WEBVTT 1 00:00:09.400 --> 00:00:10.240 Calling All Beings. 2 00:00:10.320 --> 00:00:37.880 Y'all, Hey everybody, welcome back to Calling All Beings. 3 00:00:38.240 --> 00:00:42.759 I'm your host DJ on a special, special special night. 4 00:00:42.799 --> 00:00:45.520 I'm gonna try to hold it together for this young 5 00:00:45.600 --> 00:00:49.439 lady we have on tonight. She is a medical professional. 6 00:00:50.119 --> 00:00:52.520 She is a researcher, investigator. 7 00:00:52.880 --> 00:00:53.719 She is a mom. 8 00:00:54.240 --> 00:00:58.399 She is a content creator that has created some things 9 00:00:58.439 --> 00:01:02.399 that I, in my content creating life of fourteen years, 10 00:01:02.600 --> 00:01:06.159 cannot hope to achieve. We said it on that one show. 11 00:01:06.319 --> 00:01:07.719 She's like painted. 12 00:01:07.400 --> 00:01:11.120 These frescoes right on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel 13 00:01:11.439 --> 00:01:13.959 or Kapella cistina if we were in Italy, I gotta 14 00:01:13.959 --> 00:01:18.040 speak to her in Italian, right, Capella cistina. Uh so, 15 00:01:18.359 --> 00:01:21.319 because she's a Paison like me, although I'm a Jewish pison. 16 00:01:21.359 --> 00:01:24.599 Hopefully she won't deduct any points for that. But my 17 00:01:24.719 --> 00:01:28.239 mother is Jewish. She's my father's. 18 00:01:27.879 --> 00:01:33.359 Dad anyway, though, But we couldn't have this young lady 19 00:01:33.799 --> 00:01:37.799 come on to just the regular cab thing. We had 20 00:01:37.799 --> 00:01:41.400 to add something extra because she's something extra, right. She's 21 00:01:41.439 --> 00:01:44.560 not only the sister from another mister, but if she 22 00:01:44.680 --> 00:01:47.000 were a brother, she'd be like the brother like no 23 00:01:47.120 --> 00:01:47.840 other you. 24 00:01:47.760 --> 00:01:48.439 Know, what I'm saying. 25 00:01:48.480 --> 00:01:51.560 So let us let us ring this thing in before 26 00:01:51.599 --> 00:01:54.400 I bring her on. We got some special music cued 27 00:01:54.439 --> 00:01:55.319 up for this young lady. 28 00:01:55.359 --> 00:01:55.920 Right here we go. 29 00:01:56.560 --> 00:01:58.680 All right, it's gonna be loud, so just so you know, 30 00:01:58.920 --> 00:02:00.920 all right, let's go him and the. 31 00:02:01.640 --> 00:02:08.199 Huge talk courts so reebo. Somewhere far along this road 32 00:02:08.360 --> 00:02:11.000 he lost so super a woman. 33 00:02:11.159 --> 00:02:12.759 So hoighss. 34 00:02:15.719 --> 00:02:21.199 How could you be so halle Oh? 35 00:02:21.280 --> 00:02:24.000 How could you be so haled? How could you be 36 00:02:24.240 --> 00:02:25.599 so doctor? Evil? 37 00:02:25.879 --> 00:02:27.120 You bring out aside of me? 38 00:02:27.240 --> 00:02:27.439 There? 39 00:02:27.599 --> 00:02:28.240 I don't know. 40 00:02:29.080 --> 00:02:32.479 I decided we woke up stick, so Bobby up three 41 00:02:32.680 --> 00:02:34.039 a m on the phone. 42 00:02:34.520 --> 00:02:37.599 Why does your feet so mad at me? For Holmie? 43 00:02:37.639 --> 00:02:38.080 I don't know? 44 00:02:38.240 --> 00:02:39.719 She is hot and cold. 45 00:02:40.240 --> 00:02:43.520 I won't stop, won't mess my groove because I already 46 00:02:43.639 --> 00:02:46.800 know how this thing angel. You wanna take your friends 47 00:02:46.800 --> 00:02:49.240 that you leave in me? You say that they don't 48 00:02:49.240 --> 00:02:50.719 see what you see in me. 49 00:02:51.240 --> 00:02:52.360 You wait, a couple. 50 00:02:54.039 --> 00:03:01.599 Party people put them together for nurse care. Cannot get it, 51 00:03:15.159 --> 00:03:16.680 j J. 52 00:03:17.479 --> 00:03:21.080 I tell you this every single time, sir, I will 53 00:03:21.120 --> 00:03:24.520 not be able to fit my head through a door 54 00:03:24.639 --> 00:03:28.199 frame with these incredible introductions. 