WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.280 --> 00:00:14.199 And enogy, s cancel so high, ecstasy, sag cancelgem not 2 00:00:14.519 --> 00:00:17.600 sorry andenogy. 3 00:00:19.199 --> 00:00:23.039 Did you know that playing stupid games only allows you 4 00:00:23.199 --> 00:00:30.079 to win stupid prizes? Wring me arm, tell all the people. Yeah, yeah, 5 00:00:30.480 --> 00:00:33.240 I don't know about you, but I personally feel like 6 00:00:33.399 --> 00:00:35.200 I did not come all the way down to planet 7 00:00:35.240 --> 00:00:38.719 Earth and incarnate into this goddess of a body to 8 00:00:39.039 --> 00:00:43.280 play stupid games and win stupid prizes. That sounds like 9 00:00:43.439 --> 00:00:47.320 a waste of my time. That sounds not so fun. 10 00:00:47.679 --> 00:00:51.560 That sounds like mediocrity. And we know what I hate, 11 00:00:52.119 --> 00:00:54.920 which would be mediocrity. Yeah, we did not come here 12 00:00:55.039 --> 00:00:58.840 to become average beings. And if you're listening to this, 13 00:00:59.119 --> 00:01:02.159 this is a sign in it self that you incarnated 14 00:01:02.439 --> 00:01:06.640 to have more, to embody more and to receive more. 15 00:01:07.560 --> 00:01:10.879 Did you know here's another facts because I'm just feeling 16 00:01:11.040 --> 00:01:14.760 like sharing facts with the world right now that the 17 00:01:14.879 --> 00:01:17.840 root produces the fruit, and did you know that the 18 00:01:17.959 --> 00:01:23.280 root is Yeah, your energetic signature mm hmmm, your dominant 19 00:01:23.359 --> 00:01:27.879 thoughts and your dominant feelings and your dominant actions. This 20 00:01:28.120 --> 00:01:31.120 is what's creating your energetic signature. This is what's pulling 21 00:01:31.560 --> 00:01:35.400 and turning on and activating specific timelines that you then 22 00:01:35.519 --> 00:01:40.439 walk through and experience. Your biggest enemy in this reality 23 00:01:40.840 --> 00:01:45.879 is settling. Oh yeah, settling, Yeah, because your life is 24 00:01:45.959 --> 00:01:49.079 whatever you accept. Your life is whatever you settle for. 25 00:01:49.879 --> 00:01:53.040 Your life is whatever you say. Okay, yeah, I'll take this, 26 00:01:53.719 --> 00:01:57.040 and then your universe will say I got you and 27 00:01:57.159 --> 00:02:01.480 give you more of what your receptive to. The secret 28 00:02:02.439 --> 00:02:05.439 to getting everything you want and more is something we're 29 00:02:05.519 --> 00:02:09.120 going to dive into today. I'm gonna tell you how 30 00:02:09.159 --> 00:02:15.919 to manifest better results, how to unlock higher vibrational timelines, relationships, friendships, 31 00:02:16.560 --> 00:02:21.280 a better body, a better career, more money. You want 32 00:02:21.319 --> 00:02:24.000 all that and more. Okay, Well that's what I came 33 00:02:24.080 --> 00:02:27.639 here to discuss with you today. What's up, positive bitches? 34 00:02:27.680 --> 00:02:30.199 How are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode, 35 00:02:30.199 --> 00:02:32.039 then you are meant to be here, So keep listening 36 00:02:32.479 --> 00:02:36.360 all that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby, 37 00:02:36.439 --> 00:02:38.960 we're gonna cry, but we're always gonna walk away feeling 38 00:02:39.039 --> 00:02:42.439 our most empowered positive bitch self that is Babe in 39 00:02:42.479 --> 00:02:45.840 true connection with herself, himself, human self. You know, I 40 00:02:45.879 --> 00:02:48.400 don't care if you think you're an alien or a cucumber. 41 00:02:48.879 --> 00:02:51.639 If you want to step into a more empowered self, 42 00:02:51.680 --> 00:02:55.240 then this is a podcast to listen to. 