1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 1: Made a decision a face sunny sune on. I had 2 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,759 a vision night. 3 00:00:15,279 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 2: What's up, everybody for crying out louds it is Stephanie 4 00:00:20,039 --> 00:00:20,399 missed you. 5 00:00:20,559 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's exciting. I missed you too. Yeah, 6 00:00:23,879 --> 00:00:28,039 I had it. It's like I didn't have therapy, I know, 7 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:32,600 you know, mm hmmm, it's weird. It's a weird feeling. Yeah, 8 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,880 you were. I had no outlet. Yeah, I had to 9 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,280 just keep making notes of things I needed to talk about. 10 00:00:37,359 --> 00:00:42,679 A good So I wasn't here last week, right, and 11 00:00:42,719 --> 00:00:46,399 you partied down with Aunt Wendy. Yeah, and she's still here. 12 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:48,679 But so when did she leave for Canyon Country? 13 00:00:48,719 --> 00:00:54,079 Speaker 2: So she's up by her seisters and her daughters, like, uh, 14 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,880 she left on let's. 15 00:00:56,679 --> 00:00:58,759 Speaker 1: See, when's when you asual? On Monday? 16 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:03,039 Speaker 2: Monday, Tuesday, Tuesday, Wednesday. 17 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,159 Speaker 1: She left, Oh the very next day. God, I can't 18 00:01:06,159 --> 00:01:08,280 even remember Wednesday, Thursday. 19 00:01:08,719 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, she went up there, and she's gonna be up 20 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,719 there for uh a little bit, and then she's helping 21 00:01:16,879 --> 00:01:20,159 her daughter move and then she's gonna come. 22 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,719 Speaker 1: By me for a few more days. Oh she is, Yeah, 23 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,719 and then she goes home. Okay, m h Yeah, that's 24 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:27,719 a long trip. For her. 25 00:01:27,879 --> 00:01:31,519 Speaker 2: It is she hasn't been here since I had my surgery, 26 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:33,799 My my. 27 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: What do you call it? Has the restructed me got 28 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:39,519 a long time ago, it's like two years ago. Oh geez. 29 00:01:39,799 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's been She hasn't been here in a long 30 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,959 time and misses all her family. So she's decided to 31 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,280 spend a long time and then yeah, so then she's 32 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,640 gonna come back and spend a little more time with 33 00:01:51,719 --> 00:01:53,480 my kids and then go home. 34 00:01:54,159 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: Now was it fun to have her? It was so 35 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,079 much fun. You know. 36 00:01:58,519 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: It's it's so nice like when you have family stay 37 00:02:02,239 --> 00:02:03,640 with you and then you had to bring Like she 38 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,879 came with me to work last week and she was 39 00:02:06,879 --> 00:02:08,400 She came with me to the podcast, and she came 40 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,560 with me to Corolla drink stuff. You know, it's kind 41 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,639 of like bringing your little, you know, sister in law 42 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:15,080 of work. 43 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: It was fun. 44 00:02:16,439 --> 00:02:19,759 Speaker 2: We had a good time. We cooked, She helped me 45 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,919 around the house, you know a little bit of fixing 46 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,240 things up around the house and my condo stuff like that. 47 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: We had a great time. She like it. Does she 48 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,560 like your condo? She loves it? Yeah, she loves it. 49 00:02:31,599 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: And gave me some great ideas things I didn't know 50 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,599 like you could buy an extra rod or whatever. You 51 00:02:37,599 --> 00:02:39,159 don't have to get a double rod to get the 52 00:02:39,199 --> 00:02:43,439 two to get the shears and for your window treatments. 53 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,560 M I didn't know that they sell something and you 54 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,919 don't have to do the double rod thing ordered that. 55 00:02:50,039 --> 00:02:52,360 Like just little things like that that I needed around 56 00:02:52,439 --> 00:02:55,960 around the house and cooked and stuff and like you know, 57 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,199 like help me get like spices and shiit like for 58 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,240 the cond you know, just stuff that I didn't have, right, 59 00:03:01,439 --> 00:03:03,000 you know, we're cooking and she's like, do you have 60 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,840 pepper flakes? And I'm like, no, I got salt and 61 00:03:06,879 --> 00:03:11,319 pepper and that's it. That kind of shit we. 62 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,439 Speaker 1: We you and I would I mean, I don't know 63 00:03:14,439 --> 00:03:16,639 if the word like cancel each other out, we would 64 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,840 just overlap too much. We'd both be like pepper flake, right. 65 00:03:20,159 --> 00:03:22,879 I never heard of somebody buying those, right, I mean 66 00:03:23,159 --> 00:03:24,879 if you go get like a slice of pizza, you 67 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,280 them sprinkle them on your slice. Yeah, Like, yeah, nobody 68 00:03:29,319 --> 00:03:30,639 buys us in the store. 69 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I didn't know you got to have 70 00:03:33,199 --> 00:03:36,800 pepper flakes, but yeah, like. 71 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: It was ever since ocean and beauty throughout all your 72 00:03:41,319 --> 00:03:43,800 ever since desire throughout all of your spices. 73 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 2: Yes, she's still knocking around that woman. By the way, 74 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,639 did you know I get emails from from her business? 75 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:51,039 Speaker 1: Really? 76 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, wants to come organize people's kitchens. 77 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:59,639 Speaker 1: Why I've got so many bigger fish to fry and 78 00:03:59,719 --> 00:04:03,360 that right. Yeah, she threw out all my spices. Yeah, 79 00:04:03,439 --> 00:04:07,759 to start over. So so you miss a little, you 80 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,840 miss a lot. First first story I have up for you, 81 00:04:11,719 --> 00:04:15,719 bullet in the chamber. Yeah, my dog attacked my mailman. 82 00:04:16,199 --> 00:04:21,120 What has Phil ever attacked anybody? Please? Phil? I mean, 83 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,240 give me a break. Does he bark at the mailman? 84 00:04:23,399 --> 00:04:25,879 Speaker 2: No, your box, at nobody except for Adam. He's the 85 00:04:25,879 --> 00:04:28,319 only person that he barks at. Because when Adam is 86 00:04:28,879 --> 00:04:31,639 like shadow boxing, Phil gets all up at Ea and 87 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,639 starts wanting to play with him and starts barking at him. 88 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: But that's just for attention, that's yeah. Well, people, is 89 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,319 one of the sweetest dogs you're ever gonna meet. Like 90 00:04:41,399 --> 00:04:44,519 when we're in the neighborhood. I mean, people can just 91 00:04:44,639 --> 00:04:47,480 walk right up to her because you know how kids are, 92 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,879 They oftentimes forget to say I put your dog, and 93 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,879 they just pet your dog, and people loves it. She's 94 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,959 like the biggest attention hop She just will walk up 95 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,800 to anybody, anybody that comes in the house. She's just like, 96 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,560 she's not crazy, she doesn't jump on anybody, but she 97 00:05:01,639 --> 00:05:07,560 just wants attention from everybody. Even the Dominoes food delivery. Fine, 98 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,160 if you open the door and food delivery is there, 99 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,079 she's like, hey, what's up. You got some pizza from me? 100 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:18,800 The mailman every single time, she loses her mind and 101 00:05:18,959 --> 00:05:23,000 barks ferociously at the door, and she'll get up from 102 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:26,000 a sound sleep, even if the postman's trying to be quiet, 103 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:30,560 like tiptoe up to the front door, she her ears 104 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,600 pick it up and she goes tear asked by