454
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 3: Mean selene's amazing.

1455
01:12:50,079 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 1: Voice, yes.

1456
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:54,239
Speaker 4: AMAZING i, mean who's even close To whitney, that you?

1457
01:12:54,279 --> 01:12:58,039
Speaker 1: KNOW i can't think? Anybody? Uh as a former strip CLUB,

1458
01:12:58,079 --> 01:13:03,479
dj current, bartender new, driver which of those gigs gave

1459
01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:07,079
you the best stories and maybe the worst? Smells bartending

1460
01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:11,640
the best stories and probably the worst. SMELLS i mean

1461
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:13,199
somebody vomits.

1462
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:18,520
Speaker 4: Or, yes the worst SMELL i ever had was DJing

1463
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,199
a strip Club sam Soft row and somebody opened up

1464
01:13:21,199 --> 01:13:23,520
a can of pepper strap spray in THE la.

1465
01:13:26,079 --> 01:13:27,520
Speaker 1: WHY i don't.

1466
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:30,199
Speaker 4: Know some somebody had in their. PERSON i don't even remember.

1467
01:13:30,199 --> 01:13:32,239
WHY i just remember that was the.

1468
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:36,399
Speaker 1: Worst. Uh any any fake? Name which job had the

1469
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:37,720
most fake? Names do you ever? See?

1470
01:13:37,800 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 3: Like, okay how about fake fake?

1471
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:42,640
Speaker 1: IDs fake?

1472
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:47,079
Speaker 4: IDs i didn't idealize BECAUSE i was never a bouncer

1473
01:13:48,159 --> 01:13:50,439
and either they had it or they didn't or they were.

1474
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:56,800
Friends so, no how ABOUT i used to in? College oh, yeah, Yeah.

1475
01:13:57,439 --> 01:14:00,760
Speaker 1: Remember my dad came To fisher and we chalked his

1476
01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:03,439
to be a senior citizen BECAUSE i think at the

1477
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:08,840
time he was forty five or forty. Four, uh what

1478
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:14,319
one had the most real bodily? Fluids, wow? BARTENDING i

1479
01:14:14,319 --> 01:14:16,760
would think bartending even over strip CLUB dj.

1480
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 4: Bodily fody fluid for fighting and shit like.

1481
01:14:19,479 --> 01:14:21,560
Speaker 1: That, NO i don mean farting and. Shit i'm just, saying,

1482
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:24,880
like you, know but we could make it disgusting and,

1483
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,359
dirty But i'm thinking you, Probably, YEAH i would.

1484
01:14:28,359 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 4: Think so that's never come up in conversation.

1485
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 1: Before but have you ever picked someone up in your

1486
01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:37,520
uber who later ended up at the bar or recognized

1487
01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:39,880
you from your days as a strip CLUB? Dj?

1488
01:14:43,319 --> 01:14:45,640
Speaker 4: Yes and, NO i picked up an ex husband of a.

1489
01:14:45,760 --> 01:14:49,359
Dancer really, YEAH i actually dropped him off OF. bTB

1490
01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:53,359
this is like three years. Ago no, shit, yeah talking

1491
01:14:53,399 --> 01:14:55,880
ABOUT i don't know how he got into strip clubs

1492
01:14:56,279 --> 01:14:59,840
DJing this, that and he, goes do you know such

1493
01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:02,119
a such A oh, yeah she was a fucking bitch

1494
01:15:03,079 --> 01:15:05,560
and he, goes, yeah that's my ex, wife like oh,

1495
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:09,720
Really and then we picked up his. Girlfriend then we

1496
01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:12,680
went to B. dB apparently she her his ex wife

1497
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,640
ex dancer moved out Of stay and became a. Nurse, okay,

1498
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:17,359
LIKE i HOPE i never get sick in the stake

1499
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:18,640
there's a box of.

1500
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:20,520
Speaker 3: Rocks well really, yeah.

1501
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:24,800
Speaker 1: Yeah it is amazing sometimes when you see somebody and, go,

1502
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:27,720
wow they really are. Dumb, yeah they are really.