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Is we experience a relationship and then 65 00:04:05.960 --> 00:04:07.919 a couple of months, couple of weeks later, we find 66 00:04:07.960 --> 00:04:11.159 someone else who is better than the last person, and 67 00:04:11.240 --> 00:04:16.519 we think, great, the last person was narcissistic. At least 68 00:04:16.560 --> 00:04:19.519 this person is kind and we just take what we 69 00:04:19.600 --> 00:04:24.600 can get because we're assuming they're better, But that doesn't 70 00:04:24.680 --> 00:04:28.199 mean they're the best. We go from one job into 71 00:04:28.279 --> 00:04:32.360 another one and we say, Okay, this is better, and 72 00:04:32.720 --> 00:04:36.079 we settle for it because we assume that must be 73 00:04:36.560 --> 00:04:43.120 the best. The problem is in your assumption. Just because 74 00:04:43.199 --> 00:04:46.279 something is better than what you've experienced does not mean 75 00:04:46.319 --> 00:04:48.360 it is the best you can have, the best you 76 00:04:48.480 --> 00:04:53.800 can get, the best you can receive. You might attract 77 00:04:54.519 --> 00:04:59.319 a better person, but if you don't feel that sole recognition, 78 00:04:59.439 --> 00:05:01.439 if they don't treat you the way you want to 79 00:05:01.480 --> 00:05:04.399 be treated, they're just a little nicer. That's not your 80 00:05:04.480 --> 00:05:08.600 final destination. That to stop along the way, that's a 81 00:05:08.759 --> 00:05:11.959 portal to the next evolution of yourself. That is not 82 00:05:12.480 --> 00:05:17.600 where you are meant to stay. Too Often we go 83 00:05:17.759 --> 00:05:20.360 through a negative experience or what we perceive as a 84 00:05:20.399 --> 00:05:24.240 negative experience, and then the next best thing we just assume. 85 00:05:25.040 --> 00:05:27.079 I guess this is as good as it can get 86 00:05:27.160 --> 00:05:31.480 for me. Wrong? Wrong, wrong? What are you doing? What 87 00:05:31.680 --> 00:05:36.199 is anyone doing? If settling is your enemy, who is 88 00:05:36.279 --> 00:05:39.480 your best friend? What is your best friend? What is 89 00:05:39.560 --> 00:05:47.279 your golden ticket, golden key? Delayed gratification? Oh yeah, we 90 00:05:47.439 --> 00:05:51.360 all know her. Most of us don't like her, but 91 00:05:51.519 --> 00:05:55.480 she needs to be your best friend. Delayed gratification has 92 00:05:55.600 --> 00:06:02.199 gotten me everything. It is the realist flex. You can 93 00:06:02.360 --> 00:06:08.839 have delayed gratification. Anybody can grab the quick dopamine, hit, 94 00:06:09.360 --> 00:06:15.560 the situation shit, the fast cash, the validation. But people 95 00:06:15.639 --> 00:06:19.839 who truly create a life worth living, they're the ones 96 00:06:19.879 --> 00:06:25.399 who are willing to delay gratification, to not settle, to 97 00:06:25.920 --> 00:06:29.199 work harder, to keep going in order to receive what 98 00:06:29.439 --> 00:06:32.879 they actually want. They say to themselves, you know what, 99 00:06:34.000 --> 00:06:38.319 this is good. I'm getting closer, but I know this 100 00:06:38.519 --> 00:06:40.839 is not where I'm meant to stay. I'm building towards 101 00:06:40.920 --> 00:06:46.279 something bigger. This is not about ignoring the present moment. 102 00:06:46.399 --> 00:06:52.199 It's about being so married to your vision that you're 103 00:06:52.279 --> 00:06:56.800 not trapped by your present moment. You don't have to 104 00:06:56.959 --> 00:07:00.319 have the results you want in the three D two day. 105 00:07:00.879 --> 00:07:04.519 You don't necessarily need that ring today, that title today, 106 00:07:04.600 --> 00:07:07.639 the check today, or the likes, the validation today. You 107 00:07:07.839 --> 00:07:12.360 need to stay married, stay focused, stay tuned in to 108 00:07:12.639 --> 00:07:18.560 your vision. You're living for something beyond your current moment, 109 00:07:19.600 --> 00:07:25.040 and because you're willing to have delayed gratification, you unlock 110 00:07:25.800 --> 00:07:32.639 grander realities, magnificent timelines. That's where the magic happens. When 111 00:07:32.639 --> 00:07:34.680 you're able to see what's in front of you and 112 00:07:34.759 --> 00:07:38.720 say this is okay, or maybe this is terrible, but 113 00:07:38.879 --> 00:07:41.680 either way, I'm going to get what it is I want. 114 00:07:42.439 --> 00:07:44.639 I am determined to get what it is I want. 115 00:07:45.439 --> 00:07:48.519 I trust my vision more than my three D circumstance. 