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<v Speaker 1>Weird things happened in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Weird, Weird Weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to a very very very special episode of Bledsoe said, So,

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<v Speaker 1>we are joined by my friend Dan breulea yeh, a

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<v Speaker 1>very luminous being. And I'll get into here in a

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<v Speaker 1>minute about how we met in that amazing experience. But Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>before I forget, could you let the listeners know your books,

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<v Speaker 1>your social media because I don't want to forget. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to kind of plant that seed in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh yeah, Well, just Breathe Mastering breath Work for Success

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<v Speaker 3>and Lifelove, Business and Beyond by Simon and Schuster. It's

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<v Speaker 3>available on every good bookstores. We have an audible version

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<v Speaker 3>of it, and my website is Breathmastery dot com. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's hard to google Breathwork and not have my name

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<v Speaker 3>pop up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it's true. I'm so happy that you joined

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<v Speaker 1>our show. This is like really cool for me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I told you this in person, but just for the

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<v Speaker 1>sake of the listener, I'll run through this briefly. So

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<v Speaker 1>we met in Wisconsin at the Contact Modalities XPO, and

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<v Speaker 1>in full disclosure, my sister told me in advance that

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<v Speaker 1>you were going to be there and that you were

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<v Speaker 1>a really big deal in this space, and in my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking, Okay, this guy Dan Brula is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be there. I have to meet this fella.

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<v Speaker 4>And it was the weirdest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad did this pad and I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you look like because I'm such a busy person. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't look you up in advance. I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to meet you there, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad finished his panel, I walk out the door

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<v Speaker 1>and You're like right there speaking to us, and I

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<v Speaker 1>heard your name and you could probably attest to this.

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<v Speaker 1>I freaked out, Oh my god, it's you. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you. Come with me right now. And I

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed you and I yanked you over and brought you

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<v Speaker 1>to my sister and I was like, this is Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just feel like from there on out it

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<v Speaker 1>was chemistry, and you know, it was It was really

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<v Speaker 1>cool to meet you and to have the experience of

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<v Speaker 1>becoming your friend at this conference and having and I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, you know, for the listener's sake, that I

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<v Speaker 1>was very blessed to experience a private session with you,

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<v Speaker 1>which was very profound. So anyway, enough about me, and

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<v Speaker 1>enough of I just wanted them to know how we met,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know how it was organic and it was

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<v Speaker 1>this really cool thing.

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<v Speaker 4>But I want to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>More about your background in the breath work space, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I'm happy to do that. I actually i'd

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<v Speaker 3>like to say how I actually met you. I I

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<v Speaker 3>know your father was signing books and I had seen

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<v Speaker 3>him just sort of coming and going. But I recognize

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<v Speaker 3>an open heart from a football field away. So that

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<v Speaker 3>was the first thing that drew me to your father

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<v Speaker 3>and then to your family because I felt that heart

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<v Speaker 3>and that love from all of you. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>very pleased to me too. It was a nice surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just actually finished your father's book. And one

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<v Speaker 3>of the news is actually, since I'm traveling and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>passing through, she's going to read it before I leave.

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<v Speaker 3>So she's actually in the other room reading it right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah. So, and I study breathing and I've been

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<v Speaker 3>a missionary for the breath and and I'm always looking

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<v Speaker 3>for you know, how can we apply breathwork to make

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<v Speaker 3>the world a better place, make ourselves healthier, wake people up,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, vent stress, deal with anxiety, manage emotions, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>use it to develop mindfulness and so I'm, uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a missionary for the breath. I have been my

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<v Speaker 3>whole life and it ain't about to stop anytime soon.

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<v Speaker 1>You're You're an amazing energy. Like being with you that

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<v Speaker 1>whole weekend was the highlight for me, and on the

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<v Speaker 1>episode of our show that just came out today at

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<v Speaker 1>the time of recording this, so this episode that we're

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<v Speaker 1>recording now will come out in a few weeks most likely.

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<v Speaker 1>But our episode that released today was about the contact modalities,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I know you're a busy guy, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever happen to hear it, you'll hear how

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<v Speaker 1>I was just gushing about, you know, getting to meet

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<v Speaker 1>you and have that experience with you. It was very

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<v Speaker 1>profound and just like you said about my dad and

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<v Speaker 1>my family, that you feel that heart from a football

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<v Speaker 1>field away, I've I did feel the very same thing,

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, becoming your friend. I just was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I've never met anybody like this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew that I had to learn from you. And

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<v Speaker 1>the weird thing, Dan is, for a good year now,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been thinking to myself, I want to learn more

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<v Speaker 1>about the breath because I've been going through the journey

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<v Speaker 1>of sort of becoming a meditation instructor. I told you

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about this, but it's through sound and

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<v Speaker 1>that's very cool. But in my mind, I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's something a little more ancient. You know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>there was a time when they didn't have instruments or

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have you know, records and vinyls and CDs.

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<v Speaker 4>What did they have? The breath? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>So I've this has been on my mind. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to get into this. And then you know, of course

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<v Speaker 1>with my crazy journey, I bump into you, probably the

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<v Speaker 1>very best person on planet Earth to learn from about

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<v Speaker 1>the breath. So it's just like, you know, no surprise there.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, well, you know, all the ancient Yogis and

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<v Speaker 3>the ancient Daoists and the Buddha and the early you know,

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<v Speaker 3>people were just stumbling along. It took years, decades, generations,

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<v Speaker 3>It took lifetimes to master some of this stuff. And

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<v Speaker 3>now these days, with wearable technology and you know, monitors

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<v Speaker 3>and stuff, you combine technology with spirituality and and you

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<v Speaker 3>can speed things up quite a bit. So that's been

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<v Speaker 3>happening in the breath work world. You know, I've been

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<v Speaker 3>i spent a lot of time in India, a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of time in China, tried to westernize a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>the Eastern approaches and you know, make it more palatable

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<v Speaker 3>for the Western mind. We don't really have in the

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<v Speaker 3>West any sort of spiritual tradition around the breathing, but

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<v Speaker 3>every ancient religion, every genuine spiritual tradition, makes use of

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<v Speaker 3>the breath, honors the breath, talks about the breath, recognizes

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<v Speaker 3>the power of the breath. And if you just look

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<v Speaker 3>at the word inspiration, expiration, respiration, the root of that

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<v Speaker 3>word is spirit. So it's not an accident. When you

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<v Speaker 3>begin to breathe, you unlock spiritual potential, You connect to

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<v Speaker 3>your source. Uh And in the process of practicing breath work,

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<v Speaker 3>you become more meditative, You develop meditative awareness, your intuition

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<v Speaker 3>gets better, you can connect more deeply, you know, just

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<v Speaker 3>on a very practical level. More of the world comes

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<v Speaker 3>in contact with you through the breath, and you can

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<v Speaker 3>possibly wrap your ounds around. I mean, if you were

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<v Speaker 3>to take the surface area of the lungs, including all

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<v Speaker 3>the alveoli, those little microscopic air sacks, it's half of

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<v Speaker 3>a tennis court, and wow, right, and and When you

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<v Speaker 3>breathe in you are filling yourself with the world. Literally,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean all of the universe is pouring into you.

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<v Speaker 3>And molecules of air that the Buddha breed, that Jesus breed,

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<v Speaker 3>that all the saints and great warriors and mystics and

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<v Speaker 3>Caesar and Moses and some of the literal molecules of

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<v Speaker 3>air that circulated in their bodies is circulating in our body.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's information. Energy is information, and so breathing kind

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<v Speaker 3>of it clears our antenna. So we can actually start

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<v Speaker 3>to pick up more subtle energies. We were more fine tuned,

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<v Speaker 3>we're less reactive, we're more sensitive because most people there's

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of trauma trapped in the cells of their body,

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<v Speaker 3>in their nervous system and accumulus like boiling a frog.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we get less and less resilient, we get

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<v Speaker 3>less and less alive. But maybe if we can open

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<v Speaker 3>up the power of our breath, it affects longevity. And

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<v Speaker 3>it's unarguable. Now, you know the Framingham heart study, very

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<v Speaker 3>famous study back Framingham, Massachusetts. They followed several thousand guys

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<v Speaker 3>through life that's fifty years old now longer sixty seven

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<v Speaker 3>years old, and out of that study came a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of the lifestyle factors that affect heart disease. A lot

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<v Speaker 3>of the medications and protocols were developed using data from

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<v Speaker 3>that study. But there was so much conflicting information. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>you had guys who lived to be one hundred who

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<v Speaker 3>they smoke and they drank and they were meat eaters,

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<v Speaker 3>and at one hundred and two they're still alive. And

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<v Speaker 3>then you got people who did everything right, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>there were vegan, vegetarians, they whatever, you know, and they

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<v Speaker 3>dropped when they were forty eight. But the only data

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<v Speaker 3>point that had no exceptions across the board respiratory capacity

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<v Speaker 3>and linking respiratory capacity to longevity and overall health. And

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<v Speaker 3>if you look at the graph of respiratory capacity, the

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<v Speaker 3>average person reaches their peak respiratory capacity between twenty seven,

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<v Speaker 3>twenty five, twenty six years old, and then for every

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<v Speaker 3>decade of life they lose ten to fifteen percent of

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<v Speaker 3>their respiratory capacity. And so if you put that graph

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<v Speaker 3>of respiratory function and you put it on the same

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<v Speaker 3>graph of life expectancy, they follow each other, they're mirror

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<v Speaker 3>each other. And so very early on I realized, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>if I can keep up my respiratory capacity, I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to bump up my longevity curve. And it's the only

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<v Speaker 3>data point out of that study that was true across

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<v Speaker 3>all people, across all all religions, ages, everything. If you

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<v Speaker 3>maintain your respiratory capacity, you know, let it, let it

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<v Speaker 3>grow to peak, and then maintain it, it's guaranteed your

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<v Speaker 3>odds for living longer and being healthier are increased. There's

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<v Speaker 3>just no argument about it. So it's just a matter

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<v Speaker 3>of practice and being motivated to actually do breathing practices

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<v Speaker 3>which aren't complicated, and a lot of them you get

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<v Speaker 3>really high off them, So eat a lot of discipline.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had a lot of people sit up from sessions

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<v Speaker 3>and go, wow, I've taken a lot of drugs to

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<v Speaker 3>feel like this. We got a pharmacy in our head

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<v Speaker 3>and it'll produce whatever chemicals and DMT and brain waves

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<v Speaker 3>are affected, chemistry is affected, cognitive abilities, intuition, emotions. So

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<v Speaker 3>you get your handle on your breath, and wow, you

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<v Speaker 3>can deal with just about everything else.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, can I give you a report? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>So when we were together last weekend, right, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I obviously spent quite a bit of time with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you had what three workshops that weekend. Yeah, first

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<v Speaker 1>the first day I wasn't in town for it, the

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<v Speaker 1>second one I made, and then the third one I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't able to make. And I regretted it because you

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<v Speaker 1>did a session. But then you were, you know, gracious

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<v Speaker 1>enough to come and do a private session with us.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to report on my life since that.

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<v Speaker 1>You said some things that stuck with me that were

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<v Speaker 1>very profound that I had never heard before, and things

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<v Speaker 1>that some things I had heard before, but hearing them

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<v Speaker 1>from you, it was so much more simple and it

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<v Speaker 1>made more sense. So I'll just give you the report.

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<v Speaker 1>So last week after Wisconsin, when we all left and

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<v Speaker 1>went our separate ways, I went home for one day

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<v Speaker 1>and then I turned around and I had a six

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<v Speaker 1>hour drive back to them in Rome Institute. I was

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<v Speaker 1>there for like two days doing some things with them,

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<v Speaker 1>and I stayed up really late both nights in a row,

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<v Speaker 1>like two am, hanging out with people, getting up at

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<v Speaker 4>Both days. I was exhausted.

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<v Speaker 1>After being in Wisconsin all this travel for two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>halfway through the drive, I was so tired. I literally

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<v Speaker 4>I was miserable. And it came to me. Dan said, if.

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<v Speaker 1>You want energy, Yeah, I'm telling on you what you said.

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<v Speaker 1>Dan said, if you want energy, take a big inhale,

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<v Speaker 1>short exhale, big inhale, short exhal and vice versa. And

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<v Speaker 1>I started doing this, and I started doing this, and

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm not kidding you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like wide awake. For the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the three hour drive. I felt alert. I felt like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this worked, This really worked, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it like it kind of shifted my thinking because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, you know, I could have all the caffeine

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<v Speaker 1>in the world, it wouldn't work. Breathe for a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was just energized, and that was profound for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, it's it's why it's taught and practice

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<v Speaker 3>in the first responder world and special forces and military

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<v Speaker 3>and Navy seals. I mean, and there's a great principle

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<v Speaker 3>that says, when you'd think you have no more juice

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<v Speaker 3>left in your battery, you still have forty percent. You

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<v Speaker 3>just haven't learned how to tap that. And most people,

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<v Speaker 3>unless they're forced to push to, they never discover that

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<v Speaker 3>what they think is empty isn't empty at all. There's

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<v Speaker 3>still a lot of bad a lot of juice in

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<v Speaker 3>your battery. You just got to learn how to access it.

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<v Speaker 3>And then it comes down to generating energy, which is

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<v Speaker 3>what breathing is all about. That's we're getting energy from

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<v Speaker 3>the breath all the time. The problem is, most people's

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<v Speaker 3>and so got to you gotta sort of take over

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<v Speaker 3>up or calm down or whatever's required. And each time

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<v Speaker 3>you do that, you're training your breathing system and pretty

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<v Speaker 3>soon it starts will really work better on its own.

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<v Speaker 4>Get that.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't even I I every time I

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<v Speaker 3>used to become tents get you know, a little tight

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<v Speaker 3>tense coming I would deliberately take a couple of breaths

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<v Speaker 3>shake it off. And I train that so often now

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<v Speaker 3>that if I start the if tension builds up in

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<v Speaker 3>my body, I don't even notice it, but my breath

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<v Speaker 3>gets triggered automatically, and I notice this breath and it

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<v Speaker 3>just vented that tension that was building up. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>even aware of it yet. But the breathing is like

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<v Speaker 3>the canary in the coal mine. Your breath is the

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<v Speaker 3>first thing to go out of balance when anything else

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<v Speaker 3>in your system goes out of balance. So the more

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<v Speaker 3>intimate connection you have with your breath, you can stay

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<v Speaker 3>ahead of a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Dan, you're obviously so knowledgeable, and it's really fascinating to

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<v Speaker 5>hear everything that you've picked up. I'm curious, when did

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<v Speaker 5>you realize that breathing was such a profound and powerful thing,

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<v Speaker 5>Because a lot of people may not think about it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I've had so many moments through my life

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<v Speaker 3>that just were meant to reinforce that, to make it

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<v Speaker 3>clear what my mission is. I mean, I started in

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<v Speaker 3>Catholic school in kindergarten and on Fridays, the priest, the

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<v Speaker 3>monsignor would visit all the classrooms, and the first day

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<v Speaker 3>he came, he talked about the Book of Genesis and

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<v Speaker 3>how God formed the body of man, took the dust

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<v Speaker 3>of the earth, and then breathed into man the nostrils,

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<v Speaker 3>the breath of life. I mean, that just lit something

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<v Speaker 3>up in me. I have vague memories of it, but

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<v Speaker 3>I knew it was like, why isn't everybody excited? Think

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<v Speaker 3>about that when we breathed, God is breathing into us.

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<v Speaker 3>Why isn't everybody jumping up and down right now? And

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<v Speaker 3>I think I got a little too animated. I have

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<v Speaker 3>vague memories, but I remember the priest pushing my shoulders down,

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<v Speaker 3>trying to sit me in my chair, and the nun

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<v Speaker 3>was tapping me on my head trying to calm me down.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I got too animated, but it lit. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a spark. And then I became the kid who was,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, organizing breath holding competitions in the schoolyard and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, hyperventilating and squeezing each other until we passed us.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just obsessed with the breathing and I had

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<v Speaker 3>I can't tell you how many times I got the

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<v Speaker 3>wind knocked out of me, and sports and fights and

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<v Speaker 3>falling off a bicycle, climbing a fence, whatever I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>and near drowning experiences. I've had a number of near

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<v Speaker 3>drowning experiences and the last one I had to be resuscitated.

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<v Speaker 3>And my first job was as an X ray technician,

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<v Speaker 3>and a very easy One of the easiest X rays

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<v Speaker 3>is the chest X ray. So I was getting all

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<v Speaker 3>the chest X rays as the newbie. And when you

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<v Speaker 3>a deep breath hold it, and then you click their picture.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I had to watch people carefully because if

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<v Speaker 3>they were breathing, the X ray would come out blurry.

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<v Speaker 3>So as I gave everyone those same instructions, and a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of thousand people over two years, I watched them

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<v Speaker 3>take a breath and hold it, and everybody did something different,

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<v Speaker 3>the muscles, they used, the expression on their face, how

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<v Speaker 3>they coordinated their breathing. And I started to see that

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<v Speaker 3>everyone's personality is reflected in their breathing pattern, and their

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<v Speaker 3>being expressed in their relationship to the breath. And then

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<v Speaker 3>a weekend CPR course cardiopulmonary Resuscitation. I was so surprised

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<v Speaker 3>to show up and there was no one else from

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<v Speaker 3>the X ray department taking this course, and I thought,

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't everybody want to learn this? And two weeks later

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<v Speaker 3>I was with a portable X ray machine up in

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<v Speaker 3>do a chest X ray on he died while I

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<v Speaker 3>was in the room. His heart snupped, he flatlined, that

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<v Speaker 3>beat beat went deep, and so there I was the

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<v Speaker 3>only one in the room, so my training kicked in.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember from the class a couple of weeks earlier.

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<v Speaker 3>one breath, five compressions, and then I blew into him

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<v Speaker 3>and he blinked and woke up. I mean, a freaking miracle.

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<v Speaker 3>The guy was clinically dead, fixed, dilated pupils, no pulse,

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<v Speaker 3>no breathing, look dead ashen gray. And I blow into

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<v Speaker 3>him and he wakes up and blinks. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>was vibrating for days. It was I mean, being part

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<v Speaker 3>of a miracle, the miracle of breath, the miracle of life,

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<v Speaker 3>and then when I went into the military, I got

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<v Speaker 3>into deep sea diving and underwater rescue and special operations.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was practicing breath control. I was practicing breath holding,

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<v Speaker 3>and I learned that in order to manage your arousal,

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<v Speaker 3>manage your mental state, your emotional state, you need to

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<v Speaker 3>poop hits the fan, what can you do? You know,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't grab your weapon, you don't grab the radio,

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<v Speaker 3>you can't call your mother. You get a handle on

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<v Speaker 3>your breath. And as soon as that happens, everything else

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<v Speaker 3>everything that, and I was very often I would be

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<v Speaker 3>attached to a team and I didn't know these guys.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like the pro from Dover that they just

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<v Speaker 3>And I had a lot of other training, and so

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<v Speaker 3>how are these guys going to perform? Who do I

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<v Speaker 3>around doing a whole bunch of useless stuff yelling a

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<v Speaker 3>whole bunch of crazy things that isn't helping anybody, and

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<v Speaker 3>that kind of person. I need to be a human

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<v Speaker 3>a trainer's coming, a trainer's come, and you wash the

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know ahead of time because one of

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<v Speaker 3>them I need to kick them in the butt, give

420
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<v Speaker 3>them something to do, slap them, shake them into moving,

421
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<v Speaker 3>and the other one I need to wrestle and makes

422
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<v Speaker 3>it still. So I discovered that when I pushed them

423
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<v Speaker 3>to their limit with stress, and they would fall into

424
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<v Speaker 3>one or two categories. They were either overbreathed, they hyperventilated,

425
00:25:05.720 --> 00:25:09.640
<v Speaker 3>or they underbreathed, they held their breath. And sure enough,

426
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<v Speaker 3>those overbreathers guess which ones they were. They were the

427
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<v Speaker 3>ones running around crazy, and the people who hold their

428
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<v Speaker 3>breath they were the ones who froze and didn't move.

