Speaker 1: I made a decision.
Speaker 2: Pace sunny sound on ahead of vision.
Speaker 3: It's nice, lovely everybody, all our loved ones, welcome to
for crying out loud to our Friday show. We got
lots to talk about, things to tell you about. Uh,
some crazy stories. What's up, Stephanie.
Speaker 1: We were just saying before I hit record, we're still
we're still on zoom but were we can see each other.
It's fine, it's all fine, it's good. In case you're
noticing that the sound is slightly different, though that it's
because we are on online, but that's because we had
some studio issues. They should be worked out by next week,
like for real, for real, for real. But we were
just saying before we hit record about Savannah Guthrie came
back on air.
Speaker 3: Yeah she well, now it's Friday, it's probably old news,
but yeah, she came back on air on Monday.
Speaker 1: She wore a yellow dress. Yellow as like the symbol
of bringing them home.
Speaker 3: I guess, oh and yeah, and also today it's probably
old news by down but like, yeah, TMZ got a
ransom another ransom note for half a bitcoin.
Speaker 1: I don't know. The whole thing is freaking strange, Like.
Speaker 3: Did you see the interview with Hoda copy, No, it's Savannah.
Speaker 1: Oh it was on dateline a couple of weeks ago.
Oh no, I didn't shit.
Speaker 3: Hoda sat with Savannah and like Hoda was crying, and
I've heard that they don't get along.
Speaker 1: I don't know it's true or not, but it's like,
where is the lady? Like, just like, how come.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't like the sheriff. I think
the sheriff is shady. I'll say that he's got he's
got a past that people dug up.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. It's all very strange. So what
do you mean, do you think it could be like
some kind of an inside job? Well, I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's just weird that they didn't like, they didn't do
any they didn't they In the interview, Savannah said she
did believe that one or two of the ransom notes
were real.
Speaker 1: Okay, then why didn't you pay?
Speaker 3: And Uh, it just it's the fact that there was
never like press conferences or updates on what's going on,
the fact that the sheriff didn't want the FBI involved,
that he said, like evidence to a lab in Florida
when they could have said they wanted it sent to
you know quant quant you know the.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well what.
Speaker 3: Quantico Yeah Quantico Yeah, I think so, I say, anyway,
it's just like, I don't know, it's kind of it's
kind of shady.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 3: But I mean, Savannah's pain is real, but it's just
not getting any updates or any like leads or anything.
It's just bizarre. But but I will say something I've
been watching that really warms my heart. It's it's I
think it's autism aware mins a month right now, I'm
pretty sure.
Speaker 1: And uh, Love on the.
Speaker 3: Spectrum came back so good, so good you did you
watch it?
Speaker 1: And watch Yeah, I'm like two episodes in. I freaking
am now in love. I love Connor. Connor, he was
my boy. I still love him, and I love this
new kid.
Speaker 3: They got Logan who went on a date with that
with the girl. Yeah he's got glasses, right, is no?
Logan is the black He's like.
Speaker 1: Oh that was yes, and he wants to he wants a.
Speaker 3: Girl with curly straight but then he went on a
date with girls straight hair and he like fell in
love with her. I mean it is so heartwarming. I
just it makes me laugh. It's really cute. It's such
a great hill. Everybody needs to watch it.
Speaker 1: You know what I love about that guy Logan is
so sometimes I feel that love on the spectrum can
infantilize them a little bit because you know that some
of the people they pick do come off sort of
young young, right, Yeah, But Logan is really funny because
he's kind of a dick like he and he's not
meaning to be because he doesn't mean to be. He's
on the spectrum very serious, but he's very serious. Yeah,
and he has like really no filter, so he just
says stuff and when he's talking to his sister, it's
just really funny sometimes because I can't remember what the
examples are, but sometimes he says stuff that's just like okay,
that was kind of dicky, and she'll be like, oh okay,
good feedback, thank you. Like, yeah, you're to deal with
him because he doesn't and he's not trying to be ans,
but he's kind of an like he's kind of an unfilter.
He's pretty blunt. Yeah, he's pretty blunt, which I love
that about it.
Speaker 3: Just like he's just certain things like he was spraying
his like mouth spray in his mouth, like because he
was gonna kiss his date, and he kept spraying and
spraying and spraying, and then he stopped and he's like
my mouth burning right now, just like he's just blurt.