1503
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:29,239
Speaker 4: DUMB i, mean if you can't make it up to

1504
01:15:29,319 --> 01:15:31,640
stage to take your clothes off and your leg to,

1505
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:33,680
that what are you going to do with the outside,

1506
01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:37,119
world you, know besides getting drunk and doing drugs and

1507
01:15:37,239 --> 01:15:40,600
god knows what just being? Irresponsible, yeah you know you

1508
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:44,399
have a five hour. Shift you know you can't make

1509
01:15:44,399 --> 01:15:46,479
it on time for, That well you would really do.

1510
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:50,239
Nothing you're you're dancing three? Times you hate?

1511
01:15:50,279 --> 01:15:53,000
Speaker 1: It you hate. It that's that's somebody who just doesn't

1512
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:53,600
really want to do.

1513
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:58,079
Speaker 4: It, well there's something, else but you're go on, stage

1514
01:15:58,119 --> 01:16:01,239
dance for three, songs go, down drink for forty five, minutes,

1515
01:16:01,279 --> 01:16:04,119
smooth get a lamp, dance maybe get free. DRINKS i

1516
01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:06,000
think they just have such a miserable.

1517
01:16:06,039 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 3: Life, yeah that's WHAT i.

1518
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:10,720
Speaker 1: Mean AND i think that misery carries, over you, know

1519
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:12,880
get the sad depressed.

1520
01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:17,600
Speaker 4: Strip, yeah that's the most. Sadness, WELL i don't.

1521
01:16:17,640 --> 01:16:18,479
Speaker 1: Know with uber, ing.

1522
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 4: That's a toss up.

1523
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:23,840
Speaker 1: Where you see the sadder, People oh, yeah yeah and

1524
01:16:23,880 --> 01:16:27,680
the people watching an uber sure Probably uber, now, yeah

1525
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:30,760
hearing some of the stories BECAUSE i don't, Forget i'm

1526
01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:34,880
picking him out from from parole on fits you picking

1527
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:35,600
out from.

1528
01:16:36,119 --> 01:16:40,520
Speaker 4: Rehab really, yeah and driving them to another. Rehab. Yeah

1529
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:42,800
well they're telling me their story of how they.

1530
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:46,199
Speaker 3: Work every day and it all fell.

1531
01:16:46,239 --> 01:16:51,399
Speaker 4: Apart, yeah oh, YEAH i remember taking a lady to.

1532
01:16:52,039 --> 01:16:56,479
PAROLE i. FORGET i think domestic abuse IF i pronounce

1533
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:59,640
them to domestic abuse and a couple of teeth mithing

1534
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:03,640
and uh YEAH i used to, hook But i'm doing better.

1535
01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:05,600
NOW i just got a fight with my, boyfriend so

1536
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:08,079
somebody had to call the cops and somebody had to.

1537
01:17:08,079 --> 01:17:11,039
Go SO i DECIDED i, go and we're working it, out, like.

1538
01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:15,159
Speaker 1: Oh, man you hate seeing that stuff because you, go.

1539
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 4: You would have more stories for your. Podcast Just uber

1540
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,640
a couple of. MONTHS i don't want To, UBER i,

1541
01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:23,119
know you know you can't go out Of, fairport can't

1542
01:17:23,119 --> 01:17:23,439
break the.

1543
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:25,479
Speaker 1: Show, NO i got another.

1544
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:26,800
Speaker 3: Things BUT i would ride with you for a.

1545
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:28,560
Speaker 4: DAY i don't know if you could do. THAT i

1546
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:31,720
don't think you, can but that would be. Interesting this

1547
01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:35,119
is my blind Brother. BILL i gotta keep them with.

1548
01:17:35,159 --> 01:17:40,800
Me we would we would just drive down The gates

1549
01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:43,960
motel and we to get ubered and there you but.

1550
01:17:43,920 --> 01:17:48,119
Speaker 1: See that that stuff, too is like there's a part

1551
01:17:48,159 --> 01:17:52,600
of me That i'm very curious about. PEOPLE i always

1552
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:57,920
wonder LIKE i wasn't interested in the, stripper but how

1553
01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:00,840
the stripper ended up? THERE i like. THIS i want to.

