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Speaker 3: Yes, indeed, I love that intro. I love that song.
Speaker 3: Thank you my friend Nick Johnson. It's an original. Welcome
Speaker 3: everybody for a great show. And here's what I want
Speaker 3: to say about this. Sometimes what happens in life you
Speaker 3: wake up and you meet people, and the people you
Speaker 3: meet are the people you need to meet to help
Speaker 3: you where you are in your life and how to
Speaker 3: take that next step. Today Brenda Lee Mattosh joining me
Speaker 3: here today is a visionary. She is the founder of
Speaker 3: a tune guidance, but much more. There is not enough
Speaker 3: time in this short show to tell you the impact
Speaker 3: that she has already had on me personally. But when
Speaker 3: you take a look at what could I use help
Speaker 3: with await, spiritual wisdom, oracle, oh, mindset coaching, quantum navigation.
Speaker 3: If you look at all those things, you understand the talent,
Speaker 3: the gift, and the reason that Brenda Lee is in
Speaker 3: the world helping many, many, many many people. These are
Speaker 3: transformative teachings. Today's show gives you a I like to
Speaker 3: call a little taste, a little taste of what's to come.
Speaker 3: Today we're going to talk about the call within, unlocking
Speaker 3: your inner attuned guidance, the call within, that call within,
Speaker 3: if you don't know or sense or have the hutzpuff
Speaker 3: to do something about it, it stays within. Brenda Lee.
Speaker 3: It's great to have you here, great topic, great conversations.
Speaker 3: Great to see you again.
Speaker 4: Thank you so much, doctor Pat. I'm so happy to
Speaker 4: be here and share space with you again.
Speaker 3: So I want to talk for a minute. This is
Speaker 3: a introduction because we're getting ready to launch your full show,
Speaker 3: and this is a way for the audience to really
Speaker 3: meet you and get ready for what's to come. And
Speaker 3: part of this is always to explore the moments how
Speaker 3: we get here and what exactly as part of a
Speaker 3: tuned guidance, what it is what you recognize in yourself
Speaker 3: to get you here in this moment today.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So a tuned guide for me is something that
Speaker 4: only I can tap into. Now it's developed into a
Speaker 4: beautiful inner knowing that I fully trust. But it began
Speaker 4: with guiding me to look at my outer world and
Speaker 4: kind of see did I create all of this? And
Speaker 4: when I started to so, the inner guidance was with
Speaker 4: me since I was a young girl. But you know,
Speaker 4: as we go through our teens and our thirties and
Speaker 4: our forties and were work mode, we ignore most of
Speaker 4: our intuition, that chill you get when you're around people,
Speaker 4: when you get a weird feeling. I tend to only
Speaker 4: listen to it every once in a while, and now
Speaker 4: I've developed a habit with myself to listen to it
Speaker 4: as much as possible over anything else on the exterior.
Speaker 4: And it's a quiet whisper, doctor pat It's so sweet,
Speaker 4: and nobody else can tune into it. I can't even
Speaker 4: really give you words for it. Bet we can explore
Speaker 4: through this talk on how other people can try to
Speaker 4: tap into it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know what I love about this is
Speaker 3: we're coming out of the gate here having a conversation
Speaker 3: about you know, a tuned guidance and how does one
Speaker 3: recognize it in oneself? How did you do it? But
Speaker 3: there's also something really important in this introduction that I'm
Speaker 3: thrilled to be doing, introducing you to my audience, this audience,
Speaker 3: because we are in a place now. This is my
Speaker 3: two cents. If you really want to know, we are
Speaker 3: in a place right now where if you do not,
Speaker 3: if you do not tap into this, let me just
Speaker 3: ask you, how in the world are we going to
Speaker 3: keep up with the pace by which the world is changing?