It's so cute. It's just I just love it. It's
a really cute show. Yeah, very the other Yeah, I
don't want to spoil it, because I did, like I
fast forward through some of the stories. But then I
got to the end, and the end was a great
last episode. They all came together for an engagement party,
which was really cute. Oh yeah, I don't want to
spoil it. I think it's really cu Yeah, yeah, I
know who you're talking about. Yeah, and then like, yeah,
we won't to spoil it.
Speaker 1: Hmm. But he does loves what he loves ren Fair.
Oh Connor does no, I know. I think the one
that we're talking about.
Speaker 3: The one that I fast forward, yes, with the curly
long hair, Yes, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: And his parents are like gotta mean to him too.
I think I know they're like trying to kick him
out of the house. Yeah.
Speaker 3: And then like, I don't know, I just there's someone
that I love following their stories, like Connor, I get
to like him and watch him and it's really cute
and it opens up like he's still with.
Speaker 1: What's her name that he was with last year? Oh,
what's her name? Georgia? Is it Georgie Georgia?
Speaker 3: Ye? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And they're really cute together.
So yeah, you got to watch the whole thing. There's
some twists and turns. I love Connor's mom too. I
feel like I love I had a kid on the spectrum.
I think I would be like I would be.
Speaker 1: Like her, you would, yes, like she seems a cheerleader,
but she tries to be realistic with him, but you know.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's funny because they they were in the hotel together.
He was with his mom and he was sitting on
the bed. They were talking and Connor kept getting distracted
by noise and he's like, what is all that banging?
What's that noise? He's like, are they doing construction? And
then his mom goes or they could be doing something else.
We are in a hotel, you know, and he's like
at first he didn't get it, and then he's like,
oh good god. He's like mother, you know, like she's
not afraid to like, you know, he's old you know
he's like in his twenties. Yeah, it's cute. Yeah, she's
a great mom. Yeah, everybody loves her.
Speaker 1: Speaking of great moms, or did you have something you
were going to tell me? No, no, no, because this might
be a good time for this threads thing that I
found that was making me laugh. Yes, Okay, So I
was reading this morning. I woke up. This is lately,
I'm having some trouble sleeping. I'm having trouble staying asleep.
I've gotten past the staying asleep, but now I'm having
trouble i wake up Like this morning, I woke up
at five am and I could knock it back to sleep.
And I've been very entertained lately by threads. So I
found this, and I don't know why they come up.
These are not necessarily people I'm following, but this thread
came up. Okay, I'm going to read it to you. Okay.
The person's name is a line with Niki and okay, okay,
hold on. Okay. So here's the thread. How it starts.
She goes a story of how subtle boundaries are. I
called my mom to check in about easter plans. When
she told me, she grabbed a chocolate bunny from the
dollar store for my son. I gently suggested she check
on whether or not it had actual chocolate in it.
I'd grabbed a cheap bunny only to discover it had
no real chocolate in it and tasted inedible. I know
my son would prefer nobunny over that fake stuff. Her
response was, don't teach him to be snobbish about that stuff.
Whatever he gets is good enough. It wasn't a joke.
My immediate thought was are we not allowed to have
any boundaries at all? I didn't say this out loud.
There is a very big difference between I know you
like A, but all we have is B, and A
is bad. You're only allowed to like B. It's a
skill to be aware of small wants, to define small
things you do and don't want, even if you can't
have them. If you were taught that the smallest boundary
is unacceptable, then what are the chances you developed any
large boundaries? The chances you are clearly aware of any
large senses of preference? This, I feel, is why so
many of us are lost. And then the last one
of this threat is note I'm not bashing on my parent,
I just speak insights from small personal moments. I am
well aware that my dear mother was never allowed to
hold boundaries or nose, and so that's naturally mirrored in
our conversation. Okay, what the fuck the line with Nikki?
Shut up what she talking about? How about let your
mom buy your fucking kid a bunny at the dollar
store and move the fuck on, or buy him other chocolate.
If you think he's not gonna like it. Oh my god,
you can't possibly have your son taste have a lick
of a bunny that is not real chocolate, and it's inedible.
