WEBVTT 1 00:00:14.960 --> 00:00:19.199 I found this article about a thirty four year old 2 00:00:19.199 --> 00:00:24.079 woman who says that she's never. 3 00:00:25.519 --> 00:00:28.480 Had sex. She is a thirty four year old version. 4 00:00:28.559 --> 00:00:31.440 Wow thirty four okay wow. 5 00:00:31.920 --> 00:00:38.840 Not only that she's never had a boyfriend, worried for 6 00:00:39.000 --> 00:00:42.520 a girl she is not, She's not cute, she's not 7 00:00:42.600 --> 00:00:43.679 ugly at all. 8 00:00:44.679 --> 00:00:51.200 She says that her abstinence gives her a benefit that 9 00:00:51.320 --> 00:00:53.719 other woman her age don't have. She's free from the 10 00:00:53.759 --> 00:00:56.600 emotional trauma or baggage from past relationships. 11 00:00:56.719 --> 00:00:59.479 That is true, and. 12 00:00:59.840 --> 00:01:03.159 She says that she can't It's a really funny quote 13 00:01:04.079 --> 00:01:06.359 that I thought you guys would get a kick out of. 14 00:01:07.680 --> 00:01:10.920 She says that it allows her to. 15 00:01:11.879 --> 00:01:19.840 Travel because she's not bogged down by the dick. Yeah kidding. 16 00:01:20.840 --> 00:01:26.319 I guess all right, I can't go with you to Florida. 17 00:01:26.400 --> 00:01:28.319 Why because I gotta get that cac. 18 00:01:29.280 --> 00:01:31.599 I didn't set out in my life, in my life 19 00:01:31.719 --> 00:01:34.040 to be thirty four year old virgin. But dating has 20 00:01:34.079 --> 00:01:37.359 never been a priority for me. She says she doesn't 21 00:01:37.359 --> 00:01:41.519 experience attraction very often, and while she's open to the 22 00:01:41.519 --> 00:01:43.879 prospect of having a long term partner, she isn't interested 23 00:01:43.920 --> 00:01:45.920 in tying the knot or having children. 24 00:01:49.079 --> 00:01:49.439 Okay. 25 00:01:50.760 --> 00:01:53.719 Some people are wired that way where they don't need 26 00:01:53.799 --> 00:01:58.920 companionship or a relationship or the need for second But 27 00:01:58.959 --> 00:02:00.879 I guess at the same if you can ever had sex. 28 00:02:00.640 --> 00:02:03.000 Than you wouldn't there would be no need for it. 29 00:02:03.159 --> 00:02:05.719 You've never experienced it before, you don't know what it's like, 30 00:02:06.280 --> 00:02:09.159 so therefore it's nothing. It's a nothing burger, as you 31 00:02:09.159 --> 00:02:11.879 would put it. I mean, I have a couple serious quoes. 32 00:02:11.960 --> 00:02:13.360 You've never experienced intimacy? 33 00:02:13.800 --> 00:02:15.919 Oh, what is fine? You have an had sex? Do 34 00:02:15.960 --> 00:02:17.000 you experience intimacy? 35 00:02:17.240 --> 00:02:17.520 Right? 36 00:02:18.280 --> 00:02:22.280 What is your definition of intimacy? You've never had a 37 00:02:22.319 --> 00:02:23.159 long kiss? 38 00:02:23.439 --> 00:02:24.759 Right? You never? 39 00:02:24.840 --> 00:02:29.800 Apparently she has had It's there are people that don't 40 00:02:30.039 --> 00:02:34.039 see other people and get butterflies in their stomach. Yeah, 41 00:02:34.159 --> 00:02:36.319 there are people that don't feel the need to have children. 42 00:02:36.360 --> 00:02:41.520 I get all that, but to never have like you 43 00:02:41.560 --> 00:02:45.479 don't want? Are you protecting yourself? 44 00:02:45.680 --> 00:02:48.199 Yeah, Sames a little weird. Seems odd. 45 00:02:49.360 --> 00:02:51.479 You would think at thirty four years old she would 46 00:02:51.520 --> 00:02:54.639 have had some kind of action. I don't know, maybe 47 00:02:54.680 --> 00:02:57.800 there was some kind of trauma earlier in life, but 48 00:02:57.879 --> 00:02:59.680 you think that would be mentioned in the article though. 49 00:02:59.759 --> 00:03:03.360 Yeah, if she's aware of it and is honest about it, right. 