55 00:03:28.319 --> 00:03:30.360 You are truly a gift. 56 00:03:31.400 --> 00:03:33.960 Thank you, Love do you recognize that track from like 57 00:03:34.080 --> 00:03:38.719 maybe when you were in college or something, maybe absolutely 58 00:03:39.639 --> 00:03:43.319 taking the stage on MTV. That was Mia Carruthers doing 59 00:03:43.360 --> 00:03:48.680 it for that school of music that they had in Cincinnati. Nick, 60 00:03:48.800 --> 00:03:51.120 I'm trying to think of his name, that married Jessica 61 00:03:51.159 --> 00:03:55.840 Simpson nick Leche that school that he went to high school. 62 00:03:55.919 --> 00:03:58.439 Mia Carruthers was in a talent contest. 63 00:03:58.479 --> 00:04:00.719 She was a student there. Nick as a producer of 64 00:04:00.759 --> 00:04:01.159 that show. 65 00:04:01.199 --> 00:04:04.599 Actually, uh so that's where that version of Heartless came in. 66 00:04:04.719 --> 00:04:06.919 I just thought, man, we need to funk it up 67 00:04:06.960 --> 00:04:09.000 for Kim, so that that's that's that cut. 68 00:04:09.319 --> 00:04:12.919 I love that. That is you are too good to me. 69 00:04:13.280 --> 00:04:18.680 And we funked it up all right, Okay, it was incredible. Yes, 70 00:04:18.920 --> 00:04:21.560 I think I'm so sorry DJ, just before we get going, 71 00:04:21.639 --> 00:04:23.439 just because I just caught out on the side of 72 00:04:23.439 --> 00:04:27.399 my eye. Mimi is in the chat right now. And 73 00:04:27.480 --> 00:04:33.240 if you don't know me, listen, Mimi is everything, and MEMI, 74 00:04:33.959 --> 00:04:34.759 we've got him. 75 00:04:35.399 --> 00:04:40.399 Okay. It is the pearls that we clutch. 76 00:04:42.360 --> 00:04:44.319 She didn't want me to have our you know, she 77 00:04:44.360 --> 00:04:46.959 didn't want me to be clutching my proverbial pearls. 78 00:04:47.040 --> 00:04:49.040 So I clutch these babies. 79 00:04:49.120 --> 00:04:51.800 Now, this is not metaphorical. 80 00:04:51.959 --> 00:04:59.439 This is reality here, this is consensus reality absolutely, oh man. 81 00:04:59.680 --> 00:05:01.759 And you you know what, when we talk about some 82 00:05:01.879 --> 00:05:05.399 of the cowardice we've seen tonight from some of the 83 00:05:05.439 --> 00:05:09.199 officers that refuse to report things that they see going, 84 00:05:09.240 --> 00:05:11.600 I'm gonna I might even try to pull it up. 85 00:05:11.639 --> 00:05:15.000 I want to reference the Seals, the Seal team. Hey, 86 00:05:15.040 --> 00:05:17.800 what's up, Mary? Thank you so much? Love already. I know, 87 00:05:18.040 --> 00:05:20.160 I know, having Kim on my channel, this is like 88 00:05:20.480 --> 00:05:22.399 dream dreamscape type stuff right here. 89 00:05:22.399 --> 00:05:23.639 Man, put on some yacht rock. 90 00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:27.639 But we got to ask your favorite band too, So 91 00:05:27.720 --> 00:05:29.560 don't make sure we don't get out of here here 92 00:05:29.639 --> 00:05:31.240 because we didn't have you on that episode, so we 93 00:05:31.279 --> 00:05:35.199 gotta ask you that. But yeah, we're gonna bring up 94 00:05:35.519 --> 00:05:40.639 the Seals who reported Eddie Gallagher for shooting basically innocent 95 00:05:40.680 --> 00:05:44.600 civilians in his Afghanistan rock deployment. So you're talking about 96 00:05:45.360 --> 00:05:47.000 you know, you say, oh, we go out there and 97 00:05:47.000 --> 00:05:50.560 we bleed together and face danger. I guarantee you whatever 98 00:05:50.560 --> 00:05:52.399 they're facing is not like a Seal team on the 99 00:05:52.399 --> 00:05:55.959 ground outside the wire and those guys report Ellie Eddie 100 00:05:55.959 --> 00:05:59.600 Gallagher because like dude, he's shooting like innocent people like 101 00:05:59.639 --> 00:06:05.279 inn and dudes, teenagers, girls when we're on deployment. 102 00:06:05.560 --> 00:06:06.279 And the same thing. 