By the way, I've got chocolate from the Dollar Store
and it's fine, exactly. That's gonna say, tastes like any
other chocolate. So this person, this person writes as a
vegan who receives a gift card to Texas Roadhouse from
her mom every year. I say, let it go. She
thought of your kid and got them something, and she
didn't have to. It might be the only store she
could go to, or her budget might be tight. It's
not worth the friction. And then this person says, we
confuse expectations and boundaries. You can have an expectation that
your mom will respect your preferences, but that's not a boundary.
A boundary is your action. In this case, it may
be that you choose not to allow your son to
eat fake chocolate bunnies, but that doesn't mean that your
mom can't buy them, or that she's not honoring your boundary.
So this woman, this woman is just a fucking nightmare.
She's like, I think the distinction we're having trouble with
here is an external boundary versus an internal boundary. Your
internal boundary is around the sense of who you are.
Shame pushes against that and says it shouldn't be there.
It could be a benign example like this one, or
it could be quite serious. It's in you can't be
the way you are. You have to be someone who
agrees with what I want. Perhaps there's a different word
than boundary. That's the best fitting one I had. And
then this person's like, just to be clear, the boundary
here is your kid only eating real chocolate? What? And
she goes no, The boundary is whether or not you
are allowed to openly have a preference. Oh my god, yeah,
I wonder how old she is? Is she a millennial?
Speaker 3: I'm sure that how they talk, Yes, their boundaries and
like it's so it's so ridiculous.
Speaker 1: Yeah, move on, like let your mom buy your kid, Like,
I mean, some kids don't even have grandmothers. I know. Okay,
so wait so uh I have to. So then she says,
she goes like this, whoa, this is a separate thread. Okay.
So a lot of people were like, girl, stop with that,
like that's crazy that your mom buy whatever chocolate stuff.
Trying to control everybody, So she goes like, righte whoa.
People are super angry about my son not wanting fake
chocolate and being super vile in another thread about it.
I guess because they thought it was my choice, not his.
I keep blocking them, but like, would they be such
jerks directly to him, I hope not. Okay, First of all,
he is not the one on fucking threads going I'm
not going to eat any fake ass chocolate. I hope
my grandma doesn't buy me any, because I'm just gonna
throw it in her face. Right, nobody to your kid.
They're telling you that you're being a fucking idiot. You're ridiculous,
right right.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I thought you said you were coming
across that.
Speaker 1: That's great, that's what I found, and then I just
went down a rabbit. I was reading all the responses
and I was like, is and you know, some people
were like, oh my god, you are not alone. That
is just terrible, Like you are allowed to boundaries? What's
the boundary? Oh my god. People don't have real problems
in this world, right, Like if that's your biggest concern
is that you're the grandmother of your kid, and like
you said, our kids don't have grandma's so like, guess
what the appreciative of that? You have a woman who
wants to celebrate Easter with your child and you're gonna
be like, no, thank you on the dollar, Like, no
fake chocolate here. That's my boundary. You're not respecting my boundaries.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: It kind of reminds me of the Amanda on Beverly
Hills Housewives. I was trying to do a little of
that voice.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, Like with Amanda, she uses these certain terms
that make her sound ridiculous. Yeah. I want to stick
up for her sometimes because I feel like they're being mean.
They're like they're being very mean girl.
Speaker 1: Especially like uh bows, Like I'm disappointed in her. You know,
she's like this, she's so.
Speaker 3: Much above Amanda, like she's this high powered executive, powerful
woman like intelligence.
Speaker 1: She was great last season, she was a new girl
last season.
Speaker 3: Like, how about give the new girl the next season
that you're on a break, why are you piling on her?
Speaker 1: In Connor Pinocchio and shit, you know I agree with
you one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: Right, and then Amanda like so you want to stick
up for Amanda, but then she sends stupid shit like
she goes on and on and on about her fucking
work and about her new book she's gonna write, and
all the people online and how much money she's making,
you know, and then she says like I feel I
don't remember what she said in Italy, but like I.
Speaker 3: Feel emotionally unsafe. Yeah, that's right, emotionally unsafe, and Kyle addressedic.
I was like, well, she's a millennial. Maybe you know,
that's how they talk. Yeah, whatever, So sometimes you want
to back in her, but the other times you're like,
you know, telling these girls the fucking back off, Like
why are you googling her? And then comparing your resume
to her resume anyway kind of reminded me of that.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, completely, I was, Yeah, I was hearing that.