50 00:03:04.080 --> 00:03:06.840 She says she's waiting for the perfect person, explaining that 51 00:03:06.879 --> 00:03:10.360 she needs a strong emotional and spiritual connection with a 52 00:03:10.400 --> 00:03:13.159 man in order to be physical, something she has yet 53 00:03:13.199 --> 00:03:15.680 to find. You will not find the perfect person, Oh no, No, I. 54 00:03:15.680 --> 00:03:19.120 Don't think she's probably even put herself out there enough 55 00:03:19.120 --> 00:03:22.280 to find that person or given someone a chance. 56 00:03:22.439 --> 00:03:24.759 Yeah, you got to go on a date, exactly sure. 57 00:03:25.240 --> 00:03:29.400 I believe having casual sex is more emotionally damaging than 58 00:03:29.400 --> 00:03:32.159 people would like to think. And there's nothing about that 59 00:03:32.199 --> 00:03:35.319 way of life that appeals to me. How would you 60 00:03:35.360 --> 00:03:38.000 know that you've never had sex of any kind, casual 61 00:03:38.159 --> 00:03:38.599 or formal. 62 00:03:38.680 --> 00:03:41.159 I've never murdered anybody, But I feel pretty confident in 63 00:03:41.199 --> 00:03:43.719 my standing that it's gonna hurt, like it's gonna be 64 00:03:43.719 --> 00:03:44.599 hard for you to deal with. 65 00:03:45.479 --> 00:03:46.680 Maybe, so I don't think. 66 00:03:46.800 --> 00:03:49.439 I don't think you necessarily have to go through something 67 00:03:49.639 --> 00:03:50.520 to understand it. 68 00:03:51.599 --> 00:03:53.199 Maybe I don't know about that. 69 00:03:53.360 --> 00:03:56.960 I don't know, because maybe you know some people you know, 70 00:03:57.319 --> 00:04:00.439 and that's how you get serial killers, right, They joy 71 00:04:00.520 --> 00:04:02.240 that feel that rush or whatever. 72 00:04:02.400 --> 00:04:05.439 Maybe being pegged to something you would enjoy, maybe, so well, 73 00:04:05.520 --> 00:04:06.919 least try it and find out I'd hit for you 74 00:04:06.960 --> 00:04:07.680 to miss out on something. 75 00:04:08.199 --> 00:04:10.159 You know, I think you've got a couple of weeks 76 00:04:10.159 --> 00:04:14.639 coming up and take off you going to Man, I'm 77 00:04:14.639 --> 00:04:16.720 just gonna I'm gonna get that one with the suction cup, 78 00:04:16.879 --> 00:04:18.199 you know, and just stick it to the wall and 79 00:04:18.720 --> 00:04:20.279 just go get myself the business. 80 00:04:20.360 --> 00:04:21.600 Yeah. 81 00:04:21.720 --> 00:04:23.639 I'm just saying that that statement of you don't know 82 00:04:23.720 --> 00:04:25.879 until you try it can go across many platforms that 83 00:04:25.920 --> 00:04:28.199 I think we would all go absolutely. 84 00:04:28.360 --> 00:04:30.560 But here's the thing. I'm not attracted to a dick 85 00:04:30.600 --> 00:04:31.319 in the ass. 86 00:04:31.800 --> 00:04:33.680 You don't know that you've never had it? 87 00:04:34.079 --> 00:04:37.120 You were, you were absolutely right, But the male genitalia 88 00:04:37.279 --> 00:04:37.639 does not. 89 00:04:37.800 --> 00:04:39.600 I don't look at it and say I need that 90 00:04:39.639 --> 00:04:41.560 in my life. But you've never. 91 00:04:43.240 --> 00:04:46.120 Who hasn't had a finger in especially you haven't gotten 92 00:04:46.120 --> 00:04:48.920 your prostate check to No, should probably do that, bro. No, 93 00:04:49.160 --> 00:04:51.439 it's that you're at that age you should know. If 94 00:04:51.439 --> 00:04:52.920 a doctor doesn't, it's okay. 95 00:04:53.000 --> 00:04:55.399 But if you get you know, you know Frank from 96 00:04:55.480 --> 00:04:57.720 Downling Road to do it, it's totally different. 97 00:04:57.839 --> 00:04:59.279 No offense, I'm gonna. 98 00:04:59.040 --> 00:05:01.399 Trust my doctor and not you when it comes to 99 00:05:01.439 --> 00:05:02.560 medical recommendations. 