103 00:06:06.879 --> 00:06:10.240 Yeah, and but he was reported and but for a 104 00:06:10.240 --> 00:06:13.680 presidential pardon, he was see would have gone to jail 105 00:06:14.120 --> 00:06:15.120 Fort Levenworth for that. 106 00:06:15.480 --> 00:06:19.399 So yeah, wow DJ Yeah. 107 00:06:19.319 --> 00:06:22.160 So that's an example of doing the right thing because 108 00:06:22.160 --> 00:06:25.519 they know the law of on armed conflict states what 109 00:06:25.560 --> 00:06:29.480 your rules of engagement are, not to mention Geneva conventions 110 00:06:29.480 --> 00:06:32.560 in those things, right, so, but they still reported him. 111 00:06:32.560 --> 00:06:35.120 And I also want to mention, Well, we'll get to 112 00:06:35.199 --> 00:06:39.000 Louel Isondo later. He was a GS fifteen program manager 113 00:06:39.000 --> 00:06:41.399 in the Pentagon, so what we'll get to him later on, 114 00:06:42.240 --> 00:06:46.879 because he is an example of courage that all these 115 00:06:47.079 --> 00:06:49.199 none of not one of these people have the courage 116 00:06:49.240 --> 00:06:51.680 of Louel Zando. But I want to get to Nurse 117 00:06:51.759 --> 00:06:55.279 Kim right about now, So funk soul brother. So anyway 118 00:06:55.519 --> 00:06:56.560 right about now? 119 00:06:58.839 --> 00:07:02.079 Yes, that reminds me of gosh, what was that? 120 00:07:02.519 --> 00:07:06.800 Sorry, this is like a throwback of the nineties that 121 00:07:06.959 --> 00:07:09.920 I remember. There was a movie with Freddie Prince Junr 122 00:07:10.240 --> 00:07:12.720 and I can't think of it right now, but that 123 00:07:12.839 --> 00:07:15.519 was the high school scene where she's all that. 124 00:07:15.759 --> 00:07:18.879 She was walking down the stands. Anyone remember she's all that? 125 00:07:19.199 --> 00:07:21.160 Oh lord, such a good. 126 00:07:21.079 --> 00:07:25.279 One funk soul sister. So Nurse Kim. 127 00:07:25.720 --> 00:07:29.560 First of all, can you tell us your favorite band, singer, musician, 128 00:07:30.639 --> 00:07:31.439 anything like that? 129 00:07:32.000 --> 00:07:35.240 Sure? So I am. I'm an eclectic character. 130 00:07:35.319 --> 00:07:39.920 You would not believe this, DJ Okay, But I grew 131 00:07:40.079 --> 00:07:45.040 up my father was I was Motown. Everything was Motown. 132 00:07:45.720 --> 00:07:52.439 I'm a huge Smoky Robinson fan. I am the Temptations. 133 00:07:52.480 --> 00:07:54.720 How about let's hit you with a little of Diana 134 00:07:54.800 --> 00:07:58.439 Ross and the Supremes. I mean like I'm living my 135 00:07:58.600 --> 00:08:04.160 best life there. Uh And additionally, then like now then 136 00:08:04.240 --> 00:08:05.160 we flash forward. 137 00:08:05.319 --> 00:08:08.160 I love Tupac, I love Biggie. 138 00:08:08.279 --> 00:08:11.560 I am a very very kind of classic hip hop 139 00:08:12.399 --> 00:08:13.759 on a sore if you will. 140 00:08:14.560 --> 00:08:18.040 And then who would be my favorite? 141 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:22.720 I think that probably like the mis Educational Lawren Hill 142 00:08:22.839 --> 00:08:27.079 was one of my favorite, my favorite records of all time. 143 00:08:27.839 --> 00:08:32.200 And then also if I am feeling some sort of way, 144 00:08:32.519 --> 00:08:37.919 I may put on a oh gosh, I can't even 145 00:08:38.600 --> 00:08:40.720 Tom Petty in the Hot break Is I love them too? 146 00:08:40.960 --> 00:08:43.279 Oh wow, she's an American girl that nurses? 147 00:08:43.360 --> 00:08:47.879 Yes, yeah, uh so I need to send you two tracks. 148 00:08:48.279 --> 00:08:49.519 One of them is. 149 00:08:51.000 --> 00:08:54.240 A track called one Love from nas who's from Queens oh, 150 00:08:54.399 --> 00:08:56.200 opposite from Brooklyn. I don't know if you've heard that 151 00:08:56.240 --> 00:08:59.759 track called one Love, and I'm gonna send you a DMI. 152 00:09:00.080 --> 00:09:03.600 Other track, uh from the Fuji's where Lauren Hill is 153 00:09:03.600 --> 00:09:07.840 singing lead and it's basically no Woman, No Cry. 154 00:09:07.879 --> 00:09:09.679 But the Fuji's version of it. 155 00:09:09.600 --> 00:09:11.360 Oh lord, I would love to hear it. 156 00:09:11.480 --> 00:09:16.279 She she literally Lauren Hill is to me, like makes 157 00:09:16.320 --> 00:09:17.080 the hair on. 158 00:09:16.960 --> 00:09:19.080 My arms, Like she's the truth. 