Speaker 4: Can help me out with that, well, I don't want
Speaker 4: any part of keeping up with the pace in the
Speaker 4: exterior world. And so the inner wisdom, the attuned guidance,
Speaker 4: the intuition, we can call it. I want people to
Speaker 4: know that a tuned guidance is a platform and how
Speaker 4: I tap in. But attuned guidance is within everybody. And
Speaker 4: you know, the automatic programmed person, no fault in being
Speaker 4: programmed You're raise that way is tapped into everything outer
Speaker 4: what's happening out there? What is everybody doing out there?
Speaker 4: How do I need to prove myself out there? Competing
Speaker 4: against everything out there and receiving validation from out there?
Speaker 4: And you really have to start questioning all of that.
Speaker 4: You have to understand why do I care about what
Speaker 4: they say or what they're doing? And is this what
Speaker 4: I really want to do? And that only comes with
Speaker 4: listening to your heart, that higher mind. You must listen,
Speaker 4: and the only way to do that is to hold
Speaker 4: space and create as put as much energy and creating
Speaker 4: that space that you would in your outer field all
Speaker 4: day long.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know, look, part of this is when
Speaker 3: we look at this and the work that you've done
Speaker 3: and what you're doing and bringing to the forefront, I
Speaker 3: want to ask you this question, why do you believe
Speaker 3: it's essential for people to connect with that in a wisdom?
Speaker 3: What is it that you've seen in the clients you see,
Speaker 3: the people you speak with. Obviously you're seeing something happening
Speaker 3: out there, at least I am not sure what it is,
Speaker 3: but there is something going on. Yeah, from where you sit,
Speaker 3: what do you see.
Speaker 4: From where I sit? The first thing I want to say,
Speaker 4: it's your birthright. It's your birthright to hear your inner voice.
Speaker 4: And outside is chaotic and noisy, the inner whisper is
Speaker 4: soft and sweet. The outer voice, the mind, the narrative
Speaker 4: that's playing out that you've created, your reality is in fear.
Speaker 4: When you're listening to your heart and your intuition, there
Speaker 4: is no fear, There is no doubt. Right, So when
Speaker 4: I have a sensation or a thought, I can tell
Speaker 4: is this a thought coming in of an old narrative
Speaker 4: that's trying to keep me in fear, or is this
Speaker 4: my higher self trying to lead me over here that's unknown,
Speaker 4: by the way, and it's okay to be unknown. And
Speaker 4: a lot of people want a lot of proof before
Speaker 4: they get there, and and intuition doesn't work on proof, right,
Speaker 4: it's tapping in and believing and knowing and getting to
Speaker 4: know your flavor and how the energy moves. And it's
Speaker 4: super important for people as their birthright to go within.
Speaker 3: You know, I want to ask you this question because
Speaker 3: I think a little bit focused on today a couple
Speaker 3: of events that happen in my close circle of friends,
Speaker 3: but also in the world, and you know it has
Speaker 3: to do with signs, and you know, it's interesting about science.
Speaker 3: We look at something and you may see you may
Speaker 3: see a squirrel and that may mean something to you.
Speaker 3: I may see as that same squirrel and have a
Speaker 3: different meaning for me. But what are some of the
Speaker 3: signs and the feelings that help you personally look at
Speaker 3: things and say, I need to discern what's guidance, what's
Speaker 3: coming from men or what's popping in from some newsreel
Speaker 3: or something I've been watching.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so the number one sign is is fear in
Speaker 4: the room. And the other big sign, which I'm currently
Speaker 4: expanding my own conscious awareness of myself, and there's depths
Speaker 4: to it, is where is there resistance? Right, and the
Speaker 4: minute somebody feels resistant, you want to go against it, right,
Speaker 4: But that is where that golden nuggets are in that
Speaker 4: resistant But it's always uncomfortable because you actually have to
Speaker 4: get outside your comfort zone to have any growth, and
Speaker 4: none of us want to, you know, embrace that when
Speaker 4: it's first happening, when we're going through transformations, right, and
Speaker 4: holding space to tap in to your intuition is kind
Speaker 4: of uh, I'm getting this analogy of the ocean, right.
Speaker 4: The ocean is always there, even when you're not looking
Speaker 4: at it. It's there, and it's in motion and it's moving.