100 00:05:03.439 --> 00:05:05.439 I'm just saying I'm gonna get in there. I've never 101 00:05:05.839 --> 00:05:07.639 had a person's finger in my butt hole. 102 00:05:07.720 --> 00:05:09.920 Yeah, but I don't. I don't look at the. 103 00:05:09.879 --> 00:05:13.000 Male genitay and be like, yes, that looks attractive. You know, 104 00:05:13.160 --> 00:05:17.879 I'm I need that. No, No, but I think people 105 00:05:17.879 --> 00:05:20.079 who you know are they probably do. 106 00:05:20.279 --> 00:05:20.720 I don't know. 107 00:05:20.959 --> 00:05:24.600 It's not my bag. It's not my bag, man, I've 108 00:05:24.639 --> 00:05:27.560 said it before. You like French toast, Someone's gonna make 109 00:05:27.600 --> 00:05:30.600 French toast any morning. If you want someone who's spiritually 110 00:05:30.720 --> 00:05:33.519 connected and emotionally in all these boxes, you need check 111 00:05:33.600 --> 00:05:37.519 before you'll even adventure. Nobody says you gotta get married, right. 112 00:05:39.079 --> 00:05:41.000 I don't know if I feel sorry for it, but 113 00:05:41.040 --> 00:05:43.600 I think you may be doing a disservice to yourself. 114 00:05:44.439 --> 00:05:46.439 I would agree. I think there's some. 115 00:05:47.279 --> 00:05:49.680 Being vulnerable is a huge attribute, but I don't take 116 00:05:49.759 --> 00:05:51.000 enough people embrace. 117 00:05:52.519 --> 00:05:52.639 You. 118 00:05:52.759 --> 00:05:54.879 Might you might find someone who's none of those things 119 00:05:54.879 --> 00:05:59.720 that enhances your life dramatically. Right, you've been so perf 120 00:05:59.759 --> 00:06:02.639 you all these perfect things. You might find someone who's 121 00:06:02.680 --> 00:06:04.279 not and might open you up to things you would 122 00:06:04.279 --> 00:06:06.759 have never knew where possible. Right, Because you've got to 123 00:06:06.759 --> 00:06:08.480 stay on your schedule. At three fifteen, you need to 124 00:06:08.519 --> 00:06:09.160 leave or whatever. 125 00:06:11.480 --> 00:06:12.120 Thirty four. 126 00:06:12.480 --> 00:06:16.240 Yeah, and not like intentional. I mean, she says, by 127 00:06:16.240 --> 00:06:22.399 her words, not intentional, not intentional. I feel like it 128 00:06:22.439 --> 00:06:23.800 is intentional. 129 00:06:23.240 --> 00:06:25.920 Because she is a fairly attractive woman, and I'm sure 130 00:06:25.920 --> 00:06:27.839 she's been hit on many of times and been asked 131 00:06:27.839 --> 00:06:31.000 out on many of dates, you know, many times, and 132 00:06:31.519 --> 00:06:34.560 in any time that that question gets asked, Hey, would 133 00:06:34.560 --> 00:06:36.519 you like to go out for some coffee or maybe 134 00:06:36.519 --> 00:06:39.839 dinner in a movie? You know, she says no. So 135 00:06:39.920 --> 00:06:44.519 that is intentional. It's one hundred percent intentional. 136 00:06:43.959 --> 00:06:46.360 But not intentional, the intent not being I want to 137 00:06:46.360 --> 00:06:49.000 be celibate, the intent being I need this perfect person, 138 00:06:49.160 --> 00:06:53.040 right right, You don't appeal to me because you have 139 00:06:53.759 --> 00:06:55.720 gray sox on it and I need white sox. 140 00:06:55.879 --> 00:06:57.839 There's probably a lot of fun at parties. 141 00:06:59.519 --> 00:07:01.079 Right Yeah. 142 00:07:01.199 --> 00:07:03.040 I was gonna throw a cliche because I was looking 143 00:07:03.040 --> 00:07:09.040 at her Instagram and she does that that what's those 144 00:07:10.160 --> 00:07:13.639 when they tie the fabric to the ceiling and you 145 00:07:13.680 --> 00:07:16.480 swing around You know what I'm talking about? 146 00:07:17.000 --> 00:07:17.240 No? 147 00:07:17.600 --> 00:07:18.560 Oh, yes you do? 148 00:07:18.759 --> 00:07:20.480 Oh yeah, ballet. 149 00:07:20.879 --> 00:07:21.639 It's not ballet. 150 00:07:21.839 --> 00:07:22.959 But that's not ballet. 151 00:07:23.199 --> 00:07:24.480 No, it's. 152 00:07:25.639 --> 00:07:27.319 Is this like where you get tied up with ropes? 