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Speaker 1: I made a decision. I'll pay Sunny. Sunny on I

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had visions night.

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Speaker 2: What's up, everybody. Welcome to for crying out loud. I

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am one of your hostste at Stephanie. Hi, Hi Stephanie.

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I'm doing so much to talk right now in this moment.

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It's Monday afternoon and Sunny's flew home for Friday night,

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drove to Vegas with his friend on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: No, Friday night he flew.

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Speaker 2: He flew to back home on like late Friday afternoon,

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and then Friday at night, drove to Vegas with his

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friend because his dad was out there. His dad got

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in tickets to the UFC fight over the weekend. Okay,

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so they got to do that. Then drove back on

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Sunday and then on night traffic they drove.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they drank. He hasn't made it there in time

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for a fight. No, the fight was Saturday, okay, So yeah,

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it was a lot of traffic. But it was his

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first road trip driving to Vegas, which was pretty cool.

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He liked it anyway.

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Speaker 2: But right now he's flying back as he has school

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tomorrow morning, and there's really no direct flights from Burbank

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to Eugene, so what he usually does is he connects

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into San Francisco. Well, anyway, right now he's he was

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supposed to leave an hour ago, but now there's his

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flight's delayed and now he's going to miss his connecting

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flight in San Francisco. But there's another flight at nine

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o'clock tonight, so he's going to kill like six hours

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in San Francisco airport. So he still has not taken

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off yet. And maybe after we hang after we hang

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up the show, I don't know, maybe I can call

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and see if there's any earlier flights that he because

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he didn't.

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Speaker 1: Check his bag.

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Speaker 2: He just has a carry on to see if there's

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any earlier flights. But anyway, that's the situation an airline. Yeah,

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maybe like Southwest or something. I don't know, we'll see.

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But you know he can hang out and watch Monday

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night football at the airport.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, see what he said. Yeah, it's not that long,

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I know, so for a walk, like, yeah, you can

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go walk around the terminal. Yeah, just some audio porn

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right him in his audio.

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Speaker 2: I hope he bought his charger because he's gonna run

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out of juice listen to all that audio porn.

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Speaker 1: I know, have you ever forgotten your charger, like just

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like or packed it in your bag that you were

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that you were sending me checked, yes, and then you're like,

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oh my god, my phone's gonna run out of about it? Yes,

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it's the worst feeling. That is the worst.

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Speaker 2: That yeah, that he has his charger in his bag,

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So yeah, he's okay. So anyway, monitoring that situation.

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Speaker 1: I live in fear that my kids are going to

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run out of battery. It's a weird like inks, yes,

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we have a good we have a good ad that

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covers out a little bit later on, right, my anxiety

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kicks in and then I'm like, well, I keep watching

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Life through sixty and seeing their phone battery, own battery,

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and then I'm like, what are they gonna do if

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they run out of battery? Thank god? See I don't

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have Life three sixty.

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Speaker 2: I find them on my iPhone friends, which doesn't tell

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me you know their battery. I don't need to know,

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but I did have that issue. So then over the weekend,

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I had my family's here from Chicago, Wendy's here, and yes,

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and Nicholas and his wife and the two year old

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and zo baby baby, and he's so ripping so cute.

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Oh my god, he just looks like a little baby

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Italian goomba.

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Speaker 1: It just is so cute.

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Speaker 2: So so yeah, they got in Friday night and they're

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at Disneyland. They left yesterday and today they come back tomorrow,

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so oh perfect. Yeah, so then they'll be here the

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rest of the week. And then of course there's Phil.

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Like every time the family comes to town, I give

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the speech like make sure you don't have any food

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in any of your pet bags anything. But because they

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have a two year old Andrea the mom, of course

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she's got like food in her in her purse and stuff.

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So she like went through everything. She forgot one bag

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the first night we were here. It was torn apart

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and it was like a couple of like all natural

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fruit roll up, like you know, a couple of those bars,

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plus the bags and the wrappers just gone just a mess.

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Speaker 1: Shredd it.

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Speaker 2: She's like, oh my god, it was in my suitcase

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underneath my folded clothes, like tucked away.

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Speaker 1: I got it. Well, he's he can.

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Speaker 2: Smells like a bloodhound man, he is a bloodhound. So

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he got into that and then he.

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Speaker 1: Didn't make him sick, no, the first thank god. It

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was root roll ups. Yeah, it was just frut loll up.

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Speaker 2: So the first night they it was when it happened,

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so he did keep me up all night. He was like,

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I gotta go to the bathrooms. I kept taking him

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out to go to the bathroom, and then he was fine.

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And then as they're leaving to Disneyland, they give little

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Enzo half of a bagel with like butter, and he's like,

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takes one bite and Phil just gobbles that right out

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of his hand. But he's so cute, and he was like,

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he's like, yeah, I look, Doggie took my bagel.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's Phil. It's so cute.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm sorry, Enzo, but yeah, So we

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had da going on. Then Natalia calls me from Santa Barbara. Oh, okay,

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hold on, let me tell you this story, and I'm

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going to have to post these pictures on our Facebook

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page so you can see she okay, a couple nights

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ago last week, she sends me a text and she's

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at her front door with the door open, and there's

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a homeless guy standing at the front door and she's like, mom,

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this homeless guy keeps knocking on the door wanting water.

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Speaker 1: He won't, and I'm like, what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: So I call her and I go, Ntellia, just close

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the door and just say, you know, sorry, can't help you.

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Close the door because he looked like not in looked

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just homeless. He looked mentally ill. Yeah, he was like

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long beard, disheveled, like hadn't bathed. And I'm like, shut

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the door, like okay. So she's like okay. Then she

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then she I call her back and I goes, he gone.

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She goes, no, he won't stop banging on the windows.

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He wants water, and she goes, I think I'm gonna

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give him some water, and I go, okay, throw a

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bottle of water out there and then shut the door.

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Speaker 1: And she's like, we don't have bottled water. I'll just

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give him a cup.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, Okay, he's banging on the windows.

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She goes, well, he's knocking and he's just asking for water.

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She's like he seems kind of chill, okay, And I'm like,

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are you fucking with me? But I'm looking at this picture.

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Then she sends me another and I'm on the phone

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like with Suzanne at the time, and I keep getting

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these texts back then she shows me another picture and

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she's like, see he's chill and he's on the couch

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next to her roommate. And I'm like, okay, you're fucking

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with me. I don't believe, Like, who is that your friend? Like,

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what's going on? And then sends me another picture of

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them hugging and she's like, see he's chill. And I go,

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I go, Susane, I'll call you right back. I call her,

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I go, what the fuck is going on? She's like

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it's Ai and I'm like, that is not fucking funny.

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Oh it looks real.

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Speaker 1: It looked real. They make that I don't know. And

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then somebody I was.

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Speaker 2: Telling said something like there's some trend on TikTok where

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they are doing this AI thing and they're calling their moms,

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you know, scaring their moms and then recording it kind

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of thing and putting it on TikTok. And did she

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record No, I don't think she recorded me. I think

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she was just showing me the pictures. And then I

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look the pictures and you can clearly say it's not

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the same guy. The first guy at the dard's shorter hair,

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and then the guy on the couch his hair is

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way longer, his beard's longer.