the 105 00:05:33,639 --> 00:05:38,839 front door. Well, anyway, Halloween, door is open because the 106 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,160 kids were sitting outside on the lawn cleaning out a pumpkin, right, 107 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,920 and the postman came and I didn't see it. I 108 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,199 didn't see the postman coming. So I'm in my room, 109 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:51,519 which is our addition, which is like hard to get. 110 00:05:52,079 --> 00:05:55,839 I mean, our house is now so huge. It's not 111 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,839 that big, but it's like you have to walk into 112 00:05:58,879 --> 00:06:01,319 the front door, walk to the kitchen, and then from 113 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,240 the kitchen go down a couple stairs and then you're 114 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,920 in my little edition. Okay. So but there's a window 115 00:06:07,439 --> 00:06:10,560 from my room, I can see that outside, and I 116 00:06:10,639 --> 00:06:15,959 see the postman freaking out. I hear Penelope barking, and 117 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,160 then I see the postman going no, oh Jesus, and 118 00:06:19,759 --> 00:06:23,519 I'm like, oh my god, but I have to now 119 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,959 tear ass up the stairs, out through the kitchen, go 120 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:29,519 out the front door. And I'm like, how are me? No, 121 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:34,560 Oh my god. She was going after the mail mail 122 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:40,439 and the mailman was like going crazy, and I thought 123 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:44,279 Penelope was gonna get mazed, which I wouldn't have blamed him. Yeah, 124 00:06:44,319 --> 00:06:46,360 I would have mazed my dog too had I been 125 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,279 getting attacked. But he didn't, I mean he and he 126 00:06:49,439 --> 00:06:52,600 was not happy. Well, she like, so she didn't actually 127 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,199 bite him. So I was freaking out and I was like, 128 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,920 oh my god, did she bite you? And he's like 129 00:06:57,959 --> 00:07:01,319 she tried to. She almost, but I was swatting at 130 00:07:01,319 --> 00:07:07,399 her and he was. He was upset. Imagine being a 131 00:07:07,439 --> 00:07:10,199 postman and like every freaking house you gotta worry you 132 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,680 hear dogs going crazy like that, would my you would 133 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,360 have such bad PTSD. And I'm sure he's been attacked before. 134 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,920 And by the way, this isn't the first time Penelope 135 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,439 tried to attack the mailment. There was one other incident 136 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,560 a couple of years ago. But he was very quick 137 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,160 to remind me of that. He was like, this is 138 00:07:26,199 --> 00:07:30,680 not the first time. He was like, I know, I 139 00:07:30,759 --> 00:07:32,600 know that, and I'm in my mind, I'm like, oh 140 00:07:32,639 --> 00:07:35,519 my god, this guy's gonna assume me. But she hadn't 141 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,160 bitten him, right, So I was like, but but she 142 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,360 didn't buy you, and he was like no, but she 143 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,639 tried to. And I'm like, man, I got that, but 144 00:07:43,079 --> 00:07:47,160 she by you. He's like I was, she would have 145 00:07:47,319 --> 00:07:50,360 if I wasn't swatting her. And then, you know, I 146 00:07:50,519 --> 00:07:54,680 was really upset. I hit Penelope like on the butt. 147 00:07:54,839 --> 00:07:57,639 I was like no, you know because and I grabbed 148 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,519 her by the collar and I pulled her back into 149 00:07:59,519 --> 00:08:03,560 the house. And then she was really like solicitous of 150 00:08:03,639 --> 00:08:07,560 me after that. You know, they know they do, they 151 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,240 know I know they do. And then she was giving 152 00:08:10,279 --> 00:08:11,720 me those big sad eyes. 153 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:12,079 Speaker 2: Right. 154 00:08:12,519 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: Sorry, I thought there was some confusion, like I thought 155 00:08:17,639 --> 00:08:21,639 that was an enemy, right, and like, no, she's trying 156 00:08:21,639 --> 00:08:25,160 to protect mail. Man's just trying to give me mail. 157 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,800 Maybe if you would like hug and kiss on the mailman. 158 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,759 Maybe she would, you know, then John would try to 159 00:08:32,799 --> 00:08:37,240 attack the mail That's true. Now, it was really scary. 160 00:08:37,399 --> 00:08:43,279 I was my my demise of my dog and my home, 161 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,799 and I was like, I'm gonna get sued. We're gonna 162 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,840 have to I mean, Penelope's gonna get taken away. I 163 00:08:48,879 --> 00:08:51,840 was so scared. Yeah, that's got to be frightened. And 164 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,639 I was like, well, maybe she wouldn't actually bite, but 165 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,480 I don't know. He says she tried to bite. But 166 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:58,559 then in my mind, I'm like, if she wanted to 167 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,399 bite you, she probably would have been right, right, I 168 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:02,559 mean she got to him. 169 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. A lot of dogs are all dogs, 170 00:09:06,279 --> 00:09:09,720 you know, all bark and no bite. Yeah, I would 171 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,679 think that if Penelvie was a bier you would know 172 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:12,279 this by now. 173 00:09:12,639 --> 00:09:15,759 Speaker 1: She has killed a skunk, like I know. She hates cats. 174 00:09:15,879 --> 00:09:17,039 I know she would kill a. 175 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: Cat that's animals like, I don't know, I think, yeah, 176 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:20,960 I think. 177 00:09:21,279 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 1: But dogs, it's so weird how they know when they're 178 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:25,440 in the wrong, you know. 179 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:30,639 Speaker 2: Because Phil will like he's not so when Olga's in 180 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:32,559 the kitchen, he's not allowed. 181 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: In the kitchen. 182 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 2: Okay, when Natali's in the kitchen, not allowed in the kitchen. 183 00:09:37,639 --> 00:09:39,960 When me and Sonny are in the kitchen, it's all 184 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,759 bets are off. He just sprawls right in the middle 185 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:46,159 of the kitchen and it's, you know whatever. He isn't 186 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,879 bothering me, right, okay, But when Olga's there, he does. 187 00:09:50,039 --> 00:09:51,759 She goes that all she has to say is suck 188 00:09:51,799 --> 00:09:54,639 a say, suck a say, which I don't know what 189 00:09:54,759 --> 00:09:57,960 it means. Something in Spanish means basically get the fuck 190 00:09:57,960 --> 00:09:59,200 out of the kitchen or something. 191 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: So well, when he's when I'm in. 192 00:10:02,279 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 2: The kitchen and I'm talking to Olga, and he gets 193 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,279 excited and he sees me, he runs for it, but 194 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:10,039 then he stops. He looks at Olga and he backs 195 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:13,039 up and he lay it like sits down with those 196 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,399 big brown eyes, and he looks at me and looks 197 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,320 at Olga, looks at me and looks at Olga. And 198 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,960 Olga'll be like, I sucker say you know. He stays, 199 00:10:21,279 --> 00:10:24,919 he knows. But when she's not there, miraculously he just 200 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,639 don't give it all that's out the window. Even if 201 00:10:27,639 --> 00:10:31,840 I say sucker say you know, he might go, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 202 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,480 I'm back up for a second and then. 203 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,559 Speaker 1: Go, bitchang, I'm scared to you. 204 00:10:36,159 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 2: Who are you talking? What do you think you're trying 205 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,559 to fool? Yeah, I think you have. 206 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: To have kind of a heart made of steel though, 207 00:10:42,279 --> 00:10:46,200 to properly train a dog, because like, is anybody like 208 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,840 us really gonna stick to it. It's like, I know, and. 209 00:10:49,759 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 2: Wendy, she's so cute, I know, and Wendy will come 210 00:10:53,159 --> 00:10:56,679 into She was like, you know, I've I train Molly 211 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:58,879 when we used to have I'm the one that trained Molly, 212 00:10:58,919 --> 00:11:02,639 and I'll train these dogs need boundaries, Hey crave boundaries. 