153 00:07:27.360 --> 00:07:29.519 And suspended bar. 154 00:07:29.920 --> 00:07:33.639 Nope, that's not bar. It's not bar. 155 00:07:34.519 --> 00:07:38.759 It's like fabric hanging from the ceiling and you see 156 00:07:38.800 --> 00:07:41.839 people like swing on it and do all that. 157 00:07:43.240 --> 00:07:44.120 Kind of like pole dancing. 158 00:07:44.160 --> 00:07:52.839 Almost cats, aerial silks okay, also known as aerial fabric, 159 00:07:52.879 --> 00:07:54.800 aerial tissue, aerial ribbon. 160 00:07:57.800 --> 00:08:00.399 Yeah, okay, yeah, good you. 161 00:08:02.319 --> 00:08:03.439 She's so she's limber. 162 00:08:04.720 --> 00:08:06.879 Well, maybe look at her cat. 163 00:08:06.879 --> 00:08:08.639 There you go. I told you she has a fucking cat. 164 00:08:08.680 --> 00:08:10.360 I told you a hairless cat. At that. 165 00:08:10.879 --> 00:08:14.560 Yeah, I mean if you have a allergy, she's holding 166 00:08:14.560 --> 00:08:23.279 her bald pussy. Yeah, I mean yeah, if that's your thing, 167 00:08:23.480 --> 00:08:26.480 go for it. Yeah, But why wrap it up on 168 00:08:26.519 --> 00:08:27.879 all these things rather than just like I haven't found 169 00:08:27.920 --> 00:08:28.560 the person yet. 170 00:08:28.879 --> 00:08:32.360 Mm hm, exactly, because it would be a very short 171 00:08:32.480 --> 00:08:33.759 article at that point in time. 172 00:08:34.120 --> 00:08:36.240 Does it hold true so easy to say I'm a prude? 173 00:08:36.440 --> 00:08:37.360 Rough right? 174 00:08:38.879 --> 00:08:41.840 Does it hold true that you like guys who have 175 00:08:41.919 --> 00:08:43.759 sex with that first person they're like, I got to 176 00:08:43.799 --> 00:08:44.440 marry this person. 177 00:08:44.440 --> 00:08:45.600 Does that hold true with women too? 178 00:08:46.799 --> 00:08:48.600 Fall in love with the first person you had sex with? 179 00:08:48.759 --> 00:08:52.159 Yeah, okay, that's fair. Does that happen with women too? 180 00:08:52.960 --> 00:08:55.200 Do women say that, like, no, no, no. 181 00:08:54.879 --> 00:08:55.720 No, no, no, no, no no. 182 00:08:56.440 --> 00:09:00.000 There's an underlying joke or cliche that men who never 183 00:09:00.120 --> 00:09:01.879 have sex and then finally have sex with someone, they're like, 184 00:09:01.919 --> 00:09:02.639 I got a marrier. 185 00:09:03.720 --> 00:09:06.720 Do women fall into that trap too? 186 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:09.960 I think so, yeah, I wouldn't make it so yeah, 187 00:09:10.440 --> 00:09:11.799 it goes both ways. 188 00:09:11.919 --> 00:09:13.519 It's the first dick you've ever had, You're like, this 189 00:09:13.600 --> 00:09:14.559 is amazing. 190 00:09:14.639 --> 00:09:17.240 Yeah, you know, and you want to have that dick forever. 191 00:09:17.279 --> 00:09:19.080 And we'll come to find out that dick is attached 192 00:09:19.080 --> 00:09:24.840 to an asshole. That makes sense, Yeah, hell are everything 193 00:09:24.919 --> 00:09:29.360 is asshole personality, not asshole physical actual I feel like. 194 00:09:29.360 --> 00:09:35.360 That's probably why. I mean, I think most girls when 195 00:09:35.360 --> 00:09:38.360 they lose their virginity, they're like, oh, I wish I 196 00:09:38.360 --> 00:09:39.960 could take it back. 197 00:09:41.759 --> 00:09:43.840 I mean, I think I'll be honest, I think I 198 00:09:43.840 --> 00:09:45.639 wish I would I could take it back mine. 199 00:09:47.360 --> 00:09:49.080 But to be honest, also got it out. 200 00:09:49.000 --> 00:09:53.600 Of the way for real, for real, instead of waiting 201 00:09:53.679 --> 00:09:57.559 until you're in your twenties thirties and then falling in. 202 00:09:57.440 --> 00:09:58.320 Love with some slag. 203 00:09:59.320 --> 00:10:00.960 Not that you can't be happy, but I do think 204 00:10:01.000 --> 00:10:04.200 she's behind the curve in relationships. 205 00:10:03.919 --> 00:10:06.039 Absolutely and a lot of things. 