Do you agree with me about? Like I one hundred
percent agree with you. Yes, I think that, Amana. I
go back and forth too, because sometimes I'm like, oh
my god, she's insufferable. I can't listen to her talked.
It's so grating. But then I'm like, bo's knock it off,
Like yeah, leading the charge of being mean and you're
better than that, right, you're better than that. Yeah, And
again she was a neat.
Speaker 3: She was a new girl, like you know what it's
like to be the new girl, Like, I don't know
why you're like piling on this. You know, she's not
She's not I don't know's she's not a threat to anybody.
I know she's probably annoying as fuck to all of them.
I get that, but like again, like back off. But anyway, Yeah,
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Speaker 3: One thing though, I wanted to say, Hm Lake Lively
case gut it justin Maldoni. Yes, how about that? How
about them apples Bach? That was a good surprise last week. Yeah,
when is that going to happen?
Speaker 1: Is that lake? Later this month in May? They have
the court date. And now it's just this. They're just
going off of the three complaints and it's basically about, uh,
I guess a smear campaign. Right. They took all the
sexual uh.
Speaker 3: All the sexual harassment, and the judge kind of said, listen,
you know if she if you were working in an
in an office environment and your partner or your coworker
came up to you and was nuzzling his face in
your neck or.
Speaker 1: Saying these things to you.
Speaker 3: Okay, but you're on a movie set, like he put
it in context like that wasn't justin doing those things
to you?
Speaker 1: That was whatever his character's name in the movie. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So yeah, and now she's saying like she came out
she made a like statement saying like, yes, the heart
it's this is the heart of the case is the
smear campaign and online bullying, and online bullying's got to stop.
Speaker 1: Well do you remember when Ryan Reynolds hired uh Gwen?
Speaker 3: She said what's her name? That used to be married
to Coldplay. What's her name? The goop? Ryan Reynolds hired
Gwyneth Paltrow to do like some ad for that company,
the astronomy, the astro company or whatever that the CEO
worked for during the Coldplay incident scandal, so like bullied
that they'll them like, you're a fucking bully. You're Ryan
Rounds the bully. And she's like, oh, you know, I'm
doing this for everybody that gets bullied online or whatever.
He'll fuck yourself. I'm so happy that her case was gutted. Right,
I agree again, we're in agreement about this. Yeah, go
fuck yourself back lively, Yeah yeah, yeah. So so we.
Speaker 1: Saw so many, so much stuff like when he put
out the raw footage of that scene that she was
complaining about where she didn't want to kiss him, you know,
and she's like, I don't think we should kiss, like
I think that it will be sexier if it's like
we just almost kiss, and you know what he says,
He goes, okay, exactly. He doesn't go like, ah okay,
but let's just try it my way too, like a creep.
He never says that he is. You see the whole
thing he shows all the footage, all the footage, the
unedited footage, the whole time. It's just like he literally
just goes okay. Yeah, he appeased her throughout the whole
and then they're like it's supposed to be sexy and
flirty because they're supposed to be lovers. So he's like
holding her and he does kind of nuzzle her neck
or whatever because they're supposed to seem like there. She
can't stay away from this guy, yeah, even though he
becomes kind of abusive. So that's the whole point of
the fucking movie. So what do you want to just
eliminate all? Like you guys are just friends. Like it's
just as it doesn't make sense.
Speaker 3: And also the studio was giving them notes saying hey,
like come on, use it up, like this is not
a PG movie, this is R rated, Like let's see
some more sexy scenes. Like they asked for it, right,
you know. She just she wanted, she wanted to take
over the right to the movie and push him out,
and she thought she could and she didn't.
Speaker 1: She couldn't, and he stood up to her. And I'm
happy that the little guy won. So on the most part, yeah,
I agree with you. Do you want me to tell you? Yes? Please?
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, listen, this is great step. I don't know
how this happens to me, and maybe I'm the common denominator.