Speaker 4: And so if you just look at levels of your
Speaker 4: conscious awareness of yourself and tapping into your intuition, there's
Speaker 4: some people that will go to the ocean, but they'll
Speaker 4: only sit on the beach and they'll never get in
Speaker 4: the water, right, yeah, and so those people are somewhat
Speaker 4: curious of the wave of the ocean. So we're talking
Speaker 4: intuition here, but we're using the ocean as the analogy.
Speaker 4: And then you I have some people that want to
Speaker 4: go snorkel on the surface, right, And then you have
Speaker 4: those ones that are very brave and they'll hold their
Speaker 4: breath and they'll free dive. And when you there's people
Speaker 4: like me who I need the snorkel gear because I
Speaker 4: want to go all the way so deep and understand
Speaker 4: who I am. And so there's many different levels and
Speaker 4: cycles in your life that you can start to attune
Speaker 4: to your inner guidance. You don't want to go from
Speaker 4: sitting on the ocean to putting on the snorkel gear, right, Yeah.
Speaker 4: You want to play with it and believe in it
Speaker 4: and trust it and trust yourself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love this conversation because we're going to have
Speaker 3: so many conversations as we move forward. And you know,
Speaker 3: what we're talking about is a body of work you do.
Speaker 3: So I want to take a minute because as we
Speaker 3: have these conversations, people are going to how do I
Speaker 3: work with her? How do I find out work? How
Speaker 3: do I learn to put on the snorkel? What is
Speaker 3: the best way for people to find out more about you?
Speaker 3: Brenda Lely?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so my website is attuned guidance dot com and
Speaker 4: I have one on one sessions, and I have Jenky sessions,
Speaker 4: and I have online courses that are self discovery and
Speaker 4: you can take at your own pace.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Look, I can't wait for all the things we're going
Speaker 3: to talk about. And I know this is a short
Speaker 3: thirty minute show, but I will tell you this. I
Speaker 3: will tell you this. Part of all of this is
Speaker 3: making adjustments. And I want to tell you for mere
Speaker 3: here's what I have to adjust too. I have had
Speaker 3: I've been called lucky all my life. You know, lucky
Speaker 3: that's another word for using your insight. You know, that's
Speaker 3: what they say, You're lucky. And you know part of
Speaker 3: that is being told don't use that don't do that,
Speaker 3: don't trust that. But yet, as I became a student
Speaker 3: and I looked at different things, what I found in
Speaker 3: almost everything I read. I don't care what spiritual book
Speaker 3: you pick up, what story most of the people got
Speaker 3: there by that inner guidance. I don't care if you're
Speaker 3: looking at Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen and Chicken
Speaker 3: Sew for the soul the dot. It doesn't matter. And
Speaker 3: yet here we are. So can you talk to the
Speaker 3: misconceptions that we have about relying on that internal guidance.
Speaker 3: It's almost like we dismiss it as if we need
Speaker 3: to have a degree before we can actually use it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and people want proof, right, And so I invite
Speaker 4: people to believe that you have an inner knowing and
Speaker 4: guidance and intuition and start working with it. Don't wait
Speaker 4: for the proof before allow the unfolding, right. And what
Speaker 4: happens is once you ask the question, I want to
Speaker 4: tune into this. What you're seeking is also seeking you,
Speaker 4: and so what's within you is going to start appearing
Speaker 4: in your outer reality, and it's going to offer you
Speaker 4: invitations on how to do it, through a book, through
Speaker 4: a podcast, through a course, whatever. There's unlimited potential in
Speaker 4: the universe and the quantum to guide you. And so
Speaker 4: if you're not willing to tune into yourself and hear
Speaker 4: your heartbeat and know your voice, and know the emotions
Speaker 4: coming out of your body and trust that, then you're
Speaker 4: never going to see the signs and synchronicities that are
Speaker 4: all around you that are showing up in your favor. Yeah.
Speaker 3: You know, I had a coach that used to drill
Speaker 3: me all the time. Walk the talk, walk the talk,
Speaker 3: that's what That's what they used to do, walk the talk.