206 00:10:06.039 --> 00:10:09.679 Man, It's been proven that you know, later in life 207 00:10:09.919 --> 00:10:13.039 you have kids, the more chances of those kids coming 208 00:10:13.080 --> 00:10:17.919 out fucked up. Okay, whether it be you know, severe 209 00:10:19.159 --> 00:10:21.240 mental disabilities or whatever. 210 00:10:21.279 --> 00:10:24.960 I think that's like extreme older like fifty or sixty. 211 00:10:25.399 --> 00:10:28.559 Uh yeah, I read it. It was like in your thirties. 212 00:10:28.799 --> 00:10:29.919 You know, in your thirties. 213 00:10:29.960 --> 00:10:32.360 It really makes huge change late forties. 214 00:10:32.919 --> 00:10:36.720 But also it depends on your overall health too. And 215 00:10:36.759 --> 00:10:38.080 she looks pretty damn healthy. 216 00:10:39.159 --> 00:10:40.840 Maybe I don't know how you could tell that. 217 00:10:41.559 --> 00:10:43.039 I mean, she looks physically fit. 218 00:10:43.279 --> 00:10:46.399 No, she doesn't. She looks like a normal human. She 219 00:10:46.440 --> 00:10:48.639 doesn't look like she's got a six pack and works out. 220 00:10:48.679 --> 00:10:53.159 And I mean she's holding onto a damn rope doing 221 00:10:53.279 --> 00:10:55.639 flips in the air in a class. 222 00:10:55.879 --> 00:10:59.919 Yeah, that doesn't make you physically agile. One class would 223 00:11:00.000 --> 00:11:00.759 hardly warrant. 224 00:11:01.440 --> 00:11:05.080 You're physically fit. You're clearly adventurous. You clearly don't need 225 00:11:05.080 --> 00:11:06.559 a safety net. 226 00:11:06.919 --> 00:11:07.399 And that. 227 00:11:10.639 --> 00:11:12.879 I know plenty of people who don't look physically fit 228 00:11:13.080 --> 00:11:16.440 that are incredibly physically fit, So you cannot gauge that 229 00:11:16.559 --> 00:11:20.200 just by their looks. Some of the best fighters in 230 00:11:20.240 --> 00:11:25.600 the UFC look like they would destroy a donut buffet, 231 00:11:26.759 --> 00:11:29.759 and you wouldn't be able to catch them or they 232 00:11:29.759 --> 00:11:32.879 wouldn't be able to catch you in a run, So 233 00:11:32.919 --> 00:11:35.080 that I don't think that that's a fair assumption at all. 234 00:11:35.120 --> 00:11:38.600 How about this stat sixty nine a freshmen sixty percent 235 00:11:39.039 --> 00:11:42.080 freshman class entered college as virgins. 236 00:11:42.960 --> 00:11:46.559 Good for them, a bunch of nerds. 237 00:11:47.720 --> 00:11:49.840 Why good for them? 238 00:11:51.679 --> 00:12:01.120 I well, because they're young still and they're maybe saving themselves. 239 00:12:00.440 --> 00:12:02.960 For You said good for them, So I'm why you 240 00:12:02.960 --> 00:12:04.080 think that's good. 241 00:12:05.200 --> 00:12:08.240 Well, as a mom of a young child, I'm like thinking, like, oh, 242 00:12:08.240 --> 00:12:11.320 there's still hope, that hopeful? What kid could go to 243 00:12:11.600 --> 00:12:12.080 College of. 244 00:12:12.240 --> 00:12:15.600 Virgin You tried pimping out your kid to somebody else's 245 00:12:15.679 --> 00:12:18.159 daughter over that. 246 00:12:18.200 --> 00:12:21.879 Is a fear that you're that your kid could knock 247 00:12:21.960 --> 00:12:24.080 somebody up at a young age. 248 00:12:24.080 --> 00:12:25.000 That can happen at college. 249 00:12:25.120 --> 00:12:26.879 Absolutely, yeah, I know it could. 250 00:12:26.679 --> 00:12:29.120 But it seems but it's more it's more acceptable for 251 00:12:29.159 --> 00:12:30.399 you if it's at college. 252 00:12:30.399 --> 00:12:35.159 Because they're older. Yeah, I would hate for it to happen, 253 00:12:36.159 --> 00:12:39.759 but yeah older. They're definitely older and more mature. 