WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.720 --> 00:00:04.759 Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Jenny, how was 2 00:00:04.799 --> 00:00:05.360 your weekend? 3 00:00:05.679 --> 00:00:09.080 It was pretty good. It consisted of a really fun 4 00:00:09.119 --> 00:00:12.240 Halloween party. My girlfriend Tiff always throws like the best 5 00:00:12.240 --> 00:00:16.280 Halloween party. She's very into spooky season. She's an October baby, 6 00:00:16.760 --> 00:00:19.199 so it was fun. I did skip the funeral walk 7 00:00:19.239 --> 00:00:22.559 this year because she lives or not Funeral not Funeral 8 00:00:22.719 --> 00:00:27.039 Jesus Cemetery and my cemetery cemetery walk. 9 00:00:27.120 --> 00:00:29.879 Oh my gosh, I'm gonna call the episode funeral Walk. Yeah. 10 00:00:30.120 --> 00:00:32.560 No, I skipped the cemetery walk this year because I 11 00:00:32.600 --> 00:00:35.320 missed her party last year. But the year before I 12 00:00:35.399 --> 00:00:38.399 remember being so creeped out. So she lives right across 13 00:00:38.439 --> 00:00:41.280 from a cemetery and to like go with the spooky vibes, 14 00:00:41.320 --> 00:00:42.840 she'll do like a little walk through. And the first 15 00:00:42.920 --> 00:00:45.079 year was fun, but the second year, like there's guys 16 00:00:45.079 --> 00:00:46.719 who like go and hide and then they try to 17 00:00:46.719 --> 00:00:49.320 scare you and stuff like that. But the year before, 18 00:00:49.359 --> 00:00:51.880 like it was there was a car in the cemetery 19 00:00:51.920 --> 00:00:53.520 and I felt like it was kind of following us, 20 00:00:53.520 --> 00:00:55.520 and we also heard like some gunshots at one point, 21 00:00:55.880 --> 00:00:57.840 and it was definitely really far away, but it still 22 00:00:57.840 --> 00:00:59.520 tripped me out, and I just didn't like it. 23 00:00:59.560 --> 00:01:02.600 I found weird vibes, and so you don't like anything spooky, 24 00:01:02.679 --> 00:01:03.320 so I don't. 25 00:01:03.399 --> 00:01:04.920 So this year I was like, I'm gonna sit my 26 00:01:04.959 --> 00:01:06.599 ass on this couch while you guys go do that, 27 00:01:06.799 --> 00:01:08.799 and I will be here when you get back, probably 28 00:01:08.840 --> 00:01:09.719 snacking on all. 29 00:01:09.640 --> 00:01:11.599 The treats that you So your costume would have been 30 00:01:11.680 --> 00:01:13.040 ridiculous and so terry. 31 00:01:13.200 --> 00:01:15.159 Yeah, I was dressed as a grape if you haven't 32 00:01:15.159 --> 00:01:19.040 seen it yet, And in theory it was such a 33 00:01:19.079 --> 00:01:23.719 good idea, but in reality it was so fucking annoying. 34 00:01:23.760 --> 00:01:26.200 I'm sure it was constant, like noise in my ears. 35 00:01:26.280 --> 00:01:29.200 I get the balloons rubbing against each other. Uh, to 36 00:01:29.319 --> 00:01:32.200 sit down, it was so we didn't have them on 37 00:01:32.239 --> 00:01:34.599 our backs, so it was at only the front, but 38 00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:37.000 to sit down was just a whole nother process. I 39 00:01:37.079 --> 00:01:39.799 was like immediately hungry when I got there, so I'm 40 00:01:39.840 --> 00:01:41.920 trying to dig into the snacks, and my friend Tony's 41 00:01:41.959 --> 00:01:44.640 like taking pictures because I look ridiculous, like I can 42 00:01:44.640 --> 00:01:46.519 barely get my arm over my balloons to get to 43 00:01:46.519 --> 00:01:49.079 the table of snacks. But I mean, it was a cheap, 44 00:01:49.120 --> 00:01:52.319 fun costume and whatever. Weird You're not doing that for 45 00:01:52.480 --> 00:01:53.519 actual Halloween right now? 46 00:01:53.560 --> 00:01:54.079 No, I'm not. 47 00:01:54.280 --> 00:01:57.040 I am still undecided on that situation because we have 48 00:01:57.120 --> 00:02:00.519 Boo Bashed that night, and since you and I'll just 49 00:02:00.599 --> 00:02:02.840 let you know what I'm in between. I'm either going 50 00:02:02.920 --> 00:02:06.159 to be Chris Farley with his van down by the 51 00:02:06.200 --> 00:02:09.439 river kind of that whole skit epic, or because I 52 00:02:09.479 --> 00:02:11.560 do like doing like kind of cuter stuff and I 53 00:02:11.639 --> 00:02:14.280 like being crafty, I'm going to attempt to make a 54 00:02:14.479 --> 00:02:17.560 jellyfish costume. So I ordered a bunch of stuff from Amazon. 