159 00:09:19.399 --> 00:09:23.200 Now she is in She She is incredible. There was 160 00:09:23.200 --> 00:09:28.480 a song called uh Zion on The Miseducational Lauren Hill 161 00:09:28.519 --> 00:09:32.080 in that length was was to her son, but it 162 00:09:32.200 --> 00:09:37.799 was such an anthem and a powerful message of love, hope, 163 00:09:37.919 --> 00:09:40.879 and I I just I think the world of her. 164 00:09:41.879 --> 00:09:42.120 Yeah. 165 00:09:42.600 --> 00:09:46.519 She is the essence of cool. Everything is everything, Everything 166 00:09:46.600 --> 00:09:49.480 is everything. I have that on my phone. Uh, and 167 00:09:49.559 --> 00:09:53.120 I'll send you that that because I could get shot 168 00:09:53.200 --> 00:09:56.679 in Kingston, Jamaica for saying this, because I'm a big 169 00:09:56.679 --> 00:09:57.519 Bob Marley fan. 170 00:09:58.120 --> 00:10:00.399 But I like the Fuji's version better. 171 00:10:00.519 --> 00:10:05.080 Of course. Why Cliff Jean is from Haiti. Yeah, And 172 00:10:05.159 --> 00:10:07.159 I don't know if the other member of the group 173 00:10:07.240 --> 00:10:10.919 is as well. But I love it, man, I love 174 00:10:11.200 --> 00:10:13.120 the fujis and I love Lauren Hill singing. 175 00:10:13.159 --> 00:10:14.039 She's very very good. 176 00:10:14.159 --> 00:10:16.320 So yeah, next time when we do a music show, 177 00:10:16.360 --> 00:10:19.879 we'll have you do your mount rushmore of music. So 178 00:10:19.879 --> 00:10:23.559 so yeah, all right, so we're gonna get into a folks. 179 00:10:23.600 --> 00:10:26.399 We're going to vacilate tonight a little bit between some 180 00:10:26.799 --> 00:10:30.480 nurse chemisms, just finding out about her as a human being, 181 00:10:30.759 --> 00:10:34.440 and also her takes on Karen Reid and the and 182 00:10:34.519 --> 00:10:38.360 the case because it just keeps getting curiouser and curiouser, 183 00:10:39.399 --> 00:10:41.720 and the ducks. You know, I just want to say 184 00:10:41.759 --> 00:10:47.080 real quick for the MSP blokes that are out there 185 00:10:47.120 --> 00:10:49.480 that are watching this, the honest ones, we love you, 186 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:52.120 The Canton P d ones, we love you. 187 00:10:52.279 --> 00:10:53.399 The dishonest ones. 188 00:10:53.879 --> 00:10:57.919 What I got to say is, you know, Brian Albert 189 00:10:58.159 --> 00:11:01.879 ditching his phone a day before or I don't know, 190 00:11:01.960 --> 00:11:05.080 someone from the Superior Court of Norfolk County called him 191 00:11:05.080 --> 00:11:06.879 and said, hey, they're gonna come get your phone tomorrow 192 00:11:07.519 --> 00:11:10.519 along with Brian Higgins, and then getting rid of your dog, 193 00:11:10.840 --> 00:11:13.399 and then all of a sudden having your basement redone 194 00:11:13.440 --> 00:11:16.720 by Jill Daniel's boyfriend and then selling the house sixty 195 00:11:16.759 --> 00:11:19.840 thousand dollars below market when you probably had it paid 196 00:11:19.840 --> 00:11:22.480 off because your parents owned it, or very close to 197 00:11:22.519 --> 00:11:25.080 being paid off, so you wouldn't have had a mortgage. 198 00:11:25.679 --> 00:11:28.759 So as a nurse, Kim is saying, with what's behind 199 00:11:28.799 --> 00:11:33.440 her if it looks like a duck freaking duck man? Yeah, 200 00:11:33.480 --> 00:11:37.519 thank you, Okay, that's all. I just needed that preamble 201 00:11:37.559 --> 00:11:38.240 got it. 202 00:11:40.000 --> 00:11:40.360 Anyway. 