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Speaker 1: It's not the same guy.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know. I don't have my glasses on.

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All I just see is some homeless guy. And she's

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like it scared me. I got a stomach ache. I

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was like, should I call the police? What's going on?

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Why is he in your house? But I still n't

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trust it. I was like, what the fuck? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So that happened, and again, like after I give her

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the speech about the Idaho students, keep your doors locked

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and stuff like that, like that was the first thing

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I thought. Yes, I was like, come on, like, what

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are you doing? Okay? So then.

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Speaker 2: The family comes in and it's Saturday afternoon. Suzanne comes

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over to see my family because she's close with them.

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Speaker 1: We're all hanging out.

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Speaker 2: I'm a bagel Saturday, Like at one o'clock, Natalia calls me.

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This is like two days later. So she's crying and

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she's like, mom, I am in so much pain. My

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kidneys are hurting me. And I said, why do you

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say your kidney? She said, because it's my lower back,

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you know, on my side, my lower I got all

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this pressure, she said, and I'm in pain. And I said,

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maybe you know. I said, were you drinking last night

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or whatever? She said, No, I haven't. I haven't drank

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in a couple of days. And she was on this

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medication for a rash that she got on her back.

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I don't know if it's the medication. I just started

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taking it like two days ago or what. But I'm

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in like so much pain. But she was like upset,

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and she's like, I'm going to my roommate's taken me

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to the er. So at the time, I'm like texting

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her back and forth like how what's going on? And

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Wendy's like, she probably just needs an IV. Maybe she's dehydrated,

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if her kidneys her, I don't know something. She probably whatever.

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So I don't really think about it. But then a

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couple hours later, she's still there and I'm like, are

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you and she goes. I'm she goes. Then I talked

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to her and she was like, mom, you don't understand.

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I was in the bathroom shivering and sweating. At the

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same time, I was sitting next to the toilet like

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I wanted to vomit, and I had the worst pain

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in my lower back and side area.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like a lotder infection. That turned into a

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kidney infection. So they so they took her blood.

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and it looked like she had an infection, and then

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they did an ultrasound. She was there from like one

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thirty until like eight thirty at night, and she stayed

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and waited that long because that's how much pain she

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was in, and her roommate was there with her almost

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the whole time. In her roommate finally she was like,

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just go home. I'm okay, just go home. So the

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roommate went home and then she and then she went

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in to see the doctor and they said after the

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urine and blood, they said, we want to do an ultrasound.

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We think maybe had a kidney stone. So then they

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did the ultrasound. Nothing really came up, but they they're

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from the what she described. They said, you might have

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passed a kidney stone. And then they said, we don't

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know if you're if it could come back, but if

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you have that pain again, come back to the er.

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Speaker 1: Well, so did the the pain went away? Yeah, then

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the pain subsided.

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Speaker 2: They gave her something for the medicine they gave her

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medicine for the pain. They did want to know the

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medication she was taking. They did say something like it

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could have an effect. It could because that medication, you know,

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obviously goes through the liver and if she's dehydrated, plus

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her diet mixed with a kind of diet she was on.

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I don't know, maybe like I don't know too much creatine.

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Speaker 1: You know. She takes all these like health supplements and

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stuff that it could have been a kidney stone. Mostly

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eats protein, right, didn't Yes, she mostly restricts her carbs. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: They don't They don't know for sure if that's what

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it was or if it's going to come back. But

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she did feel much better. She went home. That was

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her and then like half an hour later, she's like,

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but it's not as bad, but I feel like the

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pain in my lower back again. And I said, well,

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you maybe you need to go back to the arch

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because I don't want to go back because she was

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there for so I go, but this time they said

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to come back. You know, they'll probably take you. Plus

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it's Sunday night, it's late, like, you know, just and

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she's like, I don't know, I just I just want

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to go to sleep. I just want to go to sleep.

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this morning. She woke up with some pain in the

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middle of the night, not as bad. Took her a

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while to get back to sleep, and now so far

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she's okay again. So I don't know, but I do

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know I need to get her a doctor out there.

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She needs like a good shouldn't have like she just

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has her pediatrician out here, you know. I think she

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needs to have a good obgyn. So now I have to, like,

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I got to find her a good doctor to go

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to out there.

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Speaker 1: So that was she's on your insurance, right, yes, so yeah,

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she can see somebody out there, yeah right, So I think, yeah,

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I don't see why not.

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Speaker 2: I just have to find somebody. You know, if anybody

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knows any good doctors in Santa Barbara, let me know.

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But yeah, so that that was That's where I'm at

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with her, right now and we'll see.

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Speaker 1: So you feel like you're like on alert for her

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a little bit, say, if she's in pain, yeah, she'll

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go back. Yeah, And I told definitely wasn't then a

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kidney infection, even though it seems like the shivering, that

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seems like an infection right right, But there they didn't

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give her like anybody. No, they didn't give her anything. No,

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and that shivering stuff went away.

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Speaker 2: It went away. Yeah, no fever, no, no, no fever.

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But I mean I might go out there and go

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get her, like, I don't know, but she doesn't want

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me to. She wants to go to class today. And

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you know, so she did go at last. I talked

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to her, shes getting ready to go to school. She

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felt better, she took some motron. So I don't know.

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home tonight.

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Speaker 1: That's hard. Yeah, yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I just if she's still feeling this pain, I'm gonna

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go get her or go out there and take her

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to a doctor, because sometimes these ers and urgent cares

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like they just you know, treat it and send you

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on your way.

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Speaker 1: They don't really look into what the problem. I don't

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know it sounds like they did though look into it.

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They did, but like, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I get the blood in the urine and they said

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there could have been an infection, but then they just say, oh,

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sounds like you passed it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Like I feel like and now she's

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having this pain again. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like she needs to be seen again by somebody.

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So I don't know. I might be driving out to

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Santa Barbara. Well, I just drove out to Santa Barbara. Yeah,

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so I experienced recently the traffic.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't that bad driving out there. It was not

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that bad. Yeah, driving home, it was what TANGI go out.

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So I took Xander for a tour of UCSB and

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it was a two o'clock tour. So we left at

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like eleven forty five. Yeah. Yeah, we gave ourselves like

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two hours and fifteen minutes. Because you know, me and

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my anxiety, which we talk about, but like I was like,

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I don't want It's not that I I'm scared that

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we're going to miss that we're going to be late.

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It's more like I get worried about all the like

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where are we going to park? Like is the building.

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And I've done it before. That's the funny thing. I

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did it a couple of years ago with LB Oh,

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she was like a junior in high school. It was

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like a few years ago. But I did the tour

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and I mean I parked and I but this time

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I was reading the directions and that you know, of

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course they're like, don't be late because the tour was

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just going to leave. You're going to be You're a

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miss it. So that I'm like, what if there's traffic

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and what if? Yeah? And yeah, so wait, so how

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is your electric car to make it all the way

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and back? So, because I have a little anxiety, I

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didn't take the electric car. Oh okay, I you know what.