429
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<v Speaker 3>So I was applying what I learned by observing people's

430
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<v Speaker 3>breathing patterns, especially under stress, how they're going to perform

431
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<v Speaker 3>and which way they're going to go out of balance,

432
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<v Speaker 3>and I could keep them from going into dysfunction. I

433
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<v Speaker 3>was training guys underwater. We had a radio on the surface.

434
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<v Speaker 3>We're watching them, and I could tell them, hey, slow

435
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<v Speaker 3>your breathing down, or hey, take a few breaths. You know,

436
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<v Speaker 3>you could follow breath to breath and know which way

437
00:25:45.799 --> 00:25:48.519
<v Speaker 3>they get out of balance. And that saved my life,

438
00:25:48.599 --> 00:25:51.319
<v Speaker 3>saved a lot of other people's lives. And it goes

439
00:25:51.359 --> 00:25:56.000
<v Speaker 3>deeper than that, because every emotional state, every psychological state,

440
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<v Speaker 3>every physiological chemical state has a car corresponding breathing pattern.

441
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<v Speaker 3>A very specific breathing quality. And we know that when

442
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<v Speaker 3>you're angry and upset and afraid, you breathe differently when

443
00:26:10.359 --> 00:26:14.640
<v Speaker 3>you're peaceful and calm and relax Anybody can see the difference.

444
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<v Speaker 3>And when your state changes, your breathing pattern changes. And

445
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<v Speaker 3>so the magic, the power of breath work is it's

446
00:26:21.000 --> 00:26:24.680
<v Speaker 3>a two way street. By changing my breathing pattern, I

447
00:26:24.759 --> 00:26:29.839
<v Speaker 3>can change my state. And so that's and there were

448
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<v Speaker 3>breathing patterns associated with very high ecstatic spiritual states, and

449
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<v Speaker 3>there are breathing patterns and breathing qualities that are associated

450
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<v Speaker 3>with sublime and profoundly peaceful states. And so by getting

451
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<v Speaker 3>a handle on your breathing, you get a handle on

452
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<v Speaker 3>everything else.

453
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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

454
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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

455
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<v Speaker 5>So it's always been a part of your life ever

456
00:26:52.119 --> 00:26:55.000
<v Speaker 5>since you were little, and then in every step along

457
00:26:55.039 --> 00:26:58.079
<v Speaker 5>the way, it's like the breath was always intimately involved

458
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<v Speaker 5>in whatever you were doing.

459
00:27:00.039 --> 00:27:01.960
<v Speaker 3>Spirit of breath grabbed me by the scruff of my

460
00:27:02.079 --> 00:27:04.960
<v Speaker 3>neck and just kept sticking my nose in the breathing

461
00:27:05.440 --> 00:27:08.920
<v Speaker 3>no matter whenever I tried to get into something else,

462
00:27:10.160 --> 00:27:12.759
<v Speaker 3>my life just turned me back to the breath.

463
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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

464
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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Yeah, that's amazing. There were really a pretty high

465
00:27:17.920 --> 00:27:20.160
<v Speaker 1>number of things that you said when we were together

466
00:27:20.279 --> 00:27:23.920
<v Speaker 1>last weekend that stuck with me, and several things that

467
00:27:24.039 --> 00:27:27.519
<v Speaker 1>raised alarms to me that showed me, okay, this is

468
00:27:27.839 --> 00:27:30.400
<v Speaker 1>this is like you you swim in these waters and

469
00:27:30.440 --> 00:27:33.799
<v Speaker 1>you're very comfortable here. And when we were having these

470
00:27:34.680 --> 00:27:38.039
<v Speaker 1>you know, this this private session and you were guiding us.

471
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<v Speaker 1>First of all, Oh my god, that was an hour

472
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<v Speaker 1>and a half. You know, I've been sitting here going

473
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<v Speaker 1>through this training of how to like prepare people to

474
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<v Speaker 1>do guided meditations, you know, on a headset, and here

475
00:27:49.720 --> 00:27:51.720
<v Speaker 1>you are, Yeah, sure, let's do a private session.

476
00:27:51.759 --> 00:27:52.359
<v Speaker 4>Where do you want to go.

477
00:27:52.440 --> 00:27:55.319
<v Speaker 1>Let's sit here, great, let's just get comfortable. And then

478
00:27:55.759 --> 00:27:59.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, you just guided us through this amazing experience

479
00:27:59.759 --> 00:28:01.599
<v Speaker 1>off the cuff, and it was it was just like

480
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<v Speaker 1>it was so profound. And there were some things you

481
00:28:04.039 --> 00:28:07.119
<v Speaker 1>said during that, like, you know, there was one moment

482
00:28:07.160 --> 00:28:10.319
<v Speaker 1>when I think you noticed that my dad's eyes were

483
00:28:10.559 --> 00:28:11.680
<v Speaker 1>being really active.

484
00:28:11.799 --> 00:28:12.960
<v Speaker 4>Do you know what I'm talking about?

485
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<v Speaker 1>And you said, for those of us that see things

486
00:28:17.519 --> 00:28:21.839
<v Speaker 1>that others cannot see, we must relax our forehead muscles,

487
00:28:22.680 --> 00:28:24.799
<v Speaker 1>and you rubbed your hand on his forehead and you

488
00:28:24.880 --> 00:28:27.279
<v Speaker 1>made him relax his head. But the thing is in

489
00:28:27.319 --> 00:28:29.960
<v Speaker 1>that moment, but none of us in the room knew,

490
00:28:30.799 --> 00:28:32.640
<v Speaker 1>was that my dad was out of body seeing you

491
00:28:32.680 --> 00:28:35.559
<v Speaker 1>from the other side of the room, watching you walk

492
00:28:35.599 --> 00:28:37.400
<v Speaker 1>over to him and touch his forehead.

493
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<v Speaker 4>And that whole.

494
00:28:38.880 --> 00:28:43.839
<v Speaker 1>Experience, to me was so profoundly spiritual that it in

495
00:28:43.920 --> 00:28:47.880
<v Speaker 1>the time that that night happened. And since knowing that

496
00:28:47.920 --> 00:28:50.119
<v Speaker 1>we were going to do this interview, my head has

497
00:28:50.160 --> 00:28:53.240
<v Speaker 1>been spinning with questions, what other kinds of things have

498
00:28:53.359 --> 00:28:57.720
<v Speaker 1>you seen? You know, having taught three hundred thousand plus people,

499
00:28:58.119 --> 00:29:00.759
<v Speaker 1>this is probably Oh, yeah, that happened last Tuesday.

500
00:29:03.279 --> 00:29:07.039
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. No, It's very rare that things come up in

501
00:29:07.079 --> 00:29:10.160
<v Speaker 3>a session that haven't come up in other people. Right,

502
00:29:10.759 --> 00:29:14.880
<v Speaker 3>but you know you have you have extreme versions of them,

503
00:29:15.000 --> 00:29:19.119
<v Speaker 3>examples of them, I can if I you know, I

504
00:29:19.240 --> 00:29:22.000
<v Speaker 3>have so many miracle stories connected to the breath and

505
00:29:22.799 --> 00:29:25.400
<v Speaker 3>just to be there present to witness them and maybe

506
00:29:25.519 --> 00:29:30.279
<v Speaker 3>even was part of having the miracle happen. You know,

507
00:29:30.319 --> 00:29:32.759
<v Speaker 3>I didn't cause it, but I was part of the

508
00:29:32.799 --> 00:29:37.440
<v Speaker 3>mix that the perfect storm that was required, Right, I

509
00:29:37.480 --> 00:29:40.480
<v Speaker 3>did my little part. But most of the time, it's

510
00:29:40.599 --> 00:29:44.200
<v Speaker 3>just watching the power of the breath do its work.

511
00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:48.079
<v Speaker 3>When people open and relax and allow it to take over.

512
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:52.759
<v Speaker 3>We're so accustomed to being in control, you know. Being

513
00:29:52.799 --> 00:29:58.599
<v Speaker 3>traumatized and hurt, we close off, we tighten up, we withdraw,

514
00:29:59.119 --> 00:30:02.279
<v Speaker 3>and all of that separates us from life. It separates

515
00:30:02.359 --> 00:30:06.880
<v Speaker 3>us from the source. And so breathing is a way

516
00:30:06.920 --> 00:30:10.839
<v Speaker 3>to open our heart if it's been hurt, and open

517
00:30:10.880 --> 00:30:14.160
<v Speaker 3>our mind if you're stuck in a box, and open

518
00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:18.839
<v Speaker 3>and relax the body if it's caught in illness, diseases programs.

519
00:30:19.559 --> 00:30:26.240
<v Speaker 3>So breathing affects every level mechanical, structural, heart rate. You

520
00:30:26.720 --> 00:30:30.400
<v Speaker 3>control your heart by controlling your breathing, control your blood pressure,

521
00:30:30.920 --> 00:30:34.000
<v Speaker 3>you control your focus. That's why in the East Pranayama,

522
00:30:34.079 --> 00:30:37.279
<v Speaker 3>which is the Hindu science of breath, it was developed

523
00:30:37.319 --> 00:30:40.079
<v Speaker 3>as a way to regulate the mind. So the ancient

524
00:30:40.160 --> 00:30:46.440
<v Speaker 3>Yogis realized that a chaotic wild mind is connected to

525
00:30:46.519 --> 00:30:49.720
<v Speaker 3>chaotic wild breathing. And as soon as you control your breathing,

526
00:30:50.119 --> 00:30:54.279
<v Speaker 3>something starts to shift in your mind and your brain activity.

527
00:30:54.759 --> 00:30:59.000
<v Speaker 3>And so the original purpose of controlling breathing was to

528
00:30:59.119 --> 00:31:03.200
<v Speaker 3>regulate the mind. So it has a direct effect. And

529
00:31:03.759 --> 00:31:08.799
<v Speaker 3>now the science is unarguable because when you are breathing

530
00:31:08.839 --> 00:31:13.680
<v Speaker 3>you're playing with carbon dioxide, for example, and carbon dioxide

531
00:31:13.759 --> 00:31:17.400
<v Speaker 3>is a volatile acid, so it plays a key role

532
00:31:17.519 --> 00:31:21.240
<v Speaker 3>in the pH balance of your body acid base balance.

533
00:31:21.759 --> 00:31:25.799
<v Speaker 3>So if you hyperventilate, for example, and you blow off

534
00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:30.359
<v Speaker 3>carbon dioxide and you reduce the amount of carbon dioxide

535
00:31:30.480 --> 00:31:33.799
<v Speaker 3>in your cellular tissues in your blood, all of the

536
00:31:33.880 --> 00:31:39.279
<v Speaker 3>microvessels constrict. And that includes little microvessels that feed the

537
00:31:39.319 --> 00:31:42.240
<v Speaker 3>brain and get oxygen and nutrients to the brain. It

538
00:31:42.279 --> 00:31:45.599
<v Speaker 3>includes bronchio vessels like people who have asthma and their

539
00:31:45.640 --> 00:31:49.240
<v Speaker 3>bronchio vessels spasm and they have to take a steroid

540
00:31:49.480 --> 00:31:53.799
<v Speaker 3>to dilate those bronchio vessels. Well, carbon dioxide will do that.

541
00:31:54.599 --> 00:31:57.519
<v Speaker 3>If you can tolerate the CO two level rising in

542
00:31:57.559 --> 00:32:01.799
<v Speaker 3>your body, this carbon dioxide is going to dilate do

543
00:32:01.960 --> 00:32:05.359
<v Speaker 3>all the work of those steroids, those dangerous steroids that

544
00:32:05.839 --> 00:32:10.160
<v Speaker 3>people use with asthmin inhalis. The carbon dioxide will do that.

545
00:32:10.200 --> 00:32:13.319
<v Speaker 3>But the problem is people can't cope with they can't

546
00:32:13.440 --> 00:32:18.279
<v Speaker 3>tolerate the symptoms of air hunger. And that's a basic

547
00:32:18.400 --> 00:32:22.079
<v Speaker 3>practice to get comfortable with the symptoms of air hunger.

548
00:32:22.160 --> 00:32:25.319
<v Speaker 3>So you can gradually get used to higher levels of

549
00:32:25.359 --> 00:32:29.559
<v Speaker 3>CO two peak levels of CO two in exhaled air

550
00:32:30.799 --> 00:32:36.480
<v Speaker 3>should be around you know, five percent thirty forty millimeters

551
00:32:36.519 --> 00:32:39.240
<v Speaker 3>of mercury. For most people it's below four percent. There's

552
00:32:39.319 --> 00:32:43.200
<v Speaker 3>four percent, and it's way down twenty millimeters of mercury.

553
00:32:43.680 --> 00:32:47.599
<v Speaker 3>And that's responsible for all kinds of cognitive deficits. It

554
00:32:47.720 --> 00:32:50.799
<v Speaker 3>sets us up to be susceptible to all kinds of

555
00:32:51.160 --> 00:32:56.720
<v Speaker 3>illnesses that are based on needing that pure balance of

556
00:32:57.279 --> 00:33:01.480
<v Speaker 3>acid and base. And so if you're unconncious breathing patterns

557
00:33:01.880 --> 00:33:05.720
<v Speaker 3>are upsetting your chemistry, then you can expect a whole

558
00:33:05.759 --> 00:33:10.000
<v Speaker 3>lot of reactions chain reaction from that, and as soon

559
00:33:10.000 --> 00:33:12.359
<v Speaker 3>as you get your breathing back in order, you kind

560
00:33:12.359 --> 00:33:16.640
<v Speaker 3>of reset everything. But no one is trained to breathe,

561
00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:20.279
<v Speaker 3>and most people don't give their breathing any attention until

562
00:33:20.319 --> 00:33:23.279
<v Speaker 3>and unless they have a problem with it. But if

563
00:33:23.319 --> 00:33:27.039
<v Speaker 3>you work in high stakes life and death situations, you're

564
00:33:27.119 --> 00:33:31.240
<v Speaker 3>trained to breathe first respond to special for USUS you know,

565
00:33:31.599 --> 00:33:35.119
<v Speaker 3>seal teams, you name it, corporate executives. You need to

566
00:33:35.160 --> 00:33:39.599
<v Speaker 3>command a room, you get important presentations. You know, artists,

567
00:33:39.680 --> 00:33:43.839
<v Speaker 3>musical performers, psychotherapists who need to stay grounded and not

568
00:33:44.160 --> 00:33:47.799
<v Speaker 3>take on the energy of other people. Everybody you know

569
00:33:48.160 --> 00:33:52.400
<v Speaker 3>needs breathing. We all have our high stakes experiences, we

570
00:33:52.480 --> 00:33:56.200
<v Speaker 3>all have our day to day stresses. It might not

571
00:33:56.359 --> 00:33:59.920
<v Speaker 3>be at the level of some of these extreme jobs

572
00:34:00.200 --> 00:34:04.039
<v Speaker 3>and populations, but don't tell me what's big in my life.

573
00:34:04.200 --> 00:34:06.880
<v Speaker 3>You know. The next important conversation I have with my

574
00:34:07.000 --> 00:34:09.760
<v Speaker 3>teenage child is everything. And I want to be in

575
00:34:09.800 --> 00:34:13.079
<v Speaker 3>a place where I'm open and receptive and calm so

576
00:34:13.159 --> 00:34:16.679
<v Speaker 3>I can communicate and not be reacting emotionally. And that's

577
00:34:16.679 --> 00:34:18.039
<v Speaker 3>where breathing comes in handy.

578
00:34:18.719 --> 00:34:22.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would love to know any sort of tips

579
00:34:22.480 --> 00:34:25.199
<v Speaker 1>for like breathing, for grounding, for not taking on other

580
00:34:25.239 --> 00:34:28.880
<v Speaker 1>people's energy, that would be helpful for me.

581
00:34:30.320 --> 00:34:34.639
<v Speaker 3>You know, don't think in terms of trying to protect

582
00:34:34.679 --> 00:34:37.880
<v Speaker 3>yourself from other people's energy. Get really good at having

583
00:34:37.920 --> 00:34:42.599
<v Speaker 3>it passed through without making any noise or triggering any

584
00:34:42.639 --> 00:34:47.199
<v Speaker 3>reactions in your system. Okay, So get good at just

585
00:34:47.480 --> 00:34:49.960
<v Speaker 3>And that's what happens with every breath you take it in,

586
00:34:51.119 --> 00:34:54.039
<v Speaker 3>It goes right back out. Hah, No problem. Now if

587
00:34:54.039 --> 00:34:57.119
<v Speaker 3>you take it in and it starts bumping into things

588
00:34:57.159 --> 00:34:59.679
<v Speaker 3>and poking on things and things are attached to it

589
00:34:59.800 --> 00:35:03.079
<v Speaker 3>or resist that, then now you're creating a complex, and

590
00:35:03.119 --> 00:35:05.760
<v Speaker 3>now you're going to do something about it. I'm a

591
00:35:05.800 --> 00:35:10.920
<v Speaker 3>big believer in belief systems. Right if I believe I'm

592
00:35:10.960 --> 00:35:14.119
<v Speaker 3>surrounded by evil monsters who are going to eat me

593
00:35:14.599 --> 00:35:17.280
<v Speaker 3>as soon as I'm my guard is down, that's the

594
00:35:17.360 --> 00:35:19.440
<v Speaker 3>kind of world I'm going to live in. I create

595
00:35:19.519 --> 00:35:22.320
<v Speaker 3>my reality, and if I have a trust in the

596
00:35:22.360 --> 00:35:26.840
<v Speaker 3>safety of the universe and the influences around me are loving,

597
00:35:27.239 --> 00:35:29.639
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be more relaxed, and I'm going to

598
00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:33.599
<v Speaker 3>create a different reality for myself based on my beliefs.

599
00:35:33.880 --> 00:35:39.880
<v Speaker 3>You know, thoughts become things, and we have to pay attention.

600
00:35:41.119 --> 00:35:43.880
<v Speaker 3>You know, I have a moral obligation because I know

601
00:35:44.000 --> 00:35:47.159
<v Speaker 3>that the mind gets its creative power from the breath.