203 00:11:40.399 --> 00:11:43.519 So, nurse Kim, was this a process or an event 204 00:11:43.799 --> 00:11:48.440 that took you from medical professional mom and so forth 205 00:11:48.759 --> 00:11:53.240 right into researching investigating. Was this something that was preceived, 206 00:11:53.480 --> 00:11:55.039 you know, it was a process you had to go 207 00:11:55.080 --> 00:12:00.159 through or was it like epiphanole in some way? 208 00:12:00.200 --> 00:12:02.000 First of all, I just wanted to say, like, I 209 00:12:02.200 --> 00:12:04.279 love that we're doing this tonight because I didn't realize 210 00:12:04.320 --> 00:12:05.919 like it was gonna be like kind of a getting 211 00:12:05.960 --> 00:12:07.519 to know you because I don't even think I've done 212 00:12:07.519 --> 00:12:11.080 this on my own channel. So this is a fantastic 213 00:12:12.320 --> 00:12:16.000 and it so back to like the origin of how 214 00:12:16.080 --> 00:12:20.159 Nurse Kim ended up content creating. Well, I have been 215 00:12:20.440 --> 00:12:24.000 for years and years and years DJ just like a 216 00:12:24.039 --> 00:12:28.480 true crime spectator, right, and I love it, like I 217 00:12:28.559 --> 00:12:33.200 like to the point where oddly enough, Leicester Holt, the 218 00:12:33.440 --> 00:12:39.679 voice of Leicester Holt, could strock me to sleep as 219 00:12:39.840 --> 00:12:46.720 an infant, like the comfort, the smooth, the just ethereal 220 00:12:46.840 --> 00:12:48.159 sound of Lester Holts. 221 00:12:48.519 --> 00:12:52.000 Would I would listen and watch that, and I would 222 00:12:52.080 --> 00:12:54.919 fall asleep and he'd be like and then he was 223 00:12:55.039 --> 00:12:58.600 chopped into ninety six pieces. That's not normal. But I 224 00:12:58.679 --> 00:13:00.639 fall asleep and I find in it. 225 00:13:01.159 --> 00:13:03.679 So these were things that had been since like the 226 00:13:03.720 --> 00:13:06.399 early two thousands, right, I had probably just gotten out 227 00:13:06.440 --> 00:13:09.879 of nursing school, high school. Then I went to college, 228 00:13:09.919 --> 00:13:10.519 became a nurse. 229 00:13:10.519 --> 00:13:11.240 Papa bah. 230 00:13:11.480 --> 00:13:14.919 But like, I've always been a fan, and what got 231 00:13:14.960 --> 00:13:17.519 me I had? I had had a TikTok, but I 232 00:13:17.759 --> 00:13:19.639 wasn't making any content. 233 00:13:19.840 --> 00:13:23.919 I just would scroll and be like a fan of 234 00:13:24.039 --> 00:13:24.639 other people. 235 00:13:25.120 --> 00:13:29.279 And then I started to make content when there was 236 00:13:29.320 --> 00:13:32.879 a case down in Florida. It was a civil suit 237 00:13:33.080 --> 00:13:35.320 and a civil case that came and it was the 238 00:13:36.840 --> 00:13:40.440 Maya Kowalski case. And if you're not, are you familiar 239 00:13:40.440 --> 00:13:41.039 with that case? 240 00:13:43.559 --> 00:13:43.840 Yeah? 241 00:13:43.879 --> 00:13:48.120 So she was a young lady who was actually medically 242 00:13:48.360 --> 00:13:55.639 kidnapped by a John Hopkins Hospital Children's hospital down in Florida, 243 00:13:55.879 --> 00:13:59.000 and her mother, ba Ta Kowalski, was a registered nurse 244 00:13:59.200 --> 00:14:03.639 just like just like us, like me, and she ended 245 00:14:03.720 --> 00:14:09.000 up she was unable to get her child back. There 246 00:14:09.080 --> 00:14:13.320 was like orders, court orders put in place that there 247 00:14:13.399 --> 00:14:16.919 was a concern of munchild's and biproxy because she had 248 00:14:17.200 --> 00:14:21.120 she had a rare disease complex regional pain syndrome, and 249 00:14:21.440 --> 00:14:24.200 her mother was doing anything to help her child get 250 00:14:24.240 --> 00:14:24.799 out of pain. 251 00:14:25.000 --> 00:14:27.279 Okay, And there were. 252 00:14:27.480 --> 00:14:30.840 There were decisions that were made, but as a family, 253 00:14:31.200 --> 00:14:34.120 they had a right to make those decisions in my opinion. 