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And I totally could have and it would have been

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absolutely fine. But I've only charged it up myself a

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couple of times. Yeah, So I was just like, I

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don't need to be out there experiencing the Lynette Corolla effect.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know I've given everybody anxiety with my stories.

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Speaker 1: Well here's the thing. I was like, you know what

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the Prius does. So, I mean the Prius gets fifty

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one miles per gallon? Oh wow? So yeah, I used

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literally like a couple of gallons of gas right there

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and back right Like, it's nothing. I didn't even have

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I didn't even have to gas up. I had like

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half a tank, drove there and back, still had gas

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to spare. So I was like, might as well just

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take that car if I can. We have two cars, yeah,

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and use the electric car around town to really get

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the feel for the range. So yeah, So drove out there.

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It was no problem. The parking was super easy. Yeah,

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it's easy campus to get to an easy it's like

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right off the freeway. Yeah, gorgeous day. You know me,

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I started trying to make friends right away. I'm I'm

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not like you in the way of like I want

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people to like randomly approach me and start shit chatting

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with me. I'm all about it, right, But a lot

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of people I think are more like you, where they're like,

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all right, we can exchange pleasantries. But then I'm gonna

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like do my own thing, kid, and I'm like, let's

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be best friends winter insta. Yeah, yeah, I though like

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people like you.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that, Yeah, because then I get my info

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from people like you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I that you should say that, you know what,

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talking about OCD exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So, so Xander and I go to find this

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spot on the grass. You know, they told us where

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to go, and everybody was confused. But when I get confused,

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I just asked questions. I'm like, hey, excuse me, Like,

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do you guys know where we're going? You guys here

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for the tour? Yeah? Anyway, so I meet a few people, well,

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you know, mildly friendly then, but some of the kids

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that were on this tour were juniors, and I was like,

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I want to find like another senior. So I see

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this woman and her daughter and I'm like, are you

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guys here for the tour? And she says yes, and

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I'm like, is your daughter a senior? And she's like yeah,

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And I was like, great, where are you from? Exactly exactly?

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And she was from not that far from me. So

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we started talking and it was really funny, and then

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the kids started talking, and then we go on the

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tour and she and I are just like chatter chatter,

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chattering to each other, and she's totally talkative, and like

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we start comparing what colleges our kids are looking at,

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and the kids are really similar like Xander's and speech

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and debate. Her kids in like Model U N. They're

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interested in some of the same schools. They both want

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to do communication major. Oh no, that's nice. So she

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and I are just like totally.

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Speaker 2: And Xander's like you, like I think outgoing and talkative,

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super he's very outgoing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And then it was fun because you know, we

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were just hanging back and letting the kids be in

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the front and with the tour guide, right, and she

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and I were kind of hanging back, and she and

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I had so much in common. We were both talking

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about like the call, the pressure and the college pressure,

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and she was saying that like she went to college

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in Mexico and it was like a totally different thing,

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and that she and her husband are much more laid

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back about the whole thing, like they want her to

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go where she wants she want to go, but they

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don't want to spend a ton of money. And like, anyway,

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we had all these things in common. That and she

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also what she took in school is nothing even close

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to what she's doing now. And then like her, she

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was telling me about her friend's kid who went to

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school for like finance and then got a job right

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out of college and then was miserable, right, and just like,

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oh my god, or life so bored. It's like an

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office job, you know, and they were like twenty two yeah,

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and they were like, forget it, went back to school

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for something totally different and now they do something different. Anyway,

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So we're talking and it was really fun, and then

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later the kids kept kind of looking back at us,

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and then we start like she and I started exchanging

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information and like we friend each other on Facebook because

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we're old. And then the kids traded their you know igs.

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Yes right, And then when later I asked Xander, I

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was like, so, I go you guys were looking back

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and kind of laughing at us, I said, is was

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she saying that her mom is like me, like makes friends,

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and she goes, No, she was happy because I guess

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her mom normally is like to helicoptery, the one asking

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all the questions, you know, And she was like, so

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she was so happy that her mom was like occupied.

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Speaker 2: She was relief that came around. That's funny. Yeah, oh

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that's so cool.

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Speaker 1: But it was really good time, like we were totally bonded.

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Xander is a fun hang Yeah. I bet he's just

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so dry. His gamer is really dry. Isn't that fun

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to hang out with just one of your kids like that?

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What if Xander was like really mean to me all

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the time? I'm like, he's so dry, it's hilarious. He's

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being really serious, sarcastic, and like he's always joking with me.

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It's like, shut up, mom, No he was. He was

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really fun. And then we were like, let's the timing

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was horrendous because the tour was like from two like

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we were done. It was like four thirty, really bad time,

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and we hadn't eaten, so we were like traffic was

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going to be like over yeah, like two and a

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half hours or something. Yeah. We went and ate at Islands.

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Oh nice, and then we drove love and it was

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a two hour drive.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean, yeah, the drive home can suck.

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I try to time it so that I get there

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a little on the later side, so that I missed

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the traffic coming home usually when I go, But.

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Speaker 1: You know, is it yeah, is it always like that,

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Like if you were to if say we finished podcasting

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and you were like, I'm gonna go drive to Santa Barbara.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it'll take me like over two hours at this

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point a time. I but every time I've gone, I've

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timed it like I go like ten am or eleven,

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like after the traffic. So always going there is not

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a problem. But it's the coming home and it's always

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dark at that time, and it's and there's all that construction.

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I know we're getting to the weeds, but there is

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00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,880
construction leaving Santa Barbara. So you're like in this teeny

470
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:47,000
tiny lane on the freeway for miles for a while,

471
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,960
and I get claustrophobic in that lane. And it's been

472
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,319
going on for like over a year now, like the

473
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:57,319
construction's still going so anyway, but it is nice down there.

474
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,640
It's a great vibe. It's really like, you know, it's

475
00:25:00,759 --> 00:25:05,480
selk southern California. You know, kids everywhere walking around. You

476
00:25:05,519 --> 00:25:08,160
get that ocean breeze and it's nice.

477
00:25:08,759 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 1: What did he think? He loved it? He really liked it.

478
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,880
It was his first college tour. Yeah, and he was

479
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,240
I think he because I think I told you that

480
00:25:17,319 --> 00:25:20,119
a little while ago, I was saying that I thought

481
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,880
Santa Barbara would be a great school for him. And

482
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,160
there's also this School of Creative Studies, which is kind

483
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:28,119
of like you do your own thing. You could apply

484
00:25:28,279 --> 00:25:31,559
for like creative writing. That could be really good for you.