602
00:35:47.719 --> 00:35:52.239
<v Speaker 3>And if I help somebody increase the power of their breath,

603
00:35:52.280 --> 00:35:55.079
<v Speaker 3>they become more creative. If they're negative, they're going to

604
00:35:55.079 --> 00:35:57.719
<v Speaker 3>become more negative. If they're violent, they're going to become

605
00:35:57.719 --> 00:36:00.480
<v Speaker 3>more violent. And so I don't want to sport that.

606
00:36:00.679 --> 00:36:04.199
<v Speaker 3>So along with breath work, we're doing hard work. We're

607
00:36:04.199 --> 00:36:08.199
<v Speaker 3>doing consciousness work where we're working on our beliefs, We're

608
00:36:08.199 --> 00:36:13.760
<v Speaker 3>working on our attitudes, our emotions, and it has to

609
00:36:13.800 --> 00:36:16.840
<v Speaker 3>go hand in hand with breath work. The universe wouldn't

610
00:36:16.880 --> 00:36:21.679
<v Speaker 3>give us power unless we earned it, unless it's safe

611
00:36:21.679 --> 00:36:26.320
<v Speaker 3>with us. And so you know, I breathing is a

612
00:36:26.360 --> 00:36:30.199
<v Speaker 3>lot more than breathing, but it's the source and the

613
00:36:30.239 --> 00:36:32.199
<v Speaker 3>center in my life for everything.

614
00:36:33.039 --> 00:36:38.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now I'm resonating with everything you're saying. I completely agree.

615
00:36:39.840 --> 00:36:43.000
<v Speaker 5>I'm curious for those people that you mentioned, some people

616
00:36:43.039 --> 00:36:49.400
<v Speaker 5>are just kind of unconsciously or subconsciously like breath starved

617
00:36:50.079 --> 00:36:54.480
<v Speaker 5>or they're they're unconsciously just not breathing, They're they're holding

618
00:36:54.480 --> 00:36:58.519
<v Speaker 5>their breath naturally. Well, what is the first step to

619
00:36:58.760 --> 00:37:00.880
<v Speaker 5>like retraining that sort of thing?

620
00:37:00.880 --> 00:37:01.920
<v Speaker 4>I can relate to that.

621
00:37:02.239 --> 00:37:05.519
<v Speaker 5>I just oh, yeah, yeah, I'm curious.

622
00:37:05.800 --> 00:37:09.679
<v Speaker 3>It's a universal thing. I mean, everybody's breathing all the time,

623
00:37:09.920 --> 00:37:13.440
<v Speaker 3>but most people are only aware of it percent two

624
00:37:13.519 --> 00:37:17.360
<v Speaker 3>percent five percent of the time, and they're only aware

625
00:37:17.360 --> 00:37:19.760
<v Speaker 3>of it if and when it causes a problem. Otherwise

626
00:37:19.760 --> 00:37:26.599
<v Speaker 3>they're oblivious to it. And so we're you know, we're

627
00:37:26.599 --> 00:37:30.320
<v Speaker 3>not taught breathing in school. We're not unless you had

628
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<v Speaker 3>some training meditation, martial arts, something musical performing where you

629
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<v Speaker 3>actually started to do some kind of breathing training. But

630
00:37:39.440 --> 00:37:43.039
<v Speaker 3>even then a lot of people it stays locked in

631
00:37:43.079 --> 00:37:47.760
<v Speaker 3>that particular arena. They don't take it into their everyday life.

632
00:37:47.840 --> 00:37:50.679
<v Speaker 3>They only apply it in those areas where they were

633
00:37:50.760 --> 00:37:55.519
<v Speaker 3>trained to apply it. So everybody's a thousand times a

634
00:37:55.599 --> 00:37:58.840
<v Speaker 3>day people hold their breath. Putting a key in the door,

635
00:38:00.079 --> 00:38:02.000
<v Speaker 3>and you hold your breath for a moment, trying to

636
00:38:02.039 --> 00:38:06.000
<v Speaker 3>remember something, and you hold your breath. You're getting up

637
00:38:06.000 --> 00:38:10.000
<v Speaker 3>from a chair and you hold your breath, and so

638
00:38:11.239 --> 00:38:15.159
<v Speaker 3>that sends an emergency signal to the brain, because breath

639
00:38:15.159 --> 00:38:19.079
<v Speaker 3>holding is an emergency signal. You know, imagine an antelope

640
00:38:19.119 --> 00:38:22.400
<v Speaker 3>chomping on the grass and the Serengetti planes and there's

641
00:38:22.400 --> 00:38:24.840
<v Speaker 3>a noise in the bushes. You think it's crump rump.

642
00:38:26.760 --> 00:38:31.519
<v Speaker 3>That holding the breath is an emergency reaction. And so

643
00:38:31.760 --> 00:38:34.199
<v Speaker 3>people watch the news and TV, and they read the

644
00:38:34.199 --> 00:38:37.039
<v Speaker 3>newspaper and they don't realize that they're holding their breath

645
00:38:37.079 --> 00:38:39.000
<v Speaker 3>every time they get a little piece of bad news,

646
00:38:39.079 --> 00:38:43.719
<v Speaker 3>or unconsciously, they've learned to hold their breath in order

647
00:38:43.760 --> 00:38:47.360
<v Speaker 3>to stop themselves from laughing or crying a little child.

648
00:38:47.400 --> 00:38:50.159
<v Speaker 3>If you tell them sit still, be quiet, they got

649
00:38:50.159 --> 00:38:52.880
<v Speaker 3>so much energy. The only way to manage that energy

650
00:38:52.920 --> 00:38:55.079
<v Speaker 3>is to manage their breath. And if you want to

651
00:38:55.159 --> 00:38:58.840
<v Speaker 3>hide and be invisible, you hold your breath. You don't

652
00:38:58.880 --> 00:39:01.320
<v Speaker 3>have to teach that antelo open the wild. If you

653
00:39:01.360 --> 00:39:04.000
<v Speaker 3>want to be invisible, stop breathing, because you're giving away

654
00:39:04.320 --> 00:39:07.320
<v Speaker 3>your presence. And a little two three year old girl

655
00:39:07.679 --> 00:39:11.280
<v Speaker 3>hiding behind a couch playing hide and seek, she's holding

656
00:39:11.280 --> 00:39:13.880
<v Speaker 3>her breath. Nobody had to teach her of that. And

657
00:39:13.960 --> 00:39:15.559
<v Speaker 3>if you're a kid in the back row of the

658
00:39:15.559 --> 00:39:18.400
<v Speaker 3>school and the teacher's looking for somebody to ask a

659
00:39:18.480 --> 00:39:21.679
<v Speaker 3>question about the homework and you didn't do it, you're

660
00:39:21.760 --> 00:39:24.280
<v Speaker 3>back there hoping you can be invisible, and you're going

661
00:39:24.360 --> 00:39:27.639
<v Speaker 3>to automatically be holding your breath. And if some toxic

662
00:39:27.719 --> 00:39:29.920
<v Speaker 3>force it's going to come down onto you, it's an

663
00:39:30.000 --> 00:39:33.480
<v Speaker 3>instinct too. You take a breath and you hold your breath,

664
00:39:33.519 --> 00:39:37.519
<v Speaker 3>and you fight to resist that toxic force, right, and

665
00:39:37.599 --> 00:39:40.400
<v Speaker 3>if something wants to come out of you, that's you know,

666
00:39:40.960 --> 00:39:44.079
<v Speaker 3>try not to laugh. How do you stop yourself from laughing?

667
00:39:46.039 --> 00:39:48.039
<v Speaker 3>You have to hold your breath. How do you stop

668
00:39:48.039 --> 00:39:53.079
<v Speaker 3>yourself from crying? You've got to control your breath. So

669
00:39:53.119 --> 00:39:57.480
<v Speaker 3>we don't realize that we've been engaging in breathing behaviors

670
00:39:57.719 --> 00:40:01.639
<v Speaker 3>our whole life, and those breathing behaviors, some of them

671
00:40:01.679 --> 00:40:06.280
<v Speaker 3>are functional and useful, and some of them disturb our chemistry,

672
00:40:06.400 --> 00:40:13.320
<v Speaker 3>disturb our performance, disturb everything else about us. So, if

673
00:40:13.400 --> 00:40:18.880
<v Speaker 3>you haven't consciously practiced breathing, the odds are pretty damn

674
00:40:18.920 --> 00:40:23.840
<v Speaker 3>good that your unconscious breathing habits could use some upgrading,

675
00:40:23.920 --> 00:40:27.199
<v Speaker 3>some up leveling, some improving, because when you don't have

676
00:40:27.239 --> 00:40:30.320
<v Speaker 3>time to think, it's your habits that kick in, it's

677
00:40:30.320 --> 00:40:33.480
<v Speaker 3>your training that kicks in, and that goes along with breathing.

678
00:40:34.039 --> 00:40:38.000
<v Speaker 3>So unless you've actually practiced breathing and distress so that

679
00:40:38.360 --> 00:40:41.480
<v Speaker 3>when stress comes you automatically breathe in a better way,

680
00:40:41.880 --> 00:40:43.679
<v Speaker 3>the odds are pretty good that you're going to launch

681
00:40:43.679 --> 00:40:47.639
<v Speaker 3>into dysfunctional breathing and you're going to make If it's anxiety,

682
00:40:47.639 --> 00:40:50.880
<v Speaker 3>for example, if you start to feel anxious, the way

683
00:40:50.920 --> 00:40:53.920
<v Speaker 3>that you breathe when you're anxious can actually make the

684
00:40:53.960 --> 00:40:57.719
<v Speaker 3>anxiety worse, and then you work yourself into an all

685
00:40:57.719 --> 00:41:03.840
<v Speaker 3>out panic attack. Yeah, and so become that's where everybody

686
00:41:03.880 --> 00:41:08.000
<v Speaker 3>needs to start. You need to just become conscious, aware

687
00:41:08.079 --> 00:41:11.920
<v Speaker 3>of your breathing when you're stuck in traffic How are

688
00:41:11.920 --> 00:41:15.239
<v Speaker 3>you breathing when you're listening to music and enjoying it?

689
00:41:15.320 --> 00:41:17.920
<v Speaker 3>How are you breathing when you're stuck on a math

690
00:41:18.039 --> 00:41:21.400
<v Speaker 3>problem trying to solve. How are you breathing when someone

691
00:41:21.440 --> 00:41:24.639
<v Speaker 3>is insulting you? How are you breathing when someone is

692
00:41:24.679 --> 00:41:28.159
<v Speaker 3>praising you? How are you breathing when you're making love?

693
00:41:28.440 --> 00:41:32.159
<v Speaker 3>How are you breathing? Like you know, and I work

694
00:41:32.199 --> 00:41:34.960
<v Speaker 3>with people who specialize in the sports world, how are

695
00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:39.199
<v Speaker 3>you breathing during that stroke, during that punch, during that grab?

696
00:41:39.920 --> 00:41:44.880
<v Speaker 3>You know, for certain moments, breathing is everything. And unless

697
00:41:44.920 --> 00:41:49.119
<v Speaker 3>you're really have been starting to notice your own breathing happens,

698
00:41:49.320 --> 00:41:52.559
<v Speaker 3>that's where it starts. You have to become aware. You

699
00:41:52.559 --> 00:41:54.119
<v Speaker 3>get up in the morning. You don't have to breathe

700
00:41:54.119 --> 00:41:56.840
<v Speaker 3>in any special way. Just tune into your breathing like

701
00:41:56.840 --> 00:42:00.280
<v Speaker 3>you're meeting a friend who's with you all the time.

702
00:42:00.559 --> 00:42:03.239
<v Speaker 3>How is my breath this morning? Is it easy? Is

703
00:42:03.239 --> 00:42:08.400
<v Speaker 3>it opens? It flowing? You know, I don't feel like breathing?

704
00:42:08.440 --> 00:42:13.119
<v Speaker 3>Am I full of energy? And just start to develop

705
00:42:13.159 --> 00:42:17.079
<v Speaker 3>this habit to just notice how you're breathing, And that

706
00:42:17.400 --> 00:42:21.880
<v Speaker 3>starts the whole journey because breath awareness leads to the

707
00:42:21.920 --> 00:42:26.000
<v Speaker 3>awareness of habits and patterns, the words that you choose,

708
00:42:26.039 --> 00:42:30.079
<v Speaker 3>the reactions, your emotions, your posture, your behavior. The more

709
00:42:30.199 --> 00:42:32.599
<v Speaker 3>conscious you become of your breathing, the more conscious you

710
00:42:32.639 --> 00:42:36.039
<v Speaker 3>become of everything. The more aware you are of your breath,

711
00:42:36.159 --> 00:42:40.639
<v Speaker 3>the more aware you are period. And so breath awareness

712
00:42:41.320 --> 00:42:44.800
<v Speaker 3>starts the door, opens the door, and then from there

713
00:42:45.360 --> 00:42:49.880
<v Speaker 3>we can start practicing conscious breathing. So breath awareness, you

714
00:42:49.920 --> 00:42:53.159
<v Speaker 3>don't even do the breathing. It's your body's breathing itself.

715
00:42:53.559 --> 00:42:57.519
<v Speaker 3>In fact, don't do it. Just tune into it, observe it,

716
00:42:57.719 --> 00:43:01.519
<v Speaker 3>feel it, watch it, notice it, sense it. And it's

717
00:43:01.639 --> 00:43:06.320
<v Speaker 3>just you're forming a relationship. You're becoming more aware of

718
00:43:06.400 --> 00:43:09.039
<v Speaker 3>what's happening inside of you, and that's going to lead

719
00:43:09.079 --> 00:43:11.280
<v Speaker 3>to awareness of a lot of other things.

720
00:43:12.480 --> 00:43:13.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's very profound.

721
00:43:14.199 --> 00:43:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I really enjoyed my experience with that second workshop that

722
00:43:18.000 --> 00:43:21.280
<v Speaker 1>you did that I was able to attend, and and

723
00:43:21.320 --> 00:43:24.079
<v Speaker 1>that very short span which was about two hours. It

724
00:43:24.119 --> 00:43:27.760
<v Speaker 1>was a great workshop, a lot of information, but in

725
00:43:27.800 --> 00:43:30.159
<v Speaker 1>the grand scheme of life, in that little two hour time,

726
00:43:30.559 --> 00:43:34.760
<v Speaker 1>I learned so much that I'm you know, taken with me.

727
00:43:35.199 --> 00:43:35.800
<v Speaker 4>And and the.

728
00:43:35.800 --> 00:43:38.199
<v Speaker 1>Thing about like the wheel of breathing, you know, the

729
00:43:38.199 --> 00:43:40.840
<v Speaker 1>attention on the nose and then the bridge of the nose,

730
00:43:41.400 --> 00:43:42.599
<v Speaker 1>and then you know through the throat.

731
00:43:42.679 --> 00:43:43.800
<v Speaker 4>All of that exercise.

732
00:43:43.800 --> 00:43:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I've been thinking about that, like expanding my lungs and

733
00:43:46.440 --> 00:43:49.320
<v Speaker 1>then my diaphragm and becoming so aware of this. And

734
00:43:49.360 --> 00:43:51.559
<v Speaker 1>then in our private session you expanded on that even

735
00:43:51.599 --> 00:43:56.039
<v Speaker 1>deeper in our in our actual guided session, and you

736
00:43:56.039 --> 00:43:58.679
<v Speaker 1>were telling us, you know, breathe them through your pores,

737
00:43:59.199 --> 00:44:02.480
<v Speaker 1>breathe them through your breathe in with your aura.

738
00:44:02.559 --> 00:44:04.440
<v Speaker 4>And I was like, what you can.

739
00:44:05.559 --> 00:44:09.840
<v Speaker 3>We're not just breathing air, We're breathing energy. We're breathing light.

740
00:44:10.239 --> 00:44:13.559
<v Speaker 3>That's the real art in breath work. One of my

741
00:44:13.679 --> 00:44:17.239
<v Speaker 3>teachers said, the real art is the merging of the

742
00:44:17.280 --> 00:44:20.639
<v Speaker 3>outer breath, which is air, and merging that with the

743
00:44:20.639 --> 00:44:24.440
<v Speaker 3>inner breath, which is spirit. And in the ancient traditions

744
00:44:24.440 --> 00:44:28.639
<v Speaker 3>and the Jewish tradition have this rua the breath within

745
00:44:28.800 --> 00:44:32.039
<v Speaker 3>the breath, and in the East they talk about prana

746
00:44:32.079 --> 00:44:35.280
<v Speaker 3>and chi and chi that's the energy in the breath.

747
00:44:35.639 --> 00:44:38.000
<v Speaker 3>Anybody can huff and puff and move a lot of air.

748
00:44:38.760 --> 00:44:42.320
<v Speaker 3>Can you begin to breathe energy and direct energy and

749
00:44:42.400 --> 00:44:48.000
<v Speaker 3>channel energy and train your system to tolerate more energy,

750
00:44:48.079 --> 00:44:53.679
<v Speaker 3>receive more energy, contain more energy, and that's where the

751
00:44:53.679 --> 00:44:55.800
<v Speaker 3>good stuff really starts to show up.

752
00:44:57.320 --> 00:44:59.119
<v Speaker 4>That's a great way to put it. So what's the

753
00:44:59.199 --> 00:45:00.280
<v Speaker 4>key then, right?

754
00:45:00.360 --> 00:45:02.679
<v Speaker 1>So you said anybody can huff and puff, So it's

755
00:45:02.679 --> 00:45:08.079
<v Speaker 1>the key properly huffing and puffing, but while also increasing

756
00:45:08.199 --> 00:45:11.360
<v Speaker 1>that awareness of the chie or the prana or the

757
00:45:11.360 --> 00:45:12.199
<v Speaker 1>spiritual energy.

758
00:45:12.320 --> 00:45:16.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the awareness of the cheek kind of emerges by itself.

759
00:45:17.760 --> 00:45:21.159
<v Speaker 3>It just you start just noticing it more. So if

760
00:45:21.159 --> 00:45:23.559
<v Speaker 3>you want to look for the hack, what's the what's

761
00:45:23.599 --> 00:45:27.119
<v Speaker 3>the real you know, what's the main thing that we

762
00:45:27.199 --> 00:45:32.960
<v Speaker 3>want to master. It's combining powerful breathing with relaxation. And

763
00:45:32.960 --> 00:45:39.280
<v Speaker 3>when most people breathe in a powerful way, they don't relax,

764
00:45:40.440 --> 00:45:45.559
<v Speaker 3>and when they relax, they don't breathe. And so there

765
00:45:45.599 --> 00:45:50.280
<v Speaker 3>it is. How do you combine powerful breathing with complete relaxation.

766
00:45:50.800 --> 00:45:53.880
<v Speaker 3>That's a skull that's nobody can teach it. Anyone can

767
00:45:54.000 --> 00:45:56.599
<v Speaker 3>learn it. You can't teach it, but you can learn it.