213 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,480 And I'm like, yeah, yeah, I get it all right, 214 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:09,360 But like any bothering me who cares, But he should 215 00:11:09,399 --> 00:11:11,600 not go He should not be allowed in the kitchen 216 00:11:11,639 --> 00:11:14,200 because he does get into the trash or he'll you know, 217 00:11:14,279 --> 00:11:17,320 jump up on the counter and take food. So you know, 218 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,480 he he does need is I agree, he needs boundaries, but. 219 00:11:23,159 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: That old guy will discipline him. I know. I just 220 00:11:25,759 --> 00:11:28,480 love her so much. I love you, and she likes 221 00:11:28,519 --> 00:11:31,320 to she sleeps on our bed. And remember the days 222 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,320 that we had, like the first six months we had her, 223 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:34,919 we didn't let her on the bed. And then once 224 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,039 we let her on the bed. That was it. And 225 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:38,960 I know we had that dog trainer on and she 226 00:11:39,039 --> 00:11:40,519 was like, once you let the dog on the bed, 227 00:11:40,639 --> 00:11:45,600 like they're they're the alpha. Well yeah, I mean, yeah, yeah, 228 00:11:45,799 --> 00:11:48,759 she's kind of alpha. If John gets up just to 229 00:11:48,759 --> 00:11:51,360 go to the bathroom, she will move from she lays 230 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,399 on the foot of the bed. She will scoot herself 231 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,320 up and take his spot. Yeah, literally put her head 232 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,159 on the pillow, sprawl out like she's about to get 233 00:11:59,159 --> 00:12:08,600 a massage. And I'm like, John will come back, just 234 00:12:08,639 --> 00:12:12,000 go Penelope. Uh huh. When he was out of town, 235 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,559 that's where she's slept. What are you gonna do? 236 00:12:15,799 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 2: I know, Phil sleeps on my bed, you know, but yeah, 237 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,240 I sleep on the bed alone now. So he's he 238 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,080 comes in the morning, he jumps up in the bed, 239 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,399 puts his head on the pillow next to me and 240 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,360 like lays like the person. 241 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know that's what he does. Yeah, and I 242 00:12:31,159 --> 00:12:38,399 love it the best. All right. Next thing that happened, 243 00:12:38,799 --> 00:12:40,879 I hope I don't burn out all my good stories 244 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,399 for we'll have nothing for Friday. But I went to 245 00:12:44,519 --> 00:12:49,720 traffic court. Oh bo I, hey last Thursday. So remember 246 00:12:49,759 --> 00:12:51,720 how I got like a bunch of tickets in a row, 247 00:12:51,919 --> 00:12:56,960 all those traffic uh the traffic signal, photo the photo 248 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,360 tickets is what I'm trying to say. Okay, So I'd 249 00:12:59,399 --> 00:13:02,759 gotten one and one of them, John got one, and 250 00:13:02,799 --> 00:13:05,440 then I got a second one. Okay, So John went 251 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,759 and fought his and uh they remember he got his 252 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,600 dismissed in the interest of justice, remember that whole story. 253 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,840 And then I went with my ticket and I had 254 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,879 a different temp temporary judge. I sort of got. This 255 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,159 was like night court because the bailiff was the same. 256 00:13:22,159 --> 00:13:23,720 All the times that I've been there, it's been the 257 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:25,720 same bailiff. He's a really nice guy, and he like 258 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,720 he's he's super nice. But it was like hey again, 259 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:33,600 yeah yeah, by the way, Uh, going to court is 260 00:13:33,639 --> 00:13:36,080 a lot like flying on an airplane right now, Like 261 00:13:36,159 --> 00:13:37,799 you don't have to dress up, is what I'm saying. 262 00:13:37,879 --> 00:13:41,200 Is that really? Remember in the old days, Yeah, he'd 263 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:42,919 be like, let me put on something nice of getting 264 00:13:42,919 --> 00:13:46,039 on an airplane, and now you're like you're lucky wearing pants, right, 265 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,440 you know, nobody cares all in on your Tommy John 266 00:13:50,519 --> 00:13:54,399 hands in your in your lounge wear, you know, yeah, 267 00:13:54,919 --> 00:13:57,720 like looking like an unmade bed. Nobody blinks the night. 268 00:13:57,759 --> 00:14:00,879 People in their flip flops, you know, their slip on planes. 269 00:14:00,919 --> 00:14:04,320 You know. Yeah, same thing at court. Wow, you think 270 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:06,840 people would like throw on a blazer. You know court, 271 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:10,840 you're gonna get in front of the judge. No nobody, no, 272 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:15,639 no wow, no accessories, nothing. People are just like I 273 00:14:15,639 --> 00:14:17,840 got out of bed. You're lucky I showed up for 274 00:14:17,879 --> 00:14:21,720 the court date. So the so the second time. So 275 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,120 when I went first, you go in there and you 276 00:14:24,159 --> 00:14:26,480 get a court date because you're fighting the ticket. You say, 277 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:27,879 I want to plead not guilty. So then he go 278 00:14:27,919 --> 00:14:30,240 in for your arraignment. That's where you actually do your 279 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:33,399 official pleading and get a court date. So first one 280 00:14:33,399 --> 00:14:35,360 I went in. I had this temporary judge who was 281 00:14:35,399 --> 00:14:39,360 like not dealing with anybody. He was suffering, No fools, 282 00:14:39,519 --> 00:14:41,440 you don't want to hear any of your story. And 283 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:43,440 I told you that whole thing where I was like, 284 00:14:44,399 --> 00:14:46,639 I asked the bailiff because he was so nice. I 285 00:14:46,679 --> 00:14:48,559 was like, hey, just can you look at look at 286 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:50,799 this picture. Do you think I should try to fight it? 287 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:53,159 And he was like I can't. He's like, I mean 288 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:58,480 he basically they said, don't try to argue anything with 289 00:14:58,559 --> 00:15:00,879 the judge. That's all for your trial. I see. But 290 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:05,000 John had gone in before me and he'd gotten his dismissed, right, 291 00:15:05,039 --> 00:15:08,279 So I was like, I mean, why can't So I 292 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,039 went up and I didn't. I didn't want to be 293 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:13,960 all like white privilege. I wanted to come off like that, 294 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,720 like I'm the exception by I you should look at 295 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,360 you should make an exception. I didn't want to be 296 00:15:19,399 --> 00:15:21,240 that person, but at the same time, I didn't want 297 00:15:21,279 --> 00:15:24,960 to not be that person in case he dismissed it. Right, 298 00:15:25,279 --> 00:15:27,440 So I was just like, can you just look at 299 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:32,320 the picture and the judge. The judge goes, this is 300 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,679 my story last time. There's a continuation of this. So 301 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:39,120 the judge last time, just to catch you up, was like, yeah, 302 00:15:39,399 --> 00:15:41,399 I mean I don't know your car's in the crosswalk. 303 00:15:41,559 --> 00:15:47,360 So and I was like, oh, so I guess not guilty. 304 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:48,679 He's like, what do you want to plead? And I go, 305 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:52,440 I guess not guilty because I was like what the fuck, Like, right, 306 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:54,960 I'm not going down without some kind of a fight. 