485
00:25:32,839 --> 00:25:35,279
He talked himself out of it, and I don't know why,

486
00:25:35,319 --> 00:25:36,599
but he was like, yeah, I don't think so, I

487
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,480
don't think I'm into it. And I was like, why,

488
00:25:38,599 --> 00:25:41,519
you haven't even seen it. So now he saw it

489
00:25:41,559 --> 00:25:45,160
and he was like, oh, really like it. Yeah, you

490
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:49,880
know why. It's like when these kids are in like

491
00:25:50,519 --> 00:25:53,039
junior high or middle school or whatever, and they want

492
00:25:53,079 --> 00:25:55,799
to go to a high school that looks like Disney movies. Yes,

493
00:25:56,079 --> 00:25:58,000
you know, they have the picture in their minds, so

494
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,000
they don't want to go to like a small high school,

495
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,920
go to a big school with lockers, and yes, it's

496
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,759
the same thing. These kids see movies with college campuses

497
00:26:05,799 --> 00:26:08,559
and they want this thing that they see, and that's

498
00:26:08,559 --> 00:26:11,160
what Santa Barbara is. Yeah. Yeah, it's nice.

499
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,559
Speaker 2: It's like a college campus from movies, right, I know,

500
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:19,400
it's it's beautiful. Yeah, I mean it's it's great. Is

501
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,759
there any other place that he wants to go look at.

502
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:26,559
Speaker 1: So I want to take him to SDSU San Diego State,

503
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,400
and I think that would be a great school for

504
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,200
him too. I mean, we're going to apply to a

505
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,599
bunch of places, but I mean we might go see

506
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,480
Chapman because they have a great like film and TV.

507
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:42,279
Yeah program, that's nice. But I just kind of want

508
00:26:42,319 --> 00:26:45,039
to wait and see where he gets in, right, right,

509
00:26:45,519 --> 00:26:51,039
That's that's smart because the school gives them excused absences,

510
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:54,160
I think something like five. Don't they need you to,

511
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,000
like it, take a picture or something, and not until

512
00:26:57,079 --> 00:27:00,319
second semester because I think they figure that's when they

513
00:27:00,319 --> 00:27:03,480
would start knowing where they're accepted to. I see, so

514
00:27:03,519 --> 00:27:06,680
they don't really want you to go until you find

515
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,079
out where you're Yeah. I mean, listen, he could take

516
00:27:09,079 --> 00:27:10,640
a sick day. It's not going to be the worst,

517
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,720
right happens, right, Yeah.

518
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 2: Well that's awesome, that's great. Good for him. Yeah.

519
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,799
Speaker 1: I thought it would be really cool if Natalia starts going. Yeah,

520
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,559
I would because this is your two I mean, she'll

521
00:27:26,599 --> 00:27:29,720
be a I know, university student next year. Yeah.

522
00:27:29,799 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 2: And I was talking to Sunny this morning on the

523
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,680
way to the airport, and he's already like getting all

524
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:39,079
his stuff ready to apply, you know, in November, and

525
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,000
he's like, thank god, it's just one school this time.

526
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 1: And he's doing the early apply again. He's going to

527
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:45,640
do that.

528
00:27:46,279 --> 00:27:48,079
Speaker 2: So he's getting ready and I keep saying, do you

529
00:27:48,319 --> 00:27:49,839
do you need somebody to help you?

530
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: And he's like, I have the guy. He is a counselor.

531
00:27:53,079 --> 00:27:53,680
He's talking to me.

532
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 2: He's like but other than that, he's like, I think

533
00:27:55,240 --> 00:28:00,640
I got it all right, all right, but yeah, And

534
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,160
he started his classes and it's enjoying it. He's in

535
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:09,079
person like Tuesday through Thursday. Then he's got a cup

536
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,839
of class like offline not I mean not in person online.

537
00:28:13,319 --> 00:28:17,720
And the tally's got a full plate too. So we'll

538
00:28:17,759 --> 00:28:20,640
see come November, we'll see what happens.

539
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: I know Xander are Xander and City already applied to

540
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,640
SDSU that you the state school. They did a little

541
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,920
workshop at their school where they helped them. Nice.

542
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 2: Do I wish schools had that kind of stuff, you know,

543
00:28:36,319 --> 00:28:39,000
there should be more schools where they they have like

544
00:28:39,039 --> 00:28:42,079
a workshop that helps you apply for colleges and look

545
00:28:42,079 --> 00:28:44,359
into it and you know, prep and all that stuff.

546
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,839
Like I don't know our school did, and maybe other

547
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,079
schools do, but that's good.

548
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,119
Speaker 1: Our school's built for that. Right. When LB went to Taft,

549
00:28:52,599 --> 00:28:54,079
they didn't do anything to do any of that. And

550
00:28:54,119 --> 00:28:56,240
the in fact, at one point I emailed because I

551
00:28:56,279 --> 00:28:59,160
was like, hey, doesn't high school like help you or whatever?

552
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:04,519
And they're like they use navveyance like this like a

553
00:29:04,559 --> 00:29:08,279
program and app like help. It's like just it's basically

554
00:29:08,319 --> 00:29:10,640
like no, yeah, you're on your own. That's what we had.

555
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:14,079
We had some kind of app or something. Yeah, exactly,

556
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,839
it's an Appeah, so stupid and it didn't help her

557
00:29:16,839 --> 00:29:19,880
at all. But then we had hired that counselor, who

558
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,680
also didn't help her at all. Yes, we had the

559
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,559
same thing. We had a bad counselor. They did not.

560
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,200
So now they're like sour on a counselor. They're like no, like.

561
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,839
Speaker 2: Between my roommates and the counselor at the at the school,

562
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,799
like I think I got it. I go, are you sure?

563
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,559
Because I you know, I'm talking to Stephanie. She has

564
00:29:38,559 --> 00:29:41,119
somebody that's really good and essay. It's just for I'm

565
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,519
not using a college counselor.

566
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,839
Speaker 1: But just for the essay cart right, yes, right, who

567
00:29:45,839 --> 00:29:48,680
I think I'm just gonna have help him will Xander

568
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,160
with camm well maybe with his personal statement. They call it, yeah,

569
00:29:52,519 --> 00:29:55,519
the common app but mainly for the p IQ's. I

570
00:29:55,559 --> 00:29:58,039
want him to run it by somebody that's not me. Right.

571
00:29:58,359 --> 00:30:00,480
That's good because I get carried away with wanting it

572
00:30:00,519 --> 00:30:04,039
to be like creative, I be a little funny. Yeah,

573
00:30:04,039 --> 00:30:07,839
And apparently that's not really what the right right? I know.

574
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,599
Now it's better to get somebody else's eyes on it

575
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:16,960
than us. I agree. I have a friend who I

576
00:30:17,039 --> 00:30:21,079
might have told you this. This happened like a year ago.