1554
01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:04,359
KNOW i think everybody has, story AND i think everybody

1555
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:06,720
wants to be heard in. Life that was always one

1556
01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:08,359
of the THINGS i thought on the, radio was, LIKE

1557
01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:10,359
i know people want to be, heard so.

1558
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:12,680
Speaker 4: Well that's what's a wonderful bob. TikTok you can take

1559
01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:16,159
a fifteen second video of, yourself upload it and if

1560
01:18:16,159 --> 01:18:19,359
you get a couple likes kind of. Popular, sure but.

1561
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:22,279
Speaker 1: SURE i realized early, on like WHEN i was doing

1562
01:18:22,319 --> 01:18:27,479
overnights In poughkeepsie AND i would get these calls every

1563
01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:30,039
night from sometimes the same. People you realize people just

1564
01:18:30,079 --> 01:18:32,520
want to be heard they're very lonely and they're just

1565
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:37,560
looking for. Connection you, know yesterday something came out about

1566
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:42,439
only fans and the number one only fans threat to

1567
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:44,960
marriages is this twenty two year old girl Named rain

1568
01:18:45,319 --> 01:18:48,359
who is a virgin and does not get New she

1569
01:18:48,399 --> 01:18:52,560
gets down to. Lingerie she does make, guys she makes

1570
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:56,479
millions a. YEAR i, really IF i Hope i'm not.

1571
01:18:56,520 --> 01:19:00,520
EXAGGERATING i THOUGHT i saw twenty three, million but she

1572
01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:03,520
said a lot of it is guys just wanting to,

1573
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:07,319
talk make a. Connection how was your? Day and it's married,

1574
01:19:07,399 --> 01:19:10,640
guys and you, go, man that's fucked. Up Denise richards

1575
01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:14,079
is like the number two. Threat she just got. Divorced

1576
01:19:14,279 --> 01:19:17,079
AND i thought to my son again, again BUT i,

1577
01:19:17,119 --> 01:19:20,399
go how, like if You're Denise richards and her husband's forty,

1578
01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:22,039
NINE i think she's fifty, six a little bit.

1579
01:19:22,039 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 3: Older she made all the.

1580
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: MONEY i think she was making two hundred and fifty

1581
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:29,199
thousand a month off of. OnlyFans i don't know that

1582
01:19:29,239 --> 01:19:34,119
she's doing anything like extremely like you can have people

1583
01:19:34,199 --> 01:19:36,159
having sex on. THERE i don't think she, is BUT

1584
01:19:36,239 --> 01:19:39,640
i think she's doing that same connection. Thing it is

1585
01:19:39,399 --> 01:19:42,720
is emotional. Cheating the new lap dance in a way

1586
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:44,600
you know where wives would.

1587
01:19:44,600 --> 01:19:47,880
Speaker 4: Go that's what that's one of the things about strip.

1588
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:50,720
Clubs your husband is. Safe these girls are not going

1589
01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:52,600
home with. Them, no they've got a boyfriend at home

1590
01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:54,960
with a cocaine problem or three kids they got to go.

1591
01:19:55,039 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 1: Feed they just want to come and talk to a pretty. Girl,

1592
01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:00,960
Right but why is? That what are you not doing

1593
01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:01,840
on your end to keep?

1594
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:07,600
Speaker 4: Fantasy, yeah it's fantasy somewhat, control you, know you, know

1595
01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:10,279
we'll have the lamp dance WHEN i, say and you,

1596
01:20:10,319 --> 01:20:14,560
know Especially i've seen some perverts in my time role

1597
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:17,960
as a called and, uh just they want to try

1598
01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:20,079
to control the girl because they have no girl in their,

1599
01:20:20,079 --> 01:20:23,159
life no. Girlfriend nobody's gonna bang, them sleep with them

1600
01:20:23,159 --> 01:20:31,000
without cash. Advance so well, seriously, yeah so they can

1601
01:20:31,079 --> 01:20:34,479
talk to them and, uh they'll they'll like put the

1602
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:36,520
character in front of the donkey kind of, thing, like you,

1603
01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:38,079
know hang with me for a, while then will go

1604
01:20:38,159 --> 01:20:38,600
get the lamp.