55 00:02:17.719 --> 00:02:19.560 Is it the kind of like umbrella thing over your head. 56 00:02:19.680 --> 00:02:21.479 Yeah, I'm not going to use an umbrella. That is 57 00:02:21.479 --> 00:02:23.080 one way to do it, but I'm going to do 58 00:02:23.159 --> 00:02:25.199 it a different way. And I bought like little led 59 00:02:25.400 --> 00:02:27.360 lights to put in it and all of this different 60 00:02:27.400 --> 00:02:31.080 fabric and material and it should have all arrived this morning. 61 00:02:31.240 --> 00:02:32.960 So I'm going to try to get working on that 62 00:02:33.080 --> 00:02:34.960 today and tomorrow and see how that goes, and if 63 00:02:35.000 --> 00:02:37.360 all else fails, I'm probably going to be Chris Farley. 64 00:02:37.400 --> 00:02:41.960 It's a very standout costume at events because actually the 65 00:02:42.120 --> 00:02:44.080 girl who won, Like when Colt and I did our 66 00:02:44.080 --> 00:02:48.240 float with Fallon and Colt. We did like a beach 67 00:02:48.800 --> 00:02:52.400 kind of theme and the girl that won our outfit 68 00:02:52.879 --> 00:02:55.000 was a jellyfish and it was awesome. 69 00:02:55.199 --> 00:02:57.719 It was like a really good one. So we'll see. 70 00:02:57.719 --> 00:03:00.319 But yeah, it was a good weekend. How was yours? 71 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:01.479 Also Halloween related? 72 00:03:01.560 --> 00:03:04.759 Right? Yeah? We went for the first time to the 73 00:03:04.800 --> 00:03:07.039 Great Pumpkin Trail, which if you don't know if I 74 00:03:07.039 --> 00:03:09.199 mean obviously if you don't listen to Minnesota, but I 75 00:03:09.199 --> 00:03:11.759 think primarily the people listen to our show are from Minnesota. 76 00:03:12.879 --> 00:03:17.439 It's connected to the Dead and Hay Ride. And I 77 00:03:17.479 --> 00:03:18.840 was like, I want to go check it out because 78 00:03:18.879 --> 00:03:21.120 our friends had gone and they said it was really cool. 79 00:03:21.439 --> 00:03:23.199 It's kind of like they described it as like kind 80 00:03:23.199 --> 00:03:26.159 of like the Minnesota Zoo how they have like all 81 00:03:26.199 --> 00:03:28.199 their pumpkins and we love the zoo one. So I 82 00:03:28.280 --> 00:03:30.800 was like, Okay, let's go check it out. What a 83 00:03:30.879 --> 00:03:33.800 hike because it's out like in Wyoming, Minnesota. So it 84 00:03:33.840 --> 00:03:36.840 took like from our house it's like over an hour, 85 00:03:37.520 --> 00:03:39.680 but Jake came to like the station and we rode 86 00:03:39.719 --> 00:03:44.199 together from the station. We got there and it is interesting. 87 00:03:44.360 --> 00:03:46.719 So the first part you go into it's like this 88 00:03:46.759 --> 00:03:49.879 communal area with like food trucks. That's all free, and 89 00:03:49.919 --> 00:03:51.560 then you either go to the right to the dead 90 00:03:51.599 --> 00:03:52.960 and hay ride or you go to the left to 91 00:03:52.960 --> 00:03:55.960 go to the Pumpkin Trail, and all of it has 92 00:03:56.000 --> 00:03:58.759 been a little spooked by Halloween stuff lately, so I 93 00:03:58.800 --> 00:04:00.800 was like, here we go, but she was actually totally fine. 94 00:04:00.919 --> 00:04:03.960 It was so awesome. I would recommend the like it 95 00:04:04.120 --> 00:04:08.439 for the drive. I guess, you know, everyone's standards are 96 00:04:08.439 --> 00:04:11.599 a little different. But they had like corn pit. They 97 00:04:11.599 --> 00:04:13.479 had ziplines kind of like a lot of this stuff. 