577
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,680
My friend basically was helping her kid. My friend is

578
00:30:24,799 --> 00:30:28,519
a nervous person, could use some no CD and was

579
00:30:28,759 --> 00:30:31,640
helping her kid with the essay and like rewrote some

580
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:37,480
parts and somehow the coach that the counselor they were

581
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,440
working with could see like that she was in the document,

582
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,920
you know what I mean, Like somehow and they were like,

583
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:49,200
are you editing his essay? And she was like, I

584
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:56,920
mean not. They were so mad at her, really, like

585
00:30:57,039 --> 00:30:59,880
don't ever do that again, like wow, or we'll fire him,

586
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,000
like we won't be able to work with him. Oh

587
00:31:02,079 --> 00:31:04,480
my gosh, I guess that's a big deal if parents

588
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,440
try to write their kids yeah, well I'm sure. Yeah,

589
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,640
I'm sure a lot of parents do it. Yeah, move over,

590
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,079
let me write yeah, yeah, out of the chair. I

591
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,599
did not do that. And then, in fact, when I

592
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,640
was kind of helping Lbie round one and I would

593
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,640
like suggest a word like, she would read it to

594
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,440
me and then I'd be like, what if you said this,

595
00:31:24,519 --> 00:31:26,279
And she'd be like, Mom, that's not a word I

596
00:31:26,279 --> 00:31:26,720
would use.

597
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,319
Speaker 2: I know that's what my kids say. Well m hmm,

598
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,480
yeah I did the same thing.

599
00:31:31,519 --> 00:31:34,359
Speaker 1: It's abundantly clear, mom. I would never say like abundant.

600
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:35,759
I'm like, all right. Yeah.

601
00:31:36,039 --> 00:31:40,279
Speaker 2: Remember, Like Natalia's like her guy that she had was

602
00:31:40,279 --> 00:31:43,319
so bad, Like she was saying she was writing something

603
00:31:43,359 --> 00:31:46,279
about the industry she wants to be in, and and

604
00:31:46,359 --> 00:31:50,000
then he wrote he like said something like, well why

605
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,640
don't you say like as the daughter of a celebrity

606
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,720
comedian remember that? And She's like, no, dude, no, I'm

607
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:02,920
not saying that's how I talk any way. No, Yeah,

608
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,319
it was he was really bad. Like and Sonny too,

609
00:32:05,359 --> 00:32:06,920
so he's like he wanted me to say all this

610
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,200
weird like stuff about my dad, about his dad too,

611
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,799
about sports, and how he like, and he's like, that's

612
00:32:12,839 --> 00:32:15,880
just not me, you know. I'm like, okay, I get it.

613
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,559
And then I'm trying to help them. They're like, no,

614
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,160
that's yeah, not the kind of words I would use either.

615
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,759
So I'm like, all right, this time, you guys are

616
00:32:23,799 --> 00:32:25,599
on your own. If you want help, let me know,

617
00:32:26,519 --> 00:32:28,880
but I'm not going to bang my head against the wall.

618
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 1: Keep asking you. Is that I got kind of moded

619
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:35,759
because you know, round one I did. When I say

620
00:32:35,799 --> 00:32:38,000
I helped a lot, I don't mean that I wrote it,

621
00:32:38,079 --> 00:32:41,119
but you know, of course I was encouraging her to

622
00:32:41,359 --> 00:32:44,599
be a little more creative with her wording, and apparently

623
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,640
that isn't what they're looking for. Round two, I was like, well,

624
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,799
you know, yeah, my name is Paul, as we say,

625
00:32:53,039 --> 00:32:54,799
And then she got in everywhere and I didn't even

626
00:32:55,440 --> 00:33:01,759
read them, see like moated and corroded, like well, looking

627
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:05,359
toward Sadie and Xander, I guess I don't know, Well

628
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,759
now you learned, Yeah, but you feel so stupid because

629
00:33:07,759 --> 00:33:10,759
I'm like, I'm a freaking writer. I know classics books.

630
00:33:10,799 --> 00:33:12,319
I think I can write a college.

631
00:33:12,359 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 2: I know, like the year I was just thinking all

632
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,119
the time, like I got her kids are so lucky,

633
00:33:17,319 --> 00:33:20,200
and she teaches a writing class and everything, like, you know,

634
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:22,400
it's so great, but like when you got kids that

635
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:22,839
don't want to.

636
00:33:22,839 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: Listen to you, you know, yeah, it's funny. Well, the

637
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,480
problem was, I think Albie kind of did want to

638
00:33:28,519 --> 00:33:31,559
listen to me. You let me lead her astray, you know,

639
00:33:32,279 --> 00:33:34,000
even though I think in her heart of heart she

640
00:33:34,119 --> 00:33:36,640
was like, I don't know if they wanted to sound

641
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,119
this creative. I was like, you want to hook them in,

642
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,680
have a hook sentence at the beginning. Oh that's a

643
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,519
great opening sentence. What if you mentioned this, you know,

644
00:33:44,599 --> 00:33:51,759
and I'd be like, all right, yeah, pretty soon it's

645
00:33:51,799 --> 00:33:56,359
like on Walden Pond or something like anyway wrote your

646
00:33:56,680 --> 00:34:00,359
essay and it's I think, whatever, it wasn't that bad.

647
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,359
And she did, but she did work only with her

648
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:08,679
oh her first That first counselor was I didn't we

649
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:12,800
didn't use Melissa Melissa Amerol, who I've I've passed on

650
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,280
to many people, not trying to gate keep our essay coach.

651
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,880
But year one, we just we were like, we already

652
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,800
fucking paid four thousand dollars for this coach, maybe forty

653
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:26,960
two hundred so like, let her help with the essays, right.

654
00:34:28,039 --> 00:34:31,199
I didn't love her notes either though. For LB, yeah,

655
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,519
she'd be like, oh, she really watered down on one

656
00:34:34,559 --> 00:34:37,280
of her essays. She was like, yeah, don't say don't

657
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,360
say this, and she took out the kind of interesting,

658
00:34:40,599 --> 00:34:44,239
sort of funny part. Yeah, and she made it real bland, right,

659
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,519
so you know what, that's how they bolt. Yeah, I

660
00:34:47,559 --> 00:34:51,800
know Melissa didn't do that, Melissa round two. I did

661
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,400
hear the essays after the fact, and they were really good. Yeah, okay,

662
00:34:55,559 --> 00:35:00,000
more straightforward right than how I would have Yeah, yeah

663
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,880
for schaeferd than how I wrote that. Right. Anyway, we

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706
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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you know what I was thinking too when

707
00:37:20,559 --> 00:37:22,280
we were talking about the college essay thing. You know,

708
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,519
this like chat GBT is like insane. I have a

709
00:37:25,559 --> 00:37:30,840
friend who's a lawyer and uses it for contracts. He's like,

710
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,719
my job has cut down, I mean the hour like

711
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,679
I barely you know, he has contracts and stuff. I

712
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,000
mean they can't really do like detailed contracts, but a

713
00:37:41,039 --> 00:37:45,239
lot of like emails to other lawyers or just even

714
00:37:45,559 --> 00:37:48,440
just the bones of a contract. Like he he names

715
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,639
it hal, he talks to it, calls it hol and

716
00:37:51,639 --> 00:37:53,960
and he's got this whole relation like he knows Hall,

717
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,480
knows about his family, knows about his job, knows about

718
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,000
his boss. Like his boss wouldn't like this if you

719
00:37:59,119 --> 00:38:01,360
said that, Like, you know, how what do you think

720
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,840
about this? Like it's crazy to me. I just this

721
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,599
AI and chat Gypt stuff is just insane to me.