Speaker 3: And part of that conversation is asking you this question.
Speaker 3: In this conversation, people want to know from your perspective,
Speaker 3: you know, how has following your A tune guidance impacted you?
Speaker 3: How did it help you take Road X instead of
Speaker 3: Road why? Or and just understanding more about who you are.
Speaker 4: Yeah. So I've if a thousand people go left, I
Speaker 4: go right. I've been that way my whole life, and
Speaker 4: I didn't understand why I did it, but I trusted
Speaker 4: that I was supposed to because I had this inner knowing.
Speaker 4: I couldn't put language to it to explain it to
Speaker 4: the people in my life. And there were certain times
Speaker 4: in my life where I felt like I owed an explanation.
Speaker 4: I'm at a point now where I don't owe an
Speaker 4: explanation to anybody on any decisions that I make in
Speaker 4: my life. And I generally make a lot of big
Speaker 4: life decisions and tell everybody in my life after the
Speaker 4: decision has already been made, because although they could bring
Speaker 4: value in their opinion, it wouldn't sway my decision either way.
Speaker 4: Once I have a knowing, I know that it's my
Speaker 4: higher self, my higher heart, mind, my soul, whatever you
Speaker 4: want to call it. Words don't matter. I know that
Speaker 4: I'm being guided towards a new doorway, a new trajectory
Speaker 4: that's unknown that I haven't experienced yet, And so why
Speaker 4: wouldn't I want to go there and experience it. I
Speaker 4: don't want to stay stagnant over here. There's cycles in
Speaker 4: your life that you go through situations and then your
Speaker 4: soul says, okay, I learned enough, I want to go
Speaker 4: over here, and I just follow that and it's always
Speaker 4: magical at the end. It's never easy, but it's always
Speaker 4: magical at the end.
Speaker 3: And you know what I'm really struck by is you
Speaker 3: know I've been reflecting here recently but also because of
Speaker 3: my thirty seven years of sobriety. We have a process
Speaker 3: we go through where we have to get every rock,
Speaker 3: anything that crawls out from under rock, you got to
Speaker 3: look at. But what shows up in that is the
Speaker 3: idea of making decisions that didn't follow that inner guidance, right,
Speaker 3: the things that you know our regrets over, but you
Speaker 3: get knowledge and wisdom when you say, WHOA Okay, But
Speaker 3: in this conversation and moving forward in the shows we're
Speaker 3: going to do. We're going to just lift that rock
Speaker 3: up and we're going to have whatever comes out of
Speaker 3: that comes out of that so we can help people.
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I mean there is no right or wrong
Speaker 4: or good and bad. There just is new conscious awareness
Speaker 4: of who I am in my experience. What do I
Speaker 4: want to experience, how do I want it? And how
Speaker 4: do I How much do I trust myself to allow
Speaker 4: this intuition to guide me? Did it really ever let
Speaker 4: me down? Or was it just teaching me hands on training?
Speaker 4: You know? And so I like hands on training. I
Speaker 4: need to know for myself. I don't really if somebody
Speaker 4: tells me don't do this or don't do that, I
Speaker 4: don't really listen to that I need to know for myself.
Speaker 4: And I think if a lot of people would get
Speaker 4: a little more curious about learning for themselves without outside
Speaker 4: interference and opinions, they would tap into themselves quite quickly.
Speaker 4: But you've got to create space for it, and you
Speaker 4: got to want it, and you got to start asking
Speaker 4: yourself bigger questions than you ever had before.
Speaker 3: You know, one of the things I noticed. You know,
Speaker 3: I've played a lot of sports, you know, I do
Speaker 3: a lot of things that require intuition. But I've really
Speaker 3: been struck by it lately, especially since you and I
Speaker 3: have spoken over these weeks. And now when I watch things,
Speaker 3: I just notice how the flow is happening for people
Speaker 3: and when it doesn't. And I'm noticing that in myself.
