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<v Speaker 1>No matter what you do in life, somebody's gonna not

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<v Speaker 1>like it. There's nothing that you can do that everybody

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<v Speaker 1>is going to like.

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<v Speaker 2>Does everybody agree with that? You can't make everybody like you.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's nothing you can do that can make everybody

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<v Speaker 1>like you. So you may as well do the things

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<v Speaker 1>that God likes rather than the things that other people

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<v Speaker 1>like because they aren't gonna matter in eternity. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna suffer, if you're gonna have people who oppose you,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna have people's disapproval, you may as well

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<v Speaker 1>have the disapproval for doing the right thing rather than

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong thing. That's just logic. Because somebody's gonna disagree

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<v Speaker 1>with you no matter what you do. You can't avoid disapproval.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we come to the fourth step. And here, this

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<v Speaker 1>is important. Recognize the source of the opposition.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's Satan. It's not other people.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not co-workers, it's not some other political party, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not some other nation, it's not some other religion, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not some competitor, it's not some person who just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like you. The real source of the pressure you feel

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<v Speaker 1>to cave in, to not have integrity, the pressure you

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<v Speaker 1>feel to be quiet and to not stand up for

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<v Speaker 1>what you know is the right thing, that pressure's not

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<v Speaker 1>coming from other people, it's really coming from Satan. In

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<v Speaker 1>Revelation chapter 12 verse 10, Satan is called, quote, the

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<v Speaker 1>accuser of the Christians. That's his job. His number one

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<v Speaker 1>job is to put you down. Now follow me on this.

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<v Speaker 1>Satan hates God, obviously. And so he hates anything God

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<v Speaker 1>has created. And what he hates most of all are

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<v Speaker 1>God's children. And so Satan hates you. He doesn't just

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<v Speaker 1>hate God, Satan hates you. You know, you've heard that phrase,

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<v Speaker 1>God loves you and has a good plan for your life. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Satan hates you and has a bad plan for your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he hates you.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, follow me on this.

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<v Speaker 1>Satan wants to hurt God, but he can't. He can't

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<v Speaker 1>hurt God, but he does have access to you, and

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<v Speaker 1>he can hurt you. And the quickest way to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>a parent is to hurt his kids. Quickest way to

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<v Speaker 1>hurt a mom's heart is to hurt her children. Quickest

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<v Speaker 1>way to hurt a dad is to hurt his children.

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<v Speaker 1>And so Satan can't get at God, so what's he

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<v Speaker 1>wanna do? He wants to get at you. He wants

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<v Speaker 1>to hurt you. And there is an unseen spiritual battle

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<v Speaker 1>going all around you, and this pressure to make your

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<v Speaker 1>life miserable and to make you cave in and to

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<v Speaker 1>keep you from doing the right thing, it's not coming

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<v Speaker 1>from other people, really. You gotta look beyond that. They're

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<v Speaker 1>just pawns. They're just tools. They're just weapons. And a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times they don't even know, most of the

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<v Speaker 1>time they don't even know they're being used. But the

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<v Speaker 1>real issue is this spiritual warfare. Ephesians 6, 12 says this.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not fighting against human beings, which is why you

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<v Speaker 1>don't win this in the ballot box. We're not fighting

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<v Speaker 1>against human beings, but against wicked spiritual forces.

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<v Speaker 2>In the heavenly realm. Now let me explain this.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to understand that Satan knows it's stupid to

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<v Speaker 1>attack Jesus Christ directly.

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<v Speaker 2>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he was the only perfect person who ever lived.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you attack Jesus? I mean, the savior who

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<v Speaker 1>taught love and grace and peace and joy and forgive

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<v Speaker 1>other people and died, gave his life for others, how.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you attack Jesus?

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<v Speaker 1>So he knows rather than attacking Jesus directly, He wants

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<v Speaker 1>to attack those who follow him. And today he uses

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<v Speaker 1>the media, and he uses music, and he uses comedies,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's doing anything he can to ridicule those who

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<v Speaker 1>follow Jesus. And they say, hey, they're out of date.

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<v Speaker 1>They're on the wrong side of history. They don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what they're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>They're fuddy-duddies.

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<v Speaker 1>They're bigots, and on and on and on. Here's what

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<v Speaker 1>the Bible says you should do. 2 Timothy 2. Stay

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<v Speaker 1>away from stupid and senseless arguments. These only lead to trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>God's servants must never quarrel. Instead, be kind to everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>including the opposition, and be patient with the opposition, and

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<v Speaker 1>be humble when you correct people who oppose you.