I don't know, but a crazy thing happened to me
just this morning. I have just gotten back into being
able to go for a long walk, and I took
Bob for a walk this morning. Now I've taken him
for many walks, especially when we first got him without incident. Okay,
And I'm gonna I'm gonna say this, And I think
I told I think I told you this on the
podcast already. Did I tell you that John has been
getting like really mad at some of our neighbors because
some people are letting their little dogs run around with
no leash. Yeah, And that one of the dogs was
chased Bob and that he got away. I told you
this story last week, right, he got away and he
ran home. Okay, So whatever, this is neighborhood stuff, and
I guess it's you know, I guess it comes with
the territory. But this morning I was on a walk
with Bob and near my house there's this there's a
park and part of the park has this area that
is super overgrown like it is, nobody would ever walk
Nobody would ever walk there. It's all like you wouldn't
walk in there because it's all foxtails and they come
up like to your middle of your thigh. It's very
overgrown area. And a lot of times you might even
hear in the news sometimes there's like brush fires over there.
It's just it's not somewhere you would let your dogs run. Now,
a little bit further north there's soccer fields all that's
where all the people bring their dogs. And then along
the way there's all these little grassy areas and blah
blah blah. Well, we come into the park from an
area that is not trafficked much, and Bob goes to
take a poop in just inside the like overgrown little area.
I'm holding it away. Is very nice of him. He's
taking his poop off the beaten back. He's so sweet
that way. He's very, very very ferate, he really is.
So he's he goes to poop, he's mid squat. Okay,
just try to picture in your mind a dog with
its back curved having a dump. I'm standing there holding
the leash now on my leash I have a bat.
Like all my poop bags, they're in a little attachment
on the leash. Very responsible dog owner here, you know
this about me. I don't think I've ever in the
history of having dogs not picked up poop after the dogs.
And this was gonna be no exception, even though he
was pooping in an area that like probably don't need
to pick it up. But I had my hand on
the bag attachment. Okay, I'm talking on the phone too
to my friend Cecily as he's pooping mid poop. Okay,
it's not like he finished pooping. And then it looked
like we were going to walk away. A crazy lady.
Now you got to imagine this lady. She's carrying two
hand weights. She also has like a bag with her,
but also like a floppy hat and big oversized sunglasses.
She looks crazy as it is. Right, she stops and
she goes, you're gonna need to you need to pick
up that poop. And I was stunned that she was
talking to me for one thing, I mean, came on aggressive.
Speaker 3: So I was like, you, Stephanie, why is this sefane weird?
It's so, I don't know, maybe because you're at a
public area. It's not your neighbor's neighbors. But like, why
you why with the crazy lady? She weights in her hands,
looking for a fight. She's looking for a fight.
Speaker 1: I said, my dog is still pooping, and she goes
so she starts yell at me. Well I raised my
voice too, because like, who the fuck are you talking to?
It's none of your business. First of all, it's none
of your business. Second of all, if I do or
don't pick up the poop, it's really not your concern.
It's in an overgrown area. I was going to pick
up the poop. Spoiler alert, I did not pick up
the poop. But because what So She's like, you need
to pick up the poop. It's the law. And I
was like, well, I was about to pick up the poop.
You see my hand as on the fucking poop bag.
Now I'm talking to her. This is live, this is
the how I'm And I go, guess what, now I'm
not going to pick up the poop. How do you
like that? So she's I mean, I still got it?
Speaker 3: Classic?
Speaker 4: Yes, you still got that is classics.
Speaker 1: I can can't get mad. I love that. I don't
know what came over me. But I'm on the phone
with my friend too, and she's like, wait a minute,
is this really happening? She goes, are you joking? And
I go, no, there's a crazy lady who is yelling
at me right now and telling me I got it,
like screaming at me to pick up poop. It's the law.
And I so I was like, and now I'm not
going to So I'm saying this on the phone, and
she was like, you have to pick You're gonna pick
it up. And then she starts filming me, okay, and
I'm like, oh oh, I go, oh, you're gonna film me.
I go, what are you gonna do? Like turn it
into the police. She goes, I'm gonna put it on YouTube.
You're gonna you're gonna be on YouTube? And I was like,
I was, I go walk off, I go have at it.
I go have have at it. Put me on YouTube.
I'm sure go think it. Oh my god, on YouTube?
What if you got a channel of people that don't
pick up dog poop? I mean, welcome back to poop
chat with this fucking crazy lady. What I was I
didn't even have time. I didn't even have time for
my adrenaline. Like I didn't even get that mad because
I was like, oh my god, like, you're just like
a crazy person who's going to film me for YouTube?
And what what is going to be like? Is somebody
going to be like it's first of all, we weren't
on a sidewalk. We weren't on any even grassy area.