307 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,519 So I plead not guilty. You can plead. So anyway, 308 00:15:58,559 --> 00:16:01,000 he gives me a court date. Now then I had 309 00:16:01,039 --> 00:16:04,240 another one though, so and then that's the story I 310 00:16:04,279 --> 00:16:07,759 told you recently where I went in was all prepared 311 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,480 to be fucked with like the last guy, but this 312 00:16:10,519 --> 00:16:13,080 guy was like every single ticket he was like looking 313 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:14,679 at them. He was he was like, do you want 314 00:16:14,679 --> 00:16:16,840 to show me something? And then he was like, dismissed 315 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,799 in the interest of justice. So he dismissed my second one. 316 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:22,679 So now we're two down, too clear one to go. 317 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,200 Now I have to show back up for my actual 318 00:16:25,279 --> 00:16:30,000 court date. I thought very seriously about putting on a blazer, 319 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,559 but I was like, I remember how people were dressed 320 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,480 the last time, and I don't want to stand out, 321 00:16:34,759 --> 00:16:38,559 So like, yeah, I did not. I put on some pants. 322 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:42,519 Oh okay, I changed out of my sweats, I changed 323 00:16:42,519 --> 00:16:44,639 my clothes from what I slept in the night before. 324 00:16:45,879 --> 00:16:47,879 I put out a brad and I was like, okay, 325 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:52,879 we're good. No makeup, Like not really do much. So 326 00:16:53,360 --> 00:17:00,320 I go in. It's the same freakin' judge that wouldn't Yeah, 327 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,080 it was that same temporary judge as what the one 328 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,400 who wouldn't dismiss it in the first place. I didn't 329 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,319 get the nice judge. Why does that always have to 330 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:11,640 happen like that. I was so bummed. Okay, so it 331 00:17:11,759 --> 00:17:15,880 is like the bar from Star Wars. In that courtroom. 332 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:20,119 It isn't crazy like it's like one weirdo after another, 333 00:17:20,759 --> 00:17:25,400 but there's and it's all red light camera tickets. Oh so, 334 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:28,480 I mean, but people, but they're fighting. They're fighting. Everybody 335 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,799 wants to fight there, everybody's cut. Now it's a court date. 336 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,440 So now I'm eight thirty in the morning. They're they're 337 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,880 doing all the court they're doing all the trials, right, 338 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,960 all trials. And I was thinking, well, if we're doing 339 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,000 a full on trial, there's going to be like eight 340 00:17:42,079 --> 00:17:44,000 people at the most because they have to get everybody 341 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,480 out by like ten, I think is when the next 342 00:17:47,079 --> 00:17:49,920 all the people for arrangments come in. But no, this 343 00:17:50,079 --> 00:17:52,319 was like a full ass courtroom, like just like it 344 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:54,039 had been for the arrangments. So I was like, how 345 00:17:54,039 --> 00:17:56,119 are we going to get through all these people? Well, 346 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:59,839 apparently that's what they were thinking too. They overbooked. Plus 347 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,680 now yeah, plus then there's like they send in a lawyer, 348 00:18:03,759 --> 00:18:05,440 like you know, you can hire a lawyer to go 349 00:18:05,519 --> 00:18:09,279 in for you and fight your ticket mm hmm, which 350 00:18:09,319 --> 00:18:11,480 I don't see the point of that because you're paying 351 00:18:11,519 --> 00:18:14,799 a lawyer. Yeah why and but and there they don't 352 00:18:14,799 --> 00:18:16,640 really seem to have a better chance than anyone else 353 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,920 because I was watching some of them argue the thing 354 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,359 and the judges are so there was lawyers that are 355 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:23,960 representing people that. Yeah, but they came up and they'd 356 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,400 be like, this is the case case okay. But so 357 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:30,559 here's the main part of this story. So they have 358 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,440 all these the police officers showed up. So there's like 359 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:37,880 a police officer who shows up to represent the city 360 00:18:38,279 --> 00:18:40,759 against all of the tickets that are there that day. 361 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:47,880 One officer, one police officer. Wow, okay, okay, so you 362 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:51,160 get a chance. They hand you this like freaking dossier 363 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,039 with with like it's like a picture of your car. 364 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:55,839 It's a picture of your license plate. It's a pick 365 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,960 close up of your face. So that you can't be like, 366 00:18:58,279 --> 00:19:00,839 I'm sorry, that wasn't it wasn't he picture. They're like, 367 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,279 oh really, there's like a big close up right you 368 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,559 you know, pose when you're going through those lights, if 369 00:19:07,559 --> 00:19:10,279 you go through a red light, make sure you you know, smile, 370 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,880 try on a link, don't pick your nose or anything 371 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,519 like that, because that's going to come back to bite 372 00:19:15,519 --> 00:19:20,240 you in the right. So then there's a video that 373 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,960 exists of your crime, so that you get this whole 374 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,920 packet of all of your rights and all the all 375 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,720 the pictures, and then they send you, one at a 376 00:19:29,759 --> 00:19:31,960 time to the back of the room and you meet 377 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:35,799 with the police officer and he shows you like your video. Right. 378 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,920 So meanwhile I make friends with this woman who is 379 00:19:40,039 --> 00:19:43,200 super nice, and she had she was showing me she'd 380 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,599 gotten two of them as well, and she was showing 381 00:19:45,599 --> 00:19:48,799 them to me, and hers were ridiculous, Like I mean, 382 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:52,400 she was just like a freaking hair Her bumper was 383 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:54,839 in the crosswalk, but not even the tires of the car. 384 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:59,319 It happened. So what the light is green or changing? 385 00:20:00,039 --> 00:20:02,839 So let's say the light's red. Yeah, you pull up. 386 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,319 You know how most people, I'm gonna speak for myself, 387 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:12,240 I rarely stop completely before the crosswalk, especially if there's 388 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,160 no one around. You know, you pull up and it's 389 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,799 one of those bus lanes, right, So you pull up 390 00:20:16,799 --> 00:20:19,880 to the corner. It's a big corner that you have 391 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,839 to go around. It's like you stop well before it. 392 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:26,279 And next to you to your right, imagine there's a bus, 393 00:20:26,319 --> 00:20:29,599 there's a bus line. Okay, so that there's a light, 394 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,720 it turns red, and you can only go right when 395 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,839 it's a right arrow, okay, but sometimes you stop, but 396 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,359 then you pull up a little bit so you can 397 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:42,000 see and you're waiting for the arrow. Well I had pulled, 398 00:20:42,079 --> 00:20:44,279 I had stopped, I was stopped. I didn't go through 399 00:20:44,319 --> 00:20:46,720 a red light. I was stopped, but my front tires 400 00:20:46,839 --> 00:20:50,039 were like half into the crosswalk. And it takes a picture, 401 00:20:50,279 --> 00:20:52,359 takes a picture of you. So if the light is red, 402 00:20:52,559 --> 00:20:56,400 if you're if it consents, even if you're like the 403 00:20:56,799 --> 00:21:01,359 tenius like an inch of your time in the crosswalk, 404 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,480 it just takes a picture. So a lot of them 405 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,480 they dismiss because it's ridiculous because you're not even in 406 00:21:06,519 --> 00:21:09,839 the crosswalk. God, I'm surprised I've never gotten any of those. 407 00:21:10,799 --> 00:21:14,839 I'm like, yeah, so, but so I was going to contend. 