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<v Speaker 2>They've been trapped by the devil.

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<v Speaker 1>And he makes them obey him, but God may help

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<v Speaker 1>them escape. Now, what's he saying here? He's saying, those people,

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<v Speaker 1>they're just pawns. And see, if you don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>Holy Spirit in your life, you don't have God's power

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<v Speaker 1>in your life, you have no defense against Satan. He

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<v Speaker 1>could just whipsaw you this way and that. He can

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<v Speaker 1>master your moods. He can lead you into depression. He

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<v Speaker 1>can do all kinds of, he can make you angry.

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<v Speaker 1>You have no defense against Satan until you've got God's

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<v Speaker 1>Spirit inside of you. You're not strong enough, sorry, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just not. And so these people, they're just being used

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<v Speaker 1>as tools. And what you need to do is recognize

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<v Speaker 1>a source and treat the opposition the way Jesus did.

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<v Speaker 1>How did Jesus treat those who opposed him? Even on

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<v Speaker 1>the cross, he's saying, Father, forgive them. They don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what they're doing. They don't know what they're doing. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what it means to be Christlike. they don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing. These people who attack me, they don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what they're doing. The people who attack you, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what they're doing. The people who put down Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>and church and Christianity, they don't know what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Father, forgive them.

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<v Speaker 1>Now think about this. Jesus was lied to, lied about constantly.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go make a list of all things they

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<v Speaker 1>lied about Jesus in the Bible. They said he's a

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<v Speaker 1>revolutionary here to overthrow Rome and take Pilate's place.

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<v Speaker 2>Wrong. But they used that to get him to the cross.

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<v Speaker 1>They said he's got a demon.

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<v Speaker 3>Wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>At one point they said he's a drunk and a glutton. Wrong. Wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>They said, you know, he's the devil incarnate. Wrong. And

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<v Speaker 1>how did Jesus respond to all those lies that were

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<v Speaker 1>told about him?

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<v Speaker 2>Look at the next verse, 1 Peter 2.

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<v Speaker 1>When they hurled their insults at him, Jesus did not retaliate.

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<v Speaker 1>When he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted

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<v Speaker 1>himself to God who judges justly.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at this verse on the screen. I love this

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<v Speaker 2>in the message. It says this. They called him every

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<v Speaker 2>name in the book, and he said nothing back.

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<v Speaker 1>He suffered in silence, content to let God set things right.

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<v Speaker 1>This leads us to the fifth thing you need to

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<v Speaker 1>do when you're under attack. Refuse to retaliate. Refuse to retaliate.

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<v Speaker 1>You are most like Jesus Christ when you don't strike

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<v Speaker 1>back at somebody who's hurt you. You're most like Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>when you don't attack back in somebody who has attacked

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<v Speaker 1>you with a personal insult or threat or statement.

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<v Speaker 2>Or gossip or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>In this eighth beatitude, the last one, it says this,

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<v Speaker 1>let me quote it to you again. Blessed are you

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<v Speaker 1>when men shall revile you and persecute you and say

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<v Speaker 1>all manner of evil against you falsely for my sake.

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<v Speaker 2>Rejoice and be exceeding.

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<v Speaker 1>Glad, for great is your reward in heaven, for so

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<v Speaker 1>persecuted they the prophets which were before you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the eighth beatitude.

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<v Speaker 1>And he says this, you will be insulted, that means

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<v Speaker 1>people are gonna say names, they're gonna call you names,

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna give you labels. You will be insulted, he

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<v Speaker 1>says that's the first thing, he says you're gonna be persecuted,

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<v Speaker 1>that means you're mistreated, you may be passed over, you

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<v Speaker 1>may even be abused.

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<v Speaker 2>And he said, and you're gonna be lied about.

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<v Speaker 1>And he said, people will say all things that are

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<v Speaker 1>false against you to discredit you, to dishonor you. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned they'll even say them on TV. And he'll

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<v Speaker 1>do all of these things. The world loves to find

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<v Speaker 1>fault with Christians. And if they can't find anything to

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<v Speaker 1>find at fault with you, you know what? They'll make

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<v Speaker 1>stuff up. They'll just make it up. Now, here's what

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<v Speaker 1>the Bible says.

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<v Speaker 2>Romans 12. verse 17 and 18. Never pay back evil

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<v Speaker 2>with more evil. If it is possible, as.