98 00:04:13.479 --> 00:04:16.839 You'd see it severs also, and they had it lit 99 00:04:16.920 --> 00:04:19.079 up so you could actually because it was dark, you 100 00:04:19.079 --> 00:04:20.839 could see what you were doing. So I liked that 101 00:04:20.879 --> 00:04:23.120 there was extra stuff for all of to do, even 102 00:04:23.120 --> 00:04:26.120 though the pumpkin part itself was pretty massive, and they 103 00:04:26.120 --> 00:04:28.839 had a banger playlist. Oh gosh, Okay, so we've been 104 00:04:28.839 --> 00:04:32.160 listening to nothing but spooky scary skeleton like NonStop in 105 00:04:32.199 --> 00:04:35.199 our car. It goes hard when the beam breaks in, 106 00:04:35.319 --> 00:04:39.279 it goes hard. However, on the four thousandth time listening 107 00:04:39.319 --> 00:04:41.839 to it, it does lose its luster. In case you 108 00:04:41.839 --> 00:04:44.360 were wondering, I was gonna say, yeah, you're just listening 109 00:04:44.399 --> 00:04:46.199 to that on repeat, a lot of that, a lot 110 00:04:46.199 --> 00:04:48.639 of that, and then we went to the Saturday we 111 00:04:48.680 --> 00:04:50.680 had trunk or treat. Didn't know that this is a 112 00:04:50.720 --> 00:04:54.959 controversial thing. What do you mean? So I post what 113 00:04:55.000 --> 00:04:57.519 our trunk or treat was, which is totally an idea 114 00:04:57.560 --> 00:04:59.279 I saw on light everything like so creative. I'm like 115 00:04:59.319 --> 00:05:01.279 yeah to the person and I said, I found the 116 00:05:01.279 --> 00:05:04.959 idea online. But it was like an inside out theme. 117 00:05:05.120 --> 00:05:08.040 Jake built the huge wooden board and then we just 118 00:05:08.160 --> 00:05:12.240 used ballpit balls. We played the inside out music behind it, 119 00:05:12.480 --> 00:05:14.519 and then had tubes that shoot out the candy, which 120 00:05:14.560 --> 00:05:17.439 was really cute and everyone loved it, so all of 121 00:05:17.480 --> 00:05:19.639 us at a dance school. That's who we did it 122 00:05:19.680 --> 00:05:22.480 through Trunk or Treat. You have to, as parents, choose 123 00:05:22.519 --> 00:05:25.279 a committee to be on and I was like, whoa, Okay, 124 00:05:25.360 --> 00:05:28.759 Like I don't want to do a committee, but you 125 00:05:28.839 --> 00:05:30.839 have to because like every parent has to do something, 126 00:05:30.920 --> 00:05:34.600 so I, well, it makes me not like a questionable 127 00:05:34.600 --> 00:05:36.040 parent that I didn't want to do a committee, but 128 00:05:36.079 --> 00:05:40.040 I didn't. So I was like, we're gonna choose Halloween 129 00:05:40.399 --> 00:05:44.160 because I love Halloween. And also it's a one time thing, right, 130 00:05:44.639 --> 00:05:47.319 like once your trunker treat is over, Jake and I. 131 00:05:47.399 --> 00:05:49.839 Our committee duties are done for the year, you know 132 00:05:49.879 --> 00:05:52.120 what I mean, like because they don't even perform until 133 00:05:52.160 --> 00:05:56.800 like next year. Basically they're learning the routine. So everyone 134 00:05:56.879 --> 00:05:59.279 liked it was really good. But the controversy is people. 135 00:05:59.600 --> 00:06:01.519 So I put the video. It went viral. It has 136 00:06:01.560 --> 00:06:05.000 like over two million views. But people were like, I 137 00:06:05.000 --> 00:06:07.240 don't understand what people do these trunk or treats. It's 138 00:06:07.240 --> 00:06:10.240 so rude, Like we ever we miss having trigger treaters 139 00:06:10.279 --> 00:06:12.279 in our neighborhood, and it's so good for the old people. 140 00:06:12.360 --> 00:06:14.319 They love seeing the little kids, Like you should really 141 00:06:14.319 --> 00:06:16.519 consider that. And I was like, well, number one, you 142 00:06:16.519 --> 00:06:22.160 don't understand this context random like commenter that this is 143 00:06:22.199 --> 00:06:24.519 through her dance school. We had to do one. We 144 00:06:24.560 --> 00:06:27.680 didn't choose that for safety reasons. I guess a lot 145 00:06:27.720 --> 00:06:29.439 of people choose to take their kids to trunk or 146 00:06:29.439 --> 00:06:32.600 treats for safety reasons, you know, like it's safe a 147 00:06:32.639 --> 00:06:34.120 lot of the time for little kids. It's kind of 148 00:06:34.160 --> 00:06:36.720 more daylight hours. A lot of like churches and stuff 149 00:06:36.720 --> 00:06:38.519 do them. Trinker treats were in a thing when I 150 00:06:38.600 --> 00:06:41.199 was growing up, and I was like, also, no offense, 151 00:06:42.279 --> 00:06:46.439 not my responsibility to like brighten people's days on Halloween. 