254 00:12:40.399 --> 00:12:42.720 Ooh, I know thirty year ols did. 255 00:12:42.559 --> 00:12:43.200 Have kids in or not. 256 00:12:43.600 --> 00:12:46.919 Well, that is true, but they're definitely more mature in 257 00:12:47.000 --> 00:12:49.440 college than they are in high school, and they just. 258 00:12:51.440 --> 00:12:53.879 Spent their time focusing on their grades in school work 259 00:12:53.960 --> 00:12:56.759 as opposed to you know, a social life, you know, 260 00:12:56.840 --> 00:13:01.039 having a girlfriend or whatever. In college, I think it 261 00:13:01.080 --> 00:13:03.879 was definitely the most reckless I ever was, and I 262 00:13:03.879 --> 00:13:06.120 think most people that go to college fit that bill. 263 00:13:06.279 --> 00:13:08.120 What's those college years? That's why they call on those 264 00:13:08.159 --> 00:13:08.759 college years. 265 00:13:09.159 --> 00:13:12.360 You know, you're still learning, be reckless, be fucking bulletproof, 266 00:13:12.399 --> 00:13:14.600 go out and do the things you know, and eventually 267 00:13:14.600 --> 00:13:16.679 you go out of those college years, which is usually 268 00:13:16.960 --> 00:13:20.360 what twenty five anywhere from twenty five to twenty eight 269 00:13:20.480 --> 00:13:23.960 or whatever before you hit thirty, and then you essentially 270 00:13:24.440 --> 00:13:27.279 grow up. I do not agree that if you're in 271 00:13:27.320 --> 00:13:29.200 college you're more mature. I do not agree with that. 272 00:13:29.440 --> 00:13:32.639 I would argue you're less mature because you have nobody 273 00:13:32.679 --> 00:13:34.480 looking over to you're trying to figure out where the 274 00:13:34.480 --> 00:13:35.159 guardrail is. 275 00:13:35.559 --> 00:13:38.519 Yeah, that is true too, But there's a lot of 276 00:13:38.600 --> 00:13:43.200 kids too that go to college on scholarships who know, like, Okay, 277 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:45.159 I can't lose this or I can't be here. 278 00:13:45.279 --> 00:13:45.720 That's true. 279 00:13:45.759 --> 00:13:46.960 I have to take it real serious. 280 00:13:47.000 --> 00:13:47.440 That's true. 281 00:13:47.480 --> 00:13:51.039 I also know brand Bermudez was on a scholarship pre 282 00:13:51.120 --> 00:13:52.240 med where I went to school. 283 00:13:52.360 --> 00:13:56.440 Uh, he was my weed dealer, so I hear you. 284 00:13:56.519 --> 00:13:58.960 But also those type of. 285 00:13:59.000 --> 00:14:01.399 Quantifiers to me don't exists just because of what I've 286 00:14:01.440 --> 00:14:06.919 seen from people in life. I know athletes that were 287 00:14:07.240 --> 00:14:10.399 buttoned down, and I know athletes that were not buttoned down. Yeah, 288 00:14:11.720 --> 00:14:13.559 so I know people on scholarships that weren't. And I 289 00:14:13.600 --> 00:14:15.840 know people that were paying everything, working two jobs and 290 00:14:15.879 --> 00:14:19.279 you couldn't get them to party for nothing. So to me, 291 00:14:20.200 --> 00:14:25.159 a scholarship a scholar ship means nothing. Says of the 292 00:14:25.240 --> 00:14:27.519 class of twenty twenty eight to forty four percent of 293 00:14:27.559 --> 00:14:32.360 respondents reported interest in joining a club, sorority. 294 00:14:31.919 --> 00:14:34.559 Or fraternity. It varied by gender. 295 00:14:34.639 --> 00:14:37.519 Nearly half of male respondents, at forty nine percent, indicated 296 00:14:37.559 --> 00:14:40.960 they were very or somewhat interested in joining an exclusive 297 00:14:41.360 --> 00:14:44.720 social scene. For female students it was near thirty nine percent. 298 00:14:44.960 --> 00:14:47.559 I don't know if it's necessary. I definitely understand the desire. 