We were off, we were in Like, nobody is going
to be like, are you kidding me? Somebody's going to
get poop on their foot? That this right? It was indeed,
like in the bushes a fox, it was going to
be overkill for me to pick up the poop, even
though I was about to do it. Like I said,
I had my hand on the poop bags, so she
didn't need it. Was just it was insanity. And it's
funny because I think I recently told you that when
I first got Penelope. Oh no, maybe I was telling
my other neighbor that the one thing about having a
girl dog is they squat to pee. And I said,
when I first got her, she was squatted to pee,
and some lady started yelling at me that I had
to pick up the poop, and I was like, my
dog's peeing, Like what the fuck that ten years ago.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my gosh, oh my gosh, you do still
have it.
Speaker 1: That is frickin amazing, Like what could she just smell
it on me that that? I was like, uh, I
am just not your target, lady, Like you picked the
wrong person, Like you didn't expect me to start screaming
back at you, but I did. I hope she posts
that video. I'd love to see it. Oh my god,
I see it.
Speaker 3: Yes, that would be so maybe you would like start
like filming her back or something.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm holding though the dog leash and I've
got like my phone in my hand, and I'm trying
to talk, and I was like, am I going to start?
Like I could film her filming me and then we
could have a bad But in my mind really quickly,
I was like, this is not even that, Like it's
not even worth the footage, do you know what I mean?
I was like, then we're going to be two people
filming each other in a park, like we're both gonna
look crazy. I was like, let her just be the
crazy person filming me crazy poop poop stand off and
it would be almost look crazier if I was like, well, yeah,
pulling out my phone, bitch. I felt it like it
would almost seem like, I don't know, hurr craziness. Yeah,
that's great. Oh man. I was like, I like yelled
at somebody in many years, right right, yeah?
Speaker 3: Wow, I mean that was definitely warranting, fucking fuck off.
Speaker 1: I'm now not picking out the dog.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, well, now I'm not going to. So
I come in the house and I'm all still flustered,
and I go to tell John the story and I
say and then I said, well, now I'm not picking
it up. And John looked like I shot him with
a bb gun Like he just went like, oh no,
And I was like, oh, I'm not you too. I
was like, it didn't matter. It was the principle of it.
The principle of the fact was I was not going
to be giving her the satisfaction of like, you're not
going to yell at somebody shame me into doing something,
and then I'm going to go like, Okay, I'm going
to pick it up. Now watch me picking it up.
Look off, right now, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: You just ruined any chance of me picking it up,
which I was going to do, which I had told her,
I said, I was about to do it. He's still pooping,
he's mid woop. Yeah, how would you mind somebody to
reach in while you're pooping and start cleaning up your poop?
Oh my god?
Speaker 3: No, what does she?
Speaker 1: I mean?
Speaker 3: What is it with people that feel the need to
police other people like that on the streets? Like, mind
your fucking business. There's so many crazy people out there.
You could have like pulled a knife or ship or something,
and you know who knows, Like, shut up, mind your business.
Walk through the park with your stupid weights, your little
power walk with your floppy at anyway.
Speaker 1: Shouldn't you beat a mall with that bullshit with your
power walking? Yes? Exactly, stupid. Yeah, that's hilarious. What's aunt?
Did you kind of a little bit enjoy on Real
Housewives though? Them pulling out the sea word and all
like breaking. I loved it. I loved it. And Erica
is like, listen, bitch, I brought that word around here.
Don't act like you own it. Oh my dad, it
was great. Erica used to have a necklace that said cunt.
Remember that? Yeah she did? Yeah she did, Yeah she
was I said, still my thunder, I'm the cunt.
Speaker 3: Person, right right, Yeah, they said it so many times,
so many times.
Speaker 1: I just can't stand or read. I really I really
can't stand her, I know, but now I can't like
any of them. So you know, I cover this show
on Rose Pricks, right, but it's really hard because like
I used to like Kyle, but now I also don't
like Kyle. Now Kyle's being really well, I feel like
Kyle's what you can dislike dereat and I do. I
really don't like to Eat at all. And I think
she's very annoying.
Speaker 3: She's super narcissistic, she's has financial issues that are not
allowed to be a storyline, all the stuff. Don't like her,
but like Kyle constantly talking about her behind her back
to every single other person, I am on to Eat side,
where she's like, what are you doing? Like you're gonna
try to get everybody on your.