152 00:06:46.680 --> 00:06:49.639 But also I get your point to a degree, but 153 00:06:49.680 --> 00:06:51.399 I'm like, someone always has to have some kind of 154 00:06:51.600 --> 00:06:54.120 I didn't realize that trunk or treats were controversial until 155 00:06:54.120 --> 00:06:56.399 that moment because a lot of people were like commenting, yeah, 156 00:06:56.560 --> 00:06:58.600 like agreeing with her, and I'm like, that's so weird 157 00:06:58.639 --> 00:06:58.879 to me. 158 00:06:59.199 --> 00:07:01.279 No, I mean I I barely even knew what that 159 00:07:01.480 --> 00:07:04.399 was until like recent years. Yeah, because it's fairly newer, 160 00:07:04.519 --> 00:07:06.160 is it not, or maybe just because I didn't. 161 00:07:06.000 --> 00:07:07.959 Have kids fairly new, But I don't think it's no 162 00:07:08.120 --> 00:07:10.480 new by any means. I feel like I remember them 163 00:07:10.519 --> 00:07:14.120 being at churches, okay, when I was even growing up, 164 00:07:14.160 --> 00:07:15.560 but it was I don't know if it was through 165 00:07:15.639 --> 00:07:17.160 the trunk of your car though, I don't know how 166 00:07:17.199 --> 00:07:21.920 it worked. But yeah, man, I've been like a little 167 00:07:22.319 --> 00:07:26.279 on the I've been good lately on social media, but 168 00:07:27.079 --> 00:07:29.800 there have been a handful of times lately where I 169 00:07:29.920 --> 00:07:33.439 just like, think I need to turn off all comments. 170 00:07:33.959 --> 00:07:37.319 I turned off my story messages for a while and 171 00:07:37.360 --> 00:07:38.959 then I forgot they were turned off. Then I felt 172 00:07:38.959 --> 00:07:42.279 bad I turned those back on. But it is just 173 00:07:43.399 --> 00:07:47.160 constant feedback on what I could do better. Like one 174 00:07:47.240 --> 00:07:51.759 day I posted the Lobby coffee and some woman was like, 175 00:07:52.000 --> 00:07:53.959 you know, you really should be posting the other coffee 176 00:07:54.000 --> 00:07:56.680 shops in Excelsior, because you know, we don't want those 177 00:07:56.720 --> 00:07:57.959 to go out of business. We don't want to end 178 00:07:58.040 --> 00:08:01.319 up like why Zeta right, keep it like wholesome here. 179 00:08:01.319 --> 00:08:05.199 And I was like, how is this my job? I 180 00:08:05.279 --> 00:08:07.639 go to the labby because I like the coffee. It's 181 00:08:07.639 --> 00:08:10.120 not because I'm trying to put the other two coffee 182 00:08:10.160 --> 00:08:14.519 places out of business. It's not my job to promote 183 00:08:14.959 --> 00:08:18.879 all these places to keep a city functioning. It's just 184 00:08:18.920 --> 00:08:22.399 the I get the weirdest messages, and most of the 185 00:08:22.439 --> 00:08:25.319 time they don't bother me. But man, when you get 186 00:08:25.319 --> 00:08:27.680 like so many of just constantly people telling you what 187 00:08:27.680 --> 00:08:30.399 you could do better or how you should be doing 188 00:08:30.480 --> 00:08:33.879 to like help different people, it really weighs on you. 189 00:08:33.960 --> 00:08:36.200 And I'm like, maybe I should shut my stuff off 190 00:08:36.240 --> 00:08:39.200 for a minute because I can't stop posting, but I 191 00:08:39.240 --> 00:08:42.440 could stop responding or like reading the comments for a minute. 192 00:08:42.759 --> 00:08:45.080 I think that, Like, I mean, I don't get as 193 00:08:45.159 --> 00:08:47.240 much feedback. I feel like you get a lot of 194 00:08:47.279 --> 00:08:49.720 feedback with like everything that you do. So I don't 195 00:08:49.759 --> 00:08:52.200 get a lot of like that kind of feedback criticism 196 00:08:52.360 --> 00:08:55.480 and stuff. But I usually for me, it's out of side, 197 00:08:55.519 --> 00:08:57.279 out of mind. And if there's a comment I see, 198 00:08:57.279 --> 00:08:59.559 I just immediately deleted and I and that's the end 199 00:08:59.559 --> 00:09:02.600 of it. Or I make there's a way you can 200 00:09:02.639 --> 00:09:07.639 