299 00:14:47.600 --> 00:14:51.600 I didn't do it to my junior senior year, and 300 00:14:51.639 --> 00:14:55.039 even then I was like this fucking right. But I 301 00:14:55.080 --> 00:14:59.519 think I think people have expectation of a college experience, 302 00:14:59.559 --> 00:15:01.679 yeah know, and that's part I feel like that's part 303 00:15:01.720 --> 00:15:05.000 of it joining a frat or a sorority as part 304 00:15:05.000 --> 00:15:08.600 of that college experience, departying your ass off as part 305 00:15:08.639 --> 00:15:13.360 of that college experience. You know, not for everybody. Sure, 306 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:15.799 some people want to go and just learn, learn, learn, 307 00:15:15.879 --> 00:15:18.919 learn learn. Did they have sorties and fraternities where you 308 00:15:18.919 --> 00:15:19.840 went to school? Yeah? 309 00:15:20.120 --> 00:15:24.240 And the when I. 310 00:15:23.320 --> 00:15:24.440 I thought you went to a two year. 311 00:15:24.279 --> 00:15:27.360 School, I did, and and they had them, and they 312 00:15:27.399 --> 00:15:29.679 had and when and when I was done with school, 313 00:15:30.200 --> 00:15:33.600 I would go hang out at the University of Minnesota 314 00:15:34.279 --> 00:15:37.600 and they, of course they're huge there as well. And 315 00:15:37.799 --> 00:15:48.679 I had a friend that rushed Sigma new. 316 00:15:46.960 --> 00:15:47.720 We really love you. 317 00:15:47.759 --> 00:15:51.000 I paid my buck, I want my foxing. I don't know. 318 00:15:51.399 --> 00:15:55.440 Yeah, and no, that's fine you sorry news boys. 319 00:15:56.200 --> 00:16:00.440 Yeah, And he uh had to do some crazy asked 320 00:16:00.480 --> 00:16:02.360 shit And I was like, I don't know how any 321 00:16:02.600 --> 00:16:05.720 male would want to join, Like what, what's crazy as 322 00:16:05.799 --> 00:16:07.360 shit or a fraternity? 323 00:16:08.240 --> 00:16:08.519 Oh? 324 00:16:08.840 --> 00:16:12.960 Just being an errand boy all hours of the night 325 00:16:13.200 --> 00:16:17.919 and doing embarrassing shit and having to run pantless through 326 00:16:17.960 --> 00:16:19.639 places and I. 327 00:16:19.679 --> 00:16:23.679 Mean streaking the quad dumb ass stuff. 328 00:16:24.559 --> 00:16:28.360 Dumb without going to college. Aloradies do that toolties do 329 00:16:28.399 --> 00:16:32.080 dumbation too. I'd say, I'm trying remember the dumbest thing. 330 00:16:33.559 --> 00:16:35.799 They blindfolded us and put us in the back of 331 00:16:35.879 --> 00:16:40.639 you hall and drove around town. They had this thing 332 00:16:40.759 --> 00:16:43.480 where it was like one of the Knights of Hell 333 00:16:43.519 --> 00:16:44.519 Weak or whatever where. 334 00:16:45.039 --> 00:16:46.159 And I had a pretty small class. 335 00:16:46.159 --> 00:16:49.799 It was like maybe seven of us, and one of 336 00:16:49.840 --> 00:16:55.039 the seniors was dressed up in like all fatigues. It 337 00:16:55.080 --> 00:16:58.360 was like the night to honor people that were that 338 00:16:58.440 --> 00:17:00.639 went on to join the military or whatever. Yeah, and 339 00:17:00.759 --> 00:17:03.320 dressed up in all black and fatigues. They turned out 340 00:17:03.320 --> 00:17:04.880 the light, like turn the power off in the house, 341 00:17:05.599 --> 00:17:08.240 and you had to find them in the house. And 342 00:17:08.279 --> 00:17:11.039 you're not gonna find them one, they're gonna move. Two 343 00:17:11.920 --> 00:17:15.680 you don't even know the house, right, And people hiding 344 00:17:15.720 --> 00:17:17.200 places and throwing stuff on you. 345 00:17:17.279 --> 00:17:18.759 I mean it was I. 346 00:17:18.720 --> 00:17:22.440 Agree, it's a little chaotic, yeah, but it was also fun. 347 00:17:22.559 --> 00:17:25.319 Yeah, that's part of the experience. Yeah. 348 00:17:25.640 --> 00:17:28.839 I'll never forget getting yelled at. We had a thing 349 00:17:28.880 --> 00:17:31.680 called cake and ice cream. There's no cake and ice 350 00:17:31.720 --> 00:17:35.880 cream and getting yelled at and laughing and getting in 351 00:17:35.880 --> 00:17:39.000 trouble for laughing because I was a senior and I 352 00:17:39.039 --> 00:17:42.400 have like a sophomore or junior yelling at me. I'm like, 353 00:17:42.440 --> 00:17:47.440 I go ahead, it's fine. You're not gonna make me cry. 354 00:17:48.359 --> 00:17:52.599 I don't care. I'm done. In December, it'll be over. 355 00:17:54.160 --> 00:17:56.799 Female responded, seventy six percent said they had never had 356 00:17:56.839 --> 00:17:59.960 sex well. The figure was sixty one percent for male responded. 