408 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,880 My thing was going to be, hey, this was obviously 409 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:23,440 went through the light. Was feeling very sensitive right during 410 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,240 this like a couple of week period, because how else 411 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:27,839 do you explain how me and my how we got 412 00:21:27,839 --> 00:21:31,359 three tickets right and we other than that the same night, 413 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,319 same exactly interesting. So this other this other woman that 414 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,200 I made friends with same light. She'd gotten two of them. 415 00:21:38,519 --> 00:21:42,440 So we're together, We're like gonna normal array this shit. 416 00:21:42,559 --> 00:21:44,920 You know. We're just like, yeah, this is ridiculous, Like 417 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,400 we gotta fight this, we gotta fight the power. This 418 00:21:47,559 --> 00:21:51,160 is insane, look, you know. And she'd come in for 419 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,319 an arraignment and also not gotten hers dismissed, and I 420 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:58,319 was like, those are stupid. But she'd gotten the same 421 00:21:58,319 --> 00:22:01,680 shitty judge too, and now this judge was there. So anyway, 422 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,839 I go back to talk to the police officer and 423 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,039 I'm all like, Okay, I'm gonna we're gonna watch the 424 00:22:06,079 --> 00:22:08,680 tape and I'm gonna be like this is crazy, right, 425 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,680 But I was kind of like Piopo, like all no bite, 426 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,440 because once I sat down with him and he showed 427 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,480 me the tape, I was like, my tires really did 428 00:22:19,519 --> 00:22:24,640 go right into that crosswalk. So I was like, I 429 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,839 go listen, I'm gonna be on. I'm gonna be real 430 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,880 with you. I was like, when I came here from 431 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,319 my arraignment, this guy and then I gave the little 432 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,319 fun over. Now, meanwhile, the judge is meeting with other people, 433 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:36,640 so I'm way in the back of the room. You 434 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,519 can't hear me. And I'm like, this judge like is 435 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,440 not has like no flexibility. And the cop was like, 436 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,200 I know, he was really nice. Yeah, and he's like, 437 00:22:45,279 --> 00:22:48,599 I know he's And I was like, so what. I 438 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:53,200 was like, what are my chances? Like? Should should I 439 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:58,640 plead not guilty? And he's like, I mean you're you 440 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,839 see how you're in the cross right, And I was 441 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:05,240 like I know, but like and he's like well, and 442 00:23:05,279 --> 00:23:08,720 I said, well, I mean, should I plead no contest? 443 00:23:09,079 --> 00:23:12,960 I go, I mean and he's oh. Right before that, 444 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,720 they had announced because they had too many people. This 445 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,880 brings us back to the there's a lot of people 446 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,400 in the courtroom. He said, if anybody as incentive, if 447 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,480 you want to plead no contest or guilty, we'll cut 448 00:23:24,519 --> 00:23:27,400 your fine in half and you can do traffic court. Oh. 449 00:23:28,039 --> 00:23:31,240 So I was like, now the fine was five hundred dollars. 450 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:36,400 Oh my god for front of the tire in the crosswalk. 451 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,599 Oh Jesus. So I'm like, okay, I'm going to have 452 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,880 to pay two hundred and fifty dollars and go to 453 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,119 traffic school, which is a pain in the ass, but 454 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,240 or I'm going to lose this case, and then I 455 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,640 can't go to traffic school and I'm going to pay 456 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,759 the full fine if I and then it goes on 457 00:23:51,799 --> 00:23:55,359 your record, right right. So I said to the officer. 458 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,519 I was like, officer, if you were me, what would 459 00:23:58,519 --> 00:24:00,160 you do? And he goes, I cannot tell you what 460 00:24:00,279 --> 00:24:02,880 I can't. I mean, I'm the like, I can't tell 461 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,440 you what to do. I can't give you any And 462 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:09,480 I was like, all right, blink once if I should 463 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:14,559 plead no contest. So he blinked once, and I was like, okay, 464 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:19,680 thank you, Yes, I'll change my plea to no contests. 465 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,799 So yeah, so then they're like so then when they 466 00:24:21,799 --> 00:24:23,720 finally got to me, I was there for a long 467 00:24:24,319 --> 00:24:26,559 say how long did it take? So then there was 468 00:24:26,599 --> 00:24:29,920 another woman, another friend. There was like I made friends 469 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,519 with two separate women, but they did not make friends 470 00:24:32,559 --> 00:24:35,160 with each other because I'm way friendlier than anybody else. 471 00:24:35,839 --> 00:24:38,279 So they were both tolerted. One of the women was 472 00:24:38,319 --> 00:24:41,759 super friendly, the other woman not that friendly. But but 473 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,680 she also came back from her meeting with the police 474 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,200 officer before me, and she was like, yeah, I got 475 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,920 a I'm pleading no contest. And I was like, I 476 00:24:50,039 --> 00:24:53,279 looked at her picture similar to mine. She goes, yeah, 477 00:24:53,279 --> 00:24:55,440 they showed me the video and I was like, damn it. 478 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,799 The other woman she came back from her meeting with 479 00:24:59,839 --> 00:25:03,119 the police officer and she's I was like, hers was ridiculous. 480 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,359 I'm telling you. Hers was like so unfair. She was 481 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,640 not even in the crosswalk, I'm telling your retart. And 482 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,559 she said that the police officer kind of told her 483 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,480 that she should plead, she should try to plead not 484 00:25:14,519 --> 00:25:16,759 guilty on one of them, but just do no contest 485 00:25:16,839 --> 00:25:18,920 on the other one. She because I guess he's given 486 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:23,559 out advice. He was to her, well, I think because 487 00:25:23,599 --> 00:25:26,559 hers was so blatantly like she didn't do anything. But 488 00:25:27,079 --> 00:25:29,279 so anyway, I don't know what happened with her. The 489 00:25:29,319 --> 00:25:32,160 other one pleaded no contest, got her fine cut in half. 490 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,440 But guess what. So I go up and I go 491 00:25:35,519 --> 00:25:38,920 I want to change my plea. It was kind of exciting, 492 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,759 you know that order. I know, I'm excited. I know. 493 00:25:41,799 --> 00:25:43,920 I was a little bit like, They're like, Stephanie Taylor, 494 00:25:44,279 --> 00:25:47,160 is this you? Is this picture of you? I was like, yes, 495 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,759 it is, sure is Don't I look kind of pretty? 496 00:25:51,759 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 2: Though? 497 00:25:53,319 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 1: Do I get points for that I'm bat of your eyes, like, 498 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,839 way too late for that. He did not care at all. 499 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,680 He was just like, okay, so you I understand you 500 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,640 want to change your plea. And I was like, yes, 501 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,519 I do. I'm pleading no contest. It's so stupid because 502 00:26:08,519 --> 00:26:11,440 you would think I just burgled my house right with 503 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,319 a change my plea. You'd think I was like, hand, 504 00:26:14,519 --> 00:26:17,440 it's so dumb. It's freaking traffic cor right, but they 505 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,359 take it really seriously. Yeah, so I'm like, plead no contest. 506 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,519 He's like okay. I was like, but I would like 507 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,079 the you know, the reduction of charges that you promised. 508 00:26:26,079 --> 00:26:29,839 Everybody's like of course. So he's like, okay, it's still 509 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,400 was three hundred and fifty dollars because they charge you 510 00:26:33,599 --> 00:26:39,119 one hundred dollars for the court filing fee for traffic school. 