116 00:07:49.079 --> 00:07:52.920 That's when you will get everything you want, because your 117 00:07:53.000 --> 00:07:56.079 three D reality is a mere simulation based on your 118 00:07:56.240 --> 00:08:03.839 current dominant vibration, your current dominant thoughts and feelings and actions. 119 00:08:05.199 --> 00:08:08.079 If you want the fruit to change, you gotta change 120 00:08:08.199 --> 00:08:10.759 the route. You have to shift what you're doing. Law 121 00:08:10.839 --> 00:08:15.560 of correspondence as above so below. What's the first thing 122 00:08:15.639 --> 00:08:19.000 we need to do then is have vision over validation. 123 00:08:20.560 --> 00:08:24.079 You have to start applauding yourself from the inside out. 124 00:08:24.600 --> 00:08:29.000 Maybe this means that you say something positive to yourself. 125 00:08:29.079 --> 00:08:31.800 You celebrate yourself three times a day, breakfast, lunch, dinner. 126 00:08:32.480 --> 00:08:35.960 Maybe you are so tuned into what you're currently grateful 127 00:08:36.000 --> 00:08:38.720 for that it's able to pump you up to keep 128 00:08:38.799 --> 00:08:42.120 going and to build further momentum. Because the truth is, 129 00:08:42.679 --> 00:08:45.759 even if they are to applaud you out there, none 130 00:08:45.799 --> 00:08:48.799 of that is going to feel as good compared to 131 00:08:48.919 --> 00:08:52.200 you applauding yourself on a daily basis, because the only 132 00:08:52.279 --> 00:08:54.600 person who has known where you have been, the only 133 00:08:54.720 --> 00:08:56.879 person that knows what you go through on a daily basis, 134 00:08:57.200 --> 00:08:59.399 the only person who knows how hard it's been for 135 00:08:59.519 --> 00:09:02.799 you to get back up, to try again, to replug 136 00:09:02.879 --> 00:09:06.320 in is you. So the person who's going to make 137 00:09:06.360 --> 00:09:11.039 you feel the most powerful is you. Not your best sie, 138 00:09:11.679 --> 00:09:14.159 not even your parents, not someone that you're in a 139 00:09:14.240 --> 00:09:17.399 relationship with, It is you. The voice you hear the 140 00:09:17.480 --> 00:09:22.519 most is your own. So it's super important that while 141 00:09:22.960 --> 00:09:27.840 you're moving towards your vision, you prioritize that vision over validation. 142 00:09:28.840 --> 00:09:32.159 And it's super important that you are celebrating yourself, that 143 00:09:32.279 --> 00:09:36.240 you're valuing the work that you have done. If you 144 00:09:36.399 --> 00:09:41.000 think about it, imagine you were walking along a cliff. 145 00:09:41.240 --> 00:09:44.200 Taking the smallest shift in position. Shifting your angle just 146 00:09:44.279 --> 00:09:46.320 a little bit can cause you to walk right off 147 00:09:46.399 --> 00:09:51.039 that cliff. You need to value the small shifts because 148 00:09:51.080 --> 00:09:55.799 you don't realize how much that's shifting your further down position, 149 00:09:56.480 --> 00:10:00.799 your destination, your results. You need to value the baby steps, 150 00:10:00.840 --> 00:10:04.799 because baby steps build big ones. Your energetic coating might 151 00:10:04.840 --> 00:10:07.120 be that of the dark Horse. You might have signed 152 00:10:07.200 --> 00:10:09.000 up to have Dark Knight of the Soul after Dark 153 00:10:09.039 --> 00:10:10.720 Knight of the Soul after Dark Knight of the Soul, 154 00:10:10.799 --> 00:10:14.159 season after season after season after season of work, so 155 00:10:14.320 --> 00:10:17.879 that when you hit that threshold you then have season 156 00:10:17.960 --> 00:10:21.399 after season after season of success. You don't want a 157 00:10:21.480 --> 00:10:24.120 quick fix fifteen minutes of fame, because as soon as 158 00:10:24.159 --> 00:10:27.039 you get it, it also dies out. You do want 159 00:10:27.080 --> 00:10:30.559 to have season after season of building momentum, of creating 160 00:10:30.639 --> 00:10:33.240 the vision, of finalizing the details, so that when you 161 00:10:33.399 --> 00:10:36.080 pass that threshold, you have season after season after season 162 00:10:36.200 --> 00:10:39.159 of winning. This is the path of the Turtle, of 163 00:10:39.240 --> 00:10:42.159 the ant of the dark Horse, and it is when 164 00:10:42.360 --> 00:10:45.360 you deal with karma up front so that you then 165 00:10:45.759 --> 00:10:49.639 can exist in your dharma for the rest of your life. 166 00:10:50.399 --> 00:10:54.320 When you prioritize your vision over what's convenient, that is 167 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:57.960 you stepping into alignment. That is you choosing your highest timeline. 