722
00:38:07,639 --> 00:38:10,519
And it's kind of scary that it's like taking jobs

723
00:38:10,519 --> 00:38:11,000
and stuff.

724
00:38:11,079 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: You know. The only thing is well, a couple of things.

725
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,079
One do you think that kids are just going to

726
00:38:18,159 --> 00:38:20,920
use chat GPT to like write their whole essay? Well,

727
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,880
that's write me an essay that will get me into

728
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,480
like right, Barbara, Right? And then you tell this yeah,

729
00:38:26,519 --> 00:38:29,199
and you can tell how all about yourself and then

730
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,280
he just writes it for you, and then you can

731
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,800
tweak and say more humor Hal or not so formal

732
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,159
Hall or what a d da dat? Right? How are

733
00:38:36,159 --> 00:38:38,440
they going to know these school Well? I think they

734
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:39,239
think they can.

735
00:38:39,119 --> 00:38:41,760
Speaker 2: Tell they think yeah, I think they can run it

736
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,800
through a program or something I've heard, But I don't

737
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,119
know if that's really true or how accurate that is.

738
00:38:47,199 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: I mean, there are some things that do sound a

739
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,599
little AI. But I'll tell you another thing that's weird

740
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:57,559
for chat GPT. So John runs my episodes for Drunkish

741
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,480
through chat GPT to get descriptions, yes, right, and also

742
00:39:01,519 --> 00:39:04,960
to get clips so that you know where to cut

743
00:39:05,119 --> 00:39:08,039
for clips. All right, that's weird. He sent me before

744
00:39:08,079 --> 00:39:11,119
I left, he sent me a bunch of clip options,

745
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,440
like here's some potentially uh viral clips, okay, And I

746
00:39:15,519 --> 00:39:17,039
read through all of them and I was like, oh,

747
00:39:17,079 --> 00:39:19,920
I like this one, this one and this one. He

748
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,280
just wrote me and he was like, turns out that

749
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:26,880
chat GPT was totally made up, that those some of

750
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,639
those clips do not exist in the show. What really

751
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:32,639
made it up? Let me see what he wrote? So

752
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,960
is he is chat GBT listening to the audio of

753
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,760
your show or the sorry chat GPT totally fabricated most

754
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,360
of those quotes annoying as fuck? And then he wrote,

755
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:48,360
here's the run of actual ones there twenty like it

756
00:39:48,519 --> 00:39:53,320
just made it up? That's crazy. Does he put the

757
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,320
audio into chat GBT and that's how it does it? Yes,

758
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,920
But sometimes this happened once before you put the audio in,

759
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:04,400
and it was with it was with Meredith. I had

760
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:08,440
this episode with Meredith, and and he sends me he

761
00:40:08,519 --> 00:40:12,559
emails me all the descriptions descriptions for the episode, and

762
00:40:12,599 --> 00:40:16,039
a bunch of them were like Meredith gets into talking

763
00:40:16,039 --> 00:40:18,079
about like what it's like to be a sober mom,

764
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,719
and I'm like, she's not super Like none of the

765
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:24,239
things really made sense. So John goes I was like,

766
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,079
none of this is really I go this is really weird.

767
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,840
I don't none of this is really true about her

768
00:40:30,079 --> 00:40:32,199
and we didn't even talk about that in the episode.

769
00:40:32,519 --> 00:40:35,280
So he goes to chat chipeat and he goes, hey, like,

770
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:41,440
did you listen to the audio episode? And chat Cheepet goes, oh, no,

771
00:40:41,559 --> 00:40:45,880
I didn't see. John goes, well, why not, and it

772
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:50,480
was like, sorry, I'll totally listen to it now. Then

773
00:40:50,559 --> 00:40:53,320
did it again and then John goes why are you

774
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,039
not listening to it? And it goes, oh, well, I

775
00:40:56,199 --> 00:41:00,000
just figured i'd use like descriptions that you've used before

776
00:41:00,079 --> 00:41:03,119
four uh huh, and John goes, well, why would you.

777
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,440
Then GPT will be like I'm not sure, but I

778
00:41:07,519 --> 00:41:10,360
will do it right now. I will absolutely listen to

779
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,480
it this time. Sorry about that. This is my bath.

780
00:41:13,559 --> 00:41:16,559
Speaker 2: But that is so funny because like my friend like

781
00:41:16,599 --> 00:41:19,440
sometimes it'll be like hallo fuck up and he'll go

782
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,519
listen you, dick, I didn't say to do this, and

783
00:41:22,559 --> 00:41:26,119
then I'll go easy now with the language, you know,

784
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,800
or if you tell him like I like to be

785
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,719
you know, funny and like dry or whatever, then like

786
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,400
they'll adjust to your sense of humor and stuff.

787
00:41:34,679 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 1: It's crazy to me. Oh, he always tells it to

788
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:41,320
do stuff in my voice. So almost every single episode

789
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:47,079
description has spoiler alert. Oh really, Like all right, touchy,

790
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:52,880
it's trolling you, settle down. I'm going to use that

791
00:41:54,639 --> 00:42:00,320
every time, right, Yeah, it's funny, though it is crazy. No,

792
00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:03,079
I don't know if our kids are competing with their

793
00:42:03,199 --> 00:42:07,079
essays now against other kids who were just using chatchipt. Yeah,

794
00:42:07,119 --> 00:42:10,519
I know. I worry about that, so yeah, I guess.

795
00:42:10,599 --> 00:42:12,639
I don't know. I've always thought that you can't use

796
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,679
chat ChiPT because they have a program or something, or

797
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:18,760
maybe that was just what they said in high school.

798
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,599
I don't know they do. But then a lot of

799
00:42:21,639 --> 00:42:25,159
times kids are really writing stuff and the program is like, no,

800
00:42:25,679 --> 00:42:30,119
gotcha that you're using AI, right they're not. Yeah, I

801
00:42:30,119 --> 00:42:32,960
don't know. Yeah, I don't know if it's over sensitive,

802
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,000
don't I don't know, because sometimes I've read stuff that

803
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,719
chatchpt get like descriptions, and I'm like, oh, that sounds

804
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,280
exactly like something that I would have written if I

805
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,840
spent four hours on it. Uh huh right, right, it

806
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,079
did it one second. Yeah, it's crazy.

807
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,039
Speaker 2: And now like all these videos and stuff too online,

808
00:42:52,079 --> 00:42:54,599
Like like when Jimmy was off the air for a

809
00:42:54,639 --> 00:42:58,599
few days and it's like somebody posted something on Instagram

810
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:02,880
in his voice talking and saying, well, you know, this

811
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,679
is what's going on, blah blah blah, and I believed it.