make like a notification of like you have to allow 201 00:09:07.799 --> 00:09:11.000 a comment by a certain person before it shows up. Yeah, 202 00:09:11.039 --> 00:09:13.320 so there's like that way too, which obviously you're not 203 00:09:13.320 --> 00:09:15.240 going to go through and like specifically fine, I know, 204 00:09:16.039 --> 00:09:19.399 but I don't know. For me, if I have access 205 00:09:19.399 --> 00:09:21.279 to see the comment again, I'll go back and look 206 00:09:21.279 --> 00:09:24.840 at it, so I know for my own mental safety, 207 00:09:25.039 --> 00:09:27.159 I just delete it right away if it like gave 208 00:09:27.200 --> 00:09:30.159 me a triggering feeling. A lot of the times I do, 209 00:09:31.799 --> 00:09:34.080 I think that a lot of I'll be one hundred 210 00:09:34.080 --> 00:09:40.720 percent honest. I think that the my demographic has changed 211 00:09:40.720 --> 00:09:44.200 a little bit. The radio side is very different from 212 00:09:44.240 --> 00:09:48.159 the television side. The television side skews older than my 213 00:09:48.320 --> 00:09:54.399 radio side, and I think that the always gets so 214 00:09:54.440 --> 00:09:57.399 worried about what I say. The older demographic says things 215 00:09:57.879 --> 00:10:01.000 without intentionally trying to hurt people. I think that they're 216 00:10:01.000 --> 00:10:03.960 just really blunt, and they don't like the young. I 217 00:10:03.960 --> 00:10:07.720 feel like the younger generations are more aware of like 218 00:10:07.840 --> 00:10:12.679 their comments coming across as rude or hurtful or critical 219 00:10:12.720 --> 00:10:15.360 because they've dealt with it, because they've been on social 220 00:10:15.399 --> 00:10:18.399 media and they've dealt with like the cyber bullying era 221 00:10:19.000 --> 00:10:22.480 or like you know, trying to like a mental health 222 00:10:23.039 --> 00:10:25.600 And I think like, like even my grandma will post 223 00:10:25.600 --> 00:10:27.600 off she's it's always very sweet because she's just like 224 00:10:27.600 --> 00:10:29.600 the sweetest human ever. But I don't even think she 225 00:10:29.679 --> 00:10:33.360 realizes that everyone can see it. So I think some 226 00:10:33.399 --> 00:10:36.399 of sometimes it's like from the older demographic that they 227 00:10:36.960 --> 00:10:39.440 aren't ever intentionally trying to be rude. And that's what 228 00:10:39.480 --> 00:10:41.679 I try to keep in mind, Like this person isn't 229 00:10:41.679 --> 00:10:44.120 trying to be rude. They just feel like they need 230 00:10:44.159 --> 00:10:47.879 to voice their opinion on everything. Like it's like I 231 00:10:47.919 --> 00:10:50.000 have to make a comment or it doesn't you know, 232 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:51.759 or no one will hear my thoughts. 233 00:10:51.799 --> 00:10:54.840 I don't know it no, I mean I completely agree, Like, 234 00:10:55.039 --> 00:10:58.320 for instance, my mother has turned into the person who 235 00:10:58.399 --> 00:11:01.559 pushes like marriage and kids on Andrew and I and 236 00:11:01.600 --> 00:11:06.000 I've it's frustrating to me only because like circa seven 237 00:11:06.080 --> 00:11:08.440 years ago. She was like, don't ever get married till 238 00:11:08.440 --> 00:11:09.279 you're like forty. 239 00:11:09.840 --> 00:11:10.679 You don't know who you are. 240 00:11:11.080 --> 00:11:13.399 And now it's like there's just been this like change 241 00:11:13.399 --> 00:11:17.320 in her where she's like wants that stereotypical family that's 242 00:11:17.360 --> 00:11:18.879 married and having kids and stuff. 243 00:11:18.879 --> 00:11:21.440 And now I'm getting older and I'm not doing that yet, 244 00:11:21.519 --> 00:11:22.120 you know whatever. 245 00:11:22.480 --> 00:11:24.240 And so I end a phone call with her the 246 00:11:24.240 --> 00:11:26.919 other day and she goes and she was on speaker 247 00:11:26.919 --> 00:11:28.159 and she knew Andrew's right next to me. 248 00:11:28.399 --> 00:11:30.240 She goes, Okay, i'll talk to you later. Now go 249 00:11:30.399 --> 00:11:31.120 make a baby. 250 00:11:31.679 --> 00:11:33.559 Like That's how she ended the phone call. And I 251 00:11:33.639 --> 00:11:37.480 was like, Mom, yeah, you know, like I get that 252 00:11:37.679 --> 00:11:41.759 you are interested in that, but just leave it alone. 