1605
01:20:38,680 --> 01:20:38,880
Speaker 1: Dance.

1606
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 4: Right you, know they're gonna spend their, money so you

1607
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:42,560
got to put your time and, effort you, know for,

1608
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:45,760
conversation make them feel kind of. Special, yeah it's.

1609
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:48,640
Speaker 1: Weird and then someone probably got bad breath and stuff at,

1610
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:51,960
least and only. Fans you don't have to smell, it, right, Serious,

1611
01:20:52,079 --> 01:20:52,800
yeah that's all you.

1612
01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:56,279
Speaker 4: WANT i told. YOU i looked at a documentary on.

1613
01:20:56,319 --> 01:20:59,880
That the girl that Played adirana and The, sopranos she, has,

1614
01:21:00,119 --> 01:21:03,760
yeah she. Has and every day she's trying to different,

1615
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:06,600
outfits different, look different. Pictures and that's what they're all

1616
01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:08,439
trying to. Do at one, point they're all going to

1617
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:11,079
be next to a washing machine with SuDS over their

1618
01:21:11,239 --> 01:21:15,159
top or. Something you. Know the guy from there was

1619
01:21:15,199 --> 01:21:21,520
a young star From. Disney he's doing it Really, yeah he's, Explicit,

1620
01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:25,079
yeah they said the Documentary Denise richards was. On there

1621
01:21:25,119 --> 01:21:29,399
a few others THAT i not. EXPLICIT i think a gold,

1622
01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:32,760
Medalist but, okay so what female gold?

1623
01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:34,319
Speaker 1: Medalist would it be hard for you to be in

1624
01:21:34,359 --> 01:21:38,159
a relationship with somebody who did only, fans not, explicit

1625
01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:43,159
but would HAVE i think almost becomes the emotional support,

1626
01:21:43,199 --> 01:21:45,399
animals so to, speak of the Other.

1627
01:21:45,800 --> 01:21:47,399
Speaker 4: The only THING i see with them in the same

1628
01:21:47,439 --> 01:21:50,039
way with women from strip. Clubs if you're talking all

1629
01:21:50,159 --> 01:21:54,239
day and you're you're you're involved in conversation with this,

1630
01:21:54,279 --> 01:21:56,119
guy and then this guy pages and this. Guy by

1631
01:21:56,119 --> 01:21:57,520
the time you're, done you don't want to talk to,

1632
01:21:57,520 --> 01:22:01,000
anybody and that keeps it tough having. Conversations the same

1633
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,760
way with the, girls they've been being touched and found

1634
01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:05,640
out all. Day you, know they go home to their.

1635
01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:07,920
Man you, know he's ready for Saman she's, like oh,

1636
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:10,520
NO I i just came from, that, right you. Know

1637
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:12,520
so that was one of the big breakup points.

1638
01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:15,199
Speaker 1: Too oh you? Sure you? Know?

1639
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:17,840
Speaker 3: YEAH i just think like a lot of, times if

1640
01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:18,479
you can.

1641
01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:22,039
Speaker 1: Not THAT i would know how to keep a relationship, alive,

1642
01:22:22,159 --> 01:22:23,640
certainly BUT i, yeah.

1643
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:24,479
Speaker 4: A relationship for twenty one.

1644
01:22:24,560 --> 01:22:28,399
Speaker 1: Years, yeah, YEAH i think that a lot of. Times

1645
01:22:28,399 --> 01:22:33,399
you need, to uh listen, right let the other person

1646
01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:36,880
to get hurt last, month just, Listen, yeah just say. Anything,

1647
01:22:37,039 --> 01:22:40,079
Yeah i'm just spill, everything build. Out you don't have

1648
01:22:40,119 --> 01:22:40,359
to say a.

1649
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:42,119
Speaker 4: Word takes care of, everything.