768
00:45:57.239 --> 00:46:01.400
<v Speaker 3>And so that's you want a shortcut. You could start

769
00:46:01.440 --> 00:46:04.840
<v Speaker 3>by breathing in a real powerful way and then as

770
00:46:04.880 --> 00:46:08.840
<v Speaker 3>a practice, as a discipline, as a as a process,

771
00:46:09.320 --> 00:46:13.400
<v Speaker 3>start relaxing more and more and more, relax whatever you

772
00:46:13.480 --> 00:46:17.199
<v Speaker 3>don't need to to allow that breath to remain powerful.

773
00:46:17.880 --> 00:46:21.039
<v Speaker 3>So you get the powerful breath going and you relax

774
00:46:21.119 --> 00:46:23.519
<v Speaker 3>more and more and more without losing the power of

775
00:46:23.559 --> 00:46:27.000
<v Speaker 3>the breath. And the other way is you relax completely

776
00:46:27.360 --> 00:46:29.639
<v Speaker 3>and then you start turning up the power of the

777
00:46:29.679 --> 00:46:34.079
<v Speaker 3>breath without losing your relaxation. And until then maybe you

778
00:46:34.079 --> 00:46:38.320
<v Speaker 3>can go back and forth. You know, active inhale, passive

779
00:46:38.360 --> 00:46:45.599
<v Speaker 3>exhale or active exhale s sh and reflexive inhale. So

780
00:46:46.440 --> 00:46:49.159
<v Speaker 3>you know, you start you get a play. It's about

781
00:46:49.159 --> 00:46:52.159
<v Speaker 3>playing with your breath. But there's a shortcut for you.

782
00:46:52.440 --> 00:46:55.119
<v Speaker 3>And when those two things, when peace and power mix,

783
00:46:55.559 --> 00:47:00.639
<v Speaker 3>when energy and relaxation blend, that's the flow, that's the zone,

784
00:47:00.679 --> 00:47:06.840
<v Speaker 3>that's the flow state. That's when potential is unlocked. It's

785
00:47:06.920 --> 00:47:09.639
<v Speaker 3>like I get that lesson from a good Navy seal friend,

786
00:47:09.639 --> 00:47:13.159
<v Speaker 3>commander of mine, Navy seal commander who said, you know

787
00:47:14.119 --> 00:47:19.119
<v Speaker 3>the control the power is about control, and the piece

788
00:47:19.280 --> 00:47:23.280
<v Speaker 3>is about relaxation. And that combination of peace and power

789
00:47:23.599 --> 00:47:26.840
<v Speaker 3>makes you the most dangerous guy on the battlefield. That

790
00:47:26.960 --> 00:47:31.360
<v Speaker 3>combination of energy and relaxation. That's what opens the doors

791
00:47:31.360 --> 00:47:35.079
<v Speaker 3>of our perception. That's what that's when our heart opens.

792
00:47:35.559 --> 00:47:39.320
<v Speaker 3>It's the combination. So I live in Mexico, down in

793
00:47:39.360 --> 00:47:43.559
<v Speaker 3>the Baja, and actually every in January we have my

794
00:47:43.719 --> 00:47:47.920
<v Speaker 3>twentieth annual breathing gathering, a Cabo breakfast. We call it

795
00:47:48.679 --> 00:47:51.159
<v Speaker 3>January twenty third to the twenty ninth, and I invite

796
00:47:51.480 --> 00:47:53.800
<v Speaker 3>some of my favorite breath workers from around the world,

797
00:47:54.440 --> 00:47:57.079
<v Speaker 3>so I don't have to do all the work. I

798
00:47:57.199 --> 00:48:01.679
<v Speaker 3>choose and I let other people and I'm catching up

799
00:48:01.719 --> 00:48:04.320
<v Speaker 3>with what they've been doing anyway. So I live in

800
00:48:04.360 --> 00:48:07.199
<v Speaker 3>Mexico in the Baja, and it's just below the Tropic

801
00:48:07.239 --> 00:48:10.519
<v Speaker 3>of Cancer. Our property is about one hundred yards below

802
00:48:10.559 --> 00:48:13.159
<v Speaker 3>the Tropic of Cancer. So we're in the tropics, but

803
00:48:13.239 --> 00:48:16.639
<v Speaker 3>it's arid tropics, dry tropics, and the soil there is

804
00:48:16.800 --> 00:48:21.039
<v Speaker 3>very hard packed, mineral rich, but hard packed soil, and

805
00:48:21.119 --> 00:48:24.559
<v Speaker 3>so when it rains, the water just washes along the

806
00:48:24.639 --> 00:48:28.679
<v Speaker 3>surface and it tries to find the ocean. It doesn't penetrate.

807
00:48:29.920 --> 00:48:32.760
<v Speaker 3>But if you loosen the soil, if you soften the soil,

808
00:48:33.559 --> 00:48:36.760
<v Speaker 3>if you turn the soil, then when it rains, the

809
00:48:36.800 --> 00:48:41.079
<v Speaker 3>soil drinks up the water. So this is exactly the

810
00:48:41.079 --> 00:48:45.400
<v Speaker 3>phenomenon with breathing. You breathe in a powerful way. Now

811
00:48:45.440 --> 00:48:47.840
<v Speaker 3>you're pulling a lot of energy. But if you don't relax,

812
00:48:48.119 --> 00:48:51.119
<v Speaker 3>that energy cannot penetrate you, it can't do its work.

813
00:48:51.440 --> 00:48:53.880
<v Speaker 3>It can't do the healing, the transformation of work, or

814
00:48:53.920 --> 00:48:57.480
<v Speaker 3>the balancing or purging or whatever's required. So it's that

815
00:48:57.599 --> 00:49:01.880
<v Speaker 3>combination of breathing and relaxing, and so we build that

816
00:49:02.039 --> 00:49:06.239
<v Speaker 3>into I build it into our first core technique getting

817
00:49:06.239 --> 00:49:09.239
<v Speaker 3>people in the game and getting moving. You want to

818
00:49:09.280 --> 00:49:11.400
<v Speaker 3>be sure that what they're practicing, they're going to get

819
00:49:11.400 --> 00:49:14.440
<v Speaker 3>the most bang out of their buck, right, and so

820
00:49:14.599 --> 00:49:17.239
<v Speaker 3>to get the most bang out of their buck, you

821
00:49:17.320 --> 00:49:19.960
<v Speaker 3>need to have three qualities. You need to unlock what

822
00:49:20.000 --> 00:49:24.440
<v Speaker 3>I call my formula for transformation. Every time I've ever

823
00:49:24.480 --> 00:49:29.119
<v Speaker 3>seen an experience someone go through a deep, powerful healing,

824
00:49:29.480 --> 00:49:34.239
<v Speaker 3>a huge transformation, a quantum leap in awakening, some powerful

825
00:49:34.320 --> 00:49:40.119
<v Speaker 3>growth experience or healing experience, I noticed there were three

826
00:49:40.159 --> 00:49:44.360
<v Speaker 3>things at play. There was consciousness awareness. Now you could

827
00:49:44.400 --> 00:49:47.480
<v Speaker 3>go for surgery, somebody could you're totally unconscious and they

828
00:49:47.519 --> 00:49:49.320
<v Speaker 3>sew you up and fix it. You didn't have any

829
00:49:49.400 --> 00:49:53.360
<v Speaker 3>part in your own healing. So being awake is like

830
00:49:53.440 --> 00:49:56.920
<v Speaker 3>the first rule in life, you know, like wake up, Okay,

831
00:49:57.000 --> 00:50:00.679
<v Speaker 3>let's be conscious. Let's be aware. That's like primary. The

832
00:50:00.760 --> 00:50:02.800
<v Speaker 3>second thing is you're going to be able to let go.

833
00:50:03.559 --> 00:50:06.360
<v Speaker 3>You got you know, most problems that we're fighting with,

834
00:50:06.800 --> 00:50:08.280
<v Speaker 3>we don't need to fight with them. You can just

835
00:50:08.360 --> 00:50:11.000
<v Speaker 3>let them go. And the third is you've got to

836
00:50:11.039 --> 00:50:14.800
<v Speaker 3>be able to generate energy with your breath. So I

837
00:50:14.880 --> 00:50:18.880
<v Speaker 3>get people very early on practicing breathing that makes them

838
00:50:18.880 --> 00:50:23.559
<v Speaker 3>more conscious, helps them to relax more, and gives them

839
00:50:23.599 --> 00:50:27.360
<v Speaker 3>the ability to generate energy. And then after that they

840
00:50:27.360 --> 00:50:30.480
<v Speaker 3>don't need me. You know, you're connecting to the energy

841
00:50:30.559 --> 00:50:33.599
<v Speaker 3>that built your body in the womb. You're connecting to

842
00:50:33.679 --> 00:50:37.159
<v Speaker 3>the energy that comes direct from source, from the creator.

843
00:50:37.360 --> 00:50:41.559
<v Speaker 3>You don't need a middleman. And so when you use

844
00:50:41.639 --> 00:50:47.039
<v Speaker 3>the breath to awaken to your own spirit, Hey, priests

845
00:50:47.039 --> 00:50:51.280
<v Speaker 3>and politicians and doctors, they don't play such a dominant

846
00:50:51.360 --> 00:50:54.599
<v Speaker 3>role in your life because you're connected to something bigger,

847
00:50:54.719 --> 00:50:58.119
<v Speaker 3>something deeper, and you're guided by something deeper.

848
00:50:58.519 --> 00:51:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I love that I have to comment on something that

849
00:51:02.000 --> 00:51:05.480
<v Speaker 1>was so funny. My wife and my sister and I

850
00:51:05.519 --> 00:51:09.320
<v Speaker 1>were sitting there cackling in the crowd at that Sunday

851
00:51:09.440 --> 00:51:12.639
<v Speaker 1>panel that you participated in with the rest of the

852
00:51:12.679 --> 00:51:16.360
<v Speaker 1>group at the conference, and let's just paint a picture, okay.

853
00:51:17.079 --> 00:51:19.519
<v Speaker 1>So because because Nick and Alex weren't there, they don't

854
00:51:19.519 --> 00:51:21.119
<v Speaker 1>they don't know this, the listeners don't know this. But

855
00:51:21.159 --> 00:51:24.880
<v Speaker 1>we were pretty much at a UFO thing, right, And

856
00:51:25.119 --> 00:51:28.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm so curious to know, Like, there's so many questions

857
00:51:28.840 --> 00:51:30.800
<v Speaker 1>running through my mind. There was there's so many conditions

858
00:51:30.840 --> 00:51:33.360
<v Speaker 1>present where I may not have been able to meet you.

859
00:51:33.360 --> 00:51:35.320
<v Speaker 1>You could have looked at that and been like, uh,

860
00:51:35.639 --> 00:51:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm not into UFOs, but for some

861
00:51:38.039 --> 00:51:39.119
<v Speaker 1>grand reason.

862
00:51:38.840 --> 00:51:42.360
<v Speaker 4>You said, hey, I'll do it. And what happened was.

863
00:51:42.360 --> 00:51:45.360
<v Speaker 1>So funny, guys, because on the last day there's a

864
00:51:45.360 --> 00:51:48.639
<v Speaker 1>panel of people and they're all being asked these questions

865
00:51:48.639 --> 00:51:52.159
<v Speaker 1>about UFOs, right, and then then comes around and he

866
00:51:52.199 --> 00:51:55.800
<v Speaker 1>gets the question and every time he's like just talks

867
00:51:55.800 --> 00:52:00.920
<v Speaker 1>about breathing, and the host, God bless him, was like, no, no,

868
00:52:01.000 --> 00:52:06.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm asking you about UFOs. He's just like, would crack

869
00:52:06.280 --> 00:52:08.559
<v Speaker 1>a joke at him. Everybody in the crowd erupts in

870
00:52:08.559 --> 00:52:10.880
<v Speaker 1>the laughter. You didn't you know you're just doing your thing.

871
00:52:10.960 --> 00:52:12.800
<v Speaker 1>You're just talking about your breathing. You didn't care about

872
00:52:12.840 --> 00:52:14.800
<v Speaker 1>the program. And I thought that was amazing. I thought

873
00:52:14.840 --> 00:52:18.039
<v Speaker 1>that was so funny. You're just like, hey, don't tell

874
00:52:18.079 --> 00:52:20.880
<v Speaker 1>me how to breathe. Everyone in the room just erupted

875
00:52:20.920 --> 00:52:21.480
<v Speaker 1>into laughter.

876
00:52:21.559 --> 00:52:23.079
<v Speaker 4>It was so funny, dude.

877
00:52:23.320 --> 00:52:25.880
<v Speaker 3>But you know, Tony Robbins one of my favorite I'm

878
00:52:25.880 --> 00:52:28.679
<v Speaker 3>here in West Palm Beach. We've been having four am

879
00:52:28.840 --> 00:52:32.840
<v Speaker 3>meetings because that's the only time on his calendar that

880
00:52:32.920 --> 00:52:37.559
<v Speaker 3>he's even open, and so we've been chatting at four

881
00:52:37.599 --> 00:52:41.400
<v Speaker 3>am about breathing. Yeah, because he's working twenty hours a

882
00:52:41.480 --> 00:52:45.559
<v Speaker 3>day or whatever, sixteen eighteen. And you know, one of

883
00:52:45.599 --> 00:52:48.519
<v Speaker 3>the things I realized that people who've done a lot

884
00:52:48.559 --> 00:52:52.079
<v Speaker 3>of work on themselves, they can make a little adjustment

885
00:52:52.159 --> 00:52:55.920
<v Speaker 3>in something and they parlay that into a huge advantage.

886
00:52:56.239 --> 00:53:00.519
<v Speaker 3>You know. So people have done a lot of work themselves,

887
00:53:00.559 --> 00:53:04.079
<v Speaker 3>and I mean people who've like you know, been honest

888
00:53:04.119 --> 00:53:09.480
<v Speaker 3>with themselves about their limitations about their programming, their negative thoughts,

889
00:53:09.599 --> 00:53:13.440
<v Speaker 3>their illusions there. And you know, I have to admit

890
00:53:13.480 --> 00:53:17.719
<v Speaker 3>that that uf go UFO conference that my my bullshit meeter,

891
00:53:17.760 --> 00:53:21.159
<v Speaker 3>it was going off pretty regularly but mixed in with

892
00:53:21.239 --> 00:53:27.760
<v Speaker 3>it was like very real, very genuine, unarguable, sincere experiences

893
00:53:27.800 --> 00:53:30.360
<v Speaker 3>and so you know, you gotta I have to kind

894
00:53:30.360 --> 00:53:34.159
<v Speaker 3>of I try to sort through, you know, stuff, and

895
00:53:34.599 --> 00:53:37.639
<v Speaker 3>but I did leave with something really beautiful. It really

896
00:53:37.679 --> 00:53:40.079
<v Speaker 3>helped me. And you know, I know, I look at

897
00:53:40.119 --> 00:53:42.920
<v Speaker 3>you know, why why did I accept this inmitation? And

898
00:53:42.960 --> 00:53:45.519
<v Speaker 3>why am I showing up when I'm showing up? I

899
00:53:45.559 --> 00:53:47.559
<v Speaker 3>know that one of the main reasons was to meet

900
00:53:47.599 --> 00:53:50.039
<v Speaker 3>your father and to meet your family. I had no

901
00:53:50.079 --> 00:53:53.119
<v Speaker 3>doubt about that. And the other was that I was

902
00:53:53.199 --> 00:53:58.119
<v Speaker 3>watching my internal reactions around these people, and and I

903
00:53:59.159 --> 00:54:03.119
<v Speaker 3>realized the import and I've been practicing it everywhere since,

904
00:54:03.679 --> 00:54:07.159
<v Speaker 3>is to be able to just listen without pushing back,

905
00:54:08.360 --> 00:54:11.719
<v Speaker 3>To be able to even quietly in my own mind

906
00:54:12.239 --> 00:54:14.199
<v Speaker 3>not pushing back. Not that I would come out and

907
00:54:14.360 --> 00:54:17.320
<v Speaker 3>argue and stuff, that's another level of that, but just

908
00:54:17.360 --> 00:54:20.719
<v Speaker 3>in my own watching my own space, my own fields,

909
00:54:21.280 --> 00:54:25.199
<v Speaker 3>the ability just grew to be able to just really

910
00:54:25.320 --> 00:54:29.880
<v Speaker 3>listen without automatically pushing back. That's that's man. One of

911
00:54:29.920 --> 00:54:32.679
<v Speaker 3>the reasons I'm grateful that I was there because I

912
00:54:32.719 --> 00:54:34.880
<v Speaker 3>had a lot of practice over that weekend.

913
00:54:39.440 --> 00:54:43.239
<v Speaker 1>I just thought it was masterclass performance, like I just

914
00:54:43.280 --> 00:54:44.760
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about what I want to talk about.

915
00:54:44.760 --> 00:54:45.039
<v Speaker 4>Please.

916
00:54:47.199 --> 00:54:49.840
<v Speaker 1>It was very funny, it was it was very graceful too,

917
00:54:49.880 --> 00:54:51.360
<v Speaker 1>though you were very like it was.

918
00:54:51.480 --> 00:54:53.440
<v Speaker 4>It was very tactful.

919
00:54:53.480 --> 00:54:56.559
<v Speaker 1>But it was memorable because exactly the reason I even

920
00:54:56.559 --> 00:54:58.440
<v Speaker 1>brought this up is because you said, when you become

921
00:54:58.440 --> 00:55:00.679
<v Speaker 1>connected to that source through your breathing, all of a sudden,

922
00:55:00.719 --> 00:55:04.639
<v Speaker 1>things like politicians and you know whatever else you said,

923
00:55:04.679 --> 00:55:06.679
<v Speaker 1>the news and all these the priests and all these

924
00:55:06.719 --> 00:55:09.079
<v Speaker 1>things don't matter. Maybe a room full of three hundred

925
00:55:09.079 --> 00:55:11.920
<v Speaker 1>people and a panel of interviewers, that's say, I'm just

926
00:55:11.920 --> 00:55:14.719
<v Speaker 1>talking about breathing. I'm just doing my thing and enjoying

927
00:55:14.760 --> 00:55:15.519
<v Speaker 1>my experience here.

928
00:55:16.159 --> 00:55:19.320
<v Speaker 3>And you know, we these days, you don't know who

929
00:55:19.360 --> 00:55:22.559
<v Speaker 3>to believe. You don't know who's telling the truth and

930
00:55:22.559 --> 00:55:25.079
<v Speaker 3>who's not. You don't know who's right who's wrong. You

931
00:55:25.159 --> 00:55:27.880
<v Speaker 3>watch the news, you don't know who's reporting it accurately

932
00:55:27.960 --> 00:55:30.119
<v Speaker 3>or not. You can't tell who the good guys are

933
00:55:30.199 --> 00:55:32.559
<v Speaker 3>who the bad guys are. And so more than ever,

934
00:55:32.639 --> 00:55:35.519
<v Speaker 3>we need to connect to an inner knowing. We need

935
00:55:35.559 --> 00:55:39.920
<v Speaker 3>to find our own compass and learn to trust our gut,

936
00:55:40.000 --> 00:55:47.079
<v Speaker 3>our intuition. These little things that prompt us, and that's

937
00:55:47.400 --> 00:55:51.039
<v Speaker 3>otherwise we're just getting blown around in the wind out there,

938
00:55:51.039 --> 00:55:54.320
<v Speaker 3>pushed and pulled, and we could be all like lemmings,

939
00:55:54.360 --> 00:55:56.119
<v Speaker 3>just heading off the edge of a cliff, you know,

940
00:55:56.199 --> 00:56:00.880
<v Speaker 3>and everybody's that's what everybody's up to. So I've never

941
00:56:01.000 --> 00:56:07.239
<v Speaker 3>fit in to the mainstream. But breathwork has become mainstream.