254 00:14:34.639 --> 00:14:36.200 Long story short, she. 255 00:14:36.200 --> 00:14:39.879 Is abducted like and medically kidnapped, kept into the hospital, 256 00:14:40.320 --> 00:14:43.799 no rights to see her parents, and her mother tragically 257 00:14:43.840 --> 00:14:48.279 took her own life in order to free her child. Yeah, 258 00:14:48.799 --> 00:14:53.120 because she knew in her in her checkout letter she wrote, 259 00:14:53.120 --> 00:14:56.559 they're never going to give Maya back, and she's They 260 00:14:56.600 --> 00:15:01.039 said take care of Maya to her father Jack and 261 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:06.360 and after the death, the tragic death of Beatafwaalski, Maya 262 00:15:06.519 --> 00:15:08.240 was released back to his custody. 263 00:15:09.000 --> 00:15:13.679 And it almost was a proven you know, prophecy. She 264 00:15:13.799 --> 00:15:14.399 fulfilled it. 265 00:15:14.399 --> 00:15:18.840 It was fulfilled because they did give custody back to Jack. 266 00:15:19.879 --> 00:15:22.879 And so that I learned about that case and then 267 00:15:22.919 --> 00:15:25.039 the trial happened, and I just felt like as a 268 00:15:25.440 --> 00:15:27.360 as a nurse for as many years as I had been, 269 00:15:27.360 --> 00:15:30.879 now this was just last year. I was like, oh 270 00:15:30.919 --> 00:15:33.360 my gosh, and I had feelings and I felt the 271 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:36.480 need to talk about it DJ. So what did I do. 272 00:15:36.720 --> 00:15:40.120 I started pressing the little button on my phone right 273 00:15:40.720 --> 00:15:45.200 and I and I just recorded and every every person 274 00:15:45.279 --> 00:15:48.200 that got up for the trial, all of the witnesses. 275 00:15:48.240 --> 00:15:50.919 I just did a recap of of what I got 276 00:15:50.960 --> 00:15:55.240 out of it, each each one, and that's how I 277 00:15:55.320 --> 00:15:58.279 really started my channel. And then I covered how many 278 00:15:58.320 --> 00:16:00.639 Montgomery that was a a. 279 00:16:00.559 --> 00:16:05.000 Case that was that is with me still to this. 280 00:16:04.960 --> 00:16:08.919 Day about five year old Harmony Montgomery and her father 281 00:16:09.200 --> 00:16:13.720 Adam Montgomery, who and the monster. Also Kayla has her 282 00:16:13.799 --> 00:16:15.200 stepmother at the time. 283 00:16:15.759 --> 00:16:18.039 You know, she lost her. 284 00:16:18.000 --> 00:16:22.080 Life and and we still don't know where Little Harmonies 285 00:16:22.320 --> 00:16:26.399 remains are because her father Adam will not will not 286 00:16:26.480 --> 00:16:29.799 allow her to be laid to rest. And that happened 287 00:16:29.840 --> 00:16:32.039 right up in New Hampshire. So that was like a 288 00:16:32.039 --> 00:16:33.679 hop skip and a you know what I mean. I 289 00:16:33.679 --> 00:16:37.279 felt close to everything and I felt close to Little 290 00:16:37.279 --> 00:16:41.120 Harmony just as you know as an auntie or you 291 00:16:41.159 --> 00:16:45.799 know someone a mom that I my heart broke. But 292 00:16:45.879 --> 00:16:50.960 that case really impacted me in a very deep way 293 00:16:51.399 --> 00:16:53.600 a DJ that I was like, I can't do I 294 00:16:53.639 --> 00:16:57.159 can't cover children because I was like unwell, like I 295 00:16:57.600 --> 00:17:01.679 could not sleep, and I you know, luckily he was 296 00:17:01.720 --> 00:17:06.200 convicted of the second degree unliving of her of little harmony, 297 00:17:06.240 --> 00:17:08.279 but at the end of the day, there was there 298 00:17:08.319 --> 00:17:13.720 was no like relief or there was no closure for 299 00:17:13.799 --> 00:17:16.880 those left behind because we still haven't been able to 300 00:17:16.960 --> 00:17:21.039 lay her to rest. So that broke my spirit. And 301 00:17:21.119 --> 00:17:23.799 then I took a minute. I needed a minute off, DJ. 302 00:17:24.519 --> 00:17:28.599 And I started here in all the scuttle butt about 303 00:17:29.119 --> 00:17:32.559 what was going on pre trial in Canton, and I 304 00:17:32.799 --> 00:17:36.359 was like, wait a minute. I knew damn right well 305 00:17:36.400 --> 00:17:40.119 that they had said, Karen, you know that that there 306 00:17:40.200 --> 00:17:42.359 was an an accident or there was something. 