168 00:10:58.240 --> 00:11:01.480 That is you saying, I'm not going to settle for mediocrity. 169 00:11:01.639 --> 00:11:03.639 No no, no, no, no no. I'm going to get 170 00:11:03.639 --> 00:11:08.120 everything I want and more. What does this require? Brings 171 00:11:08.159 --> 00:11:12.960 me to point number two? Faith over fear. Doubting yourself 172 00:11:13.240 --> 00:11:18.039 is literally doubting God. That's weird. That's some weird, shady 173 00:11:18.080 --> 00:11:22.759 shit right there. Doubting your desire is doubting God. You 174 00:11:23.080 --> 00:11:26.879 think that the God that created the sun and the moon, 175 00:11:26.960 --> 00:11:30.080 and the stars in the ocean and your whole entire 176 00:11:30.200 --> 00:11:35.240 reality can't align you with your dream, with your vision. 177 00:11:35.720 --> 00:11:37.960 The God that put that vision in your mind, I 178 00:11:38.159 --> 00:11:40.080 the God that put that desire in your heart? You 179 00:11:40.120 --> 00:11:43.240 think did that for shits and gigs? Okay, well that 180 00:11:43.360 --> 00:11:46.039 makes no damn sense. So why don't you check yourself 181 00:11:46.120 --> 00:11:50.039 by check vibe check? Hi? How are you doing? That 182 00:11:50.159 --> 00:11:53.000 doesn't make any sense. If the vision was placed in 183 00:11:53.080 --> 00:11:56.919 your mind, the desire was placed in your heart, it 184 00:11:57.440 --> 00:12:01.440 was meant for you. What you are seeking is also 185 00:12:01.639 --> 00:12:08.320 seeking you. Why Because like vibrational particles are always attracted 186 00:12:08.360 --> 00:12:13.200 towards one another, like attracts like. As you become the 187 00:12:13.440 --> 00:12:17.840 energetic equivalent to your desire, you tune yourself to it 188 00:12:17.960 --> 00:12:21.840 on a daily basis. Not only are you moving towards it, 189 00:12:21.919 --> 00:12:24.879 but it is moving towards you. Now, let's say your 190 00:12:25.000 --> 00:12:27.159 dream is to be that actress. How do you tune 191 00:12:27.200 --> 00:12:29.320 into it on a daily basis? How do you tune 192 00:12:29.360 --> 00:12:33.519 into faith over fear? You take baby steps, You go 193 00:12:33.720 --> 00:12:37.200 on auditions, you go to acting classes, you read scripts, 194 00:12:37.600 --> 00:12:42.519 you look at other people's auditioning tapes. You take baby actions. 195 00:12:42.759 --> 00:12:44.600 You don't have to know the how. You don't need 196 00:12:44.679 --> 00:12:46.720 to know how it's all going to align. You don't 197 00:12:46.759 --> 00:12:50.240 need to know every name, every number, every path. All 198 00:12:50.360 --> 00:12:54.480 you need to do is on a daily basis, fine 199 00:12:54.559 --> 00:12:58.360 tune your frequency through intention. I'm so grateful that I 200 00:12:58.440 --> 00:13:01.519 already have the dream role that I want through envisioning 201 00:13:01.559 --> 00:13:06.000 yourself in that dream role and taking aligned action. Not 202 00:13:06.320 --> 00:13:09.360 only is this going to build your confidence, not only 203 00:13:09.480 --> 00:13:11.360 is it gonna anchor you in the present moment so 204 00:13:11.440 --> 00:13:14.159 you're not depressed about your past or anxious about your future, 205 00:13:14.519 --> 00:13:17.759 but it's going to magnetize the timeline that you want 206 00:13:18.120 --> 00:13:22.039 towards you. You being in doubt is delaying you. You 207 00:13:22.200 --> 00:13:25.480 being in doubt also just doesn't make any sense. Of course, 208 00:13:25.559 --> 00:13:29.159 you don't understand the divine. Who does. Our capacity to 209 00:13:29.279 --> 00:13:33.159 understand divinity is so limited because we are simply a human. 