942
00:56:07.360 --> 00:56:10.320
<v Speaker 3>My dream fifty years ago was they're going to be

943
00:56:10.400 --> 00:56:13.039
<v Speaker 3>teaching breathing in schools and doctors are going to be

944
00:56:13.039 --> 00:56:16.679
<v Speaker 3>approving it, and science will beautiful and that's all happening now.

945
00:56:17.480 --> 00:56:19.719
<v Speaker 3>But now it's creating a new problem, at least for

946
00:56:19.840 --> 00:56:23.880
<v Speaker 3>my being a kind of an elder in this movement.

947
00:56:24.519 --> 00:56:27.000
<v Speaker 3>You know, there was a time when the problem was

948
00:56:27.039 --> 00:56:31.639
<v Speaker 3>there just wasn't enough any information, good information about breathing,

949
00:56:32.280 --> 00:56:33.719
<v Speaker 3>and I had to go to China, I had to

950
00:56:33.719 --> 00:56:35.480
<v Speaker 3>go to India, I had to go to the source

951
00:56:35.719 --> 00:56:38.000
<v Speaker 3>because there was you know, there's no there was lack

952
00:56:38.039 --> 00:56:43.760
<v Speaker 3>of information. Now the problem is too much information or misinformation, right.

953
00:56:43.920 --> 00:56:46.960
<v Speaker 3>You know, you got somebody who learns the whim Hoff

954
00:56:47.039 --> 00:56:50.679
<v Speaker 3>technique in an hour and then a week later they're

955
00:56:50.679 --> 00:56:54.000
<v Speaker 3>a TikTok influencer with a million followers and they don't

956
00:56:54.039 --> 00:56:56.599
<v Speaker 3>know what the hell they're talking about, you know, And

957
00:56:56.800 --> 00:57:00.679
<v Speaker 3>so a lot of the people in breath work, I

958
00:57:00.679 --> 00:57:03.000
<v Speaker 3>don't want to it's my own fields. I can put

959
00:57:03.000 --> 00:57:06.119
<v Speaker 3>them down. There was a time when I could say

960
00:57:06.440 --> 00:57:09.519
<v Speaker 3>I've never met a breath worker that I didn't like. Ooh,

961
00:57:09.719 --> 00:57:12.760
<v Speaker 3>that's starting to make me have to like work a

962
00:57:12.800 --> 00:57:16.599
<v Speaker 3>little bit, because I'm finding some people are not, as

963
00:57:16.599 --> 00:57:19.800
<v Speaker 3>the saying goes, compassionate for the cash in it. You know,

964
00:57:21.599 --> 00:57:24.920
<v Speaker 3>they're not suited for this work, but they see the

965
00:57:25.000 --> 00:57:28.000
<v Speaker 3>opportunity and they you know, they're put up on a

966
00:57:28.000 --> 00:57:33.000
<v Speaker 3>guru pedestal, and so that's very tempting and very seductive,

967
00:57:33.239 --> 00:57:36.679
<v Speaker 3>you know. And the higher you get and the more

968
00:57:36.800 --> 00:57:39.519
<v Speaker 3>serious and sacred things get, the more you need to

969
00:57:39.559 --> 00:57:45.519
<v Speaker 3>be curbing and taming those darker elements of ourselves. Otherwise

970
00:57:45.519 --> 00:57:49.719
<v Speaker 3>we become dangerous to the world. And so we have

971
00:57:49.800 --> 00:57:53.400
<v Speaker 3>to be growing our heart. We have to be getting

972
00:57:53.440 --> 00:57:57.719
<v Speaker 3>more and more into love and compassion and tolerance and

973
00:57:57.800 --> 00:58:02.159
<v Speaker 3>not wanting to dominate and control and overpower people or

974
00:58:02.199 --> 00:58:05.039
<v Speaker 3>force them into things. And you know, when you know

975
00:58:05.079 --> 00:58:08.840
<v Speaker 3>you're right, it's very tempting to do that.

976
00:58:10.440 --> 00:58:13.599
<v Speaker 1>You brought me to a very natural point that I've

977
00:58:13.639 --> 00:58:15.840
<v Speaker 1>been wanting to ask you because this is something I'm

978
00:58:15.840 --> 00:58:18.280
<v Speaker 1>fascinated in and I think the listener would would thoroughly

979
00:58:18.360 --> 00:58:22.000
<v Speaker 1>enjoy this as well. How did you find yourself studying

980
00:58:22.000 --> 00:58:24.639
<v Speaker 1>with zen monks in China and yogis in India? Like,

981
00:58:24.679 --> 00:58:27.559
<v Speaker 1>at what point in your life did that? How did

982
00:58:27.599 --> 00:58:29.960
<v Speaker 1>you go from being like special operations in the navy

983
00:58:30.360 --> 00:58:33.199
<v Speaker 1>to Okay, now I'm being whipped by a stick or

984
00:58:33.239 --> 00:58:36.199
<v Speaker 1>with a stick by zen monks. You know, hone in

985
00:58:36.239 --> 00:58:37.199
<v Speaker 1>my breathing.

986
00:58:37.519 --> 00:58:40.840
<v Speaker 3>Because the biggest lessons and breakthroughs I had came in

987
00:58:40.960 --> 00:58:47.800
<v Speaker 3>those life and death catastrophic situations. I drowned and I

988
00:58:47.840 --> 00:58:52.480
<v Speaker 3>had to be resuscitated, and in that process, when I

989
00:58:52.519 --> 00:58:56.480
<v Speaker 3>started breathing on my own again, the experience of breathing

990
00:58:56.559 --> 00:59:01.400
<v Speaker 3>was completely in another level. Every breath was ecstatic. I

991
00:59:02.039 --> 00:59:05.039
<v Speaker 3>was experiencing the breath from every cell in my body,

992
00:59:05.880 --> 00:59:08.280
<v Speaker 3>and I recognize what a miracle it is. You know,

993
00:59:08.320 --> 00:59:11.000
<v Speaker 3>you don't know what you got till they take it away,

994
00:59:11.079 --> 00:59:13.039
<v Speaker 3>and then you realize how important it was. And so

995
00:59:13.639 --> 00:59:17.239
<v Speaker 3>I just learned that the hard way. I discovered the

996
00:59:17.280 --> 00:59:20.679
<v Speaker 3>ecstatic nature and the breath. But it was what brought

997
00:59:20.719 --> 00:59:24.199
<v Speaker 3>me to it was very dangerous moments, life and death

998
00:59:24.280 --> 00:59:27.840
<v Speaker 3>kind of situations. And so when I got out of

999
00:59:27.880 --> 00:59:32.480
<v Speaker 3>the military, I wanted people to discover what I discovered,

1000
00:59:32.559 --> 00:59:35.960
<v Speaker 3>experience what I experienced. But by the way that I

1001
00:59:36.119 --> 00:59:37.719
<v Speaker 3>learned it, you're not going to get a lot of

1002
00:59:37.760 --> 00:59:41.119
<v Speaker 3>people who volunteer for that kind of stuff. So I

1003
00:59:41.280 --> 00:59:45.800
<v Speaker 3>was looking for another way, a school, a style approach,

1004
00:59:45.840 --> 00:59:52.599
<v Speaker 3>a tradition that I could see was connected to my

1005
00:59:52.719 --> 00:59:57.800
<v Speaker 3>experience and confirmed it or validated it. So that's what

1006
00:59:58.199 --> 01:00:01.440
<v Speaker 3>took me to India and China. It's what took me

1007
01:00:01.480 --> 01:00:06.320
<v Speaker 3>into the touchy feely movement the late sixties and the

1008
01:00:06.400 --> 01:00:09.119
<v Speaker 3>hippie movement. You know, if you can't be with the

1009
01:00:09.119 --> 01:00:13.599
<v Speaker 3>one you love, love the one you're with, and you know,

1010
01:00:14.000 --> 01:00:19.719
<v Speaker 3>and and the nonviolence vow of I was a practicing Buddhist.

1011
01:00:19.800 --> 01:00:22.800
<v Speaker 3>With the vow of nonviolence, I wouldn't step on an

1012
01:00:22.800 --> 01:00:27.400
<v Speaker 3>ant and so it was a lot of purification that

1013
01:00:27.559 --> 01:00:31.360
<v Speaker 3>was required. And some of that purification was forced on me,

1014
01:00:32.239 --> 01:00:34.760
<v Speaker 3>but I realized I couldn't force it on other people.

1015
01:00:34.840 --> 01:00:39.119
<v Speaker 3>So I had to find paths or traditions that resulted

1016
01:00:39.159 --> 01:00:41.559
<v Speaker 3>in that. And that's why I ended up in India.

1017
01:00:41.960 --> 01:00:45.639
<v Speaker 3>In China, they've been studying the breath for thousands of years.

1018
01:00:46.039 --> 01:00:50.159
<v Speaker 3>They've worked out some really good hacks and some really

1019
01:00:50.199 --> 01:00:54.599
<v Speaker 3>good processes and techniques, and we can sort of tweak them,

1020
01:00:55.360 --> 01:01:00.880
<v Speaker 3>shape them for our current modern times. And it's like prescription, here,

1021
01:01:00.960 --> 01:01:05.119
<v Speaker 3>play with this, try this. And so I it was

1022
01:01:05.159 --> 01:01:09.800
<v Speaker 3>my search for how do I communicate what you can't

1023
01:01:09.800 --> 01:01:13.400
<v Speaker 3>put any words to. You know, It's like there's a

1024
01:01:13.440 --> 01:01:15.679
<v Speaker 3>course called the Course of Miracles. I don't know if

1025
01:01:15.679 --> 01:01:18.559
<v Speaker 3>you've heard of course called the Course of Miracles. There's

1026
01:01:18.599 --> 01:01:22.239
<v Speaker 3>a beautiful quote in there that says, a universal theology

1027
01:01:22.800 --> 01:01:25.639
<v Speaker 3>is impossible, and that makes sense. You're never going to

1028
01:01:25.679 --> 01:01:28.480
<v Speaker 3>get Jews and Muslims and Christians and Catholics and Buddhists

1029
01:01:28.480 --> 01:01:30.679
<v Speaker 3>to all agree on a single theology.

1030
01:01:30.719 --> 01:01:32.400
<v Speaker 4>So we were talking about that last night.

1031
01:01:32.480 --> 01:01:37.280
<v Speaker 3>Actually, yeah, so a universal theology is impossible, but a

1032
01:01:37.400 --> 01:01:42.360
<v Speaker 3>universal experience is not only possible, it's necessary. And I'm

1033
01:01:42.400 --> 01:01:46.639
<v Speaker 3>convinced that breathing is that universal experience. And so I've

1034
01:01:46.639 --> 01:01:50.400
<v Speaker 3>been to seventy three countries, every religion, every race, every age,

1035
01:01:50.960 --> 01:01:55.800
<v Speaker 3>every job, every career, every you name it, and it's

1036
01:01:55.880 --> 01:02:01.239
<v Speaker 3>true that here's one of these universal principles applies to everybody.

1037
01:02:01.239 --> 01:02:04.800
<v Speaker 3>If you got a belly button, then if it worked

1038
01:02:04.840 --> 01:02:06.800
<v Speaker 3>for somebody else, it's a good chance it's going to

1039
01:02:06.880 --> 01:02:11.079
<v Speaker 3>work for you. And so I went to the East,

1040
01:02:11.079 --> 01:02:14.159
<v Speaker 3>to India. I practiced those things because in the first place,

1041
01:02:14.159 --> 01:02:16.599
<v Speaker 3>there was no other way to go. I mean, they

1042
01:02:16.599 --> 01:02:19.280
<v Speaker 3>don't teach it in schools, not a university course. You

1043
01:02:19.320 --> 01:02:22.719
<v Speaker 3>don't find breathing corners like on it where there's more

1044
01:02:22.760 --> 01:02:27.360
<v Speaker 3>CVS pharmacies. We should have breathing clinics where there was

1045
01:02:28.000 --> 01:02:31.800
<v Speaker 3>every pharmacy, but there wasn't. So I had no choice.

1046
01:02:31.920 --> 01:02:35.000
<v Speaker 3>I had to travel to the East and start hunting

1047
01:02:35.039 --> 01:02:40.679
<v Speaker 3>down people who really embodied a tradition. And they didn't

1048
01:02:40.719 --> 01:02:43.519
<v Speaker 3>just read it in a book. Somebody just didn't tell

1049
01:02:43.519 --> 01:02:48.159
<v Speaker 3>it to them. They embodied it. They own that knowledge

1050
01:02:48.239 --> 01:02:52.079
<v Speaker 3>and from that you can catch it from people. You know,

1051
01:02:52.159 --> 01:02:54.199
<v Speaker 3>it's not what you say, it's not what you do,

1052
01:02:54.480 --> 01:02:58.679
<v Speaker 3>it's who you are. That's what gets communicated. That's what

1053
01:02:58.800 --> 01:03:02.719
<v Speaker 3>does the healing work. My presence, you know, presence is

1054
01:03:02.800 --> 01:03:07.199
<v Speaker 3>much more important than words are techniques, and so breathing

1055
01:03:07.639 --> 01:03:11.400
<v Speaker 3>that's that's we're working on the level of pure presence,

1056
01:03:11.480 --> 01:03:12.519
<v Speaker 3>pure being.

1057
01:03:12.719 --> 01:03:14.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's profound.

1058
01:03:14.760 --> 01:03:17.519
<v Speaker 1>And also to put it into context, I mean, I

1059
01:03:17.519 --> 01:03:20.239
<v Speaker 1>seem to recall you saying, you know, you've been doing

1060
01:03:20.280 --> 01:03:23.519
<v Speaker 1>this for fifty years. I can't imagine, you know, fifty

1061
01:03:23.599 --> 01:03:26.719
<v Speaker 1>years ago just just like stomping the grounds of India

1062
01:03:26.719 --> 01:03:28.960
<v Speaker 1>and China and all these you know, seventy different countries

1063
01:03:29.000 --> 01:03:31.519
<v Speaker 1>trying to track down this knowledge. It's not like like

1064
01:03:31.559 --> 01:03:33.519
<v Speaker 1>you said, now, oh, I you know, I learned the

1065
01:03:33.519 --> 01:03:36.639
<v Speaker 1>whim Hoff breathing method an hour and now I'm an influencer. Yeah,

1066
01:03:36.639 --> 01:03:38.320
<v Speaker 1>it's like it wasn't like that. I mean, fifty years ago,

1067
01:03:38.360 --> 01:03:41.480
<v Speaker 1>it was a whole different world, and I'm I'm willing

1068
01:03:41.480 --> 01:03:43.679
<v Speaker 1>to bet a lot of this was probably really taboo

1069
01:03:43.719 --> 01:03:46.880
<v Speaker 1>and not very easy to track. So it's very admirable

1070
01:03:47.280 --> 01:03:50.039
<v Speaker 1>this this path that you've you've gone down, and it

1071
01:03:50.039 --> 01:03:51.880
<v Speaker 1>does remind me a little bit of my father in

1072
01:03:51.920 --> 01:03:54.519
<v Speaker 1>the sense that both of you had these kind of

1073
01:03:54.639 --> 01:03:57.360
<v Speaker 1>very profound experiences in your youth. I guess you know

1074
01:03:57.400 --> 01:03:59.199
<v Speaker 1>this now, but my dad was shot by a shotgun

1075
01:03:59.239 --> 01:03:59.559
<v Speaker 1>when he was.

1076
01:03:59.519 --> 01:04:02.239
<v Speaker 3>A Yeah, still got pellets in his body, right.

1077
01:04:02.199 --> 01:04:04.079
<v Speaker 4>He does, Yeah, he actually does.

1078
01:04:04.119 --> 01:04:06.880
<v Speaker 1>And hearing your story and your near death experiences, it

1079
01:04:06.920 --> 01:04:09.239
<v Speaker 1>reminds me of my father and I. And also, I mean,

1080
01:04:09.280 --> 01:04:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you guys are pretty close in age. You've got a

1081
01:04:12.280 --> 01:04:13.840
<v Speaker 1>couple of years on him, but you guys are close

1082
01:04:13.880 --> 01:04:16.079
<v Speaker 1>in age. So what I mean to say is you

1083
01:04:16.199 --> 01:04:23.400
<v Speaker 1>both have that that aura of lived wisdom that I

1084
01:04:23.480 --> 01:04:26.679
<v Speaker 1>find so valuable having a father who has, you know,

1085
01:04:26.800 --> 01:04:30.000
<v Speaker 1>been teaching me, because I'm pretty aware of things and

1086
01:04:30.079 --> 01:04:32.639
<v Speaker 1>I know that like as a child, just for example,

1087
01:04:32.760 --> 01:04:34.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, we've been doing this almost twenty years, this

1088
01:04:34.840 --> 01:04:37.079
<v Speaker 1>whole UFO thing. And as a teenager, my dad would

1089
01:04:37.119 --> 01:04:40.320
<v Speaker 1>tell me these things, you had to have positive thinking, son,

1090
01:04:40.400 --> 01:04:42.599
<v Speaker 1>You gotta you know, you you got to think about this,

1091
01:04:42.679 --> 01:04:44.159
<v Speaker 1>You got to think about that. And as a teenager,

1092
01:04:44.199 --> 01:04:47.159
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't believe that, you know what I mean,

1093
01:04:47.199 --> 01:04:47.760
<v Speaker 1>this is stupid.

1094
01:04:47.840 --> 01:04:48.880
<v Speaker 4>He doesn't know what he's talking about.

1095
01:04:49.360 --> 01:04:51.119
<v Speaker 1>And now I'm in my thirties and and I look

1096
01:04:51.159 --> 01:04:54.199
<v Speaker 1>back and I think there was so much wisdom that

1097
01:04:54.599 --> 01:04:56.800
<v Speaker 1>he knew what he was saying, And just like now

1098
01:04:57.000 --> 01:05:00.840
<v Speaker 1>in my age, I see the being behind his eyes

1099
01:05:01.000 --> 01:05:04.519
<v Speaker 1>as he tells me these things, and I know, now, okay, yeah,

1100
01:05:04.639 --> 01:05:07.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to dare to challenge his wisdom. How

1101
01:05:07.360 --> 01:05:10.079
<v Speaker 1>arrogant of me. You know, when I was a child,

1102
01:05:10.280 --> 01:05:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I believed that I knew. But now as I'm growing

1103
01:05:12.440 --> 01:05:16.440
<v Speaker 1>into adulthood, I'm like, okay, wow, I really really should listen.