253 00:11:41.799 --> 00:11:42.000 You know. 254 00:11:42.080 --> 00:11:44.279 It's just I think a lot of people just like 255 00:11:44.360 --> 00:11:46.559 to say things. And also I think a lot of 256 00:11:46.559 --> 00:11:48.960 people think they're funnier than what they are, and it 257 00:11:49.000 --> 00:11:50.840 never comes across the way you think it's going to 258 00:11:50.960 --> 00:11:51.759 on social media. 259 00:11:51.919 --> 00:11:53.639 So just maybe be aware of that. 260 00:11:53.679 --> 00:11:56.039 If you're commenting on things and you think you're being funny, 261 00:11:56.080 --> 00:11:58.759 if it is sarcastic in any way, most people won't 262 00:11:58.840 --> 00:11:59.720 read it as funny. 263 00:12:00.000 --> 00:12:04.519 I read it as you're being mean, right right, But 264 00:12:04.960 --> 00:12:08.120 I would say it's the same thing as anything else. 265 00:12:08.159 --> 00:12:10.000 Like the majority of the comments on the inside out 266 00:12:10.000 --> 00:12:11.320 we're like, oh my gosh, so creative. 267 00:12:11.360 --> 00:12:11.639 I love it. 268 00:12:11.639 --> 00:12:15.159 Blah blah blah. It was really cool, and I'm looking 269 00:12:15.159 --> 00:12:17.159 forward to this week because all of gets to do 270 00:12:17.240 --> 00:12:20.039 her costume multiple times, so she's hyped to be a 271 00:12:20.080 --> 00:12:22.960 witch multiple times. And I don't know if we'll do anything. 272 00:12:23.120 --> 00:12:24.799 I think, oh, actually we have. We live with the 273 00:12:24.799 --> 00:12:26.720 extra one of those neighborhoods that has the house that 274 00:12:26.879 --> 00:12:30.720 lights up like crazy for Halloween music. Yes, yeah, so 275 00:12:30.720 --> 00:12:32.320 we're gonna go always call it. I always call it 276 00:12:32.320 --> 00:12:35.480 the Little Kid Grave because it's like that, and so 277 00:12:35.519 --> 00:12:38.000 we'll probably check that out this Halloween. Yeah, are you 278 00:12:38.039 --> 00:12:41.120 doing anything for oh wait boo bash dash? Yeah, okay, yeah. 279 00:12:41.159 --> 00:12:43.080 How do you feel about it being on actual Halloween? 280 00:12:43.799 --> 00:12:47.679 I'm hyped about it because I go back and forth 281 00:12:47.759 --> 00:12:50.879 with events because of course it sucks for us to 282 00:12:50.919 --> 00:12:52.600 have to do an event on like a Thursday or 283 00:12:52.679 --> 00:12:54.480 any weeknight and then have to be up in the morning. 284 00:12:55.000 --> 00:12:57.879 But like, we did it on a Saturday last year, 285 00:12:58.120 --> 00:13:00.480 and that was so fun because it was like Saturday 286 00:13:00.519 --> 00:13:03.960 weekend energy. But at the same time, that's like my 287 00:13:04.080 --> 00:13:05.639 one day a week I don't have to like do 288 00:13:05.759 --> 00:13:08.279 work rightly, right, And so I go back and forth 289 00:13:08.320 --> 00:13:10.360 of like if I'd prefer to have it on a 290 00:13:10.360 --> 00:13:12.519 weeknight or if I would rather have it on the 291 00:13:12.519 --> 00:13:14.639 weekend so I can like enjoy it and not have 292 00:13:14.679 --> 00:13:15.559 to be up the next morning. 293 00:13:16.360 --> 00:13:18.919 Halloween's Thursday this year, right, it is, so I feel 294 00:13:18.960 --> 00:13:21.519 at least you only have like one day and you 295 00:13:21.559 --> 00:13:24.039 can recover, and like Fridays are like the easier days 296 00:13:24.120 --> 00:13:25.919 for sure, So I'm good with it. 297 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:28.600 I'm happy because I was able to go to this 298 00:13:28.639 --> 00:13:30.919 Halloween party this past weekend, and last year I missed 299 00:13:30.919 --> 00:13:33.440 it because we had our Boo Bash on that same night. 