210 00:13:34.399 --> 00:13:36.919 You don't need to worry about everything. If it's not 211 00:13:37.080 --> 00:13:39.840 on your radar, it does not matter. It's on God's 212 00:13:40.080 --> 00:13:43.519 radar every single day. What really helps me is just 213 00:13:43.639 --> 00:13:45.759 checking in with God. God, thank you for everything that 214 00:13:45.840 --> 00:13:48.519 I have, thank you for fulfilling your promises to me, 215 00:13:48.960 --> 00:13:51.840 and thank you for guiding me every step of my way. 216 00:13:52.039 --> 00:13:54.559 I've been thinking a lot about glow ups recently. That's 217 00:13:54.600 --> 00:13:57.080 what we did the podcast episode on last week. And 218 00:13:57.639 --> 00:14:00.399 of course there will be some days where you wake 219 00:14:00.519 --> 00:14:04.159 up and your skin is just glowing, and maybe you 220 00:14:04.279 --> 00:14:07.879 feel less bloated, and there are overnight changes. But most 221 00:14:07.960 --> 00:14:12.000 of my glow up was due to delayed gratification to 222 00:14:12.200 --> 00:14:15.480 dark Knight of the Souls, to spiritually awakening through Hermit 223 00:14:15.600 --> 00:14:20.720 seasons season after season after season. True beauty comes from 224 00:14:20.799 --> 00:14:24.039 this delayed gratification. When I'm working out at the gym 225 00:14:24.120 --> 00:14:26.679 and I've lost upwards of forty pounds. I have built 226 00:14:26.759 --> 00:14:30.279 muscle when I'm working out. I don't expect to walk 227 00:14:30.320 --> 00:14:32.799 out and be ten pounds thinner or have like a 228 00:14:32.919 --> 00:14:34.720 new muscle bulge in my bicet. 229 00:14:35.120 --> 00:14:35.159 No. 230 00:14:35.919 --> 00:14:43.720 No, building muscle takes time. Releasing weight takes time. I 231 00:14:43.799 --> 00:14:46.960 don't go to the class just so I have ebbs 232 00:14:47.000 --> 00:14:50.279 five minutes later. I go because I trust that I'm 233 00:14:50.320 --> 00:14:56.080 building towards the body, the shape, the vessel that I desire. 234 00:14:57.879 --> 00:15:02.279 If we are to say the only way I'm going 235 00:15:02.360 --> 00:15:04.120 to be happy is if I have results right now, 236 00:15:04.519 --> 00:15:08.159 you are going to feel so stressed, so burdened, and 237 00:15:08.279 --> 00:15:12.120 you're automatically going to give into settling, because that's really 238 00:15:12.279 --> 00:15:15.720 not how most success works. It's energetic law that if 239 00:15:15.799 --> 00:15:18.720 you keep taking a lined action, if you keep envisioning 240 00:15:18.759 --> 00:15:21.559 the body you want, if you keep plugging in to 241 00:15:21.679 --> 00:15:25.039 eating the nutrient dense foods, staying on prayer, asking God 242 00:15:25.120 --> 00:15:27.320 to clean your vessel for you, it's it's energetic law 243 00:15:27.399 --> 00:15:31.240 that all of that focus must garner you the result 244 00:15:31.519 --> 00:15:34.759 that you want. The body you're sculpting, the skin that 245 00:15:34.799 --> 00:15:38.120 you're nourishing, the aura that you're cultivating. This does not 246 00:15:38.399 --> 00:15:43.279 necessarily happen overnight, but every workout, every clean meal, every 247 00:15:43.360 --> 00:15:46.480 glass of water is a love letter. It's a moment 248 00:15:46.559 --> 00:15:49.919 to be devotional to yourself and that glow up will 249 00:15:50.000 --> 00:15:52.399 find you. It will catch up to you. You will 250 00:15:52.480 --> 00:15:55.639 build it up. Think about getting a tan. You don't 251 00:15:55.639 --> 00:15:58.120 go out time for five minutes and you're automatically tan. No, 252 00:15:58.600 --> 00:16:03.200 it takes time to build up. Delayed gratification will get 253 00:16:03.240 --> 00:16:07.480 you places that needing instant results will never take you. 254 00:16:09.399 --> 00:16:12.480 Needing instant results just tells me that your nervous system 255 00:16:12.759 --> 00:16:15.600 is not regulated, that you're so stressed out, that you're 256 00:16:15.679 --> 00:16:18.440 so consumed by your three D reality, that you don't 257 00:16:18.440 --> 00:16:20.480 have trust in yourself, You don't have trust in the divine, 258 00:16:20.639 --> 00:16:23.559 and you just don't understand how this energetic universe operates. 