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<v Speaker 1>Far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I love about the Bible? It always

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<v Speaker 1>tells the truth, and what it tells there is, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's possible, as far as it depends on you, live

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<v Speaker 1>at peace with everyone. There's some people you just can't

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<v Speaker 1>live at peace with. Don't look at them. but you

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<v Speaker 1>know who they are. If it is possible, as far

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<v Speaker 1>as it depends on you, you try to live at

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<v Speaker 1>peace with them. Some people you just can't live at

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<v Speaker 1>peace with. They're just gonna keep poking, poking, poking, poking, poking.

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<v Speaker 2>And he says, and never avenge yourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave that to God who has said, I'll be the

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<v Speaker 1>judge and I'll take care of that. Now I told

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<v Speaker 1>you earlier, You don't need anybody's approval to be happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me give you the second great truth that'll change

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<v Speaker 1>your life. You need to write this down. Anytime I react,

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<v Speaker 1>I give control to that person. Anytime I react to

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who's poked me, I give control to that person.

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<v Speaker 2>And you don't want to do that. You don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to give up control.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you can't control what other people do, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can control your reactions.

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<v Speaker 4>For you to hear this quick story about how Daily

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<v Speaker 4>Hope is making a difference in the lives of others

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<v Speaker 3>Daily Hope's a daily reminder of God speaking to me

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<v Speaker 3>on whatever subject Pastor Rick is talking about that day,

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<v Speaker 2>In the dumpster. All the little things of the world

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<v Speaker 3>But if I started with Daily Hope and a reminder

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<v Speaker 3>of where I'm a child of God and where God

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going.

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<v Speaker 3>Into battle without the tools that I need to win

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<v Speaker 3>And it just settles into me a little bit better. Inevitably,

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<v Speaker 3>I keep telling them, guys, Pastor Rick was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever said, you make me so mad? You

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, really? then you're a pretty weak person if somebody

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<v Speaker 1>You should only get mad when you choose to get mad,

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<v Speaker 1>You make me so mad means I'm allowing you to

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do it. George Washington Carver, that great African American

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<v Speaker 1>1 Peter 4.19 says this. Those who suffer according to

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<v Speaker 1>continue to do good. Now, there's something really important here.

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<v Speaker 1>Circle the phrase according to God's will. You're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hear this in some places, but this is what the

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<v Speaker 1>according to God's will, sometimes suffering is God's will. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>anybody to have cancer. God never wants any problems in

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<v Speaker 2>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>It makes you more like Jesus. It deepens your faith.

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<v Speaker 1>worry instead of worship. There's so many benefits that suffering

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<v Speaker 2>And it may be God's will. Now, it may not be.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me teach you something. I've never taught this to

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<v Speaker 1>certain things. When a hurricane comes into town, it just

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<v Speaker 1>The second kind of suffering is carnal suffering. That's suffering

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<v Speaker 1>it's my fault. And a lot of the suffering in

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<v Speaker 1>not God's fault, that's my fault. That's carnal suffering, it's

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<v Speaker 1>suffering because of sin. But not all suffering is from sin.

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<v Speaker 1>The Bible says sometimes suffering is Christian. It's not carnal,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not common, it's Christian. It's suffering according to the

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<v Speaker 1>will of God, because God is more interested in your

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<v Speaker 1>character than your comfort. You're not taking comfort to heaven,

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<v Speaker 1>but you are taking your character, and in heaven, you're

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<v Speaker 1>says those who suffer according to God's will should commit

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<v Speaker 1>themselves to God, the faithful creator, and just keep on

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<v Speaker 1>doing good. You throw this arrow at me, you throw

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<v Speaker 1>that arrow at me, you throw another arrow at me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna commit myself to God and continue to

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<v Speaker 1>do good. I entrusted to God, I lay it in

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<v Speaker 1>and not waste time defending yourself. And that takes faith.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you do that, God smiles. Now, the sixth

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<v Speaker 1>thing you need to do when you face opposition, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is the most important one of all, This is

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<v Speaker 1>what makes Christians different from everybody else on the planet,

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody else does this. Number six, when I'm persecuted,

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm harassed, when I'm oppressed, respond with a blessing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you return good for evil.

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<v Speaker 1>You not only refuse to retaliate, there are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people who refuse to retaliate, but the Bible says

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna be a follower of Jesus, you actually

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<v Speaker 1>do good to those who do bad to you. You

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<v Speaker 1>bless those who hurt you. And he says, you respond

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<v Speaker 1>with a blessing. Romans 12, 21 says this. Do not become,

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<v Speaker 1>do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't make the world brighter by blowing out everybody

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<v Speaker 1>Do not become overcome evil, but overcome evil with good.