511 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,799 That's not even including the traffic school cost. 512 00:26:42,279 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 2: So you had to pay for the court filing fees 513 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,119 and then you have to also pay for it. 514 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:48,920 Speaker 1: I had to pay half the ticket, which was like 515 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,599 a little less than which was like two hundred and 516 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,519 forty five dollars, uh huh yeah, and then which would 517 00:26:55,559 --> 00:26:57,799 have been four ninety. So he cut it down to 518 00:26:57,839 --> 00:27:00,799 two forty five, but then they added another hundred dollars 519 00:27:00,839 --> 00:27:07,119 on for traffic school filing fees. I see yeah, And 520 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,319 so now do you have to go to traffic school? Yes? 521 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,720 Can you do a zoom traffic scho Yeah, I can 522 00:27:11,799 --> 00:27:14,039 do it online. Ah that I don't have to do zoom. 523 00:27:14,079 --> 00:27:18,960 I can just do watch videos and answer questions. Yeah, 524 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,079 but it still takes. They make it so that it takes, 525 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,440 like because if you went to traffic school in person, 526 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,160 it would be like eight hours. Wow, so they make 527 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,200 it like a good six hours. I've did it before 528 00:27:30,319 --> 00:27:35,519 years ago. Yeah. Oh my god, I know it'll be better. 529 00:27:35,559 --> 00:27:38,640 It'll be good stories. Wow. I'm proud of you though 530 00:27:39,079 --> 00:27:42,480 you thought it. Imagine people are. I'm gonna be like, okay, 531 00:27:42,559 --> 00:27:44,960 it's time for the story about going to traffic school. 532 00:27:48,759 --> 00:27:52,240 So on the second question, I had to watch a 533 00:27:52,319 --> 00:27:53,960 f It's not going to be exciting. 534 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,079 Speaker 2: This was exciting though, because I didn't really realize that 535 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:01,480 they take a picture of your tire in the crosswalk 536 00:28:01,599 --> 00:28:04,359 like that, Like I'm. 537 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 1: Oh, they must have all these angles because it takes 538 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,799 a picture of your car, it takes a picture of 539 00:28:08,799 --> 00:28:11,920 your tires, it takes a picture of your face. Jesus 540 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:16,000 my god. Yeah, I should have asked if I could 541 00:28:16,039 --> 00:28:21,160 use one for my headshot. Yeah, really, that would be great. Sorry, 542 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:25,920 Liz Barlac Photography. I've got Oxnard and Linley. It's right 543 00:28:27,079 --> 00:28:29,559 the corner of ox Oxnard and Linley hooked me up 544 00:28:29,559 --> 00:28:34,839 with these great promo shots. That's awesome you and John. 545 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:41,200 Oh my god. Wow. One more thing they happened. Yeah, 546 00:28:41,319 --> 00:28:44,839 Albi got accepted to her first college. She did. Yeah, 547 00:28:44,839 --> 00:28:49,640 oh my god, yeah, University of Oregon. Nice. This is 548 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,839 her first application that she turned in and like in 549 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,960 two weeks she got the she got it. Oh my god, 550 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,880 that's awesome. Yeah, it was excited. It's not a hard 551 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,799 school to get into, not like it's not like that's 552 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,920 nice though. Yeah, but you know, she had to write 553 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,480 her her beautiful essay and she had to write she 554 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,839 had to write four essays for these colleges of like 555 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:15,680 they've all gone fucking crazy with expecting essays. Yeah. But 556 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,680 but yeah, so that's exciting, that's exciting. I'm happy for her. 557 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 2: I know, I'm really like stressed out about all that, 558 00:29:24,039 --> 00:29:25,680 Like I don't I don't know. 559 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,799 Speaker 1: You know, contrary to popular belief, you really don't have 560 00:29:30,839 --> 00:29:33,440 to do anything until they're a senior. I mean you 561 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,680 can go. I mean I guess when LB was a junior, 562 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,920 we did go. We did go tour a few colleges, 563 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:39,880 and that was good to get that out of the way. 564 00:29:40,599 --> 00:29:47,079 But I mean, yeah, it didn't require a lot of preparation. 565 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,799 I mean, well, because you write essays. Like when they 566 00:29:51,839 --> 00:29:55,359 start opening up the application period, I mean you can 567 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,200 start like thinking about what schools you might be interested in, 568 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,000 what you want to do. But like, I don't know, 569 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:01,480 do a lot of kids know what the hell they 570 00:30:01,519 --> 00:30:03,680 want to do for now? That's the hard part, Like 571 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,880 how do you know what you want to you know? Yeah, 572 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:11,440 I don't know what's going on with Natalia and volleyball. 573 00:30:11,599 --> 00:30:16,279 So she's done, they're completely done with school. And then 574 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,599 so she never made it back on varsity. 575 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 2: No, she's not good and she's not gonna go next year. 576 00:30:21,839 --> 00:30:24,000 She's not gonna play. She doesn't want to play at 577 00:30:24,039 --> 00:30:29,759 the school anymore. But she's starting with her as the 578 00:30:30,039 --> 00:30:34,279 travel team, the club team that's starting in like a week, 579 00:30:34,759 --> 00:30:37,920 like two weeks or something, and she's getting back in 580 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,319 the swing of that. She doesn't know who's on her team. 581 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,960 Or whatever yet, but so she's doing that. But she 582 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:49,559 the other day, so I was at the condo for 583 00:30:49,599 --> 00:30:53,240 a couple of days with Wendy and I came home 584 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:58,599 wind to stay night, and she was telling me Olga 585 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,160 was there and she was they were telling me that 586 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:05,039 she's been having this sharp pain in her right lower 587 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,200 abdomen and it was like shooting pain, like down her 588 00:31:09,839 --> 00:31:12,920 leg and then it's but starts there and it was 589 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,799 like coming like sort of like a contraction, like it 590 00:31:15,799 --> 00:31:18,279 would come and she would like double over in pain. 591 00:31:19,119 --> 00:31:21,559 Speaker 1: And I was like, why didn't anybody tell me this? 592 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 2: Why do you guys wait till I come home on 593 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,640 Wednesday night after work? Now, why didn't somebody tell me this? 594 00:31:27,279 --> 00:31:29,400 And Natil I was like, well, I don't know. I 595 00:31:29,519 --> 00:31:32,440 just thought it was she thought maybe she was getting 596 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:33,519 her period or something. 597 00:31:33,599 --> 00:31:34,079 Speaker 1: I don't know. 598 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,799 Speaker 2: And then so we went to bed and I said, 599 00:31:38,039 --> 00:31:40,079 you know, let me know, I'm going to my phone 600 00:31:40,119 --> 00:31:43,359 on blah blah blah. Then she like calls me at 601 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,720 like twelve thirty. She's she's she's trying to sleep but 602 00:31:46,799 --> 00:31:49,000 she can't and she was in pain and she was 603 00:31:49,039 --> 00:31:51,839 crying and she just wanted to be like she just 604 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,039 wanted to relax and go to sleep, and and Wendy 605 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,640 was there, and Wendy was like, you know, and I said, 606 00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,680 did Natalia do you want to go to urgent care? 607 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,079 And she's like, I just want to go to bed. 608 00:32:03,119 --> 00:32:06,160 And then I think she was trying. I think we 609 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,079 were thinking maybe it was constipation. So I gave her 610 00:32:09,079 --> 00:32:12,559 some medicine for that, and then she you know whatever, 611 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,480 went to the bathroom and then she went back to sleep. 