259 00:16:24.360 --> 00:16:28.200 Delayed gratification is going to harness you results that needing 260 00:16:28.279 --> 00:16:31.360 something in this moment will never get you. The other day, 261 00:16:31.600 --> 00:16:35.159 I saw that Sarah Blakeley, the creator and owner of Spanx, 262 00:16:35.159 --> 00:16:39.000 which is a billion dollar company, was a bridesmaid thirteen 263 00:16:39.120 --> 00:16:42.639 times before she ever walked down the aisle for herself. 264 00:16:43.879 --> 00:16:48.960 She could have let loneliness or comparison steer her choices. 265 00:16:49.679 --> 00:16:53.399 She could have allowed the three D circumstance of all 266 00:16:53.480 --> 00:16:59.759 of her friends aligning with this moment in life distract 267 00:16:59.799 --> 00:17:03.279 her and cause her to feel uneasy where she would 268 00:17:03.399 --> 00:17:05.640 just settle with someone because all of her friends were 269 00:17:06.319 --> 00:17:09.359 But no, no, you know what she said to herself. 270 00:17:09.440 --> 00:17:13.039 She said, no, I have this dream. I have this 271 00:17:13.279 --> 00:17:19.599 desire of this billion dollar company in empire. And not 272 00:17:19.720 --> 00:17:22.480 only did she have this desire, this dream, but she 273 00:17:22.640 --> 00:17:24.480 put a lined action towards it. She would even go 274 00:17:24.559 --> 00:17:27.920 to department stores and stand in front of spanks and 275 00:17:28.160 --> 00:17:30.759 hand them out to people. She would follow people in 276 00:17:30.799 --> 00:17:32.920 the bathroom, she would go around the store. She made 277 00:17:32.960 --> 00:17:36.079 sure that once her desire was birthed into a business, 278 00:17:36.279 --> 00:17:38.240 she didn't just let it go and die. No, she 279 00:17:38.400 --> 00:17:42.039 went to the department store. She followed that dream through 280 00:17:42.640 --> 00:17:46.079 until it became what we know it as today. She 281 00:17:46.279 --> 00:17:49.920 trusted her path, and she chose to believe in the 282 00:17:49.960 --> 00:17:53.960 bigger picture, not the present frustration, and what ended up 283 00:17:54.000 --> 00:17:58.400 happening is about thirty seven years old, she got married. 284 00:17:59.519 --> 00:18:01.480 You have to realize your path is not meant to 285 00:18:01.519 --> 00:18:04.359 look like everyone else's, especially if you're listening to this podcast. 286 00:18:04.480 --> 00:18:08.480 If you desire a grandiose reality, a reality beyond realities. 287 00:18:08.960 --> 00:18:10.720 Your life is not going to look like the people 288 00:18:10.759 --> 00:18:13.839 around you, because most people are settling for mediocrity. They 289 00:18:13.880 --> 00:18:15.799 are settling for what it is they know, they are 290 00:18:15.880 --> 00:18:18.440 settling for what's in front of them. But you didn't 291 00:18:18.440 --> 00:18:20.920 come here to do that. You have to remember that 292 00:18:21.200 --> 00:18:25.160 what you're experiencing is smoking mirrors. It's a screen, and 293 00:18:25.319 --> 00:18:28.519 you don't have to fall for the current actors the 294 00:18:28.640 --> 00:18:32.039 current scene if you don't like the current actors and 295 00:18:32.160 --> 00:18:35.519 the current scene. Life really is like a movie screen. 296 00:18:35.960 --> 00:18:39.559 People come and go. Actors will play their roles, some 297 00:18:39.839 --> 00:18:42.720 for a scene, some for an entire movie. But you 298 00:18:42.880 --> 00:18:47.640 can't confuse temporary scenes, temporary characters, with your forever costar, 299 00:18:48.119 --> 00:18:53.880 with your forever final destination. Don't rewrite your script, don't 300 00:18:53.920 --> 00:18:57.680 rewrite your desires. Don't rewrite what you actually want for yourself. 