Speaker 1: Side but not me. You just won't come to me
and say, hey, yeah, I don't think you're erotic, and
also using words like erratic that might make it seem
like she's like bipolar or something to try to have
like a claim. You know it's clear you're on PK side, Okay,
then just be upfront about it.
Speaker 3: Kyle, Yeah, I agree, I agree. I think what's her
name's Rachel said something like that, like she just the
one part is like when you tell somebody like everybody
feels this way about you, it's like not cool, like
you're you know, you're not. You're kind of losing the
argument at that point. Yeah, because that's kind of not true.
Speaker 1: You know, it's like not everybody is agreeing with her,
and they're not. She's no, they're not, no, but they're scared.
They're kind of scared not to because then Erica goes
crazy and starts yelling about it and saying everybody hates
you to eat, and it's then everybody else is just
kind of quiet because they don't want to be They
don't want to catch Erica. Erica, No, you don't want
her coming after you. She's scary.
Speaker 3: That speech she did to Dori was just unbelievable, Like
she hasn't done that in a long time. It's great
to see the old Erica because the show is kind
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brought it. You know, it's just been so lately. They're
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Speaker 1: Yay, yay? What else have you been wanting? Okay, So
I finally watched The Predator of Seville and Dying and
here what you think? Oh my god, that was so crazy.
That was really really crazy. I cannot believe this guy
had so many victims.
Speaker 3: I know, I mean, And it's just the way that
the story came together, how one victim was just damaged
by what he did and didn't she was just depressed
and then went after this guy, decided to go after him.
Speaker 1: Wasn't I mean, wasn't.
Speaker 3: That cool like that that she you know, made it
her mission. And then when she put the word out
she got so many yeah, so many other people that
had happened to why didn't anybody do anything or speak
up before? And he was doing this probably for years
with these college students, you know, basically going on these
college excursions in Spain and you know, basically trying to
rape these girls.
Speaker 1: And he didn't rate them. He was a rape. He
was drugging them and raping them, multiple tons of them.
And then they weren't They weren't really speaking up though
for each other. That was the one thing that I
did not like was during the trial member one of
the friends, she was like yeah, and then he came
in the bathroom and the friends I got I don't
really remember that. I know they kind of turned on her. Yeah,
that bothered the shit out of me.
Speaker 3: Yes, at the end when both of them both said
something like one of them was like she had like
liked him or she wanted to like hook.
Speaker 1: Up with him or something, she said, yeah, she was
talking about how she wanted to hook up with.
Speaker 3: Right, Like, why are you saying that if you're going
to be testifying on her behalf shut, why would you
say these things?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: That was really disappointing and I was like on the
edge of my seat, is he going to go to
jail or is he going to get off?
Speaker 1: I mean it was really pretty intense. I felt, yeah,
it sucks though that. I mean, he killed somebody and
they spent an amount of time on that.
Speaker 3: I felt it, right, and they couldn't They couldn't prosecute
him on that. They closed the case on that, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
she he was on the ice Hi I Rise building
and she fell over or so they say, but yeah,
I he's.
Speaker 1: And got away. And remember she had like a point
four alcohol in her blood, which is a coma level
alcohol level in your blood, right ba C Yeah, but alcohol, yeah, whatever,
the girl that died and he had zero zero, right,
because he's up predator. He's a predator.
Speaker 3: He would collect these girls and on vacation and drug
them and pretend he was partying with them, pretend he
was doing shots and drinking beer and whatever with them,
and no alcohol. He was just he was just he
was controlling them. He was trying to he was yeah. Predatory, Yeah,
predatory behavior.
Speaker 1: Speaking of predatory behavior, have you you have not listened
to Love Trapped right?
Speaker 3: You know? I want to listen. Is it is it
out out like can you binge it? Or is it
one episode. Hold on, let me look, let me look
at my phone. There's a lot of episodes out. It's
it's it's worthwhile, let's see. Okay, based on the one play, two, three, four, five, six,
there's six episodes out already.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a lot that Yeah. Yeah, listen, there's seven
episodes out already, and there's gonna be twelve in total.