1104
01:05:16.920 --> 01:05:19.440
<v Speaker 3>And I'll tell you if your father doesn't come off

1105
01:05:19.519 --> 01:05:23.280
<v Speaker 3>like he knows everything either, he's so open and he

1106
01:05:23.559 --> 01:05:27.159
<v Speaker 3>readily admitsed it, he doesn't really understand what's going on.

1107
01:05:27.400 --> 01:05:32.000
<v Speaker 3>And hey, a mystery in life is fine. But you know,

1108
01:05:32.119 --> 01:05:36.760
<v Speaker 3>even when we think we understand something, it's only it's

1109
01:05:36.800 --> 01:05:39.320
<v Speaker 3>only to the point of our current level of development.

1110
01:05:39.800 --> 01:05:41.960
<v Speaker 3>As soon as you grow, as soon as you mature,

1111
01:05:42.320 --> 01:05:45.119
<v Speaker 3>as soon as you evolve, you have a new understanding,

1112
01:05:45.440 --> 01:05:48.519
<v Speaker 3>a higher understanding. And then you thought, wow, I thought

1113
01:05:48.519 --> 01:05:51.679
<v Speaker 3>I understood it, but now I really do. And sure enough,

1114
01:05:52.519 --> 01:05:55.719
<v Speaker 3>growth happens and you go, wow, okay, there's no end

1115
01:05:55.760 --> 01:05:58.559
<v Speaker 3>to this. I'm not gonna I'm not going to crystallize

1116
01:05:58.599 --> 01:06:02.519
<v Speaker 3>anything as carved in stone because it seems like I'm

1117
01:06:02.519 --> 01:06:06.360
<v Speaker 3>getting deeper insights, I'm getting better understanding the more I grow.

1118
01:06:06.519 --> 01:06:09.400
<v Speaker 3>And if I lock onto a position and I dig

1119
01:06:09.480 --> 01:06:13.519
<v Speaker 3>my heels in, I just stop the whole process of

1120
01:06:14.000 --> 01:06:17.639
<v Speaker 3>true understanding and growth, because it evolves as we do.

1121
01:06:18.119 --> 01:06:20.159
<v Speaker 3>I mean, we used to think. Well, look in the Bible,

1122
01:06:20.159 --> 01:06:23.039
<v Speaker 3>they're talking about chariots a fire. Well now with some

1123
01:06:23.079 --> 01:06:25.519
<v Speaker 3>of the UFO site and they're going, hmmm, I wonder

1124
01:06:25.559 --> 01:06:30.199
<v Speaker 3>you know, So call it what you want. There is

1125
01:06:30.239 --> 01:06:35.440
<v Speaker 3>something happening out there. There's more to life than we realize,

1126
01:06:35.599 --> 01:06:39.599
<v Speaker 3>and that should be our focus to uncover and awaken

1127
01:06:40.440 --> 01:06:43.360
<v Speaker 3>to things that are surrounding us, all around us, feeling us,

1128
01:06:43.440 --> 01:06:46.920
<v Speaker 3>and we're oblivious to them. Wake up, you know. We

1129
01:06:47.039 --> 01:06:49.360
<v Speaker 3>know that when I look out at the world, I'm

1130
01:06:49.360 --> 01:06:53.480
<v Speaker 3>looking at a very narrow range of the whole electromagnetic spectrum.

1131
01:06:53.559 --> 01:06:57.760
<v Speaker 3>I'm missing more than i'm getting. My senses are actually

1132
01:06:57.880 --> 01:07:01.840
<v Speaker 3>limiting more of the reality then they are opening me too.

1133
01:07:02.440 --> 01:07:04.639
<v Speaker 3>And so that's why I'm a believer in the heart,

1134
01:07:05.079 --> 01:07:07.960
<v Speaker 3>and that's why I'm a believer in connecting with the energy.

1135
01:07:08.400 --> 01:07:10.960
<v Speaker 3>The energy that's in the stars, it's in the rocks,

1136
01:07:10.960 --> 01:07:13.320
<v Speaker 3>it's in the trees, it's in me, it's in you.

1137
01:07:13.400 --> 01:07:17.599
<v Speaker 3>It surrounds us, it infuses us. And if we can

1138
01:07:17.920 --> 01:07:21.400
<v Speaker 3>if we can connect with that energy, then we're going

1139
01:07:21.440 --> 01:07:24.159
<v Speaker 3>to have the support of the universe, and we're going

1140
01:07:24.239 --> 01:07:27.920
<v Speaker 3>to stop to see ourselves reflected in each other. I

1141
01:07:27.960 --> 01:07:31.599
<v Speaker 3>see myself and you, I see you and myself, and

1142
01:07:31.880 --> 01:07:36.239
<v Speaker 3>that's that's heart intelligence. And you know, it used to

1143
01:07:36.239 --> 01:07:39.159
<v Speaker 3>be if you wanted to survive in this world, you

1144
01:07:39.239 --> 01:07:41.480
<v Speaker 3>have to be fast and you have to be strong,

1145
01:07:42.440 --> 01:07:46.320
<v Speaker 3>and that's who survived. And then along came smart, and

1146
01:07:46.360 --> 01:07:49.559
<v Speaker 3>then if you were smart enough, you could over you know,

1147
01:07:49.639 --> 01:07:52.280
<v Speaker 3>you could beat out the fast and the strong. Smart

1148
01:07:52.519 --> 01:07:56.480
<v Speaker 3>trumps fast and strong. And but now some of the

1149
01:07:56.480 --> 01:07:58.679
<v Speaker 3>worst things that are being perpetrated on the planet are

1150
01:07:58.719 --> 01:08:03.119
<v Speaker 3>being done by some very smart people, intelligent iiqs. And

1151
01:08:03.199 --> 01:08:06.280
<v Speaker 3>so now and into the future, it's not who's strong,

1152
01:08:06.320 --> 01:08:10.960
<v Speaker 3>who's fast, who's smart, it's who's most conscious, right, who's

1153
01:08:10.960 --> 01:08:14.480
<v Speaker 3>as a wake that's where we should be focusing on

1154
01:08:15.039 --> 01:08:20.600
<v Speaker 3>raising our consciousness, expanding our consciousness, refining our consciousness. And

1155
01:08:21.359 --> 01:08:26.680
<v Speaker 3>that's what that's the direct result or benefit of breathing practices.

1156
01:08:26.760 --> 01:08:30.640
<v Speaker 3>That's where most of the benefit occurs in breath work

1157
01:08:30.880 --> 01:08:32.840
<v Speaker 3>is on the level of consciousness.

1158
01:08:33.159 --> 01:08:35.399
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, that's that's so profound.

1159
01:08:36.479 --> 01:08:38.279
<v Speaker 1>You know, just being there that night when we did

1160
01:08:38.279 --> 01:08:40.920
<v Speaker 1>that private session my mother, you didn't you didn't know

1161
01:08:40.960 --> 01:08:44.399
<v Speaker 1>my mother before, right, but maybe you have a little

1162
01:08:44.439 --> 01:08:47.479
<v Speaker 1>more context after finishing the book tonight which you know,

1163
01:08:47.560 --> 01:08:49.520
<v Speaker 1>towards the end, when we're closing out, I'd love to

1164
01:08:49.560 --> 01:08:51.399
<v Speaker 1>like quickly get your thoughts on that, because we've kind

1165
01:08:51.399 --> 01:08:54.439
<v Speaker 1>of glanced past it. But if you really know my mother,

1166
01:08:54.560 --> 01:08:56.279
<v Speaker 1>you know that she's really not open to this kind

1167
01:08:56.279 --> 01:08:59.600
<v Speaker 1>of stuff and she was very closed off against this,

1168
01:09:00.319 --> 01:09:04.039
<v Speaker 1>and she's never done a meditation, she's never done anything

1169
01:09:04.840 --> 01:09:05.720
<v Speaker 1>extra normal.

1170
01:09:06.039 --> 01:09:06.800
<v Speaker 4>Let's just say that.

1171
01:09:07.239 --> 01:09:09.600
<v Speaker 1>But Dan, for whatever it's worth, I wanted you to

1172
01:09:09.640 --> 01:09:12.479
<v Speaker 1>hear this that night, because after you left, she told

1173
01:09:12.520 --> 01:09:12.800
<v Speaker 1>me this.

1174
01:09:13.920 --> 01:09:16.039
<v Speaker 4>She said, I.

1175
01:09:15.840 --> 01:09:19.359
<v Speaker 1>Knew that whatever he was going to guide us through,

1176
01:09:19.560 --> 01:09:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I just should not question it and I should just

1177
01:09:22.079 --> 01:09:25.000
<v Speaker 1>go with it. You were the first that she ever

1178
01:09:25.079 --> 01:09:27.399
<v Speaker 1>met and all, and we've met a lot of people,

1179
01:09:27.479 --> 01:09:29.159
<v Speaker 1>just like as I'm sure you have, you know, being

1180
01:09:29.199 --> 01:09:31.159
<v Speaker 1>out there doing your thing. We've met quite a lot

1181
01:09:31.199 --> 01:09:33.520
<v Speaker 1>of people. Not three hundred thousand, but maybe in thirty

1182
01:09:33.600 --> 01:09:37.359
<v Speaker 1>years maybe, but it's a lot. And she has never

1183
01:09:37.399 --> 01:09:40.199
<v Speaker 1>met anybody that she felt safe doing some sort of

1184
01:09:40.239 --> 01:09:43.319
<v Speaker 1>meditation or practice with or whatever. And when you saw her,

1185
01:09:43.439 --> 01:09:45.760
<v Speaker 1>she was streaming tears, she was kind of babbling, she

1186
01:09:45.760 --> 01:09:47.760
<v Speaker 1>didn't even know how to describe what was happening. And

1187
01:09:47.760 --> 01:09:49.720
<v Speaker 1>we were laughing and she's like, you guys are laughing

1188
01:09:49.720 --> 01:09:53.960
<v Speaker 1>at me. We're like, no, Mom, we're not laughing at you.

1189
01:09:55.039 --> 01:09:56.439
<v Speaker 1>We're laughing for you.

1190
01:09:57.399 --> 01:09:57.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

1191
01:09:57.680 --> 01:10:02.319
<v Speaker 1>And what happened was she he had a genuine expansion

1192
01:10:02.359 --> 01:10:06.399
<v Speaker 1>of consciousness after his meditation, and she was describing her

1193
01:10:06.560 --> 01:10:09.800
<v Speaker 1>her mind expanded and she could feel the suffering of

1194
01:10:09.840 --> 01:10:12.159
<v Speaker 1>all these other people in her life that at some

1195
01:10:12.279 --> 01:10:14.560
<v Speaker 1>point she was very, very closed off from. It was

1196
01:10:14.560 --> 01:10:18.000
<v Speaker 1>a real expansion. And Dan just giggled, just like you.

1197
01:10:18.479 --> 01:10:21.880
<v Speaker 1>You just laughed, and you didn't really have anything other

1198
01:10:21.920 --> 01:10:24.800
<v Speaker 1>than to say, or anything to say other than you know,

1199
01:10:25.039 --> 01:10:27.000
<v Speaker 1>that's great, you know.

1200
01:10:27.039 --> 01:10:27.760
<v Speaker 4>And that's what I was saying.

1201
01:10:27.760 --> 01:10:30.199
<v Speaker 1>That's great, Mom, We're not laughing at you, that's great.

1202
01:10:31.119 --> 01:10:32.239
<v Speaker 1>She was stunned.

1203
01:10:32.319 --> 01:10:32.760
<v Speaker 4>She didn't.

1204
01:10:33.359 --> 01:10:35.720
<v Speaker 3>I guess I've grown. I guess I've grown kind of

1205
01:10:35.760 --> 01:10:41.199
<v Speaker 3>cavalier and sort of things that are really unusual and

1206
01:10:41.239 --> 01:10:45.319
<v Speaker 3>beautiful they become so ordinary for me. I'm not acknowledging

1207
01:10:45.359 --> 01:10:49.479
<v Speaker 3>it enough when other people have the experience, because I'm going, well,

1208
01:10:49.520 --> 01:10:51.000
<v Speaker 3>what else is new? You know?

1209
01:10:51.600 --> 01:10:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Right. That's why we were laughing too. That's why my

1210
01:10:54.720 --> 01:10:56.439
<v Speaker 1>sister and I, my dad and my wife, we were

1211
01:10:56.479 --> 01:11:00.840
<v Speaker 1>laughing because it's like hello, finally you know it. It

1212
01:11:00.880 --> 01:11:03.760
<v Speaker 1>was a beautiful thing and you know that that was

1213
01:11:03.760 --> 01:11:05.960
<v Speaker 1>a powerful experience. So I wanted to thank you for

1214
01:11:06.039 --> 01:11:08.680
<v Speaker 1>facilitating that for my mother because she's never experienced anything

1215
01:11:08.720 --> 01:11:10.520
<v Speaker 1>like that, and I think it was very you know,

1216
01:11:10.560 --> 01:11:14.079
<v Speaker 1>you were talking about transformational you know, uh, like leaps

1217
01:11:14.079 --> 01:11:16.960
<v Speaker 1>and balanced consciousness experiences. I believe that night my family

1218
01:11:17.000 --> 01:11:20.000
<v Speaker 1>experienced one going through this with you. And we may

1219
01:11:20.000 --> 01:11:22.000
<v Speaker 1>have experienced some of these kinds of things on some

1220
01:11:22.159 --> 01:11:24.279
<v Speaker 1>level with other people, but that night was different and

1221
01:11:24.319 --> 01:11:27.920
<v Speaker 1>it was profound and it was really a gift to us,

1222
01:11:28.560 --> 01:11:32.800
<v Speaker 1>but great to hear. Yeah, thank you, And I wanted

1223
01:11:32.840 --> 01:11:34.760
<v Speaker 1>to ask, like, what were your thoughts on the book

1224
01:11:34.840 --> 01:11:37.079
<v Speaker 1>because we kind of breezed past that, you know.

1225
01:11:38.199 --> 01:11:45.119
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, to do this work in the purest way,

1226
01:11:45.640 --> 01:11:48.239
<v Speaker 3>you need to give one person all of your attention

1227
01:11:49.000 --> 01:11:52.680
<v Speaker 3>and watch every breath they take and keep up to

1228
01:11:52.760 --> 01:11:56.800
<v Speaker 3>each thing and keep helping them make subtle adjustments. So

1229
01:11:56.880 --> 01:11:59.880
<v Speaker 3>when you're trying to teach two, three, four, or five

1230
01:12:00.319 --> 01:12:03.880
<v Speaker 3>groups of people, you can't focus on anyone and follow

1231
01:12:03.920 --> 01:12:06.640
<v Speaker 3>them through their whole process. You can just touch on

1232
01:12:06.840 --> 01:12:10.279
<v Speaker 3>different people at different points and try to like, you know,

1233
01:12:10.319 --> 01:12:13.680
<v Speaker 3>what's what's the one piece of advice that everybody can

1234
01:12:13.720 --> 01:12:17.239
<v Speaker 3>benefit from, Because everybody's at a different place in their

1235
01:12:17.279 --> 01:12:21.720
<v Speaker 3>process and at a different point in their development, and

1236
01:12:23.039 --> 01:12:25.920
<v Speaker 3>each each of our inner worlds is so very different.

1237
01:12:26.960 --> 01:12:30.880
<v Speaker 3>So I try to just focus on on fundamentals in

1238
01:12:30.920 --> 01:12:37.119
<v Speaker 3>the beginning and and and trying to guide in a

1239
01:12:37.159 --> 01:12:39.680
<v Speaker 3>way that no matter where you're at, no matter what

1240
01:12:39.760 --> 01:12:44.560
<v Speaker 3>you're going through, it's it can help. Now if I

1241
01:12:44.560 --> 01:12:46.520
<v Speaker 3>if I would have worked just with your mother, just

1242
01:12:46.600 --> 01:12:49.239
<v Speaker 3>with your father, just with you, then I could watch

1243
01:12:49.319 --> 01:12:53.159
<v Speaker 3>every single breath I can, I get into your I

1244
01:12:53.159 --> 01:12:58.039
<v Speaker 3>can sense, I can feel, and my intuition guides me,

1245
01:12:58.119 --> 01:13:02.479
<v Speaker 3>and I can observe little things. And so that's that's

1246
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<v Speaker 3>the best way to make use of this process to get,

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01:13:05.680 --> 01:13:08.600
<v Speaker 3>you know, the most out of it. But it's not scalable.

1248
01:13:08.680 --> 01:13:11.800
<v Speaker 3>I can't literally work with every single person in the world.

1249
01:13:12.359 --> 01:13:15.600
<v Speaker 3>So I have to develop methods and styles and processes

1250
01:13:15.640 --> 01:13:20.640
<v Speaker 3>that can affect more people without giving them something that

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01:13:20.800 --> 01:13:25.199
<v Speaker 3>wasn't meant for them, you know, Like I work with

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01:13:25.279 --> 01:13:28.800
<v Speaker 3>Tony Robbins, so you know he'll do an event ten

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01:13:28.840 --> 01:13:31.680
<v Speaker 3>thousand people whatever. I don't know what the odds, what

1254
01:13:31.720 --> 01:13:34.119
<v Speaker 3>the percent is of but something like three percent, five

1255
01:13:34.159 --> 01:13:38.439
<v Speaker 3>percent or whatever of the population is suicidal. So do

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01:13:38.520 --> 01:13:41.239
<v Speaker 3>the math. And in a room with ten thousand people,

1257
01:13:41.680 --> 01:13:45.399
<v Speaker 3>you got forty to fifty least suicidal people who can

1258
01:13:45.439 --> 01:13:48.760
<v Speaker 3>take whatever you say and do and use it to

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01:13:49.880 --> 01:13:55.479
<v Speaker 3>deepen their suicidal tendencies. So and you got to account

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01:13:55.479 --> 01:13:58.159
<v Speaker 3>for that. Some people have heart problems and you don't

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01:13:58.159 --> 01:14:02.319
<v Speaker 3>want them doing these powerful Cathard breathing. Some people are schizophrenic,

1262
01:14:02.399 --> 01:14:05.800
<v Speaker 3>and you know, you don't want them playing with weird

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01:14:06.359 --> 01:14:10.840
<v Speaker 3>kind of multi dimensional experience and stuff. So so we've

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01:14:10.840 --> 01:14:14.720
<v Speaker 3>got to, you know, try to not water it down,

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01:14:14.880 --> 01:14:19.560
<v Speaker 3>but keep the process gentle so everyone's included. And first,

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01:14:19.640 --> 01:14:20.479
<v Speaker 3>do no harm.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, the medical world, that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>So and but you guys were similar in a lot

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01:14:26.439 --> 01:14:32.520
<v Speaker 3>of ways. Your your vibes are very similar, uh, and

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01:14:32.520 --> 01:14:36.199
<v Speaker 3>and and the general level of care and compassion and

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01:14:36.239 --> 01:14:39.079
<v Speaker 3>support for each other was so beautiful to see and

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01:14:39.159 --> 01:14:44.000
<v Speaker 3>easy to feel. And so I don't even remember what

1273
01:14:44.079 --> 01:14:46.000
<v Speaker 3>I said. I don't remember how I guide you. I

1274
01:14:46.039 --> 01:14:49.920
<v Speaker 3>was just riffing the whole time. But I'm I'm feeding

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01:14:49.960 --> 01:14:53.920
<v Speaker 3>off of whatever I'm picking up and twisting it, you know.