1650
01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:44,479
Speaker 1: And then you get to and then and also little

1651
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:47,560
surprises and. Things you. Know absolutely these date, IDEAS i,

1652
01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:50,359
mean take some of those first date ideas and do

1653
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:53,159
it with your, wife dry each other in a, park you,

1654
01:22:53,199 --> 01:22:55,920
know while doing shots of fireball could be really. FUNNY

1655
01:22:56,159 --> 01:22:58,439
i have to add alcohol to. Everything it just spices everything.

1656
01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 3: Up that's All i'm. Saying it just DOES i have

1657
01:23:01,039 --> 01:23:01,880
one last question for.

1658
01:23:01,920 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 1: You go, ahead. Buddy if your resume were a, porno,

1659
01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:09,279
okay what'd be Called cocktails And carpool The Ride Chair,

1660
01:23:09,359 --> 01:23:15,479
DIARIES Dj Daddy's Dirty beats or DJ's Daddy's Dirty. Beats

1661
01:23:15,479 --> 01:23:16,119
which one would it?

1662
01:23:16,159 --> 01:23:17,359
Speaker 4: Be, wait there's two or?

1663
01:23:17,399 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 1: THREE i have Two cocktails And carpool The Ride Chair

1664
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:25,359
diaries OR Dj Daddy's Dirty.

1665
01:23:25,359 --> 01:23:27,920
Speaker 4: BEATS i think at this point in my, LIFE i

1666
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:28,600
gotta go with.

1667
01:23:28,520 --> 01:23:29,359
Speaker 1: THE Dj Dirty.

1668
01:23:29,399 --> 01:23:32,680
Speaker 4: Beats. YEAH i haven't had any dirtiness of the uber.

1669
01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:35,640
Speaker 1: Yet oh, okay very.

1670
01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:40,239
Speaker 4: Good and there's been a few women that. WELL i

1671
01:23:40,239 --> 01:23:41,239
told you the fruit roll up.

1672
01:23:41,279 --> 01:23:42,239
Speaker 1: Story what?

1673
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:44,359
Speaker 4: HUH i told. You this was a couple of years.

1674
01:23:44,399 --> 01:23:47,039
AGO i picked up a lady in a. Round she

1675
01:23:47,079 --> 01:23:49,119
said she had sex in a. While i'm, like is

1676
01:23:49,159 --> 01:23:51,520
there anything especially you? Do and she goes. Yeah WHEN

1677
01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:53,319
i go down on, it, MAN i wrap this thing

1678
01:23:53,399 --> 01:23:56,640
up with a fruit roll. Up AND i was coming

1679
01:23:56,680 --> 01:23:59,039
here AND i remember it was. RAINING i know it

1680
01:23:59,079 --> 01:24:04,680
was In. RONEKOIN i remember. Her her her name was

1681
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:11,000
a one letter syllable LIKE, abc one of those twenty

1682
01:24:11,039 --> 01:24:13,600
six letters that was her, name But i'm not gonna say,

1683
01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:16,840
it but, yeah that was kind of. Exciting And i'm,

1684
01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:20,119
like she goes AND i think something might could, happen

1685
01:24:20,239 --> 01:24:22,119
or she was out of fruit roll ups or, something

1686
01:24:22,119 --> 01:24:24,359
And i'm flirting And i'm, like you know, What and

1687
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:26,079
this is What i've said the past few. Years i'm,

1688
01:24:26,079 --> 01:24:30,479
like if if our past cross, again then maybe it

1689
01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:32,840
was meant to. Be until, then every great day she, Goes,

1690
01:24:32,880 --> 01:24:35,000
Okay i'll see you, again. Baby i'm, LIKE i hope.

1691
01:24:35,039 --> 01:24:37,359
So AND i never saw her. Again. WOW i have

1692
01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:40,520
picked up a couple of women. Twice but the fruit roll?

1693
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:42,760
Up fruit roll? Up how do you not want to?

1694
01:24:42,800 --> 01:24:43,640
Speaker 1: Try? That is a?