307 00:17:42.359 --> 00:17:43.920 It was a manslaughter initially. 308 00:17:44.440 --> 00:17:47.119 And then I went down what I like to refer 309 00:17:47.160 --> 00:17:49.559 to as the turtle hole, not a rabbit. 310 00:17:50.480 --> 00:17:51.279 I went down. 311 00:17:51.799 --> 00:17:58.279 All and I have been you know, deep within ever since. 312 00:17:59.799 --> 00:18:03.759 And so this sounds it sounded almost like a Britney spears, 313 00:18:03.839 --> 00:18:07.000 like a conservatorship. But then you said like basically the 314 00:18:07.039 --> 00:18:10.400 hospital basically took her and said we're keeping her. So 315 00:18:10.519 --> 00:18:15.400 it wasn't a conservatorship. So what under what auspices legally 316 00:18:15.440 --> 00:18:16.440 were they able to do that? 317 00:18:16.559 --> 00:18:17.039 Did you ever? 318 00:18:17.480 --> 00:18:20.720 Yeah, it was child abuse for for mya from Maya 319 00:18:20.799 --> 00:18:23.119 Kuwalski because there was a ketamine. 320 00:18:23.559 --> 00:18:24.920 It was she was treated. 321 00:18:25.319 --> 00:18:28.240 She was treated with ketamine and the amount that they 322 00:18:28.279 --> 00:18:32.880 said that was given to Maya was they said it 323 00:18:32.920 --> 00:18:36.480 was inappropriate. However, she was monitored by a physician. It 324 00:18:36.599 --> 00:18:39.240 was out of whatever. There was a lot happening there, 325 00:18:39.279 --> 00:18:42.279 but they it was the concern of the diagnosis that 326 00:18:42.319 --> 00:18:44.319 shouldn't have been made. If you go back and look 327 00:18:44.319 --> 00:18:47.039 at the medical records. And this is what prompted me 328 00:18:47.519 --> 00:18:50.799 DJ to want to be a legal nurse consultant. This 329 00:18:50.839 --> 00:18:54.319 is where I said, that was the case that I said, 330 00:18:54.359 --> 00:18:56.839 I need to figure out how I can go through 331 00:18:56.880 --> 00:19:02.440 medical records and help and advocate for families because I 332 00:19:02.480 --> 00:19:05.640 am always an advocate for my patients. But like in 333 00:19:05.680 --> 00:19:10.640 a situation like this, it was it was jarring to 334 00:19:10.680 --> 00:19:14.400 see the documentation what these physicians were writing. They were 335 00:19:14.440 --> 00:19:17.400 saying that the mother was crazy. They were texting each 336 00:19:17.440 --> 00:19:24.640 other so inappropriately and they made decisions that resulted in 337 00:19:25.279 --> 00:19:29.480 Maya never having a full family. What they took from 338 00:19:29.519 --> 00:19:34.279 Maya at such a young age, they could never recoup 339 00:19:34.400 --> 00:19:38.240 even with an over two hundred million dollar settlement is 340 00:19:38.279 --> 00:19:43.079 what she got, the largest settlement in in Florida history, 341 00:19:43.960 --> 00:19:47.599 and she and that doesn't make up for not having 342 00:19:47.640 --> 00:19:51.200 her mother and what that family has fought and the 343 00:19:51.400 --> 00:19:55.519 years in which they fought to even get that case 344 00:19:55.559 --> 00:19:58.920 to trial. It was it was just it was a 345 00:19:59.079 --> 00:20:04.000 really really heartbreaking case. But today you look at my today, 346 00:20:04.000 --> 00:20:07.200 you look at her, at her father, Jack, and her brother, 347 00:20:07.319 --> 00:20:10.599 and they are trying to thrive and to advocate for 348 00:20:10.759 --> 00:20:14.400 others so that things like this cannot happen in the future. 349 00:20:15.599 --> 00:20:18.960 Yeah, there are certain material things that can never rise 350 00:20:19.039 --> 00:20:25.519 to the value level that relational things do. You know, Friendship? 