300 00:13:33.759 --> 00:13:36.240 So I'm happy that it's on that night and that 301 00:13:36.320 --> 00:13:38.360 it's on a Thursday and stuff, so it's not taken 302 00:13:38.399 --> 00:13:40.960 away from my weekend. But I just have like lots 303 00:13:40.960 --> 00:13:43.480 of work events this week that I like last minute. 304 00:13:43.639 --> 00:13:45.480 I mean, I did something last night. I have another 305 00:13:45.519 --> 00:13:48.879 thing on Wednesday, And what do you have Wednesday? It's 306 00:13:48.879 --> 00:13:51.399 for coats for kids, Well, just like a cold drive thing. 307 00:13:51.480 --> 00:13:53.879 So that's awesome. That's a good organization. 308 00:13:54.080 --> 00:13:56.159 Yeah, And now I obviously know that there's like probably 309 00:13:56.159 --> 00:13:57.919 a lot of Halloween candy in your house right now, 310 00:13:57.919 --> 00:14:00.399 and you were talking about trying to cut show out 311 00:14:00.480 --> 00:14:02.639 of your diet last week, so I would like a 312 00:14:02.639 --> 00:14:03.799 full update on how that's gone. 313 00:14:03.879 --> 00:14:07.440 Yeah, So my plan was to not eat refined sugar 314 00:14:07.480 --> 00:14:09.679 through the week. I knew, like, I'm not gonna live 315 00:14:09.720 --> 00:14:11.000 like that forever. I'm not going to be a quote 316 00:14:11.039 --> 00:14:14.799 unquote almond mom, and I don't want all of to 317 00:14:14.879 --> 00:14:19.080 think like sugar is the devil. I don't want her 318 00:14:19.080 --> 00:14:20.720 to like have all these weird things. But I also 319 00:14:20.799 --> 00:14:23.480 know that I'm addicted to it, like hardcore me too. 320 00:14:24.320 --> 00:14:26.559 So my plan was, let's just see if I feel 321 00:14:26.600 --> 00:14:30.360 different Monday through Friday actively not having it. Saturday and Sunday, 322 00:14:30.360 --> 00:14:32.000 I knew we're gonna have like the trunk or treat 323 00:14:32.039 --> 00:14:35.159 and stuff, so I was like, if I want sugar 324 00:14:35.200 --> 00:14:37.080 on those days, I can have it. I definitely did 325 00:14:37.080 --> 00:14:40.000 have sugar on those days. It was so much easier 326 00:14:40.039 --> 00:14:41.600 than I thought it would be to do Monday through 327 00:14:41.600 --> 00:14:44.840 Friday without sugar. I just like started the day with 328 00:14:45.080 --> 00:14:48.679 doing a plane latte, no syrups in it. Totally fine. 329 00:14:48.759 --> 00:14:52.679 I liked it. And then I didn't eat any desserts, 330 00:14:53.120 --> 00:14:56.600 so we ate pretty whole foods, made dinner at home 331 00:14:56.679 --> 00:15:01.120 every single night. I think, I don't know, I'm missing something. 332 00:15:01.159 --> 00:15:05.200 I didn't need a ton of processed foods, so that 333 00:15:05.399 --> 00:15:08.159 was good, okay. And then Saturday was the trunk or 334 00:15:08.200 --> 00:15:10.960 treat and I did good, like in the beginning of 335 00:15:11.000 --> 00:15:13.919 the day, and then after that, like in the evening, 336 00:15:14.960 --> 00:15:17.840 I ate definitely some of her candy, but didn't go 337 00:15:17.879 --> 00:15:21.039 as crazy as I normally would. Yesterday I ate the 338 00:15:21.039 --> 00:15:24.320 most sugar of the week, and then today I'm like 339 00:15:24.399 --> 00:15:26.440 planning to get back on I ate like a processed 340 00:15:26.559 --> 00:15:29.000 kind of Indian food bowl I got at Costco yesterday, 341 00:15:29.200 --> 00:15:32.159 which some guy walked in the kitchen goes, oh God, 342 00:15:32.360 --> 00:15:34.240 and it was like, no, a person I don't know, 343 00:15:34.639 --> 00:15:37.039 and I was like, oh sorry, Indian food. It's a 344 00:15:37.039 --> 00:15:39.080 little like can be a little aggressive with the scent. 345 00:15:39.120 --> 00:15:41.120 I didn't even think about that. I'm heating in the microwave. 346 00:15:41.320 --> 00:15:43.840 That's probably a super processed meal. But I'm just trying 347 00:15:43.840 --> 00:15:46.159 to be like more aware of what I'm like eating. 