301 00:18:57.720 --> 00:19:00.160 Because someone in your reality seems to be better better 302 00:19:00.240 --> 00:19:02.720 than the last, because it doesn't mean that they're the best. 303 00:19:03.559 --> 00:19:06.720 Don't rewrite your script for someone who isn't even meant 304 00:19:06.799 --> 00:19:10.440 to stay your script. Your vision, that is your baby, 305 00:19:10.640 --> 00:19:13.440 that is what you have to stay tuned into. And 306 00:19:13.640 --> 00:19:17.359 anytime someone disappoints me in my three D reality. I'm 307 00:19:17.400 --> 00:19:20.160 not going to allow them to dictate my emotional state 308 00:19:20.240 --> 00:19:23.720 for more than maybe twenty minutes. Let myself feel, I'll 309 00:19:23.799 --> 00:19:26.200 let myself cry, I'll let myself shake out my body, 310 00:19:26.799 --> 00:19:29.519 and then I say, you know what, if it's not them, 311 00:19:29.720 --> 00:19:32.559 it's just going to be someone better. If they're not 312 00:19:32.680 --> 00:19:34.799 the actor that's meant to be my forever co star, 313 00:19:35.279 --> 00:19:37.759 someone else will be. At the end of the day, 314 00:19:37.839 --> 00:19:40.079 I don't care who comes into my reality and who 315 00:19:40.519 --> 00:19:42.799 leaves it. If they're not meant to stay, I'm not 316 00:19:42.920 --> 00:19:45.400 going to fight that. I'm going to let them leave 317 00:19:45.839 --> 00:19:49.119 because I am married to my vision. Whether it's them 318 00:19:49.200 --> 00:19:51.960 or someone else, I'm getting divine union, whether it's them 319 00:19:52.079 --> 00:19:54.359 or someone else. I'm going to create an empire. Whether 320 00:19:54.400 --> 00:19:56.359 it's them or someone else, I'm going to get what 321 00:19:56.480 --> 00:19:59.319 it is that I want. So I'm not attached to 322 00:19:59.440 --> 00:20:03.839 specific people, because we know getting attached to specific people 323 00:20:03.880 --> 00:20:07.359 and wanting them to be other than they are creates misery. 324 00:20:08.759 --> 00:20:11.519 The full sentiment that the Buddha actually said. He did 325 00:20:11.559 --> 00:20:15.039 not say desire is the root of all misery. He 326 00:20:15.119 --> 00:20:18.200 did not say attachment is the root of all misery. 327 00:20:18.279 --> 00:20:21.240 He actually said, wishing things were different than they are. 328 00:20:21.680 --> 00:20:26.440 That is what creates all suffering, wishing things were different 329 00:20:26.480 --> 00:20:28.759 than what they are. So I'm not gonna wish someone 330 00:20:28.759 --> 00:20:31.160 could show up differently. I'm not gonna wish that someone 331 00:20:31.279 --> 00:20:34.119 was a completely different energy. I'm just gonna say, Okay, 332 00:20:34.119 --> 00:20:36.039 if it's not you, it's gonna be someone who fulfills 333 00:20:36.079 --> 00:20:38.599 my role exactly how I desire them to be. Because 334 00:20:38.640 --> 00:20:41.279 the world that I'm living through is my own simulation, 335 00:20:41.440 --> 00:20:43.680 and I'm gonna get what I want. I'm married to 336 00:20:43.799 --> 00:20:46.559 my movie, not a specific person that might just be 337 00:20:46.680 --> 00:20:51.440 a character for a temporary scene. Trust your script, don't 338 00:20:51.480 --> 00:20:55.839 rewrite it. The partner, the dream, the business, the vision, 339 00:20:56.839 --> 00:20:59.039 whatever is coming through your reality. It might be them, 340 00:20:59.079 --> 00:21:02.119 but it might be someone better. So if it's not them, 341 00:21:02.279 --> 00:21:04.960 release them with love. Allow them to be the portal 342 00:21:05.000 --> 00:21:08.000 into the next evolution of yourself. If it's not aligned, 343 00:21:08.000 --> 00:21:14.000 it's not aligned. But remember delayed gratification. If they're coming 344 00:21:14.079 --> 00:21:15.680 in and they want to leave, they're not going to 345 00:21:15.720 --> 00:21:17.200 be able to make you as happy as a person 346 00:21:17.240 --> 00:21:22.079 who's meant to stay. Hands down, you don't need your 347 00:21:22.160 --> 00:21:25.119 final scene right now. You need to have faith over fear. 348 00:21:25.880 --> 00:21:28.440 You don't need to change your script because you kind 349 00:21:28.440 --> 00:21:32.119 of like someone who's better than what you've experienced. You 350 00:21:32.240 --> 00:21:37.799 need to trust your script. There are some foods that 351 00:21:37.880 --> 00:21:40.240 you have never tried. Does that mean they don't exist? No, 352 00:21:40.680 --> 00:21:43.079 no it doesn't. There are some countries you've never