351 00:20:25.559 --> 00:20:29.200 Everybody knows I'm not a I don't have a big 352 00:20:29.240 --> 00:20:31.839 family to lean on other than my nuclear family, my. 353 00:20:31.839 --> 00:20:32.640 Wife and my pets. 354 00:20:32.640 --> 00:20:35.920 But beyond that, I don't have so my friends end 355 00:20:36.000 --> 00:20:38.720 up becoming my family, which is probably why it seems 356 00:20:38.759 --> 00:20:41.759 weird to you guys when I'm dming you like it's 357 00:20:41.839 --> 00:20:42.519 the jail, you know. 358 00:20:42.960 --> 00:20:46.039 But I've made so many friends through you know, through this. 359 00:20:46.200 --> 00:20:48.640 But what I meant to say, like to make a 360 00:20:48.920 --> 00:20:52.599 sort of an analogy in all these moves I made 361 00:20:52.680 --> 00:20:55.119 with the military, I don't know, like twelve mood different 362 00:20:55.160 --> 00:20:58.359 moves or whatever. I lost my high school yearbook, and 363 00:20:58.440 --> 00:21:02.559 I'm like my college teammates from Dean who I'm close with, 364 00:21:02.880 --> 00:21:05.960 I'm even closer with my high school classmates. So I 365 00:21:06.000 --> 00:21:08.519 get together once a year at Dean, just coming up 366 00:21:08.559 --> 00:21:11.160 at the end of the month, and then I go 367 00:21:11.279 --> 00:21:13.640 home to New York and get together with them twice 368 00:21:13.640 --> 00:21:15.599 a year. If someone were to tell me, a lot 369 00:21:15.640 --> 00:21:18.480 of people don't know, I'm really into motorcycles. I have 370 00:21:18.519 --> 00:21:21.559 a motorcycle that I, you know, do track days with. 371 00:21:21.640 --> 00:21:25.200 I'm really really fanatical about motorcycles. If you would hand 372 00:21:25.240 --> 00:21:28.000 me my yearbook today they got lost in one of 373 00:21:28.079 --> 00:21:30.880 those moves, I would hand you the title and the 374 00:21:30.960 --> 00:21:34.960 keys to my motorcycle and go take it, because I can't. 375 00:21:35.240 --> 00:21:38.200 I could replace that motorcycle, but I can never replace 376 00:21:38.240 --> 00:21:42.079 that yearbook. Yeah, with those signatures right what people wrote in. 377 00:21:42.039 --> 00:21:46.880 There, Yes, yes, those are our invaluable right like that 378 00:21:46.920 --> 00:21:50.599 you're saying, that's a perfect example DJ of us just 379 00:21:51.119 --> 00:21:58.440 the invaluable memories, the life that you were going to 380 00:21:58.880 --> 00:22:01.880 go down, right, like the path in which you believed 381 00:22:01.960 --> 00:22:05.160 and which Maya would have been able to have because 382 00:22:05.160 --> 00:22:06.240 her mother wasn't ill. 383 00:22:06.559 --> 00:22:09.359 Her mother didn't have to not be here, but she 384 00:22:09.480 --> 00:22:10.920 had to make that choice. 385 00:22:10.720 --> 00:22:13.640 And I and be it to really believe that that 386 00:22:13.880 --> 00:22:18.640 was her only choice to get her child, you know, back, 387 00:22:18.839 --> 00:22:22.400 and to not have her continue to worsen in a 388 00:22:22.480 --> 00:22:23.440 hospital setting. 389 00:22:24.799 --> 00:22:29.640 Yeah. Yeah, there's there's nothing. There's nothing that can replace 390 00:22:29.680 --> 00:22:31.559 that for her, for her mom. You know, like any 391 00:22:31.599 --> 00:22:34.160 of us that lost a parent really young, there is 392 00:22:34.240 --> 00:22:36.920 nothing that you know, nothing, They'll two hundred million dollars 393 00:22:36.920 --> 00:22:38.839 would be like, oh great, I can go buy a 394 00:22:38.880 --> 00:22:41.519 house and get a pool and stuff like that whatever, 395 00:22:41.559 --> 00:22:44.960 and buy a you know, stupid suv that has unnecessary 396 00:22:45.039 --> 00:22:45.599 stuff on it. 397 00:22:46.319 --> 00:22:46.960 Yeah. 398 00:22:47.160 --> 00:22:50.960 So I'm with you. I did want to ask you 399 00:22:51.039 --> 00:22:55.119 if we could look forward. Let's say that in the 400 00:22:55.160 --> 00:23:00.799 next six months we find out how Enrique Delgado was 401 00:23:01.440 --> 00:23:05.759