Speaker 3: You helped me out with a few things, and I
Speaker 3: caught myself and I get to practice it again tonight,
Speaker 3: But I caught myself not being able to hold the flow.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying? You know, let's talk
Speaker 3: about that. You know, really good in the first hour
Speaker 3: of what I was doing, and then all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: what happens. Fear the mind jumps in. But let's talk
Speaker 3: about the tools you're going to be sharing with people, Well,
Speaker 3: that can help with this, right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's very easy because the outer world is so
Speaker 4: noisy and chaotic, at least for me. Right. And so
Speaker 4: when somebody else is coming into your field and you're
Speaker 4: not grounded in knowing what you want, what you desire,
Speaker 4: and how you show up, then they're going to be
Speaker 4: a mirror to you. And if they're coming in hot
Speaker 4: and heavy and you're not grounded in your own knowing,
Speaker 4: they're gonna raise things inside of you, their emotions, and
Speaker 4: you know, the conflict is always within. And so if
Speaker 4: we can look at people characters in our play of
Speaker 4: this beautiful life that we're in, and we can start
Speaker 4: to observe them, and then when we have emotions come up,
Speaker 4: instead of matching their energy and wanting to be a
Speaker 4: right fighter, if we can sit with that emotion and
Speaker 4: take a pause and walk away if we need to,
Speaker 4: and allow ourselves the grace to walk away and take
Speaker 4: them in, especially when you're playing sports like you and
Speaker 4: figure out why is that emotion? How can what that
Speaker 4: person said to me affect me so big when I
Speaker 4: was fine for an hour. That's where the nugget gits, right,
Speaker 4: and they're actually on a subconscious level, on a soul level,
Speaker 4: doing you a favor for it to help you clear it.
Speaker 4: They might not be ready to clear their own conflicts.
Speaker 4: You an opportunity to clear yours. And when you see
Speaker 4: that you've cleared it and they haven't, there's a beautiful
Speaker 4: contrast the duality of the experiences. I've cleared it, they're
Speaker 4: not ready. I'm going to allow them the grace, but
Speaker 4: I have boundaries now on how I'm going to show up.
Speaker 4: And it's just magic when you're not doing it from
Speaker 4: fear and anger and reaction. Right, we're not matching their energy.
Speaker 4: We're just checking and tuning our own frequency. Why did
Speaker 4: I let that person make me so upset? That has
Speaker 4: to be inside of me. I've got to find that
Speaker 4: and I've got to hold space for and I got
Speaker 4: to feel that emotion and release it right with love.
Speaker 3: You know we couldn't plan this, Okay, So this is
Speaker 3: not something that you and I planned. I watched last
Speaker 3: night something I had not seen much of in women's
Speaker 3: basketball between the Indiana Fever in Phoenix, and it was
Speaker 3: almost an outright brawl. Oh, I had what you just
Speaker 3: described right, what you just described that happens when we
Speaker 3: don't have this kind of insight. We saw it in
Speaker 3: the public eye, you know, and it was ugly. I'm
Speaker 3: telling you, I just must have been just because I've
Speaker 3: been talking to you so much. I think and I
Speaker 3: thought about you, and I said, if these women would
Speaker 3: have just had an inkling of what you just shared
Speaker 3: and learned how to walk away, walk away, learn how
Speaker 3: to tape things at the level that you're talking about,
Speaker 3: and it became so disruptive, really almost embarrassing that the
Speaker 3: play up now for it in the media because the
Speaker 3: media gets all of something like this, Brenda Lee, you
Speaker 3: know what they do. They're like, now they're going to
Speaker 3: play again on Wednesday. You better look out.
Speaker 4: It's not a basketball I don't watch basketball, so now
Speaker 4: it's not a basketball game. It's a post exactly.
Speaker 3: And it's for the very reason you just went through.
Speaker 3: It is exactly those reasons to catch herself.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we have to catch ourself when we're reacting. And
Speaker 4: if you catch yourself reacting enough, you'll start seeing that
Speaker 4: it's you doing that. And once you do that, you
Speaker 4: have to have some pattern tools to correct that pattern.