348 00:15:46.440 --> 00:15:48.759 And then I didn't have a diet coke at all 349 00:15:48.879 --> 00:15:51.919 last week, and I'm drinking one right now, and Jake 350 00:15:52.039 --> 00:15:53.840 was even like trying to get me to drink it 351 00:15:53.840 --> 00:15:56.240 this weekend and I was like, no, I'm actively trying 352 00:15:56.320 --> 00:15:59.720 to not be reckless. But today I felt tired and 353 00:15:59.759 --> 00:16:01.480 I was like, I want an extra boost to caffeine 354 00:16:01.519 --> 00:16:03.919 right now, so I'm getting it. But it's a coffeine 355 00:16:03.919 --> 00:16:06.759 and diet coke. Oh my god, yeah, Oh my gosh. 356 00:16:06.960 --> 00:16:11.080 I that's literally the main reason I drink this is 357 00:16:11.159 --> 00:16:12.720 for the caffeine. Wow. 358 00:16:12.840 --> 00:16:15.759 I just never drink like soda usually ever, but I 359 00:16:15.799 --> 00:16:18.159 definitely had a diet coke at this Halloween party, and 360 00:16:18.200 --> 00:16:18.799 maybe that's why. 361 00:16:18.840 --> 00:16:22.679 I was like, they hastily energize they have caffeine free 362 00:16:23.000 --> 00:16:26.440 diet coke. But when I went to someone's house and 363 00:16:26.480 --> 00:16:28.399 all they had was caffeine free diet coke, and I'm like, 364 00:16:28.440 --> 00:16:30.799 what the's wrong with you? Why? Why are you even 365 00:16:30.960 --> 00:16:33.039 doing it? Then? If you're not, But then I was like, well, 366 00:16:33.080 --> 00:16:34.879 there are probably other reasons why they don't want to 367 00:16:34.879 --> 00:16:36.799 be amped up on caffeine. They're just like the taste 368 00:16:36.799 --> 00:16:38.360 of the crisp cold diet coke. 369 00:16:38.440 --> 00:16:41.840 Maybe I think my only problem with like sugar is 370 00:16:42.080 --> 00:16:45.080 I can be really, really good all day long, but 371 00:16:45.120 --> 00:16:46.799 then then in the evening, I like have to have 372 00:16:46.879 --> 00:16:49.679 something sweet, and a lot of times it's something ridiculous, 373 00:16:49.759 --> 00:16:52.840 like handfuls of chocolate chips because I don't have anything 374 00:16:52.840 --> 00:16:55.519 else in my house. And then I like go overboard 375 00:16:55.559 --> 00:16:59.159 because in my eyes, I'm not seeing a serving size 376 00:16:59.159 --> 00:17:01.039 of it, like whereas if you eat a candy bar, 377 00:17:01.080 --> 00:17:02.799 you know, like I just eat a candy bar, you 378 00:17:02.799 --> 00:17:04.839 know what I mean. And so that's where I feel 379 00:17:04.880 --> 00:17:06.880 like I go a little bit crazy. And then once 380 00:17:06.920 --> 00:17:09.920 I start going down the white you can't stop rabbit hole, 381 00:17:10.039 --> 00:17:13.000 I keep going. And yeah, that's. 382 00:17:12.799 --> 00:17:15.200 Why I like I usually am like that. I don't 383 00:17:15.200 --> 00:17:17.079 know if I just got lucky last week and not 384 00:17:17.200 --> 00:17:19.480 having sugar cravings. I'm on my period now, so that 385 00:17:19.519 --> 00:17:23.759 baby's back in regular cycle, which is exciting. But maybe 386 00:17:23.759 --> 00:17:25.759 that'll I'll want some sugar and I don't know, but 387 00:17:25.839 --> 00:17:29.160 it was good. I'm also I texted Jenny this weekend 388 00:17:29.160 --> 00:17:32.599 because I was I the place I go for well, 389 00:17:32.640 --> 00:17:35.960 I do dispoort and not botox. And what I learned 390 00:17:35.960 --> 00:17:37.119 this weekend, By the way, a lot of people ask 391 00:17:37.160 --> 00:17:39.160 what the difference is, there really isn't a big difference. 392 00:17:39.200 --> 00:17:41.279 It's almost like two different brands. The girl who does 393 00:17:41.279 --> 00:17:45.200 disport on me, she also does botox, so it's she 394 00:17:45.279 --> 00:17:48.680 said that. They say you, They're like, you do not 395 00:17:48.799 --> 00:17:51.240 see faster results with one or the other, And she's like, yes, 396 00:17:51.319 --> 00:17:53.880 you do. She's like, you do you see faster results 397 00:17:53.920 --> 00:17:55.839 with Disport. She's like, I don't agree with that, but 398 00:17:55.880 --> 00:17:59.279 that's what they'll say. She's like, and people love instant gratification, 399 00:17:59.480 --> 00:18:01.400 so she's like, that's the only reason I like just 400 00:18:01.480 --> 00:18:04.039 recommended that to you for your first time, so but 401 00:18:04.079 --> 00:18:06.160