812
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,159
I sent it to Sonny Natalia, go, oh, Jimmy just

813
00:43:08,199 --> 00:43:10,800
came out with something. They immediately are like, mom, don't

814
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,519
fall for this. This is not Jimmy. I'm like, how

815
00:43:13,519 --> 00:43:18,199
did you know? And then I listened to it. I'm like, oh, okay, moded,

816
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,480
but like it seemed like when you watch it and

817
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,559
listen to it for the first time, was his sense

818
00:43:23,599 --> 00:43:25,440
of humor and everything. I don't know if people's it

819
00:43:25,519 --> 00:43:27,480
was just this one thing and that was on Instagram

820
00:43:27,599 --> 00:43:29,119
was going around, but it wasn't him.

821
00:43:29,159 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: It's scary. There's a lot of misinformation comes out. Yes,

822
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,599
I know, because these videos are all over the place

823
00:43:35,639 --> 00:43:38,360
from different people, right, you know, and we're like hearing

824
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,840
Trump talk about his med beds and like, you know, yeah,

825
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,960
people are like, oh god, great, right, medbeds around it.

826
00:43:47,159 --> 00:43:49,639
Everybody's gonna have free access to them. And they're like

827
00:43:49,679 --> 00:43:53,199
look at this. Yeah, it's like totally Alan, it sucks.

828
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:59,679
I hate that. It's crazy. Yeah, that's anything else. So well,

829
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,159
I did say that I wanted to discuss this. I

830
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,039
just have this one other topic, which is I was

831
00:44:07,119 --> 00:44:11,519
watching and this is why we did the Patreon that

832
00:44:11,599 --> 00:44:15,280
we did. Yeah for tomorrow. It was a good one.

833
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,039
No sign up. Yeah, it was a good one. Yeah.

834
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:22,159
About friendships, female friendships, and I was I had seen

835
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,039
something from Lala, some clip of Lala from vander Pump

836
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,400
talking about getting in a fight with Sheena. What the

837
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:31,760
hell are they beefing about? By the way, I don't know,

838
00:44:32,159 --> 00:44:36,000
nobody knows. They both kind of suck. But yeah, if

839
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,519
I had to choose, I like La La. Yeah, I

840
00:44:38,559 --> 00:44:41,800
think better than she seems more real and she seems

841
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,000
like a Disney character. Now she's got a little bit

842
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,679
of a temper. I think they've cheef do, right. But

843
00:44:47,519 --> 00:44:50,000
she was discussing the fact that they'd have this fight

844
00:44:50,159 --> 00:44:52,840
and they'd be like go fuck yourself, fuck you, you know,

845
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,760
and like sort of saying really mean stuff. And I

846
00:44:55,840 --> 00:45:01,400
was like, I don't know that as an adult, right,

847
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,559
I've had I mean, I don't fight with John that way.

848
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:10,159
I don't yeh ever go like fuck you, right, I don't.

849
00:45:10,199 --> 00:45:12,960
And I'm not saying listen, if you do fight like

850
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,000
that with people, I'm not judging it. I'm just saying

851
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:17,599
it's so odd to me.

852
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 2: As an adult to fight that way. I've never had

853
00:45:22,599 --> 00:45:26,039
those kind of fights either with anybody as an adult,

854
00:45:26,199 --> 00:45:26,440
you know.

855
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I mean, I don't know.

856
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 2: I can't even maybe like sometimes I'll get mad and like,

857
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:35,719
you know, will yell at each other or whatever.

858
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 1: I don't even remember.

859
00:45:37,039 --> 00:45:39,079
Speaker 2: But I don't really fight with my friends, So I

860
00:45:39,119 --> 00:45:41,880
can't even remember the last time I've had a falling

861
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,639
out or a fight, you know with my ex husband.

862
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well yeah, I mean I've had some big

863
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,039
fights with John where we're like where I was yelling, right,

864
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,679
But I've never just gone for the jugular with anybody. Yeah,

865
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:02,079
you're like where you say something that you're gonna regret. Yeah, right,

866
00:46:02,079 --> 00:46:04,599
But then you see these reality shows and these people

867
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:09,440
housewives vander pump and they say the like craziest shit

868
00:46:09,559 --> 00:46:11,880
to each other, and then a couple of episodes later

869
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,360
they're like they're like, hey, all good coo cool, I

870
00:46:14,519 --> 00:46:18,719
know that's why you can't keep a husband. Yes, yeah,

871
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:22,199
it's crazy. I know. Yeah.

872
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 2: And so yeah, I was watching. You don't watch the

873
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:27,320
Miami Housewives, do you?

874
00:46:27,679 --> 00:46:31,079
Speaker 1: I don't. There was a bombshell last week one of

875
00:46:31,119 --> 00:46:32,920
them said she slept with another one.

876
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, they slept together. So Wendy was over. And then

877
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,920
we went back and watched old episodes of them and

878
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,800
their friendship, and you could totally see like when he

879
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:44,760
was like I wasn't surprised, like, yeah, you know she's

880
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,280
a lesbian and yeah she's married, but the way these

881
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,360
two were carrying on, like her and her friend, they

882
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,800
were like more than just friends, and you could see

883
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:53,800
it in old episodes.

884
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, that happened. Yeah the Housewives, I don't know

885
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,159
what it is, but like the wait, so the one

886
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:05,679
woman is a lesbian, but she's married to Martina Mataitola whatever,

887
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,760
she was married to a woman. Yeah, she's married to

888
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,480
the tennis star, but she had but she slept with

889
00:47:10,519 --> 00:47:11,559
another but.

890
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 2: She she had a Yeah on the cast, Like for

891
00:47:14,519 --> 00:47:16,599
a couple of years, they were really close. They were

892
00:47:16,599 --> 00:47:19,719
like best friends, and you know, they were on vacations together,

893
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:24,280
and she even the lesbian one that's married. She even

894
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:26,199
got on her knee and like asked her to be

895
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,119
her friend, like had like a friend engagement kind of thing.

896
00:47:29,119 --> 00:47:30,960
It was kind of weird, but like they had this little,

897
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:35,079
really close friendship. But I never thought because she was

898
00:47:35,159 --> 00:47:37,119
married and she's married, they have kids since they just

899
00:47:37,159 --> 00:47:41,000
adopted kids. So I was like, so that's what's shocking, Like,

900
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:45,000
so she cheated on her wife with her friend. How

901
00:47:45,039 --> 00:47:48,360
did it come out on the reunion? So the last

902
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:52,559
season they have not been getting along. So Adrianna is

903
00:47:52,599 --> 00:47:57,239
the other girl, the friend of hers, and Julia is

904
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,920
the one that's married, and they were they were beef

905
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:03,320
all season, not getting along, fighting with each other, and

906
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,480
it's like you could tell there was really deep down

907
00:48:06,599 --> 00:48:09,719
hurt feelings. And then finally, like at the end of

908
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:13,960
the first reunion episode, they were like, Julia was like,

909
00:48:14,199 --> 00:48:17,480
I have to say something. She said, Adrianna and I

910
00:48:17,559 --> 00:48:20,840
slept together in the Hamptons, and you see Andy Cone's

911
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,800
face went like he did a double cake take.