Although yeah, I don't think they're counting the bonuses. Yeah,
so there's seven episodes plus a bunch of little bonus
content that you can get for free. I'm gonna listen,
so this if you you know the story though, Right,
So Clayton was a he was on the Bachelor, Right,
he was the Bachelor. This guy is like, I don't
wanna he's very he's kind of naive, like when he
was one of the contestants on the Bachelor, he's like
he's kind of like like he's not super bright, but
he seems like a nice guy. You know, he's like
a football player. He was like, yeah, it'd be cool
to be on the Bachelor. Okay, that's my mom's favorite show.
Was his mom's favorite show. He decides to go on
uh and then he whatever, he doesn't get that far,
and I think he was in Michelle's season anyway, So
then they make him the Bachelor.
Speaker 3: He was on Perfect Match too, That's how I see it. Yes, yes, yeah,
he's very do facy. Yeah you will do Fay.
Speaker 1: So when he goes on The Bachelor, the Bachelor, and
he's the Bachelor, he ends up with Final three. He
sleeps with Gabby Wendy and Rachel Rekia in the fantasy suites.
He has sex with both of them, but he really
likes Susie Evans, who's like number three. But then he
tells everybody he's in love with them, So not a
great move, but like and at the time, I remember thinking,
like that really sucks, Like, come on, these guys can't
can't just have sex with the one they want, Like
you have to know a few days before you're gonna
propose which one you want, just have sex with that one.
How difficult does that? But he has sex with all
of them, and then he tells them all he loves them,
and he says he's getting interviewed a lot in this podcast,
and he's like, I don't know, like I thought I
did kind of love them all, so I was just
thought I was being honest, right, which comes back to
play in this podcast. And then he's just like the
most hated bachelor. He's like, it was horrible time for me.
His mental health really like went down the tubes because
he ruined his mom's favorite show, Like she can never
watch that show again.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: He moves to Arizona. He tries to like get restart
his life. He's becoming a real estate agent, and basically
he gets this woman has her sight set on him.
They hook up, but she just gives him a blowjob,
a couple of blowjobs. This is just the setup to
this story. Yeah, and then like eleven days later, she's like,
I'm pregnant, and then she tries to say she's pregnant
with twins. Now, wow, some people are saying, if you
look at Reddit about this, so some people are like,
oh my god, like if he really didn't have sex
with her. Some people don't believe he didn't have sex
with her because they're like, if he really didn't, then
why wouldn't he be like, fuck off, I never had
sex with you, So good luck with that. You know,
it's impossible. Well not so fast, because her whole thing,
she has an answer for everything, and she's like, yeah,
well some of your semen got down there. So then
he starts thinking like did she like hold it in
her mouth and then like go like try to inseminate
herself right right, right right, So like he starts thinking that,
like what the fuck? And I think she said she
didn't want to have sex, but they could like do
everything else. I think the reason why is because he
would have used a condom like if they had sex, right,
and then she wouldn't be able to do this. So
this way she could be like yeah, yeah, like you
don't understand how the female body works. I do. So
we just started getting scared. Plus the fact that he
didn't believe her and was like take a pregnancy test,
and she did, and somehow she snuck like a positive
pregnancy test, and she you know, fucked him over. And
it turns out that she's done this to other guys before,
and she caw crazy, super crazy. Does she really get
pregnant or she was never pregnant? No? And lies are insane.
She goes so far and she has all these crazy
convoluted stories and it ends up going to court and
it's just really juicy.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, this girl is psychotic. I can't wait
to listen to it. So she sounds kind of like Scamanda,
like yeah, and she's done it before.
Speaker 1: Yes, but she The thing is that she really wants
to date him, and the whole reason she wants to
date him is because he was the bachelor. Like she's
just this weird. So she keeps telling him, well, we
can talk about me having an abortion, but only if
you give me a chance and have a relationship with me.
So he's like, oh my god. And then she wants
him to sign a contract saying that he'll give her
a chance for at least two weeks and take her
on dates. Yeah, And he's like, Mike, no, bit, you're crazy. Wow,
and she is. She's like stalking interviewed. She kind of
stalks him. Yeah, she sends him like hundreds and hundreds
of texts. He's like, please stop texting me. But then
she's like, I'm having your baby. No, It's it's so
so crazy. So there is a court footage, like you
hear them in court together and and you're gonna love
the part. It's many episodes in where she gets cross
examined by his lawyer. It's so good. It's like my
favorite podcast. It's called love. It's called Love Trapped, Love Track,
Love Trap to trust me on this, like, go listen
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