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<v Speaker 1>Now Jesus gets very, very specific. And I'll just be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you. As your pastor, I hate this next verse.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish this next verse was not in the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>wish I could take an exacto knife and cut it

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<v Speaker 2>Hard to do. But here's what Jesus said, Luke 6.

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<v Speaker 2>Love your enemies.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta be kidding me. Do good to those who

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<v Speaker 1>hate you. Now it's overkill.

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<v Speaker 2>Bless those who hurt you. Come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Bless those who hurt you. And pray for those who

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, Lord. I mean, come on.

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<v Speaker 1>And if someone slaps you on the cheek, turn the

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<v Speaker 1>I wanna be that courageous. I want to have that

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong no matter how much pain they throw at me.

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<v Speaker 1>That I will not retaliate, but what I will do

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<v Speaker 1>is respond with love. Here's an amazing thing. If you

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who doesn't like you, number one, God will be pleased.

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<v Speaker 2>God's going to smile. That's my girl. That's my boy. Second,

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to get blessed. It says it over. That's

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<v Speaker 1>Some of those public attackers will become private seekers. I

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<v Speaker 1>attack me publicly. and because I refused to engage them

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<v Speaker 1>may God richly bless you in every way, that then

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<v Speaker 1>quietly they would come around and start asking about, what's

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<v Speaker 1>were trying to put Jesus on the cross, later came

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus at night and says, tell me about this born

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<v Speaker 2>And they'll come around. If you respond correctly, some of your.

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<v Speaker 1>Opponents will actually become your partners if you do it correctly.

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<v Speaker 1>there be enough evidence to convict you? Would there be

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<v Speaker 1>for being a Christian? Is there any difference in your life?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you just wimping out, keeping your head down?

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<v Speaker 1>you just wimp out and keep quiet? Let me ask

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<v Speaker 1>it this way. What is your faith costing you? When

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<v Speaker 1>your brothers and sisters around the world are sometimes standing

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<v Speaker 1>while it costs so much others their lives, we have

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<v Speaker 1>it so easy. What is your faith costing you? Let

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<v Speaker 1>me ask it this way. At what cost would you

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<v Speaker 1>stay faithful to Christ? Somebody put a pistol to your head?

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<v Speaker 1>You say, would you stay faithful to Christ?

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<v Speaker 1>Then why are you so ticked off and worried about insults?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is you so worried about disapproval? That's certainly not

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<v Speaker 1>as harmful as a shot in the head. If you're willing,

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<v Speaker 1>what am I willing to lay it on the line for?

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<v Speaker 1>What is more important to me than even life itself?

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<v Speaker 1>What is worth buying for? Until you know that, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not ready to live. Jesus paid a price for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And he says there's a price to be paid for

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<v Speaker 1>following him. Popularity on earth is not part of the

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee of being a Christian, it's not. But reward in

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<v Speaker 1>heaven is a guarantee. And it was Jim Elliot who said,

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<v Speaker 1>keep for that which he cannot lose. You just gotta

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<v Speaker 1>decide what's more important to you. Popularity or the smile

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<v Speaker 1>of God? Now I wanna end with two statements of Jesus.

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<v Speaker 1>They're here on the screen. Mark 8 verse 38 says this.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus said, if you are ashamed of me, And my commands,

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<v Speaker 1>my commands in this godless and sinful generation, I will

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<v Speaker 1>with the holy angels. He also said this in Matthew

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<v Speaker 1>chapter 10. But, For those who declare publicly that they

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<v Speaker 1>before my Father in heaven. What we need is an

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<v Speaker 1>army of brave men and women risk takers. We should not, parents,

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<v Speaker 1>we should not be depending on Disney to teach our

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<v Speaker 2>Or our little boys or anybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>They should see bravery in their mothers and bravery in

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<v Speaker 1>rather than fall for anything. But it starts with courage

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<v Speaker 1>in the parents. Let's bow our heads. Would you pray

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<v Speaker 1>this prayer in your heart? Dear Jesus, I wanna care

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<v Speaker 1>I wanna be a God pleaser. Take away my fear

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<v Speaker 1>of rejection. And when I feel that urge to be

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<v Speaker 1>dear God, I wanna become a brave man of God

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<v Speaker 1>or I wanna become a brave woman of God with

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<v Speaker 1>the courage of my conviction and the integrity of my

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<v Speaker 1>heart to live for you no matter what. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for having the courage to die for me. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for accepting me into your family. If you've never invited

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ in your life, say, Jesus Christ, come into

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<v Speaker 1>my heart and life right now and fill me with

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<v Speaker 1>your love. Replace my fear with your love. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to follow you from this day forward.

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<v Speaker 2>In your name I pray.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen.