Speaker 4: And it's that's when the resistance comes up, and you
Speaker 4: got to take full accountability for yourself. And I do that.
Speaker 4: I go, I have the I went from the snorkeling
Speaker 4: gear to I go deep in it. I want to
Speaker 4: understand why do I feel this? What is it teaching
Speaker 4: me about me? And I think the person I might
Speaker 4: not let them in my life and in my private circle,
Speaker 4: but I thank them because the mirror of them showed
Speaker 4: up in divine time for me to clear it in me.
Speaker 4: We both had an opportunity. I'm going to grab it
Speaker 4: as much as I can. And it literally changed my life.
Speaker 4: And so I just want people to know that we
Speaker 4: can change our patterns. But we got to get uncomfortable.
Speaker 4: We got to be okay, I do the work. I'm
Speaker 4: in it right now with going even deeper within my
Speaker 4: intuition than I ever have. And it's a process and
Speaker 4: we have to give ourselves grace and hold space. And yeah,
Speaker 4: a lot of time.
Speaker 3: And I got to give you credit because I think
Speaker 3: I told you this. It's taken me a while, but
Speaker 3: I switched the clubs at the sports club that I'm
Speaker 3: affiliated with, I switched and it's a whole different environment
Speaker 3: and I can't even explain it, but it does take
Speaker 3: an effort if you're attached to something to make that change.
Speaker 3: I want to ask you a couple of questions. You
Speaker 3: provide digital resources and one on one sessions give us
Speaker 3: a breakdown of the different ways you work with people
Speaker 3: or what you provide for people.
Speaker 4: Well, my court, my one on one sessions are basically
Speaker 4: mindset coaching, getting people out of the mind and into
Speaker 4: the heart, teaching you how to listen to that beautiful
Speaker 4: voice within you. Right, and so we have to change
Speaker 4: the narrative. We have to see what we're doing to ourselves.
Speaker 4: We have to catch ourselves in the act. And you know,
Speaker 4: and I just want to go back to you changing
Speaker 4: the club. Yeah, so that's a moment where your soul said,
Speaker 4: I learned enough, but I still want to play the
Speaker 4: game and I can go over here. And even though
Speaker 4: it was uncomfortable, it's not being attached to what you're
Speaker 4: experiencing and the outcome to be in the flow. And
Speaker 4: that's what my courses teach. They teach you to get
Speaker 4: out of that program that you're in, the pattern where
Speaker 4: you're stuck, right, and to get in the flow of
Speaker 4: creating a new pattern and how to surround and show
Speaker 4: up for yourself in doing that and having some tools.
Speaker 4: And it's a process that you have to trust. It
Speaker 4: doesn't happen overnight. But when you're willing it can be
Speaker 4: less static. If you're fighting it, it can be a
Speaker 4: little more difficult and take a little longer.
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, And you can apply this to family, You
Speaker 3: can apply this to business. You could have oh yeah, right,
Speaker 3: you can apply this to every aspect of life. And
Speaker 3: I want to ask you this last question. First of all,
Speaker 3: thank you for today, thank you for joining me. We're
Speaker 3: going to do many more of these. I just want
Speaker 3: people to know I always have talking to you. It's
Speaker 3: so cool. And by the way, you should really work
Speaker 3: with Caitlin Clark. I'm telling you she needs to change
Speaker 3: her club. Okay, don't email me on that people. How
Speaker 3: do people find out more about you? And what's your
Speaker 3: closing message? What would you love to leave us with today?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean all of my work is on a
Speaker 4: tune guidance dot com and you can go on there
Speaker 4: and receive whatever you need to receive, right to just
Speaker 4: read through the website and read through whatever pages and
Speaker 4: the courses are lifetime. They're at your own pace. You
Speaker 4: can do it in five weeks, or you can do
Speaker 4: it in three months or two years, whatever you want
Speaker 4: to do. Nobody's grading you but yourself. When you're in
Speaker 4: my courses, I'm just offering tools to bring into your
Speaker 4: current life, right. And they're very short courses. They're about
Speaker 4: twenty minutes per court per lesson, and they're interactive. They
Speaker 4: have know ideal situations and scenarios in life to kind
Speaker 4: of give you a picture and a vision for those
Speaker 4: that are visual and need a little guidance that way.