1695
01:24:43,680 --> 01:24:45,560
Speaker 4: Freak SEE ai doesn't come up with.

1696
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:52,079
Speaker 1: It now we need PERVERTED. Ai. Perverted there you, go PERVERTED.

1697
01:24:52,119 --> 01:24:53,039
Ai that's what we.

1698
01:24:53,079 --> 01:24:56,520
Speaker 4: Need Bill, Gates Bill, Moran, YEAH i think Perverted. MICROSOFT

1699
01:24:56,680 --> 01:24:56,960
i like.

1700
01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:58,640
Speaker 1: IT i like. It, yeah micro.

1701
01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:01,680
Speaker 4: Freak we don't give you the chicken will give you the, feathers.

1702
01:25:01,359 --> 01:25:05,920
Speaker 1: Micro hard Not Microsoft, MICA i uh give me the chickens.

1703
01:25:06,119 --> 01:25:10,640
Feathers that's a great. IDEA i think you.

1704
01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:11,439
Speaker 4: Want to go buy fruit roll?

1705
01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:11,680
Speaker 1: Ups?

1706
01:25:11,720 --> 01:25:11,920
Speaker 4: Right?

1707
01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:16,640
Speaker 1: Uh? YEAH i mean NORMALLY i wouldn't at, all be

1708
01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:18,840
honest with. You i've never had never a big fan

1709
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:22,760
of fruit roll. Up you never. Know, Yeah i'm not

1710
01:25:22,760 --> 01:25:23,279
the one eating.

1711
01:25:23,319 --> 01:25:26,039
Speaker 4: It, yeah don't knock it till you're trying. It want

1712
01:25:26,039 --> 01:25:28,079
to cut them down a little. Bit maybe they just

1713
01:25:28,239 --> 01:25:29,720
wrap around two streets makes, it you?

1714
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 1: Know?

1715
01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:33,159
Speaker 4: Purple, yeah, strawberry it could be good.

1716
01:25:33,319 --> 01:25:36,079
Speaker 1: Cherry oh, well it's like like we were not fat.

1717
01:25:36,159 --> 01:25:38,159
ENOUGH i saw this. Today JUST i just have to

1718
01:25:38,159 --> 01:25:40,439
add this because we're talking about food and fruit. Ups

1719
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:45,039
they're they're coming out with cinnamon, toast, crunch. Bacon that's

1720
01:25:45,039 --> 01:25:47,159
why the world do you understand if we don't have

1721
01:25:47,159 --> 01:25:50,359
the cure for, that but we're gonna add fucking bacon

1722
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:55,479
because we're not fat? Enough, Right, sorry all, right well

1723
01:25:55,319 --> 01:25:59,159
we'll wrap it. Up she was so, Fat, yes how

1724
01:25:59,199 --> 01:25:59,600
fat was?

1725
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:01,560
Speaker 4: She i'm under The macy's, Day. Praye she was wearing.

1726
01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:03,319
Speaker 1: Ropes she was a big.

1727
01:26:03,359 --> 01:26:05,960
Speaker 4: Girl when guys had sex with, her she got to ask.

1728
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:07,479
Directions i'm talking.

1729
01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:09,920
Speaker 3: Fat, yeah, yeah you go. Down you have to bring

1730
01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:10,239
a doggy.

1731
01:26:10,279 --> 01:26:14,039
Speaker 4: BACK i tell, you got to bring a. Ladder she

1732
01:26:14,079 --> 01:26:16,880
wears high. Heels she strikes. Oil, OH i tell you it's.

1733
01:26:16,720 --> 01:26:24,640
Speaker 1: Tough For dougie fresh shoo every what's happening to my?

1734
01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:27,840
World but hopefully see.

1735
01:26:27,920 --> 01:26:38,520
Speaker 2: TOMORROW i woke up in the, hotel didn't know what to.

1736
01:26:38,600 --> 01:26:41,319
Do i'm turning A. Tv won't rule a letder to,

1737
01:26:41,439 --> 01:26:43,000
you stoking by

1738
01:26:43,079 --> 01:26:44,720
Speaker 1: The deadnet about the years