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01:14:54.239 --> 01:14:56.199
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's coming from source I felt that from you.

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01:14:56.239 --> 01:14:58.720
<v Speaker 1>I really did feel that. I felt that. I felt

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01:14:58.760 --> 01:15:00.840
<v Speaker 1>that there was no script and you just truly just

1279
01:15:00.880 --> 01:15:03.479
<v Speaker 1>like riding a wave of spirit because you would say things,

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01:15:04.079 --> 01:15:06.239
<v Speaker 1>you would just you would like. Something you said that

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01:15:06.399 --> 01:15:11.079
<v Speaker 1>really impacted my mother was you said, imagine someone raises

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01:15:11.119 --> 01:15:13.840
<v Speaker 1>his hand to harm a child, and you send a

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01:15:13.880 --> 01:15:18.119
<v Speaker 1>loving wave of energy a thought towards this man. Now

1284
01:15:18.159 --> 01:15:22.119
<v Speaker 1>he something like and he won't strike that child because

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01:15:22.119 --> 01:15:24.319
<v Speaker 1>of your loving energy. And you just set all these

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01:15:24.359 --> 01:15:27.359
<v Speaker 1>different sayings and phrases, and it was just really deep,

1287
01:15:27.399 --> 01:15:29.239
<v Speaker 1>and I was this guy going really deep into it.

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<v Speaker 3>And yet a heart felt intention, powered by the heart

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01:15:34.560 --> 01:15:36.720
<v Speaker 3>can change the world, no doubt about it. I mean,

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01:15:36.800 --> 01:15:41.279
<v Speaker 3>every day, thousands and tens of thousands, millions and Buddhists

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01:15:41.800 --> 01:15:44.640
<v Speaker 3>face the four directions of the compass and they just

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01:15:44.680 --> 01:15:48.319
<v Speaker 3>put out peaceful vibrations. Yeah, and as screwed up as

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01:15:48.319 --> 01:15:50.399
<v Speaker 3>the world is, it'd be a lot worse if people

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01:15:50.439 --> 01:15:54.079
<v Speaker 3>weren't doing stuff like that. And every thought we have

1295
01:15:54.359 --> 01:15:59.479
<v Speaker 3>contributes to this collective consciousness. And what do you want

1296
01:15:59.520 --> 01:16:03.920
<v Speaker 3>to be contray? You know? And so it behooves us

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01:16:03.920 --> 01:16:06.920
<v Speaker 3>to very consciously and very deliberately, and I use that

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01:16:07.000 --> 01:16:09.840
<v Speaker 3>a lot at my seminars because it happened to me

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01:16:10.000 --> 01:16:13.359
<v Speaker 3>and it was something really real. And I use this model.

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01:16:13.439 --> 01:16:15.920
<v Speaker 3>You throw a stone out in the water calm lake

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01:16:15.960 --> 01:16:19.479
<v Speaker 3>and you see the circle wave go out. So every

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01:16:19.520 --> 01:16:23.039
<v Speaker 3>time we breathe and we put a heartfelt intension behind it,

1303
01:16:23.039 --> 01:16:25.079
<v Speaker 3>it's like throwing a stone in that lake and that

1304
01:16:25.119 --> 01:16:28.279
<v Speaker 3>wave goes out. And that wave of peace or love

1305
01:16:28.399 --> 01:16:32.439
<v Speaker 3>or compassion, it's passing through everything and everyone, and at

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01:16:32.479 --> 01:16:35.560
<v Speaker 3>some point it could be just passing through somebody just

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01:16:35.640 --> 01:16:37.920
<v Speaker 3>at that moment they want to hurt and that wave

1308
01:16:37.960 --> 01:16:41.119
<v Speaker 3>happened to pass through them and it caused them to pause.

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01:16:41.479 --> 01:16:44.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure that things like that happen because of our

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01:16:46.520 --> 01:16:49.479
<v Speaker 3>loving intention. The vibrations that we put out in the

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01:16:49.520 --> 01:16:51.399
<v Speaker 3>world affect other people.

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01:16:52.000 --> 01:16:53.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, I completely agree.

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01:16:54.239 --> 01:16:57.920
<v Speaker 1>So anyway, thank you again for that experience, and you know,

1314
01:16:57.960 --> 01:17:02.760
<v Speaker 1>providing that space for consciousness expansion was it was very profound.

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01:17:02.800 --> 01:17:06.359
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I mean I feel like this is a

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01:17:06.479 --> 01:17:11.359
<v Speaker 1>very natural closing point. Is there anything anything that you'd

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01:17:11.359 --> 01:17:12.159
<v Speaker 1>be willing.

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01:17:11.880 --> 01:17:13.359
<v Speaker 4>To like if there was?

1319
01:17:14.119 --> 01:17:15.439
<v Speaker 1>And I don't mean to put you on the spot,

1320
01:17:15.479 --> 01:17:17.079
<v Speaker 1>but I have been thinking about this today that this

1321
01:17:17.239 --> 01:17:18.039
<v Speaker 1>if you were comfortable.

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01:17:18.079 --> 01:17:18.680
<v Speaker 4>Could be really cool.

1323
01:17:18.760 --> 01:17:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Could we do like a very brief moment of like

1324
01:17:22.560 --> 01:17:25.680
<v Speaker 1>some sort of relaxed breathing for the listener, It could

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01:17:25.680 --> 01:17:26.319
<v Speaker 1>be very brief.

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01:17:27.239 --> 01:17:31.680
<v Speaker 3>No, yeah, let's let's do it. Because everybody carries pain

1327
01:17:31.840 --> 01:17:35.000
<v Speaker 3>and stress and tension their body and it's there all

1328
01:17:35.039 --> 01:17:37.800
<v Speaker 3>the time and they don't even notice it, and so

1329
01:17:38.079 --> 01:17:41.079
<v Speaker 3>it's a good idea to just do some very conscious

1330
01:17:41.079 --> 01:17:46.520
<v Speaker 3>practice to vent stress and to bring in positive energy.

1331
01:17:46.680 --> 01:17:49.920
<v Speaker 3>So every breath is an opportunity to do that. So

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01:17:50.279 --> 01:17:54.840
<v Speaker 3>I have two core techniques that I teach everybody because

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01:17:54.840 --> 01:17:58.760
<v Speaker 3>they're not even techniques, they're natural responses in the body

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01:17:59.119 --> 01:18:02.880
<v Speaker 3>that when you do them consciously you can really up

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01:18:02.920 --> 01:18:06.119
<v Speaker 3>the benefit. One is a sigh of relief. So I

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01:18:06.159 --> 01:18:09.119
<v Speaker 3>say sigh of relief, and everybody knows exactly what I mean.

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01:18:09.680 --> 01:18:12.359
<v Speaker 3>That means you know how to do a sigh of relief,

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01:18:12.760 --> 01:18:15.479
<v Speaker 3>You recognize it when it happens, you can observe it

1339
01:18:15.520 --> 01:18:17.720
<v Speaker 3>in somebody else, and you know what it feels like

1340
01:18:17.760 --> 01:18:21.039
<v Speaker 3>in you. So all you need to do is give

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01:18:21.079 --> 01:18:25.680
<v Speaker 3>yourself a sigh of relief. However, do it very consciously,

1342
01:18:25.840 --> 01:18:34.640
<v Speaker 3>much more consciously than usual. Exaggerated, dramatize it, make it theatrical,

1343
01:18:35.600 --> 01:18:38.920
<v Speaker 3>exaggerate the sigh of relief and what are all the qualities?

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01:18:38.960 --> 01:18:42.880
<v Speaker 3>So a sigh of relief begins with an inhale that

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01:18:43.039 --> 01:18:46.119
<v Speaker 3>is twice as big as your average breath. That's the

1346
01:18:46.159 --> 01:18:50.439
<v Speaker 3>medical definition or description of a sigh. We think of

1347
01:18:50.479 --> 01:18:54.560
<v Speaker 3>it in terms of the exhale ah. But in order

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01:18:54.600 --> 01:18:57.600
<v Speaker 3>for that side to occur, you needed a big inhale

1349
01:18:57.640 --> 01:19:00.359
<v Speaker 3>in front of it, and that inhal needs to have

1350
01:19:00.399 --> 01:19:04.760
<v Speaker 3>an extra stretch, extra expansion. So you literally take an

1351
01:19:04.840 --> 01:19:08.079
<v Speaker 3>in breath and inhale that's twice as big as normal.

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01:19:11.119 --> 01:19:14.560
<v Speaker 3>Now you've created that extra expansion, that extra stretch, and

1353
01:19:14.600 --> 01:19:20.079
<v Speaker 3>when you release it power behind it. You don't have

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01:19:20.159 --> 01:19:24.039
<v Speaker 3>to do anything. It happens to you. It's a wave

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01:19:24.479 --> 01:19:29.479
<v Speaker 3>of peace and relaxation. Because relaxation isn't a doing. People

1356
01:19:29.520 --> 01:19:33.279
<v Speaker 3>talking hey, relax relax as if it's a verb, as

1357
01:19:33.279 --> 01:19:36.039
<v Speaker 3>if it's something you need to do. But relaxation is

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01:19:36.520 --> 01:19:41.119
<v Speaker 3>non doing, it's undoing, right, And so you do the

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01:19:41.199 --> 01:19:45.920
<v Speaker 3>inhale and take your time. When you're breathing in you

1360
01:19:46.439 --> 01:19:49.439
<v Speaker 3>get your skill down that you can extend your innail

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01:19:49.560 --> 01:19:54.119
<v Speaker 3>for five, six, seven, eight seconds, ten seconds would be great.

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01:19:54.520 --> 01:19:58.159
<v Speaker 3>Then you have real time to track the sensations of

1363
01:19:58.239 --> 01:20:03.239
<v Speaker 3>expansion side to side, front to back, top to bottom.

1364
01:20:03.479 --> 01:20:06.800
<v Speaker 3>So you take your time on the inhale and make

1365
01:20:06.800 --> 01:20:11.039
<v Speaker 3>it a meditation. You're tuning into the details, feeling the expansion,

1366
01:20:12.840 --> 01:20:17.159
<v Speaker 3>the stretching, the opening, the expanding. And then you reach

1367
01:20:17.239 --> 01:20:19.760
<v Speaker 3>that full point and you snap the exhale loose, you

1368
01:20:19.840 --> 01:20:22.279
<v Speaker 3>dump the exhale out, you let it go, you set

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01:20:22.319 --> 01:20:28.319
<v Speaker 3>it free. And when you do, let go of your jaw. See,

1370
01:20:28.359 --> 01:20:31.239
<v Speaker 3>most people their jaw, they have a place where the

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01:20:31.279 --> 01:20:34.039
<v Speaker 3>jaw sets all the time. Some people can grind their

1372
01:20:34.039 --> 01:20:36.720
<v Speaker 3>teeth and their sleep and you know they have TMJ

1373
01:20:36.960 --> 01:20:41.199
<v Speaker 3>problems because there's constant chronic tightness in their jaw. So

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01:20:41.279 --> 01:20:44.199
<v Speaker 3>every time you exhale, for that moment that you release

1375
01:20:44.239 --> 01:20:47.960
<v Speaker 3>the exhale, release your jaw, for that moment that you

1376
01:20:48.039 --> 01:20:52.600
<v Speaker 3>release the exhale, release your shoulders, and you can go

1377
01:20:52.640 --> 01:20:55.520
<v Speaker 3>through your body like that, and you can go from

1378
01:20:55.600 --> 01:20:59.479
<v Speaker 3>head to toe. Every time you exhale, relax a muscle,

1379
01:20:59.560 --> 01:21:03.760
<v Speaker 3>relax joint at the same time that you're exhaling. If

1380
01:21:03.800 --> 01:21:08.399
<v Speaker 3>you relax a muscle, when you relax, something open, something softens,

1381
01:21:08.880 --> 01:21:13.000
<v Speaker 3>and then the breath can take away whatever now is exposed,

1382
01:21:13.039 --> 01:21:16.479
<v Speaker 3>has been open. If you just breathe without relaxing, you

1383
01:21:16.479 --> 01:21:20.039
<v Speaker 3>can't release anything. If you relax without breathing, you can't

1384
01:21:20.079 --> 01:21:29.239
<v Speaker 3>release anything. So every time you exhale, let go, let

1385
01:21:29.279 --> 01:21:31.319
<v Speaker 3>go of a negative thought, let go of anger, let

1386
01:21:31.399 --> 01:21:35.119
<v Speaker 3>go of confusion. Start by letting go of muscles and joints,

1387
01:21:35.840 --> 01:21:38.319
<v Speaker 3>and then you let go of the past, and then

1388
01:21:38.359 --> 01:21:42.680
<v Speaker 3>you let go of anger, You let go of whatever, prejudice, bias, whatever.

1389
01:21:43.039 --> 01:21:46.279
<v Speaker 3>The letting go gets deeper and deeper and deeper. So

1390
01:21:47.119 --> 01:21:50.560
<v Speaker 3>just a sigh of relief. Exaggerate it, turn it into

1391
01:21:50.840 --> 01:21:55.319
<v Speaker 3>a meditation. So when you breathe in, what's your favorite fragrance?

1392
01:21:56.520 --> 01:21:59.720
<v Speaker 3>What can you think about that will make you feel beautiful?

1393
01:22:00.399 --> 01:22:03.439
<v Speaker 3>I can think of many, many things. I focus on

1394
01:22:03.479 --> 01:22:06.800
<v Speaker 3>my friends, my family, my child, a day in Hawaii

1395
01:22:06.880 --> 01:22:09.399
<v Speaker 3>on the beach, you know whatever. I can just look

1396
01:22:09.560 --> 01:22:14.600
<v Speaker 3>the smell of lilacs, you know, moments from childhood. Whatever

1397
01:22:15.319 --> 01:22:20.319
<v Speaker 3>gives you joy, pleasure while you're breathing in, just bring

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01:22:20.399 --> 01:22:27.199
<v Speaker 3>it to mind. And then when you exhale, really let go.

1399
01:22:27.720 --> 01:22:31.520
<v Speaker 3>Don't be afraid to let go, and layer by layer,

1400
01:22:31.600 --> 01:22:35.279
<v Speaker 3>you're gonna start washing tension out of your system. Alka

1401
01:22:35.319 --> 01:22:41.439
<v Speaker 3>a simple sigh of relief done creatively exaggerated, add visualization

1402
01:22:41.640 --> 01:22:45.399
<v Speaker 3>to it, add affirmations to it. So, for example, the

1403
01:22:45.439 --> 01:22:48.520
<v Speaker 3>first time I learned that principle was from Ramdas, and

1404
01:22:48.520 --> 01:22:51.279
<v Speaker 3>he said, Hey, when you breathe in, think to yourself,

1405
01:22:51.319 --> 01:22:54.039
<v Speaker 3>the power of God is within me. And when you

1406
01:22:54.119 --> 01:22:57.720
<v Speaker 3>breathe out, think to yourself, the grace of God surrounds me.

1407
01:22:58.199 --> 01:23:00.960
<v Speaker 3>And I was in a and an event with him,

1408
01:23:00.960 --> 01:23:03.399
<v Speaker 3>and we all just started doing that, breathing in, the

1409
01:23:03.439 --> 01:23:06.159
<v Speaker 3>power of God is within me, breathing out the grace

1410
01:23:06.199 --> 01:23:09.920
<v Speaker 3>of God surrounds me, and in and out, repeating that phrase.

1411
01:23:10.680 --> 01:23:13.439
<v Speaker 3>And you are programming yourself in a very beautiful way.

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01:23:14.199 --> 01:23:17.039
<v Speaker 3>And I've never from that day, I've never been able

1413
01:23:17.079 --> 01:23:19.680
<v Speaker 3>to breathe without thinking about God. And I've never been

1414
01:23:19.720 --> 01:23:25.239
<v Speaker 3>able to think about God without taking a breath. In NLP,

1415
01:23:25.359 --> 01:23:27.800
<v Speaker 3>I think they call that anchoring. So what you do

1416
01:23:27.960 --> 01:23:31.199
<v Speaker 3>is you practice a sigh of relief and you use

1417
01:23:31.239 --> 01:23:34.880
<v Speaker 3>it as an anchoring technique to shift your state, to

1418
01:23:35.079 --> 01:23:38.439
<v Speaker 3>return to a comfortable state, wake yourself up if that's

1419
01:23:38.439 --> 01:23:41.199
<v Speaker 3>what you need, Calm yourself down if that's what you need,

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01:23:41.560 --> 01:23:43.960
<v Speaker 3>and just by playing with the sigh of relief. You

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01:23:43.960 --> 01:23:47.560
<v Speaker 3>don't need any complicated techniques, just a sigh of relief.

1422
01:23:48.640 --> 01:23:53.479
<v Speaker 3>And then so that's one core technique along inhale. Think

1423
01:23:53.520 --> 01:23:57.880
<v Speaker 3>about something beautiful, enjoy the sensations, get in your body,

1424
01:23:58.359 --> 01:24:06.119
<v Speaker 3>imagine breathing light, repeat some powerful affirmation to yourself, and

1425
01:24:06.159 --> 01:24:12.840
<v Speaker 3>then let go and relax physically. And while you're exhaling,

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01:24:13.199 --> 01:24:16.760
<v Speaker 3>something can pour into you, so we can actively pull

1427
01:24:16.880 --> 01:24:19.760
<v Speaker 3>something in. What kind of energy do you want to

1428
01:24:19.800 --> 01:24:25.560
<v Speaker 3>fill yourself with? Strength, courage, freedom, intelligence, wisdom, love, compassion?

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01:24:26.159 --> 01:24:28.720
<v Speaker 3>If you know yourself, and how can I improve myself?

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01:24:28.840 --> 01:24:31.520
<v Speaker 3>You know, I need to be more patient. Okay, when

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01:24:31.520 --> 01:24:34.439
<v Speaker 3>I breathe in, I'm going to be patient with my inhale.

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01:24:35.359 --> 01:24:37.760
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to tell myself that I'm becoming more patient.

1433
01:24:37.800 --> 01:24:40.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to remind myself that it's important. I'm going

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01:24:40.920 --> 01:24:43.439
<v Speaker 3>to remember moments when I was patient and I'm glad

1435
01:24:43.520 --> 01:24:48.600
<v Speaker 3>I was. And then I'm just gonna let go. And

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01:24:48.680 --> 01:24:53.279
<v Speaker 3>as I empty myself, Nature abhors a vacuum, so as

1437
01:24:53.319 --> 01:24:57.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm exhaling, some energy can be coming in, so I

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01:24:57.880 --> 01:25:00.600
<v Speaker 3>can give to myself with the inhale and I can

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01:25:00.720 --> 01:25:04.600
<v Speaker 3>receive on the exhale okay, and you just need to

1440
01:25:04.640 --> 01:25:07.279
<v Speaker 3>play with the sigh of relief. Do it fast, do

1441
01:25:07.359 --> 01:25:09.359
<v Speaker 3>it slow, Do it through your nose, do it through

1442
01:25:09.399 --> 01:25:12.399
<v Speaker 3>your mouth. Pretend you're angry when you do it. Pretend

1443
01:25:12.439 --> 01:25:16.439
<v Speaker 3>you're sad when you do it. Pretend you're hilariously. You know,

1444
01:25:16.520 --> 01:25:19.920
<v Speaker 3>laughing is something. When you do it, just sigh of relief.