612 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: And gave her like a laxative that worked immediately. 613 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 2: No, no, I gave her like a stool softener or whatever. 614 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,519 But she she tried to go to the bathroom whatever. 615 00:32:23,599 --> 00:32:27,000 But she was then okay to go back to sleep. 616 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,400 So then she went back to sleep, but I told her, 617 00:32:29,519 --> 00:32:31,359 you know, call me if you're wake up again. 618 00:32:31,759 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 1: So she went through the night. 619 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 2: But then it's like six point thirty in the morning, 620 00:32:35,519 --> 00:32:40,039 she was in pain, and I said, all right, so 621 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,000 we need to go to urgent care. Wait where did 622 00:32:43,079 --> 00:32:46,039 I wait? I had to go somewhere the next I 623 00:32:46,079 --> 00:32:47,960 can't remember. I had to go running air. I had 624 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,799 to do something. The next morning. Anyway, she was at 625 00:32:50,839 --> 00:32:56,640 the house and yeah, so then uh so Olga picked 626 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:57,279 her up, took her to. 627 00:32:57,319 --> 00:32:59,599 Speaker 1: Urgent care and then I met. 628 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:03,079 Speaker 2: Her there and was at the hospital with her all day, 629 00:33:03,839 --> 00:33:08,200 I mean into like eight o'clock at night. She they 630 00:33:08,319 --> 00:33:12,200 thought it was appendicitis, and they did the old They 631 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,839 did like two different ultrasounds, and then they wanted to 632 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,640 do a CT scan, so nothing on the ultrasounds. It 633 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,440 wasn't showing anything on the ultrasound. Then they wanted to 634 00:33:21,519 --> 00:33:25,200 do a CT scan and but they didn't want to. 635 00:33:25,759 --> 00:33:28,720 They try to avoid that because of radiation, I guess. 636 00:33:29,799 --> 00:33:33,799 And she was, you know, they were pushing on her 637 00:33:33,799 --> 00:33:36,400 start like she was in pain. She was crying and 638 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,440 and then they gave her. They gave her an ivy 639 00:33:38,519 --> 00:33:41,119 and they gave her some started off with tiland all 640 00:33:41,599 --> 00:33:44,279 and which I gave her motron and thailand al too, 641 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:48,119 but didn't really it didn't. I wasn't on top of 642 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,799 it the way they were like, they gave her the 643 00:33:49,839 --> 00:33:51,839 tilan all, then they gave her the motres, like every 644 00:33:51,839 --> 00:33:53,279 two hours they were giving her something. 645 00:33:53,319 --> 00:33:54,599 Speaker 1: So they stayed on top of the pain. 646 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,599 Speaker 2: The pain got better, and they said, why don't you 647 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,680 do it instead of doing a CT scan. It could 648 00:34:01,759 --> 00:34:06,599 be she could have assist on her ovary that is popping. Oh, 649 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,880 And they said, so go why don't you go home? 650 00:34:10,119 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 1: But they couldn't see that on the They couldn't do 651 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:12,679 an ultrasound. 652 00:34:13,079 --> 00:34:15,119 Speaker 2: They did do the ultrasound, but they didn't see. They 653 00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:17,639 couldn't and they're ovary was hard for them to see. 654 00:34:18,119 --> 00:34:20,719 So I but then they saw I don't know what 655 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,239 they saw, but they didn't see it. They didn't see 656 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,760 any appendicitis issues. That didn't but the doctor said that 657 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,960 doesn't mean that it's not appendicides could be the beginning 658 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:29,679 of appendicitis. 659 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,400 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. So they couldn't see assist either. 660 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,760 Speaker 2: They couldn't see anything. So they said, go home and 661 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,960 keep an eye on her. Give her the tile and 662 00:34:38,039 --> 00:34:41,639 on the motra in every two hours and she should 663 00:34:41,679 --> 00:34:44,280 be able to she should you know, either it's going 664 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,800 to get worse. If if it gets worse or the same, 665 00:34:48,039 --> 00:34:50,480 bring her back right back and we'll do the CT 666 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:55,880 and prepper for pendicitis. Or And my dad had it 667 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,599 and my brother had it, and I guess, you know, 668 00:34:58,679 --> 00:35:01,000 it's like some people are saying it's hereditary. Some people 669 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,480 say it's not, but it's genetic whatever. I don't know, 670 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,599 but my brother had it, and my dad had an 671 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:11,079 emergency a pendicitis, And so anyway, they sent her home 672 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,880 and I stayed on top of the matron in the 673 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,320 time and all with her, and it the pain kind 674 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,280 of got dulled, and then the next morning it went 675 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,800 away and it was like she was okay, she got up, 676 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:25,360 she went to school, and she was fine. 677 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,519 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 678 00:35:27,639 --> 00:35:31,679 Speaker 2: I remember having like sharp pains and stuff like that, 679 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,800 like ovulation and like just really, you know, it sucks 680 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,760 being a girl, and I used to get like those 681 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,719 pains and stuff. So I don't know if it was 682 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,679 it because she was getting her period and it was 683 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,960 like she was I don't know, I don't know, or 684 00:35:45,159 --> 00:35:48,639 something burst or I don't know, but she was fine 685 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,119 and she was okay, oh that's good. 686 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:55,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, you shouldn't have to have surgery. Thank god. 687 00:35:55,199 --> 00:35:57,039 Speaker 2: I thought for sure she was going to have a 688 00:35:57,119 --> 00:36:01,519 penacitis surgery. And it's already, like I was telling Adam, like, 689 00:36:01,599 --> 00:36:03,000 it looks to me like that's. 690 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:03,280 Speaker 1: What it is. 691 00:36:04,039 --> 00:36:06,599 Speaker 2: But because the way she was describing the pain and 692 00:36:06,639 --> 00:36:08,840 the way it was moving, that's what they were saying. 693 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,880 And but then nothing and wasn't showing anything. So I 694 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,639 don't know, I don't know. It was fine, she was fine. 695 00:36:15,639 --> 00:36:16,159 The next day. 696 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,559 Speaker 1: I would have been like uti, that's what I thought too. 697 00:36:20,679 --> 00:36:22,760 Speaker 2: I was like one another thing, like is there one 698 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:23,800 of my other problems? 699 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,199 Speaker 1: I get? 700 00:36:24,599 --> 00:36:24,840 Speaker 2: I know. 701 00:36:25,159 --> 00:36:28,320 Speaker 1: I would have been like and while we're talking about her, 702 00:36:29,199 --> 00:36:30,880 so I get a lot of UTI. I would have 703 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,119 been like, can I get anything out of being here? Yeah? 704 00:36:33,159 --> 00:36:34,760 I know, right, I know. 705 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 2: I mean I was like, they were gonna admit her 706 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:42,360 to the hospital and everything, but after then the surgical 707 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,079 team came and so this was all at urgent care 708 00:36:45,199 --> 00:36:46,519 or you had brought her to the er. 709 00:36:46,639 --> 00:36:47,079 Speaker 1: I took her. 710 00:36:47,199 --> 00:36:49,360 Speaker 2: We took her to urgent care first, and he said 711 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:50,320 take her to the hospital. 712 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,760 Speaker 1: Oh so he took her to the hospital. Yeah, and 713 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,639 it was like all day into the night. 