been to. 353 00:21:43.240 --> 00:21:46.759 Does that mean they don't exist? No? No, no it doesn't. 354 00:21:47.000 --> 00:21:49.519 There are places you have not gone, people you have 355 00:21:49.680 --> 00:21:54.000 not met. Does that mean they don't exist? No, no 356 00:21:54.200 --> 00:21:58.279 it doesn't. So instead of falling prey to your three 357 00:21:58.359 --> 00:22:03.440 D circumstance and allowing it to sway you believing that 358 00:22:03.599 --> 00:22:05.240 I guess this is better, so it's all I can get. 359 00:22:05.279 --> 00:22:08.839 Instead of doing that, trust your script. Listen. I require 360 00:22:09.000 --> 00:22:13.880 a very devotional, devotional type of love, and I simply 361 00:22:14.000 --> 00:22:18.400 cannot settle for anything less. I need devotion, and if 362 00:22:18.400 --> 00:22:21.119 they don't have that, they have to be disqualified. I 363 00:22:21.279 --> 00:22:23.359 need devotion. If they want to leave with disrespect, they 364 00:22:23.480 --> 00:22:29.400 have to be disqualified. I will not settle, And I 365 00:22:29.680 --> 00:22:33.440 hope that me giving myself permission to not settle. I 366 00:22:33.559 --> 00:22:36.359 hope it gives you permission too. I hope you can 367 00:22:36.400 --> 00:22:38.200 see me. I hope you can see Sarah Blakely. I 368 00:22:38.279 --> 00:22:40.960 hope you can see Taylor Swift. I mean, I'm not 369 00:22:41.079 --> 00:22:42.720 a huge Swifty, but I do like her and I 370 00:22:42.799 --> 00:22:45.960 do listen to a lot of her music. And when 371 00:22:46.000 --> 00:22:49.480 I saw her get engaged, I felt something. I cried. 372 00:22:49.519 --> 00:22:53.119 I really did, because it felt like, you know, I 373 00:22:53.160 --> 00:22:55.319 can cry right now because I just love love so much. Yeah, 374 00:22:56.519 --> 00:22:58.640 I've seen Taylor Swift because I've grown up with her 375 00:22:58.720 --> 00:23:01.599 go through relationship after their relationship, which we all do, 376 00:23:01.720 --> 00:23:03.559 and that's what you're meant to do. I never understood 377 00:23:03.559 --> 00:23:06.279 why everyone judged her. I'm like, Okay, she's figuring out 378 00:23:06.279 --> 00:23:10.000 what she wants. Are you dnse like, how else are 379 00:23:10.039 --> 00:23:13.039 you supposed to figure out what you want unless you 380 00:23:13.160 --> 00:23:14.799 date people and find out what it is you like 381 00:23:14.880 --> 00:23:18.279 and you don't like It's so silly. But anyway, following 382 00:23:18.400 --> 00:23:21.799 her and I've been to one of Taylor Swift's concerts, 383 00:23:21.880 --> 00:23:26.960 my favorite one of her albums was Reputation, and following 384 00:23:27.039 --> 00:23:29.559 her throughout the years and to see her find someone 385 00:23:29.599 --> 00:23:32.839 who just loves her so much, and to see not 386 00:23:33.200 --> 00:23:35.920 only someone who is masculine in the sense that they 387 00:23:36.000 --> 00:23:38.039 have their own career, they have their finances in check. 388 00:23:38.119 --> 00:23:40.960 They I can tell he makes her feel safe and 389 00:23:41.079 --> 00:23:46.039 seen and validated, but he also embodies a balance, grounded 390 00:23:46.119 --> 00:23:48.240 masculine energy because he's not afraid to like me his 391 00:23:48.359 --> 00:23:51.519 little friendship bracelet. He's not afraid to really shine the 392 00:23:51.599 --> 00:23:54.079 light on her and say, look at my queen, my goddess, 393 00:23:54.440 --> 00:23:57.240 and that is just so beautiful. And seeing her have that, 394 00:23:57.400 --> 00:24:00.920 seeing Sarah Blakely, you need to realize that you cannot 395 00:24:01.039 --> 00:24:04.039 just settle because you have some weird timetable in your 396 00:24:04.079 --> 00:24:07.319 own head. I'm twenty seven and a lot of my 397 00:24:07.480 --> 00:24:09.759 friends at this point, my cousins, a lot of the 398 00:24:09.839 --> 00:24:13.160 people around me, they're all getting engaged. Not all, but 399 00:24:13.279 --> 00:24:15.559 you know, a good amount of them. My friends in 400 00:24:15.640 --> 00:24:18.240 Florida not so much, but a lot of the people 401 00:24:18.240 --> 00:24:21.519