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01:25:20.239 --> 01:25:22.479
<v Speaker 3>And the second technique, and these both come from my

1446
01:25:23.359 --> 01:25:28.159
<v Speaker 3>work way back in military special forces, survival training and everything.

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01:25:28.479 --> 01:25:31.800
<v Speaker 3>The second is now it's called tactical breathing, but we

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01:25:32.000 --> 01:25:36.239
<v Speaker 3>I originally called it circular breathing. Connected breathing that is

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<v Speaker 3>inhale exhale, inhale, exhale in so no pauses, no gaps,

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<v Speaker 3>no breath holding, and you combine that with a sigh

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<v Speaker 3>of relief. So as a takeaway exercise, let's do it

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<v Speaker 3>right now, we can do a couple versions twenty connected breaths,

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<v Speaker 3>and that means you're gonna count them. You're going to

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<v Speaker 3>do twenty breaths, four short breaths, one long for short,

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<v Speaker 3>one long foreshort, one long show that long breath that

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<v Speaker 3>every fifth breath is a big sigh of relief. And

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<v Speaker 3>the other four breaths is like spinning a wheel. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's like this, and then notice your energy, what just moved?

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<v Speaker 3>What changed in your body?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? Four cycles of this.

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<v Speaker 3>Four yeah, four cycles of five breath every fifth breath.

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<v Speaker 3>And you can do different versions for example, or they

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<v Speaker 3>could be so the same pattern can be done in

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<v Speaker 3>a subtle way, in an intense way, fast, slow, through

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<v Speaker 3>your nose, through your mouth, standing on your head, laying

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<v Speaker 3>on your back, laying on your stomach. You take that

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<v Speaker 3>one simple practice, twenty connected breaths, and in a very

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<v Speaker 3>short time you'll be able to use that to interrupt

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<v Speaker 3>the pattern. You start getting tired or irritated.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, do twenty connected press You're going to be in

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<v Speaker 6>a completely different state.

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<v Speaker 3>Guarantee.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yep.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you want us to do this live or are

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<v Speaker 1>you just saying, yeah, let's do it, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's do it, and your own pace, your own speed,

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01:27:55.119 --> 01:27:58.039
<v Speaker 3>your own volume. I suggest doing it through the mouth

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01:27:58.359 --> 01:28:02.000
<v Speaker 3>because it brings up a lot of feelings and sensations

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01:28:02.079 --> 01:28:05.079
<v Speaker 3>quicker than through the nose, but either way is good.

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<v Speaker 3>Whichever way you do it, do it again, but do

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01:28:08.520 --> 01:28:10.479
<v Speaker 3>a different version of it. So if you did it

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01:28:10.520 --> 01:28:12.840
<v Speaker 3>through your nose the first time, do it through your

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01:28:12.840 --> 01:28:15.840
<v Speaker 3>mouth the second time. If you did it gentle and

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01:28:15.960 --> 01:28:18.680
<v Speaker 3>slow the first time, do it fast and powerful the

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01:28:18.680 --> 01:28:21.720
<v Speaker 3>second time. Mix it up and get different versions of it,

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01:28:22.000 --> 01:28:25.560
<v Speaker 3>but keep to the same general pattern. A few short

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<v Speaker 3>breaths and a big sigh of relief, and in the

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<v Speaker 3>beginning for to one four one, just to get you

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<v Speaker 3>in the game.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, are you ready?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's do it?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? That was for me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna be honest. I lost count.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>Whoaut Oh my god, I'm fuzzy. Yeah, whoa, I'm so lightheaded.

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<v Speaker 1>I was pulling on my right hand and I was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sure I did four cycles, so I just I

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<v Speaker 1>stopped early. But someone will probably count and be like

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<v Speaker 1>you kept one.

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa? What a head rush?

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, listen, keep practicing until that doesn't happen, because it'll past.

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01:29:38.039 --> 01:29:41.800
<v Speaker 7>Those are surface reactions of the system to getting energy moving.

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01:29:42.079 --> 01:29:44.239
<v Speaker 7>So at first we get dizzy or we get a

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01:29:44.319 --> 01:29:45.640
<v Speaker 7>dry throat, you get tingling.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all that that's energy activating stuff, and so you're

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01:29:49.680 --> 01:29:52.319
<v Speaker 3>just gonna repeat it, and once it's clears away a

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01:29:52.319 --> 01:29:55.920
<v Speaker 3>whole bunch of stuff. There's something under that. Under every

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01:29:56.000 --> 01:29:59.239
<v Speaker 3>feeling is another feeling. So in the first few practices,

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01:29:59.600 --> 01:30:03.479
<v Speaker 3>certain feelings and sensations come up, but if you keep practicing,

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01:30:03.920 --> 01:30:07.479
<v Speaker 3>they go away and new things start happening. And that's

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01:30:07.520 --> 01:30:10.520
<v Speaker 3>why I'm still doing this work after fifty years, because

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01:30:10.520 --> 01:30:13.560
<v Speaker 3>there seems to be no end. There seems to be

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<v Speaker 3>no limit. No matter how much we clear away, we

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01:30:17.000 --> 01:30:20.399
<v Speaker 3>find another layer. No matter how high we get, we

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01:30:20.520 --> 01:30:23.800
<v Speaker 3>find out that there's a much higher mountain behind this beacon.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no end to it. So that's a very simple

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<v Speaker 3>practice and if you remember the fundamentals, So if you

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<v Speaker 3>practice any breathing technique, do it consciously. Be total focus,

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01:30:37.920 --> 01:30:42.439
<v Speaker 3>one hundred percent. That in itself is powerful, the ability

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01:30:42.479 --> 01:30:46.239
<v Speaker 3>to gather all your energy and focus it totally and

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01:30:46.279 --> 01:30:50.159
<v Speaker 3>not be ten percent here, ten percent there. Sort of

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01:30:50.199 --> 01:30:52.880
<v Speaker 3>interested in this, but also you know you're scattering all

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01:30:52.920 --> 01:30:55.520
<v Speaker 3>your energy. You can't create anything, So this is a

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01:30:55.560 --> 01:31:00.199
<v Speaker 3>good exercise to be total, really focused, and don't use

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01:31:00.199 --> 01:31:04.520
<v Speaker 3>any muscles that are unnecessary. Like you know, I have

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01:31:04.560 --> 01:31:08.039
<v Speaker 3>a principle call the effort to energy ratio. So if

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01:31:08.039 --> 01:31:11.479
<v Speaker 3>people are breathing deep, if you get a certain amount

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01:31:11.479 --> 01:31:15.079
<v Speaker 3>of energy from every breath you take, and it costs

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01:31:15.159 --> 01:31:18.720
<v Speaker 3>you a certain amount of energy to breathe every breath,

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01:31:19.159 --> 01:31:22.119
<v Speaker 3>and some people it's costing them so much energy to

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01:31:22.199 --> 01:31:25.880
<v Speaker 3>breathe that they don't have energy left. It's like bad business.

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01:31:26.520 --> 01:31:30.039
<v Speaker 3>So you've got to get very practice getting economical and

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01:31:30.119 --> 01:31:33.920
<v Speaker 3>efficient and elegant with your breathing and graceful so it's

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01:31:33.960 --> 01:31:36.439
<v Speaker 3>not costing you a lot of energy. And then all

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01:31:36.520 --> 01:31:40.079
<v Speaker 3>the energy you're getting is available to do healing and

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01:31:40.119 --> 01:31:43.199
<v Speaker 3>growth work, and it's not just being used up by

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01:31:43.239 --> 01:31:48.359
<v Speaker 3>the process itself. So just remember the basic principles and

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01:31:48.560 --> 01:31:50.720
<v Speaker 3>play and you'll get somewhere.

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely feel shifted after that. But yeah, yeah, like

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01:31:54.119 --> 01:31:55.600
<v Speaker 4>a different person. Yeah.

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01:31:55.640 --> 01:31:57.479
<v Speaker 1>Like I look at the clock and I'm like, oh

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01:31:57.479 --> 01:31:58.960
<v Speaker 1>my god, it's been an hour and thirty. But it

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01:31:59.000 --> 01:32:01.920
<v Speaker 1>feels like I forgot the whole conversation for a moment.

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01:32:02.000 --> 01:32:03.239
<v Speaker 4>I forgot what we were doing.

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01:32:03.960 --> 01:32:06.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, forgive me, I got no off button. Man. Once

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01:32:06.399 --> 01:32:08.880
<v Speaker 3>you get me talking about breathing, I love it. I

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01:32:08.920 --> 01:32:12.079
<v Speaker 3>love appreciate it, man, I appreciate it. I hope some

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01:32:12.159 --> 01:32:14.279
<v Speaker 3>of what we do is going to help your listeners,

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01:32:14.319 --> 01:32:19.279
<v Speaker 3>your watchers and if they want more support Breathmastery dot

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01:32:19.279 --> 01:32:23.279
<v Speaker 3>com I bomb you with so many extra free courses

1551
01:32:23.319 --> 01:32:27.000
<v Speaker 3>and transcripts, and I send a breathing technique out every week,

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01:32:27.079 --> 01:32:31.199
<v Speaker 3>one specific exercise so you can practice something different. I

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01:32:31.239 --> 01:32:34.439
<v Speaker 3>have a monthly newsletter where I write an article about breathing.

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01:32:35.199 --> 01:32:37.680
<v Speaker 3>You know, I've written an article about breathing every month

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01:32:37.840 --> 01:32:42.119
<v Speaker 3>since June of nineteen seventy six. Wow a month. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I was at the University of Hawaii University of Massachusetts

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01:32:46.279 --> 01:32:50.479
<v Speaker 3>when i started my monthly breathing reports, and I've never

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01:32:50.479 --> 01:32:51.520
<v Speaker 3>missed a month since then.

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<v Speaker 4>That's amazing.

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01:32:53.720 --> 01:32:56.159
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I'm a fanatic, no doubt about it.

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01:32:57.319 --> 01:32:58.239
<v Speaker 3>I'm obsessed.

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01:32:58.680 --> 01:32:59.520
<v Speaker 4>That's truly amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to that after doing that little breathing exercise,

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01:33:02.239 --> 01:33:05.399
<v Speaker 1>it kind of like jolted me. I'm like off from

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01:33:05.439 --> 01:33:09.960
<v Speaker 1>podcast remode right now, just kind of experiencing that new state.

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01:33:10.039 --> 01:33:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel this like buzzing in my head and like

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01:33:12.279 --> 01:33:16.159
<v Speaker 1>kind of like pulsing on my third eye area. Which ever,

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01:33:16.239 --> 01:33:18.600
<v Speaker 1>since last week when we had that session and you

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01:33:18.760 --> 01:33:21.119
<v Speaker 1>had the whole thing about like relax your forehead muscles,

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01:33:21.319 --> 01:33:23.039
<v Speaker 1>and every moment of every day I've been focused on

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01:33:23.039 --> 01:33:27.279
<v Speaker 1>trying to relax my forehead muscles, and right now I

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01:33:27.319 --> 01:33:30.359
<v Speaker 1>feel it. After that breathing thing. So I'm definitely gonna

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01:33:30.399 --> 01:33:33.239
<v Speaker 1>practice this. So thank you for that. That was a gift,

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01:33:33.680 --> 01:33:36.960
<v Speaker 1>and you know, this has been amazing. Maybe maybe maybe

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01:33:37.000 --> 01:33:39.319
<v Speaker 1>a note to ourselves is when we're, you know, doing

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01:33:39.520 --> 01:33:41.640
<v Speaker 1>an interview, don't alter our consciousness.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, where a breath once in a while, that's

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01:33:48.239 --> 01:33:55.039
<v Speaker 3>all just stop whatever you're doing and then you're just

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01:33:55.039 --> 01:33:56.920
<v Speaker 3>just remember to take a breath once in a while.

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<v Speaker 3>That changes everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I meant to ask, what's the benefit of that little

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01:34:00.520 --> 01:34:02.520
<v Speaker 1>butterfly breathing method that we were doing.

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<v Speaker 8>I've been doing that, Yeah, I got that from I

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01:34:06.840 --> 01:34:10.000
<v Speaker 8>was working with people who were on chemo, or with

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01:34:10.039 --> 01:34:14.560
<v Speaker 8>people with migraines or nause It gets triggered very easy

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01:34:15.159 --> 01:34:18.039
<v Speaker 8>or they're in real horrible pain and the breathing seems

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<v Speaker 8>to intensify the pain.

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<v Speaker 3>So we developed what's called subtle energy breathing. Little butterfly

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01:34:24.640 --> 01:34:28.039
<v Speaker 3>breasts like you know, as delicate as the wings of

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01:34:28.079 --> 01:34:30.800
<v Speaker 3>a butterfly. And so you start with a very soft,

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01:34:30.960 --> 01:34:36.399
<v Speaker 3>delicate breathing pattern that doesn't disturb anything, doesn't trigger anything,

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01:34:36.600 --> 01:34:39.039
<v Speaker 3>and then you grow it and grow it and grow it,

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01:34:39.439 --> 01:34:43.560
<v Speaker 3>and layer by layer you're cleaning stuff out. You're clearing stuff,

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01:34:43.840 --> 01:34:47.600
<v Speaker 3>you're recharging, you're healing, you're balancing. So yeah, we call that.

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01:34:47.640 --> 01:34:50.399
<v Speaker 3>I call it butterfly breathing, but subtle energy breathing.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, yeah, I really enjoyed that technique. Well, thank you

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01:34:56.119 --> 01:34:58.000
<v Speaker 1>if you, if you stay here, I'm gonna keep you

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01:34:58.039 --> 01:34:59.960
<v Speaker 1>locked in all night and ask you all kinds of questions.

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01:35:00.079 --> 01:35:03.279
<v Speaker 1>So I think I think this is a beautiful natural

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<v Speaker 1>stopping point. And also by your app, let's mention your app.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh uh yeah, breath Tech. Good luck. I was, I

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01:35:12.760 --> 01:35:17.039
<v Speaker 3>was on my phone today. The developers are tweaking and

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01:35:17.239 --> 01:35:19.880
<v Speaker 3>doing things I don't I don't know if it's even

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01:35:19.960 --> 01:35:23.199
<v Speaker 3>working at the moment, but I've been watching the thread

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01:35:23.680 --> 01:35:26.920
<v Speaker 3>with the developers going back and forth and doing little fixes.

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01:35:27.000 --> 01:35:29.800
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, breath Tech. You can find it in the

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01:35:29.840 --> 01:35:33.840
<v Speaker 3>app store. It's an ugly colored green olive weird color

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01:35:33.920 --> 01:35:39.720
<v Speaker 3>green screen, breath Tech. And yeah, it's on it's you'll

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01:35:39.720 --> 01:35:43.199
<v Speaker 3>find it in the app store. And uh yeah, it's

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01:35:43.319 --> 01:35:48.079
<v Speaker 3>very useful. I'm really proud of it. We Uh, you

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01:35:48.520 --> 01:35:53.159
<v Speaker 3>get the three cornerstones which I mentioned. You can practicing

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01:35:53.199 --> 01:35:57.720
<v Speaker 3>breathing for becoming more mindful, practicing breathing for relaxation, and

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01:35:57.800 --> 01:36:01.880
<v Speaker 3>practicing breathing for energizing, and with those three skills you

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01:36:01.920 --> 01:36:05.000
<v Speaker 3>can start to really build. And so yeah, the app

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01:36:05.039 --> 01:36:08.439
<v Speaker 3>has what we have like eight paths why people come

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01:36:08.479 --> 01:36:13.600
<v Speaker 3>to breath work, physical healing, psycho emotional healing, personal growth,

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01:36:13.680 --> 01:36:19.640
<v Speaker 3>business performance, sports performance healing the healer, helping the helper, creativity, artists,

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01:36:19.840 --> 01:36:23.840
<v Speaker 3>performing artists, so on, and spirituality. So there's eight paths

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01:36:24.359 --> 01:36:27.279
<v Speaker 3>and you can pick your path and you complete one

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01:36:27.319 --> 01:36:29.439
<v Speaker 3>and you can go down another. And if you complete

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01:36:29.479 --> 01:36:32.479
<v Speaker 3>all the paths, you graduate, you grow, You assend from

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01:36:32.840 --> 01:36:36.800
<v Speaker 3>student to apprentice to teacher to master up. And we

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01:36:36.840 --> 01:36:41.239
<v Speaker 3>have every day breathing exercises in there, hangover breath, stuck

1624
01:36:41.279 --> 01:36:46.279
<v Speaker 3>in traffic, two o'clock, sugar crash, you know, very practical

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01:36:46.319 --> 01:36:50.239
<v Speaker 3>breathing for very everyday practical stuff. And in there I

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<v Speaker 3>also have my Basic series because for a long time

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01:36:54.199 --> 01:36:57.439
<v Speaker 3>I was teaching only my Basic Series and it was like, okay,

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01:36:57.520 --> 01:37:01.039
<v Speaker 3>if I can only teach five or six breathing exercises,

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01:37:01.560 --> 01:37:05.239
<v Speaker 3>if people get these under their belt, then anything else

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01:37:05.279 --> 01:37:07.399
<v Speaker 3>they practice they're going to get a lot more benefit

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01:37:07.399 --> 01:37:10.039
<v Speaker 3>out of than if they haven't learned these. This what

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01:37:10.079 --> 01:37:12.680
<v Speaker 3>I call the Basic Series. So that's in there too,

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01:37:13.479 --> 01:37:18.119
<v Speaker 3>and there's video lessons, there's audio guided lessons, there's an

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<v Speaker 3>article about each lesson, so it's pretty comprehensive. I'm really

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01:37:24.159 --> 01:37:26.119
<v Speaker 3>pleased with it. It turned out to be a much

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01:37:26.159 --> 01:37:29.199
<v Speaker 3>bigger job than we all expected, and there's a lot

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01:37:29.199 --> 01:37:32.800
<v Speaker 3>of tweaking going on right now. But yeah, thank you

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<v Speaker 3>for mentioning that download breath tech app.

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<v Speaker 4>You're very welcome, Dan, Thank you so much. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this has been a wonderful episode. I do believe

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01:37:42.159 --> 01:37:44.920
<v Speaker 1>the listeners will have a lot to glean from this.

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<v Speaker 1>So we do have a very simple little exit ritual

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<v Speaker 1>for our show, and it is literally at the same time,

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01:37:51.359 --> 01:37:55.319
<v Speaker 1>we all just say bye guys, and it's not that serious.

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<v Speaker 1>But whenever you're ready, you ready, yep, bye Gods.

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<v Speaker 4>What out bonies.

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