714 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,079 Speaker 2: I know, I know, that's the worst, like when you 715 00:36:59,119 --> 00:36:59,960 got to sit there and. 716 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:07,039 Speaker 1: Hey, but yeah, but that was that was my week 717 00:37:07,079 --> 00:37:10,559 with an Italian. Oh my gosh, I know, Caitlin, have 718 00:37:10,639 --> 00:37:14,639 you had any like emergencies with the kids yet? No, 719 00:37:15,599 --> 00:37:19,840 that's good, that's so lucky. Yeah, when Elbie had a 720 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,239 couple of scares, you know, when she was a baby, 721 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,679 when it like I want to say she was six 722 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:30,960 months and she got sick and she got dehydrated and 723 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,000 had to bring her to the hospital and they had 724 00:37:34,039 --> 00:37:40,400 to IV and the whole thing, and she was very dehydrated. Yeah, 725 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,719 and so she's I guess kind of prone to that. 726 00:37:43,079 --> 00:37:45,800 But then I mean, I know I told you this 727 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,400 story before, but when she was fourteen months, I had 728 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,920 a terrible experience. John was out of town. I brought 729 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,400 her in. She was like standing in her crib and 730 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,199 she like I brought her outside of the crib and 731 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,199 she had puked, and then I put her on the 732 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:05,239 ground and she like fell over and super lethargic. And 733 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:09,000 so I brought her into the er and remember this story, 734 00:38:09,039 --> 00:38:11,079 and the guy who took her and she was burning 735 00:38:11,159 --> 00:38:14,000 up with a fever, bring her in, and the guy 736 00:38:14,039 --> 00:38:18,039 who was doing the admitting tested her temperature and he's 737 00:38:18,159 --> 00:38:23,400 like normal, And I was like, m no, there's no 738 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,400 way she doesn't have a fever. I go feel her, 739 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,079 and of course I'm freaking out, you know, my baby, 740 00:38:28,119 --> 00:38:32,559 and she's like I was like, something very bad's gonna happen. 741 00:38:32,639 --> 00:38:37,239 And so when we get they get her into like 742 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,400 the triage room and they took her temperature and she 743 00:38:40,519 --> 00:38:43,400 was it was like almost one hundred and four, and 744 00:38:43,519 --> 00:38:46,039 of course I was couldn't think about anything else, but 745 00:38:46,199 --> 00:38:50,280 like in your face, bitch, you know. I was like, yeah, 746 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,960 that guy tried to tell me that her temperature was normal, 747 00:38:53,079 --> 00:38:56,039 and then so do you remember me telling you this story? 748 00:38:56,039 --> 00:38:59,119 And then he walked around going, uh, broken, this thermometer 749 00:38:59,199 --> 00:39:01,280 is broken. Don't use this thermometer. And I was like, yeah, 750 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:05,719 no shit, assdleg. Yeah, but then they had to That 751 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,440 was a terrible one they because they couldn't get an 752 00:39:08,679 --> 00:39:11,400 I V on her, remember that story, And then they 753 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,719 ended up having to put tubes down her nose and 754 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,800 keep her overnight in the picu and I slept there 755 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:22,880 with her on my chest and yeah, and then next day, uh, 756 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:26,559 it was just it was real bad. Ye next day 757 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,960 she uh well, I think her fever broke like the 758 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,239 next day. But they couldn't get a vein because she 759 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,360 was so dehydrated that they could not get a vein. 760 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,639 They tried her arms, they tried her legs, they tried 761 00:39:38,639 --> 00:39:42,159 her uh you know, her little like in the crook 762 00:39:42,199 --> 00:39:44,000 of her arm, but then they also tried like her 763 00:39:44,039 --> 00:39:49,079 hand and then her like her leg and and and 764 00:39:49,079 --> 00:39:51,360 they were so mean about it, and it was like 765 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:52,480 just a nightmare. I know. 766 00:39:52,559 --> 00:39:54,679 Speaker 2: They were trying to get the IV in Italia too 767 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,079 the other the other day and she did one side, 768 00:39:58,079 --> 00:39:59,599 she couldn't get it to the other side. 769 00:39:59,639 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 1: She couldn't get it. 770 00:40:01,079 --> 00:40:03,440 Speaker 2: And Natalia is just like, oh my god, I'm gonna 771 00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,800 kill somebody. And then she was like, I gotta go 772 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,679 get I gotta get somebody else to do it. And 773 00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:09,639 then this other girl did it and then she got 774 00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:15,000 it in fine, but like, ah, it's like it's you know, 775 00:40:15,199 --> 00:40:18,000 come on, it's like they're in pain and she's in pain. 776 00:40:18,119 --> 00:40:20,119 Last thing she needs is somebody's just sitting there digging 777 00:40:20,119 --> 00:40:23,039 for the vein in her arm. Yeah, and blood's all 778 00:40:23,079 --> 00:40:25,360 over the bed sheets and stuff because she's trying to 779 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:26,880 get it into the eh. 780 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:32,039 Speaker 1: And by the way, nurses, we've talked about this before, 781 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,960 but nurses are hit and miss. Like teachers. Some of them. 782 00:40:36,039 --> 00:40:38,280 You're like, my god, you're doing the Lord's work. Y 783 00:40:38,559 --> 00:40:41,239 greatest teacher can make your life so great. Yeah, and 784 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,159 the greatest nurse can make all the difference. Right, you 785 00:40:44,159 --> 00:40:46,960 get like a grouchy ass nurse. It just doesn't want 786 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,840 to be there. And it's sick of patience all day 787 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,360 and or whatever. They've been working a twelve hour shift 788 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:55,000 and they're mean. Yeah, there's nothing worse than a mean nurse. 789 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,960 When you're not feeling well, or when your baby is 790 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,199 sick and people are being asshole, You're like, you need 791 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:05,199 to get into a different profession immediately. Yeah, sat, Yeah, no, 792 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:05,559 I know. 793 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,519 Speaker 2: I like when they joke around and they're like, because 794 00:41:08,519 --> 00:41:11,199 they were being jokey with an Italia, you know, oh, 795 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,039 you don't want to take this home as a souvenir. 796 00:41:13,119 --> 00:41:14,920 You know, it's like they've taken the needle out of 797 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,719 her arm, you know that kind of stuff, because you know, 798 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,000 it's like it's nerve racket. I thought she's She's like, 799 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,320 am I gonna have to have surgery? They what? What? 800 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,360 Speaker 1: Where do they go in? How do they you know what? 801 00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:26,440 Am I going to get a scar? 802 00:41:26,679 --> 00:41:26,760 Speaker 2: Like? 803 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,840 Speaker 1: She had all these questions. I'm like, I don't, you know, 804 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:30,400 I don't know. 805 00:41:30,559 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 2: We have to wait and see, you know, and the 806 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,519 last thing you need is like some you know, somebody 807 00:41:35,559 --> 00:41:36,679 that doesn't want to be there. 808 00:41:37,079 --> 00:41:41,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, you want somebody who's like having compassion. 809 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,360 I know, I personally know a lot of nurses, and 810 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,400 they're all so nice and they love their job and 811 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,760 they only do it because they're like I love helping 812 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,000 people and I love being a nurse. But just i've 813 00:41:52,119 --> 00:41:55,760 personally experienced some nurses. They're just assholes. 814 00:41:55,840 --> 00:42:01,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're like, why, I know, get another job, 815 00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:03,360 get a job as a teacher. 816 00:42:03,519 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 1: Just kidding. All right, thanks everybody. Thanks Caylin. You're a parent, now, 817 00:42:09,519 --> 00:42:15,679 don't f it us. It's good letting go.