357 00:18:00.480 --> 00:18:04.000 Entering the freshman year, the majority of all responses reported 358 00:18:04.039 --> 00:18:06.759 having sex. Fifty seven percent said they have had only 359 00:18:06.839 --> 00:18:07.839 one sexual partner. 360 00:18:07.880 --> 00:18:08.440 That makes sense. 361 00:18:09.759 --> 00:18:12.599 I'm not surprised by that. I think, you know, seven 362 00:18:12.640 --> 00:18:15.480 out of ten not having sex. It's probably a good 363 00:18:15.480 --> 00:18:21.440 thing only because pregnancy maybe right, But I don't know 364 00:18:21.480 --> 00:18:23.279 if it makes you a better or worse person because 365 00:18:23.279 --> 00:18:26.559 you did or didn't have sex in high school. Rushing it, 366 00:18:27.000 --> 00:18:29.200 you know, while your parents before they get home or whatever, 367 00:18:30.759 --> 00:18:31.119 we're on. 368 00:18:31.119 --> 00:18:34.880 Your paper route. That's good. 369 00:18:34.920 --> 00:18:38.839 Like again, they focused on their education and as opposed 370 00:18:38.920 --> 00:18:42.680 to being out social for having to have you know, 371 00:18:43.880 --> 00:18:46.799 a partner, a significant other, boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever. 372 00:18:46.960 --> 00:18:48.160 I think you could make it even better. 373 00:18:48.240 --> 00:18:50.240 Argument that it's because you don't know how to interact 374 00:18:50.240 --> 00:18:55.519 with humans because you have been online the whole time, 375 00:18:55.839 --> 00:18:57.799 and then when you have to, you're like, I don't. 376 00:18:57.599 --> 00:18:59.559 Know, I use my hand. 's true too. 377 00:19:00.160 --> 00:19:02.559 If we're sitting here talking about this, I wonder, right 378 00:19:02.880 --> 00:19:05.440 when they they show up to college campus with their 379 00:19:05.480 --> 00:19:08.960 clipboards and they're going to take this survey, are they 380 00:19:09.039 --> 00:19:13.519 singling out the quote unquote nerds, right, you look like 381 00:19:13.599 --> 00:19:15.559 you've never had section in your life? Would you like 382 00:19:15.599 --> 00:19:18.519 to take a survey? You know, not really saying that, 383 00:19:18.559 --> 00:19:21.400 but you know they they're looking for a certain particular 384 00:19:21.519 --> 00:19:22.359 type of person. 385 00:19:22.440 --> 00:19:25.000 I mean all freshmen and nerds have right, right right? 386 00:19:26.480 --> 00:19:28.319 I think it's important which we don't get any is 387 00:19:28.400 --> 00:19:31.680 like was this online only? Was it part of the 388 00:19:31.839 --> 00:19:34.480 entry thing you filled out right? I ever worked? 389 00:19:34.680 --> 00:19:38.160 Like there's a lot of factors that go into any survey. 390 00:19:38.319 --> 00:19:39.680 Yeah, Like how do they get them to take the 391 00:19:39.759 --> 00:19:42.039 survey too? Like do you get a free meal if 392 00:19:42.039 --> 00:19:42.759 you take a survey? 393 00:19:42.960 --> 00:19:43.480 Exactly? 394 00:19:44.799 --> 00:19:47.400 Because I bet freshmen would do a lot for free food. 395 00:19:47.519 --> 00:19:52.839 Any college students would, grown adults. Have you been to 396 00:19:52.880 --> 00:19:53.680 one of our remotes? 397 00:19:54.799 --> 00:19:58.720 That's all they want is free stuff? Any free pin caps? 398 00:19:59.440 --> 00:20:00.640 You ain't gonna T shirts? 399 00:20:00.839 --> 00:20:04.400 Ah, man, I got fucking coozies and bumper stickers. 400 00:20:07.799 --> 00:20:08.480 T shirts. 401 00:20:10.400 --> 00:20:17.920