912
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 1: He was like wait what And then all the everybody

913
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:28,400
else is like what what what? Then there's Larsa Pippen

914
00:48:28,639 --> 00:48:32,880
whose face cannot move because it's frozen with so much botox.

915
00:48:33,079 --> 00:48:35,480
She's just like, eh, like she can't even move and

916
00:48:35,559 --> 00:48:39,000
make an expression. Some of those girls with the botox

917
00:48:39,039 --> 00:48:45,000
out of control. But yeah, that was the big, big cliffhanger, bombshell.

918
00:48:46,079 --> 00:48:50,000
So is the one the one that's not married, Yeah,

919
00:48:50,199 --> 00:48:52,639
the one that was that slept with her? Right is

920
00:48:52,639 --> 00:48:53,920
that she's not married.

921
00:48:54,079 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 2: She's not married and she's been married, and she's straight

922
00:48:58,079 --> 00:49:01,320
as you know, as far as everybody thought or whatever. Yeah,

923
00:49:01,559 --> 00:49:03,079
but she's definitely lonely.

924
00:49:03,159 --> 00:49:05,599
Speaker 1: A little bit like a Brandy and Denise situation.

925
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,559
Speaker 2: No, because Brandy and Denise are young and hot, not

926
00:49:08,599 --> 00:49:11,480
saying that these girls are not. But that's more of

927
00:49:11,559 --> 00:49:13,159
like a drunk I feel like that was just like

928
00:49:13,199 --> 00:49:17,000
a drunken thing or whatever. These two, no, like they

929
00:49:17,039 --> 00:49:20,400
don't they're not like out of control drunk and stuff

930
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,519
like that. And you know, the the other one, Adriana,

931
00:49:23,599 --> 00:49:26,679
who straight was married to I think two guys, and

932
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,760
so now she's divorced. She's definitely lonely. You can tell

933
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she's not getting along with a bunch of other girls.

934
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She was kind of keeping to herself this season, and

935
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because she was not getting along with Julia, her close friend,

936
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they had a falling out over something and then they

937
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she decided to drop it. But she's married to the

938
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tennis star Martina, right, so yeah, crazy, I know.

939
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Speaker 1: Interesting. Well, let's say hi to our friends. You know

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what I'm going to start with. We have a new one,

941
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my friend who you haven't met, but I've met her

942
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in person. Her name's Heather Hoyt or October November. She

943
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wants to get the word out about this Holder Wide Foundation,

944
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holder Wide, which is h O. L. D. E. R.

945
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Holder Wide Wide Foundation, and it was created in honor

946
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of two of the boys who were killed in the

947
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:28,960
Borderline shooting.

948
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:32,679
Speaker 2: Remember that, Oh yeah at the Borderline Country Club. Yeah,

949
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,960
out here and Thousand Oaks and yeah, yeah, it wasn't

950
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it the it was a bar. There's a bar, yeah

951
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yeah yeah.

952
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 1: So these so Heather's family is friends with the family

953
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and Heather and her daughter that lost their son, and

954
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:51,159
so they had started the foundation in honor of their son, Blake.

955
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And every year in November, around the anniversary of the shooting,

956
00:50:55,159 --> 00:50:57,559
they do a huge event in the desert. Fundraising for

957
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the organization. The Holder Wide Organization chooses a recipient each year,

958
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someone who's been injured, usually paralyzed from an off roading accident,

959
00:51:08,119 --> 00:51:10,239
and they give them money so they can retro fit

960
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:15,880
their homes, get fancy wheelchairs, and get care. That's amazing cool.

961
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So if you want to donate, go to holder wide

962
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dot org and you can buy merch or donate directly.

963
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And I'm gonna go check it out. Yeah, of course,

964
00:51:26,559 --> 00:51:31,079
Adam Lerner's got a car. He's got a car dot com. Right.

965
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He just helps people left and right. But not one

966
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to take to Santa Barbara. Kidding, gidding, I could totally

967
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take Santa Barbara. Also, Ferncandle. What do you want to

968
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get some candles that smell good? Yeah, use for use

969
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Kelsey Ferncandle dot com. Jacob Crowley is so important the

970
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ACLU right now, like forget about it. Yeah, doing a

971
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lot of things in the courts to stand up for

972
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our rights, right, you know, is out of control right now. Yes,

973
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I'm I'm going and helping what I can every Thursday. Yeah,

974
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I'm trying to defend people against naked Yeah, frozen water right,

975
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and uh, you know, but the ACLU is out there

976
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like on the front lines for that fight. Also, if

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you want to travel somewhere, why not use Christine with

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Christine B. Travel with Christine B on Instagram or Christine

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at Waves and Wonder Travel, or just go on our

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au sist out. She's Waves and Wonder Travel. Also, if

982
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you're on the island of Kawhi and you want to

983
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go check out Maren's place, Sugar Skull people have done

984
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it in the photograph. Yeah, they have a small bakery

985
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and gift shop and you can go to check out

986
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their website Sugar Skull eight o eight dot square dot

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site to see where they're located and stuff. Also, if

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you're in Palm Springs or Palm Does like one of

989
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our listeners, one of our listeners posted, Yes, they posted

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they went to Wilma and Frieda and.

991
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Speaker 2: They said it was delicious, right, yeah, yeah, they were happy.

992
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Speaker 1: And if you want like a mousepod or you know,

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a T shirt with a fun saying on it, why

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not use Basic Becky that's our girl. Go to our face.

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You can go to find her on Facebook at Basic Becky,

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or you can go to just Basicbecky dot com Family

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Skepticals about raising kids without religion. They put out a

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new episode every three weeks. Family Skeptical. Also, my friend

999
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has a column on Unbecoming stories. It's called Unbecoming Stories.

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It's on medium dot com, which you can go read

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and you will be really impressed. And then Courtney Moore

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is with I e Embroidery on Facebook. Just go check

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her out on Facebook and see what she does. Just

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put in I e Embroidery and you'll find a link

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all her cool stuff.

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Speaker 2: And then my pal might if you have any plumbing

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questions or if you're in the Maricopa County area and

1008
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you're if you mentioned FCL, he'll give you a break.

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If you have any questions, just go to drain Surgeons

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with an s A Z like Arizona dot com and

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all his information is there, so go check him out.

1012
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then our friends Stephanie Stinker Rinker and Sandra, Yeah,

1013
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Gene and Jennifer get off, Jery Sanchez and Leslie stop

1014
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with the coughing aliciae. Kelly Brandt, she'll help you open.

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Is so sweet and so cute and pres got a nice,

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prash anything you baby. Missy and Gabby, well they were

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in Palm Desert. Yeah, they were just loitering. Yeah, and

1018
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around the restaurant. That's right, Katerina, check your molar, Valerie.

1019
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Bubba Fenwick gets out of the park poll. We love

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your pancakes. Rita's got that bascinet to rock. All of

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Elizabeth Williamson's kids, Nikki call your girl and Dick keep

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on frollicking, baby, that's our shind We love you guys.

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Your parents now, don't f it up that Angeles