Speaker 4: And yeah, my closing message is that you know your
Speaker 4: beautiful soul, Your beautiful heart wants you to connect deeper
Speaker 4: now and it is our birthright. And we're not taught
Speaker 4: this a lot of us. I had the inner knowing
Speaker 4: and I would try to talk to people as a
Speaker 4: kid and they would tell me, I don't know what
Speaker 4: I'm talking about. And so we have enough tools, enough podcast,
Speaker 4: enough books, enough things that we can get curious. And
Speaker 4: when we put out a signal that I want to
Speaker 4: know more about me, not a signal, I want to
Speaker 4: know more about them and try to change them. As
Speaker 4: you noticed with your game, you couldn't change that guy.
Speaker 4: So moved over here, and you're still playing your game, right,
Speaker 4: and he's battling with somebody else on the floor now,
Speaker 4: not with you. Right. And so when we trust that
Speaker 4: the universe will rearrange things in our favor, and the
Speaker 4: right person, the right book, the right podcast will show
Speaker 4: up and you'll feel it. You'll feel it in your
Speaker 4: body and you'll go, wait a minute, what did she say?
Speaker 4: What did he say? What? What was that? That's the
Speaker 4: first step. That's a signal.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm gonna give you a bonus. I had no idea,
Speaker 3: Now I am. I love playing doubles because I love people.
Speaker 3: You know, playing individual sports is very difficult. Every sport
Speaker 3: I've ever played was pretty much with a group or
Speaker 3: a team, softball, whatever, And this is the first sport individually.
Speaker 3: So when I wasn't in New Jersey, almost every weekend,
Speaker 3: almost everything I did was doubles, and I was very
Speaker 3: good at I love playing with different partners. Low and behold,
Speaker 3: what do you think the new club features every Wednesday
Speaker 3: doubles play? Had no idea. It's not listed anywhere. And
Speaker 3: I like to ask for different signs of things. Now
Speaker 3: I don't ask anymore because you said it today. Have
Speaker 3: to trust.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I tell people the first step for me
Speaker 4: is to get curious for something new in your life,
Speaker 4: something different, Right, That's the first step. The second step
Speaker 4: is to work on your belief system and start asking
Speaker 4: the questions, get curious, and then when you start getting
Speaker 4: a few signs that works on your belief system. Once
Speaker 4: you start to believe. If the veil is lifted and
Speaker 4: you see that you had four options in front of you,
Speaker 4: not one, they're unlimited, right, And when you close those trajectories,
Speaker 4: three more will open automatically. And then you get to
Speaker 4: the knowing. And when you know what's right for you, you
Speaker 4: don't need to explain it, you don't need to argue it.
Speaker 4: There's no anger, there's no fear, there's no doubt. I
Speaker 4: go and people will either agree with you or not,
Speaker 4: and either way it doesn't matter, because you must honor
Speaker 4: thyself and the only way to honor thyself is to
Speaker 4: get to know thyself.
Speaker 3: First, Freddie, thank you so much for today, and for
Speaker 3: those of you out there. Brenda and I are doing
Speaker 3: an entire series, So this is an introduction, so much
Speaker 3: more to come. And if you heard something today, if
Speaker 3: there's an area of your life like me. It doesn't
Speaker 3: matter what it is, because Brenda Lee has helped me
Speaker 3: on many other things, but we just haven't talked about
Speaker 3: this one. Today. This is the time where you don't
Speaker 3: have to wait to get help, and if you're somebody
Speaker 3: like me who waited forty years to do that, please
Speaker 3: don't follow in my footsteps.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, kiddy right, we're going to talk about that too.
Speaker 3: Thank you all for tuning us in turning us on
Speaker 3: Brenda Lee. Thank you, Emily, thank you, and you are
Speaker 3: the best audience on the planet. We'll see you next time.
Speaker 5: Thanks the.
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